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CONTENTS

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FASHION

STYLE FOR THE GROOM

THE MAJESTIC MUNRO

ICE QUEEN

LOVE BLOOMS

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SHOWSTOPPERS

162

HEAVENLY ZANZIBAR

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ELEGANCE IN ZANZIBAR

DECOR & FOOD

FAIRVIEW CHEESE

FEATURES 7

WEDDING ETIQUETTE - ALEIT

THE MAGIC OF AIRBRUSH MAKE-UP

FROM THE GROOM’S MOUTH

GROOM ETIQUETTE

ENGAGEMENT SHOOT - A WEALTH OF LOVE

ENGAGEMENT SHOOT - LOVE BLOSSOMS

BRIDAL TEA PARTY

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A CHARM ALL OF YOUR OWN

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MY WEDDING DAY CELEBRATION

IN EVERY ISSUE

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PUBLISHING EDITOR’S LETTER BRIDAL NEWS

BEAUTY

ESPECIALLY FOR HIM

182 HONEYMOONS

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CLASSIFIEDS

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EDITOR’S CHOICE

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DIRECTORY LIST

REAL WEDDINGS

LENÉ VENTER & CHRISTOPHER PRICE

CHELSEA CARDWELL & PATRICK

MALONEY 90

GEMMA MIDLANE & NEAL HENRY

NICOLE ROKEBRAND & ETTIENNE ALBERTS

COURTNEY HICKSON & MICHAEL MOORE

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VERONICA DI MURO & STEVEN MERCHAK

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JUSTINE RYNDERS & BRANDON SPILLER

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ZSUZSANNA CSUTOR & BEAT BENEDIKT

BIRCHLER 114

MELISSA KRETSCHMER & GRANT NEWMAN

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MELISSA VAN DER MERWE & JOHAN

BREEDT 122

TANYA VAN TILBURG & JOHANN STRAUSS

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MARISA VAN GRAAN & WIHAN BESTER

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PALOMA SEMEDO & EDGAR FERREIRA

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CARA JACKSON & MICHAEL RHODES

CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR PURCHASE OF ‘MY WEDDING DAY’ MAGAZINE. WE WILL HOLD YOUR HAND THROUGH MANY OF THE TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS OF PLANNING YOUR WEDDING, AND GIVE YOU PLENTY OF IDEAS AND INSPIRATION. PAGE 2

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PUBLISHING EDITOR’S LETTER

What an amazing year it has been! This is our last issue for 2015, and we had such an amazing and successful year, with so many positives for our brand. One example is that we were voted runner up in the magazine category at the annual TopVendor Awards.

CREDITS Make-up: Bobbi Brown www.bobbibrown.co.za Clothes: Chilli Mer Boutique www.chillimer.co.za Photographer: Saara Pasanen

We are very excited to share this amazing issue with you, packed with lots of ideas, advice, fashion and beauty. Our team was privileged to do a styled shoot at the magnificent five-star Park Hyatt Hotel in Zanzibar with garments from various fashion houses. You can see this feature on page 162. Our beautiful cover shoot for De La Vida Bridal took place at the prestigious Munro Boutique Hotel in Houghton, Johannesburg. The décor for the shoot was breath-taking, and the team together with the photographer Belinda Louie Photography was absolutely incredible. We are privileged to feature the stunning engagement shoot by Veronique Photography of the former Mr South Africa John Owens and his beautiful fiancé Chantelle Bothma. Don’t miss our next issue in May 2016, where we will feature their wedding as an exclusive. A special thank you goes to our contributor in our Groom’s section in this issue, Aleit from The Aleit Group, once again sharing his special wisdom and advice with us. We also hosted our annual Bridal Celebration Market Day at the Lourensford Harvest Market. It was such a beautiful day, with various wedding suppliers displaying their products and services to future brides and grooms, with stunning bridal couture from various fashion houses in our fashion show. Our VIP event ended off the evening with guest speakers and more entertainment. I am very proud of my team, who worked very hard to make it such a success. A special thank you to all our sponsors for this Bridal Celebration – we had incredible prizes on offer. As always we have 14 real weddings in this issue, with a lot of ideas and advice from the actual brides and grooms on their special day. Thank you to all our suppliers and sponsors who made this year such a joy to be in this industry. Thank you to every reader who supports us – we so enjoy your feedback and the interaction we have with you. We have a lot of competitions in this issue. Make sure that you enter them all – there are wonderful prizes to be won. From the My Wedding Day team, we wish you and your family a wonderful and joyful festive season and a prosperous New Year.

COVER CREDITS Dress: TARIFA from the Pronovias 2016 Collection by De La Vida Bridal Couture www.delavida.co.za info@delavida.co.za 011 431 4304 Photographer: As Sweet As Images www.asaimages.co.za 079 299 4822 amy@asaimages.co.za Make-up: Esplendor 082 610 7412 www.esplendor.co.za lee-anne@esplendor.co.za Hair: To Be. Hair and Make-up 071 854 7221 marike.nel69@gmail.com

Earrings and bracelet: Jenna Clifford www.jennaclifford.com 011 523 6600 info@jennaclifford.com Ring: Browns www.brownsjewellers.com +27 11 438 7920 clientservices@brownsjewellers.com Bouquet: Oopsie Daisy Flowers www.oopsiedaisyflowers.co.za charlene@oopsiedaisyflowers.co.za 011 028 0809 / 082 553 4757 Model: Justine Spiller from De La Vida Bridal Couture, who after years of helping brides find the dress of their dreams for their special day, herself tied the knot! See her real wedding on p. 106.

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The four-star Arniston Spa Hotel is set in the Overberg region in one of the Capeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s most exquisite locations next to the old fishing village of Kassiesbaai, which makes for spectacular photographs with its white chalked thatched-roof houses. The hotel offers breathtaking sea views and 60 luxurious rooms. Wedding Packages are tailor-made and ceremonies and receptions can be held on the beach, hotel lawn or in one of our restaurants.

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As a wedding guest, one often wonders what the correct or accepted behaviour is. What does one wear? How much does one drink? Is it acceptable to applaud the couple once the ceremony is over? Wedding guru Aleit Swanepoel shares his pearls of wisdom from decades of experience in the wedding and events industry to point out a few pertinent things to think about when one attends a wedding. WEDDING ATTIRE However trendy it may be, don’t wear white to a wedding. You are stealing the bride’s thunder! The deal is simple: it’s the bride’s big day; she’s wearing an achingly expensive white dress and everyone should be looking at her – and not at any other woman in white. CEREMONY Don’t walk onto the aisle, that is just plain rude. It’s the bride’s aisle and you run the risk of damaging it before the couple’s special moment. Rather enter the pews/ rows of chairs from the sides. Put your phones and iPads away during the ceremony - it’s never a good idea to grab a shot of the bride walking down the aisle. It is a big no-no for me! Don’t lean into the aisle, as the majority of photographs that are taken by the professional photographer on the day will then be ruined. It’s the bride’s moment; with everyone trying to lean over to get a picture of her, the photographs are often spoilt by pictures of guests taking pictures!

DINNER Never leave a napkin lying on the floor, it looks messy. Nor do you have to tuck it into your shirt collar like a bib – or into your pants. Unfold it just enough to cover your lap. Although it can serve to protect your trousers or dress from a spill, its main purpose is to enable you to seamlessly remove food from the sides of your mouth. As such, use it when needed and when finished or excusing The Aleit Group Tel +27 87 121 0665 Fax + 27 86 638 4919 info@aleit.co.za www.thealeitgroup.com

PRE-DINNER DRINKS In my humble opinion, the way you hold your wine glass reveals plenty about your personality and on which side of the train tracks you were brought up (not to mention the amount you’ve consumed). Hold all stemmed wine glasses (red, white, etc.) towards the base of the stem between your thumb, forefinger and middle finger. You’ll find that your other fingers will just rest on the base naturally. Yes, this is the proper way to hold a wine glass. Holding at the stem prevents the warmth of your hands from increasing the temperature of the wine in the glass – be it red or white. And don’t worry, it’s totally acceptable socially to swirl your wine. CANAPES Double-dipping mortifies me! I like to say it’s like kissing everybody at the party; if you’re double dipping, you’re putting some of your bacteria back into that dip. Intuitively, we can all agree that dipping a chip or cracker after taking a bite might not be the most sanitary/hygienic practice.

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yourself from the table place it neatly to the left of your plate. Sidenote: Have you ever been invited to a wedding which you couldn’t attend and wondered whether you still need to send a gift? I recommend taking the couple out to dinner a week before the wedding or after they come back from their honeymoon, as this is more personal. If this is not possible, then have a gift delivered. u

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BRIDAL NEWS TO BE. HAIR AND MAKEUP In every woman is hidden a unique beauty, a lady, a treasure. Adding a touch of make-up or styling hair beautifully to make a woman bloom is my passion. I believe in living life to the fullest and making the most of every moment, and by providing women with flawless make-up and hair to frame their beauty, I encourage them to do the same. Women radiate and exude self-confidence and an inner strength when they feel good about themselves, and that is why I do what I do. Using specialised skills and a unique approach to make-up and hairstyling, I want to inspire women by enhancing their best features. Marike Nel C: 071 854 7221 E: marike.nel69@gmail.com www.facebook.com/to.be.hairandmakeup

FUSION BOUTIQUE HOTEL, POLOKWANE Be prepared to embark on an unexpected soul journey when crossing the threshold of Fusion Boutique Hotel in the heart of Polokwane, the buzzing capital of South Africaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Limpopo Province. True to its superior five-star status, a stay at this establishment is characterised by personalised attention, plush interiors and delectable cuisine. At Fusion Boutique Hotel every wedding party is assured of the type of treatment usually earmarked for royalty! The dedicated events and operations teams are on hand to advise you on every aspect of your very special day. Enjoy a food tasting and private meeting with the chef to customise your wedding menu. The newlywed couple will also be treated to a complimentary wedding night in the romantic Kiss Executive Suite. Every room in this hotel is an art piece, and bridal couples are spoilt for choice when deciding on locations for their wedding photos. T: +27 (0) 15 291 4042 F: +27 (0) 15 291 3153 E: reservations@fusionhotel.co.za Fusion Boutique Hotel 5 Schoeman Street Polokwane Limpopo South Africa www.fusionboutiquehotel.co.za

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PALALA BOUTIQUE GAME LODGE From grand receptions to the intimacy of family affairs, Palala Boutique Game Lodge’s attention to detail and precise planning will make your event stress-free and most enjoyable. Their venues are magnificently decorated and each is unique in its own way, making your wedding a ‘one of a kind’. Palala’s expert function coordinator will help you plan every detail of your special day and advise you along the way. Wedding couples will enjoy the complimentary honeymoon suite, which boasts a private lounge, guest toilet and 180 degree bush views. The chapel, with its high ceilings and large windows, is bound to captivate, charm and fascinate all who enter it. The ornate wooden doors,

detailed décor, dark wooden exposed trusses and calming atmosphere make this the perfect place to begin the first day of the rest of your life. The chapel can accommodate 160 guests and is equipped with a podium, microphone and sound equipment. Walk down the impressive aisle adorned with candles and smiling faces towards the unique attraction of this venue – the large baobab tree framed at the front of the chapel. The chapel also makes for stunning photographs and unforgettable memories. T: +27 (0) 15 295 9212 E: reservations@palala.co.za www.palalaboutiquegamelodge.co.za

COMPETITION - MANGWANANI MOONLIGHT NIGHT SPA EXPERIENCE Five lucky readers stand a chance to WIN an incredible Mangwanani Moonlight Night Spa Experience. Simply send us a reason as to why you would like to be one of the lucky winners to walk away with one of these magical Spa vouchers. Moonlight Night Spa Escape to an oasis of serenity with Mangwanani African Spa. Start your Spa journey with traditional African entertainment on arrival, before indulging in three relaxing treatments followed by an appetising dinner, limited complimentary bar and an Amarula and chocolate on departure. Your three treatments include: IZIMANGA – Traditional Full Body Massage with Hot Stones MOLALA – African Head, Neck & Shoulder Massage NEO MAOTO – Traditional African Royal Foot Massage Email your reason outlining why you should be one of the winners to info@mangwanani.co.za by 30 June 2016. Terms and conditions apply. T: 0860 55 0055, www.mangwanani.co.za

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BRIDAL NEWS LUXURY APARTMENTS FOR HONEYMOONERS Ravishing scenery and the best beaches in South Africa all add up to the award-winning dream wedding and honeymoon destination that is Cape Town. When it comes to where to stay on your honeymoon in the Mother City, and where your special guests should stay – did you ever think of staying in a luxury, fully serviced apartment, instead of a hotel or guest house? Innovative company Home from Home offers this brilliant option. They have more than 250 luxury serviced apartments across seven (four-star and five-star) properties in Cape Town (as well as another in Gordon’s Bay). These are all in the most stunning setting, close to the prestigious V&A Waterfront and the Cape Town International Convention Centre. Choosing a luxury serviced apartment instead of a hotel or guest house gives you more space to share experiences with friends and family. You can choose how many bedrooms you need, and you can entertain as, when and how you wish to. Enjoy the independence of having your own well-equipped kitchen, spacious lounge and dining area. Take in the sights and sounds of the Mother City on your balcony with Table Mountain as your backdrop! Experience all the benefits of staying in a luxury apartment, but with all the attention of a hotel: a reception desk, housekeeping, business lounge facilities and impressive guest support services including airport transfers, shuttle services around Cape Town and help in booking tours and more. Whether you want them to arrange a unique safari tour, exhilarating shark cage-diving experience, or to recommend the best places to see, eat and relax, they’ll take care of it all and tell you the stuff that only the locals know, so you can get the best out of your stay. Even Cape Town brides will be wanting to share their special moments in these apartments! Home from Home has also just taken their winning concept to Mauritius. With Home from Home Mauritius you can choose from more than 30 apartments on the north and west coast of Mauritius. Cape Town & Gordon’s Bay: www.homefromhome.co.za Mauritius: www.homefromhome.mu T: +27 21 418 2821 E: reservations@homefromhome.co.za (Cape Town) reservations@homefromhome.mu (Mauritius)

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WIN 10 CASES OF FOUR COUSINS SPARKLING WINE AND WINE FOR YOUR WEDDING! The ever-popular Four Cousins sparkling wine range offers a style of sparkling wine for every palate. For those who prefer their sparkling wine dry, the Four Cousins Sauvignon Blanc will satisfy, with hints of tropical fruit. The Four Cousins White is sweet with gentle honeysuckle perfume, whereas the Four Cousins Blush is a fun, fragrant sparkling wine. Four Cousins also offers a Red sparkling wine with a sweet berry flavour. Add style and fun to your wedding day with the Four Cousins sparkling wine range. To win 10 cases of Four Cousins sparkling wine and wine for your wedding, send your details to fourcousins@vanloveren.co.za by 31 May 2016.

WIN! 10 CASES OF FOUR COUSINS SPARKLING WINE AND WINE WORTH R5372

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BRIDAL NEWS OLIVELLI CAPE TOWN Olivelli Cape Town is a wedding attire boutique offering exclusive worldclass wedding dresses, coupled with a memorable and unique fitting experience. Exclusive, unique and personal are words that define Olivelli Cape Town, where your unique experience is created around your requirements. Situated in Welgemoed, Cape Town, we are the exclusive stockists of Stella York, Essense of Australia, Nicole Spose and Maggie Sottero. Olivelli Cape Town offers the following products: • Imported wedding dresses • Bridesmaid dresses • Mother of the bride dresses • Matric farewell gowns • Veils • All bridal accessories, including hairpieces, earrings, bracelets, etc. • Garters • Bridal shoes • Bridal lingerie At Olivelli Cape Town we also design and manufacture bridesmaid dresses, dresses for the mother of the bride or of the groom and evening wear in-house. All consultations are at no charge, but strictly by appointment. The latest collection is available in standard sizing and in the colour of your choice. The production process takes approximately 4 – 6 weeks. Olivelli Cape Town is your one-stop destination for all your bridal and bridal party requirements. We look forward to welcoming you to our beautiful studio in Welgemoed! 11 Nederburgh Street, Welgemoed, Bellville, Cape Town 7530 T: 021 913 1044 E: info@olivellicapetown.co.za Facebook: OlivelliCapeTown Twitter: @OlivelliCT Pinterest: olivellict Instagram: @olivellicapetown www.olivellicapetown.co.za

LIBERTY HALL AND RENT A CANDLE The service offered by Rent a Candle gives you the opportunity to rent instead of purchasing candles. The concept of rent, light and return - so we assist with those “half-burned” candles that nobody knows what to do with! We stock a wide range of shapes and sizes of candles to suit all requests giving any function that amazing atmosphere. Glassware, Silverware, Crystals and Candle Stands are some of the other products on offer which you can view at our Showroom at 625 Voortrekker Road, Kensington (Maitland). Business Hours 08h00 – 17h00 with Fridays until 16h00 and Saturday mornings for your convenience between 10h00 12h00. We also offer a “white fairy-draped” Venue seating up to 450 guests and a smaller Venue for no more than 100 guests at Liberty Hall in Kensington (Maitland) – self catering available. T: 021 593 0753 or 021 593 0757 E: info@rentacandle.co.za See www.rentacandle.co.za Facebook: functionrentals

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BRIDAL NEWS ERINVALE ESTATE HOTEL & SPA, SOMERSET WEST Erinvale Estate Hotel & Spa offers a magnificent Cape Dutch Hotel set in the peaceful heart of the Helderberg, surrounded by majestic mountains, adjoining the famous Gary Player-designed Erinvale Golf Course and neighbouring the acclaimed wine estates of Vergelegen, Lourensford and Morgenster. Only 20 minutes from Cape Town International Airport, Erinvale Estate Hotel & Spa has a wide range of offerings, including a chapel, wedding venue, gardens, spa and hair boutique. The chapel can accommodate 60 people, while the garden provides the ideal backdrop. The lush lawn can easily accommodate 140 for a lovely garden ceremony. For your wedding reception the Birch Room is elegantly furnished with its own fireplace and can seat 40 guests with a dance floor, or 50 without. The banqueting centre can comfortably accommodate 150 guests, with a dance floor. Included in venue hire is a complimentary consultation with a contracted wedding and events co-ordinator. Also included are tables, chairs, chair covers, white linen tablecloths and napkins, crockery, cutlery and glasses. After the reception, treat yourselves to a complimentary night in one of the stunning suites. The Erinvale Estate Spa will make you feel like royalty and give you a special glow, and offers a range of wedding packages including a Pink Pamper Pre-Wedding Party! See the website for full details of facilities and prices. T: +27 21 847 1160, E: conf@erinvale.co.za www.erinvale.co.za

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The Little Pink Book is one of South Africa’s top wedding planning publications and online directories, listing more than 600 of South Africa’s best wedding vendors. Their annual publication is distributed in Gauteng and the Western Cape, and serves as the perfect planning companion - fitting perfectly into any bride-to-be’s handbag. With their online directory they offer brides the opportunity to get in touch with each of these vendors personally, making it a most convenient online wedding planning resource. Their blog also brings inspiration, trends and tips conveniently to every bride-to-be. WIN one of 10 Little Pink Book Wedding Planners by liking their Facebook page and leaving a comment telling them why you would like to win a Little Pink Book. www.facebook.com/LittlePinkBookSA

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ORIGIN IS ON THE FIRST FLOOR OF THE NEW PANORAMA HEALTHCARE CENTRE. BELOW: CEO AND FOUNDER OF ORIGIN, SUZETTE BESTER-CLOETE

ORIGIN – NEW PRIVATE MATERNITY HOSPITAL AND WELLNESS CENTRE IN PANORAMA Of major interest to those of you who plan to start a family soon after getting wed is the fact that an incredible new maternity hospital and wellness centre has opened in Panorama, Parow. Situated on the first floor of the new Panorama Healthcare Centre is Origin Family-Centred Maternity Hospital, the largest private maternity hospital in the Western Cape. CEO Suzette Bester-Cloete says: “Origin is the first maternity hospital in SA where midwives and obstetricians work hand in hand. We have 6 luxurious birthing suites, each with a water birth pool, en-suite bathrooms and queen-size beds for father/ family to stay over, plus three standard, well-equipped birth rooms, and three separate postnatal double rooms, all with en suite bathrooms. All rooms have real crystal chandelier light fittings to make the pampering and sacredness of birth a special event. There is also one major operating theatre equipped for emergencies. “Origin is contracted in and charges medical aid rates. We also offer affordable packages for private non-medical aid clients.” Origin also offers Wellness programmes (teenage, pregnancy, labour and birth, well mother, well baby, well dad and well family), as well as full antenatal care and a mobile postnatal care unit to visit mothers and babies at home. For further information or bookings T: 083 600 9454 E: info@originmaternityhospitals.co.za www.originmaternityhospitals.co.za Facebook: Origin Family Centered Maternity Hospital

WIN! A HIS & HER’S HEALTH CONSULTATION WORTH R1300

COMPETITION Origin is offering one lucky engaged or newly married couple a His & Her’s Wellness Consultation, to set you on the right path as you head towards married life together. This includes assessment of various health parameters, as well as of fertility aspects, should you wish. All you have to do is visit Origin’s website at www.originmaternityhospitals.co.za and sign up for their newsletter, as well as answering the following question (you will find the answer on the Origin website): Name one of the principles of family-centred maternity care. Email your answer to info@originmaternityhospitals.co.za with ‘My Wedding Day Competition’ in the subject line, by 30 June 2016, and also provide your name and contact details as well as those of your fiancé or husband. Terms & Conditions apply.

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BRIDAL NEWS TOPVENDOR WEDDING AWARDS

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August 18 marked the second annual TopVendor Wedding Awards celebration, hosted at the Rockwell All Suite Hotel in Green Point, Cape Town. This black-tie awards ceremony capped off the 2015 awards year, and was an opportunity for the industry to meet and engage with their peers, share ideas, and of course crown this year’s winners. In front of an audience of more than 150 industry leaders the 2015 winners were celebrated. Winners and finalists were selected by means of the annual voting process where the public and peers vote online. Thousands of votes were cast from across the country, and over 160 vendors were nominated to participate this year. Participation in TopVendor encourages excellent service standards and healthy competition in the wedding industry service sector. We are happy to announce that My Wedding Day magazine was runner-up in the magazine division, as selected by both the public and industry peers categories, which is a great achievement. Overall winner was Fairlady Bride. We look forward to what 2016 brings! See more at www.topvendorweddingawards.co.za

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To win one of these amazing hampers, all you have to do is answer the question below. Question: Name one of the uses of Thermal Spring Water. Send your answer with your name and contact details to info@pierre-fabre.co.za; competition closes 30 June 2016. www.avene.co.za

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BRIDAL NEWS SPECIAL OFFER FOR READERS! Book and host your wedding with the Hyatt Regency Johannesburg by 31 March 2016 and receive a complimentary private rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding in the oneNINEone Private Dining Room, including a specially designed three-course set menu (for a maximum of 10 people, beverages excluded). The Wedding Package that is available for booking includes: • Overnight accommodation for the bridal couple in a Regency Club guest room • 10am check-in on wedding day for bride • No venue hire for 100 guests or more • A variety of menus which can be tailored • Service staff and barmen • White linen, glassware, cutlery, crockery • Wedding coordinator • Complimentary food tasting (set menus only) • One-year anniversary stay over, inclusive of breakfast and R500 dinner voucher For information contact our sales department on +27 11 280 1234 or johph.rfp@hyatt.com to book your wedding. See www.johannesburg.regency.hyatt.com

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At Jacoba getting your bridal party dresses is super easy. Choose a style you love, and they will make it up in the colour you want. Their dresses are designed with a strong focus on body type, so everyone will be able to find a dress that makes them feel like a million bucks. They are simple yet elegant and can easily be styled to go with any theme, personality or occasion. Working from predesigned basics that you can try on and order in the size and colour of your choice means that you can know exactly what your dress will look like on your body before you order. Because of this unique business model, there aren’t any time-consuming fittings. There’s space to try on, park, meet the girls and brainstorm. No appointment needed! If you’re upcountry, don’t worry, orders can be handled online and couriered. So if it’s an event to wow or that perfect set of bridesmaid dresses that is beautifully re-wearable and accessibly priced that you are after, Jacoba Clothing can save you time, money and hassle. www.jacobaclothing.co.za T: 021 462 7724 E: info@jacobaclothing.co.za

Inspiring Water is based in Paarl, where spring water from the Hawequa Mountains is bottled. The water is filtered and sediments are removed, and the water is further ozonated and UV sterilised to remove any possible bacteria. This does not alter the mineral content of the water, and you will experience the soft, sweet taste of nature. Apart from the Inspiring Water brand, the business also specialises in branding water. The client builds their own brand of water with a unique look and feel for a specific event. Inspiring Water will design a label according to the client’s requirements, and the client can choose a bottle and cap colour as well as the size of the bottle (300 ml, 500 ml or 1 litre). Inspiring Water has a client base of companies in both Cape Town and Johannesburg where branded water is used as a marketing tool. The company recently expanded to also cater for companies and private functions in any of the major cities in South Africa. Win 100 bottles of water with your personalised logo for your wedding. Email your name and contact details to paul@inspiringwater.co.za before 30 June 2016. Paul van Jaarsveld Inspiring Water C: 083 444 3608

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100 BOTTLES OF CUSTOMISED WATER WORTH R400

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BRIDAL NEWS WIN AN ENGAGEMENT SHOOT Elrika B-Steyn Photography is a super fun husband and wife photography team based in the Winelands area. Their philosophy of wedding photography is about capturing the depth of feelings, genuine fun, authentic love and real people. This perspective allows for every wedding to be captured uniquely and with a creative eye. Elrika B-Steyn Photography is giving away an engagement shoot for one lucky couple residing in Cape Town. To enter please email Elrika your romantic engagement story to images@elrika.com, and she will choose a winner by 31 May 2016. Terms and conditions: The prize does not include travel costs, or make-up and hair for the shoot. T: 082 378 4418 E: images@elrika.com

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EVENT AFFAIRS â&#x20AC;&#x201C; A PACKAGE JUST FOR YOU Recognised as one of the top wedding planners in SA, the dedicated Event Affairs team prides itself on their zealous and personal approach to each and every wedding, ensuring that every detail is unique to the bridal couple. Expertise gathered over years in the industry allows the Event Affairs team to conduct weddings throughout SA. They also offer an exceptional service in proposal planning and engagement parties. Known for their comprehensive full wedding coordination package, Event Affairs will handle everything from the very first site inspection at a venue to the organisation and management of your family get-together after the wedding. This comprehensive approach ensures that even the most discerning clients, whether international or local, are looked after from start to finish. Event Affairs also caters for brides who prefer to be more hands-on and would like to handle certain aspects of the wedding themselves. Their partial wedding coordination service allows the bridal couple to hand-pick only those parts of the wedding for which they require their expertise. When the big day arrives, the team creates a seamless, stress-free event ensuring you will enjoy each magical moment leading up to your walk down the aisle and thereafter throughout your special day. Contact Event Affairs for a consultation to discuss your wedding requirements, and they will create a bespoke package just for you. T: 021 671 4994 E: info@eventaffairs.co.za www.eventaffairs.co.za

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BEAUTY Go Travel Style Pack – R1295.00 The Go FHI Heat Travel Style Pack is the perfect travel kit for any getaway, and the ultimate necessity for your summer-time travels. These travel-sized items are ideal for popping in your luggage, and will ensure that your hair is always perfect, no matter where you go. Blow Dryer: • This ultra-light, dual voltage dryer is ideal for at home and for travel • The ceramic tourmaline dries the hair evenly and seals in moisture to repel humidity, reduce frizz and help eliminate static • Dual speed setting for fast, even air flow Curling Iron: • The advanced heater reaches a maximum temperature of 210˚C • The simple design guides hair, for perfect curl formation • The convenient size makes it perfect for travel and touch-ups • The ceramic tourmaline barrel creates smooth, shiny curls • The dual voltage makes it ideal for international travel Sectioning Clips: • These smooth, no-snag clips section hair with ease • They allow you to hold hair sections firmly in place without creasing the hair Stockist: Available from Foschini stores.

Label.M Therapy: Age-Defying Range Hair ages just like skin, despite the fact that it isn’t a living organ. Following extensive research, label.m Professional Haircare launches its ‘first’ prescriptive, luxury sub-range called label.m Therapy Age-Defying. Therapy: Age-Defying Shampoo – R320.00 (200ml) Therapy: Age-Defying Conditioner – R350.00 (150ml) Therapy: Age-Defying Protein Cream – R250.00 (50ml) Therapy: Age-Defying Recovery Mask – R350.00 (120ml) Therapy: Age-Defying Radiance Oil – R500.00 (100ml) Stockist: Available from Splush stores.

Creightons Shower Burst range – R32.95 each Creightons Shower Burst range is packed with natural fruit extracts to refresh, revive and indulge your skin. With lusciously moisturising formulas that leave your skin silky soft, and mouthwatering fragrances that smell good enough to eat. Lime & Grapefruit Energise Shower Burst Vanilla & Macadamia Cocoon Shower Burst Raspberry & Pomegranate Revive Shower Burst Bath & Shower range – R55.00 each The Creightons Bath & Shower range is packed with natural fruit extracts to refresh, revive and indulge your skin. Lusciously moisturising formulas leave your skin silky soft. Mouth-watering fragrances that smell good enough to eat! Cherry & Wild Fig Sensual Bath & Shower Stockist: Available from Pick n Pay stores.

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JUST FOR HER

BEAUTY

Gives colour, shine and moisturises. 4 different shades to choose from. #weloveit

Esse Organic Skincare Probiotic Serum Every few decades a scientific discovery is made that changes the way that we see ourselves and the world around us. The latest discoveries made by the Human Microbiome Project have remodelled Esse’s approach to skincare. Esse Probiotic Serum contains more than one billion live probiotic microbes per milliltre. We have identified a spectrum of probiotic species that are integral to skin health and incorporated them into this revolutionary formulation. Stockists: Available from www.esse.co.za.

Essence Mini sheer lipbalm - R38.95 Balmy! The Essence mini sheer lipbalm ensures soft and velvety lips with a silky finish and a touch of colour. The practical mini-stick shape with retractable colour is easy to apply and is sure to fit into even the tiniest bag. Care for your lips! Available in a total of four shades. Stockist: Available from Clicks stores.

Essence French manicure beautifying nail polish - R34.95 Fantastic French! These Essence soft nail polishes are available in the three subtle colours white, light apricot and delicate pink – for a natural French look with a radiant shine. For gorgeous, pampered-looking nails. Stockist: Available from Clicks stores. Essence Smokey 2 in 1 khôl liner - R47.95 Multi-styler! The khôl liner unites two benefits in one product: it is as smooth and easy to apply as a khôl kajal, and at the same time as highly pigmented and accurate as eyeliner. The deep black texture is ideal for precise styles and intensive smokey eyes looks. Thanks to the conical shape of the tip, there is no need to sharpen it. Stockist: Available from Clicks stores.

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Essence the gel nail polish - R34.95 1. 08 whatever! 2. 40 play with my mint 3. 38 love is in the air 4. 24 indian summer 5. 21 a whisper of spring Stockist: Available from Clicks stores.

Awesome colours for your bridesmaids.

Bodyography 1. Veil Foundation Set the stage for perfect make-up application. 2. Translucent Powder Seal your look for longer wear. 3. Radiance Boost Liquid Luminizer A boost of radiance for your face. 4. Essential Brow Trio Achieve perfectly shaped and full brows. Stockist: Available from www.bodyography.co.za

Bodyography Essential Brow Trio

Achieve perfectly shaped and full brows Fill in and intensify the colour and shape of your eye brows to frame your face more prominently.

Placecol skin care www.bodyography.co.za Customer Care 0861 11 22 22 The Placecol products have been grouped together in terms of a daily skincare routine as follows: 1. Daily Cleanser 2. Weekly Boosters, which include Exfoliators and Masks A boostPowder of radiance for your face 3. Daily Toner to regulate your skin pH Bodyography Translucent Set the stage for perfect makeup application Seal your look for longer wear 4. Daily Treatment serums, to treat specific skin The perfect product to add a glow to your co concerns like pigmentation and Erase severe hydration to for set make up to allow for a full days wear. pores, fills in lines and sets Helps base makeup to hang Can be used before or mixed with your found Can be used for sheer coverage or a matte look. 5. Daily moisturisers for face andon eyes to allowing for a smoother makeup application which www.bodyography.co.za Customer Care 0861 11 22 22 6. Daily Protector, which is a sunscreen and lip lasts longer. www.bodyography.co.za Customer Care 0861 11 22 22 balm Placecol is also proud to announce that they www.bodyography.co.za Customer Care 0861to 11 22 22 now have launched four body care products complement their skin care range: 1. Clean Start Face and Body Wash

Radiance Boost Liquid Luminiz Bodyography Veil Foundation Primer Essentials for your daily make-up.

2. Hydrating Face and Body Lotion 3. Contouring Body Gel 4. Body Exfoliator Stockist: Available from www.placecol.com

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JUST FOR HER

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Catrice Jet Lash Speed Volume Mascara Waterproof 010 - R84.95 The Jet Lash Speed Volume Mascara provides ultra-fast volume, sensational length and intensive black in just one step. Luminous Lips Lipstick 010 - R69.95 The pampering texture with hyaluronic acid visibly plumps your lips and feels wonderfully pleasant. The finish is smooth, offers intensive shine and has a medium colourdispersion. Lash Couture Single Lashes - R 69.95 False lashes are part of every perfect eye make-up style this season. The lashes are positioned in between your own natural lashes. Thanks to the three different lengths, you can create a totally individual lash look. With an integrated mini glue. Camouflage Cream 020 - R52.95 A true must-have for a flawless complexion. The Camouflage Cream with a long-lasting texture blends perfectly with the skin for invisible correction. It reliably covers irregularities of the skin, pigmentation stains and red veins. Ultimate Nail Lacquer 54 - R49.95 The Ultimate Nail Lacquer is extremely convincing with a high-shine finish, perfect coverage and ultra-long durability. Free of formaldehyde, toluene or phthalates. Defining Blush 090 - R61.95 The ultra-fine, highly-pigmented powder blush with vitamin C and E spreads easily, sets fresh accents, emphasizes your cheekbones and models the contours of your face. All Matt Plus Shine Control Powder 025 - R61.95 The micro-fine All Matt Plus Shine Control Powder turns your skin into a shine-free zone. Its oil-free texture offers a long-lasting matt complexion and leaves your skin feeling wonderfully smooth. Stockists: Available from Clicks stores.

Eau Thermale Avène - Thermal Spring Water (150ml) - R149.95 The Eau Thermale Avène brand was founded 25 years ago on the basis of two fundamental criteria: • Avène Thermal Spring Water—the high-performing active ingredient in all of our products, and • uncompromising scientific rigour, closely linked to Laboratories Pierre Fabre and their dermatological, pioneering approach to cosmetics. From the raw materials to the finished product, formulation to packaging, our products require innovation and ongoing clinical evaluations from our laboratories, which work closely with leading international specialists. In line with Avène Thermal Spring Water, our products contain reliable, innovative, patented active ingredients, selected for incorporation into protected formulas. Stockists: Available from Clicks stores.

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BEAUTY Bobbi Brown - No Smudge Mascara - R330.00 A raincoat for lashes—this long-wearing, waterproof mascara defines, curls, and lengthens lashes without smudging, clumping, or flaking. Wear it alone or layer over any Bobbi Brown mascara formula to make it instantly waterproof. Intensive Skin Serum Foundation SPF 40 - R695.00 See healthy, beautiful skin. Formulated with Lychee, Bamboo Grass and Cordyceps Mushroom extracts, this high-powered formula helps give skin the energy it needs to look fresher and younger. Super silky emulsion floats over the skin’s surface for a flawless yet natural look – instantly and day after day. Luxe Lip Color - R420.00 Our boldest, most vibrant colour ever. This sumptuous formula dramatically boosts moisture levels while intensely rejuvenating lips, keeping them comfortable and conditioned - even after it’s removed. Now in 30 shades, with a sleek gold tube, this is luxury, redefined. Stockists: Available from Bobbi Brown stores.

Jo Malone - Mimosa & Cardamom A new bohemia awaits. Mists of honeyed, golden mimosa float above the spiciness of freshly crushed cardamom. Creamy tonka and smooth sandalwood woven under powdery heliotrope and damask rose picked at dawn. Warm, ethereal, mesmerising. Cologne (30ml) - R740.00 Cologne (100ml) - R1480.00 Body & Hand Wash (250ml) - R495.00 Body Crème (175ml) - R900.00 Home Candle (200g) - R800.00 Stockists: Available from Jo Malone stores.

A raincoat for lashes, perfect for your wedding day.

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BEAUTY

Elie Saab THE CONCEPT: AN APPARITION OF DAZZLING FEMININITY Women today build their happiness with determination. They own their dreams and aspirations and don’t want to give anything up… especially not their wildest dreams! They want to live an exceptional moment, where they feel absolutely feminine. And who cares if it doesn’t last. For a moment, for a night, or for a lifetime they will be the heroines of their own lives, modern-day princesses. Intensely feminine, magnetic, radiant, Anja Rubik incarnates this urban princess at the magic moment when the exceptional appears in the everyday. Eau de parfum (90ml) A radiant, voluptuous, addictive fragrance. An enveloping, elegant trail like the train of an haute couture dress. Woody Floral. L’eau couture – Eau de toilette (90ml) A fresh, couture, deliciously addictive fragrance. The sophistication of a couture look and the springtime freshness of an “eau”. Soft Floral – The deliciously crisp, addictive note of green almond associated with orange blossom.

Looking Good LCN Care Pen Apple Crumble - R168.00 Nourishes cuticles as well as the nail plate intensively with a beautiful scent of apple crumble. Christmas Deluxe Apple Crumble Hand Cream (30ml) - R124.00 Intensively nourishing and moisturising. Stockist: Available from www.lcn.co.za

Let there be light.. beautiful, refined, feminine. - Elie Saab

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MAKE-UP | MIST

Every bride knows how important and tricky it can be to find the right make-up artist that not only makes her look gorgeous but also makes her feel fabulous on her wedding day. Here an expert gives some insider tips on airbrush make-up for your big day.

leaving shiny spots which are seen on the photos. In short, this make-up won’t go anywhere until you are ready to wash it off! Another big benefit of airbrush make-up is the way it looks in photos. High-definition cameras have really made make-up artists more aware of their application methods. Every line from a brush or sponge, if not blended well, can be seen in detail through an HD lens. With airbrush make-up you don’t ever have to worry about streaks or brushstrokes. The fine mist mirrors the structure of pixels in a digital image, making it flawless and requiring minimal edits. u For further information contact Talita on info@mist-make-up.co.za or +27 84 444 5266. See also www.mist-make-up.co.za

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We all have a different idea of what beauty means to us. When we look in the mirror, each of us sees something different. How we represent this view of ourselves is a true expression of individuality. Personally I feel that it is crucial that your make-up artist understands this and how to push your boundary a little further, while at the same time honouring your idea of beauty. This is what sets a good bridal make-up artist apart from a fashion make-up artist. The second challenge is to enable the make-up to last for hours but without getting that ‘over-layered’ look. With cameras constantly improving in ‘high definition’, we end up seeing more and more detail in the actual image than we do with the naked eye. I believe that make-up should be like a ‘mist’ that settles over the skin, creating a soft, even skin tone that lasts for hours without any touch-ups needed. This is exactly what Temtu silicone-based airbrush make-up can give you. Airbrush make-up is much finer and thinner when compared to a traditional application. The silicone-based product is applied by way of compressed air through an airbrush stylus onto the skin. This fine mist of colour covers the skin evenly, giving the appearance of a flawless complexion. Foundation colours are mixed for a perfect blend to beautifully match your skin tone and then sprayed from the décolletage to the face, seamlessly blending from the jawline to the décolletage. Another plus is that airbrush make-up will not transfer onto clothing, which not only keeps the wedding dress clean but also the groom’s collar! Also, since silicone is water-resistant, the effects of pesky perspiration and those tears of joy are no longer something that you need to worry about. The product contains no chalk or oil, which eliminates the problem of it mixing with the skin’s natural oils,

www.everafterbridal.co.za 021 976 6976 / 071 257 7473 este@everafterbridal.co.za

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FOR THE GROOM Label.men Thickening Tonic - R250.00 This unique tonic, builds thickness and definition, for big matt styles with hold. Label.men Sculpting Pomade - R260.00 Use for controlled, elevated styles with adjustable hold and shine level. Label.men Deconstructor - R260.00 Delivers volume, lasting thickness and root lift with a firm yet natural matt look. Label.men Max Wax - R260.00 The product is used to thicken the hair and give the ultimate hold. Offering the highest holding rate out of the whole range. Stockist: Available from Splush stores.

I DO BOX Hangers - grooms & bestman - R95.00 each Hangover Kit - R280.00 Contents - water, sunglasses, plasters, mints, coffee sachet, zambuk, headache tablets, tissues. Boxers - R180.00 each Variety of designs available in white, grey and black. Bridal party t-shirts - R180.00 each Available in a variety of designs. All products available at their online store, www.idobox.co.za - new website launching in December.

Avon Attraction for Him Eau de Toilette Spray (75 ml) Magnetic warm musk and masculine woods. With just one glance, you captivate her. Held together by an invisible force. Undeniable & magnetic. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s attraction.

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REAL THE WEDDING GROOM

GROOMâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S STYLE MADE EASY

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THE GROOM

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THE GROOM

Groom Michael Moore married Courtney Hickson at Imperfect Perfection in Pretoria. He provides insight into preparing for and enjoying your special day. See their wedding on p. 98. Where did you get ready? The groomsmen and I got ready at Imperfect Perfection. The team set us up in one of the groomsmen’s rooms on the first floor of their accommodation. Just down the hall was a balcony area, where snacks, beers and music was set up to keep us entertained whilst we awaited the ceremony. What helped you make a decision when you selected your best man? This was an easy decision for me. I selected the friend who knows me best – which happened to be a friend who had recently moved to London. I felt it important that I include him in this way at our wedding, to honour our friendship. Did you give your groom’s party any gifts? Yes, we selected an assortment of four different liqueurs and placed them into a Consol bottle. A ribbon was tied around the top, with a sticker saying ‘Groomsman’. Tell us about your bachelor’s party. I had two bachelors’ parties, the first about a month prior to the wedding. This took place in the Waterberg, where a friend of mine has a game farm. He arranged a full two-day getaway with the boys, where all kinds of drunken

debauchery took place. We went game driving, boating and swimming in the lake, with a midnight potjie under the stars, followed the next day by clay pigeon shooting and more drunken fun. No strippers at this bachelor’s by strict order of the bride! The second was for family and was a closer-knit bachelor’s. This does not mean that we didn’t drink - it took place at Hell’s Kitchen in Melville, where the shots never seemed to stop coming. Needless to say, I woke up the next morning in my boxers with no idea how I ended up there. I only have the stories of family and friends to add any form of recollection to the evening. Did you do something special for your bride before/on your wedding day? No, I didn’t – we were so focused on the upcoming wedding that there was little room or time to slip that in. What advice would you give a groom? I would tell him to relax and enjoy the wedding; it’s an incredibly special day that seems to fly by so quickly. I think it’s important to really try and take as much in as you can, and do this whenever you get a few seconds to yourself. I would also advise the groom to make sure his speech is well prepared, PAGE 29

so that the actual day is not overshadowed by nerves and anticipation of the upcoming speeches. What was the highlight of your wedding day? I know this seems like the typical answer, but for me it was the moment my bride walked into that chapel. I still cannot believe how in the moment we were; it was like nobody else was there, and it was just the two of us. Honestly, all I can remember is the origami cranes that were hanging overhead and my beautiful bride walking towards me. It was incredibly special. Any special details you would like us to know about? Yes, for our wedding my bride and her group of friends took on the mammoth task of folding and then hanging 1000 origami cranes. These were hung in the chapel. It turned out to be an absolutely beautiful addition to the décor. u SERVICE PROVIDERS Photographer: Carolien and Ben Groom’s suit: The Designer Warehouse Groom’s shoes: Woolworths Wedding rings: Vermaak Diamonds, Bryanston Jewellers

FASHION | GROOMS

CREDITS Venue: The Park Hyatt Zanzibar www.zanzibar.park.hyatt.com Photographer: Esther Reid www.estherreid.co.za 082 802 1171 estherreid@mweb.co.za Assistant: Jean-Pierre Smit Stylist: Ria Prinsloo Model: Gray Kent Rainier Schomburg from G3 Model Agency Hilton Weiner www.hiltonweiner.co.za

Here we show you what we had in our suitcases for you grooms-to-be on our trip to Zanzibar. Our model Gray showcases these suits wonderfully with the magnificent Park Hyatt Zanzibar as the backdrop.

Suit and shirt: Hilton Weiner

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Suit and shirt: Hilton Weiner

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FASHION | GROOMS

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THE GROOM

That icon of style and wedding know-how, Aleit Swanepoel of The Aleit Group, fills you in on very important decisions to be made by the groom-to-be and protocol to follow in terms of etiquette. ATTIRE First and foremost, deciding on a ‘look’ for you and your groomsmen will really set the tone for the rest of your wedding experience – do not trust a suit hiring company in South Africa. My advice is to rather have a boys’ day out and go shopping. Everyone has to wear the exact same style and design, as this creates uniformity. Heaven forbid one of the groomsmen thinks that his suit of four years ago (that has four buttons down) is fashionable! It looks very odd in photos. Don’t think you have to buy the most expensive Italian brand either. My advice to grooms is to do Trenery or Woolworths Private Collection and then go to a reputable tailor and get the suits fitted. It is also not frowned upon for the groomsmen to pay for their own suits.

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THE GROOM

VANILLA PHOTOGRAPHY

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THE GROOM

THE MC AND FORMALITIES Remember, your MC does not actually have to be a close friend, but rather someone with great public speaking skills and a sense of humour. That said: Nobody needs silly jokes at a classy affair such as your wedding. The MC’s role is to give the event structure and to communicate the house rules. It has become trendy to get the formalities over with early on in the evening. In this way the nerves and (high?) emotions are out of the way and the bridal couple and their guests can relax from that point onward. ORDER OF EVENTS It is my recommendation that the following speeches take place in this order: toast to bridal couple (by someone that knows them personally), toast to the bride’s parents, toast to the groom’s parents, best man’s speech, maid of honour’s speech, groom’s speech, bride’s speech (if she wants to). I find that up to 80% of the bridal couples I see opt for no bubbly during speeches, as we serve plenty of bottles KOBUS of bubbly TOLLIG during pre-drinks. Guests can sip on their own drink during speeches and don’t need to spoil their palate. Put a limit on the duration of speeches, of 5 minutes per person maximum. Afterwards guests can start to mingle and freshen up, giving the chef some time to serve the meals at optimum temperature.

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THE GROOM WHO SAYS WHAT Once guests are seated, wine is of the utmost importance. Service is key! Waitrons must be at their stations ensuring guests are comfortable by offering to help with their jackets, pull out their chairs, place napkins on their laps, etc. This is also when the MC opens with the welcome. My advice on any public speaking is never to tap on the mic and never to blow into it either. The MC can start off by briefly contextualising his/her relationship to the couple and then explain the house rules. A good example would be: “Good evening ladies and gentlemen, my name is Mark Smith. I have the honour of being your Master of Ceremonies this evening. You might ask about my relationship to the couple. Well, I was actually the one who introduced them or, for those who do not know, I’m the groom’s brother. A few logistics of the evening: the restrooms are on the far right of the room. Wine, beer, juices are available freely from waitrons, etc.” Never say it is a cash bar, the guests can figure that out for themselves. “The Bride and groom will arrive shortly. When you hear the music, please all rise for Mr and Mrs …”

KOBUS TOLLIG

The Aleit Group Tel +27 87 121 0665 Fax + 27 86 638 4919 info@aleit.co.za www.thealeitgroup.com

THE GROOM’S SPEECH Always use cue cards: this ensures that you stay on track and mention everything that you need to. These days it is unacceptable for the male guests to form a rowdy audience to intentionally disrupt the groom’s speech. This is disrespectful to not only the groom, but also his bride and the respective families. This is the groom’s moment to shine, say his thanks and look deep into his bride’s eyes and proclaim his everlasting love for her. Back to the speech - always start with the bride, telling her how stunning she looks and how lucky you are to now be her husband. Thank your own parents for raising you. Move on to the bride’s parents – thanking them for raising such an amazing individual. Thank guests that have travelled from far to be there, but do not be specific, so as not to offend anyone should you forget a few names. While you may have every intention of thanking everyone, remember that suppliers have been paid for their services and might not even be present. Finally, always come back to the bride, ending off with that “ah” moment! u

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THE STUFF

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