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Hoping for passionate love Dear Annie: After being in an ice-cold marriage for many years, I have finally divorced. I am in my late 60s, active, fit and interested in dating and meeting “the right guy.” I have lots of friends and many are single women. I have heard so many stories, some hilarious and some disastrous, of people in my age group dating. One thing that has piqued my curiosity is that many stories include disappointment in the intimacy department. It appears that women my age are more interested and capable than men are in this area of the relationship. Is it true? I am still hopeful that I can find a well-rounded, monogamous, fulfilling relationship — even at this age. Say it isn’t true! — Looking for Love Dear Looking: The bad news is that men tend to experience lower libido as they get older, and erectile dysfunction is also common. This can be due to hormonal changes, medications (including ACE inhibitors), mood disorders or, in the case of erectile dysfunction, cardiovascular trouble. The good news is that it’s not inevitable. And men who lead a fit, healthy lifestyle are less likely to have these issues. Get out there and start meeting people, and you may be pleasantly surprised. ——— Dear Annie: I’ve known my friend since sixth grade. We talk on the phone a few times a week, and she says that I am her best friend. She and her husband moved to Florida a little over four years ago. Every time she’s come back to visit — four times so far — she’s not made time to see me. I live 90 minutes away from where she stays and always invite her to come to see me. I even offer to meet halfway to have dinner or lunch, but she says she can’t because she has family to see. When I traveled down to Florida once, this friend kept telling me that I had to come see her. My time was also limited because I also had family to visit, but I extended my vacation two days to see her. I feel like she puts no effort when it comes to seeing me. I feel like a phone buddy. Do you have advice? — Backburner Friend Dear Backburner: This is a dilemma all transplants face when returning home for visits: how to divvy their time between friends and family without leaving anyone feeling shortchanged. Reiterate to her how much it would mean for her to pay you a visit. If she feels too pressured to spend all her time in that region with family, then plan a girls’ trip where the two of you meet in another town for a weekend. Make it a yearly or twice-yearly tradition. And savor the fact that you have such a close friendship. ——— Dear Annie: In the current April 2021 edition of the AARP Bulletin is an in-depth article “Inside an International TechSupport Scam.” If you can acquire
a copy, the information in this article could give you a tremendous amount of ammunition with which to assist those such as “Love Two Men.” I doubt if AARP would object to your sharing such information. Your inclusion of warnings from the FBI triggered my idea to share with you the above-mentioned resource. — Jim Banks Dear Jim: Thank you for the tip about this compelling investigative report from AARP. I encourage everyone to find it online at the following URL: https://www. aarp.org/ money/scamsfraud/info2021/ internationaltech-supportscam-exposed. html. It’s worth your time. And sign up for AARP’s free Watchdog Alerts or call their tollfree fraud helpline at 877-9083360 if you or a loved one suspect you’ve been a victim.
Memes lost on mom Dear Annie: I have an adult son who is married and lives on the East Coast. I follow them on social media to keep up with their lives, as we are in the Midwest. My daughter-in-law often posts disrespectful posts towards my son — memes with rolling eyes, jokes about animals that look like him to her, etc. She is very different from us in terms of her political views and other things. It infuriates and saddens me when she posts these disrespectful posts about my son that I think she believes are funny. I have never addressed it with either of them, but I do want to say something about the disrespect to my son. How should I approach this? I never see any balanced appreciation or complimentary posts from her to him either. — Worried Mom Dear Worried: What looks like disrespect to you may be affectionate playfulness to her and your son. Internet humor is often irreverent without malice. Consider whether her having different political views might predispose you to take these posts as offensive, and try to let it go. If your son hasn’t expressed that he’s bothered by it, then there’s no reason to let it bother you. ——— Dear Annie: I am 50 years old with two college degrees and three certifications. I am facing what I believe is a dilemma among women like me who are single. The friends I knew who are coupled up have treated me like the “background friend” where I’m not included in their activities due to not being a part of a couple. But instead of feeling sorry for myself, I moved on from them. My question is this: I do occasionally enjoy being social, even though I am an introvert. The
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trouble is that most activities for adults are not single-friendly. I know we are still working our way out of a major pandemic, but are there some places where I can meet other single adults my age? Keep in mind that I have been fully vaccinated as I am asking this. In the meantime, how can I combat the loneliness I sometimes feel? Are there any virtual Meetup events? That’s what I’m willing to stick with until it’s safe to socialize. — Desiring to Move On Dear Desiring: Meetup. com is a great place to discover new hobbies and friends, and you can indeed still find groups on there who are meeting on Zoom. (Book clubs work well in that format). And, in the longer term, there are plenty of other ways to connect with people in your community. Get involved: Donate your time to a nonprofit (check volunteer match.org), campaigning for a cause or nourishing your creative spirit with a local arts group or anything else that lights a spark in your heart. There’s nothing like the solidarity of working with others toward a project you believe in. ——— Dear Annie: This is in response to “Dealing with the Fallout,” whose husband was disgusted with her family for their activities during the pandemic. Murphy’s Law of Righteousness remains in full force: “The world is divided between the righteous and the unrighteous and the righteous draw the line.” (With the caveat that righteousness and being right do sometimes — though rarely — cooccur.) I thoroughly enjoy your column. Keep on truckin’. — Jack Dear Jack: I have to confess I’d never heard that saying before, but I’ll certainly be using it in the future. Thanks for the wisdom and the laugh.
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Dear Annie: My father-in-law died unexpectedly a few years ago. Since then my brother-inlaw’s family has put my meek mother-in-law in an uncomfortable predicament. These nieces and nephews who all live out of town seem to think it’s OK to bring their dogs every time they visit. Some have more than one. When they are all there at once, it’s really a dog zoo. For the past year, my husband and I have had the excuse of COVID-19 to avoid these gatherings. Frankly, we can’t stand all the dogs. More importantly than our feelings, though, my mother-in-law does not want them bringing their dogs. She is too sweet to say anything, for fear they won’t visit. My nieces and nephews are grown adults at this point; they all make very good money and could Contact Jessicca Sommerfeldt at afford to ken-
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nel these pets. Should we tell made it through. Printing your them how much this upsets her? letter to offer “Crying” and others She is constantly having to steam some much-needed hope. clean her rugs because of this and Being the bigger person other unnecessary chores. — Do We Tell in Wisconsin Dear Annie: I have been marDear Do We Tell: You can try ried to my husband for three speaking up for your mother-in- years. We own a home together law — but if she’s that squeamish and live a nice life. He had been about confrontation, she’ll prob- single for about eight years before ably insist that the dogs are fine meeting me. He had two other with her. Then you’ll have awk- serious relationships with women wardly inserted yourself into the who his children didn’t like. His situation for no reason. Encour- youngest, 16, lived with us for two age her instead to stand up for years and made life hard. He herself. It sounds like she’s afraid didn’t follow rules, and he clearly of being lonely, so remind her didn’t like me. how much you and your spouse As a result, his married adult love and support her. And pay her daughter has been very disresome visits when your nieces, spectful to me in our home. It got nephews and the rest of the pack so bad that I told my husband she aren’t around. isn’t welcome if she can’t be ——— respectful. It’s been over a year Dear Annie: All of us have been now since she has come over. In dealing with the pandemic in difthat time, the youngest turned 18 ferent ways. What I find mindand moved in with her. We live boggling is the judgment, hysteria separate family lives. I’m not weland smugness so many have discome or invited to holidays or played. Do your thing, and accept birthdays. that others will do it theirs differI come from a divorced family, ently. As I told one hypercritical and regardless of my feelings friend, “If you don’t want to conabout my parents’ spouses, I am tract the virus, stay home!” respectful of my parents’ relationRespect, common sense and ships and homes. My husband consideration go a long long way. And oh, by the way, leave double doesn’t care. He says we are in a relationship with each other, not standards out of it as well. — Tired of the Nonsense the kids. But to me, I can’t imagDear Tired: I hear you loud ine his leaving me on Christmas and clear. Lately, I’ve been trying every year or sneaking — fastmy best not to judge others for forward — to his grandchildren’s anything — not even for being birthday parties. Would it make more sense to judgmental. It’s a challenge that move on because I would never I’ve mostly failed. But I’m going be happy with this, or is it worth to keep trying. I hope, over the next few sticking out in hopes the girls will months, we can leave some of change? — His Children Hate Me these hard feelings behind along Dear His Children Hate Me: If with the pandemic. you just wait for his children to ——— Dear Annie: I’d like to address change, and you don’t change this to “Crying Myself to Sleep” yourself or do some introspection and other women who are in love as to why they treat you the way with men who they suspect don’t they do, then things will not love them back: I encourage you change. Saying that your 16-yearto think about a man’s actions old stepson was disrespectful and versus his words. It is deeply didn’t follow rules is not really painful when you love a charming understanding adolescents. Of course, respect is always the man with your whole heart then come to realize that he’s deceived goal of parenting a teenager, but you again and again. You think cutting them a little slack when maybe, if you just wait and show they are trying to find their way him even more love, he will come from childhood to adulthood is around — and that’s exactly what also very important. Instead of he wants you to keep doing. Love interpreting his refusal to follow yourself enough to drop a man rules as a direct attack on you, who has caused you to cry so consider that he’s trying to figure often. Please know from a woman himself out. Remember, you are who has gone through this, it is the adult. The more understandfreeing. Once I started looking for ing and empathy you can bring, an honest man, I, eventually, the more receptive they will be to found one. We’re not perfect reconciliation. Try to put yourself together, but it’s 100 times better in his and your stepdaughters’ than the bread crumbs I had from shoes. Someone has to extend the my deceiver. I wish you the self- olive branch. Be the bigger person love to drop your deceiver, and for the sake of your marriage and the joy that you can experience — fast-forward — for the woneither on your own or with an derful family and grandkids you will celebrate holidays with honest man. — Love Yourself, Too together. Dear Love: It’s Your Puzzle Solutions (upside down) always helpful Sudoku 1 t Sudoku 2 t for people in the thick of heartache to hear from others who have
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