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Lydia Gleiser, Joanne Fox, Cheryl Wells, Tanya Manus
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Written by: Lydia Gleiser
by: Shane Monahan
“Being born with a disability can sometimes be a struggle, but it is the ability to overcome such a challenge that makes it so worth the fight. Never give up!” - Robert M. Hensel
Paula Hamp is not only a dedicated educator and mentor in the Siouxland area, but an educational success story as well, proving to others the importance of not letting anything or anyone stand in the way of achieving your dreams.
“I grew up in Austin, MN and moved to Sioux City, IA when I was eight years old,” Paula remembers. As a child, Paula knew she wanted to be a teacher, but as she began learning how to read in lower elementary school in Austin, she found herself struggling with understanding and remembering different literacy skills that were being taught to her.
Paula’s initial school experience in Austin was less than desirable. In addition to struggling academically, Paula was also left-handed. Her teacher would tie down Paula’s left hand forcing her to write with her right hand. Visually, everything Paula was trying to learn became confusing for her.
During that time, Paula was also being treated for severe eczema at the University of Minnesota hospital in Minneapolis, MN. During one of her appointments, a college student intern was talking with Paula and while working with her, he realized that something was different.
Upon further working with Paula, doctors realized that she had dyslexia, a language-based learning disability that mainly affects reading and writing skills. Paula was in the second grade and although her teacher and school personnel were aware of her dyslexia, Paula continued to struggle.
“During this time, schools didn’t offer special education,” Paula shares. “My teacher was frustrated while trying to work with me and unfortunately didn’t have the tools necessary to help me learn.”
Concerned with her lack of support and understanding in her current educational setting, Paula’s father, Robert, transferred her to a different school where the teachers began working with her disability and Paula soon began to flourish. Shortly after, Paula’s family moved to Sioux City, IA where she continued to get the academic support and resources she needed while her parents advocated for her success.
“My mom and dad, Eleanor and Robert, were amazing to me,” Paula smiles. “I remember sitting with them, every night, and they would work with me making sure that I not only completed my homework, but that I understood the concept. If I was frustrated or at my breaking point, we would stop, take a break and continue it the next day.”
"My mom and dad, Eleanor and Robert, were amazing to me."
As Paula began enjoying school more, she developed another love… swimming. What once started out as just tagging along with her older brother to his swim practice, became a new hobby for Paula.
“I remember my brother’s high school swim coach telling me to swim laps on the other side of the pool while I waited for their practice to be done. I was brand new to swimming, but I would finish whatever drill the coach told me to do and then he would give me another skill to work on,” Paula recalls.
The swim coach started to take notice of Paula and soon discovered that she was a naturally gifted swimmer. As Paula continued swimming, she also increased her skill level and as an eighth grader, she started practicing with the high school swim team.
Now entering West High School, Paula knew she needed to start becoming serious about her future and career.
“I had always wanted to be a teacher,” Paula shares. “I had such wonderful mentors and people surrounding me throughout my elementary and high school years that I knew I wanted to give back the love and encouragement that had been given to me.”
During her senior year of high school, Paula met with her grade level school counselor for advice on how to apply for college and ended up crushed and leaving in tears. “My assigned counselor basically said that because my family was poor, I was dyslexic and not smart enough, that I shouldn’t go to college and instead I should look for a full-time job in retail and be happy with life,” Paula remembers.
Paula was upset, discouraged and shocked as she walked out of the counselor’s office. “As I was leaving the counselors area, a different grade level counselor, Marlin Hill, called me into his office,” Paula says. “I walked in and sat down and the first thing Marlin asked me was what I was going to do the next year.”
Now crying, Paula shared with Marlin that she was going to go apply at a nearby retail store and be happy with her life. Seeing the determination and hard work that Paula had displayed throughout her high school years, Marlin knew she was capable of so much more.
“I remember him telling me, ‘No, you are not,’” Paula shares. “I explained to him
that my parents couldn’t afford college and that I wasn’t smart enough.”
Marlin told her she was smart enough and that there were ways to help with college. He then recognized her as a great swimmer and told her about athletic scholarships that were now available for women (prior to 1978, women were not given athletic scholarships).
It was a defining moment in Paula’s life where she decided that she was worthy of going to college to pursue becoming a teacher.
With the assistance of Marlin, Paula and her father were shown different scholarships and how to apply for them along with college applications from around the country.
“Ironically enough, the Sioux City Optimist Club had invited Arkansas football coach Lou Holtz as a guest speaker,” Paula recalls. “He was just recognized as football coach of the year and a really neat guy. When he arrived in Sioux City, he called my father and invited us to come to his hotel to talk with him that evening about my college plans.”
Before she knew it, Paula started receiving college acceptance letters from across the country, but one letter stood out in particular, it was from the University of Arkansas. After a local church reached out to Robert, who was also a pastor, reassuring him that they would take care of Paula like family, Paula’s mind was made up to commit to the University of Arkansas on a full-ride swimming scholarship.
While at the University of Arkansas, Paula formed a father-daughter like bond with her academic advisor, Sam Yalowitz and he again became another instrumental mentor in Paula’s achievements as Paula explains that Sam and his family grew to become a second family to her while she attended college.
“Sam was phenomenal and went above and beyond the regular duties of an academic advisor. He made it his mission to ensure that I didn’t fail,” Paula shares. “He took me to the library and showed me where everything was kept on file in case I needed extra help studying. I wasn’t always able to take notes like I wanted to because of the way my brain processed information, so he found really great students in my classes that would share notes and study with me.”
Surrounded by love and support, Paula admits that her college career was difficult, but with sheer determination and her unwavering faith, she was able to graduate with a degree in teaching.
Strong women competing in an Ironman relay. Paula swam, Kelsey Johnikin biked and Cindy Whittaker ran
“During my sophomore year in college it was very challenging, and it would’ve been easy for me to give up,” Paula remembers. “I missed out on going to the Nationals and Olympic Trials by 1/100th of a second, and the next month my dad died unexpectedly. My grades started slipping and the following month, my full ride scholarship for swimming was taken away.”
Again, Paula was in awe and appreciative of the assistance of others around her, some belonging to her church family and others complete strangers that stepped in and rallied to financially help her finish out her academic career at Arkansas. “Sam, of course, orchestrated much of this,” Paula laughs. “He promised my family that he would make sure I succeeded in college and he never broke his promise.”
Not wanting to break another promise that Paula had also made with her father regarding finishing what she started, Paula fulfilled her duties on the Arkansas swim team until she graduated college.
After graduation, Paula moved back to Sioux City to be closer to her family now that her father had passed away. That fall she was hired as a Special Education teacher at West Middle School.
“I was so excited to teach,” Paula shares. “I had been that student that needed so much help with a disability that interfered with my ability to learn, but I also had such an amazing circle of support and appreciation from others that continued to push me to do my best.”
With a positive attitude and firm belief that all students can learn, Paula began her teaching career with the Sioux City Community School District (SCCSD) that would evolve over the next 38 years.
Vacationing in Italy Paula and her brother Nathan enjoying the College World Series. GO HOGS!
"I can't imagine my life being any different and not being an educator, I truly believe that God has put everything in my life for me to teach others."
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While with the SCCSD, Paula earned two Masters in Teaching degrees in the area of Special Education – Learning Disabilities and Behavior Disorders. Paula has served in teaching roles that included teaching Special Education at West High along with being a Language Arts/Reading Support teacher and also a Learning Strategy Co-Teacher and Special Education Coach.
Her expertise in not only special education, but also academic curriculum and Paula’s collaboration with like-minded professionals and a ‘team player’ mentality has also been vital as she been an Educational Professional Developer for Kansas University since 2001. She has also served as an Adjunct Professor in the Educational Department for Morningside College and later as an Assistant Academic Coordinator. Currently, Paula is the Director of Secondary Student Services for Bishop Heelan Catholic High School where she continues to inspire, educate and motivate those around her.
Paula’s dedication to her students and educational success have been honored both locally and nationally for her inspiring teaching career, for which she humbly praises her faith in God and those that were around her when she needed it the most.
“I can’t imagine my life being any different and not being an educator. I truly believe that God has put everything in my life for me to teach others,” Paula says. “I could never be where I am today if it wasn’t for the compassion and guidance that others showed me and I have always shared that same belief for my own students.”
Paula loves giving back to others and is an active member in her church, Hope Lutheran in South Sioux City, NE, where she has been active in mission trips around the world and nation. She also serves on the board for Path of Hope, a nonprofit organization who donates wheelchairs to those in need in Peru with hopes to start a wheelchair factory to create jobs for disabled Peruvians.
To date, Paula has donated 101 gallons of blood to the Siouxland area!
Paula has three very special scripture tattoos. One in particular is a memory tattoo to honor her father who passed away.
Paula was held up at gun point in a motel room in Houston, TX. She was with her college swim team at an away swim meet when she walked into her coach’s motel room, not knowing there was an armed robber hiding behind the door. It was one of the scariest moments in her life, but luckily no one was hurt she shared.
Paula has earned the following awards for her exceptional teaching abilities that include:
• Learning Disabilities Association “Educator of the Year” 2015
• Council for Learning Disabilities “Outstanding Teacher of the Year” 2005
• University of Kansas “Initiative Award” 2004
• Sioux City School District “Teacher of the Year” 1993-1994
• Past President of Learning Disabilities Association of Iowa (LDA-IA)
By: Joanne Fox
After Tom and Pam Jeneary’s son Stevie passed away from SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) in 1983, Pam felt a calling to honor him.
“When I heard about the Iowa SIDS Foundation, I knew that is where my time in retirement should be spent,” the longtime Le Mars Gehlen Catholic elementary school teacher says. “I have been a member of the State Board of the Iowa SIDS Foundation for 12 years.”
This year the Iowa SIDS Foundation will celebrate its 25th Anniversary of the “Walk for the Future” on Aug. 24 in seven communities, including Le Mars, Iowa.
The annual walk is a statewide family event for SIDS and SUID (Sudden Unexpected Infant Death) families to meet or connect, for communities to show support, and for each of us to remember and celebrate the lives of Iowa babies, Pam explains.
“Funds raised at the annual walk are used for the daily operation of the Iowa SIDS Foundation, such as grief resources for newly-bereaved Iowans, educational materials and presentations to Iowa healthcare and childcare providers, and to support SIDS/SUID research,” Pam adds.
The Foundation began in 1993 and was named the Iowa SIDS Alliance. This group transitioned to the Iowa SIDS Foundation in 2004. The service area for the Foundation includes all 99 Iowa counties and is a 501c3 non-profit entity.
The Iowa SIDS Foundation was established by parents to support parents, Pam points out.
“The Foundation provides support with parent, grandparent, and sibling grief packets, a newsletter three times per year, bereavement peer contacts, and grief seminars,” Pam explains.
Pam reports last year’s statewide event had more than 700 walkers participating and raised more than $59,000.
“Our Walk Day is a day to remember our babies that did not reach their first birthday,” Pam says. “In Le Mars, we have a short program where I name these little ones from Northwest Iowa before the participants begin their walk. Along with this, there is a special time for SIDS families to meet or reconnect and for the community to show their support to remember and not forget the lives of these Iowa babies.”
There are also happy events during the Le Mars Walk Day such as a raffle, silent auction items, door prizes, a bake sale, and free lunch provided by the Plymouth County Pork Producers and Hy-Vee.
“A big attraction will be Santa coming from the North Pole to support our cause,” Pam adds.
She continues, “By joining us on August 24, you will be showing support for these many families who unfortunately have lost a child to SIDS. We hope participants will leave feeling that they have helped and supported these families.”
Sudden Unexpected Infant Death (SUID) is a term used to describe the sudden and unexpected death of a baby less than one year old in which the cause was not obvious before investigation. These deaths often happen during sleep or in the baby’s sleep area.
About 3,400 babies in the United States die suddenly and unexpectedly each year. A thorough investigation is necessary to learn what caused these deaths. Sudden Unexpected Infant Deaths include Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), accidental suffocation in a sleeping environment, and other deaths from unknown causes.
Walk for the Future by Iowa SIDS Foundation
Saturday, August 24, 2024
Le Mars Municipal Shelter House, 813 Park Lane NE
Registration begins at 8:30 a.m.; walk starts at 9:45 a.m.
iowasids.org or Iowa SIDS Foundation/Siouxland on Facebook
Questions? Contact Pam Jeneary at (712) 548-8686
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Sitting on Spanish Bay Lake, this walkout ranch home with 5 bedrooms, 4.5 bathrooms and 5300+ sq. ft. of finish has had several updates including new hard rock maple floors from Canada in the living room, dining room, and den as well as an expansive outdoor kitchen in the works. As you drive up you will notice it has a 4 car garage with new heater, new poly-aspartic floor, and all new paint. A welcoming porch brings you in the entry with tile floor and crown molding. To the right is the den and to the left is the formal dining area. Next you will notice the fabulous views of the lake from the living room with gas fireplace with stacked stone surround and built ins. Showstopper kitchen here with cherry cabinets, tile floor, granite counters, island, stainless steel appliances (new Bosch DW), pantry, and eating area with door to covered concrete deck. A laundry room and half bathroom are conveniently located on the main floor. The master suite has bedroom with lake view and carpet and a bathroom with double vanity,
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Pets are an important part of many people's lives. Whether you own your home or rent, it is reasonable to want a pet in your life.
For a landlord, pets can be concerning. Pet damage to a property could cost well beyond the amount of a security deposit. There is also an increase in liability if the pet injures someone.
Owning a pet requires much of the same care and discipline as having a child. Responsible pet owners keep their pets healthy and happy, just like they would their infant.
Can there be a happy medium?
As a landlord myself, I ask for a pet résumé.“Tell me about Smokey, your loving Labrador”…
A pet résumé can be helpful to the landlord much like the tenant’s application.
A pet résumé provides background information the same as is requested with a tenant application. It is important for a landlord to know who, both human and animal, may be living in the property. Every landlord has their own screening process, some more stringent than others, and they must abide by Fair Housing rules.
Pets should not be confused with service or emotional support animals. These animals cannot be excluded from a lease if they are registered with the state. There are specific laws regarding service
animals that landlords and tenants should know and understand.
However, a landlord does have the option to exclude pets from their properties, but four-legged friendly communities and rentals are becoming more common. According to the Human Society of the United States, 72% of renters own a pet, creating a higher demand for a more welcoming pet policy.
Property owners should consider opting for tile flooring over carpet to better accommodate indoor pets. Striking a balance that satisfies both tenants and landlords is essential.
But hey, it's not just about the floors. Finding a happy medium between tenants and landlords is key. As a property owner, I dream of tenants who cherish my property as if it were their own. And for tenants with pets, a pet-welcoming home is the jackpot! It's a match made in heaven for "Smokey" and his human companions.
So, let's make a pact to create pet-friendly spaces that make everyone wag their tails with joy. Remember, happy pets make for happy tenants, and happy tenants make for happy landlords! It's a winwin for all involved. Let's keep those paws and floors in harmony!
Include the following on your pet résumé:
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• Veterinarian references
• Former landlord references
• Letter of Recommendation from you as a testimony of your pet's temperament and qualities
By: Michaela Feldmann
Before long, the early morning bell will ring and students will fill the halls and classrooms. But, preparing to head back to school takes some prep work. At the top of your back-to-school list – your teen’s mental health.
“Teens these days are really facing a different set of mental health challenges than their parents or grandparents,” says Jamie Behmer, Director of Rural School-Based Therapy for Heartland Counseling Services. “Today’s world is much more fast paced and technology driven and they’re constantly exposed to social media.”
Jamie says that often means a lot of selfcomparison, increased feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, depression and anxiety, adjustment disorders and trauma overall.
“The pressure to excel, academically and in extracurricular activities, is immense. It can lead to burn out in schools. It’s a lot to handle for anyone, but especially teens.” Jamie says, the biggest issue is kids cannot get away from social media interactions, especially if they are negative.
“There is often a lot of comparison happening and a rise in bullying with social media. Many times, there is not a lot of oversight going on with these interactions because it is so easy to hide it or be secretive about what is going on.”
So how do you know when your teen is struggling with their mental health? Jamie says there are a lot of things to look for.
“First is a change in overall mood. It could be a sign that something bigger is going on. Pay attention to their focus and their level of engagement and enjoyment. Also, pay attention to changes in friends or activities. Other noticeable changes would be in eating or sleeping habits or even physical ailments like headaches or stomach aches.”
Other signs can be irritability, anger, expressions of hopelessness, worthlessness, self-harm or suicide.
“We know that this transition can be a challenge for everyone including teens,
Jamie says there are different coping strategies for different mental health issues.
parents and school staff members,” says Jamie. “So, it’s really important that parents foster an environment where teens feel comfortable discussing their concerns. Just maintain that open communication.”
Jamie also says parents can help teens create a routine and coping strategies.
“Creating a routine is one of the best things to get mentally ready to go back to school,” says Jamie. “Make sure you’re getting regular sleep. This might include setting a bedtime. Exercise and healthy eating habits can help stabilize your mood and reduce stress. Additionally, focus on practicing mindfulness and meditation – take deep breaths and practice yoga.”
The biggest thing is to create safe spaces for teens to maintain an open dialogue about how they are feeling and what they are experiencing.
“When parents model healthy behaviors and coping mechanisms, it demonstrates the importance of prioritizing mental health,” Jamie adds.
Jamie says there are different coping strategies for different mental health issues.
“For anxiety, we really focus on relaxation techniques. For depression we encourage a lot of behavioral activation like getting up and moving around or scheduling enjoyable activities. Journaling and setting goals are also really good for depression.”
Going back to school is an adjustment and some teens can struggle with that.
“For this, we tend to focus on problem-solving skills and stress management techniques like relaxation.”
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Jamie joined Heartland Counseling Services as Rural School Based Administrator in February 2022 and provides school based therapy in the Wayne Public Schools as well as oversees Heartland’s Rural School Based Mental Health Program. In January 2024 her title was changed to School Based MH Director. She has over 20 years of experience in the mental health field, working in inpatient, outpatient, and school settings. Jamie is trained in a number of therapy modalities with the most frequent use of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. She maintains a passion for mental health and meeting the needs of her students and community.
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When it comes to bullying, Jamie says they work with teens on developing assertiveness.
“So, communicating confidently and assertively can really help teens when it comes to social media bullying or bullying happening in schools. It’s really important that teens talk to adults. Building confidence and selfworth can really combat the effects of bullying.”
Jamie says teens these days are much more aware of their mental health and the importance of it, than past generations.
“Young people really recognize the importance of addressing mental health issues. Part of that is due to the increased awareness and the de-stigmatization efforts though TikTok and the recently released Inside Out movie.”
Jamie says schools have also done a phenomenal job when it comes to mental health.
“Many have incorporated school-based therapy programs and made sure there are ongoing programs to educate students and parents in the community about mental health. They provide safe places for students. They also work to accommodate and meet students where they are and work to get them to a spot where they can function at their capacity in the classroom. It’s really a creative, supportive environment and that’s so important.”
But because everyone is different, how teens approach their mental health varies.
“Some teens can proactively see. They can utilize coping strategies. Others really struggle to even acknowledge or communicate their feelings. So, really encouraging those open conversations and providing resources can help teens take their mental health more seriously.”
Life is too short to eat boring food.
All of us at Siouxland Woman know that food is the ingredient that brings us together! In the coming months, we will be featuring the best foodie spots in Siouxland!
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By: Natalie Frazier
At Dakota Sky Stone, the jewelry-making process is more than just a craft—it’s a journey fueled by passion and driven by dedicated individuals that truly love what they do.
The process may be long, but the personal nature allows the family behind Dakota Sky Stone to insure it has been done right every single time. This commitment to overseeing each phase—from sourcing to final creation— ensures that every piece of Dakota Sky Stone jewelry is a testament to superior quality and artisanal integrity.
It starts with travel to the mines
Contrary to popular belief there is not just one type of turquoise stone. In fact, there are more than 30 different varieties with characteristics all their own to make turquoise jewelry attractive to a wide array of tastes and styles.
But, before the making of a piece begins for Dakota Sky Stone, the Tice family travels to different turquoise mines to hand pick stones for their pieces. According to Annie Tice-Poseley, the type of stone and its distinct characteristics are unique to whatever mine the stones are coming from and its geographical location.
“More of your Arizona mines carry more copper, so Arizona turquoise tends to be more blue in color, and Nevada turquoise carries more iron which adds more
green shades into your turquoise,” Annie explains. Specific grades of turquoise do not exist in the manner they do for other stones like diamonds. Typically, they look for stones that speak to them with beauty, matrix designs, and specific colors. Traveling to mines and finding stones has become an outlet for long lasting, cherished memories for the Tice family.
The many stages of a stone
Before they come together as finished jewelry pieces, the stones undergo a transformative progression in multiple, meticulous stages.
“There are so many stages of the stones,” Jim Tice says. “We have some turquoise that we have had for several years and we are now just getting into cutting it.”
“Once turquoise stones are cut, they then need to be backed and formed into cabochons. After that, the final cabochons are polished and ready to be used in a jewelry piece,” Jim explains.
As for the design process, stones are usually sent to artists so they are able to create with them and others are used by the Tice family to craft their own jewelry pieces. The passion for design and creation runs so deep they find themselves in their own workshop frequently making memories and creating together; something that is so enjoyable and essential to family bonding.
“If our family could, I think all of us would be in our design rooms all day every day. We all have such a passion for what we do,” Annie shares.
Annie’s personal design process usually looks like making a piece around one stone that she has really fallen in love with. Different qualities of a stone can allow the stone to speak to individuals on a personal level.
“My grandmother always told me that a stone will speak to you, and it chooses you,” Annie reflects. “I see it every day in the stores. People just gravitate to certain stones and sometimes surprise themselves because it wasn’t anything they thought they would like.”
Whether it is the unique color or matrices. Falling in love with your stones are essential in designing jewelry that you are really passionate about. The process of designing from stone to completion can take several months.
Several silverwork stages
To some customers the silverwork is what really draws them to a piece in the case at Dakota Sky Stone. That silver work process is made of a few intricate steps.
According to Jim, all Dakota Sky Stone silver work starts out as one sheet of silver where stones are laid out. After that the bezels for stones are created and soldered to the silver sheet. The whole design is then cut out with a jewelers saw and undergoes numerous stations of buffing and polishing. Once the buffing and polishing is complete, the stones are added back into the bezels to be finalized and set into the final piece.
The commitment to Native American culture and artistry
Dakota Sky Stone embodies a profound dedication to the nearly 280 Native American artists they collaborate with, ensuring the preservation and celebration of indigenous artistry and cultural traditions. With each piece of jewelry sold, they not only showcase the exquisite craftsmanship of their artisans, but also share rich histories and stories embedded in the stones and designs.
“I believe what makes Dakota Sky Stone most special is the idea that you are not just buying a piece of jewelry, you are learning the story behind the piece,” Annie explains. “Since our family works hand and hand in every aspect of making the jewelry, we are able to give them the history of the stone, artist and where it came from.”
From their family to yours
Dakota Sky Stone cultivates a unique bond with its customers by sharing their radiant passion for the craft they have invested themselves in. Whether it is picking out the piece that really speaks to you, learning a detailed history of the creation of your piece, or gathering around for a cherished story about their travels and business ventures, customers bond with the Tice family through their dedication.
“Another thing is our passion and love of what we do is shown in our designs, our stores and how we welcome our customers,” Annie states. “We always say you may walk into our store as a customer, but you always leave as a friend.”
Our golf team has shown remarkable dedication and effort, both on and off the course. Despite being a young team, the girls have demonstrated exceptional talent and commitment. This year, we were very close to qualifying our entire team for the state tournament. Competing in a highly competitive region has motivated the girls to strive even harder. With only one senior and one junior, the majority of our team is comprised of freshmen and 8th graders, providing us with significant room for growth. Notably, our 8th grader Katie Betsworth placed 7th at state this year. This season has been fantastic, and I am excited to see what goals these talented young girls can achieve in the coming years, with hopes of breaking more school records.
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SATURDAY, OCTOBER 19TH
Military families who remain at home while their loved ones serve deserve immense honor and recognition.
These families face unique challenges and sacrifices, providing unwavering support and strength from a distance. They manage the household, often single-handedly, and bear the emotional burden of their loved one’s absence and potential danger. Their resilience and dedication ensure that the home front remains stable, allowing service members to focus on their duties with peace of mind. Honoring these families acknowledges their vital role in our national security and their personal sacrifices for the greater good.
You will enjoy a night of outstanding food and wine. Our keynote speaker will be Colonel Lee Ellis, a retired U.S. Air Force pilot and decorated Vietnam War veteran who was held as a prisoner of war for over five years. After his release, he continued his military career, eventually focusing on leadership development and consulting. He is an author and speaker, widely recognized for his insights on leadership, resilience, and freedom, drawing from his harrowing experiences as a POW. A live auction with Auctioneers Randy Stabe and Clint Vos with Stabe Auction and Realty will take place during the event.
Freedom Ball 2024 proceeds will benefit the Brigadier General Bud Day Wall of Honor inside the Interpretive Center. Funds will also be used for the hardware and software required to finish the recording studio, also inside the Interpretive Center. The recording studio will allow veterans to share their military story on record, both visually and audibly. Those recordings will be submitted to the Library of Congress for their permanent archives. BUY
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We are a full-service assisted living community “To foster the well-being of each resident by nurturing the mind, body, and spirit while maintaining each resident’s enjoyment of independence and dignity in a secure and supportive environment. We invite you to come to StoneyBrook Suites, where our joy is in serving you.”
• Coffee Shop
• Salon
• Walk-in Whirlpool Spa
• Centrally located meals and activities
• Caring, trusted, 24-hour staff
• Theater
• Courtyards
• Spacious suites all on one level
If you’re considering assisted living, we are here to help every step of the way. Schedule a tour and see the quality of life available to you or your loved one.
• Three homestyle meals per day
• Personal housekeeping • Professional medication administration and laundry
• On-site physical, restorative
• Scheduled daily social and and cognitive therapy exercise activities
• Wellness clinic
• Personal pendant system
• Assistance with activities of daily living
Our passion for assisted living shines through every day at StoneyBrook Suites.
Wheelhouse Bar and Grill is a family-friendly spot in Sioux City that offers the highest quality food at an affordable price. Known for its mouthwatering bites and welcoming atmosphere it is the perfect place for sports lovers of all kinds to gather and enjoy a game.
“We always want a family-friendly experience with a sports twist to it,”
Manager Rick Dominowski says. “We have a lot of TV’s at both our Wheelhouse Bar and Grill and Townhouse PIzza locations and we want no one to walk away saying they did not have a great view of their game.
With customer favorites on the menu like homemade egg rolls chock full of slow roasted ribeye and tasty peppers and onions to a number of homemade pasta dishes, Wheelhouse has something to fit almost everyone’s tastes. Their house wings continue to be a favorite with flavors to delight any fan. Honey Barbeque, Sweet Chili Garlic, Mango Habanero and Garlic Parmesan are just a few of the tasty possibilities.
On top of a number of creative dishes, Wheelhouse is a one stop shop for pizza and burger lovers. With a variety of different toppings and additions you can find something worth cheering for as enthusiastically as your favorite sports team.
According to Rick, it is their size that really sets them apart. With the ability to host private parties of up to 75 people, Wheelhouse Bar and Grill can bring large groups together for all the food and the fun. Boasting one of the largest bar seating areas in Sioux City, there is plenty of room for sports fanatics to watch their favorite games and events. Altogether, you can find a quality experience right alongside your quality meal.
The staff at Wheelhouse Bar and Grill is dedicated to providing a premium customer experience making sure that every guest leaves with the best experience.
“We have some of the best employees around,” Rick shares. “We are like family. Our servers are very knowledgeable about the foods we serve, our kitchen staff is top notch, and they make some of the best food in the area because they are extremely creative with their menu choices. Our bartenders are friendly and have been in the business for a long time and are experts at mixing drinks.”
By: Natalie Frazier
712-233-4144 309 COOK ST., SIOUX CITY, IA 51103
Founded in 1981, Hospice of Siouxland is the area’s only locally owned non-profit hospice program. We provide supportive care to people of all ages and their loved ones facing a terminal illness.
We focus on providing quality of life by using a holistic, multi-disciplinary approach that helps people be comfortable, while being supportive of their spiritual and emotional well-being.
Myth or Truth? Nurses are only available during the weekday.
Jacque Kreber LPN, NHA
Myth: We have nurses available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. We have nurses dedicated during the day, overnight, holidays and weekends to answer your questions and address any concerns about your loved one. During high-volume time, we also have a telephone triage service as a back-up. Our nursing staff is available for calls, visits and admissions no matter the time or day of the week.
Simply put, when you are unsure what to do. We are your resource. We understand this is a difficult time for patients and their loved ones. We understand there are many things to remember and do. That’s why we are available at all hours to answer any and all questions. We also provide written information reference as well. During each visit, we will also reiterate instructions and/or changes. If at any time you do not know what to do, call, and you will be able to speak to a registered nurse. The phone call may result in a quick answer or a visit from a nurse.
How often does someone from Hospice of Siouxland see patients?
Our interdisciplinary team works in collaboration with patients and loved ones to determine how often each team member visits on a weekly basis. This is based upon many factors, such as comfort level, symptom management, psychosocial, spiritual, and educational needs. Nurses are not the only discipline that will visit your home, there are also hospice aides, social workers, spiritual care coordinators, and volunteers that can be elected. Our team works together to ensure all needs are met for patients and their caregivers. While our team is available 24/7, we empower patients and caregivers so they can provide proper care when we are not there. Our teams are there for support and not an in-home care program.
Should I wake up my loved one to take their medication?
This is a great time to call the nurse. If you are managing constant pain and/or anxiety, you should wake them to give medication. This is so you do not get behind on the pain control or managing constant anxiety. Chasing pain and/or anxiety at the end of life is never good. If you are waking them to give cholesterol medication, that can certainly wait until they awaken. Again, any time you have questions about your loved one’s care, do not hesitate to call us at 712-233-4144.
In the heart of Storm Lake, a vibrant community thrives, driven by the ingenuity and determination of its women leaders. From charming boutiques and shops to dining options and innovative service providers, these exceptional women-owned and women-led businesses are the backbone of our local economy. Their stories not only enrich the business climate of Storm Lake but also enhance the shopping and vacation experiences for every visitor. Join us as we celebrate these trailblazers! Clip the coupons and be sure to plan a trip to take advantage of exclusive special offers.
Discover the vibrant and diverse charm of Storm Lake. The calendar is full of events and activities that showcase the unique blend of community spirit, lively entertainment, mustattend events and festivals … shopping, dining and more! Learn more about upcoming events at visitstormlake.com.
August 16–18 Wood, Wine & Blues
August 17 Storm the Lake Sprint Triathlon & Duathlon
September 1 Hy-Noon Kiwanis Escape to the Lake Kar Show
September 15 Multicultural Festival
September 27-28 .............................................................................................. BVU Homecoming (vs. Central College)
October 5 The Senders 7:00 p.m. (The Cobblestone)
October 12–13 Hallmark Ornament Debut Event (Sugar Bowl)
October 19 ................................................................................................................................................................... Oktoberfest
October 26 Chills & Thrills
October 27 Fiesta Latina
November 9–10 ......................................................................................................................................... Holiday Open House
November 28
Santa’s Castle opens
December 5 Miracle on Lake Avenue
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Anyone who’s heard the saying, “If these walls could talk” knows that walls can tell a story. Kathy Sorbe, owner and lead designer at The Elements in Storm Lake, says that the story your walls tell is all up to you. It can be bold or a whisper ... a dramatic story or just a subtle nod ... and there are many ways to achieve the look – or the story – you want your walls to tell.
In The Elements’ world of interior design, the walls remain a crucial element in shaping the ambiance and aesthetic of a space.
Windows in this space also serve as the walls. With little wall space for art, Mother Nature provides the beauty in this contemporary space, with the black windows framing the view. Wood details on the wall add warmth and provide an anchor for some additional lighting, where the illuminated wood becomes an art installation instead of just a wall.
A major component of any space is obviously the walls, and Kathy says one of the easiest ways to update a space is a fresh coat of paint. Paint is one of the most versatile and transformative wall treatments available to the Elements Design Team. The color palette chosen for a room can drastically affect its perception, making it feel larger, cozier, more vibrant or even more serene.
But just because painting isn’t a huge undertaking, it doesn’t mean that picking the right color is an easy choice.
“One fundamental choice that every homeowner will face is choosing a paint color for the walls,” Kathy says. “But it can be far from simple. Do you want the walls to disappear or make an impact?”
A board and batten detail added to a kid’s room combines wider boards with thinner strips to create a threedimensional pattern. The details and trim are painted the same color as the walls, allowing the black plantation shutters to serve as a strong design element.
The Elements Design Team gravitates toward more neutral wall colors, so the furnishings and artwork can shine. Whites, beiges and warm grays create a sense of simplicity and elegance, but designer Rick Baker says that furniture and accessories will still stand out in a room finished with a bold wall color.
“Sometimes homeowners are wary of color,” says Rick Baker, a member of the Design Team in Storm Lake. “Gone are the days when there are three color choices for walls: white, white or white. We’re seeing more and more saturated colors like rich navy, deep green, charcoal and even red.”
Saturated colors are rich, vivid hues that are highly pigmented and lack the dilution of any white. Rick says these colors can have a dramatic effect on the mood and atmosphere of a room.
The Design Team is frequently asked what colors are in style. Kathy says that colors don’t go out of style; instead, how colors are used and combined may quickly date a space.
“A lot of us remember the green and burgundy combo because we lived through it and might not want to go back,” says Kathy. “However, we recently recommended a deep, saturated green for some kitchen cabinets, and it didn’t look like it was from the 90s; it looked out of this world!”
After picking the wall color, what to do with the trim around the windows and doors is the next decision homeowners will face.
“We recommend painting the trim the same color as the walls, just in a different finish,” Kathy explains. “Wood trim or trim painted a different color than the walls create outlines, and that can really disrupt the flow of the space. Painting the trim the same color –but in a different finish – creates a soft separation between the walls and trim, but not so dramatic that it interrupts the flow of your eyes.”
Crown molding, chair rails and wainscotting are traditional architectural elements that can add interest and can define different spaces within a room. Shiplap, a very affordable option, has gained popularity, especially in the farmhouse and modern farmhouse styles.
Once considered outdated, wallpaper has made a significant comeback in recent years. Its versatility and the wide array of patterns, materials and textures available from The Elements make it a popular choice for many homeowners.
“We all probably have a little bit of wallpaper PTSD,” Rick says. “But it can make a statement and add character to any room. Textures like grass cloth or linen add depth and a tactile element to your walls, creating a luxurious feel. There are even options with a bit of shine that can really take a space to the next level.”
Rick believes it can be used creatively in various areas, such as powder rooms and even on accent walls instead of paint. Largescale murals can transform a wall into a work of art, and the Design Team likes mural installations for commercial projects because they make incredible impact in a large space.
A repeating square pattern adds dimension and interest to a wall painted with a deep, saturated color that serves as an accent wall and anchor for the bed in this primary bedroom.
Even with varying geometric patterns, this bold wallpaper – adorned with just the right amount of shine and paired with simple round mirrors in this primary bath – does not seem busy and adds a touch of elegance and sophistication.
While most lighting is more functional, sconces add ambiance and ambient lighting, and the Design Team frequently installs lighting that are almost pieces of art.
Wall color can manipulate perceptions of space. Light colors reflect more light and can make a small room feel large and open. Darker shades add depth and can make a room feel more intimate. And while many worry that dark shades will make a room seem small, Sorbe says that dark colors can even make a room feel more spacious and dramatic.
A large closet in the foyer blends in seamlessly with the walls. A barn track door – basically a movable wall – with a treatment very similar to the walls slides to reveal a large amount of storage that keeps clutter contained in the entryway.
Sculptural elements on the walls can have a tremendous effect.
The Design Team loves the wood slats installed in some recent projects, which add warmth and a touch of sophistication to a space.
“Wood slats added to a wall are versatile and fit with a variety of styles, from mid-century modern to contemporary, traditional and farmhouse,” says Rick. “Their natural warmth adds a touch of homeyness to a space and can be used to create a feature wall, accentuate key areas – like behind a bed – and define your space.”
Sculptural wall treatments are not just aesthetic; they can also be functional. Wood and other materials have acoustic properties that can enhance sound quality in a room while adding a decorative element, and they can even be strategically placed to hide storage or imperfections in walls.
A Ladies of the Lake list wouldn’t be complete without Kathy Sorbe, former cover woman.
Do you want to enhance the design and mood of your space but are staring at a blank wall?
The Design Team can help create a space that’s not only stunning but affordable. Contact the Design Team to schedule a consultation or house call or visit the showroom in Storm Lake. Explore some past projects at the new elementsbyksorbe.com, and be sure to stay up to date by following them on Facebook and Instagram.
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