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Contents ASK THE EXPERT

12 Gardening with Complete Solutions BUSINESS SPOTLIGHTS 09 Connections Wellness Group: Champions of Radical Change

17 DFW Oral Surgeon: Your Oral Surgeons For Every Facial Emergency

ARTICLES 10 How to Talk To Your Doctor Without Pulling Out Your Hair

13 The Dirt On Dental Diagnosis 14 Inside Community and Education 16 Mental Health Services Are Important In Denton County

19 My New Hobby In A Nutshell 23 The Secret To 50 Years Of Marriage 24 Foodie Friday DFW: Rusty Beagle 26 Lantana Pediatrics: ADHD Online & In-Person School During The Pandemic

28 Your Uniqueness Is Never A Weakness 30 Election Day: Proposed Argyle Municipal Development District

32 I Love My Children, But They Came At A Cost 33 Sheriff’s Corner with Sheriff Tracy Murphree 34 Texas Chef of the Year

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veryone loves a good pun, right? I sure do! This time of the year is my favorite; cooler weather, pumpkins everywhere, the anticipation of neighbors passing out full-sized candy bars, and a good Halloween pun. Just a basic Internet search led me to a few good ones I had to share with you.

I hope these Halloween puns don’t drive you batty. Ha! Get it?

Want to hear some skeleton puns? They’re very humerus!

It’s going to be a great Halloween – I can feel it in my bones!

If you’ve got it, haunt it.

I have a few vampire puns, but they suck.

Ghosts make the best cheerleaders. They have lots of spirit!

Pumpkin’ out Halloween puns like it’s nobody’s business!

Use these puns with friends and family and see if you get a laugh. With all the seriousness going on these days, smiles are everything. I hope this helps get you in the spirit of this ghoulish holiday.

However Halloween and trick-or-treating looks like this year for you and your family, we would love to see pictures! Pumpkin patch photos and ones of your littles dressed up in their best costumes are always fan favorites.

We hope you enjoy this issue. And don’t forget to carve out some time for pumpkin decorating!

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Business Spotlight

CHAMPIONS

Of Radical CHANGE

by Steve Gamel

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e’ve all had that family member or friend who struggled with mental health problems growing up. We were always there for them to offer support, but we couldn’t help but notice other people looking at them differently. They categorized them as weird, shamed them for asking for help, showed a lack of patience, and perhaps even told them to “just get over it.”

behavior, SMART recovery, and many

other services depending on the need.

“I was seeing adults and looking into their history to find that a lot of their issues

started when they were children,” Nizami

said. “Those issues were never addressed,

The team at Connections Wellness Group knows there is a stigma surrounding mental health, from depression and anxiety to thoughts of suicide, etc. — and it’s preventing more children and adults from getting the help they need.

adolescent psychologist and the medical

“Mental health impacts people of all ages, whether they be 6 years old or 70 years old,” said Amber Gould, the Chair for the Champions of Radical Change Committee. “With school starting and dealing with the COVID-19 pandemic, we want to be able to help everyone in the community at any stage in their life.”

to simply not fitting in and difficulties

She added, “We want to make it easier for people to ask for help and 100% know it is okay to do so.”

old. Connections also offers 4-hour

Gould agreed.

programs per day for teens and adults in

“I had family, friends, and even myself

No one does that better than Connections Wellness Group. While they consistently deliver a full wellness model for their patients, their bread and butter is being champions for radical change when it comes to kicking the stigma on mental health. Dr. Syed Nizami, a child and

director for the PHP and IOP programs, said the first key is getting to individuals at an earlier age. We live in a comparison culture, and children as young as 4 and 5 years old face everything from bullying at home.

As they get older, eating disorders, social media, school, and other issues make managing their issues more challenging.

Connections Wellness has services that assist patients as young as 3 years

a packaged approach: Process groups, psycho-educational groups, experiential groups, psychiatric evaluations, nursing evaluations, and medication education.

Their therapies include cognitivebehavioral, solution-focused, dialectical behavior, motivational interviewing, cognitive processing, rational emotive

and you wonder, ‘Why didn’t they get help sooner?’ If we can work with someone

sooner, we can change the trajectory of their life.”

Tiffany Godwin, the team’s dietician, also stressed the importance of nutrition.

“There are people I talk to who only eat once a day because that’s all they can

handle,” Godwin said. “They are dealing with body image issues and eating

disorders. You don’t have to be scared to come to talk to us about those things.”

who grew up dealing with various

issues, and it’s interesting how you’re

automatically thrown into situations where you’re told to just get over it,” Gould said.

“That’s not something you just get over.

It’s something you must keep working

on and get help for. We want to help as many people as we can.”

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Medical Experts Article

HOW TO TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR WITHOUT PULLING OUT YOUR HAIR

by Contributing Writer

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ou go to see a physician because you want to learn about the issues you may be having with your health. The reality is you will only have seconds to say anything about your situation. After this, a physician will have a question, comment, or redirect the conversation. If you wonder if your doctor even hears what you’re saying, you are not alone.

Communication This is not everyone’s experience when

they go to see their physician, but it is a common one. There was a recent study

patient’s health. When a person disagrees with what a physician says, they

and not so much about your health history.

Both can help and physicians know that

more than 80 percent of proper diagnoses are made by effectively listening to

their patients. A list and notes can help a physician remember what they have

already told you. If you have your story

must respectfully communicate it.

may want to hear about your symptoms

and questions ready, a

Trust must be built and

IN MANY CASES,

communication with their patients. Less

them. There are certain

THERE IS A

these same physicians believe their talks

communicate effectively

DISCONNECT BETWEEN

disconnect between patient and physician

Make Notes

conducted that showed over 74 percent of physicians believe they have satisfactory

maintained between

than 22 percent of patients treated by

things a patient can do to

were adequate. In many cases, there is a

with their physician.

that is difficult to accept.

Working Together

It may help if you have

some notes about your

PATIENT AND PHYSICIAN THAT IS DIFFICULT TO ACCEPT.

It is understood that the better a physician

condition before you go

the higher a chance a patient will get

know the questions you want to ask, you

patient must work together to improve the

Patients have to realize that physicians

and a patient can speak to one another,

to your doctor’s appointment. When you

the correct treatment. A physician and

will listen more closely to the answers.

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physician will be ready to listen.

Honest and Accurate On the other side, it’s important to remember your

physician has many

patients who have not told them the whole truth about their

symptoms. This usually

happens when it involves something a

patient doesn’t feel comfortable speaking about. These topics often involve a sexual

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or alcohol and more. It’s important to try and work on developing a relationship with your physician where you are comfortable being

honest and accurate

They often follow various educational models such as rapport, empathy, support, partnership, explanations, cultural

PATIENTS HAVE

about any issue

involving your health.

TO REALIZE THAT

about the best way to

PHYSICIANS MAY WANT

It is important to ask

contact your physician with any follow-up

questions. Feel free

to communicate with

TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR

your physician about

SYMPTOMS AND NOT

the experience you’ve

SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR

Physicians appreciate

HEALTH HISTORY.

your care as well as had in their office.

this type of honest

communication. They believe it helps

them learn more about the care they are providing and how their office is operating.

Physician’s Barriers

competence, as well as trust --which is better known as RESPECT. There is also acknowledge, introduce, duration, explanation, as well as thank you -- or AIDET. Some medical experts try

If you are experiencing a communication problem with your physician, you may need to seek ways to correct the situation.

You should always work with a physician that makes you feel as if you can trust them. A doctor who makes you believe they are listening to what you have to say about your medical issues. At the end of a visit, you may want to go over with your physician what was discussed and make certain you are both on the same page.

This can lead to a better understanding between the two of you and result in more effective communication taking place.

to teach physicians how to effectively communicate with their patients emphasize the Four

Es. This involves engage, enlist, educate, and empathize. This method is used as a way to help patients become active participants in their health care plans.

Try to understand your physician is also facing things that put up a

barrier for them when it comes to effectively communicating.

•

Patients being confrontational and

resistant to answering questions by

those who are providing them care.

•

They may unintentionally use jargon a

•

It is possible there is a cultural barrier

•

A patient or physician could

patient could misunderstand.

between a physician and their patient. simply have a lack of effective

communication skills. This often

involves not knowing when or how to respond to specific nonverbal cues.

•

There could be an avoidance of social

•

All physicians have a fear of

and emotional issues. being sued.

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Ask The Expert: Gardening

FALL HAS ARRIVED

by PJ Kratohvil, Owner of Complete Solutions

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towards a shredded mulch vs. bark

hese cooler night time temps allow for a great start to the day if you’re out and about in the mornings! It’s a very exiting time of year to be in the business as everyone is getting “Fall Fever” Patio business is in FULL SWING & Landscape Teams have plenty to do!

or large cut. It will hold the best,

not float, and as it breaks down to

offer a great weed / moisture barrier (ensure the mulch is kept below

October is one of the most critical months when it comes to the exterior and landscape maintenance around your home. Here are a few things to contract out or add to your “To-do” list over the next few weeks: EXTERIOR: •

•

•

Ensure windows and doors are properly sealed. Restricting unwanted airflow will keep things comfortable inside and help reduce any unwanted guests.

All exposed wood surfaces are painted or sealed to ensure as the cold weather and rain moves in and out, things are protected and less effected by weather.

Check out your roof to make sure no shingles have come off during our last round of summer storms and that the gutters are clean and free of debris.

the brick line so you don’t chance having rainwater get in the weep holes during a rain event).

•

•

Cutback and prune this year’s growth. This will not only help to keep your beds organized but also promote new growth come spring.

Remove, cultivate, fertilize and add new 2” layer of mulch. We lean

plant larger shrubs and trees.

Allowing them to start rooting over

the winter months will make the heat of summer a lot less hazardous to

LANDSCAPES: •

Oct. thru Dec. is a great time to

their health.

•

Go ahead as things cool off and cut back on the irrigation. Watering a

couple of times a week and ensuring your rain sensor is operating

effectively should be sufficient and help your monthly spending.

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The Dirt On

Dental Diagnosis

by Dr. Matt Artho who is a proud resident of Argyle and his kids attend all four schools in the district.

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once came across a t-shirt that defined a dentist in the following way: “Dentist – noun. Someone who solves a problem you didn’t know you had in a way you don’t understand. See also wizard, magician.” Even as dentists, this feels peculiarly accurate as we attempt in a 10-minute consultation to dissect more than four years of dental education.

The reality is, educating patients on the methods of diagnosis is not only possible but creates assurance in your dentist and better oral health habits for yourself.

if a “sticky” spot is observed with a

Let’s begin with explaining the diagnosis of the common cavity.

Decay manifests itself when oral bacteria break down tooth structure with acidic bi-products. The use of dental x-rays helps visualize decay between teeth where bacteria harbor at the point of contact. Depending on the size of decay, it is typically a dark gray area on the radiograph that, when contained in the outer white enamel, can be slowed or halted with fluoride. But when exposed to the softer dentin, will require treatment to remove. Decay on the biting surfaces is usually diagnosed by determining

depths. Often this can be visualized on

dental instrument. Intraoral cameras are often utilized to help patients visualize these areas. Small areas of decay are

treated with fillings, but large areas that

compromise tooth and/or pulp integrity

may require more extensive treatment like a crown and/or root canal.

Periodontal disease is typically diagnosed using measurements between the tooth and tissue that indicate areas where bacteria have caused the tissue to

disconnect from the tooth at established x-rays where plaque can be seen beneath the gum. Gum bleeding indicates active inflammation in these areas, and this

inflammation leads to bone loss over a long period of time also visualized on an x-ray.

Be aware that treatment following

diagnosis is dependent on the philosophy of your dentist. Make a point to have

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your dentist explain your treatment

options and the reasoning behind them.

This will help ensure a healthy relationship between you and your dentist.

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INSIDE COMMUNITY

SMASHING PUMPKINS Sat., Nov 7 | 4:30pm-5:30pm Nine Spur Ranch 216 Pecan Acres Ln. • Argyle, TX 76226

HIGH SPEED TRAIN APPROVED The Federal Railroad Administration has approved the high-speed train that promises to transport passengers from Dallas to Houston in 90 minutes. Texas Central Railroad, the company in charge of the project, expects to start construction in the first half of 2021.

INSIDE EDUCATION

If you are looking for a fun activity for the kids, come out to Nine Spur Ranch with your pumpkins and watermelon. Everyone will have a chance to smash pumpkins and feed the horses, goats and pig! This event is free and open to the public. For weekly event updates at Nine Spur Ranch follow them on Facebook, @NineSpurRanch. photo courtesy of Brooke Ezzo

ARGYLE HOLIDAY MARKET Sat., Nov 7 | 9am-3pm Argyle High School 191 Hwy 377 S • Argyle, TX 76226

LADY EAGLES GOLF TAKES THIRD The Argyle Lady Eagles opened the 2020-2021 golf season at the Glen Rose Invitational at Squaw Valley at the end of September and finished 3rd overall! During the event, the Lady Eagles broke the previous 18-hole school-record of 325 by shooting a team score of 318. Congratulations, ladies! Have a great season! photo courtesy of Rick Herrin 14 | ARGYLE LIVING | OCTOBER 2020

It is that time of the year again when we start thinking about gifts for the holidays. Come and enjoy an afternoon by shopping some trendy and specialized items made and brought to you by local vendors. Items include clothing, décor, handmade soaps, quality cosmetics, handbags, jewelry, Argyle gifts and spirit wear, and much more. All proceeds benefit Project Graduation. photo courtesy of Rick Herrin www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com

TEXAS MOTOR SPEEDWAY DOUBLE HEADER Sun., Oct. 25 | 10am-7pm Texas Motor Speedway 3545 Lone Star Cir. • Fort Worth, TX 76177

AMERICAN PICKERS IN DENTON COUNTY Mike Wolfe and Frank Fritz and the team from American Pickers will be filming throughout the state during November and they will be coming to Denton County!

This popular series is known for exploring the world of antique “picking.” The team is looking for leads. If you or someone you know has a large collection of hidden treasures, send them your name, phone number, location and description of the collection with photos to: americanpickers@cineflix.com or call 855-OLD-RUST.

Texas Motor Speedway is welcoming fans to a special NASCAR Playoffs Double Header. One ticket gets fan into both the Texas 500 Cup Series and the SpeedyCash.com 400 Gander Trucks race.

Gates open Sunday at 10am. For COVID related guidelines and to purchase tickets, visit www.texasmotorspeedway.com and click on, Events.

LIBERTY CHEER OUTREACH NEW ALBUM RELEASE Argyle High School’s acapella group, Remedy ACapella, has released their second studio album titled Waves; a collection of songs filled with the highs and lows of life.

The songs will make you dance, cry, shout, and smile. The album is out on all major streaming platforms and can be found using the link, li.sten.to/PTLhGZt. photo courtesy of Remedy ACapella www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com

Liberty Christian School cheerleaders delivered homemade quilts made and donated by junior, Jackie McGuire’s grandmother, to Rockport Memory Care Center in late September. The blankets are made from plastic bags that are knitted together and given to people in need.

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MENTAL HEALTH

SERVICES

ARE IMPORTANT I n

D e n t o n

C o u n t y

struggles due to the risks of contracting

COVID-19. Thankfully, CARES Act funding allowed MHMR to receive funds as part of Operation: Connecting Lives to

purchase iPads to assist in connecting

with the elderly population, especially

those in nursing homes who have been especially isolated.

United Way of Denton County is another organization that has been on the

frontlines serving our residents in many ways including mental health. UWDC leads the Denton County Behavioral

Health Leadership Team, which advocates and facilitates for a collaborative personcentered behavioral health system to repair and restore lives.

Interested residents can attend a

free-8-hour course on adult mental

by Denton County Judge Andy Eads photo courtesy of Judge Andy Eads

health first aid to equip them with a

five-step action plan to respond and refer an adult who may be experiencing a mental health crisis.

O

ctober is National Mental Health Month, which provides the perfect backdrop to stop and assess exactly, “How are you doing?” As stressful as life is normally, COVID-19 has magnified stressors in everyone’s life and pushed the boundaries of our mental health.

Another population in Denton County

Statistically, Americans rank high in the realm of mental health issues. According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, 26.3 percent of adults 18-25 suffered from a mental health issue in 2018. During 2009-2017, adults 18-25 suffering from major depression increased 63 percent.

The senior population (55 and above) in the U.S. is estimated to have 20 percent of the demographic struggling with a variety of mental health issues, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. About 40 million adults, around 18.1 percent of the U.S. population, suffer with chronic anxiety, according to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America.

The U.S. spent $187.8 billion on mental

Incarceration provides a plethora of

abuse disorders in 2013. An estimated

still being among a constant population.

treatments alone, according to a

this population and keep them healthy.

who has a great need for mental health

assistance is our inmates, juveniles, and the public in crisis situations.

health conditions and substance

restrictions, rules, and even isolation while

$70 billion was spent on depression

Our County recognizes the need to serve

SingleCare report.

Denton County has spent over $1.3 million

These statistics remind us that many of

to provide mental health assistance for

struggling with mental health, suffering

a mental health crisis through the Sheriff’s

the added pressures of life due to the

and the Denton County Public Health’s

our neighbors in Denton County are

our inmates and the public experiencing

in silence at an even deeper level with

Office Mental Health Investigative Unit

ongoing pandemic.

Jail Health Program.

Denton County’s MHMR has reported a

During this month of mental health

elderly population since the onset of the

these initiatives and assist each other

true struggle to remain connected to their

awareness, let’s do our part to continue

pandemic. People are not coming out to

in ensuring mental health services are

seek assistance with their mental health

available to all in need.

If you have any questions or comments, please let me hear from you at andy.eads@dentoncounty.com or 940.349.2820 For more information, register for my newsletter at www.Dentoncounty.gov/countyjudgenewslettersignup.

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Business Spotlight

YOUR ORAL

SURGEON For Every Facial Emergency

by Steve Gamel

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s a board-certified oral and maxillofacial surgeon, Dr. John Shillingburg has heard it repeatedly where patients will come in with jaw pain and say, “I think I have TMJ.” In reality, everyone has TMJ, or a jaw joint — two to be exact. The correct terminology is Temporamandibular Disorer, or TMD, which can range from mild discomfort to headaches and severe popping and clicking in the jaw that makes it difficult for someone to open their mouth or even chew certain foods.

Regardless of the confusion between TMJ and TMD, those patients have come to the right place. The Temporomandibular Joint (TMJ) is one of the most complex joints in the body, and if you’re experiencing any pain in this area, Dr. Shillingburg and his team at DFW Oral Surgeons in Flower Mound want to help.

or a seven to a one or a two. If someone

tells you, ‘I’m going to completely get rid of your TMD,’ then that’s someone you need to avoid.”

“I always tell patients that I’d prefer to see them first for a thorough evaluation,” Dr. Shillingburg said.

“If there are no major abnormalities or anything like that, then your TMD can be managed conservatively. The goal of the treatment is not to eradicate someone’s

pain. It’s to help someone know what the triggers are and take their pain from a six

out tumors or anything else that would

necessitate surgical intervention. If none of those issues exist, Dr. Shillingburg

has close relationships with dentists in the area who can get you fitted with a

professionally made TMJ night guard.

“Patients will work with the dentist in a

conservative manner,” Dr. Shillingburg

said. “In rare cases where their symptoms

You don’t have to worry about anything with Dr. Shillingburg. He is trained

If someone tells you, ‘I’m going to completely get rid of your TMD,’ then that’s someone you need to avoid.”

X-rays, and a thorough evaluation to rule

and credentialed in

dentoalveolar surgery,

facial cosmetic surgery,

do not improve, the patient would

come back to me. Depending on their

situation, we would look at other options, including a joint flush out or a total joint

replacement in extremely rare instances.”

implant surgery,

Dr. Shillingburg’s facility is a true

facial reconstructive

treating any mouth and jaw condition.

orthognathic surgery, oral surgery, and dental anesthesiology. This allows him to treat

everything from a simple

tooth extraction to replacing every tooth in a patient’s mouth.

A quick visit to DFW Oral for your TMD

symptoms includes a CT scan, MRI, other

outpatient surgery center capable of

When you have an emergency, there’s no

reason to go anywhere else because DFW Oral Surgeons is equipped for it all.

Dr. Shillingburg is proud to serve

the residents in and around Argyle,

Bartonville, Highland Village, Lantana, Double Oak, South Denton, Denton County, and surrounding areas.

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MY NEW

Hobby IN A Nutshell

by Jean Eisenmann | photo courtesy of Jean Eisenmann

I

have a new hobby. Ever since Covid-19 forced us to become semi-homebound, I’ve had more time to be, well, bored. Yes, I’ve worked remotely, experimented with new recipes, and increased my housecleaning regimen (is my nose growing?). But I’ve lacked having a passion — such intense interest in something that I want to learn everything about it to escape the stresses of pandemic life. Quite by accident, I found it — squirrel watching.

Building, gently picking gnats, ticks, or some such whatnots from their coats. Adorable.

One squirrel, in particular, was my favorite and could be identified by a dark brown ring around his nose and mouth, much

It began innocently enough, with me

believe this critter was a male, and if you

like a COVID-19 face mask. I named

the window at the many varieties of birds

please consult the internet. Anyway, I

surrounded our birdbath and would lie

didn’t disturb the birds as they picked the

like an hour. Then, Corona would bury

idling on the couch one day, staring out

that our feeder and birdbath attract. Over the next several days, I set aside time to observe how

interesting birds are, and how they all

have personalities

akin to their species.

wonder how I came to that conclusion,

him Corona. He dug up the flowers that

became captivated by his manners, for he

prostrate on the cool soil for what seemed

THE ENSUING WEEKS FOUND MY PASSION FOR

Of course, I made sure the intense

daily housecleaning

was completed first.

THE SQUIRREL WORLD INTENSIFIED. I WORE A LOT OF BROWN.

Then, at 2 p.m. on

ground for dropped seed

some edible treasure reserved for a late-

He waited his turn, and

where his buttocks had been. Tears filled

from the feeder above.

night snack in the very same soil, right

with a nod to the flock as

my eyes.

they flew away, ate the

spoils. What a gentleman!

I was hooked.

Bye-bye, birdies.

I’ve met a few squirrelly

guys in my time, but this

a Friday, to be exact, it appeared. No, not

four-legged variety quickly became the

bounded into the yard. It was brownish

weeks found my passion for the squirrel

Sasquatch. And not a UFO. A squirrel

rust with big brown eyes and a fluffy tail,

which are very unusual characteristics for a squirrel. Of course, I had seen squirrels

in the yard before, but my focus had been on the feathered friends. All those five hours wasted that I’ll never get back. I www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com

new object of my affection. The ensuing world intensified. I wore a lot of brown.

They had such endearing mannerisms:

holding food with their little hands and

I asked my husband, Van, if we could put together a play area for them with a tiny slide, sandbox, and trampoline. If not,

how about a teeny-tiny bounce house?

Van slept in the guest room that night and called me “Rodent Mom.”

Rodent? Then it dawned on me. My

thoughts traveled back to fifth grade,

where I learned that squirrels were part

of the – gulp – RODENT family. Corona’s cousin could be a field mouse!

menacing claws, hanging upside down as

Let the squirrels live their lives. I’m

feeder like Godzilla on the Empire State

housecleaning regimen before I go nuts.

they wrapped their feet around the bird

getting back to concentrating on my

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Perfect Smile Get The

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eatherwood Family & Cosmetic Dentistry holds themselves to a higher standard to deliver high quality beautiful restorations that are biologically compatible in an infection free zone. Dr. Samantha Leatherwood, D.M.D. and her team believe everyone deserves a healthy, beautiful smile that makes their spirit shine through.

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Graduating from the Goldman School of

Dental Medicine at Boston University and completing a residency at Cedars Sinai

Medical Center in Los Angeles, she was

introduced to a comprehensive approach to dentistry.

“I bounced around the coasts to get a feel for different philosophies and to

be exposed to as much as I could,” Dr. Leatherwood said.

That exposure and the influence from her stepmother, who is also a dentist, helped

define the kind of practice she wanted for

her patients — a small private practice with a continuity of care.

“I was very fortunate having a stepmother who is really good at what she does and

having strong mentors,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “It made all the difference in the world.”

Dr. Leatherwood and her staff are

focused on building a solid foundation through comprehensive dentistry —

meaning they want the most pristine

oral environment for their patients by

improving functionality and overall health by lowering the overall systemic risk by eliminating oral disease.

“We look at it systemically. We can’t cherry pick one or two teeth because we look at how they all function together,” Dr.

Leatherwood said. “I focus on beautiful restorations that are

biologically compatible

and will last you as long as possible.”

Every smile is different and requires unique

protocols to save teeth.

Concentrating on using biological compatible future reactions.

“We focus on ceramic dentistry,”

Dr. Leatherwood said. “We try to

eliminate metal as much as possible

because there are so many people who

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Dedication to the patient is a primary

The 3-step process to sterilize the tooth is to confirm nothing is growing underneath the restorations and to ensure it is as solid as it can be.

Leslie is the practice’s office manager

“We want to make sure the investment you’re making will last you as long as possible,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “We can’t compromise on the outcome.”

assistant. Jackie is the dental hygientist.

“We focus on ceramic dentistry,” Dr. Leatherwood said.

“We try to eliminate metal as much as possible because there are so many people who have sensitivities.”

materials helps reduce

have sensitivities.”

Dr. Leatherwood added, “We do a sterilization process that is a lot different than what most patients are used to.

It lowers the sensitivity, it makes the restoration last longer, and it lowers the chance of them needing any further treatment on that tooth.”

This level of care is what sets Leatherwood Dentistry apart from the rest. Their diligence in customizing a treatment plan that will fit your budget, your needs, and your wants has led them to acquire a loyal following.

“The nature of what we do is incredibly intimate. It is really delicate to ask someone to trust me,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “We work hard to have strong relationships with our patients and we are really fortunate to have ones that are so supportive and encouraging.”

focus for Dr. Leatherwood and her staff.

Over the past few years, she had the

opportunity to build a strong team. From the first phone call and first appointment to the end of treatment, you are treated with the highest level of care.

and is the friendly face customers can

expect to see up front. Angela handles insurance and Payton is their clinical

They are completely focused on providing a memorable experience.

“It is great to be on this journey with

them. They believe in what we are doing,” Dr. Leatherwood said. “They see the

difference we are making for the patients.”

That difference is confidence. Dr.

Leatherwood rebuilds teeth based on facially driven smiles. She figures out

where the smile goes on the face and then works backward- giving each patient a beautiful healthy smile they deserve.

“Meeting people who don’t smile and

being able to restore that for them is such a huge honor,” Dr. Leatherwood said.

As a Denton native, Dr. Samantha

Leatherwood is grateful to be caring for

the community that raised her and for the opportunity to give back.

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THE SECRET TO

50 Years OF MARRIAGE

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by Brooke Ezzo | photos courtesy of Dale Revell

arvest residents Dale and Jane Revell recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. Together, they have literally done it all. Their incredible journey includes 16 relocations, 14 homes, seven motorcycles, two children, six grandchildren, traveling across the world, and beating cancer.

Dale and Jane’s love story began at a liberal arts college in Michigan. After graduation, Dale took a job with the Ford Motor Credit Company and quickly climbed the corporate ladder. Each step sent their family to a new location: Nova Scotia, Canada, Florida, and about a dozen more.

“We knew the moves were going to be a lot, and every place we went was a new adventure,” Jane said.

While living in Buffalo, NY at the age of 34, Dale was diagnosed with NonHodgkin lymphoma, a cancer that starts in the white blood cells. He went through

chemotherapy and radiation but never went into remission.

“They came to us and said if we wanted

him to live five more years, he needed a

stem cells and bone marrow to deliver it to people waiting for transplants,” Jane said. “We did 43 trips in three years.”

In 2015, Dale and Jane made one more move to Texas to be closer to their son and his family. They have plugged into

a church family, they volunteer, and stay

active together. They love to travel, go on cruises, and they walk their neighborhood daily.

“It hasn’t always been easy. It’s been a

rough road many times,” Jane said. “But,

we asked the Lord to use us, and I believe our faith is what has helped us reach the 50th anniversary mark.”

One might assume after five decades

together, travels and moves, children and work, and the emotional roller coaster

of beating non-Hodgkin lymphoma, that Dale and Jane hold the key to a long-

bone marrow transplant,” Jane said. “In 1991, Dale became one of the earliest experimental stem cell transplant patients.”

As a way to give back, Dale and Jane became bone marrow and stem cell couriers through the national program, Be the Match.

The Revells prayed for five more years,

but the Lord had more in store for them.

Next October will be 30 years since the transplant and 36 years cancer-free.

“We thank the Lord every day,” Dale said.

As a way to give back, Dale and Jane became bone marrow and stem cell

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“We flew all over the world picking up

lasting marriage. But Dale said the secret to marriage is that there is no secret. As long as there is respect and love, you figure it out along the way.

Dale and Jane are currently working on

a book about their life together, a token to pass down to their grandchildren,

titled, “My Life is a Journey.” The book will document Dale’s cancer, their years of

marriage, and all of their adventures along the way.

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Rusty BEAGLE

Foodie Friday DFW: Rusty Beagle

by Jay Marks | photos courtesy of Foodie Friday DFW

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f you’re looking for a place where “everybody knows your name” and where you can get some of the best wings and burgers in town, then look no further than the Rusty Beagle located off FM 407 on the Lewisville and Highland Village border.

Husband-and-wife team Charles and Jackie Carlock took over running the restaurant in 2015 after Charles’ dad, Rusty, passed away from cancer. The two have continued Charles’ father’s legacy and have created a beautiful environment where everyone feels welcome from the customers to the staff.

The Rusty Beagle is, by definition, a sports bar, but it’s also a gathering place for Little

League Teams, a family dinner spot, a Super Bowl party venue, a great place to grab some lunch, and so much more.

We did mention that these guys have some of the best wings and burgers in town - in fact, they recently won Best Wings from Best of Denton County 2020!

They have a wide range of sauces for their wings ranging from Mild to Asian Sesame to Mango Habanero, and you can order them naked or breaded.

Two of their crowd-favorite burgers are the Rajun Cajun made with blackened seasoning, sauteed mushrooms, pepper jack cheese, bacon, and a creole aioli; and their namesake burger - The Rusty - which is topped with tender smoked (in-house) brisket, shredded cheddar cheese, red onion, chipotle BBQ sauce, and two halved bacon-wrapped jalapenos. Yes,

that’s real life. That sucker is about 2 feet tall and it’s delicious.

The Rusty Beagle also has some killer sandwiches on their menu like their Triple Stack Clubhouse Sandwich and their Reuben made with house-made corned beef, sauerkraut, and thousand island dressing.

And, of course, at the center of the Rusty Beagle is their bar which has 24 taps with craft beers that rotate through seasonally, cocktails, whiskeys, wines, freezer shots, and more. They have Happy Hour every day of the week with different daily specials, and on the weekends you can find live music on the patio.

All in all, between the food, the environment, the people, and the sports, you’ve got to make the Rusty Beagle your new hangout. You’ll love getting to meet Charles and Jackie and the whole team and you’ve got to try out The Rusty Burger while you’re there!

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skillsets. Try to schedule the toughest subjects for them at their peak focus times. Allow breaks throughout the

ADHD

day for exercise and other stress relieving activities.

•

Use positive reinforcement by

focusing on your child’s strengths

and efforts. Kids with attention and impulse control challenges often benefit from specific,

immediate, and bold feedback.

For example, saying, “Great job

ONLINE & IN-PERSON SCHOOL DURING THE PANDEMIC

getting started on your assignment

by Dr. Rebecca Butler, Board Certified in Pediatrics by the American Board of Pediatrics

muttered from the kitchen may have

W

hen managing children, adolescents, and teens with ADHD, there is no onesize-fits-all approach. Every individual is unique in regards to the assistance that may benefit them in improving attention span, decreasing impulsivity and hyperactivity, and improving organizational skills. I treat and manage many ADHD patients, and each one of them requires an individual approach.

You must decide what style of learning best fits your child. Online learning often requires students to be self-guided in managing their time, motivating themselves to complete assignments and projects in a timely and efficient manner. While some students really struggle with self-guided learning, other students may find fewer distractions at home, making it easier to focus on tasks.

Learning from home also gives students a way to develop independence.

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Overall, the AAP advises that students

learn best in-person and encourages schools to reopen if they can do so safely in their communities. But whether your child is in school online or in person this fall, here are some ways to help your child with ADHD manage challenges during the pandemic:

•

If your child has an Individualized Education Plan (IEP), this plan should continue. An IEP is designed to support a student’s learning needs and must include instructional interventions, supports, accommodations, and modifications.

With new teaching methods, some students may need new or different accommodations. Inquire about making changes to the IEP or 504 plans to accommodate the new learning structure if this would be beneficial. Would reading or dictation software help with virtual learning? What about extended time assignments that need parental supervision, which may not be available during school hours? ​ tructure the day with frequent breaks S that can help them use their brains in different ways and build a variety of

right on time!” rather than “good job” very different effects.

•

Students with ADHD may benefit

from going over the material that their teachers already taught.

This can help them remember what they learned. In many cases, having more hands-on supervision and

guidance from parents may help.

If you’re working from home, let

them know when you are available

try to give them undivided attention during those times.

•

Teachers may be offering virtual office hours or other ways for

students to get more one-on-one

help. Please inquire about available services at your child’s school.

•

​School systems and teachers have also been taxed trying

to adjust to changed learning

environments. If you feel your

child is not supported well enough

in this new setting, reach out to your

school’s learning specialist, principal, or superintendent to advocate for

your child’s rights. And please seek your pediatrician’s support and direction as needed.

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Your Uniqueness

IS NEVER A Weakness

by Diane M. Ciarloni

photos of Haleigh by Sheldon Smith and photo of Haleigh with Christian Liberty School cheerleader courtesy of the Hurst Family

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aleigh Ryan Hurst, a 17-year-old senior at Liberty Christian School in Denton, is familiar with challenges. She lives in a small town between Denton and Decatur.

Actually, it’s a very small town. But its geographical limitations do nothing to restrict Haleigh’s dreams, which are big. Actually, they are VERY big.

Haleigh is beautiful, talented, smart, crowned the winner of multiple beauty pageants, and out-going with a full circle of friends. Life sounds idyllic for her, but that wasn’t always the case.

She was bullied and taunted in school about her teeth that “bucked” over her bottom lip. Braces pulled them back into perfect alignment, but that did nothing for her severe speech impediment. She could not master the pronunciation of the letter “r” and, on top of that, she suffered a lisp that made her speech sound something like the babble of a pre-schooler.

“I was different, and kids don’t know how to deal with different,” says Haleigh. “But I was really different! I was 5’10” in the sixth grade and wore a size 10 sneaker in the fourth grade. My hair was curly, and I was unbelievably clumsy. And don’t forget the speech impediment.”

Haleigh hated her differences. She was called names, made fun of and, sometimes, things even became physical, such as the instances when she was shoved into lockers. She couldn’t help but wonder why God made her so different and allowed her to feel so worthless.

She was called names, made fun of and, sometimes, things even became physical...

Kids are often cruel. It’s not always pre-meditated, but that doesn’t change the pain and the humiliation.

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The unpleasantness was overwhelming at times. But something inside Haleigh continued dreaming.

Haleigh’s parents bought 90 acres of land along with some horses. This would make most kids think they’d been transported to heaven, but Haleigh and her older brother....well....they just weren’t interested in the horse world. Instead, Haleigh, the tall, clumsy kid with the lisp, had turned her head toward beauty pageants. How? Why? www.ArgyleLivingMagazine.com

“I don’t know,” sighs Sara, Haleigh’s

mother. “I hate to say this, but I think she may have watched Tots and Tiaras on television. I refer to that as a “bling” pageant, and we weren’t going to

allow that. I thought if I let her be in one pageant, it would be enough, and she’d move on to something else. I was wrong.”

Haleigh began competing in what are called “natural” pageants, no

make-up allowed until 13. A judge

spoke with her after one pageant and said the only thing he found “wrong”

“Do not give someone power over your life,” she says. “Stand up! Use your voice to impact those around you! Use your words to spread encouragement.

Your differences should never be a weakness.”

with her was her inability to communicate easily because of her speech problem.

She told her mom and dad that she wanted to fix it.

The speech therapist they visited told them it would require two years to correct Haleigh’s speech patterns.

Haleigh did it in six months. Today, there is no trace of that problem.

Life moved on for Haleigh. Dance and

cheerleading became two more passions, eventually becoming captain of her

cheering team. Volunteering at Christian charities was another. She also added

working with children to the list, along with writing. She’s never forgotten the

harsh, hurtful words thrown at her during the days of bullying. There were no

books, then or now, that gave her hope,

so she sat down and wrote and published her own, titled Shine Your Light. Don’t

tell Haleigh “words will never hurt you”

because she knows they do hurt – badly.

That’s why she decided to use words for good and for healing.

Haleigh is a member of seven clubs at school, is president of her class, and

makes straight A’s. She doesn’t date a

great deal because, really, there just isn’t

time. She believes strongly that pageants, which she began at the age of nine,

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not she won. Sometimes, she left without a crown.

Haleigh’s most recent pageant accomplishment is the Miss High School America Pageant, a national event she qualified for by winning her state title. She competed against girls from every state and territory in the United States.

Her pageant success allows Haleigh to engage in public speaking at schools and various organizations. In turn, it provides her a pulpit for spreading her antibullying message.

“Do not give someone power over your life,” she says. “Stand up! Use your voice to impact those around you! Use your words to spread encouragement. Your differences should never be a weakness.”

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ELECTION

Day

Proposed Argyle Municipal

Development District

by Brooke Ezzo

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ue to COVID-19, the original election date to vote on the proposed Municipal Development District (MDD) was moved from early May to November 3, 2020.

There is information about the MDD on the Town of Argyle’s website, but to help residents understand this subject further, Murray Media Group reached out to Haley Pittman with the Town’s Economic Development Corporation to answer a few questions.

What is a MDD?

Basically, an MDD is a district that

Texas municipalities can create to fund economic development projects. The

district is funded through a portion of the sales tax within its boundaries. In Argyle’s case, the proposed MDD would include

the Town of Argyle and the Argyle Extra-

Territorial Jurisdiction (ETJ). The sales tax percentage that would fund the MDD is one-fourth of one percent.

What kind of district is Argyle currently?

Right now, Argyle has a Type B Economic Development Corporation, or EDC. The

EDC is also funded through a one-fourth of one percent sales tax, but it is limited to Town boundaries. One of the major

differences between the current EDC and

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collected for projects within the Town limits or ETJ. If this proposition passes, the EDC would be replaced with the MDD. What should the community know about a MDD? I would encourage Argyle residents take a look at our website and familiarize themselves with the map of Town limits and ETJ boundaries to get an idea of the areas where the proposed MDD sales tax would be collected. Another point to consider is that the sales tax will apply to anyone purchasing taxable items within the district, so non-residents visiting Argyle can contribute to the fund when they purchase taxable goods in Argyle or eat at one of our restaurants.

What will residents be voting for?

Residents within Town limits can vote either for or against replacing the EDC with the MDD. Voters within Argyle’s ETJ

can vote for the proposition to create the MDD only. This is because the EDC was

authorized by voters within Argyle limits when it was created in 2002, so only

that same body of voters can authorize its termination.

According to the Town’s website, the proceeds from the sales tax would be used for a variety of economic development activities, including

industrial and manufacturing projects,

retail development projects, recreational and/or community facilities projects,

housing projects and convention center facilities, and related improvements.

There are a few differences between the

Type B EDC and MDD. There is a resource on the MDD webpage that compares the

Type B EDCs and MDDs side-by-side so that

citizens can really get to know the similarities and differences. To find this information, visit www.ArgyleTX.com/287.

The MDD election will take place with the general election on November 3, 2020 from 7AM to 7PM at Argyle Town Hall, 308 Denton St., Argyle, TX 76226.

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I love my children,

BUT THEY CAME

AT A COST

by J. Drew Sanderson, MD | photos courtesy of Flower Mound Plastic surgery & Aesthetics Spa

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marks last month, I recommend checking

When discussing recovery, I tell patients

that it is a rough first week and then every

day in your second week you will begin to feel increasingly better. Most patients are back driving and running short errands

in their second week after surgery. I try to

get patients to take two weeks off of work simply because most people do not feel

like getting back into the daily grind after only a week. A gradual return to exercise

begins at three weeks with walking. Many

of my patients will begin walking up to five mile distances in the third week following

The best long-lasting results occur when

people get motivated at week six and hit BEFORE

the gym.

I am frequently asked, “How long do I have to wait after giving birth to

changes nearly as much as her abdomen

have a tummy-tuck?” First, you want to

during childbirth. The rapid increase stretches the abdominal skin past its

skin removal.

six, you may resume all typical workouts.

it out. No part of a woman’s anatomy

in size over a nine-month period often

hides below your bikini line following the

the procedure. At postoperative week

s promised, today I am going to review the process of restoring a woman’s body after childbirth.

If you did not read my article on stretch

abdomen. You will have a scar that easily

AFTER

make sure you are done having children.

While getting pregnant after having a

elastic ability to return to the original

tummy tuck is not unsafe, it will ruin your

most women a month or two after giving

must wait after birth is six months to

beautiful results. The minimum one

shape. This fact becomes obvious to

birth. However, what may be a little less obvious is the fact that the muscles and

BEFORE

have a tummy tuck. Other factors come into play based on each individual’s

fascia (thick sheet of connective tissue)

circumstances, but six months is

way, likely the destroying the six-pack

Finally, I occasionally get asked,

the minimum.

under your skin gets stretched the same you may have proudly displayed at the

beach in your youth. With the weakened abdominal muscles, the distance from

your belly button to your spine becomes longer. There are certainly differences in

the way each person’s abdomen appears after pregnancy, but some “snap back” more than others.

Should you have excess skin, stretch

marks, or a weakened abdomen after

AFTER pregnancy, there are some great options that can fix this; such as an abdominoplasty (or tummy tuck). During an abdominoplasty surgery, your surgeon will remove all of the excess skin on your lower abdomen and re-tighten your abdominal muscles which can dramatically change the appearance of your lower

“Do I need this?” My answer is always that nobody “needs” what I do, but if

your abdomen bothers you, we can make safely make it better. Many of my patients have said that when they look their best, they feel their best! Please understand, childbirth is a miracle and a beautiful thing; I am humbled by the women I am fortunate enough to work with daily in restoring their bodies.

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SHERIFF’S W I T H

S H E R I F F

T R A C Y

Intern to Captain DENTON COUNTY SHERIFF’S OFFICE SPOTLIGHTS CAPTAIN KELLY FAIR

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aptain Fair began her career at the Denton County Sheriff's Office as an Intern in 2005, where she shadowed Forensics and Patrol. In April 2006, she was hired full-time as a Detention Officer. She was hired in Patrol later that same year, where she worked various shifts as a Deputy Sheriff. In 2009, she was promoted to Patrol Corporal. In 2011, she moved into the Administrative Patrol Corporal position, where she assisted patrol shifts with supervisory duties, managed the Patrol Field Training Program, testified in grand jury hearings, and continued as the liaison to the water district and contract deputy positions. In August 2013, she was promoted to Sergeant of the Criminal Investigations Division assigned to Forensics, and in 2016 promoted to Criminal Investigations Lieutenant. In March 2017, she was appointed to Support Services Captain. Captain Fair currently oversees the Support Services Division, which encompasses the Professional Standards Unit, Quartermaster, Radio Services, Training, and Technical Services.

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“As a Texas Ranger in Denton County, I was introduced to Kelly Fair, a new

intern for the Denton County Sheriff’s Office. It was apparent from the start

that Kelly had a thirst for knowledge and an outstanding work ethic. Kelly was a

“go getter” and learned very fast. I then watched as Kelly worked her way up

Captain Fair completed the Peace Officer Academy in August 2005. Later that same year, she graduated with her Bachelor of Science Degree in Criminal Justice from Texas Woman’s University while interning with the Denton County Sheriff’s Office. In December 2012, Captain Fair earned her Masters of Business Administration Degree while working as a Patrol Corporal for DCSO. While working as Forensics Sergeant in August 2014, she completed the

University of North Texas Forensics Science Academy. Captain Fair currently holds an Intermediate Jailers license and a Master Peace Officer license. Captain Fair was awarded DCSO Officer of the Year in 2012 and 2017. She has also received the Academic Recognition award from Texas Commission on Law Enforcement. Captain Fair’s son, David, is currently an SPC serving in the United States Army in Ft. Hood. She resides in Denton County with her partner Joel.

in the organization and did a great job at each level with professionalism and

integrity. After being elected Sheriff, an opening for Captain became available.

It was my honor to appoint Kelly to the

rank of Captain. Kelly has continued to

be the professional she has always been

and serves the people of Denton County with ethical integrity-driven leadership.

I’m very proud of Kelly and her

accomplishments and it is an honor to

serve with her.” –Sheriff Tracy Murphree.

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TEXAS Chef of the Year

by Steve Gamel | photo courtesy of Stacey Miller

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orris Salerno might need to invest in a bigger trophy case. The longtime Executive Chef and owner of Bistecca steakhouse and Salerno’s restaurant was named Texas Chef of the Year on August 8 by the Texas Chefs Association.

Six previous winners cooked dinner for

member chefs throughout the year,

Country Club.

Chef of the Year has been named every

him and his friends and family at Denton At the end of the night, Salerno was

awarded a giant trophy to commemorate his win.

I love being a Chef,”

Chef Salerno said. “It is such an honor to have been chosen Chef of

the Year and to be the keeper of the trophy

until the next Chef of

the Year is announced

next year! There are so many GREAT chefs in

our state; I am humbled to be among some of the very best!”

including Salerno’s latest honor. A Texas year since 1968.

Canada, Sweden, and Thailand.

And yes, his food is off the charts.

Bistecca offers fine dining in the heart of

Highland Village. That includes everything from savory pastas to fresh seafood, veal, lamb, and high-quality steaks. With its

Last year’s winner, Dean Sprague, traveled from Corpus Christi to honor Salerno.

“I LOVE COOKING AND MAKING PEOPLE HAPPY. IF I’M REMEMBERED FOR ANYTHING, IT SHOULD BE THAT I MADE PEOPLE HAPPY AND THAT I HAVE A BIG HEART.”

in France, England, Ireland, Germany,

While this is a huge

honor, being recognized for his culinary skills is nothing new to Chef

Salerno. He began his culinary career in the

1970s at the Fairmont

Hotel in Dallas and later joined the prestigious

Lowes Anatole Hotel in

inviting atmosphere, the restaurant is

regarded as one of the more romantic

restaurants in Denton County. Bistecca is perfect for the local couple who want to

get away and celebrate a special occasion.

Salerno’s moved down the street from

Bistecca in 2019 and continues to offer many of the Salerno family classics,

including Carolyn’s Manicotti, Bob & Sue’s Seafood Linguine, and Chuck’s Chicken Mogia, as well as some new innovative menu items created by Chef Morris.

Dallas when he was only

Clearly, this is a mecca of great food

Morris earned “Dallas

customers won’t have to travel far to get

27. In 1989 and 1991,

by one amazing family, and now, loyal

The Texas Chefs Association (TCA) is

Chef of The Year” by the Texas Chef

the best of both worlds — from the Texas

Federation and is comprised of 14

of the Top 10 Young Chefs of Dallas by

“I love cooking and making people

and regions throughout Texas. The

numerous awards with the World Master

a chapter of the American Culinary

Association. He was also selected as one

dynamic chapters operating in cities

The Dallas Times Herald. He has also won

organization proudly recognizes its

Chefs Society Team USA in competitions

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Chef of the Year.

happy,” Morris said. “If I’m remembered for anything, it should be that I made

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GALACTIC GALLERY

IS OUT OF THIS

WORLD

by Brooke Ezzo | photo courtesy of Ben Stevens

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omewhere between a galaxy far far away and Diagon Alley, you’ll find a popculture art gallery that is bringing some of the most iconic movie moments to life.

Whether you want to travel Back to the Future or get advice from a lifelike Yoda statue, Galactic Gallery in Flower Mound is a destination spot for all pop art fanatics.

“It’s not your grandmother’s art gallery,” owner Ben Stevens said. “Think Batman, The Muppets, Harry Potter, Star Wars, and science fiction.”

The Copper Canyon resident has accrued an incredible collection of memorabilia

and rare finds over his 20 years as owner and operator of the ultimate comic book convention, the Dallas Comic Con. The fan expo is a playground for comics, anime, gaming, cosplay, and is a hub for celebrity sightings.

Stevens was first introduced to the fascinating world of comics at a young age, going to his first convention in the late 1970s with his father, who was a collector of many things including Disney comics from the 1940s.

By the time he sold in 2014, the Dallas Comic-Con had become a major event, hosting nearly 50,000 attendees from all over the world each year.

In his post-convention life, Stevens started collecting pop culture art more seriously.

That turned into a desire to build a gallery. The custom built 5,000-squarefoot building opened in September and houses hundreds of original movie posters, book covers, promotional paintings, animation cells, reproductions, and vintage sci-fi movie posters from the 1940s and 1950s.

“After being laid off from my tech job in 1994, I took that opportunity to start my own Dallas convention, which drew in a few hundred guests.”

“It had an impact on my life that I wouldn’t realize until much later,” Stevens said.

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own Dallas convention, which drew in a few hundred guests.”

“It’s really an extension of the things I enjoyed collecting at my own comic cons,” Stevens said. “Right now, 90 percent of the space is dedicated to Drew Struzan — an artist

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friendship began. At first, Drew passed on the idea because he did not understand why fans would want his signature. But Stevens persisted.

that few know who he is, but most have seen his work.”

Drew Struzan, a man George Lucas dubbed as “the only collectible artist since World War II,” is responsible for some of the most recognizable movie posters for classic films as such as “Hook,” “Star Wars,” “The Shawshank Redemption,” “Indiana Jones,” “The Muppets,” and dozens more.

“He literally painted most of the films I enjoyed growing up,” Stevens said. “It is an amazing thing to share. Building this gallery to show the world his work is my effort to seal Drew’s legacy as one of the great artists of my generation.”

Stevens said the desire to bring Drew to his comic conventions as a guest for fans to meet and get his autograph is how their

“I visited Drew in Pasadena, California and purchased an original Indiana Jones painting that was used for the movie poster,”

“How exciting it was as I look back to those visits,” Stevens said. “Our friendship grew, and I eventually got Drew to do a few Comic Cons all over North America.

Fans loved meeting him, and he enjoyed seeing their faces light up while they endlessly told him how much this or that poster art meant to them. It was the same feeling I had.”

The Galactic Gallery is currently open as “by appointment only,” but Stevens suggested the future may include open house days, special events, and celebrity signings.

“I visited Drew in Pasadena, California

and purchased an original Indiana Jones painting that was used for the movie poster,” Stevens said. “Thousands, maybe tens of thousands of posters are printed, but there is only one original painting.”

After the initial visit and multiple dinners, the friendship between artist and fan was formed and continues today.

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