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Bridgette West, Editor-inChief of MARvelous Living Magazine shares her thoughts about this issue and more.

The list of the Editors who produced this newest edition!

Editor’s Letter

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Meet the Editors Meet the Editor’s who produced the magazine.

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Oh Snap - Chapter Events

Diving in to Pink and Blue Greatness

Chapter Events from the 2023 - 2024 Program Year

37 The Essential Pieces Behind every successful event in the Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. is the Regional Logistics Team.

ON THE COVER Two of our MARveous Mid-Atlantic Region Moms enjoying their time on the set of our cover issue shoot.

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Get the scoop on the 2025 Children’s Cluster event in Concord, NC.

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A Joyous Place

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Our Favorite Things

Meet Charis Jones, one such woman who is unapologetically proud.

Discover our Editor’s Favorite Things this season— celebrating style, creativity, and the joy of living.

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Food Then & Now Chef Natalie Fuller, show us the best way to prepare a time-saving Holiday meal.

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Style & Substance Read the first letter from MARvelous Living’s Regional Editor - in - Chief

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WELLNESS & EMPOWERMENT 53 Meaningful Connections

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Editor Ebony Carolina Franklin shares cherished holiday traditions from four moms, celebrating togetherness, family, and joy.

Celebrate where you are with these books, perfect for finding joy even on tough days.

Our Holiday Traditions

Holiday celebrations are full of warmth, but navigating loneliness and grief requires thoughtful preparation.

Work, Play, Live

Editor’s Picks: Books That Heal

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Winter 2025 Celebration is as essential as breathing. Yes, I know it sounds dramatic, and I can be dramatic sometimes, but it’s true. People want to feel like who they are matters and that what they do makes a difference—even in the smallest of ways.

But, as mothers, how often do we truly celebrate ourselves? Think about it. We cheer for our husbands, our friends, and, of course, our kids. If you're anything like me, you're rooting for your children like a madwoman at every game, every recital, and every event where they’re shining.

I’m usually the loudest one in the crowd, proudly yelling out, “That’s MY kid!”

But how much of that celebration, that energy, is poured into your own life?

Sis, it’s time to root for YOU. Seriously. The world will keep turning if you take a moment—or a couple of days—to celebrate your wins, big and small.

In this issue, the editors and I hope that while you’re busy uplifting everyone around you, you also remember to uplift yourself. You are the glue that holds it all together. And if the glue isn’t given the attention it deserves, well, the whole thing falls apart.

Also, it's important to celebrate ourselves when we feel down. So, I’ve gathered a list of books to read for inspiration on page 58 for when you are at your highest, lowest, or somewhere in between.

And speaking of celebration, I’m thrilled to highlight some wonderful stories in this issue. Be sure to check out our feature on Charis Jones and how she found her purpose in business (page 39), or read about the meaningful ways our Mid-Atlantic families celebrate the season (page 55).

Plus, we’ve included some practical tips for meaningful connections throughout the year (page 53)—because we could all use more ways to celebrate life’s little moments.

You are incredible. This issue is our celebration of YOU. Take a moment, breathe it in, and know that you are seen, valued, and truly appreciated

Cheers,

Bridgette West Bridgette West Regional Editor (in - Chief)

Follow Me @itsBrieW Everywhere! Or email me: Bridgette.West.SCJJ@Gmail.com

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MASTHEAD THE CELEBRATION ISSUE | WINTER 2024

EDITORIAL TEAM Bridgette West

REGIONAL EDITOR - IN - CHIEF & Travel Editor

Dr. Dwella Moton Nelson MANAGING EDITOR AND NEWS & CULTURE EDITOR

Rachell Green

HOME & FAMILY EDITOR

Elyce Middlebrooks NEWS & CULTURE EDITOR

Ebony Carolina-Franklin WELLNESS & EMPOWERMENT

Tamara McGill McFarland FASHION EDITOR

Nakia Newman

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHER MARvelous Living Magazine is a lifestyle publication dedicated to enriching the lives of mothers within the Marvelous Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. Our mission is to be an empowering source of inspiration, knowledge, and camaraderie, fostering an unwavering sense of belonging while celebrating the journey of motherhood.

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Meet Rachell Green, the Home Editor of the MARvelous Living Magazine. Rachell brings her writing skills and emerging knowledge of home- and family-centered content to the magazine. Rachell is the Chapter Editor for the Jazzy James River Chapter of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. She lends her wealth of experience in athletics and education to the magazine with a 'splash' of her quirky sense of humor. Rachell earned her B.A. in English and her Master's Degree in Educational Leadership from The University of South Carolina. Rachell has embraced the opportunity to be a dedicated stayat-home wife to Cedric and mother to Madeline (11), Cedric, Jr. (8), and Jonah (5). She serves as a volunteer on the PTA at Kaechele Elementary. She is the Chair of the Henrico County School Division’s Equity and Diversity Advisory Committee. Rachell loves to read and watch movies when she gets a moment to devote to herself.

Meet Ebony Carolina-Franklin, the Wellness and Empowerment Editor of the MARvelous Living Magazine. Ebony is a lifelong lover of literature, wellness, and natural living. She has been a member of the Charming Charleston Chapter for eight years. Ebony is passionately dedicated to the mission of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. Bringing a curious nature, creativity, and an adventurous spirit to the magazine, she is excited about creating connections via our family’s stories throughout the Mid-Atlantic Region. Ebony holds a B.A. in Government from Wofford College, operates a homeschool co-op for Black families, and is a partner in her family’s handmade soap business, Fireflies Still Glow. Ebony and her husband, Otis, have spent 24 years navigating life together and raising their three spirited children: Otis (18) Olivia (15) and Miles (12). Whether camping in July in Florida, mountain hiking, or organizing a social gathering– Ebony brings her naturally inquisitive nature and enthusiasm for new experiences to MARvelousLiving.

Meet Dwella Moton Nelson (PhD), the Managing Editor and News & Culture Editor of the MARvelous Living Magazine. Dwella brings her undeniable warmth, creative spirit, writing expertise and laserfocused multi-tasking skills to support the MARvelous Living Visionaries as we build this incredible publication. Dwella is a Founding Member of the Graceful Greater Chapel Hill Chapter of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. If you have met Dwella, then you know that she adores all things “beauty”… both physical and spiritual beauty. After all, she owns a Natural Beauty Care Brand, Dr. TopicOils.

Dwella carries a light that she loves to share with others including her husband of 23 years, Robert J. Nelson, IV and her sweet daughters, Gabriella (Age 14) and McKayla (Age 11). As an Assistant Professor at the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, Dwella learned the delicate dance of teamwork and “taking up space” while holding strong to her faith. Dwella is a serial-entrepreneur who shares her knowledge and expertise on speaker platforms and in workshops that focus on using real estate as a Wealth Building Strategy. Favorites: Travel, Broadway, Music Concerts and Comedy Shows.

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Meet Tamara McGill McFarland, the Fashion Editor of Marvelous Living Magazine. With nearly two decades of experience as a model, Tamara brings a unique perspective to the fashion industry.

Having attended NC A&T State University and earned her marketing degree from UNCC, alongside being a proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., she effortlessly fuses her academic prowess with her innate creativity. Tamara is not just a fashionista; she's a thriving entrepreneur, podcast host, and acclaimed stylist. Her passion for fashion and innate sense of style have propelled her to success, including co-building a prosperous family business from the ground up. But Tamara's life extends far beyond the professional realm. She finds joy in family gatherings, meeting up with her Sensational South Charlotte Chapter Sister Moms, exploring the globe, and indulging in all things fabulous. Tune in to her podcast, "The Tamara's Taste," available on YouTube and Apple Podcasts, for a dose of style tips, laughter, and empowerment. For fashion inspiration, join her Instagram community @TheTamarasTaste.

Contributing photographer, Mom Nakia Newman is a native of Chicago. She has been a member of the Sensational South Charlotte of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. since 2012. Nakia and her husband, Michael, reside in Weddington, NC with their two boys, Jalen, a rising Senior at Princeton University, and Jackson, an 8th grader at Weddington Middle School. She has been blessed to shoot beautiful photographs of celebrities and famous public figures including Jada Pinkett Smith, Gabrielle Union, and Gayle King. While photography is her passion, she has enjoyed a successful 20 year career in Marketing in Financial Services and Banking. Nakia has spent the last six years in Marketing at Wells Fargo. She is a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. and The Girl Friends, Inc. Most weekends she can be found on a field watching one of her boys playing football or lacrosse. Family and photography bring her joy and fulfillment.

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Black Children Book Week AIKEN COUNTY CHAPTER Black Children’s Book Week is a national observance designed to introduce children to African American authors. The Aiken County Chapter hosted a special event on Saturday, February 24, 2024, at the Center for African American History, Art, and Culture Museum. The event aimed to inspire local youth by introducing them to Black authors, including former S.C. Rep. Bakari Sellers.

In addition to Sellers, attendees had the chance to meet various local authors. The goal was for Black children to see Black characters, Black authors, and Black illustrators, reflecting themselves in the books they read. Sellers shared his book and discussed important Black history facts, like the Orangeburg Massacre. The readings were ageappropriate, with children from kindergarten through 12th grade engaging with the authors’ works.

The event featured a Q&A session where children could ask the authors about their books and writing journeys. To further enhance the experience, our teen group worked with the younger children to act out the stories they had just heard.

Our Programming Team chose this event to expose children to African American authors and foster an interest in reading. By connecting youth with these important voices, we hope to inspire a love of literature and a deeper understanding of Black history.

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Empowering Our Voice: Activate the Vote!

Burlington-Graham Chapter Chapter learned more about their civic responsibilities and why legislative advocacy is essential! This unique activity was held at the African-American Cultural Arts and History Center in Burlington, NC, to emphasize our rich cultural history and our importance in the political process. The activity allowed each Jack and Jill the opportunity to elevate and amplify their voices in the legislative process.

The goals of the activity were to teach the children how the legislative process plays a significant part in their lives, identify key legislative positions that serve and represent them, research legislative issues that directly impact people of color, and communicate personal interests and concerns about current and future legislation that impacts people of color.

The guest speaker for the event was AlamanceBurlington School Board of Education (BOE) member Seneca Rogers, the first Black male to be elected to this role. Prior to the activity, our Guys and Dolls grade group engaged in the legislative process by voting on the top three issues impacting them and their communities. The results revealed the following issues: Bullying Prevention, Preparing Kids for Life After School (not just university paths, but also trades), and Physical Safety in Schools.

Mr. Rogers engaged with our Jacks and Jills to discuss these issues in ways they could understand, and he answered their questions. For the program finale, the children enjoyed creating a Public Service Announcement where they all read parts of a children’s book about the importance of voting. It was featured on social media.

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Journey Home to Ghana, West Africa CAPITAL CITY The Capital City Chapter and Friends' “Journey Home to Ghana, West Africa” was a transformative nine-day cultural journey of historical awareness and personal reflection. The teens retraced the harrowing paths of our ancestors, visiting significant historical sites such as the baths where enslaved individuals were forced to bathe before enduring a grueling 300-mile march. They also visited the Slave Castles where many were imprisoned before being transported to the New World. The group also paid homage to the legacy of W.E.B. Du Bois by visiting his home and gravesite.

A highlight of the trip was the inauguration of the “Capital City Chapter of Jack and Jill of America Inc. & Friends” mechanical borehole in Adukrom, located in the Akuapem area of the Eastern Region of Ghana. This borehole will provide much-needed access to clean water, eliminating the need for the community to walk miles to obtain water from a stream that was also being used by animals. The Capital City Chapter teens were honored to commission this project. They received contributions from LTA Yalena Lopez Lewis from the Montgomery, MD Chapter and Nicole Williams from Katy Prairie View Chapter. We were blessed to receive contributions of support from several Capital City Chapter families. Donations were also made to a local clinic in Ghana. This journey deepened the connection to our heritage and demonstrated the profound impact of service and community support.

Our Teen Treasurer Bella Jones and Teen Chaplain Carrie Desir spoke to local media about the significance of the borehole and the profound impact of this service project.

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Serving the Lowcountry CHARLESTON CHAPTER The Charming Charleston Chapter participated in several community service activities this fall.

Two of the most impactful experiences were adopting an election poll site and participating in a rural community food drive.

During the November 2024 election, we proudly adopted a polling location. Mothers, fathers, and teens worked together to ensure a safe and fair voting experience for the citizens we served. In preparation for this project, chapter families participated in training and became certified through the local election commission. In a wonderful gesture of community spirit, all volunteers generously donated their earnings to the Charleston Chapter's fundraising efforts and the Jack and Jill of America, Inc. Foundation.

We continued our longstanding tradition of supporting local food insecurity initiatives. The Charleston Chapter partnered with the Community Action Agency Feed Berkeley. All of our families across grade groups came together to stock shelves and pack grocery boxes for those in need.

Through these activities, we teach the next generation empathy while fostering a culture of generosity and kindness. We hope that these core values will last a lifetime. The Charleston Chapter remains committed to making a positive impact in the lives of others as we come together to serve.

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Sr Teen HBCU Exposure Festival CHARLOTTE CHAPTER The multifaceted Sr. Teen November Activity focused on the Social National Thrust. However, this out-of-state, overnight event also incorporated cultural, educational, civic, and recreational aspects. In preparation for the event, the teens reviewed an elevator pitch overview and worksheet that explained the importance of having a 30-60 second powerful selling statement about your brand and being able to clearly and concisely articulate your compelling pitch to someone you want to network with.

The teens hit the ground running when they arrived at the Alfred Street Baptist Church HBCU Festival in Springfield, VA. They used their pitches when speaking with college/university representatives and other students. They were exposed to admissions officers, current students, the battle of the bands, and the Divine Nine. One of our teens scheduled an interview and was able to earn acceptances to three schools and on-thespot scholarships. It was amazing to have over 50 colleges and universities all under one roof.

The next morning, the teens were heading to North Carolina A&T University for a tour by 2023 Charlotte Chapter graduate, Haylee Bell. Miss Bell conducted a detailed tour of the campus and invited a special guest, Franklin McCain Jr., son of Franklin McCain Sr., American civil rights activist and member of the 'Greensboro Four,' to speak with the teens via Zoom in front of the dorm named for his father. Mr. McCain discussed the critical importance of getting an education, taking advantage of opportunities within Jack and Jill of America, Inc., and giving back to the community.

He shared some of the hardships he and his father had to endure so young people today could have access to better educational prospects.

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Family Day Rodeo GREENSBORO CHAPTER

At the gorgeous outdoor venue Summerfield Farms, the Greensboro Chapter of Jack & Jill came together to celebrate Family Day in a way that was as lively and spirited as it was heartwarming. The Jack & Jill Rodeo blended family fun with a western theme. The chapter’s Family Activities Committee brought to life an afternoon full of food, entertainment, and family bonding, all set against the picturesque backdrop of the farm.

Families arrived ready to embrace the spirit of the West, with many donning their best western rodeo attire in a playful mix of pink and blue. The atmosphere was lively, filled with the sounds of music and dancing that invited everyone to join in the celebration. The day was marked by a variety of activities for all ages, from food trucks serving up delicious fare to lawn games and arts and crafts that kept the children entertained and engaged.

The teens of Jack & Jill led the Carole Robertson memorial service and honored her memory while highlighting the goals of human rights, civil rights, and racial harmony.

The Family Day setting was a perfect reflection of the spirit of the Greensboro Chapter—joyful, inclusive, and vibrant.

In every detail, the Greensboro Chapter’s Family Day rodeo was a true testament to the enduring strength and unity of Jack & Jill, where fun and purpose converged to create lasting memories for our Jack & Jill families.

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Jr. Teens Set Sail with Youth Sailing Virginia HAMPTON CHAPTER Our Hampton Chapter Jr. Teens set sail on an exciting adventure with Youth Sailing Virginia (YSV), one of 43 accredited US Sailing Community Sailing Centers. YSV’s program immersed the teens in the fundamentals of boating, water safety, teamwork, and African American maritime history.

The day began with an icebreaker activity where teens connected by learning new things about each other. This set the stage for teamwork and discovery. The teens learned boating safety techniques and mastered knot-tying. Equipped with safety gear, they headed to the dock, where instructors guided them in preparing the boats and rigging the sails.

The instructors integrated STEAM concepts into the experience. The teens explored the physics of wind and motion, the engineering of boat design, and the math of navigation. As they rotated roles, they sharpened their communication and problemsolving skills on the water.

The highlight of the day was a history session led

by Alan Bomar, President of YSV. He shared inspiring stories of Black sailors, such as Caesar Tarrant, connecting the teens to a rich legacy of African American contributions.

The event was a perfect blend of education, recreation, leadership, and teamwork. The Jr. Teens left with valuable skills, a deeper appreciation for maritime history, and unforgettable memories on the water.

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Jack and Jill Day & Carole Robertson Day (Polo) JAMES RIVER CHAPTER On a gorgeous Sunday in September, the Jazzy James River, VA Chapter gathered to experience the elegance of a Roseland Polo Match at King Family Vineyard in Crozet, VA, to celebrate Jack and Jill Day and honor the legacy of Carole Robertson.

We were surrounded by the stunning backdrop of rolling mountains and cotton-like cumulus clouds floating in a vivid blue sky. The day was a celebration of not only the sport but also the African-American family and the shared love of unique experiences that bind us together. The manicured polo field stretched out before us, vibrant and inviting, and we adorned it with shades of pinks and blues as we soaked up the atmosphere. The scene was a fusion of refinement and leisure, where we enjoyed the beauty of the moment, savoring the sounds of the game and the scents of our catered meals and the refreshing natural surroundings.

Several families shared that this was their first time attending a polo match. They marveled at the sport’s blend of athleticism and grace. Laughter and lively conversations flowed as we fellowshipped, our faces glowing in the warm sun, a far cry from the high-paced world of daily life and responsibilities. The stunning mountains provided a majestic, serene experience that reminded everyone of the vastness and tranquility of the surrounding landscape.

Attending the polo match provided a moment of connection with one another as we honored our legacy.

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The Portsmouth Chapter proudly celebrated our annual Jack and Jill Day and Carole Robertson Day at Portsmouth City Park, marking the beginning of our program year with an afternoon of family fun and community spirit.

Our Family Fun Fest began with a warm welcome from Chapter President Rasheeda, followed by insightful remarks from Portsmouth City officials, emphasizing the importance of voting. Before diving into the festivities, we paused for a heartfelt moment dedicated to our Teen Achievers, who conducted a moving commemoration ceremony in honor of Carole Robertson. The teens showcased a beautifully crafted memorial banner, shared a touching poem in her memory, and gave us insight into her personality and character. The memorial concluded with a captivating musical tribute from two of our Jacks, through song and saxophone. Their performances were a touching homage, reminding us of the enduring impact of Carole Robertson’s legacy.

Families gathered to enjoy delicious food served by our dedicated Fathers' Auxiliary. We participated in outdoor games and grooved throughout the evening. As an added highlight, the Portsmouth Chapter successfully hosted a voter registration drive, providing a convenient space for community members to verify their voting locations. Two of our Teen Achievers registered to vote! We collected 977 school supplies, valued at $2,366.01, to donate to a local school as our Community Service Project.

It was a day of celebration, remembrance, and civic engagement that truly embodied the spirit of our chapter.

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Blessing Bags QUEEN CITY CHAPTER On September 7, 2024, the Quintessential Queen City Chapter had the opportunity to serve with Stolen Lunches. Stolen Lunches, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit located in Charlotte, NC, was founded by eight women who, through their own trials, set out to motivate, inspire hope, and uplift their community.

Blessing Bags are provided to anyone in need.

Donations from the community and organizations allow sponsors to provide this valuable resource to neighbors in need. These Blessing Bags are filled with essential items, such as non-perishable food and hygiene products, all given with love.

Queen City members contributed donations and also helped sort and fill the Blessing Bags. It was an all-hands-on-deck family event, with members of all ages coming together to lend a hand. The event was hosted by Fly Ty and Jacinda, community advocates and radio hosts for WBAV, V101.9.

The event featured bounce houses, food trucks, entertainment, and vendors for everyone to enjoy.

Stolen Lunches aimed to highlight the joy and importance of giving back. Over 1,000 bags were packed and distributed to volunteers, who were ready to share blessings with those in need.

Stolen Lunches serves a minimum of 150 people each month, including those living on the streets of Charlotte, NC. Queen City members were honored to contribute to such a noble cause, making a meaningful impact on our community.

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Carole Robertson Day Honoring Through Arts Raleigh-Wake Chapter hosted Carole Robertson Day on September 14, 2024, at the Cary Arts Center. The theme, “Honoring Our Ancestors Through the Arts,” focused on reflection, learning, and paying tribute to Carole’s memory. This event provided a meaningful historical, educational, and cultural experience, celebrating Carole’s life and the role of artistic expression in honoring our heritage and inspiring social change.

To honor Carole’s legacy, we organized theater presentations and arts-focused activities for each grade group. The event, attended by RaleighWake Chapter families, was also live-streamed to the broader community.

Teen President Dylan Davis delivered a heartfelt welcome and reflection, including a poem dedicated to Carole’s memory. This was followed by a screening of Seven Days with Carole and a series of performances. A “We Are One” room was created for collective reflection and unity.

The performances included Empower Dance Studio’s expressive movement, a Youth Gospel Ensemble led by Sanina Barber, and a spoken word presentation.

Arts workshops included canvas painting and portrait sessions, jewelry making, and wood crafting. Musical instruments were available for sound exploration, and a beat-making/hip-hop session offered participants a chance to experiment with rhythm and music creation.

Carole Robertson Day celebrated artistic expression, connected us to our heritage, and honored Carole’s enduring legacy.

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Carole Robertson Day 2024 WILMINGTON CHAPTER On Sunday, September 22, 2024, more than 15 families gathered at Pilgrim Rest Missionary Baptist Church for a ceremony honoring Carole Robertson and the other children lost in the tragic church bombing. The ceremony was a moving tribute, and we engaged our teens in several aspects of the event. Following the service, our Jacks and Jills participated in a community service project, packing snack packs for the homeless at Hope United Center. It was a meaningful time together, reflecting on Carole’s legacy and being grateful for the time we spent as a community.

After the church service, the children of Jack and Jill had the opportunity to learn about Carole Robertson in a hands-on, interactive way. An exhibit was set up featuring personal items belonging to Carole, including a clarinet, Girl Scout uniform, life-size poster, and science books.

These items sparked discussions and enhanced the learning experience with visual aids.

Following this, the teens of the Jack and Jill Chapter conducted the Carole Robertson ritual ceremony. This heartfelt ceremony allowed everyone to reflect on Carole’s impact and honor her memory. We left with full hearts, reminded of the importance of community, service, and preserving the memories of those we’ve lost.

Diving Into Pink & Blue Greatness: What to Expect at Children’s Cluster 2025 GET READY FOR A FUN-FILLED, EDUCATIONAL WEEKEND AT CHILDREN’S CLUSTER 2025, WHERE KIDS AND MOMS WILL THRIVE TOGETHER. WRITTEN BY BRIDGETTE WEST | PHOTOS COURTESY OF GREAT WOLF LODGE As we approach the 2025 Children’s Cluster in Concord, NC, the Florence, SC Chapter of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. is spearheading an ambitious effort to create an unforgettable experience for the children and mothers of the Mid-Atlantic Region.

Chairs ClaySandra Ray and Wallette Carmel Hudson are leading the charge for the 2025 Children’s Cluster, and their approach is deeply rooted in collaboration. "We all work together," said Chair ClaySandra. "We’re not just overseeing different parts of the event —we’re hands-on in every aspect, from creating the schedule to organizing the workshops and ensuring that each detail aligns with our theme."

The committee has worked diligently to create a cohesive experience for the children and mothers attending. "From the moment families arrive, we want them to feel the excitement and anticipation," said Chair Wallette. "We’ve planned everything—from the workshops to the entertainment—to ensure that it’s meaningful and fun for everyone involved."

What to Expect at the 2025 Children’s Cluster This year, the Children’s Cluster will take place at Great Wolf Lodge in Concord, NC, an indoor water park and resort. "The kids will love the water features and the arcade, and we’ll even have a special appearance from the Great Wolf," said Chair ClaySandra.

"But beyond the fun, we’ve designed workshops that will provide educational value and real-world skills."

Children will engage in various activities, including exploring artificial intelligence (AI), learning about finances, discovering their emotional intelligence, and participating in an art and storytelling workshop. "We want the children to leave with great memories and a sense of empowerment and new skills," said Chair Wallette. "Our theme this year is ‘Diving Into Pink and Blue Greatness,’ and every workshop will reflect that theme, ensuring the experience is cohesive and impactful."

“For the mothers, workshops will focus on simplifying their lives using AI, teaching them how to quickly put an outfit together, helping moms to snap a picture of the refrigerator items and come up with

the whole meal and menu,” said Chair ClaySandra. "This workshop will help our moms discover ways to streamline daily tasks and make their lives easier, so they can focus more on the things that matter."

Building a Safe Space for Children As the We Are One initiative remains top of mind for the Region, both chairs emphasize that creating a safe and inclusive environment for all children is a priority. "We want the children to feel comfortable and free to be themselves," said Chair Wallette.

For children with special needs, the event will offer accommodations such as quiet rooms and tactile devices to ensure everyone has a fulfilling experience.

"We’re excited to provide a space where every child feels welcomed and included," said Chair ClaySandra. "We’re committed to ensuring that the event is accessible to all children, regardless of their needs."

“Our theme this year is ‘Diving Into Pink and Blue Greatness,’ and every workshop will reflect that theme, ensuring the experience is cohesive and impactful.”

Wallette Carmel Hudson Chapter Protocol Chair, Chapter We Are One Committee Chair, Children's Cluster Chair Orangeburg Chapter

Children’s Cluster 2025: Key Details Date: March 8, 2025 Location: Great Wolf Lodge, Concord, NC Registration Opens: Mid-December 2024 Non-Profit Support: Dazz Orangeburg Expected Attendance: 225 children and their mothers

Giving Back: The Dazz Orangeburg Community Service Project The Children’s Cluster also aims to give back to the community, with a service project supporting Dazz Orangeburg, a local pregnancy center offering vital services to families facing unplanned pregnancies. "We will be collecting baby items such as diapers, clothes, and formula," said Chair Wallette. "It’s important to us that while we are hosting this event, we also take the time to give back to the community."

The partnership with Dazz Orangeburg highlights the event’s commitment to making a meaningful impact both locally and regionally. "It’s our way of ensuring that we’re making a tangible difference in the lives of families in need," said Chair ClaySandra.

A Tradition in the Making While this will be their first time chairing the event, both Chairs ClaySandra and Wallette have drawn inspiration from past Children’s Clusters. Chair ClaySandra reflected on her experience at last year’s event in Alexandria, saying, "It was more than I ever expected. The chapter did an incredible job of keeping everything aligned with the theme, and the children were able to walk away feeling like they had learned something meaningful."

For this year’s event, both chairs are determined to build on that foundation and ensure that every aspect of the Children’s Cluster remains cohesive and impactful. "We want this event to be something the children and mothers will remember long after they’ve returned home," said Chair Wallette. "It’s all about providing an enriching experience that they can take with them into their everyday lives."

Registration and Final Thoughts Registration for the 2025 Children’s Cluster will open in mid-December 2024. Families interested in attending should watch for an email from Regional Secretary Tamara Charity-Brown with more details on how to sign up. The event is expected to accommodate 225 children and their mothers, making it an excellent opportunity for families to connect, learn, and have fun together.

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Behind every successful event in the Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. is the Regional Logistics Team. Led by Chair Pia Anderson Duncan, this dedicated group of women ensures that each event runs smoothly, from planning to execution. In this feature, we go behind the scenes to learn how they turn vision into reality, ensuring every event leaves a lasting impact.

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n the intricate puzzle that comes together to create the Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Inc., one group stands out as a cornerstone: the Regional Logistics Team. These unsung heroes—led by the dynamic Regional Logistics Chair Pia Anderson Duncan and supported by three equally formidable team members, Diane Gilbert (Richmond Chapter), Renee Sandifer (Hampton Chapter) and Dianna Ravenell (Columbia Chapter) —play a vital role in orchestrating the region’s signature events, ensuring every piece of the puzzle fits seamlessly. From Children’s Cluster to Teen Conference and even the inaugural Regional Cruise, the RLC is the beating heart behind the region’s most impactful moments.

Meet the Team At the helm is RLC Pia Anderson Duncan, a proud member of the Capital City Chapter with 13 years of service to Jack and Jill. When she’s not wearing her RLC Chair hat, Pia is a clinical assistant professor of criminal justice and the distance education director at North Carolina Central University. She’s also an event planner and travel advisor, roles that make her uniquely suited to lead the logistics that keep the Region running smoothly.

“I’ve always had a passion for streamlining information and turning visions into reality,” RLC Pia shares. Her experience as co-chair of the 2022 Teen Leadership Conference in Raleigh, NC, hosted by Capital City, Fayetteville and Durham Chapters, sparked her interest in logistics.

“I love taking a project from its infancy to production—it’s incredibly rewarding.”

Diane, Renee, and Dianna, RLC Pia’s trusted team members, serve as essential pillars of support. Each plays a critical role, from managing specific event days at Teen Leadership Conference to liaising with host chapters. As RLC Pia emphasizes, “I’m only as strong as my team.

Collaboration is key in logistics.”

The Work They Do Planning a Regional event is no small feat, and the RLT thrives on its ability to adapt, communicate, and manage multiple moving pieces. RLC Pia describes her role as “taskmaster,” ensuring that host chapters, vendors, and the Regional Executive Board (REB) work in harmony. “Host chapters are pivotal. We manage the logistics, but they’re the boots on the ground. It’s a partnership,” she says.

From site visits and diagramming event spaces to coordinating with vendors, the RLT handles it all. Their current projects include the

upcoming Children’s Cluster in Concord, the 2025 Teen Leadership Conference in Richmond, and the first-ever Regional Cruise—a familyfriendly getaway that promises fellowship, relaxation, and unforgettable memories.

“This cruise is something special,” RLC Pia shares with excitement. “It’s a time for families to come together and celebrate, away from the busyness of everyday life. We’ve planned community service activities and fun surprises to make it truly memorable.”

Challenges and Rewards Planning large-scale events comes with its share of challenges. The RLC must juggle uncertainties, such as fluctuating registration numbers and food and beverage minimums, all while managing the diverse visions of host chapters and securing the final approval of the REB. Add late-night meetings and tight timelines to the mix, and the work can be daunting.

But the rewards far outweigh the challenges. “Seeing the final production come to life is incredible,” RLC Pia says. “When you watch the Teens at a conference workshop or hear them talk about a speaker, you know the effort was worth it.”

A Legacy of Excellence As the RLC enters the second half of its 2023-2025 term, Pia reflects on the traditions and best practices she hopes to pass down. From detailed project plans to setting clear boundaries on responsibilities, she credits her predecessor, Immediate Past Regional Logistics Chair (IPRLC) Summer Banks, for invaluable guidance. “IPRLC Summer taught me the importance of grace and mercy. Nothing is ever perfect, but we strive for excellence.”

Advice for Aspiring RLC Members RLC Pia offers insight for those considering a role on the RLC: “You need to be detail-oriented, adaptable, and a strong communicator.

Flexibility [at your day job] is also key since much of the work happens during business hours, coordinating with vendors.”

She also highlights the importance of balance. “At the end of the day, my most important title is Akilah and Amelia’s mom. Everything I do, I do for them.”

Looking Ahead The Mid-Atlantic Region’s 2024 calendar promises a mix of innovation and tradition. From HBCU-themed workshops at Teen Leadership Conference to STEM-focused activities at Children’s Cluster, the RLT is committed to delivering events that inspire and engage.

With RLC Pia’s vision and her team’s dedication, the RLT continues to prove itself as one of the most essential pieces in the puzzle when it comes to bringing together the families of the Mid-Atlantic Region.

As RLC Pia puts it, “A lot of love and thought goes into every event. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.”

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A Joyous Place DURING HER PRESIDENTIAL CAMPAIGN, VICE PRESIDENT KAMALA HARRIS SAID OF A CRITIC, “I DON'T THINK SHE UNDERSTANDS THAT THERE ARE A WHOLE LOT OF WOMEN OUT HERE WHO […] ARE NOT ASPIRING TO BE HUMBLE…” MEET CHARIS JONES, ONE SUCH WOMAN WHO IS UNAPOLOGETICALLY PROUD. WRITTEN BY RACHELL GREEN

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Our first Celebrations issue truly celebrates the women we are— fierce, career-focused, family-centered, intelligent, and beautiful.

Charis Jones has answered her calling to offer time and a space for all women to shine. Raised by a fabulous grandmother who dazzled everyone with her glamorous brooches, sparkling personality, power, and grace—Charis knows a thing or two about looking good. I recently caught up with the beauty, fashion, and home icon to talk about her brand, Sassy Jones, and to, well, get into her business a little bit. She shares how she got started, how she maintains focus, and how she starts within herself to find beauty.

Spoiler alert: her inner light shines brighter than the chandeliers in her brick-and-mortar store in Richmond, VA’s posh Short Pump Mall.

Entrepreneur Unlocked For Charis, working in corporate America was not fulfilling. It neither inspired nor allowed her to operate in excellence.

So she answered her calling—she sold her car for capital about 11 years ago to start her accessory brand. She asserts that it fell into her lap since it’s a one-size fits all concept with a low cost and low barrier entry point. She went part-time on her corporate job and began selling to her co-workers, who immediately recognized her talent. Six years later, Charis began designing her own jewelry as a self-taught artist. She has since blessed the world with her company and brand, Sassy Jones, which has reached as high as #24 on the prestigious INC5000 list. Charis’s accomplishments are monumental, but she also achieves a work/life balance.

A Day in the Life Charis is a wife to Keon Jones and a mother to nine-year-old twins Jaxon and Julian. She is intentional about how she spends her time each day. She makes sure the boys have their lunches packed and devices charged for school the night before. She wakes up at

5:30 to get a head start and makes sure they have breakfast and clean ears before they leave for school. It’s not possible to get it all done by herself. She calls on her village for an assist with the boys from time to time. Once they’re off, she hosts a quick live session to inspire her followers in their daily journeys. Then it’s off to the office at 9:15. Once there, she is of service to her employees—the hallmark of her leadership style. She ends her work day with a Bikram (hot yoga) session. “I praise God with my body, and that’s where I sweat out my fears and anything that’s holding me back from my fullest potential—any limiting beliefs, any internal negative self-talk, any discord I’ve had with my husband, kids, or family —I leave it all on the mat.” By the time she picks up the children, she’s free and clear in mind, body, and spirit.

Evening family time includes a meal that’s more often fast food or elevated takeout than home-cooked. She is also intentional about carving out time to cultivate her marriage. “Every evening it’s a ritual that me and my husband sit together in two chairs I have in my home, and we’ll have peppermint tea since he’s trying to get off of coffee.” I asked her how she fits everything into a day: “The biggest thing that gets me through is budgeting my energy incredibly well. So, I’ll budget my time for a team member and also budget energy. I can’t care about everything; [I have to decide] how much disappointment I can keep. I have [to be ready] to get up and steer the ship the next day.”

Motivated by Purpose Charis stays on the grind. When I ask her how she stays motivated, she emphasized the spirituality of her journey: “I recognized the community I was building and the impact I had on women’s lives that I never knew that I would have taught me that God entrusted me with a ministry and not a brand. We sell things; yes, that is true, but at the core of it is helping women feel undeniable confident about themselves.

When you interact with our brand by reading a blog, visiting the store, or watching a livestream, our intention is that you walk away feeling amazing and like you have more decisionmaking audacity for whatever is going on in your life. If I have a ministry and not a business, then that means I have a responsibility to motivate. [When disappointment makes me] cry my tears and lick my wounds, I know there is greater on the other side of this temporary discomfort. In all, what keeps me motivated is my community and the people who I serve.”

Charis is also motivated by her village. Without them, there is no Sassy Jones. “They’re very important because they’re the ones who keep me grounded—the string to my kite. An important part of her village is Keon, a logical thinker who balances my creative side. He keeps me focused and away from ideas and people who are a waste of my time. I want to love everyone and have everyone love me, and he’s like, ‘Naw, chick!’”

His candor is necessary to make her achievements possible.

Another part of her village is her best friend for as long as she can remember, Chrisma Luster, the marketing director.

Chrisma, also the boys’ amazing godmother, gives the couple at least one child-free weekend each month. The village that teaches Charis “how to love” is essential to her life, and their successes are intertwined.

“We sell things, yes that is true, but at the core of it is helping women feel undeniably confident about themselves.”

A more recent motivation to succeed is to continue to donate a portion of all sales to a worthy cause. About two years ago, she visited an education center on a birthday trip to Kenya. The principal discussed the school’s needs, so Charis asked how she could help. The rest is history. “It took me a while to figure out what we could contribute [that wasn’t temporary, like books and school supplies]. Then I looked at a book that [had names and pictures] of everyone who had built something at the school, and they were all white. Let’s change that because I’m seeing the need here, and it’s not okay for these black children to believe that their only assistance is coming from a white male.” Another heartbreaking issue is the menstrual poverty the girls experience, which is a sensitive topic for most women, but Charis, in particular. When menstruation started for her, she felt shame and had no idea what to do because no one talked to her about it beforehand. They have since built two dorms for girls and continue to send money for menstruation kits because customs doesn’t allow the kits themselves to be sent from the United States to Africa.

“It doesn’t feel like work; it brings me joy!”

Boss Lady Whether we are in corporate America, in human services, or entrepreneurs, we face obstacles unique to us as African American women. I asked about Charis’s experience with this in a space that is traditionally consumed by women but not necessarily led by women, much less African American women. “It’s incredibly tough—I have a unique dynamic: I am a female, I am the leader, I birthed this baby, but I also work with my husband, who is the president and runs the day-to-day operations. However, being a female is empowering; I embrace my femininity because it’s a power that men don’t have. I have the power to lead with empathy first. It’s a power of leading with listening first. It’s the power of exercising transformational leadership where the team is inspired by seeing the things that I do, not just hunkered down by being told what to do. I am walking alongside them. The challenges are that no one takes you seriously. Now, if I were a white man named Steve, I wouldn’t have half of the issues I have with my staff. There is a level of built-in respect that men do get that women have to work for and earn. It is exhausting, and it can be defeating if you’re not in the right mindset. In order to overcome that, I lean in to my superpower. I also don’t play—I can’t allow anyone to take kindness for weakness at all.” Getting to this point was a journey of not giving multiple chances and taking time to retrain people repeatedly. She now stands on business: “It is a privilege to work with me. It’s a privilege to work on the brand. It’s a privilege to be led by a woman.

Ultimately, [teammates] have to learn how to keep themselves here. Never think twice.”

A Joyous Place When faced with disillusionment in her employment, Charis was blessed with the discernment to be the change she sought. She now thrives in a blessed place—the joyous place she created and works tirelessly to maintain. I love that for us! We have the opportunity to support a company owned and operated by an African American woman who is committed to helping us feel empowered with each interaction. And the best part is the knowledge that when you do make a purchase, you’re helping to empower a young Kenyan woman who knows the name and the face of the woman who helped her.

When I asked her about the issue of not being able to truly detach from work, she shared that she creates physical boundaries to help her to separate work from home with yoga, a unique, heated bed, and teatime, among other things. But she also leans into it. “As an entrepreneur, I don’t really mind being on all the time because it doesn’t feel like work; it brings me joy!”

What a blessing.

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MARvelous Living Editors’ Favorite Things Our editors have curated a list of gifts for you AND your loved ones to help you with your holiday shopping list. Here’s wishing you JOY and LOVE this season!

WRITTEN BY RACHELL GREEN | PHOTOS COURTESY OF THE EDITORS

Food Then and Now: Celebrations!

FROM THE DARKNESS OF THE COLONIAL ERA THROUGH TODAY, THE WINTER HOLIDAYS ARE FAMILY-CENTERED. RECLAIM YOUR TIME, AND ENJOY THE CELEBRATION! WRITTEN BY RACHELL GREEN

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From the time of enslaved Africans in the Americas to today, the Christmas season has brought a much-needed rest from the daily grind and an emphasis on family. Africans who were forced into servitude were able to take a break from labor and cherish time with family, who would likely be separated from them in the new year. The focus on familial bonds, whether it’s blood family or found family, stays with us as the focal point of our celebrations. The seven principles of Kwanzaa are rooted in the enduring celebration of family bonds during Christmas: Umoja (unity), Kujichagulia (self-determination and responsibility), Ujima (collective work and responsibility), Ujamaa (cooperative economics), Nia (purpose in remembering and restoring Black culture, customs, and history), Kuumba (creativity), and Imani (faith). Kwanzaa expands the theme to include our history and an intentional process to become better individuals within the larger group. In short, our contemporary, familycentered celebrations help us reclaim our joy, with the centerpiece of these joyful gatherings being food—now and always.

A great meal is undefeated, but it requires time and effort—two things in short supply after a season of extra preparation for loved ones. It’s often unthinkable to ask guests to bring a dish, especially for more formal parties. Why do we continue to demand it of ourselves, especially when the host is often too tired to have fun? For the 'Celebrations' issue, I’d like to offer a recipe that reinforces the idea of rest during the holiday season.

As you make plans to host family and friends, take cooking off your plate—hire a personal chef! That’s it. That’s the recipe!

I enlisted the help of the Aiken County Chapter’s CE Herlaysia Hagwood’s chef, Natalie Fuller, owner and chef of A “Tiny” Touch of Soul to concoct a recipe for success. As a tribute to her late mother, Tiny, Chef Natalie started her business in California to capitalize on her background of Southern soul food and seafood. Her expertise as a 10-year veteran in the field and her willingness to travel anywhere suit any busy MARvelous Mother.

Recipe: Hire a Chef with

Chef Natalie Step 1: Grade A Fancy Planning – It’s so disappointing to speak with clients, gather all the information, only to find out the date they need isn’t available.

Step 2: Gather Your Coins – Decide on the budget based on the level of 'extra' and the number of guests.

Step 3: Add Special Ingredients – Make sure Chef Natalie’s collard greens are on the menu (or your chef’s specialty)!

Step 4: (DON’T) Set a Timer – Relax and enjoy your special occasion with the special people in your life.

Style and GRACE

The Season to Celebrate in Style There’s a special kind of magic that occurs when we come together to celebrate sisterhood. On the day of this photo shoot the energy from beginning to end was brighter than any spotlight.

For in this fashion spread in MARvelous Living Magazine, we honor the effortless beauty, strength, and unity of Black Women empowering and uplifting each other.

Each outfit tells a story of bold confidence and a shared purpose; a testament to how style becomes even more powerful when paired with love, laughter, and support.

This is more than fashion; it’s a celebration of our collective journeys. A feel-good sisterhood that inspires us all to shine as individuals and soar as a collective.

Fashion Editor: Tamara McGill McFarland - Assistant Stylist:Malaika Instagram: @thetamarastaste Facebook: Tamara McFarland

Gala Ready Christina Daniel (South Charlotte Chapter) is stunning in a St.John sequin maxi dress.

A Palette of Prestige Stacey Woods (South Charlotte) dons a beautiful Alice and Olivia two-piece set, with Alice and Olivia Kiss Kiss Willa Wide Cuff Placket Top

Alaine Paraison (Charlotte Chapter) is striking in a Farm Rio Sequin Cardigan and an Alice and Olivia Faux Leather Paint.

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From left to rightt: JanJae in St. John's; Christina in St. John's; Tamara in St. John’s; Stacy in

This shoot was truly special. Thank you to the Moms of the Charlotte and South Charlotte Chapters of Jack and Jill of America.

Special thanks to: Nordstrom South Park Photographer: Mom Nakia Newman (South Charlotte) Make-Up Artist: Krysta (KC) Medley

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Meaningful Connections All Year WRITTEN BY EBONY CAROLINA-FRANKLIN

Social connections are the heart of our holiday celebrations. Warm gatherings with friends and family, giving thanks, and the observation of religious traditions are hallmarks of this time of year. Despite the widespread goodwill and good feelings, during the holiday season, feelings of loneliness can affect many of us. Physical distance from loved ones can make traveling not feasible.

Emotional distance from those nearest to us can be hard to bear. Managing grief and mourning the loss of loved ones can become especially difficult, and social anxiety can cause us to turn down invitations, fostering feelings of isolation. It is essential that we enter the holiday season with a plan to help us navigate the emotional ups and downs that we may experience.

Take a social media break: Social media can trigger negative feelings and cause us to feel as if our lives don't measure up to others.

Get fresh air and sunshine daily: Commit to taking a short leisurely walk or eating lunch outside daily. Seasonal affective disorder may unknowingly be the cause of many of our blues. People of African descent are more likely to be vitamin D deficient. The best way to absorb vitamin D is through the skin and with sunlight.

Volunteer: Donate shoes and warm coats to people in need. Help at a shelter or food bank. Do something kind for someone else.

Getting Fresh air - even when its cold outside - is a known mood booster.

Reframe our thoughts and expectations: Don’t let the absence of a date keep you home! Invite a friend to be your partner in crime at the office holiday party.

Lift up your voice: Join a community choral group and sing for a holiday program, or locate a carolling meetup group.

Take time off from work: Spend time developing a hobby, beautifying your home, or travelling.

Join in: Participate in a fun club where the members rely on you to show up: Trail ride dance crew anyone!?!

Visit the sick and shut in: Make a meal for an elderly neighbor or volunteer to walk their dog. Make gifts or share your talents with the residents of a nearby nursing home.

Try new things: Invite the neighbor that always waves hello over for lunch. Host a potluck meal and invite other people that may be away from their loved ones.

Count our blessings: Take photos of things that make you smile and create a collage to hang in your home or office.

Attend Sporting Events: Cheering along with a crowd increases joy.

Find something to laugh about daily: Strengthen your sense of humor by finding levity in the ups and downs of the day.

WELLNESS & EMPOWERMENT

12 Months of

December Participate in an annual family service project

Connectivity JAZZ UP THE HOLIDAY PLAYLIST

January Make a date with a friend or family member to visit an interesting coffee shop

I’VE GOT MY LOVE TO KEEP ME WARM ELLA FITZGERALD PURPLE SNOWFLAKES MARVIN GAYE

February Send Valentines to family and friends

MY FAVORITE THINGS CYRUS CHESTNUT, ANITA BAKER

March

HAVE YOURSELF A MERRY LITTLE CHRISTMAS JOHN LEGEND, ESPERANZA SPALDING

Set up a monthly extended family Skype or virtual real-time game nights

SANTA BABY EARTHA KITT

April

SLEIGH RIDE ELLA FITZGERALD

Rotate weekly or monthly family dinners

BABY, ITS COLD OUTSIDE RAY CHARLES, BETTY CARTER

May

WHAT ARE YOU DOING NEW YEARS EVE ELLA FITZGERALD

Take a half day at work and meet a friend at an art gallery midafternoon

MERRY CHRISTMAS BABY ETTA JAMES ‘ZAT YOU, SANTA CLAUS LOUIS ARMSTRONG, THE COMMANDERS

June Take an annual cousin’s trip where you stay connected and continue to engage in each other’s lives

COOL YULE LOUIS ARMSTRONG, THE COMMANDERS

July

JINGLE BELLS DUKE ELLINGTON

Bring lunch to work for someone you care about

October August Prepare birthday cards for senior family members

September Make a standing date with your bestie for pedicures or happy hour

Schedule time with an older relative, ask your aunt to teach you how to prepare her famous biscuits, and help your uncle in his garden

November Work on a hobby or joint project with a loved one that creates scheduled routine contact

HOTTA CHOCOLATTA ELLA FITZGERALD YOU DESERVE IT ALL JOHN LEGEND STEAM HEAT ELLA FITZGERALD

OH WHAT FUN

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Holiday Traditions Aunt Clara used to say, “You don’t have a holiday, you have to make a holiday.”- Jessica B. Harris WRITTEN BY EBONY CAROLINA-FRANKLIN

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I have taken great pleasure in connecting with moms throughout the Mid-Atlantic Region, learning about the very special ways our Jack and Jill families enjoy their loved ones during the festive season. Whether it's getting cozy by the fireplace in matching jammies with warm mugs of apple cider or hot chocolate, spending time together frosting gingerbread houses as the kids happily nibble on bits of candy, or sharing the magic and wonder of a holiday lights festival, these traditions fill our hearts with joy.

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The modern embrace of cultural elements such as Kwanzaa and the creation of new traditions have influenced our celebrations to grow and evolve.

Togetherness is the central theme, and with loving hearts, we share the joy of the season as we exclaim, “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men!” (Luke 2:14) We love to have a bonfire and oyster roast during the holidays—everyone is invited!

Cousins, aunties and uncles, neighbors, and friends. It feels like magic.

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JOY TO THE WORLD

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As a kid, I remember celebrating the New Year sitting on my grandparents' wide porch with my sisters as our much braver baby brother and cousins joined in up close. My granddaddy and uncles would light fireworks for us while enjoying oysters around the fire.

As a child, the erupting and big booming sounds of the fireworks terrified me, but the beautiful light display held me entranced. I was not a fan of oysters until I was older, but those are the sights and sounds that bring me back to the best parts of the holidays.

-Editor Ebony Carolina-Franklin, Charleston

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My family's favorite holiday tradition takes place on Christmas Eve at my stepmom’s house. Each family within our larger family wears matching Christmas PJs. For example, my son and I wear matching ones, my sister and her family have their set, my other sister and niece match, and finally, my sister and stepmom wear the same. We bring all the gifts for the kids and each other to the house, and on Christmas Eve, we open a few gifts, saving the rest for Christmas morning. We spend the evening talking, laughing, and singing Christmas carols together. Afterward, we all sleep over, and my stepmom cooks breakfast on Christmas morning. Later in the day, we gather for Christmas dinner. This tradition was started by my younger sister, who lives in Charlotte. She came up with the idea for us all to come together under one roof to celebrate.

She knew that Christmas has always been a tough time for me, especially since my mom passed away in 2009, so she wanted to make sure I had something to smile about. Every year, we pick a different pair of PJs, and we make sure to take plenty of pictures to capture the moment. As our family grows older, I can see us continuing these traditions, maybe even taking a family Christmas trip one day -VP Tiffany Daniels, Fayetteville

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‘TIS THE SEASON

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I host the annual Christmas dinner for both my family and my husband's family. It has been a tradition for 15 years. I'm not sure how it truly began, but my mother is a great cook, and we look forward to sharing with everyone. The extended family now also attends the dinner, and we welcome them and our family friends.

-Mom Tia Allen, Aiken County

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We enjoy peppermint hot chocolate by our cozy fireplace and Christmas movies. The kids make a gingerbread house together every year.

Growing up, we baked cookies for Santa.

Eventually, we transitioned to making gingerbread houses with everyone who is in our home at Christmas time: my husband and I, the kids, grandparents, and auntie. We love family time, so keeping it simple works for us. Everyone is happy and eating well...and warm. It is a great family moment that we really enjoy.

-Editor Dwella Moton Nelson, Greater Chapel Hill

It started when my aunt was a child. She was born on Christmas Eve. Her favorite foods were the gumbo and rolls that my grandmother would make. She is well into her seventies now, and every year this is the meal we have—whether we are together or not. I am fortunate that my grandmother passed the recipe down to me as I was her little helper as a child. My children also help me and my mother with this special meal on Christmas Eve. The recipe has changed slightly.

All family members eat! Several of us help with the gumbo, especially taking turns stirring the roux. The kids will soon be the main chefs!

-Mom Sheteka Ross-Goodlet, Fayetteville

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Editor’s Picks: Holiday Healing Life is rarely perfect, but we can always choose to celebrate what's in front of us. On those days when you're not feeling particularly festive but still crave a little more joy, here are a few books from my list to help guide you in celebrating right where you are.

WRITTEN BY BRIDGETTE WEST Jean - Michel Basquiat and the Art of Storytelling Growing up in Brooklyn during Basquiat’s rise, I didn’t fully grasp his revolutionary impact until more recently. What strikes me most about his story is how he thrived in a world where art was often reserved for the elite. He shook things up, bringing a raw, unapologetic style to the forefront. His journey reminds me that celebrating what makes us different is what allows us to truly shine. Basquiat’s success shows us that by embracing our uniqueness, we can stand tall, be our authentic selves, and find our place in spaces that weren’t always made for us.

This Is How You Heal: 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think While scrolling through YouTube one afternoon, I stumbled upon Arielle Simone, an influencer who had recently moved to Mexico. I watched a few of her videos, but it was her "Full Cup" series that led me to this book. In each episode, she shared a few pages from a different book, and This Is How You Heal immediately caught my attention. While I wasn’t dealing with anything major at the time, I knew life has its ups and downs, and I wanted to be ready for whatever came my way. Since getting the book, I’ve found that it’s exactly what I needed—just when I needed it

The Creative Act: A Way of Being We are all creatives, whether we realize it or not. We all create in some form, whether it’s through our work, our relationships, or even how we approach our day-to-day lives. Rick Rubin’s The Creative Act shows us how to tap into that creative energy and truly recognize it within ourselves. This book helped me understand how to tune out the noise and listen to my intuition, which I now see as my true creative voice. Rubin’s wisdom reminds us that creativity is about more than making art—it’s about how we engage with the world and express who we are.

The Lives We Actually Have: 100 Blessings for Imperfect Days I had the luxury of being in Target one Saturday afternoon when I stumbled upon this book.

Once I saw “imperfect days” on the cover and flipped through the table of contents, I was hooked. I don’t know about you, but life lately has definitely not been a bed of roses. The Lives We Actually Have is a beautiful reminder that our real, messy lives are worthy of celebration— even the ordinary days. Kate Bowler and Jessica Richie offer blessings that center gratitude and hope, reminding us that we don’t need to wait for perfection to appreciate the lives we have right now.

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