Womenz Straight Talk: Volume 1; Issue 6; (Editorial)

April 2021 Issue: Vol. 1: No. 006

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AREVA MARTIN

Empowers Women, Children & Autism Mom's. CNN Legal Analyst, & Civil Rights Activist

PinK Pump Gala!

Rolls Out The Red Carpet Post COVID-19 Pandemic 2021" Virtual Affair

DESTINY RESCUE Rescuing Children Sexed Trafficked a Global Covert - Task Force Rescue Operation

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ward Winning Film!

"From Liberty To Captivity"

The Real Story of Slavery, and Human Sex Trafficking

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CONTENT Cover feature: Areva Martin, empowering women, children and autism mom's: [Pg. 6- 10] Pink Pump Gala: Rolls out the red carpet post-covid - 19 Pandemic 2021' annual affair: [Pg. 11-12] Destiny Resuce: Rescuing children sexed trafficked a global covert task-force operation: [Pg. 28 - 61] Award winning film: From liberty to captivity: The real story of slavery and human sex trafficking: [Pg. 64 - 67] Featured Content: The project for a cause, "Our Own Way" New song by_producers Irisa Leverette and Nikki Paige: [Pg. 20 - 22] A special note from Irisa Leverette - Autism Mom: [Pg. 22 - 25] My Story. Thriving through faith. Three women share their stories, of empowerment - surviving sexual abuse, human sex trafficking and bondage: [Pg. 68 - 75] Miss Bonita and Friends - Magical Journey: [Pg. 76 - 77] The family guide to the law of attraction - By Mary Patto: [Pg. 78 - 79] CEO Agathe Ngo Likoba - Empowering women and business, Fashion brand and company: [Pg. 82 - 87] Christina Pirello, Back To The Cutting Board - Recipes and cooking tips: [Pg. 88 - 89] Writers: Cassandra A. Tindal / Editor-in Chief: Areva Martin [Cover Story] Destiny Rescue, and The Project For a Cause.

Denise Pereau: My Story - Thriving Through Faith.

Mary Petto: The Family Guide To The Law of Attraction.

Lisa Lallouz: Creator of Miss Bonita and Friends.

Debbie Wright: From Liberty To Captivity.

Nikki Paige: Artist, song writer and producer - Bio Irisa Leverette: Autism Warrior Mom, and Poetry Titled: I Will Rise.

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Areva is America’s go-to expert, host and commentator on compelling legal, political, women’s, children’s and celebrity issues.

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assionate, outspoken and insightful, AREVA MARTIN is one of the nation’s leading voices in the media.

An award-winning attorney, advocate, legal and social issues commentator, talk show host and producer, Areva is an audience favorite on a long list of shows from Dr. Phil, The Doctors to World News Tonight.

Areva is also a CNN Legal Analyst whose television credits include regular appearances on Good Morning America, Daily Mail TV and talk and news shows across CNN and HLN. Areva is well known for her no holds bar and candid commentary on a range of topics from celebrity news, pop culture, race, politics, the law and breaking news.

Blending her legal expertise with common sense ap proaches, Areva can confront and then coddle while gaining the trust of audiences, viewers and guests. She has become a valued confidante, source of reliable information and an in-

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spiration to many including countless followers and friends she connects with across her various social media platforms.

Recognized as one of the nation’s leading advocates for autism, the underserved and children, Areva is the author of an Amazon bestselling book, The Everyday Advocate: Standing Up for Your Child with Autism and Other Special Needs.

(Penguin 2010). After her son’s diagnosis with autism, she created Special Needs Network, Inc., California’s premier autism advocacy organization. Areva has raised millions of dollars for autism and disability-related causes. She has played a leadership role in advocating for state and federal laws to eliminate disparities in state funding for individuals with disabilities.

Areva’s third book, Make It Rain: How to Use the Media to Revolutionize Your Business and Brand (Hachette 2018) was released in March and instantly soared to the top of Amazon, Nielsen, Publishers’ Weekly and Barnes & Noble bestsellers’ lists.

In Make It Rain, Areva shares insider’s tips on how to find your authentic voice, amplify it and use it to grow your influence and power.

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Seen on CNN Legal Analyst whose television credits include regular appearances on Good Morning America, Daily Mail TV and talk, and news shows across CNN and HLN.

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Harvard Law School graduate, Areva founded the Los Angeles based civil rights firm, Martin & Martin, LLP. As an attorney, she has been involved in high profile cases and has been identified as a Southern California Super Lawyer consecutively for the last five years, a designation reserved for the top 5 percent of attorneys in the state. She has won myriad awards including the L’Oreal Paris’ Women of Worth, Los Angeles County Women of the Year, Ford’s Living Legend Award, the James Irvine Foundation Leadership Award and Union Bank’s Neighborhood Hero Award.

A quotable authority on workplace, disability rights, education, custody and women’s issues, this accomplished and multi-award winning attorney, syndicated columnist, and public speaker is also quoted and/or featured on the pages of publications ranging from Red

Book to Huff Post. Areva writes regularly for CNN.com, Daily Beast, Thrive Global and Time. Motto, where you can find her monthly column, Sexist Laws Explained.

Areva’s credentials are impressive, but it’s her humble beginnings in North St. Louis, passion for life as a mother, community activist, wife and entrepreneur that make her relatable to audiences.

An avid runner of 5 and 10k races, she knows what it takes to go the distance – and she’s not afraid to go there.

Keynote Speaker As a public speaker, Areva speaks about the things that people are talking about and the things that motivate people to change. From major front-page stories to the latest in pop culture, to legal, social justice and broad societal issues, Areva is dynamic, inspirational and engaging. Drawing upon her personal experiences of growing up in a housing

project in North St. Louis, attending the nation’s leading Ivy League university, working on Wall Street and running a successful business, Areva always challenges her audience, pushing them to discover both their strengths and weaknesses and helping them move forward with confidence. Through humor, satire, straight talk, urban references, and women’s intuition, Areva’s keynote addresses provide a powerful dose of realism and inspiration.

Emcee & Host As an emcee and host, Areva knows how to elevate and efficiently manage a program. Whether it’s a fundraising gala for 1,000 plus guests, a corporate meeting with hundreds of employees, or a televised awards or entertainment show, Areva’s style, eloquence, and wit will help your event achieve unparalleled levels of success.

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reva Martin is leading the way through activism, advocating for social justice in underserved, and marginalized communities while shining a light to empower women, families, and autism mom’s, through her explicate knowledge and key understanding of what impacts our communities. In her book “The Everyday Advocate” she lays down the law on the policies, procedures, and tools that every advocate should know about to provoke awareness by standing up for children, autism and the issues of our society.

She writes in her Book [The Everyday Advocate], “In my own life, I have had the opportunity to witness the powerful impact a few dedicated advocates can make in the lives of those with autism”. And, she believes that anyone can become a strong advocate if they have the right tools, and systems to work with”.

In any situation.

Here is what people are saying….About her book “The Everyday Advocate” THE FORWARD I’ve seen horrifying living conditions eliminated, abusive institutions shut down and unfair social systems exposed all because of their passion and determination. Change is not always easy; change is not always fast; but any change in the fundamental quality of life for those with disabilities rests almost entirely on the work of everyday advocates. The astonishing effectiveness of their efforts has inspired me from the very beginning.

The Everyday Advocate is a comprehensive guide for helping your child and paving the way for future generations of children with autism.

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—Lynn Kern Koegel, PhD, Koegel Autism Center, University of California, Santa Barbara.

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THE EVERYDAY ADVOCATE Standing Up for Your Child with Autism

reva Martin is unequivocally one of the most sought-after autism experts in the nation. And at the forefront of her passion and dedication to promote awareness, she provides the necessary support to autism mom’s through her Special Needs Network Inc., and organization’s mission “Standing Up For Your Child with Autism and Other Special Needs”. With the support of this organization parents learn that they are not alone, and can develop relationships with other autism families who may participate in group sessions to learn how to cope with the challenges of disabilities, as well, as how to seek professional and legal advice.

THE EVERYDAY ADVOCATE In her Book “ The Everyday Advocate” She writes “For almost a decade, I have taught literally thousands of parents to master the skills that enabled them to stand up for their autistic child”. As founder and president of Special Needs Network, Inc., a Los Angeles based non-profit organization was created

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specifically to raise awareness on issues that impact individuals with autism and related disabilities living in underserved and marginalized communities.

She is straight forward in giving us a snapshot of what it was like in St. Louis, Caring for her Grandmother who raised her.

Who at twenty-eight years old had been shot and paralyzed from the waist down. From which she was confined to a hospital for seven years—not because she needed the medical care, but because of sheer logistics. She simply couldn’t get around! And only left the house once a month. After arriving back at home, Areva says her grandmother could barely turn the chair around in the house, much less move freely from room to room.

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I remember that when I was a little girl we had only one family friend strong enough to lift the massive steel wheelchair into the trunk, then pick her up and carry her from the apartment to the car”.

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Advocacy is not a lofty idea. It is practical work in the trenches”

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oing out was so labor-intensive that this vital, healthy woman, who raised me, didn’t leave the house more than once a month. She writes.

Public buildings were completely inhospitable to people with disabilities then. Even if they could have gotten through the front doors, almost every aisle, doorway, elevator, telephone, bathroom and service counter would have been inaccessible.

As a result, many talented, eligible people with disabilities were unable to make use of public services and locked out of meaningful jobs.

During those times laws simply were not recognized for individuals to accommodate people with disabilities in hotels, and public places, so the inequality’s and life challenges were an everyday reality when it came to simple chores and one’s lively hood. No government regulations had been passed to require access ramps or elevators in public buildings.

the things that are most important for her child, and family.

And that is was going to be a long road ahead of them.

To obtain a sense of normalcy while managing the everyday expectations of life, and pivoting between work at her law firm where she is the founding managing partner; at Martin & Martin, LLP, one of Los Angeles’ largest female and African American-owned law firms.

She explains what it was like managing a rigorous schedule and the routine of consulting clients, media appearances, promoting her business, advocating for Marty, and managing her other two children lives, and husband’s needs.

Areva demonstrates true strength and sheer determination to overcome many obstacle’s, with an incredible ability to WIN!!!

As, she lays out what she calls, “The Seven Principles” of Advocacy. And explains step-by-step just how to become a winner. Starting with the first Principle; LEADERSHIP!

Today, paraplegics can participate in the Special Olympics in lightweight magnesium wheelchairs with titanium bearings for exceptional speed and agility. In the years that followed, huge milestones were laid on behalf of the disabled, each of them achieved with advocacy.

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Before children with autism could attend public schools and those in wheelchairs could access public buildings, civil rights had to be won for millions of Americans. In the struggle for disabilities rights, the most historic shift occurred with the passage of Section 504 of the 1973 Rehabilitation Act. It was the world’s first civil rights provision for people with disabilities.

Her support extend towards her many clients, which come from all walks of life seeking her legal advice, and community support through her Special Needs Network, Inc., and hosted Pink Pumps Affairs - Red Carpet Fundraising Events in support of her Non-for-profit organizations. And, JPAC Summer Camp for Children with Disabilities.

Advocacy is not a lofty idea. It is practical work in the trenches, she says. These seven principles can be a guide to what an advocate does—and what an advocate becomes, as a result of applying these principles”.

And, although we certainly have come a long way today, due to the power of advocating to change laws, and policies surrounding the rights of those with disabilities, along with the efforts to educate society on the stigma’s associated around these matters. Organizations like the Special Needs Network Inc., along with many others, have succeeded in bringing much needed light to the realities, surrounding these issues to foster positive change. Autism is a neurological condition that has confounded doctors, scientists and health-care workers alike. Despite more than sixty years of research, scientists still do not know what causes the disorder.

The camp is named after philanthropist and self-made millionaire Joseph Patton. Mr. Patton had a learning disability and barely graduated from high school. Despite his disability, he built a multi-million dollar business and when he passed away, he left a sizeable estate. The executor of his estate made a $200,000 donation to Special Needs Network as seed money for the camp. Joe was a marathon runner and a fitness buff.

His executor and sister believed that seeding a camp for special needs kids that provided sports and outdoor play activities for special needs children and their typical peers was the perfect way to honor Joe’s legacy.

And there is no known cure to date. Areva Martin knows first-hand what it’s like, and speaks about her son Marty who was diagnosed with autism at the tender age of 18 month. She, suddenly realized her fears, uncertainties, and fight to obtain

Without these critical recreational summer programs, special needs kids like Marty had very few choices for summer activities. Camp JPAC solved the problem for Marty and for other kids like him.

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"Special Needs Network"

Pink Pump Gala

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ecent events included, community leaders, celebrities, corporate and political supporters and fashionistas have all gathered at her fundraising events located at Los Angeles Hotel in Beverly Hills. And for the 9th Annual Pink Pump High Tea and Fashion Show, that raised money for the only free autism summer camp in Southern California [JPAC]. Hosted by Special Needs Network. Los Angeles’ leading nonprofit organization for children with autism and other special needs and gala chairs U.S. Senator Kamala Harris and Actress and Comedienne Kym Whitley; during this event to celebrate the diversity of women making a difference in Hollywood, the workplace and beyond.

While her events continue its success in growth and support, the a star-studded 10th Annual Pink Pump Affair Gala at the Beverly Hills Hotel in 2018, kicked off festivities with a powerful Ageless Beauty panel featuring Elise Neal, Dr. Sonia Bansal, Michele Elyzabeth, and Rachel McCord, moderated by the event’s host and Special Needs Network co-founder Areva Martin.

More than 450 powerful women and a few good men came together for the 11th annual Special Needs Network Pink Pump Gala tea and fashion show in May of 2019, in Los Angeles at the Beverly Hilton Hotel. Where this year’s Women of Distinction honorees included actress Vanessa Bell-Calloway, autism self-advocate Spencer Harte, and TV Personality Robin McGraw, who all dazzled the audience with the heart-filled acceptance speeches. To support the Special Needs Network organization’s president and founder Areva Martin, an award-winning civil rights attorney, CNN commentator, and co-host of the TV show Face the Truth.

“I love hosting this event every year because it gives Special Needs Network an opportunity to raise awareness of autism while celebrating amazing women who are supporting children with special needs. There is nothing more powerful than 275 women coming together for a fun afternoon to raise money to send over 300 kids on the autism spectrum and their siblings to a safe, nurturing and enriching summer camp.” Says Areva Martin, Esq. The Pink Pump Affair is much more than a great excuse to wear pink, it’s a celebration of women and spreading the awareness of kids with autism. Areva Martin first started this event with a goal to help give kids the opportunities to attend camps, to “meet friends and be in a safe and nurturing environment.” 10 years later, Areva is a talk show host, civil rights attorney, and author, with an annual star-studded gala, that recently celebrated its anniversary.

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Post Covid-19 Pandemic, Pink Pump 2021 will be virtual! Award-winning actress and mental health advocate Jenifer Lewis will receive the Vanguard Award for her ground-breaking work as an actress, her advocacy around mental health issues and her philanthropic endeavors. The event will be hosted by award-winning journalist and anchor Pat Harvey of CBS4, actress and comedian Kym Whitley and SNN President and CEO Areva Martin. Entertainment will be provided by American Idol winner, pianist, singer and song writer Kodi Lee, who is on the autism spectrum. We expect special appearances by celebrities and supporters including D.L. Hughley, Mario Van Peebles, Vanessa Bell Calloway, Loretta Devine, Sheryl Lee Ralph, Sherri Shepherd, Macy Gray and others.

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AREVA MARTIN is one of the nation’s leading voices in the media. An audience favorite on a long list of shows from Dr. Phil, The Doctors to World News Tonight.

Areva is also a CNN Legal Analyst whose television credits include regular appearances on Good Morning America, Daily Mail TV and talk and news shows across CNN and HLN.

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reva’s humble beginnings in America’s heartland, and passion for advocacy on behalf of those whose voices are marginalized propelled her to the top of her field, graduating with honor from the University of Chicago and Harvard Law School.

She writes, that her eyes, and heart were opened when she realized not all parents, and guardians had her advantages, and immediately did something about it – founding the Special Needs Network, [non-profit organization] created to help minorities and low-income families advocate for their autistic children. And has raised millions of dollars that provided for 15,000 families in low income communities across California.

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My incredible son, Marty—whose birth changed my life forever and who never ceases to amaze me. His journey has become a vehicle through which I have the privilege and honor to help so many families. I am grateful to Marty, for his resilient spirit inspires me to do more”.

Areva Martin Continues To Empower Communities By Creating a Mental Health App During The COVID-19 Pandemic to Help Underserved Communities.

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he rise of the COVID-19 pandemic has caused massive economic fallout and job layoffs, especially in marginalized communities. According to a survey by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), nearly 41% of respondents said that they have experienced symptoms of anxiety and depression or having some adverse mental health condition as a result of the public health crisis. Now, this civil-rights-attorney-turned-advocate has created a new app to service those in underserved communities dealing with mental health issues. Called the Butterflly App. A consumer-based app that allows users to connect with others that

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may be experiencing similar symptoms and provide resources for them to seek treatment.

The Butterflly App is a first-of-its-kind digital therapeutic platform that focuses on underserved and underrepresented Medicaid populations. Butterflly delivers high quality, evidence-based, culturally sensitive digital behavioral health therapies in a more scalable, destigmatized way than traditional in-person therapy. Areva knows firsthand what it’s like being raised in a housing project, in North St. Louis. Survived on her grandmothers government disability check, food stamps, with healthcare provided

by Medicaid. And, how difficult it was

getting medical appointments, and access to a specialists. At times when she felt anxiety or sadness, she just kept it to herself.

Talking about feelings was taboo.

And I didn’t know that some professionals or interventions could help. And anyone in my community who did talk about their emotions was told not to or was labeled “crazy.” It just wasn’t cool to talk about mental health or emotional issues in my community”.

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The Butterflly App Is a First-of-Its-Kind Digital Therapeutic Platform That Focuses On Underserved and Underrepresented Medicaid Populations.

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he states that today, not much has changed. African Americans still struggle with acknowledging mental health issues, seeking support, and openly working on their mental and emotional health. Despite the needs, only one in three African Americans who need mental healthcare seeks it out.

She says “I created Butterflly to change this reality. I wanted to create a digital solution that is personal, private, destigmatized, and culturally sensitive and available 24/7 to help people, particularly people of color, improve their mental and physical health. We want everyone in America to have access to emotional and mental health intervention without

ever stepping foot in a doctor’s office and being as easy as a click of a phone button. Controlling One’s Own Health Data and Records Is Powerful?

She was taught that to whom much is given, much is expected. She truly understands the needs of those from the communities in which she grew up.

Witnessing the experience of tremendous trauma for some, and the psychological toll that leads to substance abuse, incarceration, mental and physical illness. say’s I was one of the lucky ones. I was able to navigate the many obstacles I experienced and was fortunate to earn a scholarship to the University of Chica-

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go, go on to Harvard Law School. I have been able to build successful businesses and have a successful legal and media career”.

Now, Users can benefit from an app by having access to private, destigmatized 24/7 mental health and wellness tools, peer group forums, certified coaching, and licensed therapists. Also, as individuals use the platform and engage with our standardized health assessments, they create personalized health records that they control. Controlling one’s own health data and records is power!

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The project for a cause "OUR OWN WAY"

Produced By: Nikki Paige & Irisa Leverette

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risa Leverette, is an autism mom who shared her journey through the inspiring poems she posted in her social media website blogs. Where she expressed the love and passion in her heart to make the world a better place for children, and families of Autism.

Irisa is an educator, and math professor at her local college in New Jersey State. KEAN University. where she meets her everyday challanges head on, with an unwavering commitments to her classrooms. She teaches other kids the science of math, to which makes up the basic building blocks, and formulas that shape our realities.

But for many children with autism the colorful spectrum of life may seem a little bit different in one's own imagination. The colors that shape their world are much more explicite. And are their own. In a world of autism were this family lives, and plays.

The project began when this advit social media blogger; Irisa Leverette reached out to Nikki Paige, an amazing Artist, Singer, Song Writer, and Producer, who is known for her extraodinary gifts, and talent in the industry.

To discuss a major collaboration that would create a project to promote awareness for;

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The National Autism Awareness Month, to launch by April 1st. The collaboration resulted in a perfect match.

Nikki Paige wrote, and embodied the lyrics to the song, titled; "OUR OWN WAY" through the eyes, and heart of a mother's love for her child with autisim. That touched the human emotions, and soul of the listeners.

Nikki Paige, also brought on board; Timmothy Bloom, a 2x Grammy Award winning American alternative soul singer-songwriter and record producer. Who produced the muscical cords, and sound track for the Project.

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The collaboration resulted in a match made in heaven!

Irisa Leverette's idea for the project stemed from the soul desire to raise awareness for Autism, and for the song to give back to the community's cause. For which proceeds from the song would be distributed to various non-profit organizations nationally in support of Autism.

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orn in Stockton, Nikki Paige spent her childhood as a professional actor, singer, and writer. She signed her first major publishing deal at the age of 11. After being discovered by Barbara Orbison, Nikki moved to Nashville at the age of 13 and spent her teenage years learning from a legendary mentor. She returned to California and continued writing, recording, and vocal producing (writing a Billboard Dance charting song).

Nikki writes for other artists and has an EP planned for release this year featuring. several prominent producers; Like...

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Two-time Grammy award producer and songwriter, Timothy Bloom is the son of preachers and honed his craft playing piano in church. His influences range from Herbie Hancock to Jimi Hendrix to Bob Dylan and has worked with a diverse group of artists that include Chris Brown, Ne-Yo, Smokey Robinson. Timothy has also written on a bevy of collaborations, film scores, and has performed all around the world.

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n an exclusive interview with Nikki Paige, she told "Womenz Straight Talk" Magazine, that a few months ago, Irissa Leverette reached out to her [singer, songwriter] to help her write a song for her autistic son. Nikki said, at first it just seemed like a normal project. But as she got to know Irisa and her son’s situation, she became emotionally invested. She loved the challenge of making a song that would be especially helpful for children affected by autism.

Like any person, Nikki concentrates intently on her everyday work. But with this project, she took a step back and thought about the cause and her own life. On a personal level, she is connected to autism; someone close to her deals with it. Not only are they directly affected by the disorder, their life is affected by how they deal with its side effects.

She joined forces with two-time Grammy-award winning producer, Timothy Bloom to create an inspiring song that is dedicated to Darius and other children affected by autism.

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Our Own Way” pairs Nikki’s soulful voice with “traditional instruments” (piano, bass, guitar, drums). Lyrically, it champions the beauty of individuality and life.

Working on this project has especially opened her eyes to how she can help. It’s inspired her to get involved in other causes. While the goal for so many musicians these days is to raise their status, Nikki has always been driven to walk her own path.

She sees this as an opportunity to use her platform and greatest talent (music) to help people and make the world a better place. It’s all bigger than her and she just simply wants to help. The ultimate goal of “Our Own Way” and hopefully more, to bring further awareness to autism especially for Autism Awareness Month (April). The proceeds will go towards charities furthering research and awareness.

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A Special Note BY: Irisa Leverette, Autism Mom

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y name is Irisa Leverette. I am an Autism Warrior mom and advocate for my son, Darius. He turned sixteen this past December. I post a lot about our Autism life on social media. You can find me @myautismstar on Twitter and Instagram and Hope for Autism on Facebook.

I want people to see what Autism is like behind the scenes.

Also, I write poetry about our Autism journey.

Last summer, I connected with Nikki Paige, a talented singer from California. Our paths crossed on Instagram when we both responded to an ad that was marketed to users with the name Nikki. Instantly, we became friends. I told her stories about Darius and how I wanted a song for him. She was on board and loved the idea.

Today, we have a finished song. We are ready to unleash this beautiful piece to the world. In addition, I hope it can bring peace to our world during this pandemic. A few weeks ago, Nikki called me and began singing the words; immediately, tears flowed from my eyes. The song is amazing!!! The lyrics resonated with my spirit, if you will.

The song is titled, "Our Own Way." We want this song to be an Anthem for Autism; however, the song was written for all abilities. Our vision is to reach special needs children, adults, families, caregivers and professionals in schools, hospitals and organizations serving people with disabilities.

In April, we want "Our Own Way" to be used as a slogan for Autism Awareness Month. We want our song to spread awareness, acceptance and to give our children hope. Nikki and I would love the opportunity to work with your organization. Our goal is to spread awareness and to give back to a community that is close to our hearts.

I.Nikki Autism MAW (Mom, Advocate & Warrior)

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I Will Rise...

Poetry From The Heart By: _Irisa Leverette Rain or shine, I will rise, And head to the battlefield, Autism made me a Warrior, God made me a Mom, Therefore, I am a Warrior Mom With my shield of love, I will silence the storms that are not calm, I will confront the enemies that judge And couldn't care less, I will drown the world with awareness Rain or shine, I will rise, And stand on the front line, With other Warrior Moms, Autism is our connection, With our shields of protection, We will knock down walls that are blocking our children view, We will clear rocky roads, And carve new ones they can travel through, We will shine a light for all to see, And spread awareness from sea to sea, Rain or Shine I will rise By: I.Nikki Autism MAW (Mom, Advocate & Warrior)

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OUR OWN WAY

Darius - Autism Star & Irisa Leverette - Autism Warrior Mom

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Millions of tourists delight in the Dominican Republic’s white beaches, thatched roof resorts and vibrant nightlife, all while child exploitation looms in the country’s shadows.

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n this darkness, Jacob – a Destiny Rescue rescue agent – realised the true meaning behind his badge in one of his first cases. Jacob, 25, watched a teenage girl weep and say she wanted to commit suicide after being rescued from her abusive, middle-aged husband.

The rookie exceeded his standard duties and encouraged her, saying “today, your life is going to change” – and it did.

“It is not only about rescuing the girl. It is about changing her life,” he says.

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The soccer boy Before becoming a rescue agent in February and living in the Dominican Republic, Jacob coached a church soccer team from 2016 to 2019 in his birth country of Haiti. Haiti shares an island

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in the Caribbean with the Dominican Republic – the border between them cuts the island near-perfectly in half.

Jacob says he became a coach to serve his church because soccer was his “passion,” and, admittedly, he was a little empty-pocketed on other skills.

In this role, Jacob learned how to lead people, start projects and speak English, which are now all arrows in his quiver for Destiny Rescue. Everything that helped me to become a rescue agent is because I was a soccer manager,” he says.

Jacob then received the invitation to join Destiny Rescue after his pastor asked him to translate a conversation between a senior rescue agent and a victim of

exploitation. He viewed this as just a favour. But Jacob, who can speak English, Spanish, French and Haiti’s native language, Creole, impressed the agent. The agent then asked him to help translate again on two separate occasions before finally asking him to come on board.

“That was one of the greatest news I have ever received … I knew I could do what I wanted, which was helping other people.”

Learning on his feet Jacob was overwhelmed when he started work in the Dominican Republic. He landed on the ground as a trainee, learning how to investigate cases and rescue children by shadowing senior and retired rescue agents.

From a young soccer coach to a rescue agent: Meet Jacob “It is not only about rescuing the girl. It is about changing her life.”

“It was not easy.” Normally a new rescue agent would undergo self-defence training, but Jacob was unable to attend classes early this year due to training centres shutting down when COVID-19 hit the country. He is still without training, but he plans to get it.

catch a break, he will watch a movie with his family or girlfriend. With so much going on, “I don’t really have a work-life balance,” Jacob says.

While Jacob was alongside other rescue agents, the types of traffickers in the Dominican Republic can range from a parent, brothel owner, to a criminal. “I don’t really feel safe, but … I pray and I know God will protect me.”

This was hard and lonely. But Jacob used this time to listen to the police and help them at the drop of a hat, even if it was late at night. They could count on me as an agent.”

Jacob says he and the police mostly han-

Jacob built a good relationship with the police during the country’s lockdown.

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The guardian Child sex trafficking is still a battle in the country and the Covid-19 pandemic could make it harder to find traffickers, but Jacob says he remains motivated, knowing he can change lives.

“The thing that inspires me a lot is being able to help those girls who are most vulnerable.” Jacob says he has an eye for spotting vulnerable children and sees them as a “brother and sister” because of his relationship with Jesus.

Another hurdle, Jacob says, was not understanding the jargon spoken by police or rescue agents, such as the word “perpetrator” or “victim”. This was a struggle because they were not speaking his native tongue. Jacob’s first language is Creole while the police and agents spoke Spanish and English, respectively. He was also asked to translate between the two groups, which added to the weight of the struggle.

“It was a big challenge for me.”

Despite these steep learning curves, Jacob says he never doubted himself.

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Mastering the trade Eight months later to today, the former rookie has more confidence in his stride. In a typical week, Jacob, alongside other agents, calls the police, scours the internet for information and gathers evidence to build a watertight case against a crime of child exploitation.

Jacob hunts for pictures, locations, or witnesses, which he then hands to the police. When he is on investigations, he has also learned to protect his identity by using a fake name and carrying a second phone.

Jacob also studies computer science, runs a call-center and has a side hustle where he sells goods online. If he does

dle cases about rape and child marriages. Although illegal, child marriages are rooted in the country’s culture. Nearly a third of women aged 20 to 24 in Latin America and the Caribbean said they were married or in a civil union before age 18, according to a report last year by human rights agency United Nations Children’s Fund.

What is more, Jacob says there are many children on sidewalks being sold for sex in the country. However, the police lack the time and resources to combat this phenomenon alone, which is why Destiny Rescue plays a “big part” because we can dedicate time to a case.

“I feel like I’m different when I go out there.”

In the past year, Jacob has transformed from a soccer coach and rookie rescue agent – who would stare blankly at the sound of the word “victim” – to a competent rescue agent who has a heart for children. All of this, Jacob says, was supported by his faith in Jesus.

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God is the one helping me through it all.”

In the next five years, Jacob dreams of rescuing children in other countries and being a manager of a country for Destiny Rescue.

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Cambodia not only captures hearts through lush islands and exquisite temples but through the warm smiles of its people.

Even with a troubled past, they are known for their abundant kindness and respect.

Population 16.M Language: Khmer Capital: Phnom Penh

Sex trafficking and exploitation in Cambodia Despite being a place of warm welcome and beautiful sights, some of its people live in hopelessness.

In the country, the sex industry finds and exploits children who are in deep poverty to cater to a huge demand for sex tourism.

Destiny Rescue’s work in Cambodia is to find and rescue exploited children and help them stay free.

Our reintegration program is culturally-relevant and focuses on their future.

These children also experience Christ’s love and care from our servant-hearted staff.

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Our Work In Cambodia

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overt Rescue

In two locations in the country, our rescue agents go undercover in brothels, bars and on the streets to find children being sexually exploited. Once found, we build trust with them and offer a way out.

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aid Rescues

Our rescue agents identify child sex trafficking victims and gather the evidence needed to build a legal case against their traffickers. We then, along with local and federal law enforcement, raid the sex establishment to free victims and arrest offenders.

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of undercover rescue in Cambodia It is near impossible to rescue a girl from sex trafficking in Cambodia, yet our rescue agents continue to do it.

What then is their secret?

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esidential Homes

After rescue, children may enter a residential home program. That home could be our Destiny Rescue home, a partner-referred home, or a government-assigned shelter. We provide those who enter our home with the care they need in order to stay free.

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amily Reunification

When safe, we reunite children with their families or community. We also assess each child’s needs to determine if they need further care from us or another provider.

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eintegration

Our reintegration team creates personalized plans for each child after their rescue to help them stay free.

These plans involve reducing a child’s vulnerabilities such as debt, lack of education or mental-health concerns while providing new opportunities for growth and stability.

Tim Burke is a retired US Army Green Beret who serves with Destiny Rescue as a rescue agent.

And was featured on the ABC television show Castaways.

In 2018.

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We team up with many businesses and organizations that can provide children with quality education or safe employment.

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n typical markets in Cambodia, stalls crowd and spill onto each other as they sell boxes of vegetables, wooden crafts and bright, rainbow-colored clothes and handbags. Under thick humidity and the aroma of street food, customers weave and squeeze around the place.

In the heart of a similar market, Mark, Destiny Rescue’s rescue manager of Cambodia, once begged a girl to leave her job as she was in danger of being sexually assaulted by her boss. But while longing to flee, the girl would not leave until her boss gave her the green light.

This exemplifies a strong culture in the country where its citizens are subservient – or under “mental enslavement” – to authority, whether it is their parents, employer or police, Mark says. Consequently, when authority is misused, this way of life often hinders him from rescuing girls, who are being sexually exploited in a sex establishment, during a covert rescue mission in the country.

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[It] is the most challenging thing by far,” Mark says.

Despite the power of this culture, Mark and his team of agents are defying the odds and freeing girls in the country through prayer, persistence, and making calls that are “not always fun”.

Covert rescue missions are when our rescue agents go undercover in sex establishments, like a brothel or bar, to spot child employees who are in danger of or being sexually exploited by customers. Once found, agents build their trust and offer them a way out and a better future.

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From beach boy to rescue agent

Flicking back through the pages of his life, Mark, 29, was born and raised in Florida Panhandle, United States. In this area, known for its stretch of coastal towns and emerald-painted ocean, he enjoyed sports, smoking cigars and strumming his guitar.

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Two years ago, Mark and his wife worked at an orphanage in a small country in Central America before he landed a role as a rescue agent for Destiny Rescue in Cambodia.

While there was no “burning bush” moment, he says this transition was “God-orchestrated,” explaining how he once stumbled across Destiny Rescue online at the same time his friend texted him about our organization. “That was kind of weird,” he recalls thinking.

Mark climbed the ranks from a rescue agent to rescue manager after living in Cambodia for a year. Today, he leads a small team of agents in one of the poorest countries on the planet.

Located in Southeast Asia, Cambodia is home to 16 million people who live in cities and poor villages scattered around thousands of Buddhist temples, grass plains and even lakes. Called floating villages, some citizens live in houses hanging above water from giant stilts.

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A week in the life

Pulling focus on his life as a covert rescue agent, Mark says he and his team begin a typical week looking at a spreadsheet of their ‘targets’ who are children they have spotted and spoken to in a sex establishment. Scanning each girl’s interest in leaving their job, the agents then decide to either offer her a ticket out or continue building her trust.

Aside from ticking off self-defense training, expense reports and meetings with police, Mark spends the rest of his week in the battlefield known as the country’s thriving sex industry.

Displaying neon signs and lanterns above sex establishments sitting shoulder to shoulder on narrow streets, the biggest red-light districts in the country are in the capital, Phnom Penh, and the second-biggest city, Siem Reap. The sex industry, fed by the country’s tourism, might have 20,000 sex workers, says a

report in 2014 by global research publication Research Gate.

The big four

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If they are not investing time on an existing target, Mark and another agent will “fish” for new targets at sex establishments by pretending to be customers. Mark, who describes himself as laid back, says he does not go “deep undercover” but simply chucks on a casual top and pair of jeans before walking into one of four kinds of main establishments.

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It’s not super complicated,” he says.

The four establishments are hostess bars, massage parlors, beer gardens and karaoke television bars called KTVs. The latter, Mark says, can range in size from a small bar to an “extravagant-looking casino”. Here, a group of customers are given a private room to sing their lungs out before the manager, typically an older woman referred to as the “mega”, brings in a line-up of 10 to 20 girls. The customers then pick one to use for sex at a hotel.

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It is like something you see in a movie,” Mark says.

Hostess bars and massage parlors, which are brothels in disguise, litter the city streets in Cambodia, Mark says.

Shelving these three establishments, however, covert rescues mostly happen in beer gardens, which look like restaurants but are “secret sex establishments”.

They have female staff sitting and waiting near the front door.

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ark admits these establishments are “seedy environments” but believes they are “fairly safe” despite sharing a story where a customer fired a few gunshots last month in one of the establishments he frequents. “You are not around the cream of the crop,” he says.

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Finding an ice server In a typical three-hour session undercover in a beer garden, Mark and an agent will order drinks and food before telling the mega they are “interested in the younger girls”. This is a tactic used to help them find and focus on the minors.

“It is not always fun,” he says.

Once a younger hostess is seated next to him, Mark “blends in” but will not compromise his or our organization’s integrity by behaving like a regular customer, who would typically begin touching the girl inappropriately. Instead, Mark uses his “dry humor” to make her laugh, feel comfortable and trust him while his partner hunts to find about her age and if she is being sold for sex.

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We cannot pretend we are this terrible guy and then – all of a sudden – try to do a 180 and be like, ‘just kidding.

We want to help you’,” Mark says.

Young experienced hostesses, however, are normally “extremely difficult” to rescue because they have become desensitized to the sexual encounters while also making a fortune in their eyes,

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Mark says. But ice servers, responsible only for serving and refilling drinks, are more likely to leave as they are new, making petty money and still shaken by the atmosphere.

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At that point, our rescue guys turn into salesmen. We have to sell them a better future.”

Ice servers, who are the youngest staff, do not entertain customers but they are still at a “super high-risk” of sexual assault, Mark says. Older customers, he says, will touch their bodies as they pour drinks while some have even bribed megas to take one out for a night.

“Men are constantly trying to take them,” Mark says.

One in 20 girls and boys have been sexually assaulted in Cambodia, according to a report in 2019 by global child rights agency United Nation International Children’s Emergency Fund. Children, who are being sold for sex at a bar, can not only face diseases, physical injury and emotional trauma after an assault but can also develop behavioral issues later in life.

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Heartbreaking reality But while these hostesses or ice servers may feel the brunt of sexual abuse and even “hate” their job, Mark says they will still not leave without their parent’s permission, citing the culture of submission to authority pulsing through the country’s veins.

On top of this culture, which even suggests it is impolite for a young person to make eye contact with someone older, Khmer children must often provide for their impoverished parents as payment for having their parent’s birth them into life, Mark says. Being poor, uneducated and underskilled, the children tend to sell themselves at a sex establishment to make money. “That’s their only option,” Mark says. Plus some parents “pressure” them into it.

Mark says rejection is the “biggest frustration and difficulty” for him and his team as they put their “heart and soul” into earning each girl’s trust.

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I still struggle to understand it,” Mark says.

The divine answer Asked if there was a magic remedy to get a girl to say yes to an offer, Mark says the only answer is to pray to Jesus.

“We can do the best we can, strategize, come up with all of these plans and ways to do things, but, ultimately, it is in God’s hands. It is His work in girls, softening their hearts and their families, that’s going to push them across the line,” he says.

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ark and his team rescued 31 girls and women by way of successful covert rescue missions last year. Once rescued, the girls can live in our organization’s residential home or rent an apartment in one of the country’s major cities. Regardless, our team writes each girl a plan – called a ‘freedom plan’ – for them to follow to stay free from the evil grip of trafficking.

These plans include education, therapy, and vocational training for a safe, healthy future. Mark admits his team faces a “vast number of ‘nos’” from girls working at bars, but he stays eagle-eyed to save them because of Jesus’s sacrifice for mankind and a verse in the Bible,

Mark chapter 12 verse 31. It reads “love your neighbor as yourself ”.

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If one of these girls were your daughter or your spouse, would there be any questions, hesitations, or doubts as to whether to make sacrifices or not?

I think the answer is pretty obvious,” Mark says.

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Down the road Fantasising about his life in five years, Mark jokes about leading a lifestyle where he is “canoeing down a river surrounded by mountains” before saying he hopes to spread his wings and become a rescue agent in Latin America given he and his wife both speak fluent Spanish.

Mark, however, is leaving the door open to any possibility in the future, lightheartedly saying “we have made plenty of plans in the past and learned that we know nothing.”

For now, Mark is seeking to expand his team of rescue agents and continue to sacrifice his life for another girl trapped in the crisis of sex trafficking in Cambodia.

His name has been changed to protect his identity.

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estiny Rescue’s top priority in Nepal is tackling the issue of trafficking at the border. Our rescue agents monitor key border-crossing check points. They investigate and intervene in instances of human trafficking across the border.

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Traffickers prey on the desperation of poverty and victims’ lack of education, luring girls and young women over the border with promises of marriage or well-paying jobs . Once across the border, a girl will most likely be trafficked into one of the most dangerous regions of the sex industry or into

Nepal is best known for its lofty peaks and warm, welcoming people. The country has 500 rugged miles of borderlands with crossings open to foot and vehicle traffic. Population: 28M Language: Nepali, Capital: Kathmandu.

forced labor. Our rescue agents monitor key border-crossing check points. They investigate and intervene in instances of human trafficking across the border. We provide temporary living space, meals and care to rescued girls waiting for their families to bring them back home.

Typically, the girls we rescue have left home without their familiy’s knowledge. After rescue, our teams help families reunite and return home together. Caseworkers contact girls and their families via phone to make sure they are safe and free in the months after rescue.

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From Civil War To The Pandemic

explore Nepal’s struggle to fight sex trafficking Context is the key that unlocks the answers to successfully fighting sex trafficking.

Take a deep dive into Nepal’s history and culture and learn more about the vital role border rescue plays in our fight to end child sex trafficking.

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tors as they all follow the mantra, “guest equals god”.

Nepali people are difficult to characterize as they are made up of 126 ethnicities, 123 languages and 10 religions. Although, they are said to live in harmony, greeting each other by joining their hands, bowing and saying, “namaste”.

At the feet of the iconic mountain, however, lays grass hills, plains and – the less-marketed – impoverished villages that are vulnerable to human trafficking and sexual exploitation.

Hinduism is the country’s lead religion followed distantly by Buddhism among others. The mix of religions cascades into the country’s customs, traditions and social structure. For example, it is illegal to slaughter a cow – the country’s national animal – because it represents motherhood and wealth in Hinduism.

In fact, Destiny Rescue recently rescued a Nepali woman who had been forced to dance in bars for five years after being trafficked into a nearby country.

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Worse, she is a mere blip on the radar compared to a flood of women in the country being trafficked each year. In 2016, about 170,000 Nepali people were trafficked, according to Australian-based global anti-trafficking organization Walk Free Foundation.

The categories are hierarchical and supposedly dictate each person’s role in society, how others treat them, and their expected career path.

epal is well-known for flaunting a chain of the planet’s largest mountains, the Himalayas.

Mount Everest, which brags the tallest peak at 8850 meters, is the range’s poster child, featuring on wallpapers, films and every adventure junkie’s bucket list. The mountain is breathtaking – literally – as climbers need to pack bottled oxygen to survive its thin atmosphere if they dare to reach the summit.

So why is the country a hot spot for trafficking and exploitation? To answer this question, we must deconstruct the country – piece by piece.

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Harmony Nepal, which is sandwiched between China and India, stretches about 500 miles from its east to west borders and has about 28 million people. One million of them live in the country’s capital, Kathmandu, known as the city of religious temples.

Most of the population live on the outskirts of cities.

According to the World Bank, 80% of the population live in rural areas. Many of them live in villages where houses are made of stone, bamboo or mud bricks and topped off with a thatched roof. The landscape is rugged too, with a third of the land covered in mountains.

While their surroundings might appear inhospitable, the people are known to be warm and welcoming, especially to visi-

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The caste system Nepal’s society is influenced by a Hindu caste system where each person’s identity falls under one of four main categories once they are born.

From top to bottom on the hierarchy, these categories are Braham, Kshatriya, Vaisya and Sudra, representing occupations such as a priest, soldier, merchant and laborer respectively.

Outside of these four groups is a caste called the Dalits – the lowest class in the land known as the “untouchables”.

There are 4.5 million Dalits in Nepal, according to anti-caste discrimination organization International Dalit Solidarity Network.

Female Dalits can barely breathe under the weight of caste and gender discrimination. They have no control over resources such as land, houses or money. They cannot apply for an occupation out of their caste’s reach without potentially facing violence, evictions or destruction of property. They are also “extremely vulnerable” to being trafficked or sexually exploited as some are looked down on as a “sex worker,” the organization says. Sexual exploitation is not exclusive to Dalit women, however.

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The answer is poverty.

Nearly a quarter of the country’s population, about seven million people, lived below the international poverty line of $1.25 a day in 2011, according to economic development agency Asian Development Bank. While this is high, it is a vast improvement compared to 68% of the population living in poverty in the country in 1996.

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Ticket to poverty A civil war, earthquakes and a flood have helped sink the country in economic struggle and, in turn, poverty.

To rewind the clock, Nepal lacked infrastructure, like roads and houses, while it closed its borders to the outside world for one hundred years until 1951. After this, its economy began to revive itself, but progress was short-lived when the country headed for civil war in 1996.

From 1996 to 2006, civil war broke out between the country’s government and a political party, which believed in Maoism, called the Communist Party of Nepal. The war ended in a peace deal in late 2006, but it left a trail of socio-economic destruction in its path.

Before the economy could catch its breath and recover, Nepal was shaken by a lethal 7.8 magnitude earthquake in April 2015. This was followed by a similar shake two weeks after.

When the dust settled, the United Nations says, more than 800,000 buildings were flattened and more than 8800 lives were lost. The total cost of damages was estimated to cost about $7 billion. The quake would have also pushed an extra 982,000 people below the poverty line, according to the Asian Development Bank.

While the economy was still knocked down, a monsoon flood swept across the country in 2017. Heavy downpours are normal in Nepal, but this unprecedented flood killed 160 people, destroyed 43,000 houses and damaged another 192,000 houses.

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Barely human The prevalence of modern slavery is also partly caused by an “extremely low” status of women in Nepal, according to a report in 2014 by Walk Free Foundation. Because of this, women are likely to experience sex trafficking and exploitation.

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Showing a glimpse of this, in 2020 Destiny Rescue rescued 274 Nepali females compared to just nine Nepali males.

The war killed 13,000 people and 150,000 people lost their homes.

Economic development – such as improving health, drinking water and roads – tourism and trade in the country also took a hit. But children in the country took the brunt of it, according to a US-based academic paper in 2009 called Nepal’s civil war and its economic costs.

During the war, the report says, “tens of thousands of children” were allegedly abducted by the political party’s soldiers while other children were exiled by frightened parents. It would have been difficult for those children to dodge poverty later in life .

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Discrimination manifests itself in the form of child marriages, despite the minimum age of marriage being 20 in the country.

According to global human rights organization Human Rights Watch, 37% of Nepali girls marry before age 18 and 10% marry before age 15.

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n 2011, 26,000 girls and women worked in the commercial sex industry in Nepal. Half of them were under 18 and working in Kathmandu Valley, which is a vast valley surrounded by four giant mountains and is home to three of the country’s biggest cities, including the capital.

On top of trafficking, women can experience forced marriage, opening the door to marital rape and forced reproduction.

During menstruation, women can be seen as “unclean” and compelled to live in a shed with barely any food.

Women hardly speak out against these immoral acts because they fear being stigmatized. Single young women, who do not have the provision of a man, are especially vulnerable to trafficking because they are desperate for work. Destiny Rescue’s border agents have stopped many girls and women, who were falling for fake jobs, from crossing the border.

Another part of this discrimination manifests itself in the form of child marriages, despite the minimum age of marriage being 20 in the country. According to global human rights organization Human Rights Watch, 37% of Nepali girls marry before age 18 and 10% marry before age 15.

Nepal, however, has taken steps to tackle gender discrimination after it wrote a new constitution in late 2015.

For example, a third of parliamentary seats are now reserved for women, according to an academic report last year titled Conflict, Disaster and Changing Gender Roles in Nepal: Women’s Everyday Experiences. Although, these seats are often taken by “elite” women who have high education and vocational qualifications, leaving out a bulk of women in rural areas.

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DESPERATE FOR A PENNY

Nepal has many large business sectors, including tourism, textiles and brick production. But its chief sector is agriculture, which employs about 66% of the population, farming mostly wheat, rice and maize. The sector helps reduce poverty too or, at least, stops people from slipping further into it.

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According to a report in 2014 by Walk Free Foundation, Nepal’s economy needed to create 500,000 new jobs each year, but it was only making about 380,000 jobs.

Therefore, Nepali citizens are desperate to find work outside of the country. However, they risk being hooked by fake job opportunities that lead to sexual or labor exploitation. In 2011, one in four Nepali households had at least one person living in another country, according to a report in 2016 by human rights agency International Labour Organisation. For women in the country, some are paid peanuts even if they did score a job.

Half of the working women in Nepal in 2016 were not paid a penny for their work, while more than 70% of working men were paid in cash, according to the Ministry of Health Nepal.

Nepal, in fairness, is trying to protect its citizens from sexual exploitation and trafficking. It allocates a slice of its budget to fight the cause, trains law enforcement and has fined some fraudulent recruitment agencies among other measures.

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BAKING BRICKS

Sex trafficking and exploitation are not the only forms of modern slavery plaguing the country – bonded labor also runs rampant. According to Walk Free Foundation, about 547,000 Nepali people were in bonded labor in the country in 2011.

Impoverished families can get trapped in bonded labor, also known as debt bondage, for years. Given seven million people in the country earn about 45 cents US a day, many poor people take loans from employers or landlords if they are hit with an emergency, such as an illness, family death or simply not having enough money to make dinner. To pay back their moneylender, the impoverished person will often work for them. But this labor is often under minimum wage.

One of the worst strands of bonded labor is child labor.

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n 2008, about three million children in the country were in the “workforce” with 1.6 million in child labor, working in hotels, agriculture, tea shops and night entertainment. Although, many work in brick factories where they bake or burn bricks made of clay and shale. Some of these children have entered work after dropping out of school.

According to anti-poverty in Nepal organization Kidasha, primary school enrollment rates are high at 97%, but 45% of those children eventually drop out. One in four children live in impoverished families, the organization says, and often the parents will send a child to work rather than receive an education....Destiny Rescue sees this first hand, with 79% of those we rescue having an incomplete education.

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TREACHEROUS ROADS

While the country battles sex trafficking and exploitation, child labor and – the overarching problem – poverty, it also lacks the appropriate healthcare to care for all of its citizens.

To reel back the years, Nepal’s health system was severely damaged during the country’s decade-long civil war. More than 1000 health posts in rural areas were destroyed and more than a dozen health workers were killed, according to a report in 2010 by UK-based scientific publication BioMed Central.

After, 1,100 more health posts were brought to their knees by the earthquakes that rattled the country in 2015, according to US-based anti-poverty organization The Borgen Project.

Today, only 60% of households in the country have access to health facilities within a 30-minute drive. Rural areas suffer the most, partly because it is challenging to build roads in the country’s rugged terrain. And if there are roads, most of them are poorly paved or not paved at all. For instance, the distance between Kathmandu and another city in Nepal called Hetauda is 54 miles, but it takes about six or seven hours to travel.

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PANDEMIC

While Nepal has had its share of nationwide stresses, such as civil war and natural disasters, the Covid-19 pandemic did not spare any country early this year. So far, the pandemic has killed more than 2000 people in the country, and a bulk of the population could be heading for extreme poverty, which is defined as living on less than $1.90 a day.

According to the World Bank, the pandemic is likely to push between 88 and 115 million people worldwide into extreme poverty this year, with the total rising to 150 million next year.

The pandemic will “leave lasting scars” on Southeast Asia.

Nepal’s short history was devastating and, unfortunately, the skies are not yet clear. While it is an overwhelming idea to try and fix the country’s flurry of challenges, Destiny Rescue is trying its best to tackle one of its problems – child sex trafficking.

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LAST LINE OF DEFENSE

In 2020, our border agents, who are all Nepali women, rescued 260 people. They monitor the borders, conduct interviews and spot trafficking victims before they leave the country. Last year, they rescued 321, mostly young women.

Once rescued, survivors are reunited with their families and taught about the risks and realities of human trafficking. Each rescue is not only a life saved, but a whole family better protected against trafficking for generations to come.

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The rate of maternal mortality was about 462 women per 100,000 births in low-income countries, such as Nepal, versus just 11 women per 100,000 births in high-income countries in 2017, according to the World Health Organisation. The difference is pinned on the ability to access healthcare.

Destiny Rescue’s operations also face challenges from these roads. At the quickest, it takes them one week to travel to all fourteen of our border stations in the country, driving about 600km. It is also common for a survivor, who is rescued at a border, to stay in one of our shelters between one to five days while she waits for her family to pick her up. In some cases we cover the cost of travel otherwise they cannot afford the journey.

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Sex trafficking and exploitation Thailand

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hailand is a beautiful country known for its beaches, food, villages and an uncountable number of temples.

The country, nicknamed the Land of Smiles, values a warm community and family.

Population: 69M Language: Thai.

Capital: Bangkok

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Thailand is a popular tourist destination but sadly, an estimated 31% of tourists do not come to embrace its culture but exploit it. From urban red-light areas to dark alleys in rural communities, bars, brothels and massage parlors sell sex to tourists. Together we can push against this tide in Thailand.

PREVENTION: We identify vulnerable villages and communities that have experienced human trafficking in the past and teach them how to protect themselves against the illegal trade.

We work with village elders, local leaders and partner organizations to assess the needs of a community or village and create a 12-month plan to educate and upskill them.

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oday, Thailand is not only a paradise for backpackers and honeymooners, but a key destination country for migrant workers, human trafficking and forced labour. In 2019, an estimated 3.9 million migrant workers were living and working in Thailand, both legally and illegally. Most of them came from neighbouring Cambodia, Lao People’s Democratic Republic, Myanmar and Vietnam. 480,000 were estimated to be stateless, while 100,000 were refugees and asylum seekers. According to the Global Slavery Index, Thailand is home to about 610,000 human trafficking victims.

For more than two and a half decades, the labour migration to Thailand has continued to increase and it seems unlikely that it will change in the coming years.

The majority of the identified victims for the past year came from Myanmar, but historically Thai nationals have also been forced, coerced, or deceived into labour or sexual exploitation. Victims are trafficked for sexual exploitation domestically and to a number of countries internationally. Even though migrants from neighbour-

ing countries constitute a large proportion of identified trafficked persons in Thailand, it is also clear that there are many more that have yet to be identified. The Thai Government needs support in doing so.

Migrant workers coming to Thailand In order to enter Thailand legally, migrants have to go through an “MoU process”, an agreement between the governments of Cambodia, Laos and Myanmar that establishes a channel for legal labour migration from these countries. This process, however, can be expensive, long and complex – which means many migrant workers are likely to continue using illegal channels to work in Thailand. The difficulties are not solely due to the Thai government though, for example, it can be expensive for Myanmar citizens to apply for passports in their country and for many ethnic minorities it is almost impossible.

In a report released early 2019, the United Nations International Organization of Migration described the situation in Thailand as below.

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he largely ineffective and ever-changing policies have kept migrants in a precarious legal status and prevented them from fully contributing as members of Thai society.

Efforts to promote safe and regular migration are likely to prove unsuccessful until policies are established and implemented to ensure migrant workers’ rights and dignity are fully protected.

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igrant workers and ethnic minorities most vulnerable to trafficking and sexual exploitation

To protect those that are most vulnerable to trafficking and sexual exploitation, the Thai government has enacted progressive policies that guarantee migrants access to many essential services regardless of legal status, including education and health care. However, barriers continue to hamper their use of these services in practice. Only 51 percent of all eligible migrants are currently enrolled in public health insurance schemes, while up to 200,000 migrant children remain out of school. The lack of access to these social safety nets, language barriers and low economic and social status contribute to the vulnerability of children to different forms of trafficking, especially sexual exploitation.

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WORKING CONDITIONS FOR MIGRANTS IN AGRICULTURE ARE TOUGH

To prevent exploitation against migrant workers and their families and to ensure their safe migration into Thailand, ECPAT Sweden and the faithbased development organisation Diakonia, started the project Safe Migration. Together with partner organisations, Diakonia in Thailand is working in this project on issues related to human rights, local democracy, social and economic justice and gender equality. One particular focus of their work includes the rights of stateless people and ethnic minorities.

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Agricultural workers are especially affected by these injustices. Most of them do not receive the most basic protections including minimum wage, overtime pay, rest time, annual leave, sick leave and social security.

Most migrant workers do not receive minimum wage. According to Thai labour law, the minimum wage is set to 310 baht per day, a sum most employers do not pay even though it’s punishable by up to 6 months in jail and a 100,000 baht fine. As long as few regulations are in place - and even for those that are in place but are not followed - low wages, unsafe living and working conditions and lingering problems with child labour will persist.

The demand for children fuels child trafficking for sexual purposes Southeast Asia has long been recognised as a significant source region for trafficking of children for sexual purposes. There are many reasons for this; high levels of regional migration, illegal migration, economic imbalances and local demand for the sexual services of children—to name a few. Children in the region are trafficked for jobs such as domestic services, factory work, agriculture, fishing, construction, begging, forced marriage and adoption, but the trafficking of children for sexual exploitation continues to be one of the most common purposes for trafficking.

Article By: ECPAT Foundation Thailand

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The INTERNET - A Goldmine 4 RECRUITERS

Often, children are recruited through online brokers or agents giving false promises of employment opportunities, better economic conditions and well-paid work overseas. Instead, they end up in a situation of sexual exploitation. Today, the internet is a goldmine for recruiters. Through social media and chat rooms, they can easily advertise and get in contact with children and youth looking for new livelihood opportunities. Parents often have little or no idea of what happens online. This is a huge challenge in preventing trafficking as parents often have little or no idea of what happens online. There are many cases of children trafficked to Thailand without parents knowing, but there are also cases where children are encouraged by parents or friends into joining exploitative labour.

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MIGRANT SUPPORT NETWORKS LED TO TENSION IN NORTHERN THAILAND

At the border between Thailand and Myanmar, Diakonia Thailand supports local partners to strengthen the rights and working conditions of migrant workers. One initiative is the Migrant Support Networks. They serve as a forum where migrants can access training on human and labour rights and advise on their situation. Many employers see migrant workers as lower-class citizens who are willing to work for less than minimum wage.

Unfortunately, the mobilisation of migrant workers has led to severe tension between local organisations and businesses providing jobs in the region.

Many employers see migrant workers as lower-class citizens who are willing to work for less than minimum wage. To some businesses, labour rights mean less revenue and additional responsibilities.For many migrant workers coming to Thailand, an orange farm is the first stop.

Once there, they are accomodated in simple housing with their families next to the farm. The wage agreements between the farm owner and the workers differ, but most workers do not receive minimum wage. The employers argue that the ”free” housing is to be considered a benefit equivalent to minimum wage, and a reason for them to not pay adequate salaries. However, the only ones who benefit from an agreement like this are the employers.

But everyone’s journey doesn’t start at an orange farm. Others arrive with a debt to pay to the broker who helped them cross the border—something that can take years to pay back. Many children in these communities go to school during the weekdays, but on weekends almost all of them help their parents at the farm where they are exposed to harmful chemicals. Children at the orange farms at risk of sexual exploitation.

One orange farm that is part of the Safe Migration project, has a history with sexual exploitation. A few years back, a man came to the farm and managed to lure two girls into coming with him by offering them candy. He forced them to take their clothes off so that he could take photos to share on Facebook.

The girls luckily returned to the farm and their families, but the images of them are still out there. To prevent this from happening again, ECPAT Foundation Thailand became a part of the Safe Migration project. Once a month, they invite children in the community to participate in activities focusing on increasing youth’s knowledge of - and resistance to - sexual exploitation.

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Our team works with top law enforcement agencies, equivalent to the U.S. FBI, as well as regional and local anti-trafficking police divisions...

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estiny Rescue is on a mission to end child sexual slavery in our lifetime. One key component of Destiny Rescue’s mission is to literally rescue children out of the sex trade and exploitative situations. Each child’s circumstances are different, so Destiny Rescue uses various rescue tactics depending on the needs of each operation.

These missions can be broken down into two main categories: soft rescues and hard rescues.

It’s important to understand that in order for Destiny Rescue to operate in the countries we work in, we must first register our organization with the relevant government departments. In many cases we also enter into a M.O.U. – or Memorandum of Understanding – with a country’s government allowing us to work in collaboration with government agencies.

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Soft Rescue Soft rescue is the term we use to describe operations where our rescue agents go undercover into brothels posing as customers with the hopes of finding individual children trapped in the sex industry and offering them a way out. In preparing for one of these operations, our team of agents spends time in discussion and prayer so that their minds and hearts are focused and ready for each night they go out into these dangerous places. The brothel owners might see our agents as just another customer but girls quickly realize something is different as our agents treat them with dignity and respect.

Once a potential trafficking victim is identified, the goal is to build trust with that child, which can take a couple of

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days, to several weeks or months, and in rare cases even up to two years. Many wonder why children aren’t jumping at the first opportunity to leave this life.

The sad reality is these kids have been lied to and mistreated. They have often lost all hope that their situation will ever change. Their ability to trust and believe the best in people or for a brighter future has been broken. Not to mention, good people don’t visit these types of places.

So building trust takes time.

Agents set up a means of communication with the girls, usually via a messaging app, and try to discover how and why the child has found herself in a bar/ brothel. There is always a root cause, which could be poverty, the breakdown or instability of family, trickery or coercion. Once the agent has an idea of why the child is there, he can then begin to discuss with a caseworker how to provide a solution that will best meet the child’s needs. Many girls recall agents feeling like a big brother or father during this time, someone they could trust and knew was looking out for them.

It’s at this point that our agents will reveal their identity and offer rescue, but not in the bar. It’s too dangerous. Typically, girls in these situations have limited freedom in off-duty hours but remain psychologically controlled by the brothel manager.

Often there have been threats or the use of violence and girls fear running away or upsetting their boss. Our agents will set up a time to meet her outside of work hours at a place she will feel safe. They will bring along one of our caseworkers, and a translator if necessary, who will explain in detail who Destiny Rescue is and then offer her rescue and the opportunity for a better life. Usually with tears streaming down her face, she agrees to a brighter future!

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Soft Rescue – After Care Without aftercare and a strategic correcting of the problems that lead to their trafficking, these kids could easily fall back into the same situation. After we rescue a girl via a soft rescue, our caseworkers further investigate exactly

how the child ended up in the sex industry. This usually entails going back to her village or home to talk with her parents or legal guardian. From this information, we will determine the best solution that best meets the needs for that child and family and put together an action plan. Seeing a rescued girl following her dreams and flourishing in her new life is our ultimate goal.

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Soft Rescue – Pros and Cons One big advantage to a soft rescue is often the speed at which we can rescue a victim. But there is one main limitation to performing a soft rescue: perpetrators often go unpunished. The main objective of a soft rescue is to get children out of that environment, not to bring prosecution against their abusers. So at times, justice isn’t served against the traffickers, abusers and pimps. In saying that, our rescue agents do still gather intel and evidence while on soft rescues so that eventually our agents can work with the police to conduct raids. So in that sense, we are working towards arresting perpetrators in the long run.

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Hard Rescue When Destiny Rescue works with the police to coordinate raids, we call this a hard rescue. Our team works with top law enforcement agencies, equivalent to the U.S. FBI, as well as regional and local anti-trafficking police divisions. These agencies look to Destiny Rescue agents’ expertise to assist in gathering needed intel, formulating plans and coordinating logistics for successful raids.

Conducting a raid can be a lengthy and detailed process that requires trustworthy cooperation and rapport between agents and police crews so that the operation is not put at risk. Destiny Rescue has been part of many successful raids in which we’ve rescued many children, had brothels and KTV bars shut down, entire hotels barred from doing business, and perpetrators arrested and put in jail. These acts of justice can ward off other potential traffickers and bring countries and communities one step closer to eradicating this evil.

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Hard Rescue – Aftercare Our rescue agents are not the only ones hard at work before or after a raid. Our Destiny Rescue aftercare teams are too. Raids can be stressful and traumatic for victims, so our team of aftercare professionals work diligently to alleviate as many of those stress factors as possible.

A great example of our commitment to holistic care, even in raid situations, is our incredible aftercare team in the Philippines. Before a raid even begins, our aftercare team gathers information from our rescue agents so that they are ready to provide care packages for the rescued children. Then following the raid, our team works tirelessly to make sure the girls feel comfortable and safe, providing them food and loving support while sleeping arrangements and temporary housing are co-ordinated.

Our social workers work with law enforcement to get girls’ statements and other important information for child protective services and the justice department; in the days following, they help and support the girls through the necessary judicial processes.

After a raid, aftercare facility placement for each girl is decided by appointed government officials. But that doesn’t mean our work ends there: our caseworkers will follow up with survivors to see how they are progressing no matter which government or non-government aftercare program they have been assigned to.

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Working with law enforcement to pull off successful raids is also necessary to ensure justice is being served to those exploiting children. In addition, it puts a healthy fear in the minds of those contemplating similar actions. One challenge to pulling off a successful raid is the fact that it can take months to gather the needed evidence to move forward and take action.

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Rescue Success and Vision Destiny Rescue has rescued over 4000 women and children since 2011. But rescuing kids is only one battle in the war for their freedom.

That’s why Destiny Rescue’s focus is on holistic rescue, which means we care equally about these children’s restoration and successful reintegration.

Our experienced aftercare teams work hard to provide the best care and resources necessary for children and their families to succeed – and we have an 80% success rate in doing it!

In the end, both rescue models are essential to Destiny Rescue’s progress forward as we work tirelessly to end child sexual slavery in our lifetime.

As we learn new methods and more efficient ways of doing our work, they will become part of our ongoing strategy to ensure every child, everywhere, can use their beds for sleep, not work.

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Sex trafficking and exploitation

PHILIPPINES The Philippines is a beautiful country comprising about 7000 islands in the western Pacific Ocean.

Behind the glamour of beach-side resorts across thousands of islands in the Philippines, Destiny Rescue not only frees girls from sex trafficking but also helps them find justice.

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LARGE-SCALE RAIDS:

After our rescue agents identify child sex trafficking victims and gather the evidence needed to build a legal case against their traffickers. We then, conduct a large- scale raid, along with local and federal law enforcement, on the sex establishment to free victims, arrest offenders and shut down the place. Our team’s expertise is recognized, used, and valued by law enforcement.

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POST RESCUE Once rescued, we work alongside government social workers to ensure we meet the child’s immediate needs including temporary housing, care and essential items.

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ANTI-TRAFFICKING EXPERTISE

We have helped rescue children, and even adults, from various types of trafficking in the country such as labor and cybersex trafficking.

Human trafficking in the country is a lucrative and dangerous trade – some pimps are armed and heavily guarded.

The need to rescue children from sex trafficking in the Philippines is urgent. According to the International Labour Organization, there are at least one million children forced into commercial sexual exploitation. Seventy-three percent of those are found in the Asia and Pacific region.

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t a recent hearing, a young female pimp was sentenced to 15 years in prison following her arrest during a raid mission at a resort near the country’s capital late last year. Destiny Rescue helped the country’s law enforcement arrest her and another trafficker.

The 20-year-old woman was handed a reduced sentence given it was her first offense, she was young and had no past charges.

Traffickers can face up to 20 years in prison and fines between about $20,000 to $40,000, according to a report in 2019 by United States international relations government arm United States Department of State.

During the raid, Destiny Rescue also rescued nine girls and women aged 15 to 23. The scene of a raid can be distressing for survivors but our social workers are prepared and step in with reassurance as soon as police signal the premise is safe.

Our Philippines team also helped arrest 29 traffickers last year. The Philippines, which is home to more than 100 million people, can feature armed and guarded pimps as trafficking is a lucrative, illegal trade there.

The Philippine’s government is clamping down on the trade, according to the report by the United States Department of State. Two years ago, law enforcement arrested a little more than 500 people involved in sex trafficking.

The survivors are now at a shelter where they are studying online. With the court proceedings coming to a close, they will soon have the option to return home. Our team enjoys chances to reconnect with the girls as we provide transportation from their shelter to each court hearing. The growing confidence of each girl becomes more evident with each visit.

U.S. Trains Philippine Supreme Court and Court of Appeals Justices on Cybercrime This is part of an OPDAT partnership with the Philippines to build government capacity to effectively fight cyber-enabled crimes.

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Reintegration Every child is unique; so is her path to freedom

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escue is just the first step to a life of freedom. A child’s rescue from the sex trade means nothing if we cannot keep her from falling back into that place of exploitation. The process of keeping her free starts immediately after her rescue by meeting whatever needs she has that allow her to take the first steps toward freedom. From there, the path looks different because each child’s needs are different. One of three things typically happens next: Family Reunification When safe to do so, she is reunified with family and/or her community. Assessment reveals if she/he needs care within her community provided by Destiny Rescue, or help from another provider. When she enters a transitional home it provides a safe place while a longer-term solution is found. This home could be a Destiny Res-

cue home or a partner-referred home.

When we are involved in reintegration, whether it is in the community or residential home setting, a member of our team will develop an individualized Path to Freedom for the child.

This plan focuses on decreasing the vulnerabilities that led to her being exploited while providing new opportunities that allow her to flourish in freedom.

Overcoming her specific, personal vulnerabilities may include provisions for: A safe place to live. Urgent health needs. Temporary economic assistance.

Education and/or vocational training. Emotional health needs. Spiritual growth, and Job placement.

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Debbie Wright:

President, Do What’s Wright Production Company, LLC; Director & Producer, From Liberty to Captivity

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tarting out as a journalism major, Debbie planned on following in the shoes of her mother who had produced a documentary in the late 1970s about the plight of the neglected elderly in Chicago. Debbie served as Feature Editor for a college newspaper and went on to write an article that was published in a magazine with distribution to over one million households. Her career goals shifted, and she obtained her undergraduate degree from the New York University Stern School of Business and founded her own consulting business, subsequently consulting on and managing multi-million dollar projects for top healthcare and pharmaceutical companies.

Her love for children drove her to complete a Master’s Degree from the University of Pennsylvania in Education. She then taught elementary school for a few years until she returned to the business world. Debbie, like many people, was vaguely aware of the presence of slavery around the world, but her exposure to the reality of modern-day slavery in America came when the FBI descended upon and raided her neighbor’s house, finding thousands of pornographic images, many of which were of children being brutalized and raped. Debbie then contacted International Justice Mission and eventually become a volunteer Justice Advocate where she spoke at various events (including appearing on a Philadelphia radio show) to raise awareness about trafficking and slavery. The gap between the prevalence of sex trafficking in PA and the public’s awareness led Debbie to decide to leave her career in the pharmaceutical industry and reconnect with her journalism roots and her passion to eradicate sex trafficking.

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FILM REVIEW...

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lthough I have now seen several well done documentaries on modern day slavery – sex trafficking specifically…FLTC is the most well done, and carries with it the power of truth, light, and life. It also speaks very intelligently to it’s audience, is very well woven with compassion and dignity for all. Most of all, when you hear/see all the people that are aware and already actively engaged in this battle – the message is clear that God is raising up an army… none who choose to join PA’s fight for freedom – again, will go it alone!

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I think it’s absolutely amazing – it was informative and enlightening on all fronts. And just enough of shocking facts that will change mindsets The call to action is great too…

The message of the film is very powerful and I was happy to see such an enormous audience. You are educating a lot of people.

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Outstanding work! There is so much that I loved about it, but the way you weaved historical slavery into the narrative and kept jumping back and forth to contemporary slavery was masterful. I’m very proud to be included in this film. Wow!

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Congratulations on such a great film.

From Liberty to Captivity was so inspiring. This is a type of documentary that makes you want to get involved. I believe that this film is going to do great things and pave the way for the future.

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MY STORY

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Thriving Through Faith 3 Women Share Their Stories of Empowerment Surviving Sexual Abuse, Human Trafficking and Bondage

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he betrayal of trust suffered children due to predatory sexual and physical abuse along with the horror of sex trafficking is hard to measure. The enslavement of humans into bondage at any age, be it through familial servitude or violent objectification and restraint conducted in plain sight or hidden location haunts society. Seeking power, sexual deviants turn their attention on the vulnerable and defenseless to serve their wretched, otherworldly desires. Luring the trusting, the cast off, the downtrodden and most heinously, sometimes their own family members into malicious deceit is often just a matter of business to them.

Exploitation turned to profit adds a layer of lascivious barbarity. Galvanized by abject cruelty, perpetrators of sex crimes are stealth masters, cruelly manipulating their victims into compliance while those close to them may be totally unaware. The yearly reported statistics of criminal sexual abuse in the United States is mind numbing and what transpires under the radar is cause for severe trepidation.

But this is a story of survival facilitated by faith. It’s the story of the will to transcend the weight of crushing life altering circumstances. As the people in the following accounts attest, me included, it’s about finding the strength to live free from a crippling past. It’s about the desire to serve humanity through community to heal and thrive. In these personal stories, that strength is shepherded through faith in a higher power and the belief that God has a plan for us all. There is power in believing every human is worthy of God’s love and that power can imbue a sense of courage helping anyone to forge a life worth living.

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Denise Pereau - My Story...

By: Denise Pereau

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hildren look to the adults around them as protectors not predators. When an adult enlists a child into sexual servitude, it is usually through keeping secrets accompanied by promises of rewards or threats.

Confused, children embark on a guilt-ridden path, many believing themselves at fault for the misery that follows. I can assure you it is a frightful journey filled with self-doubt and loathing. Through faith and later in life, lots of therapy, I was able to carve out a happy, successful life for myself through a commitment to make good choices and the simple pleasure of helping others.

Reading A Fragile Thread of Hope, Andi Buerger’s first-hand account of surviving brutal, familial, physical and sexual abuse as a child drew me back to my distant past, far from the life of blessings I share with my family today. My mother, divorced from her first husband and widowed when my father died married my stepfather when I was seven, my younger brother five, my elder brother 17, my 22-year-old sister married and out of the house. She was unaware that his divorce from his first wife was precipitated by the incestual abuse of his own daughter. That secret was revealed to us decades later.

With no marketable skills and three children at home her main worry had been finding someone to keep a roof over our heads. She was a loving mother and had no idea of what lay ahead.

My stepfather, who was a local school board member, a board of health member and a trustee in our tiny Baptist church came alive when beating and thrashing my brother and I for benign offense. My mother was expert at keeping up appearances outside our home which in

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the 60’s was a desirable talent. When he often raged behind closed doors, she would cry and pull him off of us. He would cry and beg her forgiveness. Moral agency absent, he threatened death if I ever revealed anything about his surreptitious sexual advances initiated when she’d leave the house. He would corner me and it was hard to fend him off though I tried. Terrified, I never said anything. I was fearful if I did speak up, we’d lose the proverbial roof over our heads, and frankly, I was even more scared my mother wouldn’t have the strength to leave and the abuse would escalate.

I had accepted Christ as my Savior at 12 years of age and was baptized, our life revolving around the church and its many activities it was expected. That decision provided me the gift of faith which helped save me more than once during my life. My self-destructive, rebellious stage rendered me senseless after leaving home at the age of eighteen as I bounced in and out of beauty school because I didn’t want to be there.

Living hand to mouth, hitch-hiking everywhere, crashing in the homes of random acquaintances, I was functioning through a downward spiral behind a carefree front. That’s what victims of abuse know how to do best. Drugs had become a panacea and though I never stuck a needle in my arm, I was on the brink, partying with people who didn’t give a rat’s ass about me.

Fortunately, I had friends who did care but I hid my past from them. To make a long story short, I quickly realized I was going to end up dead if I didn’t change my life. I realized to thrive I needed to be the change. Leaning on faith to push forward, I reconciled with my past and made a commitment to excel in my craft.

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uring a 50-year career as a licensed Cosmetologist, that commitment has taken me around the globe presenting myriad opportunities to serve others, God’s plan for me all along. It’s amazing what people will divulge to their Stylists; jaw dropping, emotionally riveting, deep secrets. Stories they’d never normally share with others. As a former salon owner, I was able to help many who had no-where to turn through my connection to community. My team raised awareness about domestic violence and helped support the local women and children’s shelter through fundraising efforts. We raised funding for breast cancer research, aids research and multiple sclerosis research. They were amazing and together, we made a positive impact both in the community and in the industry. When I finally closed the salon, I knew I had done what I could to serve his purpose while there and that in itself was a personal catharsis.

God keeps showing me ways to deliver his message though I’m no longer behind the chair, I’m writing in it, and I firmly believe that’s why He led me to Andi Buerger and Pastor Donna Lynne Hubbard so I could share their stories with you. I’m humbled by the scope of their life accomplishments and international outreach, their stories confirming that every act of human kindness, great or small, has a ripple effect that can help change the world by giving people hope and a second chance. I’ve always believed our capacity to give in life isn’t measured by how much we give, it’s measured by giving to our capacity.

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Andi Buerger's Story...

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ncest and familial trafficking take front line positions amongst the most insidious of childhood criminal sexual abuse acts. Cyclical in many families, often times the abused become the abusers after being passed around for sex to family and friends generation to generation. Victims are prone to drug addiction and suicide at extremely young ages feeling there’s no escape. How could a child know what to do?

Thriving through faith following a tumultuous childhood and familial trafficking by her birth mother, Andi Buerger’s life focus has become rescuing runaways. Children who runaway, usually labeled “bad kids” by society, most often runaway because they believe the streets are safer than their homes. Both boys and girls can be lured into prostitution because they have no-where to turn, picked up and trafficked by predators. Supporting our local shelters is a first step in getting these children the help they need.

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Beulah’s Place Beginning at the age of six months Andi Buerger suffered years of unspeakable sexual abuse and physical and verbal assault at the hands of her birth mother who actually tried to kill her more than once.

It’s remarkable to sit in her presence as she witnesses for her faith. Her first suicide attempt took place at the age of five years old when she purposely walked to the street, sat on the curb and waited for a truck or car to come whizzing along so she could hurl herself into its path. As fate would have it, the usually busy thoroughfare was trafficless that day.

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Ms. Buerger’s family functioned on a par to mine.

Behind closed doors no one ever suspected the violent scenario regularly splayed about. Attending church on most Sunday’s Andi was aware of God’s existence at a young age. She had learned that Jesus loves all children including her, but she wondered why was she suffering so? God touched Andi’s heart that day as she waited for a vehicle to come by, a scene she vividly recalls. Her view of the heavens, the sun bursting through the clouds captivated her.

At that moment she recognized God’s presence and made a promise to serve others if she survived her

mother’s vicious outpourings. It was a promise that saved her life more than once.

Andi recounts, “My brother and I were constantly berated with filthy obscenities, attacked, beaten daily and constantly threatened by “her”. Our father would sometimes join in or just stand by and watch dependent on his mood and whether or not he and my mother were in sync. We would run as fast as we could to get away from her and I’d spend the afternoons under my bed for fear she’d try to kill me and that actually happened more than once. She would pummel my face and chest with her fists whenever she raged when I was still a toddler and her abnormal perversities were continually visited on us both.

She obviously hated me much more deeply than my brother and went to great lengths to let me know it.

I was referred to as the accident they couldn’t return.

She went so far as to leave me at the homes of her perverted friends and family who were happy to sexually abuse me which is clinically referred to as familial trafficking. In many families it’s cyclical and it’s common for the abused to become the abusers.

Children dissolve into a state of dissociative disorder to cope with these situations which is what happened to me. Years of therapy helped me unravel the truths of my childhood because I had blocked them out. My long-term focus became finding a way to help others who’d suffered any type of sexually and physically abusive situations.”

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ndi set herself on a healing path which she testifies is a daily process and personal choice bound by faith. She eventually graduated with a degree in Business Administration and Communications from Loyola Marymount University and a law degree from Western State University College of Law. Throughout her life, the promise she made to God as a little girl stuck with her. In October of 2008 she co-founded Beulah’s Place in Central Oregon with her husband Ed Buerger, a 501c3 that has successfully rescued hundreds of homeless and trafficked teens providing them safe housing and a chance to thrive.

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urrently serving as Executive Director Andi explains, “Believing I was worthless throughout my youth, I knew if we were to be successful in helping these kids to become self-sufficient, the first task would be to teach them they ARE worthy and valued as humans. Secondly, we’d need to give them the tools to move forward starting with making a personal commitment to setting and reaching their goals with our help. Being responsible is a learned skill. Most of these children have never experienced any kindness whatsoever and it takes time to gain their trust. This work has always been God’s plan for me and I’m grateful that I have the opportunity to serve by example. I’ve been there and I know what they’re going through.” She continues, “We have intake criteria and host placement guidelines for our safe homes that all of Beulah’s House residents must personally sign. And they all have the right to make the choice to leave. Some actually do leave and come back when they realize we’re providing the best chance for them to make a real life for themselves. Our goal is to help them thrive, not to become dependent on the system.”

Beulah’s Place has been recognized nationally and internationally for its program and success across the nation due to the high success rate of teens achieving successful independent living with minimal assistance. Beulah’s Place has been volunteer-driven for over 13 years and has a current success rate of 92% with its graduates. Andi is also the founder and chair of Voices Against Trafficking(VAT), an international organization that networks other nonprofits, individuals, businesses, and leaders together to be a powerful collective force in the fight against human trafficking.

VAT launched its “ADD YOUR VOICE” campaign on July 29, 2020 in hopes of getting one million names

and commitments by the end of Summer 2022. This roster of one million voices will spur this human rights movement on to greater heights and greater action for all victims of human trafficking. Regarding Andi’s book, A Fragile Thread of Hope, written with Kay Farish relays Dr. Claire Reeves, “This is a must read for anyone who has been trafficked or misused, for mental health professionals treating the trauma of abuse, and for those who want to better understand how to impact their community in light of this growing trend.” (Dr. Claire Reeves, MA, C.C.C.C., PhD., is a nationally and internationally recognized expert in child sexual abuse and author of It Should Not Hurt. She is also the founder of MASA, Mothers Against Sexual Abuse) Pastor Donna Lynn Hubbard Approximately 70,000-80,000 arrests for prostitution are made every year in the US. The debate over legalities is one that pits both sides in an on-going debate, some feeling it’s a victimless crime dangerous due to unregulated status, others believing that prostitutes are the victims pointing to human trafficking, slavery and violence against them as proof.

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n Pastor Hubbard’s story, her journey into trafficking and bondage began with what she thought was an innocent friendship, one that forced her into prostitution and eventually imprisonment. Her story speaks volumes about the system’s flaws and the need for prison reform.

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Donna Lynne Hubbard - My Story...

Women at the Well Transition Center

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ostage profiles of sexually trafficked targets are wide and varied filling the records of local police, state, and federal government child abuse and human sex trafficking status reports.

Conscription into sexual servitude through physical imprisonment is oft times subordinate to the initial entrapment of victims enslaved through intimidation and terroristic threats made consequential to family and loved ones should victims fail to co-operate. Living openly under intimidation and extreme duress, many feel compelled to submit, terrified to report to authorities, remaining well under the radar while struggling to avoid missteps.

After being gang raped, Donna Lynne Hubbard’s life became one of abandonment, abuse, addiction, gang crime, exploitation, prostitution and violence. She was sold to a pimp, trafficked and finally became gang property living in plain sight, her family unaware of what was taking place. Explains Pastor Hubbard, “Human trafficking is facilitated by force, fraud or coercion. In my case it was a combination of all three factors. I was initially enticed unaware, set up by a pimp who I thought was just a nice guy. His alleged wife and sister claimed they were there to support me when I had nothing, providing me help to find food and watching my children while I searched for work.

Eventually I found a job and was told it was payback time.

They said working as a prostitute was the only way I was going to be able to make enough money fast enough to pay them back. I wasn't physically held in bondage, but mentally I never felt safe. They were addicts and needed enough cash to support their habits so they threatened physical harm to my children or worse. It was beyond terrifying. Eventually, I was making enough money to get the attention of gang members in the pimp’s circle of contacts and he determined it was beneficial for him to "sell" me to them.

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They showed up on my doorstep one day and I was briefed on their expectations. I knew the less my children knew the safer they were. They just believed I was a drug addicted negligent mother who stayed out all night. This went on for about 2 years and I lost custo-

dy of two of my children and became pregnant with another. When I was arrested for being in the wrong place at the wrong time I was jailed and held prisoner since I was addicted and pregnant. I felt like a hostage, and yet that probably saved our lives.

My daughter was born premature, but thankfully, not addicted. I escaped relapse into bondage upon my release from the hospital, fleeing immediately with my new baby to my mother’s house in Minnesota, assisted by the hospital social worker. After I got to M.N. I was able to get into school at the University of Minnesota-Twin Cities eventually securing an internship at WCCO Television. This led to a story on gang infiltration and the crack cocaine epidemic in Minneapolis. There were 5 interns and only one of us was black so guess who got that story? I was too proud to say I couldn’t take it and too ashamed to say I needed help when I was in over my head. I just wanted someone to "see" me.”

Pastor Hubbard’s bio states her commitment to serve God prompted her complete surrender to a greater destiny and purpose. Paroled in 1993 in Atlanta, Georgia she founded the Woman at the Well Transition Center: “Our Mission is to assist incarcerated, formerly incarcerated women and women and girls impacted by the criminal justice system and human trafficking to regain their lives, their families and their dignity.”

Donna served a total of 10 years in and out of jails and prisons. Says Donna, “I am humbled by the opportunity to serve and fill my calling understanding there was a purpose for my pain.”

Based in Atlanta Georgia, WATWTC provides training, counseling, and direct services to formerly incarcerated women and girls, including street intervention with trafficked girls and women, relapse prevention and employment readiness. WATWTC has provided services and training to 6,000 women and girls. Ordained in 1995 as a minister, Pastor Hubbard holds the titles of Preacher, Teacher, Pastor and Elder. WATWTC celebrates 20 years of nonprofit service this year.

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he has received numerous awards for her tireless work including American Mothers, Women Making a Mark on the Millennium, presented by Atlanta Magazine 2000, The Oni Award presented by the National Congress of African Women 2010, and The Hero Award presented

by Skye Kingdom Foundation 2016. WATWTC celebrates 20 years of nonprofit service this year.

In addition, Donna works with Airline Ambassadors International as a Certified Human Trafficking Awareness Trainer and has facilitated trainings in Hungary, Latvia, and Japan. She was featured in the 52nd training of airline and airport personnel to prepare for 2017 and 2018 Super Bowls in Houston, Texas and Minneapolis, Minnesota. Donna is employed as a Flight Attendant for American Airlines. She earned her BS in Theological Studies and her MA in Christian Counseling at PCIE Seminary Program, Los Angeles, CA. Donna’s proudest of her role as mother of 7 daughters and 1 son, 10 grandchildren and 8 great grandchildren.

In these stories of survival a commitment to God and faith is intertwined with hope for the future.

Without hope humans perish emotionally and spiritually. Andi Buerger and Pastor Donna Hubbard have dedicated their lives to sharing their story of faith and hope with victims of unspeakable abuse from all walks of life and in many cases, imprisonment trapping them in a cycle of failure and shame. I’m grateful to be sharing their stories with you in addition to mine to demonstrate that through faith, we can survive insurmountable odds, and that we all have the capacity to help others.

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omenz Straight Talk Magazine implores the following: If you see something say something. If you suspect a child is being abused you can call the appropriate hotline listed on the back page. If you know a family suffering from domestic violence, make that call to the hotline provided for domestic abuse. Most importantly, if you are reading this story and you need help, turn immediately to the back page and call the number related to your personal story.

Help is there when you’re ready to take that step.

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Make a Difference in a Child’s Life!

speak for children around the world who need our help in meeting their basic needs for food, shelter, clothing, medical care and, in many cases, rescue from the human traffickers who profit from their misery.

This requires not only competence but efficiency — producing the best possible outcomes from every resource available, including your financial support. Our goal is to make sure that every dollar we spend prevents or remedies as much suffering as possible. This responsibility is at the core of who we are and why we’re asking you to join with us in making the world a better place for children.

From all of us at Airline Ambassadors, thank you for your interest in making the world a better place for those most in need. Please see our 2014 results below – and we want to grow by an order of magnitude 2017 Cash Donations Received: $174,369 Here’s what we did with it: Escorted 156 children while in transit to receive life changing medical care. These flights were nearly always their first and we were there to insure their comfort and security.

Conducted 14 human trafficking awareness seminars at major airports to 2,328 airline and security personnel to better enable them to identify children at risk and, when identified, protect them against further exploitation.

Our first call led to the bust of a pornography ring in Boston saving 86 children. Since that time approximately 7 million passengers have been evaluated by those we trained in 2017, and we are submitting regular “tips” to law enforcement.

Visited and attended to the needs of 1,264 children on ten humanitarian aid missions, including distribution of $124,588 in purchased items and services and much more in donated items. Worked with our donor base to attract in-kind donations of goods and services valued at $702,319 all of which were used effectively to move our mission forward.

When any of us speaks for someone who has no voice, we must do it with excellence. This is especially true when those spoken for are innocents in the most difficult situations imaginable. We

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isa Lallouz is the author and creator of the Miss Bonita and Friends children’s series of books, web and musical live shows. Lisa has created a formula that guides children through the process of dealing with their challenges in a fun and safe environment. She earned her degree in Social Work from McGill University and lives in Toronto with her husband and children.

“Loneliness and the feeling of facing a challenge alone is the root of most suffering. Simply making a connection with another person opens up doors to healing and creates opportunities to build communities where sharing and caring become both the medicine and the cure.” _Lisa Lallouz

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LISA LALLOUZ Creator Of Miss bonita & friends

MISS BONITA AND FRIENDS MAGICAL JOURNEY _BY: Creator, Lisa Lallous

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created many of the characters in the Miss Bonita and Friends series years ago when I worked in day care and social work. Young children would openly mention serious issues they were experiencing such as divorce, death, grief and anger to name a few. Having experienced a difficult childhood myself their vulnerability and pain resonated with in deep way.

At that time there was no real protocol or accepted outlet to address these topics. The teachers hoped the kids would simply forget and the issues were most often ignored unless it became a real problem. I created fantasy characters and stories that had similar challenges and shared the stories with my students. What transpired was amazing. The children were immediately engaged, most of the kids shared stories of their own, and the mood would become lifted and happy. Time passed, and I forgot all about these amazing characters I created that helped the children so long ago.

Fast forward about twenty years, the sudden ending of my marriage sent me and my family into crisis. In my grief, I turned to the characters I had created so long ago for help to rebuild my life, and the Miss Bonita and Friends series was born.

I didn’t start the project as a practitioner or expert. I created the series from my broken heart to be shared with the broken hearted. The world of Miss Bonita and Friends can be used not only as a tool for healing, but it is also an artistic expression of grief and the will to persevere. I want to share these stories with the world not to preach or lecture, but to contribute to the evolution of compassion and the pursuit of finding effective healing and meaningful help.

MENTAL HEALTH AND WELLNESS ARE THE MOST COMMON CHALLENGES OF CHILDHOOD.

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Despite the magnitude of the problem, lack of awareness and entrenched stigma keep the majority of youth from getting the help they need. Children and adolescents with psychiatric illness are at risk for academic failure, substance abuse, and a clash with the juvenile justice system — all of which come at a tremendous cost to them, their families, and the community.

MISS BONITA AND FRIENDS IS PROVIDING SOLUTIONS I felt so excited to hold my first book in my hands but nothing could compare to the joy l felt when I saw my book in the hands of a child reading it! It is the love that children have for The Miss Bonita and Friends series that inspires me to constantly find ways to make their lives and their world a better place. I try to use my leverage, experience and success to promote awareness of the urgent need for more mental health resources for children and families. I have created live

shows, zoom shows, and the Mission Bonita web series to facilitate easy and free access for kids to benefit from all that Miss Bonita and Friends has to offer. We offer many of these events free of charge throughout the year. Ensuring children have access to the Miss Bonita and Friends books is imperative. We offer free books to libraries, schools and organizations all over the world. Throughout the year we offer free Kindle downloads and book giveaways. I am constantly looking for new ways and creating new initiatives such as the global book series, to reach as many children as possible.

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hroughout my life, I have had many wonderful experiences and some that have been very difficult. Whether it was dealing with loss and grief, not having the confidence or resources I needed, or not knowing what to do or how to do it. I have used whatever resources I could to inspire me and keep me motivated.

Often times we create our own complications and stumbling blocks. We tell ourselves that things have to be done a certain way, or we are worried what other people will say. I have created many projects by keeping things as simple as possible. You just need to start and starting simple is the best way!

Believe it or not I don’t have a lot of self-confidence and I suffer from anxiety, but I dream big. I have had to take many leaps of faith over the years and go out of my comfort zone in a big way. Sometimes, I used role play when I was unsure of myself and soon enough, I made it!

I assumed when I first started my business that so many of my friends and family would be as excited as I was and would want to help me. While some did, I was really surprised and disappointed by others. I felt hurt and insulted from their lack of interest. After a while, I realized they had careers and businesses of their own that I hadn’t really showed support of either. I do my best now to be supportive to everyone, those that reach out to me and to family and friends. I no longer expect things from people, but rather, I appreciate who ever shows up!

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My secret to success - The power of women supporting women;

Women have had a powerful impact and played a major role throughout my life. I would not have achieved my accomplishments without the support of the women around me. My daughter Michaela Lallouz and Suzanne Coy her teacher, are the two women who I am most grateful too. I had just moved to Toronto with my children alone to build a new life for us after the sudden ending of my marriage. I was afraid and wanted to give up constantly. At only fifteen years old, Michaela was my biggest ally and support. Pursuing her dream to be an actor and work in the film industry, Michaela introduced me to her film and television professor the extraordinarily talented Suzanne Coy. Upon hearing our story Suzanne took it upon herself to be Michaela’s personal mentor and soon became one of my closest friends. So, moved by our ambitions and the vision of the Miss Bonita and Friends project, Suzanne moved mountains to help make our dreams come true. Michaela and Suzanne have maintained their involvement in my business and have remained the most loyal and devoted members of the Miss Bonita and Friends team.

People have different ideas of what Women's empowerment means to them. I think to empower women means

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respecting all women and ensuring their ability to determine their own choices, and their right to influence social change for themselves and others.

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About Miss Bonita and Friends;

Miss Bonita and Friends is an exciting and magical children’s series of books, web & television and musical live shows where the characters go on adventures to help children solve their problems around the world! Miss Bonita and Friends promotes emotional intelligence by demonstrating to children that they have the power to choose, to creatively problem-solve and contribute to their life journey and in effect influence their circumstances.

In the not so distant past, many topics of discussion such as divorce, loss, racism and bullying to name a few, were yes considered taboo when it came to family challenges, and very few children had an outlet to communicate and share their feelings.

Fast-forward a few decades and today we are right in the middle of the age of technology and communication. Through the mediums of web & television, live shows, books, and social media, it is the perfect time to introduce our group of racially diverse characters from mixed backgrounds who are learning to overcome some of the challenges that come with being a twin, living in foster care, being differently-abled, having autism, and ADD. Miss Bonita and Friends is giving them a voice and that voice is being heard by parents, teachers, corporations and marketers.

Miss Bonita and Friends has created a successful formula that guides children through the process of dealing with their challenges in a fun and safe environment.

SUPPORTING WORLD LEADERS And Youth

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ur foundation is built on the belief that sharing stories to which children can relate can help empower them to draw on their own strengths and ability to solve and cope with challenges. Through awareness and understanding, children will learn to manage how they respond to the challenges they face, and as a result they begin to take accountability for their outcomes. Being willing to share your story and be open to new ways of facing challenges requires a courageous spirit. We may not like everyone or everything in this world, but we must always try to have compassion.

From this perspective facing challenges and resolving conflicts eliminates the dependence on villains and victims and creates an arena of learning and sharing. Our biggest fan base and audience for the series ; are kids aged 6-10. Children today are culturally and racially diverse and live in many unique family arrangements. Our series resonates with so many children because it is both inclusive and representative as they see themselves in the stories.

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Our new and exciting project ;

When educating the minds of youth, we must not forget to educate their hearts.” _Dalai Lama

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Miss Bonita and Friends embark on a magical journey to help the “featured figure” in this case, little Jean solve the emotional challenge she is facing. When “little Jean”enters the magical world of Miss Bonita and Friends, children have the opportunity to connect with her in a deep and meaningful way. Being part of this book series ensures that today’s youth and future generations will want to know all about this interesting figure. The story is not just a lesson in history from the distant past but is relevant to the present-day challenges kids are facing. The connection the children and the featured legend will make is both relevant and timeless.

This series connects millions of children around the world who feel alone and isolated with their problems. The series will show all children that they are not alone, and even great people had problems to deal with when they were growing up. The series empowers children by providing them the guidance and tools they need to help themselves and others around them.

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Kindness is the supernatural force that can break barriers, bring unity and heal.” _Lisa Lallouz

We are excited to announce The Miss Bonita and Friends Global Initiative and the launch of our first Canadian special edition book. The new Miss Bonita and Friends book ; “The Case of the Girl who had to be Perfectly Perfect.” is inspired by the Honourable Dr. Jean Augustine, a real Canadian heroine who changed the educational and racial landscape in Canada.

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"The Family Guide To The Law of Attraction Author, By:_Mary Petto

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eaching children how to work with the natural laws of the universe, such as the laws of magnetism and vibration, can have a lifelong impact on their ability to thrive.

that we keep focusing on our problems, the more problems we’ll have, but the more we can set our beliefs and intentions on the outcomes we really want, the more circumstances that align with that vision will occur.

Per Psychology Today, a decline in young people's sense of personal control over their fate correlates to what we know about anxiety and depression. People who believe that they are in charge of their own fate are less likely to become anxious or depressed than those who believe that they are victims of circumstances beyond their control. Having been victimized as a child or young adult, or even a feeling of victimization due to overarching culture changes, such as the global health pandemic and civil unrest or even more mundane issues of control, such as classroom seat assignments, social bullying, or relationships with authority figures can prevent children from thriving into adulthood.

But that sense of control, learned, internalized, and put into practice may be just a seemingly magical experience away.

Learning how to work with magnetic energy and the natural laws of the universe can begin to shift one’s sense of feeling powerless to knowing the full extent of one’s power to imagine, envision, and bring into reality what he or she wants and needs.

Part neuroscience, part quantum physics, the Law of Attraction is a game of mindset. And while adults tend to have a harder time with the concepts here than children, just by the nature of less rumblings of negativity built up over years, in reality, this practice is what makes the world spin in the direction it moves. I’ve found in my programs and working with kids, the mindset needed and relatable examples result in overnight success—and watching kids witness their power is addictive, and lasting.

Take Trina, for example. Her story, told in The Family Guide to the Law of Attraction, is one that begins with this fourthgrade girl being bullied by two other girls in her class. The emotional damage of social bullying can last a lifetime. But after a session with me, during which she learned the key concepts of visualization and affirmations, she experienced the vanishing of the entire situation. Not only were her bullies no longer together in her class, her entire social situation pivoted.

This overnight success using the laws of magnetism and vibration kept Trina thriving into high school and college, where she now attracts fiercely loyal friends and an overall sense of contentment—never fear—about her life.

What I hope you take away from this is simple:

The importance of teaching children and young adults about how to use the natural laws of the universe is what fueled me to write The Family Guide to the Law of Attraction.

The Law of Vibration, also known as the Law of Attraction, is the law that says we magnetize to us the situations, people, circumstances and energy that is n alignment with our thoughts, beliefs and intentions. At it’s basest level, what this means is

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Everyone has the power to create the reality they want to experience—including children and young adults who fear their lives and situations cannot improve.

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ary Petto is a sought-after private Law of Attraction coach and transformational speaker. Her presentations consistently result in immediate feedback from her audiences and clients of miraculous manifestations and completely transformed relationships. Whether her clients are looking for romance, sales and business success, or better grades at school, Mary’s message is: “Everyone has the power to create the reality they want to experience.”

Mary’s program, “Miracle Maker Immersion,” the online version of her signature workshop, has showed hundreds of people around the country how to tap into the quantum field and work with their energy to make incredible change happen.

While she works with adults in various arenas to help them manifest, one of Mary’s primary missions is to provide the lessons of the Law of Attraction to young people, ages 9 and up. When she first opened her practice several years ago she set out to

help this population overcome feelings of victimization and lack of control—emotions inherent in the way of life for many kids. Not only do kids internalize and understand the practice of manifestation more quickly and directly than adults—the lessons they learn from Mary’s system stay with them for years.

Once they learn the power they have to create anything—from better grades to making bullies disappear—they are set to thrive into early adulthood with confidence and success.

Mary is also a certified Reiki practitioner and has been heard and seen on Law of Attraction radio and magazine, Thrive magazine, and has been interviewed by various podcast and radio hosts on the topic of tapping into the quantum field for business success.

Mary Petto Speaker, Coach, Author of The Family Guide to the Law of Attraction PortableVisions.com

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Agathe Ngo Likoba Empowering Women & Business

"Investing in our youth is the best way to help the community"

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ameroonian-born and France-raised Agathe Ngo Likoba is a self-made entrepreneur, philanthropist, fashion connoisseur and mother. Agathe has spent over a decade in the United States – mostly New York City – developing her brand Likoba consisting of botanical-based cosmetics, prêt-á-porter and haute couture jumpsuits, sunglasses, neckties and scarves.

The brand has worldwide clientele, attends the Oscars event in Beverly Hills 2 years on the row and currently has a billboard in Times Square NYC. Agathe's penchant for fashion is steeped heavily in her upbringing; an amalgam of Africa and France and then peppered with seasons spent in Bruges, Venice and Switzerland.

Agathe credits her always debonair mother for her fashion inspiration and influence. The name Likoba comes from her grandfather, Agathe’s hero, who taught her to never give up on her dreams. Her grandfather’s lessons have clearly taken effect, as Agathe’s determination has elevated the Likoba brand to new heights since its public launch in 2016.

Likoba and Agathe have been honored with many awards and recognition of her accomplishments. Most Notable: Two Time winner for Best Couture Designer at Atlantic City Fashion Week (2016, 2018). 2017 Champion for Entrepreneur of the year by Fairfield County Business Journal, nominated for entrepreneur of the year 2017 by SBA of Connecticut. Since launching in 2016, Likoba has been featured in over 25 publications.

Agathe is a former Registered Nurse, Commercial Realtor in NYC, recently promoted as Chairman-Board of Trustees for a private company, Founder and CEO of Likoba, Instagram Influencer, Member of the Luxury Business Council (which is by invitation only) and recently joined the Rotary Club of Greenwich Connecticut October 2020.

The Club celebrated its 100th Anniversary in February 2021, and Agathe was honored as their first black rotarian.

Likoba Boutique was opened September 2018 in Derby Connecticut, a city with a fashion industry history.

Agathe's newest project is a reality show called Tutoplay

by Business Shower. She is one of the coaches that mentors young African entrepreneurs with the necessary skills needed to be successful in their prospective careers. The show will be available to stream on various streaming platforms including Netflix and HBOGo. Agathe believes that investing in our youth is the best way to help the community. She regularly contributes in forms of mentorship for prospective entrepreneurs. Agathe is a Junior Achievement Volunteer for 5 years, giving entrepreneur mentorship for young minds who strive to be entrepreneurs. She was invited to speak at Bridgeport University about Entrepreneurialism.

Agathe believes in supporting her fellow women and put it to action by celebrating the Likoba boutique first anniversary with a fashion show that featured cancer survivors.

All proceeds were donated to the Cancer Center at Griffin Hospital in Derby Connecticut.

Agathe understands the importance of her power as a woman and conveys this ideal to her daughter. She balances being an established member of her community while raising her daughter to become a responsible woman.

What's next for Agathe Ngo Likoba?

This summer she plans to launch a consulting business to coach new entrepreneurs with launching a business while maintaining a healthy family life.

And watch for the newest Likoba Boutique opening to be announced!

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Summer Vegetable Soup With Quinoa Salad This is a great summer dish - a light soup and grain meal all in one bowl. Summer vegetables have lots of moisture and keep us cool, especially when served as soup. A scoop of quinoa salad makes this the perfect summer soup, because quinoa is a whole grain that grows in the hot climate, so it cools us down. Plus it cooks quickly, so you won't create lots of heat in your kitchen.

The best part is that this soup is splendidly pretty on a summer table.

SOUP 2 teaspoons Avocado or extra-virgin olive oil 1/2 small leek, slit lenghtwise, rinse well, and thinly sliced Seasalt 1 stalk celery, diced 1 to 2 small carrots, diced 1 small yellow summer squash, diced 4 to 5 cups spring or filtered water 2 1/2 teaspoons of white miso 1 to 2 scallons, thinly sclied on a diagonal, for serving fruity olive oil, fruit olive oil Quinoa Salad 1/2 cup quinoa. rinse well 1 cup spring or filtered water pinch of salt 2 scallons, diced 1/4 cup organic corn kernels (fresh or frozen) 1/2 roased red bell peppers, diced 1/2 teaspoon red wine vinegar 1/2 teaspoon balsalmic vinegar Cooking Tip: To roast a bell pepper, place it directly on a high flame, turning carfully with tongs as each part of the pepper chars.

When fully charred, transfer the pepper to a paper sack. Seal and allow to steam for 5 to 7 minutes. Peal away the charred skin, removing as much of the char as possible without rinsing the pepper (you will lose flavor if you rinse).

If you have an electric stove, simply cut pepper in half and laeve the seed bed inside. Lay the pepper, cut side down on a baking sheet and place under a broiler on high heat and char completly before placing on a paper sack.

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o make the soup: Heat the oil in a soup pot over medium heat. Add the leek with a pinch of salt and saute' until limp, about 1 minute. Add celery and another pinch of salt, and saute until shinny with oil. Add the carrotts and a pinch of salt, and saute' for 1 minute. Add the summer squash and stir till combined. Add the water, cover, and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat to low simmer, coverd, until the vegetables are quite soft, 15 to 20 minutes.

Working in batches, put the soup throgh a food mill to create a smooth, silky texture. Return the soup to the pot and bring it back to a simmer over a low heat. Remove a small amout of liquid and use it to disslove miso. Stir the miso mixture into the soup; simmer for 3 to 4 minutes to activate the enzymes in the miso.

While the soup cooks, make the salad: Add the quinoa and water to a sauce pan and cover loosely. Bring to a boil over medium heat. Add salt, cover and simmer until all the liquid has been adsorbed, about 17 miniutes. Stir in a scallions, corn, bell peppers, red wine vinegar, and balsamic vinegar.

The serve, place a scoop of quinoa salad in the center of individual soup bowls. Ladle the soup around the salad, garnish with the scallions, and serve hot with a drizzle of a fruity olive oil.

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