Tailored Gents at Savile Row provides a concierge experience for couples planning the perfect look for their special day. We consider the theme, color palette, and overall attire wish list for the entire wedding weekend.
With two distinct garment construction types—Bench Made and Made to Measure—we offer tailored options to suit every preference and style. Based in St. Louis and serving clients nationwide, the experts at Tailored Gents at Savile Row bring your unique wedding vision to life with precision and style.
SHOES
PHOTO CREDIT: MIKE CASSIMATIS
SARAH KELLIE PHOTOGRAPHY
EMILY BROADBENT PHOTOGRAPHY
KARA KANIECKI PHOTOGRAPHY
Abby Rose Photography
Casey Jaye Photography
Casey Jaye Photography
Abby Rose Photography
Abby Rose Photography
Discover the charm and elegance of Silver Oaks Chateau, a French-inspired wedding venue nestled in the scenic landscapes of Pacific, Missouri. For nine years, our chateau has provided couples with an idyllic, private setting to celebrate their love. From the moment you arrive, you’ll be drawn into the magic of our grand ballroom, enchanting outdoor spaces, and our cozy Chalet guest house—perfect for turning your wedding day into a memorable weekend getaway. With years of expertise and a passion for perfection, ou r dedicated team at Silver Oaks Chateau brings unparalleled attention to detail to make your wedding celebration truly unforgettable.
When love is at the center of a celebration, every detail should feel intentional, immersive, and deeply personal. That belief is the heartbeat of this issue, and the driving force behind one of the most ambitious editorial experiences we’ve ever created. For the rst time in our history, we invited a live audience to be part of our editorial photo shoot, but this wasn’t just a behind-the-scenes peek. It was a fully immersive event, a living, breathing story told in real time through sound, movement, and meaning. The atmosphere shifted as the story unfolded, pulling our guests deeper into an experience that was designed not just to be seen, but felt.
That vision came from our designer and creative director of this issue, Laurel Fox. Her gift for telling stories transformed a simple concept into something soul stirring. She didn’t just create a set; she imagined an emotional journey. Every detail had meaning, guiding our guests through the chapters of a couple’s love story with thoughtfulness and grace.
From the moment you entered The Franklin at Soulard, it was clear. This was something different. A custom mural by Elysia King, suspended over the center table, became the heart of the space. Bold, expressive, and full of feeling. It wasn’t just art, it was a visual love story unfolding before our eyes, reminding us that every couple’s story deserves to be witnessed.
Then there was Café Carlos, a sunlit corner created as a tribute to Laurel’s grandfather. Inspired by the textures and spirit of Cuba, it brought memory into the room in the most personal way. It wasn’t just beautiful, it was soulful. It made the whole experience feel grounded. It took my breath away. Of course, the magic didn’t stop there. An extraordinary team of vendors brought this vision to life with heart, skill, and an unwavering dedication to storytelling. Florals arranged with intention. Draping and lighting created mood from shadow and glow. Chefs, stylists, dancers, and artists of every kind came together, not for a trend, not for a checklist, but to create a story. There was no single focal point, only a powerful, collaborative whole. A community of creatives building something unforgettable. This team showed us what’s possible when you lead with authenticity instead of assumption. When you let go of “what’s expected” and lean into bold vision.
In the process, they reminded me of something essential:
Your wedding is not a performance. It’s not a list. It’s not about what you should do. It’s about who you are. Your love, values, your way of seeing the world. When you let go of the script and follow what moves you, something beautiful happens. It's magic. Your wedding becomes unforgettable not because it’s perfect, but because it tells your story.
So, let this issue be your invitation:
To break the rules, tell your story, honor your truth and create something deeply felt and wildly personal.
With gratitude and joy,
Marianne Moore, Editor
Happily Ever A er
A history as deep as your love. Offering two beautiful, historic and breathtaking venues for you to consider, the Marriott St. Louis Grand is the perfect location for your special day.
A history as deep as your love. Offering two beautiful, historic and breathtaking venues for you to consider, the Marriott St. Louis Grand is the perfect location for your special day.
The Crystal Ballroom, located on the 20th floor of the hotel, offers spectacular views of the city and has been the choice for unforgettable events for more than a century.
The Crystal Ballroom, located on the 20th floor of the hotel, offers spectacular views of the city and has been the choice for unforgettable events for more than a century.
The Statler Ballroom served as the lobby of the historic Statler Hotel when it opened in 1917 and features marble floors, two-story columns and vaulted ceilings. Celebrate your love in historic elegance and modern comfort.
The Statler Ballroom served as the lobby of the historic Statler Hotel when it opened in 1917 and features marble floors, two-story columns and vaulted ceilings. Celebrate your love in historic elegance and modern comfort.
Make your tradition a part of ours.
You will be glad you said “I do” to the Marriott St. Louis Grand.
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Make your tradition a part of ours. You will be glad you said “I do” to the Marriott St. Louis Grand. MARRIOTT
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The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis offers the complete wedding experience. Ideal for intimate social celebrations to lavish receptions for up to 800 guests, our collection of premier venues boast the perfect setting for making memories, promising the most spectacular backdrop for life’s most important moments. Our team of skilled wedding advisors are here to help with the most intricate of details, ensuring your every need will be met with impeccable service and unfailing attention to detail. 100 CARONDELET PLAZA
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154 UNXEPECTED FAVORS
YOUR GUEST WILL LOVE
Functional, sustainable, and experience-based favors that won’t end up left behind.
PLANNING
132 WITH US IN SPIRIT
Heartfelt ways to remember and honor a loved one at your wedding.
144 WEDDINGS IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD
The Central West End. Where old-time charm meets urban vibrancy.
RESOURCES
186 RECEPTION SITES
List of venues in an easy-to-read grid.
192 THE SAINT LOUIS BRIDE ESSENTIAL GUIDE
Top vendors | services | locations | hours
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CONTRIBUTORS
Working behind the scenes
1.
LAUREL FOX
One Foxy Affair
Laurel Fox is rst generation Cuban American and the Owner and Creative Director at One Foxy Affair, a nationally recognized full-service planning and design rm specializing in the curation of fully immersive special events. With over 10 years of experience in the industry, Laurel specializes in designing and producing celebrations that embody the rich stories of her clients. Her background as a classically trained musician and a lawyer gives her a unique perspective for what is possible, and her design work has been sought after not only by discerning couples but also corporate clients and publications. Laurel’s designs have been featured in Southern Bride Magazine, Wedding Chicks, Brides and Weddings, and St. Louis Bride Magazine. When she is not producing events, Laurel can be found training for triathlons and spending time with her wonderful husband and two children.
2. KATIE + MITCHELL BENNETT
The Bennetts
The Bennetts is a multi-published wedding photography company based in St. Louis, Missouri, and serving couples worldwide. Co-owners and married couple Mitchell and Katie Bennett love capturing the compelling emotion and story that highlight the sacredness of marriage through authentic, clean imagery.
3. AARON + SABRINA MOORE
ForeverMoore Films
Aaron + Sabrina are a husbandand-wife photo and video team based in St. Louis, Missouri. Specializing in weddings and creative lifestyle portraits, and we're passionate about capturing life's most meaningful moments with artistry and intention.
4. FAITH SCHWEISSGUTH
Faith’s Florals
Faith is the owner of Faith's Florals, an award-winning luxury silk oral design studio based in Wildwood, Missouri. Faith is
passionate about sourcing the very best stems available on the market and spends countless hours each year researching and testing each bloom. She provides a truly unique experience for brides who desire the look of fresh, vibrant owers with all the superior qualities that luxury silk owers offer. Her work has been featured in publications including Wedding Chicks and Southern Bride. 2025 marks 11 years working in the wedding industry and 11 years married to her college sweetheart.
5.
CARLOS GALLEGOS
West End Creative
Carlos is a hairstylist specializing in bridal styling, with a background in lm, fashion, and editorial work. Trained in Los Angeles early in his career with companies such as Toni&Guy (Newport Beach) and J Beverly Hills, he brings over a decade of experience to creating timeless, personalized looks for each bride. His work has been featured in publications on both the East and West Coasts, as well as internationally, including editorial spreads and campaigns for bridal
venues and events.
Now based in St. Louis, Carlos has spent the past 10 years collaborating with some of the city’s most respected artists. He offers onsite services and works closely with makeup artists to ensure a seamless, elevated experience. Whether for local or destination weddings, Carlos’s calm presence, attention to detail, and dedication to his craft help brides feel con dent and radiant on their wedding day.
6. CHARLOTTE ROSE
Charlotte Rose Makeup
Charlotte Rose has 20 years of experience as a makeup artist.
Trained in London, her work has taken her all over the world and has been featured in publications such as Vogue and Tatler. Her clients range from celebrities to Royalty.
Charlotte is currently living in St Louis with her husband and young family. She prides herself on enhancing her client’s natural beauty. From trial to wedding day to reception touch-ups, she loves to work with brides to ensure they feel like the most beautiful version of themselves on their special day.
CONTRIBUTORS
7. DANNY + CHRISTINA WALSH
The Franklin of Soulard
As husband-and-wife owners of The Franklin, Christina and Danny are passionate about creating memorable experiences and deeply value the relationships they build with each couple. With extensive culinary and event experience, they offer a seamless, full-service approach that ensures every detail is thoughtfully crafted and every celebration feels truly personal.
8. EXECUTIVE CHEF CULLEY FREESE
With culinary experience from Louisville, Boston, and Kansas City and a passion for world cuisines, Chef Cully crafts memorable dishes at The Franklin. When he's not in the kitchen, you might spot him out on a run or cheering for his beloved Cardinals.
9. TONY VOLKMAN
Millennium Productions
During his 12+ years at Millennium Productions, Tony has worked in every division of the company. His extensive experience with event planning, hosting, videography, photography, and production services is only elevated by his high energy and creative air. Tony is a St. Louisian and, as all should, loves
Working behind the scenes
T-Ravs. He’s also a proud father of his son and daughter and two cats. When he’s not at events, he’s well… at events supporting the Carney’s Kids Foundation and serving within the Miss Missouri Volunteer Pageant System. Yet, the best part about Tony (as if all that wasn’t enough!) is that he treats every client like they’re family and every event with creativity and passion.
10. ELYSIA KING
Elysia King Art
Elysia King is an artist based in Saint Louis Missouri. She specializes in live wedding painting, murals, and custom commissions for clients worldwide. Elysia has experienced tremendous growth as an artist in the past ve years and is always excited to take on new creative endeavors. She is passionate about uniting people through art, and the wedding world offers endless possibilities
11. BECKY BOLLINGER Get Lit With Life Lights
“Becky With the Good Lights”, is an Air Force retiree turned entrepreneur, and owner of Get Lit With Life Lights, LLC, which she runs out of her small garage woodshop in Troy, IL. She specializes in custom builds with exciting air, giant marquee letters, and a keen eye for detail.
C heers to the Team!
A celebration this meaningful doesn’t just happen. It took a talented team of vendors to bring this immersive celebration to life. This one was pure magic thanks to them.
Design, Planning & Production: One Foxy Affair
Creative Director: Laurel Fox, One Foxy Affair
Venue: The Franklin of Soulard
Cuisine: The Franklin of Soulard, Executive Chef Culley Freese
Photography: The Bennetts
Film & Content Curation: ForeverMoore Photo and Film
Florals: Faith’s Florals
Mural Artwork & Favor Box: Elysia King
Stationery, Menus, Day of Paperie: One Foxy Affair
Professional Salsa Dancers: Carmen & Mauricio representing Almas Del Ritmo Dance Company
Hair Artist: Carlos Gallegos
Makeup Artist: Charlotte Monks
Local Wine: Wild Sun Winery and Brewery
Place Settings: Styled and Staged STL Cake: 3:14 Cakes
Custom Bar: Parties & Props Event Production Group
Seating Chart: Get Lit With Life Lights
Rentals: Styled and Staged STL + One Foxy Affair
The Happiest Ever-Afters Begin Here.
Resting on 7,500 acres with more than 100 glistening lakes, Innsbrook Resort presents one magni cent location with multiple adaptable venues to make your dream wedding a reality. From intimate and modest to large and extravagant, Innsbrook’s collection of premier indoor and outdoor ceremony venues promise the most spectacular backdrop for your special day that will leave you and your guests in awe. O ering professional on-site catering, a venue coordinator, rehearsals, receptions, overnight accommodations and more, Innsbrook resort promises an impeccable experience for life’s most important moments.
Innsbrook Resort Wedding & Event Venue, 993 Aspen Lake Circle Drive, Innsbrook, MO. 636-928-3366 ex. 9884, innsbrook-resort.com/weddings
Courtesy of Innsbrook Resort Wedding & Event Venue, by Ivory Grove Photography Bride and Groom: Audrey & Dave Rollinger
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Housed within the Moto Museum, Smith & Co. is known for its industrial edge, sleek lines, and striking backdrop of vintage motorcycles. This showstopping venue offers an unforgettable atmosphere and features multiple spaces ideal for ceremonies, cocktail hours, and receptions—perfect for classic events that are bold and refined.
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IN THIS ISSUE
TALK OF THE TABLE
Fun, Facts, and Unforgettable Moments
Tayler and Rich’s icebreaker had us smiling from ear to ear! When guests RSVP’d, they were asked to include a fun fact about themselves, and at the reception, those quirky, surprising, and downright hilarious tidbits were printed and placed at each table. It became an instant conversation starter, with guests trying to guess which fact belonged to whom. The result?
Laughter, connection, and new friendships forming right there over dinner. We absolutely love how this simple idea created such a warm, interactive, and memorable experience for everyone in the room.
IN THIS ISSUE Real Details We Love
MAKING A SPLASH Ending the Night with Pure Joy
There’s something totally magical about couples who embrace the moment, Payton and Grant gave us a perfect example.
As the evening wound down, the bridal party kicked off their shoes, let go of tradition, and leapt into the pool, formalwear and all. The scene was pure joy, laughter and that electric feeling of “why not?”. We love when couples give themselves permission to be playful, spontaneous, and totally in the moment. The best memories aren’t always scripted or on a timeline, they just happen, especially when you’re having fun, surrounded by your favorite people, soaking in every last second of the celebration.
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IN THIS ISSUE
SWEET INDIVIDUALITY
A Cake Made to Share
We love a good statement cake moment, and this one was absolute perfection. Instead of a traditional multi-tier cake, Sophia + Spencer created a showstopping tower of mini cakes, each with its own little personality and plenty of charm. The visual impact? Stunning yet so whimsical. It gave all the wow of a tiered cake with the added delight of personal portions. After they cut into their slightly larger top tier, the mini cakes made their way to a dessert station where guests could help themselves. A fresh, fun twist on tradition that felt just as thoughtful as it looked.
PHOTO CREDIT: SARAH KELLIE
PHOTO + FILM
IN THIS ISSUE
STATIONERY THAT TELLS YOUR STORY
Illustrations We Adore
There’s something so timeless and personal about incorporating artwork into wedding stationery. We’re completely smitten. From venue illustrations to custom watercolor portraits, these thoughtful touches turn paper goods into lasting keepsakes. Think about incorporating a sketch of a beloved pet for a playful personal touch to the cocktail napkins. We also love a skyline motif that welcomes guests to St. Louis, or stunning watercolor of the ceremony space that added elegance to a save-the-date. Whether it’s the city, the couple, the venue or even the dog, these little works of art bring personality to paper in the most meaningful way.
Lisa Meyer Photography
Rachel Myers Photography
White Klump Photography
Rachel Myers Photography
White Klump Photography
Astrid Johana Photography
REAL MOMENTS
Jessica + David
DECEMBER 30, 2023
SARAH CORBETT PHOTOGRAPHY
The Saint Louis Art Museum was a fabulous venue for our black-tie wedding. Dancing the night away with a full band surrounded by Van Gogh, Monet and Beckmann, it was dreamy.”
We said our vows in Sculpture Hall right outside Grigg Gallery, asking everyone to gather around us for the ceremony. Surrounded by their love and embrace, our wonderful photographer climbed a ladder to take a group photo that included everyone around us. We’ll treasure that memory forever.”
Details
VENUE: Saint Louis Art Museum
CATERER: John McGuire and Sarah Heckemeyer, SLAM Events Culinaire International
WEDDING PLANNER: ,Events Luxe, Ti any Halkitis
FLORIST: Botanicals Design Studio
CAKE: Sugar and Slice Bakery
CEREMONY AND RECEPTION MUSIC: Arvelle Keithley + Arvelle and Company
We are both very proud of our St. Louis roots and worked to incorporate our love for it in the little details of our wedding. Seeing that come to life, especially during our first look of the reception was incredibly special. Our venue, the Old Post Office had major sentimental value to us, as Danny's late father was heavily involved in the restoration of the building in the late '90s and early '00s. One of his business partners and closest friends gave a speech explaining the significance of the building, which many of our guests mentioned was one of the best parts of the evening.”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: Basilica of St. Louis, King of France, The Old Cathedral
RECEPTION VENUE: The Old Post O ce
CATERER: The Pasta House Company
WEDDING PLANNER: Celebrate by Cece
FLORIST: Roses & Mint
DESSERT: Clementine's Naughty and Nice Ice Cream
RECEPTION MUSIC: Twice on Sunday
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Millennium Productions
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
RENTALS: Millennium Productions + The Aries Company
TRANSPORTATION: St. Louis Trolley
VIDEOGRAPHER: Sydney Radetic Films
PET HANDLING: WedPets
GOWN: KYHA LUCIA gown and Wren skirt from the Bridal Parlour
FORMALWEAR: Savvi Formalwear
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Birdy Grey, each chose their own style
HAIR & MAKEUP: Heather Adams + Melissa Oberkramer
UNABASHEDLY KIND UNABASHEDLY KIND
Keith Lee Studios
Heather Roth Photography
REAL MOMENTS
Rielly + Josh
SEPTEMBER 20, 2024
LIZZY MORRISON PHOTO DESIGNS
My grandfather was the person who officiated the wedding. It was so special to have him be such a big part of our big moment. Having family surrounding us made the day even more special.”
Walking into the reception space and seeing what the Coronado turned the ballroom into was such a magical moment. Seeing my vision come to life was a surreal experience.”
Details
VENUE: The Coronado
CATERER: Butler's Pantry
FLORIST: Always in Bloom
CAKE: Celebrating Life Cake Boutique
CEREMONY MUSIC: Landolfi Quartet
RECEPTION MUSIC: Aaron Jones
PHOTO BOOTH: Fête Booth + Eye Candy Rentals
GOWN: Maggie Sottero, Valentino's Bridal
FORMALWEAR: Savvi Formalwear
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Show Me Your MuMu
HAIR + MAKEUP: Libby's Blowtique
Since 1961, Russo’s Catering has gained the trust of tens of thousands of wedding couples by providing exceptional food and legendary service. From elegant plated meals to creative international stations, our food always leaves a lasting impression. Explore the service styles and dishes that resonate with you in our newly designed Wedding Package portfolio.
Your perfect wedding weekend starts here.
Perfect Wedding Weekend
All your friends and family under one roof
Things to see, do & hear just steps away
Cocktails under the stars
A whiskey collection that wows
Dreamy Sunday morning send-off brunch
REAL MOMENTS
Anne + Chad
NOVEMBER 9, 2024
MIKE CASSIMATIS PHOTOGRAPHY
Focus on good food, good music, good entertainment. Personalize your special day by including things which are meaningful and unique to both of you. While the day was to celebrate us, we wanted to give the guests a unique and personalized experience where they would walk away saying, ‘I have never been to a wedding like that before.’
A multitude of sentimental heirlooms, family traditions, and fond childhood joys were weaved into the ceremony and reception. Different tiers of the wedding cake were designed with specific details to the bride. One tier replicated the lace on the bride’s veil and another included an heirloom brooch which Michael Temm from Temmtations by Wedding Wonderland recreated.
As fans of the Walt Disney Company, the we found pleasure incorporating the imaginative wonder of Disney magic moments, and an of course, the occasional "hidden Mickey"!”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: Manchester United Methodist Church
RECEPTION VENUE: Saint Louis Union Station Hotel Grand Hall
WEDDING PLANNER: Simcha's Events, Simcha Lourie
FLORIST: The Special Event Florist
CAKE: Michael Temm, Temmtations by Wedding Wonderland
GROOM'S CHEESECAKES: Temmtations by Wedding Wonderland
LATE NIGHT DISNEY INSPIRED SNACKS: St. Louis Snow Cone
CEREMONY MUSIC: The Rosewood Ensemble, John Cargile, Organist; Scott Kennebeck, Soloist; Emily Pikaard, Soloist
RECEPTION MUSIC: The Rosewood Ensemble and The Downtown Band, Nashville, TN
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: The Aries Company, Décorum and Styled and Staged STL
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
PAPER GOODS: Jenifer Sirkis Designs
CALLIGRAPHER: Emma Vonder Haar
TRANSPORTATION: BEST Transportation
CINEMATOGRAPHER: Matthew Jay Films
BRIDAL GOWN: Beautiful Mind by Sareh Nouri
BRIDAL VEIL: Sarah Grace by Sareh Nouri
BRIDAL CEREMONY AND RECEPTION HEADPIECES: Christie Lauren
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Jasmine, Mia Grace Bridal Salon
So many moments stand out! The band absolutely crushed it all night, and the dance floor props were a hit. At one point, our 'After the Tone' guest book somehow ended up on the dance floor - which made for a fun voicemail after the fact. One of our favorite unexpected moments was watching guests arrive for the ceremony from the wedding suite windows. It made everything feel so real and exciting!”
Details
VENUE: The Bourbon Ballroom at Old Monroe Distilling Co.
CATERER: Ces & Judy's Catering
WEDDING MANAGEMENT: Flawless Festivities, Wedding Day Management
FLORIST: Rouge Floral Design
CAKE: Katy Cakes
CEREMONY MUSIC: Dustin Coleman
RECEPTION MUSIC: Beaucoup Bottom Band
TRANSPORTATION: Central Illinois School Bus
GOWN: Savvy Bridal STL
GROOM’S ATTIRE: Bridal Manor
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Revelry
HAIR + MAKEUP: Holly Hildebrand, Hollywood Studios + Lauren Herbeck, Lux Studio
REAL MOMENTS
Britney + Adam
DECEMBER 7, 2024
ABBY ROSE PHOTOGRAPHY
The whole day was surreal. We both really focused on sitting back and taking it all in. It is still so crazy we had a whole day tailored to the two of us just being ourselves, madly in love, and having fun! We truly are best friends and if anything went wrong, I didn't know about it or care because every moment was perfect and we got to become Mr. and Mrs.! The room took our breath away. Every detail that the vendors put into our special day did not go unnoticed. I didn't realize you could capture who two people are so vividly! From the paper products to the linens, the candles, velvet napkins, fun glassware and flowers! I could talk about the flowers all day long. I have had a rotating lock screen on my phone from the day and it will never get old to look at all the gorgeous pictures”
Details
VENUE: The Solarium at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis
WEDDING PLANNER: Signed, Sealed
Delivered Events, Amanda Chasno
FLORIST: An A air To Remember
CAKE: The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis
CEREMONY MUSIC: Steiling Strings, solo violin
RECEPTION MUSIC: The Lustre Lights
AFTER PARTY MUSIC: DJ Brian Lewin
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Style and Staged STL
PAPER GOODS: On Three Designs
CONTENT CREATOR: The Ivory Social
VIDEOGRAPHER: Bobby Garner Visuals
GOWN: Dany Tabet from Mimi's Bridal at Town & Country
FORMALWEAR: Jos. A. Bank
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Jenny Yoo, Bella Bridesmaids St. Louis
HAIR & MAKEUP: Nory Beebe
REAL MOMENTS
Maddie + Cauy
SEPTEMBER 7, 2024
SAMMIE PLOCH PHOTO
Don’t let the stress take over from the fun of planning. I know it can and will get overwhelming, but that could make the whole process not fun, and it should be fun! Identify your priorities with your partner and go from there. The day won't be perfect so don't expect it to be. Something won't go to plan, but that is okay, it will still be a perfect day!”
Details
VENUE: The Venue at Maison du Lac
CATERER: The Pasta House Company
CAKE: 3:14 Cakes
MUSIC: Millennium Productions
TRANSPORTATION: At Your Service Shuttle
VIDEOGRAPHER: Millennium Productions
GOWN: Savvy Bridal STL
FORMALWEAR: Savvi Formalwear
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Birdy Grey
HAIR + MAKEUP: Studio Bride
REAL MOMENTS
Ilana + Richard
OCTOBER 19, 2024
MIKE CASSIMATIS PHOTOGRAPHY
We approached wedding planning from the guest experience, as most of our guests traveled to St. Louis for our nuptials. It was important to have great music and gift baskets! We loved dancing all night to The Downtown Band with our friends and family, and Big Head Cutouts of ourselves and our dog, Cleo! Richard wanted our gift baskets to look like presents. We used a high gloss white box with stone linen washed ribbon with a round gift tag that said, ‘Welcome to The Lou!’ Inside the box included curated treats from St. Louis. We also created a welcome note that included the weekend agenda and watercolor illustration of us walking our dog, Cleo. Lastly, the gift box included a sugar cookie of our dog, Cleo. The Cleo Cookie not only captured his spirit but also tasted delicious!”
Details
VENUE: The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis
WEDDING PLANNER: Simcha’s Events, Simcha Lourie
FLORIST: Belli Fiori
CAKE: Ritz Carlton, St. Louis
RECEPTION MUSIC: Downtown Band
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Decorum
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
RENTALS: The Aries Co.
PAPER GOODS: Jenifer Sirkis, Jenifer Sirkis Designs
PHOTOBOOTH: STL Photo Party
VIDEOGRAPHER: Sweet Tea Films
GOWNS: Oscar de la Renta
FORMALWEAR: Balani
HAIR + MAKEUP: Debbie Sansone, Salon Marosie
Rachel Myers Photography
Victoria E Photo + Film
Tammi Camp Photography
blk Photography Chase Jordan Photography
Kristin Hendricks Photography
REAL MOMENTS
Caitlin + Chiranth
OCTOBER 19 + 20, 2024
MICHELLE JAHNS
PHOTOGRAPHY + VIDEOGRAPHY
We had an entire weekend of wedding festivities, focused on each other, our families, and blending our two heritages and cultures together. That meant multiple Indian events on Friday, Saturday, Monday, and two full ceremonies on Sunday (Indian ceremony all morning and Western ceremony in the afternoon), followed by our cocktail hour, reception, and dancing the night away. It was incredible, it was long, and it was worth it. Huge shoutout to both of our families, our bridal party, and our guests who traveled near and far to celebrate with us.”
Details
INDIAN EVENT DETAILS
VENUE: Mahatma Gandhi Center
CATERER: Srikrishna Caterers
LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Big Bow Events
HENNA: Love is Mehndi
INDIAN CEREMONY PRIEST: Hindu Temple of St Louis
WESTERN EVENT DETAILS:
VENUE: Stone House of St. Charles
RECEPTION CATERER: Concetta's
RECEPTION BEVERAGES: Booze Brothers
ICE CREAM: Sling 'N Scoops
BOUQUETS: Sola Wood Flowers
RECEPTION MUSIC, DÉCOR + SIGNAGE: Stone House of St. Charles
PHOTO BOOTH: Fête Booth
GOWN: House of Curves
GROOM'S SUIT: Perfect Tux
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: David's Bridal
MAKEUP: Jaylynae Beauty LLC
HAIR: Stacey Stack, Platinum Hair Salon
REAL MOMENTS
Allie + Andrew
SEPTEMBER 27, 2024
LYNDSEY PAIGE PHOTOGRAPHY
We got married the day after Hurricane Helene made landfall, so it poured rain all day long, but it was still the most beautiful day. They do say rain is good luck, so a hurricane must be great luck then! We loved dancing in the rain at the end of our reception with our family.”
Details
VENUE: Pebble Creek Farm
CATERER: Concetta’s Catering & Event Space
FLORIST: Butterfields Florist
CAKE: Lou Lou’s Cakes LLC
MUSIC:
Daryl with Deluxe DJs and Entertainment
PAPER GOODS: Minuteman Press, and Canva.
PHOTOBOOTH: Glow Booth STL
GOWN: Essense of Australia from White Traditions Bridal House
FORMALWEAR: Macy’s
BRIDESMAID DRESSES:
Birdy Grey, Revolve, and Lulu’s
MAKEUP: Stacey K Artistry + Brandy Lawrence Aesthetics
HAIR: Connor Overfield + Taylor Vernon
REAL MOMENTS
Greta + Kevin
OCTOBER 8 + 9, 2024
MICHELLE JAHNS PHOTOGRAPHY
One of my close friends gave me the best advice; take a moment at the reception with my husband to step back and really look around at everyone who showed up for us. We did, and it was such a grounding and surreal moment. Seeing all the people we love in one place, there to support us, meant more than I can put into words.”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: Saint Ambrose Catholic Church
RECEPTION VENUE: The Dogwood in The Grove
CATERER: The Social A air
WEDDING PLANNER: AJ Coordinates
FLORIST: Blooms by Jenny Seitz
CAKE: Lovingly made by the bride’s brother-in-law, Daniel Binggeli
MUSIC: Party Pros
PHOTOBOOTH: Party Pros
GOWNS: Kitty Chen Couture from Mia Grace Bridal and Sophia & Camilla from The Ultimate Bride
FORMALWEAR: Jos. A. Bank
HAIR + MAKEUP: DanielleStyle
REAL MOMENTS
Olivia + Mitch
MAY 25, 2024
DEE KEIM PHOTOGRAPHY
We loved the cocktail reception by the Sea Lion Exhibit. Guests were able to get a drink and walk through the tunnel. Having the animal experience at our event was amazing.”
We chose May 25th as our wedding date because both of our parents were married on the same day 30 years ago! During the ceremony we brought our parents up for a special prayer circle to celebrate together.”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: Historic Hill at the Saint Louis Zoo
RECEPTION VENUE: Lakeside Cafe at the Saint Louis Zoo
CATERER: Saint Louis Zoo Culinary
CHOCOLATE PENGUINS: L.A. Burdick Chocolates
DONUT WALL: Daylight Donuts
FLORIST: Serendipity Floral Events
CAKE: Sarah's Cake Shop
CEREMONY MUSIC: Gold Standard Musicians
RECEPTION MUSIC: Porta Party DJs
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Saint Louis Zoo Audio Visuals
LINENS: KMD
RENTALS: Arbor, Ken & Kristi Morris, KSquared Kuriosities, chairs, Belmont Party Rentals
PAPER GOODS: Specialty Drink Sign + Napkins: Etsy
VIDEOGRAPHER: North Arrow Creative
GOWN: Low's Bridal in Brinkley, Arkansas
FORMALWEAR: Saint Louis Suit Company
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Birdy Grey
HAIR & MAKEUP: Studio Bride
REAL MOMENTS
Tayler + Rich
SEPTEMBER 14, 2024
SARAH CORBETT PHOTOGRAPHY
We wanted to play off the history of Union Station, and lightly incorporated train themes into our wedding. We worked with Gateway Digital Press to create train-ticket style invitations that guests were encouraged to bring to the ceremony. We had our ushers dress up like train conductors and greet guests by asking for their tickets and directing them to our pre-ceremony cocktail hour. We designed a ‘get to know you’ game for each table to play at the start of the reception. We had guests submit fun facts about themselves when they RSVP’d, printed them on cards, and distributed them around each table. Each table was then tasked with determining which fun fact belonged to each guest at their table. We ditched traditional readings and instead asked three of our favorite couples to offer their advice to us as a couple. We picked one couple that had only been married for a year, another that had been married for a decade, and another that had been married for 30+ years. This added a dynamic and exciting element to the ceremony, and several people told us that they spent part of dinner pondering what advice they would have shared.”
PHOTOBOOTH: Jeremy Minnerick, guests received polaroid photos during cocktail hour and the reception.
TRANSPORTATION: STL Crew Shuttle
REHEARSAL DINNER ENTERTAINMENT: Jest Murder Mystery Company
GOWN: Savvy Bridal STL
FORMALWEAR:
Everyone brought their own
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Each chose their own
HAIR + MAKEUP: Emily Miller Makeup + Hair
REAL MOMENTS
Emma + Nick
SEPTEMBER 21, 2024
CMS PHOTOGRAPHY LLC
Waiting for our first look at the altar. I was able to relax when I saw Nick's smile at the end of the aisle. Sharing a delicious meal is one of our favorite things to do. We loved the sushi at cocktail hour, steak and lobster at dinner, assorted dessert bar, and late-night bites. Our out-of-town guests enjoyed visiting iconic St. Louis sites during the wedding weekend with a Cardinal's game, Mississippi River boat cruise, Anheuser Busch brewery tour, and trip to the top of the Arch.”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: Basilica of Saint Louis, King of France, The Old Cathedral
RECEPTION VENUE: Hyatt Regency St. Louis at the Arch
DAY-OF COORDINATOR: Creedon Rose Events
COCKTAIL HOUR SUSHI: Drunken Fish
FLORIST: Bloomin’ Buckets
CAKE: Sarah's Cake Shop
CUSTOM MATCH BOXES: For Your Party
RECEPTION MUSIC: Lost Wax Band
PHOTOBOOTH: Elemnt Photo Booth Co.
VIDEOGRAPHER: CMS Photography LLC
GOWN: Pronovias
GROOM’S ATTIRE: Alan David Custom, New York City
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Azazie
HAIR + MAKEUP: Studio Bride STL
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REAL MOMENTS
Kristen + Aaron
AUGUST 24, 2024
MIST PHOTOGRAPHY, RACHEL ICE
The most memorable moment was getting married! The whole day was full of our favorite places, things that describe us and that we enjoy as a couple. We took photos at Busch Stadium and had a cocktail hour at Kilroys St. Louis. Another memorable moment was privately getting to see The Garage at Music Quarter before the reception started and seeing our vision come together exactly as we pictured. It was such a fun and unique atmosphere to celebrate with our friends and family. We LOVED being the first wedding reception that the Garage had hosted!”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION:
The Schlafly Tap Room
COCKTAIL HOUR: Kilroy’s St. Louis
RECEPTION VENUE:
The Garage at Music Quarter
CATERER: Two Mikes Catering
WEDDING PLANNER: Ashleigh Anton
FLORIST: DWF St. Louis Wholesale Florist
CAKE: BabyCakes
MUSIC:
Johnny Holzum and The Well Hungarians
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR:
The Garage at Music Quarter
RENTALS: Weinhardt Party Rentals
TRANSPORTATION:
Rockstar Party Bus and Sober Rich
VIDEOGRAPHER: Kindled Films
GOWN:
Stella York from The Ultimate Bride STL
FORMALWEAR: Suitshop
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Birdy Grey
HAIR & MAKEUP:
Bailey Hager HMUA + Ali Somer Beauty
REAL MOMENTS
Destiny + Hunter
NOVEMBER 9, 2024
KATIE MCELROY PHOTOGRAPHY
At the front of our wedding entrance we had a 10-foot-tall pink elephant wearing glasses and holding a martini glass in its trunk. My husband let me know before we were engaged that we HAD to have it at our wedding. He explained that it’s significant in his family and all their important events (weddings, graduation parties etc.) When people would see the pink elephant, they knew they had arrived at the Coker event. We wanted a fun way to tie it into our day, so our signature cocktail was called 'The Pink Elephant.' Guests could not stop raving about all the little touches with the pink elephant!”
Details
VENUE: Olde Wicks Factory
COCKTAIL HOUR HORS D’ OEUVRES + DESSERT: Covered in Chocolate
RECEPTION: Cygan and Delaney
WEDDING PLANNER: Forever & Always by BlackBox Events, Cassey Leituschuh Davis
FLORIST: The Secret Gardener
CAKE: Victoria Griggs
MUSIC: DJ Kyle Inside Out Entertainment + Karaoke, Kyle Miller
LIGHTING: Alpha Lit STL
SPECIALITY DECOR: Forever & Always by BlackBox Events
INVITATION SUITE: Truly Engaging
FACE + PET CUT OUTS: FatHead
CUSTOM NAPKINS: Etsy
CUSTOM COOZIES: American Solutions do Business
TRANSPORTATION: Riding in Style
VIDEOGRAPHER: Ivory Grove, Brent Young
GOWN: Essence of Australia from White Traditions Bridal House
MAKEUP: The Artist Edit, Joy Loveless + Maddie Edmonds
REAL MOMENTS
Erin + Corey
SEPTEMBER 7, 2024
KEITH LEE STUDIOS
When we were planning, we each picked two things that were really important to us and took the lead on planning those things. We also budgeted more for those items than we would have otherwise.”
Honor traditions that make sense for you and try not to worry about what others think if you choose to do something untraditional (the day is about you after all!). For us, we wanted to be together as much as possible on our day, so we stayed in the same hotel room the night before. Starting and ending our day together was important to us even though that is not considered a traditional way to spend the night before your wedding.”
PAPER GOODS: Invitations by Zola, custom signage and napkins by BRubi and Lib Design
PHOTOBOOTH: Fête Booth
TRANSPORTATION: BEST Transportation
GOWN: Lihi Hod, Tailored Bridal
FORMALWEAR: Bonobos
BRIDESMAID DRESSES:
Amsale, Bella Bridesmaids
HAIR & MAKEUP: Looks by Lisa
REAL MOMENTS
Brittani + Zach
DECEMBER 31, 2023
CHRISTINA SCHMIDT PHOTOGRAPHY
Having a private dinner before the reception with our immediate family and wedding party, Counting down to NYE with all the people we love in one room, watching all our guests from the back of the room enjoy the night.”
We decided to combine our place cards and wedding favors into one thoughtful detail. Since I love fresh flowers, we wanted each guest to be able to take some home. I found mismatched pink bud vases and had our florist fill them with single blooms. Each vase included a flower card pick and a small notecard with a custom message to each guest thanking them for the role they’ve played in our lives and for celebrating with us. To complete the look, our florist suggested placing clear cylinder bud vases on the tables so guests could add their pink bud vases wherever they liked. This gave the tables a fun, personal, and eclectic vibe that we absolutely loved. We received so many compliments on this idea, it added such a meaningful and memorable touch to the day. Chef Grace at O+O sent us a questionnaire a few months before our wedding to get to know us as a couple. She asked questions like 'what are you cooking at home for dinner on a Tuesday night?' 'What are your favorite types of cuisine?' 'Where is your go to restaurant in STL?', then she created a custom dinner menu that was based on this questionnaire. We absolutely loved this! Our wedding dinner menu was one of a kind, based on what was local, in season, and unique to us.”
Details
VENUE: The Hall at Olive + Oak
WEDDING PLANNER: Creedon Rose
Events, Katie Gebken
FLORIST: Bloomin’ Buckets
ICE CREAM STATION: Clementine’s Naughty and Nice Ice Cream
CEREMONY MUSIC: Beau Son Strings, Emily Bowman, violin
RECEPTION MUSIC: Show Me Sound, DJ Tyler Bubolz
RENTALS: Creedon Rose
PAPER GOODS: Artfully Overjoyed, Addie Morgester
TRANSPORTATION: St. Louis Trolley
VIDEOGRAPHER: Lola Mango Photo and Film
FIRST DANCE CHOREOGRAPHY: Nicki Molina, NoMoli Dance
GOWN: Essence Design, “Raquel”
FORMALWEAR: Groom’s custom suit, Indochino + groomsmen, St. Louis Suit Co.
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: each chose their own
HAIR + MAKEUP: Abigail Joy HAMU, “Team Lauren”
BRIDE’S HAIR + MAKE UP: Lauren Fuchs
REAL MOMENTS
Sophia + Spencer
SEPTEMBER 20, 2024
SARAH KELLIE PHOTO + FILM
There were many details that we loved about our wedding, but one of our favorites was keeping the atmosphere romantic by adding drapery, tons of florals, soft lit candles, and even all the way down to the types of linens we chose. We also read our vows in private to each other. It seems like a small detail, but it made a huge difference to us so we could fully display emotion to each other without a crowd watching! One more thing that made this experience unforgettable, was having my mom's help during the wedding planning process. She really helped pull all the details together and ensured we had everything we needed to make our day perfect; it was so special planning our wedding with her!!”
DAY OF COORDINATOR: aRay of Events, Shauna Jackson + team
FLORIST: Walter Knoll Florist
CAKE: Simply Sweet Sensations
MUSIC: A Rockin’ DJ, Jimmy Hussey
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: The Aries Company
LINENS: Nuage Designs
RENTALS: The Aries Company + TheLGShoppe
INVITATION SUITE: Minted
MIRROR SIGNAGE, RECEPTION WELCOME,
SEATING CHART: Jenna Jordan Studio
BAR SIGNAGE, LINEN WELCOME SIGN, PLACE CARDS, MONOGRAMS: Designs by P
CIGAR LOUNGE: Rollin’ Smoke Cigars
VIDEOGRAPHER: Sarah Kellie Weddings
GOWN: Emily Hart The Collection. Emily Hart Bridal, Overland Park, KS
FORMALWEAR: Savvi Formalwear
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Show Me Your Mumu + Reformation
HAIR & MAKEUP: Hannah Change Beauty
REAL MOMENTS
Corrie + Tom
JUNE 8, 2024
NO HIDDEN PATH, JASON GONULSEN
The whole day felt like one long highlight reel. But from the start, a few moments stood out, the quiet anticipation in our bridal suites, surrounded by our closest friends and family. Walking down the aisle and seeing everyone’s smiling faces, even in that classic STL humidity that did us no favors. The party bus with our full bridal party, champagne flowing and singing at the top of our lungs. Our siblings delivering deeply meaningful toasts, well outside their public-speaking comfort zones. Our first dances, yes, we took lessons, and finally, a packed dance floor that was just as full and happy as our hearts.”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: Lemp Mansion
RECEPTION VENUE: Mahler Ballroom
CATERER: Orlando's Catering
WEDDING PLANNER: By Your Side Weddings, Samantha Stegman
FLORIST: Walter Knoll Florist
CAKE: Sugaree Bakery
MUSIC: TKO DJs
PHOTOBOOTH: Everyday Elegance
DANCE LESSONS: Convergence Body & Dance
TRANSPORTATION: Falcon, bridal party + BEST
Transportation, guests
VIDEOGRAPHER: We purchased 3 camcorders and gave them to designated guests to record footage. It was so fun and personal!!
CEREMONY DRESS: Anne Barge from Mimi's Bridal at Town & Country
RECEPTION DRESS: Jenny Yoo from Bridal Parlour
FORMALWEAR: The Black Tux
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: each chose their own dress
HAIR + MAKEUP: Emily Miller Makeup
Photo Credit: Ashley Pieper Photography
Photo Credit: Backcountry Bohemians
REAL MOMENTS
Bradly + Robert
OCTOBER 12, 2024
REBECCA STEPHENSON
PHOTOGRAPHY
We asked all our guests to wear black, reserving color only for our mothers. It brought elegance and focus to the space and created a powerful visual moment that exceeded anything we could have imagined. One of our favorite personal touches was replacing place cards with embroidered napkins featuring each guest’s name, a keepsake and a detail that made everyone feel special.”
We wanted it to feel like the most epic dinner party we’d ever host at home, just scaled up. It was personal, chic, and rooted in intention. Our biggest advice? Do what you want. It’s your day, and don’t lose sight of why you’re doing this. You’ll likely never have all your favorite people in one room again, so be present and soak it in.”
Details
VENUE: Contemporary Art Museum St. Louis
CATERER: The Tavern Kitchen & Bar
WEDDING PLANNER: Adorist Events
FLORIST: Stems
CAKE: McArthur’s Bakery
MUSIC: Millennium Productions
SPECIALTY LIGHTING:
Millennium Productions
RENTALS + LINENS:
Weinhardt Party Rentals
PAPER GOODS: Bradly Robert Creative
TRANSPORTATION: Elite Transportation
SECOND PHOTOGRAPHER: Derek Co man
GROOMS:
Custom Tuxedos from Suit Supply
ACCESSORIES: Tom Ford
FOOTWEAR: Christian Louboutin
MOTHERS OF THE GROOMS:
Mimi’s Bridal at Town & Country
MAKEUP: Alison Silvagnoli at Chanel, Saks Fifth Avenue
HAIR: Lalo Salon
REAL MOMENTS
Savannah + Eric
DECEMBER 31, 2024
ABBY ROSE FOR JACY OVERSTREET PHOTOGRAPHY
I heard several people say how nervous they were right before walking down the aisle. While I had butterflies, I remember feeling almost giddy excitement. I was surprised at how relaxed we were before the ceremony. It was such a gift being able to soak up time with our family and bridal party before everything officially kicked off. We chose to read our vows in private early the morning of our wedding and only share a snippet during the actual ceremony, it was just the two of us, in our most honest form.”
When you’re designing your wedding, try to pick vendors and elements that allow for the details of your relationship and individual personalities to shine and those close to you to be a part of your wedding. We found these pieces are what we cherished most on the dayof and even more now when looking back. For example, our videographer and live painter were both close family friends. We chose to get married on New Year’s Eve as it was the anniversary of our first kiss.”
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Big Smile Photobooth. cold sparklers
RENTALS: Weinhardt Party Rentals
PAPER GOODS: Minted
LIVE PAINTER: Mary Jo Tannehill
PHOTOBOOTH: MirrorMe by 612 North
TRANSPORTATION: JED Transportation
VIDEOGRAPHER: Michele Hedges Videography
GOWN: Chosen by Kyha, Kasia Corset & Kasia Skirt, Alice in Ivory, Dallas, TX
SECOND LOOK: Retrofete, Olivia Midi
FORMALWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: they all chose their own
HAIR + MAKEUP: Lacey Dixon
REAL MOMENTS
Dana + Blake
SEPTEMBER 14, 2024
DEREK COFFMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
Throughout the planning process there were plenty of times we felt overwhelmed. One trick that helped was picking a night during the week that was reserved for wedding planning. We did ‘Wedding Wednesdays’, which were reserved for us hooking up the laptop to the TV to browse websites, vendors and orders. Usually always accompanied with a bottle of wine. It made the process fun for both of us! We really enjoyed our dinner at a sweetheart table. The day is so long and there is so much constant stimulation. It was special to get that time sitting by ourselves as newlyweds, instead of feeling like we had to continue to host a big head table or other guests. Highly recommend!”
Details
VENUE: The Chase Park Plaza
WEDDING PLANNER: AJ Coordinates – Ashley Jordan
FLORIST: Bloomin’ Buckets
CAKE: The Chase Park Plaza
CEREMONY MUSIC:
Diamond Empire Band, Acoustic Guitar Soloist
COCKTAIL HOUR MUSIC:
3 Piece Band – Diamond Empire Band
RECEPTION MC AND 7 PIECE BAND:
Diamond Empire Band
DJ: DJ Orlandis
RENTALS: Bloomin’ Buckets
INVITATIONS: Zola
CUSTOM COCKTAIL SIGN: Wild Pine Designs
PHOTOBOOTH + ARCADE GAMES: GW Event Services
TRANSPORTATION: CharterUp
GOWN: Essense of Australia from White Traditions Bridal House
FORMALWEAR: The Modern Groom
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Azazie
HAIR + MAKEUP: Brandi Cooke
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REAL MOMENTS
Joshy + Jeff
NOVEMBER 2, 2024
SALLY G PHOTOGRAPHY
So many moments stand out, but we loved the golden hour light at the Jewel Box, the choreographed Indian Dance performed by family and friends. Also, don't stress too much on the details. Hire a coordinator to minimize wedding day stress.”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: The Jewel Box
RECEPTION VENUE: Third Degree Glass Factory
CATERER: Salt + Smoke
WEDDING PLANNER: Trinity Gri n
FLORIST: Flowers and Weeds
CAKE: La Patisserie Chouquette
RECEPTION MUSIC: DJ Rachel Lebo
PAPER GOODS: Zola
TRANSPORTATION: Best Transportation
FORMALWEAR: Grooms' suits, Nordstrom
HAIR + MAKEUP: Kamco Beauty for mothers, sisters, and nieces
Ha ily Ever Af ter
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REAL MOMENTS
Lindsey + Donte
FEBRUARY 17, 2024
MCKINLEY G PHOTOGRAPHY
If you’re feeling stuck on where to begin, choose something you know you absolutely want and use that to guide you. I knew I wanted to wear a long sleeve, timeless wedding dress. That decision led us to choose our date and then all the pieces of our warm and cozy winter wedding fell into place. Don’t forget to be creative and have fun with the process. It truly goes by so fast. Don’t get too stressed imagining the ‘perfect’ day. Your day will be magical and special no matter what happens. We had a big snow storm the night before and we had to move the ceremony inside last minute, but it made for the most amazing, beautiful photos that we will cherish for a lifetime. Everything that’s meant to will be!”
Details
VENUE: Silo Point at Brookdale Farms
CATERER: Andre’s Banquet and Catering
WEDDING COORDINATOR: Danyelle Kampen
WEDDING PLANNER: Jennifer Cox
FLORIST: Jill Springer
CAKE: McArthur’s Bakery
MUSIC: Dre Thomas DJ Services, Josh
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Alpha Lit St. Louis
LINENS + PAPER GOODS: Jennifer Cox
DECOR: Brookdale Farms and Jennifer Cox
APPETIZERS: Pretzel Boys
LATE NIGHT SNACK: Family Foods and Concessions
PARTY FAVORS: Kirkwood Pop Co.
VIDEOGRAPHER: Complete Weddings and Events, Courtney Cross
GOWN: Cleo Bridal
HAIR: Denise Cepicky
MAKEUP: Mechelle Nilhas
REAL MOMENTS
Megan + Jake
MARCH 29, 2025
KELLY PARK PHOTOGRAPHY
When you envision your wedding, identify what stands out as top priorities. For us, the venue was everything. We also really wanted our wedding to be a fun party to dance with our friends and family. Thanks to our amazing DJ and the time spent curating our music vibes, that’s exactly what it was! We focused on big picture goals which helped us let go of stressing over every single detail.”
Details
VENUE: Piper Palm House, Tower Grove Park
CATERER: Seed Sprout Spoon
WEDDING PLANNER: Heather Chavez
FLORIST: Wildflowers
CAKE: Britt’s Bakehouse
MUSIC: Marco Emerson, Spin Society
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Spin Society
PAPER GOODS: Zola
PHOTOBOOTH: Spin Society
TRANSPORTATION: Titus Poule
GOWN: Custom made by Deborah Hill, Beauty by Design, Minneapolis, Minnesota
FORMALWEAR: BlckTux
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: each chose their own
HAIR & MAKEUP: Looks by Lisa
REAL MOMENTS
Theresa + Tim
NOVEMBER 9, 2024
KELLY PARK PHOTOGRAPHY
Once we finished our photos and our cocktail hour had started, Tim and I snuck away for a private dinner. Our venue coordinator made sure there was a private room set to the side with a small dinner table for just us. One of the caterers came up to get drink orders from us and let us know what the plan was. He brought in 3 of whatever we said we wanted to drink and then plates with a little of everything from our buffet, and then we were completely alone. It was the best decision we could have made. We were able to just be with each other, made sure we had a good meal before dancing the rest of the night, and it gave us a chance to be present in the celebration.”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: St. Stephen Protomartyr
RECEPTION VENUE: Anheuser Busch Biergarten
WEDDING PLANNER: Heather Hammett
FLORIST: Walter Knoll Florist
CAKE: Sweet Revenge
CEREMONY MUSIC: The Landolfi String Quartet, and Theresa Flores, cantor
RECEPTION MUSIC: Porta Party DJ’s, John Winkler
LINENS: Zhuzh Rentals
PAPER GOODS: TRULYinspiredPaperCo., Etsy. Watercolors of St. Stephen Protomartyr and of the AB Brewhouse used on the invitation and programs were by Timothy Bolt.
PHOTOBOOTH: Fête Booth & Eye Candy Rentals
TRANSPORTATION: St. Louis Trolley
VIDEOGRAPHER: Izzy Roberts
GOWN: Maggie Sottero Maddox from Clarice Bridal Salon
FORMALWEAR: Groom’s custom suit was from Tailored Gents + Groomsmen, The Black Tux
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Revelry
HAIR: Sam Karbach from Salon Joy.
REAL MOMENTS
Peyton + Grant
APRIL 27, 2024
ASANTAE PHOTOGRAPHY
I found my dress designer Kirsten Paige through Instagram after viewing many dresses and not feeling drawn to any. She had posted a dress on her story called the “Payton” with a huge bow on the back. I booked an appointment to see it just for fun and fell in love immediately with my mom and sister in agreement that it was the one! Kirsten so kindly changed the spelling of the dress to the “Peyton” as my name is spelled that way and I was the first bride to wear it! Felt like fate!! To close out the night the bridal party jumped in the on sight indoor Knotting Hills pool, dresses and all!”
Details
VENUE: Knotting Hills
CATERER: Sugarfire Smokehouse
BAR: Champagne Wishes
FLORIST: Grow Your Own Way Florals
CAKE: Dessert Bar by Blue Owl Bakery
MUSIC: Party With Supe, Joel Davis
GOWN: Kirsten Paige Bridal, Kirsten Paige
FORMALWEAR: Nordstrom + The Black Tux
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: each chose their own
HAIR: Sanita Sadikovic, Just In Style Salon & Spa
MAKEUP: Jordan Faith MUA, Jordan McCallister
REAL MOMENTS
Chelsy + Jordan
JULY 6, 2024
MAGGIE ADAMS PHOTO
Enjoy the process. This only happens once, and it goes so fast! It is your wedding day, try to tune out all the opinions and do what YOU want! Your day might not be everyone's perfect day, and that’s okay as long as it’s YOUR perfect day. Spend money on the things you think are the most important and then see how much is left in your budget for the other things. The most important things to you during the planning process are going to be the most important things for you on the wedding day as well.”
Details
VENUE: Westwind Hills
COCKTAIL CHARCUTIERIE: Grazeful Gatherings
CATERER: Sugarfire Smokhouse
WEDDING PLANNER: Kelci Leigh Events, Tampa, FL
FLORIST: Carley Jean's Floral
CAKE: Jessica McCurdy
MUSIC: Spin Society DJ’s, DJ Chris Brown
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Alpha Lit St. Louis
INVITATIONS: Shine Wedding Invitations
SIGNAGE: Made and True
PHOTOBOOTH: Spin Society DJs
TRANSPORTATION: Champagne Limousines, White Rolls-Royce
VIDEOGRAPHER: Millennium Productions
GOWN: Dania Mikado, The Bridal Parlour
RECEPTION DRESS: Nadine Merabi, Lottie Dress
FORMALWEAR: Callahan's Tuxedo, STL
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Show Me Your Mumu
HAIR + MAKEUP: Jennifer Lynch
REAL MOMENTS
Amaya + Domonic
AUGUST 30, 2024
RAE MARCEL PHOTOGRAPHY
Remember, it’s your day. You’ll get opinions from everyone but stay true to what feels right for you both. Tradition is optional, meaning is essential. With that said, plan for the marriage, not just the wedding. A wedding is one day, marriage a lifetime. Make time for relationship checkins and shared reflection during planning. Our wedding reflected everything we love. Faith, family, and fun. We included personal touches throughout the day, from handwritten vows and a meaningful first prayer together to custom drink designs that added a creative twist to the celebration. The floral design blended timeless elegance with a touch of modern romance, and our reception turned into the ultimate celebration, full of dancing, laughter, and joy. Every detail, big and small, was a labor of love, and we were surrounded by the people who mean the most to us. It truly felt like a dream come to life.”
Details
VENUE: Sunset Blu s
WEDDING PLANNER: Elite Eventz, Erica Gordon
FLORIST: Floral Play
CAKE: Celebrating Life Cake Boutique
MUSIC: Play Event Co., Isaiah Colbert
SPECIALTY LIGHTING AND DÉCOR: Play Event Co., lighting + Chair Luxe, decor
LINENS: All Seasons Linen
RENTALS: All Seasons Linen, ceremony staging
PHOTOBOOTH: Midwest Selfie Booth
VIDEOGRAPHER: For All Time Films
OFFICIANT: It's O cial! 314, Tara Robinson
GOWN: Jamie Burke custom gown from Designer Loft Bridal in NYC
FORMALWEAR: Dan’s Tailoring
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Fashion Nova
HAIR: Karrie Lashay from Kfour On Hair
MAKE UP: Blush on the Blvd
REAL MOMENTS
Brandy + Milo
SEPTEMBER 22, 2024
MICHELLE PULIZZO OF WHITE KLUMP PHOTOGRAPHY
We both woke up at exactly 3:30am the morning of the wedding. We were in two different locations away from each other. But both of us were too nervous and excited to sleep. The tree where we read our vows is a tree my husband's grandfather planted in memory of my husband's grandmother. Not only was the venue beautiful but with the ability to be a few hundred feet from the tree made us both feel as though a part of her was there with us on our special day.”
Details
VENUE: Piper Palm House
CATERER: Hendri’s
WEDDING PLANNER:
Bride and mother-in-law Kimberly Marr
FLORIST: Twisted Willow
CAKE: Celebrating Life Cake Boutique
MUSIC: 50 Mile Entertainment. Richard Robinson
PAPER GOODS: Paper Truly
VIDEOGRAPHER: White-Klump Photography
GOWN: Resse, Casablanca
Bridal from Maiden Voyage
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Bespoke Apparel
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Azazie
HAIR: Ally Goeddy
MAKEUP: Studio Bride St.Louis, Kayla and Paul
REAL MOMENTS
Meghan + Bryce
NOVEMBER 23, 2024
MAGGIE ADAMS PHOTO
Going into the day with that mindset let us both just be present in the moment and enjoy what was really important, which was marrying each other! I told myself it didn’t matter how long I had spent on a cocktail napkin or when I wanted ceremony songs to be started, no one is going to remember those things, especially since they weren’t the ones planning it, and at the end of the day things like that held zero value over our marriage to each other. The entire day was absolutely picture perfect and even greater than we ever could have imagined.”
VIDEOGRAPHER: Sydney Radetic Films, Sydney Radetic
GOWN: Allure Bridals from Mimi’s Bridal at Town & Country
FORMALWEAR: Jos A Bank
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: each chose their own
HAIR + MAKEUP: Stacey K Artistry
REAL MOMENTS
Alli + Ross
SEPTEMBER 14, 2024
MADLAND PHOTOGRAPHY
The best moments of our wedding weekend were in the small moments where we dared to break away from tradition and be true to ourselves. The small moments added up to a weekend that was uniquely us. Neither of us enjoy being center stage and knew we wanted to create an environment that was intimate and comfortable despite a large guest list. We opted to do wedding speeches at the rehearsal dinner so we had time to listen, laugh, and cry with our closest loved ones as well as give a speech ourselves to thank our nearest and dearest for their unwavering support.”
As we danced the night away, we drank custom cocktails that represented our past, present, and future together. The CoMo, representing our time together living in Columbia, The Lou, representing our time in the city that started at all, and The Manhattan, representing the city in which we chose to spend our happily ever after. Each drink truly felt like a toast to our love story.”
Details
CEREMONY LOCATION: Slate Events Venue
RECEPTION VENUE: Willow
CATERER: Fifth Wheel Catering
WEDDING PLANNER: Hawthorne Creative Wedding + Event Company
FLORIST: Rose Madder Wedding Designs
CAKE: Fifth Wheel Catering
CEREMONY MUSIC: Johnny McMullan
RECEPTION MUSIC:
High Class DJs, Rich Dickerson
PAPER GOODS SPECIFY: designed and made by the bride
PHOTOBOOTH:
High Class DJ’s, Rich Dickerson
GOWN: Capsule Collection “Landry” from Savvy Bridal
FORMALWEAR: Savvi Formalwear
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: each chose their own
HAIR + MAKEUP: Meraki Brides.
BRIDAL MAKEUP: Kristen Grabowski
REAL MOMENTS
Morgan + Ryan
JUNE 1, 2024
AMBER RHEA PHOTOGRAPHY
Be flexible in your planning process and remember why you are getting married. Don't let the pressure to be perfect or the tiny details stress you out. Honor the vision for what you want your wedding to be like by getting a team around you that can bring that vision to life but be open to shifts and tweaks that may naturally come along the way and know what is or isn't a dealbreaker. Also, celebrate every little step of the process. We would do a little champagne toast every time we checked something off our to-do list to keep ourselves excited during high-pressure parts of the process.”
Details
VENUE: Barnett on Washington
CATERER: Russo's Catering
WEDDING PLANNER: Coda’s Events of The Coda’s Collective
FLORIST: Walter Knoll Florist
CEREMONY MUSIC: Joanna Serrenko & Tyler Dale
RECEPTION MUSIC: DJ Lil Will
VIDEOGRAPHER: KK Films
GOWN + RECEPTION DRESS: Designed by Khya Studios, from Alice in Ivory, Dallas
FORMALWEAR:
Groom: custom designed tuxedo by Eaden Myles, Dallas
GROOMSMEN: Men's Wearhouse
BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Meshki
HAIR: The Bride's Beautician
MAKEUP: KJ Perkins Beauty
inS WithUpirits
LHeartfelt Ways to Honor a Loved One at your Wedding
By Jennifer C. Frakes
exi Basik was married last year on a beautiful spring day. It was the celebration she had envisioned and the beginning of her life with her beloved husband Chris. Her wedding day was practically perfect. But a person very important to Lexi was not there that day. “Jana was one of my best friends and would have been one of the bridesmaids to stand by my side,” Basik said. “She died of brain cancer when I was a senior in college. Your wedding day is a space to have all the people that you love most in the
same room. It feels sad when a few of those people are not there.”
Basik wanted to feel like Jana was still a part of her day. “During my ceremony, I saved a seat for Jana in the front row that included a picture of her, a candle, and one of the beanies she had worn a lot that her mom gave me when she passed. It felt so special and sacred to me.”
That felt right to Lexi, considering that Lexi and Jana’s families are extremely close and Jana had passed about three years prior to the wedding. What are some thoughtful ways to incorporate the memory of passed loved ones into your wedding day? How can you pay tribute to
people you are missing while still focusing on your happy celebration?
There are many ways to honor these loved ones, whether they be “Just for You,” “Quiet Connections,” or “A Communal Commemoration.” Read on to hear from brides, relatives, guests and wedding professionals for a wide array of possibilities.
JUST FOR YOU
Of course, all these tributes are personal, but some may prefer to acknowledge their loved one in a way that is more private. Wendy Markham is the owner and lead planner at Revel and Wonder Weddings. She has seen many couples go this route. “A bride may attach a locket or photo to her bouquet,” Markham said. “Or wrap the bouquet in her father’s handkerchief. Grooms can carry a pocket watch or a special coin with them, or a photo in their suit jacket.” Brides may also choose to wear a piece of heirloom jewelry. Though these are private ways of honoring loved ones, they can be preserved and remembered with thoughtful photographs. Photographer Sarah Corbett said, “These tributes are often deeply emotional, and couples are so grateful to have them documented. It’s not about posing—it’s about preserving the moment, the memory, and the meaning behind it.”
Corbett asks that you communicate with your photographer about these tributes prior to your wedding day. “Let us know ahead of time what you’re planning and what it means to you,” Corbett said. “When we know the intention behind the moment, we can approach it with care and creativity.
Markham says these subtle ways of acknowledging a loved one may be especially appropriate if the loss is recent and it may be dif cult to do a more public gesture. “How you choose to honor your loved one at your wedding can depend on how long it has been since their passing,” Markham said. “One groom had lost his mother not long before the wedding, and there was a photo of her near the altar. He was understandably emotional, and it may have been too soon for that type of tribute.” Keep in mind, advises Markham, that the loved ones you are remembering would want your wedding day to be a day of
celebration, with happiness and joy. Lauren Ponder wholeheartedly agrees. Ponder is an end-of-life planner and a certi ed death doula, a relatively new eld. Through her company With Love Events, she helps families plan celebrations of life when someone dies. She organizes uplifting events for the grieving family and helps lighten their load. She can also help couples with the best ways for them to celebrate the lives of passed love ones at their weddings. “Weddings and funerals are both rituals,” Ponder said. “You can still include all the traditions of a wedding that you want to, but you can modify, so it feels right to you and really make it your own.”
In her work as an end-of-life planner, Ponder is passionate about creating a death-positive mindset and celebrating legacy. Weddings are a family event and Ponder believes it’s important that couples discuss with the affected family members their plans for memorializing a loved one that day. “What will bring you and your partner joy? What feels right for you both?” Ponder said. “Let others in the inner circle know your plans, but try to stick with what you feel good about.”
QUIET CONNECTIONS
Sarah Corbett has photographed over 500 weddings and seen some beautiful tributes, some where not a word was said. “A bride had lost her father and the ceremony was outdoors,” Corbett recalled. “As everyone turned to watch her begin walking down the aisle, the bride released a pink, heart-shaped balloon. Everyone watched it oat up into the sky, and knew that it was for her dad. It was a moment of quiet re ection and connection before the ceremony began,” Corbett said.
Mentioning loved ones in the ceremony program is simple yet meaningful. As is a table of photos at the reception. Jamie Reese and her husband honored Jamie’s grandmother and Scott’s brother this way, with a sign saying: We know you’d be here today if Heaven weren’t so far away. “The photo table was in the space before the reception room, so it was easy to see, but it wasn’t the main focus,” Reese said.
Camryn and Blake Smith honored their departed grandparents with an empty chair in the second row of their ceremony space,
with owers and a cloth Camryn created that read: In loving memory of those who are not here today, but forever in our hearts . “My grandma loved it,” Smith said. “She teared up a little when she saw the chair and was happy we remembered my grandpa in that way.”
Some couples choose to have a table displaying wedding pictures of the greatgrandparents, grandparents, and parents, both living and deceased. “It can serve as a memorial but is also just a nice nod to the couples married in the families through the years,” Markham said. “It celebrates the continuing history and legacy and shows that life goes on.”
Sarah Corbett shot a wedding that used family photos in a uniquely beautiful way. “It was a Jewish wedding and the couple was deeply connected to their ancestry,” Corbett said. “There were photos of loved ones hanging inside their chuppah. The photos were hung with clear wires, so it looked like they were oating. It was a sacred and personal tribute.”
Honoring a loved one via wedding favors can be a sweet gesture-literally, in the case of Amy Cavato. She paid homage to her Italian grandmother by giving guests bags of cookies made with her grandma’s special recipe from Italy. Bride Ellen Phillips gifted guests small jars of honey to remember her grandfather, who had been a beekeeper. To pay tribute to her grandmother, a skilled needlepoint enthusiast, Maggie Sullivan needlepointed the table numbers for the reception.
Instead of (or in addition to) wedding favors, some couples donate to a charity in a loved one’s name. Some choose to donate to an organization important to the deceased person or connected to the person’s passing. A card can be placed at each guest table saying that in lieu of favors, a donation has been made in a loved one’s name to the American Cancer Society, for example. Markham has also seen couples include this intent on their wedding website, with a link to the organization if anyone would also like to donate. “They then announced at the reception how much total money was raised, which is another opportunity to acknowledge that person,” Markham said.
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A COMMUNAL COMMEMORATION
Families may want to remember a passed love one in a way that all the wedding guests notice and can be a part of. Mentioning a loved one during the ceremony, asking for a moment of silence, or choosing a favorite poem or reading of theirs is a meaningful way of doing that.
Corbett remembers another very poignant moment at a wedding she photographed. The bride had lost her father as a teenager. But she had many signi cant relatives and dear friends of her dad’s that helped ll his absence. “When the celebrant asked ‘Who gives this bride away?’ ten men stood and
said in unison, ‘We do’,” Corbett said. “It was very touching.”
Playing signi cant songs is an easy yet considerate way to pay tribute to loved ones. Bea Pollard and her brothers arranged for a favorite local performer to sing their deceased father’s favorite song at their younger brother’s rehearsal dinner. “It was an unexpected but sweet way to remember my dad as the wedding celebrations began,” Pollard said.
Jaime Reese was recently a guest at wedding where the bride paid tribute to her grandparents by dancing to the grandparents’ rst dance song, along with her cousins (all their other grandkids). “I had never seen that before. It was a group you usually don’t see
on the dance oor together and they were having a lot of fun,” Reese said.
Like Lauren Ponder suggested, give wedding traditions your own spin if you are missing someone that day. Both wedding planner Wendy Markham and photographer Sarah Corbett have witnessed lovely fatherdaughter dances when the father could not be there. “The bride chose ve or so important men in her life-her uncle, brother, cousins, each representing a piece of her journey,” Corbett said.
Lexi Basik, the bride who honored her dear friend Jana at her wedding, was a guest at the wedding of Jana’s younger brother. “I will never forget the father-daughter dance,”
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Basik said. “Jana was their only daughter, so her dad would never get to have his father-daughter dance. The bride surprised Jana’s dad after her father-daughter dance by having a dance with him as well. It was the most touching moment in a wedding that I’ve ever seen. We were all brought to tears, including him!”
A celebratory way to pay tribute to someone is to literally raise a glass to them, suggests Ponder. “It could be a shot-sized version of something they liked to drink, accompanied by a brief toast. Just something quick and fun, but also a nice way to include them,” Ponder said. If a toast isn’t quite right, choosing a loved one’s favorite brand of beer or wine to serve with a sign noting this at the bar is a more “quiet” way to pay respects.
REMEMBER THOSE THAT ARE THERE
Markham has some important advice for all couples: make sure to spend time with the parents, grandparents and signi cant older adults that are present for your big day.
“It’s a busy day, but make them a priority,” Markham said. “They may not be the ones on the dance oor all night, but get photos of and with them and quotes from them, if you have a videographer. Also, take the ve minutes to do the parent dances, if you have living parents. You will regret it if you don’t.”
ALL OF THE ABOVE
Aimee Krummenacher and her family were shocked by the sudden death of her beloved sister Katie, months before Aimee’s daughter Emma’s wedding. “Katie was larger than life and loved to dance at weddings,” Aimee said. Katie was remembered in many ways at her niece’s wedding: Emma carried a locket with Katie’s photo on her bouquet, she was mentioned in the program, and her photo was displayed on the memory table. Katie’s favorite cocktail (blackberry whiskey and iced tea) was featured and named for her. Her full name was Katie Markiewicz, and the drink was cleverly called the “Ka-Tea Markie-Whiskey.”
Even though her passing was recent, paying
tribute to Katie in all these ways felt right to Aimee and her family. Aimee is glad they honored her adored sister in so many ways, but one stands out. “We formed a little huddle on the dance oor as the music began,” Krummenacher said. “We knew the best way to remember Katie was to do what she would be doing-we danced the night away.”
TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THESE PROS:
Wendy Markham, Revel and Wonder Weddings revelandwonderwed.com
Sarah Corbett sarahcorbettphotography.com
Lauren Ponder withloveevents.com
Being Thereof Beauty The
In a world of instant sharing, meet the creatives helping couples and their guests slow down and savor every moment.
By Beth von Behren
PHOTO CREDIT: MICHELLE JAHNS PHOTOGRAPHY
We live in a technologically interconnected world, where inducement to share personal, private stories surrounds us and lures us in on a daily basis. The urge to respond to likes and noti cations instantaneously can be all-consuming.
As with most societal phenomena, however, we may have begun to circle back and reconsider how we experienced life before we had to carry our phones everywhere. Blending the new with the old, and weaving tradition into modern ways of connecting, can create hybrid experiences that respect cultural history while also embracing innovation. Nowhere is this more apparent than with today’s “Unplugged” weddings.
An unplugged wedding is one where typically the bride and groom asks their guests to be fully present and to put away their own phones, while ensuring them that the wedding will be captured for posterity in multiple ways.
Designing an event where a couple invites their loved ones to celebrate their new life together has always been a complex undertaking, but today’s wedding photographers and planners nd themselves battling the presence of smart phones at every turn. Younger couples today grew up with smart phones, but even older wedding guests love to take photos and video of special emotional moments in their lives.
The key to enjoying your child’s or your friend’s wedding may be to simply “unplug” and let the professionals do their thing, while you sit, listen to the couple’s wedding story, enjoy a glass of wine, watch the rst dance, and laugh and clap over the speeches.
HIRE PROFESSIONALS TO CAPTURE #THESTORY
St. Louis wedding photographer Michelle Jahns of Michelle Jahns Photography, LLC, understands the need family members and friends may have to pull out their phones during the ceremony or the rst dance.
“It’s such a big life moment,” Michelle said. “You have all these people that you wouldn’t normally have together, and you want to have these long-term, accessible memories. It’s the
Leaving the Unplugged World Behind
one thing you get to keep after the wedding –the pictures!”
And yet, those smartphone photos can make her job challenging. The wedding couple has hired her to bring her professional equipment – cameras, lighting, tripods – to the event to create perfect photos. But she has on occasion found it dif cult to get a photo of important members of the wedding party without their phones out, including in one instance, a mother of the bride who would not put down her phone.
“So every photo I took of her is her watching the rst dance or the speeches through her cell phone, which is just sad.”
In many of those instances, Michelle said, there was no videographer present, so both family and friends felt a need to capture the wedding on their phones. Michelle recommends the use of a professional to capture video, which allows the guests to just enjoy the experience.
She also asks friends and family of the couple to put their phones away during portrait sessions. Enforcement is not really her job, she says, except during those precious moments when she is setting up and arranging wedding party photos.
“We don’t allow other people to take photos
because we’re composing,” she said. “It’s our artistic creative minds at work. People taking pics on their phones is not helpful.” During these sessions, she will be vocal about the importance of the work the couple has hired her to do.
PROFESSIONAL
CONTENT CREATORS
CREATE SOCIAL VIDEOS
Another option for today’s weddings is to hire a professional content creator who can capture all the moments that make for great social media posts. Leshay Reed, of Hype Queen Media, is a locally based professional who works all over the country with couples who like the idea of having TikTok-like reels made of their weddings but don’t want their guests to feel duty bound to make those videos.
“Having a content creator there allows wedding guests to just enjoy being there and not worry about ‘where’s my phone – I want to make sure I get this,” Leshay said. “It also ensures the wedding couple doesn’t feel a need to repeatedly ask people to take video.”
Leshay’s goal is to remove any worry from the wedding couple or their parents or bridal party that something important won’t get recorded. She had this experience at her own wedding.
“It was really important to me when I got married,” she said. “There were so many details I had thought about, but when you get to the wedding, you don’t see everything, and there are 200 people there you love, and it’s so exciting. And you’re like this big heart-shaped cloud, and you don’t see everything. I really make it my job to get those details.”
She may capture clips of guests at the bar, or grabbing appetizers, or even special items such as the bride’s great-grandmother’s cake knife being used, or ower arrangements on the tables.
In Leshay’s own wedding, she cut a heart out of one of her grandfather’s old blue shirts and stitched it into her dress. “That was a detail that was really important for me to be captured at my wedding. I try to make sure I do the same for my couples.”
To ensure they are on the same wavelength, Leshay meets with the wedding couple before the wedding, which can be anywhere from a year in advance to the month before, to learn about those special kinds of details. She may capture clothing being adjusted, or something funny a
wedding party member says that wouldn’t end up in a nal wedding video but is perfect for social media. She asks the couple if they want trendy TikTok-like content or something more traditional. Not all couples share the nal content she creates on social media, but some do. She tries to nd out during the planning stage how they will use their content.
To prevent her presence from being intrusive, Leshay plans carefully and often meets with other vendors, speci cally photographers and planners, to ensure she keeps her part running smoothly.
Leshay captures all her photos and video on an iPhone (currently the iPhone 15), using a stabilizer and sometimes a square light for receptions, but no other attachments. She typically edits on Capcut or with iMovie, and she will have the rst video ready for the couple within 24 hours of the wedding.
“Meaning if I leave the venue at 9pm, they will have their content by 9pm the next evening.” All additional video, edited and nalized, will be delivered within two weeks. Her scope of services also includes taking Polaroids.
Leshay is largely self-taught, although she has taken some specialty classes. She attributes her editing expertise to her years as a dancer.
“I’ve been dancing for 28 years,” she said. “I coach two dance teams here in St. Louis. I’ve danced professionally. So my brain naturally works in rhythm. I listen to the music, and if there’s a beat dropping, I try to match it up with the timing, making sure the clips are changing.”
COACHING GUESTS
TO COMPLY WITH THE UNPLUGGED MOMENT
Leshay and Michelle have both noticed that many wedding guests, in their excitement about the event, often miss the signs at the entrance to the wedding venue that ask them not to take photos or video during the ceremony.
“The wedding of ciant is the one who has the most effect,” Michelle offered. “They’re speaking to everyone. There’s usually a sign before you sit down, but most people don’t even read it. There’s so much other stuff going on. The of ciant makes the point at the beginning of the ceremony. I usually wave so the guests see me. I may joke – ‘I’ll talk to you if I need you.’”
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Leaving the Unplugged World Behind
For couples who want a more personal ceremony, hiring a celebrant-of ciant who can legally marry the couple but who also brings a creative and narrative approach to the ceremony can be a memorable experience.
Amanda Chasnoff is both a wedding planner and one of ve Certi ed Life Cycle Celebrants in the Midwest, and she is headquartered in St. Louis. Amanda’s background is in event and wedding planning. She became interested in the of ciating aspect of weddings when a friend’s ceremony ended with the bride in tears because the of ciant mispronounced names, forgot to ask the couple to recite their vows, and failed to bring the bride’s grandmother up to speak. That experience inspired her to add wedding of ciant to her scope of services. It’s the part of her job where she makes the least amount of money but that she enjoys the most.
Almost all of her weddings are unplugged, and many times, the couple doesn’t even want
their photos on social media. Many of her weddings are in the upper-range of costs, so the couple often hires professional photographers and videographers, who have a clause in their contracts about no phone pics during the ceremony. She helps enforce that by talking to the wedding guests about photography at the beginning of the ceremony.
“I have a real hard line,” she said. “No phones, no cameras, except for the professionals. I remind them the couple wants them to be paying attention, kind of putting it on them, maybe a little bit of a guilt trip. But I want to assure them we have it covered.”
To assuage the need to take pics for social media, which almost every guest wants to do, she uses humor. She gives them a whole minute to take out their phones and get some photos before shutting it down. With the wedding couple’s permission, she gives the guests a “social media moment” at the
beginning of the ceremony.
“Get your phones out,” she tells them. ”Take as many pics as you want. Then put them away.” It’s a light, humorous moment before they get into the more emotional part of the couple’s love story.
As a celebrant-of ciant, Amanda specializes in telling the couple’s love story – how they met, what their cultural traditions are, and any cute or funny stories they want to include. She describes herself as a “Love Storyteller.”
One of her favorite stories was a couple who had met in elementary school, where they had been best buddies for years but with no romantic attachment. They lost touch but reconnected at a kindergarten friend’s wedding.
“The emotional highlight for the bride was that her father, who had died before the wedding, had known the groom as a child,” she said.
“She knew that her father had really known the man she was marrying. I told this story during the ceremony to pin-drop silence. Everyone was emotionally involved and in tears.”
LESHAY REED HYPE QUEEN MEDIA leshay@hypequeenmedia.com hypequeenmedia.com
AMANDA CHASNOFF SIGNED SEALED DELIVERED EVENTS : www.signedsealeddeliveredevents.com amanda@ssdevents
LOVE STORYTELLER OFFICIANT, LIFE STORYTELLER: www.thelovestoryteller.com
Photo Courtesy of Catherine Rhodes Photography
Weddings Neighborhood
in your
By Denise P. McGrail
The Central West End: Where old-time charm meets urban vibrancy
Nestled between Forest Park and St. Louis University’s Midtown campus, the Central West End (CWE) is one of St. Louis' oldest neighborhoods. Built to support the surge of visitors to the 1904 World’s Fair, the neighborhood was once home to fair-era hotels that, over time, transformed into midrise apartment buildings overlooking the nostalgic single-family Classic Revival homes along the tree-lined streets of Pershing, Hortense and Lenox places.
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Weddings in your Neighborhood: The Central West End
With its iconic grif n-adorned lampposts dotting Euclid and Maryland avenues and the surrounding streets, the CWE continues to offer residential old-world charm mixed with thriving commercial diversity and is hands down one of the most dreamy and accessible areas for St. Louis wedding events. From romantic and traditional to funky and out-ofthe-box, weddings in this historic district are certain to make for lasting memories.
VERSATILE AND CLASSIC
“The CWE has everything you need to plan your wedding,” says Kate Haher, executive director of the Central West End Business Community Improvement District. “You can nd your wedding dress, bridesmaids dresses, suits, wedding rings, owers, photographers, caterers and venues all in the most unique neighborhood in St. Louis.”
One reason engaged couples fall in love with the CWE is it has everything necessary to make the day special and treat guests right.
Fabulous hotels like the AC Marriott, The Doubletree by Hilton, and the luxurious, historic Chase Park Plaza Hotel help your guests feel right at home and in the middle of all the action.
Whether your wedding ceremony is at the Cathedral Basilica, the Jewel Box in Forest Park and your reception is at the Chase Park Plaza, The McPherson, or the Mahler Ballroom, your guests never have to travel far. They also won’t be bored in between the ceremony and reception.
As one of the most walkable neighborhoods in St. Louis, the CWE has a variety of shops, restaurants, and venues to keep guests entertained in between the ceremony and reception. There’s Provisions St. Louis, the go-to lifestyle shop for “necessary luxuries” and thoughtful gifts. Left Bank Books is a neighborhood gem for book lovers. And what pairs well with books? Coffee, of course, which you can nd at Pass the Past, an independent coffee shop. For art lovers, the
many art galleries on McPherson offer the perfect respite between events.
Another reason couples (and photographers and videographers) love the CWE is for its endless photo opportunities. Whether you’re a couple who wants editorial-style wedding photos in front of the Maryland Plaza Fountain or on the steps of Cathedral Basilica, a moody shoot inside Maryland House, the area’s sexiest rooftop bar, playful photos inside Up-Down Arcade Bar, or more traditional photos amidst the wide-open spaces at Forest Park, you can have it all in the CWE. Only your imagination, time, and budget limits the possibilities.
The CWE also has endless dining possibilities for rehearsal dinners and bridal brunches. Whether it’s a bridal brunch or a morning-after-the-festivities brunch, Brasserie by Niche and Bowood by Niche will please the palate. While Brasserie offers classic French bistro fare in a warm, romantic atmosphere with indoor and outdoor, Bowood, located
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Weddings in your Neighborhood: The Central West End
on Olive at the northeastern edge of the CWE, is an ideal spot to enjoy brunch in an urban garden oasis. Both restaurants also offer lunch and dinner options as well. .
Another unique brunch spot is Evangeline’s Bistro and Music Shop. This New Orleansinspired bar/eatery has a Saturday and Sunday Swing Jazz Brunch with the tastiest beignets north of NOLA. What better way to celebrate!
Bar Italia might be in the heart of the CWE, but it’s guaranteed you’ll feel like you’re in Italy. The upscale restaurant offers
an intimate indoor dining and patio seating, serving authentic Italian dishes including their housemade gelato.
Edera Italian Eatery across from the Maryland Plaza fountain is another Italian restaurant that offers elevated, more modern twists on Italian dishes. Couples getting married during the fall and winter months can reserve heated outdoor chalets perfect for rehearsal dinners or an intimate couple’s dinner before the wedding.
If Italian cuisine isn’t your go-to, consider
Kampai Sushi Bar, Sushi Koi or Saigon Cafe for Asian fare.
Steak lovers enjoy the Tenderloin Room located at The Chase in an old-school setting with restored 1922 woodwork and custom waterfall chandeliers for an elevated dining experience. The Chase is also home to The Preston, a New American restaurant offering small plates, wine, and craft cocktails. Both restaurants are ideal for groomsmen dinners. For a more laid-back dining experience, head to the BBQ Saloon for delicious barbecue eats that
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MEMORIES ARE FOREVER
Weddings in your Neighborhood: The Central West End
pair well with the variety of whiskeys offered.
Other restaurants couples and their guests enjoy include Dressels, Mainlander, Kingside Diner, First Watch, and Cocina Latina. Really, the quantity of dining opportunities in the CWE is unlike anywhere else. There’s something for everyone and every type of wedding festivity.
While the CWE has everything for your wedding day, it also has everything you need to prepare for your wedding.
SAY "YES" TO THE DRESS (AND MORE!)
On a leisurely stroll through the CWE, you’ll nd a handful of shops ready to out t an entire wedding party. Brides yearning for the pivotal say “yes” to “the” dress moment book an appointment with Savvy Bridal, an intimate bridal shop with a curated collection
of customizable bridal gowns and “ready-towed” gowns. With over 400 gowns to choose from, nding the perfect t is a piece of cake. While wedding dresses demand the most attention, don’t forget about the rest of the bridal party. After your appointment at Savvy Bridal, make it a whole day of shopping and head north on Euclid Avenue and walk a few blocks to Bella Bridesmaids on McPherson Avenue. There you’ll nd a wide variety of maid of honor and bridesmaids dresses, including an impressive collection from St. Louis designers like Adrianna Papell and Amsale. Brides who want a simpler gown or a reception dress can choose from The Little White Dress collection from By Watters. For luxury fashion, including mother-of-thebride or groom dresses, pop into Occasions Boutique. You’ll nd a carefully selected collection of designer and haute couture pieces
from some of the most renowned fashion houses. Skip digging through racks of clothing and let the staff guide you to something special, including all those often-overlooked accessories like jewelry, a stylish clutch or a wrap for cooler evenings.
Let’s not forget about the men. Skip the usual big chain stores and head over to Maryland Plaza and check out Suitsupply and Bonobos. Each has classic tuxedo collections. Enjoy personalized service and professional t and style advice. If a tuxedo doesn’t t your personality or your wedding’s vibe, both stores offer an array of evening styles beyond the traditional tuxedo to keep you looking and feeling your best on the big day. What better way to spend a day with your bridal party leading up to the wedding festivities than getting pampered? Nestled between the bridal and special occasion shop
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you’ll nd nail and hair salons. CWE Nails and La Petite Salon have been staples in the community for years with T Nails a recent addition to the revitalized area of the CWE at Euclid and McPherson. You’ll also nd Lemon in this lively area, too, which recently relocated to the building shared by Left Bank Books. When you’re at the other end of Euclid at Laclede, you’ll nd Philip Johnson Salon and Spa, an Aveda partner that has the distinction of being recognized as a Top 200 Salon in North America by Salon Today for the eighth time in a row.
If you’re looking for a budget-friendly option that doesn’t hold back on style and talent, consider Paul Mitchell. At this teaching salon, brides can pamper themselves and their entire wedding party (yes, the guys, too!) for a fraction of the cost.
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The CWE is also home to the jewelry stores Kendra Scott and Brilliant Earth. Each satis es different price points and wedding jewelry needs. You’ll nd beautiful jewelry at Kendra Scott to complement bridesmaids’ dresses and mother-of-the-bride and groom attire.
Just a few doors down from Kendra Scott is Brilliant Earth, an upscale ne jeweler. While walk-ins are welcome, the best way to shop for your rings is to book an appointment. With an appointment, you’re guaranteed personalized attention, expert design services and a shopping experience curated to your tastes and preferences.
If your tastes run more eclectic, head to The Chase and visit The Silver Lady. You’ll nd a unique collection of bracelets, rings, earrings and necklaces made from a collection of
gemstones. Lori, aka The Silver Lady, began selling jewelry out of a friend's spare bedroom nearly 40 years ago and now has two shops, the rst one in Delmar on The Loop and the second at The Chase. Her jewelry pieces make excellent bridesmaid or groomsmen gifts but could also be the perfect t for that couple who wants less traditional, more personal wedding jewelry.
“The CWE is a community that has something for everyone,” Haher reiterates. “A mix of venues for all the festivities keeps the wedding fun and exciting … and the pictureperfect backdrop [is] an obvious choice when planning a wedding.”
Truly, the CWE has so much for engaged couples planning a wedding that you have to see it for yourself. Come spend a day in the neighborhood, explore and fall in love with all the possibilities.
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When thoughtfully chosen, a wedding favor adds a personal touch and creates a lasting impression for guests. But when it’s given out of obligation, it often ends up forgotten or discarded. On a day meant to re ect the couple’s unique story, the favor should be just as meaningful.
Whether it’s an interactive experience that leaves guests with a memento to take home, something that guests can utilize during the wedding festivities like a hand painted fan or pair of sunglasses at an outdoor ceremony, or anl unique item that celebrates the couple’s love story, local planner Laurel Fox of One Foxy Affair believes the key to a good wedding favor is choosing one that will “surprise and delight guests,” not simply “check a box.” Gone are the days of items given out of obligation — now, favors can mean so much more.
”When I’m thinking about a couple’s wedding day, it’s really important to tailor the day in every aspect to the unique couple,” Fox said.
Out-of-the-box thinking can really upgrade the idea of a traditional favor. Keeping in mind the unique couple as well as the guest experience, a great favor can be one of many things. Interactive
experiences at the wedding can make for both a great memory and a great favor.
”I’ve really been liking personalized artwork, which I've been seeing a lot of lately,” Fox said. “It’s a piece of art that guests can take home and display in their house and it's also a great reminder of the wedding day.”
One example of this is guest watercolor portraits, where guests have the opportunity to have a custom painting done of them that they get to take home.
“It’s always a crowd pleaser,” Elysia King, a local wedding painter shared. ”Everyone loves it.”
While King began her journey as a live wedding ceremony painter, she began doing guest portraits as couples started looking for a more unique, interactive favor for their guests to take home.
“The guests love it and love having something to take home that’s a little more personal,” King said. ”I’ve had guests reach out and tell me they’ve had them framed.”
During the reception, King will set up a table where guests can stop by, have their photo taken, and pick up their portrait at the end of the night.
”Every artist has their own style, whether it’s more simple or more couture, but usually guests
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are just over the moon to have something to take home,” King shared. “It’s very ful lling and fun to watch guests react when they get their picture back. People will even stop by the table and see the pictures waiting to be disturbed and pick out who’s who, and that’s when I know I’ve done a good job.”
However, scheduling and planning is incredibly important when bringing in a vendor who is providing both an experience and a takehome item. The guest count, hours allotted, and budget for take-home work to nish additional portraits can determine how many paintings can be completed and if a second artist is needed.
“It’s really contingent on the couple’s guest count, their budget, and if they care more about the experience or the paintings themselves,” King explained.
And as unique as the offering may be already, there’s even more ways to customize the experience.
“Some people do monograms or the venue sketched in one background prior,” King added, “and that’s another element that makes it really fun and personal.”
Another experience-turned-favor is a tried and true photobooth, and St. Louis’ Fête Booth is taking the classic experience to a new level, with backdrops, personalized lights, and even a lter that gives photos the ‘Kardashian style’ black-and-white glam look.
“Not only is it an experience that the guests are able to do, but also take home and have in perpetuity,” said Elizabeth Friedel, co-owner of Fête Booth. “We really provide ourselves on the experience itself. It’s not just grabbing props and taking a photo. We walk the guest through it and make sure they have a great experience that they remember, Then, they also get to take the image home as we have printing on-site.”
“Grandparents, parents, they love it because they can get a family photo, take it with or without fun props, and then take it home that night. They can put it in a frame or hang it on their fridge as they have that physical copy immediately,” Friedel said. “Even the younger generation loves it because they don't really print photos. So it’s something tangible along with being a memory.”
And it’s not just any photo they get to take
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home. The print is completely customized for the couple and their day. Along with the addition of custom props and neon signs with the new couple’s last name, the photos are printed special for each wedding.
“For the images, we create a custom overlay that matches the vibe of their wedding,” Friedel explained. “I take their wedding invitation or monogram and then we brand the images to really fully match the wedding.”
From printed photos to digital GIFs and boomerangs, guests can make the most of the experience with their date, family, or friend group, and every person in the picture gets to take home the memory.
”We love the on-site prints for favors because you're getting a full experience at the wedding,” Friedel said. “It’s not just giving something away — your guests are getting another activity and another memorable experience and then they get to take home that personalized photo that helps them remember that experience.”
Fox agrees that experience-based favors are a big hit, noting, “Giving people something to do at your wedding can be really exciting if your budget allows.”
However, a classic take-home item can also make for a wonderful favor, as long as
it remains true to the couple. Fox shared that a dessert a couple loves or a local staple like Gooey Butter cake can be great options, or potentially an even further customized takehome treat.
“Maybe a couple got engaged overseas, and there might be a drink that is unique to that area that they really like — whether it’s sangria or a spritz,” Fox said. “Guests can take home little kits where they can make the drink at home and relive the excitement of your day.”
Some couples may even choose to create such edible favors themselves.
“We had a couple who was really into baking, and they baked these beautiful three-tier wedding cake cookies for their guests,” Fox said. “We also had a couple where the family was really into canning, so they canned jars of jelly for all of their guests.”
She continued, “I think those are all lovely ways to tell a story and give people something to eat or even take home to try after the wedding.”
For those who’d like to hire an outside vendor to do the work, one option is a local business like Vom Fass St. Louis, who can customize bottles of oil, vinegar, and liqueur in a way that helps to tell a couple’s story. As owner Anita von Ballmoos put it, it's something different than
“your regular piece of chocolate that you give as a wedding favor.”
“One couple, their last name was Lemon, so they chose a lemon oil,” von Ballmoos explained. “Or if the honeymoon is in France, then they may pick the Herbes de Provence oil.”
If a couple has something they already love, they can personalize it and share that with their guests as a favor, too.
“A bride and the groom came into the store and they picked their favorite salad dressing, and then we put it in little bottles that we personalized with their name and the date,” she explained. “And then we gift wrapped it in little bags with the wedding colors.”
Just like any other kind of favor, personalization is the key to making it worthwhile.
“If a couple has a story, we can come up with a really cool combination that will bring them close to that story,” von Ballmoos said. ”If their rst date was apple picking, we have an apple vinegar. It's just really what is dear to them, what story they want to tell.”
Ultimately, putting a smile on the faces of guests as they leave after a long night of dining and dancing is the goal — and Fox believes a touch of personalization helps it to happen.
”I always look at the guest reaction to all of the things that we put into a day, and I've noticed that guests get really excited about things that are personalized to them,” Fox said, ”or things that are just different.”
She continued, “My main thing that I always try to drive home to people is not to do things out of obligation. Don't don't do things because you feel like you have to and choose items for favors randomly or haphazardly. I think favors can get a bad rap these days as being a useless item, but I think those instances are really in the cases where people were not thoughtful about the favors being chosen.”
While favors may not always be essential, a bit of nontraditional thinking can help couples reimagine them in a fresh way — resulting in a memorable gift their guests will cherish.
“When couples are looking for things to show gratitude to their guests for coming and celebrating,“ Fox said, “they might be surprised what could be a favor once they really start thinking about their story.”
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GatherRound Round the table
Family style service adds a sense of community and highlights the cuisine
By Amy Zimmerman
Gather Round the table
Picture Thanksgiving dinner. You are seated at a table with family and friends. Guests serve themselves from platters and bowls of food that are passed around the table. Conversation is lively as friends and family connect over a shared meal. Now imagine that experience at a wedding reception.
“Couples who choose a family-style meal at their wedding are trying to get that feeling for their guests and give them a reason to interact. Having a conversation while passing food is a good way to get guests talking to each other,” says Casey Fechter, Director of Events for Olive + Oak Hospitality Group.
HOW IS IT DONE?
Having a family-style meal at your reception does not mean every course has to be passed around the table. Most couples still choose to have appetizers during cocktail hour served by tray or at stations.
The rst course, typically a salad, can be served either passed in a large bowl or served plated. Serving the salad plated offers bene ts. When guests come in to be seated for dinner the plated salads can already be on the table to help with timing. Also, bowls of salad can be messy so serving a plated salad helps maintain the integrity of the table.
The main part of the dinner service is served family style. Two or three proteins and sides such
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as vegetables and starches are served in separate vessels for guests to pass around the table.
Couples may choose to have a printed menu but servers are trained to describe the dishes to the table as they present them to the table.
Desserts may be served family style but since not all guests will eat dessert it may be more ef cient to have a dessert station and allow guests to serve themselves. This also will get your guests mingling around the reception.
IS FAMILY STYLE RIGHT FOR ANY RECEPTION?
Family style service is a viable option between a buffet and a served, plated dinner. While caterers nd it is most common with small to mid-size weddings, it can be done for any number of guests.
“Your guests don’t have to get up and go through a buffet line, you can offer more options than a plated dinner and you get interaction among the guests,” says Cecily
Hof us, co-owner of Ces and Judy’s Catering.
“It’s a nice choice as long as you feel your guests will be comfortable with it.”
The main attraction is the unique experience and the intimate, personal touch it gives to the event.
“The typical client is someone who wants to achieve that family-oriented feel to the reception. For them, the dining experience is an integral part of the evening, not just something to get through so they can hit the dance oor,” says Bridget Bitza, Chief Revenue Of cer for Butler’s Pantry.
“Family style dinners are most common with clients who have food and beverage as a higher priority part of their reception,” says Fechter. Caterers suggest considering your guest list when deciding whether family style is right for your reception.
“The most important factor in deciding if family style is right for your reception is knowing your audience. It gives the reception
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a homey, personal feel but works best when guests are familiar with each other. Couples should keep that in mind when planning the seating arrangement,” says Meredith Beck, Events and Catering Director for 612 North.
Cost varies among caterers. For some it costs more than a buffet but less than a plated dinner. For others family style can be a more expensive option due to the amount of food and service required.
HOW DOES SERVING FAMILY STYLE AFFECT THE MENU?
Serving a family style meal opens opportunities for unique dishes. Couples can work with their caterer to compose a meal that ts their personal preferences.
“You can do things in that situation that you can’t do with a plated meal. For example, you can serve a whole snapper on a platter. You can serve roasted quartered chicken. Even side dishes can be more curated. Instead of a side
of broccoli you can serve a dish of broccoli dressed with parmesan cheese, pine nuts and a vinaigrette,” says Brad Bardon, Executive Chef with The Social Affair.
While passing dishes around the table may seem less formal, the food served can be as elevated as the couple chooses.
“The food isn’t less fancy. In fact, family style gives us an opportunity to serve a wider variety of food than we could with a plated meal. We can move away from what guests typically expect from wedding food,” says Bardon.
While there is not an ideal cuisine that is best for family style but some dishes might be messier to pass and serve than others.
“For example, if we are serving a protein with a sauce we may add a starch underneath it to help catch the juices,” says Fechter.
WHAT ABOUT THE TABLES?
Tablescape is one of the biggest considerations when selecting family-style service. You have to
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leave room for the dishes which means scaling down on the centerpieces.
“Platters and bowls take up a certain footprint on the table. Couples must keep in mind that we need space to serve the food,” says Bitza.
If elaborate centerpieces are a priority, family style might not be the best choice for your reception.
“One of the biggest concerns for us is the couple’s priorities in terms of tablescape. Family style meals require vessels. If you want a lush tablescape with orals, that will limit what you can serve. If the food is the star we expand your menu,” says Fechter.
Family-style meals can be served at rectangular tables or round tables but couples
need to consider the act of passing food and allow for conversation.
“You may pass to the person next to you but you may pass across the table. Couples should keep that in mind when considering owers and candles for centerpieces,” says Kara Bailey, CoOwner of Bailey’s Restaurants.
With family style service, the food is the focus of the table.
“Styling each platter and plate is a priority so the food actually becomes the centerpiece,” says Kelly Spencer, Founder of The Social Affair.
WILL THERE BE ENOUGH
FOOD?
Talk with your caterer about how they
determine the proper amount of food per table and how they handle replenishing empty platters. You can be certain your guests will not go hungry.
“We know how to properly estimate the quantity of food needed for each table so couples can be con dent their guests will have plenty of food,” says Beck.
While guests may be shy at rst about taking too much of any item, as the meal progresses that family feel sets in. One guest of a family style wedding meal said by the end of the dinner guests were passing around dishes asking who was going to take those nal delicious bites. Just like at that Thanksgiving meal.
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Kirkwood 245 W. Essex Ave. 314-887-1211
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ACCOMMODATIONS
21C MUSEUM HOTEL
1528 Locust Street 314-347-6400
www.21cmuseumhotels.com/stlouis
AC HOTEL BY MARRIOTT CHESTERFIELD 16461 Wild Horse Creek Road 636-778-5600 www.marriott.com/stlac
AMERISTAR HOTEL
1 Ameristar Blvd, St Charles 636-949-7777 www.ameristar.com
ANGAD ARTS HOTEL 3550 Samuel Shepard Drive 314-561-0033
www.AngadArtsHotel.com
THE CHESHIRE SAINT LOUIS 6300 Clayton Road 314-647-7300 www.cheshirestl.com
DOUBLETREE BY HILTON 16625 Swingley Ridge Road—Chesterfield 636-532-5000 www.doubletree3.hilton.com
THE FOUR SEASONS HOTEL 999 North 2nd Street 314-881-5800 www.fourseasons.com
GOLD DOOR LOFT
Airbnb in Soulard Instagram: @GoldDoorLoft www.JandJdesignteam.com
HILTON ST. LOUIS AIRPORT HOTEL 10330 Natural Bride Road 314-426-5500 www.hiltonstlouisairport.com
HILTON ST. LOUIS AT THE BALLPARK One South Broadway 314-421-1776 www.hiltonstlouis.com
HILTON ST. LOUIS FRONTENAC 1335 S. Lindbergh Boulevard 314-993-1100 www.stlouisfrontenac.hilton.com
HOTEL SAINT LOUIS
705 Olive Street 314-241-4300 www.hotelsaintlouis.com
HYATT REGENCY ST. LOUIS AT THE ARCH 315 Chestnut Street 314-655-1234
www.hyattregencystlouis.com
INNSBROOK RESORT 596 Aspen Way Drive Innsbrook, MO 636-928-3366
www.innsbrook-resort.com
LE MERIDIEN ST. LOUIS CLAYTON 7730 Bonhomme Avenue 314-863-0400 www.lemeridienclayton.com
LIVE! BY LOEWS 799 Clark Avenue 314-597-9700 www.loewshotels.com
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LODGE AT GRANT’S TRAIL
4398 Ho meister Avenue
314-638-3340
www.lodgeatgrantstrail.com
MARRIOTT ST. LOUIS GRAND 800 Washington Avenue
314-418-5820
www.marriottstlouisgrand.com
MOONRISE HOTEL 6177 Delmar Boulevard 314-721-1111
www.moonrisehotel.com
THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS 100 Carondelet Plaza 314-863-6300 www.ritzcarlton.com
THE ROYAL SONESTA CHASE PARK PLAZA 212 Kingshighway 314-633-3000 www.sonesta.com
SEVEN GABLES INN 26 N. Meramec Ave. 314-863-8400 www.sevengablesinn.com
SHERATON WESTPORT PLAZA & LAKESIDE CHALET 900 Westport Plaza 314-878-1500 www.sheratonwestport.com
ST. LOUIS UNION STATION HOTEL 1820 Market Street 314-231-1234 www.stlunionstationhotel.com
WESTIN ST. LOUIS 811 Spruce Street 314-621-2000 www.marriott.com/stlwi
BACHELORETTE/ BACHELOR PARTIES
360 ULTIMATE ROOFTOP BAR 1 South Broadway 314-241-8439 www.360-stl.com
BUDWEISWER BEERMASTER TOUR 1200 Lynch Street www.budweisertours.com
THE CANDLE FUSION STUDIO 104 South Main Street, St. Charles 636-795-8066 3745 Foundry Way 314-250-2272 www.TheCandleFusionStudio.com BEAUTY & HEALTH
BRIDES BY BRADY 14145 Clayton Road 662-801-5898 www.bridesbybrady.com
EDEN WELLNESS 10807 Big Bend, Kirkwood 314-648-4856 www.edenwellnessstl.com
Alton Square Mall, 618-465-1110 Columbia Mall, 573-445-6602 Mid Rivers Mall, 636-970-2281 St. Clair Square, 618-632-8415
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Saint Louis Galleria, 314-727-0088 South County Center, 314-894-2991 University City Loop, 314-725-2150 West County Center, 314-821-0070 White Oak Mall, 217-787-8150 www.savviwedding.com
STALLONE’S FORMAL WEAR
Chesterfield, 636-519-7111 Ladue, 314-997-8900 Maryland Heights, 314-576-5900 South County, 314-729-0004 O’Fallon, 636-272-4799 www.stallonesformalwear.com
TAILORED GENTS AT SAVILE ROW 8101 Maryland Avenue 314-721-7848 www.tailoredgents.com
GIFTS, FAVORS, HOSPITALITY BAGS & ACCESSORIES
THE CANDLE FUSION STUDIO
104 South Main Street, St. Charles 636-795-8066 3745 Foundry Way 314-250-2272 www.TheCandleFusionStudio.com
CROWN CANDY KITCHEN 1401 St. Louis Avenue 314-621-9650 www.CrownCandyKitchen.net
Conveniently located downtown, just three blocks from City Stadium, our 10,000-square-foot space is designed to accommodate your unique vision. e Hawthorn features exible layouts, two full-service bars, and concert-quality audio-visual production.
ST. LOUIS PHOTO PARTY 314-356-8940 www.stlphotoparty.com
PHOTOGRAPHERS
THE BENNETTS PHOTOGRAPHY 573-480-4610 www.TheBennettsPhoto.com
Best Fit, Service, Style and Price Stallone’s Formal Wear
Visit our store and you will be convinced there is a difference in where you purchase or rent your formal wear. Worldwide Service for Out-of-Town Wedding Party.
Maryland Hts | 87 Progress Parkway 314-576-5900
Ladue | 9644 Clayton Rd 314-997-8900
O’Fallon | 2392 Hwy K 636-272-4799
South County | 5714 S. Lindbergh 314-729-0004
www.stallonesformalwear.com Entirely Fitting Since 1899
Sales & Rentals Tuxedos/Suits
COMPLETE WEDDINGS + EVENTS
WE DO PHOTOGRAPHY, VIDEO, PHOTO BOOTH & LIGHTING 314-991-5656 www.completewedo.com/st-louis
ENDY EVENTS 636-251-3639 www.EndyEvents.com
KELLY PARK PHOTOGRAPHY 314-570-7413 www.KellyParkPhotography.com
MEMORIES ARE FOREVER 618-560-4503 www.memoriesareforever.com
CELEBRATE BY CECE 314-441-5562 www.celebratebycece.com
COORDINATING WITH CATHERINE 573-714-4275 www.CoordinatingWithCatherine.com
DIVINE EVENTS 314-669-5933 www.mydivineevents.com
FLOURISH EVENTS 314-803-8134 www.flourishstl.com
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HAWTHORNE CREATIVE WEDDING + EVENT CO.
573-344-9249
www.HawthorneCreativeCo.com
LZ EVENT CO
314-971-8519
www.lz-eventco.com
MAUREEN RENÉE EVENTS
314-800-0660
www.maureenreneeevents.com
ONE FOXY AFFAIR
314-699-4450
www.OneFoxyA air.com
REVEL & WONDER WEDDINGS
314-920-7824
www.revelwonderwed.com
SAPPHIRE SQUARE EVENTS
www.sapphiresquareevents.com
SIGNED SEALED DELIVERED EVENTS + WEDDINGS
314-789-3211
www.SignedSealedDeliveredEvents.com
RECEPTION SITES
See RECEPTION SITE GRID on page 186. REGISTRY
CRATE AND BARREL
1 The Boulevard
314-725-6380
www.crateandbarrel.com
HEARTH & SOUL 9640 Clayton Road 314-567-SOUL
www.hearthandsoul.com
MACY’S
St. Louis Galleria, 314-726-1810 Mid Rivers, 636-278-6660 South County, 314-892-0110 St. Clair Square, 618-624-2000 West County Center, 314-966-0017 www.macys.com/locator
REHEARSAL DINNERS, SHOWERS & BRUNCHES
Also see RECEPTION SITE GRID on Page 186 and CATERERS beginning on page 196.
BARNETT ON WASHINGTON 3207 Washington Avenue 844-462-2763 www.barnettonwashington.com
BEST TRANSPORTATION 4628 Crossroads Industrial Drive 314-989-1500 www.besttransportation.com
FUN TYME LIMOUSINE 314-313-LIMO www.funtymelimo.com
VIDEOGRAPHERS
COMPLETE WEDDINGS + EVENTS WE DO PHOTOGRAPHY, VIDEO, PHOTO BOOTH & LIGHTING 314-991-5656 www.completewedo.com/st-louis
ENDY EVENTS 636-251-3639 www.EndyEvents.com
FIRST TWIN FILMS www.firsttwinfilms.com
FOREVERMOORE PHOTO + FILM 217-415-8389 www.ForeverMooreFilms.com
WESTVIEW MEDIA 314-726-6222 www.westviewmedia.com
ZACH DALIN PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO 7128 Pershing Avenue 314-941-6253 www.zachdalin.com
WEDDING SHOWS
WEDDING CONNECTION Sunday, January 18, 2026 from 12-4:00pm The Ritz-Carlton Saint Louis 100 Carondelet Plaza. Clayton www.BrideSTL.com
OFF WHITE – THE WEDDING SHOW Sunday, July 27, 2025 from 12-3:30pm 18 Rails – The Venue at City Foundry STL www.O WhiteSTL.com/tickets
THE ONE WEDDING SHOW Sunday, August 3, 2025 from 12-4pm Ameristar St. Charles www.TheOneWeddingShow.com
Manhasset String Quartet
Our professional string quartet will add that special touch of elegance and style to your event. We offer an extensive variety of music from the classics to the contemporary. Whether it is your wedding, dinner or reception, we will work with you to design the music of your dreams to make your celebration a magical one.
MAKING IT LEGAL
Though procuring a wedding license isn’t quite as complicated as the wedding itself, it helps to know the rules. Here they are:
1.All applicants in Missouri and Illinois must receive a license before the ceremony; Saint Louis Bride recommends a minimum of 24 hours. Blood tests are not required in either state.
2.A Missouri license is valid for thirty days from its e ective date; an Illinois license for sixty days.
3.Both bride and groom must apply in person. In Missouri, you may apply for a license at any o ce provided the wedding is to take place within the state. In Illinois, you must apply for and receive a license from the county in which the ceremony will take place.
CITY OF ST. LOUIS
City Hall, 1200 Market Street, Room 127
Hours: 8a.m.-5p.m. Mon.-Fri.
ID: State ID/driver's license, proof of social security number if absent from license
Phone: 314-622-3257
Fee: $48 (cash only)
Simple, Modern & Classic
Wedding Registries for the Modern Bride
Featuring brands like, Smeg, Vagabond House, New West Knifeworks & more!
ID: State ID/driver's license, proof of social security number; if under 18, must be accompanied by custodial parent/legal guardian with guardianship papers ($1.00 fee), must present certified copy of birth certificate
Phone: 314-615-7180
Fee: $45 (cash only)
FRANKLIN COUNTY
Government Center
400 E. Locust, Room 102 (Union)
Hours: 8a.m.- 4:30p.m. Mon.-Fri.
ID: proof of social security number
Phone: 636-583-6367
Fee: $46 (cash only)
ST. CHARLES COUNTY
St. Charles County Admin. Building
201 N. 2nd Street, Room 338
Hours: 8a.m.-5p.m. Mon.-Fri.
ID: driver's license, proof of social security number if absent from license; if 15-17, must be accompanied by custodial parent ($1.00 fee), 18 and under must present certificate of birth as well
Phone: 636-949-7505
Fee: $48 (cash only)
JEFFERSON COUNTY
Je erson County Administration Center, Room 126, Maple Street (Hillsboro)
Hours: 8a.m.-5p.m. Mon.-Fri.
ID: driver's license
Phone: 636-797-5415
Fee: $51 (cash only)
ST. CLAIR COUNTY
Illinois, County Clerk's O ce
10 Public Square (Belleville)
Hours: 8:30a.m.-4:30p.m. Mon.-Fri.;
8:30a.m.-12:00p.m. Sat.
ID: two valid forms of ID
(i.e. driver's license, social security card)
Phone: 618-277-6600 x2388
Fee: $32 (cash, money order or local check)
MADISON COUNTY
Illinois, Administration Building
157 N. Main Street, Suite 109 (Edwardsville)
Hours: 8:30a.m.-4:30p.m. Mon.-Fri.
ID: State ID, driver's license
Phone: 618-692-6290
Fee: $30 (cash only)
Rehearsals, B runches,& S howers
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Cardinals Special Events
With options in Busch Stadium and Cardinals Nation for groups of all sizes, Cardinals Special Events has the right venue for your rehearsal dinner. Let us help make your wedding weekend one for the record books!
Request additional information today cardinals.com/events 314-345-9630
Ces & Judy’s Catering
Ces & Judy’s Catering has been creating dazzling & delicious events and cuisine for over 40 years. Since the beginning we have catered in many varied locations in the St. Louis area, and we take great pride in improving the experience for all of our clients. At Ces & Judy’s, we go above and beyond every personal detail to ensure your wedding is the wedding of your dreams.
www.cesandjudys.com • info@cesandjudys.com • 314-991-6700 10440 German Blvd, Frontenac, MO 63131
Marriott St. Louis Grand
A Pairing of Tastes. A Marriage of Flavors. When it comes to rehearsal dinners, our culinary staff at the Marriott St. Louis Grand will work with you to create menus that reflect your own special style. Maybe there’s a family tradition passed down from generations you want to keep, or cultures brought together in a special way. You may want to break a few rules or combine ideas to make it your own. No matter what you have envisioned, we’ll work hard to make it a reality. You’ll be so happy you said yes to the Marriott St. Louis Grand. 800 Washington Avenue • 314-418-5820 • MarriottStLouisGrand.com
Guido’s
Guido’s
Located in the heart of “The Hill”, Guido’s Pizzeria Tapas offers a banquet room for your private event.
Our banquet room can accommodate up to 50 guests.
We offer an intimate setting with hardwood floors, a beautiful fireplace, and a private bar. With such a diverse menu, we are able to customize your package to fit your budget. We are open 7 days a week.
Located in the heart of “The Hill”, Guido’s Pizzeria & Tapas offers a banquet room for your private event. Our banquent room can accomodate up to 50 guests. We offer an intimate setting with hardwood floors, a beautiful fireplace, and a private bar. With such a diverse menu, we are able to customize your package to fit your budget. We are open 7 days a week.
Call us for more details on our event space, off site catering options, and our wood fired cuisine mobile oven.
Call us for more details on our event space, off site catering options, and our wood fired cuisine mobile oven.
guidosstl.com
guidosstl.com
Moonrise Hotel
The Moonrise hotel offers a variety of distinctive event spaces perfect for intimate weddings, rehearsal dinners, showers, brunches and guestroom accommodations. Contact Moonrise Hotel’s wedding specialists sales@moonrisehotel.com
5046 Shaw Ave. 314-771-4900
5046 Shaw Ave. 314-771-4900
www.bridestl.com
612North Event Space + Catering
612North is located in the historic Laclede’s Landing Cutlery Building, encompassing three spaces each unique in their own styles. Modern meets history here. Located next to the iconic St. Louis Arch, 612North delivers an unrivaled paramount dining experience with a mouthwatering menu only made from the finest quality ingredients. Our team is committed to helping you create the perfect backdrop for your celebration. 612 North 2nd Street, Saint Louis, MO 63102 • 314-899-0612
Contact: events@612north.com • www.612north.com
Knotting Hills Wedding + Event Venue
Looking for a space to host your rehearsal dinner before the big day? Look no further because at Knotting Hills Wedding + Event Venue you can host your dinner right here at the venue! With both indoor and outdoor options we’ve got you covered, literally! Our outdoor option here at KH is The Garden! Rental includes two patio spaces with tables and chairs for your dinner and access to the garden bar. Indoor rehearsal dinners are held inside the reception building and include tables/chairs and access to the kitchen. Bring in a caterer of your choice and any decor to make the evening uniquely yours while spending time with those closest to you. We accommodate up to 50 guests for rehearsal dinners. Contact us today for more details!
Panorama
Panorama, the upscale café at the Saint Louis Art Museum, is the picture-perfect venue for your rehearsal dinner. Enjoy our chef’s beautiful cuisine inspired by the Museum’s art. Panorama is named after its sweeping views of Forest Park through floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking Art Hill.
One Fine Arts Drive - Forest Park 314-655-5387 www.slam.org
Piazza Messina
All-inclusive event venue in Saint Charles, Missouri, where your dream wedding becomes a reality. Owned by the experienced Russo’s Catering family, this venue combines decades of expertise to make your special day extraordinary. From your first consultation with our expert event planners to the wedding meal of your dreams, our professional team ensures the planning process and your special day are enjoyable in every way. 5535 State Highway N, Cottleville, MO 63304 636-232-0109 • PiazzaMessina.com
Create the wedding experience of your dreams starting with a personalized consultation.
Kate Hunter
Director of Catering Sales Katherine.Hunter@ritzcarlton.com 314-863-6300 Ritzcarlton.com/stlouis
SqWires
From intimate rehearsal dinners to pre and post-wedding send-offs, let our experienced team create the perfect atmosphere and delicious cuisine for your special events. Contact us to start planning.
SqWires Annex & Front Room Historic Lafayette Square St. Louis 314-865-3522 | info@sqwires.com | sqwires.com | @sqwires1415
Charlie Gitto’s
St. Louis’ Favorite Italian Dining Experience and the perfect setting for your rehearsal dinner, as well as, welcome and post-wedding send-off events.
Charlie Gitto’s On the Hill 5226 Shaw Ave., St. Louis, MO 63110 314.772.8898
Charlie Gitto’s at Hollywood Casino 777 Casino Center Drive, Maryland Height, MO 63043 314.770.7663
www.charliegittos.com
Olive & Oak
Hospitality is at the heart of what we do here at Olive + Oak. Receptions, rehearsal dinners, engagement celebrations, and showers alike receive a carefully curated experience. Our team’s passions lie within providing an exceptional food and beverage journey and standout service to match. No matter your group size, we have a spot for you to gather around our table. 216 West Lockwood Avenue Webster Groves, Missouri | 63119 314.764.4184 oliveandoak.oohosp.com/events
18Rails | The Venue @CityFoundrySTL
Discover 18Rails, a modern event venue located inside City Foundry STL. This space can accommodate up to 275 seated guests and easily adapts to smaller event styles, making it ideal for rehearsal dinners and welcome parties. Aside from the chic industrial design, you can expect culinary creations that are inventive, consistent, and bursting with flavor from the exclusive caterer, Butler’s Pantry. 3730 Foundry Way Suite 110, St. Louis, MO 63110 (314) 664-7680 • 18rails.com
Presentation Hall Event Space + Catering
Presentation Hall is located below a beautiful Catholic Church that was built in 1915 in Overland, MO. The venue holds up to 300 people and you can bring in your own food & beverage or you can have it catered. If your looking for an affordable way to have a party this is your spot! Have your Catholic Ceremony in the beautiful church, and then have your guest walk right downstairs to your reception!! Presentation Hall rental includes; off street parking, tables and chairs, stage with audio and visual equipment, Bar with refrigeration, & large restrooms.
8860 Tudor Avenue, Overland, MO 63114
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Le Meridien Hotel
Your rehearsal dinner at Le Meridien St. Louis Clayton will be vividly remembered and fondly recalled. Host the celebration before the celebration through a tapestry of choices and customizations at Café la Vie with a 15% discount on your rehearsal dinner when you book your wedding at Le Meridien St. Louis Clayton in 2023 and 2024. For more information or to book, contact our sales department at sales@lemeridienclayton.com or 314-719-4308.
Barnett on Washington
Let the memories begin here. Barnett on Washington is the perfect venue for an intimate, elegant, and timeless event. Our gorgeous bar and indooroutdoor space let your party visions come to life. Our preferred caterers ensure your guests get the perfect menu for your special event. Rehearsal Dinners, Engagements, Showers, or Brunches, let us help you make it extraordinary. Grand Center St. Louis ~ Events@Barnettonwashington.com www.Barnettonwashington.com
Westwind Hills
Host an unforgettable rehearsal dinner or welcome party at Westwind Hills, where versatile spaces and exceptional cuisine set the stage for a perfect celebration. With accommodations for 50 to 300 guests, we offer a range of dining experiences from hot hors d’oeuvres to full dinners, with a variety of culinary options to suit any taste. Enjoy al fresco dining on our scenic patio, relax under the covered veranda with weather protection, or opt for the comfort of our elegant indoor spaces. At Westwind Hills, your pre-wedding festivities will be as memorable as your big day. www.westwindhills.com | 1641 Highway OO Pacific, MO 63069
Hyatt Regency St. Louis at The Arch
Hyatt is an ideal venue for all your wedding related events. Book your wedding reception with us and take 10% off your bridal shower, rehearsal dinner or brunch. Let us host your personalized bridal shower to kick off your wedding festivities. Entertain your closest friends and family in one of our private event spaces for your rehearsal dinner. The perfect ending to the perfect weekend is brunch at Hyatt. We’ll help you customize menus for each event so you can concentrate on preparing for your big day. Contact our Events and Sales Department
314.342.4655 • salesstlrs@hyatt.com • 315 Chestnut Street, St. Louis, MO 63102 hyattregencystlouis.com
The Dogwood in The Grove
The Dogwood is a cozy-chic venue in a vibrant city neighborhood, perfect for celebrations of all types. The venue offers five separate spaces including the main floor and bar, our bright and airy second floor with bar, an outdoor terrace, a lush garden, and bridal suite and groom’s quarters to accommodate celebrations both large and intimate. Events at The Dogwood are catered exclusively by The Social Affair and include custom menu design, delicious from-scratch food, curated bar packages, and our friendly and hospitable service. Welcome to Extraordinary!
4308 Manchester Avenue St. Louis, MO 63110 www.thedogwoodstl.com
Rehearsals, B runches,& S howers
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Old Hickory Golf Club
Nestled amidst the lush landscapes and timeless charm, Old Hickory Golf Club stands as the quintessential venue for every special occasion. Whether you’re toasting to the anticipation of a beautiful union or embracing the impending arrival of a bundle of joy, Old Hickory offers a refined and intimate space where laughter and love can blossom. Additionally, we offer a wide variety of customizable packages to meet your specific tastes and budget and our team will ensure that every detail is tended to with care, allowing you to focus on creating cherished memories with your nearest and dearest.
Old Hickory Golf Club #1 Dye Club Dr., St. Peters, MO 63304 636-477-8960 | www.oldhickorygc.com
Ameristar Casino Resort Spa
When celebrating your love deserves more than a single day, choose a location that can host every memory under one roof. From micro weddings to lavish affairs, From rehearsal dinners to celebratory brunches, From bachelorette parties to pre-wedding spa pampering, Unforgettable celebrations are uniquely yours at Ameristar Casino Resort Spa Learn how we make events remarkable by calling 636.940.4364 or visiting us at AmeristarStCharles.com
Hilton St. Louis Frontenac
True to the French influence of the suburb it calls home, the Hilton St. Louis Frontenac is a destination synonymous with elegance and comfort where professional staff awaits dedicated to making every event memorable. The Ambassadeur & Clayton Ballrooms will accommodate groups from 25-600 guests and our 263 beautifully appointed guest rooms offer comfort and style in one of Saint Louis’ most prestigious communities. 1335 South Lindbergh Blvd.; St. Louis, MO 63131 314.993.1100 • www.stlouisfrontenac.hilton.com
The Lodge at Grant’s Trail
Located in South County, this unique bed and breakfast is perfect for Wedding Receptions, Ceremonies, Rehearsal Dinners, and Showers. The Lodge features a cozy three-story fireplace with an impressive wall of windows. With seating from 35 to125 guests, it’s an ideal venue for your intimate gathering. The Lodge also features nine uniquely themed guest rooms for overnight accommodation, with complimentary breakfast included. 4398 Hoffmeister Avenue • For Reservations call 314.638.3340. www.LodgeAtGrantsTrail.com
Anheuser-Busch Biergarten
Located in the heart of downtown St. Louis, MO, The Biergarten at Anheuser-Busch is a perfect Rehearsal Dinner venue! Our small, intimate spaces provide a relaxing atmosphere to dine and socialize before the big day. Entertain guests in one of our event spaces available and enjoy a crisp beer while creating long-lasting memories.
1200 Lynch St., St Louis, MO | (314) 765-3260 www.budweisertours.com/stlprivateevents | @homeofbud
Rehearsals, B runches,& S howers
The Silver Lady
Visit www.bridestl.com for more information
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Good Ice
Make your big day unforgettable with Good Ice. From elegant ice sculptures to personalized engraved cubes, we craft stunning, custom pieces that add a touch of luxury to your wedding. Impress your guests and elevate every detail—because your love story deserves to shine in crystal-clear ice.
Engaged couples, get your “Glow On” for your big day with the help of goGLOW!
If you’re dreaming of having the perfect sun-kissed look for your wedding day, look no further than goGLOW for an elevated custom airbrush tan. Our solutions are designed to nourish the skin while delivering flawless, custom results. To learn more about wedding packages visit: www.goglow.co/rock-hill-mo
9538 Manchester Road St. Louis, MO 63119 Text us at (314) 408-6699 @goglow_rockhill
Celebrating 33 Years of Original & Inspired Jewelry Something Old, Something New Something Borrowed Something Blue In the Loop, Maplewood & The Central West End Shopthesilverlady.com
Memories Are Forever
Offers a mix of photojournalistic style images with traditional photography. www.mafweddings.com tomatmaf@gmail.com | amyatmaf@gmail.com c.618.560.4503 o.314..267.9958
Complete Weddings + Events
The St. Louis area’s solution for full service weddings + special events. Offering a one stop shop for DJ, Photography, Videography, Photobooth, Uplighting and Day of Coordination to make your event a COMPLETE experience!
11100 Olive Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63141 www.completewedo.com/st-louis | 314-991-5656
Just like your wedding is the foundation of a lifetime together, our linens set the perfect stage for your big day. Choose from 2,400+ linens, 150+ fabrics and colors, and various sizes- plus we offer delivery and setup for a stress-free experience.
Explore our online collection at Zhuzh.Rentals
Spectrum Band
Spectrum Band is a variety dance band based in St. Louis that specializes in live music for weddings! This talented group of professional musicians perform a wide “Spectrum” of popular genres of music. They have received The Knot’s “Best of Weddings” and Wedding Wire’s “Couple’s Choice” awards for eleven consecutive years. They love entertaining audiences with their energetic and professional performances. If you’re looking for a lively, fun, and experienced band for your wedding, Spectrum Band is the band for you. www.spectrumband.net • 314-610-0128
TKO has been turning dreams into memories since 1984. While other companies have come and gone, TKO remains the largest locally owned and operated entertainment provider in the St. Louis area. At TKO, our experienced team will help you personalize the perfect soundtrack to your day! Call, email or stop by our office today to find out about the TKO difference. www.tko-djs.com | 314.647.3000
BEYOND THE DAY Words of Wisdom
Claire & Doug | Married 25 Years
Not every couple dreams of a big ballroom and a twelve-piece band. For Claire and Doug, simplicity, authenticity, and a deep friendship have always been at the heart of their story.
"WE WANTED LESS STRESS AND MORE MEANING."
Claire: By the time we got married, I was the last in my friend group to tie the knot. I’d watched so many of them pour their energy into planning, and stressing over their weddings. I knew that wasn’t for me. No bridal party, no big production. Just something simple and sincere.
Doug: We paid for everything ourselves, which gave us the freedom to do it our way. Our ceremony was in our of ciant’s backyard on DeTonty. It was intimate and just for immediate family. We hosted the reception at our house later that day. Our red heeler had to be on a leash so she wouldn’t try to herd the guests, but she was part of the family too, so of course she was there. It was perfect in its own, very us, kind of way.
LOOKING BACK, WOULD YOU HAVE DONE ANYTHING DIFFERENTLY?
Claire: Honestly? Yes. We’d originally wanted to elope or plan a small getaway, but we stayed local so my parents could be there. In the end, my mom wasn’t particularly thrilled with our plans, and my dad, bless him *get ready for it* started trimming his fingernails during the ceremony. Maybe it was nerves. Maybe it was just him. Either way, we learned the hard way: you can’t please everyone. You’ve got to stay true to what you want as a couple.
WHAT HAS MARRIAGE TAUGHT YOU OVER 25 YEARS?
Claire: That life will test you. Sometimes gently, sometimes relentlessly. We’ve been through a
lot: the loss of parents, career changes, the natural ebb and ow of friendships. But through it all, Doug has been the constant. He’s seen me through some of the hardest chapters of my life. And even now, I can't imagine facing any of it with anyone else.
Doug: That’s a beautiful answer. And true. The strength of our relationship has always been in showing up for each other—especially when things aren’t easy.
SO,
HOW DO YOU KEEP THE SPARK ALIVE?
Claire: We’re not the candlelit-dinner-and-rosepetals type. Never have been. For us, it’s the everyday gestures that mean the most. A shared cup of coffee. A funny text in the middle of the day. Knowing when to give each other space, and when to reach out. That kind of quiet romance lasts longer than grand gestures.
Doug: Yep. It’s the little things that carry you.
WHAT’S THE SECRET TO A LASTING MARRIAGE?
Doug: Keep the friendship alive. Marriage evolves; people evolve. You won’t be the same people in ten years, and that’s okay. If you’re friends, you can grow together. And let’s be honest, there’s a little luck involved too.
Claire: You’ve got to really like each other. Not just love, LIKE. That’s the glue when things get tough.
ANY PARTING ADVICE FOR COUPLES JUST STARTING OUT ON THEIR JOURNEY?
Claire: Expect change. Embrace it. And most importantly, grow together. Check in, talk often, and give each other the space to evolve.
Doug: Be honest. Be open. And never forget, you’re a team. Every choice, every challenge, every triumph is shared. That mindset changes everything.
