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contents NOVEMBER 2011 columns 11 The Way I See It Hold on Loosely

21 HomeWorks Your Purse

22 Salt & Light Delta Streets

23 Think Tank What Are We Living For? Titles or Testimonies

35 Living My Call Pastor Hosea Hines of Christ Tabernacle Church

37 All In The Family A Practical Reason for Being Thankful

features

38 Modern Motherhood Easy Not Like Sunday Morning

Ed and Dana Trim

39 Education Connection Does My Child Have ADHD? (Part II of II)

Not Ashamed of the Gospel

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40 Legal Advice How Many of These Do You Have Covered?

Looking at Both Sides

41 Let’s Talk It Over Healing Under God’s Guardianship New Things are Happening!

42 This Is My Story Giving Thanks

departments 19 Our Daily Bread How Do You Keep the Faith?

29 Food For Thought Gather at the Table

30 Fresh Finds Handcrafted for the Holidays

34 Christian Commerce Corner Callaway’s Yard and Garden

36 Welcome Home Cultivate A Thankful Heart This Year

44 Rave Reviews Books, Movies and Music

What’s Coming Next Month? Grace City Church

in every issue 8 45 46 46

Editor’s Letter Event Calendar Quips & Quotes Ad Directory

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➺editor’s letter A GRATEFUL HEART Thou who hast given so much to me, give me one thing more... a grateful heart! – George Herbert

I have not received ❝ We the spirit of the world but the Spirit who is from God, that we may understand what God has freely given us.

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– I Corinthians 2:12

think the best part of growing older is the way one starts to view his life as something akin to a puzzle in progress. My grandmother taught me to love puzzles. My granddaughter Allie loves puzzles, too. It is so much fun to set the box top beside the pieces spread across the table and see the picture come together—from abstract nothing to a fine replica of the picture on the box. There are always a few pieces that seem not to fit anywhere, but eventually with some patience and perseverance, they find their place, too, and every piece takes you a little closer to matching your puzzle to that image on the box. I see that God did indeed have a master plan and He doesn’t make mistakes. Therefore, from the vantage point of age, I see as I did not see decades ago how every circumstance—even the hard ones— came filtered through His gracious hands. I am thankful, too, that whatever it took to reach my hard heart and to teach me gratitude…God’s grace provided that, too. Is it just me—the girl who watches too much news talk—or is it fact that the world seems to be increasingly negative? It has become quite countercultural in this politically correct day to embrace the tried and true values of our forefathers. I found numerous articles on the internet telling me that the first Thanksgiving was more myth than fact. It really had nothing to do with giving thanks to God. In fact, one article compared it all to a three-day orgy of sorts where the Pilgrims and the 91 Indians present just ate, drank, and partied. I can just imagine what my American History teacher Coach Barton would have to say about that version! You know what irritates me most? I am really tired of the prevailing attitude of those vocal pundits who tell us in condescending ways that Christians are just not smart or educated and we have misunderstood our heritage altogether if we read “Christian” into the principles our founding fathers cherished. So this is my politically incorrect Thanksgiving letter from the editor…with no apologies for the fact that we plaster the word Christian across the front cover and we love Jesus and we are incredibly grateful to our God for life, breath, freedom, and every good and perfect gift which He tells us in His Word comes from Him (James 1:17). I heard Governor William Winter speak at a Mission Mississippi luncheon years ago, and he spoke of the cynicism, apathy, and greed that threatened to tear our blessed land apart. Sadly, his words were almost prophetic. If we, as Christians, are called to be the light of the world, we can start with an intentional search for grateful hearts in the very place we are today. Might it be contagious? By the way, some of my “Google” research uncovered numerous articles on how gratitude can improve our well-being by boosting our immune systems, lowering stress hormones and allowing for improved sleep. The writer encourages people to focus on good things, look for small pleasures in the smile of a child, the smell of your first cup of coffee in the mornings, the beauty of a sunset. I recall Paul’s advice in Philippians 4:8 “to think on whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious.” Is that practical or what? It just so happens that Thanksgiving is our theme this month. So if you relish pessimism, put this magazine down. Otherwise, you might discover a whole new reason to celebrate, to love even the challenging folks God has put in your life, to welcome every new day as a gift straight from the Father’s heart, and to possibly do something radical. Be politically incorrect and tell someone why and to whom you are giving thanks. Happy Thanksgiving! Y

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Hold on Loosely orrie Ten Boom and her family were Christians living in the Netherlands during the Nazi occupation. They were active participants in the Dutch underground and provided shelter for Jews seeking safety. On February 28, 1944, they were betrayed, and the Gestapo arrested her and several members of her family. The family was separated, and Corrie and her sister Betsie were sent to Ravensbruck concentration camp. In this Nazi camp, the sisters ministered and shared the Gospel with the other prisoners. Betsie died in the camp, and because of a clerical fluke, Corrie was released. Corrie wrote several books about her traumatic experiences including the moving best-selling autobiography The Hiding Place. Reflecting back on the death of her sister, Ten Boom said, “Hold everything in your hands lightly. Otherwise, it hurts when God pries your fingers open.” Ten Boom’s profound quote strikes at the heart of one of the realities of our faith. I find that one of the greatest challenges is my wanting to be in “control” of my life. In reality, any control I think I may have is an illusion—it is a false security. I find that the tighter grip I try to have on my life the more miserable I actually become. Whether it is my health, wealth or family, I don’t really have control. Going back to the Ten Commandments, we are warned in Exodus 20:3 that, “thou shall not have any other gods before me.” We see this point dramatically illustrated when God told Abraham to offer his cherished son Isaac as a burnt offering. Abraham’s willingness to do as God commanded is a model for us of obedience. It has been said that our hearts are “idol

factories.” We want to “worship” our careers, our sports, our kids, and other objects of our affection. It is hard to keep the big picture perspective of Job that, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will return there. The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away. May the name of the Lord be blessed!” The giving part is great, but it is the taking away that is painful! I find that keeping an open hand is a real challenge. As the 80’s band 38 Special said in their 1981 hit, “Just hold on loosely, but don’t let go. If you cling too tightly, you’re gonna lose control.” Whether it is dealing with the loss of a loved one, the plummeting or our financial portfolio, or health challenges, we are challenged to “hold on loosely.” How much heartache could be avoided, disputes resolved, and stress relieved if we kept a lighter grip and treated our “possessions” as simply opportunities for stewardship. Ultimately, our comfort is in knowing that God is in control. This does not mean that we should be “couch potato” Christians. Instead, we can boldly, confidently, and passionately be engaged in being ambassadors of Christ during our brief time here on earth. The final victory has been won, and we have assurance in our final destination. As we acknowledge Christ as Lord as well as Savior, we can experience the joy of surrender and to “hold on loosely.” Y Martin E. Willoughby, Jr. is Chief Operating Officer of Butler Snow Advisory Services, LLC located in Ridgeland. He and his wife Nicki have two children, Ally and Trey, and live in Madison. metrochristianliving.com ❘ NOVEMBER 2011 11

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others come to Christ is life-changing and Word of Life members who go once can’t wait to sign up again. They are also involved in local missions with teams who work with Habitat for Humanity, Stewpot, and a new venture in the Poindexter Park area where they have recently purchased a wonderful building that once housed a bank. To be called the Life Poindexter, this ministry will be a steady presence in the neighborhood giving the Poindexter residents a different perspective on services offered to them. With a clothes closet and a food pantry that will be more “upscale” than typical, the volunteers from Word of Life want to build lasting relationships as they offer help and encouragement to families. Children’s ministries and youth ministries thrive at Word of Life also. Every component of worship and teaching is carefully combined to draw the young people to understanding the love of God. You will find kids who love to be here! Fellowship groups for couples, singles, and even running enthusiasts provide opportunities for relationship building and fun together. There is a place at Word of Life for everyone, making it a must-visit church!

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Melissa Bourn As we walk with God each day, we are strengthened for the tough days that may come our way. Little did I know just how tough it could get until 8 years ago, when my husband, a minister, was diagnosed with Burkett’s Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. He lived only 7 short months. I prayed, “Lord, you promised to be faithful—I need you to prove it!” and He did just that. As I walked down the “road of grief,” I was amazed how sweet and faithful God was to me. I had the support of my family, my “work” family, my wonderful pastor and “church” family and many dear friends. I was determined to become better—not bitter. I questioned myself–could I be used in ministry alone? Could I be used to help and encourage others facing their toughest times? Colossians 3:23 really spoke to my heart: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, and not for people.” Taking this approach, I asked the Lord to help me find “my place.” I became more active at my church, serving where I was needed, and

reaching out to others that were hurting and discouraged at church and work. My sister and friends had asked me to join them on Facebook, but I really wasn’t interested. Several months ago I finally joined, purposing in my heart that my “wall” would be uplifting and encouraging. I connected with friends and classmates and made many new friends. I began sharing scriptures and quotes along with personal comments daily. As I posted about God’s love, goodness and faithfulness to me, my friends shared things with me that they were facing in their lives. I have been amazed how God has blessed our friendships through sharing His Word on Facebook. No matter what you are facing in your life, you can find your “special place” in Him. When you do, just do it with all your heart! Melissa Bourn lives in Columbia and works at Pearl River Valley Electric Power Association. She is a member of Woodlawn United Pentecostal Church.Y

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YOUR PURSE! A WOMAN’S PURSE IS A COMPLEX ACCESSORY. Some stash everything from makeup to money to children’s toys in their purse and others have the less is more mentality. Regardless of your style, here are a few tips to make your purse work better for you.

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If your purse is so large that you are known as the bag lady, or if your purse is so heavy that it hurts, consider switching to a clutch and tote bag combo. Whether you buy two stylish look-alikes or pick two favorites from your closet, there are many advantages to this option. The clutch (or any small purse or large wallet) is perfect for your wallet, keys, and lipstick. Drop it down into your carry all, which holds all of your other essentials: umbrella, gloves, shopping list, kids items, a water bottle, files from work, and more. Running in the bank? Having lunch with a friend? Leave the tote in the car and grab your clutch and go.

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If a clutch and tote would never work for you, try organizing your large purse with kits. Have a zipper bag for makeup items, hand sanitizer, tissue, and the like. Another kit might be for pens, paper, receipts, a calculator. Having your purse organized in this simple fashion makes it easy to store and retrieve items and even better, to switch purses in a hurry. Pencil pouches on the school supply aisle work great!

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To make your purse the most functional, drop items in the same place every timewhether its your lipstick, a pen, or sun glasses,

having the same go to spot makes them easier to retrieve. Choosing a purse with ample pockets is helpful. Also be sure to leave your purse in the same place every time you walk through the door.

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We easily lose keys in the depths of our purse! Consider adding a clip to your key ring and fasten your keys to the outside of your purse as you get out of the car.

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To help you keep your purse in the same place, Install a hook somewhere near the back door just for your bag (or try a wreath hook on a door). Hanging purses is also great for storing them- my favorites are peg board (hung lovingly by my husband on a wall in the closet- who wouldn’t love a wall of purses? Closet art!) or a coat tree (which may stand nicely in your closet and look just fine with large cup hooks added to it).

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Cathy Haynie and her husband, Jack, have three children and live in Madison. Cathy is the Headmaster of Christ Covenant School in Ridgeland. She occasionally speaks to women’s groups on Honoring God in the Home and Balancing Work and Home. Contact her at chaynie@ccs.ms. metrochristianliving.com ❘ NOVEMBER 2011 21

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he shouts of young boys playing basketball, balls bouncing and shoes squeaking echo off the empty buildings nearby and make it easy to find Delta Streets Ministry in downtown Greenwood. In the garage bay of an old car dealership on a Wednesday afternoon, there is a hive of activity. Young boys voices ricochet off the walls and into the street as they play basketball and shoot pool. After school every day, right in the middle of homework, sweaty boys and squeaking sneakers is where you can find T. Mac Howard, founder of Delta Streets. Howard grew up in the Reservoir area outside Jackson and was pursuing a degree in Math Education at MSU when a mission trip to New Orleans in 2005 to work with Desire Street Ministries changed the course of his life. “I realized that if I was going to live out the Gospel I wasn’t going to be very effective moving back home after school. All these scriptures like Isaiah 58 and Matthew 25, where we are told to take care of the poor… I couldn’t do that where I was. I didn’t know anybody who was hungry.” After completing his degree T. Mac was offered the position of assistant football and head baseball coach at Greenwood High School. He jumped headfirst into the job but realized quickly the demands of his job restricted the time he could spend ministering. “I was with the boys all day and I was getting to know them but there wasn’t time for real discipleship.” Howard got radical. He bought a house in South Greenwood, an almost exclusively African-American neighborhood and quit his job. He explains his move, “They don’t have to tell me what went down in their neighborhood the night before. If there were shots fired, I heard them too.” In the Fall of 2008, Howard went into full time ministry by starting Delta Streets, an after-school mentoring program for at risk boys. The boys walk to Delta Streets after school, where T. Mac puts his degree to good use tutoring for an hour in math and reading. Then they play basketball, shoot pool or just hang out and talk. Thursday nights T. Mac hosts a Bible study in his home for the boys, and feeds them dinner prepared by volunteers from area churches. Howard has taken the boys bowling, to Six Flags and an Atlanta Braves game. Last year he took them to Memphis to watch an NBA game. For weeks before their trip, Howard arranged work days so the 22 NOVEMBER 2011 ❘ Metro Christian Living

boys could earn money to pay for their own tickets. A disagreement breaks out from the basketball court and a chorus of voices yells, “COACH!” T. Mac listens to them briefly, calls the ball like a seasoned referee and all six boys return to their game without another word. Their respect for him is evident. Jaelin Wilson,13 years old, is in the fifth grade. He met Howard while playing pee-wee football and has been hanging around Delta Streets ever since. He was quiet and respectful when talking about school and Delta Streets but when asked what he liked about “Coach” his face broke into a grin. He laughed, “He’s really funny.” Wilson’s grades have gone up significantly since he started hanging around Delta Streets. For some of the boys at Delta Streets, Howard’s ministry may be their best chance at graduating. Many of the boys come from troubled homes and have fallen behind in school. Howard has met with guidance counselors of area schools several times to ask, “If I can get this student caught up a reading level before school starts can we bump him up a grade?” In the public school system this simply isn’t possible and leads to a high level of frustration in students who have fallen behind. “If you are 16 or 17 in the ninth grade, a lot of these kids don’t see the point in finishing school,” Howard says. But T. Mac has a plan for the boys who are falling through the cracks in public education. In the Fall of 2012 Howard will launch Delta Streets as an all boys academy. His goal is to have 20 to 30 seventh and eighth grade students his first year. Being in a private school environment will give these children a chance to catch up. They will be able to work at their own pace and be rewarded by being promoted to a new grade level as their skill levels increase. “It seems impossible, but I am praying for 1000 people to give $1000 to start the academy.” With fundraising efforts underway, Howard is busy preparing for the future. He is pursuing his Master’s degree in Rural Development and Public Policy at MVSU, and is in the beginning stages of renovating his building to accommodate the new school. T. Mac’s dreams might be too big for man, but for God and a handful of boys in the Delta, they are just the right size. Y For more information visit deltastreets.org, or email T. Mac at tmac@deltastreets.org. Donations can be made to Delta Streets PO Box 9895 Greenwood, MS.

by ANDY WIMBERLY

What Are We Living For? TITLES OR TESTIMONIES here was a study done on fifty elderly folks who were asked what they would do differently if they had their life to live over again. A summary of their answers: ■ They would have reflected more. ■ They would have taken more risks. ■ They would have done more things that would live on after they are dead. There were over 500 people at Bubba Cox’s funeral a few years ago. Bubba was a book salesman, had cancer for nearly 17 years and was told several times that he wouldn’t live another six months. His wife had multiple sclerosis; therefore most all of their money went for medical bills. What amazed me was that most of the 500 people at Bubba’s funeral thought he was their best friend, including me. How can someone with no fancy titles, very little money, no place of prominence in society or business be one of the few special people that we remember and still talk about years after his death? The answer I think; Bubba was a living testimony. His life was about helping, encouraging and giving himself to others. What about you and me? What are we living for? Titles or testimonies? For too many years of my life I focused on plaques, titles, awards, money and approval. I still struggle with most of those each and every day. OK so I am a slow learner! Give me a little slack. I am a work in progress, sometimes very slow progress. How about you? There is nothing wrong with being successful, earning money, being the best at what you do. It is just when those things get in the way of the most important thing the problem develops. In Tony Campolo’s book Who Switched the Price Tags, he tells of the College Student Appreciation Day in his Baptist church. The pastor got up and said, “Children, you’re going to die. You may not think you’re going to die, but you’re going to die. One of these days they are going to take you out to the cemetery, drop you in a hole, throw some dirt on your face and go back to the church and eat potato salad.” He continued, “When you were born you alone were crying and everyone else was happy. The question I want to ask is this: when you die, are you alone going to be happy, leaving everyone else crying? The answer depends on whether you live to get titles or testimonies. Are people going to stand around reciting the fancy titles you’ve earned, the money you made or are they going tell the testimonies of the good

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things you did for them? Will the newspaper, internet and Facebook tell people how important you were, or will you leave people crying giving testimonies of how they lost the best friend they ever had?” Want to try to start being “A Living Testimony”? Try these three simple activities and do at least one each week: ■ Write a note – of thanks, encouragement or appreciation to one person. ■ Make a telephone call – to someone you haven’t talked to in a while (just to check on them). ■ Compliment someone – job well done, their attitude, their dependability, their fitness, etc. Want to multiply the compliment? Do it publicly. Do this with no agenda, just a note, a call or a compliment. Develop this habit and in just a few short weeks you will feel and see a difference in how you feel about yourself. I still remember the notes, phone calls and compliments that Bubba gave on a very regular basis to me. Titles or Testimonies? My vote is for the testimonies. Y Wimberly and Associates are Financial and business/life coaches. Call 601982-8000 or contact Hilliary@thediscoveryprocess.com or Wendy@thediscoveryprocess.com Many thanks to Dan Sullivan of the Strategic Coach in Toronto for his teaching, coaching and insight; and for allowing me to use some of his Scary times ideas. Also to John Maxwell, author of many great books which I read daily.

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Ed and Dana Trim

Not Ashamed of the Gospel

Strange Beginnings It was a robbery that set into motion an unexpected business opportunity for Ed Trim. The owner of Pennington and Trim Alarm Services thinks it was by “Divine Appointment” that as a young man working for another security company he was assigned to install an alarm system in Mr. and Mrs. Norman Pennington’s South Jackson home following a burglary in 1987. Ed completed his work and took a few extra minutes to demonstrate the new system to Norman. “Mr. Pennington just took a liking to me,” he says. Security systems, especially residential ones, were not as commonplace as they are today. The industry was barely getting cranked up here in Mississippi, but Pennington, who was the General Manager of Borden Milk at the time, was intrigued by the future prospect of the industry and impressed with this young man’s knowledge and genuine concern for his customer. He told Ed, “If you’d ever be interested in starting your own business, I would be interested in talking to you.” He was looking for both an investment and something his wife could do part time.

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Ed took him at his word. At the time, he was making eight dollars an hour, working 80 hours a week but only getting paid for 40. He was on call 28 out of every 30 days and needless to say, he was quite unhappy. The thought of working for himself rather than someone else resonated in his very heart and soul! He spent the next few evenings with a yellow legal pad writing down everything he could possibly think he would need to start that company. He presented his rough plan to his potential partner asking for 10,000 dollars. Within a few days, Pennington called him back and said, “Ok. Here are my conditions. One, you are not my partner yet. You are my employee. When you give me back my ten grand, then we’re fifty/fifty. The second condition is this is all you are getting. This is the only investment I am going to make so you better make it with this.” Ed Trim was many things, but lazy was not one of them. His dream of owning his own business was closer than it had ever been and

he poured himself into being sure it came to fruition. Twelve hour days, six day workweeks…if this is what it took, then he was 100 percent into it. His job was to knock on doors and sell the systems as well as do the actual installations. The only other person

Left to right: The first home of Pennington and Trim was a storage room in Dana and Ed’s first tiny home. Today’s company home has been enlarged several times and boasts 22 employees!

Ed speaks before a packed house in Bungoma, Kenya.

Left to right: Pastor Ochuro, Dana and Ed work together in teaching and preaching to a young church outside Bungoma. Ed prays with one of those who respond to Christ in Bungoma.

involved in the day to day operations was Virginia Pennington, who kept the books and paid the bills from her home. There was no storefront. Inventory was kept in a small storage room at Ed and Dana’s house. Pennington and Trim began to grow in no time at all. Within the first twelve months, Ed had paid back the ten thousand and he was half-owner in the business. The customer base continued to expand and Virginia found herself far more involved than she had intended. After Ed and Dana’s first son was born, Dana left her fulltime day job as a secretary with a

downtown insurance company to become the part-time secretary and relieve Virginia of some of the overwhelming paper work. Ed was still the man who did all the selling and all the installation until 1989 when they hired the first technician. Today Pennington and Trim has 22 employees on the payroll, 12,000 customers in the metro area, and has become one of the largest security companies in central Mississippi. In 1998, the Trims bought out the Pennington’s. Ed and Dana became fifty/fifty share holders in their own company. “We’ve been blessed,” says Ed.

Call to Missions From the beginning, Ed did not view his business as an end in itself. He orders his entire life around being a good steward of every blessing. Therefore, the business is not just a separate compartment that allows him to feed his family. For Ed and Dana it is the means by which they support missions and help spread the gospel. There are no flashy cars in the driveway, no elaborate homes or expensive clothes and jewelry announcing God’s blessing on this couple. Their monetary blessings simply provide daily opportunities to care about those they serve. As Dana says, “Ed is always looking for a way to be ‘salt and light’ to everyone he meets.” metrochristianliving.com ❘ NOVEMBER 2011 25

Ed and Dana took a mission trip to Bungoma, Kenya in 2004. That was a defining moment in their faith journey. They were hooked. Since then, they go at least once a year on a foreign mission trip—frequently back to Bungoma where Pastor Justus Ochuro has a Bible School training the African people to be pastors and plant churches. There is no electricity, no running water, so much poverty and so many who are hungry for the word of God. Ed and Dana frequently teach together and have derived much satisfaction from seeing the people receive the word with such joy. In 2009 God impressed on Ed’s heart the idea of raising money to actually build the physical building for a new congregation in Kenya. Ed just began sharing with people the vision God had put on his heart and he was able to present this little fledgling group of Believers 15,000 dollars, enough to cover buying a plot of land and building their church building. They were also able to buy 50 new mattresses for the Bible School students and enough food to stock the Bible School pantry for an entire year. As the couple began to regularly take weeks off at a time for their mission trips, friends frequently asked how they managed to walk off and leave their business. “God just kept sending us good people who made it possible,” Ed says. One day it occurred to Dana and Ed that it would please God if they gave time to mission projects right here in their community and wouldn’t it be a great team-builder to involve these good people who worked with them right here? “Each quarter we let a different employee choose a place they want to go to give our time and money in support,” Dana says. “It has been really neat. We’ve done Ronald McDonald House, Catholic Charities, Animal Rescue League, Stewpot, Healing Touch Ministries and more.” Those days begin with an inspirational speaker and breakfast together, followed by several hours of mission work, lunch together, and a time of team competitions with silly games and prizes. The winning team also gets bonus time off! Ed and Dana laugh as they describe some hilarious adventures. They have found these projects to be such a blessing as well as the opportunity for them to show their “team” how valued and appreciated they are.

Story Behind the Story Ed grew up in South Jackson attended neighborhood public schools and graduated from Jim Hill High School in 1981. Although money was always tight and college was not really an option, Ed’s mother’s faith was great, 26 NOVEMBER 2011 ❘ Metro Christian Living

and she put a high priority on raising her children to know the Lord. “I don’t remember a time when I did not have a relationship with Jesus,” Ed says. But like many of us, there were seasons when he was running in another direction sowing a few wild oats. Even then, he knew that everything his mother had taught him about God was true. He just procrastinated surrendering his will and his plans to God’s will and God’s terms for living life. Dana’s dad was a career naval officer who had raised his family all over the country. They landed in Jackson just about the time Dana began her first year of college at Hinds in 1983. Her mother was a devout Roman Catholic and Dana considered herself to be the same. Prayer was the bedrock of her faith, but she did not know a lot about words like “grace” or “salvation,” and she had never spent a great deal of time in scripture. In fact when Ed asked her one day if she was “saved,” she replied, “From what?”

home. Dana was growing daily in her relationship with Christ. The more she read the Bible and prayed, the more treasures she discovered there and the more she wanted to read and wanted to understand...In fact, one evening while Ed was working, Dana flipped on the television and found Pat Robertson explaining how one could be sure they were going to heaven. She listened intently and when the invitation was given at the close of the broadcast, she bowed her head and prayed as instructed. God was working on Ed as well, taking the “head” knowledge he had and turning it into “heart” knowledge. However, he had a few areas of life he simply was not ready to relinquish. On the evening of Ed’s thirtieth birthday he attended a Jackson Homebuilders Association meeting. Some of his friends insisted they take him out for drinks and a birthday celebration afterward. One stop turned into another stop and then another stop, and by the time he

The Pennington and Trim family take their quarterly local mission trips all over the Metro area.

Dana was an eager student of faith, however. She has a soothing presence about her; she is a good listener; and she was willing to try out some of the core principles that seemed to be so important to Ed. For instance, in 1986 they were newlyweds living in what they describe as a “dumpy little apartment” where mice and roaches were not uncommon. They were barely making ends meet when Ed said, “We need to tithe. The Bible says we are supposed to give the first ten per cent of all we earn to God.” Dana was handling the checkbook, and although tithing was a foreign concept that made no sense to her, she agreed to give it a try. They never went hungry and somehow they managed month after month to pay their bills. She began to see the reality of God’s faithfulness. God’s “loaf and fish principle of multiplication” was demonstrated to her over and over again as their income seemed to stretch enough to get them through month after month. They were finally able to leave the dingy little apartment behind and move into a modest

started home, it was past midnight and the alcohol hit him immediately. Somehow, by the sheer grace of God he got home without hurting himself or anyone else. He vowed that he would never touch alcohol again, and he hasn’t. But with that vow, he also went forward the very next Sunday to rededicate his life to Christ, to ask God to help him keep that promise to live for Him. Something caught fire in his heart that day. Though the fire has never diminished, testing was close at hand.

Heartbreak Tragedy struck within the month. Their baby girl, one year-old Nicole woke up one Friday morning vomiting uncontrollably. Midafternoon Dana called Ed from the pediatrician’s office telling him to come to the hospital because they were going to run some tests. A cat scan revealed five brain tumors. A biopsy proved them not only malignant but inoperable. Day after day the doctors worked on their baby trying radiation and one thing

after another. Every day, despite the prayers of so many, Nicole spiraled down farther, and on the ninth day she passed away. The Trims’ life had turned upside down overnight. They were devastated. Ed says, “If I had to pick a day that changed my life I would say that day.” All the promises and all the scripture and all the blessings they had been experiencing in their marriage, in their business, in their family…how did they make sense of something so hard as losing a child? They clung to God knowing that even in their brokenness, God was still God, and His plans are ultimately for good in the lives of believers. But they needed to find the strong comfort of the Heavenly Father in a deep and personal way if they were ever to heal. Ed suggested they seek out a church like the church he had attended with his mother as a child. He wanted to be comforted by the Word of God. Several weeks earlier Ed had installed a security system in the home of Pastor Ronnie Sims of Word of Life Church. He did not know a lot about him or his church but he knew he knew how to pray. Ed had reached out and called Pastor Sims during Nicole’s illness. There

and others quotes scripture like a seminary professor and reiterates that he believes scripture is indeed the inspired word of God and the instruction book for successful living. He has remained steady in his commitment to tithe in lean times and fat times alike, and he has a storehouse of personal stories on amazing ways God has provided over and above their wildest dreams in the worst of times. Ed and Dana are a breath of fresh air. They bring to my mind the perfect illustration of Christ’s “salt” and “light” analogies. Authentic people of faith who are willing to live somewhat counter culturally in today’s PostChristian environment stand out from the crowd, and who doesn’t notice? The Bible refers to King David as “a man after God’s own heart.” Well, that being true, me-thinks Ed and Dana just might be close ‘kin-folk!’ Y

Left to right: The Trim sons: Josh and Matthew Below: Matthew

was such an outpouring of concern from Sims and his congregation that the Trims decided to visit the church. It was there healing began and the couple could get past the “Why Nicole?” It was there another spiritual growth spurt moved Ed and Dana to a new level in their faith journey. Ed compares his relationship with Christ to the building of a house. “My mother laid the foundation. Pastor Ronnie built the four walls, and his son Pastor Joel Sims is putting the shingles on it.” This big burly man with a big heart for God

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It is that time of year again: time to begin your Thanksgiving dinner planning. Honor your family’s wishes by preparing traditional dishes they all love. The Thanksgiving dinner is a simple meal to prepare. All it takes is some advance planning... write down all you will cook and then prioritize. This is a special time with family and friends. I have included some of my easy favorites. All can be made in advance to free the cook for a time of gathering at the table with family.

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cup finely chopped celery (16 oz.) package raw cranberries orange rind cup sugar ounces raspberry Jell-O gelatin (can use orange or cranberry) 2 cups boiling water 1 cup orange juice 1/2 cup chopped pecans or 1/2 cup chopped walnuts Bring water to a boil. Add the hot water to the jello packets and orange juice and dissolve thoroughly. Chill in a 9 by 9 or 9 by 13 dish. Chop celery finely in food processor; remove to a small dish and set aside. Peel orange rind. Grind orange rind and raw cranberries in food processor. Add sugar right into the processor for one less dish. When Jell-O mixture is syrupy, add cranberry mixture, nuts, and finely chopped celery. Mix well. Transfer into a mold and refrigerate until firm. Can be made in advance. Invert mold for serving onto a lettuce lined platter. Serves 9 to 12.

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CAKE: 2 cups granulated sugar 2 sticks butter 1 1/2 cups self-rising flour 4 eggs 1 teaspoon vanilla 2 cups chopped pecans

bacon slices tablespoon butter tablespoons chopped onion tablespoons all-purpose flour teaspoon salt cup sour cream (16 ounce) package frozen corn, thawed (can use fresh)

Cook bacon in a large skillet until crisp; remove bacon, and drain on paper towels, reserving 1 tablespoon drippings in skillet. Crumble bacon, and set aside. Melt butter in hot drippings over medium heat; add onion, and sauté until tender. Whisk in flour and salt until smooth and bubbly. Whisk in sour cream until smooth; cook, whisking often, 3 minutes. Stir in corn and cook until thoroughly heated. Spoon into a lightly greased 8-inch baking dish; top with crumbled bacon. Bake at 350 degrees for 15 to 20 minutes or until bubbly. Yields 4 to 6 servings. (Can easily be doubled and made ahead.)

“My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of Him that sent me, and to finish His work.”

Cream butter and sugar; add remaining ingredients, stirring by hand. Pour in a 9 by 13 baking dish for 30-40 minutes at 350 degrees. Crumble cake; then alternate cake (first) and frosting to make two layers of each. FROSTING: 1 large container whipped topping 1 (14 ounce) can sweetened condensed milk 1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese, softened Blend all ingredients together with a mixer.

Remember to make memories through the kitchen...“the heartbeat of the home”. You can go to my blog at www.lydiasapron.blogspot.com for more recipes. Email me at lbbolen@gmail.com for any questions.

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Handcrafted for the Holidays

wo of the region’s favorite festivals are just in time for the holidays. Handworks Holiday Market, held the weekend

before Thanksgiving each year, is its customers’ “favorite shopping party” for those who want the trendiest gifts created in the southeast. This year’s dates are Friday, November 18th and Saturday, November 19th. It is a “stroller-friendly” show and features children’s clothing, Christmas ornaments, candles, delicious packaged food items and much more! Check out the website at www.handworksmarket.com for more details. Chimneyville Crafts Festival is celebrating its 35th anniversary this year and is always the first weekend in December. Held at the MS Trade Mart, the Collector’s Preview Party is Friday, December 2, from 7-10 p.m. and the festival is Saturday, December 3rd, from 10 a.m.-5:00 p.m. and Sunday, 12 noon-5:00 p.m. Preview Party tickets may be purchased on the website at www.mscrafts.org and entitle the purchaser to return to all days of the festival. If you miss these festivals, these artisans’ work may be viewed at the Mississippi Craft Center, 950 Rice Road, Ridgeland, Mississippi, 7 days per week, 9-5, or by calling 601-856-7546. These exhibitors will showcase and sell their products at both festivals.

Whether you want an heirloom to pass along to daughters or granddaughters or something to wear on an everyday basis, Randy Walker of Creative Wire Jewelry is the jeweler for you. He creates custom work from sentimental family jewelry pieces and has trendy gifts, as well. See his work at Handworks Holiday Market and Chimneyville Crafts Festival.

Larry Smith’s day job is in the medical profession, but he is rapidly becoming known as “The Clock Guy.” Recycling computer parts and creating innovative clocks is his specialty. If you love social media or know a computer nerd, these clocks will be conversation pieces for all! Check out the hundreds of clocks he will have at Chimneyville and Handworks.

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Can you believe this Santa is designed from paper? Laurie Parker is well-known for her beautifully illustrated children’s books and for her pins and ornaments. Begin a collection of her Santas to hang on the Christmas tree or elsewhere in your house. They look vintage and will work with any décor. Whether she is autographing her books or showcasing her ornaments, she is an artist worth meeting at Handworks Holiday Market and Chimneyville Crafts Festival.

Sisters Rose Ellen Lindsay and Mary McGregor, N’Krebl Pottery, are potters who enhance the holidays and beyond with their decorative, handbuilt ceramics. Everyone on your list will feel special when presented with this delightful work, especially Saints fans!

Men are difficult when it comes to buying gifts for them. Jewelry is always in season for the holidays, so consider a gift of jewelry for men. Don and Louise Coulson make beautiful creations in copper for men and women. Check out their unique treasures at Handworks and Chimneyville. Y

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SECTION 33. Person defined. As used in this Article III of the state constitution, “The term ‘person’ or ‘persons’ shall include every human being from the moment of fertilization, cloning or the functional equivalent thereof. Editor’s Note: The Personhood Amendment is one of three initiatives Mississippi voters will have the opportunity to decide on November 8. Seldom have I seen such passion on both sides, and unlike most issues that divide the electorate according to one’s moral values, there are Christians who consider themselves pro-lifers on each side of this issue. Find out all you can and consider this issue prayerfully.

YES on the Personhood Initiative by TERRI HERRING

hristians will have the opportunity to agree with God’s Word by voting YES on Initiative 26. The Lord told Jeremiah, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you” (Jeremiah 1:5). If The Church does not lead in protecting life, no one else will. The Church has historically led the way in the fight for social justice but for far too long has been silent on the issue of abortion. Our silence is our consent. This Amendment simply clarifies what our Founding Fathers intended when they used the used the word “person” in the Mississippi Constitution. They could not have imagined the need to state the obvious—that an unborn child is also a person. The courts will continue to be a battle ground in trying to gain protection for the unborn but we on November 8th can vote to protect life. Abortion has made the womb the absolute most dangerous place in the world. What God intended to be a protective sanctuary for the unborn has become a most hostile place. More people die in the womb than from heart disease or any other cause. With over a million couples waiting to adopt these newborn babies, isn’t it time to stop the senseless killing? Unborn children are not the only ones who are victims of abortion. I know far too many Christian women who have become the second

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victim of abortion. Women who have had abortions often suffer guilt, shame and regret. This generation does not have to pass this curse of death to our children’s children. Ending the holocaust of child sacrifice must begin somewhere. Why not here in Mississippi and why not now? Resources are available for any woman who is willing to simply give birth to her baby and allow others to lovingly parent when she is unable. Mississippi has over 44 pregnancy resource centers and adoption agencies. You can see a list at www.chooselifems.org. The Personhood Amendment is a decision about when life begins. Don’t allow fear to rule the day and don’t be misled by erroneous information from Planned Parenthood and the ACLU and others who purport to be pro-life. The best thing you could do would be to be informed. Please go to www.yeson26.net for answers to all your questions and concerns regarding “personhood.” Initiative 26 will not take away any birth control that prevents pregnancy, but it would end abortion as a means of birth control. If any birth control is ending a pregnancy instead of preventing pregnancy Mississippi women should know about it. Christian women need to ask their doctors if their “birth control” is actually preventing conception. Science continues to reaffirm what we already know - yet many still refuse to acknowledge. Yes, a person really is a person no matter how small. At fertilization the small embryo has the exact same DNA the baby will have at birth and nothing changes except God knitting it together in the mother’s womb. Science needs to respect the lives of these small lives by not using them for experimentation. Mississippi has never had the opportunity to vote on abortion. Roe vs. Wade was decided for us in 1973 by activist judges and most states, including Mississippi allowed abortion in rare cases. Roe was based on a rape that was never committed and abortion that never took place. But the fear lives on. Less than 1percent of all abortions are a result of rape and when reported and treated, conception resulting from rape can be prevented. This vote is not just the court of public opinion. God is truly setting before us LIFE and DEATH… and He has already given us instruction in Deuteronomy 30:19. I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you LIFE and death, therefore CHOOSE LIFE, that BOTH you and your descendants may live… Your vote is your voice, and it matters. We can gladly say in OUR lifetime we voted to choose life. This is a powerful moment in history. Mississippi can be first in granting human rights to unborn persons. Y Terri Herring is an Advisory Board Member on YES ON 26 .

NO on the Personhood Initiative by DR. D. PAUL SEAGO

s an ob/gyn physician/surgeon who practices in the specialty of gynecologic oncology, I am opposed to Initiative #26 as a matter of conscience and because it is bad for the health of women, bad for Mississippi families and bad for us as taxpayers. This initiative is deeply flawed and represents an unprecedented and extreme government intrusion that goes too far. The Mississippi State Medical Association’s Board of Trustees voted NOT to support Initiative

#26 and sent the following statement to all Mississippi doctors. Their decision was the result of overwhelming opposition from its member doctors. “We fear that it will place in jeopardy a physician who tries to save a mother’s life by performing procedures and employing techniques physicians have used for years. The common procedures we use now could be interpreted as murder or wrongful death if (Initiative) #26 passes. This justifiably will limit the physician’s options and deter use of common lifesaving procedures. It is for this reason only; the MSMA Board of Trustees cannot support Initiative #26.” This extreme initiative is so poorly written and so broad as to have dangerous potential in its present form. Not only will it put women’s health at risk, it will likely outlaw methods of birth control such as the IUD, and regulate the common use of birth control pills. It will deny couples unfettered access to In Vitro Fertilization, therefore denying them the dream of a family. This American Society for Reproductive Medicine opposed this initiative. This is their statement. “Amendment 26 not only threatens the reproductive rights of women, it also thwarts the ability of those who suffer from infertility to seek treatment appropriate for their disease. It would unduly restrict an infertile patient’s right to make decisions about embryos created as part of the in vitro fertilization process.” As a Christian, who does not believe that abortion should be used for contraception, I join many other Christians in opposing this initiative because of its unintended consequences. The Catholic Bishop of Mississippi, as well as the Eagle Forum and the Florida Conference of Catholic Bishops opposes the initiative because they believe it harms the federal effort to ban abortion. This is the quote from MS Catholic Bishop Latina’s website. “As Bishop, I join with Catholic Bishops in several other states in not endorsing these Personhood petitions to be circulated in our Catholic parishes. We have committed ourselves to working for a federal amendment and feel the push for a state amendment could ultimately harm our efforts to overturn Roe vs. Wade.” Initiative #26 outlaws the termination of any pregnancy without exception for rape, incest or life of the mother, and runs afoul of the United Methodist Church’s Statement Social Principles. “We recognize tragic conflicts of life with life that may justify abortion, and in such cases we support the legal option of abortion under proper medical procedures. It violates women’s rights and endangers the lives of women needing lifesaving therapies for ectopic pregnancy or choriocarcinoma. It will drive up Medicaid costs, health insurance and malpractice insurance rates, costing millions to defend in the courts. This initiative gives the same legal status to a cancerous growth as to my 16-year-old daughter. It would force a 13 year old rape victim to carry this pregnancy regardless of their situation. These decisions are best made by families and their pastors, as families in the midst of a crisis do not want the State of Mississippi making decisions for them. I would encourage every Mississippian to learn more about Initiative #26 and then vote. There is a comment page on the Secretary of State Delbert Hoseman’s website, and there are numerous forums and websites from which information can be gleaned.

Y Dr. D Paul Seago, MD is a gynecologic oncologist at Jackson Gynecologic Oncology.

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Yard & Garden MCL: Callaway’s is in its 57th year. Can you tell us a little about how this family business began? Callaway’s got its start when the Callaway family wanted to open a shop that would provide healthy, quality garden products and old-fashioned service to their neighbors. We began in 1954 in a small garden shop and within three years moved to a bigger facility that they called Callaway’s Yard & Garden Center. This was a new and innovative concept at that time. MCL: What are the foundational principles that have contributed to Callaway’s long success? I think that offering the best merchandise that we can at the best prices we can has been important. We believe in taking care of our customers and want the best result for each of them. We really value long term relationships with our customers. MCL: Callaway’s has one of the largest, if not the largest, selections of Christmas décor in the South. It must be something you have to plan for and think about all year long. Tell us a little about what goes into the Callaway’s Christmas? Planning is started early in the year and all of our employees are involved in some way in preparing for Christmas—from the stockroom to the finished product. We want to be ready for our customers by the first Open House in November. Families are decorating earlier every year. Many families celebrate Christmas when their entire family can be together, and this often happens at Thanksgiving. MCL: How do you employ your Christian faith in the workplace? We treat our customers as we would want to be treated with honesty and integrity. We value our relationships with our co-workers. We always carry a large selection of Nativity Sets and items for our customers. Most importantly, we always want to remember what Christmas means. Y

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living my call by MARILYN TINNIN

Pastor Hosea Hines OF CHRIST TABERNACLE CHURCH As the son of a Baptist preacher, Pastor Hosea Hines observed the sacrifice, endless hours, and hard work involved in pastoring a church. The seventh of eight children, he never considered another vocation. Forty years later, he has no regrets as he describes blessing upon blessing and too many coincidences along the way to discount God’s favor in directing his path. Pastor Hines was born in west Jackson, but his family moved to Rockford, Illinois, when he was twelve years old. He attended college at Judson College in Elgin, Illinois and American Baptist Theological Seminary in Rockford. There was a time when he thought he would never return to Mississippi. He had vivid memories of the civil rights struggles during his childhood, but he relates how God removed that bitterness by giving him a white neighborhood friend in Rockford who changed his prejudice. He sees that friendship as God laying the groundwork for calling him back to his native soil. When College Hill Missionary Baptist Church in Jackson called him to their pulpit in 1990, he accepted. Under his leadership, this historic church tripled their membership, built a 1.5 million dollar family life center, added an additional Sunday morning worship service and paid off all debt. In 2009 God began to speak to Hines’ heart about a new venture. It was time for him to step out on faith again. He resigned from College Hill on July 12, 2009, knowing only that this was what he was supposed to do. “A new breed of believers” is the way he describes his vision. He is committed to building the body of Christ on sound Biblical principles, providing the kind of nurture that builds Christ-like believers who will make an impact in the city of Jackson. “What you see in crime are the repercussions of sin. When lives are changed, crime goes down,” he says. In the first weeks after his resignation, his telephone rang constantly with calls from people who wanted to be a part of this new movement. They located a temporary building on I-55 North and hoped to have their first service on August 2. Things fell into place as things do when God is in charge. The owner of the building handed over the keys and

told him to do whatever was needed to configure the space to be suitable for their needs. People Hines barely knew began offering everything from office furniture to computers and copiers. One family found an Oak pulpit, communion Pastor Hosea and first lady, his wife table, and 26 sixteen foot pews Sherian on E-Bay for $99. Christ Tabernacle Church held their first service on August 2, 2009. By February of 2010, the new congregation was bursting at the seams. Pastor Hines’ original thought was to stay in the temporary facility for about five years and then to search for land and begin a building campaign. When a realtor friend called him telling him that she had found the perfect property for Christ Tabernacle, he thanked her but told her they were not in the market. She was persistent about his coming to look at it, and so he took his wife and son and headed to meet her one afternoon. 1201 Cooper Road was the home of First Assembly of God. They had recently purchased the former Word of Life property off Highway 18. Twenty-two beautiful shaded acres surrounded two large buildings, an auditorium, many classrooms and office space all in pristine condition. There was room to grow, to build a school, a college, and a whole community for the “new breed of believers.” This young congregation had not amassed a huge bank account and as a non-denominational church, they lacked the backing of a national entity. There was a spirit of rapport and unity from the first moment Pastor Hines and a few representatives from Christ Tabernacle met with the leadership of First Assembly. Christ Tabernacle held its first services in their new facilities on April 18, 2011. With more` than 600 members and ministries that reach every age, this vibrant church under the leadership of Hosea Hines is indeed building “a new breed of believers!” Y

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It would be an understatement to say that it takes a lot of effort to cultivate an attitude of thankfulness while trying to get the Thanksgiving spread on the dining room table, especially if your familyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s custom is to carve that bird at noon. Combine the culinary pressure with those of unrealistic holiday expectations and a grumpy family member or two and you may end up with one of my sweet potato bombs. The recipe sounded good enough. Basically, you were to wrap a handful of sweet potato casserole around a large marshmallow, roll it in a cinnamon and sugar mixture and bake the little nugget until it was puffed up and golden. My young grandsonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s eyes expressed his wonder at such a delicacy. With military assurance and accuracy he aimed his junior-size fork at the sugary goodness which promptly blew up and then deflated into a mass of, well, very ordinary sweet potato casserole. I wanted something special. Boy was it ever. I could see the headline, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Local Boy Survives Thanksgiving Potato Bomb.â&#x20AC;? Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not just the potato thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the bomb. More often the bomb has to do with our thanksgiving, lack of it, or misunderstanding of what Thanksgiving is in the first place. Not just a meal, a houseful of family and friends, or a sentimental emotion, Thanksgiving is a yearround life-long attitude concerning the character and the works of God. Thankfulness presupposes there is One to whom sincere thanks is due. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Great is the Lord and greatly to be praisedâ&#x20AC;Ś All your works praise you.â&#x20AC;? (Ps.145). God is worthy of our thankfulness because of who He is, a Spirit, infinite, eternal, and unchangeable, in his being, wisdom, power, holiness, justice, goodness and truth. His attributes alone are reason enough for a lifetime of gratitude. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not just what He does. He is due thanks because of who He is, what He is. Oswald Chambers once said that if God never chose to bless him again, Chambers would still have reason to thank Him every day of his life for who and what God is. Thankfulness is not dependent on my circumstances, those I deem pleasant or less than. James tells us in chapter one that â&#x20AC;&#x153;every

good and perfect gift comes down from the Father of lights in whom there is no change or shifting shadow.â&#x20AC;? Every gift He sends me is perfect for me because He can send only perfect gifts and because He never changes, the perfection of what He sends me never wavers. Both bright and dark providences reveal to me and have revealed to me the faithfulness of my heavenly Father, the depth of His love for His children, and the truth that Jesus is really sufficient. God does not prove His love for me with a new car, a doting husband, or a trip to Paris, just as His love for me has not been withdrawn when I experience an economic downturn, a painful fracture in relationship, or a prolonged disappointment. Thanksgiving is not a feeling that can be based on a sense of wellbeing any more than it can be one that has to be mustered up in spite of circumstances. Thanksgiving is a way of life that responds to God and His character that always seeks what is best for those who love Him. This kind of Thanksgiving is the seedbed of Christian joy. â&#x20AC;&#x153;What shall I render then, to the Lord for all of His benefits toward me? I will lift up the cup of salvation and call upon the name of the Lord.â&#x20AC;? Ps.116:12-13. How shall I respond to God in this season of Thanksgiving for both who He is and what He has done? I will receive the gift of Him and my salvation through His son, Jesus Christ. When someone offers you a gift, accepting the gift is the first step in expression of gratitude. Take the gift given you. Then respond accordingly with the offering of Thanksgiving. Lift up the cup. This cup of salvation is most likely in reference to the drink offering given in gratitude for oneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s salvation, but it is as well a picture of Christâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s receiving a difficult cup, a bitter cup that was nonetheless part of Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s perfect gift giving. And so it is with us. Great is the Lord and greatly to be praised. Every good and perfect gift has come to me from the Father. I will lift up the cup, call upon His name, and open my lips that my mouth may declare Thy praise. Y Shirley Windham is a wife, mother, grandmother and a teacher in the MOMS ministry of First Presbyterian Church in Jackson.

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Being Thankful appy Thanksgiving, gang! Thanksgiving is my favorite festivity. It feels like the only one we haven’t screwed up yet. (Cynically speaking, I bet that before too long, we’ll be telling our children if they are good this year a Big Turkey wearing a funny hat will bring them lots of toys…but until that happens, I still love Thanksgiving.) But the real reason I like the holiday Thanksgiving is because I believe that a genuine heart of thanksgiving is a rare and precious commodity. Being “Thankful” is a rare thing. The opposite of gratitude is something we call Entitlement, and unfortunately it is not a rare thing. Entitlement is the belief that what I have is not enough and I am owed more. It is the theme statement of 21st century America and could replace E Pluribus Unum as our national motto. Entitlement is that irritation that I’m not getting what I think I deserve. And it is the opposite of Thanksgiving. Marriage is one of the favorite playing fields for the “entitlement games.” I mean, how often do you have that feeling that your spouse should be more (fill in the blank here), sensitive, careful with money, more emotionally intimate, less emotionally expressive, helpful with the kids, get you a better house, etc. Marital Entitlement says “You don’t appreciate how hard MY day is. (Haven’t y’all ever have the “whose day was worse” fight?) Because of entitlement, I’ve always thought the marriage vows should be changed to be a little more honest: “I Bob, take you Sally to meet my every need - to anticipate my moods and deliver on my wildest desires. With this dream I thee wed.” As much as we hate to admit it, however, entitlement is FUN. I mean, what’s more fun than feeling that you deserve the best? What’s more fun than feeling that all those BAD people don’t appreciate how wonderful you really are? And besides, look at your options if you aren’t Entitled: Humility and Gratitude? Come on! Yes, Entitlement can be fun. But do you want to know when it stops being fun? (And this is ironic, so hold on tight). Entitlement

stops being fun when we actually GET what we are demanding. Why? Because when you GET what you feel entitled to…you feel NOTHING. Why should you? You’ve just gotten what you deserved anyway. No love, no surprise, no delight. The giver is just back to a “net zero;” they have done what they should. Think about if you demanded that your husband bring you flowers…and he does. That doesn’t produce a lot of warm fuzzies does it? He’s just done what he’s supposed to. In other words, the downside of demanding what you deserve is that THAT is all you will get, WHAT YOU DESERVE, and nothing more. (And by the way…trust me on this…you don’t want what you really deserve anyway.) A Heart of Thanksgiving, on the other hand, is about giving up the position of having a right to what you want, and in fact acknowledging that you really don’t deserve anything. I know that sounds about as much fun as sitting through the Ole Miss vs LSU game will probably be this year, but it actually is the only way that we can ever feel loved. When we stop being entitled, we can begin realizing that we are blessed to have what we have. We can become the little children Jesus loved, who come to Him empty handed and asking for love and offering it in return. So the question is, when we sit at the Thanksgiving table, or in our relationships, can we leave my Entitlement out in the car? That is what Jesus does in Philippians Chapter 2. Though his “equality with God” was something he had, (he was entitled to it) he laid it down and became a servant. As a result, God gave him All Things. Can we step out of our expectations for what we deserve and instead wonder that we are loved so much? That is gratitude. That is Thanksgiving. Y Dr John L. Cox is a clinical psychologist in practice here in Jackson. He works with adults, marriages and children. You can contact him at 601-352-7398 metrochristianliving.com ❘ NOVEMBER 2011 37

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I’m pretty sure my Sundays are not what God had in mind when he was all, “And then I rested.” On a typical Sunday morning my husband lets me sleep late because he is a morning person and I am not. He gets up, makes coffee and feeds our three girls breakfast. I stumble into the kitchen a couple of hours later (Don’t hate me. My husband is amazing. And spoken for.) to pour a cup of coffee and start getting everyone ready for church. Me and all of my kids have hair that is some varying degree of curly. Emma, my fiveyear-old, wants me to wash her hair and have it blown straight, every single day. And ya’ll? I just don’t have that kind of time on my hands because every night she goes to sleep and gets all sweaty and her hair curls right back up. Once I roll out of the bed on Sunday and guzzle a cup of coffee, I spend the next hour saying things like: “Stop licking your sister. You are not a cat.” “No you can not wear your Princess Jasmine outfit to church.” “It’s 47 degrees outside, I think you’ll be a little chilly in a sundress and flip flops.” “Quit drinking my coffee! You do not NEED it you are two years old!” “I am not going to flat iron your hair. You are five years old.” “I will not pick your clothes out for you. You are thirty-two years old.” I hustle. I bustle. We rush. I yell. (Yep.) “Get in the car. GET IN THE CAR!” “Don’t take your shoes off! Don’t take your DRESS OFF!” “You can NOT take a naked Barbie to church.” “BECAUSE I SAID SO.” I walk into church during the announcements without a second to spare. The back of my hair is all sweaty and starting to curl up even though I flat ironed my own hair. I have a fake smile plastered on my face as my adrenaline rush fades and my coffee loses it’s steam. I try to focus on the pastor’s words instead of what we will eat for lunch. I shush my daughters and shoo my middle child to children’s church. I wonder if it’s even worth the fight to get out of the house in the mornings to be there. Then, in the middle of chaos, right smack dab in the middle of life, something momentous happens. While the communion plate passes, my daughter tugs on my sleeve and whispers in my ear and makes a decision

that will change her life forever. A whispered promise, an answered prayer, the beginning of her journey. We hurry to a lunch buffet where I make three plates of food before I make my own. Sadie, my two year old, takes off her socks and shoes and throws them under the table. A sympathetic friend and father of four, smiles and says, “It’s like herding cats.” Exactly. I scheduled a photographer to take family photos during nap time. Not because I’m a complete idiot but because it was the only time our schedules would allow. I begged for smiles and pleaded for good attitudes. My toddler did flips in the grass and showed off her Elmo panties. There scowls and arms angrily crossed at my outfit choices but magically, there was one moment captured forever, when all five of us sat together in our backyard that looks a little bit like perfect contentment. Sometimes Sunday isn’t a day of rest but every once in a while, it’s a hiccup of God’s grace. I’ll hold my breath and take each moment He gives me. Y Robin O’Bryant is mother to three daughters, wife to one husband, and debut author of “Ketchup Is A Vegetable And Other Lies Moms Tell Themselves,” available November 2011. She shares the drama and hilarity of motherhood in her syndicated family humor column, “Robin’s Chicks” and on her blog by the same name. (www.robinschicks.com)

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Does My Child Have ADHD? In the October issue we looked at the symptoms of ADHD and learned that all ADHD is not characterized by hyper activity. This month we discuss the treatment options. See www.metrochristianliving.com for entire series. What type of medicine is given and how does is help? No treatments have been found to cure ADHD, but the treatment that results in the greatest degree of improvement in the symptoms of this disorder is the use of stimulant medications (Concerta, Focalin, Vyvanse, Adderal) are examples of stimulant medications). The stimulant goes to the frontal lobe of the brain where the dopamine and norepinephrine is made and stimulates the brain to make more of these two essential neurotransmitters. The very best results come from a combination of medication management and therapy. In therapy the parent learns what ADHD is, what medication can and cannot do and how to provide more structure in the home, use a positive reinforcement system to help motivate the child, and how to help their child or teen improve organizational and study skills. One aspect of treatment of ADHD that is often overlooked is determining how many skills have been missed prior to diagnosis. It is estimated that a child with ADHD who is unmedicated misses 50 percent of what is presented in the classroom; medications cannot teach missed skills. Medicine can only help your child focus on the skills that are currently being presented. If a diagnosis of ADHD is not made until second or third grade or later; it is imperative to have a thorough diagnosis of mastered and missed skill in reading and math. Then the parents can provide tutoring to help the child “catch up” on those missed skills. According to October 2009 issue of Clinical Psychiatry News, in an article entitled “Stimulants Fend Off Comorbidities in Boys with ADHD”; one year out 80% of children who start medication for ADHD are no longer taking their medications. There are several possible explanations for this low rate of compliance: parents abandoning treatment after one side effect occurs, failure to return to the physician when ONE medicine does not work, or failure to get the tutoring needed to get the child on grade level in reading and math. Then the parents concludes “the medicine did not work for my child”, and/or failure to follow up with frequent medication checks with the pediatrician or psychiatrist.

The good news is this developmental disorder can be effectively managed, and your child can not only do well in school but enjoy learning. The following email was sent to me after several family sessions this summer and one month into the new school year: “ I could not wait until our next appointment to tell you how well Taylor is doing. He is a different child; he is more focused and homework is not a nightmare now. He can read and carry on a conversation without getting distracted and his maturity level has already improved. He woke up Tuesday morning happy and ready to go to school, came into the kitchen and asked if he could have his medicine. He says he can tell a difference and he can pay attention and focus on his work. He is not the last one to finish his work now. “ TREATMENT WORKS. Unfortunately, ADHD assessment is rarely covered under the services of Special Education. If you suspect your child or teen has problems concentrating and retaining information, you will need to seek the help of a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Clinical Psychologist. Y Suzanne B. Russell, LPC; PLLC specializes in ADHD treatment for children, teens, and adults. Contact her at (601) 770-7355 or visit www.srusselltherapy.com.

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How Many of These Do You Have Covered? hen planning for our personal and family future, considering the things that could befall us physically, there are several items to consider. Looked at simplistically, there are three areas that need your attention. 1. At Your Death. Death When you pass away, any assets that you may own at the time will need to be dealt with. The simple ways of putting someone’s name on as a beneficiary may be satisfactory, or it may lead to complications, particularly if that person passes away before you do. There may be court involvement, which you would just as soon pass up (probate of your will), and there may be other issues that you would prefer your family not to have to deal with. Some people elect to have a Living Trust as a method of avoiding probate and providing for the distribution that they choose without court involvement, delay and expense. 2. If You Become Incapacitated. Many of us will become incapacitated due to a stroke, or Alzheimer’s or other types of dementia. What would happen if you should become incapacitated for a period of time before you pass away, unable to manage your personal affairs, to

pay your bills, to handle your assets? Who would take over? And, more importantly than the “who” is the “how” they would be able to act on your behalf. Some people rely upon a Durable Power of Attorney, and that will many times suffice, but not always. No one under our state law is required to honor a Power of Attorney, regardless of how well written. Some people elect to put someone else’s name on their account so that named person can deal with their asset if they become incapacitated. While that has a disarmingly simple sound, it can lead to big problems because that action exposes that asset to that named person’s creditors, be it their divorce, car wreck, bankruptcy, or whatever. Many have chosen to use a Living Trust to grant authority to a trustee to be able to handle their business affairs in the event they become incapacitated, and to do so without the complications of other alternate methods. In short, a Living Trust cannot be turned down as a power of attorney can. 3. How Will You Pay the Nursing Home? The fact of nursing home care being required is not going to hit everyone, but in the future, based upon current projections, the percentage of

people that will be looking at spending some time in a nursing home is approaching 50 percent. The question then arises: How will you pay for it? This can be a very expensive proposition. There are three ways of paying for nursing home care. The most popular method and the one that most people think they will utilize is referred to as “private pay.” That means paying out of your assets for your long-term care. That may be an alternative if you have lots of money and if you don’t mind spending it that way. Another alternative, and one becoming increasingly popular, is a policy of long-term care insurance. This is a way of paying for that nursing home stay without depleting your own resources. Of course, the third way is to become totally impoverished (which most people in the private pay situation do eventually) and then they have their nursing home care paid for by the government under the Medicaid program. There are some planning options for this last alternative, but they must be done with great care and precision. Planning in any of the above three areas is imperative. It is important not only for your wellbeing, but for the well-being of your family, and, most of all, for your peace of mind. Y

You have worked hard for it. WHY THROW IT AWAY? We are all living longer. But we are not all going to be in good health, or aware of our families, or both. Then what happens? Someone has to take over. The question is: Will this be someone you chose? And will it be outside of court or in court? The same with the distribution of your assets after you pass away: In court or out of court? The choice is yours. What about protecting your assets from lawsuits, or a child’s inheritance from a divorce? And will most of your hard-earned savings go to the nursing home? Or have you planned? Here are a few ideas for you to consider:

Living Trust – Allows the person you choose to take over for you in the event of your incapacity, without any court involvement. At your death the person you have chosen makes the distribution of your assets the way you have instructed in your Living Trust, and to do so promptly, inexpensively and privately, without going through probate in the court. Asset Protection – Lawsuits are filed every day. If you get sued, are your assets protected? They can be, and probably should be. Also, the divorce rate has never been higher than it is today. Will your child’s divorce cause them to lose half of what you leave them after you are gone? Not if you plan now. The level of protection (or not) is up to you.

Nursing Home Planning – Don’t qualify for long term care insurance, or can’t fit it in your budget? You don’t have to spend everything that you have in order to become eligible for nursing home benefits. There are legal and ethical ways for you to save well over half of your assets in most cases, even if you are already in the nursing home. Hear Mr. Howell on the radio

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Healing Under God’s Guardianship

ummit Counseling at First Baptist Church in Jackson has been helping people for decades —grounding their counsel in the Word of God and skillfully using state of the art counseling practices. There are times however, when counseling is needed more than once or twice a week, but full time inpatient services are too extreme, too expensive or not possible due to job or personal obligations. Thankfully, different from inpatient services, an intensive outpatient program (IOP) allows the person to stay employed and tend to their daily responsibilities while still receiving comprehensive, insurance eligible counseling. This intensive outpatient option is proving to be a better choice for many people. Research shows that skillful integration of a variety of counseling methods in these types of settings can accelerate healing in ways not experienced by traditional one-on-one treatments. This is good to know. As Christians, we also know something else that is good. We know that scripture is living and active (Hebrews 4:12). We know that it is inspired by God and useful to equip us (2 Tim. 3:16-17). We know that His Word makes us wiser than the world (Psalm 119:98). We know that The Word performs God’s work in us (Thess. 2:13). We know that transformation (2 Corinthians 5:17) is to be a regular part of our lives. We KNOW that real, lasting change is only achieved by using His Word as the ultimate authority while courageously integrating other relevant advances in treatment services. Summit’s Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) offers exactly this type of comprehensive integration. Has God yet showed you that your frustrations, struggles, pain, disappointments, failures and suffering are purposeful? In his book, The Problem of Pain, CS Lewis writes “God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains; it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world.” Be assured that God will purposefully orchestrate ‘megaphone moments’ in our lives. This is a gift. He is trying to get our attention. Don’t waste these moments! When you experience God’s megaphone in your life, dare to be ‘roused’! Don’t be afraid to ask the hard questions that rise up in your soul. Don’t be afraid of the ‘giants’ that try to intimidate you from going towards His healing and restoration. Trust God’s guardianship as you take steps towards Him. Remember God guards your

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601-949-1949 coming and going (Psalm 121:8). Take courage that God is in your midst, a great and awesome God, a victorious warrior— including during times of pain and suffering. (Deuteronomy 7:21, Zephaniah 3:17) Work with others. Scripture recommends it. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10) “Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor. For if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion. But woe to the one who falls when there is not another to lift him up.” At Summit, we are taking these scriptures to heart and opening our insurance eligible, 10 week, unapologetically Biblically based and psychologically sound Intensive Outpatient Program in January 2012. You don’t have to struggle alone. We have a group of master’s and doctorate level therapists who are familiar with helping those experiencing personal battles. We will help you ‘have a good return for your labor’. So—I encourage you: Don’t be afraid of your dark nights. Go into them with worthy companions and God’s faithful guardianship. It’s yours for the asking—we’ll help you with the doing. Learn more about how we can help and what our program is all about by visiting www.counselingministry.com. Free assessments for January 2012 enrollment begin December 2011 by calling 601-949-1949. Y

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Giving Thanks

ooking back over the years there are so many things for which I am thankful. God’s hands have guided me into a profession where I can truly be grateful every day. I am blessed to have spent a lifetime working with students. In reflecting, I am amazed by how powerful students are at shaping and transforming the world. They are not only my students, but also my teachers. I have learned the joy of continual learning and that every day brings new knowledge and a chance for growth. This keeps not only my mind, but my spirit young. With each passing year, I realize it is not simply one class after another moving toward graduation, but individuals in whom I have invested in for life. I have been blessed with the opportunity to influence and be influenced by my students. I know that once these children leave the classroom they are not just former students, but also my investment, which is transforming and shaping both my community and world. During the holidays I will inevitably reflect on how thankful I am for their efforts and abilities and for the impact that my students have made on my life. Thanksgiving gives us all a chance to reflect on what we have been through and how blessed we really are. However, it is also a time to look to the future. It’s important to not only remember, but also to cherish and foster these blessings. During breaks and holidays we have time to relax and rejuvenate. It is important to embrace this time with family and loved ones, but it is imperative not to forget what we have learned so that we can move forward with our full energy and devotion. It is crucial to be prepared to return to school and a normal routine once the holidays have passed. Part of New Summit School’s curriculum is to encourage and promote not only academic success, but to build strong values and character. At New Summit School we know parents and families are an integral part of fostering these goals and can encourage growth during the holidays. During this winter break we encourage families to take advantage of teachable moments and to keep a routine so that students enter back into school ready to take on the New Year! Families can make time in the day for open discussion with children. This time could be used to discuss things they

have already learned or things they are excited to learn about when they return to school. It’s easy to get a little lazy over breaks, and although it’s great to kick back, staying active helps the body and mind and is fun too! Leave time to move around and have fun with your kids, take them to the park, go for a walk or even play a sports game on the Wii, just keep moving! Keeping structure is important for returning to school. Having a general agenda your children can follow helps them stay on track and keeps everyone ready to get back to work. So to my students, their families, and community thank you for your support, love and efforts. You are the reason we are blessed at New Summit School. We appreciate all that you do and know that the investments we make today will brighten our communities of tomorrow. Y Dr. Nancy New is the Executive Director of New Summit School Services and the Mississippi Community Education Center. For more information on New Summit School’s services, call us at (601) 982-7827 or visit our website at www.newsummitschool.com.

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by Susan E. Richardson Anyone who follows the news might wonder what we have to be grateful for this Thanksgiving season. We receive a steady bombardment of crime, poverty, and suffering through various media. By contrast, author Bradley Wright offers good news in his new book Upside. Though the world is not perfect, many areas are improving. Wright begins with income and poverty, using the best available statistics and adjusting numbers for inflation to make fair comparisons. Despite what the news media may have told us, Americans today have more money than in past generations. Determining the state of world finances is more challenging, but good news follows a careful look there, too. From education to health and environmental issues, most measures show improvement over the past decades. People are living longer and healthier lives, and have more free time than ever. Divorce rates and crime rates have both dropped. In addition to addressing these topics, the author includes “Christians Making a Difference” throughout the book. Reading the ways Christians share God’s love around the world offers an extra boost. Wright acknowledges that we still have room for improvement. Obesity impacts health for many and living together instead of marrying has become more common. Still, he concludes that most areas have improved. If you’re ready for good news and a reason to be thankful, pick up a copy of Upside today. The author’s previous book, Christians Are Hate-Filled Hypocrites...and Other Lies You’ve Been Told won the 2011 Christianity Today Book Award. Y Susan E. Richardson is a writer, critique reader, and former Christian retailer with a passion for meeting people’s needs through the written word. You can reach her through her website www.nextlevelcritiques.com.

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NO OTHER NAME Reviewed by Marilyn Tinnin Gospel Music Association’s New Artist of the Year Dove Award nominee No Other Name released it national debut, The Other Side, in late October. This is a keeper. The trio, brother and sister Sam and Laura Allen and friend Chad Smith formed their group whenthe three attended a summer music conference at Nashville’s Belmont University in 2008. A strong proponent of missions, their song “Let It Start with Me” was recently chosen by the Southern Baptist Convention as its mission theme song and will distributed along with a video in over 40,000 Southern Baptist Churches this fall. The entire album is filled with original songs and a few new settings of familiar favorites like “Midnight Cry” and “Christ Arose.” There are not a lot of Christian contemporary albums that I think my daughter would like as much as I do, but this one is timeless and ageless. Unlike some of the modern praise and worship genre, the lyrics here are solid. This group has a gift and a heart for the gospel. Check them out at www.noothername.com and read their individual stories. I wish them great success! Y

events calendar

JACKSON

November 2-5 Mistletoe Marketplace’s Simply Sparkling shopping extravaganza is coming to the Mississippi Trade Mart to bring in the Christmas season. Come and enjoy shopping at its finest featuring merchants locally and from afar. For additional information go to www.mistletoemarketplace.com Belhaven Pavilion will be the site of an outdoor interactive production of “Everyone Knows what a Dragon Looks Like”. This Chinese fable tells of the faith of a child and is sure to be a hit for the entire family. Performances begin at 7:30 p.m. with special matinee performances throughout the day on Saturday.

November 8 The Mississippi Museum of Art, in partnership with St. Andrew’s Cathedral, host harpsichordist John Paul. Music begins at 5:45 p.m. and is free to the public with donations being accepted.

November 14 Friends for a Cause is hosting their 28th Annual Squat & Gobble beginning at 7 p.m.

at the Northpointe Barn. From simple beginnings in 1980, this group has continued to grow to an organization of friends volunteering their time and resources all in an effort to spread God’s word. This year’s proceeds benefit Domestic Violence Shelters of the Jackson Metro area. Information can be found at www.friendsforacause.com

Bring your blankets and chairs to enjoy the 79th Annual Singing Christmas Tree presented at the Soccer Bowl on the campus of Belhaven University. Festivities begin at 7:30 p.m. and are the sure way to get you into the true meaning of Christmas.

December 2 & 3 The Ag Museum is going to be the filled with shoppers at this year’s Gingerbread Gift Market. Come enjoy shopping at its best along with carolers, cooking demonstrations, arts and gifts. Shopping begins at 5:00 p.m. until 9:00 p.m. on Friday and continues Saturday morning at 9:00 a.m.

BRANDON November 5 November 16 The many merchants of the historic Fondern District invite you to Fondern Unwrapped, a uniquely Fondern experience which gives an opportunity to stroll from shop to shop and enjoy an evening of holiday shopping, festive music and delicious food. For more information, call 601-981-9606.

November 18-19 Browse hand-made arts and crafts from vendors during “Mississippi’s favorite arts and crafts shopping party” at Handworks Holiday Market located at the Trademart on the Mississippi State Fairgrounds. More information can be found at www.handworksmarket.com

Crossgates United Methodist Church plays host to the 3rd Annual Blackbird Run which will include a 10K run, 5K run/walk and a 1 mile fun run. Proceeds are donated to the MS Leukemia and Lymphoma Society’s Patient Financial Assistance Program in memory of Coach Larry “Blackbird” Therrell, longtime member of Crossgates and a beloved high school and community college coach. Put your running shoes on and help support a great cause. Information is available at www.msracetiming.com or www.crossgatesumc.org Y

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