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BIKTARVY may cause serious side e ects, including:

 Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. Your healthcare provider will test you for HBV. If you have both HIV-1 and HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if you stop taking BIKTARVY. Do not stop taking BIKTARVY without first talking to your healthcare provider, as they will need to check your health regularly for several months, and may give you HBV medicine.

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BIKTARVY is a complete, 1-pill, once-a-day prescription medicine used to treat HIV-1 in adults and children who weigh at least 55 pounds. It can either be used in people who have never taken HIV-1 medicines before, or people who are replacing their current HIV-1 medicines and whose healthcare provider determines they meet certain requirements.

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 Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Do not breastfeed. HIV-1 can be passed to the baby in breast milk.

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 Changes in your immune system. Your immune system may get stronger and begin to fight infections that may have been hidden in your body. Tell your healthcare provider if you have any new symptoms after you start taking BIKTARVY.

 Kidney problems, including kidney failure. Your healthcare provider should do blood and urine tests to check your kidneys. If you develop new or worse kidney problems, they may tell you to stop taking BIKTARVY.

 Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat.

 Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain.

 The most common side e ects of BIKTARVY in clinical studies were diarrhea (6%), nausea (6%), and headache (5%).

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WE NEED TO COME TOGETHER

THIS PRIDE SEASON WE ALL NEED TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER AND STICK TOGETHER - FORCEFULLY AND UNITED! WE CAN’T BE SPLINTERED, AS MANY WOULD LIKE. The haters are in the minority, and they know that. However, we should learn from experience that a very vocal minority can sway the sentiments of the majority. Now is time for all of us to rally under the giant rainbow umbrella and stand with our trans and non-binary family. An attack on one of us is an attack on all of us, and these attacks can’t be tolerated.

This issue focuses on celebrating inclusion. Not just the Pride events and parties, but everyday pride in our community and the tremendous progress we have made over the years to gain equality and acceptance of the LGBTQ+ society in mainstream America. Our representation in the media, on legislative fronts, and in public opinion, has continued to increase in recent years thanks to a full-court press by courageous individuals and our active advocacy groups.

In 1999, a Gallup opinion poll revealed that “marriages between same-sex couples should be recognized by the law as valid”was supported by just 27% of Americans. Fast-forward to 2022, and the same Gallup poll revealed that support for same-sex marriages was up to 71%. That type of progress is something to celebrate.

Public acceptance of LGBTQ+ rights is one measurement, but the other is legislative parity. In 2015, we collectively cheered at the outcome of the Supreme Court decision on Obergefell vs. Hodges, which ultimately resulted in the full legalization of same-sex marriage in the United States. However, recent Supreme Court discussions have called into question the finality of precedent. Under our current system of government, rulings can be overturned. This should serve as a wake-up call to our community. We should remain vigilant to protect our rights and

stand our ground. This means working with our elected legislators – both on the federal and state level – to codify LGBTQ+ rights by putting protective anti-discriminatory laws on the books.

Some major brands have dipped their toe in the water called “community support” but have caved to pressure from the vocal minority.“Support” is a 24/7, 365 day a year commitment. As individuals we need to give it to each other. Corporations need to live it.

Across our country we are fortunate enough to have caring, dedicated, and selfless volunteers who dedicate their time and talents to running our local LGBTQ+ centers. Most of these groups have an Advocacy Team focused on making a legislative impact, in addition to offering programs and services to our community. I encourage all of you to reach out and get involved at a local level. Collectively, we are an unstoppable force in the fight against bigotry and the struggle to bring about meaningful and long-lasting change for future generations. Here are some suggestions for involvement:

• Write, call, or email your federal and state representatives.

• Visit your local LGBTQ center – talk, meet, inquire – just add your voice to the discussion.

• Gain knowledge on LGBTQ topics. Read and research laws, terms, history - anything that adds to your base of knowledge.

• Educate your friends and family on LGBTQ issues and motivate them to get involved too.

During this Pride season, I encourage celebration and participation in the many exuberant events planned. Let’s party! But I also ask you to reflect on our predecessors who collectively helped us achieve this level of equality, and what each of us can do today to continue the progress and make life better for our LGBTQ+ successors.

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BILLY RECCE “COME OUT”

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THE BILLBOARD-CHARTING AND TWO-TIME MAC AWARD-WINNING SONGWRITER BEHIND THE MUSICALS A MUSICAL ABOUT STAR WARS AND THE BROADWAY-BOUND LITTLE BLACK BOOK RELEASED HIS EFFERVESCENT NEW SINGLE “COME OUT,” A BRIGHT AND UPBEAT POP CONFECTION WITH A SLIGHTLY SATIRICAL BUT GOOD-NATURED TAKE ON THE CLASSIC BREAKUP SONG. Billy explains, “I wrote this in the style of coked-out, ‘80s pop/ rock anthems like ‘Holding Out for a Hero,’ ‘Gloria’ or ‘Mickey’ - some of my favorite hits. I wanted to put together a song that begins at a 10 and goes all the way to 99. At its heart, ‘Come Out’ celebrates both queer longing, and queer joy, but it is first and foremost a true bop. I can’t wait for folks to dance along with it this summer!”

“This song was written for a concert of my songs,”Billy continues.“It was my first big show back since the pandemic, and I wanted to write something that could double as both an opening number – a re-introduction to my body of work after a period of quarantine – but also as a breakup song. I love writing songs with lyrics that start with a slew of possibilities for their journey, and then deceptively head towards an unexpected ending. That’s all a part of the gay, chaotic fun.”

Regarding the candy colored “Come Out” music video, Billy comments, “We wanted the video to be just as fun and over the top as the track. Our director, Amanda Whitley, had the fantastic idea of staging a 1980s gay wedding. That felt like the perfect setting for a song all about being nostalgic for old times with someone. Our fantasy includes a drag queen officiant, hundreds of pounds of tulle, and a whole bunch of surprises. Special shoutout to the girl in the neck brace - it’s not an ‘80s fever dream without one.”

The single “Come Out” features Lloyd Kikoler on guitar and bass, Josh Roberts on drums, Erika Friedman on woodwinds, and Dustin Beardsley on trumpet. Joining forces again after their performances on the Billboard-charting Little Black Book concept album are background vocalists Lauren Robinson, Sarah Kleist, and Amanda Lopez. “Nobody slays like these three voices do when they’re put together,” says Recce.

Billy’s expansive body of work includes the musicals Dimes (NY Theatre Barn, Fordham), additional songs for NEWSical The Musical (Theatre Row), The

Bestest Office Christmas Party Ever (NY Theatre Barn), and its accompanying EP featuring Mary Testa, Duo/ Trio (The Motor Company), and The Charlatans (Fordham). His work has been performed at Cadogan Hall, 54 Below, The New Amsterdam, Broadway in Bryant Park, Lincoln Center, The Kennedy Center, Signature Theatre, Ars Nova, The York Theatre, and beyond. His work with Theater for Young Audiences was recently singled out in The New York Times. Recently, he has been creating short form musical content on TikTok, amassing over two million views in his first month.

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HOW TV SHAPED OUR REALITY FROM TAMMY FAYE TO RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE

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A RIOTOUS TALE OF POP CULTURE GLAMOUR, SEX, HEARTBREAK, AND TRIUMPH BEHIND THE SCENES OF HISTORY-MAKING TELEVISION AND FILMS; SCREENAGE IS WRITTEN

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When he moved to New York in 1982, Bailey saw the world go Pop. Together with filmmaking partner Randy Barbato, their production company World of Wonder would pioneer the genre of Reality TV and chronicle the emerging Screen Age through their extraordinary programs and outrageous subjects - from Bible Belt televangelists and conspiracy theories to dazzling drag queens. Working with icons such as Britney Spears, Tammy Faye Bakker and RuPaul, the production company’s shows tell a wider story of how television has fundamentally shifted our reality.

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Packed with industry-insider accounts and amazing celebrity stories, these are the riotous tales behind the shows that would make ScreenAgers of us all.

NEVER

HAVE I EVER SEASON 4

NEVER HAVE I EVER IS A COMING-OF-AGE COMEDY ABOUT THE COMPLICATED LIFE OF A MODERN-DAY FIRSTGENERATION INDIAN AMERICAN TEENAGE GIRL. The series stars Maitreyi Ramakrishnan as Devi, an overachieving high school student who has a short fuse that gets her into difficult situations. Co-created by Mindy Kaling and Lang Fisher. The series was partly inspired by Kaling’s own life growing up, and has made incredible strides for diverse, authentic South Asian representation on television.

Mindy Kaling spoke to Entertainment Tonight about the show being capped off with four seasons, divulging those four seasons was always her vision for the series.“Four seasons for a high school show felt like it made sense,”said Mindy.“They can’t be in high school forever. We’ve seen those shows. Like, you’ve been in high school for 12 years. What is going on here? Also, the actors get older, and it starts looking insane that a 34-year-old is playing a 15-year-old.”

CHICAGO FIRE, AS PART OF TELEVISION’S CHICAGO FRANCHISE AND EXECUTIVE PRODUCED BY TV GREAT DICK WOLF, HAS BECOME A STAPLE OF NBC’S COLLECTION OF FAN-FAVORITE SHOWS

Now gearing up for its 12th season, it centers around the personal and professional lives of firefighters in the Chicago area. Having earned the role of firefighter Darren Ritter, Daniel Kyri is now enjoying his fifth year with the show, though the role was originally intended to only be around for two or three episodes. He is an out and proud actor who plays an openly gay firefighter in a typically hyper-masculine environment. Viewers of Dick Wolf shows are fervent, to say the least, and they have embraced Daniel and his character, quickly making him a fan favorite.

As art imitates life, Daniel is a staunch Chicago native, with his background giving him a unique perspective into the show and his identity as a Black, gay man in the South Side.

I had a lot of opportunities to learn things pretty quickly. Your boy is streetwise - I know how to get around. I know what’s what. And I think that that’s actually helped to shape me into the capable adult that I am.

Now that being said, I grew up really close to family. My G-MA stayed right across the way from me and we would go over there when my mom had to work and have sleepovers. She would be watching Svengoolie and odd, local Chicago things, stuff like that. I loved having that time with family, being so close, and also knowing that I could play on my block and there’d be a cousin or an uncle. Family was always really around and that was one of my favorite parts of growing up there. I felt taken care of.

His relationship with performing started when his mother enrolled him in the After School Matters program when he was 15. There, he would not only fall in love with his future profession and hone his skills as an actor, but he would find his identity in a safe space, even when masculinity from men in the South Side was expected.

I’m a little bit older than some of the younger queers coming out and there are conversations and dialogue and discourse that exist now, not unilaterally across the board, of course, but just the celebration of people being who they are. There is more conversation around that. Around the time I was 15, I wasn’t just discovering

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the arts, you know what I’m saying? I found out some things about myself that didn’t necessarily jibe with the way that I was brought up. Interestingly enough, the arts actually served as a bit of a bridge between me and my family growing up. They believed in me, in that regard, and it was something that I was passionate about and was good at. So, they encouraged it.

My journey with who I am has been a hard-fought arrival. When I was younger, it was more so a label that was put on me that I felt like I had to buck or I felt that I needed to present in a way that was not queer or gay or effeminate. Where I grew up, when I grew up, it was a lot of people bothering me and using “gay” as synonymous with something bad or not good. Of course, this isn’t a unique experience whatsoever, but it took me longer to fully understand and recognize the parts of me that were just kind of inherently me and very real because I spent so much time denying those parts.

Even though I encountered some [gay] stuff when I was 15, I spent years trying to convince myself otherwise. You have that wild pendulum of just swinging back and forth and back and forth, and that part of you doesn’t get enough light so it starts to fester or wilt in the dark. One of the series that I created when I was figuring out how to be an artist is called The T and it’s really about that time of experiencing elements of not taking care of myself in the best way that I could in regards to my queerness or my practices or in relationships with people. It was a long and twisty road to get me happy and healthy in my queerness and open and dare I say, proud.

Daniel cut his teeth in a variety of roles, becoming a fixture in the Chicago theatre world. From Moby Dick, Macbeth, Objects in the Mirror, to playing the title role in Hamlet, he learned the foundation of how to be an actor, learning the craft from a theatre environment that he believes has elements that are unique to Chicago.

The really fantastic thing about Chicago is that if there’s any kind of ego at all, in the very least, the art comes first. And I have learned the most valuable lessons about how to take care of your instrument, your body, yourself, in order to show up and meet the demands of the work. When I did Moby Dick at Lookingglass Theatre,

I had never done such physical theater before. It was out of the frying pan into the fire, and you just go and you learn. The amount of support that I had around me in that process was pretty amazing. Just the way everybody rallied around, I do feel like that can be an experience sometimes that is a little bit unique to Chicago theater because there is a sense of community, for better or for worse, that exists here.

His acting style is fluid and a paradox to being a member of the LGBTQ community. Without a sense of fluidity, or being able to evolve or exist outside of methods or labels, you can never grow.

Even with his experience in classical theatre to evocative newer pieces, he doesn’t subscribe to just one school of acting.

I’m a little Frankenstein and I kind of feel like the actors I have encountered, ones I love watching the most, are usually those who just borrow and steal and then turn it into something that is uniquely them and that they are uniquely suited to. One of the biggest things that we tend to overlook when we’re talking about technique in the craft is essence, right? The things that make you uniquely you are some of the most important aspects of building a character, building a role, stepping into

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a world, and fully inhabiting it. You have to bring parts of yourself to it. The really fun part for me is finding the variances and nuances that exist from person to person and how they handle different situations. In terms of whether it’s Stanislavsky or Meisner or whatever it is, really and truly, I think whatever just helps you get there is the best method.

Daniel was deep into his critically acclaimed performance in Hamlet when the audition for Chicago Fire came about. Little did Daniel know what this audition would do for his screen career, and how close he came to not even going in. Life circumstances were casting a shadow.

I was looking around at my life and I said, I’m broke. I was thinking, I need to just go work in somebody’s restaurant and make some money. So, I was not going to do the audition. My agents were like, you should do it. They were saying, why don’t you just look at it and see if you like it? I looked at the material for the role, and it was Ritter and it was awesome. It landed on me in a way where I was like, okay, let me just play around with it. And then I played around with it and I really loved him.

I went into the audition and it was all blonde hair, blue eyes everywhere. I said, okay, this role is not for me. Sometimes that’s just how it works. Sometimes there’s a specific look or whatever, it is what it is. That’s the industry. I didn’t think I was going to get it but I went in and I just did it. I went before the director of that first episode, Reza Tabrizi (who’s an executive producer on our show now), and he was like, YOU. And I was like, wait, what? I was really grateful that my reps said to go and do this audition because here I am five seasons later. How crazy is that? It feels amazing. It feels really, really good because I’m at home in the role and there are so many parts of Ritter that speak to parts of me and vice versa. It’s a really fantastic job to have.

His first day on set is a Hollywood story in itself. He had literally just rolled into bed from his Hamlet performance when it was time to roll back out of bed for a 4:45am call time. It was the first day back on set for the cast who had all built their family during the previous seasons. Daniel was a lone sheep getting ready for his debut moment. This wasn’t stage work anymore - no lengthy rehearsals, no improv if the lines went wrong, no fixing it for the next show.

THE ARTS ACTUALLY SERVED AS A BIT OF A BRIDGE BETWEEN ME AND MY FAMILY GROWING UP.”

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I was in the van on the way to the set, saying to myself ‘make sure I know my lines, make sure I know my lines.’ It was a very nerve-wracking day. There were four cameras in my face, they’re pumping smoke through a stairwell, it’s like 90 or almost 100 degrees outside, and it’s hotter in the stairwell. There’s these lights and it was my first time on a big set, so I just had to get locked in and narrow down my world so that my zone of focus became really tight. I got through the day. But it was fantastic. It was like something out of a dream for me.

Not only was this Daniel’s first major television role for a major franchise on a major network, but it was also taking that leap and exposing himself to the nation. His sexuality and his private life were up for grabs as the fans wanted to know all about him, especially as his character came out on the show during Daniel’s sophomore season.

There’s no going back. I felt that even though I wanted to be out there and be received for my work, I was also pretty private about certain things in my life and protective over that part of me. But as I began working on that scene, I made it to the other side of fear - excitement. I realized what a wonderful story I was getting to tell and to step into wholly. I am a queer Black man who gets the opportunity to play a queer Black man on this show that has such a massive impact. Then it just became about wanting to do it justice.

From the stage to the screen, after five seasons how has he changed the most as an actor?

The biggest thing is confidence, that’s been the biggest change for me. This is the first television show that I’ve done and so there is always something new to learn. Even now, I’m still learning a lot, but I think when you’re first stepping into it, it can be a little daunting. Now I live for those moments where I learn something new on our set and I look around and there’s the crew, the DP, and the gaffers and the grips, and everyone who has something to teach if you’re willing to open up your eyes and learn a little bit. That’s one of my favorite parts of my job now, is that I just get to be curious. I have confidence in that curiosity. It’s not about getting it right because I think that can take you out of yourself. It’s about being

present and being receptive and being open. That curiosity leads to openness and openness for me leads to confidence in my role.

And how has the show changed him as a person?

I have a better sense of my own selfworth and it largely exists outside of my work now, which is such a refreshing thing to have and to say. I’m surrounded by so many affirming and positive people day in and day out. This really is one of the best

jobs because of the people. To be honest it has really poured back into me what I give out. I have grown a lot and I’ve learned a lot about myself - how to take care of me. And that also it’s okay to put yourself first sometimes.

Even years after his character’s coming out, Daniel’s personal sexuality is still bandied about by the media with headlines still feeling the need to highlight him being gay. Does it bother him that his sexuality is still the lead-in?

Its level of importance can sometimes be a bit inflated. But there is a purpose, depending on where a person is in their own journey around understanding queerness and stepping outside of themselves enough to actually investigate with curiosity. Then I think a headline like that might do its job and grab attention. Do I think it’s necessary all the time? Absolutely not. By the same token as an out Black man, I’m so chill with that. I find such joy in my identity now that I didn’t grow up with. It feels just good to see a headline like, here’s this man and he’s doing the thing. It’s good to see. It’s good to be a part of it, and I’m happy it’s about me.

Looking to the future, he has a lot on his vision board. A hidden talent, he has a powerful, soulful, and intoxicating singing voice. He can be heard on the Don’t Be Afraid of Love EP and has plans for a debut album, with five songs already completed. If you haven’t heard him sing yet, GO STREAM THAT EP. He also has his eyes on more work behind the camera, knowing that effecting change in Hollywood representation needs to happen both in front of and behind the camera.

And his message to his fans this Pride season?

Y’all are real ones. Thanks for holding your boy down, because you do. Go live, go explore, and as always, be as curious as you can be about the world around you. ■

You can follow Daniel on IG: @DanielKyri

I AM A QUEER BLACK MAN WHO GETS THE OPPORTUNITY TO PLAY A QUEER BLACK MAN ON THIS SHOW THAT HAS SUCH A MASSIVE IMPACT.”

WHAT I’M DOING HAS A PURPOSE GREATER THAN MYSELF.”

ADAM LAMBERT BELTING OUT SOME HIGH DRAMA

BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ

IT HAS BEEN ALMOST 15 YEARS SINCE ADAM LAMBERT BECAME A HOUSEHOLD NAME DURING HIS SEASON OF AMERICAN IDOL Instantly setting himself apart with his distinct sound and look, his career has catapulted to the nth degree, becoming a musical icon and challenging the limits of how far an openly gay artist can go. He doesn’t just sing the hell out of a song, he tells a story with his soaring vibrato, emotive breaks, and ability to make any song distinctly his own. Rock, pop, musical theatre, he can sing it all. His fame has crossed generations from interpreting the spirit of Freddie Mercury to serenading Cher with her own song to releasing new and evocative music. Though his sexuality has been discussed, especially during his debut season of Idol, it has never defined nor limited him. He is unapologetically Adam Lambert.

Born in Indianapolis, his family moved to Southern California shortly after he was born. Not being born into a showbiz family, it was the music videos of Madonna and Michael Jackson that would inspire not just his love affair with music, but also with fashion and dance. Those artists gave him the impulse to entertain. Before becoming a pop superstar, he would find his foundation and identity in musical theatre, performing with the Metropolitan Educational Theatre network from the age of nine.

I think I found a lot of confidence in a children’s theatre group that I was a part of. It was not a part of my school growing up, I went on the weekends. I really took to it. It was a great environment for me to develop my artistry and love for entertaining. Within that company, I became more and more confident. However, in school, I was more reserved because there weren’t as many kids with my shared interests. Especially in middle school, we were all going through so many changes, so I felt very much like the odd one out. I knew I was different and that caused me to withdraw. But in high school, I really blossomed as I got involved in more school art programs and found myself surrounded by like-minded people. It gave me the chance to really explore performing arts as a passion of mine.

He would perform in the regular staples of musical theatre, including Hello! Dolly, Music Man, Grease, and Camelot at established theaters in Southern California, before being cast in a European tour of Hair, a production of a musical version of The Ten Commandments with Val Kilmer, to ultimately touring with Wicked. Does he miss the musical theatre world? What show would bring him back to the stage?

I do miss it. It was such a huge part of my life for so long. It really shaped me as a performer and creator. If I were to bring a show back it would have to be something you would consider a rock-pop musical. Rock-pop musicals are what resonate with me most. There are so many I love which makes it hard to choose. If I were to bring any show to the stage it would have to be something new!

And while taking the spotlight on stage growing up, his sexuality would take a moment to come into focus.

It was the late 90s so the mainstream queer representation was in a much different place. There were hardly any artists to look to in the music industry as an inspiration. On TV we had that one guy from the Real World, My So-Called Life, and Will & Grace. Those were my exposures to queer characters and representation. Particularly Will & Grace, being a comedy, created a sense of comfort around the topic for me. My whole family and I watched it together and it made me realize my parents wouldn’t be that shocked when I came out. I waited until I was 18 to come out. I felt like I wasn’t surrounded by any out people, so it was scary for me to

consider taking that next step. I wanted to wait until I was done with high school before I explored what coming out would look like. I started by coming out to a few close friends, and then my family a few months later. My mom actually asked me privately, it was a sweet moment, she just asked me point blank and I said yes. It was such a relief because I didn’t know how to quite get there so my mom took the lead which was really lovely for me.

A foreshadowing of Lambert’s future fame, his first auditions for Idol would include “Bohemian Rhapsody” and “Believe.” Though Simon Cowell would voice his concerns about Lambert’s theatricality, he ended up giving Lambert a standing ovation after his performance of“Mad World,”the only one he ever gave during his ten-year stint as a judge. It was during his rise on Idol that Lambert would first understand what lay ahead of him.

Midway through my Idol experience, I realized this is really happening. The momentum is building and a change in my career is underway. The year prior to Idol I really felt ready to take some risks and go for it. Before that, I had always seen this as an unattainable fantasy, but by the time I auditioned for Idol, I really felt like I was ready to go for it all.

He would ultimately become runner-up for the 8th season of Idol, even though he would become one of a very small group of Idol personalities that reached A-list status.Yes, Idol gave him his big break, but his brand and talent were all his. His star would rise above the reality TV show and his music would go on to sell millions upon millions of copies.

I would probably attribute some of my success to my professional experience prior to Idol. Working as a performer before the show gave me a good work ethic and an understanding of how the business works. It taught me a certain level of professionalism. It taught me that when the lights go on, you have to deliver. The philosophy has really helped me stay on track. Also, I think that being a queer artist is such an exciting opportunity, to prove the point that there is room for everyone in music. And when I meet young people that perhaps saw me on TV while they were coming to terms with their own identities, that’s proof that what I’m doing has a purpose greater than myself.

Many claims have been made that it was Adam’s sexuality that kept him from winning the title. During his season, pictures of Adam kissing another boy made the media rounds, and Fox cut off media access to Lambert soon after. Shows

I KNEW IN MY GUT THAT I WAS OKAY TO BE LOUD, PROUD, AND UNAPOLOGETIC.”

like The O’Reilly Factor were propagating disgust at the photos, claiming it would have a negative effect on Idol. LOL, where is O’Reilly now? Currently, more and more LGBTQ artists come out every year to applause thanks to open artists like Lambert who had to deal with the negativity of an earlier era of entertainment media. Did Adam get tired of his sexuality being the focus, or does he think it helped progress gay representation in mainstream music?

It’s interesting because it’s a case-by-case thing. It definitely became the main thing I was asked about in interviews for a while, but I found that there were certain journalists who were thoughtful and felt interesting to talk with because they were not new to the subject. Queer and queer-allied journalists who knew what they were talking about always felt more comfortable. Where it got a bit strange was when super-mainstream journalists asked ignorant questions, that’s when it got annoying.

When I first got off Idol, I realized quickly that I was in a position where I could either make a change and help the cause or I could be selfish and just sort of worry about my own career. But I felt right away that it was important to represent the community. I knew I was in a position that not many had access to, so being the only out mainstream pop artist at the time, I knew it was bigger than me. I knew that just by me being my authentic self and not being afraid to show that, it would create ripples and I could help people feel it was okay to be authentic with who they are. I knew in my gut that I was okay to be loud, proud, and unapologetic.

This last season, Lambert returned to Idol to mentor the top twelve on a Rock and Roll Hall of Fame-themed night. Just to think how far he has come from his first moments on the show is mind-boggling.

It’s always really lovely to return to the show. It launched my recording career and put me on a massive public stage. I owe a lot to the show and getting to go back and give back is a real full-circle experience. I love being able to help people reach their full potential. Over the years I’ve learned some tricks of the trade and it’s lovely to be able to pass that on.

As a mentor, what is the main thing he would want to impart to a singer new to the industry?

Your team is essential. The people you surround yourself with who are helping you reach your goals are something that you

cannot take for granted. It can make or break your career. You have to be sure that you have the right collaborators on board with you.

Adam has gone on to sing alongside the who’s who of entertainment, a list his name now belongs on. What has he learned most from some of these icons?

I’ve learned to trust myself more. Working with people you respect and admire adds to your confidence and is proof that your instincts are on the right track.

With his distinctive voice, his celebration of his sexuality, and his unwillingness to comply with norms, it was only fitting and equally as thrilling for him to join Queen, resurrecting the spirit and talent of Freddie Mercury, yet still in line with his signature Lambert style. Adam and Queen have toured the globe to sold-out audiences with fans clamoring for more - a match made in music heaven. What did Adam learn from his first few rehearsals with the group?

With Queen, I learned quickly that their attention to detail is incredible. They really put a lot of thought into every decision and there is always a clear intention. Coming from the theatre world it’s all about detail and storytelling so I love working with them because there are always great discussions surrounding every decision. Putting a show together with Queen always has a clear intention and we all work seamlessly together to reach our goal.

This year, Lambert released his fifth studio album, High Drama, a collection of covers that include Culture Club’s “Do You Really Want to Hurt Me,”Pink’s“My Attic,”Sia’s“Chandelier,”and even Noel Coward’s “Mad About the Boy.” It was hard to listen to the album the first time around because the temptation to skip to the next track to see how he could possibly reinterpret some of these legacy songs was just as tempting as listening to the current track on repeat to savor each note.

I feel like just recreating the original is pointless. If I’m going to cover a song, I need to put my own spin on it or else there’s no need to go for it in the first place. I really love taking songs and giving them a new energy that fits where I’m currently coming from artistically.

His personal favorite from High Drama?

I don’t have a favorite! I loved making each song for different reasons. My favorite part of the process was weaving them all together with a sense of high drama!

With his extensive library of music, both

I LOVE BEING ABLE TO HELP PEOPLE REACH THEIR FULL POTENTIAL.”

original and covered, what song best details where he is at today?

“Superpower” is a nice mantra that was one of the songs from my last album, Velvet. I wrote it as an empowering song for taking back your own power. Making sure that you are in your truth.

As an LGBTQ activist, his philanthropy has been endless. He has given his voice, funds, time, and platform to a myriad of organizations, big and small, and launched his own non-profit advocacy group The Feel Something Foundation (taking the name from the first single from his Velvet album), assisting charities that are moving the needle for communities of all ages and backgrounds, focusing on impacting the LGBTQ+ community in areas of education and arts, homelessness, suicide prevention, and mental health. He puts his money where his mouth is, he is not just attending events and grabbing awards left and right. He is a superhero for our community, using his voice to save the world. And he looks damn good doing it.

His message to our community this Pride?

Obviously, there is a lot of division in our country right now and the Queer community is being used politically, in not always a positive way. I know it’s because we are shining brighter and bigger than ever. We are a cultural movement and those who oppose us are terrified. It’s proof that we can overcome any obstacle that we are faced with. We have done it so many times before and we will continue to face this together. I know this darkness we are combatting right now is something we will persevere together, as we always have. We will continue to do our part to protect our community while living our authentic lives. Also, just have a damn good time this summer! Haha! ■

For everything Adam, visit AdamLambert.net

SIP THE LIGHT

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VISIT SONOMA COUNTY’S WINERIES WHO EMBRACE

THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY

BOOZY BONUS EQUALITY WINE FEST IN PALM SPRINGS

BY KEVIN PERRY

CALIFORNIA IS THE CAPITAL OF PROGRESS. EVEN BEFORE THE TIME OF THE GOLD RUSH, OUR STATE HAS BEEN SYNONYMOUS WITH DISCOVERY AND INNOVATION. AGRICULTURAL LANDS CLASH BRILLIANTLY WITH THE PACIFIC SHORE TO FORM A CUTTING EDGE OF PIONEER INGENUITY. AND THE GAYS ARE ALSO NO STRANGERS TO PROGRESS. Harvey Milk transformed a humble campaign for city commissioner into a global invitation for queer folks to live and love openly in San Francisco.

So, what happens when you combine the tastes of Northern California with the tastemakers who define LGBTQ+ aesthetics? The perfect pairing, naturally.

The most vibrant varietals on the planet flourish in Sonoma County, and LGBTQ+ connected wineries are harvesting the most robust flavors for your sipping pleasure. Imagine scouring the globe for the ideal grapes, cultivating acres of vines for years, formulating a delicate balance of fermentation and aging, and arriving at the optimal square foot of real estate in the wine-loving world….

Well, there’s no need to imagine it. We’re taking you on a whirlwind trip to the hip sips of Sonoma, so pack your Prada and join us!

TOUR OF BEAUTY

Let’s start with a superlative, shall we? Sonoma Plaza’s Corner 103 (corner103.com) earned its distinction as the best tasting room in America, according to none other than USA Today. But rather than striking an exclusionary note, this welcoming winery empowers its guests to dictate their own experience. Founder Lloyd Davis fondly refers to his visitors as “wine experts” and argues that only you can determine what pleases your palate. What an apt metaphor for gay life!

Particularly pleasing is the NV Sparkline Rose. Corner 103 has a history of producing Gold Medal winning Sparkling Wine, and their current release will not disappoint. It was crafted from Pinot Noir (70%), Chardonnay (25%) and Pinot Meunier (5%). This beautiful salmon-colored wine is refreshing and opens with inviting aromas of strawberry and peach. Flavors of freshly picked strawberry and raspberry dance upon the palate, with a satisfying full finish. It received a Silver Medal in the San Francisco Chronicle Wine Competition. So, corner the market on satisfaction with a stop at Corner 103.

Blending a hearty Hungarian robustness with the laid-back vibes of California, En Garde Winery (engardewinery.com) is your passport to transcendence. Known for their luxe tasting room in Kenwood, California, En Garde is sharing their award-winning Cabs and Pinots with the grateful travelers along Route 12. One standout selection is the 2021 Pinot Noir “Passion de la Reine” Russian River Valley Reserve, which received 95 points from Steve Heimoff. The velvety texture of this Pinot Noir is a true Reserve. This lush offering has a spicy finish and is delicious now and for years to come. Also not to be missed, is the winner of San Francisco Magazine’s Award for Best Red Dessert Wine in 2021, En Garde’s Grand Vin de Dessert Port. A port style Cabernet Franc and Cabernet Sauvignon with a touch of Zinfandel. This port is silky and seductive.

As you venture west into the swirling depths of Sonoma County, you will encounter a charmingly rustic rural berg called Sebastopol. Once there, be sure to trot over to Iron Horse Vineyards (ironhorsevineyards.com) home to libations as bubbly as you are. This gay-friendly enclave is renowned for its sparkling wines, like

Sonoma County’s GAY WINE WEEKEND

Friday, July 14 - Sunday, July 16

Enjoy three days of LGBTQ+ celebration in Sonoma Wine Country.

Gay Wine Weekend takes place this year in the Russian River Valley & Healdsburg wine region of Sonoma County, with all-new venues, wineries, restaurants, and more! Participants can partake in winemaker dinners, winery tours, Twighlight T-Dance, drag brunch and even a pool party. Join in a weekend of wine and celebration.

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the 2018 Wedding Cuvée. Receiving 94 points from Wine Spectator, the Wedding Cuvée is perfect for any wedding (gay or straight), this fruity mélange drizzles through your senses like spun gold, beckoning you to indulge further. The Iron Horse 2019 Rainbow Cuvée toasts to diversity. And you may even see a rainbow as Iron Horse Estate is a prime location for rainbow sightings when the sun meets the fog.

The yummy brick road unfurls further to the humble hamlet of Graton, where you will find Marimar Estate Vineyards & Winery (marimarestate.com). The playful hills give birth to the perfect conditions for Pinot Noir and Chardonnay grapes to flourish with one of the richest, smoothest products in Sonoma County. Marimar has the perfect summertime wines for a warm summer evening spent with good friends and scrumptious snacks! Unwind after a day of activities in the sunshine with the 2021 Albariño - this aromatic white variety comes from northwest Spain and has engaging aromas of honeysuckle and gardenia, crisp and zesty on the palate with a note of sunshine from California; and a classic Russian River Valley Pinot Noir in the 2018 La Masía Pinot Noir from Green Valley which is the coolest region of

the Russian River. The firm tannins, balance, and elegance of this pinot pairs perfectly with any dish.

Due north, you’re due for a splash of expertise minus the pretention that often accompanies true mastery. Winemaker Theresa Heredia is a verified vino visionary, and she brings a breadth of knowledge as vast as the Healdsburg hills to her work at Gary Farrell Winery (garyfarrellwinery.com).

Her 2019 Bacigalupi Chardonnay is a triumph of refinement and complexity balancing notes of raw honey with lighter flourishes of chamomile and citrus. “I strongly believe in the Russian River Valley’s capacity to consistently produce world class wines,” declares Heredia, a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community.“The key is cool breezes and fog from the nearby Pacific Ocean blanket.”

Gary Farrell Winery

Marimar Estate Vineyards

Going through Guerneville, the mecca of gay in the Russian River, you’ll find Equality Vines (equalityvines.com). No Pride period would be complete without a healthy splash of social consciousness, and Equality Vines is fiercely committed to the causes that pulse through our collective hearts and souls. The co-founders of Equality are Matt Grove and Jim Obergefell. If that second name ring-a-ding-dings a bell, that’s because Obergefell was the plaintiff in the Supreme Court case that ultimately made samesex marriage legal in America, but that was just an appetizer.

Now, Obergefell and Grove are serving up justice, one sip at a time. Proceeds from the sales of their wines go to such organizations as Lambda Legal, Equal Rights Advocates and the LGBTQ Connection. The Love Wins Sparkling Rosé celebrates the landmark Supreme Court Marriage Equality Decision, with its crisp, light notes of strawberries, and dry finish. But our fave label? That has got to be Rosé the Riveter, a light, lemony, luscious vintage dedicated to empowering women and counteracting racism. So, sip your worries away knowing that you’re making a difference.

Inclusion is the quilt that stitches together these triumphant tasting rooms. Just down the road from Guerneville, we arrive at a small township called Duncans Mills. It is an unincorporated village with unbelievable treasures. Guests flock to Sophie’s Cellars (sophiescellars.com) a wine bar that raises the bar. Set against a pastoral outcropping, patrons gather to gaze and graze; the

views offer rural serenity while the noshes ignite one’s cosmopolitan sophistication.

Run by local wine expert Alice Hunter, Sophie’s curates vintages from throughout Sonoma County. Their menu features everything from the fragrant acidity of the 2019 Halleck Dry Gewurztraminer to the raspberry-and-cherry note 2016 Cazadero Cabernet. This cellar gets you in on the ground floor of gourmet tasting with down home hospitality.

Continuing to our northernmost point in Geyserville is Rancho Maria Wines (ranchomaria.com) tasting room, where it’s“Rosé all Day” and we’ll drink to that! Co-founded by Sebastian Juarez, in the Fall of 2011, Rancho Maria Wines is a family owned and operated vineyard located in the heart of the Dry Creek Valley, known for their old vine Zinfandel and Petite Sirah. Their 2019 Full Monte is a wine packed with dark fruit and tannin comprised of 47% Zinfandel, 38% Grenache, and 15% Cabernet Sauvignon.

Down the 101 to Healdsburg we go, with a stop on the picturesque Healdsburg Square and Roadhouse Winery (roadhousewinery.com) showcasing a selection of small batch wines with huge flavors. Created in 2010, Roadhouse Winery is heralded for their Pinot Noirs, and considers the full spectrum of how wine interacts with our gastronomic and olfactory systems. For example, the 2016 Platinum Label dances on your nose in an eternal waltz between its cherry earthiness and lavender caress. Their tasting room on the square pampers you with one-on-one attention and customizable wine experiences.You can even

And if you happen to be visiting Southern California this season – we have news that will perk up your taste buds like a quirky Cabernet. Some of these amazing vintners from Sonoma County are coming to Palm Springs for EQUALITY WINE FEST. This first-of-its-kind event, is featuring some of the best LGBTQ+, BIPOC, and Women produced wines in the state of California and beyond. Visit equalitywinefest. com for all the details and to purchase tickets for this festival highlighting diversity on July 1st in Palm Springs at the Margaritaville Resort Grand Ballroom. equalitywinefest.com

You can keep your proverbial glass full of Sonoma knowhow when you join the ranks of the LGBT Wine Society. A Sonoma Wine Map, events, resources, and camaraderie are just a click (or clink) away when you celebrate the finer things our extended gay family has to offer. LGBTwinesociety.com

Rancho Maria Wines

browse the curated collection of vinyl records for sale while you sip. Roadhouse is gloriously gay-owned, and founder Eric Hall is capital-P Proud to feature his handmade offerings to the SoCal community.

Feeling peckish? Just two blocks from Roadhouse sits Healsdburg’s hottest new eatery, Lo & Behold Bar + Kitchen. In their first year, owners Tara, Laura and Sean have received numerous accolades for their modern take on mouth-watering comfort food, cheerful hospitality, hand crafted cocktails and inviting canopy-covered garden patio. Insider-tip: try their kicky “almost famous” chicken tenders served with homemade ranch dressing and Mason’s pickles or their crispy egg rolls with black mushroom, hot mustard and truffle sauce. You’ll see what all the buzz is about.

If you are traveling to Sonoma via San Francisco, and want to celebrate with some festive fermentations right in ‘The City’, be sure to hit up

the new Eco Terreno Tasting Room (ecoterreno. com) on Columbus Avenue, serving up their Pride Rosé which embodies the spirit of the season with its bright and airy mouth feel and refreshing finish. Mark Lyon, the former winemaker at Sebastiani, where he was revered as the catalyst to elevating their reputation for world-renowned wines and vineyard sites, is the founder of Eco Terreno and brings nearly four decades of vintner prowess to each glass that sprouts from his fertile imagination. Lyon has perfected the art of biodynamic farming. He embraces the natural rhythms of the Russian River and, in turn, the landscape hugs him back. It is a love story that only an LGBTQ+ winemaker could craft. Another favorite, the 2018 Sansara Sauvignon Blanc, is a brilliant, light, greenish-gold in your glass – silky smooth with flavors of pear and melon – presents a delightful aperitif or pairing with some Somona County goat cheese. ■

If you’re visiting Sonoma and have a spirit of adventure, try one of these unique lodging experiences:

• AutoCamp Russian River - Stay in your own Airstream trailer or fully outfitted tent. Glamping at its finest. autocamp.com

• Duncan House - Why rent a room when you can have an entire 1880’s luxury 4-bedroom farmhouse with jacuzzi? Bring the gang. DuncanHouse1880.com

• The Woods Cottages & Cabins - Walking distance to all the Guerneville hot spots. Newly renovated rooms and is now clothing optional. russianriverhotel.com

• The Astro Motel - A cool mid-century experience in downtown Santa Rosa. www.theastro.com

Sophies Cellars

BYRON LANE INVITES US TO A BIG GAY WEDDING

BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ

BYRON LANE’S LOVE AFFAIR WITH WORDS IS FAR FROM LANGUISHING. Winning two regional Emmy Awards for his time as a TV journalist, he went on to write for and appear on the stage and screen. Remember the odd but highly successful stage piece Tilda Swinton Answers an Ad on Craigslist? That was from his mind. Three years ago, he made the leap into novel writing with A Star is Bored, a fictional homage to his time working for Carrie Fisher, a master of words herself. The book barely hit the shelves as it was scooped up by critics and readers alike. It was a smashing success. It made the top book lists for People, Town & Country, Harper’s Bazaar, Parade Magazine, New York Times Review, USA Today, and the NY Post, with the list going on and on - not to mention that social media frenzy it stirred with celebs from the LGBTQ world and beyond touting his book. We had the honor of chatting with him as his debut novel was released. That’s when we fell in love with the man behind the keyboard. Unassuming and soft-spoken, he is a force of optimistic and infectious energy. He is what his books promote – sincere love and affection. He somehow turns the conversation around, asking how you are and what you are going through to the point you don’t know if the conversation will result in laughs or tears with it most times having a bit of both.

This summer, he’s back with his sophomore novel, Big Gay Wedding: A Novel. It has been said in the literary world that a follow-up book is a bigger test for a writer than the first. There are deadlines, there are economic pressures set by the first book, and there are expectations set by readers and critics. Can a successful debut novelist recapture lighting in a bottle? List after list

IF PRIDE EVER MEANT ANYTHING, IT MUST MEAN EVERYTHING NOW.”

of media outlets and critics have touted Big Gay Wedding as one of the most anticipated and best reads of 2023. Having read an advance copy, I can enthusiastically say this is what you loved about A Star Is Bored and even more. With more pathos than his first book, he weaves emotion, humor, and gayness into a masterfully told story that is both charming and important. Basically put, the book deals with the homecoming of the hero Barnett to a small Louisiana farm town to announce to his mother that he is getting married … to a man. Though his mother knew he was gay, it was never such a definite issue and she certainly has her reservations. As the story unfolds, Barnett’s fiancé and family invade the farm and it is decided the wedding will take place on the farm. Hilarity ensues as mother and town must adjust to all the gayness being thrust upon them. Was Lane nervous in writing this follow-up? How did he choose this story?

The process of writing anything for me always has been scary from the plays and the web series stuff, the first book, and then the second book. I was lucky that I had an editor who was very encouraging. My partner, Steven Rowley, and I had just gotten married and we had a very small gay wedding. I remember talking to my editor, James Melia, about what should the next book be. We tossed around some ideas and he pointed out, you know, you just had a little gay wedding and do you have any ideas for a book about maybe a BIG gay wedding? And I thought, all right, well, what would that look like in the world and what would that look like in my world of this guy from Louisiana? I’m a Southern guy, conservative background, religious background, so what would’ve happened if I would’ve brought the big gay marriage to the South? That’s where the idea came from.

On a more serious note, the book does deal with homophobia, hate crimes, forgiveness towards those who rally against our community, and the real definition of unconditional love. With so much political and social hate directed towards our community, did he think titling the book Big Gay Wedding would be limiting its offthe-shelf appeal?

I think it is not just wise, but important. I hope people think that it’s brave in some way. And now is the time to be brave. Now is the time to refuse to be eradicated from public life and public space. If Pride ever meant anything, it must mean EVERYTHING now; now really is the time for

Pride. I’m going to be 45 soon and, for me, Pride has always been evolving. It really started for me way back in 2008 with gay marriage stuff and Prop 8 [CA amendment to ban same-sex marriage] very early on. Now, at this age, I look around and I see the horrible things that are happening with our trans brothers and sisters and our non-binary friends. It really is time to be proud to show our pride and to be loud. And if having a title, Big Gay Wedding with a couple of guys holding hands on the cover in a bookstore can be any kind of flag for that, I’m here for it.

Big Gay Wedding has the substance and sincerity of Byron’s first novel, but, being told in the third person rather than first, the characters have evolved. Lane has this talent of connecting with a character so the reader knows in an instant who this person is, how they feel, and how they think.

We go into the minds of all (these) characters. I hope it shows some growth on my part in an ability to round out these stories

- a mother who is desperate to connect with her son and who has to experience her own sort of coming out as being supportive of a gay son; the gay son who has to wrangle his maybe impatience and frustration with a mom who’s moving a little bit too slow and coming to acceptance; and a grandfather who in the book is named Paw-Paw (in real life, I did have a Paw-Paw and Maw-Maw) who lives in a nursing home and forced to watch Glee and has had his own evolution on what gay life means and that it’s acceptable and loving and who cares? You’ve got all these rich characters and I’m grateful that I’m able to explore each one so in-depth.

Being gay has helped me with characters because, growing up, I’ve had to protect myself constantly. And so sometimes I feel like I’m a little bit of a scared puppy or something where you have to just be on alert and know like, okay, these are some bad vibes, this person doesn’t have my best interest in heart. Even growing up with

I HOPE IN MY WRITING AND IN MY WORK, I’M ABLE TO BRING THOSE LITTLE MOMENTS OF LEVITY, THOSE GREAT LESSONS ABOUT THE JOY OF THIS EXISTENCE.”

strict parents, I didn’t want to step on dad’s toes. And I think a lot of gay people can relate to that. Is my teacher making fun of me, or is she being supportive? Riding the bus to school the guys in the back would shoot spitballs at me and I remember so vividly looking at the driver, I could see him in the rearview mirror, he had dark sunglasses on. I never knew if he was really looking back and wondering why doesn’t he help me? Why doesn’t he protect me? So, I think some of what I can bring to writing is a little bit of that hypersensitivity and an ability to kind of craft these people because I’ve met these people.

In addition to LGBTQ themes, the book deals a lot with getting older and death. Not to give anything away, but there are a few instances where the finality of life and where we go from here come into play. Lane’s dealing with the subject matter is delicate yet still heart-wrenching.

I think all the time about the duality of comedy and drama and then sometimes

I’m snapped into the space where I think, wait a minute, is it really just one thing? Is it really just one experience that we’re all having? And when I worked for Carrie Fisher, she always talked about taking your broken heart and making art. She always talked about finding the humor in a bad situation because then what’s the point of the situation? No one wants to live in a world where everything is just bad. I do notice that if I can slow down for a second, if I can open my eyes a little bit wider, if I can see a bigger picture, often terrible things do have these moments of humor, and it can bring levity, it can bring inspiration. They can be moments of growth and healing. So, to me, it really is just so important to acknowledge that they are so connected, drama and comedy.

Having to work through drama is something Byron knows all too well. He is a two-time cancer survivor. His loss of hair, his chemo, and the return of cancer were all shared on his social media. He

wasn’t shying away from life. In addition, he lost Carrie Fisher who had gone from boss to friend. Then, he had to deal with the loss of his beloved canine companion, Tilda. How has loss affected Byron’s daily life?

I had cancer in 2015, and they said, well, testicular cancer is easy to treat, no big deal, just relax. And I was like, all right. Then it came back in 2020, and I had to have chemo. Suddenly I’m like, well, wait a minute. Can it come back again? And they’re saying, oh, the odds are so low. And I’m thinking, you know what? I’ve heard that before. You do think about mortality.

I’m sitting there getting chemo and I’m looking around me at these mostly elderly people who are getting these infusions and crying out in pain. You can’t help but think, wow, we’re all kind of fragile here. There’s a part of it that makes you think, I need to live in the moment. I need to embrace the present. This is really important. And then here’s where it gets a little bit crazy. Once I started thinking like that, suddenly the present seemed really beautiful, even while I was getting chemo. One thing I remember so vividly is this old lady getting her chemo. She would pass the time by knitting, always knitting, and we were always freezing cold. They kept the room cold, the medicines were cold, and everyone was freezing all the time. So, she was knitting and one day she came up to me and asked, “Hey, do you like color?” And I thought, oh God, is this going to be some kind of gay thing that’s about to happen? I replied, “Yeah, sure, I think so.” She continued, “You like rainbows?” And I was like, “Oh, yeah.” She stated, “I knitted this for you.” And she pulls out of her bag a rainbow knitted cap and gave that to me and talked to me about her daughter and her life and all these wonderful things. It was just such a beautiful moment.

Thinking about death and sometimes getting lost in that sadness made me focus on the present. Once you start focusing on the present, I started realizing, oh my God, there are so many beautiful moments here too. That was a great gift. I hope in my writing and in my work, I’m able to bring those little moments of levity, those great lessons about the joy of this existence, to the page.

Byron’s characters in Big Gay Wedding each go through their own evolution with unconditional love. Unconditional love has been a journey for Byron in real life. He has found his soul mate with

his husband, acclaimed writer Stephen Rowley. The two live in Palm Springs, sharing the squabbles of married life and unmade beds but also sharing the successes that have come their way. As gay men, not everyone finds their mate, and not everyone experiences that unconditional love from their family.

It really breaks my heart and it reminds me of growing up. My dad was really strict and I always wanted to please him. I sometimes think of that hypothetical where you go back and tell your younger self something, I would go back and tell my younger self, hey, you will never make him happy. This thing they call unconditional love, you will never get from him. So just put that on the back burner and live your life. Do your best, and be a good person. When I think about what that would’ve given younger Byron, I think it would’ve given him a little bit more freedom. Sometimes that’s just part of it. There are people who just aren’t going to love, and it sucks and it’s awful. We don’t have to reinvent the wheel here. We can look at the cliches - it gets better. That’s true. It WILL get better. Love yourself.

Big Gay Wedding is available everywhere, just in time for Pride season. The audiobook version is voiced by actor Noah Galvin, who also narrated Bryon’s first book. As for Bryon’s future … will there be a book three? Of course. While working on screen adaptations of his work, there will always be a book in the future.

And his message to the LGBTQ community this Pride?

Smile, baby! Take that smile and bring it to the streets. Let’s do it. This is the time to be proud. This is the time to really let it show. I have my whole life struggled with this idea of pride, but it really clicked for me when someone said that pride is very simply the opposite of shame. And that makes so much sense to me. We should not be ashamed of any part of our life, and we should not be ashamed of any part of our community. And when I look at these parades, and I think of it through that lens, I’m so proud. I’m so proud of the beautiful people, I’m so proud of the beautiful communities. I’m so proud of the different types of people, the different types of lifestyles. Put on that smile and get out there and let’s all do it together. ■

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ARI SHAPIRO

SHARING

THE STORIES

AND EXPERIENCES THAT SHAPED HIS LIFE

BY STEVE GOTTFRIED

HAVING GROWN UP LISTENING TO NATIONAL PUBLIC RADIO AS A KID, IT MIGHT SEEM PRE-ORDAINED THAT ARI SHAPIRO WOULD SOMEDAY BECOME THE UBIQUITOUS VOICE OF NPR’S FLAGSHIP NEWS PROGRAM ALL THINGS CONSIDERED But things are rarely as simple as they might appear on the surface. Ari Shapiro was somewhat of a unicorn growing up Jewish in Fargo, North Dakota in the 1980s. By the time his family relocated to Portland, Shapiro would come to terms with another layer of his identity as a gay teenager. Shapiro has since racked up an impressive resume that includes a twenty-year career at NPR as well as an enviable side-hustle performing with the world renowned, genre-spanning band Pink Martini. Shapiro’s circuitous path to becoming the ultimate multi-hyphenate phenomenon that he is today is unpacked and dissected in his new book The Best Strangers in the World: Stories from a Life Spent Listening. The book, which has earned rave reviews and became an instant New York Times bestseller upon publication, is an engrossing and enlightening read, chock full of amusing anecdotes and life lessons, big and small which touch the heart and soul.

There is something very unusual about the relationship that I as a journalist have with people who I meet in the course of my work, because I might only interact with somebody for 15 minutes or an hour ever in their entire lives and we might never see each other again. And yet, those 15 minutes, or that hour together, can create a profound connection that is no less real, for being fleeting. And so, when I talk with somebody who may be experiencing the worst day of their lives, whether it’s

a natural disaster, or a war, or a mass shooting, the act of them telling their story, and me, really listening, and allowing them to share their experience with me, is a form of communion that I do not take lightly. The phrase, The Best Strangers in the World, comes from a work of art that a friend of mine created, having nothing to do with my occupation. But I think it’s a very apt phrase, to describe the sort of beautiful and unusual privilege that I have to connect with people all over the world

in such a wide variety of circumstances.

In the introductory chapter, you share the story of how you came out to your parents while you were still in high school, before you’d even kissed a boy. Tell me about how you had the courage and the presence of mind to do that so fearlessly at such a young age.

I remember thinking to myself, I’m going to have to do this sooner or later. And the sooner I do it, the sooner I can get on with my life, the sooner it will become a non-issue.

And it’s never going to be easy. It’s never going to be painless. So I might as well just take the plunge. And as I say in the book, this was before I had even kissed a boy. It’s not that I was living a double life. It was that I didn’t want to live a double life. I wanted to figure out what this piece of me meant integrated into all of the other pieces of me. And I thought the only way to do that was by being honest and starting that process of discovery in a transparent way.

The year was 1988 – which means Shapiro was likely around 10 years old. Monette was discussing his latest book Borrowed Time: an AIDS memoir which was considered a groundbreaking and profoundly personal firsthand account of the AIDS epidemic.

I remember hearing the interview and the respect that Terry Gross gave him as a gay man. And thinking that it was the first time I had heard a gay person listened to and spoken to as somebody worthy of their time and attention. Until then, the only stories I had seen and heard about gay people were either stereotypes and caricatures, or as villains or people dying of AIDS. So, I remember that moment, thinking oh,

being gay can mean something more than just the stereotypes that I had seen in pop culture.

One of your early assignments at NPR was responding to listener mail. And then, when you became a bona fide journalist in your own right, you got your own mail. And you share some of those letters, some of which were not complimentary. One called you a“faggy, pushy, annoying smart-ass” and another told you to “Butch up.”

I love hate mail. I think when somebody takes the time to write in and say something, even if it’s something hostile and rude, it means they were listening. It means they were paying attention. And if they didn’t like what they heard, I’m happy to get a letter in the mail that informs me of their views on the program I’m making. And so I love hate mail. I collect it and, as I describe in the book, display it for people who stop by my office to see.

One of my favorite chapters “You Can’t See Schvitz on the Radio” deals with your propensity to sweat profusely. It’s something you address very candidly in the book with a measure of humor. Amidst your impressive achievements, it’s reassuring to see that you have human foibles like the rest of us.

I wanted that to be kind of a break from some of the heavier things in the book. I think it’s important for people who are successful to talk about the moments that they have struggled and failed, and experienced setbacks, because it’s easy for people to look at successful individuals and assume that success is the opposite of failure, when in fact, failure is a step on the path to success. And every successful person I know has failed in myriad ways. And if we don’t talk about that, then people experiencing failure will feel like they’re doing something wrong, when in fact, you’re doing something, right. Because if you’re not failing, you’re not challenging yourself.

Shapiro describes another incident in the book in which a seeming failure turned into a fortuitous experience that would go on to pay unexpected dividends. Shapiro was approached about developing a one-man cabaret at an event space in Georgetown. Not one to shy away from a challenge, Shapiro attacked it with characteristic gusto, crafting an ambitious piece that drew on his experience as a foreign correspondent, learning lyrics to songs in six different languages. Much to his surprise, the first performance went so well that he decided to try to replicate it at Joe’s Pub, one of New York’s most venerated performance venues. Booking a gig at Joe’s Pub gives one immediate street cred, so the stakes were substantively higher. When his performance fell short, it shook his confidence. As he writes in his book:“I beat myself up, trying to fight the growing suspicion that I was just a pretentious dilettante and a poseur.” But he still had one more show to do and Alan Cumming – yes, that Alan Cumming -- was coming with his husband to see his show. Ari and Alan had crossed paths before at various functions and had struck up a camaraderie. Ari dreaded the thought of bombing in front of his celebrity pal, but then inspiration struck. He asked Alan if he would join him on stage for a Scottish number that was part of his act. Luckily Alan was game and this time, the show was salvaged.

The thing that I said earlier about failure applies to this as well, because when I did my solo show at Joe’s Pub, I thought that it went terribly. But Alan Cumming sang a song with me as part of that show. And years later, he and I created a show together, which we are still performing all over the country. We just finished a sold-out two-week run at the Café Carlyle in New York. That would never have happened if it weren’t for the moment at Joe’s Pub that I thought went terribly. It underscores the point about failure being a step on the path

to success rather than the opposite of success.

You’ve played some prestigious venues as a member of Pink Martini including Carnegie Hall and the Hollywood Bowl. Café Carlyle has its own aura of prestige. What was it like performing there?

It felt like such a privilege to be in that room on that stage, where so many legends have performed over the years from Elaine Stritch to Eartha Kitt. There’s a moment in the show where Alan sings a song and I step back. And my temptation was to lean against the wall. And then I realized that the wall is painted with a beautiful mural that has been there for decades and is an important work of art. And so to be able to bring our show to that space was an experience I will never forget.

Shapiro credits his friendship with Cumming for providing the impetus to write the book.

One of the things that Alan taught me is to keep challenging yourself and keep doing things that are scary and risky and that you might fail at. For me, writing a book was one of those things. I have a lot of experience telling stories on the radio. But those are stories about other people. Writing a memoir is very different because first of all, you’re writing for the eye, not for the ear. Second of all, I’m at the center of the story, as opposed to the people I’m talking about on All Things Considered. So that was scary, and it was a risk.

In the chapter titled“The Whole World Falls In” you talk about your annual pilgrimage to a commune in a remote area off the grid in Nashville where you spend a week with a diverse crosssection of LGBTQ+ folk who identify as “radical faeries.” The movement has been described as a countercultural movement seeking to redefine queer consciousness. As a card-carrying faerie, having attended these gatherings since 2008, you say in your book how the experience has affected the way you move through the world, including the way you practice journalism.

You know, the thing that I love about the Faeries is the way that it allows intergenerational connection, which I think is so hard to find in queer spaces. Most places that LGBTQ people gather these days, is very segmented along generational lines. And I think the Radical Faerie movement is one of the few places that allows LGBTQ people to learn from their elders, and particularly in moments of adversity like this one. The fact that queer people who may never have fought these battles before, can talk to people who lived through the AIDS crisis, or lived through the

Stonewall riots, or dealt with other forms of hostility that have so defined LGBTQ life is really important. I think one of the things that has defined queer existence in the United States and around the world, is finding a way to not only survive in the face of hardship and adversity, but to thrive and experience joy in the face of that hostility. And so the Faerie movement, I think, is key in that it allows us to learn from those who came before us and not have to reinvent the wheel every time it feels like we are facing a significant hurdle that may seem insurmountable.

In light of what’s going on in the United States with DeSantis and the “Don’t Say Gay” law and the book banning, what is the best strategy to mount a resistance?

My role is not to strategize how to mount a resistance. Somebody once asked me, how I can use my experience and identity. My answer was, I don’t see my role as trying to influence, I see my role as trying to illuminate. My goal is to help people better understand each other and the world that we live in. And so, I think about empathy, I think about how

to view the world through the eyes of others. And I think about how to better bridge the divides that are separating us. And that’s not to dismiss the importance of those who strategize and campaign and influence, but that’s not me.

In the book, you describe how you and your brother were kind of junior ambassadors for Judaism where you grew up in North Dakota because there were so few Jewish people. In terms of your Judaism, how would you characterize your Jewish identity and how does it overlap with your gay identity?

I think being a member of any marginalized group allows you to see the scaffolding of society a bit more clearly, because fish are not necessarily aware of the water that they swim in. And if you aren’t certain whether you belong in that water or not, it’s a bit easier to perceive it. And so, I’m Jewish, but I’m not observant. I celebrate the holidays. My husband and I have a Passover Seder every year, but I think one of the most important things that Judaism taught me was a culture of questioning and not taking things for granted and always asking why. And that’s something that applies to my work as a journalist every day. ■

BY EMILIO MADRID • COLOMBIA PHOTO BY RYAN KELLMAN/NPR

JOEY SOLOWAY

TELLING OUR STORIES

BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ

JUST SHORT OF A DECADE AGO, AMAZON DEBUTED TRANSPARENT, A DRAMEDY FOCUSED ON THE COMING OUT OF A TRANS MATRIARCH AND THE AFFECT IT HAD ON A CONTEMPORARY JEWISH FAMILY, EACH DISCOVERING THEIR OWN IDENTITY IN THIS FASTPACED AND EVER-CHANGING WORLD. This unlikely hit became the first show produced by Amazon Studios to win a major award and the first show produced by a streaming media service to win a Golden Globe for Best Series. The show was created by Emmy-winning TV impresario Joey Soloway, based upon their own parent’s coming out as transgender. The evocative writing, the stellar cast, and the critical acclaim challenged Hollywood as to the limits of LGBTQ programming and if the nation was ready for such controversial topics. The show enjoyed four seasons and a full-scale musical and feature-length finale. Now, four years later, the show returns in reincarnated form as A Transparent Musical, a new stage piece, making its debut at Los Angeles’ Mark Taper Forum just in time for Pride and American Jewish Heritage Months. As our nation’s trans community faces political persecution, the arts once again comes forward to fight back.

Joey Soloway returns to the world of Transparent as the show’s book co-writer. Even after the TV

show’s finale, Transparent continues to be a discussion piece as more and more LGBTQ programming gets mainstream Hollywood treatment. Did Joey have any idea that the show would have such critical and audience success?

I don’t know if I expected the level of success we had with the show, but it did feel like it was going to be important somehow. The pilot was released on Amazon and within days critics were getting into what it meant. There is no better process where people can see a pilot like that.

It was all so unlikely. This tiny personal story that all of the networks passed on, and that Amazon, because of their process at the time, was allowed to be almost an indie pilot. The TV industry has totally transformed since then, of course, and we are now at the end of the bubble that was created when Netflix and Amazon entered the awards arena.

A Transparent Musical features the same beloved characters from the TV show, but in an original story that audiences unfamiliar with the show can get into. Why resurrect these characters in musical form?

Well, it’s more like these characters keep singing to us. Faith (Soloway) has always been writing this music and this is the music of our family and a lifetime of dreaming about musical classics like Jesus Christ Superstar, Fiddler, and Hair.

There’s something so emotional in telling human stories through song. We’re finding that this musical production is taking us deeper and deeper into universal human experiences, with family, with finding one’s truth, with learning how to love each other better. The music expresses feelings in a visceral way. People just seem to be able to drop so deeply into feeling when they’re in that sacred space of the theater, and they are listening to people and instruments, singing and alive.

We all have authentic selves and even though there may be obstacles to finding and expressing ourselves, when we do, we can become free. Naming our own reality, whether or not it is corroborated by society - is an actual privilege. People walking into this theater and bringing in binary versions of reality will be challenged to find a logic. The relationship - the love and the tension - between transness and Judaism is the deep background of this show. On top of those complicated ideas are songs you can’t stop singing in your head. And this familiar family, these feelings, are still alive.

This show will mark the first time a story written by transgender and nonbinary artists takes the stage at the Mark Taper Forum, a theater space devoted to premiering and showcasing provocative and socially relevant work since 1967. After its LA debut, Joey’s eyes are on Broadway and beyond.

I hope and believe that audiences everywhere will relate to the subject matter and love the songs. We need to tell trans stories wherever there are trans people - and that’s everywhere!

A Transparent Musical remains a family affair with Joey’s sister Faith, who wrote for the TV version and returns to the franchise as the musical’s composer and lyricist.

Faith and I have worked together our entire lives. We used to put on plays in our neighborhood when we were kids. We are and always have been each other’s best audience. This is the culmination - or just the very beginning - of Faith’s journey as an artist and I cannot believe I get to witness it!

As a prolific screenwriter, Joey’s medium has now adapted to include playwriting. In addition to creating a whole new medium, they co-wrote this piece with playwright and television writer MJ Kaufman, an award-winning artist whose work has literally played the globe, progressing the representation of trans characters on the stage.

It’s been interesting working with a playwright after my experience in television. I’ve learned so much from MJ! It’s a completely other kind of art form and moves at a totally different pace than film or TV. Faith and I have been creating theater and musicals together for decades but it was always very DIY, doing our own tech, I think often back in the day I was in the sound booth. This amazing machine that is the theater process involves so many distinguished technicians, artists, musicians, and collaborators that most of the time as I witness it, I am in utter awe.

Joey hopes that this musical is the first of many. Personally, they relate most to Ari, the musical’s main character and the family’s youngest sibling who is on their journey to true nonbinary identity. Soloway identifies as non-binary and gender nonconforming, changing their name to Joey in 2020.

The musical continues the TV’s version exploration of the intersection of Jewish and queer history, and how the two co-exist in modern times, in an age where hate crimes continue to plague both groups.

Isn’t it always Jewish people and Queer people who are the first victims of fascism? These are some terrifying times and that’s why it’s so important for us to tell our stories. It’s easier to dehumanize us when you don’t know us. Let’s come together and love each other, protect each other, learn from each other. It really applies to all people.

Joey is a trailblazer in challenging the norms of minority characters in entertainment. With a hand in shows like Dirty Sexy Money, Grey’s Anatomy, and United States of Tara, it was another show that made TV history that would curate Joey’s voice: Six Feet Under.

The hardest jobs were the ones where I wasn’t heard, but as I gained experience, I found my voice and learned how to use it. I learned so much from Alan Ball when he hired me to write on Six Feet Under. So much of how he ran that show and his respect for the writers and actors has influenced me in my work. When Alan trusted me, it taught me to trust myself and my story-telling instincts.

Six Feet Under changed. When Alan Ball hired me, he said he knew I could write Claire. He was very insightful in that way, looking at the writers themselves as a way to channel the characters on the show. I felt so much about Brenda and Ruth and all of the women on that show. I remember that Kate Robin - who is also a playwright - and I both felt that we were some of the first people getting to write these really raw, human women.

With Joey being a part of the advancement of our community’s narrative in entertainment, and seeing our current boom in representation, where do they see the future of LGBTQ+ and gender non-conforming entertainers?

I hope that all of us continue to have more opportunities to tell our stories, and that we keep opening up what’s possible when you challenge the rigidity of the binary.

And their message to the trans community this Pride?

I love you! You’re beautiful and amazing and seen.

A Transparent Musical will run through June 25th, with performances all throughout the week. ■

Tickets and show info are available at Centertheatregroup.org

THERE’S SOMETHING SO EMOTIONAL IN TELLING HUMAN STORIES THROUGH SONG.”

DAMIAN TERRIQUEZ LIVING A GLAMOROUS LIFE

BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ

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WE LOVE THE RETURN OF A DIVA, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT’S KIM CATTRALL. After pleasing the gays with Sex in the City and the reboot of Queer as Folk, she returns to the screen in Netflix’ Glamorous, just in time for Pride season. The show celebrates queerness and our community, centering on the life of Marco, a gender nonconforming queer youth on their journey to figure life out. Making a splash as Marco’s friend Dizmal, a drag queen who performs at the nightclub where the show is centered, is one of the top non-binary Latinx actors to watch out for this year, Damian Terriquez. Damian joins Drag Race luminaries Monet X Change and Priyanka, holding their own and often stealing the spotlight. New to the screen, this Hollywood newcomer has already had featured roles in Netflix’s That 90’s Show, HBO Max’s The Sex Lives of College Girls, and OWN’s All Rise, sharing their journey of embracing their true, non-binary self while redefining makeup and beauty standards for all. Not only are they having their moment on-screen, but they also taking over red carpets with their signature looks. WERK! This world traveler and multi-lingual activist has led a colorful life, belying their young age. Damian’s life already needs an on-screen treatment.

Born in San Diego and raised in Tijuana, Mexico, Damian’s love affair with entertainment would blossom while they watched movies in the office where their mom had to work.

I would pick up a movie on my walk from elementary school to my mom’s office at Hollywood Video and we would return it at the end of the day before we went home. There were so many movies I watched in the back of that office. I loved the escapism of the early 2000’s superhero/fantasy/action- adventure movies. Van Helsing, Underworld, Elektra, and the original X-Men trilogy were all the pinnacle of what movies were for me at the time. Although I never thought I would someday get to be on the lots where those movies were made, let alone in front of the camera as an actor.

Damian is proud of their Latin heritage. Growing up in a Mexican culture tends to be laden with hypermasculine norms thrust on the males of a family. Damian’s experience was unique and allowed them to explore who they were.

It wasn’t as machismo as it might have been had I been in a different pocket of my own family. By that, I mean that I was raised in a HUGE matriarchal family. My grandmother was the eldest of 13 siblings and as her grandson, I was afforded a certain amount of grace. Again, I was raised by a single mother and the majority of my family consists of women, so I have always been around feminine energy and sensibilities. Also, with a family as large

as mine (my grandma being one of 13 and my mom being one of 9), there’s a certain strength in numbers where no one is ever the first to do anything so things hardly ever come as a shock. That being said, there are always two sides and some of my family that still lives in rural Mexico is not the most open-minded. But it’s been really great to see everyone come together and rally behind me and what I’m trying to accomplish with my career.

Damian’s identity would evolve over time, owing their self-expression to … shoes?

I always knew I liked guys. I remember so vividly having a crush on this boy named Michael in my pre-school and I was never really ashamed or bothered by it. I was incredibly lucky to be raised by the mom that I have and I think the only reason it took until I was 13 to “come out” is because I didn’t know I had to. The gender expression aspect of my identity now didn’t come until much later. I studied fashion and marketing in university and just found women’s clothing and design so much more interesting than that of the male counterpart. It was a slow exploration of what felt like me and what didn’t. It’s difficult to decide who you are in one fell swoop and even more so to stick with one definition of what you see yourself as for a lifetime. So again, I think it comes down to luck. I’m lucky that I have a partner and family who allow me to explore who I am and who I want to be. It also helps that I’m an EU size 39 [US size 7] in shoes so it was an easy transition to shopping in the women’s section.

It was a gradual exploration, and while we got there in the end, it all began with footwear. I started exploring with some low-heeled boots, almost like tango shoes. That then developed into growing my nails out little by little. And then I was wearing more interesting tops (from the women’s section) and before I knew it my closet was 90% clothing from the women’s section but it was just because that’s what I liked. It really all stemmed from wanting to wear what I wanted and not caring what other people had to say about it.

Damian comes from a younger generation where non-binary is an established term. The identity means something different for everyone, for them it means being free.

Sometimes the people who name things really hit the nail on the head. (To me) it means that someone doesn’t have to strictly be one thing or another. That how you choose to express yourself doesn’t have to be mutually exclusive. And that we all live in a world of gray rather than black and white.

Damian’s transition from middle school to high school would be difficult. In a little over a year, they lost their dad to a massive heart attack (he was only 35). The family moved to Temecula, CA - far from the friends they had known since preschool. If that wasn’t enough, they were diagnosed with cancer at age 15, a misdiagnosis that would take weeks to resolve. Overcoming life’s obstacles, Damian would find their footing in the performing world. Damian

was offered a place on the varsity cheer team after the coach noticed Damian’s skills in gymnastics. They would go on to theatre and dance, winning multiple competitive dancing awards, and being ranked in the top 10 dancers in North America. Wanting a jump on life, they completed high school in three years. In college, they would get their marketing degree with an emphasis in fashion, turning their senior year thesis into an actual businessEpicone, a gender-neutral clothing company. Not bad for a kid.

Part of Damian’s charm is their knowledge and understanding of other cultures. They volunteered to teach English in the Dominican Republic and Haiti. In addition to English, they can speak Spanish, French, and Italian.

WE ALL LIVE IN A WORLD OF GRAY RATHER THAN BLACK AND WHITE.”

I think people could learn a lot when they allow themselves to go outside their bubble. It’s why I decided to learn French when I could just as easily have gotten an easy ‘A’ in Spanish. It’s why I chose to study abroad in London as opposed to Paris, because by that point I had friends in France and England was sort of the scarier option. I do empathize with Americans because it’s so expensive to go outside of the country. But the beautiful thing is that we live in a multicultural place where you don’t need to spend thousands of dollars on a trip to Europe to learn about people who are different from you.

Dance and performing continued to play a part in Damian’s life and while studying abroad in London, they would audition for the Lion King and decide to focus full throttle on their entertainment career, going on to dance in music videos for Halsey, Tiesto, and Dillon Francis.

Did they ever think that identifying as nonbinary would limit their career?

Absolutely. But it isn’t up to me if I get a role. Other people have to decide that I’m what they’re looking for. And I don’t know how long that’s going to take so I am not going to waste my own time. Before I started out, I was comfortable with the idea that it might take a long time to gain momentum. Luckily, I underestimated people and didn’t let that deter me from counting myself out entirely.

Their new show, Glamorous promises to delight as well as keep the queer conversation going, even in the face of our current political oppression.

It’s the most exciting thing! The show does so much in terms of queer, BIPOC, and

intersectional representation, while at the same time not relying on that as a gimmick. This is a show about people who live in one of the most diverse cities in the world and the cast represents that. At the same time the LGBTQIA+ representation is just that, representation. These are people who have career goals and want to fall in love and make friends. It’s a show about a diverse group of people trying to make it in a cutthroat industry in a global city - which I can relate to. I want people to know that queer stories are still worth telling after the coming out part. I am grateful that those projects exist but I feel like we are at the next phase of the LGBTQIA+ storytelling.

Are Netflix audiences ready for a show like Glamorous?

I think so. If you look at the success of Heartstopper on the platform then it should be an easy comparison. But looking at the success of Sex Lives of College Girls on HBOMax and the lack of early adulthood shows out there right now, I think Glamorous would fit really well in the current landscape while also filling a void in the marketplace for young adults who are starting their first jobs or leaving home for the first time. That sweet spot of not being in high school or college anymore but also not feeling like a fully grown adult yet even though you’re out on your own.

In true Hollywood drama, their audition for Glamorous was, well, less than glamorous.

It was … interesting. Because of the pandemic, I was cast from self-tapes which I emailed in. But I got the initial audition while on a ship in the middle of the Irish Sea while on my way to Cobh. I taped the audition facing my room on a television while recording myself on my mom’s phone and acting “opposite” a friend on speaker phone acting as my reader. Oh, and I was in a bathrobe.

Everything that could have gone wrong trying to get the tapes sent over did. I ended up having to iMessage the videos to my fiancé so that he could WeTransfer the files to my agent so that she could email me if they were good to go so I could text him to submit them. But after it was all said and done, because of the time difference and daisy chain of communication, the tapes ended up being sent to the wrong studio and I was locked out of submitting for a while. It took a second but we convinced

casting to accept them. Then we ended up submitting the same tape twice! Eventually they asked for the rest. A week later when I was back state-side the callback went much smoother and a week later they said I got the part. And I was off to Toronto!

Another scene for Damian’s life story as a series.

With shows like Glamourous showcasing lives that don’t fit the norm, and with the current political attack on the trans and non-gender conforming community, what do they want the world to know the most about the non-binary community?

I would love for people to understand that while we are a community, we are also individuals. Gender expression is a very personal thing and the circumstances surrounding one non-binary person do not automatically apply to the next. I know people think that might require a lot of effort but it just boils down to looking across at the person in front of you and seeing them; getting to know them, just as you would anyone else.

Despite a rocky high school start, Damian’s star has been on a journey of success. Despite the success, they never stray far from their beginnings.

Every little win is a mountain top. So many things have to go right for anything positive to happen in this industry that anytime I get a good news email, I’m elated. So far, my biggest personal victory has been to have navigated my career as authentically as I have. I’m surrounded by people who I genuinely enjoy, I work with charities that mean a lot to me, and I’m a part of shows that I can really stand behind.

And their message to the community this Pride?

This Pride, more than ever, the community needs to be vocal and remember what Pride stands for. Different aspects of the community are being targeted and I think that those with a platform have a responsibility to represent those who don’t. In terms of legislation, both proposed and passed, I think people who are lucky enough to be at a Pride celebration should remember and fight for those who are unable to share in the spoils of living in a liberal or progressive part of the world. ■

Watch Damian as Dizmal on Netflix’s Glamorous this Pride season Follow Damian on IG: @DamianTerriquez

WE ARE AT THE NEXT PHASE OF THE LGBTQIA+ STORYTELLING.”

Tequila has gone through quite a metamorphosis over the past 15-20 years. Many credit Patrón with starting the wave of high-end tequila in the United States and making this south-of-the-border elixir the toast of the town from Hollywood to the Hamptons. Consider the A-listers who have created or endorsed a tequila, or mezcal, in recent years: George Clooney, Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson, Michael Jordan, Nick Jonas and even Kendall Jenner have jumped on the bandwagon and created the current tequila buzz.

Back in my college days, there were only a few options, and they weren’t pretty. You had tequila as a shot with salt and lime and sucked it down, often after losing a bet. Or killed the tequila ‘bite’ with a syrupy sweet and sour margarita mix, ice cubes and a blender. Every now and again, I’ll run into someone, who at the mere mention of tequila, displays a negative visceral reaction from days past. Ahh, I think … they haven’t explored the many types, brands, and quality of the tequila spirits available today. Not to mention the recent arrival of its close cousin - mezcal spirits. If you’re ready to reintroduce yourself to a new breed, read on.

Let’s start with a few basics.

SUMMERTIME SPIRIT: TEQUILA! BEYOND THE MARGARITA

BY JIM DELYEA

What’s the difference between tequila and this new ‘mezcal’ that pops up on bar menus?

Well to start - a tequila is a mezcal, but a mezcal is not a tequila. (Got that straight?) Both are spirits made from the agave plant of which there are about 30 species that can be distilled to make mezcal. But only one of these plant species, the Blue Weber agave, is used to make tequila. So, you might experience a wider variety of flavors with mezcals with multiple agave species to play with, while tequila producers primarily use aging and agave cooking processes to create different tastes.

Most tequilas come from the Mexican state of Jalisco, but it can also come from Guanajuato, Michoacan, Nayarit, or Tamaulipas. And if it doesn’t it can’t be called tequila. Mexican regulations around mezcal are grayer and more controversial. Some producers have gotten around this by calling products “agave spirits” or similar. But one thing that is consistent with these spirits, no matter the name, is the types.

What are the major types of tequila?

While there are some newer categories and subsets, it’s important to know the three major categories as you stroll the aisles of your favorite warehouse liquor store. The wall of tequila options can be daunting. Keep in mind, each type has its place - depending on how you’re going to enjoy it. Let’s break it down.

Blanco

Also known as silver, is tequila in a pure form. It’s clear in color and bottled right after distilling. The sharp agave-forward taste shines through. You’ll often taste vanilla, pepper, and mineral notes. It’s the one to use for classic margaritas and palomas.

Reposado

This type of tequila experiences a bit of aging in oak barrels from a few months to a year before it’s ready for bottling. You’ll notice a golden color as well as a different flavor profile. The strong agave flavor is tempered with a balance of fruit, floral and spice notes. This one is the star of drinks like a tequila old fashioned, Mexican mule, or even margaritas or palomas if you like a smokier flavor.

Añejo

This one is known as the sipping tequila. It’s aged in oak barrels from one to three years. You’ll notice a deep golden hue. It can take on the smooth and silky notes of caramel, butterscotch, custard. Feel free to sip this one neat. Some use it as a whiskey substitute in cocktails.

Now that we have the basics, let’s talk about some summertime tequila cocktail recipes beyond the margarita.

BEING FROM SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA, WITH ITS MANY CULTURAL, CULINARY, AND SIPPABLE INFLUENCES FROM SUNNY MEXICO, I TEND TO ASSOCIATE ICY TEQUILA DRINKS WITH THE WARM SUMMER SEASON. Hey, what’s better than sitting by the pool with friends, soaking up the sun, listening to relaxing grooves, and keeping cool with a refreshing tequila cocktail?

EL DIABLO

(MADE WITH DON JULIO BLANCO TEQUILA) Herbal and peppery with rich and fruity Crème de Cassis. One of the world’s first famous tequila cocktails with a Don Julio twist.

Ingredients

• 1.5 oz Don Julio Blanco Tequila

• 0.75 oz Fresh Squeezed Lime Juice

• 0.5 oz Creme de Cassis

• Top with Ginger Beer

Preparation

1. Add all ingredients except the ginger beer into a shaker.

2. Add ice and shake for about 10 seconds.

3. Strain over a highball glass filled with ice.

4. Add the ginger beer and any garnish.

5. Enjoy!

PALOMA

(MADE WITH PATRÓN RESPOSADO TEQUILA) Patrón Reposado perfects this classic cocktail alongside refreshing grapefruit juice and sparkling water.

Ingredients

• 1.5 oz Patrón Reposado Tequila

• 3 oz Fresh grapefruit juice

• .5 oz Agave syrup (1:1)

• .5 oz Fresh-squeezed lime juice

• 1 oz Sparkling water

• + Sugar and salt for rimming

• + Grapefruit wedge for garnish

Preparation

1. Combine all ingredients except sparkling water in a shaker tin and shake with ice to chill.

2. Strain onto fresh ice in a sugar and salt rimmed Collins glass.

3. Top with sparkling water and garnish with a grapefruit wedge.

4. Enjoy!

MANHATTAN

(MADE WITH HORNITOS AÑEJO TEQUILA)

A twist on the classic whiskey drink.

Ingredients

• 1.5 oz Hornitos Añejo Tequila

• .5 oz Sweet Vermouth

• 1 tsp Maraschino Cherry juice

• + Maraschino Cherry for garnish

Preparation

1. Combine all ingredients over ice.

2. Stir.

3. Strain into cocktail glass.

4. Garnish your tequila Manhattan with a Maraschino Cherry.

5. Serve up, no ice.

6. Enjoy!

BURSTING WITH PRIDE

BY MEGAN VENZIN

FINALLY, JUNE IS HERE! AND WITH IT COMES PACKED DANCEFLOORS, DAZZLING PARTIES AND ENDLESS OPPORTUNITIES TO SHOW GRATITUDE FOR OUR AMAZING LGBTQAI+ BROTHERS, SISTERS AND FRIENDS FROM BEYOND THE BINARY. While Pride month is one filled with laughter, joy and celebration, it’s also a time to acknowledge the work that needs to be done in the name of equality, visibility and acceptance. It would be inauthentic to say that the past year has been entirely easy or carefree - quite the opposite really, as we’ve seen states around the country ban drag performances or even strip trans youth of their ability to access potentially life-saving, gender-affirming care. While certain institutions have chosen to use their power to proliferate hate, our resilient community proved once again that love really does conquer all. When it rains, it pours. But we all know what comes after the storm. These official NYC Pride events and other festivities will have you stepping into the light, and feeling proud of just how far we’ve come.

DRAG ME OUT TROLLY TOUR

June 11th, 2023

Starts at 9th Ave. Saloon

656 9th Ave. (btwn 45th and 46th St.) New York, NY

Don’t let the name fool you - you’ll be more than happy to leave the house for Drag Me Out, New York’s only queer city trolly tour. After you climb on board and grab a mimosa, just know you’ll be in good hands with Queen @alottamcgriddles. This sassy tour guide has friends in all the high-places, from Hell’s Kitchen to Williamsburg and beyond. En route to meet them, you’ll receive a fabulous course on the Big Apple’s queer history enhanced with boozy pit stops at 9th Avenue Saloon, Phoenix Bar, Metropolitan Bar and finally, the famous Stonewall. Expect epic drag performances along the way, irresistible music and VIP happy hour pricing so you can stay tipsy while you learn something, too. For tickets and more information visit @DragMeOutToursNYC on Instagram

photos courtesy of Drag Me Out Trolly Tour

PhotocourtesyofNYCPride

THE RALLY

June 17, 2023

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What started as a gay power demonstration and vigil in Washington Square Park following the 1969 Stonewall Uprising has become an important annual catalyst for dialogue on activism, education and collaboration. At this year’s Rally, you can become a part of the conversation and find positive ways to stand up and be heard in the face of adversity. Want to get involved on a deeper level? The Rally is currently seeking volunteers. For location announcements and information on how you can help out, visit https://www.nycpride.org/event/the-rally

LIBERAUNCHY

June 22, 2023

3 Dollar Bill

260 Meserole St.

Brooklyn, NY

Electronic music heads, make sure this cape-clad rager’s on your radar. NYC Pride and Anthony John Presents are partnering up for a full club takeover of East Williamsburg’s 3 Dollar Bill, and the night isn’t called Liberaunchy for nothing - this is how we start Pride weekend off in major key. Renowned production duo Heidi Lawden and Treasurefingers will turn the Casa de Liberace dancefloor into a disco inferno, but they aren’t the only reason this beat-fueled hang’s sure to be a symphony for the senses. Those who dig heavier stylings must swing by the Raunch Room where headliner and hometown hero Justin Cudmore is on deck to drop pure tech-house filth. Stage mama Rify Royalty is in the mix too, with pop-up performances in store all night long.

Grab your ticket and get ready to sparkle at https://www.3dollarbillbk.com/

BRÜTALLY PROUD

June 23, 2023

HK Hall

605 W. 48th St.

New York, NY

On Friday night, we’ll reach our mecca, HK Hall - the cosmic sanctuary where all of BRÜT’s followers can dance together in perfect harmony. Kicking off this lazer-laden soiree is international recording artist and model, Natascha Bessez, who will open the gateway to eight hours of continuous house music from DJ’s Dan Darlington and Hector Fonseca. It’s bound to be a long night’s journey into day, so remember to harness some qi for the rest of your loud and out weekend. General admission ($55) and VIP ($119) tickets to this otherworldly engagement are now on sale.

Pack up for the pilgrimage at https://www. ticketfairy.com/event/brut-party-nyc-pride/

PLANET PRIDE

- A NEW WORLD

June 24, 2023

Brooklyn Mirage

140 Stewart Ave.

Brooklyn, NY

Planet Pride is back with enough fuel to send a rainbow-trailed rocket into orbit. For the 2023 installment, esteemed party tosser Jake Resnicow has curated a 12-hour, intergalactic gathering featuring names like Grammy-nominated house duo Gorgon City, trance visionary Gareth Emery and twin tastemakers Coco & Breezy among others, on hand to set the soundtrack for one of the weekend’s grooviest electronic events. Planet Pride will be taking over three stages, so go ahead and get lost in this new world.

Board the ship at https://planetprideny.com/

OSCURO PRIDE

June 24, 2023

The Cockpit

355 W. 41st St. New York, NY

This is for the wild ones who simply refuse to call it. When the other clubs say ‘you don’t have to go home, but you can’t stay here…’ the teams at Antonio Cedeno Presents and The Cockpit will be eagerly awaiting your arrival at this official NYC Pride after-hours party. Special guests Papito and THATCOUPLE play host while popular Brooklynbased DJ, Joshua Ruizm will channel high vibes until it’s time for brunch reservation. Known for spinning an intoxicating blend of techhouse, progressive and tribal beats, expect Ruiz to lead you on a sonic journey into another unforgettable day of Pride-fueled mayhem.

Strap in for the long haul at https://www.redeyetickets.com/oscuro-pride/

BLISS DAYS

June 25, 2023

The DL 95 Delancey St. New York, NY

Gather the gals and slap on some sunscreen because Bliss Days (formerly known as Femme Fatale) is back! This high-energy afternoon gathering may spotlight sets from world-class DJs and special guest performances but we all know the real headliners are the special womxn who make up this vibrant community. So, grab a craft cocktail and raise a toast to them at this year’s signature celebration - it’s popping off at The DL NYC, a rooftop lounge known for its spectacular skyline views and endless supply of dancefloor delights. All proceeds from Bliss Days will benefit NYC Pride and its annual free events such as Youth Pride, The RALLY, The March, PrideFest, and more! Get some plans going at https://www.nycpride.org/event/bliss-days

PRIDE ISLAND

June 25, 2023

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Cap off your Pride week with a festival-style experience only Pride Island can deliver. This year’s headliner is a seven-time Grammy Award winner. Yep, the ultimate diva Christina Aguilera is on the roster and ready to rock out with the discography that gave you life during your school-age days. Other notables on the lineup come all the way from Tel Aviv - we’re talking of course about none other than Billboard #1 Remixer and Indie Music award nominee, Guy Scheiman. He’ll be joined by Mor Avrahmi, the resident DJ at Forever Tel Aviv, his hometown’s most popular gay party series. Avrahmi’s making his highly anticipated New York Debut with a body-moving dance party that should have the whole world talking. A stunning outdoor location is still to be announced.

Tickets start at $139, so grab a pair here https://www.nycpride.org/event/pride-island

Photo courtesy of NYC Pride

Photo courtesy of NYC Pride

THE MARCH

June 25, 2023

New York, NY

The first Pride March took place in 1970, and in the five decades since its inception has become an important civil rights demonstration that draws awareness to challenges faced by the LGBTGAI+ community while honoring their ongoing resilience. Launched in the year following the Stonewall Uprising, the March has become an important time to remember figures whose lives have been lost, and celebrate those who are still among us. Naturally then, this is no longer the somber event it once was - now, the last Sunday in June comes to life with a colorful caravan of floats, an internationally renowned lineup of performers and a barrage of fun-loving fanfare that together make NYC one of the best Pride destinations on the planet. Those who prefer a VIP viewing experience can snag tickets to the NYC Pride March Grandstand.

Get to steppin’ at https://www.nycpride.org/event/nyc-pride-march

PRIDEFEST

June 25, 2023

New York, NY

On the hunt for a new collection of Pride-powered swag? Look no further than PrideFest, the annual street fair that’s been running in tandem with the March for 29 years. This free, all-ages attraction draws hundreds of thousands of visitors every year, and it’s obvious why - there’s no better place to catch a star-studded performance, indulge in the city’s best artisan eats and pick up a new fit from emerging designers, all in one place. Interested in hosting your own booth? Applications are open so you can bring your own Pride style to one of the season’s most exciting international exhibition events.

Make some shopping plans at https://www.nycpride.org/event/pridefest

Photo courtesy of NYC Pride

Photo courtesy of NYC Pride

PINES PARTY 2023 - TOON ISLAND

Fire Island Pines

July 21 - 23

Fire Island’s hottest beach festival and longstanding charity event is looking a little looney this year. See if for yourself when you disembark to Toon Island, a place where play always comes before work. This year’s bash brings renowned DJs from around the world including Chicago house legend Derrick Carter, BBC Radio 1’s first ever East Asian presenter and &Friends label boss, Monki, as well as other influential names like NY stalwart Tedd Patterson and the classic house-meets-melodic techno master Someone From Berlin, among others. With a history dating back to The Morning Party, a fundraiser that began in 1983 in support of GMHC, this annual midsummer celebration continues to draw LGBTQAI+ friends and from all corners of the globe. What keeps them coming back? Well in addition to a good cause and breathtaking sunsets, there’s one clear draw, or as 10-year Pines Party resident DJ Jeff Hall puts it, “There’s a sense of shared experience here in the Pines that knits the community together in ways that not many other communities can relate to.”

Get animated at www.pinesparty.com

ALEGRIA PRIDE

June 25th

Brooklyn Mirage

140 Stewart Ave.

Brooklyn, NY

NYC Pride and Ric Sena Presents are once again joining forces as official partners for a day-intonight party at one of the country’s most spectacular venues. For the fourth time, Alegria descends upon the award-winning Brooklyn Mirage and Avant Gardner complex, this year bringing a fantastical “Wonderland” theme. For thousands of New Yorkers and out-of-towners, this is THE destination for massive production, high-octane DJ sets and enough pop-up fanfare to keep one sated until Pride returns in 2024 (but don’t wish it all over so soon — we insist, you’ll want to stay awhile.) Prefer to soak up the sun? Then you’ll be thrilled with WOW, the party’s “Outdoor Spectacular” offering, or head indoors for Alegria, a debaucherous dance party taking over the Great Hall through nightfall. You’ll be met with wonder, wherever you wander - after all, there’s a reason this celebration’s still soaring after 23 years.

Get immersed in the magic at https://www.ricsenapresents.com/

40 YEARS OF CARING FOR OUR COMMUNITY VILLAGE APOTHECARY

BY MEGAN VENZIN

SOME HEROES FLY . . . OTHERS DISPENSE MEDICINE AND ADVICE. An independently-owned pharmacy located on the corner of Bleecker St. and West 10th proves just that. Celebrating its 40th anniversary serving the community, Village Apothecary has played a pivotal role in keeping the people of Greenwich Village healthy.

In 1983, Michael Konnon, a pharmacist, businessman and community leader, founded this iconic neighborhood shop with an open heart and an open mind. When the AIDS epidemic struck New York City in the early 80s, Village Apothecary quickly became a safe haven for affected patients who came to fill the rare prescriptions that had yet to appear on the shelves of major chain stores. Without judgement, they were embraced by a strong collective of healthcare professionals, many of whom still come through the doors to this day.

Despite increased prevalence of HIV-related medications, many patients still struggle to secure their necessary prescriptions due to tedious mailorder systems, prior authorization requirements and other routine obstacles. Village Apothecary continues to advocate on their behalf to supply prescription therapy at prices that make sense. Director of Pharmacy Services, John Kaliabakos, currently oversees prescription care for hundreds of HIV patients, and works closely with the area’s top HIV specialists to ensure the best products and programs take root inside Village Apothecary.

Village Apothecary was one of the first pharmacies in the state of New York to partner with the New York State Department of Health’s AIDS Institute to initiate HIV post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) medication therapy to individuals with a recent exposure to HIV. Village Apothecary continued to support the community throughout the

COVID-19 pandemic with continued pharmacyrelated services, and actively worked at obtaining and dispensing mokeypox vaccinations.

Understanding the rich contributions Village Apothecary has made to its neighborhood, it should come as no surprise that the store has received accolades and awards, and Kaliabakos was most recently honored with the prestigious Impact Award, which honors individuals who have made a difference in the NYC queer community.

In addition to providing highly personalized care and hard to find prescriptions, Village Apothecary’s beautifully organized storefront also features high-end skincare products and toiletries, many of which are produced by local purveyors.

“There aren’t many independent shops like ours left in the city,”says Owner, Vijay Desai.“We have a responsibility to our customers and our neighborhood to offer high quality, ethical products. We’re lucky enough to have a loyal audience who keeps coming back, and in return we pledge to provide them with attention and fellowship they won’t find anywhere else.” ■

Village Apothecary 346 Bleecker St.

Greenwich Village, NY 10014 212-807-7566

Open M-F 9am-7pm; Sat 9am-5pm; Sun Closed villageapothecary.com

VILLAGE APOTHECARY IS TRULY THE COMMUNITY PHARMACY THAT CARES. HAPPY 40TH ANNIVERSARY!”

I LOVE SUMMER NIGHTS ON BROAD WAY!

BY BEN RIMALOWER

SUMMER IS HERE AND I COULDN’T BE HAPPIER ABOUT IT, especially the announcement that Broadway legend Patti LuPone - on the heels of her buzzed about triumph in Ari Aster’s new A24 film Beau Is Afraid - will be making her Fire Island debut August 26 at the Ice Palace as the crown jewel in nightlife impresario Daniel Nardicio’s glittering Cherry Grove lineup. Patti caused quite a stir last fall when she announced she was leaving Actors Equity and didn’t foresee any more stage work, at least not in Broadway musicals.

As a lifelong LuPonista, I’m here to tell you she’s made similar claims before - as far back as 1997 by my recollection - but parting with the union got even my attention. She’s booked at Carnegie Hall for next April, but this Fire Island gig may be the only chance for New Yorkers to see her live before then. And another thing: Fire Island! A diva is nothing without her adoring gays. I’ve seen Patti on the road in the provinces and I’ve seen her in the city at the AIDS benefits, etc. These events - with her people - are the place to see her. I go in with Judy Garland level expectations and I’m never disappointed. Well, when God closes a door, She opens a window; one diva departs Broadway as another makes her debut. Once Upon a One More Time (Marquis Theatre, opens June 22), the“new musical powered by the hits of Britney Spears,” is here at last.

Patti LuPone

Even more long-awaited, Alex Timbers’ acclaimed 2013 Public Theater production of the David Byrne/Fat Boy Slim musical about Imelda and Ferdinand Marcos, Here Lies Love (Broadway Theatre, previews June 17), finally moves uptown. They’ve gone to great expense reconfiguring the main level of the venue for this interactive disco musical, but I, for once, will prefer a mezzanine seat, so I can sit still and watch this fabulous piece in comfort!

This is me from 1984 flying through time in a DeLorean to tell you to see Back to the Future: The Musical (Winter Garden Theatre, previews June 30) on Broadway for the first time - or is it?

The cast from Once Upon A One More Time Photo by Emilio Madrid

Back to the future

Jose Llana, Arielle Jacobs and Conrad Ricamora cast of Here Lies Love

Photo by Harold Julian

New York’s venerable Upper East Side cabaret institution, the CAFE CARLYLE, is back firing all cylinders with some very intriguing bookings including:

• Mira Sorvino (June 13-17)

The Oscar winner reveals whether she inherited her father’s virtuosic pipes.

• Megan Hilty (June 20-24)

Kick off Pride with the Smash star and Broadway favorite.

It’s not Michael Feinstein’s anymore, but 54 BELOW is as cosmopolitan as ever with a lineup including:

• Jenn Colella: Out and Proud (June 8 & 10)

• Joe Iconis & Family (June 12-17)

• Shaun Cassidy: The Magic of a Midnight Sky (June 21-25)

• Amber Gray (June 28-July 1)

• Liz Callaway: Screen Gems (July 6-11)

• Lucie Arnaz: “I Got the Job!” Songs From My Musical Past (July 19-22)

The artistic heart of Downtown, JOE’S PUB, is always a good bet.

• Cat Cohen with Ikechukwu Ufomadu (June 5-30)

The comedian and singer taking the world by storm offers more opportunities for you to join the movement.

• 11th Annual Night of a Thousand Judys (June 12)

Justin Sayre and the International Order of Sodomites pay tribute to Judy Garland, raising funds for the Ali Forney Center.

• Kevin Smith Kirkwood KSK on the BQE: A Black Queer Experience (June 25)

The brilliant Broadway musical actor, known for his uncanny Whitney Houston shows, looks inward.

• Alexis Michelle (June 27-28)

The RuPaul’s Drag Race queen you love to hate will make you love to love her even more.

The queer 90s mecca, Chelsea, is back, baby - and nowhere more than at the airy, swanky CHELSEA TABLE + STAGE

• The Augie Bello Jam (June 1, 15, 29)

• Reeve Carney (June 4)

• Nicolas King (June 7)

• Michael Kirk Lane (June 10)

• The Bad Judies: The Bad Judies Take Pride (June 15)

• Samantha Pauly (June 26)

Mira Sorvino

Megan Hilty

Cat Cohen

Ikechukwu Ufomadu

Kevin Smith Kirkwood

Alexis Michelle

11th Annual Night of a Thousand Judys

Joe Iconis

Jenn Colella

Amber Gray

Shaun Cassidy

Liz Callaway

Lucie Arnaz

Augie Bello

Reeve Carney

Michael Kirk Lane

Nicolas King

The Bad Judies

Samantha Pauly

“Broadway’s Night-off Hot Spot,” THE GREEN ROOM 42, is where it’s AT this season with a little bit of some thing for the show queen in everyone:

• Flotilla DeBarge: A Big Hunk of Ghetto (June 1)

• John Hill: Wellness Check with John Hill (June 2)

• Lady Bunny: Don’t Bring the Kids! (Tuesdays at 7pm)

• Apollo Levine: The Freedom Experience, Volume 1 (June 5)

• Janine LaManna (June 10 & 26)

• James Jackson, Jr. & John-Andrew Morrison: 5 Questions with James & JAM (June 12)

• Becca Blackwell: Back to She (June 14)

• Drew Droege & Mitch Silpa: It’s Mitch & Drew and We’ve Never Felt Younger (June 18)

• Leola’s Lady Land Lounge (June 22)

• Liz McCartney: One Fine Day (June 25 & July 2)

• Natalie Joy Johnson (June 30)

For those of us hanging out on Fire Island just waiting for that Patti LuPone show, there’s a lot of great things to see in the meantime. Daniel Nardicio’s fierce ICE PALACE lineup includes:

• Broadway Sings

Whitney Houston (June 1) With Tamika Lawrence, Blaine Krauss, Natalie Joy Johnson

• The Golden Girlz LIVE (June 26)

With Jackie Beat, Sherry Vine, Drew Droege, Sam Pancake

• Joey Arias: Let’s Make Love (June 29)

• Alaska (July 1)

• Marilyn Maye (July 8)

• Paula Poundstone (July 22)

• Broadway Sings Lady Gaga With Taylor Iman Jones, Corey Mach, Lauren Patten

Plus, at CHERRY’S, you can’t go wrong attending Broadway on the Bay (Sundays at 7pm) with Marti Cummings & Tammy Spanx

And in the Pines, you mustn’t miss the Queen to read them all, the star of every summer, the truly great Pixie Aventura, at the PAVILION (Mondays at 10pm).

Liz McCartney

John Hill

Lady Bunny

Apollo Levine

Flotilla DeBarge

Mitch Silpa & Drew Droege

Becca Blackwell

Leola

Janine LaManna

Natalie Joy Johnson

James Jackson, Jr. & John-Andrew Morrison

Broadway Sings

Whitney Houston

The Golden Girlz LIVE

Alaska

Broadway Sings

Lady Gaga

Marilyn Maye

Joey Arias

Paula Poundstone

Marti Cummings

Tammy Spanx

Pixie Aventura

CHELSEA BARRACUDA

This Chelsea lounge features cool music, cute crowds, wild drag shows, and talent competitions hosted on the tiny stage in the rear. Rumor has it RuPaul visited to “scout” Bob the Drag Queen at this classic watering hole. 275 W. 22nd St. at Eighth Ave., NYC 212-645-8613

BOXERS CHELSEA

A big gay sports bar outfitted with flat screens broadcasting all manner of games, multiple counters, pool tables and a smoking patio out back. A long bar faces a pizza oven dispensing mouth-watering pies to munch on while watching “the game”. Hottest bartenders in town? See for yourself! 37 W. 20th St. between Fifth and Sixth Aves., NYC 212-624-5942. boxersnyc.com

THE EAGLE

This dark and cruisy leather bar to end all leather bars boasts a great rooftop deck and some of the sexiest, burliest guys in NYC. 554 W. 28th St. between Tenth and Eleventh Aves., NYC 646-473-1866. eagle-ny.com

GYM

At this popular after work sports bar, a team of plasma-screen TVs broadcasting the hottest games, a pool table, and a basement dugout. Who are those cuties behind the bar? Pop in to get to know them (Admit it, you already follow them on IG). 167 Eighth Ave. between 18th and 19th Sts., NYC 212-337-2439. gymsportsbar.com

EAST VILLAGE/LOWER EAST SIDE

THE BOILER ROOM

A throwback to the days when the East Village was a haven for the punky and funky, this dark and comfy no-frills lounge is popular with the college set, attitude-free, and rocks with an eclectic mix of music and scruffy pool players. 86 E. 4th St. at Second Ave., NYC 212-254-7536

OSCAR WILDE

Acclaimed mixologist Johnny Swet sets the scene at this clever cocktail lounge. Ironically situated at the former headquarters of NYC’s Bureau of Prohibition, this glorious tribute to Ireland’s great writer is the gastropub to end all gastropubs. Marvel at relics such as their Belgian piano from the late 1890s, antique clocks, and intriguing bronze statues celebrating the late great Portrait of a Dorian Gray scribe. 45 W. 27th St. at Sixth Avenue., NYC 212-213-3066. oscarwildenyc.com

REBAR

Sexy Chelsea hangout where G Lounge (may she rest in peace) used to be. This neighborhood bar has a masculine industrial décor, a hot staff, and draws all kinds of men (especially local muscle bears) and boasts not distractions – sports, porn, dancers or otherwise. Their concept is simple: people meeting people. 225 W. 19th St. between Seventh and Eighth Aves., NYC 212-929-1085. rebarchelsea.com

EAST VILLAGE

CLUB CUMMING

Willkommen, Bienvenu, New York! Alan Cumming opened the swank new East Village performance-based club, and everyone’s invited. Cumming teamed up with Benjamin Maisani, Darren Dryden and Daniel Nardicio for this sassy adventure. Think backstage of an actual Berlin Cabaret where anything goes. Drag Race viewing parties, Drink & Draw, knitting (yes, knitting), and Cabaret (of course!) 505 E. 6th St. between Aves. A and B, NYC 212-777-2555. clubcummingnyc.com

THE COCK

Longtime late-night haven for naughty go-go boys and those in search of debauched shenanigans. Late nights are the infamous and the ever-popular Monday nights culls an elite yet shameless crowd of naughty boys and nightlife glitterati. 29 Second Ave. between First and Second Sts., NYC. thecockbar.com

NOWHERE

Ultra-mellow East Villager with distressed rustic décor, a pool table and what may be the smallest back room ever. 322 E. 14th St. between First and Second Aves., NYC 212-477-4744. nowherebarnyc.com

PHOENIX

The typically crowded Phoenix holds video games, a pool table, a jukebox, and a diverse crowd in an exposed-brick space as uncomplicated as its vibe. Daily Happy Hour runs from 4-8 and Saturday nights Wrecked party brings all kinds of cute boys (& Queens) to the East Village. 447 E. 13th St. at Ave. A., NYC 212-477-9979. phoenixbarnyc.com

HELL’S KITCHEN/MIDTOWN WEST

ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB

Josh Wood, Benjamin Maisani, Pablo Raimondi, and Asi Mazar hit a home run with the starry opening of the Hell’s Kitchen hotspot. When celebs like Andy Cohen, Anderson Cooper, and Cher start making cameos the neighborhood definitely takes a closer look. 753 9th Ave. between 50th and 51st Sts., NYC 212-262-8527.

FAIRYTAIL LOUNGE

Glittery centaurs and other enchanted-forest motifs distinguish this cozy lounge in way-west H.K. Theme parties, specialty cocktails and guest DJs add interest. 500 W. 48th St. between Tenth and Eleventh Aves., NYC 646-648-3897

FLAMING SADDLES

When they’re not mixing up vodka sodas in glass steins, bartenders jump up on the bar to do choreographed boot-scootin’ to Achy Breaky-type tunes at this one-of-a-kind Hell’s Kitchen tavern. Red saloon décor and a small selection of down-home nibbles add to the authentic Western feel – call it Coyote Pretty. 793 Ninth Ave. at 53rd St., NYC 212-713-0481. flamingsaddles.com/nyc

HARDWARE

Cheap drinks are poured at the front bar and fun tunes are spun for the rear dance floor at this easy-breezy neighborhood haunt. In the summer, a garage door swings up, letting the scene spill onto the street. When DJs aren’t doing their thing, live performers like Shequida, Lagoona Bloo, Brita Filter, Boudoir Lefleur & Kimmi Moore hit the stage. Opens at noon daily. 697 Tenth Ave between 47th and 48th Sts., NYC 212-924-9885. hardware-bar.com

HUSH

Missing Therapy? Hush! There’s a naughty new bar in town and there’s never been a better time to check it out. Well, if you stop by before 9:00 p.m. you can get $3 off all drinks. The space is cute, hennies. We’ll see you on the dancefloor. 348 W. 52nd St. between Eighth and Ninth Aves. NYC hushhk.com

INDUSTRY

The owners of Barracuda and Elmo opened this capacious venue features couch-filled nooks, a game room with a pool table and an industrial design that’s a nod to its parking-garage past. Holly Dae, Egypt, Pixie Aventura, and Kizha Carr shake things up on a weekly basis at this popular hotspot. 355 W. 52nd St. between Eighth and Ninth Aves., NYC 646-476-2747. industry-bar.com

THE Q NYC

Alan Picus and Frankie Sharp joined forces with Billy Porter, Zachary Quinto, Charlie Carver, and Jake Shears to open one of the most epic nightlife spaces in NYC. Think four floors right smack in one of the biggest gayborhoods in the world. Pop in any night of the week and dance you’re a** off. 795 8th Ave. between 48th and 49th Sts., NYC theqnyc.com

RISE BAR

Kings of NYC nightlife royalty joined forces for a tres fabuleux yet unpretentious Hell’s Kitchen watering hole right in the middle of everything. Dance all night every Friday and Saturday, you deserve a little R&R, don’t you? 859 9th Avenue., NYC 646-892-3313. risebarnyc.com

THE RITZ BAR & LOUNGE

This upscale boy boîte boasts plenty of places to perch on multiple levels inside and outside — although the kickin’ sound system makes it hard to settle down. 369 W. 46th St. at Ninth Ave., NYC 212-333-2554.

THE SPOT

Happy Hour happens every day until 9:00 p.m. at The Spot. Pop in for weekly parties and catch local nightlife celebs like Ariana Trenta, Brenda Dharling, Pissi Myles, and more. Looking for Drag Brunch? Look no further! Seating happens at 12:15 and 2:30 every Sunday. Bring your dollars! 599 10th Avenue, NYC thespotbarnyc.com

EAST SIDE

THE TOOL BOX

This two-level dive bar hosts dance parties with a DJ and cute go-go boys on Friday and Saturday nights on the main floor, while the downstairs is a cozier lounge. 1742 Second Ave., between 90th and 91st Sts., NYC 212348-1288. thetoolboxnyc.com

THE TOWNHOUSE

Two levels of mature gents and their younger fans humming along to dance tracks and swaying to songs from Chicago and everything in the Jerry Herman oeuvre. 236 E. 58th St. between Second and Third Aves., NYC 212-754-4649.

UNCLE CHARLIE’S

This effervescent lounge, tucked on top of an unassuming store on a quiet block, boasts a patio and piano room, which hosts live entertainment. 139 E. 45th St. between Third and Lexington Aves., NYC 212-661-9097. unclecharliesnyc.com

UPPER WEST SIDE

SUITE

This adorable lounge attracts Columbia gays with their leopard-print lamps, cozy leather banquettes and the occasional drag star entertaining on the small stage. 992 Amsterdam Ave. between 109th and 110th Sts., NYC 212-222-4600. suitenyc.com

UPTOWN

ALIBI LOUNGE

This popular Harlem bar & lounge is a great spot for after work. Everybody need an alibi, right? Choose from their selection of specialty cocktails and order a little nibble, while you’re at it. 2376 Adam Clayton Powell Blvd. at 139th St., NYC 917-472-7789.

WEST VILLAGE

CUBBYHOLE

Called home by the local lesbian crowd (though a few boys are usually thrown in for good measure), this small, unpretentious West Village bar features a capricious décor that’s heavy on the fish. 281 W. 12th St. at Fourth St., NYC 212-243-9041. cubbyholebar.com

THE DUPLEX

The Duplex is the city’s oldest continuing cabaret/piano bar. Downstairs, the staff performs in between bouts of serving. Upstairs is a more traditional boy bar and an intimate room that books cabaret acts. 61 Christopher St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-255-5438. theduplex.com

THE HANGAR

Neighborhood guy’s guy bar that attracts a diverse crowd grooving to classic gay tunes. 115 Christopher St. between Bleecker and Hudson Sts., NYC 212-627-2044

HENRIETTA HUDSON

Jam-packed lesbian club/lounge with a multicultural crowd that’s gay-boy friendly. 438 Hudson St. at Morton St., NYC 212-924-3347.henriettahudson.com

JULIUS’

Once the Village’s oldest continuously operating bar went gay in the 1950s, it would go on to become the city’s oldest gay bar. On a normal night, it’s a comfy place for cheap drinks, burgers, and fries, but once a month, the party Mattachine turns it into a crowded, rowdy dance affair with excellent vinyl music. 159 W. 10th St. at Waverly Pl., NYC 212-243-1928. juliusbarny.com

MARIE’S CRISIS

Old-school sing-alongs are on tap at this long-running piano bar. There’s no fuss and no frills at this late-night theater queen hot spot. Stop in and “sing out, Louise!” 59 Grove St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-243-9323. mariescrisis.us

THE MONSTER

A Sheridan Square stalwart where fabulous guys and dolls sing along to their show tunes upstairs while legendary DJs play to the fun crowd downstairs. 80 Grove St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-924-3558 Open Mon-Fri, 4pm-4am; Sat & Sun, 2pm-4am.

PIECES

You’ll either be singing to retro dance tracks or laughing at the antics of drag queens at this longtime West Villager. Ms. Vodka Stinger’s B-Movie Mondays are always worth a stop. Show starts at 8:30 sharp. 8 Christopher St. at Sixth Ave., NYC 212-929-9291. piecesbar.com

ROCKBAR

For boys who prefer fur over sheen, there’s this butched-up bar with a fistpumping soundtrack and cheap drinks. Things get steadily burlier and beefier as the night goes on…attend one ROCKSTRAP and you’ll be more than hooked. If you’re on GROWLr there’s a good chance your notifications will start to flutter inside. 185 Christopher St. at Weehawken St., NYC. rockbarnyc.com

STONEWALL

Daddies, faux thugs, and girls who like girls rule the roost at this two-story birthplace of gay pride. Every night of the week offers a different theme, from drag-hosted game shows to karaoke to beer blasts. 53 Christopher St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-488-2705. thestonewallinnnyc.com

TY’S

This Ye Olde Boy Bar serves a loyal and friendly Christopher Street clientele — young, old and everything in between. NYPD and Firemen especially welcome. 114 Christopher St. between Bleecker and Hudson Sts., NYC 212-741-9641. tys.nyc

OUTER BOROUGHS & BEYOND

3 DOLLAR BILL

Self-declared as “Brooklyn’s Premiere Queer Bar & Performance Venue”, 3 Dollar Bill is known for their legendary parties and literally brining all the fine boys & gurls to the yard. They are the largest queer venue in Brooklyn and ready for your visit. Go ahead & live your life at 3 Dollar Bill (but be sure to look cute!) 260 Meserole St. Brooklyn 3dollarbillbk.com

ALBATROSS

Homey Astoria bar with a pool table and jukebox. Sultry bartender/host Dean Dante heats things up with his now legendary parties where everyone has a chance to explore their fantasies. 36-19 24th Ave. at 38th St., Astoria, NYC 718-204-9045. albatrossastoria.com

C’MON EVERYBODY

Popular Brooklyn Queer space, known for great cocktails, fun parties, and hot live music shows. C’mon Everybody is a queer owned and operated bar and independent venue that was founded by the desire to amplify the underserved creative voices of the LGBTQ/QTPOC people (and allies). 325 Franklin Ave. Brooklyn cmoneverybody.com

FRIEND’S TAVERN

This bar seduces the large Latino gay community with theme nights and daily drink specials. 78-11 Roosevelt Ave. at 78th St., Jackson Heights, Queens 718-397-7256. friendstavern.net.

GOOD JUDY

Good Judy is a lounge, dance floor, piano bar, patio, and home for Queers + allies to join together in unity and solidarity. Meet your Good Judy for happy hour and plan on closing the joint! 563 5th Avenue, Brooklyn goodjudybk.com

ICON ASTORIA

Fasten your seatbelts because you’re in for an unexpected ride at this hot NYC bar nestled into the backyard of Astoria. Beefcake dancers and NYC nightlife legends flock to this unassuming watering hole for great beats, impressive drag performances, and all-around friendly faces. 31-84 33rd Street., Astoria, NY 347-808-7592. iconastoria.com

GINGER’S

Especially popular with lesbians, this long and dark bar has a popular jukebox and an outdoor garden. 363 Fifth Ave., Park Slope, Brooklyn 718788-0924

METROPOLITAN

This B-burg bar is comfy and cozy with a fireplace, jukebox, and a sprawling warm-weather patio. 559 Lorimer St. at Metropolitan Ave., Williamsburg, Brooklyn NYC 718-599-4444. metropolitanbarny.com

MUSIC BOX

Fun neighborhood bar great if you’re in Jackson Heights and looking for a pint or a little fun. 40-08 74th St. at Roosevelt Ave. 718-457-5306

THE ROSEMONT NYC

Sexy mixed Williamsburg cocktail bar with a great happy hour and fun weekly entertainment. Looking for Mr. Right, Mr. Right for tonight or just a fun gurls night out? They’ve got you covered. 63 Montrose Ave., Brooklyn, NYC 347-987-3101. therosemontnyc.com

ACCOUNTING – COUNSELING/PSYCHOTHERAPY

ACCOUNTING

Dikman, Bernard L , C P A

37 W 20th St, Ste 703, NYC 212 929-4299

Woloshen, Robert A CPA

29 W 15th St, Ste 1 NYC 212 843-3486

www rawcpa com

ACUPUNCTURE

Acupuncture-NYC

80 Fifth Ave, Ste 906 NYC 212 874-0898

www acupuncture-nyc com

ADOPTION SERVICES

Friends in Adoption NYC 800 982-3678

www friendsinadoption org

AESTHETIC SERVICES

Advanced Dermatology Associates

200 Central Park South #107 NYC ........................................... 212 262-2500 NYC 212 246-0800

www.adv-derm.com

Lexington Plastic Surgeons

113 E 39th St, NYC 646 374-2410

www try lexingtonplasticsurgeons com/metrosource

Sexual Health Men

290 Madison Ave 6th Fl NYC 973 493-7607

www sexualhealthmen com

Stoller, Roy B , D O 515 Madison Ave, Ste 1205 NYC 212 920-4499

www hairdoctornyc com

ALLERGIES

Aziz, Michael, M D , FRSM

Midtown Integrative Medicine

509 Madison Ave @ 53rd St, Ste 1111 NYC 212 906-9111

www michaelazizmd com

ARCHITECTURE

David Stern Architecture

www davidsternarchitecture com

Torre, Martin B RA AIA Architecture + Planning PLLC 605 E 14th St, #8 NYC 646 257-9081

ATTORNEYS

Bing, Steven E 276 5th Ave, Ste 1008 NYC 212 286-1666

Chianese & Reilly Law, P C 122 E 42nd St, Ste 3900 NYC 212 953-6447 100 Merrick Rd, Ste 103E Rockville Centre, NY 516 599-2020

www awclawyer com

Chou, Luna, Esq NYC 212 226-2610 www lunachoulaw com

Goldman, Jeffrey E , Esq 501 Fifth Ave #1900 NYC 212 983-8999 NYC 212 949-5085 www jgoldmanlaw com

Law Offices of Thomas Sciacca, PLLC 44 Wall St, 12th Fl NYC 212 495-0317 www sciaccalaw com

Long & Associates NYC 212 360-0394 www landapllc com

Parker | Waichman LLP 6 Harbor Park Dr Nationwide 800 JUST-CALL www yourlawyer com

Tesler, Richard, Esq 41 W 72nd St NYC 212 362-6961

CATERING

Li-Lac Chocolates

West Village: 40 8th Ave, NYC

Greenwich Village: 162 Bleecker St, NYC

Grand Central: 43rd & Lexington, NYC

Chelsea Market: 75 Ninth Ave, NYC Industry City: 68 35th St, Brooklyn NYC 212 924-2280

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Paul Evans Catering

20 W 20th St NYC 212 321-1822 NYC 212 243-4494

www paulevanscatering com

CLOTHING

Dave’s New York 581 Ave of the Americas, NYC Toll Free 800 543-8558

www davesnewyork com

Jackson Boutique

www jacksonboutiquenyc com

CONTRACTORS/CONSTRUCTION

ABS Design & Construction NYC 212 731-0642

www abs-construction-nyc com

COUNSELING/PSYCHOTHERAPY

Angers, Marc E , M A Oxon, L C S W /L P Licensed Psychoanalyst, NCPsyA NYC 917 678-7929

Barneson, Jeff, LCSW

119 Washington Place NYC 212 252-2314

www jeffbarneson com

Blatter, Andrew, LCSW NYC 917 442-5213

www andrewblatter com

COUNSELING/PSYCHOTHERAPY – DENTISTS

Bloom Psychotherapy NYC 19 W 34th St, PH NYC 347 921-0431

www nycbloomtherapy com

Campbell, Robert D , LCSW

Psychotherapy for Individuals & Couples NYC 646 783-8155

www robertdcampbell com

Davies, Ann Conant, M S W , L C S W 740 West End Ave, Ste 1 Cell 917 923-2257

Dicker, Phyllis D , L C S W , A C S W , B C D NYC 718 855-5171

Factor, Rhonda J , PhD 85 5th Ave, Ste 912 NYC 347 834-6057

www rhondafactorphd com

Jarratt, Kent, L C S W 19 W 34th St, NYC 212 947-7111, ext 119 Oceanport, NJ 917 686-6179

www kentjarratt com

Johnson, Thomas E , L C S W Chelsea 212 645-3952

Kingan, Peter L , Ph D 99 University Pl, 4th Fl NYC 917 428-2431

Koetting, Michael E , L C S W NYC 212 741-2606

www koettingpsychotherapy com

McFadden, Stephen, LCSW SEP 435 W 23rd St NYC 212 627-8419

www smcfadden com

Nelson, Joshua, Ph D 71 W 23rd St, Ste 1115 NYC 646 512-0043

www jnelsonphd com

Rayhill, Daniel, Ph D 276 Fifth Ave #1101 NYC 212 683-2454

Ross, Steven, LSCW Union Square 917 406-7900

www stevenrosstherapy com

Schuetz, Volker, PsyD 1133 Broadway #913 NYC 212 470-9024

www nychangemanagement com

Schwartz, Alan, M D , Psychiatrist West Village/Chelsea NYC 212 727-0923

Tallent, Marc, Ph D 51 Fifth Ave NYC 212 645-5795

NEW YORK DIRECTORY

DENTIST (CONTINUED) – HAIR REMOVAL

Lew, Spencer, D D S 30 E 40th St #706 NYC 212 286-1717

www nycdental com

LuxDen Dental Center

2579 E 17th St, Ste 11 Brooklyn 718 382-3444

www luxden com

Rosa, John D , D D S , P C 40 Newport Parkway, Ste P-1 Jersey City, NJ 201 626-2700

Sengos, Demetrios, D D S West 10th Dental P C 45 W 10th St NYC 212 982-5883

www west10thdental com

DENTISTS/PERIODONTISTS

Bizzell, Steven J , D M D , D A B P 50-02 5th St Ste B, Long Island City 718 530-6539

www licdentalassociates com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S 5 W 19th St NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

DENTISTS/SUBURBAN

Rosa, John D , D D S , P C 40 Newport Parkway, Ste P-1 Jersey City, NJ 201 626-2700

Dermatology

Advanced Dermatology Associates

200 Central Park South #107 NYC ........................................... 212 262-2500 NYC 212 246-0800

www.adv-derm.com

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Arora, Navin, DO, FAAD Arora Dermatology

115 Broadway, Ste 1800 NYC 212 244-1252

www aroraderm com

Goldman, Barry D , M D

150 Broadway #111 NYC 212 962-1115

Juva Skin & Laser Center

60 E 56th St #2 NYC 212 421-9501

www juvaskin com

Lumos Dermatology

Peter Chien, MD, PhD

37 E 28th St, Ste 304 NYC 646 820-1716

www lumosdermatology com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S 5 W 19th St NYC 212 257-0007

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EMPLOYMENT

Los Angeles Fire Department (LAFD) 1700 Stadium Way LA 213 847-LAFD

www joinlafd org

Los Angeles Police Department (LAPD) 700 E Temple St, B-38 LA 866 444-LAPD

www joinlapd com

EVENT PLANNING & EVENT

SPACE/RENTALS

SEE ALSO CATERING, WEDDING SERVICES

Elite Private Yachts NYC 866 862-7245

www eliteprivateyachts com

www entertainmentcruises com/new-york

Hornblower Cruises & Events Pier 40, NYC 646 832-2805

www hornblowerny com/metrosource

Houston Hall

222 W Houston St NYC 212 582-2057

Patina Events - Brooklyn Botanic Garden Brooklyn 718 307-7133

www patinaevents com

The Riverside Church 490 Riverside Dr NYC 212 870-6762

www trcnyc com

Yachts for All Seasons NYC 212 534-6380

Cell 917 864-7670

www y4as com

EVENT SERVICES

Big Apple Event Audio Visual 519 8th Ave, Ste 815 NYC 212 518-3175

www avnycrentals com

FINANCIAL SERVICES

Ameriprise Financial Services

Lance R Kash, Financial Advisor, CFP® 122 E 42nd St #2215 NYC 646 964-9400

Law Offices of Thomas Sciacca, PLLC 44 Wall St, 12th Fl, NYC 212 495-0317

www sciaccalaw com

New York Life/NYLIFE Securities

Marlon J Altoe 420 Lexington Ave, 15th Fl NYC 646 227-8605 Cell 646 761-4372

www newyorklife com/agent/maltoe

Peloso-Barnes, Julia A , CFP, CPM, CRPC Purchase, NY 914 225-6391

www advisor morganstanley com/the-pelosobarnes-group

FITNESS/GYMS/PERSONAL TRAINERS

Mercedes Club 550 W 54th St NYC 212 265-1111

www themercedesclub com

FLORISTS

la Fleur d’Harlem 203 W 144th St NYC 646 850-5973

www lafleurnyc com

FRAMING

14th Street Framing Gallery 225 W 14th St NYC 212 691-8156

GIFTS

Li-Lac Chocolates

West Village: 40 8th Ave, NYC

Greenwich Village: 162 Bleecker St, NYC

Grand Central: 43rd & Lexington, NYC

Chelsea Market: 75 Ninth Ave, NYC Industry City: 68 35th St, Brooklyn NYC 212 924-2280

www li-lacchocolates com

GUEST HOUSES/B&B’S

Chelsea Pines Inn 317 W 14th St NYC 212 929-1023

Colonial House Inn 318 W 22nd St NYC 212 243-9669

Incentra Village House 32 8th Ave @ W 12th St NYC 212 206-0007

www incentravillage com

MisterBandB

www misterbandb com

HAIR REMOVAL

Advanced Dermatology Associates 200 Central Park South #107 NYC 212 262-2500 NYC 212 246-0800

www adv-derm com

NEW YORK DIRECTORY

HAIR REMOVAL – PHARMACIES/DRUGS

Brisk N Posh

132 Crosby St, Ste 8E NYC 212 433-4477

www brisknposh com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S 5 W 19th St NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

HAIR REPLACEMENT/REPLICATION

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S

5 W 19th St NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

Stoller, Roy B , D O 515 Madison Ave, Ste 1205 NYC 212 920-4499

www hairdoctornyc com

HOTELS

The Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa Atlantic City, NJ 609 317-1000

www outatborgata com

Foxwoods Resort & Casino

www foxwoods com

The Graham & Co

Phoenicia, NY 845 688-7871

www thegrahamandco com

Holiday Inn Manhattan 6th Ave - Chelsea 125 W 26th St NYC 212 430-8500

www hi-nyc com

Hotel Hayden 127 W 28th St NYC 844 423-6004

www hotelhaydennyc com

Hotel Henri 37 W 24th St NYC 844 277-9123

www hotelhenrinyc com

Opus Hotel Vancouver 322 Davie St, Vancouver, BC Canada 604 642-6787

www opushotel com

Sandman Suites on Davie 1160 Davie St

Vancouver, BC Canada 604 681-7263

www sandmanhotels com

Sheraton Vancouver Wall Centre Hotel 1088 Burrard St

Vancouver, BC Canada 604 331-1000

www sheratonvancouver com

Sunset Marquis

1200 Alta Loma Rd West Hollywood CA 800 858-9758

www sunsetmarquis com

VIVE Hotel Waikiki

2426 Kuhio Ave

Honolulu, Hawaii 808 687-2000

www vivehotelwaikiki com

INSURANCE

HealthSherpa Toll Free 844 346-9476

www metrosource healthsherpa com

INTRODUCTION SERVICES

SEE ALSO DATING SERVICES

ManMate NYC 212 564-4025

www manmate com

LASER VISION CORRECTION

SEE ALSO OPHTHALMOLOGISTS

Coad, Christopher T , M D , F A C S

Chelsea Eye Ophthalmology 157 W 19th St NYC 212 220-0066

www chelseaeyeophthalmology com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S 5 W 19th St NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

LIPOSUCTION

Marfuggi, Richard M D , D M H, F A C S 50 E 69th St, NYC 212 317-1188

Denville, NJ 973 377-8950

www askdrm com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S 5 W 19th St, NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

MARKETING SERVICES

Brand2Fly San Jose 408 763-7924

www brand2fly com

GayVan com Travel Marketing

www gayvan com

OPHTHALMOLOGISTS

Coad, Christopher T , M D , F A C S

Chelsea Eye Ophthalmology

157 W 19th St

NYC 212 220-0066

www chelseaeyeophthalmology com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S 5 W 19th St NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

OPTOMETRISTS

Coad, Christopher T , M D , F A C S

Chelsea Eye Ophthalmology 157 W 19th St, NYC 212 220-0066

www chelseaeyeophthalmology com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S 5 W 19th St NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

West Village Eyecare Associates 10 Sheridan Square NYC 212 242-6592

www eyecarenyc com

PAIN MANAGEMENT

Samuelson, Stefan T , MD 44 E 12th St, Ste MD1

PERIODONTISTS

Bizzell, Steven J , D M D , D A B P Periodontist 50-02 5th St Ste B Long Island City 718-530-6539 www licdentalassociates com

PET

NEW YORK DIRECTORY

CVS Specialty 126 8th Ave NYC ........................................... 212 807-8798

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Mayfair Chemists 21 Seventh Ave, NYC 212 242-1444 New London Pharmacy 246 Eighth Ave, NYC 212 243-4987

New York Chemists 77 Christopher St, NYC 212 255-2525

www newyorkchemists com

Thompson Chemists & Thompson Alchemists 137 Thompson St 449 West Broadway NYC 212 598-9790

www thompsonchemists com

Village Apothecary 346 Bleecker St NYC ........................................... 212 807-7566

www.villageapothecary.com

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PHYSICAL THERAPY

Galán, Antonio, PT, DPT, MBA, CHC

RestoreRehab Physical Therapy

664 10th Ave NYC 212 245-5259

www restorerehabpt com

Symbio Physio Therapy 214 W 29th St, Ste 901 NYC 917 338-6268

www symbiopt com

PHYSICIANS & MEDICAL SERVICES

Advanced Dermatology Associates 200 Central Park South #107 NYC 212 262-2500 NYC 212 246-0800

www adv-derm com

Amida Care NYC 855 462-6432

www amidacareny org

Astor Medical Group

67 Irving Place, 5th Fl @ E 18th St NYC 212 253-2968

www astormedical com

Central Park Medical Associates

200 Central Park South #107

NYC 212 262-2500 NYC 212 246-0800

www.centralparkmedicalassociates.com

Coad, Christopher T , M D , F A C S

Chelsea Eye Ophthalmology

157 W 19th St NYC 212 220-0066

www chelseaeyeophthalmology com

Dillon, Stephen, M D Int Med , Inf Dis 314 W 14th St NYC 212 620-0144

Dormer, Anita L , M D , F A C C P 22 E 72nd St, 5th Fl NYC 212 535-5905

Fonville, T W , Int Med 29 Fifth Ave @ 10th St NYC 212 674-1020

Goldberg, Edward S , M D Int Med , Gastr

121 E 60th St, 3rd Fl NYC 212 980-8800

Hsu, Ricky K , M D 154 W 14th St, 4th Fl NYC 212 627-7560

Icochea, Rosendo S , M D 117 E 18th St NYC 212 387-9199

Jaeger, Lawrence D , D O 200 Central Park South #107 NYC 212 246-0800 NYC 212 262-2500

www adv-derm com

Jarratt, Kent, L C S W 19 W 34th St, Penthouse Ste NYC 212 947-7111, ext 119 Oceanport, NJ 917 686-6179

www kentjarratt com

Leach, Eric G , N P 154 W 14th St, 4th Fl, NYC 212 627-7560

Lexington Plastic Surgeons

113 E 39th St NYC 646 374-2410

www try lexingtonplasticsurgeons com/ metrosource

Mandell, William, M D Infectious Diseases

31 Washington Sq West NYC 212 475-8833

Marfuggi, Richard A , M D , D M H , F A C S

50 E 69th St NYC 212 317-1188 Denville, NJ 973 377-8950

www askdrm com

Maze Sexual & Reproductive Health

Maze Men’s Health

Maze Women’s Health

Maze Labs

Maze Cord Blood 633 Third Ave, Ste 9B NYC 646 585-8980

www.mazehealth.com

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Midtown Integrative Medicine

Aziz, Michael, M D , FRSM

509 Madison Ave @ 53rd St, Ste 1111 NYC 212 906-9111

www michaelazizmd com

Namdar, Isaac, M D Ear, Nose, and Throat Specialist 425 W 59th St NYC 212 262-4444

1090 Amsterdam Ave NYC 212 663-2210

www newyorkentspecialist com

www namdarmd com

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S

5 W 19th St, NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

Pearl, Alan, M D , Psychiatrist 135 W 70th St, NYC 212 724-5188

Samuelson, Stefan T , MD 44 E 12th St, Ste MD1 NYC 212 993-8573 NYC 212 594-1600

PLASTIC SURGERY

Dr WW Med Spa and Laser Clinic 85-16 Queens Blvd, 2F, Elmhurst, NY 139 Centre St #224, NYC 718 457-0707

www drwwmedspa com

Lexington Plastic Surgeons 113 E 39th St NYC 646 374-2410

www try lexingtonplasticsurgeons com/ metrosource

Marfuggi, Richard A , M D , D M H F A C S 50 E 69th St NYC 212 317-1188

Denville NJ 973 377-8950

www askdrm com

PHARMACIES/DRUGS (CONTINUED) – PLASTIC SURGERY

PLASTIC SURGERY (CONTINUED) – RETAIL

OMNI Aesthetic MD

Eviatar, Joseph, M D , F A C S 5 W 19th St, NYC 212 257-0007

www omniaestheticmd com

Sexual Health Men

290 Madison Ave 6th Fl, NYC 973 493-7607

www sexualhealthmen com

Skintology

Cosmetical Aesthetics

157 E 57th St, NYC 181 7th Ave, NYC 212 989-6555

www skintologyny com

PODIATRISTS

Ciment, Ethan J , D P M

Collins, Michael, D P M

Chelsea Foot & Ankle Center 37 W 20th St, Ste 308, NYC 646 929-4149

www chelseafootandankle com

REAL ESTATE

Bonavita, David

Compass NYC 212 501-8281

www davidbonavita com

Chroughan, Judy

Julie B Fee Sotherby’s

49 Purchase St Rye, NY 914 262-5323

Coldwell Bank Residential Brokerage

JC Waterfront – Team Francesco

Robert G Harris

1 2nd St, Ste 1 & 4 Jersey City, NJ 201 604-4200

Cell 646 334-0559

Enzo Morabito Team

Douglas Elliman Real Estate Bridgehampton 631 537-6519 Cell 516 695-3433

www theenzomorabitoteam elliman com

Hendler, Lisa E

Berkshire Hathaway Blake Realtors

Kinderhook, NY 518 929-4519

McGrotty, Amy, JD

Castelli Luxury Real Estate Services

Fort Lauderdale, FL 954 347-1732

www amy castellihomes com

Powell, DeWayne A

Town Residential NYC 917 748-5100

www townresidential com

Prince, Keith A

Brown Harris Stevens NYC 917 826-3451

www brownharrisstevens com

TF Cornerstone

www tfc com

Wright, Daniel Compass NYC 917 304-4270

REAL ESTATE/SUBURBAN

Habeeb-Clark, Deborah Keller Williams Hudson Valley, NY 845 800-5413

Perasso, Matt

Prominent Properties/Sotheby’s International Realty

2 Main St, Edgewater, NJ 201 840-8898 Cell 917 834-0454

www goldcoastcribs com

RETAIL

Eva’s Supplements

11 W 8th St (bet 5th & 6th Aves) NYC 212 982-2500

www evassupplements com

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Call 1-800-362-7828.

NEW YORK DIRECTORY

SCHOOLS– WINE & SPIRITS

SCHOOLS

Brooklyn Heights Montessori School

185 Court St, Brooklyn 718 858-5100

www bhmsny org

Rudolf Steiner School

15 E 79th St NYC 212 535-2130

www steiner edu

SPA/SALON SERVICES

Brisk N Posh

132 Crosby St, Ste 8E NYC ........................................... 212 433-4477

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TRAVEL

Bucks County Pennsylvania

www visitbuckscounty com

Kennedy Travel 130 W 42nd St #401 NYC 212 398-0999

Toll Free 800 237-7433

www kennedytravel com

Ogunquit Chamber of Commerce

36 Main St

Ogunquit, ME 207 646-2939

www visitogunquit org

Sullivan Catskills Catskills, NY 800 882-CATS

www sullivancatskills com

TRAVEL/GETAWAYS

Foxwoods Resort & Casino

www foxwoods com

Visit Philadelphia Philadelphia, PA 215 599-0776

www visitphilly com

WEDDING SERVICES

Bespoke Matchmaking 1180 Avenue of the Americas, 8th Fl NYC 888 422-6464

www bespokematchmaking com

Elite Private Yachts NYC 866 862-7245

www eliteprivateyachts com

www entertainmentcruises com/new-york

Feinstein’s/54 Below

254 W 54th St, Cellar NYC 212 302-5559 x114

www 54below com

Gatherings Floral Design

www gatheringsfloraldesign com

Hornblower Cruises & Events Pier 40, NYC 646 832-2805

www hornblowerny com/metrosource

Houston Hall

222 W Houston St, NYC 212 582-2057

Li-Lac Chocolates

West Village: 40 8th Ave, NYC

Greenwich Village: 162 Bleecker St, NYC

Grand Central: 43rd & Lexington, NYC

Chelsea Market: 75 Ninth Ave, NYC

Industry City: 68 35th St, Brooklyn NYC 212 924-2280

www li-lacchocolates com

Make My Cake NYC 212 234-2344

www makemycake com

Manhattan Penthouse NYC 212 627-8838

www manhattanpenthouse com

New York Zoos and Aquarium NYC 718 741-3836

www nyzooevents com

Oheka Castle 135 West Gate Dr Huntington, NY 631 659-1400

www oheka com

Our Wedding Officiant NYC Peter Boruchowitz NYC 917 523-1438

www nyc-gay-weddings com

Patina Events - Brooklyn Botanic Garden Brooklyn 718 307-7133

www patinaevents com

Paul Evans Catering 20 W 20th St NYC 212 321-1822 NYC 212 243-4494

www paulevanscatering com

The Riverside Church 490 Riverside Dr NYC 212 870-6762

www trcnyc com

Yachts for All Seasons NYC 212 534-6380 Cell 917 864-7670

www y4as com

WILLS

Law Offices of Thomas Sciacca, PLLC 44 Wall St, 12th Fl NYC 212 495-0317

www sciaccalaw com

WINE & SPIRITS

Cork Wines & Spirits 1450 Washington St Hoboken NJ 201 942-9964

www corkwines net

NEW YORK DIRECTORY

FIRE ISLAND PINES – CHERRY GROVE

FIRE ISLAND PINES – CHERRY GROVE

NEW YORK COMMUNITY RESOURCES

NEW YORK COMMUNITY RESOURCES

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HARDWARE

Pines Hardware & Sundries Bay Walk Pines 631 597-6237

LANDSCAPING/FLORAL Beachscapes Pines 631 597-3746

CLOTHING/GIFTS

LIQUORS/WINES

The Pines Liquor Shop Harbor Walk Pines 631 597-6442

POOL

REAL

Pines Harbor Realty 36 Fire Island Blvd Pines 631 597-7575

RESTAURANTS

Blue Whale Pines 631 597-6500 www bluewhalefireisland com

GUEST

Cultured Elephant Pines 631 597-6500 www thepinesfireisland com

Grove Pizza & Restaurant Cherry Grove 631 597-6766

Pines Bistro & Pizza Pines 631 597-3597

TRANSPORTATION

Sayville Ferry River Rd NYC 631 589-0810

ATHLETIC

ATHLETIC

BIG APPLE SOFTBALL LEAGUE 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10011 212 696-7482

BIG APPLE SOFTBALL LEAGUE 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10011 212 696-7482

CHEER NY CHEERLEADING Felipe Hernandez 888 671-7312 www.cheerny.org

CHEER NY CHEERLEADING Felipe Hernandez 888 671-7312 www.cheerny.org

NORTH JERSEY G&L BOWLERS Belle Aire Lanes West Caldwell, NJ 201 823-2250

NORTH JERSEY G&L BOWLERS Belle Aire Lanes West Caldwell, NJ 201 823-2250

NY GAY POOL LEAGUE PO Box 1502 Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 496-4585

NY GAY POOL LEAGUE PO Box 1502 Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 496-4585

NY RAMBLER’S SOCCER CLUB, INC. 917 767-9789 www.nyramblers.com

NY RAMBLER’S SOCCER CLUB, INC. 917 767-9789 www.nyramblers.com

CITY CRUISERS MC Old Chelsea Station PO Box 1614 New York, NY 10011 www.citycruisers.com (gay men’s motorcycle club)

CITY CRUISERS MC Old Chelsea Station PO Box 1614 New York, NY 10011 www.citycruisers.com

EZRYDERS SNOWBOARDING 445 W 46th St #4D New York, NY 10036 www.ezryders@ondbdx.com

EZRYDERS SNOWBOARDING 445 W 46th St #4D New York, NY 10036 www.ezryders@ondbdx.com

FAST AND FABULOUS CYCLING P.O. Box 23008, Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 567-7160

FAST AND FABULOUS CYCLING P.O. Box 23008, Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 567-7160

FRONT RUNNERS NY P.O. Box 87 Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 799-8781 www.frny.org

FRONT RUNNERS NY P.O. Box 87 Ansonia Sta New York, NY 10023 212 799-8781 www.frny.org

GARDEN STATE GAY BOWLING LEAGUE www.gsgbo.com

GARDEN STATE GAY BOWLING LEAGUE www.gsgbo.com

GOTHAM VOLLEYBALL P.O. Box 961 New York, NY 10034 212 388-8208 info@gothamvolleyball.org

GOTHAM VOLLEYBALL P.O. Box 961 New York, NY 10034 212 388-8208 info@gothamvolleyball.org

KNIGHTS WRESTLING CLUB P.O. Box 720161 Jackson Heights, NY 11372 718 815-3244

KNIGHTS WRESTLING CLUB P.O. Box 720161 Jackson Heights, NY 11372 718 815-3244

LONG ISLAND RAVENS MC CLUB c/o Long Island Eagle 94 Clinton Ave Bayshore, NY 11706 631 968-2750 www.liravensmc.org

LONG ISLAND RAVENS MC CLUB c/o Long Island Eagle 94 Clinton Ave Bayshore, NY 11706 631 968-2750 www.liravensmc.org

MONDAY NIGHT FOURPLAY BOWLING LEAGUE Syosset Bowl 631 842-5166

MONDAY NIGHT FOURPLAY BOWLING LEAGUE Syosset Bowl 631 842-5166

NYC GAY BASKETBALL LEAGUE www.nycgaybasketball.org

NYC GAY BASKETBALL LEAGUE www.nycgaybasketball.org

OUT OF BOUNDS

NYC & TEAM NEW YORK PO Box 372, Times Sq Station New York, NY 10108 www.oobnyc.org

OUT OF BOUNDS NYC & TEAM NEW YORK PO Box 372, Times Sq Station New York, NY 10108 www.oobnyc.org

PINK PONG NY Sunnyside, Queens 718 623-2926 www.pinkpongfoundation.org

PINK PONG NY Sunnyside, Queens 718 623-2926 www.pinkpongfoundation.org

SUN/MON/TUE NIGHT TEAMS c/o Chelsea Piers AMF Bowl Pier 60, New York, NY 10011 212 835-2691

SUN/MON/TUE NIGHT TEAMS c/o Chelsea Piers AMF Bowl Pier 60, New York, NY 10011 212 835-2691

SUNDANCE OUTDOOR ADVENTURE SOCIETY www.sundanceoutdoor.org sundanceoutdoor@yahoo.com

SUNDANCE OUTDOOR ADVENTURE SOCIETY www.sundanceoutdoor.org sundanceoutdoor@yahoo.com

TEAM NEW YORK AQUATICS 212 691-3440 (hotline)

TEAM NEW YORK AQUATICS 212 691-3440 (hotline)

CULTURAL, ETHNIC & SOCIAL

APICHA 400 Broadway New York, NY 10013 212 334-6029 www.apicha.org

CULTURAL, ETHNIC & SOCIAL APICHA 400 Broadway New York, NY 10013 212 334-6029 www.apicha.org

BEST FRIENDS ANIMAL SOCIETY 5001 Angel Canyon Rd Kanab, UT 84741 435 644-2001 www.bestfriends.org

BEST FRIENDS ANIMAL SOCIETY 5001 Angel Canyon Rd Kanab, UT 84741 435 644-2001 www.bestfriends.org

NEW YORK COMMUNITY RESOURCES

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BIG GAY MEN OF NEW YORK 9111 Liberty Ave #662 Ozone Park, NY 11417 631 780-2807 www.convergence.nyc

EMPIRE CITY MEN’S CHORUS P.O. Box 1017 New York, NY 10185 empirecitymenschorus.org

GAY & BI FATHERS FORUM OF GREATER NY PO Box 1321, Midtown Sta New York, NY 10018 212 721-4216 (recording) 718 728-0476

GAY & LESBIAN ALLIANCE AGAINST DEFAMATION (GLAAD) 150 West 26th St New York, NY 10001 212 807-1700 www.glaad.org

GAY FATHERS OF NY 245 Eighth Ave #897 New York, NY 10011 212 388-2618

GAY MEN OF AFRICAN DESCENT 44 Court St, 10th Fl, Ste 1000 Brooklyn, NY 10201 718 222-6300 www.gmad.org

GAY MEN OF THE BRONX PO Box 511, Bronx, NY 10451 www.gmob.org

IMPERIAL

QUEENS & KINGS OF NY 70-A Greenwich Ave #120 New York, NY 10011 212 229-5900 x3655

IN OUR OWN WRITE 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10014 212 620-7310 x305 (monthly readings)

IN THE LIFE 30 West 26th St, 7th Fl New York, NY 10011 212 255-6012

JERSEY CITY LESBIAN & GAY OUTREACH (JCLGO) 113 Pavonia Ave #247 Jersey City, NJ 07302 201 333-5725

LATINOS & LATINAS DE AMBIENTE/NY (LLANY) 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10014 212 367-1092

LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL & TRANSGENDER COMMUNITY SERVICES CENTER 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10014 212 620-7310 www.gaycenter.org

LESBIAN & GAY NATURAL HISTORY GROUP OF NY 80 Garfield Pl Brooklyn, NY 11215

718 965-0013

LESBIAN HERSTORY ARCHIVES PO Box 1258 New York, NY 10116 718 768-3953

LESLIE-LOHMAN MUSEUM OF GAY AND LESBIAN ART 26 Wooster St New York, NY 10013 www.leslielohman.org

LIVE OUT LOUD 45 West 36th Street, 6th Fl New York, NY 10018 212 378-4095 www.liveoutloud.info

THE LOFT-LOWER HUDSON VALLEY LGBT CENTER 252 Bryant Ave White Plains, NY 10605 914 948-2932 www.loftgaycenter.org

THE L.I. GAY & LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL ORG P.O. Box 360 East Northport, NY 11731 www.liglff.org

LONG ISLAND GAY & LESBIAN YOUTH 34 Park Ave Bay Shore, NY 11706 631 665-2300 www.ligaly.org

LONG ISLAND RAVENS M.C. c/o The Long Island Eagle 94 North Clinton Ave Bay Shore, NY 11706 631 968-2750 www.liravensmc.org

MALES AU NATUREL (MAN)

MEN’S NUDIST GROUP 347 704-0704 www.males.org

MEN OF ALL COLORS TOGETHER NEW YORK PO Box 1518 Ansonia Station, NY 10023

NYC GAY MEN’S CHORUS 561 Seventh Ave, Ste 803 New York, NY 10018 212 344-1777 www.nycgmc.org

NYC PRIDE 154 Christopher St, Suite 1D New York, NY 10014 212 807-7433 www.nycpride.org

PARENTS AND FRIENDS OF LESBIANS AND GAYS (P-FLAG) PO Box 553 New York, NY 10021 212 463-0629

THE POINT FOUNDATION 5757 Wilshire Blvd, Suite 370 LA, CA 90036 866 33-Point www.pointfoundation.org

PRIME TIMERS c/o Don Hargus 208 Anderson St, Suite 8DS Hackensack, NJ 07601 201 488-4839

QUEENS L&G PRIDE COMMITTEE PO Box 580445 Flushing, NY 11358 718 460-4064

QUEENS PRIDE HOUSE

76-11 37th Ave Jackson Heights, NY 11372 718 429-5309

QUEENS RAINBOW COMMUNITY CENTER 30-74 Steinway St, 2nd Fl Astoria, NY 11105 718 204-5955

SERVICES AND ADVOCACY FOR GLBT ELDERS (SAGE) 305 Seventh Ave New York, NY 10001 212 741-2247 www.sageusa.org

SOUTHERNERS/L&G MEN IN NY PO Box 881 New York, NY 10008-0881

STONEWALL CHORALE Box 920, Old Chelsea Sta New York, NY 10011 212 971-5813

STONEWALL COMMUNITY FOUNDATION

119 West 24th St, 7th Fl New York, NY 10011 212 367-1155 www.stonewallfoundation.org

TRI STATE LG&B STUDENT COALITION 208 West 13th St New York, NY 10014

HEALTH/ COUNSELING

AIDS CENTER OF QUEENS COUNTY 97-45 Queens Blvd #1220 Rego Park, NY 11374 718 896-2500

AIDS DRUG ASSISTANCE PROGRAM (ADAP) 800 542-2437

AIDS HEALTHCARE FOUNDATION 475 Atlantic Ave Brooklyn, NY 11217 718 637-2970 888 AIDS-CARE www.ahfpharmacy.org

AIDS HOTLINE/NYC DEPT OF HEALTH 311 Broadway, 4th Fl New York, NY 10007 800 TALK-HIV

AIDS RELATED COMMUNITY SERVICES

2269 Saw Mill River Rd Elmsford, NY 10523 914 345-8888

AIDS SERVICE CENTER NYLIVEC

64 West 35th St New York, NY 212 645-0875 www.ascnyc.org

THE ALLIANCE FOR POSITIVE CHANGE 64 West 35th Street, 3rd Fl New York, NY 10001 212.645-0875 www.alliance.nyc (SEE AD PREVIOUS PAGE)

AMERICAN FOUNDATION FOR AIDS RESEARCH 120 Wall St New York, NY 10005 212 806-1600

ANTI-VIOLENCE PROJECT 240 West 35th St, 12th Fl New York, NY 10001 212 714-1184 212 714-1141 (Hotline)

BAILEY HOLT HOUSE 180 Christopher St New York, NY 10014 212 337-3000

BAILEY HOUSE 275 Seventh Ave, 12th Fl New York, NY 10001 212 633-2500

BETH ISRAEL MEDICAL CENTER AIDS CLINICAL TRIAL UNIT DIV OF INFECTIOUS DISEASES 350 East 17th St, 3rd Fl New York, NY 10003 212 420-4519

BODY POSITIVE OF NY 19 Fulton St Suite 308B New York, NY 10038 212 566-7333 800 566-6599

BROADWAY CARES/EQUITY FIGHTS AIDS 165 West 46th St #1300 New York, NY 10036 212 840-0770

BROOKLYN AIDS TASK FORCE 465 Dean St Brooklyn, NY 11217 718 783-0883

CALLEN LORDE COMMUNITY HEALTH CENTER 356 West 18th St New York, NY 10011 212 271-7200

CHEST (CTRHIV/AIDS EDUCATION STUDIES & TRAINING) 250 West 26th Street, 3rd Floor New York, NY 212 206-7919

DESIGN INDUSTRIES FOUNDATION FOR AIDS (DIFFA) 200 Lexington Ave #1016 New York, NY 10016 212 727-3100

F.E.G.S. MANHATTAN COUNSELING CENTER 80 Van Dam St New York, NY 10013 212 366-8289

FRIENDS HOUSE IN ROSEHILL PMB#248 50 Lexington Avenue New York, NY 10010 212 995-5000 www.friendshousenyc.org

GAY MEN OF AFRICAN DESCENT 44 Court St, 10th Fl, Ste 1000 Brooklyn, NY 10201 718 222-6300

www.gmad.org

GAY MEN’S HEALTH CRISIS 446 West 33rd St New York, NY 10001 212 367-1273 212 367-1489 800 243-7692 www.gmhc.org

GOD’S LOVE WE DELIVER 166 Ave of the Americas New York, NY 10013 212 294-8142 212 294-8100 www.godslovewedeliver.org www.racetodeliver.org

GREENWICH HOUSE 80 Fifth Ave New York, NY 10011 212 691-2900

HEALTH EDUCATION AIDS LIAISON PO Box 1103 New York, NY 10113 212 873-0780

HETRICK MARTIN INSTITUTE 212 674-2400 www.hmi.org

HEALTHSHERPA 844 346-9476 www.metrosource. healthsherpa.com

HISPANIC AIDS FORUM, INC. 213 W 35th St, 12th Fl New York, NY 10001 212 868-6230 www.hafnyc.org

HIV STOPS WITH ME www.hivstopswithme.org

INSTITUTION FOR HUMAN IDENTITY 322 Eighth Ave, Suite #802 New York, NY 10011 212 243-2830 www.ihi-therapycenter.org

LI ASSN FOR AIDS CARE (LIAAC) 631 385-AIDS (hotline) 631 385-2451

MEN OF COLOR AIDS PREVENTION PROGRAM (MOCA) 125 Worth St, Box 67 New York, NY 10013 212 788-4402

MEN’S HIV SUPPORT GROUP 212 877-8227 x214

MINORITY TASK FORCE ON AIDS 475 Riverside Dr New York, NY 10115 212 870-2691

NAMES PROJECT NJ P.O. Box 716 New Brunswick, NJ 732 249-3933

NAMES PROJECT NYC 75 Varick St #1404 New York, NY 10013-1917 212 226-2292

NYC DEPT OF HEALTH OFFICE OF G&L HEALTH 125 Worth St, Suite CN67 New York, NY 10013 212 442-6944

PROJECT ACHIEVE New York, 212 305-2201 Project ACHIEVE (Union Square) New York, 212 388-0008 www.nycvaccine.org www.hopetakesaction.org

THE SAMARITANS OF NEW YORK SUICIDE PREVENTION HOTLINE PO Box 1259 New York, NY 10159 212 673-3000 (24 Hours)

TALK SAFE + PLUSES 203 West St #408 New York, NY 212 604-1500

TREVOR PROJECT 9056 Santa Monica Blvd #100 West Hollywood, CA 90069 310 271-8845

VILLAGE NURSING HOME DAY TREATMENT PROGRAM 133 West 20th St, Ground Fl New York, NY 10011 212 633-1616

LEGAL

LAMBDA LEGAL DEFENSE AND EDUCATION FUND 120 Wall St #1500 New York, NY 10005 212 809-8585

LEGAL (L&G LAW ASSN OF GREATER NY) 799 Broadway #340 New York, NY 10003 212 459-4873

LESBIANS

LESBIANS ABOUT VISUAL ART 118 Fort Greene Pl Brooklyn, NY 11217

LES HERSTORY ARCHIVES PO Box 1258 New York, NY 10116 718 768-3953

LESBIAN MOTHERS @ THE LOFT 180 East Post Rd Lower Level, White Plains, NY 914 948-4922

POLITICAL LOG CABIN REPUBLICANS OF NY Radio City Station PO Box 2321 New York,

NEW YORK COMMUNITY RESOURCES

PRIDE DEMOCRATS 70 Greenwich Ave New York, NY 10011 212 613-6039

STONEWALL COMMUNITY FOUNDATION 119 West 24th St, 6th Fl New York, NY 10011 212 367-1155

STONEWALL DEMOCRATIC CLUB 212 561-9008 www.stonewalldems.com

STONEWALL REPUBLICANS PO Box 650052 Fresh Meadows, NY 11365 718 357-7075

PROFESSIONAL ASSOCIATION OF LESBIAN AND GAY AFFIRMATIVE PSYCHOTHERAPISTS 250 West 15th St New York, NY 10011 212 517-1722

FSIX FINANCIAL SERVICE INDUSTRY EXCHANGE www.fsix.org

GAY OFFICERS ACTION LEAGUE PO Box 2038, Canal St Sta New York, NY 10013

NATIONAL GAY & LESBIAN CHAMBER OF COMMERCE NY 340 West 42nd Street New York, NY 10108 646 964-5027 www.nglccny.org

OUT PROFESSIONALS 332 Bleecker St #149 New York, NY 10014 212 462-9255

THE PUBLISHING TRIANGLE 332 Bleecker Street #D36 New York, NY 10014 www.publishingtriangle.org

REFERRALS/ SWITCHBOARDS

G&L SWITCHBOARD P.O. Box 693 New York, NY 212 989-0999

THE GAY PARENTING FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE FUND New York, NY 10011 www.menhavingbabies.org

TREVOR PROJECT 212 545-0081 www.thetrevorproject.org

RELIGIOUS

BROADWAY UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST 263 West 86 St, 3rd Fl New York, NY 10024 212 316-5700 www.bwayucc.org

CHURCH OF ST PAUL & ST ANDREW 263 West 86th St New York, NY 10024 212 362-3179

COMMUNITY CHURCH OF NY 40 East 35th St New York, NY 10016 212 683-4988 www.ccny.org

CONGREGATION BEIT SIMCHAT TORAH 130 West 30th St New York, NY 10001 212 929-9498

DIGNITY NEW YORK PO Box 1554 New York, NY 10150 646 418-7039

Brooklyn - 718 565-2171

Metro NJ - 973 857-4040

New Bruns. - 732 968-9263

Nassau - 516 781-6225 Suffolk - 631 654-5367

INTEGRITY/NEW YORK (LBGT EPISCOPALIANS) PO Box 20067 New York, NY 10011 212 691-7181

MARBLE COLLEGIATE CHURCH 1 West 29th St New York, NY 10001 212 686-2770 www.marblechurch.org

METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCH OF NY 446 West 36th St New York, NY 10018 212 629-7440 www.mccny.org

MIDDLE COLLEGIATE CHURCH 112 Second Ave @ 7th St New York, NY 10003 212 477-0666 www.middlechurch.org

NOT SO CHURCHY www.notsochurchy.org

ST. JOHN’S LUTHERAN CHURCH Reverend Mark Erson 81 Christopher St. New York, NY 10014 212-242-5737 www.stjohnsnyc.org

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