Hollywood relies on sequels to squeeze storylines and money from movies that were good the first time around. Some work. I’m thinking of “The Godfather, Part II,” for example. Others miss the mark. If you’ve seen “Jaws the Revenge,” you know what I’m talking about.
Dating in your 50s and older resembles a movie sequel with occasional hits and plenty of misses. The characters are familiar but they’re thrown into different situations. A lot can happen between sequels; sometimes it’s not worth the hassle of threading the pieces together. The backstories require too much explanation to drag into the next film or relationship.
I didn’t give dating much thought until I became editor of Northeast Ohio Boomer magazine. Dating is the second-most requested story topic I get from readers (making friends is number one).
We revisit dating in this issue of the magazine, pointing out the complexities of dating after 55. There’s a saying that people are looking for a nurse or a purse, a cynical but sometimes accurate description.
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I like movies, but I’m not sure I’d like dating today, mostly because I wasn’t particularly good at it in high school and my 20s when life and expectations were simpler. I spent prom night with three girlfriends, eating Chef Boyardee pizza from a kit and listening to albums. That I didn’t have a date—this was 1978— surprised no one at the time or today when I bring it up to friends during the occasional high school-wasmiserable/wonderful (teller’s choice) conversations.
My mom, in her well-intentioned but potentially psychologically damaging way, identified the problem: me. Boys don’t like girls who “act too smart.” I studiously dodged science classes in high school, so she was right about the acting part. What I lacked in brains I made up for in selfconfidence. I ignored her advice and its implications, saving thousands in therapy bills.
A few months after graduating from college, I went on my last first date and married the guy four years later.
I encountered bright spots, too. The matchmaker and dating coach I interviewed brought hardy optimism to their work and I was buoyed by their comments. I also talked to people who’ve had good luck dating, both online and by happenstance; one couple left on a cross-country hiking trip last week.
Aside from dating, we cover other topics in the issue, ranging from outer space to the outdoors. The April 8 eclipse should be exciting and, being a solar eclipse, dark. I’m prepared to be celestially impressed.
Our story about camping is a primer for people like me who aren’t inclined to sleep outdoors. I’ve given camping a lot of chances over the years and, until recently, I’d rather rewatch “Jaws the Revenge” than spend another night sleeping on the ground.
Thanks to the camping story, I’m rethinking my anti-smoky fire, sleeping-on-rocks bias. I’m up for a “Godfather II”-like sequel experience. With a nod to my late mom, I’m smart enough or act smart enough to know that a shark with a grudge is no competition for a night under the stars, as long as I’m better prepared this time around. A mobster beats a monster every time.
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On a path from Mexico to Canada, the much-anticipated total solar eclipse will put on a show for Northeast Ohio on April 8. The sun and moon will appear to line up perfectly only above a narrow strip of land 100 miles wide, from southwest to northeast. Crossing into Ohio at 3:08 p.m., the moon’s shadow will swiftly exit the state at 3:19 p.m., moving at a speed of over 2,000 miles per hour.
Along this path, Cleveland will experience totality between 3:13 and 3:17 p.m. Northeast Ohio counties along this path of totality include Medina, Summit, Cuyahoga, Geauga, Lake and Ashtabula.
Within the umbral shadow, the moon will cover the sun completely. The sky will darken to a twilight blue, with sunset oranges at the horizon. The faint plasma of the sun’s corona will be visible, stretching across the sky. During totality, stars will become visible and nocturnal wildlife may wake up, thinking that it’s nighttime, while diurnal wildlife might head to sleep. Listen for changes in bird calls, as well.
Most projections indicate that Stark, Portage, Mahoning and Trumbull counties fall in the path of partial totality, in which the moon will appear to take a bite out of the sun by covering part of its disk, leaving a sliver moon visible.
In all of U.S. history, only 21 total solar eclipses have crossed the lower 48 states. The last total solar eclipse visible in Ohio was in 1806; according to ohio. gov, the next one in the Buckeye State will be in 2099.
To join in on county-specific eclipse events, see ohio.org/ home/eclipse. And remember to protect your eyes with genuine eclipse glasses (labeled ISO 12312-2) or other solar filters to avoid serious eye damage.
Sources: Ohio Total Solar Eclipse | Emergency Management Agency & Scientific American
Our popular Style Stop columnist Linda Peavy is out with a new book, “The Cultured Curves Guide to Style for Mature Curvy Women.” Don’t be fooled by the title. Linda says every woman will find fashion how-tos and a roadmap to a more stylish you, regardless of shape or size. From lingerie and swimwear to jeans and gowns, Linda’s got us covered. Get your copy at Amazon.com.
The 48th Cleveland International Film Festival runs from April 3 – 13 at Playhouse Square, followed by CIFF48 Streams, Presented by PNC, April 14 – 21, online.
More than 360 films will be part of this year’s robust lineup, and the Festival will welcome more than 300 guest filmmakers who will be on
hand for in-person and virtual Q&As. CIFF48 program details are available at clevelandfilm.org. Tickets are on sale now for CIFF Members and to the general public on Friday, March 22. For more information about CIFF48 at Playhouse Square and CIFF48 Streams, visit clevelandfilm.org.
If you’re looking for a nursing home for a loved one or yourself, dive into the state’s new online tool that provides detailed information about every facility in Ohio in one convenient digital location.
The Navigator on the Ohio Department of Aging’s website (aging. ohio.org) has a searchable map of every nursing home, comparing staff ratios, services, health and safety
violations, Medicare and Medicaid quality ratings, beds, satisfaction scores, and almost every other detail you might want to know.
The site allows side-by-side comparisons of two (mobile version) or three (desktop/tablet version) nursing homes and an instant share feature to forward facility phone numbers and websites to others.
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Electronic medical records, smart TVs, pandemic video conferences and other techy topics—we’ve maneuvered our way through them all and more with the patient, helpful guidance of our Tech Talk columnist Tak Sato.
If you like Tak’s columns, you’ll want to attend his 8th Annual Living in the Digital World Senior Expo & Conference featuring workshops and exhibitors. The free event is Thursday, May 23 from 9:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. at the Don Umerley Civic Center, 21016 Hilliard Blvd. in Rocky River.
This is getting out of hand… in a good way. The Mind Challenge for the New Majority, a trivia tournament started by Northeast Ohio residents Phil Levine and Art Greenberg, kicks off its sixth season next month. More than 66 cities and 700 participants throughout the region will compete for cash prizes to benefit their senior centers.
The tournament runs from April 15 through May 22. Chances are, if your local recreation or senior center isn’t involved, one nearby is. Why not join a team and test your trivia skills? Learn more at themindchallenge.org.
Next Stop: Smartphones By
Tak SatoSmartphones are a hot topic in my classes for people 55 and older.
Those who’ve taken our free “Discover Digital Literacy!” program want to know about smartphones and how they work. That’s the good news. The not-so-good news is that many Boomers and older adults, especially first-time buyers, are confused about the sea of provider options.
Younger people have grown up immersed in technology fueled by the internet, also known as the cloud. Because they use technology throughout their day, digital literacy comes naturally. That’s not true for older adults who often feel like they’re drowning in an alphabet soup of technology jargon.
One of their most frequent questions? How smartphones use Wi-Fi and mobile data.
Most monthly cell service charges are calculated through meters that measure minutes spent talking and, when family and friends prefer
to communicate through texts, on messages sent. Smartphone carriers say yapping and tapping (talking and texting) is free. We know nothing is free, so let’s just say it’s included in the overall pricing. Most of your monthly invoice comes from metered mobile data use.
Smartphones need to be always connected to the internet, so when a user taps on the email app icon, the smartphone can get to the email inbox in the cloud (internet). Anything other than talking or texting on the smartphone uses the monthly mobile data allocation.
Cell phones and smartphones connect to carriers’ towers to make/ receive phone calls. Your smartphone also connects to the same towers to reach the internet (the cloud). That’s why in addition to getting a smartphone, you’ll need to buy mobile data from a carrier of your choice.
You could buy a smartphone and use only Wi-Fi to connect it to the cloud but that defeats the purpose of having
a phone that can be used anywhere. Wi-Fi coverage is limited, so your smartphone use will also be limited to a specific Wi-Fi area (your home if you have Wi-Fi, for example). Think of it this way: smartphones have two onramps— mobile data and Wi-Fi— to get on the information superhighway.
The choice boils down to guessing the number of minutes and messages you’ll need each month. Most mobile data plans offer a choice of gigabytes of data per month. The top tier, and most expensive choice, is an unlimited plan that eliminates the guesswork of calculating your phone use and messages.
If you already have Wi-Fi at home, regardless of whether you chose a limited or unlimited mobile data plan, I recommend connecting your smartphone to the home Wi-Fi. Why? Using your smartphone while connected to your home Wi-Fi, will NOT use mobile data when you use the apps on the smartphone and their services in the cloud. This way, if you have a limited plan, you save the limited mobile data allotment per month for when you need to use the smartphone when you are out and about, like getting turn-by-turn directions from Google or Apple Maps apps. Even when you have an unlimited mobile data plan, your Wi-Fi may be faster than the mobile data connection, depending on where you live.
You can also connect to free public Wi-Fi at coffee shops and other places, but that can expose your private information to others. I don’t shop or bank when I’m connected to public Wi-Fi networks.
Explaining technology requires a lot of words and more space than this column allows; demystifying smartphones is no exception. If you need more information, email me at editor@northeastohioboomer.com. Put “Tech Talk” in the subject line so I can tackle the subject in another Tech Talk column.
Tak Sato is the founder of the Clevelandarea nonprofit, Center for Aging in the Digital World (empowerseniors.org), which teaches digital literacy to people 60+ through the free Discover Digital Literacy program.
YOU CAN WEAR By
Linda PeavyThe runways are officially closed. New York Fashion
Week Winter 2024 is a wrap, and I’ve got seven trends you will see coming to a retailer near you.
Spanx Perfect Asymmetrical Suit
Shoji Plus Size Metallic Jersey Gathered Gown
Bows are not just for little girls anymore; bows are back. From embellishments to shoes to hats to blouses, bows were everywhere. Want to use one that’s chic and modern? Try a low-heeled shoe with a cute bow at the toe or a sophisticated blouse with a bow at the neck. Coach used bows to accessorize their handbags.
Mackage
Rose Wool and Leather Coat Tadashi
Modern Metallics are not your 1970s metallics. In rich hues, the runway metallics were classy and chic, with an air of sophistication. Christian Siriano’s collection used metallics to highlight his show.
Orange is bright and looks good on many complexions. It was featured in collections from light peachy hues to dazzling sequins. Helmut Lang offered a homage to this color in their garments.
Office wear means it’s time to dress for the office again. You will have plenty of options from the runways collection shown this year. From tailored suits to separates, pulling together an outfit will be easy. Tory Burch featured several designs using office wear as a mainstay of her runway show.
Executive Coats are style statements. Remember when coats were only used to keep you warm? Now, they are as much of a fashion statement as your outfit. These collections were made with high-end fabric from single-breasted to double-breasted to hooded. The Michael Kors Collection stood out.
The hottest color of the fall isn’t going anywhere. Red is here to stay, as was apparent during Fashion Week. From blouses to haute couture gowns to pants, red was ablaze. Christian Cowen used red fur to accent his garments.
One of the most popular color combinations was in full effect in New York. From asymmetrical designs to solids, the shows offered a variety of elegant ensembles showcasing black and white. Badgley Mischka used these colors to highlight their collections.
Linda Peavy is a Cleveland-based fashion influencer with a global reach, providing body positivity presentations internationally as the founder of Cultured Curves (culturedcurves.com). Linda is an NEO Boomer columnist and blogger with Style Stop, your onestop source of fashion tips that will keep you looking sensational at any age.
April 8 is a big day for Northeast Ohio, when a special, once-in-a-lifetime celestial event will be occurring: a rare total eclipse of the sun.
Many projections indicate that the next total eclipse in the United States will not happen until August 23, 2044, but in Ohio, we’d have to wait a few more lifetimes for the chance to see one in our backyard. So, grab this terrific opportunity to share this celestial event with your grandchildren.
Whether you can be with them on April 8 or not, you can still prepare for the eclipse together and talk about what will be taking place.
Teach your grandchildren about a solar eclipse, which occurs when the moon passes between the orbit of the sun and the earth, blocking the sun from earthly view. What will be happening on April 8 in Ohio is a total solar eclipse, when the moon completely blocks the sun. You can make a model to help identify the position of where everything has to be before an eclipse will occur. Use a beach ball for the sun, a tennis ball for Earth and a golf ball for the moon. Take this replica a step further by setting up the balls in a dark room and using a flashlight to simulate an eclipse.
Discuss with the grandkids what to expect during the period of total eclipse which will last about 4 minutes in mid-afternoon at approximately 3:15. (Time is dependent on your viewing location). Be aware of environmental changes; as the day darkens into night, you may see stars, the air will feel cooler and animals think dusk has fallen early. You may also be able to see a 360-degree sunset. With the sun in totality, the outer atmosphere (corona) will be visible and we may see bright pink spots, the color of glowing hydrogen gas, which are gigantic loops of plasma called prominences that rise from the sun’s surface. To find more fun facts go to science.nasa.gov/resource/solar-eclipse.
Hopefully, the weather will cooperate and the skies will be clear, but if not, the eerie daytime darkness will still be very noticeable.
It’s very important to tell your grandchildren that regular sunglasses will not be sufficient to view these events and to not look directly at the sun. Many retail chains will be offering recommended brands; special eclipse celebration venues also will have glasses available.
Make sure the “ISO” (International Organization for Standardization) icon is on the glasses as well as the reference #12312-2. There are filters for your camera or phone for imaging the solar event. Be sure that you are not able to see anything through the filter except a small bright-white LED bulb spot from your phone flashlight.
An easy and fun project to do with your grandchild to view the eclipse is to construct a homemade pinhole projector. Take a large cardboard box that will fit over your head. Tape a piece of white paper to the inside on one end. Cut an approximately ½-inch hole in the opposite side and tape a piece of aluminum foil over it. Lastly, poke a pinhole through the foil. To view, hold the box over your head with the pinhole facing the sun. Looking at the white paper, a small image of the sun will appear. A longer box will give you a larger image.
There are many events and watch parties planned in Northeast Ohio to participate in viewing this awesome phenomenon, and more will be added as the time gets closer. Many communities will be holding solar eclipse parties in nearby parks.
The Total Eclipse Festival 2024 at the Great Lakes Science Center is partnering with the Cleveland Orchestra and NASA’s Glenn Research Center to host a three-day (April 6-8) celestial celebration at North Coast Harbor.
Additional options to gather include Crocker Park, Lake Metroparks Farm Park, Holden Arboretum, and unique celebrations such as Total Eclipse at the Point at Cedar Point, Dark in the Park party before the Guardian’s home opener, and a Jet Express Eclipse Viewing Party along Lake Erie.
If all of the above sounds like too many crowds, excitement and traffic, opt instead to go to a secluded park with an open field (or your backyard), pack a picnic lunch and enjoy a calmer viewing. Just don’t miss it. Gather with your family and grandkids, grab your glasses and experience together awesome moments as the moon briefly obscures the sun at totality.
KidShow. Entertainment, kids’ activities, snacks, prizes, costume characters, and more. 11 a.m.-6 p.m. Great Lakes Mall, 7850 Mentor Ave., Mentor, kidshowinfo.com
World Water Day. Games, experiments and crafts to commemorate this internationallyrecognized day. 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Watershed Stewardship Center, 2277 W. Ridgewood Drive, Parma, clevelandmetroparks.com. FREE
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Egg Hatching at the Library. Stop by the children’s department to see chicken eggs ready to hatch. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., mentorpl.org
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The Grandparent Connection. Spring is a great time to explore nature with your grandchild. 10-11 a.m. Children’s Schoolhouse Nature Park, 9045 Baldwin Road, Kirtland Hills, lakemetroparks.com
3/31
Spring Craft: DIY Kites. Take advantage of the spring winds by making and flying
your very own kite. 2-4 p.m. Summit Lake Nature Center, 411 Ira Ave., Akron, summitmetroparks.org
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Preschoolers in the Garden. Explore the fascinating array of seeds. 10-11:30 a.m. Krabill Lodge, 7597 Ballash Road, Medina, medinacountyparks.com FREE
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Total Eclipse of the Zoo. Fun activities through the zoo, leading up to the eclipse. 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Akron Zoo, 505 Euclid Ave., Akron, akronzoo.org. $5-18
4/13
Animal Care. A behind-thescenes look at the animal care at The Nature Center at Shaker Lakes. 11 a.m.-2 p.m. 2600 South Park Blvd., Cleveland, shakerlakes.org
5/19
Family Fun Day. Activities, food and more for one great day at the lake. Trail Lake Park 605 Ravenna Road, Streetsboro, portageparkdisctrict.org
Dopamine Style has become a recent buzzphrase, yet when I think about how I feel in my home and creating it, I realize I’ve been decorating this way since I was a kid.
My earliest memory is from when I was around 7 years old; I rearranged my dresser with all the little trinkets and treasures I collected in my musical jewelry box
with the dancing ballerina. Everything needed to be pleasing to my eye—and I knew I was finished when it sparked joy—until my sister messed it up. That brings us back to dopamine, the reward part of our brain. Think of it as neuroscience merging with personal style.
When we finish a task, journal, get quality sleep,
celebrate small wins, start a new hobby, or schedule self-care, it kicks in our dopamine. Dopamine styling communicates cheerful self-expression and raises happiness levels in your home. Boost dopamine with small, manageable home projects. Each time you complete a task, it elevates your dopamine. It feels good and builds momentum to accomplish
more on your to-do list—all positive benefits.
While everyday tasks can be boring, we can choose to make positive changes that are fun and energizing.
For example, we all must do laundry; why not make that space aesthetically pleasing with some organizing and coordinating elements? While raising the kids, the laundry area was in the basement of our last family
Try these dopamine decor ideas to transition to spring:
• Change out the prints in existing frames. Reusing the large frame I’ve had for years, I find inexpensive prints or fabrics that make me happy and frame those.
• Switch out pillow covers. To save space, don’t buy new pillows.
• Bring out a collection. I have fun, funky birds from thrifting and art shows and a few small, framed birds. What is your favorite item that speaks of springtime and happiness?
• Add a picture ledge, a simple way to layer and switch out your favorite art. If it makes you happy, put it where you can enjoy it.
• Create an ever-changing vignette on a foyer credenza using vases, dishes and trinkets (given or found).
• Surround yourself with treasures that warm your heart or remind you of travels or people you love, yet avoid cluttering your space. Tuck some away so you can
home. It was dull and dreary for the first few years, as we had other space priorities upstairs. When we finally got to DIYing this space, we added accent pops of red and lots of storage. Creating a rolling folding table and a gift-wrapping area made this once-dull space a fun, valuable and pleasurable place to hang out while doing tedious tasks.
Moving into a smaller condo presented us with different laundry space challenges. This space houses the furnace and the garage entrance; it’s tight and can quickly become a dumping ground.
We added a personality punch with dramatic blackand-white peel-and-stick
spotlight different items over time.
• Create a bedroom sanctuary with the best bedding you can afford and calming colors that create melatonin for deep sleep.
• Clean your windows to enjoy your view.
• Use mirrors to reflect light to improve your vitamin D3 levels.
• Craft a curated home that is welcoming and feels like a huge hug.
• Infuse fresh scents and flowers to elevate dopamine levels, too.
• Layer rugs, blankets and colors in doses that sing to you.
• Use clear containers for items used daily in the bathroom and enjoy the visual appeal of these charming containers on a tray.
wallpaper, Ikea chair hooks and painted the doors black. Little touches like black baskets, floating shelves, and detergent in a pretty yet practical bottle transformed the laundry into a visually appealing space.
Natural and faux topiaries are my go-to for a dopamine reward. I love clustering a few different heights and shapes onto a lovely tray. Lately, I’ve been using playful and sentimental items on top of the dirt, like a glass heart and tiny dishes with inspirational words. They make me happy and remind me of the people who gave it to me.
Spring is in the air. Along with it comes the urge to immerse ourselves in the great outdoors and maybe try camping for the first time.
Just don’t rush out the door without a plan.
Remember “The Accidental Tourist?” The novel-turned-film followed the stumblings and mishaps of a travel guide writer who failed to prepare before setting off to his next location. Of all people, he should have known better.
Seems obvious, but it’s vital to be well-planned and organized before embarking on any trip… especially if you’re going camping. Whether you rough it or glamp it, we’re here to help streamline the process for you. Pay attention to the details because this old adage applies: Failing to plan is planning to fail.
For Macon—the fictional writer of
travel guides for reluctant traveling businessmen who preferred to stay home—his rigid mindset was a huge part of his problem. He was so focused on maintaining predictable, mundane routines wherever he traveled, that he missed out on the characteristic landscape, culture and adventure each locale could bring him.
A rigid mindset is a camping killjoy. While you should prepare for inevitabilities such as rain, bugs, mud and scratches, don’t make them deal breakers. Or you’ll be miserable. The great outdoors is a landscape of the unexpected so enter into that space of possibilities, fresh views and new experiences.
To enjoy a night or two under the stars for the first time, find a friend or a group with experience and gear to ease you into your first venture (or rent equipment from dozens of outfitter shops throughout Northeast Ohio). No need to invest in rugged
camping gear if you overnight in an RV rather than a two-man tent.
You don’t have to venture far from home to find lots of public and private campgrounds. Here are a few suggestions:
Geauga County Park District offers four parks where you can stay the night in a tent or lean-to with a fireplace: (Big Creek in Chardon Township, Chickagami in Parkman Township, Headwaters in Huntsburg Township, and The West Woods in Russell Township). There’s even an enclosed rustic treehouse with a bunk bed at Big Creek Park overlooking a scenic ravine. All sites include a fire ring, grill and picnic table; most sites provide vehicle access.
After viewing the online campsite map, go to the Reservations page to claim a campsite. Online reservations must be made at least seven days in advance or by phone before 4 p.m. on the reserved day (walk-up/
first-come-first-served camping is no longer permitted). Call (440) 2869516 or visit geaugaparkdistrict.org/ activity/camping/ for details.
Summit Metro Parks usually offers campsites at Nimsila Reservoir and Towpath Trail but Nimsila is closed for renovations until June 2024. Basic tent camping is permitted year-round at two primitive sites along the Towpath Trail at Big Bend Trailhead in Akron and about 1/4 mile south of the Franklin Trailhead in New Franklin. Fires are not permitted; only onenight stays are allowed. Call or visit summitmetroparks.org/camping. aspx for more details.
Ohio State Parks offer a range of options at 60 campgrounds, including primitive, tent-only; electric, full-service and pull-through sites; equestrian camping, cedar or Sherman cabins; group camps and
Lisa and Doug Baker are fairly new to camping. Lisa’s photos offer glimpses of relaxing scenes that await campers at state park campgrounds in Northeast Ohio.
some hike-in camping opportunities. Each campsite includes a level parking pad, picnic table and fire ring.
Reservations, which can be made up to six months in advance, are required to book your campsite. Check availability and make a reservation at reserveohio.com or call
866-OHIOPARKS.
Cuyahoga Valley National Park no longer offers camping of any kind. However, CVNP does recommend a list of campgrounds within various driving distances. The four closest options (within 10 miles of CVNP) include Heritage Farms and Valley Overlook in Peninsula, Silver Springs Park in Stow, and Streetsboro/ Cleveland KOA in Streetsboro. See nps.gov/cuva/planyourvisit/ camping.htm or call 440-717-3890.
This list is not comprehensive since everyone has their particular priorities and camping styles but it’s a good start:
• Bags (plastic ones for trash, wet clothes, dirty clothes, etc.)
• Batteries
• Blankets
• Bottle opener
• Bug spray
• Camp chairs
• Camp stove & fuel
• Camp table (foldable)
• Cooler/food/drinks
• Clothing (extra sets & layers)
• Cutlery
• Disposable or washable plastic plates, cups, bowls
• Duct tape
• Firewood
• Hammock
• Hat
• Hiking boots
• Lantern/flashlights
• Matches
• Medical supplies/ first aid kit
• Mosquito netting
• Paper towels/wet wipes
• Pillow
• Pocket knife
• Pots, pans & pot holders
• Rain gear
• Socks
• Sleeping bag w/pad
• Sunglasses
• Sunscreen
• Tent, tarp
• Toiletries (towels, toothpaste, toothbrush, toilet paper, comb, brush, travel-size shampoo, soap, chapstick)
• Water (bottled)
Hipcamp - If you want to try Airbnb-style camping at campsites on private properties, try hipcamp.com, billed as “the most comprehensive resource for discovering and booking unique outdoor stays including tent camping, RV parks, cabins, treehouses, and glamping” since 2013. Options abound throughout Northeast Ohio. Explore at hipcamp. com/en-US/d/united-states/ohio/ cleveland/camping/all.
Harvest Hosts - This sounds too good to be true: “Overnight RV camping at 5,156+ farms, wineries, breweries, attractions, and more, nationwide. Enjoy unlimited stays at unique camping locations with no camping fees.” But for one annual membership fee, this is the promise. Once you’ve graduated from newbie camper to the full-time RV lifestyle, check it out at harvesthosts.com.
Remember, one of the biggest appeals to camping is simply getting out of your homecentered routine, where things are predictably constant. We tend to take the comfortable aspects of daily life for granted; we notice and appreciate them less; we can get bored and cranky.
So bust out of your rut with a close-to-home camping adventure. You’ll enjoy the refreshing break from your humdrum, then you’ll appreciate home even more when you return.
It’s no secret that people 55 and older gravitate toward comfortable routines. Camping shakes all that up. So what’s the appeal of essentially becoming a turtle with your home on your back?
Doug and Lisa Baker of Mantua have an answer for you. Doug is a recent retiree and Lisa is easing into part-time work after both have spent the previous 30 years establishing a lovely home, working hard and raising a family. Over the past couple of years, with Doug’s retirement on the horizon, they started camping with friends to test if that’s a lifestyle
they’d like to embrace once they had more time to spare.
“I like camping because it forces me to stop the hundred different things I’m doing at home,” Lisa says. “Once I’m at the campsite, I can just turn myself off, finally sit down, look out at the lake, take time to talk to people, and truly enjoy myself. Getting there is hectic. But once I’m there, I can relax, have fun and just chill. Have you ever kayaked at midnight? It’s so gorgeous. I can’t do that from home.”
The Bakers tent-camped when their kids were young. But after one night sleeping on the ground, Lisa decided a small camper was the best way forward during this phase of life. They recently traded it in for a slightly bigger camper with a bumpout to accommodate guests.
So far, the Bakers have enjoyed camping at nearby state parks, including Guilford Lake, Pymatuning, West Branch and Mosquito Lake. They prioritize peaceful lakeside
campsites with sunset views and wildlife sightings, where they can chitchat by the fire at night and gaze up at the stars.
They made reservations six months ago for a campsite at Pymatuning to observe the April 8 solar eclipse. By next year, they plan to venture farther, perhaps taking a month to visit state parks out West.
For the Bakers—especially now that they have acclimated to camp culture—camping offers them “forced relaxation” because they can’t unwind at home.
“We finally get quiet, take in nature, reconnect with each other and meet new people,” Lisa says. Doug adds, “It’s real, honest-to-goodness downtime. And for us as a couple, we get each other’s undivided attention. That’s the biggest plus for us.”
Estelle Rodis-Brown is NEO Boomer magazine’s associate editor... and a happy camper.
If you think dating in your 20s and 30s is tricky, ask someone 55 or older what it’s like to navigate the relationship game:
“I am 65 and female. Three years ago, I moved from Pennsylvania to Ohio. In both states and over the past decade, many of my friends and I have bemoaned not meeting anyone
suitable—year after year.
“We have been to large singles events to see around 200 well-groomed, energetic and interesting women, and seven guys in polyester clothing in need of dental work and a modern haircut. Smaller singles events, for example, happy hour in a local restaurant, might draw 25
Dating is a lot tougher in our 60s, or how we imagined it as kids in the 1960s.
women and three men.
“Volunteer work, whether for a day or a season (Master Gardeners, library, Wounded Warrior Project, adult literacy, wildlife rehab, rabies clinics—you name it) is usually performed by mostly women.
“Bars, meet-up groups, music events, cultural events, bus trips, hiking groups: many
women, very few men. Our activities and participation reflect our actual interests. No women I know attend, but are not actually interested in, for example, sporting events or gun shows to meet men.
“Many of my friends have long given up on internet dating sites, either through disappointing experiences or for fear of being scammed or otherwise abused. Then there is the running commentary that men are looking for women 20-30 years younger than themselves. On this subject, the owner of a singles organization remarked: ‘Yes, but there is not a big demographic of women looking for men 20-30 years older than themselves.
“The Ohio gender ratio is 96 men to 100 women, according to the internet. The question remains: ‘Where is everybody?’”
— an email from a reader who asked to remain anonymous
AND SEX: too much of some—not enough of the other—complicate dating as an older adult. Plus, folks have an uneasy relationship with the topic. Even though it’s one of the most-requested story topics to be covered in Northeast Ohio Boomer magazine, almost everyone has requested anonymity when asked about their dating experiences.
Let’s say it’s been 35 or 40 years since your last first date. Since then, you’ve married, and possibly buried your partner, raised kids, retired from a career, and maneuvered decades of joy-filled highs and crushing lows.
You’re on a date (finally). Now what? What do you say about a lifetime?
Not much, at least initially, say the dating experts at It’s Just Lunch, a popular matchmaking service that works one-on-one with clients throughout the dating process. Many of their clients are between 55 and 75 with long gaps since their last dates. Natalia Pajestka is a matchmaker for the Cleveland office, and Jolene Beaton is a dating coach.
While it’s tempting to “catch up” someone with your life story, that’s not a good strategy for a first date, Beaton says. “A big pitfall is getting stuck in the past, talking about past relationships instead of what they want to create.”
Pajestka says the key is to remain optimistic and open to learning about someone as they are today, not what they did or who they were. Those can be left to discover later as the relationship evolves.
Leave plenty of opportunities during the first date for small talk to get to know someone, Beaton adds. She’ll role-play with clients who are unsure of how to proceed.
For example, if someone asks about your plans for the weekend, instead of saying you’re going to run errands and visit your sister, try adding that you’re swinging by your favorite coffee shop because you love fancy coffee drinks, then you’re going to the farmers market because you enjoy cooking with fresh herbs. The visit to your sister? You’re heading to the art museum for an Impressionist exhibit. Details provide fodder for further conversation.
The popular TV show “The Golden Bachelor” put a spotlight on dating over 55, reminding people that sex, love, companionship and mutual interests can be as important to older adults as they are to younger people.
“Dating gets better with age because the kids are launched, money is better, they’ve gotten comfortable with their bodies. The 35-year-old might be looking with a checklist; the over-55-year-old wants health and a lifestyle match,” Beaton says.
The women know that dating can be daunting, especially after a three- or four-decade gap. Rip off the Band-Aid and just go on a date, they advise.
Says Beaton, “You’ve got a lot of life left. Ask yourself: ‘Do I really want to go it alone?’”
Joyce McFarland, 86, of Twinsburg, is an exception. She’s an active member of the Solon Senior Center and has had mixed success with dating since the death of her husband. Several men she has dated have died, one wanted a companion and marriage but no physical touching. Another insisted on keeping their relationship a secret.
Most of her single and widowed friends do group activities. Like others we talked to, McFarland has found the pool of eligible and willing dating partners shallow. Finding a match to connect with is complicated because of health, finances, family and other factors layered onto late-in-life relationships.
“The perception is you’re old, he’s old, so that’s enough,” she says. “I feel like I’m 65.”
Leo (not his real name), 70, started dating two years ago. “I wasn’t even looking,” he says, but met a woman in his neighborhood, found they had a lot in common including a love of hiking, and they’ve been together ever since.
“I think sometimes if you try to force it, it becomes more of a mental challenge,” he adds.
Another woman, 72, who’s been dating someone for a couple of years, advises others looking for a relationship to avoid focusing on someone’s past.
“We each keep evolving. Be open to who they are now. Don’t make judgments; it takes time to get to know someone,” she says.
She recommends the book “How to Know a Person,” by David Brooks as a good jumping-off point for new relationships.
If you’re hoping to get lucky in love or simply lucky in like, the common denominator often boils down to just that: luck. Is that helpful? Probably not. As with most things in life, there’s always a chance, and sometimes that’s enough.
Marie Elium is editor of Northeast Ohio Boomer magazine.
With all its risks and hassles, why date?
Making connections with others is not only good for our health, but it also validates us. That’s the word from Cleveland relationship coach Kathy Dawson.
“Humans are not designed to be isolated. We’re designed to be in a relationship, whether it’s with someone from the opposite sex, the same sex, or in friendships. It’s important to surround ourselves with people. Our heart feels better. Loneliness is living on the surface in a relationship,” she says.
“Some people want a romantic relationship and some people want a companion to travel through life together to make ourselves feel relevant,” Dawson says.
When looking for a relationship or starting one, don’t come across as desperate. Don’t focus on outcomes or expectations. “Just go out and enjoy whomever you meet. Take it one day or date at a time,” she advises.
Dawson recommends three ways to get to know people. The first is through their stories. Look for opportunities to tell stories about yourself and to coax stories from the other person. A questionanswer session comes across like an interview. Story sharing during a casual outing, like over coffee, and listening to those stories, unravels and reveals a lot.
After the initial get-together, plan an activity date, Dawson says. A game of pickleball or a walk in the park can show you how someone interacts with nature or a sport. Their actions and reactions are telling.
Finally, go to a movie or play together followed by dinner or drinks. Talking about what you’ve seen is another opportunity to share or tell stories, helping to further get to know someone.
You’ve set aside the doubts and indecision and have gingerly stepped into the dating scene. Where do you go? Cleveland’s Linda Peavy of Cultured Curves (and Northeast Ohio Boomer’s Style Stop columnist) says these are great places for first or second dates in Northeast Ohio.
. ROCK & ROLL HALL OF FAME
Everyone loves music, and this place will spark conversation and let you know your date’s musical interests. Plus, it is near the lake for a romantic walk and breezy talks.
. CLEVELAND MUSEUM OF ART
It is a feast for the eyes and offers a glimpse of your date’s tastes. Afterward, catch The Cleveland Orchestra downtown or this summer at Blossom Music Center.
. “A CHRISTMAS STORY” HOUSE TOUR
If your date doesn’t love the iconic movie “A Christmas Story,” ditch the date. This day should spark humor and a fun conversation. Afterward, go to one of the great restaurants in the Tremont area.
. PIER W RESTAURANT
Romance will be in the air with any of their delectable dishes. You can bond over dessert.
. PINSTRIPES
For a fun evening out, try bowling. You will see how competitive you can be in a public setting. Plus, you can eat afterward in Pinstripes’ fabulous restaurant.
. CUYAHOGA VALLEY SCENIC RAILROAD
Get to know someone while enjoying the lovely Cuyahoga Valley National Park. If you’re heading south, enjoy an afternoon at the Akron Zoo for a fun-filled day.
. 17 RIVER GRILLE IN CHAGRIN FALLS
Take a stroll along Main Street in Chagrin Falls to see the sights. Eat at 17 River Grill overlooking the falls for a romantic setting. End up at Jeni’s Splendid Ice Creams or The Popcorn Shop for a fun ending.
. HOUSE OF BLUES
Listen to great music while engaging in great conversation. The food will be filling. So should the conversation.
. MUSIC BOX SUPPER CLUB
Choose a great local band and taste delectable dishes in this picturesque setting. Afterward, tour the flats for a festive evening.
. LADY CAROLINE CRUISE
Enjoy lake views while engaging in conversation about Cleveland’s history and sports. The sites and lengthy ride should spark a conversation that will let you know if you are a match.
. HONORABLE MENTION
Nighttown on Cedar Road in Cleveland Heights is back with happy hours and Sunday brunch.
• Eharmony
• SilverSingles (50 and older)
• SeniorMatch (50 and older)
• Zoosk
• DateMyAge
• ChristianMingle
Don’t Get Burned
Most of us know at least one or two couples who met through online dating sites and now live happily ever after. Good for them, and hopefully good for you.
But occasionally, people encounter the dark side of online dating: scammers.
Dubbed “romance scammers,” these folks set
up fake profiles and encourage you to go off the dating app to communicate. They then spin a tale of longdistance romance, claiming they’re in the military or are otherwise not available to meet in person. Next comes a cash grab: They want money for a family emergency, a plane ticket, or some other made-up story.
Reported romance scams have jumped 80 percent in recent years. Victims shelled out $547 million, most from gift cards to dating scammers in 2021, the most recent year available, according to federal regulators.
One red flag: the romance scammer wants your money fast and in a way that you can’t get it back, like the gift cards mentioned above or through Western Union, for example. Don’t send money to someone you’ve never met.
If you suspect a scam, report the incident to the dating site and the Federal Trade Commission’s fraud hotline: ReportFraud.ftc.gov.
In this stage of our lives, many of us have coped with life’s stresses, realized our abilities and limitations, figured out how to learn and work well, and contributed to our community.
We’ve developed the resilience muscle—the ability to bounce back from difficult situations. But if you have a nagging feeling that the little voice inside you needs to talk to someone in the mental health field, take a thoughtful approach before you sit down for a session.
YES, YOU
Therapy can be helpful for two reasons, says Dr. Patrick Runnels, psychiatrist and Chief Medical Officer of Population and Behavioral Health at University Hospitals Cleveland Medical Center. “If you feel you are struggling with specific issues in your life (death of a loved one, a feeling of being ‘stuck’, tense relationships, or recent mood changes, for instance), or the need to treat a mental illness, a therapist might be very beneficial.”
People with mental health conditions often find psychotherapy, or “talk therapy” helpful. The type and length of your therapy will depend on your situation and insurance, and your therapy may be part of an overall treatment plan
that could include medication or other treatments.
Take the time to research the credentials of local therapists to find a good fit. “Among the most important considerations are what is most likely to help you open up and feel comfortable and positive about the therapist,” Dr. Runnels says.
“For many, that means seeing someone who is demographically similar to them (race, gender, sexual identity, etc.) while others feel that’s not important. While we don’t have specific evidence on age matching and therapy outcomes, general training includes preparation for managing the types of issues experienced by those 55 and older. But if a therapist feels like they’re not ‘getting’ you or a quick conversation doesn’t feel comfortable, then try someone else.”
For those with a mental illness, therapy can be an evidence-based intervention that relieves symptoms without any side effects of medications.
“While medications can be great, they don’t build skills and help people rethink problems in their lives,” says Dr. Runnels. “For those who don’t have a
mental illness but have problems, therapy also has strong evidence for helping resolve those problems. Marriage counseling is a perfect example. It really works to improve relationships. Finally, and this is important: People sometimes presume that therapy is forever. That simply is not true. The benefits of therapy are typically realized within two to three months, and the vast majority are time-limited interventions that proceed for less than a year.”
With the popularity of virtual doctor visits for appointments, virtual care has substantially improved the accessibility of therapy to those in remote locations, homebound patients and working adults. However, Dr. Kenneth Koncilja, a geriatrician at Cleveland Clinic’s Center for Geriatric Medicine, recommends patients try to meet their therapist in person for the initial session.
“Establish rapport with face-toface visits first,” he says. “Then subsequent
follow-up visits can be either in person or virtual. I always recommend periodic in-person therapy because the physical body language and emotion in the room can be palpable.”
Talking with a therapist for the first time about personal issues can be tough, even if it can help you come to grips with problems in your life. It can offer an emotional release and a sense of really being heard, understood and supported.
“Therapists are trained to help you examine your own cognitive process,” Dr. Koncilja says. “They are trained to address a myriad of mental and behavioral health issues and can also help with crafting healthy preventive strategies to improve resilience in the future.”
CHECK WITH YOUR INSURANCE PROVIDER to confirm your coverage for therapy. While many therapists don’t take insurance, many do, and it can be more affordable to find someone in your insurance network.
have had a very good friend for a long time, and I’m in awe of her.
A full-time caregiver for her mother, she works parttime, has interests she maintains, and many genuine friendships—not acquaintances—true friends. She makes connections and invests in her friendships.
Making friends as we get older is not easy for many of us. Friendship after retirement and even in mid-life is challenging, studies show. We assume friendships should grow naturally, but typically, they don’t. Particularly in our later years, when we often lose friends—to death, illness, or moving away—we need to be intentional about making new ones.
Friendships and strong social networks reduce the risk of early death by about 45 percent, according to many studies. By contrast, social isolation and loneliness are linked to a higher risk of dementia, heart disease, depression, and other mental and physical ailments. Research indicates that loneliness is as much of a health risk as smoking 15 cigarettes a day or excessive drinking.
Older people have a significant advantage over people in midlife: time. With children, jobs, aging parents and more, who has time to make friends? Connecting with new people can be relatively easy as we get older IF we’re willing to try. Here are ways to do it:
• Decide you want to make new friends. Acknowledging that you’re ready to make a change is the first step.
• Be intentional. Make an effort to show up, reach out and interact with others.
• Look for activities and groups that meet regularly. Friendships take time to cultivate. Groups provide an opportunity to get to know people.
• People will like you; it’s a selffulfilling prophecy. If you think you are likable (and you are!) you will behave in a warmer and friendlier way.
• Be the friend. Notice if someone needs assistance, and then offer it: a ride to the airport, or a meal after surgery. Helpfulness, support and compassion rank high among the qualities people look for in a friend.
• Don’t go looking for a best friend. It is a gift to have one special friend, someone with whom you can share your deepest feelings, and perhaps you have had that person but no longer do. Enjoy people for who they are and for what you can learn from them. You may develop a genuine and lasting friendship.
• Let others know you enjoy their company and what you like about them. We tend to like those whom we feel like us.
• Think outside of the box. Try to make friends with people of different ages; you can learn from each other. Younger friends, for example, may be handy with technology.
• Consider friendships with neighbors and acquaintances. Take time to have a meaningful conversation. Share something about yourself and ask about them.
• Be bold and ask if you can join in an activity with a group of people. You may be surprised how often people will welcome you, even after you’ve typically declined their invitations.
My good friend does many of the above things. She is the initiator and promoter of her friendships. She reaches out to people and ends up making connections that evolve into friendships.
As we age, friends can help each other in many ways, from getting through life’s challenges and losses to providing us with joy and happiness. It’s an effort worth making.
Jennifer Beach is an Advanced Aging Life Care Professional. She established Advocate for Elders (advocate4elders.com) in Rocky River and has 25 years of experience working with and advocating for older adults and their families.
The latter stage of your career can bring a variety of challenges and opportunities. Older children typically come with bigger expenses. College bills may be making their way to your mailbox or inbox. You may take time off unexpectedly to care for aging parents, a spouse or yourself. As your body begins to exhibit the effects of a life well lived, health care expenses begin to eat up a larger portion of your budget. And those pesky home and car repairs never seem to go away.
On the other hand, with 20+ years of work experience behind you, you could be reaping the benefits of the highest salary you’ve ever earned.
With more income at your disposal, now may be an ideal time to kick your retirement savings plan into high gear. If you’re 50 or older, you may be able to take advantage of catch-up contributions, which allow you to contribute up to $30,500 to your employer-sponsored plan in 2024 (up from $30,000 in 2022), versus a maximum of $23,000 for most everyone else (up from $22,500 in 2023).
In addition, if you haven’t yet met with a financial professional, now may be a good time to do so. A financial professional can help you refine your savings goal and investment allocations, as well as help you plan for the next stage.
With just a few short years until you celebrate the major step into retirement, it’s time to begin thinking about when and how you will begin drawing down your retirement plan assets. You might also want to adjust your investment allocations with an eye toward asset protection (although it’s still important to pursue a bit of growth to keep up with the rising cost of living). A financial professional can become an important ally to help with the decisions you will face at this important juncture.
You may want to discuss:
• Health care needs and costs, as well as retiree health insurance
• Income-producing investment vehicles
• Tax rates and living expenses in your desired retirement location
• Part-time work or other sources of additional income
You’ll also want to familiarize yourself with the required minimum distributions (RMDs). The IRS requires that you begin drawing down your retirement plan assets by April 1 of the year following the year you reach age 73. If you continue to work for your employer past age 73, you may delay RMDs from that plan until the year following your actual retirement.
Throughout your career, you may face other important decisions involving your retirement savings plan. For example, if your plan provides for Roth contributions, you’ll want to review the differences between these and traditional pre-tax contributions to determine the best strategy for your situation. While pre-tax contributions offer an up-front tax benefit, you’ll have to pay taxes on distributions when you receive them. On the other hand,
Bill DeMarco is an investment advisor representative with A&M Financial Group in Westlake. You can reach him at 440-249-0397, ext. 106 or go to amfinancialgroup.com. Advisory Services are offered through AMFG Wealth Management LLC, a Registered Investment Advisor. Note: You should not decide which investment options are appropriate for you based on tax considerations alone. Nor should you decide when (or if) to sell an asset solely based on the tax consequence. A financial or tax professional can help you decide what choices are right for your specific situation.
Roth contributions do not provide an up-front tax benefit, but qualified withdrawals will be tax-free. Whether you choose to contribute to a pre-tax account, a Roth account, or both depends on your goals.
Finally, as you make decisions about your plan on the road to retirement, be sure to review it alongside your other savings and investment strategies. While it’s generally not advisable to make frequent changes in your retirement plan investment mix, you will want to review your plan’s portfolio at least once each year and as major events (marriage, divorce, birth of a child, job change) occur throughout your life.
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Greater Cleveland Volunteers has a program designed specifically to combat the social isolation that some older adults suffer from. Chat Pals is a program that pairs volunteers with participants through weekly phone or video calls. Greater Cleveland Volunteers takes great care in matching up volunteers (aged 18+) with participants (55+), based on their interests and experiences.
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4/2
Spring Ephemeral Stroll
Early spring’s ephemeral wildflowers are popping up through the forest floor. Walk together and identify these gems. 5-6:30 p.m. Dix Park, 7318 State Route 44, Ravenna, portagecounty-oh.gov/portagepark-district. FREE
4/15
Embrace Life in Your Garden
Learn techniques to welcome pollinators and other beneficial insects to your vegetable garden and landscape. 7-8 p.m. Independence Branch Library, 6361 Selig Dr., cuyahogalibrary.org. FREE
MONDAYS
Digital Photography for Beginners and Beyond
Learn the basics of digital photography, starting with understanding what those symbols on your camera mean. 4/15-5/20. Valley Art Center, 155 Bell St., Chagrin Falls, valleyartcenter.org. $145
TUESDAYS
Poetry Workshop. Kick your writing into gear and explore a different element and form or poetry each week. 4/9-30. 7-8:30 p.m. Lee Road
Branch Library, 2345 Lee Road, Cleveland Hts., heightslibrary.org. FREE
3/30
Eclipse Workshop
Learn about the total solar eclipse and how to safely view it. 2-3 pm.
Independence Branch Library, 6361 Selig Dr., cuyahogalibrary.org FREE
4/6
Adult Art Night: Pet Portraits. Create a unique portrait of your
pet, have a drink and get creative. 7:30-9:30 p.m. Akron ArtWorks, 1684 Merriman Road Akron, akronartworks.com. $35
Ballroom Dance Workshop: Swing & Salsa. Come experience the art of ballroom dancing. 1-3 p.m. Fairmount Center for the Arts, 8400 Fairmount Road, Novelty, fairmountcenter.org. $35
4/9
Creative Aging Institute: Portraits & People. Adults 55+ receive an indepth, quality art-making
experience taught by a local artist. 1-3 p.m. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., akronartmuseum.org. $5
4/16
Cooking Class: Pasta Bolognese. Learn to make this popular and delicious Italian dish. 2-4 p.m. Miller Nature Preserve, 2739 Center Road, Avon, loraincountymetroparks. com. $43
4/21
Houseplant Kokedama. Create a hanging moss ball
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with a houseplant to take home. 2-4 p.m. Cleveland Botanical Garden, 11030 East Blvd., cbgarden.org $30-45
4/23 & 4/25
Beaches Kick Glass! Find out about this intriguing hobby and find hidden treasures along the shores of Lake Erie. If you’re already a collector, learn more about the passion for glassin’. 10 a.m. Tuesday. 6 p.m.Thursday. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., alpl.org. FREE
4/2
Beginner’s Knitting. Learn the basics of knitting and how to work with yarn to create whatever your heart desires. 10 a.m.-noon. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks. com. $32
5/4
Introduction to Firm Pastels. Learn the basics of layering and blending, and create a simple pastel still-life. 12:30-2:30 p.m. Bay Arts, 28795 Lake Road, Bay Village, bayarts.net. $40
MONDAYS
Delicious Discussions. Discuss new releases on the fourth Monday at downtown Willoughby establishment. 7-8 p.m. Willoughby Public Library, we247.org. FREE
TUESDAYS
Memory Cafe. Ar elaxing and comfortable gathering for those in the early stages of memory loss. 1-2 p.m. Various Akron Library branches, akronlibrary.org. FREE
Tea Time Book Club. An afternoon of tea, cookies and friendly discussion. Last
Tuesday of each month. 2-3 p.m. and 3:30-4:30 p.m. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., alpl.org. FREE
WEDNESDAYS
Adult Art Club. Share ideas and show off your work. Meets once a month. 6:307:30 p.m. Twinsburg Public Library, 10050 Ravenna Road, twinsburglibrary.org. FREE
Movie Club. A weekly showcase of movies that matter. Through 2/28. 2-5 p.m. Stow-Munroe Falls Public Library, 3512 Darrow Road, smfpl.org. FREE
Senior Corner. 4/3 Balance, Dizziness and Fall Prevention. 5/8 History of the Burning Cuyahoga River. 10:30 a.m. Columbia Branch Library, 13824 W. River Road, North Columbia Station, lorainpubliclibrary.org. FREE
Castaways. Meet with fellow fiber artists to work on projects, get ideas and learn from each other. Second Wednesdays. 10:30 a.m. Mentor-on-the-Lake Branch Library, 5642 Andrews Road, mentorpl. org. FREE
Riverinos. Book discussions and guest speakers on the third Wednesday of each month. 7-8:30 p.m. Rocky River Public Library, 1600 Hampton Road, rrpl.org. FREE
Martinis & Music. Live music and $10 martinis. 6-9 p.m. Sapphire Creek Winery & Gardens, 16965 Park Circle Dr., Chagrin Falls, sapphirecreek.com and Orchid House Winery, 155 Treat Road, Aurora, orchidhousewinery. com. FREE
Chamber Music in the Atrium. Piano Cleveland presents performances on
the third Tuesday of the month through May. Noon. The Cleveland Museum of Art, 11150 East Blvd., clevelandart.org. FREE
Sizzling Salsa Thursdays. Every Thursday night. 9 p.m.midnight. Viva Dance Studio, 1541 E. 38th St., Cleveland, vivadancestudio.com
4/5-5/5
Jitney. the story of generations of jitney drivers and how they impacted their communities. Beck Center for the Arts, 17801 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, beckcenter. org. $12-38
4/6
Darkside of the Moon: Solar Eclipse Concert. Dark Side of the Moon recreates, to a higher degree, the mystic and terrestrial sounds of the phenomenon that is Pink Floyd. 7:30 p.m. (The) Kent Stage, 175 East Main St., Kent, thekentstage. com. $31-36
4/7-21
Stomp. An explosive, inventive, provocative, witty, and utterly unique—an unforgettable experience for audiences of all ages. Connor Palace at Playhouse Square, 1615 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, playhousesquare. org. $50-75
5/8
The Peking Acrobats. See them push the limits of human ability, defying gravity with amazing displays of contortion, flexibility, and control. Akron Civic Theatre, 182 S. Main St., Akron, akroncivic.com. $28-48
5/11-6/9
In the Heights. The story of the corner bodega where the coffee is hot, light and sweet, the apartment windows are always open, and the cool breeze carries the percussive rhythm of the bustling city and three
variety of trains, planes. toys and collectables.
9 a.m.-3 p.m. Medina County Fairgrounds, 735
4/29. 9:30-11:30 a.m.
Bainbridge Library, 17222 Snyder Road, Chagrin Falls, divi.geaugalibrary.net. FREE - SPONSORED CONTENT -
generations of dreams. Allen Theatre at Playhouse Square, 1407 Euclid Ave, Cleveland, playhousesquare.org. $25-95
5/17
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Champagne Flute Recital. Come enjoy a recital by the student ensemble Champagne Flutes. 5-7 p.m. The Music Settlement, 11125 Magnolia Dr., Cleveland, themusicsettlement.org FREE
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Volunteers Needed: Woodland Health Day of Service. Work together to remove garlic mustard and other non-native plants. 10 a.m.-noon. 4/6: River Styx Park, Wadsworth. 4/27. Allardale Park: Medina. medinaparks.com
4/8
TUESDAYS
he Girl in the Diary: Searching for Rywka from Lodz Ghetto tells the true story of a young woman in 1940’s Europe who loses her family but never gives up hope. In 1945, a diary was discovered in the liberated Auschwitz-Birkenau Camp. It was written by a 14-year-old Jewish girl named Rywka Lipszyc and documented her life in the Łódz Ghetto between October 1943 and April 1944.
he Maltz Museum will host a unique exhibition making its Cleveland premiere this fall. “The Girl in the Diary: Searching for Rywka from Lodz Ghetto” tells the remarkable story of a Soviet doctor who found a school notebook in the liberated Auschwitz-Birkenau Camp that had been written by a teenager named Rywka Lipszyc during her incarceration in the Lodz Ghetto from October 1943 to April 1944.
Geauga Walkers. Join other active seniors on the second and fourth Tuesdays of the month for hikes. 1-2:30 p.m. geaugaparkdistrict.org. FREE
3/27
Through historical artifacts and photographs, interactive touch screens, and documentary videos, the exhibition explores her fight for survival and reconstructs what might have happened to Rywka. The exhibit is scheduled to close on April 28th.
The Great Geauga Total Solar Eclipse. Bring lawn chairs, pack a picnic or visit food vendors, and get free eclipse glasses. 11 a.m.-4:30 pm. The Geauga County Fairgrounds, 14373 N. Cheshire St., Burton, geaugaparkdistrict.org. FREE 4/14
The diary is the testament of a Jewish girl who lost her siblings and parents but never lost hope despite moments of doubt. Through excerpts from the diary, expert commentary, photos, multimedia and historical artifacts, the exhibition allows visitors to briefly walk the streets of the Lodz ghetto and get to know one of its residents, Rywka Lipszyc.
Bird Walk. An excellent chance for bird enthusiasts of any experience level to savor the fields and forests along the Chagrin River. 9-10:30 a.m. South Chagrin Reservation, 37374 Miles Road, Bentleyville, clevelandmetroparks.com
For more information, ticket pricing, and group tour discounts, visit maltzmuseum. org or call 216-593-0575.
For more information, ticket pricing, and group tour discounts, visit maltzmuseum. org or call 216-593-0575.
Wetland Walk. Join a naturalist for a walk and take a look at this beautiful wetland as Mother Nature wakes up. 1-2:30 p.m. Goodyear Heights Metro Park, Pioneer Area, 550 Frazier Ave., Akron, summitmetroparks.org
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The Girl in the Diary: Searching for Rywka from Lodz Ghetto tells the true story of a young woman in 1940’s Europe who loses her family but never gives up hope. In 1945, a diary was discovered in the liberated Auschwitz-Birkenau Camp. It was written by a 14-year-old Jewish girl named Rywka Lipszyc and documented her life in the Łódz Ghetto between October 1943 and April 1944.
Through historical artifacts and photographs, interactive touch screens, and documentary videos, the exhibition explores her fight for survival and reconstructs what might have happened to Rywka.
For more information, ticket pricing, and group tour discounts, visit maltzmuseum.org or call 216-593-0575.
4/2
The Bluffs are Beckoning. Hike around the Lake Erie Bluffs and explore areas off the trail that lead you to hidden features. 9 a.m.noon. Lake Erie Bluffs, 3100 Lane Road, Perry, lakemetroparks.com. FREE
Date Night: Photo Scavenger Hunt. An international competition to find and document plants, wildlife and more, in cities across the globe. You and your partner will compete against the clock. 5-7 p.m. Sippo Lake Park North, 5712 12 St. NW, Canton, starkparks.com. FREE
3/23-24
Maple Mania Open House. Join a naturalist and learn the ins and outs of maple syrup production.
Noon- 4 p.m. Liberty Park Nature Center, 9999 Liberty Road, Twinsburg, summitmetroparks.org
3/28
Bingo & Bubbles! Each ticket includes sparkling wine, a charcuterie board and bingo. 6 p.m. Sapphire Creek Winery & Gardens, 16965 Park Circle Dr., Chagrin Falls, sapphirecreek.com. $48
4/2
Season Begins at Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens. Visit for special programs and tour options. 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, stanhywet.org
4/4
Think & Drink with the Extinct. An out-of-thisworld evening as we gear up for the 2024 total solar eclipse. 7 p.m. Cleveland Museum of Natural History, 1 Wade Oval Drive, Cleveland, cmnh.org. $5-15
4/6-8
Total Eclipse Fest. Threeday celestial celebration at North Coast Harbor in downtown Cleveland. Clevelandorchestra.com. FREE
4/8
Eclipse Party at The Music Box Supper Club. Live music, buffet, open bar, dance floor and free eclipse sunglasses. Noon. 1148 Main Ave., Cleveland, musicboxcle.com. $150
4/18
Boomer Bash Goes Country. Dress for the theme, sample great food and drink, win prizes, dance, enjoy entertainment, meet new friends and more. LaCentre, 25777 Detroit Road, Westlake, northeastohioboomer.com FREE to the first 500
4/25-28
Geauga County Maple
Festival. Four days of fun, food and “everything maple.” Chardon Square, 111 E. Park St., 440-2863007, maplefestival.com
MONDAYS
Redefining Work and Retirement. For those 50+ interested in reinvention of a career or lifestyle. Through 4/29. 9:3011:30 a.m. Bainbridge Library, 17222 Snyder Road, Chagrin Falls, divi. geaugalibrary.net. FREE
TUESDAYS
3/27
State Pension & Social Security. Learn how your benefits are calculated, about spousal and survivor benefits, and more. 5:30-6:30 p.m. Otium Financial Planners, 34500 Chardon Road, otiumfinancialplanners. com. FREE
4/2
Birds of NE Ohio. Join this presentation provided by the Audubon Society of Greater Cleveland and learn about the birds of Northeast Ohio. 7-8 p.m. Orange Branch Library, 31975 Chagrin Blvd., Pepper Pike, cuyahogalibrary.org. FREE
4/8
Redesigning Work and Retirement. Are you 50+ and interested in reinventing your career or lifestyle? Encore NEO can help you overcome challenges and open new possibilities.
9:30-11:30 a.m. Bainbridge Library, 17222 Snyder Road, Chagrin Falls, divi. geaugalibrary.net. FREE
4/16-17
Smart Retirement Series. Learn about retirement income and tax strategies and investments and
withdrawal strategies.
6-7:30 p.m. Richfield Branch Library, 3761 S. Grant St., akronlibrary.org FREE
4/2
The Influence of Nature on Our Well-Being. Based on the book, “The WellGardened Mind,” learn the tremendous influence that nature, plants, and being in the garden can have on your mental health. 7-8 p.m. F. A. Seiberling Nature Realm, 1828 Smith Road, Akron, summitmetroparks.org. FREE
4/25
Cocktails & Conversations: Navigating the Healthcare Industry for Our Aging Parents. Healthcare and elder planning resources.
6:30-8 p.m. Call or text 440-338-2320. Walden Clubhouse, Aurora. FREE
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Running around like a chicken with its head cut off? It’s a gruesome but accurate description of how we feel when we search for misplaced items or forget events. Barring a serious cognitive issue, sloppy organization skills may be the cause of our chaos. These tips may be egg-zactly what you need.
Store similar items in places near each other: cleaning supplies, tools, office items, holiday decorations, etc.
You’re more likely to forget things you need to know only occasionally. Save time with a reminder notebook that includes insurance policy renewal information, service dates, warranty details, etc.
• Keep appliance or tech device directions in a notebook for easy reference.
• Reorganize cluttered spaces, one area at a time. Start small, like a kitchen drawer, and determine what should be tossed, stored elsewhere or grouped with similar items in the space.
• Take advantage of day planners, automatic turn-off devices or other electronics to cut down on the amount of information you need to remember.
• Develop a system for mail and use it. An expandable file labeled with sections can help. Open mail near a trash can and discard junk pieces immediately.
And a Few Beginnings, Too
This word puzzle is deceptively simple. Fill in the shared common ending (suffix) or beginning (prefix) for each set of three words. Easy-peasy, right? That depends. With access to the solution key, it all makes perfect sense. Without the key? That, my friends, is another matter. Try it that way first. Good luck.
Proced____ Imp______ Ins_______ Aff______ Ecl______ Imp_____
Prejud______ Accompl____ Injust______
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was zipping through channels, looking for something to watch, and came across the old series, “Family Affair.”
I wasn’t a fan when it first aired because it was too cutesy for someone trying to be a hippie, and I wasn’t about to start watching it now. But I noticed the actress Kathy Garver, who played the older sister, Cissy. At that moment, the station switched to a commercial featuring Garver as a grandmother talking on a phone for folks who are hard of hearing. She has a lot of fans and is a favorite at autograph shows, a popular and profitable side gig for actors with long waits between jobs.
People are spending lots of money on autographs, the folks signing draw huge crowds and rake in big money; it’s become a sophisticated business. “Star Trek’s” William Shatner is still in high demand and scheduled an appearance at a local flea market.
I remember when you could
walk up to a celebrity and they were usually happy to sign their autograph for free. Online commerce changed that. If you ask Steve Tyler of Aerosmith for his autograph, he’ll ask your name first, and provide a personalized signature, dropping its resale value, a condition that shouldn’t matter to a genuine fan.
Autograph shows are packing convention halls. We went to one recently that featured Michael J. Fox and the cast of “Back to the Future,” as well as Marisa Tomei, Susan Sarandon, Geena Davis, actors from “MASH,” “My Name is Earl” and dozens more, but you’d better have deep pockets. It’s usually $100 for a signature; more if you want it personalized, and if you want a photo with a celebrity, be prepared to pay big time.
The place was packed. This isn’t a typo: the show brought in 190,000 people over four days, with long lines to spend a few seconds with a star. Pro wrestlers, many too beat up to continue in the ring, are a major draw.
Consider this: Things that we cherish today often have a shelf life when it comes to future generations who will eventually inherit them, making the investment value questionable.
Conversely, some signatures don’t have a dollar sign attached to them. Here’s an example: My blushing bride, Janice, has signatures of actors from her favorite films, including Basil Rathbone as Sherlock Holmes, and Clifton Webb and Karolyn Grimes from “It’s a Wonderful Life. “ But the one autograph she’d race into a burning building to rescue is in an old Webster’s dictionary that sits proudly on our bookshelf. Outdated and wellworn, inside is a short note written by her late godfather, Steve, wishing her a Merry Christmas. You couldn’t buy that autograph for any price.
Mike Olszewski is a veteran award-winning radio, TV and print journalist. Contact him at janmike1978@gmail.com.
Last issue, I asked which vintage TV series had a theater named the Central City Bijou that ran the film, “The Monster That Devoured Cleveland.” It was “The Many Loves of Dobie Gillis.”
Next time, one of the most feared movie villains was a Northeast Ohio native who also starred in a banned episode of “Sesame Street.”
