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hank you all from the bottom of our hearts for the outpouring of support and excitement we received after the premiere issue of Town Life hit mailboxes last month.

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TABLE OF

CONTENTS

EDUCATION ISSUE LOOK FOR THE ICON

ASK THE EXPERT er e Cov On Th ard Godd is The Corinth ol of Scho

24 Fitness with Outlaw Fitcamp BUSINESS SPOTLIGHT 13 Turning Pie-In-The-Sky Healthcare Goals Into Your Reality with Connections Wellness ARTICLES

FEATURED ARTICLE

16 Experience The Goddard Difference

06 How To Pick After-School Care 09 Community Shows Their Love for Local Seniors

10 Inside Community and Education 14 Local Boy With Autism Graduates From Guyer

18 Assistant Coach Phyllis Brahinsky 19 Foodie Friday DFW: Indian Creek Smokehouse

20 Denton ISD & Lake Dallas ISD Prepares For 2020-2021 School Year

EDITOR’S PICK

28 Local Photographer Brightens Up Nearby Neighborhoods

23 Community Corner 25 Helping Feed The Community 26 Sheriff’s Corner with

Sheriff Tracy Murphree

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he dog days of summer are drawing to a close, which means back-to-school prep is right around the corner. Clearly, prepping

will be a little different this year, and plenty of questions still

abound as to what “school” will even look like. Will the kiddos be learning from home again? Will it be a combination of distance

learning and in-school time? What about us parents who barely made it through the last few months of last school year?

The typical stuff like buying supplies, showing up for teacher

orientations (in person or on Zoom), scheduling sports physicals,

and sifting through the latest fashion trends will keep us busy. But

here’s another item for the to-do list: figuring out after-school care.

IT WOULD REALLY HELP OUT IF WE HAD SOMEWHERE SAFE FOR THE KIDS TO GO...

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If we are back to school as normal, just because school ends at 3 p.m. for the kiddos doesn’t mean our work schedules do.

For many of us, we’ve still got another two or three hours left on the clock, and when you factor in the occasional early dismissal, teacher in-service day, etc., that can create a stressful balancing

act for any parent. It would really help out if we had somewhere

safe for the kids to go, and luckily, that’s where after-school care comes into play.

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churches, and more. Many of these programs are perfect

for families who need more affordable options and require

flexibility for those situations where there is early dismissal, snow days, etc.

ASK THE RIGHT QUESTIONS If you are forced to look outside your kids’ school, write down a list of your top questions ahead of time as you call facilities.

Here are a few to get you started:

1. Who is watching my child and what type of training do they have?

2. What schools do you service?

3. What activities do you offer and will my child have time to do homework?

SEE IF YOUR KIDS’ SCHOOL OFFERS ANY PROGRAMS Before you start looking to the myriad of childcare options

throughout Denton County, keep in mind that many school

districts have after-school programs with staff available as late as

6 p.m. The benefit is that your child doesn’t need to be bussed to

another location and will be surrounded by the same people and classmates they see in the halls each day.

4. How do you ensure all children are getting along?

5. How long have you been in business?

6. What are your hours?

7. Does the facility cater to kids with special needs?

A major concern for parents of children with special needs is whether or not the after-school program is set up to handle

children with special needs or learning disabilities that likely require individualized care and 1-on-1 instruction.

CHECK WITH YOUR SCHOOL FOR A PREFERRED-PROVIDER LIST

THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX

Many times, your school’s administration will have a

program that can meet you and your child’s needs. But if you

simply asking someone in the front office may yield a few decent

an after-school nanny with experience in education or finding

also providing peace of mind that these outside facilities have

school – especially if it’s a friend whose kid goes to the same

The tips above should definitely help you find an after-school

preferred-provider list for after-school care. Even if they don’t,

don’t feel comfortable, a few additional options include hiring

options. This will at least give you a short list to work from while

a family member or friend who can pick your children up after

been referred.

school or is in the same class as your child.

LOOK TO COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS

At the end of the day, we as parents want nothing but the best

Safe and healthy after-school care can normally be found at

Rather than wait until school starts, now is the time to start

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for our children. Selecting the right after-school program is

another piece to that puzzle, and it takes careful consideration. researching your options.

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COMMUNITY SHOWS

THEIR LOVE For Local Seniors

by Steve Gamel

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t has been more than four months since the coronavirus pandemic reshaped how we live, work, play, socialize, and keep ourselves healthy. Everyone has been affected in one way or another, and that includes our local senior citizens — many of whom came to rely on their weekly gatherings at Lake Dallas City Hall for games and lunch.

The group we’re talking about is widely known as the Lake Cities Seniors. And last month, a few selfless residents and business owners went all-out in making sure their elderly friends know exactly how much they are loved and appreciated.

So how did they do it?

On June 9, each of the group’s members was pleasantly surprised at their homes with a goody bag filled to the brim with everything from flowers, chocolate, and insulated lunch bags to reusable fabric face masks, hand soap, toilet paper, and small scented candles. All items were either donated by neighboring businesses or made by hand.

every senior received a set of three.

Walmart donated flowers, chocolates, candles, body wash, hand lotion, hand soap, toilet paper, boxes of facial tissues, and trash bags. Jennifer and Chris Gordon at Quick Ship Mail and Business Center added peppermints, sticky notes with pens, and lighted wall outlet cover plates. Modern Woodmen donated a stuffed bear for each goody bag, and the Lake Cities Chamber of Commerce provided the bags as well as insulated lunch bags from Daniels Air, Inc., tote bags, and fragrant soap cubes.

“These are people who are home-bound and need some loving at this time.”

Helping lead the charge was the trio of Melissa Pashon Shipe, Harmony Bays, and Michelle McLaren. These three generous ladies made face masks and ensured www.LakeCitiesLiving.com

“As the Chamber of Commerce for the Lake Cities, people come to us at different times for different things, and when we

were approached about the seniors, we were more than happy to contribute,” said Tina Henderson, the chamber’s president.

“These are people who are home-bound and need some loving at this time.”

Digger Crofford, activities director for the Lake Cities Seniors, said she is

grateful for the generosity and kindness of the community toward its senior

citizens. The Lake Cities Seniors is a

group of men and women over the age of 70 who were meeting every Tuesday from 10 a.m. to noon at the community

center in Lake Dallas City Hall. The group, which was started 13 years ago by then-

Mayor Tony Marino, is open to any senior citizen who lives in Lake Dallas, Hickory Creek, Corinth, and Shady Shores.

They play games like bingo and

Chickenfoot Dominoes and also enjoy a potluck lunch.

Unfortunately, the group has not met

in person since March. So when word

started getting around that these seniors needed some extra love and attention,

no one batted an eye. In fact, the goody bags were all delivered on the same

day and during the same time that their meeting would have been held.

“I truly enjoyed being a part of our

Lake Cities community in being able to support these seniors,” McLaren said.

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INSIDE COMMUNITY

FUNNY SHIELDS

COMMUNITY PHARMACY CORINTH Mon.-Fri. | 8:30am - 5pm | 3001 FM 2181 Ste. 450 • Corinth, TX 76210 On June 18, Lake Cities Chamber of Commerce celebrated the opening of local compounding pharmacy appropriately name Community Pharmacy Corinth. The chamber, Pharmacist Steven Walker and his team celebrated the event with a ribboncutting! Welcome to the neighborhood! photo courtesy of Diane Barton

Denton County resident, Alejandra Matiz has made eco friendly face shields for kids! These shields protect from direct contact with fluids and mists, and prevents face touching. Made from renewable raw materials. The headband is water resistant, and adjustable. Material is light, easy to clean, and reusable. With many patterns to choose from, purchase one today at www.Etsy.com/shop/MilibelulaOnTheFly. photo courtesy of Alejandra Matiz

INSIDE EDUCATION

SUPERINTENDENT OF THE YEAR MEDICAL RESERVE CORPS Students interested in the medical field and public health have been volunteering with the Denton County Medical Reserve Corps. This program was established after September 1, 2001. Currently, volunteers are helping with COVID-19 efforts: answering calls from residents and helping at test sites. Interested in volunteering? Reach out to the Reserve Corps Coordinator at (940) 349-2910.

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Dr. Jamie Wilson, superintendent of Denton ISD has been named the Region 11 Superintendent of the Year Award for 2020. This award honors outstanding Texas administrators for achievement and excellence in public school administration.

Congratulations, Dr. Wilson! photo courtesy of Julie Zwahr

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GRAND OPENING

LAKE DALLAS PD NEEDS MASKS 212 Main St. • Lake Dallas, TX 75065 The police department is in need of N95/KN95 masks and cloth masks. They have enough surgical masks. The N95/KN95 and cloth masks are needed for police officers and civilian staff to be worn anytime they come in contact with the public. If you are able to donation or make masks you can drop them off at the police station or contact Kristy Bleau, admin for the Lake Cities Area Buzz Facebook group.

Sat., Aug 1. | 11am - 2pm Jess’s Laundry Wash and Fold 312 S. Shady Shores Rd. Lake Dallas, TX 75065 Come out and support a locally owned and operated business and welcome them to the neighborhood. This grand opening event will include raffle prizes, Southern Drawl BBQ Food Truck, a DJ, and more!

Jess’s is a self-service coin laundry wash, dry and fold service open 7 days a week!

YOU WILL BE MISSED, DON STROBEL SUPPORT GUYER PTSA WITH AMAZONSMILE There is another way to support the Guyer High School PTSA by simply ordering online.

Most of us already use Amazon, all you have to do is turn on the donation setting and proceeds will go to help the PTSA! On the main menu of Amazon, tap on ‘Settings’ and click on ‘AmazonSmile’ then follow the on-screen instructions to complete the process.

Thank you for your support!

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One of the most wonderful crossing guards to Hawk and Crownover students passed away mid-June. Our thoughts go out to his family and everyone who knew him. Thank you, Don for your service to our community. You will be missed. photo courtesy of Corinth Police Department

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by Steve Gamel

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t was October 2018, and Nancy Bledsoe-Link, Licensed Professional Counselor and Lead Therapist, was meeting the team of clinicians at Connections Wellness Group in Denton for the first time. Everyone said all the right things — they spoke of purposeful growth, breeding a culture where employees and patients thrive, and having an unapologetic vision to reinvent the healthcare wheel.

Nancy felt like she’d fit right in. But as she left, but there was just one problem.

“I thought, ‘I believe these people; I see their heart. But it has to be too good to be true,’” Nancy said.

We’ve all been that skeptical new employee.

Sometimes, everything works out fine. But more often than not, there are chinks in the organization’s armor. Lofty goals aren’t met.

Customer service lags. Employees aren’t in the right roles, nor do they feel 100% supported. Even if everyone’s mindset is pure and a vision is in plain sight, they struggle to push the mark forward. This is especially true in healthcare. So, when a place like Connections Wellness grows rapidly while touting a model that’s never been done before, people think things will eventually go awry.

What Connections Wellness Group does works because their internal culture of

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having employees feel supported and encouraged created a unique springboard where they’ve bred an even greater passion for the work they do.

“Our passion is to be a hope and a light for the population we serve,” said Molly Garcia, Associate Administrator and Chair for Connections Wellness’ Primary Care Board. “Even during their most vulnerable times, our patients know that they are not alone. The vision is that we can be that sole provider for every patient we see.”

The vision at Connections Wellness has always been to be that place where, with one phone call, a patient can be treated for everything from mental health and family counseling to primary care and nutritional wellness. And they continue to expand their services to meet a full wellness model. They have a trusted and experienced psychiatry team and a dynamic team of therapists who provide play therapy, individual, couples and family counseling. Recently, they introduced Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) Therapy to serve those patients who have not successfully responded to medication management in the treatment of their depression.

Connections Wellness also added a Registered Dietitian to the team, who specializes in nutritional well-being,

Business Spotlight furthering their approach to providing a holistic healthcare model.

Their reach, services, and partnerships have patients believing they’ve found their forever care provider.

Jaylia Rentfro, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Lead Therapist, said clinicians are encouraged to be creative and thoughtful in both their visions and approach with clients.

“I’ve worked at places where it is lip service,” Rentfro said. “We got into this profession to chase our calling in life, and this is the environment I’ve always envisioned doing mine.”

Shae Reid, LPC, Certified Sex Therapist, and Lead Therapist said what they’ve created is a trickle-down effect where employees are emotionally and mentally open to giving back to patients in the most meaningful ways.

“We have heartbeat check-ins, which are used to see how we are doing,” she said.

“We get whatever we need, and I think that gives all of us a boost.”

And exceed those pie-in-the-sky goals every day.

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Local Boy With Autism,

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by Steve Gamel | photos courtesy of Alyssa McDonald

erhaps Cole Summers thought about receiving his high school diploma just like every other kid did on that makeshift stage at Texas Motor Speedway — with a slow, purposeful walk and a proud outstretched hand.

But this wasn’t your ordinary Guyer graduation day. And Cole wasn’t your ordinary kid.

So in true Cole Montgomery Summers form, he playfully took what can best be described as a Tim Tebow kneel (or Tebowing) before standing back up just in time to accept his diploma. Naturally, the Guyer faithful roared with cheers.

“He didn’t tell us that he was going to do that,” Cole’s mother, Alyssa McDonald, said. “The way he did it was so Cole.”

His father, Matt Summers, agreed.

“It was loud and windy that day, but I’m not lying … he did get more people to cheer for him than anyone else.”

While every graduate deserves high praise for taking that next step in their educational path, it was a particularly

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misunderstood for a long time and

regularly faced ridicule and bullying from his classmates. Teachers tried their best to be accommodating, but they either

fell short or the school wasn’t set up to

meet his needs. Things changed for the

better when he came to Denton ISD. Cole went to E.P. Rayzor Elementary, followed

by McNair Elementary for fourth and fifth grade and eventually Harpool Middle

School. He still craved acceptance from

his classmates, but he had a great support system with his teachers. At Harpool, he played football and was the equipment manager for the basketball team.

poignant milestone for Cole, who was diagnosed with Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD-NOS). The condition is now part of a broader category called autism spectrum disorder (ASD). While the people diagnosed with PDD-NOS are “higher functioning,” the condition does affect their social skills and ability to communicate in a variety of ways.

In Cole’s case, doctors told his parents that he’d need help for the rest of his life, including the possibility of not being able to work or graduate from school.

“What helped Cole was that he went to

Not only is Cole defying those odds, but he took classes at Guyer with the same curriculum as his classmates. He graduated with a cumulative 3.5 grade point average and is going to NCTC. He wants to be a sports broadcaster.

committed himself to excel in academics,

“We were told to be ready for him to live with me forever,” Alyssa said. “That fired us up, and we pushed and pushed. But on top of that, it was Cole’s will to succeed that made the difference. In his eyes, he was never going to be mediocre.”

The journey wasn’t easy.

Though Cole has one of the more infectious personalities you’d

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ever hope to be around, he was

elementary and middle school with the same kids,” Matt said. “Both of those

schools were challenging for him socially, but as his peer group matured and the

autism spectrum disorder became visible, and people became more educated, they finally had a chance to understand him.”

By the time he got to Guyer, Cole was

flourishing and quickly became a vital

piece to the Guyer social puzzle. He was

at every game, every pep rally, and even went to prom. He buckled down and

to the point where he’d wake up and go to school early for tutoring and stay late for more help.

Everyone knew Cole, and when he walked across that stage, everyone was eager to celebrate an incredible journey.

“He’s that kid who would never give up,”

Alyssa said. “He always said, ‘Well, if they

can do it, why can’t I do it?’ He’s grown so much in this last year. I can hardly believe it’s him.”

Matt agreed, adding that the road ahead is whatever his son plans to make of it.

“I don’t think any of us thought he

wouldn’t graduate,” Matt said. “The fact

that he did graduate was exciting because it closes one chapter and opens another.

And I promise you; Cole is ready for it.”

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lizabeth Aune was very young and didn’t speak a word of English when she and her parents came to America. Well, that’s not entirely true. Elizabeth knew two words: apple and Coca-Cola.

“I was highly caffeinated on the plane ride because the stewardess kept giving me Coke,” Elizabeth said with a laugh.

To say it was a big step to leave their home behind is an understatement.

Her father was 52; mom was 43 — and they practically had nothing to their names. But they were hard workers, and Elizabeth was just as eager to make the most of the new opportunity. So she set out to soak in the English language like a sponge, hurriedly looking up words she didn’t know and then asking her teachers to pronounce them so she could write them down phonetically.

Elizabeth’s thirst for knowledge eventually earned her a Bachelor of Science degree in Finance and an Executive Master’s degree in Business Administration from The University of Connecticut. She hasn’t forgotten what it took to get where she is today, and giving other children a better head start is what drives her as the owner of The Goddard School of Corinth.

“IT’S A MAGICAL PLACE”

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“I look at what we are providing our kids, and I remember that I didn’t have any of that,” Elizabeth said.

“When you first come [to America] as we did, you are really on your own.

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door so that children can’t accidentally

“EVERY CHILD IS UNIQUE, AND WE EMBRACE THAT IN THE WAY WE TEACH”

smash their fingers and security bollards in the parking lot to protect the property.

They also have a hand scan for security to get through the door to the inside of the school. From a health and cleanliness perspective, temperature checks are administered in the front lobby, where they also do drop-offs and pick-ups.

And you realize the impact a strong education can make.”

She added, “Why not give parents a chance to invest in early education so that their kids have a better head start?”

Elizabeth genuinely believes The Goddard School embodies that investment, and it’s hard to argue her point. For more than 30 years, The Goddard School has been a trusted name among parents and families, with 525 locations across the country. It’s an early childhood learning center for kids as young as 6 weeks old to 6 years old, and their proprietary program consists of STEAM (science, technology, engineering, arts, and math) fueled by a play-based curriculum where children are encouraged to discover their interests through play.

This unique learning style works because it grabs a child’s attention, caters to their individual needs, and encourages them to embrace education.

“Our lead teachers are required to have a bachelor’s degree in education and

Elizabeth invested in a sanitizing machine with UV light to clean and protect anything

development, and they create their own

a child or teacher comes into contact

to each child. Even our infants have their

and other materials. A separate company

kids are having fun, and they are building

agent on all surfaces, and that company

Carrie, who is so loved by her students

of a hospital and meat factory.

lesson plans and then gear those lessons

with, including blankets, chairs, books,

own curriculum. The best part is that the

comes out and sprays an anti-microbial

relationships. We have one teacher, Ms.

said Goddard’s cleanliness is at the level

that they all want to take her home. It’s a magical place.”

Beyond the education piece, Elizabeth

has gone to great lengths — even before

For Elizabeth, it’s all about creating an educational environment that’s safe and open to exploring every child’s potential.

the coronavirus pandemic — to set a new

“It’s such an amazing place,” Elizabeth

things you can find at The Goddard School

this magical experience at The Goddard

standard in health and safety. Just a few

said. “I look forward to every family getting

of Corinth are finger guards on every

School of Corinth.”

940.278.2020 | www.goddardschools.com 3531 Corinth Pkwy | Corinth, TX 76208

But as big as their footprint is, only 40 Goddard schools are in Texas. This makes Elizabeth’s location on Corinth Parkway both a hidden Lake Cities gem and a trendsetter. In fact, there’s a running joke that Elizabeth loves her job so much that she never leaves the school grounds. And that mentality has become a family affair. She and husband, Jeremy, are very hands-on and often have their children, Alexander, Olivia, and Finley, helping at the school.

Finley also graduated from a Goddard School in Keller.

“Every child is unique, and we embrace that in the way we teach,” Elizabeth said.

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Assistant

The head coaches she’s worked with say she’s the best assistant ever.

“Coach B represents exactly what an

assistant coach of the year should,” Lake

Dallas volleyball coach Kristinn Holbrooks said. “There was not a tournament we

attended or an away match we traveled to

where another head coach wouldn’t come

over and try to convince her to come work for them. She has worked with a different

Phyllis Brahinsky

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volleyball head coach each year for the

last four seasons and treats each one the same if not better than the last.”

Heather Van Noy agreed. She coached

volleyball at Lake Dallas before taking the reins at Guyer.

“She’s the most selfless person I’ve ever

hyllis Brahinsky sat comfortably at home, lightly glancing over a newsletter from the Texas Girls Coaches Association when her eyes did a double-take. At the bottom of one page was the organization’s announcement of the state’s subvarsity coaches of the year. Brahinsky looked to see if she knew anyone on the list.

And boy, did she ever.

worked with. She has a heart of gold and

Right there — smack dab in the middle of the list — was her name.

I’m excited that it has finally happened.”

is 100% in this for the kids,” Van Noy said.

“People she coached 30 years ago are still reaching out to her — because she leaves a lasting impact on you. I nominated her

in previous years. Jason [Roemer] did, too.

Brahinsky grew up in Irving and, as a

“You know how sometimes you read a list, and you think you see something, but you’re also not sure if your mind is playing tricks on you? That’s how I felt,” Brahinsky said. “I grabbed my glasses, and that’s when I saw my name.”

freshman in high school, became a

national champion in riding horses at

rodeos and other events. She went on to Tarleton State, where she played softball and was in the band. Believe it or not,

she also has a degree from Hamburger

She added, “I started tearing up. I ran into the other room to show my husband.”

University. She got into coaching a little

The TGCA awards recognize coaches from all six classifications in volleyball, basketball, cross country, and cheerleading. Brahinsky, a varsity assistant for Lake Dallas’ volleyball team and the head freshman girls basketball coach, was named the Class 5A-6A Sub-Varsity Volleyball Coach of the Year. Last school year, the volleyball team made it to the playoffs. She also helps when needed on varsity basketball, and last year, she was there when the Lady Falcons made it to the Class 5A region tournament.

instant pro.

But anyone who knows “Coach B” insists that this award is long overdue.

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later than most, but her experience —

plus that heart of gold — made her an And the best assistant coach you could Coach B is starting her 27th year in coaching, 15th at Lake Dallas. Yet she’d never been recognized at the state level, regardless of how many times she was nominated. During her time with the Lady Falcons, both the volleyball and basketball programs have gone through numerous head coaches, yet Brahinsky was that one constant. She embodies the “first one in the gym and last to leave” mentality and has tirelessly worked to give her life to athletes.

ask for — with or without a shiny award.

“I didn’t get to this point by myself.

You can give this award to me all you

want, but it’s their award, too,” Coach B said. “People ask me how much longer

I’ll do this, and I always say, ‘When people retire, they say it’s because they want to

spend time with family. I don’t have kids of my own, so these are my kids. This is my family. I get to be around all age

groups, and being around them is what I enjoy doing most.’”

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INDIAN CREEK Smokehouse

Indian Creek Smokehouse: Foodie Friday of DFW

by Jay Marks | photos courtesy of Foodie Friday DFW

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ur Marketing Director recently moved out to Pecan Square in Northlake and came to me the other day insisting we visit a new BBQ truck called Indian Creek Smokehouse parked on the corner of FM 407 and 35W. Her neighborhood has been blowing up with rave reviews about this place since they opened just a few weeks ago, with many people claiming that they’re serving up BBQ just as good if not better than some of the most-beloved BBQ restaurants in DFW.

The only words I needed to hear were “BBQ” and “food truck,” and I was in!

If you’re a fan of BBQ, you know that many of the greatest BBQ joints get their start as small operations like catering companies and food trucks.

of the BBQ he’s producing out of this

Indian Creek Smokehouse Owner and Chef, Todd Lorch, delivered food that surpassed all my expectations! The quality

so incredibly flavorful and tender. And

food truck in Corral City is incredible.

He uses only the highest-quality meats

and smokes them right there on the truck which results in brisket, turkey, sausage, ribs, and pork belly burnt ends that are

speaking of those burnt ends - Todd calls those his “superstar,” and after eating

them we understand why! You cannot

leave Indian Creek Smokehouse without ordering some of them.

Every great BBQ joint has to have some delicious sides to go with their meats,

and Todd definitely has those too! Slaw, Macncheese (yes, it’s so delicious, it’s

one word), and baked beans - the perfect

accompaniments to whichever meats you choose to order.

With everything you eat at Indian Creek Smokehouse, Todd’s culinary background shines through. And you’d be shocked to hear that when he’s not serving up BBQ out of his truck, he actually has another full-time job that’s feeding his ultimate dream of owning this place.

Head on out to Corral City, at the corner of 407 and 35W, to visit Todd at his truck and chow down on some of his incredible food. You can order it to eat in your car, take home with you, or you can bring your own chairs and camp out in the grassy area across from the truck and play a couple rounds of ladder ball.

Welcome to Indian Creek Smokehouse!

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Education Article

Denton ISD & Lake Dallas ISD

PREPARES FOR

2020-2021 SCHOOL YEAR

by Brooke Ezzo

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s we all know, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, students left schools for spring break this past March and did not return. As extended spring break turned into summer break and now school registration is looming in the background, there is still much confusion.

The ever-changing information from both federal and state entities in regards to the virus has left the district, parents, and caregivers on the edge of their seats as they wait for further instruction on how to reopen schools for the 2020-2021 school year.

With registration deadlines quickly approaching, school districts are coming up with possible plans for the new school year after getting guidance from the Texas Education Agency (TEA).

From correspondence via email with Denton ISD Superintendent Dr. Jamie Wilson, he said the district is prepared for whatever COVID-19 throws their way. They plan to be flexible and nimble enough to change at a moments notice.

“Our Plan A is twofold. We will offer face-to-face instruction with health and safety protocols for students and employees,” Dr. Wilson said. “And, we will offer a virtual option for parents who want to make that choice.”

Dr. Wilson added, “should social distancing requirements reduce the number of students in attendance at one time, we have contingency plans in place to rotate students into face-to-face instruction while filling in the gap remotely.”

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show evidence of daily learning.

This means saving all assignments

until the end of the week will no longer be applicable.

Districts have been on conference calls with the TEA commissioner several

times in the last few weeks nailing down guidelines for what remote learning will look like.

In-Person Learning This is understandably the most difficult decision districts will be making

considering opposing views when it comes to what health measures are effective against the virus.

Information from the TEA indicated they have purchased face masks,

thermometers, and hand sanitizer for

every district in Texas to help with the

The district’s plan to resume school instruction is on track to begin Wednesday, August 12, regardless of the delivery method.

start of the new school year. However, no further instruction was given from

Commissioner Morath in the conference call on mandated health measures.

In a newsletter from Dr. Wilson, he states that feedback from the community

and staff, alongside any guidance from On June 23, Texas Education

understand that its students’ health and

governing entities, will help determine to

guidance with all Texas superintendents

choose to keep their children at home or

to-face instruction available to all.

Commissioner Mike Morath shared by outlining expectations for remote learning.

Remote Learning at Home When students were not allowed to return to the classroom in March the district

quickly converted to a virtual learning

platform. To continue this form of learning, it will be a family choice but will come with the same expectations for learning as the

traditional face-to-face instruction model.

With recent spikes in positive cases

throughout North Texas, these districts

safety is the priority. With that, families that

what degree Denton ISD will make face-

are unable to return to a classroom setting

The district’s plan to resume school

will have access to a full virtual learning experience taught online by a district teacher or another online platform.

This includes more teacher interaction and more time in virtual learning and

completing lessons. Remote learning

might be semi-flexible, but based on state guidelines, the students are still required to mirror the level of work, commitment, and time on a task as they would with

in-person learning. Daily attendance rules

will apply, and students will be required to

instruction is on track to begin

Wednesday, August 12, regardless of the delivery method. Until then, parents and caregivers are encouraged to register their children during the traditional

time, during July, via an online platform, and indicate their intended model of instruction for their student.

Families should expect emails with

more information regarding the virtual learning option before anyone has to commit to a decision.

For more information from district superintendents and the updated plans for starting the school year, please refer to district websites, www.DentonISD.org and www.LDISD.net.

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Taking Community

RESPONSIBILITY

by Denton County Judge Andy Eads photo courtesy of Judge Andy Eads

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any of you have reached out in recent days as much larger counties with higher case counts have taken steps to require face masks in businesses.

I believe this situation does include wearing a mask, but it is about much more than a mask. It is about a temporary lifestyle change.

The COVID-19 pandemic fundamentally altered the way we go about our daily lives.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends washing your hands frequently, avoiding close contact with others outside of your household, covering your mouth and nose with a cloth face cover when around others, covering coughs and sneezes, cleaning

and disinfecting frequently touched surfaces and monitoring your health.

These few simple steps can also make a difference and reduce exposure: •

Instead of going to the grocery story multiple times a week, plan one or two trips instead;

•

Take advantage of patio dining at your favorite restaurants or curbside service and delivery at local businesses;

•

Worship responsibly – Sit 6 feet away from fellow congregants while attending services;

•

Wear a mask when interacting with people outside your household, this includes inside businesses and personal settings;

When you wear a mask, you are wearing it for everyone else. If all of us wear masks when in contact with each other, we help one another.

Moreover, check in with your vulnerable neighbors, friends and relatives to see if they need anything to reduce their potential for exposure.

I am sure we all know someone who could use a helping hand and I am asking us all to use this time to help our fellow residents. If you would like to volunteer to help in these efforts, contact us at volunteercovid19@dentoncounty.com.

These simple and innovative steps can significantly reduce the chance of exposure to the COVID-19 virus.

Our Denton County Public Health team closely monitors the situation in our county and, while the positivity rate has increased, the availability of hospital beds, ICU beds and ventilators has not increased dramatically. We continue to monitor these Denton County metrics daily as well as the metrics in the hospitals across DFW. As we experience an uptick in cases, it is not the time to panic. Instead, we need to focus our reliable, local statistics.

We each have the responsibility to take care of ourselves and our loved ones. Yet we also need to exercise community responsibility.

When you wear a mask, you are wearing it for everyone else. If all of us wear masks when in contact with each other, we help one another. That is what community is all about. It is also a courtesy to others working on the frontlines. The more voluntary participation we have, the less likely a mandatory mask requirement will be needed. Together, hopefully we can find a collective path forward to reduce COVID-19 transmission without resorting to mandates.

Do the responsible thing. Wear a mask.

For real-time Denton County Health Statistics check out www.dentoncounty. gov/COVIDstats.

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Ask The Expert: Fitness

Are You Staying

HYDRATED? IT’S SO IMPORTANT

Watch out for these other common dehydration symptoms: •

Thirst

•

Fatigue

• • • •

Headache Weakness Dizziness

Confusion

Take in plenty of fluids before you start experiencing the symptoms

by Jesse J. Leyva, Owner of Jesse James Fit & Outlaw Fitcamp

How to stay hydrated

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our lawn isn’t the only thing needing more water in the hot summer months.

Staying hydrated is crucial to your well-being year-round, but it can be even more of a challenge in the summer.

Why it’s so important to stay hydrated Water is used by every cell, tissue, and organ in your body. It maintains your body’s temperature, removes waste, lubricates your joints, carries nutrients to your cells, flushes bacteria from your bladder, helps your heart pump blood, helps muscles work efficiently, maintains your heart rate and blood pressure, and maintains a healthy metabolism. Kind of important, right?!

Staying hydrated is necessary—not just for survival—but for good health.

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Encourages weight loss

Boosts your metabolic rate

A dehydrated body On the other hand, dehydration can

from swollen feet and headaches to life-

other healthy ways to stay hydrated, but

it’s pretty hard to get the fluids you need without drinking water every day.

Keep a reusable water bottle next to you and keep it full!

•

If you have trouble drinking plain

water, try adding some fruit slices to it or choose carbonated waters.

•

warning signs.

Besides water, other drinks and foods can

It’s very important to be aware of the

The difficulty with dehydration though, is that your body hides the beginning of dehydration very well. It can be

Giving your body plenty of fluids has the following benefits:

thirsty or experiencing other warning

• • •

already know it…drink water. There are

threatening illnesses such as heat stroke.

hours before you start to actually have

Better energy levels and brain function Prevent and treat headaches Skin stays healthier Prevent constipation

The best way to stay hydrated is to…you

cause serious health problems ranging

A hydrated body

•

of dehydration.

symptoms. By the time you’re feeling signs, you’re already dehydrated!

One of the best ways to recognize

that your body is dehydrated is to pay attention to the color of your urine.

Pale urine means you’re well-hydrated.

Dark urine shows that you’re not taking in enough fluids.

Get in the habit of drinking water with your meals instead of other drinks.

also help you stay hydrated. Just make

sure you’re not choosing drinks that add unnecessary sugar and extra calories to your diet.

Water, water, water!

When we get into these really hot days ahead of us, it’s more important than ever to remember to stay hydrated.

But whether you’re inside or outdoors, exercising or relaxing, in summer or

winter—you always need to pay attention to staying hydrated.

Now drink up!

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Helping FEED

THE

Community

by Steve Gamel

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n times of crisis, it’s nice to see community leaders, local businesses, and everyday volunteers step up to support their community. Thousand Hills Church in Corinth did just that with a food drive that exceeded everyone’s expectations.

On June 4 and 5, Thousand Hills

partnered with a nationwide humanitarian organization called Convoy of Hope

to distribute more than 1,400 boxes of

mostly fruits and vegetables to families that have been severely impacted by

We just said, ‘Whoever is in need, come

get it.’ It turned out to be a great event.”

So how did such a large-scale event like this get started? With a phone call.

Convoy of Hope is a non-profit

organization based in

the COVID-19 pandemic.

Pastor Ben De Boef said

he had between 60 and 80 volunteers on hand for the

two-day event at Lake Dallas High School. Recipients came from as close as

nearby neighborhoods

We didn’t know where people came from, and we didn’t care. We just said, ‘Whoever is in need, come get it.’

to as far away as Dallas.

“We wanted to do our part and support the community,” De Boef said. “There

were 23 pallets of food. I didn’t even know it would be that much, so we turned a

one-day event into two and were able to

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Springfield, Missouri. They specialize in disaster relief

work and provide everything from food and supplies

to humanitarian services throughout the world.

According to their website, they’ve already surpassed

10 million meals in response to the

coronavirus crisis. De Boef personally reached out to Convoy of Hope

because he could see a need in his own community and wanted to act quickly.

“I said, ‘I know you guys do a lot of pop-

up events, and we’d love to partner,’” he

said. “I figured, if they’ve got access to

the food, we can make it happen. I can’t imagine how many of these they’ve

done throughout the country. It’s been

pretty cool to see how far-reaching they have become.”

Once the deal was made, all De Boef

and his congregation needed was help.

And that wasn’t hard to find.

“We were going to host it here at the

church, but given the size, I called in a few favors at the high school and was able to have it there,” he said. “My daughter and I started doing a lot of Facebook posts

to promote it, and we ended up having between 60 to 80 volunteers. The Lake

Cities Chamber of Commerce was there, a couple of local businesses that heard about it came to help, and many other volunteers. It’s definitely something we’d like to do again in the future.”

For more information on all the fantastic events at Thousand Hills Church, visit their events page at https://

thousandhillspeople.org/events.

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SHERIFF’S W I T H

“

S H E R I F F

T R A C Y

M U R P H R E E

THANK YOU OFFICERS

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he last few months have been very have served with honor and distinction challenging for law enforcement. throughout these difficult times. I have The COVID-19 pandemic followed watched over and over as they continue by civil unrest and anti-police sentiments to do their jobs and do their jobs well. has affected law enforcement agencies I’ve heard no complaints or whining, like nothing before. The Denton County as they have done all that I and their Sheriff’s Office and our local agencies respective Chiefs have asked of them. are no exception. In a time of uncertainty They go out every day putting their lives I want to take a moment on the line for Denton and tell you how proud I THEY HAVE WORKED County. They are moms, am of our officers. These dads, husbands, wives, TIRELESSLY men and women have sons and daughters who WITHOUT DAYS not had the opportunity have answered a call not to work from home. They many are willing to answer.

OFF TO KEEP OUR have been unable to social They are angry when a COMMUNITIES SAFE. distance themselves from member of their profession the duties they are sworn brings dishonor to that to provide. They have worked tirelessly profession. They are always and will always without days off to keep our communities be there when they are needed. I’m proud safe. These officers have gone from to lead these men and women. I am also being praised as essential workers to proud of our sister agencies we work so being ridiculed with calls of defunding closely with. You should be proud of their positions. These men and women them too.”

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LOCAL PHOTOGRAPHER

BRIGHTENS

UP NEARBY NEIGHBORHOODS

by Steve Gamel | photo by John Ousby Photography (www.john.ousby.com)

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magine a friendly photographer hurriedly running from door to door in your neighborhood. He stops long enough to take a few creative family photos while you stand on your front porch — all for free and from a safe distance while also benefitting a great cause. If you saw something like that, would you do it? And if so, how creative could you get?

For residents of Lantana and Corinth, the

help out two fantastic charities. People

were they creative!

also donate to the charities through my

answer was a resounding YES! And boy, It’s called The Front Porch Project,

and from April 15-30, Frisco-based

photographer John Ousby said he visited

were getting free photos, and they would website. As for the photos, there was a real sense that people were competing with each other. It was hilarious.”

500 homes in those three communities

Ousby’s website is proof of that. The porch

documented some pretty special

including a family of four and their dog,

of families were stuck inside because

and dress shirt with shorts to symbolize

everything from high school graduates

Meanwhile, his wife is in her PJs with a

photos complete with various props.

two daughters share funny messages on

All the participants had to do was meet

includes a young boy holding two rolls of

— including 170 on the last day — and

gallery has some pretty creative photos,

moments during a time when the majority

where the dad is wearing a suit jacket

of COVID-19. Ousby took photos of

the lax working-from-home environment.

and birthdays to hilariously creative family

glass of wine in hand while they and their

him on their front porch and smile for the camera. While the photos were free to

download from his website, participants

still helped Ousby raise $1,000 for Mission Moms and $300 for Frisco Family Services.

Both charity organizations work diligently every day to provide necessities to children and families in need.

“People were noticing what others were doing, and it just took off,” Ousby said with a laugh. “It was nice to be able to

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cardboard signs. Another family photo

toilet paper up to his ears while his dad

appears to be playfully sanitizing him with a bug sprayer.

“There were families, senior graduates in

their cap and gown, birthday celebrations, and just normal families coming up with fun ideas. They all put so much thought into these pictures,” Ousby said. “Some wanted to have a little fun while others were simply excited to get dressed up

since they hadn’t gotten out of their shorts and t-shirts for so long.”

Ousby said he isn’t sure where or when The Front Porch Project started, but he was eager to jump on board after talking to a few photographers in Prosper who had done something similar. Ousby is known for his sports and events photography, but since the coronavirus started and games came to a screeching halt, he’s had to look elsewhere to keep taking inspiring photos.

The Front Porch Project was the perfect antidote, even if only for a short while.

“You know if you aren’t doing something that you normally do every day, you start to feel uncomfortable? Well, I was getting to that point without any events going on,” he said. “I had to get into some sort of project, and this seemed like a good one to try. I knew there was a huge demand for it, but I wasn’t prepared for all of this.

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Masking THE ISSUE

by Jean Eisenmann | photo courtesy of Jean Eisenmann

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s the coronavirus pandemic continues, I reflect back a couple of months to when we were told gloves were a definite deterrent to contracting the virus.

Then once we loaded up on them, buying up every store’s inventories and stuffing them in every nook and cranny of the house, the new preventive became mask.

And my house smells like a latex factory.

the iridescent silvery stars reflect on the

ceiling and keep him awake. Can’t he just count them like sheep and nod off?

I wear masks with red and orange

flames when I’m feeling rebellious,

I’ve now become so overexposed to

because I hadn’t realized that ripping it

sequins for masked tie, uh, black tie

profound effect on me. I seem to have

causing observers to have nightmares.

feeling my age, gingham when I want

“mass mask marketing” that it’s had a

developed a bona fide mask obsession.

And to think of all the years I wasted coveting shoes.

off my face in one fell swoop might be

Today, I watched a local morning show

where the hostess announced, “Coming

up after the station break, we’ll learn how

It’s the new normal to have only half

to make masks from your husband’s old

public places draws more glares than if

masks, depending on the size of the

going about their lives wearing those

our masks. Ah, American ingenuity and

home; gardening, sunbathing, cleaning

opportunistic greed for good measure.

your face exposed. Not wearing one in

boxer shorts. One pair yields two to three

I picked my nose in church. People are

shorts.” We’re getting pretty crafty with

little fabric disguises and yes, even at

entrepreneurial spirit, with a sprinkling of

out the gutters, and jogging. And fainting,

I am accumulating quite a mask collection

because it’s just too hot to wear a mask outdoors in Texas.

On TV the other

day, a newscaster conducted an

interview remotely with an “etiquette

expert” who shared with us the proper way to remove

a mask without

offending anyone.

You know, that really enlightened me

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to feed my new

fixation. I have masks of every color for every occasion –

even a night mask

complete with blue half-moons and

silver stars. It’s a

little intrusive to

events, ‘70s psychedelic when I’m

to project innocence, and a red lip print when I don’t.

I removed my jewelry from its

designated box and placed the pieces

in a plastic bag. My grandfather’s college graduation ring from 1920 and my aunt’s engagement ring that she brought over from the old country don’t require the

special container with satin lining that my mask collection does.

In addition to its health benefit of virus

protection, I have come to feel virtually undressed without wearing a mask.

I see it as a burgeoning fashion industry, not only developing as we live under

health threats, but also as we become

accustomed to wearing them as part of

our wardrobes. However, there will always be skeptics who prefer to go commando.

wear while sleeping

In the future, despite whatever progressive

said it not only makes

one characteristic can never be replicated,

like Darth Vader’s, but

heartfelt – and unobstructed – smile.

because my husband

designs may evolve from today’s mask,

my breathing sound

and that’s the beauty of seeing a warm,

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