Vol 37 issue 7

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Monday, October 25th, 2010

Volume 37, Issue 7

Candlelight vigil for gay youth

Edward Cai/ The Medium

Students gather on campus to remember those lives that were lost due to homophobic bullying. LARISSA HO WITH NOTES FROM STEFANIE MAROTTA

Last week the UTMSU Ministry of Social Justice hosted the four-day event “Expression Against Oppression” to educate the UTM community and spark debate about domestic and international issues of injustice. Over the course of the week, various topics were discussed in different forums in an effort to promote awareness. Roundtable discussions, documentary screenings, and artistic gatherings brought students together. On event in particular shed light on recent suicides across North America caused by homophobic bullying. On Wednesday, October 20, a candlelight vigil was held outside the Blind Duck to commemorate the youth who have recently taken their own lives due to homophobic abuse and bullying. The event was part of the week-long Expression Against Oppression event hosted by UTMSU. Bobby Diaz, UTMSU LGBTQ coordinator, presented a speech in remembrance of the lives lost and implored

those who may feel alone to “hang in there and ask for help”. He shared his personal experiences and attested the importance of inner strength and a supportive environment. “These recent deaths are a reminder that everyone must worker harder to overcome bigotry and hatred in every aspect of life,” said Diaz. “This is more than stopping bullying in schools. This is about freedom of love, the right to express yourself, the right to love who you want, the right to go to school without being terrified, and the right to live.” In a speech, third-year student Fred Besik kept with the theme of Expression Against Oppression week. He emphasized that it is important to find ways to combat not only homophobia, but all phobias. At the end of the vigil, students hugged, sang songs, and shared tears. “My heart went out to their friends, their families, and more importantly to these youth. They had such a long and bright future ahead of them—a future that was sure to be filled with laughter, joy, and love… a future they’ll never be able to experience,” said Harla Receno, a UTMSU board member. “My sister pulled me aside afterward and as she was

hugging me she whispered, ‘I’m glad you stayed strong. I’m so glad you’re here. I love you.’ I wish those youths had heard the same words.” Because purple represents “spirit” on the LGBTQ flag, on Wednesday, thousands everywhere wore purple to commemorate the recent suicides in the last few months. According to the Facebook page called “Day of Purple”, the memoriam goes out to six boys whose names are posted on the page as well as to “all the other unknown lives lost to intolerance and ignorance, and to all of the other boys and girls who are silently suffering because of such cruel acts”. “Gay bullying often occurs due to lack of education and lack of confrontation. Many people use derogatory terms in everyday language unknowingly,” says Kumari Giles, UTMSU VP Equity. “It is up to members of the community and allies to confront discrimination of any kind when it happens. Confronting prejudice and bigotry is challenging, but is absolutely necessary in making change.” The World Health Organization reports that someone around the world commits suicide every 40 seconds. In Ontario alone, suicides rose from 930 in

1997 to 1,032 in 2001. Studies have revealed that LGBTQ youth are up to seven times more likely than heterosexual youth to have reported attempting suicide (un-reported attempts notwithstanding). The signs of suicidal behaviour are often missed, avoided, or ignored, which leads to even further feelings of exclusion. Homophobic bullying includes abusive name-calling (such as “fag”, “dyke”, and “sissy”); spreading rumours and gossip about a person’s sexual orientation or identity; sexual teasing, taunting, or threats; physical aggression and violence; and using the Internet to humiliate, intimidate, threaten, or exclude because of a person’s sexual identity. “Many youth who are not bullied in school also suffer from internalized homophobia. Internalized homophobia is caused by messages received from aspects of society (such as school, family, friends, media, religion, and politics) that say being queer or trans is wrong,” says Aqeela Nanj, the political and educational coordinator and drop-in centre coordinator of LGBT Outreach at U of T. “Sometimes these messages are blatant and outright; other times they are implied, such as sayings like ‘That’s so

gay!’ or through jokes about queer and trans[exual] people. Just as bullying can lead to self-hate and suicide, so can internalized homophobia. Both need to be addressed, both need to be changed.” People targetted for homophobic bullying often also experience loneliness, shame, and fear.

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