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06 WORTH NOTING Flu facts, a new allinclusive playground, plus reading room.

ART SMARTS

Local students go outside the studio to help others.

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OPEN HOUSE, OPEN OPTIONS

November and December open house schedules for area private schools.

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SPECIAL NEEDS HOLIDAY GUIDE

Great gift ideas for all ages.

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HOLIDAY SHOPPING TIPS

Keep your sanity when shopping with kids.

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COMMUNITY FOCUS

Stark County offers entertainment options for the whole family.

Grandfather writes book on granddaughter's cancer journey to help others.

16 EDUCATION

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Learn if tutoring is right for your child.

Kids and parents share what adoption means to them.

FAMILY CALENDAR

33 Find seasonal events and everyday activities for family fun.

40 #CLEMAMA Welcome the holidays with a cozy home.

Features on health, support and events for your aging loved ones, plus a tribute to veterans.

ON THE COVER: JOY AND JORDAN STOLLER AND THEIR DAUGHTER ATIYAH. PHOTO BY KIM STAHNKE AT KIMSTAHNKEPHOTOGRAPHY.COM

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Great festive events, cider included, pg. 37

PHOTO BY Prelude Photography

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Music and More

I never thought I would be the type of Mom who would say, “Turn that music down!” to my kids, especially as someone who played in a band with her husband.

It happened though, when my sons blared the song “Uptown Funk” and various KISS tunes in their room.

While I wasn’t thrilled with the vibrating walls, my insides were tickled with their newfound love of music.

The fascination didn’t just stop with the songs, as they wanted to read about the band’s history. Also, my youngest son, Anton, put his crayons to use and drew the famed members of KISS. For kids, art — in its many forms — helps foster learning and builds skills in subject areas.

In this issue, we wanted to highlight the importance of these creative programs by featuring some of the students who are making an impact. (pg. 13) Hopefully the cover family, Joy and Jordan Stoller (learn more about them on pg. 23), as well as the kids who shared their successful adoption stories, will affect you — as much as they did me — in a positive way.

With the holiday season rapidly approaching, many of us have shopping on our minds. There’s always that quest of getting the perfect gift. In this issue, we focus on how to shop when you have little ones (pg. 31), but also what to buy for those loved ones with special needs. (pg. 28) While this month has unforgettable days like Thanksgiving, Black Friday and Election Day, it also offers time to remember and honor the veterans in your life. Veterans Day, Nov. 11, is a good time to get together with them and let them share their stories of service (I enjoy hearing my grandfather, who served in World War II, talk about his experiences in Europe and on the ships). In our Aging Answers supplement in the back of this issue, we feature Vietnam veteran Ray “Doc” Tutolo and share how he helps others who have served.

Finally, I think I will initiate a “kicking out the jams” day this month at my house as we celebrate the beginning of the cold season indoors. My husband and I can spin our vinyl records in our room and the boys can bop to their own music in theirs.

Maybe they will tell us to turn ours down.

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FLUFACTS As seasonal influenza arrives again in Northeast Ohio, Dr. Walter Vieweg, occupational physician at Lake Health

How Should You get Vaccinated?

Vieweg says flu season can start as early as

System, advises readers on how to help prevent the virus

October and last through March. A trivalent

from invading their households.

vaccine protects against three flu viruses (H1N1,

Who should consider getting the flu shot?

H3N2 and influenza B) and a quadrivalent protects

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention

recommends a flu vaccine for everyone ages 6 months and older. People who care for infants, those who have chronic health conditions, pregnant women, and woman who are breastfeeding should consider getting the flu shot.

“The good thing is when a pregnant mom gets the flu shot, (studies show it can) give her baby a little immunity,” Vieweg says. The CDC reports the antibodies can protect babies against the flu for six months after they are born.

Got the Flu? You stayed away from people who were

ill, washed your hands and practiced good hygiene, but you still got the flu — it happens.

“It’s generally recommended that as long as you’re stable and well-hydrated, it’s better to avoid the emergency room unless your symptoms become extreme,” Vieweg says.

He adds to limit exposure to everyone in the household by cleaning common surfaces, throwing away tissues and having others avoid common objects used. Also, avoid touching eyes, nose and mouth.

For more information, visit lakehealth.org or flu.gov

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against the same viruses and one additional B virus. Most flu shots are given by injection with a needle, but a nasal spray vaccine also is available.

Women who are pregnant, children ages 2 and younger, and those allergic to eggs are among those who should not receive the nasal vaccine.

FUN FOR ALL Phase one is now complete at the All Kids Playground in Parma, which is open to the public. The all abilities playground provides ramps, a “cruiser,” which is a wheelchair accessible motion glider, and adapted swings.

The vision began about five years ago with Tammy Tomasello, a former resident of Parma, who after speaking to parents at a prom for teens with special needs, decided to pursue this project. She, along with her committee of volunteers, then collaborated with the city of Parma to build the playground at James Day Park.

The next phases include installing a soft rubber surface and sensorytype play area. However, more funding is needed to complete the project. The committee has been reaching out to the community and local businesses through fundraisers, along with applying for grants.

For more information or to donate, visit allkidsplayground.org

READING ROOM National Geographic Kids Almanac 2016 editor’s pick The book, published annually, provides school-age children an opportunity to explore the world — animals, history, technology, science and more. This kid-friendly mash of information and facts is a must-have.

Available in bookstores, online and at your local library.

The Things a Brother Knows

by Dana Reinhardt teen Levi’s older brother, Boaz, has returned home after a three-year tour of duty. Levi does everything he can to help his big brother recover from his combat experiences — including following Boaz when he hikes the Appalachian Trail. Recommendation by

Avon Lake Public Library

Off We Go: A Bear and Mole Story

by Will Hillenbrand preschool Bear teaches his friend, Mole, how to ride his bike with no training wheels. After many bumps, they make it to their final destination: the Storymobile. Recommendation by

Westlake Porter Public Library

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Answering Questions About Childhood Cancer

Local man tells his granddaughter’s story to help others By Holly Pupino

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s Tim Truax sat by his granddaughter’s side on the inpatient cancer floor of Akron Children’s Hospital, he listened to doctors and nurses and observed 6-year-old Kylie’s responses to the strange things happening to her.

A cancer diagnosis in the family was the furthest thing from thought for Carrie and Eric Jacobs, of Copley, last year.

The family had welcomed their third child, Blake, and Kylie and her 4-year-old sister, Emmie, were typical, healthy, busy young girls focused on play, friends and school. Kylie, who has a special love of all things ballet, was in kindergarten at Arrowhead Elementary School.

In early December, Kylie began having trouble falling asleep. She just couldn’t find a comfortable position. Her parents assumed it was growing pains. But through the holiday season, the pain did not go away and Kylie’s appetite also began to change.

Soon, swelling around the area of her stomach became noticeable and Kylie came to Akron Children’s for a CT scan.

By early January, she was diagnosed with a Wilms tumor — located in a kidney and the size of a cantaloupe. The treatment plan was to use chemotherapy to first shrink the tumor and then surgically remove it and a kidney. The surgery would be followed with radiation and more chemotherapy.

Truax started taking notes and writing a poem to help her make sense of childhood cancer, what was happening with blood tests, CT scans, X-rays and the never ending entourage of caregivers entering her room.

“I realized that she needed the ‘why’ and so did her parents and grandparents. And if we didn’t know what a port was and how it administers chemotherapy to the body, there must be other children and families in our same situation trying to understand this, too,” Truax says. “So my handwritten notes moved to my laptop and my poem became a children’s picture book.”

“Kylie Rose Kickin’ Cancer” is a 26-page paperback featuring illustrations by Bree Young and photos of Kylie along with some of her own thoughts. For example, next to a photo of Kylie undergoing radiation is a note in her own handwriting that says, “I had to stay still.”

When Truax finished the work on it, Kylie had not completed her treatment.

The family has since learned Kylie is cancer free and has an excellent prognosis.

The books are available through Amazon.com for $10.

A portion of the proceeds will be donated to pediatric cancer organizations and used to purchase copies for children’s hospitals. Truax has donated 20 copies to Akron Children’s Showers Center for Childhood Cancer and Blood Disorders and already has sent copies to 30 other children’s hospitals across the country.

To learn more about the book and view the full story, visit akronchildrens.org.

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Things to do in

Covering a large area and a wide variety of scenery, from tranquil countryside to bustling cities, Stark County has endless offerings for families looking to spend any amount of time – from an afternoon visit to a multi-day trip.

Centered around Canton, with Deer Creek Reservoir in the northeast, the “Gateway to Ohio’s Amish Country” in the southwest, and inclusive of Massillon,

By Denise Koeth Canal Fulton and Alliance, among other locales, Stark County’s family-friendly interests, this Northeast Ohio destination offers many entertainment options options abound. For attractions that meet a vast array of interests, check out our list of the top 20 things to do in this busy county.

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The McKinley Presidential Library & Museum (mckinleymuseum.org) is a family-friendly history and science museum. The museum portion includes the McKinley Gallery, the Street of Shops, the Keller Gallery, Discover World, the Hoover-Price Planetarium, Ramsayer Research Library and a new permanent exhibit, The Stark County Story. The McKinley National Memorial, burial site of President William McKinley and his family, also is on the museum grounds.

The National First Ladies’ Library (firstladies.org) honors the contributions made by our country’s first ladies, as well as other notable women in history. Ninety-minute tours include the Education & Research Center, a renovated 1895 bank building, and the Victorian-era Saxton McKinley House, the family home of First Lady Ida Saxton McKinley.

Along with hosting national touring exhibits and dynamic original exhibits featuring prominent artists, the Canton Museum of Art (cantonart.org) houses a permanent collection of American watercolors and contemporary ceramics. CMA offers in-museum studio art classes for all age groups. It also hosts special arts events throughout the year, including the popular Christkindl holiday market.

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The Military Aviation Preservation Society’s MAPS Air Museum (mapsairmuseum.org) is dedicated to educating people about the history of military aviation and its impact upon society. The museum features educational displays of artifacts, as well as interactive exhibits and historical archives in its own library.

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Housed in a 1914 Ford dealership, the Canton Classic Car Museum (cantonclassiccar.org) displays more than 45 antique and collectible cars, as well as memorabilia, vintage toys, steam engines, movie posters, historic photography and more.

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The Hoover Historical Center (walsh.edu/hooverhistorical-center) is the Victorian boyhood home of Hoover Co. founder William H. Hoover. Located inside Walsh University’s Hoover Park on original Hoover family farmland, the museum’s “Sweeping Changes” chronological display includes photographs, vintage products, advertising and war memorabilia.

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Die-hard football fans throughout Northeast Ohio are fortunate to have the Pro Football Hall of Fame (profootballhof.com) in their very own backyard. This attraction, located in Canton — where the NFL (then known as the American Professional Football Association) was founded in 1920 — honors the heroes of the game, celebrates excellence and delves into important history surrounding the sport.

The Canton Charge (canton.dleague.nba.com), a member of the NBA Development League and a professional basketball team owned and operated by the Cleveland Cavaliers, plays games at the Canton Memorial Civic Center. The affordable family fun includes a free First Energy Kids Zone at every game and post-game kids free throws on the court every Friday.

Center Ice Sports Complex (centericesports.net) is a state-of-the-art facility that features a NHL-size ice arena with seats for 500 spectators, two party rooms, outdoor street hockey and on-ice broomball. Open skating also is available, as well as programs for groups, parties and private rentals.

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Jump into fun at SkyMax Trampoline Arena (skymaxarena.com), which features almost 11,000 square feet of trampolines for all ages. The facility offers events like open jump, kid jump, 3-D dodgeball and volleyball, sky-in airbags, slam-dunk basketball and sky fitness. Special birthday party and group packages also are available.

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The Stark County Disc Golf Association was founded to bring local disc golfers together to work with local park departments to help repair, maintain and improve local courses.

Stark County offers many places to play, including Oak Ledges Disc Golf Course in Massillon and Robert E. Miller Disc Golf Course at Arboretum Spiker Park. For a list of courses, go to visitcantonstark.com.

Canton Museum of Art, education class Photo by: Erica Emerson

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The Stark County Park District (starkparks.com) maintains 13 parks located throughout the entire county. Amenities and features offered at each location vary, but as a whole, Stark County offers residents and visitors more than 90 miles of walking/bicycling trails, 31 miles of equestrian trails, and 7,000 acres of land, including 1,200 acres of lakes, ponds and reservoirs. Four lakes include two marinas and feature canoeing, kayaking, boat rentals and fishing.

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The Ohio & Erie Canal Towpath Trail (ohioanderiecanalway. com) in Stark County provides 25 miles for hiking and biking, and more than 19 miles of horseback riding. The Stark County section is part of the 80-plus mile Ohio & Erie Canalway National Heritage Area that connects Cuyahoga, Summit, Stark and Tuscarawas counties. Begin your family’s adventure at one of the 13 trailheads along the Stark County portion through the former canal villages of Canal Fulton, Massillon and Navarre.

which includes canoeing or kayaking on the Tuscarawas River and bicycling on the Towpath and Stark County park trails.

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Clay’s Park Resort (clayspark. com) is a mega-destination for family fun, with more than 500 acres that house a water park and campground, plus plenty of space for concerts, festivals and group outings. Play for the day at Adventure Water Park, which offers water slides, swings, zip lines, a barrel roll, swimming areas and more, then rest at the seasonal or overnight RV park and campground.

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Sluggers and Putters (sluggersputters.com) offers adventures for your whole family, including go-karts, bumper boats, a driving range, batting cages, a rock climbing wall and miniature golf, plus an arcade and prize shop. The on-site restaurant and ice cream parlor, Auntie Em’s, is a great place to refuel between activities.

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The Canal Fulton Canoe Livery (canalfultoncanoelivery.com) offers canoeing, kayaking, bicycling and primitive camping, as well as an 18hole miniature golf course. Rentals are charged per canoe and include a five- or 11-mile trip. Among the most popular excursions is the Peddle and Paddle,

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Canton Arts District First Friday Photo by: Joe Albert at J Albert Studios

The Canton Arts District (cantonartsdistrict.com), made up of six blocks in the heart of the city, offers an impressive lineup of non-chain eateries, unique shopping, art galleries and dozens of working artist studios.

Year-round events include well-known monthly First Friday celebrations, featuring themed music, performance and visual arts events and a few surprises for both adults and children.

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The Hartville Marketplace & Flea Market (hartvillemarketplace.com) is a shopping experience you have to see to believe.

The two-story indoor Marketplace houses 110 individually owned shops featuring a variety of unique treasures, while the outdoor flea market consists of 800 spaces loaded with bargains. The Hartville Kitchen (hartvillekitchen.com), located adjacent to the market, is locallyfamous for its hearty homestyle cooking.

It’s the perfect place for the whole family to fill up after a long day of shopping.

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Get a bird’s eye view of quality chocolates being created during a Fannie May/Harry London chocolate factory tour (fanniemay.com/chocolatetour). Tasting samples are included during the 45-minute guided tour, which ends at the facility’s 5,000-squarefoot retail store, where more than 500 varieties of gourmet chocolates and candies are up for grabs.

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Deemed the “Gateway to Ohio’s Amish Country,” the southwest tip of Stark County includes the charming villages of Brewster, Navarre and Wilmot. Spend a day—or longer—exploring delicious homemade cooking and shopping for everything from handcrafted home items to fresh cheese and baked goods. Check out visitcantonstark.com for more details on businesses and attractions in each village.

AFTERSCHOOL

BEYOND THE

Creative students find creative ways to use their talent—and age, skill level and challenges don’t hold them back. Here are a few students that show readers the importance of art and its way of inspiring

Students Shine in the Spotlight with Their Creative Side

By Marie Elium

and developing other areas of life.

Gra cie Ba yzath CARDINAL HIGH SCHOOL, NINTH GRADE

At age 4, Gracie Bayzath began taking Ballet classes at The Fine Arts Association. Today, Gracie, 14, also takes Jazz, Tap and Modern. During the summers she also attends the Fine Arts’ Summer Theatre Arts Camp, which she studies musical theatre and performs on stage in the final production.

She also studies guitar at Fine Arts with Alfredo Guerrieri. As a freshman at Cardinal High School in Middlefield, Gracie and her mom travel to Willoughby for four dance classes and music lessons several days each week. In addition, she participates in Student Council at Cardinal and works with Geauga Mom and Pups Rescue. Gracie considers Fine Arts her “second home.” Her mom says that “Fine Arts has helped Gracie become a talented dancer and a confident, poised young woman.”

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Heather Dobies VALLEY ART CENTER, CHAGRIN FALLS, 12TH GRADE

Lia m Stilson & Da n a Fries MONTESSORI HIGH SCHOOL, CLEVELAND, 12TH GRADE

Since January, actors Liam Stilson and Dana Fries have been regularly sharing their artistic talents with Judson Manor Senior Living community residents through a program they developed called “Living Room Theater Sessions.” The students create a mini-performance of scenes and monologues to present at Judson Manor on a weekly basis. Liam and Dana said they enjoy the experience of working on their acting craft while bringing enjoyment to people in the community.

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Heather, a student with Down Syndrome, joined Valley Art Center’s pottery program with hopes of a new adventure after watching an instructional program on ceramic cups. She has grown artistically, made new friends and demonstrates to others that anything is possible in these classes.

Heather has shown students, staff and her family that she has an ability to both teach and learn from others. Her experiences with her art and classmates far exceeds anything one would have dreamed possible. She not only keeps up with the adults in the class, but also challenges them artistically from time to time. She also has taken the initiative to knit hats for the office staff. Pottery has been a truly transformative process in Heather’s development, both as an artist and as a person. She is a vibrant member of Valley Art Center’s student community.

Sha ne Estes GREEN HIGH SCHOOL, 12TH GRADE

Shane has used his Asperger’s Syndrome struggles in a positive way through creative and performing arts.

Annually, he has entertained the student body at talent shows and has performed at The Akron RubberDucks stadium. He was cast in the school’s musical theater and play productions, and also performed in the Greater Akron All School Musical this past summer. Shane will take the stage next month in “Mary Poppins.”

He also hand-crafted more than 100 cards to celebrate special occasions in his peers’ lives — even just to say, “It’s OK— cheer up!”

He works diligently at understanding social cues and exercising appropriate social skills in his day-to-day life. As a member of The Developing Leaders of Tomorrow, he helped to inspire the development of a group called Bonding Hearts.

Codey Montecalvo WEATHERVANE PLAYHOUSE, AKRON, NINTH GRADE

Codey Montecalvo has been part of the Weathervane Playhouse family since 2011. As soon as he started taking classes, it was clear he was meant for the stage. Codey performed in “Cinderella,” “Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat” and “Honk!” About a week after “Honk!” closed, Codey, then 12, was diagnosed with Ewing Sarcoma, a bone cancer. Despite his extremely aggressive treatment plan, Codey remained involved in the theater.

“The Wizard of Oz” performance was especially magical for Codey because he completed his final chemotherapy treatment right before he took the stage on opening night. Codey is now in remission and volunteers backstage, helps teach classes, acts in shows and serves as a mentor to other young actors. He also will be appearing as Fred Anderson in the upcoming holiday production of “A Christmas Carol.”

Ma ka yla Mcafee AVON MONTESSORI ACADEMY, FIRST GRADE

Makayla is an exceptional student at Avon Montessori Academy and has led the class in the philanthropic decision to adopt a panda bear.

While the students made progress toward

their fundraising goal at a lemonade stand, they needed another idea. At the elementary student-led community meeting, Makayla suggested the students sell cider at the school’s Harvest Festival.

Her family donated the cider press to the classroom for the day, and the class made fresh cider to sell. The class was able to adopt the panda. Makayla, who used her artistic skills to make the poster for the cider stand and helped make fliers for the lemonade stand, was a key force in the class achieving this goal.

For more info on art fun and activities, visit NortheastOhioParent.com

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A Helping Hand

Consider tutoring if your child is struggling in school

By Ingrid Schaefer Sprague The school year is underway and your child’s first report card will arrive soon. Has the year, which started with such promise, already begun descending into a pattern of frustration and bad grades?

If a child’s school performance has dropped, parents often are left wondering what happens next. Either a parent or a teacher can make the recommendation for tutoring for the purposes of homework help, skill building or enrichment.

✔ TUTORING MAY BE BENEFICIAL FOR A CHILD IF HE OR SHE:

Has falling grades, independent of how hard he or she is working, where before grades were improving or holding steady Has incomplete or inaccurate homework, which may indicate a lack of basic skills or weakness in a specific academic area Is reluctant to go to school, fearing failure and criticism from others Is frustrated or anxious on a regular basis when it comes to tests and homework Has an increasing lack of confidence and motivation Has lost interest in learning Seems bored in a subject

Billy Chapnick, owner of Math Monkey, adds, “We have many people call the center because their child is struggling in math class and could use extra practice throughout the week.”

Behavior issues also may indicate a need for tutoring, says Rhoda Konigsberg, owner of Tutoring Center, like when a teacher reports that your child is acting out in class, or if other behavior problems may be evident.

Bethany Das, owner of Smarty Pants, says there are key features shown by students who are struggling, but there also are certain signs that children may be beyond the level of fellow classmates. “A student may also not be feeling challenged enough. Tutoring can aid in gifted students maximizing their capabilities,” she adds.

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Greg Yasutake, owner of Huntington Learning Center, says learning is foundational, and a parent may be unaware of the prior gaps in learning that may impede current understanding. Therefore, assessment is a key component to tutoring success.

discovered, it’s important to focus on those areas primarily, whatever they may be.”

Therefore, it is wise to tutor a student with immediate needs in a subject while providing him or her with the tools to make sure there is continued success.

THE TUTORING PROCESS

HOW MUCH TUTORING IS NEEDED?

Tutors can be individuals that a teacher or school counselor recommends or individuals who run private or franchise tutoring companies. All should be licensed educators or have a college degree in the subject they are tutoring.

Math and language arts are not the only subjects that may require tutoring. Assistance may be required in other areas, but could be an issue associated with study skills and reading comprehension, more than subject understanding.

“Students have different weaknesses,” Das says. “Once those weaknesses are

Given that each student has individualized needs and tutors provide their own approach to teaching, the length of time for tutoring varies.

“Typically, students begin with onehour lessons one to three days per week, depending on their goals and age,” Das says. “Once the goals are reached, it’s encouraged to continue lessons once a week to maintain goals.”

Students do not need to eliminate extracurricular activities during tutoring, but consistency with the tutoring process is crucial, Chapnick says.

“While tutoring is underway, it is still important for students to have a healthy balance with other activities,” Das adds.

“School should be a priority, but it is important for them to also learn time management skills and how to create balance in their lives.”

Parents need to meet with the tutors periodically to assess progress, and also are encouraged to listen to their children.

Alicia Miller, owner, Sylvan Learning of Greater Cleveland says “High quality tutoring companies will offer detailed, low or no cost academic assessments to provide the data you need to help you make decisions. They will be willing to work with you to develop a flexible, personalized plan for your child to address you child’s specific needs. Remember, as a parent you don’t need to be an education expert, but you are the best advocate for your child and should ensure that they get the help they need.”

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PRIVATE SCHOOL

November & December CUYAHOGA Assumption Academy 9183 Broadview Road, Broadview Hts. 440-526-4877, assumptionacademy.org 10 a.m. Nov. 10, Preschool Meet & Greet 1 p.m. Nov. 10, Kindergarten Meet & Greet Beaumont School 3301 N. Park Blvd., Cleveland Hts. 216-321-2954 or 216-325-1661, beaumontschool.org 5:30-7 p.m. Nov. 18 Cleveland Montessori School 12009 Mayfield Road, Cleveland 216-421-0700, clevelandmontessori.org 2-4 p.m. Nov. 7 Gross Schechter Day School 27601 Fairmount Blvd., Pepper Pike, 216-763-1400, grossschechter.org 9:30 a.m. Dec. 4

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OPEN HOUSES

Hathaway Brown 19600 N. Park Blvd., Shaker Hts. 216-932-4214, hb.edu 10-11:30 a.m. Nov. 7, Infant & Toddler, Early Childhood & Kindergarten Hawken School 5000 Clubside Road, Lyndhurst 440-423-4446, hawken.edu 8:45-10:30 a.m. Nov. 12, Lower & Middle School Morning Visit

Julie Billiart School 4982 Clubside Road, Lyndhurst 216-381-1191, juliebilliartschool.org 9-10:30 a.m. Nov. 19 Lutheran West 3850 Linden Road, Rocky River 440-333-1660, lutheranwest.com 4:30-7 p.m. Dec. 4

Incarnate Word Academy 6620 Pearl Road, Parma Hts. 440-842-6818, incarnatewordacademy.org Noon-2 p.m. Nov. 8 Menlo Park Academy 14440 Triskett Road, Cleveland 440-925-6365, menloparkacademy.com 10-11:30 a.m. Nov. 7 Montessori High School at University Circle 11025 Magnolia Drive, Cleveland 216-421-3033, montessorihighschool.org 2-4:30 p.m. Nov. 15 The Music Settlement 11125 Magnolia Drive, Cleveland 216-421-5806, themusicsettlement.org 1-2:30 p.m. Nov. 15, adults only, drop-in

Padua Franciscan High School 6740 State Road, Parma 440-845-2444, paduafranciscan.com 6-8 p.m. Nov. 9 Ruffing Montessori 3380 Fairmount Blvd., Cleveland Hts. 216-321-7571, ruffingmontessori.net 2-4 p.m. Nov. 1 South Suburban Montessori School 4450 Oakes Road, Cleveland 440-526-1966, ssmsmontessori.net 2-4 p.m. Nov. 8, 9-11 a.m. Nov. 10.

Families and children welcome.

St. Dominic School 3455 Norwood Road, Shaker Hts. 216-561-4400, stdominicschool.net 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Dec. 6 University School 2785 SOM Center Road, Hunting Valley, 216-831-2200, us.edu 8-10:30 a.m. Nov. 5 (grades 9-12) 20701 Brantley Road, Shaker Heights 216-321-8260, us.edu 8:30-10:30 a.m. Nov. 3 (grades K-8)

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GEAUGA Hershey Montessori School Huntsburg Campus 11530 Madison Road, Huntsburg Twp. 440-357-0918, hershey-montessori.org 9 a.m. Nov. 2 & Dec. 7

LAKE Catholic Montessori School 8100 Eagle Road, Kirtland 440-256-1976, catholicmontessorischool.org 9-10:30 a.m. Nov. 17 Lake Catholic High School 6733 Reynolds Road, Mentor 440-578-1020, lakecatholic.org 6-8 p.m. Nov. 12 St. Gabriel School 9935 Johnnycake Ridge Road, Concord Twp. 440-352-6169, st-gabrielschool.org 9 a.m. Nov 17, Mini Open House, all grades.

9 a.m. or 11 a.m. Dec. 10-11, Special Kindergarten Meet & Greet. 9 a.m. Dec. 15, Mini Open House, all grades

LORAIN Open Door Christian Schools 8287 W. Ridge Road, Elyria 440-322-6386, odcs.org 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Nov. 17 November 2015 • NortheastOhioParent.com

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November & December OPEN HOUSES MEDINA

Saint Ambrose Catholic School 923 Pearl Road, Brunswick 330-460-7318, staschool.us 10 a.m.-1 p.m. Nov. 15

PORTAGE

Valley Christian Academy 1037 East Blvd., Aurora 330-562-8191, valleychristian.com 10 a.m. or 1 p.m. tour with RSVP Nov. 16-20

SUMMIT

Miller South School for the Visual and Performing Arts 1055 East Ave. Akron, 330-761-1765, akronschools.com 6-8 p.m. Nov. 5

Old Trail School 2315 Ira Road, Bath 330-666-1118, oldtrail.org 1-3 p.m. Nov. 8 Seton Catholic School 6923 Stow Road, Hudson 330-342-4200, setoncatholicschool.org 2-4 p.m. Nov. 15 Spring Garden Waldorf School 1791 S. Jacoby Road, Copley, 330-666-0574, sgws.org 9-11 a.m. Nov. 11, Walk Through the Grades 1-3 p.m. Nov. 8, Open House St. Hilary School 645 Moorfield Road, Fairlawn 330-867-8720, ext. 343, st-hilaryschool.org 9-11 a.m. Jan. 14 (rsvp by Dec. 31), Kindergarten Kaleidoscope Walsh Jesuit High School 4550 Wyoga Lake Road, Cuyahoga Falls 330-929-4205, walshjesuit.org Noon-2 p.m. Nov. 8

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forever HOME

Local kids and parents share what adoption means to them Reporting by Angela Gartner and Denise Koeth

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any children are in need of a loving forever home — according to AdoptUSKids, there are more than 100,000 children in foster care, ranging in age from infants to 21-year-olds, waiting to be adopted in the United States. Of course, the issue also affects many children in Northeast Ohio, too. While it can be discouraging to think of these children in need, there is hope, as demonstrated by several local children and adoptive parents. In their own words, they tell us what adoption means and how it has changed their lives.

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he Stollers started their adoption journey in 2011 through private infant adoption. They adopted their first son, who passed away 18 months later due to a heart condition.

They knew they wanted to grow their family again by adoption and in time, were prepared to adopt another child. While they initially planned to adopt an infant, Jordan and Joy said they were open to what God’s plan was for their lives.

When they first were presented with the opportunity to be considered for Atiyah, 5, whose mother was voluntarily making an adoption plan, they were heartbroken to hear of all the heartache the child had endured.

They didn’t plan for a 5-year-old, but they could feel God leading them to adopt this little girl who had already experienced many disappointments in life.

From day one, Atiyah called Joy “Mom” and soon after was calling Jordan “Dad.” Jordan and Joy continue to demonstrate unconditional nurturing and commitment to their daughter in spite of the challenges, and are helping her grow to her full potential.

The family was able to celebrate the adoption finalization of their daughter in October. They describe Atiyah as a precious little girl and state they are so thankful to have her as a part of their family.

While they continue with the adjustment of their daughter into their home, this family looks forward to continuing to expand their family through adoption, in whatever way that may come to them.

STOLLER FAMILY PHOTOS BY KIM STAHNKE PHOTOGRAPHY

Story submitted by Caring for Kids, Inc., cfkadopt.org

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Leah, 12

y parents met me at the hospital when I was one week old. When I was born, my muscles were really tight, and the doctors told my parents that I might not walk. I remember hearing stories of my mom and dad doing stretches with me every day to teach my brain to relax my muscles.

That was 12 years ago and now I am an athlete and a dancer. I am thankful for my adoptive family, but I also wish I could see my birth family more. My family and I made a special trip to meet them when I was 9, and I immediately felt at home and loved. I know that they are proud of me, too, and that makes me happy.

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Story submitted by Adoption Network Cleveland, AdoptionNetwork.org

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Andrew, 8

was adopted from Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan, when I was 9 months old. I think adoption is awesome because you get a family. I think if I wasn’t adopted, I would be so sad because I would be stuck in an orphanage. I don’t remember anything from the orphanage because I was too young, but I think I wouldn’t have a nice house, or good food, or a nice family to love me.

I have had many surgeries since I was adopted, and I would not have had a chance to have good doctors and nurses who have taken good care of me if I didn’t get adopted. I also wouldn’t have my three sisters if I didn’t get a family. I’m so glad that I have a mom and dad who went halfway around the world to get me.

Submitted by mom, Kim Stahnke, and family

Angie & Ed Sedmak

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y husband and I battled unexplained infertility for five years before adopting our son, Milo. We were officially on the waiting list for one month before we received the amazing news that we had been chosen by a birth mom. One of the aspects of parenting that I was not prepared for is when on Nov. 19, 2012, his birth father placed him into my arms and I felt the immense emotion as I stared down at that perfect little baby boy, staring up at my face. So many tears were shed that day, each of them healing and melting away all of the pain and hardship of our journey to parenthood. We have not only gained a beautiful son, but an extended family consisting of Milo’s birth family through our open adoption.

adoption Q A &

— Courtesy of Summit County Children Services

Boys and girls of all ages are waiting to be adopted. Children come from a variety of cultural, ethnic, religious and racial backgrounds, along with some who have special needs. They all are in need of stable parents who are sensitive to their circumstances. Here are some frequently asked questions regarding becoming a foster parent and adoption: Q: Do you have to earn a certain income?

A: You must be able to meet your household needs.

Q: Do you have to be married?

A: No, you can be married, single, divorced, widowed or be a co-parent.

Q: Do you have to own your own home?

A: No, you can rent. However, you must have adequate space available and your landlord’s approval to care for foster children.

Q: Can you be a foster parent if you work?

A: Yes. Extra help for the cost of daycare may be available.

Q: Do foster children have to have separate bedrooms?

A: No, but each child must have a separate bed. Foster children cannot have a bedroom in the attic or basement. After age five, boys and girls have to sleep in separate rooms.

See more articles about adoption at NortheastOhioParent.com

Q: What happens after training is completed?

A: Once you have completed the required pre-service training, including completing and turning in all required paperwork, you will fill out and submit an application. Some of the required paperwork includes: a fire inspection and safety audit of the home, a medical statement from a doctor for each member of the family, and police checks and fingerprints for all adults in the household. Then a social worker, known as a licensing specialist, will be assigned to begin the home study process. This involves information sharing and gathering for determining an applicant’s suitability in meeting the general criteria to be licensed and/or approved as a foster or foster-to-adopt parent based upon state and agency eligibility requirements. The home study process usually takes three to six months. ­

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in their words

Crystal King, Mylasha & Dayjana

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rystal King wanted to care for children who needed help, so she became a licensed fosterto-adopt parent with Summit County Children Services in August 2008.

Since then, she has welcomed with an open heart and open mind more than 50 children into her home, including two sisters, Mylasha and Dayjana.

“I am happy now. To me, adoption means a new beginning with new experiences and opportunities,” Mylasha says.

“Adoption is the greatest thing that happened to me. I'm thankful that I was adopted and that someone cares for me,” Dayjana says.

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hen you’re adopted, you don’t have to move houses anymore. I’m able to have a lot more friends. I have all the food and clothes I need. I also have a roof over my head. There are a lot of people that love and care about me.

If I have some problems, there are people that are able to help me. Now I know that I’m not really different from kids who aren’t adopted.”

Story submitted by Summit County Children Services, summitkids.org

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Nicole, 19

Story submitted by OhioGuidestone, OhioGuidestone.org

(adopted at age 13)

hen I met my forever parents, I knew that someday I wanted to be just like them. The impact they put on my life six years ago when they adopted me has changed me in a positive way forever.

Without my parents, I would’ve never graduated from high school and got the education I needed. My parents have shown me what it’s like to be loved and they always believe in me when I don’t believe in myself. I know that I can go to them for anything without living in fear. I could never, ever, in a million years repay them for what they’ve done for me.

Someday I want to adopt kids so I can be their support system just like my parents have done for me. Here I am, nine years after coming into foster care and I am living the full, happy life that every child deserves.

Story submitted by Caring for Kids, Inc., cfkadopt.org

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Matthew, 9

doption makes a difference in my past, present and future.

It means that someone who couldn’t take care of me gave me the gift of life, and that is special. I think it is fun to wonder about my birthland of Kyrgyzstan. I have seen a little bit in shows, magazines, my mom and dad’s

videos and my adoption photo book.

Today, I am glad that adoption is real because I have a loving family with parents who take care of me. I have one little sister and two brothers to play with and share life. I have a big family full of grandmas, grandpas, cousins, aunts, uncles and two great-grandparents. We all love each other.

In the future, I would like to adopt a child so that I could raise him and love him as I have been loved. I hope I might be a missionary to orphans around the world. I have seen how some Kyrgyz people hunt with golden eagles and I hope one day I can go to my birthland and hunt that way, too.

I would like to meet my birth mother some day. I would say to her, “I miss you and I love you.” I love adoption and I am thankful for the life I have today.

Story submitted by parents Tim and Kim Lehr

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the Holiday Guide

for People with Special Needs

By Radhika Chitnis

Friends, family, neighbors and grandparents are always sensitive to a child’s needs, but might be equally unsure of whether their choice of a gift will really be useful or even safe. Got Autism, which offers educational and therapeutic products for people on the autism spectrum, provides the following list of gift ideas for those with special needs in every age group.

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toddler - preschool CHARLIE THE WEIGHTED BULLDOG $37.95 Helps increase muscle tone and strength while doubling as a lap pad. Charlie is 13 inches in length and weighs 2 pounds.

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SANDS ALIVE $24.98 Combining sensory exploration and fine motor play, this no-stain, easy clean-up sand is all-natural, gluten-free and has a non-toxic formula that prevents bacterial growth. The Holiday Special Neon Frenzy edition glows in the dark to add another sensory dimension.

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POP FLY GAME $29.89 Practice throwing and catching skills while building visual perception and gross motor abilities. This is a backyard game kids will love: hit the paddle with your bean bag and up goes a ball.

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SENSORY PLAY TENTS $32.50 These tents build gross motor skills, creativity and imagination. They feature an inflatable ball-pit, tent and hideaway — perfect for hours of entertainment.

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PEA POD CALMING STATION $79.99 - $95.00 A velvety cocoon of deep pressure for calming comfort and the perfect place for relaxation. Inflatable with heavy-gauge vinyl and triplewelded seams that make the Pea Pod strong and durable.

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COMFORT WEIGHTED LAP PADS $39.95 Ideal for promoting calm without distraction. Perfect for homework.

These large (13 x 19 in.) plastic pellet-filled lap pads also can be used as a warming/cooling pad when warmed in the dryer or cooled in the freezer.

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7 BIG BALL OF WHACKS

BLANKET $99.95-$369.00 Hand-made with washable, nontoxic plastic pellets, this blanket provides proprioceptive input combined with calming comfort.

$37.98 This complex, structural puzzle made of magnetic pieces is a great tool for creative, visual thinkers. Includes a 36-page guidebook.

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8 JAXX METRO 5 FT. BEAN

BAG $229.00 This stylish seat provides pressure, comfort and a sense of spatial awareness. Its premium, shredded ecofoam filling and durable polyester liner with childproof zipper make this a bestseller.

$64.95 Give restless fingers some classy fidgets. Includes a blue nylon tote with Putty Buddy, Glitter Wand, Mini What Z’it, Blobby Robby, Totally Textured Tangle and Y Ball.

To learn more about these products or for more information, visit got-autism.com

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down one aisle while you shop in another. For tweens and teens, let them browse the store on their own. Explain to them you’ll meet back at the front after 20 minutes.

5 TIPS FOR SHOPPING

WITH KIDS

By Kristen J. Gough

Pictured left to right: Kristen and her daughters, Abby, 14, Kayla, 17, and Rachel, 12, have fun in the Chagrin Falls downtown shopping district.

Whether your child is a toddler, a teen or somewhere in between, buying gifts for your kids during the holiday season is an exercise in stealth, patience and creativity that’s almost as hard as trying to find a place to stash the gifts once you get home (one hint: it’s nearly impossible to hide a light-sensitive talking

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al trips — and some time online — to find your kids’ gifts.

After all, hiding the new Lego Millennium Falcon set under your arm while in the store so your child can’t see it is next to impossible (and yes, that’s on my 12-year-old’s list this year). Go through the store with your child to gauge her interest in the gift ideas you’ve been considering. If she doesn’t seem to even give a second glance to the Guardians of the Galaxy Groot Bobble Head, you can cross that one off the list and see what she really likes.

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part of the shopping experience is the checkout. Just how do you keep a wiggly preschooler from seeing the latest Disney princess going down the conveyor belt? And how do you hide the new headphones for your curious teen? Sometimes, I’ll cover the gifts both in the cart and on the belt with my coat. This can raise some eyebrows from the checker, but I try to tip him off that my kids are with me and the gifts are a surprise.

Then again, this is the one time it’s actually helpful to have the candy haul right next to the register — while purchasing the gift, have your child pick out his favorite candy bar or a pack of gum to have on the way home. (Hopefully he’s not a quick decider!)

baby anywhere in your closet without her piping up ‘Peek-a-boo!’ anytime you open the door). So how do you attempt to shop for kids, finding that perfect gift — all while they’re with you? As a mom who’s been there and done that, I’ve got a few ideas to get you started.

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you leave, let your kids know the general schedule. For example, tell them, “First, we’re going to this department store, then to the toy store and we’ll finish up at another department store. Three stops, okay?” You don’t have to plan down to the last minute, but again, a general idea will go a long way toward letting your kids know that they won’t be shopping forever. Often, if kids know the schedule and the timing, they’re more willing to tag along without too much complaining. Stick to your shopping plan.

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tummies = a bad combo. A hungry mom accompanying them is even worse. Plan on eating a meal or a substantial snack before you hit the store and stock your purse with granola bars and even a few sweet extras. I like caramel candies — bad for their teeth, but great for keeping their mouths busy.

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Unique Wears and Gifts in Town

MATILDA JANE CLOTHING Twice a year, Matilda Jane Clothing introduces a new line. These collections roll out in the spring and fall, and are available exclusively through Trunk Keepers.

Once you’ve found your Trunk Keeper, you can order items from the one-of-a-kind collections by attending or hosting an in-home Trunk Show, or by directly contacting a Trunk Keeper with your online wish list. Hosting one yourself offers all the rewards of being a “Jane,” from setting up your Trunk Show with a beautiful display of samples of Matilda Jane clothing in various sizes to helping you with tips on how to have a successful turnout for your show. matildajaneclothing.com

READY 2 READ WEAR – EDUCATIONAL CLOTHING LINE Ready 2 Read Wear is an exclusive line at Fred and Daisy’s. The pieces in this line have educational features incorporated in them — each clothing piece exposes children to a new way of learning different concepts such as letters and numbers.

The pieces also are designed to be comfy, colorful and easy to care for. Ready 2 Read Wear comes in sizes 2T-5T. Find Ready 2 Read Wear and more at fredandaisys.com

SMARTICKLES TOY STORE What would make your holiday shopping the perfect experience? Free gift wrapping in a happy, comforting toy store unlike any other. Come browse the various shelves of quality educational toys in this warm, welcoming store. Smartickles has that perfect toy for every child, which will make this Christmas like no other. The art of gift giving is made easy and affordable for every family. 986 Medina Road (Rt. 18), Medina, Located @ Bennett’s smarticklestoys.com

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NOVEMBER More events at NortheastOhioParent.com

calendar 11/15

Talkin’ Turkey. Learn about all things turkey, from what they eat to the different calls and sounds they make. 3-4:30 p.m.

Liberty Park, Twinsburg Ledges, 9999 Liberty Road, Twinsburg, summitmetroparks.org

11/21

Thanksgiving Dinner with Abraham Lincoln. Enjoy a Thanksgiving feast as you dine with President Lincoln and costumed interpreters sharing stories and music of the season.

3:30-6 p.m. Hale Farm & Village, 2686 Oak Hill Road, Bath, 330666-3711, wrhs.org

11/26

Turkey Trot & Mashed Potato Mile. Participants are asked to bring a non-perishable food item to support Volunteers of America.

7 a.m. Aurora Farms Premium Outlets, 549 S. Chillicothe Road, Aurora, hmapromotions.net

GOBBLE ON!

There's more to turkeys this November than side dishes. Stuff in some history, runs and charity work, too.

PICK YOUR DAY MONDAYS Around the World. Children in grades K-5 can participate in activities and crafts from a different country each Monday. 3:304:30 p.m. Noble Neighborhood Branch Library, 2800 Noble Road, Cleveland, 216-291-5665, heightslibrary.org Headlands Family Story Time.

Come enjoy stories, rhymes, songs and a craft. 7-7:30 p.m. Headlands Branch Library, 4669 Corduroy Road, Mentor, 440-257-2000, mentorpl.org

Sky Zone Open Jump. Exclusively for children with special needs and their siblings. 4:30-6 p.m.

750 Alpha Drive, Highland Hts., 440-596-3400 and 31500 Viking Pkwy., Westlake, 440-414-0444, milestones.org Teen Lounge. Computers, video games, board games, snacks and more. 3:30-5:30 p.m. Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Road, Westlake, 440-8712600, westlakelibrary.org Yoga Play. Fun yoga poses and activities for preschoolers. 2 p.m.

Akron Public Library, 60 High St., 330-643-9050, akronlibrary.org

WEDNESDAYS CRAFTernoons. Release your inner artist with painting, creating, arting and fun! 3:30-4:30 p.m. Noble Neighborhood Branch Library, 2800 Noble Road, Cleveland, 216-291-5665, heightslibrary.org

THURSDAYS

Free Thursdays. Spend Thursdays at the Akron Art Museum – it’s free all day and evening. 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., Akron, 330-376-9185, arkonartmuseum.org

Minecraft Club. First and third Thursdays of the month. Each session will feature a new challenge. Bring your own laptop, tablet or mobile device. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org

FRIDAYS

Russian Storytime. Fun, interactive storytime in Russian for children of all ages. First and third Fridays of each month. 4:30-5 p.m.

Twinsburg Public Library, 10050 Ravenna Road, 330-425-4268, twinsburglibrary.org

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NOVEMBER

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Musical Fridays. Lunchtime concert for moms, caregivers and kids.

Original songs about parenthood.

12:15-12:45 p.m. Cafe O’Play, 911 Graham Road, Suite 27, Stow, 330-928-7517, cafeoplay.com DJ Skate. Every Friday, professional DJ plays music while you ice skate. Request your favorite song, skate line dances, meet new friends, plus enjoy the café and arcade. Winterhurst Arena, 14740 Lakewood Heights Blvd., Lakewood, icelandusalakewood.com

SATURDAYS

Sketch Saturdays. Children in grades 3-6 can hone their inner artistic skills. Design, doodle or draw. Medina County District Library, 210 S. Broadway St., Medina, 330-725-0588, mcdl.info

ONGOING Through 11/8

The Addams Family. A musical that is creepy, spooky and kooky fun for the whole family. Geauga Theater, 101 Water St., Chardon, 440-2862255, geaugatheater.org

Through 1/3/16

Violins of Hope. Played before and during the Holocaust and painstakingly restored, these violins serve as testaments to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of music. Maltz Museum of Jewish Heritage, 2929 Richmond Road, Beachwood, 216-593-0575, maltzmuseum.org

Through 3/13/16

Children’s Corner. Exhibition features a vast collection of vintage toys, as well as a special section of dollhouses borrowed from miniature enthusiasts from the community.

McKinley Museum, 800 McKinley Monument Drive NW, Canton, 330-455-7043, mckinleymuseum.org

DAY-BY-DAY 11/1

Pumpkin Chunkin. Bring pumpkins to throw to the flock as a treat. Admission is one pumpkin per person. 2-4 p.m. The Spicy Lamb Farm, 6560 Akron Peninsula Road, Peninsula, 330657-2752, thespicylamb.com Cinderella’s Masquerade Ball. A royal event for the whole family.

1:30-4 p.m. Guy’s Party Center, 500 E. Waterloo Road, Akron, tiarasandtreasuresparties.com

11/3

No School Skate. Open roller skate on election day. 1-4 p.m. $5 admission plus rental. 1261 N. Industrial Pkwy., Brunswick, 330-273-5750, skatestation.net

11/4

Read, Rock & Roll Storytime.

This toddler storytime will get you moving. Bang, rattle, swish and twirl to songs, rhymes and stories. 9:30-10 a.m. Chagrin Falls Branch Library, 100 E. Orange St., Chagrin Falls, 440-247-3556, cuyahogalibrary.org Glow Jump. Come play on giant, soft, fun-filled interactive inflatables under glow and special FX lighting. Wear bright white or neon. 5:30-7 p.m. $8 admission.

Pump It Up, 4111 Hudson Dr., Stow, 330-945-7867, pumpitupparty. com/stow-oh Preschool Safari. Explore different areas of the zoo with a Safari Leader and get up close and personal with a few smaller zoo residents. 10-11:30 a.m.

Cleveland Metroparks Zoo, 3900 Wildlife Way, Cleveland, 216-6616500, clevelandmetroparks.com

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Family Literacy Night: Positive Study Skills. Help for both parents and students on how to successfully prepare for a test.

6:30-7:30 p.m. Maple Hts. Branch Library, 5225 Library Lane, 216475-5000, cuyahogalibrary.org Speaking of Women’s Health: Ladies Night Out. Dinner and Q&A panel discussion featuring women’s health physician specialists and health and wellness information. 5:30-8:30 p.m. Galaxy Restaurant and Banquet Center, 201 Park Center Drive, Wadsworth, 440-312-4804, clevelandclinic.org/swhwadsworth

11/5-8

A Little Princess. The beloved fictional heroine, Sara Crewe, is brought to life in this funny, sad and wonderfully imaginative adaptation. Beck Center for the Arts, Mackey Main Stage, 17801 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, 216-5212540, beckcenter.org Shrek, The Musical Jr. Solon Center for the Arts, 6315 SOM Center Road, Solon, 440-3371400, solonohio.org

11/6

Homeschoolers: Principles of Flight. Ages 7 to 10 join a naturalist to learn about the basic principles of flight through a series of hands-on activities.

10:30 a.m.-noon and 1-2:30 p.m.

Seiberling Nature Realm, 1828 Smith Road, Akron, 330-8658065, summitmetroparks.org

11/6

I Can Write & Illustrate Workshop. Children ages 6 to 10 learn to express their ideas through writing and illustrating from author/illustrator Amie Longstaff. Pizza dinner included in $34 fee. 5:30-7:45 p.m. The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, 440-951-7500, fineartsassociation.org

11/6-8

Alice in Wonderland. Follow Alice through the Looking Glass where she meets the Mad Hatter, Cheshire Cat, Queen of Hearts, White Rabbit and more quirky characters in this beloved

children’s classic. $10 children age 10 and younger; $15 adults, seniors and students ages 11 and older. Nov. 6 at 7:30 p.m., Nov. 7-8, at 2 p.m.

Corning Auditorium at The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, 440-951-7500, fineartsassociation.org

11/6-15

A Midsummer Night’s Dream.

7 p.m. Fridays & Saturdays, 3 p.m Sundays. TrueNorth Cultural Arts, 4530 Colorado Ave., Sheffield Village, tncarts.org

11/7

Good Turn Day. Scouts do a “good turn” for the community by collecting used clothing, books, housewares and other items to be donated to Goodwill. 9 a.m.-2 p.m.

Goodwill Industries of Akron, 570 E. Waterloo Road, Akron, 330-7862519, goodwillakron.org Try Hockey for Free Day USA Hockey will be hosting event at various ice arenas across the Northeast Ohio area. Kids, ages 4-9, can come out and try hockey skills for free. Limited equipment should be available to use during session.

Visit tryhockeyforfree.com to see times and participating locations.

Sensory School-Age Program. For children who are developmentally disabled at the kindergarten to grade 5 level, and specifically for children with special needs and their families. 10-10:45 a.m. Orange Branch Library, 31975 Chagrin Blvd., Pepper Pike, 216-831-4282, cuyahogalibrary.org Pop-up Library. Pick up some free books during the Santa is Coming event. Great Lakes Mall, 7850 Mentor Ave., Mentor, mentorpl.org

Chagrin Reservation, 3037 SOM Center Road, Willoughby Hills, clevelandmetroparks.com

PHOTO COURTESY OF GREAT LAKES SCIENCE CENTER

THROUGH 1/2/2016 2theXtreme: MathAlive!

This exciting exhibition brings to life the real math behind what kids love most – video games, sports, fashion, music and robotics.

Great Lakes Science Center, 601 Erieside Ave., Cleveland, 216-694-2000 greatscience.com Gingerbread House Family Workshop. The chefs of Bon Appetit help families create edible masterpieces. Recommended for children ages 6-12. 2-3:30 p.m.

Cleveland Botanical Garden, 11030 East Blvd., Cleveland, 216-721-1600, cbgarden.org Train Days! Come and see the Cuyahoga Valley and West Shore Model Railroad Train Club model trains on display. 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Olmsted Falls Branch Library, 8100 Mapleway Dr., 440-235-1150, cuyahogalibrary.org

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11/10

Homework Help. Whether your elementary student is stumped by math or struggling with reading, the library can help. 4-6 p.m. North Canton Public Library, 185 N. Main St., 330-499-4712, ncantonlibrary. com Children’s Digital Art Therapy.

Kids and teens, ages 8 and up, touched by cancer learn how to create fun works of art utilizing technology. 4:30-5:30 p.m.

Stewart’s Caring Place, 2955 W. Market St., Suite R, Akron, 330836-1772, stewartscaringplace.org

Medina County Variety Show.

Putting the spotlight on a showcase of Medina County Talent. 2-4 p.m. Haddad Theater/ Medina County Administration Building, 144 N. Broadway, Medina, mainstreetmedina.com

Hands-on Pottery. Grades 6-12 come to learn the tools and tricks to create an exciting piece to take to the studio to get fired.

7-8:30 p.m. Orange Branch Library, 31975 Chagrin Blvd., Pepper Pike, 216-831-4282, cuyahogalibrary.org

Model Training Day. Learn about model railroading with hands-on displays and operating trains. Free. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Black River Landing & Transportation Center, 421 Black River Lane, Lorain, 440-244-6503, loraingrowth.com

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Sprouts: Growing Kids and Wonder, Naturally. Ages 3-5 come to discover a gobbling neighbor, pull clues from a magic bag and enjoy a craft and hike. 10:30-11:30 a.m. North

Kindermusik. Families with babies to 4-year-olds are invited for a free demonstration class. 6:30-7:30 p.m.

Kent Free Library, 312 W. Main St., Kent, 330-673-4414, kentfreelibrary.org Veteran's Day Train Ride. Veterans ride free with up to three family members or friends. Cuyahoga Valley Scenic Railroad, Rockside Station 9:30 a.m., or Northside Station 2 p.m. cvsr.com

11/13-15

Youth Explosion. Fun event for teens with dozens of incredible musicians, preachers and comedians.

Willoughby Hills Friends Church, 2846 SOM Center Road, Willoughby Hills, 440-944-1026, whfriends.org

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Pop-up Library. Pick up some free books from Mentor Public Library’s Pop-up Library during the arts and crafts sale. 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org Free Family Fitness Event. Five 30-minute fitness classes specially designed for moms-to-be, new moms, dads, grandparents and caregivers to do with and without kids. 9:30 a.m.-1 p.m. The Chapel, 1391 State Road, Wadsworth, britt-fit.com Hershey Montessori Arts Fest.

A family-oriented event; children are welcome and encouraged.

A celebration of local fine arts and crafts. 9 a.m.-4 p.m.

10229 Prouty Road, Concord,

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Christmas Craft Boutique. Come and experience the high quality of craftsmanship of more than 100 inspired artisans! Get a head start on Christmas shopping with unique, one-of-a-kind gifts. Admission is $3 for ages 13 and older. St. Gabriel School, 9935 Johnnycake Ridge Road, Mentor, 440-352-6169, st-gabrielschool.org

11/7 Sunrise Farm’s Christmas Open House. Come see the cozy decorated barn, delight in a hayride, enjoy hot apple cider and gourmet goodies and shop from select fresh wreaths and greens. 13115 Kinsman Road, Burton, 440-834-1298, destinationgeauga.com

11/13-12/20 The Polar Express. Wear pajamas to hear a reading of “The Polar Express” on a journey to the North Pole. Cuyahoga Valley Scenic Railroad, 800-468-4070, cvsr.com

11/14 Christmas Craft Show. 9 a.m-3 p.m.

Cuyahoga Valley Career Center, 8001 Brecksville Road, Brecksville, 440-746-8259, cvccworks.edu

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Scrooge! The very first Christmas holiday classic on Near West’s glorious new stage. Based on Charles Dickens’ “A Christmas Carol.” Near West Theatre, 6702 Detroit Ave., Cleveland, 216-961-6391, nearwesttheatre.org

11/21-29

Holiday Tree Festival. Kick off the holiday season at this festival featuring more than 125 decorated trees, 50 wreaths and countless other holiday creations.

John S. Knight Center, 77 E. Mill St., Akron, 330-374-8900, akronchildrens.org/treefestival

11/21 Annual Tree Lighting. See Santa Claus magically light up Crocker Park’s 50-foot tree, plus enjoy food trucks, community group performances, live music and fireworks. 5-8 p.m. Crocker Park, 189 Crocker Park Blvd., Westlake, crockerpark.com City Ballet of Cleveland Sugarplum Tea. Come for a bountiful dessert bar and a professional photograph taken with the Sugarplum Fairy or another Nutcracker snowflake or mouse. 2-4 p.m. RSVP 216-848-9088 or cityballetofcleveland.org. Acacia Reservation, 26899 Cedar Road, Lyndhurst

11/24-12/20

A Christmas Carol: The Musical.

Ebenezer Scrooge and his ghostly encounters come to life in this lavish and thrilling musical adaptation. Weathervane Playhouse, 1301 Weathervane Lane, Akron, 330-836-2626, weathervaneplayhouse.com

11/27-29 & 12/3-23 Country Lights. Children (ages 2-11) select a toy to build and Santa’s elves help them use hammers and nails to put it together. The children then take their toys home. 5-9 p.m.

Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, 440-256-2122

11/28-29

Waterfront Winterfest. A familyfriendly, two-day celebration ushering in the holidays. Saturday: Christmas parade, light up Veterans Park, fireworks display and free ice skating with skate rental. Sunday: ice sculptures, live nativity, strolling carolers and musicians. Lorain Waterfront Entertainment District, Broadway Avenue, Lorain, 440-282-2790, lightuplorain.com

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Compassionate Thanksgiving. Start your holiday season together with Happy Trails Animal Sanctuary enjoying an animal-friendly (vegan) buffet dinner. 5 p.m. Todaro’s Party Center, 1820 Akron Peninsula Road, Akron, 330-296-5914, happytrailsfarm.org Pasta with a Purpose. A celebration of teachers, students and community. 5-9 p.m. Kiwanis Lodge, 27285 Highland Road, Richmond Heights, 216-280-6124, richmondheightsohio.org Kids Garage Sale. Infant, children & maternity clothing, baby equipment & accessories, and toys. Broadview Heights Recreation Center, 9543 Broadview Road, 440-838-4522, broadview-heights.org Chili Con Comedy. Enjoy the wit and humor of this young improv actor troupe. $10 general admission. 8 p.m. Studio Stage at The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, 440-951-7500, fineartsassociation.org

11/15

Nature Art Fest. Bring the family and spend the day in one of the most beautiful parks in Medina County and shop for unique holiday gifts. Noon-4 p.m. Wolf Creek Environmental Center, 6100 Ridge Road, Sharon Center, 330-722-9364, medinaparks.com

11/16

Picturing America. Homeschoolers in grades 1-5 will combine art history and hands-on creativity. 10:30-11:30 a.m. Maple Hts. Branch Library, 5225 Library Lane, 216-475-5000, cuyahogalibrary.org

11/17

Family Literacy Night: Positive Study Skills.

Help for both parents and students on how to successfully prepare for a test. 7-8 p.m.

Parma Branch Library, 6996 Powers Blvd., Parma, 440-885-5362, cuyahogalibrary.org

11/20

Fused Glass Pendant Workshop. Adults and teens ages 14 and older will create two fused glass pendants with artist Daniel Pruitt.

Supplies and pizza included in $60 fee.

6-9 p.m. The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, 440-951-7500, fineartsassociation.org.

11/20-22

Medina Candlelight Walk. Miles of lights, fireworks, snow, 1,500 candles – it’s all part of the magic of the holidays in Medina.

Main Street Medina, 5 Public Square, mainstreetmedina.com

11/21

First People Festival. Learn about the first people to live in Ohio and how these past cultures changed over time. 11 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Rocky River Nature Center, 24000 Valley Pkwy., North Olmsted, 440-734-6660, clevelandmetroparks.com

11/21-22

Dryland Sled Dog Challenge. See mushers and their teams from the United States and Canada as they compete for the best time

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over a two-mile course. 9 a.m.-2:30 p.m. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, 440-256-2122 lakemetroparks.com

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Winter Exhibit. On a life-sized indoor game board, discover the many flavors that nature gives us as you play along in an all-new winter wonderland. Noon-5 p.m.

Penitentiary Glen Reservation, 8668 Kirtland Chardon Road, Willoughby, 440-256-1404, lakemetroparks.com

11/29

Nature Drawing for Kids. Ages 6 to 12 join a naturalist-artist for this lesson in nature drawing. 11:30 a.m.1 p.m. & 2-3:30 p.m. Seiberling Nature Realm, 1828 Smith Road, Akron, 330-865-8065, summitmetroparks.org Winter Strategies Hike. Hike to find out how local animals prepare for winter. 2:30-3:30 p.m. Carlisle Reservation, 12882 Diagonal, LaGrange, 440-458-5121, metroparks.cc

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SAVE THE DATE 12/4-1/3

So You Think You Can Dance.

Top 10 finalists will make their way across North America performing in 70 cities as part of the “So You Think You Can Dance Season 12 Tour.” Playhouse Square, 1501 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, 216-241-6000, playhousesquare.org

Evening Dog Hike. Bring your best furry friend to the park for some exercise and socialization.

Acacia Reservation, 26899 Cedar Road, Lyndhurst, clevelandmetroparks.com

Gift Giving on the Cheap. Teens and adults come to learn how to create your own affordable holiday gifts on virtually no budget. 6 p.m. Nordonia Hills Branch Library, 9458 Olde 8 Road, Northfield, akronlibrary.org

Peter and the Starcatcher. Based on the novel by Dave Barry and Ridley Pearson. For all ages.

Dobama Theatre, 2340 Lee Road, Cleveland Heights, dobama.org

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ways to mak e your h ome cozy t his season

an you believe it’s November already? Family, turkey dinners, pumpkin pie, apple cider…I just love this time of year. There are so many wonderful things coming to mind when I think about this month.

You have to admit, fall in Northeast Ohio is pretty awesome. As much as I loathe the winter months sometimes, I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else — I’d miss the fall way too much.

It’s time to bring out the slippers, thick socks and throw blankets, and light the fire.

I love to make my home cozy this time of year. It’s not about making it look a certain a way; it’s about how I make my home feel warm and inviting for family and friends.

This month, I’m sharing five ways to make your home cozy for the holidays:

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Burn scented candles like pumpkin spice, apple and cranberry. Maybe there’s a scent that your mom used to burn in your home growing up; it’s amazing how lighting a candle of the same scent can bring back childhood memories from the holidays.

My mom always had apple potpourri burning when I was a kid, so apple candles bring back some great memories for me.

Decorate your home with lights. I string white lights wherever I can in my home. I love the warmth they bring to an area. You can never go wrong with using them to decorate for fall on your banister, around your fireplace, or in floral arrangements.

Use your fireplace. Nothing sets the mood for a fall day or evening like the glow of the fireplace. You also can add candles to the fireplace or mantle to change it up and add an even warmer feel for the season.

Start playing Christmas music. Really? Christmas music in November? Yes. October would be a bit too early, but come November I’m ready to start sprinkling in the Christmas tunes throughout my day. There’s so much good feeling attached to Christmas music, so why should it

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be relegated to only a few weeks a year? I say…let it play, let it play, let it play.

Bake. As the cooler weather hits, I tend to want to get back in my kitchen and cook more. I’ve always loved baking more than cooking and fall desserts are my favorite. My mom is a pastry chef, so I’m lucky to have learned from the best. She makes the most amazing fall desserts: warm apple pie (with ice cream, of course), pumpkin pie, apple crisps, I could go on and on. My favorite, though, has to be her pumpkin rolls. They’re perfect for a Thanksgiving Day dessert or to make and give as gifts. I’ve shared the recipe so you can make them for your family.

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Imagine this, burning your apple candle while your fireplace warms the room — which is beautifully lit with white lights — as the sounds of Christmas music fills the air.

Oh, and enjoying that delicious pumpkin roll. Doesn’t that sound cozy? I can hardly wait to enjoy it myself.

How do you make your home cozy for the holidays? Tweet me @saracarnes, or let me know on Facebook at Sara Carnes.

Mom’s Pumpkin Roll Recipe Ingredients for one roll: 1 C sugar, 1 C flour, 2 eggs (beaten) 2/3 C pumpkin puree, 1 tsp baking soda 1 tsp cinnamon, ¼ tsp salt • Preheat oven to 350 degrees • Sift dry ingredients together • Add beaten eggs and pumpkin puree and mix well • Line 10x15-in. jelly roll pan with wax paper or parchment paper and spray lightly with oil • Bake for 15 minutes • Remove from oven and immediately roll up into cake roll. Cover with foil and store in refrigerator for at least two hours or overnight Ingredients for filling: 8 oz cream cheese (room temperature) 3½ T butter (room temperature) 1 C powdered sugar, 1 tsp vanilla • Mix ingredients together until smooth • Unroll cooked cake roll, spread filling, and roll back up again • Recover with foil. Put in refrigerator for about an hour • When ready to serve, uncover and sprinkle with powdered sugar

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s fall foliage in Ohio comes into full color, STEADY U Ohio, the state’s comprehensive older adult falls prevention initiative, reminds all Ohioans that, while leaves are supposed to fall, people aren’t.

Falls are not a normal part of aging, and most falls can be prevented by knowing the risk factors and making simple changes to your home, health and habits to reduce or eliminate them.

Here are some tips to prevent falls: ✱ Leaves, branches and other debris from trees can make walkways slippery or hide tripping hazards like uneven surfaces, edges and steps. Keep walkways clean, and if the surface isn’t clear and flat, pick another path. ✱ If winterizing a home means cleaning gutters, changing light bulbs or other tasks that require your loved ones to get up high, ensure they are using a step ladder or a step stool with a handle, and maintain three points of contact (two feet and a hand, or two hands and a foot) at all times. They shouldn’t climb on chairs or other furniture that was not designed for that purpose. ✱ Shorter days mean less direct sunlight and less sunlight overall, thus, there may be a need for more light to get around a home safely. Have your loved ones invest in extra lamps, nightlights and exterior pathway lights to ensure they can always see where they are walking, especially around doorways and stairs. Use the highest-wattage bulbs that are recommended for fixtures. ✱ Don’t let cooler weather and shorter days limit their activity. Exercise that builds and maintains strength and balance is important to prevent falls year-round. Have your loved ones ask their doctor or physical therapist ADVERTISING SALES: Chris Geer, 330-614-8471 PUBLISHER: Brad Mitchell brad@northeastohioparent.com EDITORIAL:

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about indoor exercises that can help them maintain strength and balance when they can’t venture out. ✱ Remind them to keep shoes and walking aids (canes, walkers) free of dirt and mud by drying them off immediately upon coming in from wet conditions. Remember, wet shoes are just as dangerous as wet floors. ✱ If your loved ones’ autumn plans include attending one of Ohio’s great fall fairs and festivals, have them stick to paved surfaces as much as possible while watching for trash, hoses and cables on walkways. Also, drink plenty of liquids to stay hydrated and consider attending at off-peak times, when the crowds are lighter.

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Getting back to being YOURSELF

liza Jennings understands that recovering from a surgery, major illness, or injury can be a difficult time for both patients and their families. The rehabilitation process varies from person to person, whether recuperating from joint replacement surgery, or adapting to life changes caused by a stroke, heart attack, or accident. Comfort, care, and communication are top of mind concerns for everyone during the transition from hospital to home.

With a national reputation for innovation and excellence in care, Eliza Jennings offers advanced rehabilitation methods and a full range of therapies that promote a return to a productive and fulfilling lifestyle. Eliza Jennings specializes in neurological, musculoskeletal, and orthopedic rehabilitation services. Working with the individual, family, and physician, an interdisciplinary team of therapists, clinicians, and social workers create a personalized treatment plan that enables the individual to progress in a recovery plan designed for their specific needs. Eliza Jennings utilizes clinical, social, and educational measures to assist those who require rehabilitation services. Daily therapies make for part of

all individual-specific treatment plans.

An experienced clinical team of physical, occupational and speech therapists offer comprehensive rehabilitation services to help patients achieve their greatest possible level of independence, allowing for a safe return home or to a lower level of care.

The rehab team helps individuals regain strength and range of motion, overcome obstacles, and successfully accomplish routine activities of daily living. It is the goal of the staff to assist each patient with the process of restoration, improvement, and eventually – self-sufficiency. In many cases, additional therapy is prescribed at the time of discharge. If this is the case, individuals are referred to Eliza Jennings home health or outpatient therapy, depending on the circumstances, where they can expect the same quality of care and services.

Rehabilitation therapy is not only for those recovering from an acute illness, injury or accident. Therapy can be instrumental in preventing injury, reducing pain, and improving mobility, balance, and overall wellness. Rehabilitation therapy is beneficial for fall prevention, pain-free mobility,

arthritis management, and bladder health.

Eliza Jennings also offers LSVT therapy, an innovative program for individuals with Parkinson’s disease that retrains the brain and body to make the movements many have lost because of tremors, stiffness and muscle atrophy. LSVT therapy can help with strength, balance and stability, voice and speech disorders, and swallowing problems.

Eliza Jennings rehabilitation services are available in all of its communities, including the Eliza Jennings Health Campus in Cleveland (near Lakewood), the Renaissance Retirement Campus in Olmsted Township, and the Devon Oaks Assisted Living community in Westlake. Outpatient services are also available through Eliza Jennings home and community-based services.

Eliza Jennings accepts private pay, Medicare, Medicaid, and some insurance plans.

To learn more about Eliza Jennings rehabilitation and therapy services, please call the Health Campus at 216.226.1215, The Renaissance at 440.235.7104, or visit www. elizajennings.org.

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Cover Story

Safety in Numbers Local Veterans Band Together to Help Each Other

By Brad Mitchell

ay “Doc” Tutolo was 20 when he was assigned to the first Marine division Delta 1/7 (First Battalion 7th Marines) in 1967 and went on to serve as a combat medic in the Vietnam War. He was a 24-yearold man when he thankfully came back home, but didn’t receive much of a welcome compared to other soldiers in wars before his tour of duty.

Now Tutolo wants to help other veterans who need a place to share their stories—and maybe, their pain and hopes for the future. Below, he answers questions about his goal.

How do you think veterans are treated today?

Veterans are treated a lot better than during the Vietnam War. Vietnam was 10 years long and everybody was tired of the war. Today, the veterans are respected more and I’m really glad for that.

What is the name of your organization that helps veterans?

Christ Community Chapel Military Outreach. Both younger and older veterans need a safe place to share. Twen-

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ty-two veterans a day are committing suicide. So we want to reach veterans from every age group to meet their physical, emotional and spiritual needs.

The Family Outreach is the parents’ group. The parents pray for each other and the family members that are currently serving. They will post their names and pictures. They will send packages and letters to encourage them and let them know how much their service is appreciated.

The Veterans Circle group consists of veterans who have served and would do anything for each other. We are truly a band of brothers. As the group expands and continues to grow, we will mentor younger veterans coming home. The Veterans Circle will reach out to serve other veterans in the community.

Why is it important to help those who served in our Armed Forces?

We know that those who have been fighting and in combat have issues to deal with that make it hard for them to reach out. Unless veterans know they are talking with someone who’s been in their shoes and whom they can trust, they will not be able to talk freely.

Our outreach will be the answer to that

problem because we know what it feels like to be in combat and other stressful situations.

What are some other important resources Northeast Ohio veterans should know about?

We are willing to reach out to the VFWs or any other military organizations for veterans. We want to reach out to hospice organizations for older veterans. We are open to anything that’s related to military that we could use. And we are willing to partner with other organizations that are helping our veterans.

What is the vision for your organization?

I’ve been praying about this for five years and the opportunity arose this year to restart the military group that we had at the Christ Community Chapel

(in Hudson) several years ago. The vision is to impact as many veterans as we can and use every resource that God puts in front of us to help everyone find their peace with themselves and God, whether it is the last stages of their journey or whether their struggle is with being able to communicate some of the fears and some of the unnecessary burden and guilt they carry.

What is the need of the veterans you see?

To be able to feel safe.

To create an environment where they know they can talk without being judged.

Where everything they say will not be repeated, but will be held in confidence.

To know that they can be a part of helping other veterans that they love dearly.

Resources for Veterans Military Support Groups at Christ Community Church 750 W. Streetsboro St., Hudson

Military Family Support Group

Veterans Circle Group

4th Monday of each month Nov. 23, 7 p.m.

Al or Paula Rhoades 330-289-6235

2nd Monday of each month Nov. 9, Dec. 14, 7 p.m.

Ray Tutolo 330-908-1594

Recommended reading:

“Peace at Last”

by Deborah L. Grassman; stories of hope and healing for veterans and their families

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SPECIAL PENSION BENEFITS FOR VETERANS AND SPOUSES

By Laurie G. Steiner, Esq., Certified Specialist in Elder Law and Accredited attorney for the preparation, presentation and prosecution of claims for veterans benefits before the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA)

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ach year on Veterans Day, we should all take a moment to reflect on our U.S. veterans. We need to thank each one for their service knowing they protect our country and sometimes have to sacrifice themselves on our behalf.

When our veterans grow old and need assistance with their daily activities, the Veterans Administration can provide monetary support. Many veterans and surviving spouses are not aware that these benefits exist.

The veteran’s assistance program goes back to 1636, when Pilgrims of Plymouth Colony fought with the Pequot Indians. The Pilgrims enacted a law from English law that reads, “If any man shall be sent forth as a soldier and shall return maimed, he shall be maintained competently by the colony during his life.” In 1789, U. S. congress passed as law that pensions were to be provided to disabled veterans and their dependents; in 1811, the first domiciliary and medical facility for veterans was completed.

“Aid and attendance” is a commonly used term for this little-known veteran’s disability income. The official title of this benefit is “pension.” The reason for using “aid and attendance” to refer to pension is that many veterans or their single surviving spouses can become eligible if they have a regular need for the aid and attendance of a caregiver or if they are housebound. Evidence of this need for care must be certified by VA as a “rating.” With a rating, certain veterans or their surviving spouses can qualify for pension.

There are different income categories for pension, but the highest could pay as much as $2,120 a month in income to a qualifying veteran with a spouse.

A single veteran could receive as much as $1,788 per month. The surviving spouse of a veteran could receive as much as $1,149 a month.

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only about 30 percent of eligible veterans or spouses would apply for pension.

In actuality, about one-third of all U.S. seniors age 65 and older could become eligible for pension under the right circumstances.

To receive pension, a veteran must have served on active duty at least 90 days, with at least one of those days during a declared period of war. There must be a discharge under conditions other than dishonorable. The veteran or surviving spouse must need the assistance of another in order to take care of their daily needs. Another qualification requirement is that the annual household income must be less than the annualized maximum pension benefits.

However, a special provision does allow the annual household income to be reduced by 12 months’ worth of future, recurring medical expenses. These allowable, annualized medical expenses are such things as insurance premiums, ongoing prescription drug costs, out-ofpocket cost of monthly medical equipment rental, the cost of home care, the cost of paying adult children to provide care, the cost of adult day services, the cost of assisted living and the cost of a nursing home facility. These all are considered medical costs and they can be deducted from income to receive this benefit.

Additionally, there are asset limitations in order to qualify. The applicant can have no more than a house, car, cemetery plot, prepaid funeral arrangements, personal items and approximately $80,000 in other assets for a married couple and no more than about $40,000 in other assets for a single person.

If you have excessive assets and income or are not sure how to apply medical deductions, use the services of a qualified certified elder law attorney who is accredited with the VA. Plus, please let others know of this pension benefit; our veterans deserve to know.

November & December HEALTH & WELLNESS EVENTS MONDAYS

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deaf, hard-of-hearing and hearing people.

Fourth Monday of each month. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Coventry Village Branch Library, 1925 Coventry Road, Cleveland Hts., 216-321-3400, heightslibrary.org

Akron Zoo is honoring our military by offering free admission for veterans and half off for family members. Akron Zoo, 504 Euclid Ave., Akron, 330-375-2550, akronzoo.org

Deaf Gathering. Open social hour for

Speak Easy Stroke Support Group. Therapeutic activities, social

connections, events and more. free. 1-3 p.m.

Cleveland Hearing & Speech Center, 11635 Euclid Ave., University Circle, Room 140, 216-231-8787, chsc.org/speakeasy

TUESDAYS

Geauga Walkers. Join other active

seniors on the first and third Tuesdays of the month for hikes in Geauga County and the surrounding area. Hikes are typically 1-1.5 miles long. 440-279-2137, geaugaparkdistrict.org

THURSDAYS

Veterans Free at Akron Zoo. The

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Footsteps of the Past. Join a natural-

ist to discover why this is a Metro Parks gem.

2-3:30 p.m. Deep Lock Quarry Metro Park, 5779 Riverview Road, Peninsula, 330-8658065, summitmetroparks.org

11/9

Acacia for the Young at Heart.

A leisurely walk through Acacia to enjoy the last of the fall color in November. All abilities welcome. 10-11 a.m. Acacia Reservation, 26899 Cedar Road, Lyndhurst, clevelandmetroparks.com

Dementia Series: Validation Techniques. Learn communication tech-

niques that add dignity to dementia patients while providing caregivers with time saving skills to reduce stress and anxiety. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org

11/10

Cookbook Club. A book club for

foodies! Choose a recipe from the selected cookbook author or theme for the month, bring a dish to the meeting to share, and talk food. 6 p.m. Wickliffe Public Library, 1713 Lincoln Road, Wickliffe, 440-944-6010, wickliffepl.org

11/11

Veterans Day. Free admission for all

veterans and members of the military. Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens, 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, 330-863-5533, stanhywet.org

11/12

Healthy Strides Hike. Come for a

casual 1- to 3-mile walk, preceded by a brief, informative talk by Akron General physicians and caregivers. Furnace Run Metro Park, Brushwood Area, 4955 Townsend Road, Richfield, 330-865-8065, summitmetroparks.org

11/14

Birding Bus Trip. Join Naturalist Jen

Brumfield on an all-day birding excursion. $59 includes transportation and lunch. Rocky River Nature Center parking lot, 24000 Valley Pkwy., North Olmsted, 440-734-6660, clevelandmetroparks.com Chili Cook-off. The Community

Partnership on Aging event benefits the Safe at Home Program. Sample chili from five local fire departments and vote for your favorite.

11 a.m.-1:30 p.m. South Euclid Community Center, 1370 Victory Drive, 216-291-3902

Senior Happenings. Senior Hap-

penings weekly lecture series sponsored by the City of University Heights. Free and open to residents of all communities. 2-3 p.m.

University Heights Branch Library, 13866 Cedar Road, 216-932-3600, heightslibrary.org

DAY-BY-DAY 11/2

National Memory Screening.

Confidential screenings presented by the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America and the Medina County Health Dept. 10:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Highland Library, 4160 Ridge Road, Medina, mcdl.info

11/4

Medicare Seminar. Free and open

to the public, a clear, unbiased discussion on Medicare plans and changes that affect coverage and costs. 10 a.m.-noon (lunch served at noon). Guy’s Party Center, 500 E. Waterloo Road, Akron RSVP 330-776-4620 or events@directionhomeakroncanton.org.

11/5

Speaking of Women’s Health: Ladies Night Out. Dinner and Q&A

panel discussion featuring women’s health physician specialists, health and wellness information and retail boutique. Cost: $20 (includes meal and special gift). 5:30-8:30 p.m.

Galaxy Restaurant and Banquet Center, 201 Park Center Drive, Wadsworth, 440-312-4804, clevelandclinic.org/swhwadsworth November 2015 • Northeast Ohio Parent | Aging Answers

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11/21

For Sentimental Reasons – A Musical Revue. Come for an evening of

sing-along music and merriment to benefit the BLT Youth Theater and Brecksville Food Bank. 8 p.m. Reservations required. Brecksville Human Services Center, 2 Community Drive, Brecksville, 440-526-4477

12/1

Holiday Shopping Online. Learn

how to shop online this holiday season using Amazon and Ebay. 7-8:30 p.m. Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Road, Westlake, 440-871-2600, westlakelibrary.org

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and older can learn international-style target archery at a temporary indoor range. 1-2:30 p.m. Firestone Metro Park, Coventry Oaks Area, 40 Axline Ave., Akron, 330-865-8065, summitmetroparks.org

emotional support to assist in the prostate cancer recovery process. 7-8:30 p.m. Stewart’s Caring Place, 2955 W. Market St., Suite R, Akron, 330-836-1772, stewartscaringplace.org

different social networks like Facebook and Twitter and why they are relevant and convenient, plus how they can help organize your life and keep you in touch with family.

11:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. North Canton Public Library, 185 N. Main St., 330-499-4712, ncantonlibrary.com

Archery for Seniors. Seniors ages 55

Prostate Cancer Support Group. This group provides education and

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techniques for identifying historic photos.

10:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Akron Public Library, Special Collections Div., Room 2AB, 60 High St., 330-643-9030, akronlibrary.org

back to enjoy a concert showcasing the talent of Cleveland Institute of Music students and graduates. 7:30-8:30 p.m. Coventry Village Branch Library, 1925 Coventry Road, Cleveland Hts., 216-321-3400, heightslibrary.org

Identifying Family Photographs. Join this class for tips and

Coventry Concert Night. Settle

Getting Social: Social Networking for Beginners. Learn about

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