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8 Items To Get You Ready For Summer 1. Pretty Hot Perfume The latest from the Pretty Collection by Elizabeth Arden, Pretty Hot delivers a divine fragrance for your senses this season. Inspired by belle de nuit, the mystical flower that blooms on summer nights, the scent contains hints of blood orange, mandarin, and red peony—a great finishing touch to those warm evenings out on the town! ($65, Select Red Door Spa Retailers, ElizabethArden.com) 2. BlowPro “Faux Dry” Dry Shampoo Hair gone flat is the story of the summer, be it from a day at the beach or the pool. Regardless of where you lounge, your perfectly

straightened locks turn into that of Medusa’s come sundown. BlowPro is a handy product to keep in your purse while on the go. With a few spritzes, the dry shampoo removes oil and buildup (all without water) and transforms limp locks instantly. ($20, Nordstrom, Garden City, Nordstrom.com) 3. Hot Tan Instant Cosmetic Bronzer by Hot Legs Perfect for face or body, this creamy formula will leave you with a beautiful, healthy sunkissed look without any sun damage. It smells gorgeous, doesn’t streak or stain clothes and looks completely natural until you wash it off in the shower. ($16, Ulta, Ulta.com)

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There’s no shortage of things to do in May on Long Island. The beginning of the month is when many of us start preparing for the summer: cleaning the patio furniture, opening the pool, planting flowers and, if you’re lucky enough, taking the boat out of dry dock and into the water. After all that work, it’s time to play and there are numerous activities and events throughout the month. On Thursday, May 9th, Milieu is sponsoring National Mom’s Nite Out at Broadway Mall from 5-9 p.m. Bring your friends and be prepared to have a ball! Mini makeovers, massages, psychic readings, mini golf, giveaways, live entertainment and more, it’s our Mother’s Day present to you. On Sunday, May 12th, the official Mother’s Day is celebrated and our gift guide is filled with unique ideas that every mom will love. On Memorial Day weekend, tens of thousands of Long Islanders will flock to Jones Beach State Park for the 10th annual Bethpage Air Show. Don’t forget sunscreen. Many brave souls will battle the traffic and head east to either the Hamptons or Montauk. Milieu has a story about both. Elisa DiStefano is our Hampton’s connection and Alex Karcev’s insightful cover story, Meet Me in Montauk, is fun and informative. DJ Theo is another Hampton favorite and we have an in-depth profile of Theo as this month’s Guy Who Gets It on page 56. Bon appétit, our foray into food, is filled with unique BBQ ideas, plus we have an exclusive interview with celebrity chef Curtis Stone. Milieu was invited by Tanger Outlets at The Arches to spend some time with the Australian cuisinier and his take on Long Island can be found on page 62. For those who just want to hit the beach, don’t miss our exclusive in-depth story on the state of Long Island’s shoreline. Beach PatrolPost Sandy, written and photographed by Anna Dinger, is the first of a series that we will be reporting on this summer to keep you informed about our most precious natural resource. When the beaches officially open, we will bring you an updated Beach Patrol. Don’t miss it. Our WorkOut page, complete with listings of almost every outdoor exercise class offered on Long Island, is on page 66. Rounding out health is our feature story by Jaime Franchi on Hybrid Healthcare: Concierge Care on Long Island. There were so many images we wanted to share with you that they filled two Décor pages with the trendiest ideas and furniture for your backyard oasis. Our patriotic picnic styles, laser-focused shoes and bags and our Trendy 10 are all geared toward you. Next month, our June issue will bring you the latest styles from Long Island boutiques, who owns them and what their style is. Our Milestones special section will bring you the most beautiful and up-to-date styles and trends on weddings, and other important milestone events in your life. Magazines are like a puzzle, every segment has to fit together to complete the picture. Our readers get more than printed words. Reading Milieu Magazine is an experience. Enjoy,

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May is...

National Bike Month

Part of National Bike Month, the week of May 13-17 is Ride Your Bike To Work Week, which is a great way to save on gas and fit in a workout. Next up is Long Island’s big biking event on June 1: The Ride To Montauk. Riders can choose their own route and distance, ranging from 30 miles to 151 miles. All routes end at the Montauk Lighthouse, with free beer and pie waiting for you at the finish line! For more information visit RideToMontauk.com.

Asthma & Allergy Month

May is peak season for asthma and allergies. Learn how you can help in local schools and other environments by becoming a member of AsthmaCoalitionOfLongIsland.org.

Women’s News

This day in May

Paycheck Fairness Act

Democratic legislators are trying to pass the Paycheck Fairness Act, a bill that would close the A new French study suggests that bras may loopholes in the Equal Pay Act by prohibiting not prevent women’s breasts from sagging, employers from forcing employees to keep their but actually increase it. Professor Jeansalaries confidential and from retaliating against Denis Rouillon, a sports medicine specialist women who challenge pay disparities. The legislafrom the Centre Hospitalier Universitaire tion has been brought to the House and Senate de Besancon, followed 330 women ages 18 twice since 2009, but was blocked both times. to 35 for 15 years and recorded any changes This past April, Rep. Rosa DeLauro, sponsor of in their breasts. Women who didn’t wear the bill, filed a discharge petition that would imbras had firmer breasts, less stretch marks mediately force a vote on it if she could collect 218 and a 7-millimeter lift as measured from signatures. But the future of the Act looks grim, their nipples each year. Researchers conas every Republican present voted against it. nected with the study believe that wearinga The National Partnership for Women & Families bra prevents the growth of breast tissue, recently analyzed U.S. Census Bureau data and which leads to the deterioration of the found that the median yearly pay for full-time muscles that support them. working women is $11,084 less than men’s.

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Events

“We are very excited to celebrate the 10th anniversary this year,” says Linda Armyn, SVP, Corp. Strategy, Bethpage FCU. “We are featuring an Air Show App and a DVD [as a fundraiser], proceeds will be to used to assist Long Islanders still rebuilding from Sandy.” JonesBeachAirShow.com

May 6, 2004—The final episode of

Friends airs.

May 8, 2010— Betty White becomes the oldest person to host Saturday Night Live. May 9, 1941—President Woodrow Wilson issues a proclamation that officially establishes the first Mother’s Day.

May 17, 1983—The Islanders win their fourth consecutive Stanley Cup.

May 17, 2004—Marcia Kadish and

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May 4, 1979—Margaret Thatcher is sworn in as Britain’s first female prime minister.

May 9, 1960—The birth control pill is approved by the FDA.

May Movie premiere

May 5

BETHPAGE AIR SHOW AT JONES BEACH STATE PARK

May 1, 1931—President Herbert Hoover officially turns the lights on at the Empire State Building.

Cinco de Mayo May 12—Mother’s Day May 23—Colbie Caillat @ The

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May 24—Bike for Barks BikeA-Thon @ Little Shelter May 27—Memorial Day May 30—Kevin James @

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May 31—Rascal Flatts @

Nikon at Jones Beach Theater

Tanya McCloskey of Massachusetts become the first legally married samesex partners in the United States.

Now You See Me

This new thriller coming to theaters on May 31 has a star-studded cast that includes Morgan Freeman, Jesse Eisenberg, Mark Ruffalo, Woody Harrelson and Isla Fisher. The story follows FBI agents as they track a group of illusionists who pull off bank robberies in different continents during their performances. Rated PG-13.

May 21, 1881—The American Red Cross is founded.

May 21, 1999—LI’s own,

Susan Lucci, wins her first Emmy Award after 19 years of unsuccessful nominations.

May 24, 1991—The movie

Thelma and Louise debuts.

May 30, 1431—Joan of Arc is burned at the stake for heresy.

May 31, 1819—LI poet Walt Whitman is born.

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International shoe designer Stuart Weitzman has created a modern day version of the classic fairy tale glass slippers. “Who wouldn’t want to be Cinderella for a night?” says Weitzman. “When asked to recreate the iconic slipper for the Broadway production, I jumped at the chance.” Merging fashion and function, these shoes were made so laura Osnes, star of Broadway’s Cinderella, could dance effortlessly on stage as well as enchant the audience with 5,000 iridescent Swarovski crystals on her feet. Now you can get a chance to wear Cinderella’s slippers with Weitzman’s Clearly Timeless Capsule Collection featuring the glass slipperinspired pump, a peep toe slingback and a strappy sandal. (Starting at $498, Stuart Weitzman, StuartWeitzman.com)

The Coach Factory Outlet is the newest addition to Tanger Outlets at The Arches and offers the fashion savvy impressive deals on all Coach swag. “The customers love our store’s new layout,” says Nicole l., a Coach representative of the store’s modern design. “It’s a brand new concept for Coach stores, so we are one of a kind.” (Tanger Outlets at The Arches, Deer Park, TangerOutlet.com/DeerPark)

The future of communicating via social media has arrived by way of Vine, a new video app released recently that has quickly climbed the Apple free app charts. Users take 6-second looping videos and post them on Twitter or Facebook. It’s like a video version of Instagram and a great way to keep friends and family updated in a more exciting way than by just posting photos!

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BURgeR Fi

There are plenty of places to sink your teeth into a juicy burger on long Island, but BurgerFi is definitely one you’ll want to put at the top of your list. The burger joint ,that just opened its doors in Woodbury, gives burger lovers a modern and healthy fix with a menu chock full of all-natural food. Their philosophy is “all natural tastes better.” On top of that, patrons can expect to enjoy not only the food but the environmentally friendly atmosphere complete with recycled furniture and ceiling fans that use 66% less electricity. (BurgerFi.com)

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While yoga is about the art of balance, you don’t have to be a full-fledged yogi to obtain balance from home to the mall, beach or even the mailbox. These innovative and stylish sandals have an outsole made from yoga mat material and a contoured arch support for stability. Padded toe separators allow for better weight distribution and balance, while stretching and strengthening each toe, helping to relieve and reduce foot ailments from swelling to calluses. ($34.95, PediCouture, PediCouture.com)

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JAgUAR F-Type This two-seat soft-top convertible sports car with front-engine, rear-wheel drive hit the New York concrete this month. The super quick top folds in under 12 seconds. “Jaguar is a founding member of the sports car segment with a rich sporting bloodline stretching over 75 years, and in the F-TYPE we’ve reignited that flame,” says Jaguar Global Brand Director Adrian Hallmark. “The F-TYPE isn’t designed to be like anyone else’s sports car. It’s a Jaguar sports car—ultra-precise, powerful, sensual and, most of all, it feels alive.” (Starting at $69,000, Jaguar, Jaguar.com)

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ChiC RUnning ACCeSSoRieS

Spring is here and runners are lacing up and heading back outside. ARTS Earbuds and Chic Physique Armbands, which come in matching patterns, feature non-tangle flat-corded ear buds that simply slide apart for an always neat look. A microphone was incorporated, which makes cell phone conversation while jogging a breeze—just watch where you’re going. (Starting at $9.99, Chic Buds, ChicBuds.com)

A natural supplement that protects skin from the sun, Sunergetic works from the inside out. James Dean, a Woodbury resident and creator of Sunergetic, knows what it’s like to experience pre-cancerous cells and doesn’t want anyone else to experience the same kind of panic. “I started this business because I wanted to find a way to help people protect themselves against dangerous sun rays,” says Dean. “Sunergetic is a natural vitamin designed to help protect against dangerous UV sun rays, support skin health and promote energy. [It] is a patent-pending formula that should be taken all year-round for UV protection and skin support.” Sunergetic naturally helps block both UVA and UVB rays, but is not intended to replace sunscreen. It also contains natural ingredients that promote energy so you can have fun in the sun without feeling worn out. ($39.95 for 60 capsules, Sunergetic, SunergeticProducts.com)

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With MagneButton, you can pull your outfit together, literally. This fashionable problem solver lets you style and fasten your clothes without damaging them. The MagneButton is a no-holes solution that comes in prints, solids and metallic finishes and adds that extra fashionista flair, whether it’s classic, funky or trendy. MagneButton works best with loose garments. ($18, MagneButton, MagneButton.com)

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Lucca Couture Printed Sleeveless Chiffon Shirtdress

Ray-Ban Aviator Metal Sunglasses

These timeless aviators feature blue-mirrored lenses and are a cool accessory to complete any summer outfit. ($160, Singer 22, Singer22.com)

Lightweight and breezy, this sleeveless chiffon shirtdress from Lucca Couture is topped with an all-over mini floral print, button-down front and chest pocket. ($39.99, Urban Outfitters, Multiple Locations, UrbanOutfitters.com)

Chanel Beige Burlap Single Flap Camilia Bag The floral detailing and white burlap material make this Chanel bag truly stand out. ($3,600, Collette Designer Consignment, ColletteConsignment.com)

Lela Rose for Parasol Color Block Maxi Dress Protect yourself from the sun without covering up in this UPF 59+ breathable fabric maxi dress. ($285, Parasol, ParasolSun.com)

Ted Baker Logo Bow Flip Flops Polee Flat

Simply adorable, these Ted Baker jelly flats take your flip flop wardrobe to another level, complete with pops of color and oh-so-cute PVC bows. ($60, Ted Baker, Bloomingdale’s, Bloomingdales.com)

Gucci Butterfly Sunglasses

These delicate butterfly frames are a sophisticated addition to pink nails and a LBD this season. ($395, Gucci, Gucci.com)

Betsey Johnson Multi-Flower Hinged Bangle Bracelet Add a pretty and feminine twist to any spring ensemble with this antique gold-plated bracelet from Betsey Johnson. This ivory hinged bangle has multi-colored flowers and gold-tone scalloped edges with stunning crystal detailing and accented leaves. ($195, Macy’s, Macys.com)

Cath Kidston English Stripe Waterproof Picnic Rug This cheerful rug is a must-have for preventing damp bottoms! Matching parasol available. ($34, Cath Kidston, CathKidstonUSA.com)

Chanel Cat Eye Sunglasses

Cat eye shades are this summer’s must-have accessory. Although these retro frames will keep your eyes protected from the sun, they’ll never block your shine. ($420, Optics Plus, Woodbury, Optics-Plus.com)

Kate Spade Meadowsweet Park Bag

This straw bag makes a picnic at the park seem like a walk down the runway. ($275, Kate Spade Outlet, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, Deer Park, TangerOutlet.com/DeerPark)

Hazel Crochet Tank Dress Catch some sun and look stylish in this delicate crochet and lace mix tank dress from Hazel with a racer back, floral detailing and notched trim. ($99, Urban Outfitters, UrbanOutfitters. com)

R.J. Graziano Clear Bangle

This clear bangle is smooth, rounded and fabulous for summer. ($35, Last Call by Neiman Marcus, Tanger Outlets at the Arches, Deer Park, LastCall.com)

Tory Burch Buddy Bee Earrings

A resin inlaid bumble bee alights on the smooth plate of these playful Tory Burch post earrings. ($68, Tory Burch, Shopbop.com)

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H&M Straw Hat Shield your skin from the hot sun with this 100-percent straw hat with a grosgrain banded crown. ($9.95, H&M, HM.com)

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Towne Blue Stone Necklace With turquoise and royal blue stones throughout, this is the perfect piece to layer over a maxi dress, LBD or crisp white t-shirt. ($58, The Towne, Huntington)

Splurge

Tiffany & Co. Central Park Picnic Basket

Kate Spade Petal Floral Sonja Dress This essential spring dress is outfitted with a sophisticated boat neckline, seamed waistline and cheerful floral print. The bright mix of hues and relaxed fall of the skirt make this look soft and feminine. ($378, Kate Spade, KateSpade.com)

Tory Burch Shelby Sandals

This elegant flat works for day or evening and can be worn with everything from dresses to shorts. ($225, Tory Burch, ToryBurch.com)

A natural wicker basket with Tiffany blue leather and weave to hold everything you need for the perfect picnic, including china, sterling silver cheese knife set, cork screw, bottle stopper, crystal tumblers with a cutting board, striped canvas napkins and wool blanket. ($3,700, Tiffany & Co., Manhasset, TiffanyAndCo.com)

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C. Wonder Wicker Picnic Basket Reminiscent of simpler times, this beautiful brown wicker basket with a fully lined interior, and a hinged, flat lid design with a leather closure strap provides lunch in style. ($128, C. Wonder, CWonder.com)

Madewell Pleated Silk Dress in Tearose Sweet little pintucks and a flouncy skirt couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be a more perfect canvas for our favorite romantic floral. These oversized petals were inspired by a vintage painting discovered in Paris. ($124.99, Madewell, Madewell.com)

Tiffany & Co. Central Park Wine Carrier

Jojo Eyewear Charles A junkie for old movies, bold prints and A-Line hems, these 1960s-inspired sunglasses were created in part by Long Island eyewear designer Jodie Feist to carry your classic look into the summer sun. ($125, Plainview Opticians, Plainview, JojoEyewear.com)

Haute Hippie Chevron Striped Maxi Dress Look cool and effortless in this Haute Hippie Stripe Maxi dress in a bright chevron design with a slip lining to midthigh. ($299, Singer 22, Singer22.com)

Tom Ford Nastasya Sunglasses

Milky Jade & Mother of Pearl Necklace

Created by Long Island designer Paola Giordano, this necklace can be worn every day or as a mix and match. A milky Jade donut bead rests alongside mother of pearl, smoky quartz, copper, and sterling silver beads that hang from a sterling silver cable chain. ($60, Pagio, Pagio.Biz/Necklaces)

Ecru V-Tank With Baby Chain

This silky shirt moves with your body and is topped with a light chain, wrapping the V-neck opening. ($100, Jerrie Shop, Woodbury, TheJerrieShop.com)

These galactic, cat eye shades will keep you in the spotlight purr-fectly. ($380, Main Street Optometry, Northport, MainStreetOptometry.net)

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The perfect accompaniment to the Tiffany & Co. picnic basket is the natural wicker wine carrier with wine tumblers, Tiffany sterling silver bottle opener and striped canvas napkins. ($1,450, Tiffany & Co., Manhasset, TiffanyAndCo.com)

Vintage â&#x20AC;&#x2122;80s Paisley Maxi Dress The boho chic beauty features an asymmetrical neckline and single sleeve detail. What a perfect look for a picnic at the park. ($85, Lotus Vintage, Huntington, LotusVintage.com)

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Delicate and Bold, Don’t miss these Pretty Peepers! For centuries, moms around the world have warned their daughters about the powers of the evil eye—a look that inflicts bad luck on those it is cast upon. Many believe the best way to counter the evil eye’s effects is by wearing its representation in jewelry to deflect its gaze. Let mom know you’ve been listening all these years by giving her powerful, and stylish, protection this Mother’s Day.

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From left to right: Pandora Sterling Silver & Enamel Eye Dangle Charm with Pandora Bracelet $55 for charm and $65 for bracelet, Bloomingdale’s Evil Eye DIA Earrings $569, Zachary’s Golden Evil Eye Necklace $75, Jewelry Collection Prehnite & Dia Eye Pendant Necklace $683, Zachary’s House of Harlow Evil Eye Pendant $39, Fox’s 2-Side DIA Eye Station Bracelet $980, Zachary’s House of Harlow Evil Eye Earrings $19, Fox’s Evil Eye Beaded Bracelet $19, Fox’s Glenn Bradford Hand & Eye Necklace $495, Glenn Bradford Glenn Bradford Hand & Eye Necklace with Pink Chain $650, Glenn Bradford Maya J Mommy & Me Evil Eye Necklaces $219, Periwinkle Blue Blue Sapphire Pendant with Chain $683, Zachary’s Gold Sapphire Eye Ring $1,260, Zachary’s Helen Ficalora Evil Eye Charm & Chain $50 for chain, $30 for charm, Bloomingdale’s Evil Eye Bracelet $92, Jewelry Collection

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Gucci Dress in Navy $1,325, Collette Consignment; Brazilian Agate Earrings $150; Copper, Brass & Silver Plate Wire Bangles $30-$40 ; Brass Beaded & Pearl Cuff $100; All by Pagio Jewelry Designs by Paola Giordano; See By Chloe Specchio Wedge $300, Nahla & Co. at Rexer-Parkes

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Photo taken at Jackson Pollockâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Studio in East Hampton.

Elisa DiStefano

is hot in the hamptons catch her weekly segment on news12 every monday morning beginning june 3RD. For more on Elisa turn to page 28.

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Left: RM by Roland Mouret Red Dress $225, Collette Consignment; See By Chloe Specchio Wedge $300, Nahla & Co. at RexerParkes; Zsa Zsa Lattice Ring $220, Zsa Zsa White Tassle Earrings $325, Periwinkle Blue Photo taken at the Pollock Krasner House in East Hampton

Top: Sugar Shopper Tote $325, Brahmin; Baroni Green Ring $200, Bangles $140 each, Zsa Zsa Fish Necklace $220, Periwinkle Blue; Red Haute Clothing Stripe Dress $114, Lonnys; Dolce Vita Silver Sandals $69, Nahla & Co. at Rexer-Parkes Photo taken at Southampton Beach

Bottom: Blue One-Shoulder Dress $98, Towne; Ruby Red Earrings $4,420, Zachary’s; Kate Spade Navy Wedges $298, Nahla & Co. at Rexer-Parkes

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Elisa

Elisa DiStefano By Beverly Fortune

Over the past few years, millions of Long Islanders have tuned into News12 for their morning traffic and weather report. The weather might be sunny, but more often than not, rush hour traffic is a nightmare, but Elisa DiStefano has a way of softening the blow, making the report a little easier for us to bear. The entire staff at Milieu was thrilled to have Elisa as our cover and style model for this issue. Even though we’ve met a few times before, spending the day with her was not only a pleasure, it was a revelation. It was cold and windy the day of the shoot and Elisa never complained (well, maybe a little when our photographer, Jim Lennon, asked her to put her toes in the ocean at Southampton Beach). She’s definitely not a diva—she was game-on for the entire day. While we were bundled up in coats, Uggs and gloves, we let Elisa loose. To keep herself warm, she talked. All day. We learned some things about her we thought you might enjoy. Of course she was the class president at Hauppauge High School for four years and, as a senior, voted Miss Hauppauge. There was never a doubt that she would go on to Boston University and then land a coveted internship with thenNBC anchor Soledad O’Brien, who gave Elisa advice that motivates her every day. “Soledad told me, ‘Maybe you can’t outsmart everybody, but you can outwork anybody,’” says Elisa. “And that’s what I’ve always done— worked as hard as I can.” Although you’ll see Elisa on air, you’ll never see her reporting in the air. “Before News12, I worked for a NYC station from their chopper,” she says. “I literally threw up every day for a month. I couldn’t do my reports.” While most of us are sound asleep, Elisa beings her day at 2:30 a.m., and arrives at the News12 studios in Woodbury by 4 a.m. Between editing segments and appearances, she usually gets home after 10 p.m. Once the summer season kicks off Memorial Day weekend, she hops in her car and heads out east for the weekend after the morning show. Fri-

day night, Saturday and Saturday night’s agenda are filled with parties, places and people that she’ll feature on her weekly segment, “Hot in the Hamptons.” With her experience as a traffic reporter, traveling to the Hamptons isn’t all that bad. “I know all the shortcuts, so I can beat the traffic,” she laughs. Attending parties all weekend might sound glamorous, but to Elisa the events aren’t about meeting someone famous, it’s the impact these events can have on those less fortunate. And to her, that gives them meaning. “The special thing about Hamptons celebrity events is that they are mostly all for a charity, so big money raises big money,” she says. Of the hundreds of celebrities Elisa has met,

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she was most impressed with Julie Andrews. “She’s a legend and in a league of her own,” she says. After the parties are over, Elisa doesn’t stay and socialize, she has to compose the segment, so on Sunday afternoons she travels back to her office to edit the video so it’s ready to air on Monday at 5 a.m. Her natural talent and comfort on camera—and in person—connects her with the public, who see Elisa as an advocate for many causes. She is happy to oblige whenever possible. “You have to be in the community and willing to help,” she says. In fact, Elisa uses whatever free time she has to promote local charities, events and other causes. Her community spirit hasn’t gone unnoticed. She was recently awarded 1st Place for Best Local TV Reporter by the readers of the Long Island Press and because of her Only wear wedges, otherwise your shoes many acts of kindness, on November will sink in the grass. 8, she will be honored by the American Cancer Society as their HumaniEat before you go (there might be passed tarian of the Year. hors d’oeuvres, but don’t count on it). “I believe in the power of the meBring an elastic to pull your hair back—it dia,” says Elisa. “And I want to be recgets hot standing in the sun with no shade. ognizable so I can continue to make a difference in the community.”

Elisa’s top three tips for attending a

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First came the fishermen.

Before the trendy restaurants, boutique hotels and professional mixologists, Montauk was long referred to as “a quaint drinking town, with a fishing problem.” The scruffy fishermen, blue-collar bars and local surfers are still there, but a stylish set of newcomers have transformed the place into a hot spot for the Hamptons set.

friendly faces Montauk has always tugged back and forth between a pristine paradise for the local populace and a hipster hot spot with the pendulum swinging back almost immediately after the season is complete. Grant Monahan has been witness to this shift for decades. His mom is the owner of the Ditch Witch, Montauk’s beloved food truck situated at Ditch Plains Beach for the past 19 years. “Montauk is where I was born and where I’ve been my whole life,” says Monahan. All the locals know each other and even with the influx of tourists, it remains a tight-knit community. “John’s been here longer than us,” adds Monahan, referring to the Beach Dog, a food truck that serves hot dogs at the western end of Ditch Plains. The summer months mean a 6-day workweek for Monahan who, at age 22, is now a partner in the family business. “Most people have the summer time off, but for people who

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Grant Monahan’s portrait series View From the Window captures images of the clientele at Montauk’s famous Ditch Witch food trunk. Photo by Noah Fecks

work in the service industry, it’s the opposite,” he says. “It’s nose-to-the-grind nose-to-the-grindstone.” A day off is filled with surfing for Monahan yet, surprisingly, a rainy day is a welcome and refreshing alternative to one filled with sunshine. “Rain mid-week is a gift,” he says. “I can look out at the beauty of the beach with a clear view of the surf. The locals come down too and hang under the canopy and talk to us.” Monahan is also a part of the next generation helping to create the future of the seaside town. This month, he will introduce his photography project, View from the Window, a tribute to the eclectic mix of customers and familiar faces of the folks who frequent his family’s food truck.

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Perini Swimwear brings trendy yet authentic style to Montauk’s beaches this summer. Photo by Nina Perini

On May 25, the gallery will host an exhibit and book release party for View from the Window. The book will be sold both at the gallery opening and at the Ditch Witch. “People are drawn to Montauk for the beauty of the beaches and the sand,” says Monahan. “But it’s the sense of community that makes me proud and blessed to have grown up there.”

surf’s up!

An avid photographer, Monahan had the idea to shoot his perspective of summer from the window of the Ditch Witch. “I asked everyone if I could take their picture,” he says. “It made for some great portraits. One person hid their face with a coffee cup so you could only see eyes.” Monahan’s original intention was to publish a book of the photographs that he was going to fund himself. That is, until he learned about Kickstarter, the crowd-sourcing phenomenon used to raise seed money for creative endeavors. In January, Monahan launched his Kickstarter campaign, with the help of his sister, who helped write his story. In just a few days, he reached his $8,000 goal, and surpassed that number by the end of the campaign. “It blew up so fast,” he says. “It’s amazing how a customer who knew the Ditch Witch and the local Montauk community supported me. I am so grateful and really can’t thank them enough.” Scott Pitches, owner of Montauk’s Outeast Gallery, encouraged Monahan with almost daily visits to the Ditch Witch throughout the entire process of the project, sparking interest in a gallery showing.

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Like Monahan, Allie Perini, another local, was backed by the community on Kickstarter and reached her goal of raising $15,000 that she needed to re-ignite her budding swimwear business, Perini Swimwear. Like a call to arms, Perini declared, “Help make the beaches more beautiful!” on her project page and the contributions came pouring in, the majority coming from the Montauk community. “People sent the nicest emails saying, ‘I know it’s not a lot, but I just want to see a Montauk girl succeed,’” says Perini. “It’s an amazing feeling that these people believed in me.” In turn, Montauk and the community are very important to her. Perini’s swimwear will be manufactured on Long Island and her designs are inspired by the girls who frequent the beaches and surf the waves, like herself. “There’s no point to me in just lying on the beach,” she says. “I love the ocean and going in and out of the water. I designed my swimwear with sturdy straps and durable elastic so that the girl who wears my bikini can play volleyball, go swimming and surf, and still look cute.”

Charming prints and simple construction make the bathing suit pieces very easy to mix and match and Perini is also planning a mini surfer-inspired collection since, “surfing is such a big part of Montauk.” After spending frequent summers in Montauk, Perini officially made the move to full-time resident 10 years ago. “I appreciate the laidback atmosphere in Montauk, I like the vibe,” she says. “It’s just a better way of life. Even off season, it’s quite beautiful in a whole different way.” Excited for the warmer weather months, Perini is getting herself bikini-ready by ordering her Blueprint Cleanse, stocking up on Ban de Soleil from White’s Pharmacy and taking outdoor hikes. “Oh, I also LOVE Barry’s Boot Camp,” she exclaims. “I do that to get ready for summer!” A favorite outdoor hangout of Perini’s is beachfront restaurant The Sloppy Tuna, where the official debut of Perini Swimwear is slated for Memorial Day weekend in a pop-up shop. Her collection will include her line of swimwear, beach towels and beach bags. “I want my brand to be associated with fun and with Montauk,” says Perini. “The Sloppy Tuna is the epitome of fun and a Perini Swimwear customer is one who will say, ‘I want to wear that bikini ‘cause I’m gonna have fun in that!”

it’s electric

Alexander Esposito, co-founder of Hamptons Free Ride and his partner, James Mirras, can also appreciate that sentiment. Those familiar with the Hamptons know that if you are not lucky enough to have a beach parking permit, a trip to the ocean can be tough going. Esposito and Mirras wanted to solve that problem.

The Sperry Top-Sider brand continues to share their “Passion for the Sea” with those who enjoy the good life in, on and around the ocean, 2013 is Vacationland, Montauk , NY Photo courtesy of SperryTopsider.com

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“We are all about fun…and free,” says Esposito of the eco-friendly transportation service they started in 2011. Using electric cars, Hamptons Free Ride is sponsored by advertisers, so the beach shuttle service is free to the public. The ride can include sampling of various products, such as OPI nail polish and Vita Coco coconut water, making the whole experience fun. When the local team was looking to expand their service beyond East Hampton, Montauk was the next spot. “James is a true local,” Esposito explains. “And everyone loves Montauk. It’s a town with so much character, you’re drawn to it.” In East Hampton, the route is a defined loop from the village to the beach. “Montauk is more freestyle,” Esposito explains. “There’s more natural foot traffic, people walking around the village and more events. People can just flag us down.” Free Ride vehicles seem to fit right into the cool and carefree outdoor vibe of Montauk. The electric cars are naturally low speed, do not run at night and generally stick to short routes. “You can’t take the service from Amagansett to Montauk,” Esposito says. “But you can go to play mini golf from Atlantic Terrace.” Memorial Day marks the official opening of Hamptons Free Ride, so Esposito and Mirras are getting prepared for the busy season ahead. “We are cleaning, wrapping and rebranding our cars as we finalize the last couple of sponsors,” Esposito says. “To help people flag us down, we are also putting on new logoed top signs.”

This year, they are also adding a Southampton route to the mix. “Chris Diamond is a Southampton local and he started a similar concept called Spot Ride,” says Esposito. “We decided that we are all locals so why not do it together? So we partnered up our brand and relationships, with his knowledge of the area.” A newly redesigned website, TheFreeRide.com, featuring all routes the expanded fleet of 17 cars will travel is next. The team of drivers will also act as the eyes and ears of the area, using Twitter to

“Media has played a big role in terms of the explosion of Montauk’s popularity in the last couple of years,” says Leyla Marchetto, a partner with Navy Beach. “Lately, it’s about the anti-fedora thing…how the hipsters are trying to encroach on the fisherman.” Upon hearing that Glee producer Ryan Murphy may have plans to create a TV show about Montauk, she responds, “I wouldn’t want a Jersey Shore version of Montauk. But a family friendly storyline with really good characters like surfer dudes, old fisherman and cool restaurateurs…that would be interesting.” The story of how Marchetto and her husband, Franklin Ferguson, settled in Montauk could be fodder for a TV show. They were thinking of opening an eatery in NYC, until they were seduced by the ‘small drinking town with a fishing problem’. “Visiting friends in Montauk, we were checking out the Surf Lodge and Sole East, and it was awesome,” she explains. “We heard the place by Fort Pond Bay was looking for a new tenant. We saw the sunset there and fell in love.” Giving up their city plans, and with partners Frank and Kristina Davis and Martin Cabrera, they took over the business and opened the following April. “We are part of the new generation making a choice to live there,” Marchetto says. “Once you buy a house and see people year round, it makes you more authentic.” Most are lured to Navy Beach by the beautiful sunsets that can be viewed most evenings. Last summer, the restaurant hosted a sunset photo contest, with the winner

“Everyone loves Montauk. It’s a town with so much character, you’re drawn to it.” report on the goings-on in town, celebrity sightings and free things to do. “Free Ride is all about the free nature of the business,” says Esposito, adding that a repeat of last year’s gratis beer summer party is being planned with sponsor Heineken for mid-June at The Sloppy Tuna restaurant. “Montauk is great,” he says. “I love that the beach is right next to the village and it’s the only ‘Hamptons’ that has hotels in the area along the coast. It seems to get busier and busier, yet it still has kept its niche as the ‘un-Hampton’.”

beach to bar Navy Beach is another cool un-Hampton spot on the map. Although it can be hard to find, Navy Beach is a unique dining establishment that attracts celebrities and Hamptons fixtures.

Sponsors help to support Hamptons Free Ride’s complimentary shuttle service all summer. Photo courtesy of Hamptons Free Ride, TheFreeRide.com

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Left: Charter a private sail on Heron Yacht for the most spectacular sunsets on the East End. Photo by James Katsipis Right: Navy Beach, where outdoor dining is done best, right on the beach or inside the nautical-themed venue. Photos by Noah Fecks

featured on this year’s Navy Beach postcard and on NavyBeach.com. Marchetto’s mission is to update the website so that it will be fully integrated with social media feeds. “The first thing I do in the morning is post onto Facebook any updates to the schedule and upload a ton of pictures on Instagram,” she says, adding that last minute happenings are announced via twitter, since the weather can be erratic. “It can be cloudy and foggy on the ocean and it’s sunny on the bay side at Navy Beach. But trust me, if there is a great sunset, we will tweet it out.” Expect more locally sourced ingredients on the menu this year, such as fish and produce harvested from surrounding farms. There won’t be much change in the staff, however, thanks to the loyalty of the team. “It’s like summer camp,” Marchetto says. “We see each other really intensely for three months and then don’t see each other for the whole winter.” Part of the allure of Navy Beach is that it is boater friendly. Drop anchor into the bay, make your way to shore and enjoy outdoor dining at tables set in the sand. Last year, they hosted a Riviera party with a retro 1950s vibe that will be repeated this July. “It was amazing,” says Marchetto. “The Heron turquoise catamaran was there, along with lots of boats, and it felt like you escaped to the French Riviera. I really look forward to the catamaran coming back— they are the nicest people and such a beautiful boat.”

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And Heron Yacht Charters is on the pilgrimage north from the British Virgin Islands for another Long Island summer.

ship to shore

An offshore fisherman for many years, Captain Cameron McLellan met his wife Shannon on a trip to the Virgin Islands, where they established their business. Inspired by the spirited Caribbean way of life, they decided to bring their luxury catamaran to Montauk three years ago. “It is so common down there to anchor your boat and go to a restaurant on the beach,” Shannon explains. Hence the partnership created with Navy Beach. Besides using the boat’s life rings as décor in the restaurant, and taking part in the Riviera event, they’ve teamed up to offer an exclusive charter sail from the Montauk Yacht Club ending with dinner at Navy Beach. “The catamaran has a shallow draft so we can go right up to the beach,” she says. “Some of our guests like to swim in, so we’ll meet them on shore with a beautiful basket of fluffy towels and their sundresses.” Leaving nothing to chance, Main Street Drivers are in cohoots with Heron Yacht, and will bring cars to Navy Beach should guests choose to end their charter there. With amenities like chilled champagne, plush towels and white roses, Heron Yacht is geared more for the ladies versus the male-

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dominated sport fishing boats so often seen out east. You can charter an adventure for a day, sail around the Montauk Lighthouse, to Block Island, or for an extended weekend to Martha’s Vineyard. And rain is no deterrent. “We have a good weather system and plan by the hour,” says Shannon. “But the interior is so big, it’s fun anyway.” Sometime this year, Heron Yacht plans to expand their partnerships to bring more value-added services into the mix. The indefatigable Shannon is in talks with newcomer Hampton Organic Beauty Bus, to create special spa packages. “We want to offer facials, massages, waxing…even spray tan parties!” she says. Local chefs are being tapped to create special menus for private events. And of course, a Heron Yacht bridal party can always arrange to set sail for a “mermaid menu” at Navy Beach. On Memorial Day weekend, the summer season officially rolls into Montauk. Perini Swimwear will debut with a fashion show at The Sloppy Tuna. View from the Window will exhibit at the Outeast Gallery. Navy Beach will start a full schedule. Free Ride cars will run their routes and the Heron Yacht will certainly be booked to capacity. Rain or shine, the calendar of things to do in Montauk will be full until Labor Day, when swarms of tourists return west and live happily ever after—until next year. The End.

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Whatsuitsyou? Fun and flirty, mysterious and edgy, simple and classic or retro and pin-up ready, your swimsuit says a lot about your personality. So before you hit the waves—or the deep end of the pool—take our quiz to find out what swimwear suits you best. Start from the largest bubble on top and follow the dotted line from each bubble you select, as it leads you to the perfect suit!

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Rocker Chic Swimsuit You’re a rock & roller, or at least a rocker at heart. With this gunmetal suit with silver chain, rhinestone fringe and jeweled neckline, you’ll be star. (Beach Bunny Girls With Guitars, $120 for bottom, $188 for top, Beach Bunny, BeachBunnySwimwear.com)

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Post-Sandy

By Anna Dinger It has been more than six months since Superstorm Sandy barreled through Long Island, leaving devastation in its wake. And, while many people have been able to return to life as usual, there is still a great deal of cleaning up to do and our beaches are no exception. “Sandy caused a lot of destruction but our crews and contractors are fiercely working to get us in great shape to kick off the summer,” says New York State Parks Commissioner Rose Harvey. Damage from the storm included flooding, erosion, electrical damage, extensive tree damage, destruction of dunes and the collapse and destruction of both roadways and infrastructure. Right now, work is being done non-stop to prepare the beaches for Memorial Day weekend and the busy season ahead. “All Long Island state parks will be open fully or partially by Memorial Day weekend,” says George Gorman, deputy regional director of New York State Parks. So, we took a tour of Long Island’s beaches before the summer season and here’s what Milieu’s Beach Patrol learned...

Long Beach The Long Beach area was one of the most drastically affected areas on the island. The main boardwalk was destroyed and a great deal of sand was lost during the storm. “From a city infrastructure perspective, we have to make sure all repairs are taken care of—our water and sewage plants, our beach and boardwalk, our recreation center, our senior citizen center and all of the city facilities that were damaged in the storm,” says Gordon Tepper, director of communications in Long Beach. The Army Corps of Engineers Storm Reduction Project was recently approved by the city council and will provide an engineered and nourished beach, increased sand elevation, an elevated protective dune, a retaining wall and the rehabilitation of 16 jetties. It will be 100-percent federally funded at a cost of about $150 million. “The beaches now have man-made dunelike mounds to prevent the ocean from creeping up onto our streets,” says Long Beach resident Johanna Sofield, who is also president of Long Beach Christmas Angel, a non-profit organization that provides

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financial assistance to Long Beach families that are experiencing difficulties, especially those impacted by Sandy. Long Beach will also be replacing the boardwalk that was destroyed, a massive project. But the damage extends way beyond the boardwalk. “Countless homes in the West End remain unoccupied,” says Sofield. “I would guess a 50-percent occupancy rate would be accurate. You can see people moving back every day, and construction crews

Nickerson Beach

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can be seen on almost every block making repairs to homes.” Businesses have taken a major hit as well. “Many businesses remain closed,” Sofield continues. “Some have closed their doors permanently and are now vacant including Grillfire, Savage Chic, Pita Grill, Park Avenue Café and Pinup.” Although there are many different projects that are already underway or soon to be, there is still a lot of work to be done. A fleet of construction trucks dotted the sand at Nickerson Beach preparing for the summer season, scooping up and flattening out new sand along the beach. “The bay remains littered with storm debris, but waterway patrols are making progress by removing unsafe objects,” says Sofield. “The joy of spring and summer will fix what [FEMA] will not.” “The most important thing is having our residents back in their homes and our businesses re-opened,” Tepper says, adding that despite all the work being done, there will still be a regular summer beach season in Long Beach.

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Jones beach Jones Beach is undergoing a great deal of rebuilding, especially to the boardwalk for Memorial Day weekend, when the annual Bethpage Air Show at Jones Beach State Park, which draws hundreds of thousands of spectators, is underway. “Eighty percent of the substructure of the tiling and the cross-beams have been repaired and leveled,” Gorman says of the boardwalk. “Our priority has been the boardwalk, the electrical system and the sanitation system,” says Gorman. “For Memorial Day weekend we’ll have the boardwalk back in place, operational, functional, but we will not have all the railing back in place. There will be some temporary railing or blocking that is put up.”

Cupsogue

There is a great deal of construction and repair work that is ongoing on Dune Road leading to Cupsogue Beach. At the beach itself, a lot of sand

remains washed up over the stairs and the ramp leading down to the water. The dunes seemed to have undergone a lot of damage as well.

Robert Moses & Ocean Parkway

Robert Moses beaches remain closed as the roadways continue to be repaired, at a cost estimated by Gov. Cuomo to be about $32.2 million, but will be open on Memorial Day weekend, according to Gorman, who added, “Ocean Parkway and the Robert Moses traffic circle are under repair.” “We are pumping sand from the Captree State boat channel and from a stock pile area on the west end of Robert Moses onto the beach at Fields 4 and 5, which were the most severely eroded beaches.”

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Another important summer beach location that was hit pretty hard by Sandy was Fire Island. Being only about 520 ft. to 1,300 ft. wide at any given location, the barrier island is very vulnerable when big storms hit. “There was a lot of damage to the Fire Island community,” says Paula Valentine, public affairs specialist at Fire Island National Seashore. A lot of debris washed up on the island but was removed by the Army Corps of Engineers. Water washed away a number of houses and damaged even more decks. In Davis Park alone, seven houses were washed away. Many houses were flooded, especially in the towns of Davis Park and Ocean Ridge, and sand dunes were destroyed all over the island. “The biggest amount of work right now involves repair to the marinas and the boardwalks that provide access down to the beach at Watch Hill and Sailor’s Haven and to the lighthouse,” Valentine says. “When [Robert Moses’] Field 5 opens, then the Fire Island Lighthouse will be able to be re-opened, but people are going to have to walk down the beach to get there until the boardwalks are replaced.” The most notable change as a result of the storm was the opening of a breach at the Old Inlet, where water is being freely exchanged between the Atlantic Ocean and the Great South Bay. Breaches are part of a barrier island’s natural process and can even provide some ecological benefits. As this breach is in a wilderness area, it’s being monitored to see if it will close naturally. Current data suggests that the breach is fairly stable and will likely close by itself. “It has some very positive impacts,” Valentine says. “It also can disrupt things, like access—one of the things that was impacted this year was our Sportsman’s driving program and our fishing in the fall was cut short because of the storm and the breach.” The only major concern now is the possibility that the breach could worsen flooding in neighboring communities on the south shore. Consequently, frequent monitoring of the breach began less than 48 hours after Sandy and is now monitored at least once a week. The Fire Island’s Wilderness Center was reopened along with pedestrian access to the beach between the visitor center and the breach at Old Inlet, and visitors can hike the 1.5 miles between the wilderness center and Old Inlet and includes some portions of the Otis Pike Fire Island High Dune Wilderness. Public access to the breach itself is prohibited by boat or by foot. Strong currents and monitoring equipment in the inlet can be hazardous for both pedestrians and boaters. The William Floyd Estate, in Mastic Beach, was reopened soon after Sandy. All other Fire Island National Seashore facilities remain closed, however, as damage assessments, stabilization and debris removal and cleanup are ongoing. Fire Island has also seen some seasonal camping closures as a result of the storm. “Right now the campground at Watch Hill will probably open on schedule in early May—camping is not expected to be effected,” Valentine says. “But, our Wilderness Camping at Fire Island National Seashore will be affected by the impact from the storm. Because of the breach at Old Inlet, access to Wilderness Backcountry Camping is not possible from the Wilderness Visitor Center and from the Smith Point entrance.” “Things that you can do right now and enjoy would be hiking down to see the breach at Old Inlet and see natural processes in action and how dynamic a barrier island can be,” Valentine said.

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Water Quality

Most of the debris from the storm that was blown into the water at all of the various beaches has since washed up on shore and been cleared away. The quality of the water after the storm has not yet been monitored. It will be monitored before the beaches are open for swimming. “When the beachfront will be reopened we do test it and make sure it’s within acceptable standards, otherwise we can’t re-open it,” Gorman said. “So, we will do those tests and we don’t anticipate any problems with water quality.” In addition, lifeguards will be inspecting the water to make sure that there aren’t any hazards before the beaches are opened to the public for swimming.

Other NY State Parks

New York State Parks listed below are expected to be open by Memorial Day weekend, with some ongoing repairs. Most of them will be seeing fence and tree damage repairs and debris removal. The Bayard Cutting Arboretum, Belmont Lake Park, Bethpage State Park, Brentwood State Park, Caleb Smith Preserve, Caumsett Historic Park Preserve, Connetquot River Preserve, Hempstead Lake, Nissequogue River, Wildwood State Park, Valley Stream State Park and Planting Fields Historic Park.

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Smith Point

County Park Smith Point County Park is undergoing repairs as well. Although the main boardwalk area near the Beach Hut remains, the boardwalk down to the water is almost completely gone. Much of the dunes have also been destroyed leaving behind bald hills of sand. According to Emily Lauri, director of community relations for Suffolk County Parks, the bathing beach will be open by Memorial Day, but the outer beach will remain closed while it’s undergoing repairs. The outer beach suffered a breach that has been mechanically closed but a number of wash-overs have still occurred. Access roads to the outer beach are currently unusable and the beach is not safe for public use. Construction workers will continue to replace concrete and the boardwalk is expected to be fixed and usable by Memorial Day.

SOUTH SHORE

Montauk Point “In Montauk area parks, there was erosion, there was damage, but nothing as significant as the other beaches,” Gorman said. All of the facilities and beaches at Montauk Point are now open.

NORTH SHORE

Gilgo Beach is expected to be open by Memorial Day weekend. Gilgo suffered a severe loss of dune and other natural vegetation, which is currently being replaced with about 1 million native American Beach Grass plants.

Peconic Dunes Peconic Dunes Some parks were nearly unscathed by the Sandy including Peconic Dunes, which remained beautiful with little upkeep required after the storm. There was some tree damage and flooding, but the park was able to maintain its natural woodsy look. sunken meadow The breach of the dike located at Field 3, substantial tree damage, downed fences and a bit of erosion along the bluffs were reported. A bridge and shoreline stabilization plan has been designed and requires a permit before being put into action. The park is expected to be open by Memorial Day, with the exception of the eastern area that was breached.

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east hampton Beach The only noticeable impact is that some sand has made its way up into the parking lot area. Captree State Park The Overlook Pier was still undergoing repairs from Hurricane Irene when Sandy came along, so repairs remain ongoing. By Memorial Day weekend it is expected that the Overlook Pier will be completed but some repairs will still be ongoing. Heckscher State Park Storm-related damages required electrical repairs at Overlook Beach and replenishing sand throughout the park. West Beach, Field 7 in particular, saw significant erosion and the bike path and parking lot were damaged. The bike path will be relocated while repairs continue. Water sports will be accommodated at the swimming beaches until the beginning of swimming season.

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For The

Pampered Mom

White Pearl Soap Bracelet

Step into the tub wearing this beautiful bracelet of pearls carved from soap and strung on a silk cord with matching silk tassel and scented with the finest fragrance blends. ($28, Jewelry Collection, Northport, JewelryCollectionNorthport.net)

White & Yellow Diamond Necklace

Hanging from an expandable wire bangle is a peony, which symbolizes the maternal traits of healing, love’s blessing and bravery. ($28, Healthy Alternatives, Babylon, HealthyAlternatives.com)

The perfect summer item and one that will look great with a sundress or evening gown! ($6,185, Bunty’s Jewelry, Commack & Smithtown, BuntysJewelry.com)

Soma Medical Spa Gift Certificate

Soma Medical Spa takes a contemporary approach to enhancing and restoring each patient’s personal beauty, which is why a gift certificate makes such a great Mother’s Day present this year. From deals on microdermabrasion, a medical-grade chemical peel and Visia skin analysis, mom can have her pick of tempting treatments customized to her needs! (POR, SOMA Medical Spa, Garden City, SomaMediSpa.com)

Pandora Mother’s Day Gift Set A sterling silver clasp bracelet with two beveled clips, Mom charm and another charm of your choice. ($200, Pandora, Pandora.com)

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Lace Peplum Shirts by Victoria

Combining two key trends this summer, peplum and lace, this tank is sure to stand out! ($23.99, Must Be V, Babylon, Facebook. com/Must-Be-V)

Glenn Bradford The Francesca I Statement Ring

This stacking high profile cocktail ring features a rose-cut clear quartz and turquoise doublet and diamonds. ($495, Glenn Bradford, Port Washington, GlennBradford.com)

Bocu Salon & Spa Ultimate Day of Beauty Mom’s day of beauty begins in the aromatherapy steam room, and then a relaxing Swedish massage, followed by a Mudd treatment and Vichy shower. A facial, spa lunch, milk spa pedicure and manicure, and superb hair cut finish her perfect day. ($425, Bocu Salon & Spa, Commack, BocuSalonAndSpa.com)

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New Mom Mother’s Day Spa Trio

For The

Country Mom Citrine Sun Pendant

This pendant is centered by a round citrine stone and enhanced with smoky quartz. ($249, Ultra Diamonds, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, TangerOutlet.com/ DeerPark)

A new mom especially needs a spa day and Maximus is the perfect place to pamper her. With a classic deep treatment facial, Swedish massage and classic pedicure, this gift is enough to make any mom feel special! ($150, Maximus Spa & Salon, Carle Place, MaximusSpaSalon.com)

Mason Jar Lantern

Hand-painted with a metal handle at the top, brings a bit of beauty to any event! ($60, Free People, Multiple Locations, FreePeople.com)

Smart Mom Teething Bling

You won’t have to worry that baby will get hurt trying to bite on your necklace. Trendy moms will be wearing Teething Bling. It looks just like a beautiful stone necklace, but is actually made from a food-safe, phthalate-free, federally approved silicone, completely safe for baby to chew and drool on. ($24.99, Teething Bling, SmartMomJewelry.com)

Vintage Justin Boots

These trendy turquoise and gray cowboy boots are stunning and in excellent condition. ($125, Lotus Vintage, Huntington, LotusVintage.com)

Kate Spade Pearl Earrings

Pearl earrings are classic and this updated version features a pop of yellow and makes for a precious summer piece. ($48, Kate Spade Outlet, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, Deer Park, TangerOutlet.com/DeerPark)

Baby Feet Silver Charm Necklace

This pendant features baby feet with the name of the new baby engraved and a Swarovski birthstone crystal on a sterling silver chain. ($95, Bliss Living, BlissLiving.com)

PajamaGram

Send Mom the gift of relaxation with a PajamaGram, a gift that will remind her to take time for herself. Select the most luxurious pajamas from more than 200 styles. There’s even matching pajamas for the entire family, including Fido! (Price Varies, PajamaGram, PajamaGram.com)

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Rag & Bone Jean Shorts

Melanie Auld Designs MOP BullsHead Necklace

Distressed cut-off short is l ightly colored with a comfy fit. ($155, Intermix, Multiple Locations, IntermixOnline.com)

A mother of pearl bullshead necklace, adorned with white topaz pave. It hangs on an 18inch rounded cable chain. 18K vermeil. ($395, Melanie Auld, MelanieAuldDesigns.com)

Lanvin Leather Cowboy Boots

Perfect when paired with skinny jeans or Daisy Duke shorts. ($3,200, Net-A-Porter.com)

Kate Spade Saturday Lasso Belt

Labradorite & Diamond Earrings

Includes a cleanser, moisturizer, and shower gel/ shampoo. A great gift for the new mom who likes trying new things. ($32, Philosophy, Philosophy.com)

Vera Bradley Convertible Baby Bag in Lilli Bell This adorable floral print baby bag is from Vera Bradley’s hotly anticipated premiere baby collection that hit stores this spring. ($109, Vera Bradley, VeraBradley.com)

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Dangling between curls or standing alone with hair pulled in a bun, these earrings stand out on every occasion. ($1,579, Bunty’s Jewelry, Commack & Smithtown, BuntysJewelry.com)

This skinny vachetta leather belt has an enamel circle hardware for closure and a hidden pull-through metal circle to adjust. Natural. ($40, Kate Spade, Saturday.com)

Scarlett Saddle Bag

Embossed leather bag features satin lining and cork accents. ($378, Henri Bendel, Multiple Locations, HenriBendel.com)

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Techie Mom

Dogeared Tennis Charm Necklace Show your “Love” with this necklace that’s sure to be a success with any tennis ace. ($49, Periwinkle Blue & Periwinkle Boutiques, Multiple Locations, PeriwinkleBoutique.com)

Miriam Merenfeld Jewelry QR Code Necklace

A one-of-a-kind necklace with the hidden message “Love Is Forever” revealed only through your smart phone bar code scanner. ($110, Periwinkle Blue & Periwinkle Boutiques, Multiple Locations, PeriwinkleBoutique.com)

California Calling Golf Hat

Sesto Meucci Germain Quilted Leather Slip-On Golf Shoe

Perfect summer hat for a girl on the green. ($88, Kate Spade, KateSpade.com)

These patent leather shoes feature a padded insole and lugged rubber outsole for great traction on the green! ($93, Last Call by Neiman Marcus, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, Deer Park, TangerOutlet.com/DeerPark)

Claudia Rowe Bungee Charms For the ultimate athlete, this comfy bungee charm bracelet is a mainstay. ($48, Claudia Rowe, ClaudiaRowe.com)

Kate Spade Saturday iPhone 5 Case in Yellow

This iPhone 5 case is a custom Kate Spade Saturday design and features a cute quote. ($25, Kate Spade, Saturday.com)

OtterBox Armor Series Phone Case

This phone case tolerates submersion underwater up to 6.6 feet for 30 minutes, withstands a 10-foot drop to concrete, sustains 2 tons of crushing force and allows no dust or debris in. Talk about a tough case. ($99.95, OtterBox, OtterBox.com)

BP Ice Cream Cone iPhone 5 Case

Saks Fifth Avenue Red Dana Wedges

The protective phone case is sturdy and stylish with pearls assembled on top of a cream-colored ice cream cone. ($20, Nordstrom, Garden City, Nordstrom.com)

Sporty wedges feature a white stripe and cork coloring. ($129.99, Saks Fifth Avenue Off Fifth, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, TangerOutlet.com/DeerPark)

BlackBerry Z10

Kiel James Patrick Nautical Bracelet For the sailor, this bracelet is perfection! ($38, Jewelry Collection, Northport, JewelryCollectionNorthport. net)

On Par Dotty

Give the golfing mom a bag she’ll want to tote around town. ($298, Kate Spade, KateSpade.com)

PhoneFetcher

Sperry Leopard Angelfish Shoes

Connect one end of the PhoneFetcher™ securely to your bag, and connect the other end into the earphone outlet on your smart phone or mobile device to keep things in place! ($20, Jewelry Collection, Northport, JewelryCollectionNorthport.net)

Add a little pizzazz to your Sperry slip-on collection, these feature leopard print and sequins. ($79.99, Lo-Man Outdoor Store, Deer Park, LomanOutdoor.com)

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Allows users to peek at your conversations from any app, instantly share what’s on your screen and features a keyboard that adapts to your typing style, with other cool features. ($199.99, Verizon, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, TangerOutlet. com/DeerPark)

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Traveling Mom The Guilt Trip

This signature package is the perfect trip to give mom this Mother’s Day. A facial, massage, manicure and pedicure, conditioning treatment, blowout, makeup application and light lunch are all mom needs to feel extra special. ($300, Unique Salons & Spa, Syosset, UniqueSalonsAndSpaNY.com)

For The

Working Mom BCBG Mojave Beige Heels

A working mom always appreciates a nice pair of heels. This pair of sleek and neutral-colored heels, will take mom from spring to summer in style! ($59, Fox’s, Huntington & Mineola, Foxs.com)

San Lorenzo Design Briefcase

Lightweight, sleek and simple, this briefcase is perfect for toting on the train or hailing a cab. ($49, Jewelry Collection, Northport, JewelryCollectionNorthport.net)

Aruba Getaway

Ming Slides

Channel your inner empress with these chic and bright slides. ($400, StubbsAndWootton.com)

Everyone knows that money is well spent on experiences. Let mom experience paradise firsthand with a great getaway to Aruba. Players Choice Tours, Inc is offering great deals , like 8 days, 7 nights at the Radisson Aruba Resort & Spa starting at $1,449 or the Hyatt Regency Aruba starting at $1,599. (Players Choice Tours, Inc, Aruba4U.com)

Stress-Fix Spa Experience at Home This Aveda gift set is perfect for the working mom and allows her to enjoy a stress-relieving body treatment at home. Set includes Aveda Stress-Fix Formula body lotion and Stress-Fix soaking salts to achieve amazing results: beautiful, glowing skin and a stress-free body and mind. It even includes Stress-Fix Concentrate, a rollerball for whenever life gets stressful. ($90, Spa Adriana, Huntington, SpaAdriana.com)

Diamond Halo Studs

CupCase

A diamond-studded zipper pull adds elegance to this welldesigned travel accessory. Two convenient sizes A/B or C/D and holds up to three bras plus accessories. ($24.95, CupCase.com)

With Cubic Zirconiums encased in diamonds, these are the perfect earrings for traveling. ($999, Bunty’s Jewelry, Commack & Smithtown, BuntysJewelry.com)

Coach Weekend Packable Tote

This small zipper pouch holds a large shopping tote, making this the perfect travel accessory. ($148, Coach Factory Outlet, Tanger Outlets at The Arches, Deer Park, TangerOutlet.com/ DeerPark)

LaFont Idylle Eyeglasses

Wide oval lenses encased by a light blue uniquely designed frame make this pair stand out in and out of the office. (Starting at $441, Optix Family Eyecare, Plainview, OptixEyecare.com)

Red Envelope Hidden Message Mom Cuff

Created by a Northport artist, this necklace features bunches of blue beads in different hues creating a very trendy ombre look. ($100, Excessories NY, Northport, Etsy.com/Shop/ ExcessoriesNY)

Magical, Organized, Treasured, Heartwarming are just a few words featured on a secret message hidden inside a sterling silver cuff bracelet mom can wear anywhere. ($99.95, Gifts. RedEnvelope.com)

Pink Heart Touch Screen Stylus

Mom can use this customizable charm for using a touchscreen phone or tablet. ($5, Things Remembered, Multiple Locations, ThingsRemembered.com)

Duro Olowu for JCP Luggage Travel the world with this carry-on luggage piece for adventures, rich in color, texture and style. ($90, Duro Olowu, JCPenney.com)

Lido Shores Desk

Towne Blue & White Bangles

Two box drawers flank a large center drawer providing ample storage and a beautiful home workspace. ($1,549, 406 West, Huntington, 406West.com)

Aside from the chic chain design, these fashion forward bangles feature an easyon-and-off closure, great for someone onthe-go. ($12 each, Towne, Huntington)

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Organic Mom C. Wonder City Bike

Samantha Faye Cupcake Necklace

A comfy leather seat, rubberized handlebars, classic kickstand and medium-size tires that can tackle any terrain make this bright beauty a must-have for the active mom. ($249, C. Wonder, Multiple Locations, CWonder.com)

Sweet as can be, this cupcake necklace is available in rose gold, sterling silver and 14K gold plate. Choose from a small and a large cupcake. ($58 small, $68 large, Samantha Faye, ShopSamathaFaye.com)

Personalized Pie Dish

The once-humble pie is finally receiving its due. This fluted red ceramic pie dish is personalized so there’s no mistaking who was responsible for that extra-flaky crust. Exclusively at Red Envelope. ($49.95, Gifts.RedEnvelope.com)

Emerge Yoga Gift Card

Mom can select exactly what she would like—like quieting her mind with Move + Meditate, AntiGravity Flying Fitness, where pupils take to the air with ribbon and many more activities. (Price Varies, Emerge Yoga & Wellness, Bellmore, EmergeYogaWellness.com)

AeroGardens Extra

Toms Oahu Women’s Sustainable Wedges

For the cook who loves to use fresh herbs in recipes, this advanced and versatile indoor garden grows full-size vegetables, herbs, flowers and salad greens. ($179.95, AeroGarden.com)

Tropical florals paired with a corkwrapped heel create a look that is perfect for any springtime fête. Made with recycled and sustainable materials. ($69, Toms, Toms.com)

Elegant Eating Cooking Class

Volere Wines in Pocketbook

From pinot grigio to rosé, this is a chic way for Mom to tote her favorite wine. This stylish bag is actually a wine box made from cardboard. ($13.99, Stew Leonard’s Wines of Farmingdale, StewsWinesNY.com)

Retro cocktail parties, sushi rolls and French cuisine are just a few of the courses Elegant Eating in Smithtown offers. If Mom likes to entertain, a class or two makes a great gift. ($75, Elegant Eating, Smithtown, ElegantEating.com)

Demy Kitchen Safe Touchscreen Recipe Reader

Designed for the serious cook who wants her favorite recipes at her fingertips, the Demy Kitchen Safe Touchscreen Recipe Reader from Key Ingredient holds your personal recipe collection in one compact, sleek device. ($155.98, Demy Kitchen Safe, Amazon.com)

C Wonder Ikat Tea Set for One

A tea lover’s delight! This cute teapot turns into a cup and is a great gift for mom when she wants to enjoy her morning cup of tea. ($38, C Wonder, Multiple Locations, CWonder.com)

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Knock Out Roses

Elements Soap Set

Let mom enjoy these deliciously scented eco soaps that represent earth, air, water and fire. ($23, In2itionSkin. US)

Blooming from early spring to October and disease resistant (which means they don’t need to be sprayed with chemicals like some traditional roses), these easy, beautiful blooms are a great gardener’s gift. (Starting at $19.99, Hicks Nurseries, Westbury, HicksNurseries.com)

Pluggz Women’s Flip Flop

These 100-percent rubber soles are made with unmatched technology to bring the wearer closer to nature. Special black plugs made from a custom carbon and rubber compound are designed to conduct a flow of free electrons from the Earth to our bodies. ($39, Pluggz.com)

Balance Yoga Package

Being one with your body is what yoga represents. Balance Yoga and Healing is offering a 10-class special with classes ranging from Vinyasa, Pre and Post Natal, Basic Hatha Yoga and more, giving the recipient a chance to check out yoga in all forms. ($170 for 10 classes, Huntington Station, BalanceYogaAndHealing.com)

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By Beverly Fortune

Lynn Scarpati

Extraordinary Women... Extraordinary Networking Lynn Scarpati looked drained. She had just given a seminar to students at SUNY Old Westbury on the dangers of drinking and driving. “You have to catch them early,” Lynn says, “and get them heading in the right direction.” After she presented her program, the moderator told her, “You got to them.” For Lynn, it’s a subject that really hits home. I knew that Lynn had a son, Chris, because our paths have crossed several times at events and meetings. I also knew that Lynn had another son, Matt, who was killed by a drunk driver while he was riding his bicycle. She told me she had another son, Adam, the oldest, who is a CPA and father to two little boys with big Italian names, Santino and Luciano. What she told me next was heartbreaking. Lynn and her husband Jim had another son, Mike. Chris and Mike were best friends, Lynn recalls. “It was May 2001, the day after Mother’s Day,” she says. “Mike was 20 years old. Chris, 17 at the time, came home and found Mike dead in his bedroom. Chris stayed with his brother, waiting for the emergency responders.” More than four months after Mike died, the Scarpati’s finally received the coroner’s report. The autopsy results concluded that he died from ARVD/C (arrhythmogenic right ventricular dysplasia/cardiomyopathy), a genetic condition affecting the heart muscle that can cause abnormal heart rhythms. The family hadn’t been aware of the condition but they were all tested and given a clean bill of health. The emotional toll of Mike’s death, however, was harder to resolve. “It leaves you in limbo,” Lynn says. “I focused on the children—that I had to make sure it didn’t happen to them.” She had asked Matt if he wanted to see a grief counselor but he told her he didn’t want to see somebody who’s going to tell him “it will get better with time,” she recalls. Not finding fault with his 10year old logic, Lynn didn’t make him go. When 9-11 occurred, things changed again for her family. Rather than go away to college, Chris decided to stay closer to home. The proximity gave the brothers a chance to heal together. “And then,” Lynn stops talking to collect herself, “there’s Matt…” “He was a good kid,” she says. “Matt was 19 years old for only three weeks.” After finishing his first year at the University of Buffalo, he was working as a summer relief door-

uation but I was at Union College, which was my man at Gramercy Park South in the city. father’s alma mater, with Ian, one of Matt’s best Matt had gotten a new bicycle for his high friends.” school graduation and liked to ride on the His closest friends have continued Wantagh State Parkway Bike Path near to be a great source of comfort to Cedar Creek Park. Lynn and her family. It was the summer of 2009. Another friend, Allie, co“I remember that summer ordinated a Drunk Driver was rainy,” she says. “We had Awareness week in Matt’s just gotten back from a week memory at the University of at Lake George...and Matt said Buffalo, drawing more than he felt cooped up and wanted 350 students to the event. to go to the Cedar Creek Park “How wonderful that she bike trail.” honored her friend in that way,” Matt had ridden in a recent Lynn says. bicycle fundraiser and had gotten After Matt died, a local mother, two flat tires, but he had replaced them. Gina Russo, circulated a petition callThat day, July 20th, he got a flat again Maquette of the bronze sculpture to be placed in ing for a guardrail on the Wantagh and turned his bike over to fix it. Cedar Creek Park State Parkway Bike Path. The ScarLater Lynn learned that a cyclist had in Fall 2013 patis and Russo began meeting with stopped on the trail to ask Matt if he Above: Lynn with Matt Sen. Charles Fuschillo (R-Merrick) needed help but he said he was okay. in Montauk and Assemb. Dave McDonough (RThe cyclist rode away, saw a flash and Bellmore) to talk about making the path safer. looked back. The bike was still there; Matt was not. The guardrail is now in place with metal posts Her son had been hit by a high-speed motorand wire cable to protect the trail users from passcycle racing more than 85 mph. ing traffic. The driver, a 44-year-old father of two, was In 2010, the Scarpati family founded the Miles high on drugs and alcohol. He weighed 250 pounds for Matt Foundation to help educate students and his motorcycle weighed 700 pounds. Both Matt through positive promotion and activities in athletand the motorcyclist were severely injured. They ics and recreational safety, which mirrors the interwere airlifted to the Nassau University Medical ests and goals that Matt held before his death. Center. Matt passed away from his injuries. Lynn is just getting started. She will continue Ironically, Matt may have saved the driver’s to speak to students about the dangers of drinking life by blocking his trajectory where he might have and driving. ended up in the water yards away and most likely Her grief is still palpable; how could it not be? drowned. Yet Lynn is strong. The day after the fatal crash, Lynn went to the “I won’t hide in my house, I can’t be that perscene of the accident. The path was dangerously unson,” she says. “You have to live your life.” protected, she thought, and it looked as busy as the Long Island Expressway, full of people and traffic from bicycle riders, skateboarders and strollers. For more information, visit Miles4Matt.org or The driver spent months in the hospital, then email Miles4Matt@aol.com. was moved to a rehabilitation facility, and then a nursing home. In October 2011, more than two years after Matt was killed, he was sentenced to 3-9 years. Matt’s bicycle is still in the police evidence locker. “It gave me peace that he wasn’t remorseful,” Lynn says, recalling the man’s sentencing, “because then I didn’t need to seek forgiveness.” In every issue of Milieu Magazine and our Last year, Matt would have graduated college. sister publication, Long Island Press, the His friends held a fundraiser in his memory at Fortune 52 column brings you stories of dynamic women who have made a significant Union College in Schenectady on Mother’s Day. and unique contribution to Long Island. To “There were so many things around that one acknowledge their success, Beverly hosts triday,” says Lynn. “I would have been at Matt’s gradannual networking events that are attended by hundreds of LI business professionals, non-profit leaders and entrepreneurs. If you are interested in learning more about the Fortune 52, or know a super woman who deserves good Fortune—and a profile— email Beverly@MilieuLI.com

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sionals and non-profit leaders were invited to celebrate the accomplishments of the newest Fortune 52 honorees at Prime, An American Kitchen & Bar in Huntington. We’d like to thank Tanger Outlets at The Arches and the Bohlsen Group for their generous support of the women honored by the Fortune 52 column and event.

Honorees

Johanna Sofield

President, The Long Beach Christmas Angel, Inc.

1 Beverly Fortune with Terrie Magro, past honoree 2 Honoree Johanna Sofield celebrates with family and friends

Marianne Russo

Founder, The Coffee Klatch

3 Karen Acompora, past honoree with Amanda Carnisi, Milieu Assoc. Pub. and Melinda Murray, past honoree

Samantha Specht Co-Founder, ReesSpechtLife

4 LI Press EVP Felice Cantatore with Donna Drake of Living It Up

5 Tony Greco of Prime and Jed Morey

Jennifer Nevadomski Co-Founder & Mom-In-Chief, LongIslandNetworkinMoms.com

6 Mary Ellen Kollmer, Connie Dahlem and Karen Acompora

Danielle Taylor

8 Gurmohan Syali, MD, Guest, Jeffrey Vacirca, MD, FACP, of North Shore Hematology Oncology Assoc. (sponsor)

7 The evening’s honorees

Co-Founder, Bish Bash Books

Theresa Roden Founder & Executive Director, i-Tri Girls

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9 David Chu, MD, Gurmohan Syali, MD, with Guest and Nicole Gregory of NSHOA.

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Theo Pisani

DJ, Artist, Entrepreneur & Philanthropist

Guys Who Get It DJ Theo is known for partying hard. The DJ and producer is one of dance music’s most influential tastemakers in the New York City and Long Island club scene and has amassed a loyal following over the past decade. He is well-known for his affiliation with Nervous Records, his Nervous Nitelife: Summer Clubbing mixes and his all-day beach party at Neptune Beach Club in the Hamptons. Nationally, Theo has been nominated for six consecutive years by DJ Times Magazine as one of America’s Best DJs and consistently ranks in the top 10. But what many people don’t know is that Pisani, of Commack, is a respected artist and businessman who, with his production partner Gabe Ramos, founded Dinotech Records, a unique record label company that puts an emphasis on marketing and promoting new releases and offers a family-like community for their artists that is not found at other labels. Instead of basking in his success, Theo realized he could use his popularity to help others, and began incorporating charitable causes into his events. “I’ve been out in front of so many people,” says Theo. “And I’ve realized more and more over the past five years that it would be nice to pull stuff together and throw these parties.” His annual holiday party, Theo’s Christmas Spectacular, collects toys from everyone at the event, even the club employees participate, and Theo donates them to Toys for Tots. “It’s tough to get people from the outside to always bring stuff in, especially at a nightclub,” he explains. “But we’ve ended up with a well-oiled machine. Every year we get more donations. People really want to help.” The party is a labor of love for both Theo and co-organizer Harlan Friedman, and has flourished since its inception. “I honestly wish I could do more of them,” he says. “But at least I get to put on this big one every year.” Theo is also head chair of the Celebrity/ Entertainer Committee for the Long Island Hospitality Ball, one of the largest annual fundraising events on the island, founded by Keith Hart, a leader in the hospitality industry and cancer survivor. The ball was created to raise money for the American Cancer Society and hundreds of owners and employees of

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Guys Who Get It

Genuine Long Island Men. Young or Mature, Married or Single, White Collar, Blue Collar, Green Collar, Professional, Student or Retiree. Guys Who “Get It" are Role Models, Leaders and a Positive Influence in the Long Island community.

local restaurants, nightclubs, hotels and catering halls gather at the event to raise money, network and showcase their talents. Theo uses his nightlife contacts to find renowned artists and singers to perform at the event, which in turn brings in corporate sponsorship dollars. “When Keith said it was benefiting the American Cancer Society, it hit a note because I have family members that have died from cancer or have been sick,” Theo says. “I was full throttle on helping get this together, and I think we’re ready to take it to the next level and make a serious impact.” In 2012, the event raised $250,000 and Theo hopes to make even more at this year’s event, which will be held on June 3 at the Crest Hollow Country Club in Woodbury. Since Theo is in the music industry, it’s only natural that he would play a role in promoting the arts. He recently became involved with ArtSpace Patchogue Lofts, an affordable apartment building where artists live and display their work throughout the hallways. He recently hosted a free performance and audience participation event called Of Colors Artists Lecture Series: A Symposium on Vinyl + Turntables, to educate aspiring deejays about the importance of vinyl records in music. “Patchogue is going through a Renaissance right now, and I think we would all love to see more towns and villages doing that,” he says. “Maybe more people will see these types of events and want to do it in their own towns. I think it’s good for art and music.” Theo, who gained a large fan base from DJ’ing in the Hamptons, is creating a new fundraising group to help repair and protect the beaches that were damaged on Fire Island by Sandy. “It seems like if you’re in front of people, it’s great to get paid and everything, but if you can’t use your resources to help out, it’s kind of like a sin in a way,” he says. “It’s a crazy schedule, I will say that. I wear sunglasses all the time because I’ve got bags under my eyes.” In spite of his many commitments to his family, his business and charity appearances, Theo feels that it’s his duty to give back to those in need. “Every day evolves, and these projects come up and they’re important,” he says. “You have to get them done.” —Lindsay Christ If you know a Guy Who “Gets It” and would like to nominate him for a future profile, email Beverly@MilieuLI.com

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Décor a la Maison B a c k ya r d

gourmet Sugar Maple grilling planks

Bronson Boat Cooler

This set of two grilling planks not only adds a woodsy flavor to meat, you can also pre-soak them in wine or beer for even more flavor. ($14.95, Crate & Barrel, CrateAndBarrel.com)

For a new and nautical way to display drinks, this “cool” boat will make guests feel like they are on vacation every time they reach for a cold one. ($149, Pottery Barn, PotteryBarn.com)

BackYard

Weber one-Touch porcelain-enameled Charcoal grill

With the wide open grilling space of this charcoal master you will surely have enough room to feed the entire neighborhood. ($159, lowe’s, lowes.com)

Monogrammed Mason Jars

Rope outdoor Dinnerware

Dine outdoors all summer on nauticalinspired dinnerware. Each rope-trimmed piece gives the appearance of handpainted and glazed Italian ceramics, but is completely unbreakable. ($26-$34, Pottery Barn, PotteryBarn.com)

No matter the occasion—a barbeque, party or an outdoor wedding, this set of four monogrammed mason jar glasses are chic, and make the perfect hostess gift. ($28, Target, Target.com)

outdoor Metal Drink Dispenser

Keep beverages flowing while you enjoy the party. Handles and a removable lid make it easy to refill at a moment’s notice. ($29, West Elm, Riverhead, WestElm.com)

Silicone ice Cube Trays

These ice cube trays are star-shaped and a cool way to dress up your drinks this summer. Add fruit or juice before freezing for a special treat. ($9, West Elm, Riverhead, WestElm.com)

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gingham Check Tablecloth

Bring a vintage feel reminiscent of old school picnic outings with gingham to an outside gathering or barbeque. This is a classic pick that never goes out of style. ($59, Pottery Barn, PotteryBarn.com)

Jawbone Jambox

Jambox delivers quality hi-fi audio in a portable wireless speaker so compact you won’t believe it until you hear it. It’s a great addition to any backyard party! ($179.99, Best Buy, BestBuy.com)

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Décor a la Maison Outdoor Furniture

Patio

Aspen Aspen

Created from massive timbers of French oak, every piece celebrates nature in its rustic simplicity. Rough-hewn beams are carefully hand selected, planed and sanded. Cushions are available in a variety of colors. ($4,955 for pieces shown, Restoration Hardware, RestorationHardware.com)

Tuscany

The more the merrier at your next outdoor gathering. Built to accommodate plenty of guests, gather friends and family together for a summer of fun! This 7-piece set crafted in aluminum is adorned with a terracotta tabletop finish. ($2,299 includes table, two swivel chairs and four dining chairs, Laura’s Home & Patio, East Northport, LaurasFloral.com)

Hamptons

Tuscany

This Hampton-style dining collection invites you to relax in style and is intricately hand-woven in driftwood-weathered resin wicker. Enjoy al fresco meals as you unwind in thickly cushioned dining chairs. The smoothly woven rectangular table comfortably seats up to six guests. ($3,880, Table and six chairs, Frontgate, Frontgate.com)

French Riviera

Have a deep conversation in the Heritage Semi Round Sectional, 3-Piece Sofa! This unique ensemble is crafted with aluminum frames and beige cushions for support, comfort and relaxation. Perfect for insuring an inviting outdoor experience. ($1,799, Laura’s Home & Patio, East Northport, LaurasFloral.com)

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bon appétit

Barbecue, Barbeque, Bar-B-Q, BBQ— No matter how you spell it, you can almost smell it. Memorial Day weekend is traditionally the official opening of BBQ Season, and since this is the debut of Bon Appétit, we are dedicating this section to, what else, the BBQ!

TIP If you’re only going to change one thing about your BBQ habits, make sure you always bring your meat back to room temperature before cooking. Why? To get the heat from the outside of your steak into the middle without burning the surface to a crisp. The warmer things are in the middle before it goes onto the grill, the easier it is to win this battle.

Restaurant

Smokin’ Al’s Famous BBQ Joint

TableTop Design

Smokin’ Al’s describes its food as “barbecue the way it oughta be,” and it’s just that. From ribs to mac ‘n’ cheese and pulled pork sandwiches, this restaurant captures the essence of southern cooking. Smokin’ Al’s also has bottled barbecue sauce in three authentic flavors that diners can try on homemade dishes. (516-799-4900. 4847 Merrick Rd., Massapequa Park. SmokinAls.com)

There’s An Easier Way

Quickly Cool Down Cans

Patriotic Rice Candle Here’s a do-it-yourself decoration you can use all summer! Mix food coloring and white rice, pour by layers into a jar and add a candle! Source: TodaysCreativeBlog.net

Kitchen Gadget

The SpeedyPlus Instant Marinater

This trick makes room temperature beer and soda cans cold in minutes. Fill a large bowl or tub with enough water to fully submerge the cans, then add ice thoughout. Mix approximately 1/2 cup of salt and submerge the cans. Once submerged, gently stir the water for two minutes and, Voila! Your drinks are chilled to perfection!

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The SpeedyPlus Instant Marinater from takes flavor to the next level. You no longer have to wait hours for meat to marinate because the this multifunctional system includes a vacuum that causes the marinade to seep into the meat in as little as five minutes. If you are hosting a party, this gadget can accomodate as many as 14 chicken breasts at once. Locking tabs secure the juices in while keeping out unwanted bacteria. It’s also portable and dishwasher safe. ($30, Jaccard, Jaccard.com)

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Chef Curtis Stone on Simple Dinners, His New Book & Long Island

Celebrity chef Curtis Stone cooks and wows the crowd at Tanger Outlets at the Arches in Deer Park at his book signing event in April.

By Kristen Fortsch Celebrity chef Curtis Stone has traveled around the world learning about different cultures and cuisines. During TLC’s Take Home Chef, he visited the homes of 140 different people to learn what the everyday person’s challenges are when it comes to cooking at home. These experiences inspired his latest book, What’s for Dinner: Delicious Recipes for a Busy Life.

Curtis Stone’s Warm Shrimp Salad with Fennel Ingredients: 6 blood oranges 1/2 head butter lettuce, torn into bite-size pieces 1/2 head oak lettuce or red leaf lettuce, torn into bite-size pieces 1 small fennel bulb, trimmed and very thinly sliced 2 teaspoons olive oil 20 jumbo shrimp, peeled but with tails intact 8 tablespoons (1 stick) unsalted butter 2 teaspoons drained extra-fine capers 2 sprigs fresh tarragon, leaves removed and finely chopped Salt and freshly ground black pepper Instructions: Remove the peel and white pith from the oranges. Working over a large bowl to catch the juices and using a small sharp knife, cut the oranges between the membranes to release the segments into the bowl. Transfer the segments to another large bowl. Squeeze enough juice from the segmented oranges back into the bowl of accumulated juices to equal 1/4 cup total. Set the juice aside. Add the lettuce leaves and fennel slices to the orange segments and toss gently to combine. Divide the salad among 4 serving plates. Heat the oil in a large heavy sauté pan over medium-high heat. Add the shrimp and cook for 2 minutes, or until the shrimp start to turn pink. Add the butter and cook for 2 minutes, or until the butter browns and the shrimp are just cooked through. Arrange the shrimp atop the salads. Stir the capers, tarragon, and reserved 1/4 cup of orange juice into the browned butter and season the sauce to taste with salt and pepper. Pour the sauce over the salads and serve.

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Serves: 4

At his recent book signing attended by crowds of fans at Tanger Outlets at The Arches in Deer Park, Milieu got a chance to sit down with the chef and ask him about his latest book. Targeted toward those who are constantly on the go, What’s for Dinner compiles a list of recipes that are dedicated to what day of the week it is. “A chef saying, ‘I want to write this beautiful recipe and really inspire people and educate them,’ that’s great if you are doing an entertainment book,” says Stone, who speaks with passion about teaching others how to cook. “If you are realistic, however, people have such busy lives. It’s a struggle to get dinner on the table. It’s time, it’s money, you have to clean up, it’s complicated.” So, in his book, Stone kept things simple. Each chapter has a label—Motivating Mondays, Thrifty Tuesdays, One Part Wednesdays, etc. Stone says he wants to help the average person to spice up their meals and make them realize they, too, can cook delicious meals in just 30 minutes. Stone’s famous cooking slogan is

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“to go with Mother Nature,” and he has his own garden at home to back up that belief—with a pesky squirrel he just can’t get rid of! Strawberries and asparagus are Stone’s recommendations for summer fruits and vegetables to cook with and he believes tasty dishes should “have a balance between acidity and fat.” “For example, butter and avocado work beautifully together,” he says. And while Stone originally hails from Australia the chef says he enjoys spending time on Long Island. “You guys have your own culture here,” he says. “It’s New York, but a million miles away from New York at the same time. You know what you like. I love it here. It’s so unique!” Which of his recipes would Stone recommend for Long Islanders? “You guys are the king of the clam bake right?” he says. “I do a lot of cooking with seafood. My two top seafood recommendations are shrimp salad and spaghettini with clam sauce.”

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FAMILY KIDS CRAFT

Backyard Scrabble This craft and game is a great way to get kids to exercise their brains and bodies outside. You’ll need 144 tiles and paint. Below is the list of how many “tiles” of each letter is needed to play. Two: J, K, Q, X, Z Three: B, C, F, H, M, P, V, W, Y Four: G Five: L Six: S, U, D Eight: N Nine: T R Eleven: O Twelve: I Thirteen: A Eighteen: E

FAMILY FUN TRIP

Plant a Tea Cup for Mom Here’s a gift every mother would love for Mother’s

Day. Beautiful annuals you can nurture all summer long, planted by your little one at this fun spring workshop. It costs $10 to participate and includes all materials. Reservation required. (Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Tpke., Westbury. 516-334-0066. HicksNurseries.com, May 7, 8 & 9 at 4:30 p.m.)

KITCHEN CREATION

Frozen Yogurt Dots

Drowning Prevention Through Education Drowning is the leading cause of unintentional injury or death for LI children ages 1 through 4, and the second leading cause of unintentional injury or death for children ages 1 through 14.* Most drownings occur in residential pools and nine out of 10 drowning deaths happen when a caregiver is supervising, but not paying attention. The LI Drowning Prevention Task Force provides water safety education for caregivers and children. “The number one piece of advice that you can give to a mom, dad, caregiver is to watch your children with completely undistracted supervision,” says Bobby Hazen, task force founder. “It’s obviously hard to keep an eye on them all the time but you have to know where they are at all times.” Visit LIDPTF.org to download a brochure complete with facts, tips and resources for swimming lessons, CPR certification and safe pool accessories. *According to the NYS Department of Health and Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

This is an easy-to-make treat that kids will love snacking on. The only ingredients needed are a plastic bag, scissor, cookie tray and your child’s favorite flavor of greek yogurt. Scoop the yogurt into the plastic bag, then snip the end and pipe the yogurt onto the cookie tray. Put the tray in the freezer for an hour, and you’ll have a healthy snack on hand for the entire family to enjoy. Source: Shutterbean.com

Beach Essentials Crab Beach Tote

This crabby tote is a fun and useful accessory for little ones to play in the sand. ($19.95, StephenJosephGifts. com)

KIDS KORNER

Kiss My Face Natural Kids Sunscreen Stick

Easy to apply, this SPF 30 organic sunblock stick is free of harmful chemicals, and keeps little lips, noses, cheeks and ears safe from the sun. ($10.99, KissMyFace.com)

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Checkers Beach Towel

Dry off, lay down your towel and it’s time for a game of checkers! Use it at the beach, pool or on the patio—it comes with a bag of plastic checkers. ($17.49, Sears, Sears.com)

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WorkOut

Bang Buster Reversible Headband $18

From yoga to bootcamp, take your exercise routine outdoors at some of these scenic Long Island locations. Flow And Go Tank $64

Strappy Headband $12

Heat It Up Short $48

Heat It Up Bra $52

Yogis Emma Weinstein of Syosset and Stephanie McGowan of Woodbury finding their Zen in the beautiful coastal towns of Cold Spring Harbor and Huntington.

Wunder Under Crop $72

YOGA

Sayville Beach This morning series of classes is held with a view of the Great South Bay and is open to all levels, but registration is required. 631-224-5404. $60 for series. July 15-Aug. 19. Thursdays, 8 a.m. Cedar Beach The Town of Babylon’s beach yoga series will return. It is held, rain or shine, on in June on the sand at Gilgo Beach. Advanced registration required. TownOfBabylon.com. $17 per class ($15 Town of Babylon residents). Saturdays, 9 a.m.; Mondays, 5:30 p.m. Old Westbury Gardens As if being in the perfectly manicured gardens isn’t Zen enough, professional

Kripalu Yoga instructor Lorili Henry will lead yoga students through postures and breathing techniques twice per week. Participants must bring a yoga mat, yoga strap and towel. Weather permitting. 516-333-0048, $15 per session; $5 for members, OldWestburyGardens.org. Thursdays & Saturdays, 11:15-12:30 p.m..

RUNNING/ WALKING Northport Rail Trail In the 1860s, a new railway was constructed to extend the train lines from Syosset to Northport but this spur was later abandoned. Influenced by the Rails-toTrails movement, the old railway was granted to the

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Town of Huntington by the Metropolitan Transit Authority by means of a 10-year license agreement for public trail purposes in 2008. The trail lies in the rail corridor that leads from Laurel Hill Road to Elwood Road. The old rail line used to run past the trailway, across Elwood Road delivering freight to what is now Riverhead Building Supply. Open sunrise to sunset. Elwood Road, Northport and Laurel Hill Road, Syosset. Jayne’s Hill This is the highest point on Long Island with elevations between 387 feet and 400 feet above sea level. Take the Walt Whitman trail, and walk in the same footsteps as the poet. The hike is four miles, and is the perfect way to take in the natural activity around you on a spring day. West Hills Country Park, Huntington. Open sunrise to sunset.

Jones Beach Boardwalk From Wantagh Beach’s Field 2 to Field 6 the run is about two miles, so if you are running from one field to the other and then head back you are looking at a nice 4-mile run. This is also an enjoyable option because there are signs along the way, so you know how long you have already traveled. Ocean Parkway, Wantagh. Open sunrise to sunset. Long Island Greenbelt Trail Opt for a 32-mile adventure from Long Island Sound to Great South Bay through bluffs, beaches and pines. There are guided hikes available for both the public and members. Hikes are free. A map is available with trail routes and information about the area for $15. LIGreenbelt. org. Open sunrise to sunset. Tackapausha Park and Wilderness Preserve The 80-acre preserve hosts three 1.5-mile long trails in Massapequa making for an up to 3.5-mile ride. As you cycle, you’ll be able to feast your eyes on little ponds, tall

trees and beautiful wildlife. Seaford, Washington Avenue between Merrick Road and Sunrise Highway. 516-5717443. Open sunrise to sunset. Long Island State Parks Summer Run Series The eight-week series offers runners island-wide competition along beautiful terrain. The competition kicks off June 17 at 7 a.m. at Heckscher State Park with a 5-mile run and continues every Monday through August 5, each run varying in length and location. Registration required. Flrrt.com or Active. com. Fees start at $45 per runner for 4 races. Heckscher State Park This scenic East Islip trail takes runners by Babylon’s Overlook Beach with 4.5 miles of paved trails. You can also pick up the Greenbelt Trail here. Open Sunrise to Sunset. Fuchs Pond Preserve Five acres of spring-fed freshwater ponds, marsh, upland slope forest, and a high plateau area. It adjoins

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the Jerome Ambro Memorial Wetlands Preserve, which neighbors Crab Meadow Beach. Open sunrise to sunset.

BOOTCAMP

Bootcamp with Mike Located on Long Beach, this program uses body weight training, TRX Suspension training, cardio training and plyometric/agility training combined with the natural elements of the beach to get you into your best shape. , www.bootcampwithmike.com. Single Session classes are $20, or $59 for four classes. 8:45 a.m. Two days per week. Saturday classes are for women only. Manny’s Original Bootcamp, Allen Park Perfect for those who want to shed some pounds for the summer season, this program uses weight training and cardio and is free for

Farmingdale residents. Allen Park, Farmingdale. fitmeetup. com. 7 a.m. Sundays. Strong Healthy Woman Bootcamp This Oceanside bootcamp is a 4-week outdoor fitness, nutritional and motivational program that will whip you into shape, mentally and physically in no time. stronghealthywoman.com. Foxhurst Rd. and Oceanside Rd. Starts at $33 per class. 5:30 a.m.

FITNESS TRAILS

Dix Hills Fitness Trail Installed in 2001, this trail consists of 20 stations with equipment and guidance for specific exercise activities that stretch between the entrance parking area and the ice rink. The trail is located on the lawn along the east side of the entrance drive. Stations include: Balance Beam, Beam Jump and Beam Run, Chin-

Up Bar, Isometric Squat, Leg Lift, Leg Stretch, Push-Up Bar, Sit-Up Platform and Steps. Open sunrise to sunset.

bisecting the park, with the first station located near the field house and playground by Parking Field No. 2 (near Hempstead Turnpike). From there, the trail winds north past the Aquatic Center and Lakeside Theatre and then heads south back toward the starting point. Open sunrise to sunset.

Savings Court Park, Paumanack Village This park was set aside as a result of the cluster plan for Paumanack Village, the Town’s first senior housing project. The site adjoins the Waldbaum’s shopping center on Pulaski Road and Paumanack Village. It is fully handicapped-accessible and contains a 12-station cardio course. Stations include: Isometric Squat, Leg Lift, Push-up, Pull-up, Sit-up. Open sunrise to sunset.

BIKING Bethpage Bike Path

This path runs from Bethpage State Park to Massapequa and is marked every quarter mile so you can keep track of your mileage. The full length runs about 7 miles, but you can easily join in at any point to create your own distance. A great place to run is near the Massapequa Preserve, where there is plenty of wildlife and ponds to take in as you pass. Open sunrise to sunset.

Eisenhower Park This 2-mile fitness trail has 20 attractive and simple fitness stations that incorporate a variety of exercises like stretching, pull-ups, sit-ups and balance walking that increase slightly in difficulty as the trail proceeds. The trail is on the west side of Park Boulevard

Belmont Lake State Park Belmont is a 463-acre full-service park in Babylon containing 7.6 miles of multi-

Yoga wear from Lululemon Garden City, Manhasset, Huntington, Lululemon.com

Jewelry from Say La Vie Cold Spring Harbor, ShopSayLaVie.com

Coastal Om Onesie $108

purpose trails. The park’s natural features include the 26-acre Belmont Lake and a significant amount of wildlife. It’s a great place for bird lovers because Northern Shovelers, Mergansers, Teal, Great Blue Heron, and Egrets can easily be spotted. Open sunrise to sunset. Hempstead Lake State Park This state park just off the Southern State Parkway in West Hempstead has a 4-mile biking trail that encircles the beautiful lake which is home to many different types of fish. The park is also home to many varieties of trees and wildlife. Open sunrise to sunset. Sunken Meadow Park The two-mile trail is short but challenging while offering unmatched views of the Long Island Sound with Connecticut in the distance. (Route 25A and Sunken Meadow Parkway) Sunrise to sunset.

STAND UP PADDLING (SUP)

Paddle Diva Group lessons for six to eight people are available in the Hamptons, Amagansett, Sag Harbor, Sagaponak and Novak. $75 per person, and a two to three person class is $100 per person for 90 minutes. You will learn ocean/wind awareness, proper stroke methods, and core building techniques. Schedules constantly change. PaddleDiva.com. Summer SUP begins May 28. The Waterfront Center Rent a SUP (Stand Up Paddle Board) for a day, and take on Oyster Bay waters on your own time. 516-922-SAIL. Rentals start at $18 per hour. 1 West End Ave., Oyster Bay, TheWaterfrontCenter.org Long Island Stand Up Paddle Boarding Co. This company operates in various places across Long Island. 9 am in the summer. $60 dollars for 90 minutes. You will learn about Hawaiian athletic history, while being introduced to one of the islands’ oldest sports during lessons. LI-SUP.com.

Board Balance Sport Top $54

Sandy Savasana Bottom $54

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Kostal Paddle Located in Port Washington, Long Beach and Island Park. Lessons given 7 days per week from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. starting June 1. A 90-minute private lesson is $75 and a group lesson with two to five people is $65 per person. Many SUP classes are offered including, Yoga SUP, SUP Surfing and Elite SUP. KostalPaddle.com.

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Put Some Spring Back In Your Dog’s Step!

Your pup will stay dry and look fabulous in our stylish raincoats.

Just because he has a fur coat, doesn’t mean that he wouldn’t love a cool new sweater for the Spring!

Spring is in full bloom on our eco-friendly dog and cat collars. Nothing’s cuter than a dog with bed-head. These cozy beds are perfect for a good night’s sleep or a mid-day nap after a long walk.

Watch your dog make a rush for the plush with these squeaktoys for the busy dog on the go.

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Celebrating 40 Years of Rescue! LEAGUE FOR ANIMAL PROTECTION of Huntington, Inc.

Kris is a strikingly handsome, 3 year old pup, who would make someone a very happy owner if just given the chance. He’s been with us nearly a year with visitors showing little to no interest in this mighty fine fellow. Upon first meeting Kris, you’ll find his interests lie more in sniffing and investigating his surroundings than meeting impatient, potential adopters. Once satisfied, he’ll turn his attention to toys, fetching them and tossing them but never tearing them up. He is interactive and playful, mouthy when excited, but easily corrected. The real secret to Kris’ undivided attention, is right in your hands. He sits unabashedly with his head in your lap while you scratch his ears, face, neck and tush. He turns to putty, completely relaxed, totally content, almost in a trance, all the while crooning and moaning during his massage. A total marshmallow. Kris knows his sit command and has just loads of potential to master more. Add some minor some leash work and he’ll be all set. He seems to like his fellow canines but is not so fond of the feline contingent. Children over age 10 would be fine. Come down and ask to meet Kris. You may just find him to be the love of your life that you didn’t know you were missing!

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Reap the physical, mental and spiritual benefits of this ancient practice in a beautiful setting. Old Westbury Gardens offers Tai Chi outdoor classes for all levels, taught by professional instructors outdoors. Weather permitting. (71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury, 516-333-0048. OldWestburyGardens.org. Wednesdays, 10:30-11:30 a.m., $15 per session; $5 for members, includes Gardens admission) For more outdoor fitness classes check out pages 66 and 67.

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co-founder Rick Barbrick, CUPS is more than great frozen yogurt. “It’s more of a club-like experience,” he says. “We pump out club dance music at volumes that create a highly energetic vibe, a lounge-type design with couches.” The huge variety of yummy flavors include Island Banana, Carrot Cake, and Dulce de leche, as well as more than 50 different toppings. (55 Old Country Rd., Carle Place, 516-281-3959, CupsFrozenYogurt.com. Coming soon to Commack and Huntington)

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Compression socks have become very popular with runners, cyclists and other athletes who put in a demanding workout. How do they work? The socks compress the lower leg increasing blood flow, which tends to pool there because of gravity. The increased blood flow helps flush out byproducts like lactic acid, which helps you recover faster from a hard run or workout (Price Varies, CompressionSocks.com)

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This quaint B&B is located just two miles east of Greenport in the hub of wine country, making it a relaxing and gorgeous place to go for a staycation. Stop by after a day at the wineries to enjoy all types of massages which, weather permitting, can be done outdoors during the summer amid a serene garden. “When it’s warm outside people love being outdoors,” says Wilfred Joseph, owner of the inn along with his wife, Veda. Arbor View House Bed & Breakfast, 8900 Main Rd., East Marion. 631-477-8440. ArborViewHouse.com)

Osteoporosis, a name that comes from the Greek word “osteon” (bone) and “porosis” (porous), is exactly that—a thinning and weakening of the bones. While it affects 55 percent of Americans over the age of 50, it disproportionately affects women. Of those who have osteoporosis in this country, 80 percent are women. About half of all women over the age of 50 will suffer a broken bone due to the disease. Osteoporosis is diagnosed using a DXA (Dual-energy X-ray Absorptiometry) bone density scan. This quick and painless scan uses two kinds of low-energy X-rays that produce images showing bone mineral density, or how solid the bones are. From this scan, doctors are able estimate how likely it is that a patient will suffer a bone fracture. Based on the scan, physicians come up with a score which indicates whether a patient has osteoporosis, osteopenia (a milder precursor to osteoporosis), or normal bone density. Lateral Vertebral Assessment (LVA) is sometimes performed as part of the DXA scan. LVA can identify spine fractures and is appropriate for patients with unexplained back pain, borderline DXA results, or older patients who have lost over an inch of height. To help protect against osteoporosis, women should do weight-bearing exercises (walking, dancing, running) regularly, and eat a diet rich in calcium and vitamin D. Smoking and excessive alcohol consumption can increase bone loss, so don’t smoke, and stick to no more than one drink per day for good bone health.

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Dr. Edelson (R) of HealthBridge concierge medical practice, which offers enhanced services to their patients.

Hybrid Healthcare

Concierge Medicine on Long Island By Jaime Franchi When the Affordable Care Act becomes law in 2014, it will require that everyone be covered by healthcare, enabling a staggering 30+ million Americans, who were previously uninsured, to receive coverage through an expansion of the Medicaid program. All of these new patients will have access to healthcare, but it’s still unclear how primary care physicians

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are going to handle this influx of patients, and if they want to. Once thought of as a luxury for the rich, and the subject of Long Island-based TV series Royal Pains, patients in a concierge medical practice pay an annual fee or retainer to receive enhanced services from their primary care physician. Dr. David Edelson of HealthBridge in Great

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Neck was frustrated by the seemingly endless red tape of running a medical practice. It was affecting how he could treat his patients and making his administrative costs skyrocket. Many physicians faced with the same dilemma have either closed their practices or sold them to a hospital. Edelson opted to offer his patients concierge medicine, which would allow him to treat his patients with the care and attention he wouldn’t be able to give them otherwise.. “Without your health, nothing else you do in life is going to matter very much,” says Edelson. “Short of your family and closest friends, your primary care physician is probably going to be one of your most important long-term relationships in your life.” Some policy makers believe the trend of concierge medicine could lead to better healthcare through improved prevention. But others worry the growth of this practice will mean two tiers of coverage: the affluent receiving highquality care and the rest being seen by fewer doctors. But concierge services are now offered on Long Island with some affordable options. HealthBridge concierge service is a comprehensive primary care program for patients who pay an annual fee of $1,800 for upgraded

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services and cover what their insurance companies will not. The fee includes 24/7 cell phone access to a primary care physician, full membership in their state-ofthe-art fitness center with certified trainers, yoga studio, a full-time nutritionist, a private VIP-waiting area and electronic access to medical records. In addition, when most patients might be allocated 15 minutes per appointment with the doctor, a concierge-care patient may spend upwards of a half hour to an hour. The service also includes the resources to deal with the insurance companies for authorizations and coverage. Technology plays a big role in this type of practice as well. “There’s an iPhone app that lets you remotely transmit an EKG,” says Edelson, who also uses Skype to check in with patients who are traveling and not able to get to the office. Edelson acknowledges that this type of service might exacerbate the already widening financial disparity on Long Island, and as such, has donated 20 percent of his services to “scholarship” patients who are either uninsured or have unmanageable health issues. “That’s the way it used to be, if you think back 20 or 30 years ago. Doctors would take on patients who couldn’t afford healthcare,” he says. “There were enough extra resources so that you could give back. That’s one of the ways we want to give back as part of our obligations as physicians.” Wayne Lipton, managing partner and founder of Rockville Centre-based Concierge Choice agrees. “It all comes down to time,” says Lipton. “The traditional healthcare model packs in so many patients that there is little time to build that one-on-one relationship between a patient and a physician. Yet the full-scale concierge system leaves too many out.” This is why Lipton pioneered the “hybrid” concierge system, which allows doctors to spend a portion of their days seeing to their concierge patients, while 74 MILIEU Exclusively for Long Island Women

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retaining their original clients who might not be able to afford the upgrade to concierge services. “That’s where the ‘choice’ part comes in, for the doctor and for the patient,” Lipton says. Lipton says this model is “less socially cruel,” while it still addresses the need for “unhurried care” for patients who are willing and able to pay for it. Part of that care includes a more comprehensive physical examination that goes beyond what insurance companies traditionally reimburse for. The concierge exam might address nutrition, exercise, stress management, emotional and mental health and lifestyle choices. The more complete picture of a patient’s health allows the doctors who choose a model ike HealthBridge to provide more preventative care, rather than the reactionary care that a patient might receive in an emergency room or clinic setting. According to Lipton, the hybrid model can be implemented on a larger scale, while seeing to the individual needs of patients across the financial spectrum, without depleting the pool of doctors from the public. Concierge Choice, which offers support services to help physicians implement a concierge program in their practice, has expanded to 19 states. There will be a greater demand for primary care physicians when the Affordable Care Act is fully implemented. Only time will tell if primary care physicians will be overloaded by the surge of new patients. If that’s the case, many of us may have to decide if we want to pay for concierge care. m ay 2 0 1 3

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Book Review

Hits Home with LI’s Business Women By Jamie Franchi There’s been plenty of ink spilled on Sheryl Sandberg’s new book, Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead, from controversy surrounding class distinctions that some feel are exacerbated through this treatise, to support from some unlikely sources—including Anna Marie Slaughter, whose Atlantic article “Why Some Women Can’t Have it All,” seemed to pit her squarely against Sandberg who is purporting that indeed, some women can. The book is aimed at righting some of the wrongs in the form of women’s inequality in top positions in the business world. By writing the rules and observations that helped propel Sandberg into the COO position at Facebook, she’s extending a hand to those below her, so other women can join her at the top. Lisa Valentine, vice president of digital marketing firm Tenthwave—with seven offices across the country including the one where she works in Melville—knows what it’s like to be a woman who aspires to business greatness in the tech industry, like Sandberg. Valentine, a mother of two, works in ac-

for their accomplishments as opposed to women in business, and how difficult it is for women to successfully negotiate terms. “Acting in stereotypically feminine ways makes it difficult to reach for the same opportunities as men, but defying expectations and reaching for those opportunities leads to being judged as undeserving and selfish,” Sandberg writes. “Nothing has changed since high school; intelligence and success are not clear paths to popularity at any age. This complicated everything, because at the same time that women need to sit down at the table and own their success, doing so causes them to be liked less.” Yet, Lisa has rarely faced backlash for her successes. “I easily take credit for the work I have done, but my Achilles Heel is definitely in negotiating,” says Valentine. “While I do believe that you don’t get what you don‘t ask for, the con-

nated by social media presence and pinpointing the ‘next hottest thing’ out there, I like to believe I am on top of all of it.” Sandberg is most wily when she talks about family planning. She urges women to “Lean In” before they have children—to establish themselves strongly in their career, so that when they re-enter the workplace, they are not starting from scratch. Probably the most important advice Sandberg offers is for women to advocate for themselves. She calls this, “Taking a Seat at the Table”—not allowing yourself to be talked over or dismissed—and explains the psychological value of sharing the same physical space as a male colleague to establish equal billing. “I have always taken a seat at the table, and maybe it’s due to the fact that I grew up strong in a male-dominated household,” Lisa says. “The good ol’ boys club doesn’t necessarily make me feel excluded, although I’m thankful I don’t work in the banking and investment industry! The marketing field tends to be more liberal and laid back. I recall always making my voice heard in the conference rooms even in my first job right out of college.” Valentine owes much of her success to how she self-identifies—not as a female in the male world of business, but as a competent person: qualified, unafraid, and equal. These are also the qualities also valued by Sandberg, and those that will help propel Valentine toward her long-term business goal: upper-management or partnership within her corporation.

“Acting in stereotypically feminine ways makes it difficult to reach for the same opportunities as men... reaching for those opportunities leads to being judged as undeserving and selfish.” count services and business development. She manages digital marketing campaigns for clients such as eBay, PayPal, Shutterfly, and L’Oreal. “I have a position of real responsibility at my current agency,” she says. “I’m now at the vice president level for the first time in my 26year career.” Although the tech industry is known to be male-dominated, Tenthwave specializes in marketing and creative, which she says is more of an even male-female split. Upon reading Sandberg’s Lean In, she immediately felt a little defensive, as in “Haven’t I done enough to prove myself here?” In the chapter entitled “Success and Likability,” Sandberg covers the tricky territory of how males are perceived when they take credit

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cept of negotiating always has, and still does, make me squirm. Perhaps there is a feeling of unworthiness attached to it, I don’t know.” In the book, Sandberg also discusses “The Impostor Syndrome,” which she defines as something that many women experience when they are praised for their accomplishments. “Instead of feeling worthy or their accomplishments, they feel undeserving and guilty, as if a mistake has been made,” writes Sandberg. Valentine, 48, says she can relate to this feeling, not because of her gender, but because of her age. “The only times I’ve ever felt any kind of twinge of The Impostor Syndrome has been in the past couple of years as I’ve become acutely aware of my age as compared to my younger co-workers,” she says. “And in a tech field domi-

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HEX NUTS ACROSS 1 Epitaph start 5 Spoke from a soapbox 11 Inner city, e.g. 20 Crease remover 21 “The — Supremacy” (2004 film) 22 In touch with who one is 23 Billiards targets 25 Astonishing 26 Gazes 27 Opera house song 29 “... there — Santa Claus” 30 Twice DI 31 Flaming 32 George Lucas collection 36 Tennis’ Björn 37 Attend (to) 39 Norman Vincent — 40 Boise-to-Billings dir. 41 Some thorax attachments 44 Swiss artist Paul 46 Big fairs 50 Literary 67-Across girl 51 Vintage Olds 52 Lead-in for la la 54 “Hello, Hadrian!” 55 Mobile site 59 1970s sitcom siblings 63 Dueling swords 64 Swarm (with) 65 Alley — 66 “I’m all —!” 67 From Zurich, e.g. 68 61-Down purchases, e.g.

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71 — New Guinea (Pacific nation) 72 Oahu, e.g. 73 Water, to Fifi 74 Salve plant 75 Most plain 76 Things to pick or pluck 80 Fiduciary 81 Thing to pick 82 “Told ya!” 83 Crawler with antennae 84 Wall art 86 Dècor option 88 Rights gp. 90 Some pips 95 Supply with guns 97 Perp’s out 99 Seal school 100 Morales of “Mi Familia” 101 Stanley Cup contenders 106 Hesitate due to doubt 107 Race unit 108 “— for Cookie” 109 Starchy pudding ingredient 110 Lethargic state 112 Waterway with many locks 116 This puzzle’s theme 119 Toward a nation’s interior 120 Wallop 121 Descartes or Lacoste 122 Slob’s quality 123 Corrects, as a manuscript 124 River of Belgium DOWN 1 Rose’s fruit

2 Gully creator 3 Audibly excited fans 4 Make bigger 5 Mitch Miller’s instrument 6 Legendary birds 7 Diving shorebird 8 Yummy tidbit 9 Catches in a web 10 Yearn for 11 Letters on a battleship 12 Person on a pension 13 Fashion designer Bill 14 Ski chalet style, often 15 Rebelling Turner 16 Puncturing tool 17 “The Gift” director Sam 18 Golf’s Els 19 Patronage 24 Snoop 28 Stopped sleeping 31 Dept. of Justice org. 32 Sown thing 33 Metal mixture 34 Ryan or Tatum 35 Irritate 37 Mushroom parts 38 Tony winner Kazan 42 Singes 43 Jeered 45 Spirit of a culture 47 Protective wall 48 Make trite 49 Having feeling 51 Rife 53 Cleave 55 Hands out 56 Court case 57 Competence 58 Attack from all sides 60 Stephen of “Bad Behaviour”

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61 Popular pop 62 Loved ones 64 Talk up 68 Olympic figure skater Cohen 69 Math class: Abbr. 70 Kramer of “Seinfeld” 71 São — 73 Important time 75 Trademark 77 “No man is — to his valet” 78 Come from behind to win 79 Arctic people 80 Quartet minus one 85 Strike callers 87 — -di-dah 89 Las Vegas’ — Palace 90 Explanatory drawing 91 Cook, as onion rings 92 Slow absorptions 93 Red Bull ingredient 94 Title for a knight 96 Actor Chuck or singer Lila 98 Hound breed 101 Small intestine division 102 “— diem!” 103 Heroic poems 104 Kunta — (“Roots” role) 105 Demi of film 106 Quartet minus two 110 K.P. veggie 111 Baking qtys. 113 Canon camera option 114 “— bono” (“To what purpose?”) 115 Fleur-de- — 117 Capacious vase 118 Gen — (post-’65 arrival)

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LADIES OF LAUGHTER

Funny & Fabulous Tour

Saturday, May 25th 8pm

Chris Rich, Regina DeCicco & Patty Rosborough

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What’s in the Cards Aquarius January 20 to February 18

May

The 3 of Swords—It is time to clear away existing conflicts BY PSYCHICDEB and make way for more positive experiences through positive people. Your goal this month is to turn a negative situation into a positive one.

Pisces February 19 to March 20

The Magician—This is a time of new beginnings. You are about to demonstrate your creative gifts and abilities and develop any untapped potential of which you may not be aware. Opportunities that require a focused mind and intuitive insight are likely to present themselves giving you a chance to develop your skills.

Aries March 21 to April 19

The Hermit—This card represents wisdom and patience which you will learn through the passage of time. You will be able to stand alone without feeling lonely. The time is ripe for you to embark on a period of soul searching using yoga or meditation techniques.

Taurus April 20 to May 20

The Knight of Pentacles—During this month you will be able to set your sights on attainable goals and quietly persevere until they are reached. You are making steady progress toward your goals and in time you will get where you want to be. It’s time to relax and enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

Gemini May 21 to June 20

The Knight of Wands—This card suggests that you are ready to make a significant move of some kind. Someone of the opposite sex may act as a catalyst for these changes.

Cancer June 21 to July 22

The 2 of Swords—You may have reached an unsatisfactory point in an antagonistic relationship yet try to maintain a precarious balance. You must confront your fears or you’ll always feel trapped. Now is the time.

Leo July 23 to August 22

The 10 of Cups—A cherished wish will be granted. Family life is a source of much happiness and the birth of a child may be indicated. You have gained a feeling of peace and everything is working for the best.

Virgo August 23 to September 22

The King of Pentacles—A wealthy, ambitious person is about to enter your life or you may be ready to develop your own desire for greater material security. Take a practical approach to your resources and appreciate what you have.

Libra September 23 to October 22

The 10 of Pentacles—You have reached a point in your life when something that is complete brings you emotional abundance and material security. If you have planned a business trip, this card indicates that it will be successful.

Scorpio October 23 to November 21

The King of Swords—You are about to meet someone who is powerful, ethical and analytical and may open up a new perspective on life or give you a helping hand. This could lead to a professional advancement in the form of promotion.

Sagittarius November 22 to December 21

The Star—You may feel a renewed sense of purpose and feel inspired to do something that requires a leap of faith. Your sense of hope is what inspires you to follow your dreams. The Star promises a release from past difficulties.

Capricorn December 22 to January 19

The Queen of Swords—You will need much patience and courage in dealing with some difficult circumstances. A strong-willed woman is in a position to assist you and teach you how to acquire these qualities to help you with the ups and downs of life.

Psychicdeb uses the tarot to do psychic readings channeling her spirit guide Helen. She is also an Astrologer and Reiki Master and loves to teach others the benefits of Reiki. Namaste. You can find her at the Original Psychic Fairs on Sundays. A listing of the Fair dates can be found on her website at: www.astro-mate.org

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a few of our favorite outdoor things

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Style Editor BMC’s 50th Anniversary Lamborghini edition bike BMC is known for creating Tour de Francewinning bicycles and now they’ve teamed up with Lamborghini to create the ultimate ride. The bike features Lamborghini yellow leather, the famous bull decal, a unique Load Specific Weave—and a $32,000 price tag. While it may seem quite pricey, it’s the cheapest Lamborghini on the market and one I wouldn’t mind riding around town! (BMC-Racing.com)

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Staff Writer SWINGREST by Daniel Pouzet This may be a little extravagant, but the Swingrest definitely turns the smallest of backyards into a resort. It’s a hammock times 1,000, with cushions and pillows galore, a 180-degree rotating tabletop and an optional curtain cover for privacy or a respite from the sun. This is perfect for anyone who likes to “hang around” in the yard during summer. ($12,500, TheFancy.com)

Associate Publisher Fiji Frozen Concoction Maker This is the true parrot head’s margarita maker and is perfect for entertaining while listening to some of Jimmy’s classic hits! ($349, Margaritaville.com )

Beverly Fortune

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Managing Editor Vacation Vault Next time you’re at the beach, pool, or anywhere else outdoors, don’t store your phone, cash, ID, beach pass, room key, sunglasses, etc. in your shoe while you jump in the water (because that’s never been done before…). Try this instead. The Vacation Vault holds all your stuff and comes in eight colors. Just secure it to the nearest object that doesn’t move and be on your way. ($29.95, VacationVault.com)

Les Ballets Trockadero

Publisher Mosaic 10-inch Glass Gazing Ball Beautiful to display in a flowerbed, either on a stand or resting on the ground, gazing balls are said to have originated in Italy in the 13th century. They were believed to bring prosperity and ward off misfortune. ($59.99, Hicks Nurseries, Westbury, HicksNurseries.com)

A unique brand of ballet, dancing a fine line between high art and high camp

de Monte Carlo

Saturday, May 11 8:00 pm • Main Stage • $42

Staller Center for the Arts

www.stallercenter.com • (631) 632-ARTS [2787]

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