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One Dad’s Mission
A father bikes across the country to raise money for the Ronald McDonald House
By Nancy Hammerstrom
A devoted father whose daughter nearly died 11 years ago is now giving back to the same organization that helped his family when they needed it most – with a 4,600mile, cross-country bike ride across the country.
Jeff Bekos of Pennsylvania rolled into Indianapolis late last month, making a stop at the Ronald McDonald House of Central Indiana to share his family’s story while raising awareness of and money for the local chapter, as well as 25 additional locations along the way.
The family’s story began on July 13, 2013, when Jeff’s 13-year-old daughter Hailey came downstairs for breakfast.
“Within 15 seconds she stopped talking and had a blank stare, leading me to think that she was having a stroke,” Jeff Bekos said.
After Jeff hurriedly drove Hailey to the hospital, she experienced her first seizure. From there, her condition deteriorated so rapidly that she was transferred to the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia where she suffered multiple grand mal seizures, stopped breathing, and underwent a tracheotomy procedure. The following week, Hailey fell into a coma and was diagnosed with Anti-NMDA Receptor Encephalitis.
“This is a rare autoimmune disease that simply shut her brain down,” Jeff explained. “Her body attacked the area in her brain that in simple terms disconnected all the receptors connected in her brain. Her brain basically shut down.”
As Hailey fought for her life, Jeff lost his job, and he was forced to pay for his family’s health insurance. “The first medical bill was 2.4 million,” he recalled.
Then the Philadelphia Ronald McDonald House stepped in when the family needed support the most. “The house becomes your home away from home,” Jeff said. “They provide a comfortable room,
prepared meals, laundry, etc. to ease any of those financial concerns that you may have. The houses are also close to the hospital so should you need to quickly get to your child you can. This allows you to then solely focus on your child.”
After spending four months in a coma and a total of 262 days in the hospital, Hailey began to recover, though the journey to completely return back to normal took an additional one-and-halfyears. “Hailey had to relearn everything from reading, writing, walking, talking, eating. It was as if we had a 14-year-old infant,” Jeff recalled.
Hailey earned her bachelor’s degree in communications in just three-and-a-half years and is now employed as a digital marketing specialist for Streetlight Digital, a company focused on supporting nonprofits like the ALS Foundation, MS Society, and Boys and Girls Club of America.
Hailey and her brother Brenden joined their parents (mom is Liz), along with her boyfriend Kyle at the start of the bike ride, which began in Orange, Calif. On Oct. 12, Jeff and Liz completed their journey at the Philadelphia Ronald McDonald House, running full circle from where their
personal journey started 11 years ago.
This year marks the 50th anniversary of Ronald McDonald House charities. Jeff’s goal is to raise $5 million to fund the cause for the next 50 years.
“The perception from most people is that the McDonald’s Corporation funds each house. This is not the case,” he said. “Proceeds from donations made at local McDonald’s restaurants make up less than 6% of their annual revenue. The balance of the operating budget comes from local companies, individuals, and volunteers. Each house is incredibly well run and efficient with every dollar donated.”
Jeff encourages the public to visit the Ronald McDonald House in Indianapolis and consider volunteering or donating funds to help families temporarily living there. “Your life can change in a matter of seconds, and we need to help each other. You will receive great satisfaction in helping others.”
For more information on the Ronald McDonald House, visit rmhc.org. To learn more about One Dad’s Mission, go to onedadsmission.org or follow social media @onedadsmission.
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SERVING THE SOUTHSIDE SINCE 1928
By Julie Brackemyre
COMMUNITY
1. In what town do you live, and how long have you lived in Johnson County?
I moved to Greenwood in third grade. I attended Northeast, Southwest Elementary Schools and then Greenwood Middle School and Greenwood High School. We live just over the county line in Marion County; however, our businesses reside in Greenwood.
2. Describe your immediate family to us.
I’ve been married to my husband, Joe, for 33 years, and my mom, stepfather, and aunt all live here in the Greenwood area.
3. Does your family identify with a certain faith, and if so, can you tell us more about the traditions in your faith?
My great-grandparents, Elwood P and Mary Lou, were the founders of the Evangelistic Center, Home for the Aged Community Center, located at 3518 South Shelby St., just north of the UIndy campus. This community property was donated to what is now Bethany Village, a retirement and rehabilitation center. My paternal grandparents, Paul and Mae Qualls, were Nazarene song evangelists
who served their whole lives to create faith-based communities and after my father, their son, passed away from lung cancer at the age of 30, my grandparents took me under their wing to ensure I was constantly close to the influence of God’s protection.
It was in 2016 that I connected to the John Maxwell Leadership Team, a faithbased personal development, coaching, speaking, and training community to equip me as an entrepreneur to serve my community with more impact. Servant leadership is my heart and is why my logo for Everyday Leaders is designed as a heart. Through this inspiration I began a morning leadership devotional Oct. 1, 2019, and has met every day online for over five years!
4. Describe your perfect family outing.
Anything that includes adventure! We’ve owned motorcycles together, participated in competitive sports together (ice hockey and cycling), and then found our love of sailing. We owned three sailboats over 12 years, and the days we spent sailing on Lake Michigan from Michigan City (Ind.) to New Buffalo
(Mich.) or around the St. Joe, Mich. area were some of our best adventures. I think sailing our last boat (appropriately called Journey) from Northport, Mich. near Traverse City, Mich. all the way down the lake to our home port in Michigan City over 300 nautical miles was a great adventure we will never forget. It took us over two weeks with many obstacles, lessons, and great memories that we would do all over again!
5. What is your favorite family tradition?
Taking an adventure trip between the week of Christmas and New Year with our immediate family. It’s one of the blessings of having a small family, and one of the most memorable trips was visiting California driving up Highway101 coast from L.A. to San Francisco back in 2016.
6. What are three words to describe the reasons you choose to live in Johnson County?
Johnson County is home, it’s where my heart is to serve a community that comes together to grow and learn from each other. Three words: Community, servant leadership, growth mindset.
Melahni Ake
President/founder, Everyday Leaders, LLC
(Submitted photo)
7. Ask your youngest child (or spouse or sibling) to describe you. (Spouse) Melahni is a servant leader who I was first attracted to because I saw the passion in her eyes to make a difference in the world. She truly believes in building stronger communities and supports growth-mindset leaders who strive to improve themselves every day.
Make some warm memories this winter on the Southside
By Mattew VanTryon
When the weather gets frightful, there are still plenty of ways to make your day delightful. Here are some things to do, outdoors or indoors, to make the next few months memorable.
Go ice skating at Perry Park
The Perry Park Ice Rink hosts public skating most afternoons (times vary). The ice arena is open until mid-April. For more information, visit the Perry Park Facebook page or call 317888-0070.
Go sledding at Freedom Park
When it snows, head out to Freedom Park. Located at 850 Stop 18 Road in Greenwood, this hill is an area favorite and has stairs to climb back up to the top. The hill is open every day from 8 a.m. to dusk and is free to use – just bring your own sled.
Go see a holiday performance at the Greenwood Community Theatre
Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer Jr. will be playing at the Greenwood Community Theatre from Dec. 5-8. Visit greenwoodcommunitytheatre.com for tickets and showtimes.
Enjoy the holiday lighting and winter market in Franklin
Downtown Franklin will host activities and fun for all ages on Dec. 7, including a live nativity, ice skating, a holiday cookie contest, a lighted parade, and the lighting of the courthouse.
See more than 42,000 lights on the Lighted Trail in Greenwood Amphitheater Park will host the Lighted Trail beginning Dec. 8, which will feature 85 trees of lights, multiple candy cane tunnels, and a total of 42,840 lights.
Get in the holiday spirit with OnStage LIVE Cabaret
OnStage LIVE Cabaret in Greenwood will host Holiday Magic this December, where you can hear some of your holiday favorites. Each show lasts approximately two hours. Performances are Dec. 7 (7:30 p.m.), Dec. 13 (2 p.m. and 7:30 p.m.), Dec. 14 (7:30 p.m.), Dec. 20 (7:30 p.m.), and Dec. 21 (7:30 p.m.) Tickets are $25. You can call the box office at 317-300-0603.
Heat up with Hoosier Hysteria
There’s nothing like high school hoops in Indiana to make you forget the cold. The girls basketball state tournament begins Feb. 4, 2025. The boys basketball state tournament begins on March 4, 2025.
Test your Taylor Swift trivia
The Sycamore at Mallow Run in Bargersville is hosting Taylor Swift trivia on Nov. 15. Doors open at 5:30 p.m. and trivia begins at 7 p.m. Teams are made up of two to eight people. The cost to reserve a table is $40. For more information, visit mallowrun.com.
Take in a local performance at Richard’s Kitchen
Every Tuesday from 6-9 p.m., Richard’s Kitchen in Franklin hosts a variety of musical acts on Frank Dean’s performance stage.
By Julie Brackemyre
COMMUNITY
MICHELE COFFEY RAU
Michele Coffey Rau is the owner of Connection Graphics & Apparel, Connection Graphics & Print, and Connection Graphics & Embroidery (yes, three different businesses!). Her educational background includes a Bachelor of Arts degree in psychology and business, and a Master of Business degree from California State Long Beach. Rau said her roles at the businesses change constantly. She started the business because of her love of logos. “I have printed about everything and designing a logo
1. What do you consider your greatest virtue?
Empathy — I am very good at relating to other’s feelings.
2. What do you most deplore in others?
Selfishness — it just doesn’t make sense to me.
3. What do you like most about working in Johnson County?
Life is good in the Grove and it’s because of the people … small towns are simply a great place to be. It’s nice where everyone knows your name and are a part of your story.
4. If you had to live anywhere else, where would it be? The beach … in no particular harbor … as Jimmy Buffett said.
5. If you could begin life over, what would you change?
Well, plenty — being over 50 gives you plenty of perspective! I would certainly have not grown up so fast — turns out being an adult was a trick — not sure what my hurry was to get out in the world and on my own so quickly. My parents did know what they were talking about!
6. If money weren’t an issue, where would you spend it?
If I won the lottery today, I would not tell but keep things the same and be a secret donor to fund wonderful things in the community. It would be so fun to hear people say, “I wonder who gave all that money to the new park … robotics team, etc.” But I would sure sneak away on some trips.
7. What makes you happiest?
I love it when my kids call me to talk about their days and check in!
8. What is your favorite vacation spot?
Soon to be Italy, I am just sure of it! Anywhere with sand and waves resets my soul.
9. What do you do with your idle time?
I will have to Google what that means ... I run several small businesses; I don’t do idle! Full throttle, we can discuss.
and helping a business utilize it effectively is fun,” she said. Rau has two children who graduated from CGHS; Jake is Army Airborne at Ft. Liberty and Jaylyn is a freshman at the University of Tennessee. “I am a very proud mom of both of them and can’t wait to see where life takes them,” she said. Rau recently married Todd Rau, “so that added two more bonus children and their spouses, Lauren and Dylan, and Maddy and Jackson,” she said.
10. What is it that makes you angry?
Learning how to golf … currently it is winning. Yep, a little white ball is beating me, and I am mad about it.
11. What do you do to escape from reality? Go to concerts ... country especially ... I just sing and dance right along with the band like they are friends. It’s so much better to be there.
12. Who is the greatest love of your life? Todd Rau ... we got married last year. He was given three instructions when we met — tell me I’m pretty, buy me shiny things, and take me to warm places. He’s doing a great job (she says with a smile on her face).
13. What is the quality you most like in a person?
Integrity
14. What is your greatest extravagance?
My Jeep — people ask, “How’s the gas mileage?” And I say, “It gets the fun kind!” And the Jeep wave keeps you in the present — if only there were Jeep heels.
15. What is your favorite restaurant?
True to my nature — small business! So, The Haven is where you will find me most often — right on the patio at sunset.
16. Who is the person most influential in your life?
My dad Jay Jones has been in treatment for a while, so we get lots of time in the hospital to discuss things. He changed my life the most when he brought me and my mom to Indiana on my sixth birthday. He has a great work ethic and loves tradition, so I get those things from him.
17. What are your fears/phobias?
Heights freak me out. I went on The Diamondback roller coaster with my daughter recently, but had to close my eyes until we got to the top of the hill … I couldn’t even look at it later.
18. Which talent would you most like to possess? Singing — I can’t carry a tune in my pocket, but that rarely stops me.
19. What do you most value in your friends? Loyalty
20. Who is your favorite historical figure?
Hard one — George Patton had great strategy. George Washington had great vision. Henry Ford was an entrepreneur with dreams.
21. What is your greatest regret?
I went to California instead of Auburn (for college). It’s on my list to finish a degree from there — still have another master’s I can finish up.
22. What tenet do you live by?
Be a good human. I choose to show love and thoughtfulness as much as I can without expectations.
Operation Alpha
U.S. Marine Corps veteran and owner of Hotel Tango Distillery starts annual fundraiser to support veterans facing homelessness
OPERATION ALPHA
By Nancy Hammerstrom
Twenty-three years ago, Travis Barnes, then 18 and a student at Indiana University–Purdue University Fort Wayne, was enjoying a carefree morning spent treating his uncle to breakfast on his birthday.
A moment later, he learned horrific news that would change his life.
“A waitress told us a plane had hit one of the World Trade Center towers,” Barnes recalled. “We got back to (my uncle’s) house just in time to see the second plane hit the other tower. I was scared, worried, and anxious. I knew that everything in the world was changing, but did not know to what extent.”
Barnes’ plans suddenly changed from taking classes and living with his parents to joining the Marines and serving in Iraq.
A Q&A with U.S. Marine Veteran and Owner/CEO of Hotel Tango Distillery, Travis Barnes
What do you remember about boot camp? How was the experience similar or different from what you expected?
Recruit training is very lonely. I had never been away from home for more than a week. I had only been out of Indiana a handful of times. I watched Full Metal Jacket a few times, which was a fairly accurate portrayal of what Marine Corps Recruit Training is like. The experience was transformational. I was a long-haired Hoosier hippy when I arrived, and I was a lean, mean Marine at graduation. It was the start of a great adventure that completely changed the trajectory of my life.
You served three tours in Operation Iraqi Freedom. What are some things that you learned and surprised/shocked you about serving in Iraq?
War is a horrible, terrible, hell. In order to survive you will see things and do things
that no human should have to endure. Everything is dangerous once you leave the wire, everything. The men I served with are some of the best humans I have ever met, and unfortunately some of them did not get to come back home. The Iraqi people are no different than folks from Indiana. They loved their families, their neighbors, and their farms. I thought that Iraq was going to be all desert, but some parts along the Euphrates looked very similar to Indiana farm fields, which made me even more homesick.
Symptoms of PTSD are common after completing a tour/coming back to civilian life.
PTSD rewires your brain to always be on alert. Those that have PTSD from combat are the only ones that can truly understand it. It never goes away, and you just have to learn to live with it. It’s horrible.
What was difficult about adjusting back to civilian life?
Everything. My last firefight was on March 15, 2006. I was out of the MC and back in school at IPFW in June of 2006. I was a wild animal and completely feral. I didn’t understand anyone, and no one understood me. It is still hard to fully explain how you change as a person after experiencing intense combat over three tours.
What did you find helpful when adjusting back to civilian life, and what advice would you give to others? Additionally, what resources are available to help them?
I was very fortunate that I had a great support system around me. I moved back in with my folks, and they were able to help me transition back to “normalcy.” They were strong enough to let me know when I wasn’t acting right, but also smart enough to know when was the right time to talk to me. My wife has also been incredible in helping me come to terms with what I
went through and supported me in all my struggles along the way.
You and your wife founded Hotel Tango Distillery in 2014. What was your vision of the distillery at that time? How has it grown to where it is today, and what do customers enjoy about it?
When we started Hotel Tango, we wanted to create a space where everyone is welcome, and you can drink some worldclass bourbon. That part hasn’t changed. The company has certainly evolved as we have grown and expanded our footprint across the U.S. I think our customers enjoy the tasting room because it doesn’t matter if you are Black, white, gay, straight, 21-81, and everything else in between; you are going to enjoy your time at Hotel Tango.
Please tell us a little about your philanthropic partners.
We always try to partner with groups that have a veteran focus. Helping Veterans and Families (HVAF) and The Reboot Project are both local organizations where we can see the good work they do. It is important for us to keep our philanthropic partners local because we want to impact the community we live in the most.
You are partnering with the upcoming Operation Alpha event on Nov. 8 at Biltwell Event Center. Tell us more.
Operation Alpha is a wonderful event to help raise money for HVAF. HVAF is a local (and nonprofit) organization that helps veterans get off the streets, provides food, housing services, training programs, and provides assistance getting veterans the benefits they earned. You can see the good works they do every day around the city of Indianapolis, and Hotel Tango could not be more proud to be a partner with them. Please donate to HVAF and Operation Alpha.
Travis Barnes started Operation Alpha in 2014 as a way to raise funds for HVAF’s life-changing programs for veterans facing homelessness. Operation Alpha has since become HVAF of Indiana’s signature fundraising event hosted the Friday closest to Veterans Day every year. Operation Alpha is currently sold out. If you would like to be placed on a waitlist for any seats that may become available, please contact Ashlee WallsPierce at awalls@hvaf.org. In the meantime you can help HVAF reach their goal by donating to hvafofindiana.org/donate. For more information go to onecau. se/operationalpha2024.
(Submitted photos)
By Julie Brackemyre
1. How many years has EM Company been in business, and what inspired you to start/purchase/ work with this business?
EM Company has been in business for 55 years. Greg Schaub started May 7, 1973, and Bobby Kennedy started Oct. 23, 1973. On Oct. 23, 2024, Bobby and Greg will have completed (completed, not started) 50 years each of working at EM Company, for a collective 100 years.
Bobby and Greg cut their teeth on refrigeration work in 1973. For the last 50 years, we have done a variety of work including HVAC, refrigeration, electrical, and plumbing.
2. Are you the original owner?
The original owners were Rocky Rockwell, Wayne Loy, and Jim Carver. Peggy and Greg Schaub bought the company in 1985.
3. Describe your typical workday.
Greg’s role in the company is different than his earlier days at the company. He now handles more of the management of the company. Bobby still works in the field sharing his expertise in refrigeration.
4. What inspires your work, and what sets you apart from everyone else?
The variety of work that we do on a daily basis is the exciting part of this job.
Chamber Meetings
NOVEMBER
12-Coffee Connections.
Please note: This is a members’ only event. Aspire’s mission is to drive economic development and business success. As a convener of businesses, we will continue to facilitate networking and connections in order to best support all industries. Tuesday, Nov. 12, 8:30-9:30 a.m. Miss M’s Home and Garden by Sundown Gardens, 4415 N. State Road 135, Bargersville. For more information and to register go to web.aspirejohnsoncounty.com/events.
12-HR Roundtable.
Join us for networking for HR and workforce professionals with discussion about your most pressing issues. We’ll start with casual networking at 11:30 a.m.
5. If you could go back to the beginning knowing what you know now, what would you have done differently?
Nothing. Not one thing different. Wouldn’t change a thing.
6. What’s your best advice for someone who wants to start their own business?
Don’t, unless you have the drive and passion for what you do.
Check out the owner:
Name: Greg Schaub
Occupation: CEO
Name: Bobby Kennedy
Occupation: Expert Refrigeration Technician
1. How long have you worked with EM Company? Tell me a little about your background and how you developed your skill set.
Bobby and I were both 18 when we started working at EM Company. Our background included knowing what a straight blade was, a standard Philips screwdriver, and what 3/8-inch socket sets were.
2. What has been your biggest success to date, and what has been your biggest challenge?
The biggest success has been growing the company from a 12-man company with two construction personnel
with lunch available at 11:45 a.m. and our program starting promptly at noon. Lunch catered by Dye’s Walk is included in your ticket and is non-refundable. Lunch buffet menu: TBD. Tuesday, Nov. 12, 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Dye’s Walk Country Club, 2080 S. State Road, Greenwood. (Enter the main entrance on the west side of the building) For more information and to register go to web.aspirejohnsoncounty. com/events.
14-Greater Beech Grove Chamber of Commerce’s Annual Celebration. Mingle, munch, and make memories with us as we enjoy heavy appetizers, a silent auction filled with amazing finds, and a thrilling raffle! Plus, it’s the perfect chance to connect and network with incredible folks in the community. Can’t attend? No worries! You can still be a part
(Bobby and I, the original A-Team), and growing the company into a 72-person operation. The biggest challenge has been to keep up with the constant change of ever-improving technology.
3. What inspires you to hit the ground running each morning?
We both enjoy working with our EM Company work family along with our customers.
4. Tell me some of your hobbies, outside of working for EM Company.
Bobby and I love hanging out with our grandbabies and our fur-babies.
5. What’s an interesting fact about your business that most people don’t know?
Prior to EM Company being what it is today, EM Company was the Southport State Bank. In 1956 we were part of the second largest bank robbery in the state of Indiana. Mr. Drake, the robber, spent his time in Alcatraz for the crime. We have preserved the original bank vault in our building.
6. What’s an interesting fact about you that most people don’t know?
Bobby is a fantastic bowler. He has had several 300 games. Greg plays the trumpet.
of the action by sponsoring or donating a silent auction item. Thursday, Nov. 14, 5-7 p.m. 524 Event Center, 524 Main St., Beech Grove. For more information and to register go to beechgrovechamber.org
21-Legislation Matters: Pints & Policy Chat with State House Delegation. The Aspire Legislation Matters series is an opportunity for member investors to spend time with elected officials. The program features lively discussion about public policy issues and specific legislation. Attendees are invited to submit questions and “vote” on key issues to give elected officials a visual cue on the local business community vibe. Pre-registration for this event closes at 5 p.m. on Friday, Nov. 15. There are no cancellations within five days of the event. Thursday, Nov. 21, 4-6 p.m. Taxman
Brewing Company, 89 S. Baldwin St., Bargersville. For more information and to register go to web.aspirejohnsoncounty. com/events.
DECEMBER
5-Tidings and Tinsel. The Aspire Board of Directors, Ambassadors, Aspire partners, and staff invite you to join us to commemorate the closing of the year with plenty of holiday cheer! Help us celebrate our year-end finale, strengthen connections, and toast the closing of the year. Cash bar available and complimentary heavy hors d’oeuvres provided. Thursday, Dec. 5, 4-6 p.m. Barn at Bay Horse Inn, 1468 W. Stones Crossing Road, Greenwood. For more information and to register go to web. aspirejohnsoncounty.com/events.
PERSONNEL MATTERS
Hiring beyond skills: why core values matter more than ever
By Mike Heffner
In today’s fast-paced business environment, finding great talent is tougher than ever. But hiring isn’t just about finding talent — it’s about finding people with the right character and values. For our team to succeed, we focus on seven core values. These values, set in place over 15 years ago, have become our guiding principles and influence everything we do. I hope sharing them here helps you consider how your values shape your hiring too.
Servant heart – Team members with a servant heart prioritize their colleagues’ needs over their own, creating a supportive, collaborative environment. By actively listening and showing empathy, they build trust and loyalty. For instance, an employee or leader who takes the time to understand the personal and professional challenges of their peers can provide tailored support, leading to higher morale and productivity.
Integrity – Integrity is the cornerstone of trust. Team members who consistently
demonstrate honesty and ethical behavior set a powerful example for others. This means being transparent in decisionmaking, owning up to mistakes, and ensuring that actions align with the company’s values. When employees see their colleagues acting with integrity, they are more likely to follow suit, creating a culture of accountability and respect. Growth-focused mindset – A growth mindset is key to continuous learning and development. Team members who embrace this mindset not only seek to improve themselves but also invest in the growth of their peers. This can be achieved through training, book clubs, one-on-ones, and providing opportunities for career advancement. By fostering a culture of growth, employees can help each other adapt to changes and innovate.
Consultative approach – Effective team members understand the value of diverse perspectives. Taking a consultative approach means seeking input from colleagues, which leads to better results and helps everyone feel heard. Regular brainstorming sessions or idea-sharing
meetings create an environment where creativity thrives, and everyone has a sense of ownership in the outcome.
Professionalism – Professionalism encompasses reliability, competence, and respect. When team members maintain high standards — like being punctual, meeting deadlines, and communicating clearly — they set the tone for their colleagues. By modeling professional behavior, employees can inspire their peers to uphold the same standards, leading to a more efficient and respectful workplace.
Sense of urgency – In a competitive business landscape, a sense of urgency is essential. Team members who act with urgency can drive their colleagues to meet deadlines and achieve goals more efficiently. This doesn’t mean rushing through tasks, but rather prioritizing and focusing on what’s important. An
employee who communicates clear expectations and follows up regularly can ensure that the team stays on track and maintains momentum.
Hiring the right people is about more than just skills and experience; it’s about finding individuals who embody the values that drive your team’s success. By focusing on what truly matters, you can build a motivated, high-performing team that moves your entire organization forward. Investing in the right people today will pay off in a strong, resilient team for the future.
This article is written by Mike Heffner, the owner of the local Greenwood Express Employment Professionals franchise. Contact Mike at Mike.Heffner@expresspros. com, @IndySouthMike on Twitter or visit ExpressIndySouth.com.
Is there a kiosk in your future?
By Howard Hubler
I recently wrote an article about fastfood franchises installing kiosks and indicated that younger employees thought it was a neat idea. My article discussed displacing people that were normally customer interfacing within an entire franchise such as McDonald’s. There has been an update in the fast-food industry about the impact of kiosk ordering.
My research suggested that many corporations had successfully integrated kiosks within their human relations department and people and computers were happily working side by side. Many owners of these fast-food franchises conclude that business is good; they’re making a fair profit. Customer interfacing staff, in the interim, had been acting as hosts and hostesses in the dining room to make the customer experience even better.
Many times those of us in business think if we just had a few more employees, the quality of life would be better. Yet funds are seldom available to start new job descriptions for them. In places like McDonald’s you had a reasonable number of employees not necessarily plugged into the traditional job of being a cashier. These organizations would redeploy them into the areas mentioned above. If the competition now had staff touching the customer and making them feel good
down the street at their restaurant, then we must have a similar kind of process at our restaurant to be a successful competitor. That’s what they call the open market in a capitalist society.
I’ll take some negative stigma off my previous article. Some was needed because AI and computers in general will be replacing a lot of work that people otherwise have. However, as businesses, particularly food businesses, become more impersonal in the future, the industry is delighted to offer some customer handling specialists, particularly since it was through funds freed up by the robotics part of the business.
Nobody wants to find themselves talking to a robot for a problem with a meal or talking to a young child and giving them a toy. However, if robotics could free the person from another otherwise mundane customer interface and put them into a problem-solving environment, now you have a new opportunity and a new job description that otherwise did not exist.
PEER TO PEER
Howard Hubler can be reached at howard@hubler.com.
The big ‘E’lection and the three other big ‘E’s
By Jeff Binkley
Phew! Well, it’s almost over. Actually by the time you get around to reading this, we may STILL not know who won. But we will, eventually. What is the prudent investor to do under the new or continuing administration?
Pretty much the same as hopefully what you have been doing before … or at least the three things I’ve been recommending you do for decades:
Maintain your focus on the three E’s. Focus on being Educated about the markets, your investments, and what is an appropriate portfolio allocation for your financial and emotional risk tolerances. Keep your Emotions in check. Yes, half the country will be ecstatic about the election, half the country will be disappointed and likely angry. But not you, because you will keep your emotions in check and not let the post-election craziness affect you in any way.
And never, ever, forget about keeping your investment Expenses as reasonable as possible. Don’t pay heavy mutual fund commissions and expenses when there are no-load funds and ultra-low-cost exchange-traded funds (ETFs) that do the exact same thing as the heavy-load funds for a tiny fraction of the cost. Remember, the percentages you pay in commissions and administrative and marketing expenses and other fees ultimately come out of your total return. Why pay them when there are other more efficient ways to invest?
And one more “E” might make sense to add as well. If you’re having trouble with the other three “E”’s: staying up to date and “E”ducated on investments, controlling your “E”motions, and limiting your investment “E”xpenses, then maybe give a trusted, “E”xperienced Registered Investment Advisor a call to help. Just make sure he’s as concerned about the Three E’s as you are.
Jeff Binkley is the Founder and Managing Director of Binkley Wealth Management Group, an Independent Fee-Only Registered Investment Advisory Firm. Mr. Binkley is adding a few new select clients from those who qualify. For further information or an appointment contact him at Jeff@ thebinkleygroup.com or 317-697-1618.
Eskenazi Health wins three categories and takes top honor at Indy Chamber’s Monumental Awards
Groundbreaking healthcare project recognized for its impact on community revitalization and innovative care solutions.
By Indy Chamber
arcDESIGN took home the highest honor of the Monumental Award for its transformative work on the Eskenazi Health Thomas & Arlene Grande Campus. The project, which also won in three categories, Architecture, Interior Design, and Public Art, stood out for its community-centered design and dedication to holistic care in one of Indianapolis’ most underserved neighborhoods. This year’s submitted projects collectively generated an estimated 4,000 jobs in central Indiana, highlighting the positive economic impact of the region’s growth.
“Investing in innovative healthcare solutions is essential for the long-term vitality of our city,” said Matt Mindrum, president and CEO of Indy Chamber.
“Eskenazi Health’s Grande Campus is a powerful example of how healthcare can address medical needs and foster broader community development. By integrating medical, mental health, and social services, this project sets a new benchmark for community-centered care while playing a critical role in revitalizing underserved neighborhoods.”
The new 95,000-square-foot healthcare campus on East 38th Street offers comprehensive medical, mental health, and social services under one roof.
Designed by arcDESIGN, the facility emphasizes connection, support, and belonging, incorporating a blend of natural materials and community input to create
a welcoming, inclusive environment. The project also exceeded Eskenazi’s diversity goals, with a 60 percent spend on minority, women, veteran, and disabled-owned businesses.
Eskenazi Health’s winning project was submitted by arcDESIGN, a firm known for its people-focused, open culture. Since 1999, arcDESIGN has built a reputation for creating transformational spaces through cross-disciplinary teams and sustained relationships with clients and contractors.
The firm’s work on the Grande Campus reflects its commitment to future-focused design that improves quality of life.
Other award winners included:
• Architecture: Eskenazi Health Thomas & Arlene Grande Campus submitted by arcDESIGN
• Construction: Indianapolis-Marion County Public Library - Glendale Branch Replacement Library by Powers & Sons Construction
• Engineering: Marian University E.S. Witchger School of Engineering submitted by Schmidt Associates/ Browning Construction/Browning Day
• Innovative Reuse: 220 Meridian submitted by Keystone Group
• Interior Design: Eskenazi Health Thomas & Arlene Grande Campus submitted by StudioAxis
• Landscape Architecture: Bicentennial Unity Plaza at Gainbridge submitted by Shrewsberry & Associates
• Neighborhood Revitalization: Fair Haven at Ada’s Place submitted by Luminaut
• Public Art: Eskenazi Health Katharine B. Sutphin Collection submitted by arcDESIGN
• Real Estate Development: The Stutz submitted by SomeraRoad
• People’s Choice: SPARK on the Circle submitted by Merritt Chase
The Monumental Awards are made possible by generous sponsors, including Monumental Award sponsor Ivy Tech Community College, Monumental Film sponsor PAETHOS Media, Construction category sponsor Quality Connection of Central Indiana, and Neighborhood Revitalization category sponsor Hirons. The event celebrates the most significant achievements across architecture, engineering, construction, and public art, recognizing excellence in the built environment throughout the nine-county Indianapolis region.
For more information on the Monumental Awards or to learn about future entries, visit indychamber.com/ monumental.
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State leaders, educators, and employers bring the Swiss apprenticeship style to Indiana
By Aspire Economic Development + Chamber Alliance
Indiana is collaborating with experts from Switzerland’s ETH Zurich to develop a comprehensive apprenticeship program for high school students, with the goal of expanding from 500 to 50,000 apprenticeships in the next decade.
“A broad Indiana coalition including legislators, the state community college Ivy Tech, the Indiana Department of Education, and Indiana Chamber of Commerce have visited Switzerland under CEMETS’ direction,” wrote Patrick O’Donnell in an article for the Indiana Capital Chronicle.
“Committees of executives from several industries have also taken trips to see Swiss companies and schools in their field.”
Inspired by the Swiss model, Indiana aims to integrate career training into the high school experience, allowing students to split time between school and work in industries like healthcare, manufacturing, and IT. The initiative seeks to address the state’s skilled labor gap while providing students with practical skills and upward mobility.
Dr. Sue Ellspermann, president of Ivy Tech Community College, explained how her institution has been involved in the effort.
“Ivy Tech is proud to be a member of the CEMETS iLab Indiana coalition. Several of the college’s leaders and I have
participated in the coalition’s delegations to Switzerland, meeting with companies, industry associations, and education and training providers to discuss how we can build a statewide system of apprenticeship that’s inspired by the Swiss, but Hoosier by design.”
Ellspermann highlighted Ivy Tech’s role in developing Indiana’s apprenticeship system.
“As Indiana’s single accredited community college, Ivy Tech is uniquely positioned to support the implementation of this next-level transformation that will allow students to explore and master career pathways while earning postsecondary degrees and credentials in an intentional and cost-effective way,” she said.
Nicole Otte, director of workforce development at Endress+Hauser, echoed the sentiment, explaining that Switzerland’s model could transform Indiana’s education landscape.
“In Switzerland, approximately 70% of students choose to enter an apprenticeship around 15-16 years old. This is an inverse currently in Indiana where nearly 60% choose to attend college, but only about 50% of those students finish. The Swiss apprenticeship model will provide Johnson County and Indiana students the best of both worlds.”
Both Ellspermann and Otte envision collaboration between local schools and employers as critical to success.
Ellspermann cited the Johnson County Advanced Manufacturing Program (JC AMP) as a promising example.
“Through JC AMP, students can earn an associate degree from Ivy Tech in industrial technology while concurrently earning their high school diploma,” she said.
Ellspermann added that paid, onthe-job training with companies like Endress+Hauser, NSK, and Caterpillar Remanufacturing is a key part of the program.
Otte said that employers should be at the forefront of mapping out industry roles.
“Employers in Johnson County, just like in the rest of the state, should be at the forefront of mapping and planning out the specific industry roles needed and then working collaboratively with other companies in their industry to align on competencies and training plans for those roles.”
Otte mentioned key industries that will be involved.
“Four core industries: advanced manufacturing, banking, healthcare, and life sciences,” said Otte. “They have already begun this work, and additional industry sectors have been identified including information technology, construction, sports entertainment and hospitality, and microelectronics.”
With Indiana’s diploma requirements set to change in 2029 to allow more flexibility
for work-based learning, the apprenticeship system is poised to benefit both students and employers.
Ellspermann sees the potential to tackle the skilled labor shortage while improving outcomes for students: “Apprenticeships provide the kind of practical, hands-on learning experience that today’s students want and value.”
As Otte reflected on her visit to Switzerland, she acknowledged the time that it took to develop their system.
“It took Switzerland nearly 30 years to evolve their apprenticeship system into the model that exists today. This work will not happen overnight, and it will take evolution and intentionality to get it right. But we can’t let the large hurdle deter us from the work. We must start on this journey to afford our students the opportunities and our industries the talent to develop.”
Both Ivy Tech and Endress+Hauser remain optimistic about the impact of expanding apprenticeships in Indiana, particularly in tech, science, healthcare, and advanced manufacturing fields. By bridging the gap between education and industry, the initiative promises to equip students with the skills needed to thrive in the evolving workforce while addressing critical labor shortages for employers across the state.
SCORE Indianapolis celebrates 60 years of supporting small businesses
Over the last six decades, mentors from SCORE Indianapolis have guided entrepreneurs through every stage of business establishment and ownership, assisting 1,200 business owners in fiscal year 2024, alone.
SCORE volunteers led Irvington entrepreneur Kara Long in developing the fundamentals of business for The Memory Collective, a venture created to capture loved ones’ cherished memories through audio and video recordings.
“While the businesses and guidance sought vary dramatically among our clients, the common thread is the
valuable resource that SCORE mentoring provides,” SCORE Indianapolis Chair Thomas Morgan said. “Our chapter is proud to have played an integral role in the development of more than 250 new businesses and the creation of more than 800 new jobs.”
SCORE Indianapolis is proud to celebrate 60 years of helping America’s small businesses launch, grow, and thrive. The world has changed significantly since SCORE’s inception, and so has the organization. Originally a group of retired executives, SCORE has expanded and evolved. Today, half of SCORE’s volunteers are actively working. SCORE uses technology to offer on-demand online learning modules, remote mentoring, and specialized local workshops. At the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, SCORE pivoted to deliver 100 percent virtual mentoring and education, without missing a single day of service.
The organization has also grown to embrace diversity among clients and volunteers – 65 percent of SCORE clients are women, 46 percent are minorities, 13 percent have disabilities, and 9 percent are veterans.
Locally, SCORE Indianapolis has provided 2,500 mentoring sessions in the most recent year and led 20 local workshops which were attended by 400 business owners.
Combining entrepreneurial spirit and volunteerism, SCORE supports small businesses at every stage of business, including those just starting out. Last year alone, SCORE volunteers helped start 31,167 new businesses and create 152,115 total jobs nationwide, donating 4.5 million hours of service.
To learn more, request a mentor, or volunteer to be one, visit score.org/ indianapolis.
SERVICE OVER SELF
Compiled by Nancy Hammerstrom (with information provided by Jill Fewell)
A local centenarian who completed 30 missions over France and Germany during World War II will be remembered for his gifted storytelling, love of family, sacrifice, grit, and determination.
Robert “Bob” Edward Pedigo passed away on Oct. 22, 2024, just two days after his 101st birthday. He was born on Oct. 22, 1923, in Indianapolis to Jerman Tilford and Mary Esther (Finn) Pedigo. Pedigo, nicknamed “Red” for his natural hair color, grew up during the Great Depression and helped his family, including his older brother Leland Earl and sister Lelah Faye, put food on the table by delivering newspapers at just 7 years old, selling scrap metal, and working in a grocery store.
While attending school, he asked to be transferred to Arsenal Technical High School for their technical training. As a former U.S. arsenal during the Civil War, Arsenal Tech opened as a public high school in 1912. Pedigo rode his bike 10 miles back and forth to Arsenal.
“Arsenal was one of the best technology high schools of its time in the entire country,” he said. “I wanted to learn as much as I could.”
Pedigo also learned how to operate gear cutting machines while taking additional classes at Lucas-Harold.
When Japan attacked Pearl Harbor on Dec. 7, 1941, Pedigo, then 18, was attending night school technical training. His work and technical training led him to make gears
for the Nordon Bombsight, known as the United States’ No. 1 “Top Secret” that helped win World War II.
Pedigo decided to join the Army Air Corps soon after his brother did and attended basic training at Bowman Field in Louisville before traveling to Denver for Aircraft Armament School. From there, he went to Fort Myers for Aerial Gunnery School and then attended combat dive bomber training in Mississippi. His third phase of training was in El Paso, Texas.
His orders sent him to Topeka, Kansas, where his crew picked up their new B-24 Liberator Bomber. They flew the B-24 “King Thor” to South America, then Africa, and on to England. The 10-man crew flew to Scotland to remove the ball turrets on their B-24, and Pedigo was assigned nose gunner and chief armor. They flew back to Norfolk, England and landed at Old Buckenham (Old Buc) Air Base where they were surprised and greeted by their 453rd Bombardment Group Operations Officer, the American actor Jimmy Stewart, a colonel at the time. Colonel Stewart led a squadron to complete 20 missions during the war.
While at Old Buc, Pedigo was assigned to a B-24J Liberator #4440297 named Silent Yokum. The bomber would soon be named after a comic character from the Lil’ Abner series by Andy Capps.
“One thing about being the nose gunner; I was always the first one to take off and the first one home,” recalled Pedigo with a smile.
On June 6, 1944, Pedigo and a crew of nine other men flew the “Silent Yokum” toward France. From the air, Pedigo saw
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the channel full of boats heading towards land. “There were so many boats, it looked like you could walk right across the channel from boat to boat,” he said. They flew over Omaha Beach, 30 minutes before the D-Day invasion started. Then they flew over Caen, on to St. Laurent, past Paris. The crew’s mission was to drop bombs on a German encampment in St. Laurent. The target was demolished; the mission was a success. Pedigo described D-Day as being one of the easiest of his 30 missions. “The enemy was caught by surprise, so there was not much anti-aircraft fire,” he said.
On July 19, 1944, the day before the famous “briefcase bombing,” Pedigo was part of a mission to bomb a factory where German Messerschmitt 262 fighter jets were being manufactured in Laupheim, Germany. Thirty-eight brand-new Me 262 airplanes were sitting outside, with 22 more being built inside the factory. The Me 262’s were the world’s first operational turbojet aircraft. All planes, parts, and the factory were destroyed by the bombing mission. “The 262’s would have been used to push back the 8th Air Force and probably used directly on us,” Pedigo said. “We stopped that!”
Of the 30 missions he completed, Pedigo considered the U.S. 8th Air Force’s first bombing raid on Berlin and the diesel engine works manufacturing plant on June 21, 1944, the most important. The plant was believed to be manufacturing engines for their V-1 flying bombs. The 8th Air Force dropped 71 tons of bombs on the plant to destroy it.
“Any time a crew finished a mission, it was a big occasion,” he said. “It was very emotional. I was just glad I survived my time on the B-24 since 5 percent of crewmen were lost on every mission.”
After his discharge, Pedigo returned to Indianapolis, reunited with his wife, Helen Marie (Wood), and raised two sons, John Lloyd Pedigo and Timothy Bryan Pedigo. He worked for the Naval Avionics for 28 ½ years until his retirement.
Pedigo maintained a healthy, active lifestyle as a member of the Indianapolis Hiking Club for 40 years and walked around the Horseshoe casino in Shelbyville a few times each week. He was a history buff and enjoyed recalling his military service, as well as memories of his family and additional life experiences around the state. He was inducted into the Indiana Military Hall of Fame in 2023 and received the prestigious Sagamore of the Wabash award from Indiana Governor Eric Holcomb.
Pedigo was one of 70 World War II veterans honored for service through an honor flight to Normandy, France on May 31 to commemorate the 80th anniversary of the D-Day landings in Normandy, France.
“This will be a once-in-a-lifetime journey for me,” he said. “The last time I saw France was from the air, 80 years ago. I will finally be able to pay my respects to the 9,000 troops who never came home. That day is seared in my memory. We owe them everything and are a free country today because of their sacrifices. I’m honored to be a part of this historic event.”
(Photos provided by Jill Fewell)
It’s time!
By Linda Begley NPN 1482386
Independent Medicare Agent
The annual enrollment period to sign up for Medicare is NOW (Oct. 15 through Dec. 7).
You have heard about the major changes — they apply to every Medicare plan.
These changes include:
• Prescription drugs — the maximum you pay per year is $2,000; those who have expensive prescriptions will like that — this applies to ALL carriers (Aetna, Anthem, Humana, United Health, IU Medicare, WellCare, etc.)
• Co-pays and deductibles — higher. Many plans now have deductibles anywhere from zero to $250 to $550 (some are medical deductibles and others are prescription deductibles). Medical co-pays include x-rays and labs — tests that we used to pay NOTHING for now have a copay OR a deductible. Let me use Anthem for my example since I have so many clients on Anthem. For 2025, an Anthem PPO (Preferred Provider Organization) allows a client to go to any provider who accepts Medicare and does NOT require a referral. However, the current MOOP (maximum out of pocket) is $5,900 but for next year the amount is $6,750 (does NOT include Rxs). Anthem lists a $95 deductible for medications, but with a cap on prescriptions at $2,000 per year, it gets confusing.
For 2025, Anthem provides an HMO-POS C-SNP which means that a person who is diabetic or has heart problems gets more benefits. But the catch is they must reside in Marion County only.
There are multiple categories of health care services within the Anthem plan. Doctors, Rxs, specialists, and the multiple testing some clients need. You will find a plan that looks great and then you learn that some of your doctors are not in network.
One great source of information is Medicare.gov. DO NOT GIVE YOUR NAME OR EMAIL ADDRESS or you will be bombarded with calls and emails. When I go to Medicare.gov, I only provide my zip code. It brings up all the plans in my zip code along with the benefits.
Some benefits were dropped or lowered: the over-the-counter budget has been dropped or reduced with the different plans. Dentists and eye doctors have lowered their benefits. When the $2,000 cap for Rxs began, carriers DROPPED some benefits.
If you have an agent, contact him/her before Dec. 7. If you don’t have an agent, call me (Linda Begley: 317-522-7230). I can answer most questions by phone. If there is a plan that works better for you, we can talk about it!
Linda Begley is a retired teacher and counselor for Greenwood Community Schools. I have spent the last four years teaching and sorting out Medicare issues. Don’t hesitate to call with your questions. Linda Begley 317-522-7230
Shop at Kroger while supporting The Social of Greenwood
Did you know every time you buy your groceries at Kroger, you could also be supporting The Social of Greenwood? It’s an effortless way to give back to your favorite senior center and make a real difference
Mobile occupational/ physical therapy for seniors and how we can benefit you
By the staff of Therapy On Wheels
What is mobile occupational and physical therapy?
Occupational therapy (OT) and physical therapy (PT) is a form of rehabilitation that incorporates different techniques and procedures to help individuals to regain their motion and improve daily living activities, such as walking, balance, fine motor skills, cognitive skills, bathing/dressing, home safety, fall prevention, maintaining flexibility, etc.
How can occupational and physical therapy benefit you at home?
Our OT and PT’s are state-licensed therapists, who have years of in-home therapy experience that will work with you individually in the comfort of your own home to promote independence. Have you had recent surgery and need rehabilitation? Do you have chronic pain? Do you want to try to stay in your own home, but need some adaptations to stay there? Do you want to maintain your current function so you can stay at home?
Don’t have a ride to your PT appointment?
You do not have to be homebound to receive these and more services. These services are covered through Medicare Part B and your secondary insurance. There is typically minimal or no cost to you. Some advantages include the following but are not limited to:
• Avoid taxing effort when leaving your home
• Avoid waiting rooms
• Avoid driving to the clinic
• Same therapist with each visit
• Appointments are built around your schedule
• No homebound restrictions If you have arthritic pain, chronic back pain, need post-surgical rehabilitation, adaptive equipment needs, or have a chronic medical condition, we can help. We also provide maintenance therapy once you have reached your goals. This will allow you to maintain your level of independence and stay in your own home. Please call our office at 317-332-9861 for more information, or you can have your physician fax a referral to 317-893-4453.
for all of our members! Just shop, swipe your Kroger Plus Card, and earn rewards for the nonprofit organization! Visit KrogerCommunityRewards.com, locate your state and click “Enroll Now,” sign into your online account OR create a new account, search for our code (UP889) or Greenwood Senior Citizens Center, and click “Save.”
Renting mobility equipment
By Lori Radford MS/OTR, sales associate, Hoosier Mobility Solutions
“Why would I need to rent a wheelchair or scooter? I’m healthy and not that old.”
This is the most common statement heard at health fairs when people see the Hoosier Mobility Solutions booth. But the reality is that you don’t have to have a diagnosis or be a certain age to benefit from mobility equipment. It is needed by many types of people, at various times in their lives. There are a number of reasons why people who are in good health may use it. Sometimes it is on a short-term basis, for which renting can be a good option. But if it is needed on a more permanent basis down the road, users will already be familiar with and know where to obtain it.
Consider these situations that may apply to you now or in the future:
Accident, injury, or surgery recovery:
After an accident or surgery,
mobility equipment can help you get to all of the places you need to in a day if walking is too painful, tiring, or not even possible yet. It helps you avoid putting stress on an injured body part so it can heal. It also allows you to keep going out in the community and avoid isolation.
Travel and vacations:
Mobility equipment can make vacation significantly more relaxing and enjoyable. If you have a bad knee, or difficulty walking long distances, it can allow you to participate in all the activities and see all the sights while on your trip.
Day trips and activities:
Whether you’re planning an exciting weekend at an amusement park or a peaceful day at the botanical garden, mobility equipment can help you get around. These activities, while lots of fun, typically require more walking and standing than many of us are used to in a day. They can sometimes be rented on site, but often they sell
out after the gates open. Bringing rental equipment ensures you have it available.
Try before you buy:
Finally, renting mobility equipment can be helpful before purchasing. If you’re not sure whether you actually need to own a mobility scooter, for example, rent it for a week and see how often you use it and what you are able to participate in that you wouldn’t have without it. Mobility equipment is a huge investment, and testing some out as a rental first can help you make the best decision possible.
Hoosier Mobility Solutions is a family-owned mobility equipment supplier dedicated to helping people access their independence. We proudly serve the aging-in-place and rehabilitation markets with dignity and exceptional service and offer sales, rentals, and repair. Contact us at 317-660-5122 or plainfield@ hoosiermobility.com.
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BEECH GROVE
The Deck Masters Card Club
Do you love to play euchre or hand and foot? We have some new friends you may want to meet. Enjoy other games? We have a variety to choose from like Tripoley, Rummikub, UNO, and Mexican Train Dominoes. We provide playing cards, coffee, and other drinks. | When: Every Tuesday at 10 a.m. | Where: Hornet Park Community Center, 5245 Hornet Ave., Beech Grove | Info: 317-788-4986; hornetparkcommunitycenter.com
Best Seller Book Club
Do you like to read books? Read a book a month and meet to discuss. | When: Every fourth Tuesday, 6:30 p.m. | Where: Hornet Park Community Center, 5245 Hornet Ave., Beech Grove | Info: hornetparkcommunitycenter.com; 317-788-4986
Estate Planning Basics
Join us for Financial Planning Workshops in 2024 presented by a Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) at the Indianapolis Public Library. | When: Nov. 12, 6:30-7:30 p.m. | Where: Beech Grove Branch Library, 1102 Main St., Indianapolis. | Info: 317-275-4560; attend.indypl.org/event/10020599
Breakfast and Learn Senior Nutrition Classes
Seniors aged 60 and over are invited to join us the second Tuesday of each month. Learn about the importance of having a healthy and balanced diet and how to improve your overall health. Receive food samples, recipes, handouts, and a monthly giveaway. Classes hosted by the Marion County Health Department Nutritional Services Dietician. | When: Nov. 12, 9:30 a.m. | Where: Hornet Park Community Center, 5245 Hornet Ave., Beech Grove | Info: hornetparkcommunitycenter.com; 317-788-4986
Chair Yoga & Mindfulness
Join Amy every other week for chairbased yoga to practice your breathing techniques, and improve your heart rate, mental focus, and relaxation. | When: Nov. 13, 11 a.m.-noon. | Where: Beech Grove Branch Library, 1102 Main St., Indianapolis. | Info: 317-275-4560; attend.indypl.org/ event/11264816
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Rock Steady Boxing
For individuals of all ages with Parkinson’s disease to fight their symptoms by providing non-contact boxing-style fitness programs that improve their quality of life, sense of efficacy, and self-worth. | When: Various classes and skill levels, Monday through Saturday. | Where: The Social of Greenwood, 550 Polk St., Greenwood. | Info: 317-882-4810; thesocialofgreenwood. org/rock-steady-boxing
Wednesday Bingo
$1,000 cover-all pot 50 numbers or less; $500 or more cover-all guaranteed pot (paid with 90 or more players). Early birds (warm-ups) start at 6:30 p.m. All games end around 10 p.m. Public welcome! Basics starting package: $17. Large new playing room. Food and beverages available. Join in on the fun! | When: Every Wednesday, 6:30 p.m. | Where: Greenwood VFW Post 5864, 1842 Veterans Way, Greenwood. | Info: 317-888-2488; steve.milbourn@aol.com
Parkinson’s Support Group
Our Parkinson’s Support Group provides an opportunity for those with Parkinson’s Disease to meet and discuss topics that directly affect and interest them. The Parkinson’s Support is facilitated by Senior
Helpers. | When: First and third Wednesday of each month, 11 a.m. | Where: The Social of Greenwood conference room, 550 Polk St., Greenwood. | Info: 317-882-4810; thesocialofgreenwood.org/contact
Bunka Embroidery
Join us for Bunka embroidery (Japanese punch embroidery and thread painting). Cost: $1. | When: First, third, and (if applicable) fifth Wednesday of each month, 6:308:30 p.m. | Where: The Social of Greenwood, 550 Polk St., Greenwood. | Info: 317-8824810; thesocialofgreenwood.org/contact
Woodcarving
Join us for Woodcarving. No charge. | When: Mondays and Thursdays, 9 a.m. | Where: The Social of Greenwood, 550 Polk St., Greenwood. | Info: 317-882-4810; thesocialofgreenwood.org/contact
Euchre
Join us for Euchre. Cost: $3. | When: Tuesdays, 1 p.m. | Where: The Social of Greenwood, 550 Polk St., Greenwood. | Info: 317-882-4810; thesocialofgreenwood.org/contact
PERRY TOWNSHIP
Perry Senior Services Euchre Play Euchre with other seniors in your community. | When: Every Thursday, 10
a.m. | Where: Perry Senior Services, 6901 Derbyshire Road, Indianapolis. | Info: 317783-9231; perryseniors.org
Perry Senior Services Lunch & Bingo Enjoy lunch and play Bingo with other seniors in your community. | When: Wednesday, Nov. 20, event held monthly, 11 a.m. | Where: Perry Senior Services, 6901 Derbyshire Road, Indianapolis. | Info: 317783-9231; perryseniors.org
SOUTHPORT
Healthy Brain Aging
Learn about brain health and healthy aging from experts. Consider cognitive health as well as motor, emotional, and tactile functioning. Then consider seven healthy behaviors that may reduce Alzheimer’s risk. Clinical Research Specialist in Neurology, Zipporah Melton, will present information about aging and how to take positive steps that impact health as you age. Healthy Brain Aging is presented by the Alzheimer’s Disease Neuroimaging Initiative program at the Goodman Hall Neuroscience Center at Indiana University. | When: Thursday, Nov. 14, 2-3 p.m. | Where: Southport Branch Library, 2630 E. Stop 11 Road, Indianapolis. | Info: 317-275-4512; attend.indypl.org/ event/11842544
Roncalli Salutes Our Royal Marching Band ISSMA Gold and Visual Distinction Winners!
Congratulations to the Roncalli Royal Marching Band on an outstanding performance at the ISSMA Festival Marching Band Contest. The band earned a gold rating and also received an award for visual distinction. This is the first time the Royals have ever received this award. Only bands with the highest score in the visual component of the competition receive this distinction.
“We are incredibly proud of all the hard work these students have put in. We are a growing program, and this shows we have a bright future ahead!.” — Band director Laura (Horcher) Gottman (Roncalli 2010)
Congratulations to the Royal marching band and directors on their remarkable success!
Roncalli canned food drive check presentation
Roncalli High School donated over $33,000 and over 3,100 cans to five food pantries as a result of their annual canned food drive that took place in late August. An amazing 89% of the student body participated in the drive. Receiving checks at the Homecoming pep rally on Friday, Sept. 20 were Dave Certo of David Moore Food Pantry, Phil Christie of Hunger, Inc., Michelle Gudger
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of Catholic Charities, Connie Merkel of St. Anthony/Holy Trinity Food Pantry, and Sister Kathleen Yeadon, OSB, of St. Vincent De Paul. “Service continues to be one of the key pillars of our school. The canned food drive has been another great example of our students coming together to serve the needs of our local community and food pantries. Great job, Royals!” said Roncalli principal Kevin Banich (Class of 2009).
Roncalli girls cross country team wins sectional championship for first time in school history
For the first time in school history, the Roncalli girls cross country team is a sectional champion!
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Earning All-Sectional recognition for the Royals, junior Ava Shirley placed fourth, sophomore Tessa Mize placed seventh, junior Charlie Fletter placed 10th and junior Marygrace Rykowski placed 14th! Junior Madelyn Kitchens finished in 24th place, securing the team’s sectional win. Head coach Cathy Kitchens (Roncalli 2001) shared, “I am really proud of this team and their
perseverance this year. Winning sectionals has been a goal for the team over the past few years. Accomplishing it this year is a testament to the work the girls have put in both during the season and in the offseason.” Roncalli athletic director David Lauck (Roncalli 1994) added, “Any team winning something for the first time in school history is a major, major accomplishment! Congratulations to our girls cross country program and Coach Kitchens for their sectional championship. Good luck moving forward in the regional competition.”
From left to right: Rowdie, Dave Certo (David Moore Food Pantry), Connie Merkel (St. Anthony/Holy Trinity Food Pantry), Phil Christy (Hunger, Inc), Michelle Gudger (Catholic Charities), and Sr. Kathleen Yeadon, OSB (St. Vincent De Paul). (Submitted photo)
Delta Theta Tau Sorority presents Artisan Holiday Market
For the past 49 years, Delta Theta Tau Nu Tau Sorority of Greenwood has presented the Artisan Holiday Market, formerly known 11 years ago as “That Something Special” Arts and Crafts Fair. The fair is one of the oldest and largest juried all-handcraft fairs in the area. The Delta Theta Tau Sorority was organized to be a non-sectarian, non-academic women’s organization dedicated to the advancement of philanthropy and charity. The fair was first held at the University Of Indianapolis, later at Southport High School, to the present location at Beech Grove High School, where it has been held from 2011 to present. The fair’s great success for the past 49 years is due to its history of accepting only handcraft artisans as vendors by jury that fill three large areas of the high school. Proceeds from the Artisan Holiday Market fair has provided financial donations to help support many
Grove, the Eleanor Skillen School #34 and school #65, Better Indy Babies, Fletcher Place Community Center, Servant’s Heart and various other local food pantries, St. Thomas Clinic, many animal shelters and veteran organizations, Beech Grove Lions Club, the Boy Scouts, and many other local charity organizations. The Beech Grove Chamber of Commerce has provided swag bags to the fair’s early customers in coordination with Beech Groves Shop Small Saturday. Throughout the year, our 15 Nu Tau members are hard at work with other projects but the focus each year is the craft fair. The fair has grown to approximately 150 handcraft vendors and artisans. Many of the yearly return vendors have been with the fair for decades to almost half a century. Beech Grove High School will be the venue again this year on Nov. 30 from 9 a.m.-2 p.m. For more information go to Artisan Holiday Market on Facebook.
EVENTScalendar
BEECH GROVE
Ladies’ Night
Do you have a favorite dessert recipe? Bring a favorite recipe and if you want, bring a sample to share. We will copy the recipes for everyone. Who knows, you may just find a new favorite for this holiday season. We will also be making Christmas wristlet keychains with silicone beads. Only $5/person! | When: Nov. 8, 6 p.m. | Where: Horne Park Community Center, 5245 Hornet Ave., Indianapolis. | Info: 317-7884986; hornetparkcommunitycenter.com
Holiday Celebration
You’re invited! Hornet Park Community Center is proud to present “A Grateful Gathering.” Join us for a FREE community holiday feast! Dinner, dancing, singing, and a visit from Santa is all on the menu. In order to ensure we prepare enough food we kindly ask that you RSVP for the event. | When: Nov. 15, 6-8 p.m. | Where: Hornet Park Community Center, 5245 Hornet Ave., Indianapolis. | Info: RSVP: RSVP@ beechgrove.com; or 317-788-4986 or stop by in person.
Whalen’s Heroes Veterans Appreciation Day
Free event. Donations appreciated. Music provided by DJ Dustin Bradley, USMC veteran. Charcuterie grazing table provided by Rustic Root Tea Room. 50/50 drawing, silent auction, bucket raffle. | When: Nov. 17, noon-3 p.m. | Where: 524 Events, 524 Main St., Beech Grove. | Info: whalensheroes.org
FOUNTAIN SQUARE
Tonic Ball
Presented by Eskenazi Health, Tonic Ball brings together Indy’s best bands and musicians on the Friday before Thanksgiving for an annual music festival at venues in Indy’s Fountain Square neighborhood in support of second helpings, a Central Indiana nonprofit fighting hunger from all angles. | When: Nov. 22, 7 p.m.- late. | Where: several locations in Fountain Square (see website for details), Indianapolis. | Info: tonicball. org
NIGHT & DAY
GARFIELD PARK
Little Olympians with JumpBunch of Central Indiana
Relive the excitement of the 2024 Paris Olympics with JumpBunch of Central Indiana! Kids will have the chance to try a variety of Olympic sports, including soccer, gymnastics, surfing, volleyball, track, tennis, and more. Let your child embrace the Olympic spirit! | When: Tuesday, Nov. 26, 10:30-11:30 a.m. | Where: Garfield Park Library Branch, 2502 Shelby St., Indianapolis. | Info: 317-275-4490; indypl. org/event/11513858
GREENWOOD
Surviving the Holidays
The holidays are challenging when you’re grieving a loss. Surviving the Holidays provides encouragement, support, and valuable tools to navigate the season. Join us for this holiday seminar. | When: Sunday, Nov. 17, 6-8 p.m. | Where: One Christian Church, 2578 Donica Road, Greenwood. | Info: griefshare.org/holidays
INDIANAPOLIS
29th Annual Spirit & Place Festival
The 29th annual Spirit & Place festival will explore the topic and practice of GRATITUDE for 10 days beginning Nov. 1. Through family activities, insightful lectures and workshops, a variety of performances, and transformative dialogues, this year’s festival invites the community to intentionally practice and reflect on gratitude as a way to take care of themselves and each other. As Indianapolis’s largest co-created community festival that aims to shape both individuals and public life, the Spirit & Place Festival will host 10 days of events – created by artists, scholars, performers, congregations, cultural institutions, and more – at different locations around Central Indiana. | When: Nov. 1-10, various times. | Where: Various locations in Indianapolis. | Info: spiritandplace.org/events/month/2024-11/
“13 FIRES” by Curtis K. Rogers Set in 1956 Indianapolis, “13 FIRES” tells the poignant story of a community grappling with change. As Indiana Avenue businesses shut down and families are displaced, the once-vibrant neighborhood faces a new reality. This powerful play, presented by Black Light Training and Development, captures the resilience of a community
striving to hold onto its identity. Age 13+ | When: Friday, Nov. 29, 7:30 p.m.; Saturday, Nov. 30, 7 p.m.; Sunday, Dec. 1, 2:30 p.m. | Where: District Theater, 627 Massachusetts Ave., Indianapolis. | Info: 317-522-8099; indydistricttheatre.org.
Sphinx Concert
The Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra (ISO) continues its partnership with the Sphinx Organization to present free concerts during the 2024–25 season. The season kicks off with ISO Associate Conductor Su-Han Yang conducting the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra. Registration is required for this free event, which highlights violinist Ana Isabella España and cellist Andres Sanchez. Seats are limited. Reserve your tickets online. | When: Nov. 6, 7 p.m. | Where: Madam Walker Legacy Center, 617 Indiana Ave., Indianapolis. | Info: indianapolissymphony. org/event/24-25-november-sphinx-series
First Thursdays
For all adults. First Thursdays are your FREE ticket to go behind the scenes at the Indianapolis Symphony! Enjoy a beverage and join us in our Hilbert Circle Theatre lobby along with ISO artists, staff, and special guests for an immersive experience. This season will include four hour-long programs featuring performances, exclusive interviews, and interactive activities. | When: Nov. 7, 7 p.m. | Where: Hilbert Circle Theatre, 45 Monument Circle, Indianapolis. | Info: 317-639-4300; indianapolissymphony.org/events
Eric Greenspan and The World Food Championships (WFC)
The World Food Championships (WFC), the globe’s largest food sport competition celebrating everyday culinary talent, is thrilled to announce a dynamic partnership with Celebrity Chef Eric Greenspan. Known for his innovative approach to cuisine, Chef Greenspan will take on the role of culinary advisor and host of the highly anticipated “Taste of WFC” event, a premium gastronomic experience. This new premium experience will give guests an insider’s look into the world of food sport, featuring live cooking demos, tastings, and unprecedented competition access. | When: Saturday, Nov. 9 and Sunday, Nov. 10 opening rounds, 9 a.m.7 p.m.; Monday, Nov 11, 9 a.m.-5 p.m. and Tuesday, Nov. 12, 9 a.m.-8 p.m. (awards 6-8 p.m.). | Where: Indiana Farm Bureau
Fall Creek Pavilion at the Indiana State Fairgrounds and Event Center, 1202 E. 38th St., Indianapolis. | Info: Tickets to the 2024 World Food Championships can be purchased at World Food Championships (indianastatefair.com) For more information about the World Food Championships, visit WorldFoodChampionships.com.
PERRY TOWNSHIP
Caregivers Support Group
Franciscan Health is hosting a weekly caregivers support group. The group is open to those who provide care for a loved one, who need a safe place to talk and interact with others who understand the frustrations, weariness, rewards, and stress of being a caregiver. Topics discussed during sessions include signs of caregiver burnout, ways to reduce caregiver stress, and self-care. The support group is free, but registration is required. | When: Thursdays from 2-3:30 p.m. | Where: Franciscan Health Senior Promise Conference Room, 8778 Madison Ave., Indianapolis. | Info: To register for the weekly caregivers support group, call 317-528-2636.
GriefShare
GriefShare is a faith-based program of grief support, help, and encouragement after the death of a spouse, child, family member, or friend. Led by trained facilitators Mike Louden and Roxanne Deardurff, the GriefShare sessions will include videos by experts in grieving, support group discussion, and personal study/reflection. All are welcome. Begin attending at any time; sessions are not sequential. | When: Wednesdays, Aug. 21-Nov. 13, 6-8 p.m. | Where: Calvary Lutheran Church, 6111 Shelby St., Indianapolis. | Info: Contact the church at 317-783-2000.
Learn about the Wright Brothers at the Perry Township Historical Society Meeting Ken MacNamara will be the guest speaker at the November meeting of the Perry Township/Southport Historical Society. Ken is a Navy veteran who has some stories to tell about Wilbur and Orville Wright and their Indiana connections. Come join us for an enjoyable and informative evening. | When: Tuesday, Nov. 19, 7 p.m. | Where: Perry Township Education Center, 6548 Orinoco Ave., Indianapolis. (Enter through the center doors at the northwest corner of the building) | Info: 317-787-5157
MOVIE REVIEW
By Bradley Lane
Writer and director James Wan hardly needs an introduction these days. He’s known for blockbuster horror franchises like Saw, Insidious, and the most profitable horror franchise of all time, The Conjuring movies. He’s made mainstream action hits as well, with Aquaman under his belt, and with his unprecedented financial success comes more financial freedom. This leads us to his newest original horror concept, Malignant
The film follows Madison as she begins to have visions of mysterious and violent murders that eventually are learned to be more than just visions. As Madison
SPOTLIGHT
FIDDLER ON THE ROOF
In a true celebration of tradition, Beef & Boards Dinner Theatre’s 2024 season concludes with Fiddler on the Roof, now on stage. This heartwarming, nine-time Tony Awardwinning musical marks its 60th anniversary this year.
Douglas E. Stark reprises his favorite role of Tevye, the poor milkman, who is the center of this touching story set in the tiny village of Anatevka. Tevye does his best to protect his five daughters and instill them with traditional values, even in the face of changing times and social principles. Iconic songs include “Sunrise, Sunset,” “If I Were A Rich Man,” “Miracle of Miracles,” and “Matchmaker, Matchmaker.” For owner Doug Stark, the ability to play Tevye has been particularly special. “Because it represents family,” he remarked. “And it’s the perfect mixture of a very
Malignant
A messy and confused thrill ride
becomes implicated in these crimes, her sister Sydney begins to help Madison unravel the secret at the heart of these strange occurrences.
The synopsis I provided is, of course, incredibly vague and that isn’t an accident. Wan has crafted a film whose strength lies in shock and awe. It is rare that a film comes along that is so well made and so unique in its story. This of course only exists as a result of Wan making so much money for Warner Brothers, effectively giving him artistic license and financial freedom to make whatever weird idea he wanted.
This isn’t to say the film is perfect; tonally, the film suffers from trying to be so many different movies. It starts as a sort of sci-fi thriller, then morphs into a horror crime thriller, and then again shifts into a quasi-action movie. It’s especially fun for trying so much and leans into its silliness often, but it is performed to various degrees of quality.
However, the biggest flaw in Wan’s film is the performance from the lead actress, Annabelle Wallis. I would often find her line readings would be incredibly distracting from the
movie because of how badly they stuck out from the rest of the cast. Certainly blame for this should be spread to the script and direction, but it’s just a shame one performance holds this film back. Thankfully, Malignant is still an enjoyable watch thanks to its high energy level and its “throw it all at the wall and see what sticks” attitude toward filmmaking. It is available to stream for free on HBO Max. –3.5/5 stars
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touching story, but it still has a universal appeal.”
Stark has played Tevye in each of the eight Beef & Boards productions of Fiddler on the Roof since becoming an owner in 1980, but he’s played the role even before that at other theatres.
From left: Chava (Sadie Cohen), Tzeitel (Jennifer Preston), and Hodel (Isabella Agresta) sing“Matchmaker” in Fiddler on the Roof, now on stage at Beef & Boards Dinner Theatre. Performances continue through Nov. 24. (Submitted photo)
An evening performance has been added on Wednesday, Nov. 20, and a matinee performance has been added on Saturday, Nov. 9. Tickets range from $55 to $82 and include Chef Larry Stoops’ dinner buffet and select beverages. Fiddler on the Roof is rated PG and children under age 3 are not admitted.
To see the complete performance schedule and to purchase tickets online, visit beefandboards.com. Tickets are also available by calling the box office at 317-872-9664. Discounts are available to groups of 20 or more. Call the group sales department at 317-872-0503, or email groups@beefandboards.com for details.
Bradley is a Beech Grove High School alumnus and has been enamored by film for as long as he can remember. He recently graduated from IUPUI, with a degree in Media and Public Affairs with a minor in Film. Bradley can
NIGHT & DAY
AN OPTION
LA MALQUERIDA
What if your idea of a perfect breakfast is a Mexican sandwich with refried beans, chorizo, and eggs, but your friend prefers an omelet, pancakes, biscuits and gravy, or French toast? Have it either way at Perry Township’s newest Mexican restaurant, La Malquerida. “Many traditional American breakfast options are on the menu as well as traditional Mexican entrees,” stated a Google reviewer. “The Tamale Oaxaqueño was my favorite!” Open daily for lunch and dinner as well, La Malquerida appeals to guests looking for an alternative to typical American Mexican fare frequently offered in the city. “Reminds me of my childhood upbringing,” wrote another reviewer. Customer favorites include birria soup, cheese tamales, arroz con leche, and the spice and flavor of the green salsa on enchiladas. Pair your meal with a Mexican Coke, Jarritos, or Aguas fresca, and enjoy a churros con Nieve (cheesecake-filled churros served with ice cream and chocolate dipping) for dessert.
Hours: Daily, 7 a.m.-9 p.m. Address: 3003 Madison Ave., Indianapolis. For more information, call 317-377-4296 or go to Facebook: La Malquerida Restaurant.
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Franklin Township Historical Society announces autumn events
The Franklin Township Historical Society is thrilled that so many attended and enjoyed our Marjorie Main trolley outing in July! We have more events this fall. Don’t miss our annual Harvest Dinner on Nov. 2 at noon, with its live music, door prizes, and Silent Auction. On Saturday, Dec. 2, visit our booth at Christmas in Wanamaker from 10 a.m.-3 p.m., then on Sunday, Dec. 8 at 6 p.m. come to Christmas at the Meeting House. This annual holiday celebration includes carols from our Victorian pump organ, stories of Christmas tradition and history, cookies, punch, and a chance to see special displays and our recently added exhibits. For more information visit fths.org.
HUMOR
By Torry Stiles
Top 10 worst responses after losing your election
10. “I left rehab for this?”
9. “What election?”
8. “Next time let’s tell everybody I’m Asian.”
7. “I don’t get it. Everybody I know voted for me. Who let all these other people vote?”
6. “Kissing babies gets you votes but get caught smoochin’ their mom. …”
5. “Maybe it was a bad idea to go on The View and call Whoopi ‘Walrus’.”
4. “That ain’t right. I paid good money for those votes.”
3. “We’re shipping the kids back to boarding school and headed to Maui.”
2. “But I get to keep the donations, right? I got child support.”
1. “At least we beat the Libertarians.”
Puzzle Time Answers SEE
Answers to HOOSIER HODGEPODGE: Pants: BELL BOTTOMS, CAPRI, CARGO, CHINOS, JEANS, STIRRUP;
Roll: CALIFORNIA, DRUM, EGG, HONOR, TOOTSIE;
Birds: CARDINAL, DOVE, ROBIN, SPARROW;
Cheeses: BRIE, CHEDDAR, SWISS; Colleges: BUTLER, MARIAN; Site: JASPER
Huevos rancheros are ready! Two deep-fried tortillas topped with ranchero sauce, chorizo, Oaxaca cheese, and eggs with a salad and a side of black beans. (Photo courtesy of La Malquerida)
LIFESTYLE
A ‘puzzling’ column
HUMOR
By Dick Wolfsie
Who will win the election on Nov. 5? I don’t know. Nor do you. Jeremiah Farrell, a former professor of mathematics at Butler University and creator of what is considered by many to be the greatest crossword puzzle ever, didn’t know either, so he hedged his bet.
Farrell passed away in 2022, but he left behind what Hoosier Will Shortz called his favorite crossword puzzle of all time. This is quite a compliment from a man who edited and created thousands of these brain teasers.
The puzzle appeared in the New York Times on election day in November of 1996, the day of the Bob Dole and Bill Clinton presidential matchup.
Farrell, an accomplished puzzle solver and creator, had done more than a few Sunday puzzles for The Gray Lady (The
New York Times’ nickname) and dozens of other publications. All Times’ puzzles are carefully edited and scrutinized; and certain rules, both written and unwritten, must be followed.
That’s why Farrell’s entry caused quite a stir. One of the clues (39 across) read: Lead story in tomorrow’s newspaper. It was a prediction of who would win. The uproar came from both Democrats and Republicans. It seemed like intentional bias, whoever they picked.
BOBDOLE or CLINTON. Note that both answers had seven letters. But how could they both work? That’s where Jerry’s genius was evident, as former colleague professor Lacey Echols told me, “He was brilliant and always festering with ideas.”
The puzzle had two correct ways of being solved. “BobDole elected” and “Clinton elected.” All the down clues were designed so that two different solutions would work. Shortz called it an “amazing feat, possibly the most creative crossword
Fall watering
GARDENING
By John Chapin
We’ve received very little precipitation since mid-August, and if you haven’t been regularly watering your shrubs, ornamental trees, and perennials, you might very well be disappointed with damaged or even dead plants next spring. For over a decade, we’ve had very dry, even drought conditions, lasting five to eight weeks every year, increasing to over 10 dry weeks last year, and looking to be even worse this year. Adding up the deficits for the past two years to this year, we are now almost three feet below normal. That’s a lot of water! This has lowered ground water levels, even with the wet springs we’ve been fortunate to enjoy. When we water, it’s quickly drawn deep down and away from the top few feet of soil. So, plants are extremely stressed, even mature trees, but especially shallowrooted or newly planted shrubs and trees.
It’s very important to keep watering, weekly and deeply, as long as temperatures remain above freezing during drought conditions before winter weather arrives. Even when a plant’s top growth goes dormant in late fall, roots grow until the soil temperature goes below 40º, which could be well into December or even the end of the year. If plants don’t get enough water during this time, significant parts of the root system will die, and the plant will not be able to support top growth next spring, resulting in dead sections or branches. The bewildering phenomenon of a shrub or tree flowering and leafing out, only to quickly have branches or even the whole plant die can occur.
No plant should go into the winter in dry soil. During drought conditions, trees and shrubs should be given a higher priority than lawns. Lawns can be replaced in a matter of months whereas a 20-year-old tree will take 20 years to replace. Plus, removing a dead tree will cost more than a few high water bills! For more guidance, check out regreenspringfield.org/water.
ever.”
Here are the clues:
39 Down: Black Halloween animal (Could be Cat or Bat)
40 Down: French word (Lui or Oui)
41 Down: Provider of support (IRA or Bra, and that’s my favorite)
23 Down: Sewing shop purchase (Yarn or Yard)
27 Down: Short writings (Bits or Bios)
35 Down: Trumpet (Boast or Blast)
42 Down: Much debated political initials (NRA or ERA)
Most people who did the puzzle did not realize there were alternative answers that could spell BOBDOLE_ELECTED or CLINTON_ELECTED. As noted, many complained that this was an inappropriate clue, showing favoritism by the puzzle creator and The Times.
I created something similar with DTRUMP and HARRIS. Here’s what I came up with.
Show of disapproval: Hiss or Diss
John Chapin is a retired school teacher and sole proprietor of Chapin Landscaping. He has over 30 years’ experience in the landscaping business. Contact him at jchapinlandscaping@gmail.com
Body part: Arm or Toe
Informer: Rat (I only need one solution here)
A sports judge (Abbreviation): Ref or Ump
Type of group: Ilk or Mob
A close relative (Slang): Sis or Pop
How’d I do? Notice how the alternative spelling can give us both candidates: HARRIS or DTRUMP. Of course, I would also have to create the entire puzzle, but I’m 77, so I’m not sure I have the time.
So, who will win the election? I don’t have a clue.
I have six.
Dick Wolfsie’s weekly humor column is published in more than 30 newspapers. Dick has written 14 books, including Mornings with Barney and Indiana Curiosities. His newest book, The Right Fluff, is a compilation of his most popular humor columns. He lives in Fishers with his wife Mary Ellen and a cat who doesn’t like him.
Tom Chambers
Tom Chambers (born Morton Thomas Chambers) aka, Tommy, died Oct. 15, 2024. Survivors: wife, Patricia; son, Gary (Felicia) Chambers; daughter, Cheryl Chambers; grandsons, Zachary, Tyler, and Ian; brothers-in-law, Ron Yagle (Lois) and Jack Junkins (Ginger, deceased sister). Arrangements handled by G. H. Herrmann Madison Avenue Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
David L Chance II
David L Chance II, 69, died Oct. 12, 2024. Survivors: wife, Carla Chance; daughters, Amber Chance (Alex Markov) and Emily Goben (Tony); brother, Timothy Chance (Becky); and four grandchildren. Preceded in death by his parents, David L. Chance and Gertrude E. Chance. G.H. Herrmann Greenwood Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
Gilbert E. Coy
Gilbert E. Coy, 91, Greenwood, died Oct. 17, 2024. Survivors: wife, Nadine; daughters, Patricia (Kevin) Wheatcraft and Sandra Coy; two grandchildren; four greatgrandchildren; and a great-great-grandson. He was preceded in death by his daughter, Vonda Gill; and brother, Paul Coy, Jr. G. H. Herrmann Greenwood Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
Wilbur Theodore “Ted” Dryer
Wilbur Theodore “Ted” Dryer died Oct. 25, 2024. Ted is survived by his son, Steve Dryer (Irina); and his daughter, Tammy Kelley (Dean). He was preceded in death by his brother, Charles Dryer (Betty) and his wife, Patricia Louise Dryer. G.H. Herrmann Madison Avenue Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
Rev. James E. Dye
Reverend James E. Dye, 82, died Sept. 27, 2024. Survivors: wife, Lynn; children, Jamie, Tim (Sarah), and Kristi (Mark); seven grandchildren; one great-grandchild; sister, Jacque; and several nieces and nephews. Predeceased: father, Byferd; mother, Edna; and brother, Bill. G.H. Herrmann Greenwood Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
Eleanor C. Eckles
Eleanor Catherine (McHugh) Eckles, 99, died Oct. 27, 2024. Survivors: children, Paul (Keitha), Dennis (Bonnie), Terry (Theresa), John (Linda), and Laurel (Bernie) Roberts; 13 grandchildren; and 16 greatgrandchildren, cousins. Predeceased: husband, Raymond; daughter, Judith, who died in infancy; sons, Raymond Jr. (Judy) and Daniel (Carol). O’Riley-Branson Funeral Service & Crematory.
OBITUARIES
James Edward Elamon
James Elamon, 81, Greenwood, died Oct. 15, 2024. Survivors: brother, Roger (Sandy); sister, Brenda; children, Michele (Matthew) Bailey; son, Scott (Kimberly) Elamon; five grandchildren; one great-grandchild; two stepsons, Keith and Christopher Krebs. James married Iris in 2010. G. H. Herrmann Greenwood Funeral Home and The Gardens at Olive Branch Cemetery.
Russell Allen Esselborn
Russell Allen Esselborn, 67, Indianapolis, died Oct. 22, 2024. Survivors: mother, Shirley; sisters, Sharon Blue, Karen (Steve) Couch, Susan Minton; brothers, Andrew (Kellie) Gordon and Danny (Lisa) Esselborn; extended family. Predeceased: father, Jerry Francis; stepfather, Orville Gordon. Arrangements entrusted to G. H. Herrmann Madison Avenue Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
Michael Robert Graves
Michael Robert Graves, 76, Beech Grove, died Oct. 16, 2024. Survivors: sisters, Nina Wilson, Gloria Powers, Linda Staten, Nancy McConkey, and Deborah Tietz; brother-in-law, Jerry Seifert; Dennis Butler; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins. Arrangements provided by G.H. Herrmann Madison Avenue Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
Marjorie L. Jewell
Marjorie L. Jewell, 96, Ponce Inlet, Fla., formerly Indianapolis, died Oct. 20, 2024. Survivors: brother, David (Frances) Wilson; sons, David (Rosetta), Paul (Trudy), John (Cynthia), daughter-in-law, Linda; 15 grandchildren; 28 great-grandchildren. Visitation: Friday, Nov. 8, 11 a.m.-1 p.m., 1 p.m. service, G.H. Herrmann Greenwood Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
Anthony “Tony” Aloysius Krebs
Anthony “Tony” Aloysius Krebs died Oct. 19, 2024. Survivors: wife, Sandra Dunn Krebs; two sons, Todd (Lara) and Matt (Denise) Krebs; and three grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his sister, Mary Lou Miller, and nephew Jeffrey Lee Miller. Services entrusted to O’Riley – Branson Funeral Service & Crematory.
James I. Martin
James I. Martin, 97, Indianapolis, died Oct. 22, 2024. Survivors: son, Jerry (Judy); daughter, Beverly (Ronald) Smith; three granddaughters; seven great-grandchildren, several nieces and nephews. Predeceased: wife, Marie; and his brothers and sisters. Arrangements provided by G. H. Herrmann Greenwood Funeral Home at The Gardens of Olive Branch.
George McGinsie
George McGinsie, 63, Indianapolis, died Oct. 20, 2024. Survivors: wife, Chris; sons, Tyler (Tiffany), Reese, and Charlie McGinsie, mother; Marilee; brothers, Michael (Jeff), Rick (Lisa), Charlie (Becky), and Jeff (Tina) McGinsie; in-laws; nieces and nephews; five grandchildren. Predeceased: father, Hank; son, Riley. O’Riley-Branson Funeral Service & Crematory.
Jerry D. Morris
Jerry D. Morris, 74, died Oct. 21, 2024. Survivors: wife, Becky; daughters, Jenny Mattes (Jeff), Emily Hawkins (Nathan), Paula Morris (Don); brothers, Ed (Karen), Terry (Veronica); sisters, Gloria Redfern, Mary Beck; two grandchildren. His sister, Rosalie Morris, preceded in death. Wilson St. Pierre Funeral Service and Crematory.
Jane “Janie” Edna Ping
Jane “Janie” Edna Ping, 81, died Oct. 24, 2024. Survivors: husband, James D. Ping; sons, Jim (Debbie) Ping, Joe Ping, John (Angie) Ping, and Jason (Julia) Ping; nine grandchildren; 10 great-grandchildren; brother, Joseph (Sherrell) Stewart. Predeceased: brother, Larry; grandson, Eric. G. H. Herrmann Madison Avenue Funeral Home & Cremation Center.
Bloor Redding
Bloor Redding, 93, Indianapolis, died Oct. 20, 2024. Survivors: children, Bloor Jr. (Patricia); Mary (Michael) King, Kathleen (William) Chrystie; six grandchildren; seven great-grandchildren. Predeceased: wife, Mary “Molly”; parents, Herbert E. and Margaret B. Redding. Service will be private. Arrangements entrusted to Wilson St. Pierre Funeral Service & Crematory, Greenwood Chapel.
Basic death notices (up to 50 words) are printed free of charge. Personalized Obituaries exceeding 50 words will incur a charge. Full-color photographs may be included for an additional fee. Families/estates or funeral directors are encouraged to send obituaries and photos to news@ss-times.com. Information received by noon Tuesday will be published Monday, space permitting.
Dean Swinford
Jason Dean Swinford died Oct. 23, 2024. He was born on Jan. 14, 1978. Survivors: girlfriend, Jennifer Morris; parents, Steven and JoAnn Swinford; brother, Jeremy (Rachel) Swinford; nephews, AJ and Joey Swinford; godchildren, Sydney and Bradley Thomas. Arrangements entrusted to Singleton and St. Pierre Funeral & Cremation Services.
The holidays are challenging when you're grieving a loss.
Brenda C. Sullivan
Brenda C. Sullivan died Oct. 21, 2024. Survivors: husband, Gerald (Jerry); brothers, Brian (Glenda), Bruce (Valerie), and Bradley Allinder; sister, Bonne (Lon) Sharpe; five nieces and nephews; four great-nephews and nieces. Predeceased: parents; sister, Joy; brother, Brent; son, Gerald A. Sullivan, III. Wilson St. Pierre Funeral Services and Crematory.
provides encouragement, support, and valuable tools to navigate the season. Join us for this holiday seminar
Jason
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✞ BAPTIST
Southwood Baptist Church • 501 S. 4th Ave., Beech Grove | 317-786-2719 | Proclaiming Christ because we care | Pastor John C. Jones II | Sunday worship 10:45 a.m. | Sunday school 9:30 a.m.
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CATHOLIC
*Good Shepherd Catholic Church • 2905 S. Carson Ave., Indpls. | (317) 783-3158 | Rev. Jeffery Moore, Sac. Minister | Sat. Mass: 4:30 p.m. | Sun. Mass: 9 a.m. | Ordinariate Rite 11:00 a.m. | Completely Handicapped Accessible | All Welcome!
Holy Name of Jesus • 89 N. 17th Ave., Beech Grove | (317) 784-5454 | Rev. Robert Robeson | Worship Times & Anticipation Sun.: 8:00 & 10:30 a.m. | Sat. Mass: 5 p.m.
Saints Francis & Clare of Assisi • 5901 Olive Branch Road, Greenwood | (317) 859-4673 | Fr. Steve Giannini | Sat. Anticipation Mass: 5:30 p.m. | Sun.: 7, 8:45 & 11:30 a.m.
✞ DISCIPLES OF CHRIST
First Christian Church of Beech Grove • 405 Main Street, Beech Grove, IN 46107 | (317) 786-8522 |
In Person on Sundays at 10:30 or Zoom, same time: 121 813 648
✞ LUTHERAN
Calvary Lutheran Church & School • 6111 Shelby St. Indianapolis | clcs.org | (317) 783-2000 | email: info@ clcs.org | Worship — Traditional: Sat. 5:30 p.m. & Sun. 8:00 a.m.; Contemporary: Sun. 10:45 a.m. | Sunday School & Bible Study: 9:25 a.m. | Engaging People In Christ through Connecting, Learning, Caring and Serving
*Concordia Lutheran Church and Preschool • 305 Howard Road, Greenwood | (317) 881-4477 | Worship Sun.: 9:30 a.m. | Mon.: 6:30 p.m. | concordia-lcms.com
Emmaus Lutheran Church • 1224 Laurel Street Indianapolis 46203 | Fountain Square 317-632-1486 | elcindy.org emmauschurchindy@gmail.com | Pastor Raymond Smith | Sundays: Bible Study 8:45 a.m., Service 10:00 a.m.
Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.
HEBREWS 11:1
We sing that faith is the victory, and we believe that by faith we are healed, but what is this thing called grace? “By grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; not as a result of works, so that no one may boast.” This is a Biblical reference to the relationship between grace and faith. Faith is a gift from God. Scripture tells us that faith is not something we can receive by works, but it also clearly states that faith without works is dead. I prayed to God for clarification, and this is what He shared with me. He answered me with a question. Which came first, God’s mercy, or God’s grace? I wondered what this had to do with my questions about faith. Then it hit me like a bolt of lightning. It was God’s mercy, or God’s love, that caused Him to offer us salvation by His grace, His only begotten
✞ NON-DENOMINATIONAL
Tallwood Chapel Community Church • 5560 S. Shelby St., Indpls. | (317) 787-5595 | The Gospel is a seed - come grow with us | Worship with us Sundays 10:30 a.m. Wed. 7 p.m. Prayers are with you during this time | BIBLE CHURCH, Ministry of HOLY WORD
✞ UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST
St. John’s United Church of Christ • 7031 S. East St., Indpls (U.S. 31, Southport Road) | (317) 881-2353 | Sunday Worship: 10:30 a.m. | Sunday School: 10:30 a.m.
Legal/Public
PUBLIC NOTICE AUCTION OF PROPERTY BY Nick’s Packing And Storage LLC. Public auction of personal property including household goods, furniture, nonperishables, belonging to the following persons: Kimberly Brinkley,Ti Spicer, Imani Mcgee , James Ice, Jane Doe On Thursday November 14, 2024 at 6:30PM The location for the auction is: Mike Heimel Auction Services 59 N. 2nd Ave, Beech Grove, IN 46107 PURUSANT TO IC 32-31-4-4, IC 32-31-4-5, IC 26-1-7-210(B)(5)
✞ UNITED METHODIST
Rosedale Hills United Methodist • 4450 S. Keystone Ave., Indpls. | (317) 786-6474 | Email: officerhumc@att.net | Senior Pastor Amy Lee | Sun.: 9:30 a.m. | Sunday School: 10:45 a.m. | rosedalehillsumc.com
Online learning prepares students for remote work
son. Jesus is the very grace of God. How we reflect Jesus in our lives is our response to God’s mercy. And when we reflect His grace, we grow in faith. The indwelling of the Holy Spirit, our comforter from above, is the very essence of our faith. The works we do will not gain us entry into God’s kingdom. They are the evidence of the fact that God’s kingdom is already within us. Are you reflecting God’s grace in the face of this world’s adversity? Faith is not something we can give to others, but it is something we are called to share. We share it best when we reflect God’s grace in all the battles we face.
God bless and go and have a great day.
Pastor Dan Bailey is the chair of the Mayor’s Faith Based Round Table for the City of Beech Grove, who believes in its mission statement to “Strengthen the Community with Christ’s Love.” He is a lifelong resident of Southside with his wife, four children and five grandchildren. He has also been a criminal investigator for the last 30-plus years for the Public Defender Agency.
PUBLIC NOTICE AUCTION OF PROPERTY BY Nick’s Packing And Storage LLC. Public auction of personal property including household goods, furniture, nonperishables, belonging to the following persons: Gerald Kirkpatrick Kirtz, Shannon Shoemaker, Angela Wood, Lewis Whitley, Ashley Barnett, Markiya Livingston, Unknown On Thursday November 21, 2024 at 6:30PM The location for the auction is: Mike Heimel Auction Services 59 N. 2nd Ave, Beech Grove, IN 46107 PURUSANT TO IC 32-31-44, IC 32-31-4-5, IC 26-1-7210(B)(5)
Statistics show that in 2023, nearly 22 million adults worked from home full time. Remote work rose in popularity during the COVID-19 pandemic, with many companies continuing to use the model. While this can be more convenient for many, remote work requires a slightly different skill set than the traditional 9-5. Online learning may be able to help students develop these transferrable skills and better prepare them for remote work opportunities in the future. Online school prepares students for remote work in a number of ways including time management, self-motivation, teamwork and communication, technical skills, organizational skills, work-life balance, and working flexible hours. Indiana Connections Academy is a tuition-free, fulltime public virtual school for students in grades K-12 and its companion school, Indiana Connections Career Academy, is a tuition-free full-time public virtual school with a special emphasis on career readiness for students in grades six-12. Both schools allow students to learn from a high-quality curriculum that can be tailored to their individual strengths, needs, and interests. By using a combination of asynchronous learning and synchronous LiveLesson® sessions, the virtual environment offers a unique blend of independent learning and peer collaboration. For more information about Indiana Connections Academy go to: connectionsacademy.com/ indiana-online-school. For more information on Indiana Connections Career Academy, go to connectionsacademy. com/indiana-virtual-school.
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Roncalli Spirit of Family Tradition Scholarship presented to Lily Bauman
On Friday, Sept. 20, 2024, between quarters of the Homecoming football game, Roncalli High School presented senior Lily Bauman with the 2024 “Spirit of the Family Tradition” Scholarship award. She was escorted by her parents, Julie (Rohrberg) and Doug Bauman, and Director of Alumni Relations and Special Events Brandi Young. To be eligible for this scholarship, the $1,500 scholarship winner must be a child of a Sacred Heart Central, Kennedy Memorial, Bishop Chartrand or Roncalli alumna, must be a senior who has attended Roncalli for three years, and must prepare a 500-word
Senior Lily Bauman with her parents, Julie (Rohrberg) R’95 and Doug Bauman R’95, and Director of Alumni Relations and Special Events Brandi Young. (Submitted photo)
essay sharing their feelings and experiences about the “Spirit of the Family Tradition” at Roncalli. Lily’s mom Julie (Rohrberg) and dad Doug Bauman were both members of Roncalli’s Class of 1995. Lily’s family attends Saints Francis and Clare of Assisi Roman Catholic Church. She is a four-year member of the Roncalli girls tennis team, Linus Club, and choir. She is manager of hair and makeup for theatre productions. For two years, Lily has been a member of the Campus Ministry Student Leadership Team and Anna’s Celebration of Life Board. She is also the French Club president and a member of the National Honor Society.
Hey, Mom?
By Carey Rudicel
Two words. One very loaded question. One that can even invoke terror at times. Are you like me, wondering if you should even answer? Why is it always me? Think about how you feel when you hear this question. It could end up costing more time, more effort, and more headaches. Not that our kids aren’t deserving of these things, because they are, but what if I am out of resources, out of time, out of effort, and don’t want another headache? We autopilot or errantly answer most of the time without thinking. Something to the effect of, “Yeah.” Then, before we realize what we’ve done, the flood gates open, the need is expressed, the solution is found, and we collectively move on. Usually in that order.
I remember my son, who was 3 years old, three incidents in the same afternoon. He said, “Hey, Mom, look what I did.” I answered him, I went over to where he was playing, and there was my couch, covered in peanut butter. Instant regret. Why did I answer? As I didn’t learn my lesson, he later said it again. “Hey, Mom? Help!” I answered the call again, rushed over to him, only to see he had had a potty accident on the floor in my dining room. This big mess! Man, I was annoyed, frustrated, and not having another ounce to give. Finally, an hour after dinner that night, we were playing outside. I catch him out of the corner of my eye, pulling a bright blue hydrangea head from its stem. I quickly looked away, so my back was toward him. I waited, then I heard it, “Hey, Mom? I have something for you.” When I turned around to answer, there stood my blonde, rosy-cheeked, little blue-eyed boy, with half of the hydrangea blossom he had ripped from its stem. I happily accepted his third gift of the day, with much less annoyance and very little frustration. I found myself regretting my feelings from the day’s previous events. So, why is it usually us moms? My thought is, because our kids know we will undoubtedly find the answer and end the “need.” We are the helpers, the fixers, the finishers. We know everything, until they are teens, but that’s another story for another time. I feel like I can handle most things, most days, but some days are just spent running with nothing left in the tank after homework, incessant questions, going from event to event, practice, lessons, etc. The fuel in my car’s tank, as well as my personal tank, is running on fumes, and I’m 30 miles from the closest gas station. The thing is, we, as moms, give everything we can to our kids. Usually. Mostly. I don’t want to even answer the questions when they ask, but I do. I need to answer, even if I don’t want to answer.
If you don’t know it’s OK to feel like that, I am telling you, it is. I, too, struggle with the exhaustive joy/terror of motherhood. We all have our own terrors of motherhood. The joy of motherhood is found in the small moments of appreciation that our kids provide. The tiniest moments of “thanks” happen more often as they get older, into their 20s, but it does happen. It happens with the littles, in their own way, like half-torn hydrangea heads. I love my kids more than I could love anything. I understand as I age, that my feelings of being overwhelmed, annoyed, frustrated, and running on fumes have indeed enhanced my journey as a mother. Being able to admit that I struggle with these feelings has enhanced my journey as a human being.
