MS Christian Living: August 2023

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Katie Eubanks

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Sandra Goff

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Ginger Gober, Teresa Howell

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Courtney Ingle, Laura Lee Leathers, Griffin Ray, Jade Whitehurst

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Kori McDaniel (left) has grown spiritually, socially

at the Mission First Early Learning

(ELC). Read what her mom has to say on page 14.

Dr.

and Taylor Sledge

STEGALL IMAGERY

FOLLOWELL FOTOGRAPHY

39 years,

Where do you get your worth?

Irecently attended a Pro-Life Mississippi luncheon. Before I even sat down, somebody asked, “How’s married life?” It’s the question of the hour, and I’m happy to answer: Being a newlywed is lots of fun. However, I’m having to duck under some poisonous darts every now and then, and not from my husband. Let me tell y’all what happened the week of July 9.

First, on that Sunday morning, I got up early to mow, and Stephen did the weed-eating. Once I finished mowing the front, I pulled the mower — still on and growling — toward the gate to the back. I knew I could push open the gate with one hand and pull the mower behind me with the other, so the machine would stay on. I didn’t want to have to pull the cord again, in case the mower wouldn’t restart. It really only gets ornery when clogged with wet grass, but I told myself I didn’t want to risk it.

Instead, I would be pulling the mower over the erosion-control netting we’d recently laid down near the gate. But the netting was staked into the ground. Surely the mower blades weren’t that low.

The mower choked on the netting, stalled, and wouldn’t restart for 20 to 30 minutes — the very problem I’d wanted to avoid. By then I didn’t have time to finish the backyard before church. Long story short, it was a two-shower day.

Then on Tuesday night, Stephen and I were at a cookout when my dad called. “Hey sweetie,” he said, “I thought you were going to be here around 7?”

Huh? I’d told Mom I would come over for dinner Wednesday night. Well, in my head I had. What I’d actually said was Tuesday. As in that very night, when I had other plans.

Finally, that Friday, I was preparing the venue for the MCL Summer Writing Retreat, and I remembered I needed to bring our coffeemaker to the retreat the next day. I thought I’d halfway talked to Stephen about this, or at least mentioned using the coffeemaker at the first Writing Retreat. I decided to grab him one of those canned Starbucks drinks on my way home, since I’d be absconding with the coffeepot before he got up Saturday.

I forgot the Starbucks drink. At home that

evening, when I told Stephen I needed the coffeemaker in the morning, he had no idea. No, I hadn’t talked to him about it. I offered to run down to the gas station and find him some caffeine, but he said he’d go in the morning.

After each of these three incidents, the enemy hit me with a poison dart: Can I not do ANYTHING right? From the moment I mowed over that burlap netting, the serpent slithered onto the scene (probably in the weeds that keep popping up near our fence) and thwacked me with self-accusations. I saw the darts coming; I knew I could dodge them and forgive myself; but I let them hit me.

I grew up as the good kid — so whenever I make a blunder and my loved ones are a little frustrated with me, I get 10 times more frustrated with myself. I’ve placed far too much of my value in being “right” with my people. Sure, I apologized to Stephen and my mom, and they forgave me, and I’ll try to be more conscientious in the future. But that should’ve been the end of it. Instead, I let the enemy ping me with dart after dart.

Here’s the thing, though: Satan’s accusations, even when they’re true, are irrelevant to the child of God. My worth is secure. Jesus proved how much He loves me by dying for me when I was still His enemy (Romans 5:8). So nothing I do now, as His beloved, could make Him value me any more or any less (Romans 8:38-39).

Wherever you get your value, if it’s not in Christ, it won’t last. But if you are in Christ, your value never changes.

“And you are complete in Him, who is the head of all principality and power.” — Colossians 2:10, emphasis mine.

If you’re trusting and following Christ — even imperfectly — then you are complete in Him, Christian. Don’t let anyone or anything tell you otherwise.

Armed with this truth, march on, sharing the saving love of Jesus with everyone you meet. And don’t worry about what they think of you: The Lord thinks you’re worth dying for.

FOLLOWELL FOTOGRAPHY

Remembering our most important relationship — the one we have with Christ — at our wedding a few months ago.

Elizabeth Ann was finishing construction on her house when she went into Miskelly’s to find furniture and décor pieces to bring to life the type of home she envisioned. Instead of finding the perfect new pieces, she found herself wanting more customization within the collections offered. She then realized that there was an opportunity to offer a broader range of products that catered to customers like herself, those seeking to create spaces that are visually appealing and conducive to comfortable living, while being functional and practical at the same time. Acting upon this newfound purpose and inspiration, Elizabeth Ann Home was created.

“My goal was to introduce a fresh and distinctive look to Miskelly’s, allowing us to present a new look and expand our offerings to better meet the needs and desires of our customers.”

The design aesthetic reflected in Elizabeth Ann Home is shaped by a combination of personal and practical influences - from being a mother to her daughter Everly and a pet owner to her Golden Retriever Annie. She explains, “I understand the significance of having furniture that can withstand the realities of everyday life. I believe that furniture should be able to endure spills, muddy paws, and other inevitable mishaps without causing unnecessary stress. This perspective keeps me focused on what truly matters for our customers –the ability to live on and enjoy their furniture without constant worry.”

Elizabeth Ann also finds inspiration in her work each time she goes to market, where she sees the latest innovations and unique furniture pieces from various manufacturers. Going to market helps her curate creative new floor plans in the Elizabeth Ann collection that reflect the latest trends in the furniture and design industry. As a result, customers can find high-quality, on-trend products that are fashionable and functional on display in the store and online.

Both Miskelly Furniture and Elizabeth Ann Home are committed to having a large in-stock and ready-to-ship inventory of furniture and décor, a key differentiator when compared with other similar retailers in the area. However, it’s not just the furnishings that set Miskelly Furniture apart, Elizabeth Ann shares. It’s the company’s mission and its people that make the most positive impact on customers and the community.

When it comes to finding and transforming inspiration into furniture and décor collections that meet the ever-evolving needs and desires of her customers, Elizabeth Ann masterfully does just that. She understands and relates with what her customers want and need in their homes - furnished spaces to enhance their everyday lives. Her purpose and passion for this mission will continue to be reflected in the furnishings and décor offered in the Elizabeth Ann Home collection.

“Our mission statement at Miskelly’s is, ‘Our family serving your family with excellence,’ and it is a guiding principle that we live by. We believe in actively engaging with and supporting our community, fostering meaningful connections, and making a positive impact on the lives of those we serve.”

When Elizabeth Ann Howell decided to launch the Elizabeth Ann Home collection at her family’s business, Miskelly Furniture, it was a decision based on inspiration.

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Don’t forget these spiritual school supplies

The back-to-school season is in full swing, and you have plenty to do already. You have to find snacks that are compatible with allergy restrictions. There’s reading homework, spelling homework, math homework, sports practice, deadlines, tutoring, a bake sale, a pep rally … No pressure, right?

Sure, these things are important. But there are some vital supplies you won’t find on a school supply list: The Armor of God.

Let’s think about armor for a second. What is its function? It protects you in battle. It prepares you for whatever the enemy lobs at you, and it equips you to strike back. Ephesians 6:10-18 outlines the importance of having this spiritual armor. Your kids will face battles every day, and not just the dreaded biology pop quiz. Kids these days face bullying, ungodly social pressures, brokenness, sin, and exposure to concepts far beyond their spiritual and emotional maturity. Equipping your children with the full Armor of God, mama, protects them in ways that you can’t.

Equip your babies of all ages, from preschool age to college and beyond, with the Belt of Truth. Speak the truth in love to them and over them. Teach them the truth about how God loves them, how they were created for a purpose, beautifully and wonderfully made in His image.

Help tighten the straps on the Breastplate of Righteousness. The breastplate guards their heart, right? Teach your children the importance of living in accordance with God’s Word. Teach them to hide the Word of God in their hearts, so they don’t depart from it when the pressure is on.

And when it seems too much to bear, buckle their Shoes of Peace. This sweet, sweet peace comes from knowing that the Lord our God leads their steps, directs their paths and blesses every step in the peace of knowing the gospel — that Christ died for us, erased our sin, and opened the line of communication uninhibited to the ultimate General and Fighter of our battles.

The final pieces of the armor are the Helmet of Salvation, the Shield of Faith, and the Sword of the Spirit. The Sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God, strikes the enemy and cuts away obstacles. A sword can strike, sure, but a sword also is a tool that can

be used to cut away the thorns that obstruct a warrior’s path.

Shields and helmets are designed to absorb the blows that would be fatal, the ones aimed at the most vital organs, right? So the Shield of Faith and the Helmet of Salvation protect your babies by covering their heads and getting out ahead of any offensive strikes. The Shield of Faith needs to be out front, on display, held steady to absorb the blow so the counterdefense can swing that sword. The Helmet of Salvation solidifies that your little warrior

knows WHO they are because of WHOSE they are. They know they were bought with a price at the highest ransom. They belong to the Lord, and the Lord fights their battles.

So how do you equip these small, innocent, naive soldiers with this armor?

Teach them the Word of God. Live it out in front of them. Pray, pray, pray. Teach them why it is important to protect their hearts and minds, even if it means distancing themselves from a group or activity. And like any army, big or small, have backup. Surround them with positive influences in a refuge of worship, and be on the front lines with them.

By equipping your kiddos with the Armor of God, you’re equipping them with the ability to fight any battles that come their way — at school and beyond. Y

Courtney and her husband, Jeremy, live in Brandon and are members at Park Place Baptist Church in Pearl. They have a daughter, Taylor, and a son, Jacob. Courtney is a full-time homemaker and can be reached at courtneyingle89@gmail.com.

“ The Helmet of Salvation solidifies that your little warrior knows WHO they are because of WHOSE they are. They know they were bought with a price at the highest ransom. They belong to the Lord, and the Lord fights their battles.”

How to prevent pickleball injuries

Did you know that pickleball is the fastest growing sport in America? If you have any doubt about that, I’d encourage you to show up to any local court in the evening. You will find it full of kids and adults having a blast every night of the week!

The sport is a cross between ping pong, badminton and tennis. According to the Sports & Fitness Industry Association, the number of people playing pickleball grew by 159 percent over three years, to 8.9 million in 2022. Pickleball is gaining popularity because it’s easy to play, low impact, and appeals to a wide range of people, from young children to senior citizens.

You might gravitate to pickleball because it takes less of a toll on your body than sports like tennis. Pickleball is a safe sport and an excellent way to stay active. But as with any sport, there are a few common injuries you need to watch out for.

“Preparation is key in preventing pickleball injuries,” said Dr. Chad Hosemann, orthopedic surgeon at Capital Ortho. “Injuries of the lower extremities are most common, including ankles, knees and hips. Constant twisting and bending motions can aggravate low back issues. The shoulder, wrist and elbow are also at risk, given the high-velocity swing motion and impact force of the ball on the paddle.”

“Specifically, some of the more common injuries we see among

picklers include tendonitis, fractures, sprains and tears. The reasons for injury typically include overuse of a particular body part, improper technique, improper equipment, or lack of a proper warmup.”

“Being aware of these potential injuries and preparing well to stay healthy is the best approach,” said Hosemann. “Always take a little time to stretch and warm up your muscles before playing, especially the calf muscles, hamstrings, quads, and shoulder muscles.

“Also, make sure that your gear isn’t putting you at risk. Proper footwear and the right paddles can make all the difference between an exciting game of pickleball and ankle or elbow injuries.” Don’t let the threat of these potential injuries rain on your pickleball parade! However, if you’re in pain during or after a game, it might be time to seek medical attention. The sooner you get a proper diagnosis and treatment plan, the sooner you can get back to the courts! Y

Capital Ortho’s team of 11 highly skilled and compassionate orthopedic surgeons are committed to helping you find ways to move better and live better! With locations in Flowood, Madison, Clinton, Kosciusko, Brookhaven and Hazlehurst, there is a Capital Ortho nearby and ready to serve you. Walk-ins are always welcome at our Flowood and Clinton clinic locations. For more info, visit capitalortho.com, follow Capital Ortho on social media, or call 601-987-8200.

“ Always take a little time to stretch and warm up your muscles before playing, especially the calf muscles, hamstrings, quads, and shoulder muscles.”

– Dr. Chad Hosemann

Goodwill Industries of Mississippi

Salutes Metro Jackson’s Outstanding Volunteers

Goodwill Industries of Mississippi cordially invites you to attend an exclusive dinner honoring this year’s outstanding volunteers.

Thursday, August 17, 2023

The Country Club of Jackson

Jackson, Mississippi

• Reception: 6:30 pm

• Dinner: 7:15 pm

• Presentation of Honorees: 8:00 pm

For reservations or more information, please call 601-953-2569.

This year’s slate of honorees is a testament to the generosity of which the human spirit is capable. They have given freely of their time and talents so that those less fortunate among us may find their true potential. Please mark your calendars and plan to join us as we honor metro Jackson’s outstanding volunteers on August 17, 2023.

John W. Beck, III (Johnny)

Cathy Northington Davis and Martha Frye

Carolyn Boteler

David Pharr

Jimmy Hollingsworth Robyn Shideler Farber

Jamie RasberryRegina ToddKaleb Bullock Youth Honoree Austin Craft Youth Honoree

Katie Farthing Youth Honoree Nataleigh Nix Youth Honoree

J. William ManuelLori Hill Marshall, MD

How to approach food with a godly heart

Iremember being so proud seeing the number 102 as I stepped onto the scale — my daily check-in after restricting myself to 700 calories a day. I was a 21-yearold college girl chasing “thin” instead of healthy and believing satan’s lies of inferiority. The starvation would eventually lead me to binge eating weekly because, “Well, I earned it.” It was a vicious cycle.

Satan used food to whisper his lies into my heart, but God left the 99 to reel me back in and remind me of HIS TRUTH: that food is not our enemy but a good and gracious gift from Him to use for His glory! I am so thankful that God pulled back the curtain on the lies I was believing, because what the enemy meant for evil, God is turning to good! He has opened doors for me to share a healthier, more godly mindset around food. We do not have to fear it, be controlled by it, or forego the value and importance that food plays in our lives.

I get it: It’s hard to discern what’s good and bad with all the diet fads out there. However, let me remind you that we serve a God who knows our genetic makeup better than any scientist, doctor or diet expert. He provided just the right kinds of foods to His people thousands of years ago.

I find it interesting that the original sin in the garden of Eden involved diet. This is not a new struggle for us. Adam and Eve ate the “forbidden fruit,” which is what they selfishly wanted, instead of enjoying the abundance of other fruits and veggies around them that God allowed! Similarly, we have all rebelled against God and sought after things that are not good for us, including foods that were never meant to be consumed. It should not surprise us that what we consume often consumes us. My story is a prime example. I craved being thin, so much so that I withheld foods and labeled them all bad. However, it only left me deficient, malnourished and frail.

So how do we approach food with a godly heart? We must first understand that food is a gift from God. It nourishes us down to a cellular level. Therefore, when we approach food, let us be mindful that it is an act of honor and

worship to Him. As a generation, we have become so accustomed to food. It’s so easily accessible to us. So much so, that it is seen as an expectation instead of a blessing. However, when we put food in its rightful place and see it not just for its purpose, but the heart of God’s design behind it, our hearts cannot help but rejoice, give thanks, and honor God.

I recently read Dr. Rex Russell’s book “What the Bible Says About Healthy Living,” which I highly recommend. Dr. Russell lays out three principles to apply in our diet that I do my best to adhere to. I believe these principles are a good way to help keep our mindset, hearts, and God’s design in their rightful places as we approach food.

1 Eat only substances God created for food — fruits, veggies, nuts, lean meats, etc. and avoid what is not designed for food (Genesis 1:29, 9:3).

2

As much as possible, eat foods as they were created — before they are changed or

converted into something humans think might be better (genetically modified, synthetic or man-made foods).

3Avoid food addictions and do not let any food become your god. God has given us good food to eat; however, it must stay in its rightful place. Let us run to God, not to food, for our comfort and joy.

Taking this approach in my own health (although I am not perfect), I have found keeps me from straying back to my old ways. It puts food and my thoughts in their rightful place — at the feet of Jesus. When I see food as a way of honor and worship to the loving Father, my heart is set right before I even eat.

My prayer for you is that these tips give you freedom in Christ to enjoy what is good and perfect in His sight — not to feel restricted or defeated. May we learn from Adam and Eve that God can be trusted and that we lack nothing. Praise be to God for loving us so! Y

Jade during her 700-calorie days (above and below).

Jade Whitehurst is a wife, mom, fitness coach and eighth-grade science teacher. You can follow her on Instagram @jadewhitehurst_fit (aka The Faith Fit Mom).

Empowering the diverse abilities of students through an individualized approach to education in a supportive, innovative and transformative environment.

Small Student-to-Teacher Ratio | Workforce Development Program | On-Site Support Services

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How Mission First impacts my child

How did you find out about the Mission First Early Learning Center?

I heard about Mission First through a friend of a friend. Her children attended the Mission First Early Learning Center, and she had nothing but wonderful things to say about the school. Since this was Kori’s first school experience, I wanted an outstanding school!

How have you seen Kori grow at Mission First?

Kori’s academic growth has blown us away! The Early Learning Center makes learning fun, and Kori comes home every day excited to share what she has learned. Her teacher, Mrs. Mixon, was encouraging and great at communicating what Kori was learning. Kori also grew socially. Only having an older sibling, Kori was not used to being with children her age. I have loved watching her develop friendships at the Early Learning Center. But most importantly, I can tell Kori is developing her own relationship with God, and it is amazing to see! Her teachers have made the Bible easy to understand, and Kori comes home excited to recite Bible verses and share lessons she learned in chapel. This has sparked several impromptu Bible study moments with her Nana and PawPaw! She sings Bible songs all the time and has even taught us a few that we didn’t know. Kori has grown so much in one year at the Early Learning Center!

What is one thing you love about Mission First?

If I had to narrow it down to one thing, I would say the staff. Everyone at the Early Learning Center knows and loves Kori. The entire staff is welcoming, and I knew I could always reach out to her teachers or the administrators if I needed anything. You can tell the entire team loves what they do!

If you had to describe the ELC in a few words or phrases, what would they be? Excellent education. Caring and involved staff.

Does Kori have a favorite class?

Kori loves all the special classes at the Early Learning Center, especially her weekly visits to the library! She also enjoys all of the sensory and play-based activities that take place in the classroom.

Do you have a memory from last year that was impactful?

On Kori’s birthday last year, she had to be out of school because she was sick, but her teachers didn’t want her to go without a celebration. Mrs. Mixon recorded the entire class singing “Happy Birthday” to Kori, and when Kori watched it, she cried. It made her feel loved, and as a mom, I felt incredibly thankful for her teacher’s kindness. You know it is a special school when the teachers intentionally love and care for each student, even outside of the classroom. Y

Kiara McDaniel (above) and her daughter Kori (below), who attends the Mission First Early Learning Center (ELC) in Jackson.

Kiara McDaniel is the mother of Kori McDaniel. Kori attends The Mission First Early Learning Center, an independent, Christian, play-based preschool located in Jackson. Kiara shares her testimony about the Mission First ELC.

“ (Kori’s teacher) recorded the entire class singing ‘Happy Birthday’ … and when Kori watched it, she cried. It made her feel loved.”

– Kiara McDaniel

If you aren’t sure whether you have a relationship with God or where you’ll go when you die, please don’t put this magazine down until you’ve read the following:

✝ THE PROBLEM

For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God. – Romans 3:23

For the wages of sin is death … – Romans 6:23a

The natural result and consequence of our sin is eternal death, or hell (Revelation 20:15), separated from God. This is because God is completely perfect and holy (Matthew 5:48), and His justice demands that sin be punished (Proverbs 11:21).

✝ THE SOLUTION

… but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. – Romans 6:23b

But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. – Romans 5:8

Jesus Christ died in our place on the cross and took on the punishment for all our sins (Isaiah 53:4-6). Then God raised Him from the dead (John 20)!

HOW TO RECEIVE SALVATION

If you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. – Romans 10:9

Trust in what Jesus has done for you — His death for your sins and His resurrection — and trust Him as Lord.

IS IT FOR ANYONE?

For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. – Romans 10:13

THE RESULTS

Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. – Romans 5:1

For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Romans 8:38-39

WHAT TO DO NEXT

So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. – Romans 10:17

If you decided to trust in Jesus, grow in your faith by reading more of God’s Word in the Bible. We recommend the gospel of John (it comes just after Luke) as a good starting point — or Romans!

Finding a church close to you that teaches faith in Christ is another important step. It’s crucial to spend time with other believers so we can encourage each other in our faith.

If you have questions about anything on this page, please contact us at 601.896.1432, or send us a message on Facebook @MSChristianLiving, Instagram @mschristianmag or Twitter @MSChristLiving.

Lesson plans for retirement

From left: Alice Cottrell, Alice Youngblood, and Billy and Martha Thames on a mission trip to Global Maritime Ministries in New Orleans.

Awise teacher knows you need to create and follow a lesson plan. Two people who have years of experience creating lesson plans are educators Billy and Martha Thames.

Dr. Billy B. Thames taught in Jackson Public Schools. Later he served as president of CopiahLincoln Community College, from 1968 until his retirement in 1997. Dr. Martha Morris Thames was the director of nursing for William Carey University’s Hattiesburg campus until her retirement in 2006. But they did not meet each other until after retirement.

After retiring, they each moved to Madison, at different times, to be near their respective children. Martha became a widow in 2014, and Billy became a widower in 2017. They met at First Baptist Madison and married on Valentine’s Day 2019. They each have three children, and together they have 15 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

Planning is essential

Soon after Billy became a nonagenarian, on July 3, I had the opportunity to interview him and Martha. Listen in to their wisdom on preparing for retirement.

Martha shared first, “You never know what will happen as you age. You must plan for those things — be prepared. But the number one thing, as believers, God doesn’t want us just to sit down and do nothing. As long as we’re living, He has a plan for our lives.

“I had an aging mother who needed some help. One of my goals was to take care of my family. We’ve both been through cancer, so we know health is important. Being active in retirement means having goals to maintain your health so that you can be a servant to your family and community.

“It’s easy to flitter away your time. The day is gone before you know it. If you don’t have something in your schedule to make you have a structure in your life, you have wasted the time God has given you. (He) wants to use you in ways that would be helpful to other people.”

Billy’s turn: “I’ve always been a person that had a plan. I carry a card in my pocket where I have written down what I need to do. For years, I have planned my day, the week, and whatever was in the future. If I didn’t do it, I revisit my

plan and determine why it was not completed.

“I’m enjoying retirement. I have served on various committees at church, involved with the Lions Club, and have volunteered at the Baptist Hospital. I enjoy helping people. But most of all, I’m available to my children.”

Implement the plan

After breakfast and devotions together, it’s time for the Thameses to review their plans for the day. Appointments, meeting with men’s and women’s groups at church, going to the gym (a goal of three times a week), and yard and garden maintenance are just a few of their to-do items.

Billy enjoys doing woodwork in his shop, and Martha enjoys reading. They also serve on a caring committee. Regularly, they check on six individuals, including one lady who is 100 and a neighbor who is 91.

A writing project

At the suggestion of his daughters, Billy has been working on a book for the past year and a half. He uses a website called Storyworth and has written around 75 stories based on questions his children submitted. They will add pictures. Once completed, his stories will be available for family and friends.

“I recommend people seriously consider doing a project like this because it’s passing on

information about your life. It’s your legacy to your family,” Martha said.

Enrichment lessons

When asked how they add daily laughter to their lives, Martha responded, “Try to keep joy at the forefront. I think the joy of the Lord is there every day, having faith and knowing He’s in control. This gives us a peace that adds joy to our lives.” They both agreed they have a great time with their family and friends — laughter is spontaneous.

More tips

● Find ways to serve people outside your family. Be intentional about sharing the gospel, and engage in mission trips.

● Travel if you are able. The Thameses travel with close friends and through churchsponsored trips.

● Try to re-establish friendships from the past. After retirement, there is more time. Billy has recently reconnected with an army buddy from 50 years ago.

Looking back through 26 years of his retirement, Billy remarked, “I’m completely satisfied with what I’ve done.” Martha nods, smiles with pride, and you know she is s atisfied too. Y

At this age and stage of her life, Laura Lee Leathers focuses on “Helping You Flourish in Faith & Finish Well by His Word.” She is an award-winning freelance writer, speaker, and mentor. She has started the Facebook group scribes4HIM to connect with writers. But her favorite thing to do is host Nana’s Weekend for her grandchildren. Connect with her at laura.l.leathers@gmail.com or visit lauraleeleathers.com.

“ It’s easy to flitter away your time. … If you don’t have something in your schedule to make you have a structure in your life, you have wasted the time God has given you. (He) wants to use you in ways that would be helpful to other people.”

– Dr. Martha Thames

St. Catherine’s memory care gives couple best quality of life

Like many people in the early stages of dementia or Alzheimer’s, the signs were there for Carolyn Hall: forgetfulness, struggling to find the right words, not paying a few bills on time. But Mrs. Hall was only in her late 50s, so she and her husband, Jerry, looked to their doctor for other explanations. After extensive research, Mr. Hall’s fears were confirmed … his wife did have dementia. That’s when his journey to memory care at St. Catherine’s Village began.

At first, Mr. Hall cared for Mrs. Hall at their home in Vicksburg. Things were OK until COVID19 hit and accelerated Mrs. Hall’s cognitive decline. Even after hiring in-home caregivers, caring for her became too much for him to handle. A colleague had retired to St. Catherine’s, and Mr. Hall knew a board member at the all-inclusive Life Plan Community, so he checked out the property. After visiting, he knew this was the place where his wife would have the best quality of life.

Mr. Hall’s hope was to have Mrs. Hall admitted into Campbell Cove memory care at St. Catherine’s. Unfortunately, she needed more support, and she was accepted into skilled nursing in Hughes Center. Directly connected to Campbell Cove, Hughes Center offers person-centered care with sensory-stimulating and enriching activities to help preserve each resident’s cognitive health. Another advantage of skilled nursing was that a physician visited Mrs. Hall on site so she would not have to leave her familiar surroundings, which often caused agitation.

Soon after moving in, Mrs. Hall’s condition improved … so much so that the St. Catherine’s staff recommended she move into Campbell Cove. While it’s common for residents to move from memory care to skilled nursing, it’s rare that someone does the opposite!

Being able to receive the right level of care at the right time on the

same campus is one of the main benefits of living in an all-inclusive Life Plan Community like St. Catherine’s. Residents can transition from one service level to another while remaining in a familiar environment. Becoming a member of the St. Catherine’s community did require an up-front investment from the Halls. However, Mr. Hall — a retired banker — realized that the long-term financial stability was worth it.

Now 74, Mrs. Hall is doing well in Campbell Cove — interacting with others and dancing, doing a little soft shoe. She feels comfortable, which is a great comfort for Mr. Hall. He sings the praises of everyone at St. Catherine’s and believes Mrs. Hall is getting the best care possible — care that he could not duplicate at home.

He also appreciates that St. Catherine’s is a Christian organization and calls the community a blessing. The couple’s daughter and her family live nearby in Madison, and she visits her mom weekly. Although their son is in Memphis, he agrees that St. Catherine’s is the right place for Mrs. Hall.

Located on 160 picturesque acres in Madison, St. Catherine’s is a private, gated community boasting a caring staff, on-site resident-centered care, and a mission-focused environment. It was the first Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC) in Mississippi to earn accreditation by CARF-CCAC. This “commitment to excellence” seal signifies that the campus exceeds the standards established by the only international accrediting body for CCRCs.

On campus are independent living in apartments and garden homes, assisted living in Marian Hall, memory care in Campbell Cove, and skilled nursing in Hughes Center, Siena Center and Tuscany. Y

To learn more about senior living options at St. Catherine’s Village Life Plan Community, visit StCatherinesVillage.com or call 601-856-0123 to schedule a tour.

Find support and serenity with exceptional memory care programs at Campbell Cove, where a warm, calming and homelike ambiance welcomes individuals facing memory challenges at all levels. Residents are encouraged to stay engaged…supporting cognitive and physical functioning helps preserve fulfilling lives.

After Carolyn Hall received

a dementia

diagnosis, she and her husband, Jerry, found the care she needed at St. Catherine’s Village in Madison.

But God Ministries’ dental clinic leaves residents smiling

Since 2016, But God Ministries has had a strong influence in Jonestown, Mississippi, as well as in various parts of Haiti. Their work in the Mississippi Delta has already made a large impact on the community as they are working to build Jonestown into a thriving populace while spreading God’s Word. One of the first priorities for BGM’s movement in the Delta is the health and safety of Jonestown citizens, which is why their dental clinic is vital.

Founded in 2011 by Stan Buckley, BGM is a Christian nonprofit focused on building sustainable communities that can unite together from their love of God. Five years after its conception, Stan and BGM decided to spread their influence from Haiti to the Mississippi Delta. Jonestown became the community of choice.

“We chose to work in Jonestown after touring the town and meeting many of the residents. The people were very welcoming, and it seemed to be a very good fit for our organization’s goal. After thinking and praying about the matter, we felt God leading us to Jonestown,” Stan said.

BGM has created an up-to-date dental facility in Jonestown. “A dental clinic was not even on the list of options at first, but it soon became apparent that it was the best thing to help the people,” said BGM Community and Dental Coordinator Linda McGrew.

The BGM Dental Clinic was originally donated by Henry Schein, a dental supply company, after it served as an emergency dental facility after Hurricane Katrina. The room is

fitted with two dentist chairs and the lights and instruments necessary for any dental clinic.

BGM has been running the free dental clinic in Jonestown since its opening in November 2018. The clinic’s opening was successful, but it’s been harder to find dentists to volunteer their time. Several dentists have donated weekends, but it is BGM’s goal to find a stable source of dentists and hygienists so no one is overworked.

BGM has recently acquired an Aceton XM Lite handheld X-ray machine and is looking to upgrade its handheld drills and tools necessary to run a state-of-the-art dental clinic. With up-todate technology that any dentist would use, the BGM Dental Clinic is a perfect place for dentists to do good.

As important as BGM’s dental clinic is, it’s not the only big thing they’re working on in Jonestown: The BGM medical clinic finally opened in September 2022. Located right around the corner from the dental clinic, the medical clinic also operates free of charge. It is run and operated by the medical professionals of Medical Analysis.

The dental and medical clinics fall within BGM’s “SPHERES” model, which closely mirrors the social determinants of health: Spiritual, Physical (medical and dental), H2O,

Education, Roofs (or housing), Economic development, and Soil (access to healthy food).

“Our ‘SPHERES’ approach is effective and applicable in Jonestown because it works everywhere, no matter the town,” Stan said.

The dental clinic has had an extraordinary impact. “It’s not as if everyone needs the services, but that the services are here,” Linda said. “So many people from Jonestown and surrounding areas don’t even have dental insurance, so it is essential for their health that they have an outlet to resolve any dental problems.”

BGM will continue to work alongside the people of Jonestown to better the town and quality of life for its people. One of BGM’s volunteer dentists, Dr. Lance Dillion, feels that it is everyone’s responsibility to give back:

“I have done foreign missions and local missions, and you cannot find a better organization or group of people than BGM that want to take care of the people of Jonestown. All of the resources are there, we just have to get the dentists to the clinic.”

If any dentist or hygienist would like to donate their time and talents to the BGM Dental Clinic, please reach out to But God Ministries at 601-9831179 or Community and Dental Coordinator Linda McGrew at linda@butgodministries.com Y

“ I have done foreign missions and local missions, and you cannot find a better organization or group of people than BGM ... All of the resources are there, we just have to get the dentists to the clinic.”

– Dr. Lance Dillon

MIDSOUTH ASSOCIATION I NDEPENDENT SCHOOLS

The mission of the Midsouth Association of Independent Schools is to certify the educational integrity of member schools and to promote the development and freedoms of independent schools in the Midsouth.

What is MAIS?

Since its establishment in 1968, the Midsouth Association of Independent Schools (MAIS) has been dedicated to ensuring the educational excellence of its member schools. These schools take immense pride in offering outstanding educational opportunities to children residing in the midsouth region. When parents seek a secure and Christian-oriented educational environment for their children, independent schools, particularly those affiliated with MAIS, are their preferred choice.

With a network comprising 130 schools, MAIS currently caters to a student enrollment exceeding 40,000. Furthermore, these schools employ over 6,000 individuals directly while also generating business for numerous other enterprises. As vital contributors to their communities, both economically and socially, Mississippi's independent schools have made a substantial impact. A 2019 PEER Study commissioned by the Mississippi legislature revealed that these schools generate an economic impact surpassing $214 million annually and equal amounts in avoidance cost to the state.

While member schools' athletic teams consistently demonstrate their prowess at increasingly competitive levels, the academic achievements of their students have reached unprecedented heights, showing no signs of decline. Remarkably, MAIS schools have successfully placed 96% of their graduates into four-year colleges and community colleges. Moreover, their average ACT scores exceed the national average for college-bound students by four points.

MAIS holds an esteemed position within the education sector as an accredited partner of Cogina (SACS/AdvancED) and an affiliate member of CAPE (Council for American Private Education). Additionally, it is a valued ISANET (Independent School Association) member, further solidifying its commitment to promoting high-quality education and fostering collaboration among independent schools.

What is ”School Choice”?

Faith in education

Seven heads of metro Jackson independent schools recently spoke with MCL Editor Katie Eubanks Ginn about their institutions and how Christian education has impacted them. The full interview is available on the MCL podcast, “A Closer Walk.” Also, don’t think these are the only independent schools in metro Jackson: Numerous others are quoted on the following pages!

Lawrence Coco

School: Jackson Preparatory School

Location: Flowood (across from Merit Health River Oaks)

Grades: preK3-12

Cathy Haynie

School: Christ Covenant School

Location: Pear Orchard Presbyterian Church, Ridgeland

Grades: preK3-10 (plans to add 11th grade in fall 2024, 12th grade in fall 2025)

David Horner

School: Hartfield Academy

Location: Flowood (just east of Dogwood area)

Grades: preK3-12

Palmer Kennedy

School: Jackson Academy

Location: Northeast Jackson (Ridgewood Road)

Grades: preK2-12

Termie Land

School: Madison-Ridgeland Academy

Location: Madison

Grades: preK3-12

Kelle Menogan

School: The Redeemer’s School

Location: Redeemer Church, PCA, Northeast Jackson (640 E. Northside Dr.)

Grades: preK4-8

Brian Smith

School: First Presbyterian Day School

Location: First Presbyterian Church of Jackson (Belhaven area)

Grades: Birth through 6th grade

Katie Eubanks Ginn: Would each of you explain some of what makes your school distinct?

Palmer Kennedy: Three words stick out in our mission: spirituality, purpose, and significance. We believe that to establish that life of purpose and significance, it’s got a Christian basis to it. We’re open to all faiths, but at the same time we’re unapologetically Christian. We have our SOAR program, we have chapel, but I hope what makes us unique is our people and how we live out our Christian walk every day.

David Horner: Hartfield is a covenant school, like Christ Covenant. It’s a three-legged stool of school, church, and home. Our requirement is to have at least one parent (of each child) be a believer. So later on, when we’re teaching from a biblical worldview … that parent has understood and agreed to that.

Kelle Menogan: We’re an urban Christian

school. We want to provide an academically excellent and Christ-centered, gospel-centered education environment to the kids in the Broadmoor community of Jackson. We want to be able to provide a Christian education to those students who usually would not have the opportunity … so we are not tuition-driven. Tuition only makes up about 6 percent of our operating budget.

Termie Land: At MRA … we’re a college preparatory Christian school educating each student — mind, body and spirit. While we’re not a covenant school, we do require that all of our employees are Christian. We say in our portrait of a graduate that all our students are challenged by the gospel, with the goal that all of our students would come to know Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior by the time they graduate.

Lawrence Coco: We’re also driven by our mission. Part of the mission talks about

academic, athletic and artistic excellence, but it also says we want to instill personal integrity through biblical values.

It’s been an interesting journey as we’ve been starting our lower school. Certainly when you’re instilling personal integrity through biblical values at the lower school level, it’s very intentional. You will have Bible class, chapel. … Middle school, it becomes more of a partnership between teachers, students and parents. And at upper school, as we’re preparing students to leave our halls, we want them to own their faith. We want the leadership of our students to drive the spiritual endeavors at our school.

Cathy Haynie: Christ Covenant is also a covenant model school. We’re a biblical worldview-oriented school. We spend a lot of time training teachers. We believe God is the author of all truth, and you can’t separate truth from God. Math teaches that God is a God of

MCL Editor Katie Eubanks Ginn (bottom center) interviews seven heads of schools, from left: David Horner of Hartfield Academy, Lawrence Coco of Jackson Prep, Palmer Kennedy of Jackson Academy, Brian Smith of First Presbyterian Day School, Termie Land of Madison-Ridgeland Academy, Cathy Haynie of Christ Covenant School, and Kelle Menogan of The Redeemer’s School.

order. Science, you’re exposing children to God’s creation. History, God’s unfolding plan for people.

We’re (also) a smaller environment. We’re located on the campus of Pear Orchard Presbyterian Church.

Brian Smith: First Presbyterian Day School began 58 years ago in the church with the desire to have a school that taught through the lens of God’s Word. Our mission is pursuing academic excellence, planting seeds of Christlikeness, and preparing hearts for future service in God’s kingdom. We have Bible, we have chapel, but I think the key is hiring Christian teachers.

We want to teach to excellence (and) understanding your own God-given gifts, but with the ultimate goal that a young person would see Jesus as their Lord and Savior through a personal relationship with Him.

KG: What are some changes taking place at your schools?

LC: This year we’ve started our lower school. (That’ll) drive the rest of our school, and we’ll see the impact into our middle school and upper school.

CH: We are adding an upper school. … We’ve felt we were not finished with our students when they left. We have over 90 percent of our students staying. We have about 40 in our first class.

KM: We’re a ministry of Redeemer Church, so we’re just looking at more ways of having the school and the church engage in activities. A lot of our students who are not members of the church come back in the evenings for the Wednesday night youth programs and children’s programs. We have our parents engaging in some of our other ministries like Hope Exchange (where they learn financial / job readiness).

We’re also in the planning stages of a capital campaign, trying to expand our facilities on the campus. We’re busting at the seams. We want to be planted there in that community.

TL: At MRA, we’re investing more and more into our Bible teachers and our spiritual leadership personnel. This year we’re increasing the amount of time that our middle-schoolers will be in Bible classes, and we’re adding to the Bible requirements for graduation. We have a gentleman who’s been doing our spiritual

leadership, but he’s been doing several other things on campus, so we’ve narrowed that down.

PK: There’s probably not a division of Jackson Academy where you won’t see something going on in terms of physical enhancements. But those enhancements are going to allow us to expand our programs. The original idea for our K2 program was to provide a place for the children of our faculty and staff, but now we have four sections. We planned on having one to two.

We continue to try to expand our SOAR program, which is our outdoor program with a Christian emphasis. We have a full-time director this year for the first time in a long time.

DH: We started work last month on a new middle-school building. (But also) I’m tasked with holding the line on mission. I think that’s the part that I’m excited about is that our people have responded to the constant and consistent reminders of (that). It’s not easy to measure a student’s knowledge of God and their identity in Christ. But that’s the most important thing.

BS: We built a new academic building two years ago for our fifth and sixth grade with a

From left: MCL Editor Katie Eubanks Ginn, David Horner, Lawrence Coco, Palmer Kennedy, Brian Smith, Termie Land, Kelle Menogan.

new gym and a new playground, and then this summer just finished up a new office suite, with the idea of, we see the fruit. But we’re trying to make a real tangible investment in the root, whether that be our staff, our families — how are we building into them?

We’ve offered a nursery for our staff for 17 years. So we opened that (to FPDS families) in the fall. You say, that’s kind of young for Christian education, but it’s not. It’s for birth through life.

KG: What kind of changes are y’all seeing in Christian education?

DH: There’s a greater need than ever. (immediate agreement all around)

TL: Social media, technology, how that’s progressing, artificial intelligence, are absolutely if not the greatest challenge, certainly one of the greatest.

PK: Change is happening. Schools determine the pace of that change at their own school, while at the same time preparing our children for what’s next after our school.

LC: The difficulty is, these students are just getting inundated with information and things we prefer them not be inundated with. The balance is, we want to protect them, but also prepare them to walk outside our walls … I’m an adult, and sometimes I don’t think I’m prepared.

DH: That’s the beauty of the gospel. We can bring it back down to a very simple thing … Romans says don’t be conformed to the world … but renew your mind, transform, with the ultimate goal of becoming Christ followers. We can help them see (math, science, etc.) through the right lens instead of seeing it how the world wants them to see it.

CH: We have students longer than any church youth group has them. It’s such an opportunity.

KG: Have y’all heard about the Osprey movement started by Ben and Erin Napier? It’s for parents who want their kids to stay social media-free through high school, and I’m doing an article on it next month.

TL: I vote for it. (laughter all around)

KM: We were all raised without social media, and I think we turned out OK. (laughs)

LC: If I could uninvent one thing, it would be social media.

PK: And I think if you asked the kids, they’d say the same thing. (But) they can’t because of others.

TL: There are a couple of events we do where we take up (students’) cell phones for a 24- or 36-hour period. And they love it.

BS: The key is reminding them, that phone is not evil. Our hearts are. The pressure (of social media) is to present a façade that’s not who they really are. … We have to teach them that they’re image bearers of God.

DH: I’d encourage your article (on Osprey). Parents need a framework, a plan — and most don’t know that others feel the same.

Interview continues on page 34

KG: Any tips for Christian parents of public school students?

CH: Parents can do this. They are the most responsible party in a child’s education. … and it can be done.

There are different price points, and I would say don’t rule us out … but if a Christ-centered school or an independent school isn’t the right choice, it can be done. You just have to be intentional.

PK: Get involved in your child’s education regardless of where they are. Listen to your school. Listen to what they’re trying to do to help your child.

TL: Also, we’ve got great churches in this area. We come alongside the family and the church.

KM: And then when you’re at home, sit around the dinner table, and don’t only find out about their day, but share the gospel. Have some private quiet time with your family to share God’s Word.

LC: We also recognize it’s very difficult. Everything we’re talking about is very difficult. It’s difficult in my family. We all try to work to make sure we help families do that.

KM: Even as schools, we’re still figuring out, what does gospel education look like? So we share that burden (with parents).

PK: I think we all could agree, if you could do anything, slow things down.

KG: How have y’all seen spiritual impact at your schools?

DH: It’s when our students return after they’ve left. It brings great joy to see spiritually mature students who weren’t necessarily spiritually mature when they were at our school (laughs). So many say, ‘I wish I’d appreciated Awakening,’ which is our chapel service.

KM: We had a seventh-grader last year who’d seen homeless people walking in front of the church and the school and said God had put it on his heart to do something. He started gathering toiletries and other items for the homeless, and teachers and merchants got involved, and he and others went to downtown Jackson at Christmas, on the coldest day of the year when it was pushing zero … and just made (the homeless community) feel special.

LC: I just like to see our upper-school students leading other students, whether it be at

FCA, or a Bible study for the football team, or a spiritual retreat. It can be imperfect … but it’s good that they’ve got a heart for it, and that positive peer pressure ... We’re seeing them prepare to go outside our walls.

CH: Sometimes we see things that are just really subtle: the questions that they ask, or the student that volunteers to pray ... When they mess up, their recovery time is shorter. Seeing students care for one another.

DH: How many of you guys have had students come back as teachers?

BS: That’s what I was going to say — it’s one of the most fulfilling things. When I’m interviewing them (for a teaching job), I tell them, ‘You’re going to bring something to this that I’ll never bring, because I didn’t attend here. … ’ It doesn’t give you an automatic job, but it opens the door a bit wider for me. (laughter all around)

PK: I think what we (all) can say is … when you spend time with these children, it gives you hope.

MORE HEADMASTERS SPEAK OUT: What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned as a Christian educator?

The biggest thing I have learned in the Christian educational field is being able to teach the Word of Jesus. Because this may be the only time that children get to hear the Word, at your school.

Ryan Laster Head of School Canton Academy

I have learned the importance of seizing every opportunity to present the gospel through a biblical worldview to our students. At East Rankin Academy, our mission is to provide a balanced educational program that will help students develop academically, physically, socially, and most of all, spiritually.

Robyn Winstead Head of School East Rankin Academy

I am challenged with ensuring that my students/staff see a reflection of Christ in my everyday decisions and in my behavior. I also believe that it makes me a stronger person, both personally and professionally, because I do focus more on practicing in a moral and ethical manner in my day-today life.

B. Jason Taylor, M. Ed. Head of School Clinton Christian Academy

The impact (that Christian education) has on students and their families is unmatched. … It has been an honor to watch the students at DCS excel and develop into adults who want to honor God with their lives. It has shown me that the work we do in Christian education is worthwhile and will greatly impact future generations.

Wendi Teten Head of School Discovery Christian School

What I have seen many times — just as I experienced (as a Mississippi College student) — is that with the Christian atmosphere, a committed Christian faculty and staff, and a commitment to not only educating young men and women but in all we do to share the good news about Jesus, then many lives will be transformed.

Tom Prather Head of School Hillcrest Christian School

Gospel-centered Christian education is important in conjunction with developing student servant leadership (which does not happen overnight). The great basketball coach (John) Wooden emphasized “Never stop learning” — I try to keep this mentality. I believe the next step for me is to share what I am learning as an administrator to Christian schools in the developing world.

Bill Maner Head of School Mt Salus Christian School

STEGALL IMAGERY

When we see our students through the eyes of Christ, we are also blessed to inspire our students to see themselves that same way, as image bearers of God. … As a Christian school leader and as the mother of three Christian school students, I can testify to the power of the gift of Christian education.

Kelli Hart, Ed.S. Principal New Hope Christian School

I have learned that there is no such thing as a neutral education. All truth is ultimately linked to God (Jesus). He is “the way, the TRUTH, and the life.” John 14:6. … I have come to realize that my ability to think biblically is also the best way to think critically.

Jason Cook Head of School Park Place Christian Academy

I have learned how important it is to seek God’s wisdom and guidance in discernment. There is not a decision made regarding the students and families of our school without first taking it to the Lord in prayer.

Anne Cowger Principal St. Anthony Catholic School

Working in Christian education has shown me that the gospel is relevant in every moment, that Jesus’ reign is real, that God gives us laughter as the best medicine, and that working with other Christians is both powerful and a dear privilege. This has driven me back to my Savior over and over as I am given opportunities to realize my own need.

Ann Lowrey Forster Head of School St. Augustine School

While education is my preferred field of service, my role at St. Joe reminds me that the goal of each day is to help others get to heaven. We must strive to be our best, and when we’re not, to reconcile and try again the next day. We must be the example to guide young people to become contributing members of society following the path that Jesus has set for them.

D.R. Kinsey, Ph.D. Head of School/Principal St. Joseph Catholic School

I tell teachers all of the time that we do not know what these children have seen or heard before they get to us each day. We need to be that steady and consistent part of their lives for them to be able to overcome any hardships ... I think that having a Christian staff that cares for each student will ensure they will get all the resources and support they deserve.

Steve Flemming Headmaster Tri-County Academy

UPPER SCHOOL

Phase One, opening August, 2023.

Phase Two, opening August, 2025.

FRENCH CAMP ACADEMY

Stability, structure, and spiritual growth

When one hears of a boarding school, thoughts begin to circulate. Hollywood stereotypes boarding schools as places for wicked stepparents to send children viewed as burdens. Other times, boarding school has been used as a threat to disobedient children.

Maybe you were threatened with boarding school in your childhood: “If you don’t straighten up, I’ll send you to French Camp!”

Such a longstanding threat, often made in jest, disguised the beauty of French Camp Academy.

“I think way back in the past, French Camp Academy had this reputation, there was this idea that we were a reform school,” said French Camp President Stewart Edwards, Jr.

French Camp is less of a reform school and more of a respite and a place for stability, structure, and spiritual growth.

“I tell people that at French Camp, we don’t have bad kids,” said Edwards. “But we have kids that have bad situations.”

Many students at French Camp are there not because of their behavior but because of life situations. Edwards said many students come from broken homes, financial devastation, or the loss of a parent. French Camp gives them a place of stability.

The small town of French Camp, located northeast of Kosciusko, has a rich history of pouring into young people. From the late 1790s into the early 1800s, Choctaws in the area referred to the settlers’ camp as “The Frenchman’s Camp,” which was later shortened to French Camp. By 1885, a girls’ finishing school was started in French Camp, soon followed by a boys’ military school.

When the finishing school burned down, the boys’ school

became co-ed, and French Camp Academy was born. The school was started by Presbyterians but shifted to an interdenominational ministry in the 1950s.

“We have many ‘flavors’ of Christianity represented here,” said Edwards. “Our focus is to be Christ-centered over being denomination-centered.”

Christ-centered approach, Christ-centered worldview

French Camp Academy aims to educate children both academically and spiritually.

“We’re equipping the students with spiritual glasses,” said Edwards. “While they’re in junior high and high school, we’re showing them that Christian worldview, and they’ll take that with them into the world and see the world through those spiritual glasses.”

The academy is a ministry, a haven, and for many, a home.

“For at least half of our students, we’re the first touch they’ve had with the Christian world,” said Edwards. “The home and school, that’s our core mission, with other support ministries in place.”

The town of French Camp is home to these support ministries, which include Rainwater Observatory, a bed and breakfast, a cafe

and bakery, a thrift store, a museum, and Camp of the Rising Son youth camp; all of which contribute to the expenses involved in running French Camp Academy.

“Our core mission is to serve young people who need an opportunity,” said Edwards.

Private education, like anything else in this world, can be expensive. While private school tuition costs often rival the typical amount of a car payment each month, the school doesn’t inhibit a student based on their ability to pay.

“We never want the French Camp experience to be encumbered by finances,” Edwards said. “Eighty-five percent of the academy is funded by donors.”

Nearly one-third of French Camp students cannot afford to pay anything toward tuition. Two-thirds of the student body can pay something, though maybe not full tuition. “But finances aren’t (keeping them out),” said Edwards.

A different kind of reform school

French Camp Academy has a tradition of transformation in the lives of students who were otherwise trapped in cycles of desperation. Unlike traditional boarding schools, French Camp boarding students are in a home environment, with houseparents and house siblings.

French Camp Academy students at Christmastime.

French Camp Academy President Stewart Edwards Jr. and his wife, Rebecca.

French Camp houseparents live out the mission of stepping in and guiding these young people at pivotal points in their lives.

“FCA’s mission (is) to serve young people and their families for the glory of God,” said houseparent Cindy Cox. “What other mission would you want to work for?”

Cindy and her husband, Dennis, love each of their students as an extension of their own family.

“As the Lord works in their life,” said Cindy, “the Lord works in our lives. He changes us as He changes them, and that’s an incredible gift.”

Brianna moved to French Camp at the age of 12 and said that though it was hard at first, especially the first year, everyone worked together to push forward.

“We got through it with Jesus and love,” said Brianna.

Stella, Brianna’s mother, spoke of the “village” that has molded Brianna’s life.

“When it is a whole school of people who love the Lord and are there for your child’s best interest, you have a whole network

of people … who want to see your child grow and do their best.” Stella, Cindy, and Brianna all agreed — God is everywhere at French Camp.

“Not only from her dorm parents but her coaches, the life lessons, everything comes from more of a biblical view,” said Stella. “Instead of the worldview that (kids) are pelted with throughout society.”

Brianna’s story is one of many that highlights how God is at work at French Camp Academy.

Angela Morgan is a former houseparent at French Camp and was once a student there. The second-born of five children to drug-addicted parents, Morgan spent time between her parents’ home and various foster homes.

“The state would take us until we got back on our feet,” said Morgan. “It was just a cycle we went through over and over.”

Morgan was accepted into a dance program as a teen and said a news story in the local paper led to a life-changing phone call inviting her to French Camp Academy.

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I struggled with my identity. I just believed I was the daughter of drug addicts. But when I came to French Camp, that drastically changed.”

– Angela Morgan, former French Camp Academy student and houseparent

Water activities abound at Camp of the Rising Son, one of French Camp Academy’s many support ministries.

“I struggled with my identity,” said Morgan. “I just believed I was the daughter of drug addicts. But when I came to French Camp, that drastically changed.”

Morgan said being constantly surrounded by love — yet held accountable for her actions — built a trust that she’d never had in adults.

Eventually, Morgan met her now husband at French Camp through Camp of the Rising Son. They have three children, whom Morgan said are so fully removed from the childhood she faced that they cannot even comprehend the stories she tells.

“French Camp provides stability, which is so needed,” said Morgan. “And (in the homes, students) get to see the biblical model of a husband and wife working together and supporting the children.”

There’s still work to be done

French Camp Academy continues to give stability, structure, love

and support to children who may not receive it at home, while building a biblical worldview that is often cast aside in modern society.

There’s so much more for French Camp to give.

“We have empty beds for those in need,” said Edwards. “While 130 to 140 (boarders) are our ideal number, we’re currently running about 90.”

These are beds that are already covered financially; they’re open spaces and open opportunities waiting for the children God has intended for this journey.

– French Camp Academy President Stewart Edwards

“We’re not therapeutic, we’re not a rehab,” said Edwards, “but we’re a place of respite, a place where a kid can be a kid again.”

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French Camp Academy students pose near one of the school’s entrance signs.

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‘And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.

~ MARK 12:30-31, ESV

For the Lord giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding.

~ PROVERBS 2:6, KJV

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.

~ PROVERBS 9:10, NIV

But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.

~ 1 PETER 3:15, ESV

Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.

~ 2 CORINTHIANS 5:17, KJV

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.

~ 2 TIMOTHY 3:16-17, NIV

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

~ PROVERBS 22:6, KJV

Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ. For in him dwelleth all the fullness of the Godhead bodily. And ye are complete in him, which is the head of all principality and power.

Whatever you do [whatever your task may be], work from the soul [that is, put in your very best effort], as [something done] for the Lord and not for men.

~ COLOSSIANS 3:23, AMP

If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.

~ Anonymous

If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

~ JAMES 1:5, ESV

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.

~ PROVERBS 3:5-6, ESV

When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.

~ PROVERBS 11:2, NIV

For Jews demand signs and Greeks seek wisdom, but we preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and folly to Gentiles, but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God

~ 1 CORINTHIANS 1:22-24, ESV

~ COLOSSIANS 2:8-10, KJV

CUT OUT THE SCRIPTURES AND QUOTES AND PLACE THEM AROUND YOUR HOME FOR DAILY ENCOURAGEMENT!

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