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munster high school
vol 49/issue 6 Nov. 14, 2014 MHScrier.com
8808 Columbia Ave. Munster, IN 46321
Saturday 32/25
Sunday 32/21
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DECA informal dance: today from 7-10 p.m. in the Commons
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Spell Bowl competes at State tomorrow
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Girls’ Basketball plays first game at Chesterton tonight at 7 p.m. Students, teacher discuss living with type 1 diabetes page 5
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hey live a quiet life. They try not to draw attention to themselves. When they leave their house, they never stop looking over their shoulders. In their house, a Christmas bell hangs on the door handle year-round, a substitute for an alarm system. Every night before they go to sleep, they secure the three locks on their front door and prop a chair up underneath the handle. For one student and her mother, this has become normal. After years of enduring mistreatment from the student’s father, they have developed this method of
Band competes at State at Lucas Oil Stadium in Indianapolis, places sixth page 2
30th season of Munster Biddy Ball begins page 10
Subjected to physical, emotional abuse, student, mother seek escape from longlasting effects of domestic violence
seclusion and watchfulness to protect themselves and prevent discovery.
The student’s father subjected the student’s mother
to domestic violence, which is defined by the Indiana Criminal Code as the battery of one’s spouse or the person with whom one shares a child, and the student became a victim of child abuse. “My childhood— I didn’t have one. I was never allowed to leave the house to go outside and play with my friends due to my mother’s fear of him being there and one day snatching me up,” the student said. “My mom, she’s terrified. That’s why she shelters me. She doesn’t want anything to happen to me not only because I’m her daughter but (because) she needs me.” Before the abuse began, the relationship between the student’s parents seemed innocuous to the student’s mother. However, when the student’s mother became pregnant with the student, the student’s father became controlling, and her mother did not know how to get out of the situation. “I became a punching bag,” the
student’s mother said. “I was told that meals needed to be done at a certain time. If they were not done and hot at a certain time, (they were) tossed at me. My hair was pulled. I’ve been choked. I’ve had a gun put to my head. I’ve been stripped of clothes and put outside.” When the student was born, the violence directed at her mother became directed at her as well. A comforting habit of twirling a strand of her hair invoked her father’s first act of aggression toward her. Angered by the habit, he shaved the student’s head and beat her. “After the first beating was when I realized that there’s something wrong with my dad. I talked to all of my friends, and all their daddies— they buy them ice cream, they give them hugs and kisses, they put band-aids on their boo-boos. My daddy— my daddy made me take care of myself. He made me grow up when I was only six or seven years old,” the student said. “I’m pretty sure that’s not what dads do.” Meena Kandallu Copy Editor
Danie Oberman News Editor
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photo illustration by Chelsea Eickleberry