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Happy Back-to-School season to all who celebrate—especially for those of you trying to keep the food budget reasonable with kiddos at home! We wish everyone the best of luck this year, and I know I’m stoked to get back into the swing of things. This month, you’ll get to know the amazing Lewis family, an incredible charity in Luminary Theatre Co., and much more.

Making its debut, too, is our new column, our “Good Neighbor” spotlight, which we hope will encourage others to get out and get involved in our community. As always, if you have suggestions for us or want to nominate a family or individual in the community doing incredible things, we’re all ears! Send us an email or drop a comment online @FXBGNeighbors. Happy reading and enjoy the last weeks of summer!

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UNLOCK YOUR BEST ROUND: WHY WARMING UP LIKE THE PROS MATTERS

While watching a recent PGA tournament, I noticed a consistent routine among the top players—something that’s often overlooked by amateur golfers. Before teeing off, nearly every PGA Tour professional followed a structured one-hour warm-up: 15 minutes on the putting green, 15 minutes in the short game area working on pitching and chipping, and 30 minutes on the range dialing in their full swing. It’s a deliberate process that sets them up for success—and it’s exactly what I recommend to all my students.

But there’s one critical step many weekend warriors skip entirely: stretching. I guide my students through a targeted warm-up that includes three essential stretches—15–20 reps of left-arm-only swings, extended-arm club raises, and behind-the-back trunk twists. These exercises not only improve flexibility, but also help prevent injury and ensure your body is ready for that first tee shot.

The science backs this approach. Studies show that a proper golf-specific warm-up can increase driving distance by up to 10-15 yards and significantly improve accuracy. Your muscles need time to reach optimal level, and your nervous system benefits from rehearsing the movements you’ll use throughout your round.

Consider adding these pro-level warm-up elements to your pre-round routine:

Mental Preparation: Take 5 minutes to visualize successful shots and your strategy for the course. The pros know mental preparation is just as important as physical readiness.

Progressive Club Selection: On the range, start with wedges to establish rhythm and tempo before gradually working up to longer clubs. Finish with the club you’ll use on the first tee to build confidence.

Green Reading Practice: Spend time on practice greens with similar conditions to the course you’ll play. Focus on distance control with lag putts and confidence-building short putts.

Weather Adjustments: Extend your warm-up by 10-15 minutes in cold conditions, as your muscles will need more time to reach peak performance temperature. Most amateurs show up a few minutes before their tee time, rush to the first hole, and wonder why their front nine score is inflated. The secret? Arrive at least an hour early, follow a solid warm-up routine, and stretch properly. Your body—and your scorecard—will thank you.

Implementing this strategy turns those frustrating first few holes into scoring opportunities. Remember, the pros don’t just warm up because they have time to kill—they do it because it’s essential to perform at their best from the very first swing.

Want more game-changing tips or ready to elevate your swing? Book a lesson today at crenshawssportsandfitness.com.

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CRAFTING CAREERS & CREATING COMMUNITY:

The Lewis Family Blueprint

By Mallory Hardgrove • Photos Courtesy of Karen Presecan Photography & Courtesy of Sokry Lewis

In a world where career success often comes at the expense of genuine community connection, Theodore “Geno” Lewis and Sokry Lewis have found a way to do both. For the past decade, this dynamic couple has been weaving themselves into the fabric of Stafford County, building not just successful careers in the skilled trades but also creating opportunities for others while raising four sons who embody their values of hard work, adaptability, and service.

Their love story began in the summer of 2002 at P.J. Skidoos, a local restaurant and dance bar, during Sokry’s cousin’s birthday party. What happened next has become a family legend.

“My husband noticed me as soon as I walked into the entrance door. He will tell you that I had gold dust floating around me, but in all honesty, it was just Victoria’s Secret glitter spray,” Sokry recalls with a laugh. The magic moment came when they found themselves “swaying in slow motion to a nostalgic hip hop hit ‘Get Low’ by Lil Jon.” As Sokry remembers it, “The world around us was moving fast while we were caught in slow motion. It was an unforgettable night, and the rest was history.”

Today, Theodore serves as an Electrician General Foreman with IBEW Local 26, where he has devoted 24 years of his career. Sokry is a licensed Cosmetologist with 20 years of experience who has transformed her passion into a thriving business empire. In August 2015, she opened her licensed home salon, and six years later, she achieved a remarkable milestone: opening the first privately owned D.P.O.R. approved Cosmetology School in Stafford, known as Destiny Academy. The success of Destiny Academy speaks volumes about Sokry’s commitment to excellence and community development.

“We have had three consecutive years of students successfully completing our program since 2023,” she proudly shares. This achievement represents more than business success; it’s about creating pathways for others in their community to build meaningful careers.

The Lewis family chose to build a life togeth-

er in the Colonial Forge subdivision, seeking “a slower pace of life and a safer place to raise our children.” What they found exceeded their expectations.

“We totally got lucky with awesome neighbors and now friends. They are the warmest and most sincere people you’ll ever meet,” Sokry reflects. “When I opened my homebased salon, they all supported my business, and we have built a close relationship since then. Their support and friendship have meant everything to me.”

Their four sons reflect the family’s values and diverse talents as well. Benjamin, 24, graduated from Colonial Forge High School, served in the Air Force, and now works as a computer tech for a science and technology company. T.J., 23, has moved to Florida, where he owns a landscape company. Still at home are Shawn, 17, an engineering and design enthusiast who “has a natural gift for making friends” and can “make someone feel comfortable and welcome effortlessly.” The youngest, Desmond “Dez,” 12, is described by his mother as “going on 40” and “the most mature son.” Like his father, Dez “has a special talent in winning debates,” and the family believes he will “go into law.”

Theodore’s community involvement extends beyond his professional life. He has volunteered as an assistant coach at Colonial Forge High School for the Freshman and Junior Varsity basketball teams and committed 10 years of volunteer work with the Stafford Recreational Basketball league. This summer, he’s passing on his trade knowledge to his younger sons, training them as apprentice electricians, teaching them “something they can utilize for a lifetime.”

Sokry’s philosophy of purposeful living guides both her personal and professional choices. “I think time moves swiftly. I believe we have to choose it purposefully,” she explains. This mindset influences everything from her daily yoga and meditation practice to her business decisions. She has volunteered at public cosmetology schools, sharing her expertise with students, and Destiny Academy has partnered with Stafford County public schools for career fairs.

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The family’s connection to their community goes beyond business and volunteerism. As water and nature lovers, they frequent local spots like Aquia Landing for sunbathing and fishing, City Dock Boat Ramp for paddleboarding, and Westmoreland Beach for searching for shark teeth. Their dining preferences reflect Sokry’s Cambodian heritage, with Pho 72 in Garrisonville and Nara Thai being family favorites.

What makes the Lewis family particularly special is their perspective on Stafford County. “Stafford truly feels like a special place—a vibrant melting pot filled with incredible people from all walks of life,” Sokry observes. “We’ve met military personnel and

government officials with impressive careers, alongside locals whose rich family traditions inspire admiration.”

The family’s ability to adapt has served them well as Stafford has grown and changed. “We never thought construction in our area would grow into what it is now. Although the changes came rapidly and suddenly, they did not bother us. We like the convenience. We are a family who can adapt to our environment,” Sokry notes.

Perhaps most inspiring is how the Lewis family has turned personal dreams into community assets. Sokry’s journey from someone whose family “couldn’t afford big vacations

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or trips abroad” to a successful business owner who has finally achieved her dream Caribbean vacation, demonstrates that “dreams don’t expire. Sometimes, they’re even sweeter when you’ve waited for them.”

Through Destiny Academy, Theodore’s mentorship in athletics and trades, and their sons’ emerging contributions to the local community, the Lewis family exemplifies how individual success can fuel collective prosperity. They’ve created a legacy that extends far beyond their own achievements, building pathways for others while strengthening the bonds that make Stafford County not just a place to live, but a community to call home.

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ComfortOne: THREE

DECADES OF TRUSTED HVAC SERVICE IN STAFFORD

For thirty years, ComfortOne has been keeping Northern Virginia comfortable through every season. Founded in 1994 by Gary Hamby, this family-owned HVAC company has built its reputation on a foundation of expertise, integrity, and genuine care and concern for the community.

Gary Hamby’s journey into the heating and cooling industry began in his youth, when he worked as an apprentice in both residential and commercial HVAC before pursuing formal trade school education. His commitment to excellence led him to earn master’s licenses in multiple trades—HVAC, electrical, plumbing, and gas-fitting—making ComfortOne a truly comprehensive service provider.

“We feel like honesty and integrity are so important in today’s world, and we don’t like to see folks hit with repair and replacement costs higher than they should be,” Hamby explains, highlighting the core philosophy that drives his business. This commitment to fairness has earned ComfortOne a loyal customer base that appreciates transparent pricing and honest assessments.

The company offers full-service air conditioning and heating solutions, from new equipment installations to emergency repairs. What sets ComfortOne apart is its holistic approach to customer service, treating each client with the same respect, whether they’re working on a residential home or a commercial property.

Faith and family remain at the heart of the ComfortOne story. “We try to honor God in everything we do as well as our customers,” Hamby shares, reflecting the values that guide their daily operations. The Hamby family has deep roots in Stafford, having lived in the area for 25 years, with four grown children and nine grandchildren– all residing locally.

The family atmosphere extends into the workplace, creating memorable moments that keep the work environment light and enjoyable.

“When our grandkids come to the office for a visit, they pretend to

answer the phone with ‘ComfortOne, how can I help you?’” Hamby recalls with evident pride, though he’s quick to add they’re “never allowed to actually answer calls!”

ComfortOne’s confidence in their work shows in their invitation to customers: “We love it when customers compare our work and prices with others. It makes us feel good about what we do!” This bold stance reflects three decades of consistent quality service and competitive pricing.

The company also finds deep satisfaction in its mission of improving people’s daily comfort and quality of life: “We enjoy being able to provide heating and cooling in every season to our clients. It makes our home and work environment so much better!” Hamby notes.

Fully licensed and insured in Virginia, ComfortOne continues to serve both residential and commercial clients throughout the region, maintaining the same commitment to excellence that has sustained them for three decades. Give ComfortOne a call for your heating and cooling needs at 1-800-472-2408.

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THE BENEFITS OF A FLOORING STORE OFFERING

PROFESSIONAL INSTALLATION

Are you a homeowner shopping for new flooring? Your focus may be on materials, colors, and pricing. Installation is often a key factor overlooked in the process. Flooring selection centers that offer professional installation services provide consumers with unparalleled advantages over stores that sell only products. Here's why:

Quality and Precision

With in-house, certified installers, a flooring store can maintain high-quality craftsmanship and customer satisfaction. Professional installers are trained and experienced in handling a wide range of flooring materials, including hardwood, vinyl, laminate, tile, and carpet. Their knowledge ensures that the flooring is installed correctly the first time.

Proper installation maximizes the floor's lifespan and maintains manufacturer warranties, which can be voided by improper installation. Flooring installation certification is essential. Certified installers undergo formal training and assessment through educational organizations such as Certified Flooring Installers and Advanced Flooring Technologies, ensuring they meet industry standards for proper installation procedures. Compliance with proven industry standards gives customers peace of mind. Certified installers often maintain their credentials through ongoing education, which keeps them informed about the latest materials, techniques, and installation technologies.

Seamless Project Management

A more streamlined process is experienced when a flooring store manages the product and the installation. In-house installers are part of the store's team; therefore, communication is clear between the sales, management, operations, and installation departments. The store takes full accountability for the entire process, from selection to completion, resulting in fewer delays and a smoother workflow. Should issues arise post-installation, you have a clear point of contact for support or repairs.

Superior Results and Customer Satisfaction

Professional installation ensures a high-quality finish, meticulous attention to detail, and an outstanding customer experience. The value of professional installation speaks for itself in enhancing your home's overall appearance and feel, increasing comfort, and improving its value.

Trish Hall, Marketing Consultant, boasts of this type of experience with NK Floors, "NK Floors recently replaced my old vinyl in my foyer with hardwood, and they refinished my wood stairs and landings. They did a beautiful job and were great in working with me to schedule and answer my questions. The end result is beautiful, and I plan to have them back to do my kitchen and bedroom floors too."

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HIGH SCHOOL HIGHLIGHTS

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EMPOWERING THE FUTURE:

THE STAFFORD COUNTY YOUTH COUNCIL IN ACTION

Since its founding in 1909 by civil rights leaders and activists like W.E.B. Du Bois, Mary White Ovington, Ida B. Wells, Lillian Wald, Moorfield Storey, and Henry Moskowitz, the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) has been at the forefront of the fight for civil rights and equality in the United States. Today, the NAACP boasts over 500,000 members and a network of more than 2,000 branches across the 50 states, making it one of the nation’s most influential organizations dedicated to advancing the rights of African Americans and promoting equality for all.

This summer, Stafford County’s Youth Council of the NAACP has continued to make a significant impact in its community by organizing a variety of engaging activities and events for all to participate in. Under the leadership of the 2024-2025 Youth Council President Jadesola Giwa, a rising senior at Colonial Forge High School, the chapter has worked staunchly to promote the NAACP’s mission: ensuring the political, educational, social, and economic equality of all people, as well as eliminating race-based discrimination across the world.

In June, the Stafford County NAACP hosted a vibrant celebration for Juneteenth—often referred to as America’s ‘Second Independence Day.’ Volunteers gathered on June 20th to prepare for the festivities, which took place the following day at Colonial Forge High School. The event featured an array of activities designed to educate and engage the community.

Some of these activities included line dancing classes, where guests participated in an interactive line dancing session, culminating in a group performance, as well as crafting activities that

allowed children and adults alike to express themselves creatively while learning about the significance of Juneteenth. Guests also tuned in to informative seminars and discussions that provided the historical context of the celebration, encouraged dialogue on ongoing struggles for equality, and tested their knowledge of history with trivia games. This celebration attracted hundreds of participants, underscoring the community’s enthusiasm for cultural education and unity.

Beyond local celebrations, the NAACP is deeply involved in various activities at the national and state levels, including a commitment to legal advocacy, voter mobilization, youth leadership programs, public policy advocacy, and community outreach.

In July, members of the Stafford County NAACP plan to attend the 116th NAACP National Convention in Charlotte, North Carolina. At this annual gathering, members will be encouraged to celebrate the collective power of their community by attending different plenary sessions, advocacy forums, and more. While attending the convention in North Carolina, the Stafford County Youth Council of the NAACP hopes to leverage the strengths of its leaders and members to engage in meaningful debates and strategize for future equality and progress.

Through its strong commitment to justice, education, and community empowerment, the NAACP, both at the national and local levels, continued to inspire and lead the fight for equality. The Stafford County Youth Council exemplifies this spirit, fostering leadership among young people and building bridges across cultures to create a more just and inclusive society.

Abigail Nyinaku is currently a junior at Colonial Forge High School. Outside of writing, she enjoys making art, playing the violin, and has a strong passion for legal studies. Abigail is also the current Parliamentarian of her school’s National Honor Society and runs a handmade personalized greeting-card business, called Heartfelt, in her free time.

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Cardboard Yarn Cat

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Draw a simple cat shape on cardboard, just the head and body.

Cut it out carefully.

Glue the end of the yarn to the back of the cardboard.

Start wrapping yarn around the body until it looks fluffy or covering the cardboard. You can use different colors or just one.

Glue the end to secure the yarn in place.

Glue the googly eyes to the cat or draw them with a black pen. You can also draw on a mouth and whiskers!

Optional, you can add a collar using beads and yarn.

This activity is brought to you by Mora Soan, author of the children’s book, Jacob in Japan! Jacob is a gnome who lives in New York. He owns a beautiful garden on the rooftop of a skyscraper. He is a picky eater and he only eats ordinary bland food. One windy night, Jacob falls into a magic flower pot. He wakes up in Japan. What will he do next? Will Jacob starve himself or will he find a way to enjoy and experience Japan? With an open mind, he may discover new and delicious foods that he never knew existed. Jacob in Korea is now available on Amazon.

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TAKING CENTER STAGE IN FREDERICKSBURG: SHINING A SPOTLIGHT ON LUMINARY THEATRE COMPANY

When Cheryl Lane was diagnosed with cancer in 2020, it became a turning point that would eventually lead her to create something extraordinary for the Fredericksburg community. Since then, she has "spent a lot of time making sure I am doing things I am passionate about and that I love." That passion materialized into Luminary Theatre Company, a professional theatre organization she founded last September after conceiving the idea in March 2024.

Lane, who serves as Founder and Executive Director, brings a unique blend of artistic vision and community care to her work. A Registered Nurse by profession, she has been involved in theatre since childhood, balancing family life with her work in the professional theatre world. "This theatre company is a labor of love and a desire to create the kind of place I want to work," she explains.

Luminary Theatre Company is dedicated to creating immersive, innovative theatre experiences that are accessible to the entire community. The organization's mission extends beyond entertainment, focusing on providing a home for local artists while offering high-quality, affordable theatre and theatre education for both professionals and young people. Most importantly, they are committed to investing in and being part of their community.

The philosophy driving Luminary is simple: "Our philosophy is that everyone should have access to high-quality theatre experiences, on or off stage," Lane states. "Art can reflect, enrich, and bring together communities in ways that nothing else can. We believe art is essential to healthy communities, and that the best art is made when artists feel seen, safe, and supported."

What truly energizes Lane in her work is witnessing the transformative power of artists who are supported. "My inspiration is the art-

ists we work with. I love seeing someone who is supported and empowered creating theatre that is impactful and beautiful," she shares. She also finds joy in reaching unexpected audiences, explaining, "I also love when we bring theatre out from behind the theatre walls and reach someone who wouldn't have otherwise been impacted."

The company's impact is already being felt in the community through various partnerships and initiatives. One notable collaboration is with the Spotsylvania Parks and Recreation Department, which offers accessible theatre experiences and educational programs for children. "It's one of those things that highlights how we impact the community and live out our mission," Lane notes.

Luminary also supports emerging talent through their Spotlight series, which brings new works to the stage for writers and composers. They prioritize hiring locally and supporting early career professionals both on and off stage. Their interns even receive opportunities to shadow professionals in Washington, D.C., as part of their experience.

Lane has an essential message for the community: "I want our community to know that theatre is for everyone. We want you to come enjoy the stories of our community in new and innovative ways, and to feel the joy and excitement that theatre can offer." She also extends an invitation to local businesses, emphasizing their desire to "work with you to bring new experiences to your customers and forge partnerships that enrich us all."

The company has exciting events on the horizon. A meet-and-greet is scheduled for August 23 at The Bourbon Bar at Ironclad Inn, one of their early partners. This event will offer community members the opportunity to learn about Luminary, featuring potential performances and an exciting community partnership announcement.

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The main attraction will be their first mainstage production, "A Christmas Carol, or the Marvelous Reclamation of Ebenezer Scrooge," running from December 12 to 28th at the Fredericksburg Agricultural Fairgrounds. Tickets become available August 15. This isn't your traditional Christmas Carol--it's a modern adaptation set in present-day Fredericksburg, featuring original music, movement, and puppetry. As described on their website, it's "a celebration of love, memory, and the power of community" that tells "a story of joy reclaimed, of one man's journey back to the light, and the people who help him find it."

This dream and journey of Lane’s would not have been possible without a little help: "I want to give credit to my friend and creative partner, Wilson Pezzuto," Lane says. "Wilson is a crazy gifted composer, writer, and director who also happens to sing and act. When we met he was working in the DC market a lot and was getting ready to make the move up there. I started sharing my vision for Luminary with him, and he ultimately decided to put DC on hold and stay and build something here with me."

Pezzuto is Artistic Director of Luminary, and the composer for its first stage show. "We share the same vision for Luminary and passion for community," Lane exclaims. "I’m so glad to have him as my partner and could not do any of this without him."

While their first mainstage show is still ahead, Lane is optimistic about their trajectory. Their smaller performances have already sold out, and she hopes "that trend continues."

Through Luminary Theatre Company, Cheryl Lane and her team are creating more than entertainment--they’re building a cultural cornerstone that enriches the entire Fredericksburg community, one performance at a time.

Stay in the loop! Check out luminarytheatreco.org or follow @luminarytheatre on Instagram or Luminary Theatre Company on Facebook to learn about upcoming events and how to get involved.

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LOCAL AUTHOR BRINGS FORGOTTEN WOMEN’S STORIES TO LIGHT

Sarah Dye has spent the last decade uncovering the hidden stories that shaped Fredericksburg and Spotsylvania County, with a particular passion for illuminating the lives of women whose contributions have been lost to time. Her latest work, To Give and To Gain: The Women of Todd's Tavern Sewing Circle, sheds light on an incredible tale of community leadership that deserves recognition.

The book chronicles the extraordinary story of a group of rural women in 1930s Spotsylvania who formed what appeared to be a simple sewing circle but evolved into something far more significant. These women not only created a social and charitable organization but also went on to purchase and operate the Todd's

Tavern Community Center for four decades, serving both their local community and their country during World War II.

"It's a story that has been lost in time," Dye explains. The inspiration came through a personal connection—friends Wade Haney and his sister, Barbara Faulconer, shared memories of their mother, one of the founding members. This blend of firsthand accounts and extensive research allowed Dye to paint a comprehensive picture of these remarkable women and their impact during a pivotal period in American history that resonates with readers.

Living in the Fredericksburg area has profoundly shaped Dye's work as a historian and writer. Having called the region home for most of her life, she has easy access to courthouse deed books, library research rooms, and the actual locations where history unfolded.

Dye's approach to historical writing is deeply rooted in authenticity. She seeks out original books from the time periods she researches,

preferring to read accounts from those who actually lived through the events. "I want to read the accounts of those who lived it and understand the true political, social, and cultural events as they witnessed them," she says.

Beyond her book writing, Dye maintains a blog called "Rebellious Corsets," which focuses on the stories of women from the 19th and early 20th centuries. Her recent article about the Fredericksburg Library, operated by a small group of women in the historic courthouse from 1877 to 1949, continues her mission of highlighting overlooked female contributions to local history.

Dye has woven her passion for local history into her family life as her daughters have grown. They will often enjoy taking walks through downtown Fredericksburg and the battlefields, and even cooking 19th-century Virginia dishes at home – "especially ones no one has heard of."

For aspiring writers in the community, Dye offers simple but powerful advice: "Whatever you write, make sure you are passionate. Your passion will come through your writing."

Through her meticulous research and storytelling, Sarah Dye ensures that the voices of Fredericksburg's forgotten women continue to inspire new generations.

To learn more about Sarah and her upcoming works, check out her blog “Rebellious Corsets” at rebelliouscorsets.com.

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BY DR. KATRINA SPIES, DVM, CHPV, CCRV, CVA, CVPP

CLEAR THE SHELTERS, FILL YOUR HEART

If you’ve been thinking about adding a furry friend to your family, August is the perfect time. Clear the Shelters Month is a nationwide campaign focused on reducing shelter overcrowding and helping animals find loving homes.

Adoption is incredibly rewarding—but also a lifelong responsibility. As a veterinarian, I encourage families to approach adoption thoughtfully. I’ve seen the joy that comes from a great match—and the challenges that arise when a pet isn’t the right fit. Here’s what to consider if you're considering adopting a new pet.

Why Adopt Instead of Shop?

Shelters are full of healthy, friendly pets of all breeds, ages, and sizes—many surrendered through no fault of their own. Adopting gives these animals a second chance and helps reduce the demand for puppy mills and backyard breeders.

Many shelter pets come spayed or neutered, vaccinated, and behavior-assessed, which can make the transition easier and more affordable.

Before You Adopt: Are You Ready?

Bringing home a pet means committing to their care for life—often 10–15 years for dogs and 20+ for cats. It’s essential to consider how a new pet will fit into your life—not just today, but for years to come. Consider:

• Do I have time for daily walks, training, play, and grooming?

• Can I afford food, supplies, training, grooming, and veterinary care—including emergencies?

• Do I travel often, and who will care for my pet while I’m away?

• Will a pet fit in with young children or existing animals?

Being realistic now helps ensure a successful match and a happy future for you and your pet.

Choosing the Right Pet for Your Home

Every pet has unique needs based on age, breed, temperament, and health. Don’t choose based on a cute photo—consider your lifestyle, space, and activity level:

• Live in a small home? A calm adult cat or senior dog may be ideal.

• Gone most of the day? Cats are more independent than dogs.

• High-energy breeds need daily exercise and mental stimulation.

• Already have pets? Ask about meet-andgreets or foster-to-adopt options.

Shelter staff are your best allies—they know the animals and can help find your best match.

After You Adopt: What’s Next?

Prepare your home:

• Set up a crate or quiet room as a safe space and introduce family members and pets slowly.

• Pet-proof your space—remove toxic plants, secure cords, and store medications safely.

• Fence your yard if needed.

Schedule a vet visit within a few days for a health check and to set up preventive care and spay/neuter if not already performed.

Get pet insurance. Emergencies happen— insurance can help you afford unexpected veterinary costs.

Use the 3-3-3 Rule to guide your pet’s transition:

• First 3 Days: Offer a quiet, safe space and keep interactions calm and low-key.

• After 3 Weeks: Routines start to sink in. Slowly introduce new people, pets, and training using positive reinforcement.

• After 3 Months: Your pet begins to feel truly at home. Relationships deepen, and their true personality shines.

Not Ready to Adopt? You Can Still Help!

If you've met our incredible photographer, Karen Presecan, you know she loves her four-legged friends. Karen recently adopted River here from Mid-Atlantic GSP Rescue, and we know she's going to posing for the camera in a warm, loving home for years to come.

• Contribute: Supplies and food are always needed—many shelters have Amazon or Chewy wish lists.

• Volunteer: Walk dogs, clean, photograph adoptable pets, or help at events.

• Foster: Give a temporary home to an animal in need.

• Spread the word: Share adoptable pets on social media, attend adoption events, and encourage others to adopt.

Adopting a pet changes lives—both theirs and yours. Whether you welcome a new companion or support your local shelter in other ways, every act of kindness makes a difference.

Local Shelters:

• Stafford Animal Shelter: staffordsheriff.com/AnimalControl

• Stafford SPCA: staffordspca.org

• Fredericksburg SPCA: fredspca.org

Our content coordinator just adopted this pretty girl, Della (short for mortadella), to add to the Italy-loving Hardgrove family. You may have seen her on the Spotsylvania Animal Shelter's Facebook page as Pikachu. She certainly has an electric energy about her but is settling in nicely.

Upcoming Events

August - September

FRI., AUG. 8

SOUNDS OF SUMMER:

THE FXBG BIG BAND

@Market Square

Time: 6:30 - 8:30pm 214 William St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

SAT., AUG. 9

BOWL-A-RAMA

@Corgi Clay Art Center

Time: 12- 4pm 15 Tech Pkwy. Stafford, VA 22556

SAT., AUG. 9

WATERMELON BASH

@Eden Try Winery

Time: 12 - 5pm 6818 River Rd. Fredericksburg, VA 22407

SAT., AUG. 9

CARS & COFFEE

@Gari Melchers Home & Studio Time: 8 - 11am 224 Washington St. Falmouth, VA 22405

MON., AUG. 11

MUSIC ON THE STEPS: SEMILLA CULTURAL

@CRRL - Downtown Branch

Time: 6:30 - 7:30pm 1201 Caroline St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

FRI., AUG. 15

SOUNDS OF SUMMER:

ELBY BRASS

@Market Square

Time: 6:30 - 8:30pm 214 William St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

SAT., AUG. 16

FREDERICKSBURG

PORCHFEST

@Downtown FXBG Time: 11am - 5pm Bunker Hill St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

SUN., AUG. 17

IT’S ALWAYS SUNNY IN PHILADELPHIA TRIVIA

@Maltese Brewing Company Time: 3pm

11800 Main St., Bldg. #3 Fredericksburg, VA 22408

MON., AUG. 18

MUSIC ON THE STEPS: ZACHARY SMITH & THE MARDI GRAS KINGS

@CRRL - Downtown Branch Time: 6:30 - 7:30pm 1201 Caroline St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

TUES., AUG. 19

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BOOK GROUP

@CRRL - Downtown Branch Time: 6:30pm 1201 Caroline St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

FRI., AUG. 22

SOUNDS OF SUMMER:

SPANGLISH LATIN

AMERICAN BAND

@Market Square Time: 6:30 - 8:30pm 214 William St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

SAT., AUG. 23

BOOK SIGNING WITH MORA SOAN

@CRRL - Porter Branch Time: 10am - 12pm 2001 Parkway Blvd. Stafford, VA 22554

SAT., AUG. 23

READ BETWEEN THE GRINDS

@Hanover Place Time: 11am - 6pm 205 Hanover St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

SUN. AUG. 24

WILDERNESS END OF SUMMER CAR SHOW & CRAFT FAIR

@Wilderness Presidential Resort Time: 11am- 4pm 9220 Plank Rd. Spotsylvania, VA 22553

FRI., AUG. 29

SOUNDS OF SUMMER: KAREN JONAS

@Market Square Time: 6:30 - 8:30pm 214 William St. Fredericksburg, VA 22401

SAT., AUG. 30

5TH ANNUAL LOLO LUAU

@6 Bears & A Goat Brewing Company Time: 3 - 8pm 1140 International Pkwy. Fredericksburg, VA 22406

At the time this magazine went to print, all event times and locations were accurate, but please check event websites for the most current information. Some events may have been postponed or canceled.

SAT., SEPT. 6

MANHEIM FREDERICKSBURG 3RD

ANNUAL CAR SHOW

@Manheim Fredericksburg Time: 9am - 12pm 120 Auction Dr. Fredericksburg, VA 22406

Multiple Day Events

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NEXT TO NORMAL

@Riverside Center for the Performing Arts Various Times 95 Riverside Pkwy. Fredericksburg, VA 22406

Weekly Events

EVERY TUESDAY MUSIC BINGO

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EVERY WEDNESDAY ADVENTURE JEOPARDY

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EVERY FRIDAY FREE MUSIC FRIDAY @Red Dragon Brewery Time: 6:30pm 1419 Princess Anne Street Fredericksburg, VA 22401

JAMIE SNYDER AND HIS THERAPY DOG SOPHIE

When Jamie Snyder retired three years ago, he had no idea that daily trips to the dog park would lead to a calling that would touch countless lives throughout the Fredericksburg community. Today, Snyder and his Bernedoodle Sophie form a certified therapy team, bringing comfort and joy to hospitals, schools, and shelters across the region.

Snyder, who has called the Fredericksburg area home since 2006, worked for the federal government in the DC area before settling into retirement.

“I have been in the community since 2006,” he explains. “When looking for a place to live, we needed a place we liked and could afford. So, Fredericksburg became our home and, me, a commuter.”

The journey to becoming a therapy team began organically during those regular visits to the Spotsy Dog Park. “I was taking daily trips to the dog park on Gordon Road and enjoying the friends I was making,” Snyder recalls. “During these trips, Sophie would check on everyone upon our arrival, and it was suggested that she would make a great therapy dog. I looked into it, and a month later, we were on the path to becoming a therapy team.”

As part of the Blue Gray Therapy Dog Group, Snyder and Sophie maintain an impressive schedule of community service. They walk through the entire Fredericksburg hospital once a week as part of the Mary Washington HealthCare team, recently adding the Oncology Center to their rounds.

Through the “Paws for Reading” program, they visit libraries and schools where children read aloud to Sophie, helping young readers build confidence. They also serve meals to people experiencing homelessness at the Masonic Lodge twice a month and provide stress relief for college students during finals week.

And, sometimes, just the presence of this canine-human duo is enough to turn around someone’s day. “This week, I walked into a patient’s room at the hospital. She waved me in from the door, but she couldn’t speak. I brought Sophie to her, and she had such a big smile, and a big tear rolled down her face. The joy and heartfelt emotions are just amazing.”

Their mission is simple: “Our job is to bring a smile to someone’s face, a little joy to their day,” Snyder explains. The biggest challenge they face is common to many volunteers: “Our biggest challenge is time. We do get pulled in different directions, and I would like to be able to do it all, but there is not enough time in the day to get to it all.”

The Fredericksburg Masonic Lodge #4, where Snyder is a member, has embraced Sophie as part of their community. “As I was training Sophie, I asked the brothers if they minded that I brought her to lodge, meetings, or events. They did not mind and actually encouraged it, and she has become a staple at the lodge.”

Looking forward, Snyder hopes to expand their reach. “I would like to see Spotsylvania open up to the Paws for Reading program. We have teams in almost all of the Stafford County schools, but none in Spotsy.”

For those inspired to make a difference, Snyder’s advice is encouraging: “Sophie and I got started with just a suggestion. If it is something you are interested in and have the drive, anything is possible.” Snyder credits the leadership of Kim Frazer, who founded Blue Gray Therapy Dogs, and Christie Thompkins, who runs the Paws for Reading program, saying, “These ladies do an amazing job.”

Through their dedication, Jamie and Sophie continue proving that sometimes the most significant community impact comes from the simplest acts of kindness.

Do you know a “Good Neighbor” who deserves a shout out? We would love to showcase some of the incredible people doing amazing work within our community. You can nominate a “Good Neighbor” today by emailing any member of our publishing team or sending us a message on our social media channels.

MALLORY HARDGROVE

PHOTO COURTESY OF JAMIE SNYDER

NETWORKING & MENTORSHIP: WHO DO YOU KNOW?

Taylor, M.A. in Education Administration and Center Director at Sylvan Learning, is an experienced educator and community leader. She is a Charter member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Psi Psi Omega Chapter. With a strong commitment to service and community improvement, she is a military spouse, a poet, mother of four, and advocates the philosophy of “Service to All Mankind.”

Parents and guardians, you often hear that when it comes to career and social opportunities, it’s not just what you know, but who you know.

Understanding Networking

Networking is defined as “the action or process of interacting with others to exchange information and develop professional or social contacts” (Oxford Languages). It’s about connecting with people to share advice, offer support, and build a community. The purpose of networking is to expand your reach, access new opportunities, and gain knowledge. This can involve attending industry events, joining professional organizations, or connecting with others on social media and online forums.

Many students already possess foundational networking skills. Think about how they plan events, parties, or outings. Someone takes the lead, consults with others, makes inquiries, and collaborates. Through this process, the group reaches a consensus. These are all elements of effective networking.

As the new school year begins, encourage your children and young adults to network intentionally. They can do this by joining clubs that align with their interests, updating their LinkedIn profiles, and participating in activities that foster interpersonal relationships. These actions will help them build valuable connections for their future.

The Role of Mentorship

As parents, you are inherently mentors. When you share your experiences and professional insights, you’re offering valuable guidance. You never know who might be listening, and it could even be your own child. Your wisdom can significantly impact their understanding of the professional world and help them navigate their own paths. Who do you know in your network that is in a career field that your child is interested in? Who do you know that is or wants to be a mentor? Who can you mentor? Who do you know?

Cherice

The delicate balance of mentoring someone is not creating them in your own image, but giving them the opportunity to create themselves.

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Best Version Media

One (Former) Teacher’s Advice and the (Possibly) Brutal Truth about the Dreaded Supply List

By Mallory Hardgrove

Ah, back-to-school shopping— that magical time of year when parents everywhere discover that their children have apparently been using their backpacks as biological warfare experiments all summer. It’s time to gear up for another year of educational excellence, which seems to require more supplies than a NASA mission.

I get it. Items on the required list may seem overly specific, and you may get annoyed while shopping for some of the items on your list. I can tell you with 1,000% certainty that there isn’t a single item on that list that isn’t COMPLETELY necessary. At the same time, I understand that as a parent, especially of multiple children, things add up fast. Take notes, as I drop some knowledge on ya:

The Non-Negotiables

First things first: forget everything you think you know about “generic is fine.” Your child’s teacher didn’t spend four years in college and countless hours of professional development to watch their classroom supplies fall apart faster than your hopes of staying under budget. Kleenex or Puffs only, people. Teachers have suffered through enough scratchy, paper-thin imposters to last several lifetimes. Show some mercy—they’re already combating more germs than a CDC lab.

And while we’re talking non-negotiables, let’s address the art supply situation. Crayola is king. Those RoseArt crayons might look iden-

tical and cost half as much, but they’re basically wax-flavored disappointment sticks. They break, they don’t color smoothly, and they’ll leave your child’s masterpiece looking like it was created during an earthquake. Crayola has been perfecting the art of childhood creativity for over a century—trust the process.

The same goes for pencils. Yes, Ticonderoga pencils are the holy grail, and for good reason. These aren’t just pencils—they’re precision instruments of learning. They sharpen cleanly, erase properly, and don’t snap in half when your child breathes on them too hard.

TLDR: If you invest in quality, you won’t have to rush back to the store later, likely at an inconvenient time when Murphy’s Law rears its ugly head again.

The Reality Check

Here’s a fun fact that might shock you: teachers spend hundreds— sometimes thousands— of their own dollars on classroom supplies each year. I easily spent a grand getting my very first classroom ready for those freshmen back in 2011—buying rugs for a reading corner, books at the Green Valley Book Fair, tubs and dividers for organization, and then extras of EVERYTHING that was on my supply list. That’s right, the same teachers who already work evenings, weekends, and summers are funding your child’s education out of their own pockets. So when that supply list asks for specific brands, it’s not teacher snobbery—it’s teacher sanity.

Your child’s educator isn’t getting kickbacks from Big Kleenex or Big Crayon. They’re simply tired of supplies that fall apart mid-use and wiping tears when crayons break from too tight a grip.

Ballin’ on a Budget

If money’s tight, please don’t let pride keep your child from having what they need. I get it, I’m coming out of the “Mom, I’m hungry!”, asking for a snack 78 times a day, too (and that food budget definitely doubles over the summer months). Reach out to local organizations, such as churches, community centers, and food banks, which often host back-to-school programs and supply drives. Don’t hesitate to speak with your school counselor or your child’s teacher. Teachers have a sixth sense for kids who need extra support, and they’ve got networks that would make the FBI envious.

Nobody—and I mean nobody— will let students go without supplies. Teachers will raid their own stash, tap into classroom funds, or quietly slip extra supplies into backpacks. It’s just what they do.

And hey, if you’re doing well financially, consider this your gentle nudge to grab a few extra boxes of those quality supplies—or even take it a step further and toss in a tub of Clorox wipes. Drop them off at the school office with a note saying “for students who need them.” You’ll be someone’s hero, and trust me, teachers will remember your kindness when your kid inevitably forgets their lunch money for the fifteenth time.

The Bottom Line

Back-to-school shopping might feel like highway robbery, but remember: you’re not just buying supplies; you’re investing in your child’s education and supporting the teacher who will spend more waking hours with your kid than you will for the next nine months. And it still won’t come close to the average childcare bill. So yes, buy the good stuff if you can. Your child’s nose—and their teacher’s sanity—will thank you.

Remember, we’re all in this together and everyone has one goal: to see your child succeed. Make it a great year, and best of luck to all students, teachers, staff, bus drivers, paraprofessionals, parents, and administrators embarking on another school year!