Good Vibes Sex and Kink after 50 BY MICHAEL GIOTIS
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“What kind of things are you processing right now?” I ask. “Lubricants and condoms,” she replies, wry tone. “That great old combo,” I add, straight faced “Yep, gotta have all that good stuff,” she smiles.
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50 UP 2022
If you travel along the 101 corridor in Sonoma County, you are bound to be familiar with the provocative billboard for Spice. The playfully sensual ads featuring handcuffs and the like are designed to get one thinking. And considering the prime placement along rush hour and weekend traffic, a lot of you have had a thought or two cruising past. Ever wonder what your partner next to you also thought? All you need to do is ask, experts I spoke with say. “Communication and negotiation are key components to pleasurable
BDSM play. This ensures partners have the chance, and responsibility, to express their desires and learn what is exciting for their partner(s). The rewards are increased intimacy, new experiences, and (often) giggles!” according to Dr Celina Criss, a private sex coach focused on sexual expression and BDSM. “BDSM” stands for Bondage, Domination, Sadism, Masochism for you “vanilla” folks. Wait, let’s rewind… Sexual self discovery often comes at a later stage in life. People entering their 50s — as I will in months — or »»
PHOTO COURTESY OF WOMANIZER TOYS
am standing in the back of Spice Sensuality Boutique in Rohnert Park watching assistant manager Sarah Hutchinson unpack and tag cases of product.
