SASSY Magazine December 2014

DECEMBER 2014

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Women to Watch Class of 2015 LIFE 40

Keeping Your Friendships Strong

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Ditch the Ugly Sweaters & Revitalize Your Holiday Party

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BALANCE 44 Simplify to Savor the Holidays

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Gift Giving Etiquette for the Office

By: Allison Boelcke

SCENE AND BE SEEN 50 Who Doesn’t Love a Good Dance Party?

And This One Fights Cancer!

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SASSY Magazine is honored to highlight the 2015 class of Women to Watch!

Women from all over Michiana were nominated by their peers, colleagues, friends and family for their embodiment of the sassy spirit, combining work, life, balance and sass—at home, in their communities and in the workplace. We are truly pleased to bestow the honor of being named a 2015 Woman to Watch to all of these women who are working tirelessly to make a difference in the lives of others.

With an entire stack of nominations received, our panel had their work cut out for them to choose this year’s class—but these women all stood out for their professionalism, work ethic and spirit of volunteerism.

These are all qualities that make up a SASSY woman—and will never go out of style!

Congratulations to all of our 2015 Women to Watch!

Emily Hoefle Mishawaka Laboratory Technician, Siemens Diagnostics Healthcare

Anne Brown New Paris Lead Pastor's Wife/Volunteer, Grace Community Church Anne Brown has been involved with the ministry work of Grace Community Church in Goshen for over 18 years, seeing God grow the church from 65 people to around 2600. She is the lead pastor's wife and has served in many different volunteer positions over the years, such as teaching children, leading small groups, planning retreats and mission trips to care for rescued orphans in Asia, singing with the worship team, heading up the design team for two building projects, organizing community events like an annual Easter Egg Hunt and Children's Clothing Exchange.

Currently, she is part of the ReMARKable Women Ministry leadership team and especially enjoys spending time with women one-on-one to talk and pray together. Anne graduated magna cum laude with a Bachelor of Science degree from Grace College majoring in business administration with a minor in behavioral science.

Anne Lowry Goshen President / CEO, Reach360 Anne Lowry serves as the President of Reach360, where she manages operations, works with existing clients and establishes new accounts. Anne’s passion is to provide cost savings opportunities to clients through outsourced HR and bookkeeping solutions. Anne specializes in streamlining back office operations and reducing overhead costs so that clients can focus time and energies on core business practices. Anne is a member of both the Elkhart & St. Joseph Chamber of Commerce, a 2015 Chamber board member and WBOM member.

She serves as a volunteer with her church, St Mary’s, St. Thomas School and the Faith Mission. Originally from Iowa, Anne lives with her husband Sean of 12 years, and together they have three children. Kade, Jax and Mia. Anne enjoys the outdoors, especially camping and skiing. Anne’s philosophy is to always believe in yourself, your dreams and to strive to make a difference in the lives of others.

Danielle Black Elkhart English Teacher and Theatre Director, Penn High School

Co-Founder & Volunteer Awake and Alive, Inc.

Someone once said, "Making a difference is the highest form of art." Danielle Black tries to live this motto in everything she does. Whether it's teaching high school students English, directing musicals or traveling to Ethiopia, she desires to be a light wherever she goes. As the mother of four active children, life can get pretty hectic! However, she wouldn’t have it any other way. The thing that she’s most proud of? Besides her children, co-founding the nonprofit organization Awake and Alive in 2011 is a highlight of her life. Through Awake and Alive, they were able to help start a school in a slum area of Ethiopia called Kechene. Now, in its third year, Bright Future Academy has helped over 90 children and their families realize a dream that would otherwise have been impossible - education.

Emily Hoefle started working for Siemens as an intern two and half years ago. Her internship was only supposed to last a few months; at the end of those few months she was asked to stay with Siemens as a Biochemist contractor. Emily’s role at Siemens became more important as she learned more about their diabetic products; analyzing hemoglobin and microalbumin assays while tracking the data behind each lot. She took a step further and became a certified internal auditor for the company of Siemens. This past August, Emily was hired as a permanent Siemens Healthcare employee as a Laboratory Technician. Emily has truly been blessed by Siemens Healthcare and the position they have put her in.

Jessica Baron South Bend Outreach and Communications Coordinator,

Reilly Center for Science, Technology and Values Director of Media and Engagement,

History of Science Society

Jessica Baron is the Outreach and Communications Coordinator at Notre Dame's Reilly Center for Science, Technology and Values and the Director for Media and Engagement for the History of Science Society. She is also the founder and organizer of the South Bend Science Cafe. She was recently appointed a Concurrent Assistant Professor of History at Notre Dame and teaches courses on the history of medicine.

She completed her PhD in the History and Philosophy of Science Program at Notre Dame, researching Florence Nightingale and her work on public health in British India. From 2011-2013, she was the Managing Editor for the journal Studies in History and Philosophy of Science. In her spare time, she enjoys yoga, helping out at her friends' vineyard and sci-fi television shows. Jessica is an aspiring writer.

Jillian Koeneman Goshen Founder and CEO, Freshlime Digital Marketing Jillian Koeneman is a connector and entrepreneur who thrives on helping others and paying it forward. Jillian founded Freshlime Digital Marketing in 2010 in order to lead businesses to increased sales and greater brand awareness through social media marketing and other online vehicles. Jillian holds leadership positions in several community organizations. She is a Board Member of the Women Business Owners of Michiana and volunteers on the Marketing Committee for the Humane Society of Elkhart County. In 2014, Jillian was awarded “Volunteer of the Year” from the Humane Society of Elkhart County. She also heads up all marketing for her husband’s new business, Anytime Fitness in Goshen. Jillian earned a degree in advertising and public relations from Michigan State University in 2004 and was a member of two National Championship Water Polo Teams. When not at her computer, she enjoys spending time boating with her husband and two dogs.

Kelly Boyer Bristol Nurse Practitioner/ Owner, Crossroads Healing Arts Kelly Boyer is the Nurse Practitioner/Owner of Crossroads Healing Arts. Crossroads is the area’s most comprehensive integrative medical clinic; focusing on healing the whole body as naturally as possible. Kelly’s specialty is balancing hormones using Bioidentical Hormone Therapy. In her 17 years in practice, Kelly has helped thousands of women in the Michiana area lead healthier, happier lives.

Kristine Bergman South Bend Senior Interior Designer, Business Furnishings Kristine Bergman is a Registered Interior Designer with the State of Indiana and nationally certified through NCIDQ. She graduated from Purdue University with a degree in Interior Design and has over 20 years of experience in commercial and residential design. Kristine has a passion for design, and enjoys creating interior environments that brings her clients’ visions to life. Using her educational background and extensive work experience, Kristine is skilled at leading her clients through the interior design process with results that reflect the brand and image of her client. Kristine’s goal is to design beautiful interior environments to improve their quality of life and increase productivity. Kristine have been a lead designer on several new construction projects as well as large and small scale renovations.

LaTonia Newhouse South Bend Director of Communit y Services, REAL Services LaTonia Newhouse has devoted the majority of her career serving the community while employed by REAL Services for the past 14 years. Early in her career she worked as a case manager, then as Supervisor of the Family Development Program and is now the Director of Community Services. LaTonia is devoted to promoting economic development through decreasing the number of people living in poverty. LaTonia is a Nationally Certified Trainer for the Family Development style of holistic case management, Results Oriented Management Accountability (ROMA) and Alum of the Leadership South Bend/Mishawaka Class of 35. She works tirelessly at eradicating poverty through the Community Action movement and the belief that the entire community is better when those living in poverty experience progress.

Dr. Leah Napolitano Ortiz Granger Family Medicine Physician, St Joseph Regional Medical Center

Meet 15 of our Women to Watch, up close and personal on the following several pages!

You’ve met part of the inspiring 2015 Class of Women to Watch—all local women who embody the Sassy spirit of work, life, balance and sass.

Now, get to know 15 of our Women to Watch a little bit better! What drives them to succeed? How do they balance it all? Oh—and what’s their guilty pleasure? We have the all the sassy details for you, right here!

Angie Rockenbaugh Owner, Interior Motives

Ashley Rene Swathwood

Owner, AshleyRene's Prom, Pageant and Bridal

Darlene Sweeney

Volunteer Recruiter, St. Vincent de Paul Society of St. Joseph County

Erica McCahill

Chief Sales Officer, Notre Dame Federal Credit Union

Jan Lazzara

Realtor, Cressy & Everett Real Estate

Dr. Leah Napolitano Ortiz currently works as an Associate Director of the Family Medicine Residency program at St Joseph Regional Medical Center.

This program educates and supervises 27 residents in the practice of family medicine every year. She also is a provider in her own practice (the Family Medicine Faculty Practice) where she cares for patients of all ages. This practice specializes in adult preventative medicine, women's health, pediatrics, acute medical issues and management of chronic diseases. Dr. Ortiz graduated with a Bachelor's degree in History from the University of Notre Dame. She attended the MCP Hahnemann School of Medicine in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. She graduated with Alpha Omega Alpha Honors and received the Janet M. Glasgow Memorial Achievement Citation from the American Medical Women's Association. Dr. Ortiz is originally from New Jersey and moved to Granger in 2011.

Trisha Greenlee

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Jayne Flanagan

President, Michiana Brick and Building Supply

Jennifer Dot y

Executive Director, Elkhart County Women's Shelter

Kathy Blumentritt

Owner/Director of Counseling, The Front Porch

Kimberly Ann Bonds

Radio Personality, Lesea Broacasting

Krist y M. Rans South Bend

Creative Director, Hello Gorgeous! of HOPE INC non-profit 501c3 Trisha Greenlee is the Creative Director of Hello Gorgeous!, a non-profit organization that creates a red carpet experience for all women battling all types of cancers. Trisha has been with the non-profit since the beginning of the organization in 2005. Hello Gorgeous! was started with $1 and lots of faith, hope and love. Since then, Hello Gorgeous! has grown, now having two RV mobile day-spas and 30 Hello Gorgeous! salon affiliates in 10 states coast to coast. They are continuing to work on their large goal to have two salon affiliate's in every city in the Nation! "It's all about the women!"

Using her professional salon experience, Trisha has been honored to personally pamper hundreds and hundreds of women through their program. Trisha is a certified Hello Gorgeous! salon affiliate coach, event planner and is blessed to create an experience, to educate and empower all women with all types of cancer!

Trisha has a wonderful and loving husband and an amazing 8-year-old daughter.

Owner/Partner, Gardner & Rans, P.C. Attorneys at Law

Linnea Robbins Winters

Doctor of Optometry/Owner, Eye Care Associates of Michiana

Melanie Birky

Owner/COO, STAR Martial Arts

Michelle Stambaugh Artist, Mud-Luscious Pottery

Tieal Bishop

CEO & Executive Director, A Rosie Place/O'Hana Heritage Foundation

Owner,

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Interior Motives

ngie Rockenbaugh's first experience with interior design started in high school.

She actually signed up for the class because it had a lot of field trips! Little did she know that she would fall in love with interior design and then go on to take an independent study the next year. After Angie’s formal schooling and working in several fields of the industry, she accepted an interior design position with 321 Interiors. This is where she saw firsthand the importance of offering complete design services alongside a unique retail gift shop. The company built a strong clientele, making a name for itself as a quality design service with unique retail products. Then, in 2010, Angie had the opportunity to purchase 321 Interiors.

"It seemed like a great fit, and I have always loved working with people to help them accomplish their design goals. It’s not every day you get to walk through someone else’s dream,” said Angie. “It’s an incredible feeling knowing you were part of such an incredible outcome.”

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job?

I love taking something "normal" and creating something amazing. I love working with people and making their ideas became a reality. I also love demolition!

What was the best business advice you have received and who gave it?

“Helping your mind to know and believe that what you do professionally is good, noble and worthwhile in itself helps to fuel your energies and propel your efforts. If you feel really good about your profession, you sweep others along with you on the waves of your enthusiasm for what you do.” - Rabbi Daniel Lapin

Angie

Rockenbaugh Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

Do you have a professional mentor?

How have they helped you succeed?

I was fortunate enough to have two mentors.

I learned so much over the years by watching them interact with customers/clients. I have learned everything from power shopping at High Point to the everyday business operations. But, I think the most important thing is that Karon believed in me. She has always been there for me when I needed her.

I tell people she's the Catholic mother I've always dreamed of!

Do you serve on any charitable organizations' boards or committees?

I currently support RETA, Boys and Girls Club of Elkhart as well as United Cancer Services.

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business?

Be passionate about what you do. Love what you do. Learn from your mistakes and move forward. Don't let the negative influence you and rise above it!

“ Love what you do.

Learn from your mistakes and move forward.”

What does “success” mean to you?

In business, loving what you do and making a profit at it! In life, being content with what you have.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" By being content with what you have.

Being thankful in all things. Keeping life in perspective: God, family and friends.

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? Classic Car Auctions with my husband, shoe shopping at Nordstrom, running and kick boxing.

How do you stay organized?

If you asked my team this question they would burst out in laughter! I have tried this concept many times and have decided that it’s overrated!

I have my own weird way of being organized.

What is your favorite form of stress relief? Running and kick boxing!

Favorite Guilty Pleasure: Dark chocolate covered almonds!

Well, anything with dark chocolate and Starbucks!

Favorite TV Show: Psych and Last Man Standing

Favorite Book: I love the "Mitford" series by Jan Karon.

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Facts About Angie Rockenbaugh:

Favorite Dessert: Anything my mom makes but probably her blueberry pie!

Biggest Pet Peeve: When people are too quick to say "no" instead of looking at the situation as an opportunity to create and overcome any obstacle. When I’m working on a project, I don’t like being told “it can’t be done.” I will figure out a way to make it work!

Favorite Beauty Product: If I was only allowed one item to use in the morning, it would be eye liner.

It's a great way to add attitude!

What did you want to be as a kid growing up? A singer!

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

Confidence, talented, well rounded, puts others first, sense of humor, compassionate and loving.

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? When I'm on top of my game and knowing that I have God, my family and friends supporting me in everything I do.

Also my Calvin Klein jeans, black t-shirt and flip flops!

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

It would be my 4" boots. They just have attitude written all over them!

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shley Rene Swathwood is the owner of Ashley Rene's - Prom, Pageant and Bridal Boutique in Elkhart. Ashley Rene's is one of the Top 10 Prom stores in the nation, and an official wardrobe sponsor of Miss Indiana USA & Miss Indiana America. Ashley's gowns have graced the stage of Miss America, Miss USA, red carpets and more. She also works with pageant girls across the country on interview preparation, platform development, image and wardrobe consulting. Additionally, she has dressed thousands of area high school girls for prom and formals and her newest venture into bridal has allowed her to continue servicing clients and helping them find their dream gown on the most important day of their lives.

Just in a Day’s Work: What has been the proudest work moment in the past year? A gown we worked hand-in-hand to custom design with the top designer in our industry, Sherri Hill, for Miss Indiana USA to wear to compete for Miss USA. The dress was voted "Best Gown" at Miss USA 2014.

What do you love about your job? I get the opportunity to do what I love every single day. I am fortunate to get to work with young ladies and women across the country on some of the happiest days of their lives! I love to help select gowns that truly showcase the client's personality and make them feel beautiful.

Ashley Rene

Swathwood Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

What was the best business advice you have received and who gave it?

My father has always been my biggest inspiration in business. He has taught me that if you work hard, do what you say you will do and take care of your customers, the sky is the limit. Hard work and a good work ethic truly does pay off!

Who inspires you professionally?

Sherri Hill - She is the top designer in my industry and she has successfully managed her career and a beautiful family. She is also involved in many charity organizations and gives back with her gowns to "Operation That’s My Dress" which provides thousands of new gowns for teenage girls by partnering with the USO to honor children of military families for their sacrifice and courage.

Do you serve on any charitable organizations' boards or committees?

I have started an Indiana Chapter of Angel Gown's (Angel Gowns by Ashley Rene's) to provide gowns to area hospitals for families that lost a baby while in the hospital. These gowns are used for burial and final photos. We take wedding gowns we receive through donations and have volunteer seamstresses work together to offer families these precious gowns. There is no better gift that can be given to a grieving family than affirming the importance of the life of their child by offering them this precious gift.

What does “success” mean to you?

Success is knowing that you have done everything you can do to succeed. Your word is the most important thing you have, and my clients know that I will always do what I say and take good care of them. To be in a situation now to not only have my own store but to also be able to give back from that store and share my passion with others is incredible.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" Work hard - Put your blood, sweat and tears into something and give it your all.

Surround yourself with a good team who shares your vision and passion. You simply cannot have it all without a kick butt team!

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? Playing with my daughter or my two-pound Chihuahua and reading.

How do you stay organized? I have lots of lists and a calendar/agenda with me at all times.

“Hard work and a good work ethic truly does pay off!”

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Favorite TV Show: Law and Order SVU

Favorite Book: Anything by Nicholas Sparks.

Favorite Scented Candle: Christmas Cookie

Favorite Dessert: Cheesecake!

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About Ashley Rene Swathwood:

Favorite Beauty Product: Mary Kay Foundation Primer - It feels amazing!

What is your favorite form of stress relief? A long, hot shower!

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

Not conforming to what others want you to be, but yet comfortable in your own skin and your own style. If that means leopard print or red lipstick, then so be it!

What did you want to be as a kid growing up?

I always had a "fun dream" and then a "real career.” My fun dream was to own my own dress store, but my real career was to become an elementary special education teacher. I was starting my junior year of college when I thought I would take a few business classes. The rest is history!

Biggest Pet Peeve: When people talk the talk, but don't walk the walk. I believe firmly in doing what you say you will do.

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? A good pair of heels and red lipstick.

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

A rhinestone pair of Uggs because they are sassy, blingy and comfortable with working the sales floor on 10 hour days!

Volunteer Recruiter, St. Vincent de Paul Society

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arlene Sweeney has been blessed to have decades of varied and diverse professional experience. From roller-skating carhop in her teens to her current position as Volunteer Recruiter at Saint Vincent de Paul and everything in between.

The in-between has included: • Media Sales Writer for Nader-Lief, Inc., a Chicago advertising company • Import Sales Manager for North America for Westnofa, Inc., a Norwegian Furniture Company • Executive Director of The DMC Network, a hospitality trade association • Darlene has owned two companies: Sweeney Connections, Inc., an association management company and Tahoe Experience, Inc., a destination management company handling meetings and conventions in Lake Tahoe and Northern Nevada • Her current position as Volunteer Recruiter for Saint Vincent de Paul is her favorite job and the first time she has been able to combine her professional talents with her faith.

Helping others is essential in Darlene’s life. She has been a saxophone player, a tap dancer, a bell ringer and a single mother of three. Considering all that she has done, being a mother has been by far the most rewarding for Darlene.

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job?

Mother Teresa said, "We can do no great things, only small things with great love." My job gives me the opportunity to do just that each and every day.

What was the best business advice you have received and who gave it? The best business advice came from my father. When I received my first promotion at my new job, he told me to bank the difference between what I was making and what I would be making, and continue to do that each time I received an increase in salary. If I had listened to him instead of buying a new pair of shoes, I would be a millionaire today! (But I wouldn't have all those sassy shoes!)

Do you serve on any charitable organizations' boards or committees?

I am the co-founder of "Surviving Hearts" at St. Pius

Darlene

Sweeney Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

X Church. "Surviving Hearts" is a ministry to restore life and joy back into the grieving hearts of widows and widowers through friendship, compassion and understanding. Being a widow myself, I can fully understand how difficult it is to get back to the business of living again once you lose a spouse. We recently celebrated one year in this ministry and it has proven to be a great blessing to all. I also volunteer at my parish, St. Pius X and have been in the Bell Ringers Choir and a Lector for three years in addition to being a member of the Saint Vincent de Paul Conference, delivering food to those who are in need.

Do you have a professional mentor? How have they helped you succeed? I would have to say it was my mother. As mother of four children, she had to go back to work when my father contracted crippling rheumatoid arthritis as a relatively young

man. She managed her children, her husband, her home and her job with such grace and ease. It was simply amazing. She worked tirelessly for us all, never complaining about the hand she had been dealt. She taught me that I could do anything and be anything with hard work and a cheerful heart. I think she was sassy and didn't know it.

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business? Be true to yourself. Never compromise your values or beliefs for the sake of getting ahead. And never let fear decide your fate or your future. Use your God-given talents and continue to grow along the way. We are all diamonds in the rough and our talents and expertise will shine through at the right moment. Remember, of course women don't work as hard as men, because they get it right the first time!

What does “success” mean to you?

Success is believing in not only what you do but yourself as well. It's getting up in the morning and having that "I can't wait to get to work" attitude.

Be the best you can be at whatever you do.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" Finding that great balance between work, family, friends and yourself. Being grateful for all God's blessings.

“Never let fear decide your fate or your future.”

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? Attending festivals, Christian concerts, musicals and events at the Morris, walking the River Walk and spending time with friends and family.

What did you want to be as a kid growing up?

How do you stay organized?

Lists, lists and more lists! And, get it on the calendar right away!

A roller skating car hop.

A comedic actress like Lucille Ball.

What was your first job?

Favorite TV Show: Scandal and Downton Abbey

What is your favorite form of stress relief? Bellini's at Bar Louie

Favorite Scented Candle: Lavender to soothe the sassy woman!

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Facts About Darlene Sweeney:

Biggest Pet Peeve: People who don't treat others with respect, kindness and compassion.

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? When I am well prepared for a presentation, I can feel at ease and my sassiness can come out.

I'm also pretty darn sassy when I show up in costume at Saint Vincent de Paul events.

Ever seen a sassy crawfish at a Mardi Gras event? Or how about an Irish Dancer at an Irish event? Anyone for Yellow Ducky or Sock Monkey? Did someone say "Sassy?"

Favorite Weekend Style: My Marilyn Monroe leggings have been one of the most complimented articles of clothing I have ever worn. When I wear them there is no doubt I feel sassy!

Favorite Beauty Product: Mac lipsticks!

Favorite Dessert: French vanilla ice cream ... boring but true!

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

I would be a wedge sandal with flowers and bling to show off my sassy pedicure with flowers and bling!

Chief Sales Officer, Notre Dame Federal Credit Union

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rica McCAHILL is a 13 year steward in the financial industry who loves helping people save money and find ways to better their lives. She started her career as a teller inside of the banking sector and now works inside the credit union family.

Erica has been promoted through all positions in retail banking and now sits at the executive level. As a 33-year-old fitness enthusiast and national bikini competitor; along with being a mother of a spunky 9-year-old, Erica has her hands full. She works hard and works out even harder. The sky is the limit when you put your mind on the prize and your attitude towards your goals!

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Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job?

I love my job because it is different everyday! I have the joy of watching people in motion and have to be a quick thinker. There is never a dull moment especially because I am surrounded by wonderful people and personalities!

How did you choose your line of work? A cousin actually helped me get an interview. To start, I began working at a bank while getting my undergrad. The original goal was to be a teacher, however, I fell in love with the service aspect and pace of the banking environment and I couldn't leave it!

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business? Stay confident! Always approach difficulties with the problem and the solution! Set yourself up so the only answer someone can give you is "yes!"

Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

What is/are your career goal(s)?

Leading and teaching are what inspire me and I am fortunate to be able to apply these skills and motivate others every day too! I am starting to expand this outside of the work environment and am deepening my hobby to see what other encouragement I can offer to women. Whether they are starting in the fitness world, or just want a healthier life! I now have tools to help them!

Who inspires you professionally?

My 9-year-old daughter, believe it or not! This little diva motivates me to continue to press ahead and attempt everything that comes my way.

I love being her role model and inspiration, and in turn, she keeps ME energized and on my toes!

“Stay confident!

Always approach What does “success” mean to you?

Success is exceeding the goal you originally set and having the power to appreciate the speed bumps along the way. Nothing is ever perfect and you learn so much more if you expect it!

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" Don't stop and don't be negative!

Life is too short to dwell on the things that you cannot control. Approach the situation and always ask if you can control it. If you can't, leave it alone. If you can, push up those sleeves and make it happen.

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? Sleeping! The active lifestyle I live requires rest. Both mentally and physically, your body needs it!

How do you stay organized?

Electronic calendar! If it's not on the calendar, it doesn't get done! I do rely on my phone for everything, but this feature can keep any person on pace!

What is your favorite form of stress relief? Lifting weights! Nothing beats hitting the gym and getting your sweat on!

(With a coordinated outfit, of course!)

difficulties with the problem and the solution!”

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Favorite TV Show: The Voice

Favorite Scented Candle: French Vanilla

Favorite Dessert:

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About Erica McCahill:

Favorite Beauty Product: Mascara! It helps brighten the way to your soul!

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

Being a creative, energetic and well-rounded thinker.

SASSY women juggle a lot, are not afraid to say it and always want more!

What was your first job?

Cashier- When I was still a senior in high school, I worked at a local, family-owned hardware store that taught me more about plumbing, screen repair and paint than anyone could have imagined, especially for a girl!

What’s your guilty pleasure?

Cookies! Golden Oreo's with peanut butter smashed on top are my absolute favorite!

After my bikini competitions, you will always find them in my cooler!

What do you and your family enjoy doing on the weekends?

My family is very active. We like boating, bike riding and working out at the gym.

There are always fun ways to keep yourself busy and we find them!

Biggest Pet Peeve: Indecisiveness. Ain't nobody got time for that! Just make up your mind and let's make it happen!

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

Right now, a 5-inch open toe pump to hit the stage!

Usually though, a laced sneaker ready to get fit!

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Cressy and Everett Real Estate

an LAZZARA is the top selling Real Estate Broker for Cressy & Everett as well as the top selling broker in St. Joseph County since 2007. In addition to being licensed in Indiana, Jan is also licensed in Michigan and a top producing real estate agent there as well.

Her early experience started working with her father in the family owned water softener business. This is where she learned exceptional negotiating skills as well as the importance of caring and communication. During Jan’s 15 years as a realtor, she has also been a community advocate. Jan’s free time has included supporting the Women's Care Center as well as the Center for the Homeless. With her passion for dancing and caring for others, Jan has repeatedly raised thousands and thousands of dollars for those worthwhile organizations.

Just in a Day’s Work: How did you choose your line of work?

After exceeding expectations in the water softener business, many trusted friends and family felt that I would be the perfect fit for selling real estate.

Who inspires you professionally? My father! He taught me that the key to success is communication, compassion and God who gives me the strength every day to move forward!

What are some of the obstacles (if any) you have faced as a woman in your workplace? In my early stages, I basically worked 24/7. I am so grateful that I had my mother to help and my children, (Brian and Angela) the loves of my life, that understood and completely supported me, never complaining once about my very long hours.

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Lazzara Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business? Surround yourself with only positive influences to stay positive and energized! Keep your relationship with God very strong.

Do you have a professional mentor? How have they helped you succeed? In my early years it was definitely my father. In my early real estate career, a much respected realtor who has since past was very kind to take me under his care and give me invaluable knowledge. Half way through my career, I was very fortunate to be introduced in a group with many of the top realtors in the United States that was called "Star Power" started by the recently passed Howard Britton. I have since befriended many members of this amazing group and contribute much of my success to being a member.

“Surround yourself with only positive influences to stay positive and energized!”

What does “success” mean to you? Nothing is more gratifying than seeing my client's excitement and enthusiasm at the closing table. That to me is success! I love making my clients dreams "come true!"

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" Knowing how to maintain the perfect balance between working hard and spending time with my family.

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby?

I love dancing. I started to dance as therapy from the loss of my father as he had always told me he thought I would make a wonderful dancer.

Favorite TV Show: Dancing With The Stars

Favorite Book: "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne and My bible

Favorite Scented Candle: Vanilla

What is your favorite form of stress relief? My 5 a.m. morning workout at Knollwood CC.

Favorite Beauty Product: Lipstick! I don't leave home without it.

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About Jan Lazzara:

Biggest Pet Peeve: Negativity

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

Woman that can strike the exceptional balance between work, family and a strong faith in God.

What did you want to be as a kid growing up?

Doctor or an Attorney

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? The feeling I get when I have put together what seemed to be an almost impossible deal to make my clients dream home a reality!

What was your first job?

National Bank in Downtown South Bend

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

High heeled open toe sandals because it says "I'm classy and fun!"

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Michiana Brick

ayne Flanagan is the president and majority owner of Michiana Brick, joining her father's 20 year old company. An RN by degree, becoming majority owner and embarking upon an adventure in the brick and block business was a unique learning experience complete with incredible challenges. Under Jayne's leadership, Michiana Brick has grown in the hardscape market while consistently providing impeccable customer service and quality designer products. She enjoys the challenge of watching Michiana Brick grow and takes pride in the finished projects of her customers. In 2013, Michiana Brick Home Center was opened in Granger.

This solidified a partnership with Ginger Valley Garden Center as well as gave the public an outdoor shopping arena. Jayne enjoys reaching beyond her comfort zone and building alliances with quality manufacturers, other distributors and contractors. She was responsible for bringing the TechoBloc brand to Indiana, as its first distributor. Her passion for building relationships is as important to her as "turning backyard dreams into realities." Jayne continues to work in the field of nursing as a hospice nurse for Hospice at Home in St. Joseph Michigan. In 2014, her dream of creating a network for area women in construction was realized with Michiana Women in Construction. She serves as Secretary for Women Business Owners of Michiana, is a member of Business Women United Network, Michiana Networking, Granger Professional Networking, St. Joseph County Chamber of Commerce, Granger Business Association and St. Pius X Catholic Church & School.

Just in a Day’s Work: How did you choose your line of work?

My work chose me, or rather my father did! My dad, Greg Gluchowski, knew I was looking for a business. He gave me the opportunity to buy into Michiana Brick as majority owner and president.

As a nurse by degree, I knew nothing about brick or block so I had a tremendous learning curve!

I think I have surprised us both at the growth we have had since 2011!

Who inspires you professionally? I am a strong supporter of fellow business women! I try to surround myself with women I respect, admire and are supportive of each other. I am inspired daily by the women of MWIC (Michiana Women in Construction) and WBOM (Women Business Owners of Michiana). Supporting each other while

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growing our businesses is what it is all about.

Each business success for one of us is celebrated by all of us! I am inspired by their achievements, energy and love for each other. I am grateful and blessed to have each and every one of them on my support team! I am also inspired by the men in my life including my dad, my husband and my cousin, Rich! Their work ethics influence mine and continue to make me strive to grow Michiana Brick.

What was the best business advice you have received and who gave it?

When I had a meltdown about the risk (of my retirement funds) of building the Granger store, my husband hugged me and said, "The worst that could happen is you fail and guess what- that is okay. You can survive failure and be a better person for it. But the important thing is, you have tried!"

I really needed that presentation of reality and am so grateful to have taken the opportunity!

What are some of the obstacles (if any) you have faced as a woman in your workplace? As a woman in a male dominated industry, obstacles are just a way of life! I have to prove my knowledge and tenacity in most aspects of day-to-day business! I was one of the few women at brick school. My toolkit includes a continuous updating of my knowledge base in my products, industry standards, desires of my customers and my smile!

When armed with these, I can tackle any obstacle!

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business? Believe in yourself.

Surround yourself with those that believe in YOU. Let their positivity and support guide you when your belief in yourself is faltering. Let the negative people go!

What does “success” mean to you?

Success to me is letting my personality shine through all I do and feeling secure in my own skin. Taking pride in the quality of goods and services I provide and having the support of my friends and family while helping others achieve their dreams makes me happy and feel successful.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" Having a great support system in place, my husband, my family, my friends and my fellow women in business who can pick up my slack if needed or catch me when I fall.

How do you stay organized? My organization skills are a work in progress!

I make a lot of lists, am now using my phone for a calendar and check my email frequently.

I tend to juggle a lot and try my best to pull it all together!

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? Spending time with my family, cooking and entertaining. I love to throw a fun party!

What is your favorite form of stress relief? Girl’s night out at Hacienda or Bar Louie!

“Believe in yourself.

Surround yourself with those that believe in YOU.” Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

Favorite Guilty Pleasure: Shopping! My grandma Annie was a shopper and taught me to appreciate a bargain.

I can shop ‘til I drop!

Favorite TV Show: Of all time: Friends Current: The Goodwife, Nashville and Big Bang (All DVR'd so I don't miss any episodes!)

Favorite Scented Candle:

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About Jayne Flanagan:

Evergreen and anything Christmas Scented!

Favorite Book: There are too many to list but I love Jodi Picoult and Phillipa Gregory books. My inspirational book was Brick by Brick: A Woman's Journey

by Lynne Donohue.

Favorite Dessert: My Aunt Gee's chocolate cake with butter cream icing!

Favorite beauty product?

Anything Mary Kay! I have used their skin care for over 40 years and attribute my great skin to Mary Kay.

Photo provided by Jayne Flanagan

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What do you think makes up a SASSY woman?

Sassy women are honest, empowered to speak her mind and driven to be the best she can be in every aspect of her life. A Sassy woman supports other women in business and lifts them up in their endeavors.

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? I feel sassy when I feel confident and good about me! I believe in laughter and letting your personality shine through in any situation.

Biggest Pet Peeve: Dishonesty and not admitting errors. Everyone makes mistakes! Accept responsibility, apologize and move forward. I don't like drama.

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If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

A nice comfortable Sperry Docksider or a comfy low heeled boot! I have several pairs of shoes under my desk at work. A girl can never have too many pairs of shoes!

Executive Director, Elkhart County Women’s Shelter

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ennifer DOTY started employment with Family Services - Elkhart County Women's Shelter 15 years ago. Her first job at the agency was the part-time evening receptionist. In 2005, she became the Youth Director and launched and wrote an angermanagement program for teens called GOAL that is recognized by our local juvenile justice system. In 2007, Jennifer became the Director of Transitional Housing and Family Enrichment.

Jennifer served as the chair of Region 2 homeless coalition for Indiana. In addition, she has led several events that includes Homeward Bound Walk for the Homeless, Box City, Victory over Violence run/walk and served on the Elkhart Housing Authority Self-sufficiency Board.

In 2013, Jennifer became the Executive Director of the Elkhart County Women's Shelter.

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job?

I love my job because I love people. I learn just as much from them as they do from me. The only way to truly motivate people is by loving them.

Caring for them just isn't enough. Sugary words and motivational speeches aren't enough. Teaching people new skills and how to make healthy choices isn't enough. Real love is what moves people.

How did you choose your line of work?

I've always wanted to be a teacher or work with the youth. Social work is all of that. I get to teach and I get to be with youth and families.

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What is the best business advice you have received?

The best advice I've been given is to remain true and always have the motivation of doing good behind everything you do.

Who inspires you professionally?

My mom inspires me. She has always pushed me to do more. She is the only person that can convince me that I can do more and to keep moving. My co-workers also push me. They believe in me and stand by me no matter what.

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business?

Always be true to yourself. Stand your ground in your beliefs and make sure everything you do is for good. Always use your powers for good, not evil.

Last but not least, don't step on other people to get what you want.

What does “success” mean to you?

Success means that all my failures have brought me to where I am today. You can't have success without failure.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" Gratitude! Gratitude won't allow you to take anything for granted. Joy! Real joy inside your heart gets you through the tough times.

“Always be true to yourself.”

Favorite TV Show:

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby?

Spending time with my daughter.

Dancing With The Stars

Favorite Book: Almost anything by Nora Roberts

How do you stay organized?

Other people have to help keep me organized! My mind is all over the place! If you could see inside my crazy head you would run far, far away!

What is your favorite form of stress relief? A good night’s sleep and perhaps a little wine.

Favorite Scented Candle: Clean Linen or Anything Apple

Favorite Dessert: Cheesecake

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About Jennifer Doty:

Favorite Beauty Product: I have to have my L’Oreal Primer!

Biggest Pet Peeve: Meanness. I can't stand it when people are mean to each other.

What do you and your family enjoy doing on the weekends?

We love watching movies, going for walks, going out to dinner and visiting the beach.

What is your favorite weekend style?

Jeans! I need my jeans, t-shirts and tennis shoes!

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

Any woman that is honest, happy, real and relatable.

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? I feel my sassiest when I'm with my family.

"Family" consists of blood and real friends.

They are my foundation.

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

If I were a shoe I would choose to be my New Balance tennis shoes.

Clean, comfortable and I can walk in them for hours!

Owner/ Director,

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The Front Porch

athy BLUMENTRITT started working as a licensed Social Worker in Minneapolis, MN, where she worked with mothers and children who were at risk with Lutheran Social Services. This inspired her to build an expertise in helping families heal and connect as a Marriage and Family Therapist. As she was in private practice, she prayed for a team of colleagues who were interested in mindfulness and healing relationships. One by one, over three years, the team for The Front Porch arrived and trained under her supervision. The idea of The Front Porch was born out of this team as a place for the community to heal and connect in many ways, it also serves to nurture the therapists so they are healthy and connected as well. The Front Porch family of therapists are open to educating and delivering new and ancient ways of healing. Some of these healing arts include family therapy, marital conflict workshops, sand tray, poetry readings, individual therapy, mindful meditation and art to express the inner world. The Front Porch hopes to be the leading team that listens and responds to the Michiana people's stories and needs and who hope within each story. We feel blessed and want to share our home with those who are in need of connection and healing.

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job?

The people and their beautiful real stories. I get the chance to hear and be with amazing people in ways even their families do not always get to see and hear.

When I watch people heal or connect, sometimes for the first time, it changes me too. I also love to watch my staff grow into genuine healing therapists. I hope to inspire success and nurture their mistakes. Mistakes are essential, they are unique teachers who can transform good to great.

What was the best business advice you have received and who gave it? Listen, listen slowly and intentionally to what lives and speaks to your heart and mind. We rarely if ever do great things alone, take help and work until it's done right. My parents Tony and Terry Marchettit, and a bit of Walt Disney.

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Blumentritt Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

Who inspires you professionally?

My family, they are all creatively driven. They do not quit! I watch them all get up time and again after challenges and become even better. Our strength comes from God, yet we all value hard work and getting it done well. Finally, my husband and his unique undying belief in what I do. He was the first to say, "Do it Kathy" every step in my career from my degrees to The Front Porch.

Do you have a professional mentor? How have they helped you succeed?

YES! I could not be me without Tim Nelson, PhD and Bonnie Badenoch, PhD. I have this perfect combination of mentors for me. Tim taught me to never stop reading and challenging what I am doing and why I chose a method or a theory. Bonnie has taught me what books cannot even though she is an author. She has taught me about how deep and unknown the unconscious is to swim in. She taught me to follow people's natural instinct to

heal and connect. They both have taught me genuine vulnerability. They have taught me in their own ways, that it is necessary for therapists to go towards our own inner wounds and beautiful wisdom that comes with the walk of healing. Suffering is inevitable, normal and it can bring a deeper trust of self when we listen to what we need. I've learned from God and many others that people usually do things that makes sense to them, we have to be willing to ask questions and truly listen.

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business?

Stay focused on the goal and connected to those who you trust. Failure does not mean the dream is over, it means another door is going to open. Be thankful, I owe so much to others who have given me their time, money, encouragement, creative work, hugs, patience, and most of all, belief in what we are doing.

What does “success” mean to you?

Success means I have listened well to God, my loved ones and myself. Whatever comes from listening is usually something beautiful.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?"

I'm not sure you can have it all in any one given time or moment but I know I've come close to feeling connected to God and those I love. Earth is not the final place, but I have touched times and people that remind me of what is yet to come.

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? I'm learning to quilt. It teaches me stillness and reminds me of life. I love watching separate things come together to make something beautifully new.

What is your favorite form of stress relief? Running! It allows me to listen to music and shed stress. I also enjoy laughter, jokes and funny movies. They remind me that life's frustrations can be humorous. And of course, mindful meditations and yoga.

“Stay focused on the goal and connected to those who you trust. ”

Favorite TV Show: Once Upon A Time

Favorite Guilty Pleasure:

Tennis! I could spend every day playing tennis with my friends and family. I have met amazing women who have inspired me and loved me when I'm not lovable. I love them and the game. I feel guilty only because I've played up to three to four hours in a row, and the guilt comes when I've got to get to work at home and at TFP. There will always be more laundry and more tennis, thankfully.

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Facts About Kathy Blumentritt:

Favorite Book:

What did you want to be as a kid growing up? Ballerina

Favorite Scented Candle:

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

7,000 Way to Listen by Mark Nepo Sandalwood and Vanilla

Favorite Dessert:

Dark chocolate with caramel on anything!

Favorite Beauty Product:

I love beauty products! I would have to say Veil primer that goes under makeup.

It is so velvety and prepares the skin so the makeup stays on and smooth.

A woman who listens and believes in herself and who believes in other women.

What makes you feel the SASSIEST?

Celebrating women with women, all of us have wisdom and beauty. A great bracelet goes a long way too.

Biggest Pet Peeve:

Do what you say to the best you can do. Dirty floors and counters.

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

A black stiletto with a few pieces of rhinestones. If they invented one that could play tennis or run in, it would be perfect. I like to move and challenge my body, but I like a sophisticated look.

Broadcaster/D.J., FM-LeSea Broadcasting

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imberly ANN BOND'S love affair with radio started long ago. As a little girl, she would record hours of live radio on cassettes and would memorize everything that was said, sung or written in the commercials. Kimberly’s first radio job was at WAMJ-AM in Mishawaka where she worked there for a year and then applied at the number one Top 40 secular station in Mishawaka called, Zip 104-FM. While working at Zip 104-FM, someone from LeSea Broadcasting heard her on the radio and offered her a job the next day. Kimberly has worked for LeSea Broadcasting and Positive Hit Music, Pulse FM Radio for 25 years now! LeSea is the home of many amazing ministries. Radio (2 FM stations, 3 frequencies and 6 Shortwave Stations that cover the entire world), 6 Full Power Television Stations-2 National & 1 International, Feed The Hungry, Worldwide Bible Distribution, Making Healthy Choices, LeSea Tours and a 24 hour International Prayerline. Touching, helping and encouraging people on a daily basis!

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job? The intimate connection and companionship of being a listener’s closest friend, biggest cheerleader, most consistent motivator and story-teller. The minute-by-minute opportunity to input into people’s lives is wonderful! It changes their whole outlook, heart and day! We give them the energy and ability to keep doing what THEY do on a daily basis with us by their side encouraging them forward! I love that I can provide the chance to change lives and the ability to reach out and squeeze a heart of discouragement back to life. I love the outreach, the ministry and the love. It’s fun, amazing and ultimately life-changing.

There is nothing else like radio in this world!

What is the best business advice you have received and who gave it? The best radio advice I ever received was back in 1986 from my first program director, "Be uniquely you.

Develop your OWN voice. Don’t try to be, sound like or emulate ANY one else." I ran with that! I developed the belief and wisdom that each of us is one-of-a-kind and part of a greater 'body' of people. Together we make up a powerful, strong, functioning whole. But, we won’t and don’t as long as "eyes

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that instead want to be ears or legs that instead want to be lungs refuse to walk in their own beautiful assignment, gifting’s, strengths and callings. There is nothing more valuable than you.” And that goes for business success, family relationships, empowering friendships, artistic contributions, social interaction and causes and ministry on every level.

What are some of the obstacles you have faced as a woman in your workplace? I believe that being a single mom is a challenge no matter what job or career you hold. I have a special place in my heart for women who are both the mother and the father to their children. Those who go home after a long work day become the cook, launderer, maintenance person, bill payer, cleaner, organizer, school function attender, cheerleader, supporter, child-raiser, protector, provider and a million other things that all single moms can relate to.

Do you serve on any charitable organizations' boards or committees? I am a voice of healing and freedom for those who are experiencing domestic violence or are trying to find help and healing from abuse that has occurred

in their childhood, marriage or relationships. Many places ask me to come and speak. I’ve spoken at churches, fellowships, support groups and correctional facilities.

At LeSea Broadcasting, I have the daily opportunity to serve and help raise money to feed hungry children with our own 'Feed the Hungry,’ and send the word of God with 'Spread the Word.'

We work yearly with other organizations that come to us asking for assistance with feeding programs, ministry and various other projects that bring help and relief to those hungry, sick or less fortunate all around the world.

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business? Love being the unique and amazing one-of-akind woman that God created you to be. Be that bold, talented, intelligent, incredible, overcoming, conscientious woman who truly values and believes in herself. Pursue your dreams while inspiring others to do the same by your tenacity, faith, encouragement and ethics. You have your own unique light.

LET IT SHINE. Don’t allow issues, troubles, challenges or negativity dull that, EVER!

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What’s your go-to and in-office beauty style? Comfortable with a modern 80's edge! Wear colors that you love and makes you feel attractive and vibrant. Do your makeup and hair each day in a way that you feel compliments your uniqueness. I love dangling, sparkling earrings, necklaces and bracelets with hearts and keys and special charms and symbols that mean something to me.

“You have your own unique light.

LET IT SHINE.”

What did you want to be as a kid growing up? A singer or an explorer.

Favorite Scented Candle: Favorite Guilty Pleasure: Reece’s Peanut Butter Cups melted in the microwave! I have done this since I was a little girl and my mom used to hide them from me. Also, cheese popcorn.

Favorite TV Show: The Voice NFL Football (Green Bay Packers all the Way!)

Favorite Book: The Bible

Hazelnut French Vanilla Cookie Dough! I don’t think they've created that one yet but I'm believing someone will very soon!

Favorite Dessert: It would probably be Reece's but I would trade any dessert for chips and salsa!

Favorite Beauty Product: I love Noxzema Cleanser! It’s the Best. I also use Olay Moisturizer for my face and body.

What do you and your family enjoy doing on the weekends? My son and I love to have mom/son action movie marathons. A lively game of ping pong might follow.

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

I'd be a fun, rockin' boot with a medium heel, buckles and a few bangles!

Kickin' enough to impress, yet comfortable enough to move!

Attorney/Partner, Gardner & Rans P.C.

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risty Rans was born and raised in South Bend. She obtained her Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science and English from Purdue University and received her law degree from Valparaiso University. Eleven years ago she married the love of her life, Ryan Rans, a local realestate developer and Managing Partner of Great Lakes Capital. In 2005 she co-founded Gardner & Rans P.C., a law firm in downtown South Bend, with Martin Gardner, who she began working with nearly 15 years ago.

The firm provides legal services for injured persons, insurance companies and businesses throughout Northern Indiana in both state and federal court. When not working, Kristy can be found spending time with her husband, hanging out with her retired horse Hanna who she has had since the age of 11, showing her horse Sophie in the sport of Dressage or cuddling with her rescue dogs Otis and Spencer.

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Just in a Day’s Work: How did you choose your line of work?

At a very young age, I did a report on Abraham Lincoln and how he became a lawyer and the work he did for his clients. It completely mesmerized me. He was highly respected for the help he was able to give to his clients. From that time forward I wanted to be a lawyer to help those in my community work through difficult legal issues.

What is the best business advice you have received?

If you are doing your best, you will not have time to worry about failure.

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Who inspires you professionally?

My mentor and law partner, Martin Gardner, who I have worked with for the past 15 years. He is an amazing attorney, litigator and person. I have learned almost everything I know about being a lawyer from watching him on a day-to-day basis.

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business?

I believe that if you work hard, never stop learning and believe in yourself, opportunities will be endless.

“If you are doing your best, you will not have time to worry about failure.”

Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

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Favorite Guilty Pleasure: A good glass of Cabernet!

Favorite TV Show: The Newsroom

Favorite Book:

Facts

The Eighty-Dollar Champion

Favorite Scented Candle: I love all the fall holiday scents!

Photo: Kelly Lynn Photography

Favorite Dessert: Chocolate Bars

About Kristy Rans: How do you stay organized?

Constant to-do lists and email reminders!

Favorite Beauty Product: Anything by Eminence.

Biggest Pet Peeve:

What’s your go-to and in-office beauty style?

Jacket and pencil skirt.

Disorganization

How about your favorite weekend style? Riding breeches and boots!

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Photo: Kelly Lynn Photography

Executive Director

of Resource Development,

Ivy Tech Community College

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eigh Ann Jacobson joined Ivy Tech Community College’s North Central region as the Executive Director of Resource Development on June 23rd of this year. She is responsible for developing and sustaining fundraising efforts in Ivy Tech North Central’s four-county area. She cultivates partnerships with community groups, employers, foundations and individuals in support of the College's students, faculty and programs. Leigh Ann graduated from King’s College with a B.A. in English and from Arcadia University with an M.A. in English. She earned a Certificate in Executive Management from the University of Notre Dame and is a Certified Fund Raising Executive (CFRE). Leigh Ann joined Ivy Tech with 16 years of fundraising experience. She is involved in several organizations in her field, is a speaker on fundraising topics and she is currently a member and past board member of Association of Fundraising Professionals. Leigh Ann and her family moved to Indiana eight years ago when her husband Ben accepted a position with the University of Notre Dame. Leigh Ann and Ben have three children and reside in Granger.

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job? I love my profession because I build relationships, share my enthusiasm for the cause and impact the resources available to a non-profit. Plus, fund development is an area where I apply a variety of competencies in different ways. For example, strong writing skills are integral for writing successful proposals and communicating effectively with donors. Exceptional interpersonal skills are necessary for focusing on identifying and nurturing donor relationships. Project management skills are needed to focus on the logistics of planning special events.

What best business advice have you received and who gave it? My high school guidance counselor offered me advice that has remained with me ever since. He emboldened me to get out there and volunteer as a way to learn skills and try on different industries. He instilled in me that being able to show that you are a passionate learner and that you can

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Jacobson Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

transfer learning into another role is an effective method to demonstrate to your prospective college or future employer that you’re ready for the next opportunity.

As an experienced professional, I still follow his advice.

Volunteering opportunities continue to expand my knowledge, skills, professional capacity and, most importantly, my personal network.

What are some of the obstacles (if any) you have faced as a woman in your workplace?

Professional fundraising was once exclusively an "old boys" network. It has come to include a larger and larger proportion of women—women who are becoming more prominent both as fundraisers and as donors. Yet today, disparities exist in recognizing women's philanthropy and their volunteer spirit. As a woman, I continue to wield my power through my own support of women’s funds, women candidates and women’s human services.

I look for ways in my own work to maximize women's philanthropy and their joy of giving.

Who inspires you professionally?

Both the students and the donors inspire me on a daily basis! Sharing a student success story with a potential funder inspires me to make sure that program or scholarship is sustained. Being part of an individual's decision to invest in changing someone's life or bettering their community is awe-inspiring. I've been blessed by having relationships with philanthropy heroes who inspire me and others.

Do you have a professional mentor? How have they helped you succeed? Yes, I have a professional mentor, who I sometimes refer to as my life coach. I met this woman when I first moved to Indiana eight years ago. She served as a board member at the non-profit agency at which I was working. Ever since that time, she and I meet regularly to discuss shop and share stories about our families. She is a great asset in my life, because she keeps me on task with my goal of earning my doctorate by the time I reach 50.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?” My best secret to "having it all" is while you're working on attaining it, sometimes you just need to pause and enjoy the small things as you get there.

If you keep yourself in constant pursuit mode, you cannot appreciate where you are now.

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? I really don't time for a hobby, but my favorite non-work activity is planning our next vacation which, with me, can start 365 days before it's begun!

I love researching destinations, reading reviews, planning activities and finding restaurants, etc.

How do you stay organized? I text my husband and trust in my assistant! My husband has the knack to never forget something on a list, so I just text away any needs on the home-front. At the office, I rely on my assistant to help keep me organized so that I do not have to spend unnecessary time in the office when my goals are met by being out of the office.

Define what “success” means to you?

Success means happiness to me. Success at work stems around me being happy with my achievements.

Success at home revolves around having a happy marriage and happy children. Staying happy in trying to balance it all is a true success!

What is your favorite form of stress relief? My favorite form of stress relief involves a hot bubble bath and streaming Sade while I soak all the troubles away.

“Being part of an individual's decision to invest in changing someone's life or bettering their community is awe-inspiring. ”

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Guilty Pleasure: My guilty pleasure usually involves having some icecream or a few mini peanut butter cups while Pinteresting before bed usually looking at pins on ways to eat healthier!

Favorite TV show: Showtime's "House of Lies" is my current favorite tv series because it is the perfect blend of comedy and drama and the female leads are SASSY indeed! All of the characters have some devilish aspects as well which makes watching the show a great diversion.

Favorite Book: The writing in "The Mermaid Chair" by Sue Monk Kidd is beautiful, spiritual, mysterious, and erotic. The love story exists on so many levels - the woman and the monk, the woman and her husband and the woman and her own soul. I couldn't put it down and it's my go-to re-read, even if it's just for a passage.

Facts

About Leigh Ann Jacobson:

Favorite Scented Candle: Clean Linen scent draws an emotional response from me because it's reminiscent of the clean sheets my grandmother hung out on the clothesline. Being tucked in at my gram's house as a child and the smell of those sheets brings back the fondest memories and feeling of security.

What did you want to be as a kid growing up?

One of my earliest recollections is when I was just beginning elementary school. I loved going to my mother's office on days off from school, because I was able to spend time riding the elevator with Luther. Everyone knew Luther—he was the iconic elevator operator in my mother's building. Luther always greeted everyone by name, with a smile, and supplied a dose of daily humor. I remember thinking how lucky Luther must be because he brightened everyone's day and exchanged in stories during their ride. I thought back then that I would make the perfect elevator operator!

Favorite Beauty Product: Lip gloss is by far my favorite beauty product. No matter where I'm going nor what time of day, I'm never without lip gloss. It's an effortless way to add some sparkle.

What’s your go-to and in-office beauty style?

My go-to style for the office is a classic suit or separates that are layered. It's in the accessories where my personality comes out! I love scarfs, statement necklaces, being equipped with a great portfolio and pen and, of course, perfume.

Biggest Pet Peeve: My biggest pet peeve is when someone does not extend mutual courtesy back to you. For example, when you hold the door open for someone and they don't say thank you. Therefore, I make it a point to extend thoughtfulness and appreciation in many of my actions throughout every day.

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? I have a SASSY, unstoppable attitude. I'm quick witted, bold, clever and a little feisty. I channel by SASSY-ness at work by being determined, confident and vocal. Outside of work, I summon my SASSY-ness by being playful and vivacious.

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

I would be the high heeled loafer. The loafer has remained a staple in a woman's wardrobe for decades yet keeps reinventing itself and finding new ways to be beautiful. A high quality, high heeled loafer to me is sassier than any stiletto--it's a good girl with a hint of naughty.

Doctor of

Optometry/Partner,

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Eye Care Associates of Michiana

innea Robbins-Winters has been serving the vision needs of families in the Michiana area since 1992, and is co-owner of a fourdoctor, 30-employee eye care practice with offices in South Bend and New Carlisle. She is Board Certified in Medical Optometry, and provides comprehensive vision, optical and eye-health services. As a clinical consultant for leading contact lens manufacturers, her patients have early access to new, improved lens products before they become widely available. In 2003, this sassy doctor was appointed by Governor Kearnen to serve a term on the Indiana Optometry Board, advising the state on professional licensing standards and eye care legislation. In 2010-11, she represented 760 optometrists when she was elected president of the Indiana Optometric Association. She volunteers her professional services through free vision screenings to area school children, and is a spokesperson for InfantSEE, a non-profit organization that offers free infant eye assessments for early detection of vision disorders.

Just Just in in a a Day’s Day’s Work: Work: What do you love about your job? Great vision and eye health are essential for overall well-being and quality of life, so I love that what I do is important. I also genuinely enjoy getting to know my patients so I can offer them a personalized eye care experience. Recently a patient posted an online review that said “Going to Dr. Robbins feels like family to me.” That’s the kind of doctor care I am most proud of, and why I love my job.

How did you choose your line of work? I knew I wanted to do something in the healthcare field, but was uncertain of the specialty.

My adviser told me it was difficult to be admitted into optometry school.

That was enough to motivate me to pursue it!

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Robbins-Winters Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

What was the best business advice you have received and who gave it? BALANCE your life and you will find happiness! I cannot recall who gave it but I remember it well!

What are some of the obstacles (if any) you have faced as a woman in your workplace? Early in my career, there was the issue of equal pay for men and women in the same position. But since joining Eye Care Associates of Michiana in 1999, the obstacles have not been there. From the beginning, I was fully embraced as an equal by my partners Dr. Tom Morton and Dr. John Offerle.

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business? Go for it! Don't ever think something is out of reach.

What does “success” mean to you? Success means enjoying what you do on a daily basis while providing well for your family and balancing life with work.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" A positive attitude!

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? Golf

“Go for it!

Don't ever think something is out of reach.”

Favorite TV Show:

How do you stay organized?

Mental checklists and my iPhone calendar!

The Good Wife

Favorite Book: Anything James Patterson

What is your favorite form of stress relief? Exercise

Favorite Dessert: Carrot Cake

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Facts

About Linnea Robbins-Winters:

Favorite Beauty Product: Pevonia Facial Cream

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

A women who balances life- work, family and social (or at least appears to balance)!

How about your favorite weekend style?

I love my athletic wear if I am hanging out at home. If not, a great pair of jeans!

Biggest Pet Peeve: Bad attitudes or negativity- glass half empty frame of mind!

What’s your go-to and in-office beauty style?

Dress pants with a nice blazer or sweater.

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? A night out with my husband!

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

I would be a casual black boot that could go with jeans or dress pants.

Owner,

Star Martial Arts

M

elanie Birky owns Star Martial Arts in Elkhart and Mishawaka with her husband, Seth. She started martial arts at the age of three with her parents as instructors. She started assisting with classes at age 10 and became the chief instructor/manager at age 16. Melanie moved to Goshen when she met her husband and started co-running Star Martial Arts in Elkhart with him five years ago. A little over a year ago, they opened Star Martial Arts in Mishawaka. Today, she is blessed with a great team that allows her to focus on managing, training, planning and expanding! Melanie’s current dreams and goals consist of running Star Martial Arts academies across the country!

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job?

The students, especially the kids! They can turn my day around in one short class. Plus, the funny things they say are always hilarious! I also love the flexibility that comes with being able to set your own schedule and be your own boss.

What was the best business advice you have received and who gave it?

Recently, I received great advice at a T.D. Jakes seminar. He said, "At the end of the day, there will always be things that aren't checked off your list. Just make sure it isn't the same thing every day."

Who inspires you professionally?

There is another martial arts business owner in Arizona that blows me away. She's strong, independent and tenacious! At one time, she almost lost everything,

Melanie

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but dug deep and worked her way to success.

She's "real" with you too. She's not afraid to be vulnerable and tell you her downfalls or weaknesses.

She genuinely wants to help and doesn't care about getting the credit or recognition. She works away on making herself and her business the best it can be, minding her own business, not worrying about keeping up with the Jones. And, she's under 5 foot and crazy fit as an added bonus!

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business?

Just be you! Know and celebrate how you are uniquely made. Always work on making a better you, but don't try to become successful by being someone you aren't or who you think others want.

Do you serve on any charitable organizations' boards or committees?

I'm not on any boards or committees, but we regularly have fundraisers and promotions for charities through food drives, school supply drives, toy drives, board break and kick-a-thons and pink uniform promotions.

We also have a community project every other month with our leadership students from leaf raking and snow shoveling to retirement home demonstrations and food pantry volunteering.

Do you have a professional mentor? How have they helped you succeed?

My mom! She's my martial arts instructor, my mom, my business mentor, my friend and my cheerleader.

Everything I know about the industry comes from her.

She has poured into me more than I probably even realize.

What does “success” mean to you?

Figuring out and doing what God made and put you on this earth for and doing it to the best of your ability and with love.

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" Knowing that what you have is probably already close to "having it all." But if you don't feel like you don't have it all, go do something about it!

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? My husband and I enjoy traveling and doing extreme things like skydiving, tough mudder and swimming with sharks. He's currently training for a marathon and I'm training for my first triathlon.

How do you stay organized?

Google Tasks, Google Calendar and LOTS of lists!

“Hard work and a good work ethic truly does pay off!”

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Favorite TV Show: I enjoy business shows like Shark Tank and The Profit. Competition shows are a close second like Project Runway and Amazing Race, which my husband and I are currently trying out for!

Facts

Favorite Book: The Bible, especially Proverbs.

Anything on the topic of leadership; Entreleadership by Dave Ramsey and any leadership book by John Maxwell.

About Melanie Birky:

What is your favorite weekend style?

What is your favorite form of stress relief? Exercise, especially beating a punching bag. One of my goals for 2015 is to start journaling more as well.

I've recently fallen in love with full length workout leggings and an oversized sweatshirt. However, the weekends are usually the only time I can wear "real" clothes so I usually try to show my personal style then with the help of Pinterest for inspiration.

Favorite Scented Candle:

Favorite Beauty Product:

Anything Beachy: Calypso Sands and Bali Shores

Matrix Finishing Spray Wax

What do you and your family enjoy doing on the weekends?

Biggest Pet Peeve:

Exercise, being outdoors, catch up on reading, movie marathons and take a nap, if possible.

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

Gossip

What did you want to be as a kid growing up?

Hair Dresser

Confidence in herself, her abilities and who she is (and is not) as a person and not letting anyone or anything change that.

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

My neon Nike Air Max tennis shoes. They are bold, active, not fussy and comfortable, but yet they make a statement and turn heads in a room. Plus, I can still kick in them.

Artist,

Mud-Luscious “The world is mud-luscious and puddle-wonderful.”

- E.E. Cummings.

M

ichelle Stambaugh is a self-taught potter who has been dabbling in creativity all of her life. After doing hair professionally for 20 years, she turned to clay.

Michelle participated in many art festivals displaying her work of functional and decorative pottery, jewelry and wall decor for several years before opening Mud-Luscious in downtown Dowagiac, Michigan.

Taking over this business opened up the world of "junking" to Michelle. Re-trashioning was added to her portfolio. Discarded furniture and random pieces were "re-trashioned" into funky and useful decor. Her pottery has been shipped worldwide and she has also had the opportunity to travel to Angola, Africa and do pottery alongside those beautiful woman! Michelle lead worship for 10 years at Sister Lakes Community Church, lead senior high youth alongside her husband for 15 years and currently is part of the leadership of Woman's ministry. Michelle is currently the resident artist at "Rosy Tomorrows" in downtown Dowagiac.

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job?

When someone uses a mug I designed every morning for their cup of morning coffee and tells me it's their favorite mug, someone has me create a piece of jewelry for a special occasion or a special someone, or someone has me fashion a bowl for their daughter’s wedding. I am reminded that what I am saying with my hands in the creating process is being kept by someone or passed on as a gift of love. I love being a maker of things that tell a story to someone. A maker of things that are just meant to make someone feel happy. I get to do that each and every day.

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What is/are your career goal(s)? I would like to have more of an audience for my pottery and jewelry. I would like to delve more into multimedia, reassembling tossed aside pieces and other mediums with my pottery concentrating on having a recognizable line of pieces. I would love to be published in my favorite magazine "Where Women Create." It would be a great honor to be considered to be alongside some of the woman that have inspired me in my artistic pursuits, and to possibly be the source of inspiration for someone else.

What is your single best piece of advice for women in business? Never give up! Never!

Who inspires you professionally?

Women who are makers of beautiful things.

Women who tell their story through their work.

Women who inspire women. Women who are creative and have successfully managed to create what they must in the midst of taking care of everything else.

Do you have a professional mentor?

How have they helped you succeed?

My friends have been my mentors. They have helped me succeed by believing in what I have to offer and never letting me quit.

What does “success” mean to you? Weathering the storm. Sticking it out, working hard at what you love to do and believe in with your whole heart!

“Never give up!

Never!”

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" Believing that I CAN have it all, but not all at once. Taking one beautiful thing at a time.

American Idol

How do you stay organized? I don't.

But, I do I try to have a place for everything and everything in its place.

Two key words: I try.

Favorite Dessert:

What is your favorite form of stress relief? A bubble bath and a glass of wine. I wish I could say it was exercise!

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Favorite TV Show:

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby? Riding on the back of our Harley Davidson motorcycle.

Favorite Scented Candle: Swan Creek Cashmere and Cypress

Facts

My Homemade Pie

About Michelle Stambaugh:

Favorite Beauty Product?

Hairspray!

What do you and your family enjoy doing on the weekends?

I spend most Saturdays at Rosy Tomorrows and my husband is a pastor so our weekends aren't usually our leisure time. In the summer, we will take out the boat, go to a movie, visit new places on the motorcycle, spend time with our granddaughter, check out the area restaurants, play games and sometimes just sit on the couch or on the porch and just be together.

What do you think makes up a Sassy woman?

A sparkle in their eye when you are sharing your dreams and fun with them, a tear in their eye when you are hurting and a hug and a little dance for you when you tell them your dreams just came true. Believing in themselves as you watch them live life with determination, grit, grace and a little bit of pure spunk! All the while everyone knows that the strength to do all of that comes from her Father above leading her every step of the way.

Biggest Pet Peeve: Smart phones instead of smart conversation over dinner.

What did you want to be as a kid growing up? A teacher What makes you feel the SASSIEST? My thyroid medication and some really sweet boots!

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

I would be a pair of funky, chunky boots because they scream "let's not be too serious!"

CEO/Executive Director, A Rosie Place/O’Hana Heritage Foundation

T

ieal Bishop was part of a small group of professionals who came together in 2003 whose mission was to empower families of children who are medically fragile. She was not only one of those minds but became the driving force to see this dream accomplished. Representing parents of medically fragile children was only one major characteristic that made Tieal so successful!

Her passion and drive harnessed enough support to make that dream a reality – to dream, build and open the first free standing specialty hospital in Indiana designed for the growing number families of children who are medically fragile. A Rosie Place opened its doors in 2011, inviting these children to come and stay overnight for short periods of time, thus allowing their parents the precious gift of time in hopes of improving their quality of life and other relationships outside the constant demands of caring for such special children. Tieal knows firsthand the challenges these parents face and has sought to become the voice that represents the over 2,000 families in our Michiana area.

Just in a Day’s Work: What do you love about your job?

I see it as a privilege and I never lose sight of that.

I wake up every morning feeling honored to be engaging with the most generous people of our community and wonder what new adventure will I get to participate in next.

What was your first job? At 15, I started working in a fish market in Delray Beach, Florida.

Slinging, filleting and hauling 100 pound crates of fish instills a certain work ethic - despite the smell at the end of the day.

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Bishop Photography: Classic Image Photography Stylist: Maria Gonzalez

Who inspires you professionally?

My father! He loves people and their stories about life; this love we share I learned from him, and in my line of work - it’s a perfect match!

Do you have a professional mentor?

How have they helped you succeed?

The President of our Board of Directors, Dr. Bunmi Okanlami. She saw my potential and believed in me, and continues even to this day. I strive to be more like her, as her commitment to the investment and service of others is none like any I have met along the way.

What does a typical workday look like for you? No day is typical - priority is precedent.

As a single mom of three spirited children, I start and end my day with them. In between, my hair is a mess from changing so many hats! From addressing daily operational questions, talking with families about life's challenges, taking intentional steps to execute the vision of our strategic plan, grant writing and development, event planning and building relationships with volunteers and donors all while running a hospital!

“Improving the life of What does “success” mean to you?

Improving the life of another. If I can do that, I nailed success!

What’s your best secret to “having it all?" When I work, I work hard and when it's time to live my life, I let it go and live it. When I first started this career, I asked a 72-year-old successful business man and philanthropist, "From your years of experience, what do I need to know today at 30 that you know now at 72?” With a sincere look in his eye he said, "I would have spent more days loving on my family then loving my career."

another. If I can do that, I nailed success!”

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Favorite TV Show: NCIS

Favorite Book: My Bible

What is your favorite non-work activity or hobby?

Seeking an adventure that would make a memory with those I love.

Favorite Dessert: Banana Foster

Biggest Pet Peeve:

How do you stay organized?

I take every day one at a time!

Facts

About Tieal Bishop:

People not living up to their full potential we all have it in us but it’s ultimately our choice to let it shine!

What is your favorite form of stress relief? A bubble bath!

What did you want to be as a kid growing up?

A mermaid!

What do you and your family enjoy doing on the weekends?

Working in the yard, making a delicious meal and finding new adventures.

What is your go-to weekend style?

Barefoot with my hair pulled up in a messy bun.

What’s your go-to and in-office beauty style?

Black and diamonds! You can never go wrong with diamonds!

What makes you feel the SASSIEST? When I am being most authentic.

I love facing a challenge with a smile that says, “I got this.”

If you were a shoe, describe what you would be and why?

I would be a fancy pointed cowboy boot because life is a two-step!

SASSY

life

I

s Jack Frost nipping at your nose and putting a damper on your friendships? With early darkness and freezing temperatures, winter certainly knows how to put the big freeze on our relationships. It’s as if we lose ourselves and our lives go into hibernation mode until the first signs of spring. All I will say is Not. This. Year. Winter won’t keep us sitting home in our pajamas curled up on the couch sipping hot chocolate all alone this year.

While it may true that we don’t NEED friendships like we need water to live, but friendships certainly have a major influence on the joy we get out of living. That’s why it’s important to stay connected and keep our friendships strong even when a frosty winter wants to convince us otherwise. There are a couple of ways you can get prepared to keep your friendships strong during the winter:

Schedule playdates: That’s right; playdates are not exclusive

Keeping Your

Friendships

Strong

By: Lara West

to children and singles anymore. Make a calendar and set your “playdates” now. To do this effectively you’ll need to check several newsfeeds and newspapers for local events to get you out and about. It’s also fun to search for fun things to do at your favorite summer venues, because often they will host entertainment events in the winter to keep their customer’s happy (and the traffic up). Write down all the events you find on the calendar whether you are initially interested or not, because once that winter cave begins to seal you in you never know what will sound like fun to get you and your girlfriends out-and-about.

This can also include home dates, like a card making night, or a living room Zumba party.

Make a winter bucket list: This can include anything you want to do or try including going sledding, going skiing or ice skating, having a 100 ball snowball fight- a great excuse to revisit your favorite pastimes. Exchange lists with your girlfriends, and then work together to fulfill as many items on everyone’s bucket list as possible.

If you start every winter promising yourself that you won’t let the cold and early nights make you feel tired, crabby, or depressed- then don’t! Grab all the excitement of winter by the poles and ride that slope.

Benefits of Friendship:

• Improve self-confidence and sense of worth • Encourage healthy choices and behaviors • Provide support and ease pain from trauma • Reduce stress and feelings of loneliness 40

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Stay warm this season with jackets, hoodies & layering pieces from Lululemon Athletica & Lucy.

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SASSY

life By: Jackie Folkert

Ditch the

Ugly Sweaters

& Revitalize Your

Holiday Party

Y

ou know you’ve attended too many ugly Christmas sweater parties when your collection can outfit your grandmother’s entire bridge club.

Revitalize your holiday party theme to keep your guests buzzing through New Year’s Day:

Anticipate Grand Fun

Trigger talk about your party before it begins with a quirky invitation. Send it snail mail so the invitation is taped to your guests’ refrigerator doors for weeks prior to the party.

Use an online invitation web site to create photo invitations featuring your friends.

Make it frame worthy.

The invitation sets the tone for the evening, be it casual or formal, serious or comical. Give them playful instructions to prep for the night; “Dress up as your favorite Christmas movie character and be prepared to say ‘cheese!’” Or add some fun to your address; “Look for the house with the ‘Christmas Story’ leg lamp in the front window.” Perking curiosity with vague instructions can also add interest; “Bring noisy props.” Don’t elaborate and wait for the texts to start flying.

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Set up a Photo Backdrop

The fun of this party theme is the game that will keep all your guests engaged. The object of the game is to stage the most creative photo. Write the elements of a scene on slips of paper, such as “Kids hunting the abominable snowman,” or “Christmas carolers singing to their neighbor who is wearing only boxers.” Brainstorm at least 10 ideas. Put your guests into groups. The groups plan how they will portray the scene they pick blindly from a bowl. When it’s their turn, the group poses silently and the photographer captures the scene. The rest of the group can then guess what story the group was telling in their photo. The group votes on a winner.

Christmas Movie Theme

Greet your guests at the door with slipper socks and homemade caramel corn. The idea for a movie theme is to give your guests a laid-back night away from the busyness of the holiday

season. They can slip off their heels and sink into your couch for a cozy night in with friends. Play movie trivia or give a quiz about old Hollywood.

Hot Chocolate Bar

Stock a hot chocolate bar with different flavors of marshmallows and liquor. Dye whip cream holiday colors and arrange glittery sprinkles on a tray. Make sure you have something yummy to melt in the hot chocolate, such as peppermint sticks, chocolates or caramels. Include the ingredients for Mexican hot chocolate: cayenne pepper, nutmeg, cinnamon, vanilla, chocolate chips and evaporated milk. Ask a guest to bring a favorite cookie or biscotti for dunking.

Humorous Silent Auction

Tap into the holiday spirit of charity and organize a funny silent auction. Auction off items that nobody in their right mind would want to buy: a fruit cake in the shape of a mushroom, an ornament that plays annoying music. Ask your friends to bring an item with them and arrange the items after they arrive. Bid with pennies or up the ante with big money to send to a local charity. Make a production of announcing the highest bids and take pictures of your guests posing with their prizes.

Spin the auction in a way to replace the traditional gift exchange. Auction off desirable items instead. You can also add an element similar to the white elephant gift game.

It’s Your Party

What’s your favorite part of the holidays?

Go with that and step it up a notch.

Like decorating graham cracker houses?

Provide 10 sets and ask guests to bring the candy to decorate them. Create miniature famous landmarks such as the White House or Eiffel Tower. Make it a contest.

Take pics and post them on Instagram.

To make any theme come alive, the host has to sell it with enthusiasm. Some guests don’t want to play along. But that’s ok-it’s your party. They. Will. Have. Fun. Thank your guests for coming by sending out thank-you notes from a website such as Smilebox. Use the photos you took of the night’s highlights. Your guests will surely laugh as they reminisce.  SASSY | December 2014

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Simplify to Savor the

Holidays By: Jackie Folkert

Imagine that the holiday season was shortened from five weeks to one day.

How would you spend it?

First, set your alarm for sunrise to take video of the kids opening gifts. Second, cook a luxurious holiday brunch. Third, bake, cut out, decorate and deliver cookies about town, during which you halt intermittently to sing at neighbors’ doorsteps. All before lunch.

Simplify your schedule to savor the holidays. Prioritize your traditions and cut the excess faster than a naughty kid on Santa’s gift list.

Simple doesn’t equal boring or cheap. It also doesn’t mean disappointment. In fact, simple means taking charge of your holiday experience so that you don’t feel any regret—or exhaustion.

But how do you do it?

There’s the baking, the shopping, the wrapping and the cleaning. Oh, and the traveling from point A to point B. Tired yet?

Brainstorm two lists: one list of favorite holiday tasks and another of holiday chores. Assign time required to complete each one and be realistic. For example, the time estimated to bake Christmas cookies should include the clean up. You may find that one favorite tradition eats up an entire Saturday instead of an afternoon.

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When it comes to the chores, rank their priority and delete as many as possible. Dare yourself to delegate a few and slash the rest.

Set Boundaries Early Once you’ve settled on how you want to budget your free time this holiday season, communicate that with your loved ones. Be the first to share your family’s schedule with the rest of the group and invite them to plan around it. When a fun invitation appears, consider it alongside your original plan. Expect contrasting expectations.

“Simplify your schedule to savor the holidays.

Prioritize your traditions and cut the excess faster than a naughty kid on Santa’s gift list.”

Focus on Your Favorites Let the Ghost of Christmas Past take you back to the last holiday season. How did you feel by New Year’s Eve? Were you satisfied with your holiday season? Why?

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Put your favorite activities on the calendar so they don’t disappear. Plan extra time to give yourself margin to enjoy them.

You may need to plan time for even the holiday comforts that you take for granted, such as slowing down to watch “It’s a Wonderful Life” while sipping a latte.

Cher Goggins, owner and principle designer of Merry Me Events in Granger, doesn’t leave her family’s holiday schedule up to chance. “If I don’t create and schedule time it does not happen.”

She chooses a hard and fast date to stop scheduling events, reserving enough time to treasure the family traditions that matter most. “We like just being together, to just create things like good, old-fashioned things together, like cookies and graham cracker trains,” she said.

Tame the Traditions Traditions can become the beast of busyness; that charming childhood memory becomes a wild thing to recreate. Change your point of view on the tradition so it doesn’t dominate your to-do list.

Your traditional decorating for the holidays can become more of a chore than a delight.

Audrey Laureys owns Comfort Living Design in Granger. Her home is an example of keeping a reign on the holiday decorating.

“Some people think I would decorate like crazy but I don’t.” To keep it simple, she keeps her décor to the Christmas tree, mantle, dining room table and powder room.

Eliminate the work of exterior lighting but keep the holiday spirit. Laureys said that a door wreath and pre-lit topiary on the front porch add pop without the chore of putting up Christmas lights. Decorative sticks in planters give a natural look. She emphasized that you don’t have to put something creative together; purchase ready-made décor.

And a Christmas tree doesn’t have to be a given. Laureys suggested the possibility of skipping it altogether and placing garland on the mantle. You can also use what you have on hand. Arrange red and green apples in a glass bowl or cranberries and pinecones in a vase.

Shopping for the ideal gift or the perfect outfit can also suck up more time than you intended. Initiate gift giving first. Shop with wish lists in hand.

Call ahead to make sure the store has what you want in stock. Ann Hudson, assistant manager at Flourish boutique in Granger, said that her staff will pull sizes and styles for you before you arrive to make the most of your time.

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By: Allison Boelcke Gift giving for family members and friends is a process that you’ve probably got on autopilot by now, but coworkers and/or your boss is a totally different story. The holiday season in the office can be ripe with uncertainty on the properly accepted way to celebrate. Giving gifts in the workplace can be a thoughtful way to show your appreciation…or it could potentially damage your reputation among your colleagues. Don’t let your best intentioned gesture wind up being a faux paus – follow these etiquette tips for gift giving in the office:

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Set a Spending Limit

It can be uncomfortable for others to receive an overly lavish gift, especially in a work environment. To prevent any misinterpretation of expensive gifts being seen as a way to garner special treatment, get everyone on board with a spending limit. This will ensure everyone is on the same page, instead of stressing about whether they’ve spent the right amount of money. For gifts for bosses, it’s usually a better bet for everyone to pool together for one gift to prevent any comparisons. Plus, it can bring a sense of relief since most people’s holiday budgets are stretched to the max anyway!

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Put Thought Into Gift Options

The best gifts are ones that are personalized to the recipient - a generic gift can make it seem as though you are giving it just because you “have to.” Obviously this can be a bit more difficult for work colleagues in comparison to your family and close friends. Brainstorm the things you know about your coworkers, such as their interests, food preferences or other personal behaviors, to come up with gift options that show you’ve put some thought into them. Even getting coffee shop gift cards for everyone can show your thoughtfulness if you took the time to purchase cards for each specific person’s favorite place.

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Don’t Publicly Exclude People

If you opt to only give gifts to certain individuals and not others, schedule the gift exchange to take place outside of the office, such as at lunch or an after work get-together, to be sensitive and avoid making it look as though you are publicly excluding colleagues. Even if people were not expecting a gift from you, it can be uncomfortable for all involved if they have to closely witness you bypass them to give a gift to their officemates.

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Don’t Forget to Outwardly Express Appreciation

The worst etiquette move you can make for gift giving in the office is to not sufficiently express your thanks. Go beyond the verbal thank you and write out thank you notes, particularly for especially thoughtful gifts or those from your superiors. This small gesture can have a big impact on how your colleagues view you and can foster a positive professional relationship.

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Keep Company Culture in Mind

Think about the overall company culture – is it a conservative place, or more casual and light-hearted? A gag gift that would have been seen as hilarious at one office can be viewed as tacky and inappropriate at another. Prevent feeling awkward or foolish by adjusting your expectations accordingly.

If it’s your first holiday season at your workplace, ask around to find out how gift exchanges are usually done. Sometimes it’s completely banned by HR or people choose not to take part, or it could be a major affair where gag gifts are encouraged or there’s a gift exchange game.

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Don’t let what should be a time of joy turn into work stress.

The idea of gift giving etiquette for the office may seem like it’s overthinking, but the extra preparation can pay off big. Keep your professional image in mind, even during something as personal as gift giving, and you’ll connect with your colleagues and supervisors on a positive note of holiday cheer! 

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As if a dance-workout led by any one of the area’s 20 leading Zumba instructors wasn’t enough incentive, the three-hour event held at the women’s college was a fundraiser for the national organization Stand Up to Cancer, which supports cancer research.

“This event is unique because we are able to raise funds and awareness for all types of cancer through Stand Up To Cancer,” said senior Christina Hutch, president of the student club and a nursing major.

“Everyone knows someone who has been affected by cancer, and that’s who we were dancing for. We were excited to share this experience with the community again this year. It’s inspiring to see our students dance side by side with others in Michiana in the fight against cancer.”

Participants were encouraged to wear pink in recognition of breast cancer, though all cancers were on the minds of women.

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Kimmi Martin Troy (pictured), who graduated from Saint Mary’s in 2000 and instructs Zumba classes all over town, is one of the coordinators of the annual event.

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To add to the enthusiastic event, there were performances by Troop ND, the Irish Dance Team, the SMC Dance Team, and Bellacapella, an a cappella group of Saint Mary’s students (aka "Belles"). Another Pink Party Zumbathon is expected at Saint Mary’s next fall. ~Written by Gwen O’Brien, director of media relations, Saint Mary’s College gobrien@saintmarys.edu Photos courtesy of the student club SMC Stands Up To Cancer, Saint Mary's College 50

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