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MILBURYRE.COM | 304 ELM STREET, SOUTH DARTMOUTH | MA | 508.997.7400 THE SOUTHCOAST’S LEADING BROKERAGE OF DISTINCTIVE PROPERTIES EST. 1980 LITTLE RIVER ROAD COMPOUND. Extraordinary oceanfront South Dartmouth estate includes a beautifully appointed main residence, two bedroom pool house, carriage house, spectacular separately deeded four bedroom guest house, deep water dock. The offering also includes two adorable cottages with dock on the Little River inlet as well as a three bedroom ranch style home, all separately deeded. Enjoy exquisite ocean views of Buzzards Bay and the Islands from this amazing, landmark estate. Offered at $12,950,000. Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200. SOUTH DARTMOUTH COMING SOON! Two 5+/- acre pastoral estate lots located minutes from Padanaram Village. Offered at $695,000 and $725,000. Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200. SOUTH DARTMOUTH LAND | $645,000 Classic Greek revival located in Padanaram’s most sought-after neighborhood. Significant renovations recently completed while preserving the character and charm of this Village gem. Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200. SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $1,695,000 Stunning contemporary privately set on 3+ acres in the heart of Padanaram Village. Pool, tennis… a mid-century modern gem! Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200. Extraordinary Waterfront Estate located on the harbor, minutes from Padanaram Village. Distinctive manor home overlooks rolling fields to the water. Guest house, pool, tennis all set on 28+/- private acres. Contact Will Milbury 508.525.5200. SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $5,495,000 SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $1,795,000 NEW LISTING

SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $924,900 Rare opportunity to own a double lot situated in the desirable West-End location, within minutes to St. Luke’s Hospital, historic downtown and Buttonwood park. Unique 6 bedroom, 2 full bath fixer upper awaits a new owner to bring this historic gem back to life. Over 3000 sf of living area brimming with character and original antique details. Contact Molly Armando 508.863.1015.

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canoes, kayaks or stroll to the beach! Contact Kevin Quinn 774.319.3401. WAREHAM | $429,000 To be built. Beautiful Primrose Deluxe Farmhouse in Westview Estates. 16 Westview Ln, lot 13. Gorgeous 3 bedroom, 2.5 bath 2600 sq ft home with large versatile bonus room and high end finishes nestled on .65 acre at the end of the cul-de-sac. Contact Sarah Meehan 508.685.8926. SOUTH DARTMOUTH | $1,250,000 Fabulous harborfront Colonial zoned residential and commercial. Move in and enjoy 180 degree views of Buzzards Bay. Contact Roberta Burke 508.498.3285. MATTAPOISETT | $1,295,000 Adorable summer cottage or year-round home with deeded beach rights and fabulous water views. Contact Collette Lester 508.287.2075. MARION | $549,000 FACSIMILE

WESTPORT | $795,000 This shingled gambrel home sits gracefully on a private 1.5+/- acre lot, abutting conservation land and overlooking a pristine mill pond. Privately tucked away with peeks of the harbor and but a minute’s drive to Padanaram Village. Contact Kevin Quinn 774.319.3401.

PADANARAM ACRES | $695,000 Penthouse Unit offering panoramic views of Buzzard’s Bay and the Elizabeth Islands. Community amenities include two sandy beaches, golf, tennis, heated pool and clubhouse. Contact Maggie Tomkiewicz of Team MCM 508.995.2444.

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WESTPORT | $1,875,000 Enjoy the carefree lifestyle of owning a free standing 3 bed/2.5 bath home in condominium ownership. Ideally situated towards the end of a picturesque tree lined lane. Minutes from Padanaram Village shops and restaurants. Contact Maggie Tomkiewicz of Team MCM 508.995.2444.

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11september WELCOME All is well, but we aren’t out of the woods. The next few months will determine our social freedom 12 IMPRESSIONS Aging Hippies and thoughts on “Everybody must get stoned” 14 14 HOME The luxury real estate market doesn’t appear to be slowing, with extraordinary homes setting re cords in New England 26 ESTATES Newport’s Blue Garden; the history behind the lush setting and a recreation of its past 28 LIFESTYLES How much responsibility do women have for societal changes? You may be surprised to learn a few of the answers 33 THE A LIST Our exclusive guide when only the best will do

NewsI essential in today’s chang ing world. Schools are places seen, heard, and valued for who they are and the unique talents and interests they bring tional experiences impact child’s life not just today but for years. For these reasons, BayCoast Bank has announced grant to the San Miguel supporting their efforts to strengthen diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) in “The grant from BayCoast gives us the DEI expert to delve deeply into topics model works, we strive to always be learning how we can do things even better,” said Mel Bride, Director of “Lynn Bowman, an experienced selected to fill this vital role,” said School will be important for the young men in our care well for their teachers and families. Our goal to be the most welcoming and sup portive place we can be by recognizing where we are strong and where we perspective.” San Miguel School In Providence, Rhode Island Receives Key Grant From BayCoast Bank Providing high-quality, holistic education for boys from diverse and challenging backgrounds the mission of serves 64 students in grades 5-8 and has over 350 alumni. “We are thrilled to provide this im portant $30,000 grant to the San Miguel Vice President, Chief Diversity Officer for BayCoast Bank. “Learning about our differences allows students to explore per spectives and opinions they may not have otherwise considered, giving them an op portunity to think critically and examine foundation for meaningful conversations, which can foster stronger relationships and understanding.”

66 FIELD TRIPS Extend the summer at the beach, sip wines at a vineyard, or step back into the past. Our daytripping suggestions to Long Island and Essex, Connecticut, will have you packing

Julian Fellowes, the man behind the reawakening of The Gilded Age 46 ART AFFAIRS Anthony Quinn’s legend lives on, but few knew of his passion; find out where you can view—even collect—an original work 54 PROFILE Ambition, a television series, and a letter create an international liquor brand; could there be more? 54

The ability BayCoastthesecriticalpotential—withtotoday’ssentiments,Bankhas announced the South Coast LGBTQ+ Network (The Network) the beneficiary of new Community Center in New Bedford, Massachusetts. The development of The Network’s new Community Center is the culmination of monumental goal—to strengthen the organization’s commitment to the most while bringing all people together in welcoming space that promotes peace, understanding, and unity. “Given the extreme challenges the goal to create safe, inclusive, and per manent space where LGBTQ+ individu important than ever,” said Andy Pollock, Network. “With the generous support of BayCoast Bank, we are closer to seeing The new Community Center will of fer mental health and wellness programs, professional development, and financial BTQ+ community. Educational services relating to diversity, equality, and inclu sion will also be offered to local organi South Coast LGBTQ+ Network Receives Grant From BayCoast Bank For New Community Center zations to promote respect and awareness. South Coast LGBTQ+ Network and its commitment to improving lives,” said Julie Ramos Gagliardi, First Vice President, Cor porate Giving and Community Relations nity Center will help those who are most vulnerable get the support they need and deserve, without having to travel to Boston or beyond for these essential services.” house The Network’s new LGBTQ+ Community Center was originally con structed in 1908 and currently under going significant renovations to become contemporary, better-equipped space. Those renovations are expected to be

CORRECTION: Last month, we included two news stories of BayCoast Bank’s stewardship in the communities they serve; however, the credits were misgiven to the Bank’s Mortgage Company in both instances when they should have been to BayCoast Bank. We apologize for this error. OUTDOORS Equestrian clubs move to keep the action humane and the spirit of hunting alive FILM

60 LIVING WELL Pop culture is flocking to IV Therapy for what some call a miraculous treatment modality; others advise caution. We share—you decide. 65 INTIMACY The essence of love and the difficulties it brings into a relationship 46 26

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Another threat to our health is the introduction of monkeypox. The World Health Organization has declared the disease a global health emergency, perhaps a health crisis. In mid-August, reports of the polio virus being detected and “likely” spreading around New York City, flooded the news cycle. Usually detected in wastewater, a case of a man contracting the disease in Rockland county, N.Y. and New Bedford, M.A. has been recorded.

First, new variants of COVID continue to be passed around, and while not as lifethreatening as the original, it is the most contagious and continues taking lives. But, it is not to be ignored; a potential resurgence is possible.

Of more serious concern, health officials believe that each case confirmed is only the tip of the iceberg of actual infections.Thisknowledge shows that we are not out of the “woods,” a reprieve—yes. The sooner we become aware of igno rance’s unintended consequences, the bet

H Welcome

Shifting Gears

We were spoiled last month, the weather was hot, and many found the heat wave pleasurable. For those in disbelief, during the next snow storm of 2023, while clearing your vehicle of rain-soaked slush, consider how nice it would be to transported to the balmy days of August for a couple of hours. Nothing is ideal; adaptation is the best and often the only choice in the face of adversity.

ter prepared we’ll be for an unpredictable winter season. So much for our public service an nouncement; what’s in store for this month?ForSeptember, we reflect on tradition; features you’ll find this month include a magnificent historical home in Falmouth, Massachusetts, a stunning garden in Newport, Rhode Island, the ancient sport of hunting on horseback, entrepreneurial ambition that has the USA and Great Britain reaching across the high-seas, and the creative interests of a film legend.

At the same time, we are working on a new online publication for our neighbors in Connecticut, hoping to go hardcopy shortly after its launch. Be sure to keep an eye out for this new publication. We hope you enjoy an easy transition into the month known for getting organized and revitalized. Please stay safe and healthy, and by all means, keep us close for the best in luxurious living and a fresh point of view.

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The high we’re coming off could result in a protracted return of unthink able consequences.

We face many unknowns when on September 22, summer officially ends and autumn Specifically,begins.we’ve come to enjoy the return to normal routines and the pleasure of highly-charged social events, which had been removed from our lives for an unbearable time. As the weather cools and more time is spent indoors, new threats of public health hazards are real and serve as a warning.

Brownies left at a nursing home May sound heartfelt, kind and caring Don’t be fooled, it’s bold and daring

BY PEET NOURJIAN

Elder ankles dancing about

Word spread quickly throughout the place

Windows wide open, rolled up rugs

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Sweet to the lips and lighter than air Bright eyes and smiles lit every face

Somebody’s phone played ‘Twist & Shout’

The nurses left to have a smoke

Former strangers exchanging hugs

Soaring without a flight permit

ELDER SKELTER

“I’d like to thank my grandson Nate Who made the brownies we just ate

The subject of this latest poem

Loves to garden, for heaven’s sake

How does that boy find time to bake?”

Two canes became a limbo bar

Impressions

Crushed walnuts in a chocolate square

All those who tried leaned back too far

On their backs in a laughing fit

Loud conversations from the crowd Where only whispers are allowed “A sugar high. Such happy folk”

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Minutes away, although hidden from the eyes of travelers on their way to embark on a journey to Martha’s Vineyard and Nantucket from the renowned Wood Hole Steamship Authority Terminal, is a turn-of-the-century mansion high atop a 4-acre bluff, with impressive views across a picturesque harbor, extended to Buzzards Bay and the Elizabeth Islands. Adequately described as “… one of the most spectacular harbor-front properties in New England,” few locations rival the old-world elegance of this historic home. Its location, elevation, and amenities, outweigh other properties in its class and significance.Entrytothe estate is through wrought-iron gates and a paved drive that passes a circa 1895, 2,300 square-foot, five-bedroom carriage house with an enormous deck, waiting for a new owner to invigorate its solid old bones into a guest palace. A bit further, the circular drive passes by the harbor-facing veranda—the main entrance to the home—and loops the circumference of the peninsula, finishing at a large pebble stone parking area and access to a private deep-water dock and float for a sizable yacht or otherThewatercraft.originalGilded Age period home was constructed in 1895 but moved to a nearby location and replaced in 1908 by a much larger eclectic Cape Cod style residence, boasting 14 bedrooms and nearly 12,000 square-feet of living space. Engulfed with architectural elements that include balconies, gambrel roofs with cedar shingles, turrets, and multiple dormers, Adequately described as “… one of the most spectacular harbor-front properties in New England,” few locations rival the old-world elegance of this historic home. Its location, elevation, and amenities outweigh other properties in its class and significance.

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The rarity of such a prime location coming to market goes without saying. With personal touches and a willingness to bring the “Grand Dame of Cape Cod” into the 21st century, a new owner will build a legacy of preservation and renovation to a deserving property.

According to LandVest Project Managers/Brokers Stewart Young and Jamie Crowley; [The home’s] “spaces are well proportioned with high ceilings, detailed moldings, wainscotting, large windows with decorative divided lights framing extraordinary views of the harbor, bay, and sunsets.” An impressive center staircase with ornate detail sets the stage for descending in style when meeting with guests and visitors.

the style remains befitting the magnetism many turn to for reliving a time of sophisticated leisure and lifestyle.

Quissett is considered a paradise for sailors, big-game fishing enthusiasts, or the perfect retreat for families with a thirst for travel. Easily accessible by the interstate highway system or via T.F. Green in Providence and Logan in Boston (each about 90 minutes away), there is also a private executive jet service at the Barnstable Airport in nearby Hyannis.

314 Quissett Ave, Falmouth, Massachusetts, is offered at $22 million by LandVest/Christie’s International Real Estate, with Corporate Headquarters in Boston and local agents in the prestigious communities they serve. H For more information or to plan a tour for qualified interests, please contact Stewart Young at 781-405-3174 (cell) or Jamie Crowley at 508-982-4029 (cell).

NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | SEPTEMBER 2022 | 19 Engulfed leisuretimeturntheremainsdormers,turrets,cedargambrelthatarchitecturalwithelementsincludebalconies,roofswithshingles,andmultiplethestylebefittingmagnetismmanytoforrelivingaofsophisticatedandlifestyle.

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Leaders in the Marion Real Estate Market Waterfront Marion Village property with private dock on Sippican Harbor! This Antique Federal-Style home is nestled in the heart of Marion Village and just steps from Tabor Academy, Island Wharf, private clubs and all village amenities. This iconic estate is set on .67 acres and comprised of a 4,500 +/- sq. ft. home, detached 3 car garage with unfinished second floor, private dock and float, and 170 +/- feet of frontage on Sippican Harbor. This property is rich in history while also offering modern comforts for today’s discriminating buyers. Enjoy all that this incredible central village location has to offer, including easy access to Buzzard’s Bay and the Cape & Islands.

MARION, MASSACHUSETTS

UNDER AGREEMENT Custom home located in the highly desirable Piney Point neighborhood. This meticulous 4,105 sq ft home offers 3 bedrooms, 3.5 custom baths, gourmet kitchen, home office, an open floor plan, bonus room and extra space to grow! Stunning .74 acre professionally landscaped lot with privacy, mature plantings and fish pond. Enjoy all of the Piney Point amenities such as sandy beach, beach club, tennis and basketball courts and association dock. MARION, MASSACHUSETTS UNDER AGREEMENT Waterfront home with shared dock and beach on Blankenship Cove. This 3,000 +/- sq. ft. 4 bedroom, 3.5 bath home is tucked away on a private compound in East Marion. Fully renovated in 2004, this home now offers beautiful open spaces such as gourmet kitchen, dining and great room, all oriented to the stone patio and waterfront. This 2 acre property offers privacy, mature plantings, and beautiful stone walls. This is truly a hidden sanctuary on Blankenship Cove!

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At the turn of the century (19111913), work was completed, encom passing a plethora of details that would visually and physically penetrate all the humanGranitesenses.columns and low walls sur rounded the area, hidden behind lush green trees, enveloped into a tranquil setting of privacy and security.

THE BLUE GARDEN EXPERIENCE

When Curtiss and James passed in 1941, efforts to maintain the Garden fal tered. Their once nearby mansion-home was destroyed by fire in 1967. The ne glect resulted in nature taking back what it had owned, causing the Blue Garden to become encased with thicket and uncon trollable growth, which camouflaged the once beautiful setting.

In August 2012, the new re-invented Blue Garden hosted a party; guests witnessed a celebration of restoration and preservation for a new generation’s under standing of how transforming the environ ment into an art form can be completed with both refinement and grandeur.

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The Blue Garden has limited access but allows for personalized visits. For the remainder of 2022, the grounds are open through October 6, but only on Thurs days; tours are scheduled for 11 a.m., 12:30, and 2:00 p.m., with reservations. H For additional information, contact Sarah Vance, Director, at svance@thebluegarden.org.

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restoration effort. Working from archived plans and images found at the Frederick Law Olmsted National Historic Site in Brookline, Massachusetts, contractors and landscape architects began to recreate the once glorious garden estate. The work required for such a monu mental restoration and rehabilitation is unfathomable to repeat but well docu mented in the book, The Blue Garden: Recapturing an Iconic Newport Landscape by Landscape Historian Arleyn Levee. (Available at the Blue Garden website found below).

t may be one of New England’s most iconic yet unusual gardens. Located in Newport, Rhode Island, the grounds high above the ocean on Beacon Hill, is where Commodore Arthur Curtiss and Harriet Parsons James enlisted the help of the Olmsted Brothers in 1908 to create an enchanting oasis of peace and relaxation.

Today, visitors are enamored by the reconstructed project’s startling details; low walls, lush plantings, and raised pergolas, offer dramatic views of the site. The pools filled with crystal clear water reflect brilliantly off the blue tiles at their base, accented by fountain jets gently delivering effervescent beads of activity and sound to the Garden. Colors abound and practically sparkle in contrast to the surrounding greenery and the subtle whites that enhance the field of blue and purple hues.

In 2012, philanthropist Dorrance Hamilton activated the Blue Garden

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The name of the Blue Garden was conscientious; at Mrs. James’s direction, various shades of purple and blue flowers, tiles, and accents melded together, creating a unique palette of colors, textures, shapes, and an unexpected surprise upon entering.

After the project’s completion, the couple threw a gala for an estimated 300 people on August 15, 1913; it was celebrated as “The Masque of the Blue Garden.” Guests were treated to music and dance, and according to written accounts, Amphitrite, the Greek sea god dess, rose from a giant seashell as part of the evening’s entertainment.

VISITING Tours are guided, but guests are free to walk the Garden unescorted. Groups meet at the greenhouse and are shown a short film on the history of the Blue Garden, then proceed to the entrance. “Photogra phy is permitted and encouraged,” accord ing to ticket terms and conditions.

Harriet Parsons James, 1913

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Newport Socialite and Professional Designer “Mikki” Micarelli recreates and pays tribute to Harriet Parsons James, who had a similar image captured at the Blue Garden inaugural in 1913. Gown by Michael Turner for Diva’s Palace.

Lifestyles WHO’S RESPONSIBLE FOR DRIVING IT TO NEW HEIGHTS? BY NATALIE SIMMONS EXAMINING A COMPLEX MATRIX OF SOCIAL STATUS AND THE CHANGING ROLE OF WOMEN LUXURYLIVING

IDYLLIC BLINDERS

Throughout history, women had been indoctrinated to believe they were to be subordinate and supportive to their life partners regardless of how they were treated. Indicative of these claims was science pointing to genetic predisposition and hormonal compounds responsible for aggression and protection by males and maternal behavioral instincts exhib ited by females.

This argument is difficult to defend because learning a role and having ambi tion are not mutually exclusive; being charged with household duties is nothing more than control.

We should not misinterpret this optic; women have excelled at making countless contributions to a better society; they’ve had to fight for equality, and now in 2022, a subtle evolution is taking place.

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The above subhead should not be taken as a slight; instead, it serves as an introduction to data demonstrating the construction of a historical foundation for

The writer reported, “It’s the result of a decades-long trend, in which women

For years, women who felt like secondclass citizens now realized former social norms and expectations imposed upon them were societal anchors, holding them in positions they dreaded.

Today, children, their parents—even grandparents are resistant to falling into a pedestrian lifestyle reminiscent of previous generations and are opting for the fast lane of social standing and public approval. What’s left is to be separated into two loosely formed clusters; the pseudo-fa mous who appear to be living it up while burying their insecurities or struggling emotionally, resulting from comparisons created by fallacies or exaggerated events, and those who, in fact, have the incred ible life they share online. This phenomenon is not gendered and has been conspicuously driven by the entertainment business for personal gain.

BRAINS & BEAUTY

If you haven’t noticed, what perme ates the new society is a seismic shift in performance and endurance in education, careers, and social acuity.

Inchange.apiece, “More Women Than Men Are Going to College. That May Change the Economy,” by Justin Wolfer (New York Times - November 23, 2021) discusses the differences between women and men setting off to school.

N o one is immune to the bludgeon ing efforts of social media and reality television to alter a willing consciousness.public’s

It’s evident the whipping into compli ance with unachievable expectations has become a frenzy of selfies, postings, and gaining access to events. It has also caused millions of people to examine and evaluate their popularity among peers, but worse, to place an obscure quotient on their intrinsic value. Unless you’re self-actualized and don’t care, exist outside social media channels, or ignore the hype and are unwilling to acknowledge a phenomenon occurring at a pace never seen before, your popcultural intellect might come across as intolerant to others.

CHANGING ROLES

tige beauty industry, sales reached $22 billion in 2021, which showed an increase of 30 percent over 2020, with fragrances up 49 percent, hair products rising to 47 percent, with makeup and skincare 23 percent and 18 percent respectively. Such trends indicate a sense of inde pendence, self-sufficiency, and a willing ness to enhance beauty, a marker for at traction. However, the data allows pause and questions not whether the modern woman wants or needs a man but the quality and timing. Women are hedging their bets, entering medicine, law, and technology, creating cutting-edge software, and building com panies that require focus and dedication. With such rewards comes new choices and opportunities which have turned the table on men. We’re witnessing a pivot in relation ships; women are no longer concerned about finding an ordinary ‘breadwin ner’; they are already successful, so when they’re ready, the search will be for someone viewed with a higher ranking in emotional, intellectual, and educational fitness than in the past.

Recent research shows that men face unprecedented obstacles like rejection and loneliness at increased rates. At the same time, many appear unwilling to re linquish social strength and the procure ment of the opposite sex.

The ramifications have already been felt by such a change because not only are women graduating, many decide to do post-graduate work or start careers which stalls the proverbial “clock,” resulting in fewer marriages and babies.

THE DISASSEMBLED MALE

At the same time, according to The NPD Group, reporting on the US pres

It is just what it sounds like; men have become the recipients of change, not by willingness but by default. They have been trending in a direction that hasn’t kept pace with the drive and fortitude womenRelyingpossess.onpast training and early life experiences and skills, many men find they don’t dovetail with the expectations of today’s contemporary woman.

PANDEMIC INFLUENCE

Interactions between the sexes, socially and professionally, are constantly in flux; mutual respect has become a prerequisite and necessary if a conversation is to com mence and continue.

Pre-COVID, writers, bloggers, and in fluencers contributed to the conversation online, often giving a forum to address frustration and solace for countless oth ers. It was steadily growing but was more in tune with a party atmosphere. But, when forced into isolation, time became a catalyst for change; with more hours spent researching and sharing, many concluded that being alone—while challenging, isn’t impossible to endure.

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True success understands the differ ence between having the best rather than showcasing a collection of badges. Tempered and tasteful, there’s nothing improper with sharing satisfying and rewarding experiences. It is when the motive to create jealousy or to suppress insecurity or social anxiety is the remedy.

Time will determine our successes or failures, and while we are experiencing the most important social experiment in history, perhaps we should pay attention to the most vulnerable and attempt to keep them safe. H

Social media has brought the meaning of ‘making it’ from the rose-covered cot tage to where you have been and what’s next on the travel agenda. The new defi nition of the good life is about fashion, style, labels, and locations you’ve visited. It’s common for social profiles to include the number of countries you’ve landed in—much like a code of honor, only to make others feel competitive or inferior.

Unfortunately, the confounding advice from a small percentage of highly visible personalities is that everyone deserves an exclusive lifestyle. However, without personal wealth, many will seek unsuit able-even questionable financial support, which contradicts the movement and the effort to become independent.

Closing out this story, addressing the issue of priorities is vital.

The good news is that many women have found their way to living extraordi nary lives and making valuable contribu tions to themselves, deserving organiza tions, and individuals; they should be complimented for sharing their rewards.

The luxury lifestyle market is at an all-time high, with no end in sight; top restaurants are booming, the finest hotels and resorts are filled, and premium brands fly off the shelves. It’s almost com ical that opulence abounds while inflation and a recession are sturdily in place.

Credit goes to a new generation that has altered economic stability when we need it the most.

Survival is innate but becoming nu anced; no longer is it up to the male species to choose a partner to reproduce with; women have raised the bar and are becoming more selective in their choices which will have unknown consequences and alter the future.

QUALITY VERSUS QUANTITY

Success, luxury, opportunity—and yes, even earned privilege never goes silent. By its very nature, those who have achieved objectives often flaunt and share their good fortune, and what better way than online?

Earlier, we asked, “Who’s Responsible for Driving [Luxury Living] To New Heights?” It seems we owe gratitude to a new breed of women, some who are selfmade billionaires and have the ability and communication channels to trickle down a message, ‘You can do this too!’

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Surrounded by COVID, we found ourselves alone, yet we could generate internal strength; we also recognized that men and women are not emotionally indifferent during a crisis, and reactions wereThesimilar.leveling of sexes was well on its way.

Naturally, being seen on a yacht, private jet, mingling with celebrities, or in a magazine raises one’s status and often yields more followers and short-term sat isfaction. Comfort and convenience are the symbols of success; nothing could be prestigious to an up-and-coming flotilla of social climbers.

OUR STATE OF MIND

Some things will never change; as humans, men seek partners for propagation, and while it might have been more accessible in the past, what has been modified is where they’ll find the best candidate for mating.

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A luxury gin creates the perfect pedestal to showcase 11 botanicals, seven of which are sourced from the far reaches of the Indian subcontinent. Notes of vetiver, corian der, cubeb berries, and lemongrass, combined with Darjeel ing green tea, licorice, and citrus peel, to create a flavor profile reminiscent of the city of Jaisalmer and India itself.

RAMPUR ASAVA An outlier in the world of cask-finished single malts, Rampur has chosen a unique combination of used bourbon barrels and Indian Cabernet Sauvignon casks in which to age the spirit. The result is a nose heavy with golden apri cot, plums, and spice. Asava was chosen as Whisky Advo cate’s #7 spirit of 2021.H For more information, visit radicokhaitan.com.

e are pleased to introduce Rampur to our exclusive, “The A List” collection of adult beverage products. After research and evalu ation, we found Rampur Distillery meets the highest standards in quality, value, and a commitment to preserving the environment. Their hand-crafted collection of spirits is created using traditional copper pot stills at the oldest and most widely recognized distillery in Uttar Pradesh, nestled at the foothills of the Himalayas. The company’s 75-year journey has not altered its principles of blending the finest ingredients into premium liquors.Tasting, what the Rampur refers to as “their jewels,” is phenomenal. Indian whisky differs from Scotch and Irish brands due to the opposite climate conditions. The Indian summer allows a reversal of seasons; in combination with their non-chilled filtered process, Rampur whisky matures more quickly, allowing for a smoother taste and longlasting finish.

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“We are thrilled to be expanding the Lola 41 brand to Naples, F.L.,” said Coelho. “It all started here in Nan tucket, and we are thankful for the support and success we’ve enjoyed on this island which has enabled us to bring the Lola brand to people in other parts of the country.”

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The public hasn’t burnt out on travel and is planning more vacations than in past years. For those heading south or enjoying the shoulder season in Boston, perhaps Nantucket, putting Lola on the agenda will allow you to see why we are fans and on the top of our reservation list. Not familiar; here’s a taste of the positive vibe you canLolaexpect.stands for longitude latitude, and the number 41 represents the specific parallel the original Lola (Nantucket) resides. The restaurant’s décor, atmosphere, culinary delights, and liba tions have been influenced by coun tries located on the 41st parallel, such as Japan, Portugal, Spain, and others. Lola is a high-energy dining and night life destination that challenges the status quo and serves an eclectic choice of dishes. Once you enter, you’re greeted with a generous and open spirit and served with unparalleled hospitality. Keep watch; great things are happening with this leader in food, drinks, and fun! H lolahospitality.com

e’re fans of Lola’s collection of restaurants; it’s with enthusi asm we welcome the newest member to the family of “globally-inspired” creations— Lola 41 Naples, Florida. The popular multi-unit restaurant group, based in Nantucket, with locations at Boston’s Seaport, and Palm Beach, is fresh on the scene by extending taste and modern elegance—always a fun time—to a resort community known for its good taste and Restaurateurstyle.Marco Coelho and his team, just announced plans for a 225 seat bistro and sushi bar in Spring 2023 at 560 9th St, Naples, F.L.

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One of the most prolific string quartets on American stages. jasperquartet.com

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Jasper String Quartet, November 13, 2022

Claremont Trio, December 4, 2022 We rank this trio as the best of the best, interactive, thrilling, and heart-pounding brilliance. claremonttrio.com

Returning to Westport, these highly acclaimed perform ers will conclude the season, leaving us wishing for more. handelandhaydn.org

For the upcoming season, Concerts at the Point will be returning to their home base at the Westport Point United Methodist Church, 1912 Main Road, after a brief hiatus to the United Congregational Church of Little Compton, Rhode Island, due to CDC health and safety recommendations. Supporters can attest to the suitable and emotional connections these enchanting great halls, with remarkable acoustics, provide audiences.

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It isn’t too early to make reservations for one or all pro grams; as the seasons change, many will search for enter tainment options, making Concerts at the Point the perfect place to spend a Sunday afternoon. H concertsatthepoint.org

Dover Quartet, February 19, 2023

These elite musicians have gained international ac claim and are masterful independently, as well as in an ensemble. Yet, this small group of music lovers lives up to the promise of hosting the most compelling perform ers in intimate settings for the smallest donation. ($30 adults/$10 students).

According to Concerts at the Point, these people are the rising stars and showcase a myriad of rarelyperformed masterworks. frissionensemble.com Handel & Haydn Society, April 23, 2023

ontemporary society places keen importance on performance art, and while many venues offer outstand ing artists in a wide array of settings, one that has both fascinated and kept us following their amazing calendar, year after year, are the extraordinary efforts by the non-profit volunteer board of the Concerts at the Point organization. Their mission—a successful one by all measures, is abundantly clear, “[To bring] world-class chamber musi cians to the SouthCoast.” And, with such commitment comes accomplishment with the task We’re not new to the exciting events the Concerts at the Point presents, but we are overwhelmingly pleased to note they have announced the schedule for their 26th season, 2022-2023.

New to us, but we can’t wait to see them live; they have been deemed to be “one of the greatest string quartets in 100 years” by BBC Music Magazine. doverquartet.com Frisson Ensem ble, March 26, 2023

38 | SEPTEMBER 2022 | NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA Outdoors BY ROBERT WRIGHT | PHOTOGRAPHY BY LUCKI SCHOTZ IN HUMANE FASHION THE CONTINUESHUNT –

Elsewhere, and what we relied upon for this work, is a mod ern code of ethics involving tradition, attire, and the camara derie found in current models of fox hunting. We focus on the participation of riders and the attractiveness to the spectator’s willingness to engage by enjoying a day of following the riders andFoxhounds.hunting and the accoutrements that place it as a highvalue status symbol continue to be relevant to club members and clubs, many of which are located along the wealthiest com munities of the East Coast—particularly in New England, New York, and New Jersey.

A great deal of time goes into the preparation of readying the dogs, equipment, and horses, but most importantly, negotiating the use of lands for the sport.

Often, clubs will have found favor with families that own a continuum of fields, forests, and even beaches, which make rid ing and following a formation exciting and enjoyable.

Surprisingly, a few notable men and women have placed the fox hunting society high on their social calendars. A few recognizable names on the exclusive list include America’s first President and elite politicians on both sides of the aisle; each has hosted a post-hunt dinner at their homes in Washington, D.C.

The practice was banned in Scotland in 2002, yet, still practiced in Northern Ireland, Australia, Canada, France, and parts of the United States.

The engagement of spectators, riders, volunteers, and the press is primarily due to high-brow protocol and pedantry, much of which is found during the days leading up to a “Hunt Fixture,” commonly referred to as the event and ending with a social and meal.

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From experience, the more cultured events have scents care fully placed in advance of the scheduled hunt. While live ani mals are not purposefully utilized, a rare showing of a curious animal can cause havoc on a choreographed day.

It is only natural to enjoy a day in the wild with the added benefit of watching horses gallop, jump, splash through rivers, or wade along the coast. The thrill is never-ending and is as close as many will ever get to meeting and discussing elements of the sports with its athletes. H To learn more or for a complete listing of hunt events in your area, visit findahunterpace.com/huntclubs.html.

t has been categorized as a cruel and vicious sport; in ancient Rome and surrounding countries, dogs were used to track game. Then in 1534, English farmers be gan hunting foxes as a pest control. According to Jane Ridley, Fox Hunting (HarperCollins, October 1990), “The last wolf in England was killed in the early 16th century during the reign of Henry VII, leaving the English fox with no threat from larger predators. The first use of dog packs specifically trained to hunt foxes was in the late 1600s, with the oldest fox hunt being, probably, the Bilsdale in Yorkshire.”

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We also learned how Lord Fellowes viewed those living within the confines of wealth and privilege during the 1880s in New York and their summers in Newport.

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ecently, Julian Fel lowes, the Oscar, and actor,producer,writer,Emmy-winningdirector,novelist,andcreatorof Downton Abbey and The Gilded Age, spent a few days meeting with the media, visitors of the “cottages,” and fans, who lined up for an exquisite evening of cocktails on the terrace, and dinner at Breakers Great Hall.

Lord Fellowes engaged in a wide variety of subject matter; his audiences were thrilled to see the larger-than-life figure they imagined being so approachable and attentive to their questions.

Moving into social issues, he high lighted the lack of women’s rights at the time and the struggles found within the episodes of The Gilded Age series. To his credit, Lord Fellowes spoke to the evolu tion of societal norms and unacceptable behavior between the wealthy of England and the United States. Focusing on the powerlessness of wives compared to their industrialists’ husbands, we learn the na ked truth as it is exposed by the artful use of conversation and actions throughout the series. In retrospect, the prolific writer successfully demonstrates how the rich women were reduced to overseeing house hold staff, gaming their status, only to be frustrated by not being treated as equals.

The morning began with an acknowl edgment of the formidable effort to court film producers and production companies to select a city like Newport to share a prestigious role in the entertainment industry. There is also the logistics night mare of planning travel, entertainment, and accommodations for productions of such vast scale, as well as the minutia that can alter an entire contract by a mere misstep. It was satisfying to learn about the able-bodied people of Rhode Island, its political representatives, and the thou sands of people who touched the work of Lord Fellowes’s tales in some manner; we are pleased to report they accomplished the task in “Bristol fashion.”

ing sensitive to what some might point out as a “sentence” of servitude, he explained his efforts to identify their struggles and pain through realistic scenes and dialogue.

Each event allowed Lord Fellowes to share his incredible talent and insight; his free-flowing narratives provided a view into his creative and thoughtful character creation and scene development for the period productions he is responsible for bringing to millions of viewers.

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Interestingly, there seemed to be hints of future stories on the horizon. And while nothing is definitive, the bait has been cut, causing eyes to search for a future saga of how The Gilded Age influ enced our lives and possibly progressing to the start of women’s independence as the century closed. H For more information, visit newportman sions.org.

In hindsight, perhaps the most enlighten ing comments expressed by Newport’s guest of honor were when he engaged in a panel discussion with Ms. Trudy Coxe, CEO, and Executive of The Preservation Society of Newport County, and Mr. Steven Feinberg, Executive at the Rhode Film & TV Office, at a preview press conference.

For example, he detailed the delicate issue of divorce during the time and the necessity of arranging marriages that wouldn’t succumb to failure; the thought of losing social status and becoming an outcast haunted women of the time and had to be avoided at all cost.

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Lord Fellowes delved into his belief that the best way to portray how a person’s life was impacted during any historical period is through drama. Be

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nthony Quinn was born to extreme poverty in Chihuahua, Mexico, in 1915 to a half-Irish father and a Mexican-Indian mother. He grew up in El Paso, Texas, and later moved to East Los Angeles, C.A.

After four years of intense training and study, he earned the re spect of film and theater director Elia Kazan, who cast him in the 1952 film, Viva Zapata!; Quinn’s first Academy Award. In his 65year career as an actor, he was nominated and won many awards; notably two Oscars, an Emmy, and the Golden Globe Cecil’s B. DeMille Lifetime Achievement Award.

Quinn’s lifetime of work fills the stables at the coastal estate where they are now stored. Katherine and Anthony (Tony, as she fondly refers to him) wanted to find a home together. After an extensive search, the couple moved to Bristol, Rhode Island in 1994, with their one-year-old daughter Antonia. Quinn wanted a ranch-style house, room for his art, and a desire to be close to the ocean; as chance would have it, they found a 23-acre site with a barn and views of Narragansett Bay and Bristol Harbor; it was the perfect fit. Two years later, they welcomed their second child, a son named Ryan.

The couple were often seen riding their bikes, walking paths (marked and unmarked, notably, as he preferred the route less traveled and sometimes brought gardening sheers to cut his way

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Once recognized in roles beyond villains, he uprooted to New York City to study at The Actors Studio and do stage work. He followed Marlon Brando’s footsteps as Stanley Kowalski in, A Street Car Named Desire, first on Broadway and then on tour.

There, Quinn experienced prejudice that followed him through most of his early movie career, which began in 1936. He was typecast into roles of bad guys and gangsters, but it didn’t dissuade him; he was extraordi narily accomplished and possessed natural talent, leaving him to feel he didn’t need to learn acting.

Quinn’s breadth of interests crosses many mediums, from drawings and painting to sculptures with wood and stone; his collection, now at his home in Bristol, Rhode Island, is dutifully being cataloged and organized by his wife, Katherine Benvin Quinn. During his career, the actor/artist completed over 5,000 works, a feat that points to an inexhaustible enjoyment of creativ ity. According to Katherine, Quinn found beauty in everything, everywhere he looked, and his joy was infectious. It is felt his work as an artist has not been given its due, but Katherine is striving to rectify the situation.

Beyond his incredible talent as an actor, his first love was mak ing art—to express himself. At the age of six, he painted, sculpted and sketched movie stars he would see when his father, a movie cinematographer, brought him to work. Quinn mailed one such drawing to Douglas Fairbanks, who returned the favor with a check for a then remarkable figure of $25.

At nine years old, he entered a California statewide competition with a plaster bust of Abraham Lincoln, and won the contest. In high school, his architectural drawings allowed him to meet Frank Lloyd Wright. Appreciating the young artist’s work and ambition, Wright instructed him to improve his speech if he wanted to be successful. Quinn took his advice and had his frenulum operated on and rehabilitated with speech classes, which led him to acting classes, paid for by working as a janitor. Throughout his life, and every day on a movie set or backstage, Quinn made it a point to sketch or sculpt. But it wasn’t until the 1980’s that he realized he could turn his love for art into a career, and he began exhibiting his work. His Monumental Works, maquettes interpreted into large bronze and steel sculptures he patinated or painted, was unveiled and exhibited in Paris in 1992 in the courtyard of the Plaza Athene. The works then traveled to Vienna, Austria, and were later displayed at the Museum of Contemporary Art in Buenos Aires, Argentina. He had nearly two dozen exhibitions before he passed away in 2001.

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Katherine Benvin Quinn

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Katherine, founder and manager of the Anthony Quinn Estate, has helped organize over two dozen exhibitions, while advocating for the essential role arts education plays in personal development and the overall improvement of social, economic, and cultural systems.

NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | SEPTEMBER 2022 | 51 through), and enjoyed shopping and dining out; they became part of the local community.

Quinn’s life story and artistic legacy for inspiring young adults are central to the foundation’s mission. He always believed that learning about the challenges of his youth and how he overcame them would help inspire confidence in their creative potential. The foundation provides scholarship support to gifted students seeking to further their talents in visual arts and design, as well as perform ing, media, and literary arts.

Katherine also makes a personal effort to open her home to local school children to appreciate and encourage the arts. Both she and Quinn loved children—he had 13 throughout his life—and would have been proud of Katherine’s efforts to engage children in the arts.

Quinn drove Antonia to school daily and spent as much time with the children as possible. The children’s friends came over frequently and were treated to nightly acting and dancing performances. When once asked by Antonia why he didn’t have a job, he replied, “My job is making you proud that I’m your papa,” he Katherineanswered,soldthe main house after Quinn passed away, but remodeled the barn and repurposed it into the family’s residence.

Quinn loved working with wood for its tactile nature. He col lected beautiful pieces, as well as stone that he found around the world, and shipped them home to sculpt. It is an understatement to say he was driven. He felt a need to be seen and leave his mark. “If I were left alone on an island,” he said, “I would reconstruct the rocks. I need to say, ‘I was here.’” And yet, he was not precious about his work. He generally only signed his work upon request, for instance, and when a visitor’s dog urinated on one of his sculptures, he laughed it off, saying it would help with the patina.

Nearby, shortly after Quinn’s passing, he was laid to rest on the estate, a location marked with a large stone he had found. Adja cent is a blossoming water lily pond, enhanced by a backdrop of the Bay. The grave has been designated a Rhode Island Histori calOneCemetery.cannot claim Quinn was spliced to a specific style or school, but he was clearly both modernist and primitivist. He loved the female form, figures, and faces; he had a love of the abstract, as well as Cubism. Working on maquettes on set in Libya during the making of The Lion of the Desert (1980), he was told that his representations of the female figure he was sculpting were illegal; as a result, he worked in abstract instead. Though working in abstract was not new to him, this event may have been the tip ping point in that direction.

Quinn lived by the Alfred Tennyson line, “to strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.” He loved all types of art, read, and collect ed books voraciously, and could speak on nearly any subject, even though he never graduated from high school. His passion for life is seen in his joy for making art, and his brilliant eye for collecting art. He is described by Donald Kuspit, professor of art history and philosophy at the State University of New York at Stony Brook, and a contributing author of Anthony Quinn’s Eyes: A Lifetime of Creating and Collecting Art, as a true connoisseur—collecting masters such as Matisse and Picasso and outstanding work of lesserknown artists. Kuspit also dubbed him a creative genius. He had inexhaustible energy.Inthe foreword of the same book, Katherine writes, “He was sev enty when we met. Instead of resting on his accomplishments and retiring to a life of comfort and leisure, he was plan ning projects for the next 20 years. He was rehearsing a nine-month road tour of the stage production of Zorba, working on a dozen paintings at once, having sculptures cast at five different foundries (none alone was able to handle the volume of work he with creating), writing scripts and books, and searching for characters to play that would satisfy his driving creative spirit.”

Through the end of September, an exhibit will be displayed at the Hammetts Hotel in Newport, R.I., with the assistance of Newport Curates and Jessica Hegan Fine Art + Design. Quinn’s extraordinary life and multiple talents are engraved into the minds of people who know him, and those finally gaining the opportunity to experience the legend. H

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Innovation & Success of

Abbey Leads to the Branding of Great Britain’s Highclere Castle

it was a mighty good letter and fate that turned an idea into a historic international entrepreneur partner ship between two great countries and a pair of like-minded men to create a vivid blue bottle, housing what they claim to be “The PerfectSpendingGin.”a couple of days at the US headquarters for High clere Castle Spirits in Essex and attending an invitation-only event honoring The Queen’s Platinum Jubilee at the prestigious Wadsworth Mansion in Middletown, (sponsored by the Brit ish Consulate General of New England and Governor Lamont) allowed a unique perspective and the opportunity to hear never disclosed facts as to how Highclere Castle is leveraging its world wideTheappeal.story begins with George Reginald Oliver Molyneux Herbert, 8th Earl of Carnarvon, and his beautiful and charming wife, Lady Fiona, the 8th Countess of Carnarvon. Stepping into the limelight by way of Downton Abbey fame, their “Castle” is, ostensibly, the most recognized home in the world.

NEMEDIA But, more particularly, tell me how you discovered Highclere.

NEMEDIA So Adam, tell us, what was the genesis of Highclere Spirits, and now the cigar brand? ADAM It was in 2009; I was in my twenties and learning as much as possible about distilling. Drinking them was my first passion, followed by making them. (Laughter). I ended up building a distillery, one of the first in decades here in Connecticut, known as Onyx Spirits Company—it was successful, but the brand was limited, and although profitable in its growth because it was a boutique distillery, I didn’t feel it would resonate outside the New England region.

ADAM After better learning the business, understanding the nu ances of the liquor industry, and getting a network around us, I started watching how companies on an international level were missing key elements in branding and saw that they weren’t focusing on authenticity, luxury, and where they meet. I decided that what we were doing [with Onyx] could

To learn more, we sat with Lord Carnarvon and von Gootkin, opened a bottle of gin and a box of cigars, and let the tape run.

As for von Gootkin, he is not a stranger to the spirits business; his family was distilling in the 1800s, followed by his grandfa ther opening a speakeasy during Prohibition in Connecticut. Hence, he began to search for an icon befitting his passion and experience. But with trepidation, he questioned where such sym bols were hiding and whether he would discover one.

About a year before COVID, a Canadian company bought our building; our lease was running out, while at the same time, it converged with the launch of Highclere Castle Gin which I was preparing for. I ended up sacrificing Onyx for Highclere, but at some point, we will go back and get our original brand going again.

Adam von Gootkin, a young busi nessman from Essex, Connecticut, started to dream big— really big. And although his ambition and energy are high on the spectrum, the tinge of glimmer that ignited this adventure was, at Cuttingbest—faint.tothechase,

his story is absent from the realm of those typically promising that if you work hard, the “American Dream” can be yours; it’s not even close to those fables. At face value, the tale is farfetched, edgy, and to some, wildly grandiose. For these reasons, we share the fascinating details.

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Taking risk is in von Gootkin’s DNA; as a CEO, published author, and co-founder of Onyx Spirits Company, a producer of premium moonshine and whiskey, he realized the opportunity to build one of the greatest modern-day brands reaching worldwide appeal would take some soul-searching and plenty of luck.

LORD CARNARVON His [Adam’s] timing was good; we had made a substantial success of the Castle, we had some good fortune and wanted to make the best of it, and I had been speaking to my wife about how we could add value to the building by branding it. We also had a fair amount of interest from other people in the US, not just the UK, so this offered some possible openings for discussions.

ADAM I’d like to interject; I think people might often believe that be cause you own a castle, you don’t work, but what I learned and found impressive about Lord and Lady Carnarvon is that they have an acute work ethic. They are both committed to keeping Highclere Castle going.

I try to keep the back wheels of the car on the ground while the front ones are spinning. [Grin].

NEMEDIA What was your next step? ADAM The next day I went to my study and sent an email to the general inquiry box….

I consider myself a bit of an entrepreneur, but I don’t have ideas at the same rate as Adam and Fiona. [Laughing].

NEMEDIA

ADAM Lord Carnarvon decided to use oats—which had never been used in the production of gin; it took over a year to develop the recipe.

NEMEDIA Lord Carnarvon, why did you agree to a meeting; was it some thing Adam said, or was it his charm? (Laughter)

LORD CARNARVON

ADAM He [Lord Carnarvon] put the taste together, which is amusing. His final touch made the difference.

LORD CARNARVON Fiona and I wanted a powerful flavor of citrus and lavender… it speaks to the orange flavors found at Highclere. If you put a matrix up, you have many ingredients, including the amount of alcohol; there are multiple combinations…

I also enjoy fine scotches and whiskies, and on a nearby island, we have seven or eight amazing distilleries. And, so, it seemed like a fascinating idea.

be applied to a brand with more global appeal, so I began to look for a brand—for about a year. I was looking at people, places, and countries, rolling around ideas, just keeping an eye out for something. My wife and I have always had an affinity for England, we visit almost every year, and one day she forced me to watch Downton Abbey after asking me for months. Honestly, I didn’t want to watch a soap opera. [Smiling} We watched it, and after an episode, the screen came up and said something about staying tuned for the real story of High clere Castle. I recall it wasn’t until 2015 that I watched the documentary and realized this is a real place, so I started my research to learn more. What followed was my wife Regina—I believe, saying to me, but she swears I came up with the idea, ‘This is where you should do your next brand.’ I give her credit for coming up with the concept; she says it was my idea. Regardless, the words came out that night, ‘My God, you’re right!’

LORD CARNARVON His letter was well written, and it seemed Adam was commit ted and would be dedicated to the effort. And enthusiasm goes a long way; we view Americans that way. [Smiling]

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Adam, how long did the process take before you came up with the label “The Perfect Gin?”

ADAM I recently came up with that, which is true in flavor and its story. NEMEDIA I want to ask you both a question; how long did it take to perfect the taste of Highclere Gin?

Actually, it went to the box called ‘The Office’; it was the first obstacle in getting by my team, but they actually passed [the email] it on to me. ADAM I spent a lot of time on the letter; I want to be very clear on the messaging. I expected…well, to be honest, when I want something, I usually get it, and I did expect a response. At the same time, I didn’t consider it to be a big deal; I didn’t give it much thought. It was like playing the lottery. I just wanted to get my ideas out. What I didn’t expect was for my phone to ring the next day and to find Lord Carnarvon calling me.

NEMEDIA Lord Carnarvon, what did you think about a viewer of the show coming up with what may have appeared to be an overly ambitious request to make gin? (Laughter)

ADAM It’s a very large flavor chart… LORD CARNARVON We were nearly there, but I still wasn’t satisfied, and we didn’t want a bite to the back of the throat, so we added oats from our farm.

LORD CARNARVON For the best Gin & Tonic, we’ve found orange peel and rose mary are the perfect combinations to get the taste right; it has become a superior drink as a result.

ADAM These are a couple of concise answers to your question. First, as a brand, Highclere Castle Gin—I believe—is the only gin that intersects through three key areas. First, luxury; second, it’s mass-market; and lastly, craft. We are distilled in England’s oldest and most recognized distillery; we utilize botanical components, and the recipe was meticulously created and fully crafted in every sense. It isn’t a small batch, but it has been crafted in every way. Mass market, we are distributed in 30 US states and seven countries, all within the last two years. This success by any brand standard is ridiculous. And the reason we’ve been able to achieve this is because of the special connection between Highclere Castle and its affiliation with the series; it resonates with the public.

ADAM I originally thought the oats were silly, but Lord Carnarvon felt the oats from Highclere should be tried.

ADAM I don’t admit this often, but, and I should; gin was my least favorite category of all spirits. And the reason it was my least favorite was because the mass producers/category leaders are very Juniper heavy; it is okay, it is a particular profile [taste], but it is akin to pine, and I don’t love that flavor. That corner of the market was established, and we wanted a more modern Ginprofile.has been served at Highclere for over 100 years; it is quintessential; the British are known for the love of the drink; tik-tik-tik, gin—it was the obvious choice. The challenge for me was, just as when I brought cigars to Lord Carnarvon, he said he didn’t like cigars, so I saw it as a challenge and asked, ‘how do we create a cigar that for some one not impressed with the taste, will go out and try a truly good cigar?’

LORD CARNARVON Regarding the gin, I was very keen on the aromatics, so when you open the bottle at a distance, [the fragrance] it’s fantastic! We found a total change with the oats, and while not having tasted it yet, I knew we would be close. And, the high alcohol content makes a difference due to evaporation once opened— it dissipates faster.

ADAM The marketplace is changing; the consumer—the buyers, are wise; they recognize they are being fed fast food in nice pack

The story of Highclere Castle has given our product a global platform.

58 | SEPTEMBER 2022 | NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA NEMEDIA What do you attribute to the fact that non-gin drinkers love your product?

NEMEDIA Now, for the more difficult questions. How have you positioned your gin in a market that will foreseeably reach $20.17 billion by 2028 but is dominated by seven major brands, with active consolidation by conglomer ates? How will you compete?

NEMEDIA But, major brands are having difficulties, and having to cut prices while biding for self-space is an issue. Public relations will only carry you so far. My question is, can you continue this growth organically?

ADAM Most gins have a similar finish as vodka, instantly evaporating from the back of your tongue. With the addition of the oats, there are oils that allow you to chew the gin, which causes sali vation and lasts for 10 seconds. Look, [pointing at a glass with gin] you can see the viscosity; it resembles syrup. With wine, we talk about ‘legs.’ Gin does not have legs, but Highclere does. Each sip sits and allows the nose, the tongue, and other regions [of the mouth] to explore its unique taste.

ADAM There are 250,000,000 to 350,000,00 people around the planet, that if you presented them with a bottle of Highclere Castle Gin, a good percentage of them would recognize the association with the location Downton Abbey was filmed. The third piece is luxury; we have a $40 price-point—a superpremium category—an exceptional bottle; it is understated and has a story comprised of one of the world’s most famous castles. Adding to this is the association of one of England’s most prominent families.

LORD CARNARVON Adding the oats made an immediate improvement, which is the industry we are surrounded by and known to produce at Highclere.

LORD CARNARVON I might add that the line drawing of the Castle is recognizable; the trademarked image is slightly different than the one as it appears in association with Downton Abbey —it is a separate commercial I.D. but is key to recognizing the brand. There is an instant understanding of the message.

NEMEDIA That leads me to ask, how do you achieve the creamy palate?

LORD CARNARVON That is an interesting question. There is a protocol, of course. We sponsored a [horse] race, and her [the Queen’s] young filly won, so the winner received a gift bottle; I sent her a bottle to Winsor along with a nice letter. She sent a most charming reply telling me she enjoyed it.

NEMEDIA It’s agreed that you have a wonderful product; however, in a re cent commentary published by IWSR Drink Market Analysis, they purport, and I quote, “Gin must be careful not to repeat the mistakes of its closest rival, vodka.” They continue with what seems to be a direct hit to your category; “It is no secret that vodka has struggled to keep its head above water in recent times; the consumer’s backlash against faddy flavors marketed by brands has been extensively documented. Similarly, as evermore obscure and radical botanical tinctures are beginning to overcrowd the gin market, flavor fatigue and lack of equity may start to haunt the category.” What is your perspective?

NEMEDIA I must ask, has your godmother [Queen Elizabeth] sampled your gin?

ADAM Do you know why everyone is making gin? Because vodka is dead, and the small distilleries are waiting for their whiskies to But,age.this doesn’t matter to me; the way I view our brand is how I view Highclere Castle. It is about what the Carnarvon line represents in history. What is behind this family is identical to our product. We are not worried about giant corporations.

LORD CARNARVON I think the future holds our doing an English whiskey; others have tried and done well. We would have a more powerful brand and do well.

NEMEDIA Adam, you speak to authenticity; is that your selling point? ADAM It is the pillar of the company; it is what Highclere Castle is about and why I hold the Lord and Lady Carnarvon in such high esteem.

NEMEDIA Thank you for sharing your story and success; best of luck. H

ADAM [Appearing rushed to fit his comment into the conversation] Go to highclerecastlegin.com to invest, and buy a bottle. [Laughter][Smiling]

LORD CARNARVON This was never about putting the Highclere Castle name on a standard product; where you choose one out of 10 licensing deals, it has always been more than that.

ADAM If you look at other great brands in the world, they built their companies off their quality and innovation; our backstory is more about our history. Lord and Lady Carnarvon have worked on ushering in a new view of their home. We are continuing a legacy.

NEMEDIA Final words, gentleman?

ADAM It would be a big capital project but worthwhile. If COVID didn’t happen, we would be further along. This year, we are doing a re-launch of the gin.

LORD CARNARVON Yes, we have lots of competition from the fruity alternatives, but I don’t know how long that will last.

LORD CARNARVON Other products are in the pipeline and are of the finest quality.

ADAM I want to be clear; I had no interest in putting the Downton Abbey image on a bottle or doing a licensing deal. It was more that I wanted to fully understand the story of Highclere and forge a partnership for the long run. My promise to my partners was to create a gin that would be here 100 years from now.

aging. Never before have consumers demanded high-quality products. It is our job to offer them the solution, and it is the same for the buyers of liquor products at the finest restaurants, clubs, and hotels. When we visit a top-tier establishment, rarely do they not place an order.

ADAM It’s easy; it’s easy. Forget the gin; forget the category. We have liquified a unique brand. The customers we reach out to are experiential people. The bartenders want us on their shelves, and people entertaining guests want to tell our story. We are about life in another era. This is the liquification of these elements. Our competition surrounds us, but…

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NEMEDIA Where do you go from here; memories fade, and audiences age; can Highclere Castle Gin be a stand-alone brand?

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We’re very likely to have preconceived notions that an invasive treatment we voluntarily chose and wasn’t inexpensive will work, says Ruscio. A small randomized, double-blind, placebocontrolled study in the Journal of Alternative and Complimen tary Medicine illustrated this phenomenon in 34 people with fibromyalgia. When given either an intravenous combination of calcium, magnesium, vitamin C, and B vitamins (called a “Myers’ cocktail” after creator John Myers, M.D. in 1959) or a placebo by IV, both groups reported relief. There was no significant difference between groups after 2 or 4 months.4

person who takes her health seriously, Lesley Patterson of Scotland, is a five-time world champion off-road triathlete; she’s also a proponent of intravenous (IV) vitamin therapy. In a video testimonial for LIVV Natural Health, the vivacious self-described lassie explains the clinic’s holistic approach to treating their clients.

Through testing and teamwork, LIVV’s naturopathic doc tors managed to get to the root of the symptoms she’d been experiencing for the past decade: chronic fatigue syndrome, Lyme Disease, brain fog, and gut health problems. Patterson was treated with many therapies offered at LIVV: IV-delivered vitamins and minerals to compensate for nutrient-poor foods and maximize bioavailability; ozone therapy to combat toxins such as bacteria, fungi, and viruses; nutrient injections; and other alternative modalities.

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HEALTHCARE OF A DIFFERENT VEIN VITAMIN THERAPY

MIND OVER MATTER?

Patterson’s experience and many like hers aren’t unique, though conventional medicine is often quick to dismiss their results. Modern Infusion therapies can be traced back to the 19th century, and Dr. Thomas Latta, during the cholera epidemic of BY ROB SAINT LAURENT, M.ED 1831-32, discovered that intravenously infusing saltwater could successfully treat the disease. Though his accomplishment wasn’t taken seriously by his peers, and his name didn’t survive his passing in 1833, he is considered the father of intravenous infusion therapy. 2

Today, IV vitamin therapy, where a saline solution of vitamins is infused directly into a vein through a needle, is touted for boosting energy, enhancing immunity and mental acuity, quick hydration, and fighting stubborn conditions like fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue. Naturopathic medical doc tor Michael Ruscio, DNM, D.C., explains that many feel an immediate surge of energy after vitamin infusion and swears by the practice. This could be because people were deficient in one or more nutrient areas or because they were dehydrated. It could also be due to a placebo effect.3

Not that there’s anything necessarily wrong with a placebo effect, but Ruscio says IV vitamin therapy should be considered carefully, as it’s not without risk.

After nearly a year at LIVV, she says she’s had a “wonderful experience” and encourages others to try the practice to live their lives to the fullest.1

On the other hand, a small RCT showed no benefit when using IV selenium (a trace mineral with antioxidant properties) for acute respiratory distress syndrome. In a comprehensive review of available research, IV vitamin C offered no benefit for cancer, sepsis, or critically ill hospitalized patients. Likewise, IV magnesium provided no real benefit for the relief of muscle cramps or improvement after a stroke.3

IV vitamin therapy can be beneficial, but mostly for specific medical conditions, Ruscio explains. But even in a clinical setting, researchers haven’t been able to determine the effec tiveness of IV vitamin therapy, nor have they been able to find evidence-based guidelines for clinical use. Uses could be for malabsorption, post-surgical recovery, burns, trauma, intoxica tion, etc.9 WHAT ARE THE RISKS?

ER physician Travis Stork, M.D. says the trend of IV therapy among celebrities began as a cure for hangovers, though it’s expensive and “definitely not a cure-all” since much of the hangover is from alcohol toxins that need time to metabolize. Moreover, typical IV vitamin treatments received at boutiquelike clinics are not approved by the Food and Drug Adminis tration. There’s also a small risk of infection, bleeding, pain, or bruising if the vein is missed. More concerning, IVs can lead to a blood clot or vein inflammation. Though very rare, a poorly inserted IV could even cause an air embolism that could lead to a stroke.10JoshuaSeptimus, M.D., an associate professor of clinical medicine at Houston Methodist Research Institute who views IV vitamin therapy as “nonsense,” says its risks depend heavily on the vitamin mixture. A person with an undiagnosed kidney issue who receives a mixture high in calcium runs the risk of life-threatening blood clots from calcium deposits. He advises anyone with a heart issue to steer clear of IV therapy, as excess fluid could cause heart failure, and people with diabetes should avoid sugar-containing solutions. Immunocompromised people should never engage in IV therapy due to risk of infection from Today, IV vitamin therapy, where a saline solution of vitamins is infused directly into a vein through a needle, is touted for boosting energy, enhancing immunity and mental acuity, quick hydration, and fighting stubborn conditions like fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue.

IV glutathione after a heart attack was found to be useful in a pilot RCT of 50 cardiac patients in Italy. Before undergoing angioplasty, patients randomly received either 2,500 mg/25 mL of IV glutathione (a powerful antioxidant) over a 10-minute period every 24 hours for 3 days or a placebo. The researchers found that IV glutathione reduced blood levels of hydrogen peroxide for up to 5 days. Less hydrogen peroxide improved survival of heart cells. 8

In 2018, various news outlets reported how Kendall Jenner was hospitalized for a bad reaction to an IV vitamin drip be fore an Academy Awards appearance. Celebrities often utilize the therapy for a quick infusion of electrolytes and hydration to give them stamina on the red carpet or to help them man age cold symptoms and hangovers. Jenner has said that the pricey treatments give her a sense of control over her health. On this occasion, however, she needed non-serious hospital treatment and was released a short time later. It was unclear what caused the reaction, but just using an IV opens the door to potential complications.

To help people determine their risk tolerance, Ruscio has identified studies with moderate-to-good evidence in favor of IV therapy. He notes, however, that in placebo-controlled stud ies, it’s difficult to know whether any improvements were sim ply due to the increase in nutrients or to any special advantage from the IV delivery (versus oral supplementation). Magnesium IV therapy for asthma was found to be effective in children. In a review of six randomized and semi-random ized controlled trials (RCTs), researchers in China found that intravenously administered magnesium sulfate in children with acute asthma significantly improved lung function and decreased hospitalization and the need for more treatment. In contrast, nebulized magnesium sulfate showed no real effect.5 (Though not an RCT, a small 2004 study in Nutrition Journal showed similarly positive results with IV vitamins, including magnesium, in adults with acute and chronic asthma.)

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WHAT’S THE EVIDENCE?

IV vitamin C for inflammation was found to benefit people under 60 years of age. In a review of 12 RCTs, researchers in Iran, Italy, and Australia found that vitamin C supplementa tion was effective at lowering blood levels of C-reactive protein (a marker of inflammation), especially through intravenous delivery, in a lower dosage, and in younger people with higher inflammation levels at the outset.6

IV vitamin C for fatigue was found to be effective in healthy office workers in a double-blind RCT. Researchers in Korea divided 141 people aged 20-49 into two groups roughly equal in size: one group receiving 10 grams (10,000 mg) of IV vita min C in a saline solution and the other a saline-only placebo. Compared to the placebo group, vitamin C recipients scored lower feelings of fatigue 2 hours and 24 hours after administra tion, as well as higher blood levels of vitamin C and lower oxi dative stress. Only those with a lower baseline level of vitamin C experienced reduced fatigue. Adverse events were minimal. “High dose intravenous vitamin C proved to be safe and effec tive against fatigue in this study,” concluded the authors.7

3. Ruscio, M. (2021, September 1). IV Vitamin Therapy: What Is It, and Does Research Back Its Benefits? Dr. Ruscio, DNM, D.C. Blog.

9. Wells, C., Butcher, R., & McCormack, S. (2020, October 15). Intravenous Multivitamin Therapy Use in Hospital or Outpatient Settings: A Review of Clinical Effectiveness and Guidelines. Canadian Agency for Drugs and Technologies in Health.

4. Ali, A., Njike, V.Y., Northrup, V., et al. (2009, March). Intravenous micronutrient therapy (Myers’ Cocktail) for fibromyalgia: a placebo-controlled pilot study. Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, 15(3), 247-57.

WORTH THE EFFORT?

11. Camero, K. (2022, May 19). Kendall Jenner and Hailey Bieber Got IV Therapy. Here’s What to Know About These Vitamin Treatments. MSN. 12. Stieg, C. (2018, March 9). Kendall Jenner was reportedly hospitalized due to complications from a vitamin IV drip—here’s what you need to know about the celeb-favored treatment. Business Insider.

Lesley Patterson’s IV therapy clinic took the time to under stand her medical history, but Ehsan Ali, M.D., a Beverly Hills “concierge doctor,” says this often doesn’t happen. Without that knowledge, unexpected reactions can occur.12

6. Jafarnejad, S., Boccardi, V., Hosseini, B., et al. (2018). A Meta-analysis of Randomized Controlled Trials: The Impact of Vitamin C Supplementation on Serum CRP and Serum hs-CRP Concentrations. Current Pharmaceutical Design, 24(30), 3520-28.

7. Suh, S.-Y., Bae, W.K., Ahn, H.-Y., et al. (2012, January 20). Intravenous vitamin C administration reduces fatigue in office workers: a double-blind, randomized controlled trial. Nutrition Journal, 11(7).

2. MacGillivray, N. (2009, August 27). Dr. Thomas Latta: the father of intravenous infusion therapy. Journal of Infection Prevention.

Prices can vary depending on the local market, treatment type, and size, but typically range from $125 to $300 per session. Ensure a doctor or nurse is administering the IV and that the clinician(s) have a detailed understanding of your medical history to avoid unnecessary complications and maximize results. Because IV vitamin clinics are an un regulated industry, Stork says a person’s biggest risk is the person administer ing the IV. “The real danger is if you are being treated by a charlatan. It’s so important to go somewhere reputable if you are going to do this because other wise, it is anyone’s guess what they are putting in the IV bags.”10 H

5. Su, Z., Li, R., & Gai, Z. (2018, June). Intravenous and Nebulized Magnesium Sulfate for Treating Acute Asthma in Children: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis. Pediatric Emergency Care, 34(6), 390-95.

NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | SEPTEMBER 2022 | 63 an unsanitary or improperly inserted needle, and people with liver disease should also avoid the treatment.11

10. Mazziotta, J. (2018, March 7). Kendall Jenner Was Hospitalized After a Bad Reaction to a Vitamin IV Drip—What Are the Risks? People.

8. Tanzilli, G., Truscelli, G., Arrivi, A., et al. (2019, August 8). Glutathione infusion before primary percutaneous coronary intervention: a randomized controlled pilot study. BMJ Open, 9(8), e025884.

The bottom line, according to Ruscio, is that it’s best to eat a whole-foods diet plus any needed oral supplements, even with gut/absorption issues. Other experts agree that the oral route of nutrient delivery is the one nature intended. Even B12 injec tions are unnecessary, says Ruscio, with a higher oral dose an effective alternative.

For people still curious whether they might benefit from IV therapy, as for fatigue or inflammation, Stork says, “If you have the money to burn and use a reputable service, it’s perfectly reasonable to do it.”

1. LIVV Natural Health. (2020, February 8). Lesley’s Experience at LIVV Natural Health | IV Vitamin Therapy | PRP San Diego [Video file]. YouTube.

Vitamin supplementation remains controversial, but it could be argued that supplements are a relatively inexpensive form of health insurance in an age of processed and nutrient-depleted foods. That said, adequate research on IV vitamins is lacking, as in comparing IV administration to oral delivery with higher doses.

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axiom, “familiarity breeds contempt,” comes closer to describing the phenomenon. A potential partner’s public face may easily attract. Strengths, positivity, and beauty are displayed while inadequacies remain hidden and dormant. However, once intimacy develops, the pain buried within becomes evident. As we get close, we are delivered a basket of unexpected behaviors as partners.

Self-esteem is a conglomeration of our strengths and good qualities and our weaknesses, limitations, and old wounds. The more pain held within, the lower their self-esteem will become. Sharing personal troubles and inadequacies is a far lower intensity than when an emotional attachment has formed. But, once an intimate connection is created, the pain awakens and influences how the partner is experienced and treated.

hy do some romantic partners treat the other more poorly than friends, acquaintances, and sometimes even strangers after several years? The tendency seems odd when considering that a romantic partner is the most important person in one’s life.

Intimacy

Some may recall a moment when being talked to in a harsh tone until the phone rang, and then a partner abruptly shifted to speaking with warmth to a friend. Another example is when partners don’t consult one another about decisions, only to show extraordinary effort and sensitivity to an activity group arranging get-togethers. This list goes on, and naturally, it is difficult not to take these behaviors personally.

Accepted truths, “The more intimately you know someone, the more you see their flaws,” highlights the long road ahead for many relationships but fails to suggest the coldness with which partners tend to freeze the other out. Another

Most romantic partners feel that the early years’ passion fades while giving way to a long-term “work phase,” which feels more like drudgery than excitement. The “new car syndrome” is similar in that the excitement of a new vehicle declines as quickly as its fresh smell.

I HURT YOU BECAUSE I LOVE YOU

Some conclude that passionate love cannot last, but the pattern we focus on is darker than descending from excitement to a normal level of caring; often, it is felt as being mistreated.

The awakening of internal pain is a challenging phase and remains a function of love. Profound and purposeful, it is an integral part of growth and healing. H Andrew Aaron, LICSW, is a sex and relationship therapist who practices in the New Bedford Seaport.

When the connection between romantic partners develops, the partner’s psychology becomes an extension of the self, emotionally indistinguishable. They get treated how the romantic partner feels about their worst parts; a form of projection. Once love opens a partner to closeness, inwardly held troubles cannot be prevented from polluting the relationship connection.

The region’s appeal to sailors attracts watercraft of all types, including a large yachting community tied to marina docks or at moorings within protective and picturesque inlets.

Essex’s charm, ambiance, and slow pace of daily routines are most striking. A view of its peaceful nature indicates it is a wealthy community attracting those entrenched in tradition but with a creative edge. Such cooperation appears to align and co-exist with its history and the progression of different lifestyles.

But, for an authentic Long Island experience, pack your cooler and venture south to Smith Point County Park. This beautiful beachfront faces the ocean at the east end of Fire Island. The sand stretches for miles with room to roam; the sight and sounds of crashing waves will make you wish you had discovered it years ago. Live a little, and see what you’ve been missing. H discoverlongisland.com.

Field Trips

he mid-coast region of Connecticut is known for its tiny hamlets and villages; it’s one of the most scenic spots on the Connecticut River— carrying boat traffic to and from the Long Island Sound.

Road Trip

A day trip or extended weekend to this easily accessible destination from nearby New York, Rhode Island, and Massachusetts, makes Essex a first choice for experiencing an authentic holiday, instilling a flavor of how life used to be—relaxed and cultured. H essexct.com

ESSEX, CONNECTICUT

Essex is a walking community, the streets are lined with historic homes and buildings, there is plenty of free parking, along with neighborly similes and hellos to all who visit.

Land-based tourists are attracted to an assortment of museums, shops, and the iconic Griswold Inn, one of the few continuously operating since 1776.

A short ride to New London, Connecticut, gets you and your car to the docks of the Crosstown Ferries that run from early morning and into the night; the scenic boat ride is a fabulous start to the day. The short 90-minute cruise delivers adventurers to the Village of Greenport. You’ll find dockside restaurants, inches above the waterline, fresh seafood, and plenty of adult beverages to wade off the rays, specialty boutiques, and art galleries. Not to be missed is Greenport’s 100+ year-old Jess Owen Carousel, a favorite spot for kids, families, and romantics.

ALLURES Day-Tripping TO LONG ISLAND

Looking for more; the Island is the place to be, known for its wine production; the North Fork, South Fork, and western Suffolk County have 57 different wine producers and countless vineyards, many serving light meals and snacks that will leave you enchanted and wanting more.

ong Island in September is beyond anything you’ve experienced. A bit quieter this time of year, but just as much fun; its beaches, farms, and vineyard appeal, dedicated to those with sophisticated tastes, offers a laid-back, metro vibe that encompasses all the senses.

DAY TRIPPING! New66Bwww.cuttyhunkferryco.comStatePier,SouthBulkheadBedford,MA508.992.0200 • Depart from New Bedford’s historic waterfront; a short walk to downtown New Bedford’s many restaurants, boutique shops, museums & galleries. • Enjoy the gorgeous views of Buzzards Bay as you make your way to the laid back island of Cuttyhunk. • Friday Night Sunset Cruises! Breath taking scenery, comfortable accommodations, not to be missed excursion. Catch a fast, fun, safe trip to beautiful Cuttyhunk Island on board the M/V Cuttyhunk!