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FOOD FIGHT

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TECH TIME OUT PUT DOWN THE GADGETS: HOW TECHNOLOGY IS TAKING PARENTS AWAY FROM THEIR KIDS

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06 EDITOR'S LETTER Getting Away

SHAPING THE FUTURE WITH CAMP

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Science and technology camps provide future career options and spark an interest in learning.

Toys to avoid, free tutoring help and Reading Room.

Plus: Find the perfect camp for your child starting on page 21.

EDUCATION

10 Helping children falling behind in school to stay on track this semester.

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PARENTS TECH TIME-OUT

Putting down smart devices can help kids' behavior and provide opportunities for family time.

HIGH SCHOOL

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Planning for your juniors and seniors and what new trends parents need to know.

Join in the fun of maple madness and provide the thrill of the (egg) hunt for your kids with these seasonal activities.

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ENJOY THE SEASON

Start your spring improvement plans early with these tricks and tips.

47 COMMUNITY FOCUS Find fun and activities within Geauga County.

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56 FAMILY CALENDAR Spring out of winter and into an adventure with these regional events.

GAMER BALANCE

Teens can use games for learning experiences, but also need to scale back on screen time for other fun.

66 #CLEMAMA Parents around the area provide why they are a “Mama Bear”

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DEALING WITH LOSS

Some coping strategies to help children to deal with a loved one's passing.

ON THE COVER: Jenine Black of Middleburg Heights helps us demonstrate how parents can stress over device usage.

Photography by Kim Stahnke

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Guide to helping your kids and the whole family eat healthier throughout the year.

See pg. 49

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While this winter has been mild in terms of weather, it hasn’t been for my family’s happenings. My life consists of carting both sons back and forth to hockey, along with the typical home and after-school activities such as homework, nightly reading, etc.

While it seems I am getting a lot of quality time, when I am home — and away — it sometime feels like I am always checking my phone to see the latest adventures and news stories on social media sites or scanning through my emails. Recently, I also began to watch those pesky videos that come up on my feeds. When I finally do look up, an hour seems to have gone by without checking in with the housework that is piling up or asking my son Anton if he wants me to help him finally finish that Lego project.

I don’t know about you, but while technology is useful and has its advantages, my time with it needs to be limited — especially when spending time with my family.

In this issue, we dive into the technological world and how it’s impacting parents and kids. Do we use it too much? (See the story on pg. 35). Or, as our children grow with these devices and games, how can we help them learn to use technology better? (See pg. 37).

We also show you the benefits of technology and science. Kids can now explore these topics in-depth at camps. It can provide a spark and eventually become a future career goal. It’s not just for boys, either. See our story on pg. 19.

As I write this column, my husband and sons are gathering up their baseball gloves to go play catch. This reminds me that spring is coming.

With the Easter season early this year, spring break happens at the end of the month for many students. If you are looking for ideas of how to celebrate around town, there are plenty of events happening — our listings start on pg. 56. Your family also can enjoy egg hunts and maple syrup events — see those listings starting on pg. 52.

For my family, we might stick around town or even take a trip to a local indoor waterpark. Whatever we do, I think I am going to hide those devices for awhile and maybe pick up my own baseball glove for a backyard family game.

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By Dr. Steve Dowshen

oys are supposed to be fun and are an important part of any child's development. However, each year, scores of kids are treated in hospital emergency departments for toy-related injuries. Choking is a particular risk for ages 3 or younger, because they tend to put objects in their mouths. Still, use your own best judgment — and consider your child's temperament, habits and behavior whenever you buy a new toy. You might think that a child who is advanced in comparison to peers can handle toys meant for older kids, but the age levels for toys are determined by safety factors, not the child’s intelligence or maturity. Here are some general guidelines to keep in mind when shopping for toys for a little one in your life:

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Always read labels to make sure a toy is appropriate for a child's age. Guidelines published by the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission and other groups can help you make those buying decisions. n

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READING ROOM Wolfie the Bunny toddlers By Ame Dyckman • When her parents find a baby wolf on their doorstep and decide to raise him as their own, Dot is certain he will eat them all up — until a surprising encounter with a bear brings them closer together. Recommendation

by Cleveland Public Library’s “Celebrate Books” list, cpl.org

Stuffed toys should be washable.

Painted toys should be covered with lead-free paint. n

Art materials should say nontoxic.

Crayons and paints should say ASTM D-4236 on the package, which means that they've been evaluated by the American Society for Testing and Materials. n

Kid Sheriff and the Terrible Toads school age By Bob Shea • The Terrible Toads have taken over Drywater Gulch.

These no-good varmints are messing up the town. All hope seems lost, until Kid Sheriff comes riding into town on his trusty tortoise. Luckily, he knows just how to fix this problem. Recommendation courtesy of Mentor Public Library.

Toys should be large enough — at least 1¼ inches (3 centimeters) in diameter and 2¼ inches (6 centimeters) in length — so that they can't be swallowed or lodged in the windpipe. A small-parts tester or toilet paper roll can determine if a toy is too small. If an object fits inside the tube, then it's too small for a young child. n

Project Superhero tweens By E. Paul Zehr • Thirteenyear-old Jessie is wrapped up in a yearlong research project, leading up to a debate against her archenemy in front of the whole school. Her topic: superheroes. She’s determined to find out how a regular person can become a hero. Recommendation courtesy of Mentor Public Library.

Avoid marbles, coins, balls and games with balls that are 1.75 inches (4.4 centimeters) in diameter or less because they can become lodged in the throat above the windpipe and restrict breathing. n

The Importance of Being 3

by Lindsay Ward • Ward, an author in Lakewood, provides a look at everything at age 3, which is a great way to celebrate milestones.

There is lots of learning, adventures, sharing and even some pouts and uhohs. Available at most major retailers.

Battery-operated toys should have battery cases that secure with screws so that kids cannot pry them open. Batteries and battery fluid pose serious risks, including choking, internal bleeding and chemical burns. n

When checking a toy for a baby or toddler, make sure it's unbreakable and strong enough to withstand chewing. Also, make sure it doesn't have sharp ends or small parts like eyes, wheels, or buttons that can be pulled loose, or parts that could become pinch points for small fingers.

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Most riding toys can be used once a child is able to sit up well while unsupported — but check the manufacturer's recommendation.

CATCH UP:

Do you think your child is falling behind? The Cleveland Public Library is helping students in kindergarten through eighth-grade with free tutoring in reading and other subjects.

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Hand-me-down and homemade toys should be carefully evaluated.

Do not give your infant painted toys made before 1978; they may have paint that contains lead. n

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Check U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission for the latest information about toy recalls or call their hotline at 800-638-CPSC to report a toy you think is unsafe.

Free Tutoring

For more information on tutoring and Learning Center services at Cleveland Public Library, contact Outreach and Programming Services at 216-6232835 or visit, cpl.org

Reading tutoring and support for students in kindergarten through third grade is offered in partnership with Braxton Education and Technology Consulting. No registration or appointments are required. Students also receive free healthy, nutritious bagged meals at all tutoring locations, thanks to a partnership with the Cleveland Food Bank.

Students in kindergarten through eighth grade can also receive free one-on-one and/or group tutoring and homework help in math, science, history and language arts. The program is offered in partnership with Cleveland State University’s America Reads tutoring services.

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Worried Your Child will be Held Back?

By Ingrid Schaefer Sprague

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hen children begin falling behind in class, educators and parents ask, “Are they ready for the next grade level?” Whether your child is in elementary or middle school, this conversation can be difficult for families.

Many schools are turning to intervention methods to help with individual academic progress, and some parents have to make tough choices about whether their child is ready to start school.

A parent may believe a child is ready for school based on their behavior, or on the ability to read at an early age.

However, sometimes children are simply too young for kindergarten and are unable to process academic material at that stage of neurological development.

“When a child starts at a deficit in kindergarten, he or she continues to fight those deficits throughout their career in school,” O’Mara says. “If the parent can at all manage to keep the child home for that extra year of maturation, it could mean everything to the future academic growth of the child.”

KINDERGARTEN READINESS

Your child will turn 5 before September, which typically means time for kindergarten. Are they ready?

“Children with a solid preschool experience always seem to fare better and appear to be more able to sustain the energy needed for an entire day of academic practice,” says Eva O’Mara, principal at Highland Drive Elementary in Brecksville. “The concept of social-emotional development of children has become increasingly important in the success of a child to be able to navigate throughout his schooling. Those children who have learned grit and flexibility because they have been able to develop these skills through maturation do much better.”

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SCHOOL INTERVENTION

Starting school at a younger age doesn’t account for the all of the elementary school struggles though. Many other factors can be at play. How does your child’s school address these problems, and when should you intervene?

For parents who want to start the discussion about their child’s grades, O’Mara says, “My recommendation would be to speak with the teacher first, since they are the ones who spend the greatest amount of time with the student. Have a candid conversation with them about what the concern is and ask the teacher for recommendations to help in meeting CONTINUED ON PAGE 12

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the needs of the student. Then follow those recommendations consistently and with fidelity.”

The teacher and parent will work on objectives, but more

intervention might be needed. The State of Ohio has a program in all school districts called “The Response to Intervention,” which provides extra support in a multi-tier process for those students who have learning needs.

“The process is sequential in that an area of difficulty is identified, the teacher contacts the parents to let them know, and interventions are begun to remedy the area of difficulty,” O’Mara says. “Progress data is taken on a regular basis, and teams meet to discuss alternatives if the chosen practices are not successful.”

About six weeks after identification and implementation, the RTI team meets to assess if the student’s needs are being met.

“The tiers of intervention are addressed (Tier I, II and III) and if the student has passed to Tier III without demonstrating success, our team and parents meet to discuss testing for a possible identification for special education service,” O’Mara says. “The interventions are dependent and driven by the difficulty experienced.”

Because teachers keep very specific data on students’ performance, it is possible to tailor interventions for specific needs, which are research validated. Progress is assessed and reported to the team and parents. Schools assess all students three times via STAR Enterprise for Reading and Math and DIBELs for literacy skills at the early elementary school level.

Parents who stay involved in their child’s education with consistent communication with teachers can facilitate discussions that may need to happen.

“Always be responsive to a call from a teacher, even if you know that the news may be difficult to hear,” she says. “That is what we do, that is why we are here — to listen and to help.”

REPEATING GRADES ON THE DECLINE

While some children and families still will be faced with the decision to repeat grades, the practice seems to be on a decline.

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A recent study from the American Educational Research Association shows that after peaking at 2.9 percent in the 2004-05 school year, the overall retention rate fell by nearly half to 1.5 percent in 2009-10, dropping across all groups of students.

“It is not an inevitability to be held back — in fact, it can be a travesty,” O’Mara says. “Research has proven again and again that the gains made by repeating a grade are lost within the first four or so years. Many times, the process hurts more than it could ever help in terms of self-confidence.”

Unfortunately, there are times when schools make the decision to hold back a child from advancing to the next grade.

How can a parent and family support a

child who has to repeat a grade and make it a positive experience?

“Such a move is seen as the last resort by schools,” O’Mara says. “By the time that decision is made, numerous meetings will have been conducted and a great deal of discussion should have occurred. If this was the only solution to a situation, a guidance counselor and school psychologist would be involved.

They would coach the parents as to what and how to say things. There would be a timeline developed for disclosing the information. Once parents have spoken to the child, we would also touch base with them to assure them that this was not a situation created because the child did anything wrong. We would then be sure to create a support network for the

child at the beginning of the following year to be sure that the child is not being adversely affected by the decision.”

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College Admission Changes

Tips for the Class of 2017 and Beyond

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By Kristina L. Dooley

hange. They say it’s inevitable, and that sure is the case when it comes to the college search and application process. Ask any parent of a current high school student what the process was like when they applied to college, and two things will be included in every re-telling: a pencil and a stamp.

Today’s students will never worry about postmark dates or whether their handwriting is legible. Technology has created a world where with the click of a button, a student can send applications to 20 colleges and universities via the Common Application.

High school juniors have quite the year ahead of them as they begin their college search process. While every application year sees some change, this year there are three significant changes on the horizon.

THE NEW SAT

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now, but, in case you’ve missed it, the SAT in its current form will change as of the March 5 test date.

While many students know that the SAT will be different, most aren’t really sure how it is changing. Here are some key points to know: The essay is now optional, and the amount of time to write it has doubled from 25 to 50 minutes. A word of caution: while the essay will be optional, students should strongly consider including it in their testing. Why? While just a very small subset of the 4,000 colleges and universities in the U.S., the colleges making up the Ivy League are split on whether they will require the new SAT essay. The moral of the story? Write the essay.

One of the easiest “strategy” distinc-

tions between the ACT and the current SAT is how to handle guessing. Students taking the ACT are encouraged to answer every question, even if that means choosing “C” for the last 10 you didn’t get to in the math section. The current SAT has a one-fourth point deduction for incorrect answers, but the new SAT will not. Students short on time completing a section on the new SAT should go ahead and guess away.

The final big change to the SAT is the scoring scale. With the essay becoming optional, the exam will change from a 2400-point scale to a 1600-point scale — as it once was when many of today’s parents took the exam. Students will receive a separate score for the essay section, should they decide to take it.

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While eliminating the “go live” date for the Common App might reduce some pressure and anxiety in the process, this also means students might want to complete their applications too early.

Students would be able to fill out their portion of the application at any point.

However, most colleges will not have their supplemental essay questions available — or begin accepting applications for the Class of 2017 — until after this year’s seniors complete their process.

financial aid using tax information from 2015. This earlier filing option will allow families to receive financial aid award offers earlier, thus giving them more time to make decisions about what college is the best fit for their family

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Aug. 1 has traditionally been the official start of the college application season, as this was when the Common Application went “live” for rising seniors. In October, the introduction of “Account Rollover” was announced for students beginning with the Class of 2017. This means students who had traditionally waited until August to begin filling out their applications can now begin this process during junior year, or in the summer months leading up to their senior year.

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Another calendar date circled for many families going through the college search process was filing the Free Application for Federal Student Aid after Jan. 1. The White House announced in 2015 that this date would be changing for 2016; families would be able to submit the FAFSA beginning in October of the student’s senior year. This means that the financial data families put in the form would no longer be from the prior year but, instead, the prior-prior year. The Class of 2017, for example, will apply for

Kristina Dooley is a certified educational planner and founder of Estrela Consulting, a Northeast Ohio-based educational consulting firm guiding students through the college search process.

Visit estrelaconsulting.com.

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SHAPING CAREERS IN SCIENCE THROUGH CAMP

Erica, 9, having fun with science tools at Lake Ridge Academy in North Ridgeville.

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rom tapping our fingers on cell phones and computers to measuring the ingredients for tonight’s dinner, we are using science and technology daily.

In the future, it will be even more important to our tech-savvy children.

“The internet (and technological advances) will not only affect our home life, but also will be integrated into a lot of different careers,” says Kirsten Ellenbogen, president and CEO at the Great Lakes Science Center in Cleveland. “Science, Technology, Engineering and Math (STEM) are everywhere. STEM skills will be in so many different fields in the future.”

With so many career options out there, kids and parents may be looking to spark an interest in the field beyond the regular school year. Camps around Northeast Ohio are offering those unique learning opportunities.

TECH REVOLUTION

Kids, due to the ever-growing tech use, seem to be more interested in these STEM career categories.

A 2011 study by Harris Interactive on behalf of Waggener Edstrom Worldwide/Microsoft shows the inspiration for choosing STEM careers varies.

According to the study, “male college students are more likely to pursue STEM because they have always enjoyed games/toys, reading books, and/or participating in clubs that are focused on their chosen subject area, and female students are more likely to say that they chose STEM to make a difference.”

More than 67 percent of the college students said, “STEM as a career choice has job potential, good salary and find their degree program subject intellectually stimulating and challenging.”

Many — both male and female students — were influenced to pursue the degree by teacher, but the study also showed influence came from games, toys, clubs, sciencerelated activities, museums, or a parent or relative in the field.

Campers at the Great Lakes Science Center in Cleveland.

Parents such as Paula Janmey — a former engineer and current educator and on site owner of The Goddard School in North Ridgeville — and her husband Bob, an engineer, may be that influence for their children.

Their daughters Claire, 10, and Erica, 9, also like science and attend camps — such as Rocketry Camp — at Lake Ridge Academy in North Ridgeville.

“We like to get outside to ‘do’ science and at Lake Ridge camps, we spend a lot of time outside in the woods or in the fields,” Claire and Erica said. “The more time we spend doing experiments and activities in camp that are about science, the more we want to know.”

Paula Janmey says she wants to help them find the joy of learning — and when you see that spark, you can encourage that to grow.

“As long as the kids are having fun doing it,” she says. “(One of their) favorite classes during school (at Lake Ridge Academy) is science. It’s very hands-on with summer camps. It helps them (Claire and Erica) make a connection from theoretical to practical.”

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CONNECTING TO CAREERS

Camp programs around Northeast Ohio in a variety of subjects are connecting academics to future career possibilities.

The science field is no different with many focusing on STEM. “It’s hard as a parent to introduce your children to all those careers,” Ellenbogen says. “We provide kids exposure to careers parents might have never imagined. We allow kids to explore science that they might not get on a regular basis.”

This hands-on learning approach to science doesn’t only develop academic skills, but also problem-identification and solving skills, which are key components in these fields.

“These skills are something we spend a lot of time talking about for workforce development,” Ellenbogen says.

There is a need for people who can identify and describe the problem while in the process, she notes. The science center keeps a close eye on the state’s academic standards, the next generation of science standards and where we are heading in future workforce needs, and integrates that into its camps.

GIRLS AND SCIENCE Science, computer programing and other technological fields aren’t just for boys. Bringing girls into science has been a topic of discussion in the STEM-related fields.

“Data on girls in STEM careers, computer science shows a painful gap,” Ellenbogen says. “It’s concerning. There is not equal representation in STEM fields. It raises questions about what’s missing — how would things be different?”

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Claire, 10, at Lake Ridge Academy in North Ridgeville.

Interest in sixth grade and seventh grade is critical to sustain interest in a career field, she says.

A good example is former Great Lakes Science camper Hannah Lyness, 21, of Shaker Heights.

In seventh grade, she attended a Lego robot workshop at the center and became interested through that experience. She was shown the camp brochure and decided to attend the weeklong camp. She also eventually became a counselor at the camp.

“I was always interested in building things,” she says. “I remember coming home from camp and still thinking about the problems. It became an obsession on how I can make the robot better.”

She says she learned about working on the teams, and that science and engineering can be fun and competitive.

“I didn’t know about these opportunities; this was the first exposure,” she says. She now is majoring in mechanical engineering and robotics at Carnegie Mellon University in Pennsylvania.

For Claire and Erica, science-related fields are sparking an interest. Erica is considering maybe being a scientist or chemist, while Claire is interested in different options, including a strong inclination toward veterinary medicine.

Both say they aren’t thinking too seriously yet — after all, there are so many subjects and camps to explore.

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ABCs Day Camp For 5– to 8- year old children with vision impairment/blindness and held at Cleveland Sight Center in University Circle. clevelandsightcenter.org

Academic Fun & Fitness Camp Children with learning differences will gain a new perspective on learning, while

developing the self-esteem and social skills needed to be successful. unschoolcamp.org

Beaumont School BeauArtz & Fashion Camp BeauArtz is a total immersion into the arts and creativity, friendship and fun. Fashion Camp teaches girls the basics of fashion design through hands-on experiences. beaumontschool.org

Beck Center Enjoy summer at Beck Center. Choose from half- or full-day camps for ages 5 - 19 in dance, music, theater and visual arts. Visit beckcenter.org.

Beyond Camp Julie Billiart School’s Beyond Camp provides campers K-8 with an exciting summer adventure through real-world experiences, social skills teaching and academic-boosting activities. juliebilliartschool.org/beyondcamp

Bricks 4 Kids High energy and fast-paced camps where kids build, discover and test the limits of their imaginations. bricks4kidz.com/westlake, bricks4kidz.com/medina

Bright Futures Preschool Day Camp For children with vision impairment/ blindness entering or returning to preschool and held at Cleveland Sight Center in University Circle. clevelandsightcenter.org

Cafe O’Play More than a huge indoor playground for kids, Cafe O’Play has summer camps filled with active, creative play for ages 4-12. bit.ly/21b2Lxa

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CAMP GUIDE

Camp Aldersgate A meaningful, highimpact and positive experience where campers learn important and interesting things about God and about themselves. campaldersgate.org

Camp Ledgewood

Visit the Camp Ledgewood open house, meet the camp staff, and see all that Girl Scouts has to offer on April 10. Visit gsneo.org/camplife

Camp Roosevelt Firebird

A caring community and amazing staff help campers develop self-confidence, leadership, respect, humor and an appreciation for the environment.

Located in the foothills of the Allegheny Mountains. camprooseveltfirebird.com

Camp Asbury Offers many choices for your summertime fun. Campers choose from classic camp programs with weekly themes or specialty camps. campasbury.org

Camp Carl Celebrating 52 years of WOW. One of Ohio’s leading camp experiences, Camp Carl offers your child an amazingly fun, safe and Christ-centered experience. Register at campcarl.life

Camp Invention Boys and girls entering grades 1-6 will spend their time constructing and personalizing a DIY solarpowered cricket with a unique habitat, and taking apart electronics to assemble something new. campinvention.org

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Camp Wanake Camp Wanake offers a variety of summer camps for K-12 (horse camps, adventure camps, baseball camp, culinary camp and more). campwanake.org

Camp Whitewood

For over 75 years, ACA accredited Camp Whitewood has been committed to fostering a safe, fun and engaging environment for children to learn and grow. 4hcampwhitewood.com

Champions Champions Summer Camp will keep children ages 6 - 12 laughing and learning this summer with 10

exciting camps to keep them active and engaged. discoverchampions.com

Classroom Antics Create video games, produce stop-motion movies, code computer programs, or engineer Lego robots in a Classroom Antics Tech Camp. Register at classroomantics.com

Cleveland City Dance Cleveland City Dance nurtures your passion and talent in an encouraging and engaging environment for children and adults. Performance opportunities annually including “Uniquely Cleveland Nutcracker.” clevelandcitydance.com

Summer Enrichment Reading Camp at CHSC Children can lose 3 months of reading skills during summer break. This specialized program uses small groups, fun activities and research-based strategies for teaching reading and spelling. chsc.org

Cleveland Metroparks Zoo Summer Day Camp

Kids ages 3 - 14 can spend their summer days at the zoo participating in fun and educational activities with experienced camp counselors. Camps run June 6 through Aug. 12. clevelandmetroparks.com/zoo

Creative Playrooms Child Care Centers Creative Playrooms’ full-day program offers a comprehensive curriculum for ages 4 to 12. Their summer camp calendar runs from the start of summer vacation in June and ends in August. creativeplayrooms.com

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Fairmount Early Childhood Center Summer Camp Accommodates children from those entering preschool to those entering second grade (ages 3 - 7).

Weekly themes, outdoor activities, guest performers, field trips, art and more. beachwoodschools.org

Falcon Camp Recognized throughout the Midwest as Ohio’s premier private camp, Falcon offers a beautiful lakefront setting, a talented, experienced staff and a wide variety of activities. falconcamp.com

Fine Arts Association The Fine Arts Association has camps for everyone who loves the arts and offers camps in all the arts for the littlest campers at age 3 through high school grads. fineartsassociation.org

Game On! Sports Camps 4 Girls Learn and play multiple sports daily in a warm, fun and spirited environment with confidencebuilding programs shaping valued teammates and high achievers. gameonsportscamp.com

Geauga Park District Adventure camps are offered in week-long forms for grades 5-7, while teens grades 8-10 can choose from week-long or single day “X-Treme” camps. bit.ly/gpdcamps

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Gilmour Summer Camp 20 new camp experiences this summer, including web design, survival skills, entrepreneurship, fly fishing , CSI Gilmour and exciting expert partnerships in sports and technology camps. gilmour.org/ summercamp

Great Summer Science Day Camps The Great Lakes Science Center makes science come alive with week-long camp themes that offer amazing challenges and unforgettable adventures for kids in preschool through high school. greatscience.com

Hathaway Brown

Campers from preschool through college have an array of options to create their own summer adventures filled with fun, learning and memories to last a lifetime. hb.edu/summer

Hawken Summer Programs Whatever your child’s passion — from art, science, sports or cooking to music, photography, math or Legos — Hawken School has developed a program full of exciting adventures for all ages. hawken.edu/summer

Highbrook Lodge Highbrook Lodge provides a unique summer camp experience for those of all ages who are blind or have low vision, including those with multiple disabilities. clevelandsightcenter. org/highbrook-lodge

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Hiram House Camp

Lake Ridge Academy

Hands-on outdoor adventures that open new horizons and create great memories that will last a lifetime, all amid 172 wooded acres in Northeast Ohio’s scenic Chagrin Valley. hiramhousecamp.org

Camps and classes offered for grades K-12 include discovery and adventure camps, fine arts and technology, environmental and experiential, academic, athletic camps and chess camp. lakeridgeacademy.org/ our-school/summer-programs

Kid’s Country

Lawrence Lower School Summer Programs

Kids Country summer is full of fun, adventure, messiness, field trips, experiments, waterparks, fishing, sports and more. Visit kidscountry.com to find your local center today.

Lake County YMCA Every day kids are encouraged to reach their potential by discovering who they are and what they can achieve, cultivate friendships and create memories to last a lifetime. lakecountyymca.org

Lake Metroparks Summer Day Camps

Children ages 4-16 have fun learning new skills, and enjoying the hands-on adventure of nature, farming, science, swimming, kayaking, fishing, wildlife and more. lakemetroparks.com/programs/ daycamps.shtml

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Get ready to learn, grow and play at Lawrence Lower School this summer.

Programs for students entering kindergarten through sixth grade make learning fun and playtime more rewarding. lawrenceschool.org/summer

LifeCenter Plus LifeCenter Plus offers summer excitement and activities for your children ages 5-13 with weekly themes, field trips, swimming, crafts, games and much more. lifecenterplus.com

Lil’ Sneakers University The summer camp program is filled with field trips at nearby parks, bowling, ice skating, laser tag, strawberry picking, trampoline jumping and more. lilsneakersuniversity.com

Magnifi-Camp From all-day camps to one week of Chemistry Junior, Magnifi-Camp offers co-ed options for students in grades 1-8 from June 13 through Aug. 5. magnificaths.org

The Music Settlement

The Music Settlement Camps are for kids, tweens and teens with all levels of musical experience, including none at all. themusicsettlement.org/camp

Ohio Station Outlets Train Camp Train Camp allows children to learn at their own pace as they and their parents visit various locations throughout the center. ohiostationoutlets.com

Old Trail School’s S’Camp Half- and full-day camps are offered with extended day options for working parents and are filled with sun, fun, friends and nonstop activities. oldtrail.org/summercamp

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Olmsted Performing Arts Olmsted Performing Arts, in its beautiful new Berea location, offers theater, dance, visual art and gymnastics camps for toddlers to teens of all skill levels. olmstedperformingarts.com

Open Door Christian School Summer Sports and Drama Camps

Fun, safe, Christcentered instructional camps for students entering grades 1-8 include football, volleyball (girls only), basketball, soccer and drama, and Baseball Academy for students entering grades 7-9. odcs.org

Pembroke

Pembroke Kids’ summer program is a fun but carefully structured camp experience with weekly themes that capture the essence of summertime. pembrokekids.com

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Playhouse Square Broadway Summer Camp

A musical theater camp for teens (14-19) who love to act, dance and sing. Includes a ticket to “The Phantom of the Opera.” playhousesquare.org/camp

Red Oak Camp

Day camps for boys and girls ages 6 - 16.

Since 1947 Red Oak Camp has been developing children’s inner strengths through outdoor adventure. redoakcamp.org

School of Rock Summer Rock Camps

Five days of learning music, playing music, fun, bonding with bandmates and performing in a live show.

Designed for musicians of all skill levels. schoolofrock.com

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Shaker Heights Recreation Specialty Camps

Specialty camps are offered from June 6 through Aug. 19 and include band camp, theater camp, musical theater camp, sports camp and many more. shakeronline.com

Shaw JCC camp

Camp JCC offers exceptional traditional camp along with 20 specialty camps. Campers enjoy daily swimming, 50 acres of sprawling campgrounds, fresh snacks and lunches on Fridays. shawjcc.org

Shipwreck Camp 2016

This two-week day camp focuses on STEM (science, technology, engineering and math) and is inspired by Dr. Robert Ballard, finder of the wreckage of the Titanic. gelfand.case.edu

Sports Broadcasting Camp

Ages 10-18 can learn from the pros, meet sports celebrities and make play-by-play, sports anchor and reporting tapes. playbyplaycamps.com

Summer Classic Rock and Contemporary Christian Rock Camp

Have a question about camp? Get answers from our expert camp panel. Email Angela@NortheastOhioParent.com

Week-long camps for ages 10 and older are one of the best ways to experience the art of music. Especially welcome are those with special needs, such as autism. musicalfingers.org

Summer Ruffing It

Fun experiences abound as campers spend their days with artists, musicians and educators immersed in Spanish, extreme outdoor activities and other exciting offerings. ruffingmontessori.net/camps

The University of Akron Dance Institute

Dance classes throughout the summer for all ages and levels of experience. Early childhood and recreational classes. Pre-professional intensives. Expert faculty. State-of-the art main campus facility. uakron.edu/di

University School Summer of Adventure All-boys’ day camps, coed sports and enrichment camps led by experienced US faculty and coaches are offered, along with Pre-K Summer Camp for pre-k boys. us.edu/summer

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Western Reserve Academy

YMCA of Greater Cleveland

WRA extends its academic tradition to summer programs by striving to provide quality, fun summer experiences for children filled with more choices than there are hours in the day. wra.net

Full-time and part-time campers will enjoy themerelated curriculum, field trips, swimming, arts and crafts, science, nature activities, large motor games, singing, clubs and more. clevelandymca.org

Camp Kids at Great Lakes Science Center in Cleveland.

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PARENTS:

TAKE A TECH TIME-OUT Putting down the smart devices can help kids’ behavior and provide opportunities for family quality time Story by Kalenah Arif Photo by Kim Stahnke

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arents use technology to aid in many aspects of life. But there is a dark side — from interfering with children’s development of attachment to stunting children’s socialemotional growth. Experts say parents must decipher how much is too much and demonstrate the ability to pull away from social media and other distractions.

Our cell phones, tablets and other smart devices have made it easier to do our jobs and communicate with each other — whether we use them to answer emails from coworkers or clients during the day or night, or to help us organize the next meeting for our volunteer organization.

However, many parents are falling into the trap of looking at their device too much, which can create havoc in the household.

DEVICE USAGE

It’s a typical scene at a restaurant or family dinner table. Parents — and their children — are looking down at smart devices instead of talking. Children might be playing with their Minecraft World, while parents are checking in on social media.

AVG Technologies, an online security company with more than 200 million monthly active users, examined in a 2015 study how families use mobile devices and uncovered some trends. “Children felt that their parents checked their devices too often, which was their biggest grievance when given a list of possible bad habits,” the study notes. “Parents allowed themselves to be distracted by a device during conversations, something that made one-third of the complainants feel unimportant.”

While parents agreed that device use was too frequent, many also worried about how using the device looked to

the younger generation, the study states.

Parents try to set examples for their children. With the ease of use of technology, however, they can teach kids unwanted behaviors. For example, it’s typical for parents to help kids calm down with devices in settings such as car rides, grocery stores or checkout lines. While this practice helps for a certain time, what are the long-term effects?

Giving attention to devices at the wrong times also can pose a safety hazard. According to Cohen Children’s Medical Center of New York, 44 percent of parents struggle to limit cell phone use at playgrounds. This can lead to injuries and other safety issues that could otherwise be avoided by a redirection of focus.

MAINTAIN BALANCE

Making time for play and other family activities is a great way for parents to reinforce bonds and remind children that they genuinely value their company. Excessive cell phone use might infringe on activities that normally would be an opportunity to engage children and be responsive to their needs.

A research study published by the Boston Medical Center in the April 2014 edition of Pediatrics shows that if a parent was absorbed in an activity on their mobile device, their response was noticeably harsher to a child’s misbehavior. The study says the child’s response ranged from trying to entertain the parent to more escalated bids of attention.

“A good opportunity to improve this behavior is at the dinner table is putting an electronic device aside in order to communicate with each other is important for the health of the family,” says Dawn Carter, director of Clinical Services at Child Guidance & Family Solutions in Akron. “The family dinner can be a bonding ritual and CONTINUED ON PAGE 36

HELPFUL TECHNOLOGY Today’s increasing amount of services and apps are making parents look more like techies than ever before. There’s an app to help parents with almost anything. From storing artwork or sharing family photos, to keeping up with children when they are away from home, technology can come in handy in making things simpler. Popular apps used by parents: Baby Monitor HD: This app helps parents watch and listen from anywhere.

Find My Kids: Uses GPS to track your child’s location in real time.

My365: The photo calendar app that captures your memories for each day.

BrightNest: Basic maintenance to cleaning tricks to home decor ideas.

Net Nanny: This app blocks sexual material and other mature content.

Mama Bear: An all-in-one private family communication, child and social media tracker.

Northeast Ohio Parent asked our Facebook fans what's their go-to parent app:

“My go-to app is Artkive. You can take pictures of your child’s many masterpieces and then turn them into one book.” —KARA KUDRO

“I have to say Evernote is growing on me! But, I love my social media apps too.” — YAMILET LUNA

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can help decrease acting-out behavior of adolescents. Putting those devices down to focus on a task sets an example of how to exercise self-control.”

Technology is proving to be a useful tool for parents looking to stay organized and informed, but moderation is important in setting positives examples for children who are learning how to socialize with the world around them.

” My children learn through my modeling. I have to watch how much time I spend on my devices. I’ve been told, ‘Mom get off your computer!’ or ‘Mom get off your phone!’ I started to feel really bad because even my 4-year-old started noticing it. ­— Catherine Stahnke Jenine Black says the use of technology is an intricate part of her daily life as a parent. The mother of four children ages 6, 9, 11 and 15 says maintaining balance in the manner and time spent using technology is key.

“It’s nice to be able to look things up quickly, and things like communicating with teachers, keeping track of activities and their assignments,” she says. “I try not to have my device out when they are with me so that I can give them my full attention. During the week I limit our use of technology.”

"My children learn through my modeling,” mom Catherine Stahnke of Medina says. “I have to watch how much time I spend on my devices. I've been told, “Mom get off your computer!”or “Mom get off your phone!” I started to feel really bad because even my 4-yearold started noticing it."

"Family time on the weekends is a really big focus,” Stanhke says. “We put our devices away. We go camping a lot, and in the beginning my husband would steal my cell phone. After about three or four times, turning my phone off became a habit. While we were spending time together, I would say to myself “This is what life is all about.”

It's hard not to take out my cell phone to snap a picture to capture a moment, but instead I take out a camera to take photos, then print the pictures for our scrapbook. My friends and I made a pact to avoid substituting birthday wishes with likes and texts but to instead send birthday cards and actually call each other."

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by Diana Seimer osh, 15, of Middleburg Heights plays typical video games such as “Call of Duty: Black Ops 3” on the XBox with his friends. The interactive game allows the teens to compete with one another without even being in the same room.

This is a norm as more parents of preschoolers to teens are seeing technology grow and expand. Most kids begin with a tablet, then graduate to game systems such as PlayStation, XBox and Wii. Gaming can be a healthy way to be creative, learn and socialize with friends and family. Parents need to help thier kids find a balance for on- and offscreen time.

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MODERATION IS KEY

With the shift in technology, the conversation also shifts. No longer are we asking the question, “How do I get my kid off the device?” as much as we now need to ask, “How do we incorporate this into our lives and make it a normal part of our world?” Parents don’t have much of a choice, except to help their kids understand how to use the technology.

De Smith of Barberton encourages parents to join in the games with their kids to bridge that gap and to stay more involved in what they are interested in.

Doing research is important. “Search out articles and studies on the benefits of gaming if you have concerns,” she says.

While some parents can limit game time to two to three hours a day, others think limiting game time isn’t always the right move. They take on different strategies, from giving options to ensuring more important projects are completed before gaming.

Lissa Gerwig of Ashland says her girls are 14 and 16 and love “Assassin’s Creed” for its historical storyline as well as “Minecraft” and “The Sims.”

She said she doesn’t limit game time in her house — as long as school work is done — but she does provide lots of other options, such as books and art supplies. “I really think that’s the best thing you can do - provide plenty of other options and encourage creativity.”

Tammy Campbell of Brunswick says she followed the advice to not limit gaming long ago, and it worked to create a good balance with her 13-yearold son. She says limits create a desire to play more.

Instead, she encouraged him to save his own money to buy a PlayStation 4 and finds he is content to play only a few hours a week with his friends.

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Rochelle Murdock of Grafton sets boundaries but tries to be fair with her three kids, ages 6, 7 and 11. No devices in the vehicles, and no gaming or computers until work is done and the common areas are clean. Their motto is “Work first, then play.”

Christine Siesel of Vermilion takes a different approach with her four kids, ages 3 to 9. Her rule is if they keep their rooms clean all week, then they can have a gaming night on Friday. However, she avoids a lot of technology by not having cable in the home and refusing tablets and other devices — a tough choice, she says.

“I guess I just feel there is way too much to do and experience in real life” Siesel says.

Nancy Martel of Strongsville has a 10-year-old daughter who loves “Super Mario Maker,” a game you design and then play. Other parents say the most popular games for their kids include “Minecraft,” “Call of Duty,” Lego games and many of the Wii U and Nintendo series games.

Tricia Culotta of Brecksville says her boys must do an equal amount of time on a “mom-approved” educational game or app if they want to play a game that is just for fun. Some of those “mom-approved” apps include “Crazy Gears,” “Faces iMake” and “Superhero Comic Book Maker” for ages 5 to 8; “Catch the Berry,” “DIY App” and “Inventioneers” for ages 9 to 12; and “Cultiwords,” “Codea” and “Animoto Video Maker” for ages 13 to 17. Many are free, too. Check out Common Sense Media for more information on educational games and apps.

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Sixty-three percent of parents say video games are a positive part of their kids’ lives, according to the Entertainment Software Association. Eighty-five percent say video games are fun for the whole family.

The American Academy of Pediatrics, recently relaxed their guidelines on children’s exposure to television and video games, according to Jordan Shapiro, a Ph.D. and senior fellow at the Joan Ganz Cooney at Sesame Workshop and a game based-learning contributor to Forbes Magazine. He says the AAP says “‘screen time is now just ‘time.’”

“It’s fun,” Josh says about playing video games. “Certain games have helped me with organizational skills.”

In fact, he says he has considered game design as a career and is taking a class on it in high school.

“It’s a good way to relax and relieve stress,” he adds about gaming.

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hat do you do when your teenager eats poorly? How can you help guide them back toward healthy habits without it turning into a food fight? Struggles with food among teens are common and normal. As parents, the first emotional reaction might be to try to take charge, throw away their favorite snacks, lecture them on proper nutrition and closely monitor everything they put in their mouths. Experts say by trying to control their diet, you will likely end up doing more harm than good.

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make unhealthier choices when they are on their own.”

Experts agree that it is wise to offer lesshealthy foods now and then. It teaches your children how to self-moderate and keeps treats from becoming the “forbidden fruit.” If you always forbid certain foods, when your child does have access to them they end up overindulging.

ENLIST HELP FROM INFLUENCERS

“Food is another example of developmental changes in teenagers,” says Dr. Tira Stebbins, clinical psychologist from Chagrin Falls. “One main purpose of adolescence is learning independence.”

Like friend and clothing choices, food choices are an area where teens want to express themselves and exert their freedom.

Stebbins says she commonly sees instances where parents who eat very healthy and have higher standards become overbearing in their approach.

“Well-meaning parents who model healthy eating sometimes try to control what their teens eat, but this backfires, and a power struggle may result.”

Nitpicking and expecting perfection from your child also can lead to dangerous food habits. It might result in a child shutting down, feeling criticized or rebelling and sneaking food.

Stebbins says to pick your battles.

HAVE CONFIDENCE

Show children you have confidence in them by giving them the independence they are seeking. While it seems counterintuitive, it can be an effective method of reverse psychology.

“Your child may end up learning more through their own trial and error than by being told what to eat,” Stebbins says. You can bet that at some point they will make a bad choice, eat too much junk, discover how they feel after and learn on their own to make a better choice next time.

DO AS I DO, NOT AS I SAY

While it may seem as though teens wish to ignore everything parents say and do, they are indeed still learning from your habits and modeling your behavior, whether they’d admit it or not.

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“Teens are observing what their parents eat and drink. If you want to see your child eat healthier, look at what’s on your own plate.”

“Teens are observing what their parents eat and drink,” says registered dietitian Jennifer Fritz. If you want to see your child eat healthier, look at what’s on your own plate. Even without saying anything at all, over time they will learn to eat healthy by watching you eat healthy. If it seems like that will never happen at your house, keep at it and be patient.”

However, be careful you aren’t inadvertently steering them the wrong way.

Being too fussy about your own diet and appearance won’t set good examples for a body-conscious teen who is constantly bombarded by photos of too-thin models and muscular athletes via social media. If you are constantly dieting, obsessing over counting calories and are focused on body image, you are not modeling healthy eating behavior for your children.

“What children and teens hear others saying about their bodies is what they will think and say about their own bodies,” Stebbins says. The focus should be on being “healthy” and “active” — not on “appearance.”

“Lead by example,” says Shawna Napolitano, a mom of three in Bentleyville. “They see what you do, not what you say.”

Betsey Gregoire, a local teacher and parent of two teens, says she lets her children have all things in moderation. “Too many rules actually end up encouraging kids to

Without being pushy, try to help remind your child that food is fuel. If your child is an athlete and you’re concerned that they aren’t receiving the nutrition they need to meet their goals, consider asking their coach to talk to the team about how healthy habits will improve their performance.

If your child struggles with skin problems and you can see that it bothers them, think of asking their dermatologist to talk to them about how a proper diet can contribute to skin trouble.

FAMILY MEAL TIME

You’ve heard it before, but it’s so important that it needs to be repeated. Study after study shows the importance of sitting down to eat dinner (or other meals) together.

According to The Family Dinner Project (a program created by Dr. Anne Fishel, clinical psychologist and associate clinical professor of psychology at Harvard Medical School), regular family meals lower the rates of obesity and eating disorders in adolescents and children.

“Make mealtime a priority,” Fritz says. “It may be impossible to have dinner together every night, but try to eat as many meals at home as you possibly can.”

“If you don’t have a plan, then it will never happen,” Stebbins says. “Try to find a middle ground. The message in itself is important. Essentially you’re saying, ‘We want to be together with you to connect.’ ” “Eating in instead of at restaurants allows parents to have more control over what is consumed than what is ordered outside the home,” Fritz says. By sitting and eating with your children, you are doing perhaps the most important and effective job you can do to help your teen eat healthier without saying a single word. You are modeling good eating behavior, showing them what a healthy meal looks like, and that you enjoy it.

Ashley Weingart is the director of Communications & Community Outreach for The Forest City — Weingart Produce Company. She is the mother of three, a marathoner, a vegetarian and a blogger. She writes about her adventures as a “mom on the run” at runningwithskissors.com.

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If you feel you can make positive changes without creating conflict, don’t preach — just make subtle changes at home. Rather than trying to jump in and overhaul their whole diet, help your family make small modifications in habits gradually. Slight adjustments will be beneficial over time.

Here are some tips from Jennifer Fritz, registered dietitian.

Eliminate convenience and snack foods from the pantry. If they aren’t there, teens can’t access them.

Instead, keep whole fruits and vegetables in grabbing range. Don’t hide them in the fridge drawers.

Replace breads and cereals with 100 percent whole grains.

Go heavy on the vegetables when making soups and stir-fry.

Read labels and look for hidden sugars.

Put out small portions of foods higher in fat and calories at mealtime. On taco night only put out small bowls of cheese and sour cream. When it’s gone, it’s gone.

Reversing poor eating habits is difficult, but with time and effort you can help your child make positive changes to their diet, without it becoming a power struggle. Here are a few other general reminders about establishing healthy eating habits for children of any age.

Never force your child to eat any foods or even taste them. Your job is to provide a variety of healthy foods at each meal. Let your child decide which ones they want and how much.

If they don’t like something you serve, don’t make a big deal about it and try not to take it personally. Say things like, “Oh you didn’t like it yet? You might like it next time.” Keep mealtime positive.

Worried About Fast Food with Friends?

MOVIE NIGHT: Offer SkinnyPop popcorn in place of theater popcorn with heavy butter, and fruit smoothies instead of soda.

Here are some ways to include your teens and their friends in smarter food choices, which will be good for your teen's health — and your wallet.

COOKOUT: Prepare oven-baked fries in place of the deep-fried fast food version, and offer sliders with lean grass-fed beef or ground chicken. Whole wheat buns and veggies will make for a well-rounded meal.

PIZZA NIGHT: Invite their friends over to make their own mini pizzas. Offer whole wheat crusts and lots of veggie toppings.

TACO NIGHT: Replace high-fat and high-calorie fast food tacos with lean ground turkey, low fat cheese, corn or whole wheat tortillas, black beans and brown rice.

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Loss Strategies to Help Kids Cope

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osing a loved one can be a difficult time for anyone, but it can be particularly rough for children trying to understand that someone is no longer going to be around.

They mourn differently from adults, says Mark Tripodi, executive director of Cornerstone of Hope in Independence.

Most professional grief counselors agree, there is no right or wrong way to grieve. Dealing with loss varies from person to person.

Children can show clear variations in the outward displays of grief.

Younger children tend to experience what are referred to as “grief bursts” — mourning for a short period of time, Tripodi says. One moment a child may have a deep cry about the loss, and the next moment they are involved in normal activities, such as going outside to play with friends.

While there is “no set time of getting over a loss” — for children or adults — there are ways to help even the littlest family members cope with a loved one’s death.

COMMUNICATION

In certain cases, discussing the circumstances surrounding someone’s death might be extremely hard — for example, if someone was killed in a tragic accident, or lost their life to an act of violence or to suicide. Some information might be too much for kids to bear — or, depending on their age, to understand.

“When my son was 4 years old, one of his friends was accidentally struck and killed by a vehicle driven by the child’s own dad,” Shelly Steinmetz says. “I didn’t tell him what happened, as to how he died, but I told him that he wasn’t going to be with us anymore. I also didn’t want to lie. I do believe in heaven, but I think that a 4-yearold is too young to understand.”

When it comes to younger children, people have the tendency to use euphemisms when trying to explain that someone has died such as, “they’re sleeping” or “they’re going away.”

Dr. Erin Rafter, licensed psychologist a at The Gathering Place, primarily works with families that are dealing with the loss of a loved one to cancer. She says, these phrases can be unclear.

“It’s ok to explain to them they aren’t coming back,” she says. “Help them to understand and be clear. Go to the library and get age-appropriate books that explain death. A child can refer back to these at a later time.”

As for older children, she notes, some parents use language that can actually cause more harm than good. Often children are told such things as, “Now you’re the man of the family” or “You need to be strong for your mom.”

She suggests that parents normalize the child’s feelings as much as possible and avoid placing too much pressure on them.

“If they want to talk about things they can, but maybe a parent isn’t the most appropriate person for them to turn to,”

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arents with young children wonder if their kids are too small to attend funeral services and what effect it will have on them.

“Many parents may ask ‘Do I let them see the body or participate in the funeral?’

It’s healthy for them to do and offers closure,” says Mark Tripodi, executive director of Cornerstone of Hope. “A child may write a card and leave it inside the casket, draw a picture, or do something artistic, which is healthy.”

For a full list of services for grieving children in Northeast Ohio from the National Alliance for Grieving Children, visit childrengrieve. org/programs-ohio

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she says. “They may find themselves wanting to speak to a teacher, counselor or a coach.”

ROUTINES

Family that has been helped in their grief (top) and little girl (middle) being supported in school by Cornerstone of Hope in Independence. (bottom right) Bobby, son of Mark and Christi Tripodi of Cornerstone of Hope, who passed away in 2000.

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Grieving comes out in different ways. Younger children may act out at times; teens may be more prone to making unhealthy decisions that could potentially involve sexual activity or drug use to escape the pain.

Making teachers aware of what’s going on can be helpful. Some students unintentionally fall behind in work and might withdraw from activities. School counselors can be a great resource during this time.

Providing a sense of normalcy can be one of the most effective ways for parents to help children during an uncertain time.

When a family member dies, it can be a time of chaos, Tripodi says.

“Children need dedicated and trusted family members to stick to a routine as much as possible — especially with regular meals and bedtime. Taking care of hygiene is important, and children need to be able to rely on a system.”

GETTING OUTSIDE HELP

Grief centers such as Cornerstone of Hope, Hospice of the Western Reserve and The Gathering Place in Westlake and Beachwood, provide several support programs.

These services can include art therapy, counseling, grief camp and support groups for kids. Many are free to attend.

For example, The Hospice of the Western Reserve’s Elisabeth Severance Prentiss Bereavement Center provides services throughout Northeast Ohio, including a recent healing arts workshop “Relax-O-Doodles,” which gave community members on both the East and Westside a creative outlet to help heal and take a little time away from worries and grief.

Tripodi says to get children in a program where they can meet others their age who are going through what they are going through.

“They meet other children and instantly develop a connection,”he says.

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By Diana Seimer Whether it is time to update your drab spaces, fix an overdue repair or get your house ready for the market, there are some key things you can do this spring to increase the value of your home and make it more comfortable.

Home trends for 2016 continue to focus on ways to increase market value, as well as ways to decrease energy cost and consumption. However, one trend that is definitely on the rise is do-it-yourself. Cutting the labor costs from your budget while learning how to do the job yourself is not only economical, it is liberating and fun.

Here are eight DIY projects that follow 2016 design trends, all while adding value and saving you money.

Entry door replacement.

According to the Remodeling 2015 Cost versus Value Report, replacing your front door with a steel door had the highest percentage of return on investment (ROI), at 102 percent.

Not only does it increase curb appeal, it provides better insulation and security for your home. To save money on installation, check out familyhandyman.com, which gives step-by-step instructions, as well as a list of tools and materials needed to hang your own front door. Browsing sites such as youtube.com will provide video demonstrations of the job.

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Adding stone veneer. The report also says removing the vinyl siding from the bottom third of your home and replacing it with stone veneer gives you a 92 percent ROI. With a little update in your landscaping, you can give your home a fresh face and your investment a big boost.

Heated entryway floors.

One trend gaining popularity is increasing the comfort of the entryway. Once just the place to dump muddy shoes and ratty backpacks, a house’s entryway is quite literally becoming a warmer welcome. Houzz. com discusses design and materials and warmlyyours.com reviews the value of heating your entry floors by offering quotes for your particular project, a “Heat Loss Calculator,” and the general costs and savings of the project.

Update the kitchen. The kitchen is still king as one of the most valuable remodeling projects for a home. A light remodel can provide for a better return because the cost is lower. One easy and affordable fix is to update the cabinets.

The trend for 2016 is a two-tone look with light, bright and open cabinets on top and a darker tone on the bottom. A simple repaint or re-stain can get you this look in a weekend. However, if you want to replace your cabinets, consider adding deep drawers for easier storage. The rising popularity of this design is creating more affordable choices on the market.

Just because you go minimal, doesn’t mean you can’t be bold. If you save money in one area like cabinets, then you can splurge on something like a niche appliance (colored stainless steel appliances are now trendy) or a more expensive tile for your backsplash. Pinterest.com and apartmenttherapy.com both show many unique and bold kitchen design ideas.

Adding a large workhorse island and minimizing the amount of “stuff ” in the kitchen space also is popular. Open shelves are in and wall-mounted cabinets are out. Natural light and raw materials help to give an open, minimalist kitchen this look. The good news is that most raw materials are less expensive.

Boost the bathroom. Some trendy and affordable ideas include adding a statement mirror, adding a bold wall covering or updating the lighting with more ornate pieces. Bringing furniture into the

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bathroom is the new thing, too, making the space more inviting and more like the rest of the house. Pinterest has some great ideas on ways to create amazing DIY bathrooms on a budget. If you want to spend a little money, add a bidet. More master bathroom renos are including the toilet/bidet combination unit.

Bring “family” and “living” back to your rooms. Many people are opting to spend more time at home and are finding the living room and dining room are great places to be with family and friends. In fact, with mobile technology, the television is becoming less the centerpiece of the living and family rooms. With a rise in the trend to entertain at home, hosts are falling back in love with the formal dining room. Housebeautiful.com gives you 43 incredible and fabulous ideas to make the dining room dazzle.

Make room for mom and dad. Converting a first floor room into a bedroom for your aging parents may not necessarily increase the value of your home, but the reward of providing a comfortable space for them is priceless if you can do it. The other benefit is that once you get older, you can use that room, too, keeping you in your existing home longer. Staying in your home as long as you can increases the value of your investment.

Improve energy efficiency.

There are easy, low cost things you can do that will save you money on energy bills.

Don’t assume your home is energy efficient just because it is a newer construction. Use some caulking and foam insulation or other solutions to seal up any air leaks, especially in your attic, where heat loss can be significant. Insulate the attic or upgrade and increase your insulation. Energy.gov provides great tips on insulating your home and sealing any air ducts. Also, update your thermostat to a programmable one. While upgrading your windows can be expensive, adding storm windows is a less costly option.

Finally, you may have to budget and save, but updating your utilities and appliances to more energy efficient modes will save you a lot over time.

Don’t forget, tax credits are available.

Check consumerreports.com for great tips on tax credits and rebates.

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Trot through Geauga County’s Family Fun How this historic community welcomes tourists and residents alike

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ith a plethora of activities to suit every interest — from stargazing and shopping to outdoor adventure and history — Geauga County is a great place to put down roots or plan a visit. Located roughly 30 miles east of Cleveland, the county’s unique blend of countryside, culture and entertainment makes it a perfect family destination. And residents agree — Geauga County currently is the third fastest growing county within Northeast Ohio.

Here are some highlights to help you start planning your family’s adventure.

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For nature lovers, the Geauga Park District (geaugaparkdistrict.org) offers 20 parks and a wide range of activities: hiking, bike paths, camping, playgrounds, horseback trails, boating, fishing, crosscountry skiing, sledding and more.

Particularly unique is the 1,100-acre Observatory Park, which allows visitors to explore nature from the ground to the galaxies as one of only 15 designated “Dark Sky Parks” in the U.S. and 20 in the world.

The park’s Robert McCullough Science Center features weekly planetarium shows, a meteorite display that includes a meteorite visitors can touch, and projection equipment for astronomyrelated programming. Across the plaza, the Oberle Observatory has a partially retractable roof to allow direct sky viewing with the Newtonian reflector telescope.

Observatory Park also features several other wonders, including a mile-long Planetary Trail with interactive pods representing each planet, a Weather Trail with interactive stations representing ways to study weather, life-sized corner stones of the Great Pyramid of Giza, earthen mounds, henge stones, and woodland trails connecting the main campus with the soon-to-be-renovated Nassau Astronomical Observing Station.

Other not-to-be-missed parks include The West Woods, home to Ansel’s Cave, Silver Creek and its watershed, extensive wetlands and mature forests; and the Walter C. Best Wildlife Preserve, which features scenic trails and a Waterfowl Walkway perfect for viewing a variety of species. The West Woods Nature Center houses innovative displays and handson exhibits that explain how the geology (rocks) and hydrology (water) of Geauga County gave rise to the area’s diverse natural communities.

Geauga Park District’s West Wood Nature Center in Russell Township.

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LOCALLY MADE

The Buy Local movement is strong in Geauga County, with many shops offering unique, locally produced wares.

Alpacas Run Hideaway Farm & Gift Hut, located in Thompson Township, offers alpaca apparel and accessories, Warm Glo Candles, collectible teddy bears and other animals, yarn, holiday gifts and gift baskets. Check out unique, handcrafted jewelry at Chardon’s Art & Function, and hand-blown glass at Hansel’s Locally Blown Glass, located in Burton Village.

Between Two Rivers Trading Co. in Mesopotamia Township — just across the county line in Trumbull County — is a gathering place for local artisans and crafters to sell stained glass, homemade soaps, natural pet products, jewelry, soy

candles, crocheted and knitted items, paintings and glass art, silk screening, and primitives. FarmGirl’s Artful Clutter & Such in North Bloomfield — also in Trumbull County — features a wide selection of garden items, repurposed and vintage items, primitives, holiday decor, gifts, and local chemical-free honey, lip balms and lotion bars. Smylies in Middlefield Village carries a collection of home décor, antiques, essential oils and many other items including a full line of American-made Simplicity vacuums.

If antiquing is more your style, the Geauga County area will not disappoint, as it is home to several antique destinations, including Antiques on the Square and Valentine Antiques in Chardon, Auntie’s Antique Mall in Parkman Township, and

Events to Remember

Burton Antiques Market

Garrettsville SummerFest

Geauga County Maple Festival

Don’t miss these popular annual happenings in Geauga County and surrounding communities:

Located on the racetrack at the Geauga County Fairgrounds, the market brings together roughly 400 dealers who display and sell many types of antiques and other items.

One of the largest summer celebrations in Northeast Ohio, the three-day event in Portage County offers rides, games, contests and car shows, plus live entertainment and music.

Held the last full weekend in April, this Chardon event provides four full days of fun, food and everything maple.

Activities include bathtub races, live entertainment, a lumberjack competition, the annual Sap Run and more.

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End of the Commons General Store in Mesopotamia Township.

Chardon Square provides not only an array of shopping, eats and cafés (try the Beans Coffee House & Bistro, beans-coffee.com, which offers coffee and espresso delights and sandwiches), but also a theater that takes center stage with education, music, arts and other events the whole family can experience.

Explore the Geauga Lyric Theater Guild (geaugatheater.org) season, along with find a class at the historic theater, which has been producing shows since 1954.

LOCALLY GROWN

From fresh-picked produce to famous maple syrup and everything in between, there’s no question that you can stock your family’s refrigerator after a day in Geauga County.

Satisfy a sweet tooth with a visit to Buckeye Chocolate Co. in Burton Township or White House Chocolates in Middlefield Township, or go savory with a trip to Middlefield Cheese House or Middlefield Original Cheese Co-op.

Fowler’s Milling Co. in Chardon Township is a 175-year-old grist mill that stone grinds yellow corn and wheat, and produces several varieties of baking mixes — all sold in the company’s Mill Store.

Area fruit farms feature markets and pick-your-own options, depending on the season. Check out Blue Jay Orchard in Hiram for pick-your-own blueberries, peaches or apples; the sixth-generation Patterson Fruit Farm and market in Chesterland; and Sunrise Farm in Burton Township, with many pick-your-own crops and a gift shop.

March is the perfect time to take advantage of the many maple syrup events that take place each year throughout the county. Maple syrup producers include A Sugarbush Creek Farm in Middlefield Township; the Burton Chamber of Commerce’s Log Cabin; Grossman Brothers Maple Products in Claridon Township; Messenger Century Farm in Auburn Township; Richards Maple

(Above) Silver Creek Park in The West Woods in Russell Township. (Below) Great dishes to enjoy from Mary Yoder's in Middlefield Village.

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Products in Chardon; and Salo Maple Products in Montville Township.

For a list of maple syrup activities including open houses, festivals, breakfasts and charity events, visit destinationgeauga.com.

Don’t forget the homegrown restaurants around town that provide a cozy, unique atmosphere such as the Chesterland Tavern (chesterlandtavern.com), Square Bistro in Chardon (square-bistro.com) and Mary Yoder’s Amish Kitchen, Bakery and Gift Shop in Middlefield Village (maryyodersamishkitchen.com) LOOKING BACK IN TIME

Geauga County offers residents and visitors a glimpse into the past.

Century Village Museum (centuryvillagemuseum.org) in Burton Village — owned and managed by the Geauga County Historical Society — consists of 22 historic structures, more

than 20,000 artifacts, and a working farm on 65 acres of land. In addition to the museum, the historical society also operates the Crossroads Museum Store & Gift Shop, which offers unique food items from surrounding communities, artisan crafts made on the grounds and more.

Burton’s Historical Engine Society, with more than 300 members, works in cooperation with the historical society to maintain the mechanical antiques in the Century Village Museum and to present the annual Antique Power Exhibition.

The society encourages collection, preservation, restoration and exhibition of power-producing devices and the machinery driven by these units: steam traction engines, gas tractors and engines, and horse-drawn and hand-powered machinery.

While Middlefield and its surrounding countryside is the hub of the county’s Amish population, Burton Township and Huntsburg Township also are home to significant Amish establishments. From Amish cooking to furniture and crafts like leatherworking and metalworking, there is plenty to explore throughout Geauga County. For maps, information and a complete listing of Amish businesses, visit destinationgeauga.com.

Great Geauga County Fair

Huntsburg Pumpkin Festival

Village Peddler Festival

Ohio’s oldest fair, held over Labor Day weekend, offers 150 acres of rides, food and farm animals, as well as live music, shows and grandstand entertainment with two nights each of demolition derbies and truck and tractor pulls.

Slated for Oct. 1-2, the free event features live entertainment, a car show, crafters, a pancake breakfast, food vendors, and a 4-Mile Pumpkin Run and 1-Mile Fun Walk.

This outdoor marketplace in Kirtland in Lake County has more than 175 artisans and craftsmen. Also

included are live folk music, fresh food, a gourmet market, wagon rides and a corn maze.

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Buzzworthy Businesses GEAUGA PARK DISTRICT

In the heart of Geauga County, Geauga Park District’s mission is to preserve, conserve and protect the natural features of the county — and to provide outdoor recreational experiences to residents of every age, every ability and at all times of the year. The 19 open parks include an observatory, a nature center and more. Visit geaugaparkdistrict.org

PATTERSON FRUIT FARM

This family-owned farm provides an opportunity for visitors to receive home- grown, fresh fruit and produce and gourmet baskets, as well as to enjoy yummy doughnuts, pies and pastries. It also offers many family-friendly events, such as the Fun Fest beginning in September. 11414 Caves Road, Chesterland; 440-729-1964; pattersonfarm.com Open 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily, year-round.

LAKE METROPARKS

Neighbors to the north of Geauga County, Lake Metroparks provides visitors with educational programming and recreational facilities to explore year-round. Visitors will find centers for learning, wildlife preservation, outdoor trails, beautiful settings and activities off the Lake Erie shorelines — including Lake Erie Bluffs in Perry Township, which offers trails, beach access and more. Visit lakemetroparks.com

HERSHEY MONTESSORI SCHOOL

Hershey Montessori School in Huntsburg Township has an upper school program that began last fall when the school announced an expansion of its programs with the addition of 10th grade. In 2017-18, Hershey’s Upper School will be complete through grade 12. The school’s 10th-graders recently opened Hershey Market in Chardon. The store, which is open to the public, provides an opportunity for entrepreneurship learning for students. Huntsburg Campus, 11530 Madison Road, Huntsburg Township; 440-357-0918; hershey-montessori.org

NDCL

The Catholic, co-educational, college preparatory school serves students pre-k through 12th grade, and is sponsored by the Sisters of Notre Dame. The Munson Township campus — which holds the two schools, Notre Dame Elementary and Notre Dame-Cathedral Latin School — provides a challenging academic environment and promotes 21st century learning. 13000 Auburn Road, Chardon; www.ndcl.org or notredameelementary.org

PHOTO BY ANGELA GARTNER

STOP AND SHOP Maple syrup, spoons, cutting boards and candles are just some of the items for sale at the newly opened Hershey Market in Chardon.

Hershey Montessori Upper School students who produce the store’s products at the school’s 97-acre farm operate the retail establishment.

The capstone project, which began in fall, is supported through a grant to offer students an opportunity for a hands-on, real-world experience — a core learning objective in Montessori education.

“This idea is what Dr. Maria Montessori envisioned,” says Paula Leigh-Doyle, head of school for Hershey Montessori. “Students have the opportunity to participate in economic life. Chardon is the perfect setting for (the project).”

Chardon Mayor Nancy McArthur says the students bring something new to Chardon Square.

“It’s a win-win,” she says.

The community can purchase items created by students, in addition to other outside vendors. The profits go back into the school’s microeconomy, which supports middle-school projects and the market.

“It’s a really good experience to open the shop,” says August Agawa, a 10th-grader and business manager of the store. “It gives (us) a lot of opportunity and experience.”

The store — located across from the Geauga Lyric Theater — will be open from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Tuesday through Friday, and 1 to 5 p.m. Saturday.

For more info visit hershey-montessori.org

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Maple MARCH MADNESS Soak up this sticky goodness with these places around the region.

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ASHTABULA COUNTY Camp Whitewood Maple Sugaring Tour 7983 S. Wiswell Road, Windsor, 440-272-5275

By Danielle Weiler · Have you ever wondered how maple syrup is

made? If so, you are in luck. During the month of March, many parks and farms across Northeast Ohio provide visitors with an opportunity to watch first-hand as sap is collected from trees and turned into syrup. Many events will include activities such as historical demonstrations, samples of maple products and pancake breakfasts. These fun and educational outings are something the entire family will enjoy.

CUYAHOGA COUNTY History of Maple Sugaring at Rocky River Reservation 24000 Valley Parkway, North Olmsted clevelandmetroparks.com 440-734-6660 GEAUGA COUNTY Ma & Pa’s Gather Sap with the Horses Maple Tour 15161 Main Market Road, Burton maandpas.com 440-548-5521 Maple Sugaring with Geauga Park District 16004 Hayes Road, Middlefield geaugaparkdistrict.org 440-286-9516 87th Annual Geauga Maple Festival Historic Chardon Square maplefestival.com 440-286-3007 LAKE COUNTY Maple Sugaring at Lake Metroparks Farmpark 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland lakemetroparks.com 440-358-7275 LORAIN COUNTY Maple Sugaring at Lorain County Metro Parks 12882 Diagonal Road, LaGrange, metroparks.cc 440-458-5121 SUMMIT COUNTY Maple Sugar Festival & Pancake Breakfast at Hale Farm & Village 2686 Oak Hill Road, Bath halefarm.org, 330-666-3711

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Participating in an area Easter egg hunt is a fun way to celebrate the holiday. Kids of all ages will have a hopping good time collecting the colorful eggs and discovering the surprises inside. Many of the events also offer additional activities, including breakfast with the Easter bunny, crafts and family-friendly activities. For more details on these events and more family-friendly Easter celebrations, visit NortheastOhioFamilyFun.com.

Akron Zoo Breakfast with the Bunny Saturday & Sundays, 3/12-26 504 Euclid Ave., Akron Lake Erie Nature & Science Center Eggstravaganza!

3/18, 19, 20, 25 & 26 28728 Wolf Road, Bay Village lensc.org Ohio Station Outlets — Bagels with the Bunny and Easter Egg Hunt 3/19 9911 Avon Lake Road, Burbank ohiostationoutlets.com Geauga Park District Egg Hunt 3/19 9465 Kinsman Road, Russell Township geaugaparkdistrict.org

Sunrise Farm’s Easter Eggstravaganza 3/19 13115 Kinsman Road, Burton Township sunrisefarmgifts.com

Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens Easter Egg Hunt & Breakfast 3/26 714 North Portage Path, Akron stanhywet.org

Cleveland Botanical Garden Egg Hunt 3/26 11030 East Blvd., Cleveland cbgarden.org

Lorain County Metro Parks Glow-in-the-Dark Egg Hunt 3/25 51211 North Ridge Road, Vermilion metroparks.cc Lorain County Metro Parks Schoepfle Garden Egg Hunt 3/26 11106 Market St., Birmingham metroparks.cc P. Graham Dunn Easter Egg Hunt and Petting Zoo 3/26 630 Henry St., Dalton pgrahamdunn.com

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MARCH calendar More events at NortheastOhioParent.com

3/28-3/31

Spring Break Boredom Busters.

Grades K-5 come for board games, movie and popcorn, Citiblocs, and Video Game Day. 1 p.m. Maple Valley Branch Library, 1187 Copley Road, Akron, 330-864-5721, akronlibrary.org

3/28-4/1 Spring Break 2K Tournament. A March Madness style tournament in NBA 2K for high school students.

2-4 p.m. University Heights Branch Library, 13866 Cedar Road, 216-9323600, heightslibrary.org

Spring Break

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Make the most of your kid's time away from the classroom with these unique events.

PICK YOUR DAY MONDAYTHURSDAY Free Reading Tutoring. Free reading tutoring and support for K-3 students is offered in partnership with Braxton Education and Technology Consulting.

3:30-6 p.m. Memorial Nottingham Branch Library, 17109 Lake Shore Blvd., Cleveland, 216-623-7039, cpl.org

MONDAYS Reader Boost Camp. Children struggling with their reading skills are invited to join for pizza dinner at 6 p.m. and a two-part program of information and fun from 6:30-7:30 p.m. Brecksville Branch Library, 9089 Brecksville Road, 440-526-1102, cuyahogalibrary.org Special Olympics Basketball.

Ages 8-16 dribble, pass, shoot and score. Basketball skills, techniques and sportsmanship are emphasized each week. Broadmoor School, 8090 Broadmoor Road, Mentor, 440-585-3041 ext. 6041, lakemetroparks.com

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Spring Break Discovery Day Camps.

Explore one of Ohio’s most popular animals — the squirrel — and get up close with other animal friends. 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. $60 a day, or $150 for three days. Lake Erie Nature & Science Center, 28728 Wolf Road, Bay Village, 440-871-2900, lensc.org

TUESDAYS Teen Writers' Group. Second and fourth Tuesday of each month.

A safe place for teen writers to share their work and receive feedback. 6:30-7:30 p.m.

Keystone-LaGrange Branch Library, 101 West St., LaGrange, 440-355-6323, elyrialibrary.org Preschool Playgroup. Explore with various age-appropriate toys, blocks, cars, trucks and trains, puzzles, and other children. North Hill Branch Library, 183 E. Cuyahoga Falls Ave., Cuyahoga Falls, 330-535-9423, akronlibrary.org Toddler On Over Toddler Storytime. Ages 18-36 months, with caregiver. 10-10:30 a.m.

Middlefield Library, 16167 E. High St., Middlefield, 440-632-1961, geaugalibrary.net

WEDNESDAYS Waddler Time. Share books during this program designed for ages 12-24 months and their caregivers.

10-10:25 a.m. Amherst Public Library, 221 Spring St., Amherst, 440-988-4230, amherst.lib.oh.us

THURSDAYS & SATURDAYS Little Scribblers. Children ages 3-6 will engage in creative exploration while building the cognitive and physical abilities necessary for elementary school. $12. 11 a.m.-noon. Brecksville Center for the Arts, 8997 Highland Road, 440-526-6232, brecksvillearts.com

FRIDAYS Kindermusik Fridays. Presented

by Hudson’s Kindermusik, this popular program combines music and learning for children ages 18 months to 3 ½ years with a caregiver. 9:30 a.m. Hudson Library & Historical Society, 96 Library St., Hudson, 330-653-6658, hudsonlibrary.org Family Storytime. A storytime for children of all ages with a favorite adult. 10:30-11 a.m. Kent Free Library, 312 West Main St., Kent, 330-673-4414, kentfreelibrary.org

SATURDAYS Chinese Martial Arts for Children.

Ages 5-12. Encourage physical exercise. 4-5 p.m. Cleveland Main Library, 325 Superior Ave., 216-623-2800, cpl.org Saturday Gym Nights. The third Saturday of each month, leave your kiddos in the hands of caring and fun gymnastics coaches. 6:30-9:30 p.m. Olmsted Performing Arts, 611 W. Bagley Road, Berea, 440-2390300, olmstedperformingarts.com Public Planetarium Show. Free with museum admission. 1-1:35 p.m.

McKinley Museum, 800 McKinley Monument Drive NW, Canton, 330-455-7043, mckinleymuseum.org

SATURDAYS & SUNDAYS Breakfast with the Bunny.

Breakfast buffet, crafts, activities, visits with the Easter Bunny and an egg hunt on March 12, 13, 19, 20 and 26, 9-11 a.m. Akron Zoo, 504 Euclid Ave., Akron, 330-375-2550, akronzoo.org

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ONGOING THROUGH 3/6 Orchid Mania. Cleveland Botanical Garden’s most fragrant and fanciful plant show lets you take an enchanting tropical escape without leaving Cleveland. Free for members; $11 for non-members.

Cleveland Botanical Garden, 11030 East Blvd., Cleveland, 216-721-1600, cbgarden.org

THROUGH 3/12 Fiddler on the Roof. This is the life-affirming love story of Tevye, a poor milkman whose love, pride and faith help him face the oppression of the turn-of-the-century czarist Russia.

Old Towne Hall Theatre, 36119 Center Ridge Road, North Ridgeville, 440-327-2909, oldetownhalltheatre.com

THROUGH 3/13 Godspell. Enjoy this theatre performance of the Gospel according to Matthew. TrueNorth Cultural Arts, 4530 Colorado Ave., Sheffield Village, tncarts.org

THROUGH 3/16 Martinez E-B’s Solo Exhibition.

A series of paintings and collages titled “So, Let Them Have Color.” This collection of work re-contextualizes signs, flags, mementos, color and the notion of social belonging. Beck Center for the Arts, 17801 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, 216-521-2540, beckcenter.org

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THROUGH 3/26 Easter Bunny Photos & Visits. Hop on over to the Bunnyland located in Center Court near JCPenny for visits & photos with the Easter Bunny. Monday-Saturday 10 a.m.-9 p.m. and Sunday 11 a.m.-6 p.m.

Great Northern Mall, 4954 Great Northern Mall Blvd., North Olmsted. shoppinggreatnorthernmall.com

DAY BY DAY 3/1 Street Lit and African American Girls. Join guest lecturer K.C. Boyd, the Audacious Librarian, for this great discussion about street literature, African American girls and reading. 5-6:30 p.m. Cleveland Main Library, 325 Superior Ave., 216-623-2800, cpl.org

3/2 Dr. Seuss Birthday Bingo. Come play a special edition of Dr. Seuss bingo with Seuss-inspired prizes.

4-3:30 p.m. North Branch Library, 1005 N. Abbe Road, Elyria, 440-366-4919, elyrialibrary.org Read Across America. Celebrate Dr. Seuss’s birthday with several crafts and games. There will also be birthday cake while it lasts.

9-a.m.-7 p.m. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave. 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org

3/3-14 Annie Jr. Annie warms the hearts of audiences of all ages as they witness her journey from life in an unseemly orphanage to becoming part of a loving family. Mandel JCC

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3/19-4/24 Big Spring.

Humongous ladybugs, giant flowers and enormous garden tools — these are some of the curious and wonderful things awaiting you at Big Spring, Cleveland’s supersized, indoor and outdoor springtime celebration. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesdays, Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays; 10 a.m.-9 p.m. Wednesdays; noon-5 p.m.

Sundays. 11030 East Blvd., Cleveland. 216-721-1600, cbgarden.org of Cleveland, 26001 S. Woodland Road, Beachwood, 216-831-0700, mandeljcc.org

3/4 A Night of Magic. Magic show, face painting and balloon art.

Non-members welcome. 6-9 p.m. YMCA, 320 Aldrich Road, Vermilion, clevelandymca.org/ vermilion.html Friends of the Library Book Sale.

6 p.m. Geauga West Library, 13455 Chillicothe Road, Chesterland, 440-729-4250, geaugalibrary.net

3/5 The Fine Arts Association Family Fundraiser. Bowling, children’s activity, games and prizes. $25 for adults, $15 for children (includes bowling, shoes, food and drink).

Game of Mentor, 7300 Palisades

Parkway, Mentor, 440-951-7500, fineartsassociation.org Therapeutic Horseback Riding Demo and Volunteer Workshop.

All ages welcome. No registration required. Free. 10 a.m.-2 p.m.

Medina Creative Therapy Ranch, 5200 Lake Road, Medina, medinacreativehousing.com/ medina-therapy-ranch Salamander and Frog Fest.

Children up to fourth grade. Find out about these slimy friends and take part in games and crafts. 1-3 p.m. Twinsburg Community Center, 10260 Ravenna Road, Twinsburg, 330-963-8722, mytwinsburg.com

3/5 & 6 Pinocchio: Ballet Excel Ohio.

Pinocchio and Four Decades of Dance: A Tribute to Nan Klinger.

Akron Civic Theatre, 182 S. Main St., Akron, balletexcelohio.org

The Legend of Moon Mouse.

Constantly bullied and picked on by the “cool” rats, Marvin is labeled as a loser and a geek. He retreats into his science books and a world of fantasy to escape. Ohio Theatre at Playhouse Square, 1511 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, 216-2416000, playhousesquare.org

3/8 Firelands High School Select Choir Music Performance.

This audition-based group will be singing a combination of musical and festival tunes, both a cappella and accompanied.

7 p.m. Amherst Public Library, 221 Spring St., Amherst, 440-988-4230, amherst.lib.oh.us

3/9 Japanese Club. Grades K-5 learn about Japanese culture and language, and play games.

6:30-7:30 p.m. Reed Memorial Library, 167 E. Main St., Ravenna, 330-296-2827, reedlibrary.org Helping Families Eat Smart & Be Healthy. Free interactive and hands-on program to help families with children make healthier choices. 10:30 a.m.

Portage Lakes Branch Library, 4261 Manchester Road, Akron, 330-644-7050, akronlibrary.org Wordplay Creative Writing Club. Kids in third through sixth grade are welcome to bring their imaginations to the library’s writing club. 4:30 p.m. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave. 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org

3/10 Sunset at Euclid Beach.

Enjoy one of the last sunsets before our clocks leap forward into spring with a hike. 6-7:15 p.m.

Euclid Creek Reservation, Wildwood Park entrance, clevelandmetroparks.com PJs at the Library: Kids are encouraged to wear their pajamas and bring their favorite stuffed animal and blanket. Stories, songs, and a warm treat will help these little ones drift off into a sound sleep. 6:15 p.m. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave. 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org

3/11 Searching for Killer Asteroids.

Learn how humans are scanning the skies for incoming asteroids, and how you can contribute to the effort to the save the Earth.

7-8 p.m. Observatory Park, 10610 Clay St., Montville Township, 440-279-0820, geaugaparkdistrict.org

3/12 Plant a Flower Day. Spring is just around the corner, and March 12 is National Plant a Flower Day. 11 a.m.

Lorain Branch Library, 8216 Lorain Ave., Cleveland, 216-623-7011, cpl. org Kids Closet — A Resale Event.

Hosted by the Strongsville Early Childhood PTA. 8 a.m.-noon Strongsville High School, 20025 Lunn Road, Strongsville, www.secpta.org FeLeap’s Birthday Party. Ages 3-8. Drop in and celebrate with FeLeap the Frog with games, activities, a craft, picture time and a few other surprises.

Exploration Gateway, Rooms A & B, 5710-5712 12th St. NW, Canton, 330-409-8096, starkparks.com Connecting for Kids Parent Discussion Group. Learn what tests will be required at each grade level for Ohio's new assessments and what accommodations will be offered to students with special needs.

2-3:30 p.m. Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Road, Westlake, 440-871-2600, westlakelibrary.org Aquatic Easter Egg Hunt. There will be floating eggs and sinking eggs for the hunters to find.

1-4:30 p.m. $6-10 each. Broadview Heights Recreation Center, 9543 Broadview Road, broadview-heights.org

3/13 Winter Bird Walk. Enjoy a walk through the Nature Center grounds. . 8:30-10:30 a.m. Nature Center at Shaker Lakes, 2600 South Park Blvd., Cleveland, 216321-5935, shakerlakes.org.

Family — Art! Art! Art! Families can create their favorite book jacket with unusual art supplies.

2-3 p.m. Geauga West Library, 13455 Chillicothe Road, Chesterland, 440-729-4250, geaugalibrary.net St. Patrick’s Day Dance. Wear your green and come to the annual dance. $5 a person, and chaperones are free. Painesville Township Park, Community Center, 1045 Hardy Road, 440-354-3885, lakemetroparks.com

3/13-6/12 Pharaoh: King of Ancient Egypt Exhibition. 3,000 years of ancient history come to life through fine objects from the British Museum.

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Take Learning to Next Level for Homeschoolers These unique programs are designed to engage your home learner.

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Homeschool Maple Sugaring. Free for children and an adult. 2-3 p.m. Carlisle Reservation, 12882 Diagonal Road, LaGrange, metroparks.cc

Homeschool at the Library. Young minds explore curriculum-based topics while learning how to use library resources. For families. 2:303:30 p.m. Reed Memorial Library, 167 E. Main St., Ravenna, 330-296-2827, reedlibrary.org

3/8

Homeschool Happenings: Quilts. Designed to provide a unique educational experience for homeschool students (ages 5-12) and adult.

1:30-4 p.m. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, 440-256-2122, lakemetroparks.com

Homeschool — Animals Need Plants. Preregistration required to secure a spot. 10-11:30 a.m. for kindergarten through third grade; noon-1:30 p.m. for fourth through eighth grade. $8 members, $10 non-members. Cleveland Metroparks Zoo, 3900 Wildlife Way, Cleveland, 216-635-3391, clevelandmetroparks.com/zoo

Homeschool Nature: Letterboxing. Outdoor clue-based treasure hunt for beginning letterboxers 5 years and older with adult. 10-11:30 a.m. French Creek Reservation, 4530 Colorado Ave., Sheffield Village, metroparks.cc

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Homeschoolers: Rube Goldberg Devices & Simple Machines. Homeschoolers, ages 7-10, join a naturalist to learn how simple machines make work easier. 10:30 a.m.-noon and 1-2:30 p.m. Nature Realm, 1828 Smith Road, Akron, 330-865-8065, summitmetroparks.org

Homeschool Mind Stretchers. Activities for children grades K-5 to stretch their mind.

Registration required. 2:30-3:30 p.m. Berea Branch Library, 7 Berea Commons, 440-234-5475, cuyahogalibrary.org

Homeschool Art Adventures. Ages 5 and older learn about an artist or an art technique and create their own works. Dress for making a mess.

10-11 a.m. Willoughby Public Library, 30 Public Square, Willoughby, 440-942-3200, we247.org

Homeschool Hub. For homeschoolers (K-5) with special needs, each session includes literature, art and motor skill development.

Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Road, Westlake, 440-871-2600, westlakelibrary.org

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3/10 Creative Writing for Homeschoolers. Grades 3-6 who want to improve their writing skills.

Free to residents; $3 non-county residents.

2-3:15 p.m. Wolf Creek Environmental Center, 6100 Ridge Road, Wadsworth, 330-722-9364, medinacountyparks.com

3/10 Homeschooling Workshop — Forensic Science. Learn how to solve a case like they do on your favorite crime shows. 10:30 a.m.-noon for those ages 5-9; 1-3 p.m. for those ages 10-14. $35 ($30 for members). Great Lakes Science Center, 601 Erieside Ave., Cleveland, 216-6942000, greatscience.com

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Family Literacy Night: Nutrition Tips. Living healthier is easier than you think! Learn about the importance of nutrition. 6:30-8 p.m. North Olmsted Branch Library, 27403 Lorain Road, 440-777-6211, cuyahogalibrary.org

I-X Indoor Amusement Park.

Full day of smiles, thrills and family fun, all at a budget-friendly price.

6200 Riverside Drive, Cleveland, ixamusementpark.com

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Candy & Dyes Experiments For Families. Understand the chemistry of candy and dyes by experimenting. 11 a.m.-noon.

Reed Memorial Library, 167 E. Main St., Ravenna, 330-296-2827, reedlibrary.org

CityMusic Cleveland Chamber Orchestra Concert. Free concert featuring soprano Jeanine DeBique, with Joaquin Valdepenas conducting. 7:30 p.m. St. Jerome Church, 15000 Lakeshore Blvd., Cleveland, 955thefish.com Shamrock Stories. It's your lucky day for rhymes, stories and a craft.

10:30-11:15 a.m. Medina Library, 210 S. Broadway St., 330-725-0588, mcdl.info

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4/ 9 Annual Summit for Kids Expo Summit For Kids invites parents and children back again this year to enjoy fun and educational activities, free back-to-school supplies, and gain new information regarding the programs and services Summit County has to offer. Will take place at the AkronSummit County Public Library. summitkids.org

St. Patty’s Day Celebration. Come celebrate while transforming into a leprechaun with a cool craft.

3:30-4 p.m. Mentor-on-the-Lake Branch Library, 5642 Andrews Road, 440-257-2512, mentorpl.org

Lunch with the Easter Bunny. Kids will receive a fun Easter-themed lunch, crafts and goodie bag. $12 per child. 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Dragonfly Tea Room, 116 S. Canal St., Canal Fulton, visitcanton.com

3/18

Fourth Annual Kids COMIC CON! Featuring workshops with professional writers and illustrators covering both drawing and writing.

Lake Erie Ink, 2843 Washington Blvd., Cleveland Heights, 216-320-4757, lakeerieink.org

Sing and Stretch Yoga. Experience this one-time demo presentation of Sing and Swing LLC’s Sing and Stretch yoga class. Ages 1-5 with caregiver. 10-10:45 a.m. or 11-11:45 a.m. Willoughby Public Library, 30 Public Square, Willoughby, 440-942-3200, we247.org Tiny Trekkers. Ages 3-6. Explore the wonderful world of nature.

Cleveland Museum of Natural History, 1 Wade Oval Drive, Cleveland, cmnh.org

3/18-19 Beauty and the Beast Junior. Belle finds adventure in a mysterious castle, where her father is held prisoner by the Beast. Olmsted Performing Arts, 611 W. Bagley Road, Berea, 440-973-4363, olmstedperformingarts.com

3/19 Breakfast with the Bunny. A continental breakfast buffet will be served at 8:30 a.m. and 10 a.m.

An egg hunt will take place after breakfast. Quail Hollow Park, 13480 Congress Lake Ave., Hartville, 330877-2457, starkparks.com Family Day: Spark Family Film Fest. Parents, bring your young film connoisseurs to the museum for an afternoon of engaging, high-quality family films. noon-4 p.m. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., Akron, 330-376-9185, akronartmuseum.org

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Aspire Boys & Girls Clubs Signature Event. Festivities include dinner, live & silent auctions, Dessert Dash, a wine pull, and Mission Possible-the opportunity to invest in their high impact after-school programs. 5:30-9 p.m. Todaro’s Party Center, 1820 Akron Peninsula Road, Akron, 330-773-3375, wrkids.org

3/19-20 All Things Green. Go to the Susan Hambley Nature Center for this St. Patrick’s Day celebration. noon-5 p.m. Susan Hambley Nature Center, 1473 Parschen Blvd., Brunswick, 330-722-9364, medinacountyparks.com

3/21 Kids/Teens Garage Sale. Teens and kids will be selling kid-oriented items. 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Quirk Cultural Center, 1201 Grant Ave., Cuyahoga Falls, 330-971-8425, cfo.cityofcf.com

3/21-5/17 Spring Art Show. Proceeds benefit Penitentiary Glen Nature Center.

9 a.m.-5 p.m. Penitentiary Glen Reservation, 8668 Kirtland Chardon Road, Willoughby, 440-256-1404, lakemetroparks.com

3/23 Doctor Who Party. In celebration of the iconic show, “Doctor Who,” teens enjoy themed refreshments, trivia and games. 6:30-8 p.m.

Mentor-on-the-Lake Branch Library, 5642 Andrews Road, 440-257-2512, mentorpl.org Easter Craft. Make a unique Easter basket filled with Easter treats.

3-4 p.m. Wickliffe Public Library, 1713 Lincoln Road, Wickliffe, 440-944-6010, wickliffepl.org Eggs Everywhere. Join the Cleveland Metroparks Zoo at the Preschool Safari to learn all about different kinds of animals that lay eggs. 10-11:30 a.m. 3900 Wildlife Way, Cleveland, 216-635-3391, clevelandmetroparks.com

3/24 Bounce, Wiggle, Giggle, Cuddle.

Infants sing songs, learn fun lapsits and explore sensory activities designed to stimulate. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., 440-933-8128, alpl.org

3/25 Grandparents in the Park: Spring Break. Grandparents and their grandchildren are invited out for a day of fun indoor and outdoor nature activities for all ages.

10-11:30 a.m. Big Creek Park, 9160 Robinson Road, Chardon, 440-286-9516, geaugaparkdistrict.org.

Kids Move Into Fitness. Get the kids out of the house and moving at this fun, high-energy kids program.

1-1:45 p.m. Exploration Gateway, Rooms A & B, 5710-5712 12th St., Canton, 330-409-8096, starkparks.com

Drop-in Children’s Nature Craft. Spark or feed your child’s fascination of ducks and geese as they assemble and color a wooden duck to take home.

12:30-2:30 p.m. North Chagrin Reservation, Nature Center, 3037 SOM Center Road, Willoughby Hills, clevelandmetroparks.com

3/28 Movie Matinee. “Hotel Transylvania 2,” rated PG. Bring your pillow, relax and enjoy the movie. Popcorn provided. 1-3 p.m. Highland Library, 4160 Ridge Road, Medina, mcdl.info

3/30 Creative Crafty Kids. Ages 3-6 create fun and intriguing projects. 11-11:30 a.m. Lee Road Branch Library, 2345 Lee Road, Cleveland Heights, 216-932-3600, heightslibrary.org

3/31 Puppet Show Workshop and Performance. Grades 2-6 plan, rehearse, make props, and put on their own show. 7-8 p.m. Willowick Public Library, 263 E. 305th St., 440-943-4151, we247.org Speaking of Women’s Health: Mission Nutrition. Enjoy health screenings, wellness vendors, dinner and expert panel discussion. 5:30–8:30 p.m. The Banquet Center at St. Noel, 35200 Chardon Road, Willoughby Hills. $20. Register: clevelandclinic.org/ swhwilloughby

4/1-3 Big Fun — 25th Anniversary. Stop by and help celebrate a weekend of festivities with discounts, cake, giveaways, entertainment, and surprises. Fun for one or the whole family. Big Fun, 1814 Coventry Road, Cleveland Heights, 216-3714FUN(4386), bigfuntoystore.com

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Mama Bears Unite

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ny other mama bears out there? I have jokingly called myself this for years, so when I found this shirt online I couldn’t resist getting it. I wear it so much my oldest daughter caught me the other day and said, “Um, are you going to wash that shirt anytime soon, Mom?” (Insert awkward moment.) OK, so maybe I was wearing it a little too much.

I guess I love wearing the shirt because it’s so relatable to me. I am a mama bear, I’ll admit it — in a good way, though. If they made a T-shirt, there have to be other mamas who feel the same. I always want to be protective and provide for my little “cubs” wherever they go. I know you know what

I’m talking about, mamas. Many things change when you become a mom, right? You think, make decisions and react differently (ahem, I’m sure I’m not the only one who said I’ll never let my kids spit their gum out in my hand).

Well, anyway, I wore the shirt to work for our morning show recently on 95.5 The FISH. Because it’s so fun to relate to other moms, we asked other “mama bears” listening to finish the sentence below. The ladies didn’t disappoint. I think you’ll be nodding your head with several “uhhuhs” as you read some of the comments from our Facebook page.

You know you’re a mama bear when _______________.

Linda Long:

Lisa Benton:

Diane Kepic:

“You know you’re a mom when you have to look at the top of your toilet seat before you sit down. Ugh, boys will be boys.”

“You know you’re a mom when as you hold your child for the first time, you begin to realize the amount of love your parents must have for you.

It’s like for the first time you really know what love means.”

“You know you’re a mom when you sacrifice the last piece of double chocolate cake because your child wants it — and mom is a

Victoria Petcavage Brown: “You know you are a mom when you go to the grocery store by yourself and it feels like a vacation.”

Kim Kotwicki Buca: “You know you are a mom when you tell your kids, ‘I hope you have one just like you someday.’”

Michele Rucker: “You know you’re a mom when you cannot wait to have time to yourself, but miss them as soon as you do.”

Jennifer Green Dickerson: “You know you’re a mom when 15 minutes after your son finishes his breakfast he projectile vomits chocolate milk all over the carpet and wall, and you spend the next hour and a half carpet-cleaning the house.”

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Francie May Kline: “You know you’re a mom when your heart breaks with each and every tear your children cry, when you can’t say you love them enough times, when you drink in the smell of their little heads as they hug you around the waist.”

Noelle Tagliarini: “You know you’re a mom when you randomly start singing songs from the preschool shows your children watch instead of current popular music and it seems normal to you.”

Sara Carnes and her husband Russ are raising their two daughters, Makayla and Reagan, right here in Northeast Ohio.

Laurie Hoerrle: “You take care of your ‘cubs’ long before yourself.”

Karla Walter Ponsart: “You are at work in a local retail establishment and hear a small child yell, ‘Mommy!’ and you look — even though you are at work and your youngest child is 18.”

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