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Tension with father’s family Dear Annie: My older brother and I have been dealing with a touchy situation for years. We are both adopted; our parents divorced when we were very young, and they both remarried. Our adoptive father was abusive, and our mother had her own share of issues stemming from major depression. We were primarily raised by our mother and stepfather, with occasional visits up north when my mother was going through her “episodes.” After the divorce, we lost touch with our adoptive father’s family until around 1995. My adoptive father remained overseas with his new wife for most of our lives and only paid child support until our 18th birthdays. When he did return stateside, he told me he didn’t want anything to do with me or my brother. Needless to say, I was very hurt by this, given that our previous conversations — only two — had been civil. He died in 2007 with these final words to me. My brother and I have an issue with our father’s sister and her husband (my aunt and uncle), who are in denial about his poor treatment of us. She constantly wants to send us pictures and other items of his, such as the American flag he received after his death. When we try to tell her we don’t want these mementos, she becomes defensive, even asking why. It’s hard to put into words why my brother and I don’t want these painful reminders of a man who didn’t care about us and was abusive. Add to that, when we get together (not often, as they live out of state), our aunt and grandmother (who died recently) constantly bad-mouthed our mother about her issues and how she raised us. This took place at least once in front of my brother and my nephew, which was truly heartbreaking. I sincerely believe my mother did the best she could, and we turned out OK. How do I confront my father’s family about this? I’ve tried telling my aunt straight out, but she gets defensive. Do I just grin and bear it in order to keep the peace? — Struggling Dear Struggling: Not wanting mementos of an abusive and absent father is very understandable. Your aunt’s defensiveness has nothing to do with you and your brother and everything to do
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with her lack of compassion and empathy for the trauma that you endured as a result of your father’s abuse. Under no circumstances should you grin and bear it. Your aunt’s behavior is bullying — just
Send your questions for Annie Lane to dearannie@creators.com. like your father’s was. You can politely decline and ask her not to bring it up again. If she gets defensive, just ignore it and walk away. If they put down your mother again, stick up for her and kindly ask them to stop saying negative things about your mom. You sound like you have a lot of wisdom and know that your mother did the best she could but suffered from a disease. No more tolerating this treatment from your father’s family. You suffered enough as a child, and it’s time to live a free, open and joyful life.
Sharing as an access to happiness & connection Dear Annie: Lately, I find myself thinking a lot about old roommates, friends and co-workers. I’m talking about people from over 30 years ago, whom I haven’t spoken to in decades. I think I would like to tell them how they have impacted my life in positive ways. Should I reach out to them or would that just be self-serving and weird? I mean, if I were to reach out, I’m not sure what the follow-up would be: “Nice catching up with you, goodbye forever”? Is this sort of feeling normal as we age, and should I act on it or just forget about it? — Too Much Time to Think Dear Too Much: Reminiscing more with age is not only common; it can be hugely beneficial, provided it’s positive/productive in nature, which yours is. A 2016 study of 47 people living in senior care facilities found that after sharing memories, family history and personal accomplishments, participants experienced fewer feelings of loneliness and depression. So, keep taking those laps
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around Memory Lane. And to the question of whether or not you should reach out to these old friends and acquaintances, my answer is a resounding yes! Too often it’s not until after people are gone that we express how much they meant to us. Drop them a line today. Let them know you’ve been thinking of them lately and that you’re glad for the time you knew them. There’s a good chance you’ll make their day. ——— Dear Annie: I’ve been friends with “Remy” for six years. We both play the same computer game on the same platform, and we always enjoy chatting as we play. A little over a year ago, I was single and found myself developing feelings for Remy. We’d always just been friends, but gradually, an attraction grew. Before I knew what was happening, we both found ourselves falling in love. We have so many similarities and shared interests. It’s so easy to talk to each other. It’s been over a year of our sharing this intense, romantic connection. But there’s a catch. I knew that she was technically married and had a kid, but I always thought that she was separated from her husband. It turned out that wasn’t the case. She insists she’s going to separate from him, though, and is just waiting for her new house to be done so that she can move. Meanwhile, I’m in limbo, not knowing what’s going to happen. Annie, what do you do when the woman you love is unhappily married? She says she loves me and wants to be with me. And I’m so excited to have found someone who connects with me so deeply. Our only clashes come on the weekends when she has to play house and can’t write to me. I’ve mostly been understanding up until now, but it’s starting to get a bit frustrating. — Lover in Limbo Dear Lover: What you call “playing house” is her living her real life. Your digital rendezvous are her playtime — a way for her to escape the day-to-day drudgery, blow off some steam and avoid having to make any substantial changes to her situation. She might not be conscious of the fact that this is what she’s doing, but it doesn’t make it any more acceptable. The bottom line is that if she were going to leave her husband, she’d have done so already. Pull the plug and free
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it is possible, and more and more couples are choosing to do so. Some have found a good balance with a “yours, mine, ours” approach — sharing one bank account for household expenses and utilities and things like car maintenance, while each maintaining a separate bank account for discretionary spending. You and your wife might consider trying that for greater harmony. ——— Dear Annie: After reading the letter about office workers who wanted to approach a co-worker with body odor, I wanted to let people know something that has worked for me after I struggled with embarrassing B.O. for decades. I shower daily, wash with Lever soap, shave my underarms every day, and apply witch hazel to my armpits once they’re dry. I also rotate through four different deodorants (three of which are meant for men, even though I’m a woman). It took several years of doing this every day before I no longer had a problem. — Stuck With It Dear Stuck With It: Witch hazel, which can reduce the skin’s pH and make it difficult for bacteria to thrive, is a smart idea here, and it can be kept in a spray bottle for easy misting, no cotton balls or pads needed. ——— Dear Annie: To “My Own Mrs. Robinson,” who said his marriage was great and the problem was his mother-in-law, with whom he was sleeping: Your mother-in-law isn’t the problem. It’s your shameful lack of honor and morals. The humiliation your young wife is about to experience will likely last a lifetime and this is exactly what you wanted since sex was more important to you than the devastating harm you were willing to inflict. To the young wife: 1. This is not your fault. 2. Immediately contact a divorce attorney. 3. If OKed by the attorney, change the locks on the house and put his belongings on the front sidewalk. 4. Immediately divorce this pathetic excuse of a man and never look back. 5. Say no more than five words to your disgraceful mother: “Do not ever contact me again.” How I wish I could put my arms around this young wife and comfort her. — K.S. Dear K.S.: A lot of people wrote in about that letter, with a few suggesting that “MOMR” must have been pulling my leg because it was so outrageous. I really hope so. Otherwise, that poor wife is about to be handed a lifetime’s worth of baggage.
Dear Annie: I have been married for 20 years. When my wife and I first married, I was the sole breadwinner. I had a very good job and made a pretty comfortable living. My wife stayed home and raised our children. In 2008, technological advances rendered my line of work obsolete. I had to start over, reinventing myself in another industry. We struggled financially for years; it was difficult and put a strain on our marriage. Today, I have a full-time gig and make decent money, as well as a side business that does OK. My wife has a full-time job and side gig as well, and she makes nearly double what I make. My problem is this. All the years when I was the sole breadwinner, my salary was “our money.” Now that she makes the lion’s share, her salary is “her money.” She expects me to pay my expenses with my own salary. For instance, I recently had an expensive car repair done. She spotted me the cash, but she wants me to pay her back. Never mind the fact that for a long time my car was our only car, and she put half the miles and wear and tear on it herself. I just feel like I was taken advantage of — like she has forgotten the sacrifices I made all those years ago. It really makes me resentful. I’ve mentioned this to her before, and she got better about it for a bit, but now her attitude has reverted back to how it was before I’d mentioned something. Annie, I am not freeloading. I pay my share. Just sometimes, when a major unexpected expense comes, I need a little help. I don’t feel, after all I’ve done and all we’ve been through together, that I should have to feel uncomfortable asking for money. What should I do? — Husband to a Forgetful Wife Dear HTAFW: Attitude adjustments require periodic tune-ups. Gently remind her of your previous conversation and let her know you’ve noticed the issue cropping up again. She was receptive to your feedback last time; she probably will be this time, too. That is one of the most valuable assets a couple can share: a willingness to hear each other out and try to change accordingly. And to head off the responses I’ll get from people who think a married couple should always pool all their funds together: Yes, it HELP WANTED can be difficult to Part-time, seasonal Head merge lives without Coach for recreational swim merging finances, but team. Requires ability to write workouts, lead practice and Your Puzzle Solutions (upside down) meets, supervise assistant coaches, communicate with Sudoku 1 t Sudoku 2 t families, work flexible hours. Minimum 3 years of coaching experience preferred. Use of online software products and seeding meets. Must comply with NCSL rules and regulations. Hourly pay, based upon experience. Positive attitude required.
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1. Fictitious Business Name(s) AUTOBAHN DAVIS 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 5034 CHILES RD. DAVIS, CA 95618 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip GENE KARAVAN 5034 CHILES RD. DAVIS, CA 95618 4. Business Classification: Individual FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME 5. Beginning Date of Business: The STATEMENT Registrant(s) commenced to transact Filed: 08/03/2021 business under the fictitious business FBN Number: F20210665 name or names listed above on: 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) 07/22/2021 KBC CREATIVE “I declare that all information in 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of this statement is true and correct.” Principal Place of Business in California. (A registrant who declares as true Business is located in Yolo County. information which he or she knows to be 2222 SYCAMORE LANE APT #31 false is guilty of a crime.) DAVIS, CA 95616 6. Signature of Registrant(s): 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), GENE KARAVAN, OWNER Residence Address, State, and Zip 8/4, 8/11, 8/18, 8/25 1425 KARA BLAKE CHIN ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE FOR 2222 SYCAMORE LANE APT #31 CHANGE OF NAME DAVIS, CA 95616 Case Number: CV2021-1340 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The 1. Olivia D’Souza filed a petition with this Registrant(s) commenced to transact court for a decree changing names as business under the fictitious business follows: Elijah Rietzke D’Souza name or names listed above on: to 07/10/2021 Elijah Mukuna D’Souza “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” 2. THE COURT ORDERS that all persons (A registrant who declares as true interested in this matter shall appear information which he or she knows to be before this court at the hearing indicated below to show cause, if any, why the false is guilty of a crime.) petition should not be granted. 6. Signature of Registrant(s): NOTICE OF HEARING KARA CHIN 8/4, 8/11, 8/18, 8/25 1423 Date: 9/16/2021 Time: 9:00 AM Dept: #10 Room: ZOOM FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME The address of the court is STATEMENT 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695 3. a) A copy of this Order to Show Cause Filed: 07/23/2021 shall be published at least once a week FBN Number: F20210643
for four successive weeks prior to the date set for hearing on the petition in the following newspaper of general circulation, printed in this county: The Davis Enterprise 315 G Street, Davis, CA 95616 Date: July 30, 2021 Samuel T. McAdam Judge of the Superior Court 8/4, 8/11, 8/18, 8/25 1426 NOTICE OF PETITION TO ADMINISTER ESTATE OF Vallabhaneni M Meenakshi (aka) Villabhani K. Meenakshidean CASE NO. PR2021-0166 To all heirs, beneficiaries, creditors, contingent creditors, and persons who may otherwise be interested in the will or estate, or both, of: Vallabhaneni M Meenakshi (aka) Villabhani K. Meenakshidean A PETITION FOR PROBATE has been filed by: Estate of Vallabhaneni M Meenakshi (aka) Villabhani K. Meenakshidean in the Superior Court of California, County of: Yolo THE PETITION FOR PROBATE requests that: Gouthum Karadi be appointed as personal representative to administer the estate of the decedent. THE PETITION requests the decedent’s will and codicils, if any, be admitted to probate. The will and any codicils are available for examination in the file kept by the court. THE PETITION requests authority to administer the estate under the Independent Administration of Estates Act. (This authority will allow the personal representative to take many actions without obtaining court approval. Before taking certain very important actions, however, the personal representative will be required to give notice to interested persons unless they have waived notice or consented to the proposed action.) The independent administration
authority will be granted unless an interested person files an objection to the petition and shows good cause why the court should not grant the authority. A HEARING on the petition will be held on 9/2/2021 at 9:00 a.m. in Department 10 located at 1000 Main Street, Woodland, CA 95695. IF YOU OBJECT to the granting of the petition, you should appear at the hearing and state your objections or file written objections with the court before the hearing. Your appearance may be in person or by your attorney. IF YOU ARE A CREDITOR or a contingent creditor of the decedent, you must file your claim with the court and mail a copy to the personal representative appointed by the court within the later of either (1) four months from the date of first issuance of letters to a general personal representative, as defined in section 58(b) of the California Probate Code, or (2) 60 days from the date of mailing or personal delivery to you of a notice under section 9052 of the California Probate Code. Other California statutes and legal authority may affect your rights as a creditor. You may want to consult with an attorney knowledgeable in California law. YOU MAY EXAMINE the file kept by the court. If you are a person interested in the estate, you may file with the court a Request for Special Notice (form DE-154) of the filing of an inventory and appraisal of estate assets or of any petition or account as provided in Probate Code section 1250. A Request for Special Notice form is available from the court clerk. Signed: William Kopper Attorney for petitioner 417 E Street Davis, CA 95616 (530)758-0757 1431 8/8, 8/11, 8/15