Celebration of Life for Ingrid Greene-Mills

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RECEPTION & BLESSING OF THE BODY by Fr.

Lawrence Malama

RITE AT THE ENTRANCE OF CHURCH

Greeting Celebrant

In the name of the Father and of the Son and The Holy Spirit AMEN.

Praise be God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all consolation! He comforts us in our afflictions thus enables us to comfort those who are in trouble, with the same consolations we have received from him.

Blessed be God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

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BLESSING

Celebrant

WITH THE HOLY WATER

I bless the body of Ingrid Greene-Mills with the holy water that recalls her baptism of which Saint Paul writes: All who were baptized in Jesus Christ were baptized into his death.

By baptism into his death we were buried together with him, so that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the father, we too might live a new life. For if we have been united with him by likeness to his death, so shall we be united with him by likeness to his resurrection.

Dressing of the coffin with the white pall (by Pall Bearers)

All Celebrant

On the day of her baptism, Ingrid Greene-Mills put on Christ. In the day of Christ’s coming, may she be clothed with glory

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Hymn

“How Great Thou Art”

O Lord my God, When I in awesome wonder, Consider all the worlds Thy Hands have made; I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder, Thy power throughout the universe displayed.

Chorus:

Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee, How great Thou art, How great Thou art. Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee, How great Thou art, How great Thou art!

When through the woods, and forest glades I wander, And hear the birds sing sweetly in the trees. When I look down, from lofty mountain grandeur And see the brook, and feel the gentle breeze.

Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee, How great Thou art, How great Thou art. Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee, How great Thou art, How great Thou art!

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Hymn

“Walk With Me Oh Lord”

Walk with me, Oh my Lord through the darkest night and brightest day

At my side, Oh Lord, Hold my hand and guide me on my way.

Sometimes the road seem long My energy is spent Then, Lord, I think of you And I am given strength.

Stones often bar my path And there are times I fall But you are always there To help me when I call.

Just as you calmed the wind And walked upon the sea, Conquer, my living Lord The storms that threathen me.

Help me to pierce mists

That cloud my heart and mind So that I shall not fear The steepest mountain side.

As once you healed the lame And give sight to the blind, Help me when I’m downcast To hold my head up high.

CEREMONY

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OF THE PASCHAL CANDLE

Behold the Light of Christ

Thanks be to God.

“While it is day, we must do the work of the one who sent me; for the night will come when no-one can work. As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world; the one who follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have light.” (John 8:12)

If we have died with Christ, we believe that we are also to live with Him.

He who raised up the “Lord will raise up Ingrid Greene-Mills, and us along with Jesus.

Both in life and death, we belong to the lord.

Let us pray. (Pause for silent prayer)

Almighty God and Father, its our certain faith that your Son, who died on the cross, was raised from the dead, the first fruits of all who have fallen asleep. Grant that through this mystery, your servant Ingrid Greene-Mills, who has gone to her rest in Christ, may share in the joy of his resurrection. We ask this through the same Jesus Christ, your Son, our Lord and Saviour, who is alive and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, One God, forever and ever.

Priest Priest Priest Priest

All All All

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Hymn

“The Lord’s My Shepherd”

The Lord’s my shepherd, I’ll not want, He makes me down to lie in pastures green, He leadeth me the quiet waters by.

He lives, he lives I know that my redeemer lives, he lives, he lives within my heart.

My soul He doth restore again, and me to walk doth make within the paths of righteousness, even for His name’s sake.

Yea, though I walk in death’s dark vale, yet will I fear no ill, for thou art with me, and Thy rod and staff they comfort me.

My table thou hast furnished in presence of my foes, my head Thou doust with oil anoint, and my cup overflows.

Goodness and mercy all my life shall surely follow me, and in God’s house for evermore my dwelling place shall be.

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OPENING PRAYER.......................... Ft. Lawrence Malama

FIRST READING

Wisdom 3: 1 - 9 .................Mrs. Juliette Ednamaie Hamilton (Cousin)

RESPONSORIAL PSALM

Hymn: “Be Still and Know that I am God”

SECOND READING

1 Corinthians 13: 4-8..............Demario & Atiya Dixon (Grand Kids) GOSPEL.................................................... John 14: 1 - 6 HOMILY.......................................... Ft. Lawrence Malama

PRAYER OF THE FAITHFUL........... Cecil Greene (Brother)

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OFFERTORY HYMN

“Make Me A Channel Of Your Peace”

Make me a channel of your peace Where there is hatred let me bring your love Where there is injury, your pardon Lord And where there is doubt true faith in you.

Make me a channel of your peace Where there is despair in life let me bring hope Where there is darkness only light And where there’s sadness ever joy.

Oh, Master grant that I may never seek So much to be consoled as to console To be understood as to understand To be loved as to love with all my soul.

Make me a channel of your peace

It is in pardoning that we are pardoned

It is in giving to all men that we receive And in dying that we are born to eternal life

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EUCHARISTIC PRAYER

EXCHANGE OF THE PEACE

“Let There Be Peace On Earth”

Let there be peace on earth And let it begin with me Let There Be Peace on Earth The peace that was meant to be With God as our Father Brothers all are we Let me walk with my brother In perfect harmony.

Let peace begin with me Let this be the moment now. With ev’ry step I take Let this be my solemn vow To take each moment and live Each moment in peace eternally Let there be peace on earth And let it begin with me

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COMMUNION HYMN

“His Eyes is on the Sparrow”

Why should I feel discouraged, Why should the shadows come, Why should my heart be lonely, And long for heaven and home, When Jesus is my portion? My constant Friend is He.

His eye is on the sparrow, And I know He watches me.

His eye is on the sparrow, And I know He watches me.

Refrain: I sing because I’m happy I sing because I’m free For His eye is on the sparrow, And I know He watches over me.

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FINAL COMMENDATION (During Incensing)

Hymn

“Christ Be Beside Me”

Christ be beside me, Christ be before me, Christ be behind me, Christ be behind me, Christ be above me never to part.

Christ on my right hand, Christ on my left hand, Christ all around me shield in the strife; Christ in my sleeping, Christ in my sitting, Christ in my rising light of my life.

Christ be in all hearts, Thinking about me. Christ be the vision, In eyes that see me, In ears that hear me, Christ ever be.

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RECESSIONAL HYMN

“Hail Queen of Heaven”

Guide of the wanderer here below, Thrown on life’s surge, we claim thy care, Save us from peril and from woe. Mother of Christ, Star of the sea Pray for the wanderer, pray for me.

O gentle, chaste, and spotless Maid, We sinners make our prayers through thee; Remind thy Son that He has paid

The price of our iniquity. Virgin most pure, Star of the sea, Pray for the sinner, pray for me.

Sojourners in this vale of tears, Blest advocate, to thee we cry, Assuage our sorrows, calm our fears, And soothe with hope our misery. Refuge in grief, Star of the sea Pray for the mourner, pray for me.

Tributes

Tribute to my beloved wife, Ingrid

Ingrid, the day I met you was the day I was looking for a life insurance policy. You were working at a law office in Basseterre next to the insurance agent office. I had just passed out as a police officer and decided that the job as a police officer is a high risk and I should get an insurance policy. I recalled that it was raining, and I was outside in the rain, sheltering under the galvanize portion that was extended from the roof. I was waiting for the agent because his office was next door. You came to the door and asked me to come out of the rain. I came in the office, and we had a conversation. After that we kept in touch with each other until we became close friends and eventually my wife.

Our union produced three children Naadiya, Aqiyl and Diwane. You did everything for them. You made sure every time their birthday came you had a party for them, no matter how simple. You made sure they go to school and learn their lessons from kindergarten right up to high school and university.

Together, we sacrificed to ensure our children had what they needed to make them happy. Christmas was no exception, the number of toys that you bought them was amazing, but you decided that they must be happy and enjoy themselves.

You instilled good Christian principles, values, morale, ethics, and discipline in them. You also ensured that they attended church regularly. While taking care of the home you also assisted with their homework. You did all that and more while working and supporting the family.

You took care of the children while I was working in Nevis where I spent 16 years and traversing back and fort. Despite the challenges, your help and encouragement kept me focused and I eventually became Superintendent of Police in charge of Nevis.

The children have all graduated from university, two obtaining summae cum laude honours in biological sciences. Aqiyl just a stone throw from graduating as a medical doctor and Diwane following closely behind. Naadiya has done well for herself and is following her passion. They have reached this far because of you.

Thanks to you for the 34 years we have shared, as my friend, my lover, and my wife. I salute your strength of a woman: You were loving, hardworking, caring, dedicated, committed, and strong. You were family oriented and because of the sacrifices you made, the children and I have benefitted tremendously.

Now that you are gone, life cannot and will not be the same without you. I know God will take care and embrace you in His everlasting arms. You are in a better place.

Until we meet again, Rest in Peace my beloved wife!

Trevor Mills (Husband)

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There is no one that I am closer to in this entire world. I have always been attached to you since I was a child, and you were always my rock and support throughout my life endeavors. I have learned so much from you and I am the man today because of you. It pains me that you will not be able to see me achieve all the things that you have laid the foundation for me to accomplish in my life or meet my future children. You are the epitome of motherhood, and I am going to miss you dearly. All the laughs, conversations, and lessons will live on with me forever. Having the opportunity to spend the last months of your life with you was a blessing. I cherished every single moment with you and losing my person is heartbreaking. I find comfort in knowing that you are in a better place and no longer in pain. It also makes me happy to know that I have made you proud. I thank the Lord for blessing me with a mother so loving and kind, who sacrificed everything to see her children prosper. I love you dearly, Mommy.

Your Beloved Son - Aqiyl Mills

How do I summate the depth of love, care, passion and hardwork my mother bestowed upon this earth? Allow me grace, as I try to articulate the many ideas and thoughts of my beloved mom. In an effort to be concise, I will impart a component of her demeanor that she often demonstrated and something that has influenced me in my day to day life. “Lead with your best foot” or in her words “put your best foot forward”. This old folk saying were words that my mother iterated non-stop. If you were acquainted with my mother you would know that she always lended a helping hand or made connections with someone who could. Whatever the endeavor, she would go above and beyond; because in her mind there were personal standards to be met in anything that was done. She exemplified this belief in her final moments putting effort into her rehabilitation: walking, talking, joking and not allowing her situation to get the best of her. There is an abundance of words to be expressed, though none that can fully encompass my mother’s vibrant spirit, therefore in efforts to honor and to celebrate the life of my sweet mother I ask you all to look introspectively to identify your standard and put your best foot forward in your endeavors.

Thank you mommy, for always leading the way. I promise to continue to work hard and to never stray from your teachings in your absence. I am proud of how you fought so bravely over the last two years… forever doing your best within your means.But, GOD has called upon you to come to him and receive him for eternal life. Hence I shall not be upset as you are now getting well needed rest in the arms of the lord. I shall forever cherish our memories.

Love Your Youngest - Diwane

It is said that before coming to earth, a soul chooses its mother. A perfectly designed plan meant to be fulfilling to each other’s purpose - A binding contract. I often thought about this when I looked at you, What is the message in our story? I wanted to remember why I chose you to be my mother and how me being me helped you. I was happy for the opportunity to return home for an extended time in 2021 to reconnect with family. Foot and foot behind you like a little duckling at my big age, I constantly tried to prompt you into these philosophical discussions, while quietly observing you.

The first lesson I learnt was that you lived only in the moment. If you had a mantra it would be “What happened in the past doesn’t matter and what’s happening in the future, well – we’ll deal with it when we get there.” You took full advantage of the present, always quick to tell a joke, flash a smile, strike up a playful conversation with friends or strangers or join in on the silliness with your grandkids. I saw you as a young soul with an over abundant amount of self replenishing jovial energy. You connected instantly with the younger generation, to many of my classmates you were Mommy! You were constantly pouring into others, disregarding yourself and I wondered what had made you that way? I would learn my second lesson but it wasn’t until your final days that I finally understood. You had made a promise. A life binding commitment with the birth of your first born child. You made a promise to fully commit and embody the role of Mother, to do your best no matter what, not just for your own children, but to your nieces, nephews, any young person you could make an impact with. It’s no coincident that you worked in the Agriculture Industry. You made a life commitment to nuturing others and found contentment in watching the fruits of that labor. For you, this was enough. I didn’t understand this, I wanted so much more for your life, I was looking forward to being able to pour into you. But I understand now, that their is no earthly prize that can reward a Mother like you. You had done your job exceptionally well - you loved without conditions and you remained strong even when you should not have been. You held fast to your promise to be a Mother first as you cared for your grandkids despite being unwell.

But it was the last lesson that reminded me why I chose you. With the news of your passing, I felt the world instantly get dimmer and realized, I chose you because your light shone the brightest. It is truly those that love unconditionally that hold the world together. They are the busy workers humbly making magic, keeping the world going for all of us, noticed or unnoticed. We had grown too attached to your light.

You were the closest bond I had in this world, and I will miss the comfort of your unconditional love, but I understand you were only meant to comfort us for so long before we too were pushed to grow, to make commitments we hold fast to that leaves a legacy. Thank you for choosing to be my mom.

Naadiya Mills (Daughter)

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I love my Grandma very very much. She took care of me. I liked when she made me spaghetti and meatballs and took me to the beach. My Grandma likes peanuts ALOT, I don’t know why. My Grandma drives fast, I liked saying “Rapido!” to my Grandma so she can go faster. I’m going to miss Grandma.

Atiya Dixon (Grand daughter)

Grandma was an inspiration to me, and took very good care of me and my sister. All the years we spent together even though she was getting older she tried her very best to make sure we were fed, brought me to school and protected the house when hurricanes hit. She was so loving and straightforward with us. I have many great memories of her like when she brought my lunch to school, always made sure I had what I needed no matter what.

Demario Dixon (Grandson)

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This is a very difficult time for me. For the past Several years it’s been Ingrid and Me, with our other/Older siblings living separate or Overseas. From birth we grew up together doing brother and sister things and of course brother and brother things (LOL) because Ingrid took part in everything. Emile, Ingrid and myself grew up together. So from Pitching, Football, Cricket, Hand Tennis…..you name it…It was Ingrid , Emile and Myself. Over the past years after the passing of our Parents, we still lived together with Ingrid handling most of the cooking duties (which she was never excited about).

This past several months were difficult and trying. Ingrid was a wonderful person but private. God have been good to her because he saw her suffering and knew how much she could bear. I am heartbroken but have some wonderful memories of my sister. Memories that will last forever.

May God take care of you and may you Rest in Peace Ingrid.

So Long Sis…………..

Cecil Greene (Brother)

Ingrid, my beloved sister and best friend. God saw it was time to come home therefore he took you home to be with him.

Ingrid and l spend a lot of time together. Almost every holiday we planned a family get together either to the beach, hiking or just a day of fun and games. Ingrid was dedicated once she started something she had to finish it, even if it took her all night because it must be perfect.

Some times she will just show up and ask what are you doing let us go for a drive. We will all climb in her car along with her children how we fit that it was always a mystery. We will drive over to the Peninsula and have fun on the beach. I’m going to really miss our fun times together.

I know that you are resting in his precious arms and our Sovereign God is delighted to have you home. I will miss you sis but you will always be in my heart.

Rest in Peace Avernel (Lottie) Williams (Sister)

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“A thing of beauty is a joy forever; Its loveliness increases, it will never Pass into nothingness; ……. John Keats

My sister was a beauty, physically and spiritually, and she will never pass into nothingness. Every soul that came in contact with her can testify of her intellect, her strength, her kindness, her being available, her courage, and more than anything, her love.

It wasn’t her decision to leave, but she had to go. I wanted more time and more beautiful memories, but they were not hers to give. I am left behind to grieve, but in my grief, I must remember how brave she was and how she gave all the love she had to give. I thank Almighty God, the Creator of Heaven and earth, for giving her to me but “He knoweth our frame; He remembered that we are dust” and He bestows His mercy on them that fear Him.

Rest in peace, my dear, sweet sister. - Pat (Sister)

To my cousin Ingrid,

I miss you My mind knows that you are in a better place where there is no pain. You are at Peace. I understand that, I just wish I could explain that to my heart. There is an empty space in it that nothing will ever fill.  I grieve, but I know my tears are for me, we will be together again one day.  Until then my love, my love will always be with you. Sleep in peace my sister --

“Ability can take you to the top, but it takes character to keep you there.”

Cassandra Greene

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My sister Ingrid, I didn’t know we would not be celebrating our three scores together. I didn’t know I would be struggling to write my thoughts in a memorial booklet ...like now! I didn’t know even though we were closer than sisters I would have the opportunity of caring for you and doing it selflessly and feeling like it had to be done! The last days were very rough. I know you couldn’t understand why?! But I’m happy you knew you were blessed and loved. I’m happy you did call out to God and I knew he heard you and gave you the opportunity to see your kids. It’s so difficult to be now thinking like you! I’m wondering why? However, like you always tell me when I have my issues; Z, don’t stress, just do what you have to do. I will miss you suddenly stopping by the office ‘cause you felt you’ve neglected me ...smiling, but had the urge ‘cause you sense I was having a difficult day. We were the friends that didn’t visit each other, didn’t go any place like others do; but we were the friends who were so in tuned with each other that we knew when something was amiss and would reach out and be there for each other during the storms of life.

This is what happened over the last few months. I reached out with my issue and found out you also had an issue and during your pain, you still try to calm me. Then it was my turn; and I’m so grateful I was there in every aspect one can and can’t imagine. I haven’t had a good cry ‘cause I still feel you’ll stop by. I know I will, and it’ll be messy. I told you I love you so I’m at peace you heard me say it and you the same to me. We were true friends!

Rest my friend, my sister, rest.

Zandra

We are at a loss for words. We are in shock that Aunty Ingrid is no longer here with us. This comes just short of a year daddy passed away. Your calls and texts when daddy passed away were very much appreciated. You had been there for us throughout our grieving process, meanwhile you were fighting your own battle. That is the definition of strength. One of the last moments we spent together was the summer of 2014 when we came back to Saint Kitts and you took us on a boat ride to Nevis. We enjoyed spending time with you wherever we went. We will cherish our memories with you forever. Rest in eternal peace Aunty Ingrid.

Your Nieces, Safiya & Khadijah Greene

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Aunty Ingrid

What can we say about that ball of energy we knew as mom, aunt, sister, wife and grandmother.

Aunty Ingrid was such a hard worker. She gave her best to her family and her job. She was also dependable. You couldn’t rely on her to be early but you could have depended on her to show up.

Family was a big deal for her. She loved getting together and having a good time. Our memories of her are so fond. Always on the go, living each day to the max, hardly a second wasted.

It’s kind of surreal that she’s not here.  Certain losses are so beyond belief it takes a while to wrap your mind and heart around it. We are still expecting her to pull up at the little green house on the hill tooting her horn shouting Lottie with that signature big ole smile. Or saying Manda let’s go.

It seems almost cruel to lose such a gem in this world filled with gravel and big stones. May her soul rest in eternal peace and may she live on in our hearts as we recall the fond memories of her and her infectious laughter.

We love and miss you aunty!

It’s definitely still hard to grasp the thought that you are no longer with us. What I will always remember is your daily motto of Living life to the fullest. My jouvert partner, my do road crew, I find comfort in knowing you are no longer suffering and that you are at peace.

Forever in my heart Aunty Ingrid. Mandisa Greene (Niece)

Amanda, Ashaunta, Mellisa and Nickailla

To the liveliest sunflower, you brought joy. You were the Aunt who had smiles to brighten our days. The aunty who always made us feel good with your warm words, and whats more you knew what to do to make dreams come true, like the job at American Airlines you made me apply for, yet see where I am today loving it more than ever. I can’t thank you enough for always pushing me to be/do better and for being there whenever I needed you. I will never understand why bad things always happen to good people. You left a mark in my heart, and nothing will ever ease that. It is undeniably in my heart. You were a gem and will remain to be cherished. Surely Aunty, our love for you will forever remain.

Love your Beautiful Niece, Amaany

I look back at our pictures when we were teenagers and I remembered the laughter we shared. I remember when you decided to teach me how to make Tang, dressing alike, and sharing clothes. Those teenage secrets we shared, joking about grandpa and his car; Thank you for showing me it’s ok to be me. It’s ok to be quiet. Thank you for accepting me for who I am. I treasured all of it, and I’m thankful I got to share those years with you. Life took us on our own paths but the love we share remains. You were my aunt but more so my friend,

I love you always. ¨Nicks” (Niece)

I vividly remember the first day I met Mommy Ingrid. It may sound like an exaggeration to say I felt her love from the start, but I really did - a welcome warm love that grew over the years for both of us. I appreciated her friendship, her candor, and her protective motherly nature. I’m grateful for the relationship we had and miss her dearly.

Danika (Family Friend)

What can I say about my sweet Aunty? Words cannot amount to the life and the love experienced or the challenges we have faced but I hope the little bit I share will suffice. My Aunty has always been more like a sweet Sister than an Aunty to me. I remember when there were times when I didn’t pack my lunch for school I would head over to her job at the time on central street and beg $5 to get a hamburger and ginger beer. If she had it, I would get it. I remember when I use to drive with her in Uncle Ralphs car. She handled the stick shift the way Uncle Cecil would throw down on dumplings and chicken. Very professional. I thought she was the best stick driver in St. Kitts next to my grandfather but what do I know I wasn’t even 11 years old yet. Another memory of this wonderful Aunty was ahem… Sorry Uncle Emile but I have to bring up some family ya ya. I remember when we lived on Wigley avenue there was a dispute on who was going towash the dishes [I could be wrong so Uncle Emile can correct but hey] and Uncle Emile nor Aunty Ingrid would budge, and they went at it. Now Uncle Emile was built like one of those big dump trucks you use to see, and Aunty Ingrid had the ferocity of a cat who you teased too much. Let’s just say they settled to a truce with no clear winner. Who took care of the chores that day who knows I bailed out of that room.

Aunty was also very outgoing. I remember one night she bailed to hang out with friends and somehow, I got stuck with the honors of cooking food for grandfather. I think grandma had already gone to sleep. Poor me cooking chicken, rice and eggplant for the first time. What a combination eh? Chicken still could run and rice was still hard but Grandfather said ‘its ok’. I loved when she would visit us in NY. We would go into the city together and visiting places like the empire state building being both our first time. Still remember my ears popping. Good times. When she became pregnant with my cousins she would come visit also and I would journey with her to her doctor appointments. I don’t know if it was Naadiya after she was born but every time I would come home from school that little baby was all giggling whenever I entered the room. I told Aunty you better take that child to their father before they think I’m the Daddy. Aunty would also make some fantastic cookies which I took with me to school one time, and they were a hit. What else is there to say but I will miss you so much Aunty and will continue to miss you very much. I love you Aunty Ingrid. Be it the Most Highs will, we will see each other again. Sleep sweet Aunty, sweet Mother, sweet Sister. Rest easy the weary walk is over.

Gregory Greene, Your Nephew

A lot of good memories come to mind when I think of Auntie Ingrid. One of my favorite memories is a lesson she taught me. It’s something I still practice to this day. During one of Auntie Ingrid’s visits to New York, I was doing dishes as part of my chores. I was complaining and asked, why are there so many dishes in the sink. For some reason, I felt like there were extra dishes in the sink when it was my turn to clean them. Auntie Ingrid asked me if I wash my dish out when I’m done with it or do I put it in the sink. Immediately, I knew where she was going.  I answered I put it in the sink. She told me if everyone did their part and washed out their dish, there wouldn’t be dishes in the sink. She told me it starts with you. It’s something that stuck with me and helps me get things done (especially the dishes) :-)

Love you, Auntie Ingrid! Duane Merchant, nephew

Romans 14:8

If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.

We were so grateful and blessed to be with our aunt during her final days. We will never forget the memories, wisdom and guidance she left. It was always a joy being in her presence. During her visits to New York, as young children, we have many fond memories of her that puts a smile to our face when we reminisce. When Naadiya, Aqiyl and Diwane would also visit for the summer, we would watch as Aunty Ingrid tend to her children, especially Diwane. As young girls, we remember watching her and admiring her compassion, patience and loving spirit. She knew no boundaries when it came to loving and caring for her family. Prayers and memories are what we have to remember our Aunt. We will miss you and love you always.

John 14:1-3

Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in Christ. There is more than enough room in my Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am.

Deidre Warner and Yaasmiyn Warner, nieces

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All my experiences with Aunt Ingrid were always fun from all the times I met her was when we went to the countryside. This was the time when we saw our family members on the way to Old Road and eventually Sandy Point; most of the time, our travels ended at Grandpa’s store until we were ready to go back home. She was always funny and positive which was interesting to me as a kid and I will always remember that quality about her.

Sam

Memories flood our minds with memories of your kindness, your humour, your genuineness and your free spiritedness. Being a little sister that I would look out for and sharing confidence as we matured. So many never-ending conversations we shared. Being a fun loving aunt that would tell us hilarious stories, especially of the olden days and what it was like growing up with grandpa, and what all trouble our aunts and uncles got up to as kids. We always looked forward to meeting up, and now in this absence, we will hold on fiercely to your spirit and the moments we shared.

¨Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen¨

Love you always, Clem, Alice, Nikki, Stuart, Des, Lissa, Sam, Chey (Brother and Nieces and Nephews)

We treasure the memory of Ingrid’s loving nature, thoughtfulness, and genuine friendship. She knew how to grasp opportunities to do acts of kindness - a helping hand - a word of encouragement and a ready smile. She believed a little kindness can make a big difference. Ingrid has positively impacted our lives and she will be dearly missed. We the siblings of her husband, Trevor, extend heartfelt sympathy to him, Naadiya, Aqiyl, Diwane and to her entire family.

Elizabeth, Samuel, Leroy, Vincent, Kendell, Hayley

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You’re the Aunty whose lap I sat on as a child.

You’re the Aunty whose lap I sat on as an adult.

You are and will always and forever hold me with love  unconditional love

A mothers, sister and best friend’s love — wrapped all in one  afraid of heights

But much more afraid of never flying  & You flew HIGH Aunty

And you ALWAYS took me with you  No matter where I go  No matter what I do

You’ll always be there for me  And I’ll always carry you

In my heart  embedded in my soul  love in action  Divinity in motion  You are that  You are free; stay free

Loka Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu.

Love.  Your Liya (Hamilton)

I have known Ingrid for over twenty years. She gave me one of my first catering jobs and I was subsequently there for all other workshops. She was a lovely lady, I will miss her. She will always be in my heart. Rest in peace sister.

By Elvira Williams

Tributes

My dear Ingrid, it is said that in all things we are to give thanks, and so, though I am deeply saddened at your untimely passing, I am truly thankful to have shared a long-lasting friendship with you. I treasure the fond memories of our time together dating back to our time as Catholic Youth Group and choir members. I give thanks for the profound blessing that it was for me to journey with you over the past few months, and that, while I am missing your physical presence, you are no longer in pain or discomfort. Most of all, I give God thanks for His unfailing love and mercy such that I can have hope that death is not the end. Until we meet again, rest in the sweet peace of Christ. Love you!

Lisa

Hazel

(Life Long Friend)

INGRID…….WOW WOW. Never thought I would be doing this. School Mate and Customer forever. You were a force to reckon with a STRONG,COURAGEOUS , FAMILY-ORIENTED,FREE-SPIRITED, PRIVATE, HONEST, REAL WOMAN. Your words were always “DONT WORRY, EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT”. At this time and before I wished alot of things were different but I know and accepted you for who you were.

Trust me its painful. You are missed but guess what, I’m not going to WORRY, FOR EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT. S. I. P.

EZRA (Lollipop) - Class of 1982

Ingrid, our sister, classmate and friend, the light of your life has irradiated our lives. We are the better for sharing journey of earthly life with you. The Class of 1982, marking 40 years since high school, join in your home going celebration. We will see you no more; we will hear your voice no more except by some recording you have left behind; but, the light of your love will touch our hearts forever. Rest now and rise in glory. May God’s comfort and love soothe our hearts and lift the sorrow being experienced by your bereaved family. The Apostle Paul said, “To live is Christ and to die is gain…Death is swallowed up in victory through Christ Jesus, our Lord!”

Classmate: Errol L Connor (Rev. Dr.)

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Ingrid, my dear sis, Yahweh has called you home to rest. Until we meet again sis, sleep on in our Father’s eternal peace. I love You much.

Vivianna Matthew James

Ingrid has supported me in everything that I wanted to do. She believed in me. I am going to miss you so much. Sitting at your desk knowing you will not be sitting with me again is one of the hardest task of my days. I will forever miss you.

Rest In peace

Dearest Ingrid

I came to know Ingrid better on Thursday 21st July, 2022 the afternoon her brother Cecil collected her at the airport and brought her to my home. Ever since, I have been helping to care for her in whatever way I could have. I bonded with her and became so close to her. She became so fond of me that even if she needed some help she will call for me even though Aqikl and Cecil were present. For the couple weeks she was here I watched her fade away. The last time rendering help to her was the Wednesday prior to her departure from this earth. I normally would tell her I’m leaving to go work so later I’ll see her. Ingrid my dearest, I am sad since then but I know where you are you are no longer in pain. I will miss hearing you call out “Cleoooooooo...”. I will miss your tight hugs around my hips when I am at your bedside. Your absent in body but your spirit is alive in me.

God’s Garden

God looked around his garden and tound an empty plice

He then looked down upon the Earth and saw your tired face

He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest Wich the help of his angeh chey Rew you so your heavenly place

Gods garden must be beautiful, he always cakes the best

He knew you were suffering. he knew you were in pain

He knew that you would never get well on Eard

He saw the road was geeing rough and the hills too hand to climb

He closed your weary eyelid and whispered

arts to lose you but you didn’t go

Sleep on Ingrid, until we meet again.

From: Cleo Burke and your nephew Janiel Burke

Kemeshla challenger (Friend/Co-worker)

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(IICA & Department of Agriculture)

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I wish to extend condolences to the family and close friends of Ingrid GreeneMills whose passing has left the entire IICA team in the Eastern Caribbean very sad. Ingrid served IICA with great dedication and commitment for over 26 years during which time she made a significant contribution to the development of the agricultural sector in the Federation. As IICA Representative in the ECS, I was able to observe Ingrid’s professionalism up close and I always received excellent support and assistance from her whether while visiting St. Kitts and Nevis or from a distance in St. Lucia. Ingrid was a devoted public servant who gave of herself in the cause of the betterment of the Institute she worked with and the country that she loved. She will be missed by all her colleagues in IICA ECS who have lost both a colleague and friend. May she Rest in Peace and Rise in Glory.

Gregg CE Rawlins

IICA Representative in the Eastern Caribbean States (ECS)

It is with sadness that I write these few words to the love ones of a dear friend and colleague –Ingrid. I had the pleasure of knowing Ingrid when she was hired for the IICA position. Ingrid had a very professional attitude, she was a fast learner and passionate about her job and the institute’s culture.

It was sad when we had to leave St. Kitts but every time we returned on vacation she were there with her beautiful smile, kind words just like we were never separated - the character of a true friend. So now she has moved on, away from all the tears and pains of this world. Life on earth is such a struggle; she is now in a better place.We all know that no one lives forever, but it hurts when our juniors travel that road and leave us behind. Death is no accident; it is all part of God’s plan, but because we are in Christ, Death has no victory over us. Thanks be to God. My family and I will always remember Ingrid , and while we are sad and have shed tears, we rejoice in the hope that she has gone to a better place. We will always remember her for who she was, what we shared together, and the part she played in the lives of me and my family. Ingrid was a pillar of strength when I needed her most and I always thank God for having her support and friendship. Thanks for being a very trusting Friend and Colleague. Thanks also to her very supportive family for making all this possible.

Ms. Euphemia Weekes

IICA Country Coordinator St Kitts and Nevis 1992-1999

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Ingrid and I worked together for 19 years. She worked for IICA for 26 years. Some of her important characteristics included: honesty, professionalism, trustworthiness, friendliness and loyalty and dedication. Even though her primary role was administrator , she emersed herself in all aspects of the work. Consequently, she knew all the clientele and had a good working relationship with them. As a result, she was respected and held in high regard. I was sick for month she was able to efficiently operate the office.

In 2013 the Technical Officer was ill for 6months, Ingrid was able to efficiently operate the office. She received high commendation from IICA for this. During the period of my illness the Nevis Island Administration had the official opening of the Agro-processing Facility because of the outstanding contribution the office had made to this Facility the Technical Officer was asked to give remarks and cut the ribbon to officially open the Facility.

At that time the Technical Officer had a voice, impediment. Ingrid volunteered to do the speech. On that afternoon, Ingrid sat at the head table with the Premier of Nevis, Minister of Agriculture and other senior government officials and delivered a brilliant speech which made me extremely proud.

Ingrid was a family oriented and love her family dearly. Her children were her pride and joy and push them and inculcated in them the importance of a good education. She was always present and active at parent-teachers meeting.

Ingrid has made a significant contribution to the agricultural landscape of St Kitts. Some of the project she worked on included: Shade house and hydroponic systems at the Clarence Fitzroy Bryant College, Sewing Project at Project Strong, Shade house projects at the School Farm in St Kitts and two high schools in Nevis. She was also very proud of the Institute’s outstanding contribution to the development of the Agro-processing plant on Nevis.

Augustine Merchant Former Coordinator IICA Delegation in St Kitts and Nevis

My condolences to the family of Ingrid. She was very hardworking, dedicated and supporting. During my tenure she was one of the secretaries who was always open to new ideas. There are no goodbyes, wherever she will be, she will be in our thoughts. On behalf of John and Gerda King.

John King

Former IICA Representative in the Eastern Caribbean States (ECS)

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Condolences to the Mill Family of the passing of your loved one Ingrid. I had the opportunity to work with Ingrid during her 26 years at IICA. Although we worked in different islands, she was one who would call and talk so quickly while making her requests. In all her haste she always took time to ask about my family and then went on speak of her family but more so her grands. To all of you I say take comfort in remembering the happy times. May her soul rest in peace.

V Deborah Biscombe

IICA Delegation in Saint Lucia

It has greatly saddened me that my ECS colleague Ingrid, for more than twentysix (26) years, has departed from this world at the relatively young age of 58. Having joined IICA in February 1996, Ingrid was full of life and was always very cheerful whenever she contacted the Delegation in Saint Lucia to inquire about an accounting, administrative or financial matter related to the execution of her duties.

Ingrid’s duties were not only confined to the set of responsibilities bestowed to her because of her position but she also assumed responsibility of the Delegation in St Kitts and Nevis on a short-term basis after the resignation of the Coordinator in 1999 and again twenty (20) years later in 2019 upon the retirement of the out-going Coordinator.

Ingrid was a very compassionate and caring person and a lover of life. This was evident during our various meetings in St Kitts, Saint Lucia, and last visit to IICA’s Headquarters in San Jose, Costa Rica in April 2012, as a member of the ECS team to pursue training in the new accounting system.

During the last quarter of 2021 when it became apparent that her health was compromised and that she sought medical assistance, Ingrid was still positive and looked forward to overcoming her medical condition. Although she returned to work for a limited period in 2022, she had to resort to medical treatment until her untimely passing.

Thank you, Ingrid, for the many fond memories and love that you have given to all and may your Soul rest in peace and harmony in the mercy of God.

Brian S Gittens

IICA Delegation in Saint Lucia

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I will remember Ingrid fondly for infectious laugh and bright smile whenever we came into contact - either on the phone, or any given opportunity to meet face to face. During her time at IICA, she would offer me sound advice, both on professional and personal matters. I miss that! I will forever treasure these memories. I know and believe that she fought a good fight given her strong will and fighting spirit. She is gone but will never be forgotten. RIP my good friend.

Valerie Donat

IICA Delegation in Saint Lucia

I became a part of Ingrid’s life over 25 years ago when I joined the InterAmerican Institute for Cooperation on Agriculture (IICA) in 1997. Ingrid was employed the year before, and like all the other administrators in the ECS, she took an interest in helping me feel welcome and was willing to give and share advice and experiences to help me in my journey. Every week we would spend time on the phone checking in on each other. Other times we sought clarification on things at work that we were unsure about.

When her calls stopped early last year, and I noticed that she was not responding to my daily messages/greetings as she normally would, my spirit told me something was wrong. I made several attempts to reach out, but only once did she respond. Now I reflect, I am puzzled as to why she chose to go through whatever all by herself. Every day, I sent her messages via teams as I would my other colleagues in the ECS – messages to cheer her on and to encourage her. What hurts me the most is that I did not get to even say goodbye to you, my friend and colleague.

My heart goes out to her husband, children, and grandchildren. I know the grandchildren were very fond of her and would be missing her terribly.

Ingrid’s death has left a void in my life, and I pray that her family and friends can find peace and comfort in Christ even in this their saddest moment.

Sincerest Condolences

Rosette Bacchus Assistant Executive Secretary St. Vincent & the Grenadines

Precious Memories

Precious Memories

Precious Memories

Precious Memories

Loved Ones

Loved Ones

HUSBAND

Retired Superintendent of Police, Trevor Mills

CHILDREN

Naadiya Mills, Aqiyl Mills and Diwane Mills

GRANDCHILDREN

Demario Dixon and Atiya Dixon

BROTHERS

Clement Douglas, Livingston Jackson, Frederick and Everton King, Emile Greene and Cecil Greene.

SISTERS

Gwendolyn King, Patricia GreeneWarner, Avernel Williams

UNCLES

Viscount Greene-Martin, Cecil Mc Master, Vrino McMaster

AUNTS

Mrs Petra Ceasar Mrs Joan McMaster

NIECES & NEPHEWS:

Too numerous to mention in St. Kitts, St. Croix, United States, the Netherlands, Taiwan and France.

COUSINS:

Too numerous to mention in St. Kitts, Antigua, Bermuda, Dominica, Tortola, St. Lucia, St, Maarten, United States, The Netherlands, England and Canada

BROTHERS IN LAW

Samuel Paul, Alexander and Vincent Mills, “Mestezo” Mills in and Ernest Warner

SISTERS IN LAW

Kerrie Greene, Mrs Elizabeth Condell Hayley Mills-Nisbit

RELATIVES AND FRIENDS

Management and Staff at the Inter –American Institute for Cooperation on Agriculture.

The management and staff of the Department of Agriculture in St. Kitts, the management and staff of the Agriculture Department in Nevis.

Mr Augustine Merchant and family

Ms Sharon Jones and family

Mr Eugene and Ednamae Hamilton and family

Ms Cassandra “Sandy “ Greene and family

Miss Zandra Wharton and family

Ms Liza Hazel and family

Mrs Wendy Morton-Grant and family

Miss Jennifer Maynard

Ms Barbara Amory in Antigua

Aleks ‘SaxMan” Condell, Steve ‘Dude” Carey in Saddlers, Ms Rodina and family

The class of 1982 of the Basseterre High School

The Hughes family in Tabernacle

The Edwards family in Wades Garden

Mr Keithley Hughes in Canada Sherry and Shurmella Condell

The Elliott family Kurt Paul and family Shurmel Joseph and family

Ms Tony Frederick and family

The Matthews Family

The Catholic Church Community.

Graveside Hymns

“When Peace Like A River”

When Peace, Like A River, Attendeth My Way, When Sorrows Like Sea Billows Roll; Whatever My Lot, Thou Hast Taught Me To Say, It Is Well, It Is Well With My Soul.

It Is Well With My Soul,It Is Well, It Is Well With My Soul.

Though Satan Should Buffet, Though Trials Should Come, Let This Blest Assurance Control, That Christ Hath Regarded My Helpless Estate, And Hath Shed His Own Blood For My Soul.

My Sin—Oh, The Bliss Of This Glorious Thought!— My Sin, Not In Part But The Whole, Is Nailed To The Cross, And I Bear It No More, Praise The Lord, Praise The Lord, O My Soul!

For Me, Be It Christ, Be It Christ Hence To Live: If Jordan Above Me Shall Roll, No Pang Shall Be Mine, For In Death As In Life Thou Wilt Whisper Thy Peace To My Soul.

But, Lord, ’Tis For Thee, For Thy Coming We Wait, The Sky, Not The Grave, Is Our Goal; Oh, Trump Of The Angel! Oh, Voice Of The Lord! Blessed Hope, Blessed Rest Of My Soul!

And Lord, Haste The Day When The Faith Shall Be Sight, The Clouds Be Rolled Back As A Scroll; The Trump Shall Resound, And The Lord Shall Descend, Even So, It Is Well With My Soul.

“Sing The Wondrous Love Of Jesus”

Sing the Wondrous Love of Jesus, Sing His mercy and His ‘grace; In the mansions bright and blessed, He’ll prepare for us a place.

When we all get to heaven, what a day of rejoicing that will be! When we all see Jesus, we’ll sig and shout the victory.

While we walk the pilgrim pathway, clouds will overspread the sky; But when travelling days are over, not a shadow, not a sigh

Graveside Hymns

“Blessed Assurance”

Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine; Oh, what a foretaste of glory divine! Heir of salvation, purchase of God, Born of His Spirit, washed in His blood.

This is my story, this is my song, Praising my Savior all the day long. This is my story, this is my song, Praising my Savior all the day long.

Perfect submission, perfect delight, Visions of rapture now burst on my sight; Angels descending, bring from above Echoes of mercy, whispers of love.

Perfect submission, all is at rest, I in my Savior am happy and blest; Watching and waiting, looking above, Filled with His goodness, lost in His love.

Graveside Hymns

“To God Be The Glory”

To God be the glory, great things He hath done; So loved He the world that He gave us His Son, Who yielded His life an atonement for sin, And opened the life gate that all may go in.

Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, Let the earth hear His voice!

Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, Let the people rejoice!

O come to the Father, through Jesus the Son, And give Him the glory, great things He hath done.

O perfect redemption, the purchase of blood, To every believer the promise of God; The vilest offender who truly believes, That moment from Jesus a pardon receives.

Great things He hath taught us, great things He hath done, And great our rejoicing through Jesus the Son; But purer, and higher, and greater will be Our wonder, our rapture, when Jesus we see.

Ingrid

From the Scandanavian name Ingrid Meaning: “Beautiful”

A great provider of love and understanding Happy are the moments, spent with her family Her sense of humor makes her fun to be around Enjoys knowing others interests Everything it takes to be a winner is in herself Does not need to show off to gain approval Balances her daily routines An overall description of her is Super

The family would like to thank all for attending the funeral service for Ingrid Greene-Mills As a family