BRUTUS March 2023 | The Victoria Street Edition

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The Victoria Street edition | March 2023 RESPECT | INTEGRITY | UBUNTU | POTENTIAL DEVELOPMENT

Our Story

Nerina’s name comes from the indigenous South African flower, Nerine Filifolia. This delicate, yet enduring flower brings colour to the open grasslands and humid locations in the Eastern Cape, Transkei, Swaziland, Mpumalanga and the Free State. It takes three years for this bulbous to bloom for the first time during autumn – and likewise most Nerinas are rooted here in our precious home in Stellenbosch for about three years before they need to exit into the world and start to bloom in their respective careers.

Nerina hosted our first residents in 1968. The residence was only completed in 1972 and for the first four years the residents had to use the back entrance next to the bicycle stands, as the front door was not yet complete. Mrs Rabie was Nerina’s first residence head. Her dog, Brutus, was a beloved resident of the house and unfortunately passed a tragic death. He is laid to rest in Nerina’s soil where he still finds peace in the purple shade of our beautiful Jacaranda.

Mrs. Kritzinger joined Nerina as residential head in 1995 and had to bid us farewell in 1999. Tannie Annette du Plessis has been deeply planted in our hearts as residential head and house mother since July 1999.

Although greeting Aunty A after twenty years was a heartfelt and difficult goodbye, we are overjoyed to have Joy Petersen as our current resident head. Her name is true to her joyful spirit and with her honest and practical servant leadership she captured our hearts. Oh, the stories our walls could tell... Stories filled with love, tears, joy and growth. Since 1968 Nerina has been home to many. With every new face that she greets, her face changes as well. While striving to grow and adapt as time goes by, we also know that our firm foundation was laid long before our time and will stand long after we leave. We often say, “Nerina is such a big part of our lives” but in fact, for a little while, we have the privilege of being part of hers.

Today Nerina’s heart blooms with pride for our residence – a progressive and innovative home-away-from-home in the beautiful town of Stellenbosch. We stand for respect, integrity, Ubuntu and potential development. In this house, true to the roots of our name, Nerinas prosper and flourish.

Nerina Residence

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in this edition Editorial Letter from the editor The Team A stroll down Victoria Street

Events Welcoming Week 2023 House Fund Disco!

IBN Summarised

Tips and Tricks The Ultimate Study Guide Dos and Don'ts of a Blind Date Beating Load Shedding Blues Budgeting

Food Air fryer Resipes Nerina's guide to navigation the Neelsie

People Meet the new Newcomers' Committee If Nerina’s Walls Could Speak

History Nerina ewig trou (aka wifey for lifey)

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Letter from the editor Dear Nerina, Coming back to campus after 3 months, I was suddenly reminded of just how much students walk every day. Although it took me a while to get used to the everyday trek of going to class, I realised that this was the thing I missed the most: strolling down Victoria street, observing the sun-specked world around me.

This year, Brutus focuses on the streets of Stellenbosch that play a role in our time here. For this edition, I wanted to highlight Victoria street, as I feel it is synonymous with a new beginning at the university. Whether Dreamwalk comes to mind, or your brisk walk to your first class, I think we can all relate to Victoria street guiding us to a fresh start.

It really is amazing to think that we have reached the end of term 1 already. Some of us have a few assessments waiting for us after recess and others can take a break after grueling test weeks. Whether you have to study during recess or can enjoy some welldeserved rest, remember to use this time to reflect.

I invite you to sit for a moment and think about where you were and who you were three months ago. Think about the people you did not yet know and the people you knew, but now often forget.

As old Victoria Street once again sheds its orange coat, remember that you too are always changing.

With Love, Mia

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The BRUTUS team These are the lovely people who made this edition possible. Get to know them and their favourite ice cream flavours.

Anja Steyn Vanilla Bean

Carla Kotze Pistachio

Hannah van Zyl Nina Germishuysen Cookie Dough

Cookies and Cream

Rosemary Michaels Kyanti Greyling Chocolate

Kristen's Peanut Butter Fluff and Dough

Carmen Le Grange Honeycomb and Dark Chocolate

Jule Booysen

Megan Jones

Kristen's Brown Sugar and Figs

Rachel Kleyn

Tayla Esau

Lucy Clegg

ANY flavour she's not allergic to

Strawberry

Chocolate

Salted Caramel

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A stroll down Victoria Street Carmen Le Grange “Have a good day!”

After a brief exchange of smiles and small talk, students sing the greeting as they stroll past one another on their way from home to a lecture, from a lecture to home. The cheerful greetings bounce off ancient oak trees that decorate the walkway of beloved Victoria Street.

Laughter and tears, rejoicing and anxiety, mourning and dancing - Victoria Street sees it all and holds dearly to the footprints that so faithfully paint it with brush strokes of these valuable moments.

The ebb and flow of change creates a soft rhythm in bustling and busy Stellenbosch. A rhythm that we grow with day to day, season to season. From hot, yellow days filled with new students lost in the wonder and complexity of the town, to quiet moments defined by the nostalgic smell of rain and laziness that the grey-blanket skies pour over the town.

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So the seasons of our lives flow.

Sunlight. Smiling. Summer. Coffee-brown pillars support a luscious green roof of leaves that sway to the sound of upbeat chatter from students passing by. The aroma of new beginnings fills the warm Stellenbosch air with a refreshing, hopeful scent. It is the start of a beautiful journey.

IGreen and sunlight greet our cobbled streets farewell and say hello to scarves and beanies, coffee and rust leaves. Slowly, Autumn weaves its way into our busy lives. It colours our trees and streets with notes of auburn and whispers of gold, beckoning us to pause. Always rushed and always late, Victoria Street compels us to catch our breath as we appreciate its breath-taking beauty. It compels us to just take one moment.

As the moment fades, so do the leaves. And our mighty trees are left exposed and vulnerable to the piercing cold. Nights are long, days are short. Students bundle up in oversized jackets and are comforted by the familiar path leading home.

Flowers. Bees. Mornings as sweet as honey. Sunrays dancing with the trees. Freedom and family calling. Friends eating scones and drinking tea. September sings its way into Stellenbosch and hums its vibrant tune to every street, plant, and student. It’s welcoming a new melody of change.

And so, we grow, with the ebb and flow of change that creates the rhythm of our lives. Day to day. Season to season.

Victoria Street. Our friend that walks alongside us, every day, every season.

Victoria Street. A small, beautiful detail to the painting that is our university days

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Welcoming Week 2023: “We know what we are, but know not what we may be.”

Rachel Kleyn 407 years ago, William Shakespeare left this world. However, he did leave behind a multitude of words, poems and plays that still glitter in literature lectures and on the Broadway stage.

What he also left behind, are some sayings that I’ll use to describe Welcoming to you.

LIGHT NIGHT Walking through the Stellies town, exploring all the go-to places Learning all the tips and tricks, while meeting friendly faces Our journey ended at the Nerina door, with a surprised shout When we entered the building, and all the lights were out We walked in our mentor groups and came across four stalls Which were promoting our house values through the halls Integrity, respect, potential development And of course, Ubuntu, the final element And in Ubuntu, we stood together We sang our song – Nerina forever.

Light Night taught us what we could rely upon: “We are such stuff as dreams are made on.”

HOUSEWARMING Karaoke with our Nerinas of old Encouraged some of us to be bold And jam to Taylor and a little Katy And of course, Nerina’s version of “Baby” A game of rock, paper, scissors, which would not end And a “Would-you-rather” send us ‘round the bend But what really kept us going all along Was the voices of Nerinas in song Housewarming taught us what we could rely upon: “If music be the food of love, play on.”

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MORNING OF HOPE The conclusion of our Welcoming week Ended on what could only be described as a peak Dressed in white, and wondering where We were going – were we almost there?

Hope for the future, and hope for the day Inspired as we were by what Cara had to say The future was bright, the future had come Now it was our chance to start Year One And as we walked down the hill, looking at our leaders to follow, We thought to ourselves “Parting is such sweet sorrow.”

The memories of becoming a Nerina, will stay with us for years Just as the Vensters experience, and our Dreamwalk cheers

VENSTERS / CONNECT / SOCIALS Meeting the other residences, took us to a new end, Where each Nerina said a prayer, "Boldness be my friend."

Dancing and acting at Vensters, was where we were all taught: "Pleasure and action make the hours seem short.”

DREAMWALK With hostels and PSO’s alike, cheering down Vic Street The ancient trees seemed to rejoice at the treat When dreams and wishes were planted on each tree, With words to the sum of: "We know what we are, but know not what we may be."

And so the first year students were welcomed to be a part On Victoria Street, their journey did start

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House Fund Disco!

Mia Ham Walking into Nerina on the afternoon of Thursday 2 March, one would be blinded by sparkly skirts, glittery dresses, and shiny jewellery. Dozens of bedazzled girls darting in and out of their rooms, preparing for the night ahead. Who doesn’t love a good disco?

For two weeks before the highly anticipated House Fund Dance, this event was a frequent topic among residents. The questions of who to take and what to wear were ever in the back of Nerinas’ minds. Excitement grew as blind dates were organised, clothes borrowed, and glitter bought, with only a few days to spare before the fateful Thursday.

That evening, Nerinas and their companions arrived group-by-group at Centraal, the disco dance destination. After checking in and receiving food and drinks tokens, they had their pictures taken against a backdrop of bright-coloured balloons. And so, the night officially began.

As more and more Nerinas arrived, cries of “Look at you!”, “I love your outfit!” and “Where did you get that skirt?” rang out repeatedly in the crowd. Dining-hall acquaintances greeted each other excitedly, welcoming buddies chatted again for the first time since February and classmates bonded over the work they should be doing.

Pictures taken and pleasantries exchanged, the next step was to redeem one’s drink token and join the dancing crowd. Soon enough, “Where are you from?” changed into “Where did you learn those moves?”, as the Nerinas and their companions lit up the dance floor.

Song after song was belted out and accompanied by some impressive movements. The Nerinas gave it their all. A ‘sokkie’ area even appeared during the Afrikaans songs.

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Having danced themselves to near exhaustion, many were relieved to hear that the food was ready. It certainly did not disappoint. Delicious burgers were distributed to eager disco-goers, their food tokens ready. The burgers were well received, surpassing the expectations of those who were wondering what Centraal’s food would be like.

Having regained their strength, the Nerinas and their companions partied on. ABBA songs were shouted at full volume and Taylor Swift songs were performed to the best of our Swifties’ abilities.

As the night wore on and borrowed shoes became a little less bearable, the crowd slowly dispersed. Some headed to bed, some went in search of more food and some continued the party elsewhere. Whether they went home early or stayed out late, one thing was certain: this was a night not soon to be forgotten. The memories, like the glitter in their hair, would stay with the Nerinas for months to come.

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IBN Summarised Mia Ham

IBN (In-Bly-Naweek), or “Stay-In Weekend” happened on the weekend of 3-5 March.

Residents were encouraged to stay in res for the weekend and fun activities were planned to keep them entertained. This was an ideal opportunity for Nerinas to take a break from academics and spend some time with their fellow residents.

Friday IBN started off with Nerina’s first-ever Sumo wrestling tournament. The brave fighters suited up (stuffed pillows down their shirts) and got ready for battle. The objective was to push your opponent out of the ring. Various tactics were employed by the fighters. Some dodged and let momentum work against their opponents, while others took more of a ‘bulldozer’ approach.

Ultimately, the best fighter (Alexi Hugo) claimed victory as Nerina’s first-ever sumo-wrestling champion.

Saturday After sleeping in on Saturday morning, Nerinas could enjoy some relaxing Quality Time with each other in the rec hall. There were snack platters with a lovely assortment of fruits.

Paired with the snacks, each Nerina could mix their own refreshing drink as well and listen to some music while getting to know their fellow residents.

Later in the afternoon, it was time for the highly anticipated Amiga picnic. Amigas wore matching colours to help them identify each other. After a week of writing notes and exchanging gifts, the seniors were excited to finally see if they guessed their Amiga correctly.

During the picnic, amigas could answer some ice-breaker questions and just get to know one another better. The past week’s notes left on doors made for some interesting conversation.

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Who doesn’t love a movie night? Although the Open-Air Cinema couldn’t quite take place out in the open due to the weather, it was still an event to remember. The Nerinas watched How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days, a classically hilarious romantic comedy. While enjoying the fantastic movie, Nerinas could grab some popcorn and MyBrew coffee – for free. It was a lovely, cozy girls night, perfectly matching the stormy weather outside.

Sunday Nerinas could sleep in once again on this rainy morning. Early afternoon, Nerinas gathered to walk to Wilgenhof for Paint the Prims. The prims of Dagbreek, Huis Marais and Helderberg all posed atop a table, while they were painted.

The painting was of course accompanied by some wine, adding to the atmosphere. Whether they could paint well or barely manage some stick figures, it was certain that the Nerinas enjoyed themselves.

The last event of IBN was The real sections of Nerina. Each section had 20 minutes to rehearse a 2-3 minute play, to be performed in front of the house. The theme was each section’s name. While many sections opted for a talk show style and creating caricatures of each section, some sections were beyond creative.

The winning section, Hyde, performed something akin to an apocalypse movie, complete with some interesting dance moves.

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NERINA EWIG TROU (aka WIFEY FOR LIFEYY) Carmen Le Grange Teeth flossed. Tie straightened. Cologne on.

Ready and expectant, I walk through the welcoming, quaint doors of Nerina Residence. As I make my way into their renowned quad, my heart hears wedding bells chiming and birds chirping. Violet flowers fall gracefully from the Jacaranda tree like wedding confetti. And then, I see her. She exudes beauty. She radiates joy. Her smile tells stories of summer days and her eyes twinkle with hope. My heart runs away from me to her. A lifetime of love flashes before my eyes and I melt. Every fibre of my being sings, “this is your ‘trouvrou’!”

- The thoughts of every hopeless romantic Dagbreek boy, ever.

It is no secret that Nerina is known for its flattering label as the “Trouvrou Koshuis” (the Wifey Material Residence) and that if The Bachelorette was filmed on Stellenbosch campus, one of our very own lovely ladies would be the sought-after Bachelorette.

Aside from the fact that Nerina is home to a group of charming, beautiful women (I may be a tad biased) and yes, we most definitely are wifey material, there is actually a story behind this label we have come to know and love.

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One of the very first traditions our beloved Nerina embraced, was a ‘marriage’ with a very special Men’s Residence. It started with courting: the love bird residences watched each other’s sport matches, enjoyed socials, and went on a memorable camp. While the courting took place, Nerina’s best and brightest law students began the intricate process of setting up a wedding contract. Yes, a CONTRACT. Then, after weeks of preparation and brief moments of cold feet, the wedding ceremony took place. Twelve cars escorted the lovely Nerina bride from the Men’s Residence to Nerina Residence, her madly in-love groom waiting for her with tears threatening to become puddles on the floor. The wedding involved a marching band, heartfelt vows, and a joyful celebration. A night to remember. And officially, Nerina became a wife.

While reading this, you must be waiting with bated breath to find out who the eligible Bachelor was that took our darling Nerina’s hand in marriage. Was EENdrag the ONE? Was DAGbreek the Prince Charming that saved the DAY? Will Nerina and HUIS Visser share a HOME? Only one could steal Nerina’s heart and that is because, there is only one BERG and that is SimonsBERG. (My deepest apologies, Dagbreek.)

Nerina and Simonsberg, together forever, since 1972.

And that, my dear friends, is how we became known as the “Trouvrou Koshuis”.

~THE END.~

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The Ultimate Study Guide Anja Steyn As exam season draws ever nearer, and assignments start piling up, it becomes necessary to hit the books. Here are some tried and tested tips and tricks to ace your semester. Also find included a complete guide to the best study spots on and around campus.

aCADEMIC TIPS health Hit the snooze button.

It might sound redundant, but sleep really is as important as everyone says. I know that as university students the word “sleep” is outside the realm of our vocabularies, but it ought to be one of our main priorities. A well-rested mind is sharper, quicker, and less anxious. Moreover, studies have shown that sleep boosts students’ ability to retain and recall information. So don’t feel guilty for going to sleep instead of doing last-minute cramming. Often, sleeping is the most productive thing you can do!

The best study method.

Of all the study methods I have tried, and trust me, I’ve tried a lot, this one is by far the most effective. Active recall involves forcing yourself to recall all the information you can remember without looking at your notes. By putting yourself in a similar situation to when you will be when writing your test, you are able to prepare holistically for your upcoming exams.

Emotional.

Reach out to someone. Often we can forget that we are not alone in dealing with academic stress.

Reach out to others who have done the modules you’re stressing about. In my experience, people are more than eager to share their wisdom. If that is not an option, try reaching out to a friend or mentor for guidance. It is never productive to suffer in silence.

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BEST STUDY SPOTS ON-CAMPUS The Library.

The Stellenbosch University library never disappoints. You will always find an open seat and (mostly) functioning Wi-Fi.

Fharga/ Narga/ Humarga.

These faculty-specific study spots are always good options. Equipped with printers and computers, you will have everything you need to power through your assignments.

Study Centre (SS) The SS, as it is colloquially known, is in the JC Smuts building – you enter it as you walk across the bridge to the Engineering Building. It is extremely large, and so you will almost never struggle to find an open seat.

Jan Mouton Learning Centre The Jan Mouton Learning Centre is also a good study spot and is located close to the Neelsie if you’re craving some late-night coffee (or waffles!). The Jan Mouton has computer user areas which makes it a great working spot.

AROUND-CAMPUS Mood Coffee Bar Located in Ryneveld Street, Mood Coffee Bar is a fantastic place to work and study. Their coffee is also great, which is a massive plus!

They are open from 07:00 to 17:00 on weekdays, and till 14:00 over weekends.

COFFEE PLEASE

Legado Legado is another coffee shop perfectly suited to work and study in. This café in Andringa street has tasty and affordable treats and coffee available, which makes it the perfect working environment if you are looking for some sweet motivation.

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Nerina’s guide to navigating the Neelsie Carla Kotze The aroma of freshly roasted beans hovering in the air is irresistible. Your tummy grumbles as you walk past Jack’s Bagels. Your classmates sipping on cups of pearly bubble tea gives you FOMO! But beware! For before you know it, you have tapped your student card one too many times and your COB balance is depleted… again.

Under one roof – you will find options ranging from classic toasties and chips for lunch to a coffee to carry you through the next lecture or a comforting Moody Blue’s waffle on an extra tough day.

The Neelsie is – no doubt – the heart and soul of our beloved campus!

To help you narrow down your options we have compiled a Neelsie guide based on your fellow Nerinas’ recommendations.

For your daily dose of caffeine…

Who can resist a good cup of coffee? My Brew’s friendly baristas, excellent service and quality drinks have got you covered. Their unique Africano is worth the hype and the MyBrew iced coffee is perfect to beat the summer heat with. Their menu offers a range of delicious caffeine-free drinks as well. While you’re at it, grab a famous MyBrew granola bar on the go.

Healthy body, healthy mind Surrounded by all-too-tempting sweets and treats, there’s no need to fear losing your hard-earned summer body! There are enough healthy options to keep you satisfied. Here are a few recommendations: Sweetbeet: Elvis Pesto Egg Bowl Butternut, Sweet Potato and Feta salad/wrap Katy Berry Smoothie

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Victoria Street Edition Buzz: Monkey Mafia wrap Mango Mojo smoothie Peanut Butter Buzz smoothie Vida: The Almond smoothie Vida Vitality Smoothie Peanut Força Smoothie TaMaties: Creamy Avo salad Salmon and Cream Cheese wholewheat bread

Comfort food We all need an occasional mood booster to get us through the day. Keep these quick fix recommendations in mind on your next bad hair day: - A cookies and cream coffee and cookie special - Moody Blue’s famous waffles - A FrioShake from Vida - Cinnamon doughnuts from DCM - An oreo surprise, carrot or red velvet cupcake from MyBrew

Lunch-hour Every day, a campus of hungry students rush to the Neelsie as the clock announces that it’s lunchtime. To avoid wasting your precious free time in a queue, it is vital to choose wisely. A few convenient, tasty meals include: - An avo and cream cheese, or biltong and cream cheese bagel from Jack’s Bagels - Samoosas from Mariams - Spicy chicken wings from Moody Blue - TaMaties toasties - A wrap or salad from Buzz The Neelsie caters for every taste and preference! Worried about the costs accumulating?

No need to fear… your parents will only view your student account at the end of the year.

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Air fryer resipes The air fryer: the best thing to happen to university students since MyBrew coffee.

Hannah van Zyl If you do not yet own an air fryer, you most probably know someone who does. This compact, health-beneficial piece of equipment does not only look really cute, but it perfectly suits the two most important needs of a student: It requires absolute minimal effort to operate and it saves time.

With that being said, here are some quick, easy and extremely yummy recipes to use in your (or your friend's) air fryer:

Breakfast - French Toast Ingredients: 1 egg 1 tablespoon of milk 1⁄2 teaspoon cinnamon 1⁄2 teaspoon vanilla extract 4 slices of the bread of your choice Directions: 1. In a bowl, add the egg, milk, vanilla, and cinnamon. Whisk to combine completely and set aside.

2. Make an assembly line: put whisked egg mixture and bread next to each other.

3. Spray the air fryer basket with non-stick oil spray.

4. Dip the slices of bread into the egg mixture and make sure to flip and coat both sides. Lift out of the mixture and allow to drip for a few seconds, then place into the air fryer basket. Repeat for the remaining slices.

5. Close the Air Fryer. Set to 200°C for 5 minutes. After 5 minutes, open the basket and carefully flip the French toast slices. Close the air fryer and cook 3-4 more minutes at 200°C.

6. Remove the French toast when finished and then cook the remaining French toast slices.

7. Serve with syrup and cheese or your favourite toppings!

Lunch – Bacon wrapped avocado fries Ingredients: 3 avocados 24 slices of bacon Mayonnaise for serving Directions: 1. Slice each avocado into 8 equally-sized wedges. Wrap each wedge with a strip of bacon, cutting bacon if needed.

2. Working in batches, arrange in air fryer basket in a single layer. Cook at 200°C for 8 minutes until bacon is cooked through and crispy.

3. Serve warm with mayonnaise or any sauce of your choice.

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Dinner – Stuffed Chicken Ingredients: 4 chicken breasts 4 tablespoons of pesto Mozzarella 1 1/2 tablespoons of olive oil Salt and pepper 1 pack of bacon 1/4 cup basil leaves 340g asparagus 2 large cloves garlic, thinly sliced Directions: 1. Insert a knife into the thickest part of each chicken breast and move back and forth to create a pocket that is as wide as possible without cutting through.

2. Spread pesto inside the pockets and stuff them with mozzarella.

3. Rub the chicken with 1⁄2 tablespoon of olive oil, then season it with salt and pepper.

4. Lay bacon slices on a cutting board and place a few small basil leaves in the centre of each. Place the chicken on top and wrap the bacon around the chicken. Place seam side down in the air fryer basket. Air-fry at 190°C for 6 minutes.

5. Toss asparagus and garlic with remaining tablespoon of olive oil and salt and pepper.

Move chicken to one side of the air fryer and place asparagus on the other side. Continue air-frying until chicken is cooked through and the asparagus is just tender and slightly charred.

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Dessert - Chocolate Brownies Ingredients: 1/2 cup sugar 1/3 cup cocoa powder 1/4 cup all-purpose flour 1/4 teaspoon baking powder Pinch of salt 1/4 cup butter, melted and slightly cooled 1 large egg Directions: 1. Grease a round cake pan with cooking spray.

2. In a bowl, whisk to combine sugar, cocoa powder, flour, baking powder, and salt.

3. In a bowl, whisk melted butter and egg until combined. Add wet ingredients to dry ingredients and stir until combined.

4. Transfer brownie batter to the prepared cake pan and smooth the top. Cook in air fryer at 180°C for 16-18 minutes. Let cool for 10 minutes before slicing.

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The Dos and Don’ts of a Blind Date Rachel Kleyn Something that was quite a foreign concept to me before arriving at Nerina, is a blind date. Setting yourself up with a stranger seems like a fun idea, but it’s also incredibly brave (and, in some cases, possibly a mistake). Before House Fund Dance, I watched my roommate fret over who her blind date would be, as she switched from one guy to the next. Although I was not engaged in the process, I definitely got an outsider’s view on what you should and shouldn’t do when arranging a blind date. Since this year has still got a few dances up and coming, I thought I’d share with you a few of the lessons I’ve learnt.

So, what should you do?

NUMBER ONE: LOOKS DO COUNT Yes, yes, I am aware that this is somewhat of an unpopular opinion. But, before you call the editor and complain about how shallow I am, give me a chance to explain. Although a person with a pleasing aesthetic and a cute smile is handy, it’s not a must. A must, when it comes to looks, is that you really do have to know what they look like. It’s going to be rather awkward if you’re searching for them in a crowd of Eendrag caps, and you can’t tell orange from orange.

NUMBER TWO: TAKE OFF THE BLINDFOLD BEFORE THE HOUSE FUND DANCE This point has been a topic of debate among many of my friends when discussing a blind date: should you meet them beforehand? My answer is yes. For starters, it gives you a chance to get all the awkward small talk out of the way, so that on the night of the dance all that’s left is to have a good time. And, more importantly (in my opinion), it gives you a chance to see if you really do connect with the person. If not, then you still have a chance to get off that train and on the next one.

NUMBER THREE: CALL YOUR FAIRY GODMOTHER Bibbity bobbity boo! Whether your fairy godmother is your roommate, mom or best friend, get them to help you choose your best fit. It’s important that you feel beautiful in whatever you’re wearing. In that way, you’re going to shine at the House Fund Dance!

(And if your blind date really sucks, you can blame your early escape on your fairy godmother’s magic wearing off.)

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NUMBER FOUR: WALK DOWN THE AISLE AND MAKE IT TO THE ALTAR Slow down there, tiger! Even if your date is super cute, I don’t mean that we want to hear wedding bells on Day One. However, it is important not to get cold feet. SHOW UP. We’re all a little shy sometimes – and a little late sometimes (for me, all the time) – but it is so important that you do end up going and doing your best to have a good night. That’s just good character, and good character is what one finds at Nerina.

The Definitely Don’ts NUMBER ONE: DON’T MAKE POOR DECISIONS I know it’s a bit of a shot in the dark to ask this of university students, but I thought I’d try anyway. Although the matter of who your blind date might be is important, what is even more crucial is the person selecting your blind date. Make sure that it is someone who knows you well – what you like and dislike, your pet peeves, and your least favourite “manskoshuis” (I know you thought of yours), because that would just be a big no-no.

NUMBER TWO: DON’T BE THE STALKER I know that burning urge to click on that request button on Instagram is just awful, but please be patient. Let them be the one to make the first move. It’s always more fun when you’re the one playing hard-to-get. Also, it can be somewhat of a dead giveaway when they don’t know who their blind date is and poof! – follow request from a random person who’s in Nerina.

NUMBER THREE: DON’T WAIT FOR PRINCE CHARMING I’m sure you’ve heard of “W-rizz.” Interesting fact: “rizz” is actually derived from the word “charisma” – so essentially “W-rizz” means to have winning charisma. Some people have it, some people don’t. Please do not expect your date to be perfect. They might not bring you flowers (mine didn’t) or open your car door or tell funny jokes, but hey! Thank goodness everyone has more depth than that. Remember to not set the bar too high for Date One. If they’re not the one, you can put the bar down, but if they are, you can raise it the next time.

NUMBER FOUR: DON’T GO DIGGING IN THE ARCHIVES Although some of us are blessed to have never been in a failed relationship, others of us are not so blessed. Try not to spend your whole night recounting tales of your ex(es), as I can imagine that being quite off-putting, if not tedious. Try not to do too much of the “long list of ex-lovers”, and more of the “I’ve got a blank space”. Thanks Taylor.

Although each of you will have varying opinions on how correct I am, everyone will have to agree: a Blind Date is an adventure. I hope that when you embark on yours, it is everything you dreamt of – and even a story to tell the kids one day.

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Meet the New Newcomers’ Committee Jule Booysen

The baton of leadership has recently been passed on to the newly elected Newcomers’ Committee that was elected on 7 March 2023. The Newcomer’s Committee is an elected body of 5 newcomers who represent the interests and concerns of the newcomers.

Throughout the year, they work on various projects such as social and wellness projects, but their main project is the planning and execution of the Newcomers’ Dance.

Tayla Esau (Secretary) - One Way

Creating a feeling of home and inclusivity for all, is her goal. She applied for Newcomers’ Committee as it reduces her shyness and allows her to feel more comfortable when speaking to people. While chasing a degree in BCom Mathematical Sciences, the newly elected secretary from Durbanville, aims to execute diversity through the fulfilment of her duties.

Megan Jones (Treasurer) - 21 Jump Street

Her name means “Bringer of Light” which closely ties to her goal. She aims to illuminate the environments she moves in, but also lighten the burden of those around her. The BCom International Business student, believes that the Newcomers’ Committee should be the glue holding the group together through means of representation and trust.

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Kyanti Greyling (Chairperson) - Laan Residing in Stellenbosch, the BAccLLB student is happy to help people in any way to make their lives easier and Newcomers’ Committee fits that objective.

Her goal is to turn Nerina into a joyful home for all.

Robyn Rosselli (Wellness) - Quality Street

Her vision is to give back to the people she now calls friends and create community and sisterhood amongst them. The BCom Mathematical Sciences student from Durbanville really aims to ensure that everyone is seen and heard.

Jada Van Nieuwenhuizen (Social) - 21 Jump Street

The BCom International Business student from Pretoria believes it’s important to “just be lekker and to keep it simple”. Her goal is to create opportunities for the newcomers to see each other often. When asked about her reasons for applying for Newcomer’s Committee, she spoke fondly of her vision to create a basis of support, community, and unity for the newcomers.

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If Nerina’s Walls Could Speak Megan Jones On an autumn Stellenbosch afternoon, everyone returns from campus and drags their feet up the staircase to their rooms. There is a fulfilling, but tired air around the backdoor as it welcomes Nerinas home; some back from campus, some from Church Street. However, the calm air is interrupted by the chatter and laughter echoing from the dining hall.

For in that hall, the day has only just reached its climax. This is the time and place where all of our secrets get spilled out into the open. Where you hear the stories you would hear if the walls of our residence could speak. The staff of Nerina, our eyes and ears, giggle and gasp at this time of day about what Nerina rearranged their room again, or about how the third floor is always the tidiest.

They daydream about the rooms they would’ve preferred to stay in, and the mountain view that greets them every morning. They are acquainted with the regular visitors, but whisper about the newest guests strolling in our corridors. They shake their heads at the presence of overprotective parents and the state of the rooms of those who had classes at eight.

The songs they sing tell the stories of our unique family, and their smiles divulge their important part in it. Their love for our family can be seen in the shine of our table tops, in the way they sneak a look at our photo frames or in how they are familiar with every corner and every resident of Nerina.

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The Nerina staff are a part of everything we do within our walls. They do not only accept us with our flaws and imperfections, but they embrace us, even when they know our literal and figurative dirty laundry. They are a constant presence over years in the lives of Nerinas circulating through different rooms and different floors. Nerina is a short time in our lives, but for them, we are a short time in their part of Nerina’s legacy.

If the walls of Nerina could speak, the stories they would tell are those circulating in our dining hall during the last few hours of a weekday afternoon. Do yourself a favour - look past your weariness and pay a visit to the lively dining hall together with our staff. Their singing, chattering and excitement will remind you of the true team spirit we have here, and the importance of everyone’s role in it.

And if you close your eyes in the afternoon sun shining in from the windows, you will hear the echo of a faint song: “Nerina is a house of love where our friendship shows. We welcome one and all because together we grow…”

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Beating Load Shedding Blues Nina Germishuysen Thanks to the despised phenomenon we call load shedding and the inability of those in power to keep the grid alive, we are all familiar with that sinking feeling each time the lights go out and we are left in the dark. No one knows how this will finally play out, but we can certainly choose how we react to the inevitable.

To start off with, load shedding, with all its negative connotations, needs a new name with a positive spin. How about load sharing? We’re all in this together. In our neck of the global woods, Eskom is feeding the rush to return to our ancestral roots - remembering where we’re from and who we are. The rest comes naturally.

Most people spend the entire period of darkness during load shedding frantically interacting with their phones, consulting load shedding schedules and trying to find solace in Instagram posts in a desperate attempt to connect with the outside world. In the end you only end up with a struggling internet connection, a massive data bill and a flat battery, adding to your frustration and draining your positive energy.

Load shedding, in fact, can be seen as an enforced digital detox. We’re all aware of the many health benefits to unplugging and shutting down devices for a few hours every day: better sleep patterns, less risk of tech-neck (stiff neck and shoulders due to screen time), giving your eyes a muchneeded break, and much less stress caused by devices constantly vying for your attention and expecting instant results.

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So how can we use this time to battle the load shedding blues? We can start by spending quality, physical time with friends and family, having face-to-face conversations using real communication skills. Nothing tops candlelight or sitting around a fire to create atmosphere.

Playing a card game and listening to live guitar music will round off a perfect evening. In need of precious me-time? Use this opportunity to go for a walk, read a good book or simply pray or meditate.

Focusing on the bigger picture of the effects of load shedding also helps us see things in a more positive light. Mother Earth certainly breathes a sigh of relief. South Africans have become much more conscious of energy consumption, accelerating research towards alternative power sources. Planning around schedules has taught us, among other things, to fill washing machines and dishwashers up to the brim before use and taking shorter showers.

Furthermore, it has taught us both gratitude and empathy: to be thankful for the fact that we do have electricity (albeit sporadic) and more aware of what people with no electricity permanently go through.

If nothing else, having no power means that we have another kind of power in our hands: the power to use our intellect, resources, and common sense to toughen up – learning to find benefit in adverse situations and giving us a better overall approach to life.

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Budgeting Rosemary Michaels What is budgeting?

“Budgeting” basically means to financially plan for the future. Planning how your income will cover your expenses and how much savings/debt you’ll have left. A budget is personalised, and no two people have the same budget, ever. Not even twins. A budget can be anything from a written-on napkin to a carefully constructed PowerPoint document with soundfiles and all. It’s better to have an organised budget; studies show that organisation tricks the brain into wanting to do something.

FAQs on budgeting: Q. How long should I budget for?

A. That totally depends on you. Budgeting does not need to happen a year ahead – even a woweek before receiving your income is okay.

Q. Why don’t my friend and I have the same budget?

A. No two people will have an identical budget. Preferences, needs and people differ.

Q. Can someone else help me set up my budget?

A. Yes, but they won’t always be available. Rather try to do research on budgeting and wothen set it up yourself. You ARE your OWN finance team and you know yourself.

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Tips on effective budgeting for Stellies students: 1. Always be objective when planning your budget.

2. Allow for unexpected expenses, as life just happens sometimes – we are students after all.

3. Try estimating your income to be less than you expect it to be.

4. Try planning for higher expenses than contained in the previous budget (this helps wtbroaden the actual gap between real income and real expenses, leading you to spend less wtand save more).

5. Be consistent in your budgeting process to allow yourself to get used to it.

6. Refrain from making unnecessary purchases (I, myself must get used to this, LOL).

7. Always make a list, to keep a wandering eye and impulse buys at bay.

8. Bear in mind that partying on a Wednesday night is essential in Stellies.

9. Keep an eye out for specials at different shops.

10. Sign up for saver cards.

11. Refrain from buying cooldrinks and water in the Neelsie. Rather buy them at Spar as it’s wtwayyy cheaper.

12. Buy your textbooks second-hand from other students.

13. Have the Varsity Vibe app, ALWAYS. This app has TONS of student deals.

Lastly, you should ALWAYS have: An emergency savings account for emergencies only – this account should not be touched at all. I recommend placing 10% of your income into this account every month.

A regular savings account. This account contains all the excess money you have left after all your expenses. These savings are for you, your luxuries and wants.

These accounts do not have to be electronic only, you can use a piggy bank as well!

Budget well so you can relax and have fun!