Becoming
The Leader God Wants You To Be
Seven
Biblical Principles For Godly Leadership
The Reverend Marben Bland
Pastor Of The Greater Bethel African Methodist Episcopal Church
Athens, Georgia
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Seven
Biblical Principles For Godly Leadership
Introduction
Leadershipisacallingthatrequireswisdom,humility,andfaithfulnesstoGod.The BibleisfilledwithexamplesofleaderswhofollowedGod'sguidance,aswellas thosewhostrayedfromHispath.Asweembarkonthis journey,Becomingthe LeaderGodWantsYoutoBe,wewillexploresevenbiblicalprinciplesthatdefine godlyleadership.Eachweek,wewilldiveintoScripture,reflectonourleadership qualities,andseekGod'stransformationinourlives.
Duringthisstudy,youwillbechallengedtoreflectonyourleadershipstyle,identify areasforgrowth,andtakepracticalstepstowardbecomingtheleaderGodintends youtobe.Asyouwalkthroughthisseasonmayyourheartbeopento transformation,andmayyoubeinspiredtoleadwithhumility,wisdom,and integrity.
LetthisjourneydeepenyourfaithandequipyoutoleadinawaythatglorifiesGod. Thechallengeisgreat,buttherewardiseternal.Areyoureadytotakethenext step?
Opening Prayer
Loving God: as we begin this study, we surrender our leadership roles to You. Teach us what it means to be the leader You have called us to be. Strip away our pride, our selfish ambitions, and our fears. Replace them with humility, wisdom, and integrity. May the Holy Spirit guide our hearts, our decisions, and our actions as we seek to lead according to Your will.
Lord, shape us through this study. Strengthen our faith, renew our minds, and help us to walk in Your ways. As we reflect on these seven principles, may we not only learn about godly leadership, but put it into practice.
We commit this journey to You, trusting that You will transform us into leaders who honor and glorify Your name. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Matthew 20:26
Godly leaders don’t seek power for themselves; they serve others with love and humility
James 1:5
Every great leader needs wisdom to make decisions, guide others, and navigate challenges.
Joshua 1:9
Leadership requires courage—to stand firm in your faith, make difficult choices, and face opposition.
As a leader, prioritize the well-being of those you serve and demonstrate Christ’s love in all you do.
Stay Rooted in God’s Word
Godly leaders must be anchored in Scripture.
Romans 8:14
Great leaders follow God’s direction rather than relying on their own understanding.
Key Verse:
Lead With Humility
Week one
Matthew 20:20-28
26 It will not be so among you, but whoever wishes to be great among you must be your servant (Matthew 20:26)
Matthew 20:20-28
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20 Then the mother of the sons of Zebedee came to him with her sons, and kneeling before him, she asked a favor of him. 21 And he said to her, “What do you want?” She said to him, “Declare that these two sons of mine will sit, one at your right hand and one at your left, in your kingdom.” 22 But Jesus answered, “You do not know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I am about to drink?” They said to him, “We are able.” 23 He said to them, “You will indeed drink my cup, but to sit at my right hand and at my left, this is not mine to grant, but it is for those for whom it has been prepared by my Father.” 24 When the ten heard it, they were angry with the two brothers. 25 But Jesus called them to him and said, “You know that the rulers of the gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones are tyrants over them. 26 It will not be so among you, but whoever wishes to be great among you must be your servant, 27 and whoever wishes to be first among you must be your slave, 28 just as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve and to give his life a ransom for many.”
Key Terms Used In The Study
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Humility – A modest view of one’s importance, putting others before oneself, as demonstrated by Christ (Philippians 2:3-4).
Servant Leadership – A leadership style modeled by Jesus, emphasizing service to others rather than seeking power (Mark 10:45).
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2. Authority – The right to lead or make decisions, which in God’s kingdom is granted by God and exercised with humility (Romans 13:1).
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Greatness – True greatness in God’s kingdom is defined by servanthood, not power or prestige (Matthew 23:11-12).
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Sacrifice – The act of giving up something for the sake of others, exemplified by Jesus’ life and death (John 15:13).
Introduction
Leadershipintheworldoftenprioritizespower,influence,andcontrol. However,Jesustaughtthattrueleadershipisfoundinhumilityandservice.
InMatthew20:20-28,Jesuschallengesconventionalideasofleadershipby emphasizingthatthosewhowanttobegreatmustbecomeservants.This passagetakesplaceinacriticalmomentinJesus’ministry,justbeforeHis finaljourneytoJerusalem,whereHewoulddemonstratetheultimateactof servantleadership givingHislifeasaransomformany.Throughthisstudy, wewillexplorehowhumilityiscentraltogodlyleadershipandhowJesuscalls Hisfollowerstoleadbyservingothers.
TellingTheBibleStory
Matthew20:20-28recountsapivotalmomentbetweenJesusandHis disciples.ThemotherofJamesandJohnapproachesJesuswithabold request:thathersonssitatHisrightandlefthandinHiskingdom.Shedesires positionsofhonorforhersons,reflectingtheworldlyunderstandingofpower andleadership.
Jesusrespondsbychallengingtheirunderstandingofleadership.Heasksif theyarewillingtodrinkthecupHeisabouttodrink,referringtothesuffering Hewillendure.Thedisciplesclaimtheyareready,butJesusclarifiesthatitis notHisplacetograntpositionsofhonor—suchauthoritybelongstoGod. TheotherdisciplesbecomeindignantatJamesandJohn’srequest,revealing theirownstruggleswithambitionandstatus.Jesusthengathersthemand teachesoneofthemostprofoundlessonsonleadership:
“Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave—just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”
(Matthew 20:26-28)
Jesuscontrastsworldlyleadership,whichofteninvolvesexertingauthority overothers,withgodlyleadership,whichisrootedinserviceandhumility.
ThisteachingalignswithPhilippians2:5-8,wherePaulurgesbelieverstohave thesamemindsetasChrist,whohumbledHimselfeventothepointofdeath onthecross.
Bible Study Questions
1.Why do you think James and John (or their mother) desired positions of honor? How does this reflect human ambition in leadership?
2.How did Jesus redefine greatness in leadership? How does His example challenge modern leadership styles?
3.What does it mean to “drink the cup” that Jesus spoke of? How does suffering relate to godly leadership?
4.How can we practice servant leadership in our daily lives? What are practical ways to lead with humility?
5. How does Jesus’ example of leadership contrast with the world’s view of power and success?
LifeApplication
Leadingwithhumilityrequiresaradicalshiftinperspective.Itmeansputting othersfirst,beingwillingtoserve,andleadingbyexample.Jesus,thoughHe hadeveryrighttodemandhonorandglory,chosetowashHisdisciples’feet (John13:12-17)andultimatelygiveHislifeforothers.
AmodernexampleofhumbleleadershipcanbefoundinMotherTeresa.She hadopportunitiesforstatusandrecognitionbutchoseinsteadtoservethe poorestofthepoor.Herleadershipwasdefinednotbyauthoritybutby sacrificiallove,reflectingChrist’steachinginMatthew20:28.
We,too,arecalledtoembodythishumilityinourleadership.Whetherinour families,workplaces,churches,orcommunities,weshouldseektoliftothers upratherthanseekpersonalgain.Whenweleadwithhumility,wereflect Christ’scharacterandbringglorytoGod.
Reflection Questions
1.In what ways can I become a more humble leader in my personal and professional life?
2.How do I handle ambition and the desire for recognition? Do I seek to serve or be served?
3.What is one practical step I can take this week to model servant leadership?
Closing Prayer
Loving God: thank You for teaching us that true leadership is found in humility and service. Help us to follow the example of Jesus, who came not to be served but to serve and to give His life for others. Strip away our pride and ambition, and replace them with a heart that seeks to serve You and those around us. May we lead with love, compassion, and humility in all areas of our lives. Guide us to be leaders who reflect Your glory and bring others closer to You. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
Key Verse:
Week Two Seek Wisdom From God
James 1:2-8
5 If any of you is lacking in wisdom, ask God, who gives to all generously and ungrudgingly, and it will be given you. (James 1:5 )
James 1:2-8
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2 My brothers and sisters, whenever you face various trials, consider it all joy, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance. 4 And let endurance complete its work, so that you may be complete and whole, lacking in nothing. 5 If any of you is lacking in wisdom, ask God, who gives to all generously and ungrudgingly, and it will be given you. 6 But ask in faith, never doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. 7,8 For the doubter, being double-minded and unstable in every way, must not expect to receive anything from the Lord.
Key Terms Used In The Study
1. Faith – Complete trust and confidence in God, even when faced with trials and uncertainty. (Hebrews 11:1)
Wisdom – The ability to discern and apply knowledge and understanding in a godly manner, seeking God's guidance in decision-making. (Proverbs 2:6)
2. Perseverance – Steadfastness and endurance in faith, especially during challenges and difficulties. (Romans 5:3-4)
3. Humility – A posture of dependence on God, recognizing our limitations and submitting to His wisdom. (Proverbs 11:2)
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4. Double-Minded – A wavering or divided heart, torn between faith in God and reliance on worldly wisdom. (James 1:8)
Introduction
Inaworldthatvaluesself-relianceandpersonalambition,godlyleadershipcalls ustoseekwisdomfromabove.James1:2-8presentsapowerfultruth:trialsare notmeanttobreakus,buttobuildus.Inleadership,challengestestour characterandfaith.Ratherthanrelyingonourownunderstanding,Jamesurges ustoseekwisdomfromGod,whogivesgenerouslytothosewhoaskinfaith.
Wisdomisessentialforleadership.AleaderwhorecognizestheirneedforGod’s wisdomleadswithintegrity,discernment,andstrength.Whenwelackwisdom, weshouldnotleanonhumanlogicalonebutseekGod,trustingthatHeprovides theguidanceweneed.However,Jameswarnsagainstbeingdouble-minded— waveringbetweenfaithinGodandrelianceontheworld’sways.Leadership requiresunwaveringtrustintheLord,evenindifficulttimes.
Throughthisstudy,wewillexplorehowgodlyleadersseekdivinewisdom,trust inGodthroughtrials,andleadwithhumilityandperseverance.
TellingTheBibleStory
James1:2-8beginswitharadicalperspectiveontrials:“Consideritpurejoy,my brothersandsisters,wheneveryoufacetrialsofmanykinds,becauseyouknow thatthetestingofyourfaithproducesperseverance.”(vv.2-3)James encouragesbelieverstoseedifficultiesnotasobstacles,butasopportunities forspiritualgrowth.Inleadership,trialsrefineus,shapingourpatience, character,andrelianceonGod.
Inverse5,Jamesprovidesthekeytonavigatingchallenges:“Ifanyofyoulacks wisdom,youshouldaskGod,whogivesgenerouslytoallwithoutfindingfault, anditwillbegiventoyou.”TruewisdomcomesfromGod,nothuman intelligenceorexperiencealone.LeaderswhoseekGod’swisdommake decisionsrootedinrighteousness,ratherthanprideorself-interest.
However,Jameswarnsinverses6-8thataskingforwisdomrequiresfaith:“But whenyouask,youmustbelieveandnotdoubt,becausetheonewhodoubtsis likeawaveofthesea,blownandtossedbythewind.”Leadershiprequires conviction.Adouble-mindedleaderonewhoshiftsbetweentrustingGodand followingworldlyreasoninglacksstability.Strongleadershipisbuiltonfaith, humility,andtotalrelianceonGod’sdirection.
James'messageechoesProverbs3:5-6:“TrustintheLordwithallyourheartand leannotonyourownunderstanding;inallyourwayssubmittohim,andhewill makeyourpathsstraight.”LeaderswhoseekwisdomfromGodleadwithclarity, courage,andsteadfastfaith
BibleStudyQuestions
1.WhydoesJamessayweshouldconsidertrials“purejoy”?Howcanchallenges strengthenaleader?
2.WhatdoesitmeantoseekwisdomfromGod?Howisthisdifferentfrom relyingsolelyonhumanknowledge?
3.HowdoeshumilityplayaroleinaskingGodforwisdom?Whyisitimportant forleaderstorecognizetheirneedforGod’sguidance?
4.Whataresomesignsofdoublemindednessinleadership?Howcanaleader remainfirminfaithanddecision-making?
5.CanyouthinkofatimewhentrustingGod’swisdomoveryourown understandingledtoabetteroutcome?
LifeApplication
Leadershipisfilledwithdifficultdecisionsandmomentsofuncertainty. SeekingwisdomfromGodisnotjustaone-timerequestbutacontinual practiceofsurrenderingtoHisguidance.Ahumbleleaderunderstandsthat theirknowledgeislimited,butGod’swisdomisinfinite.
StoryofWisdominLeadership
AyoungCEOfacedatoughdecision:hiscompanywasstruggling,andhehad tochoosebetweenmakingdeepstaffcutsorseekingalternativesolutions. Whilemanyadvisedhimtofollowthecorporatetrendofdownsizing,he insteadprayedforwisdom.Throughprayerandwisecounsel,hefounda creativerestructuringplanthatpreservedjobswhilealsorevitalizingthe company.Hisdecision,rootedinseekingGod’swisdom,strengthenedbothhis leadershipandthetrustofhisemployees.
Thisexamplehighlightsthepowerofhumilityinleadership—recognizingthat wedon’thavealltheanswers,butthatGoddoes.Leaderswhoseekwisdom fromGoddemonstratefaith,courage,andperseverance.
PracticalstepsforapplyingJames1:2-8inleadership:
✔Praydailyforwisdomindecision-making.
✔SeekgodlycounselfrommentorsandScripture.
✔TrustGod’sguidance,evenwhenitchallengesconventionalwisdom.
✔Remainsteadfastinfaithduringtrials.
ClosingPrayer
LovingGod,Intimesoftrials,helpmecountitalljoy,knowingthatthrough testing,myfaithisstrengthened.GrantmeendurancesothatImaygrowin maturity,lackingnothinginYou.Lord,whenIlackwisdom,Iaskinfaith, trustingthatYougivegenerouslytoallwhoseekYou.Removeanydoubtfrom myheartandanchormeinsteadfastbelief,forYouaremyrockandmy provider.Helpmestandfirm,unwaveringinmytrust,knowingthatYouare faithfultoguidemethrougheverystorm.InJesus’name.Amen.
Key Verse:
Be Courageous In Faith
Week Three
Joshua 1:1-9
9 I hereby command you: Be strong and courageous; do not be frightened or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:9)
Joshua1:1-9
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God’sCommissiontoJoshua
1AfterthedeathofMosestheservantoftheLord,theLordspoketoJoshua sonofNun,Moses’sassistant,saying,2“MyservantMosesisdead.Now proceedtocrosstheJordan,youandallthispeople,intothelandthatIam givingtothem,totheIsraelites.3Everyplacethatthesoleofyourfootwill treaduponIhavegiventoyou,asIpromisedtoMoses.4Fromthewilderness andtheLebanonasfarasthegreatriver,theRiverEuphrates,allthelandof theHittites,totheGreatSeainthewestshallbeyourterritory.5Nooneshall beabletostandagainstyouallthedaysofyourlife.AsIwaswithMoses,soI willbewithyou;Iwillnotfailyouorforsakeyou.6Bestrongandcourageous, foryoushallleadthispeopletopossessthelandthatIsworetotheir ancestorstogivethem.7Onlybestrongandverycourageous,beingcarefulto actinaccordancewithallthelawthatmyservantMosescommandedyou;do notturnfromittotherighthandortotheleft,sothatyoumaybesuccessful whereveryougo.8Thisbookofthelawshallnotdepartoutofyourmouth;you shallmeditateonitdayandnight,sothatyoumaybecarefultoactin accordancewithallthatiswritteninit.Forthenyoushallmakeyourway prosperous,andthenyoushallbesuccessful.9Iherebycommandyou:Be strongandcourageous;donotbefrightenedordismayed,fortheLordyour Godiswithyouwhereveryougo.”
Courage – The ability to act in faith despite fear or adversity, trusting in God's strength (Deuteronomy 31:6).
1. Faith – Complete trust in God’s promises, even when circumstances seem uncertain (Hebrews 11:1).
2. Obedience – Following God’s commands and direction, even when it is challenging (John 14:15).
3. Strength – The divine empowerment given by God to overcome difficulties (Isaiah 40:31).
4. Leadership – The act of guiding others with wisdom, humility, and trust in God’s plan (Proverbs 3:5-6).
5. Introduction
After Moses’ death, Joshua was appointed by God to lead the Israelites into the Promised Land. This was a monumental task, requiring great courage and faith. God commanded Joshua to be strong and courageous, reassuring him of
His presence. In Joshua 1:1-9, God’s instructions highlight the importance of obedience, trust, and bold leadership. These principles apply to anyone seeking to lead with humility and faith, whether in ministry, the workplace, or personal life.
Telling the Bible Story
Joshua 1:1-9 marks the transition of leadership from Moses to Joshua. God’s charge to Joshua contains key themes:
Verse 1-2: God commissions Joshua to lead the Israelites into the land promised to them.
Verse 3-5: God assures Joshua of victory and His unending presence, emphasizing that no enemy will stand against him.
Verse 6-7: The command to be strong and courageous is repeated, with an emphasis on obedience to the Law.
Verse 8: Meditation on God’s Word is essential for success and prosperity.
Verse 9: God’s final encouragement Joshua must not be afraid, for God is with him.
These verses parallel other scriptures:
Deuteronomy 31:6 – Moses’ charge to Israel and Joshua to be strong and courageous.
Psalm 27:1 – Confidence in God as the source of strength.
Isaiah 41:10 – God's promise to uphold His people in difficult times.
Bible Study Questions
1.Why do you think God emphasized courage and strength multiple times to Joshua?
2.How does meditating on God’s Word lead to success and prosperity in leadership?
4.What challenges did Joshua face, and how do they compare to leadership challenges today?
5. How can we ensure that we are leading with faith rather than fear?
Godly leadership requires faith, obedience, and courage. Just as Joshua was called to trust God’s plan, we too are called to step forward in faith when facing uncertainty.
A Story of Courage in Leadership:
Consider the story of William Wilberforce, the British politician who fought to end the slave trade. Despite opposition and failure, he remained steadfast in his mission, relying on God’s strength. Like Joshua, Wilberforce exhibited courageous faith, knowing that leadership is not about personal gain but about fulfilling God's purpose.
Reflection Questions
1.What areas in your life require you to step out in faith and courage?
2.How can you remind yourself daily that God is with you in your leadership journey?
3.What fears are holding you back from fulfilling God’s call, and how can you overcome them?
Closing Prayer
Loving God, we thank You for the example of Joshua, who trusted You despite the challenges ahead. Help us to be strong and courageous in our faith and leadership. Remove any fear or doubt and remind us that You are always with us. May we lead with humility, obedience, and unwavering trust in Your promises. Guide us in every step, and may our leadership bring glory to Your name. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Key Verse:
Love And Serve Others
1 Corinthians 16:13-14
Let all that you do be done in love. (1 Corinthians 16:14)
1Corinthians16:13-14
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13Keepalert;standfirminthefaith;becourageous;bestrong.14Letallthat youdobedoneinlove.
KeyTermsUsedintheStudy
1. Faith–CompletetrustinGod’sguidance,evenwhenfacinguncertainty. (Hebrews11:1)
Watchful–Tobespirituallyalert,awareofchallenges,andreadytostand firminfaith.(Matthew26:41)
2. Strength–InnerspiritualresiliencethatcomesfromrelyingonGodrather thanpersonalability.(Ephesians6:10)
3. Love–Selfless,sacrificial,andservant-heartedactionthatreflectsChrist’s character.(John13:34-35)
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4. Service–Aheartpostureofputtingothers'needsbeforeourown,following Jesus'example.(Mark10:45)
Introduction
LeadershipinGod’skingdomisnotaboutpower,control,orrecognitionitis aboutloveandservice.In1Corinthians16:13-14,theApostlePaulgivesafinal exhortationtothechurchinCorinth:"Beonyourguard;standfirminthefaith becourageous;bestrong.Doeverythinginlove."
ThispassagespeaksdirectlytotheheartofChristianleadership.Paul encouragesbelieverstobewatchfulagainstspiritualdistractions,tostand firmintheirfaithdespitechallenges,tobestrongandcourageous,andmost importantly,todoeverythinginlove.
LeaderswholoveandserveothersreflectJesus,thegreatestservant-leader. Hedidnotcometobeservedbuttoserve(Mark10:45).Thisstudywillexplore howtrueleadershipisrootedinhumility,faith,andselflessserviceshowing loveinallwedo.
TellingtheBibleStory
Paul’slettertotheCorinthiansaddressesadividedchurchstrugglingwith pride,immorality,anddoctrinalconfusion.Ashecloses,hedeliversa powerfulleadershipcharge:
BeWatchful(v.13)–Leadersmuststayspirituallyalert,awareoftemptations, andprotectthosetheylead.JesuswarnsinMatthew26:41,“Watchandpray sothatyouwillnotfallintotemptation.”
StandFirmintheFaith(v.13)–Leadershiprequiresconviction.Astrong leaderdoesnotwaverbutholdstobiblicaltrutheveninopposition. Ephesians6:13urgesbelieversto“putonthefullarmorofGod”tostand againstspiritualbattles.
BeCourageousandStrong(v.13)–TruestrengthcomesfromGod,notselfreliance.Joshua1:9remindsus,“Bestrongandcourageous…fortheLordyour Godwillbewithyouwhereveryougo.”
DoEverythinginLove(v.14)–Thefoundationofleadershipislove.Jesus’ leadershipwasdefinedbyservice,humility,andcompassion.InJohn13:34, Hecommands:“LoveoneanotherasIhavelovedyou.”Paul’smessageis clear:leadershipisnotaboutdominancebuthumbleservicemotivatedby love.Greatleadersdonotseekpower;theyseektoserveothersinfaithand love.
Bible Study Questions
1.Why does Paul emphasize being watchful in leadership? How does this apply to leading others today?
2.What does it mean to stand firm in the faith as a leader? How can we maintain our convictions in challenging situations?
3.How does courage relate to leadership? Can you think of a time when standing firm in faith required courage?
4.Why is doing everything in love crucial for godly leadership? How does love transform the way we lead?
5.How did Jesus model leadership through love and service? How can we follow His example in our daily lives?
Life Application
Story of Love and Service In Leadership
A principal at a struggling school faced constant challenges—low morale, budget cuts, and discouraged teachers. Rather than focusing on authority, she led by example. Every morning, she greeted students by name, listened to staff concerns, and even helped clean the cafeteria when short-staffed. Her humility and servant leadership transformed the school culture. Teachers felt valued, students felt cared for, and the school began to thrive.
Her leadership reflected 1 Corinthians 16:14 “Do everything in love.” She did not just tell others what to do—she led through service.
Practical steps for applying 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 in Leadership:
✔Be watchful – Pay attention to spiritual and practical needs in your community.
✔Stand firm in faith – Hold onto biblical truth, even when it’s unpopular.
✔Be courageous – Trust God in leadership decisions, even when they require risk.
✔Lead with strength – Rely on God’s power, not personal ability.
✔Love and serve others – Make love the foundation of every leadership action.
ReflectionQuestions
1.Howcanyouintentionallyshowloveandserviceinyourleadershipthis week?
2.Inwhatareasofyourlifedoyouneedtostandfirminfaithandleadwith courage?
3.Whoinyourlifeneedsencouragement?Howcanyouservethemasa leader?
ClosingPrayer
LovingGod:thankYouforcallingustoleadthroughloveandservice.Teachus tobewatchful,standingfirminfaith,courageous,andstrong.Letour leadershipreflectJesus,whohumbledHimselftoserveothers.Helpusto leadnotforpersonalgain,buttoliftothersupinlove.
Lord,giveusthestrengthtostandfirmwhenchallengesariseandthehumility toputothersbeforeourselves.MayouractionsreflectYourlove,drawing othersclosertoYou.Asweleadinourfamilies,workplaces,churches,and communities,letourheartsbeguidedbyselflessservice.
WetrustYoutomoldusintotheleadersYoudesireustobe.Mayeverything wedobedoneinlove.InJesus’name.Amen.
Week Five Stay Rooted In God’s Word
Key Verse:
Psalm 119:97-105
"Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path." (Psalm 119:105)
Psalm119:97-105
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97Oh,howIloveyourinstructions! Ithinkaboutthemalldaylong.
98Yourcommandsmakemewiserthanmyenemies,fortheyaremyconstant guide.99Yes,Ihavemoreinsightthanmyteachers,forIamalwaysthinkingof yourlaws.100Iamevenwiserthanmyelders,forIhavekeptyour commandments.101Ihaverefusedtowalkonanyevilpath,sothatImay remainobedienttoyourword.102Ihaven’tturnedawayfromyour regulations,foryouhavetaughtmewell.103Howsweetyourwordstasteto me;theyaresweeterthanhoney.104Yourcommandmentsgiveme understanding;nowonderIhateeveryfalsewayoflife.105Yourwordisa lamptoguidemyfeetandalightformypath.
KeyTermsUsedintheStudy
Meditation–ThepracticeofdeeplyreflectingonGod’sWord,allowingitto shapethoughtsandactions(Psalm1:2).
1. Wisdom–TheabilitytoapplyGod’struthindecision-makingandleadership (Proverbs2:6).
2. Discernment–Spiritualinsightthatenablesaleadertodistinguishbetween rightandwrong(Hebrews5:14).
3. Obedience–TheactofsubmittingtoGod'swillandfollowingHiscommands (Deuteronomy28:1-2).
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4. Humility–Aleader’srecognitionthattheirwisdomandsuccesscomefrom Godalone(Philippians2:3-4)
Introduction
Psalm119:97-105emphasizesthepowerofGod’sWordinguidingbelievers towardwisdom,humility,andeffectiveleadership.Thepsalmistexpresses loveforGod'slaw,recognizingthatconstantmeditationonScripturebrings greaterunderstandingthanworldlyknowledge.
LeadershipgroundedinGod'sWordrequireshumilityacknowledgingthat truewisdomcomesnotfrompersonalinsightbutfromdivinerevelation.Ina worldthatvaluesself-sufficiency,godlyleadershipstandsoutbyrelyingon Scriptureforguidance,correction,andstrength.
TellingtheBibleStory
Psalm119:97-105highlightskeythemesofwisdom,obedience,anddivine guidance:
Verses97-100–ThepsalmistdeclareshisloveforGod’slaw,recognizingthat meditatingonitbringsgreaterwisdomthanhisenemies,teachers,andelders.
Verses101-102–Thepsalmistcommitstostayingawayfromevilpathsby obeyingGod'sWordandacknowledgesthatGodishisteacher.
Verse103–ThepsalmistdescribesGod'sWordassweet,bringingjoyand satisfactiontothesoul.
Verse104–UnderstandingGod'spreceptsleadstoahatredoffalseways, reinforcingtheimportanceofdiscernment.
Verse105–Thewell-knowndeclarationthatGod’sWordisalampandlight, illuminatingthepathofrighteousness.
Theseversesalignwithotherscriptures:
Joshua1:8–Successandprosperitycomefrommeditatingonandobeying God’sWord.
Proverbs3:5-6–TrustingintheLord’swisdomratherthanhuman understanding.
James1:5–Godgrantswisdomtothosewhoaskforitinfaith.
Bible Study Questions
1.Why does the psalmist emphasize meditating on God’s Word daily?
2.How does Scripture provide greater wisdom than worldly knowledge?
3.What role does humility play in receiving instruction from God?
4. In what ways can leaders apply Psalm 119:97-105 to their leadership journey?
5.How does staying rooted in God’s Word protect us from false teachings and poor decision-making?
Effective leaders immerse themselves in Scripture, allowing God’s wisdom to guide their choices. The psalmist’s love for God’s Word serves as a model for leaders who seek to lead with humility and discernment. Without the foundation of Scripture, leadership becomes self-driven and prone to error.
A Story of being Rooted in God’s Word
Consider the example of George Washington, the first U.S. president. Despite his power and influence, he frequently sought divine guidance, often reading and applying biblical principles in his leadership. His humility and reliance on moral convictions shaped a legacy of integrity. Likewise, leaders today must stay rooted in Scripture to make ethical and wise decisions.
Reflection Questions
1.What practical steps can you take to increase your time meditating on God’s Word?
2.How can you use Scripture as your guide in moments of uncertainty
3.What habits can you develop to ensure you lead with humility and wisdom?
Closing Prayer
Loving God, thank You for Your Word, which is our source of wisdom, strength, and direction. Teach us to love and meditate on Your commands, seeking Your truth in every decision we make. Help us to lead with humility, relying on Your wisdom rather than our own understanding. May we walk in the light of Your Word, guiding others toward righteousness. Strengthen our faith and deepen our devotion, that we may reflect Your truth in all we do. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Be Led By The Holy Spirit
Romans 8:12-17
Key Verse:
14 For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. (Romans 8:14 )
Romans8:12-17
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12Sothen,brothersandsisters,weareobligated,nottotheflesh,tolive accordingtotheflesh13forifyouliveaccordingtotheflesh,youwilldie,but ifbytheSpirityouputtodeaththedeedsofthebody,youwilllive.14Forall whoareledbytheSpiritofGodarechildrenofGod.15Foryoudidnotreceive aspiritofslaverytofallbackintofear,butyoureceivedaspiritofadoption. Whenwecry,“Abba!Father!”16itisthatverySpiritbearingwitnesswithour spiritthatwearechildrenofGod,17andifchildren,thenheirs:heirsofGod andjointheirswithChrist,ifweinfactsufferwithhimsothatwemayalsobe glorifiedwithhim.
KeyTermsUsedintheStudy
HolySpirit–ThethirdpersonoftheTrinity,whoguides,empowers,and sanctifiesbelieverstoliveaccordingtoGod'swill.
1. Humility–AChrist-likeattitudeofrecognizingone'sdependenceonGod andplacingtheneedsofothersbeforeoneself.
2. Adoption–TheactofGodmakingbelieversHischildrenthroughfaithin JesusChrist,grantingthemfullrightsasheirs.
3. Flesh–ThesinfulnaturethatopposestheSpiritandleadstoactions contrarytoGod'swill.
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4. Heir–Apersonwhoreceivesaninheritance,symbolizingthebeliever’s futuregloryandco-reignwithChrist.
Introduction
LeadershipintheKingdomofGodisnotaboutauthority,dominance,or personalgain.Itisaboutservanthood,humility,andbeingledbytheHoly Spirit.InRomans8:12-17,PaulspeakstobelieversabouttheiridentityinChrist andthenecessityofwalkingbytheSpiritratherthantheflesh.Thepassage teachesthattrueleadershipisdependentonsubmissiontoGodratherthan self-reliance.Thissubmissionisahumbleacknowledgmentthatapartfrom God,wearepowerlesstoleadeffectively.
DuringLent,aseasonofreflectionandsurrender,thisstudychallengesusto examineourleadershipstyles.Doweleadbyourownwisdom,ordoweallow theHolySpirittoguideus?Arewewillingtosurrenderourambitionsand pridetobeusedbyGod?Romans8:12-17remindsusthatthoseledbythe SpiritofGodarechildrenofGod,calledtoleadinhumilityandfaith.
TellingtheBibleStory
Romans8:12-17beginsbyaddressingbelieversasthosewhoarenolonger debtorstotheflesh.ThismeansthatasfollowersofChrist,wearenot obligatedtoliveaccordingtooursinfulnature.Instead,Paulexhortsustolive bytheSpirit,whichleadstolifeandrighteousness.
Paulmakesapowerfulstatementinverse13:"Forifyouliveaccordingtothe flesh,youwilldie;butifbytheSpirityouputtodeaththemisdeedsofthe body,youwilllive."Thisversehighlightsthebattlebetweenself-relianceand Spirit-ledliving.Truegodlyleadershiprequiresdyingtoselfishdesiresand embracingtheSpirit’sguidance.
Verse14clarifiesthatthoseledbytheSpiritaresonsanddaughtersofGod. LeadershipintheKingdomisnotaboutassertingpowerbutaboutbeing obedientchildrenofGod.JesusexemplifiedthisinJohn5:19whenHesaid, "VerytrulyItellyou,theSoncandonothingbyhimself;hecandoonlywhat heseeshisFatherdoing."Jesus,theultimateleader,displayedhumilityby followingtheFather'swillcompletely.
Paulcontinuesinverses15-17byemphasizingtheprivilegeofadoption. LeadersinChristarenotslavestofearbutareheirsofGodandco-heirswith
Christ.Thismeansthatourleadershipisnotbasedonpersonalmeritbuton God’scallingandempowerment.
BibleStudyQuestions
1.AccordingtoRomans8:12-13,whyisitessentialforleaderstorejectselfrelianceandinsteadbeledbytheHolySpirit?
2.HowdoeshumilityplayaroleinbeingaleaderwhoisledbytheSpirit,as mentionedinRomans8:14?
3.InwhatwaysdoesouradoptionasGod’schildren(Romans8:15-16)change thewayweleadothers?
4.HowdoesJesus’exampleinJohn5:19reflectthetypeofleadershipthat PauldescribesinRomans8:12-17?
5.Whatpracticalstepscanleaderstaketoensuretheyarebeingledbythe HolySpiritandnotbytheirowndesires?
LifeApplication
OneofthegreatestexamplesofhumilityandSpirit-ledleadershipisfoundin thelifeofMoses.ThoughhewaschosentoleadIsrael,Mosesneverreliedon hisownability.WhenGodcalledhimfromtheburningbush,heinitially resisted,recognizinghisinadequacy(Exodus3:11).
However,ashesurrenderedtoGod'sleading,hebecameoneofthegreatest leadersinbiblicalhistory.MosesfrequentlysoughtGod’sdirection,refusing toactwithoutdivineinstruction(Exodus33:15).
LikeMoses,godlyleaderstodaymustrecognizetheirdependenceontheHoly Spirit.Insteadofmakingdecisionsbasedonpersonalambition,theyshould continuallyseekGod’swisdomthroughprayerandscripture.ASpirit-led leaderisonewhoprioritizesservanthoodoverstatus,humilityoverpride,and obedienceoverself-promotion.
ReflectionQuestions
1.WhatareasofyourleadershipdoyoustruggletosurrendertotheHoly Spirit?
2.HowcanyoucultivateadailyhabitofseekingGod’sguidancebeforemaking decisions?
3.Whatisonepracticalstepyoucantakethisweektoleadwithmorehumility anddependenceonGod?
Closing Prayer
Loving God: thank You for calling us to lead in Your Kingdom. We recognize that without Your Spirit, we are incapable of leading in a way that honors You. Help us to surrender our pride, ambitions, and self-reliance so that we may be fully led by the Holy Spirit. Give us the wisdom to discern Your voice, the humility to follow Your lead, and the courage to walk in obedience.
Lord, we do not want to lead according to the flesh but by the power of Your Spirit. Remind us daily that we are Your children, called to reflect Christ in our leadership. Strengthen our faith, deepen our trust in You, and use us to bring glory to Your name.
As we continue our journey, transform our hearts to be more like Yours. May our leadership reflect the humility of Christ, and may we lead others to know and follow You. We ask all of this in Jesus' mighty name. Amen.
Key Verse:
Week Seven Walk in Integrity
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The integrity of the upright guides them, but the crookedness of the treacherous destroys them. (Proverbs 11:3)
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TheLorddeteststheuseofdishonestscales,buthedelightsinaccurate weights.2Prideleadstodisgrace,butwithhumilitycomeswisdom.3Honesty guidesgoodpeople;dishonestydestroystreacherouspeople4Richeswon’t helponthedayofjudgment,butrightlivingcansaveyoufromdeat
KeyTermsUsedintheStudy
Integrity–Thequalityofbeinghonestandhavingstrongmoralprinciples thatalignwithGod’struth.Integrityinleadershipmeanslivingalifeof consistencybetweenone’sbeliefsandactions.
1. Humility–Thebiblicalvirtueofrecognizingone’sdependenceonGodand valuingothersaboveoneself(Philippians2:3-4).Ahumbleleaderseeks God’sguidanceratherthanrelyingsolelyonpersonalwisdom.
2. Righteousness–LivinginaccordancewithGod’swillandjustice.Proverbs oftencontraststherighteouswiththewicked,emphasizingtherewardsof godlyliving.
3. Guidance–TheactofbeingledbyGod’swisdomratherthanpersonal ambition.Proverbs3:5-6instructsbelieverstotrustintheLordratherthan leaningontheirownunderstanding.
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4. Wealth–AmaterialpossessionoftencontrastedinScripturewithspiritual richness.Proverbs11:4remindsusthatrichesarepowerlessinsecuring eternallife,butrighteousnessdeliversfromdeath.
Introduction
LeadershipinthekingdomofGodisvastlydifferentfromleadershipinthe world.Whilemanyseekpower,influence,andmaterialsuccess,GodcallsHis leaderstowalkinintegrityandhumility.Proverbs11:3-4states:
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The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity. Wealth is worthless in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death.”
Theseversesteachthattrueleadershipisnotaboutwealthorstatusbut aboutcharacter.Aleaderwhowalksinintegritywillbeguidedbytruth,while thosewholeadwithdeceptionwillultimatelyfacedestruction.Additionally, theseversescontrastearthlyricheswitheternalsecurity,emphasizingthat righteousnessnotwealthleadstosalvation.Jesustaughtasimilarprinciple whenHesaid,“Forwhatwillitprofitamanifhegainsthewholeworldand forfeitshissoul?”(Matthew16:26).
AswereflectonChrist’shumilityandservantleadership,wearecalledtowalk inintegrityandleadwithrighteousness.
TellingtheBibleStory
ThebookofProverbsprovidespracticalwisdomfordailyliving.Proverbs11:34ispartofalargersectionthatcontraststhefateoftherighteousandthe wicked.Inverse3,Solomonhighlightstheimportanceofintegrityin leadership.Leaderswhoareguidedbyhonestyandfaithfulnesswillfind security,butthosewhoengageindeceitanddishonestywillultimatelyface ruin.ThisalignswithJesus’teachingthatahousebuiltonaweakfoundation willcollapse(Matthew7:26-27).
Verse4remindsusthatearthlywealthcannotprotectusfromdivine judgment,butrighteousnessprovidestruesecurity.Thisprincipalechoesin Jesus’warningtotherichyoungrulerinMark10:17-27.Theyoungmanhad greatwealthbutlackedtherighteousnessthatcomesfromfollowingGod wholeheartedly.
Bible Study Questions
1 How does integrity guide a leader’s decisions, and why is it essential for godly leadership?
2.What does Proverbs 11:3-4 teach us about the dangers of dishonesty in leadership?
3. Why does Scripture emphasize righteousness over material wealth, and how should this shape our leadership?
4.How did Jesus exemplify humility and integrity in His leadership?
5. What practical steps can we take to ensure we lead with integrity in our personal and professional lives?
LifeApplication
Proverbs11:3-4challengesustoevaluateourleadershipagainstthestandard ofintegrity.Intoday’sworld,manyleadersfallduetoalackofcharacter. ChristianleadershipisnotaboutpersonalgainbutaboutservingGodand otherswithhonesty.
Asleaders,wemustaskourselves:Areweseekingpowerandwealth,orarewe pursuingrighteousness?Theworldvaluesstatus,butGodvaluesfaithfulness. Letuschoosetowalkinintegrity,knowingthattrueleadershipisabout servingGodandHispeople.
ReflectionQuestions
1.Whatareasofmyleadershiprequiremoreintegrity,andhowcanIsurrender themtoGod?
2.HowcanIactivelydemonstratehumilityinmyleadership,followingChrist’s example?
3.WhatstepswillItakethisweektoensuremyleadershipreflects righteousnessratherthanpersonalambition?
Closing Prayer
Loving God: we thank You for the wisdom found in Your Word. You have called us to lead with integrity, following the example of Jesus Christ. Help us to be leaders who seek righteousness over riches, faithfulness over fame, and service over status. May our integrity guide us in all that we do, and may our humility reflect Your love to those we lead. Lord, protect us from the temptations of power and pride, and fill us with Your Spirit so that we may lead with wisdom and grace. Refine our hearts, and strengthen our commitment to walk in Your ways. May our leadership bring glory to You and bless those around us. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Dedication
To my grandchildren—Nina, Elisha, Rosey, Noe, and Jack—may your leadership always be guided by God.
Acknowledgments
Writing this Bible study has been an inspiring yet challenging journey, filled with unexpected twists and turns. I am deeply grateful to Annie Ingram for her unwavering support and invaluable suggestions.
The editorial expertise of the Reverend Vivian Brown Toussaint and the Reverend Janice Rhodes Casey has significantly enhanced the clarity and readability of each study. I also extend my heartfelt appreciation to the Reverend Dr. Monica Dawkins Smith for her theological insights and her gift for “linear” thinking, which have strengthened the foundation of these studies.
Finally, I am profoundly thankful for the members of Greater Bethel African Methodist Episcopal Church in Athens, Georgia. By God’s grace, I am blessed to serve His people and carry out His work within our congregation and community.
About the Author
The Reverend Marben Bland is the Pastor of Greater Bethel African Methodist Episcopal Church in Athens, Georgia. A dynamic multimedia storyteller, he is passionate about spreading the Gospel through podcasting, blogging, video, print, and social media, fulfilling Jesus’ call to teach and inspire others.
Reverend Bland holds a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science, English, and Business from Mercer University in Macon, Georgia. He earned a Master’s in Public Administration from Georgia College and State University in Milledgeville, Georgia, and a Master of Divinity from Columbia Theological Seminary in Decatur, Georgia.
With over four decades of experience working alongside top leaders in business, the military, and the church, he brings a wealth of wisdom and leadership insight. His book, Becoming the Leader God Wants You to Be, reflects his journey and experiences in faith-driven leadership.
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You to Be
Seven Becoming the Leader God Wants
Biblical Principles For Godly Leadership
Leadership is more than a position or title it’s a calling. As followers of Christ, we are called to lead with humility, wisdom, and integrity. Whether you are leading in your home, workplace, ministry, or community, God has given you a blueprint for leadership through His Word.
In Becoming the Leader God Wants You to Be, The Reverend Marben Bland, pastor of Greater Bethel AME Church in Athens, Georgia, explores seven essential biblical principles that define godly leadership. This transformational study will equip you with the spiritual foundation needed to lead with faith and purpose.
Inside this study, you will discover:
Week One: Lead With Humility – Matthew 20:26
Week Two: Seek Wisdom From God – James 1:5
Week Three: Be Courageous in Faith – Joshua 1:9
Week Four: Love and Serve Others – 1 Corinthians 16:14
Week Five: Stay Rooted in God’s Word – Psalm 119:105
Week Six: Be Led by the Holy Spirit – Romans 8:14
Week Seven: Walk in Integrity – Proverbs 11:3
Each chapter includes in-depth biblical teachings, reflection questions, and practical applications to help you grow as a Christ-centered leader. Whether you are a seasoned leader or just beginning your journey, this study will inspire and empower you to embrace God’s vision for leadership.
Are you ready to become the leader God wants you to be? Let His Word be your guide.
Praise the Lord!
Welcome to Becoming the Leader God Wants You to Be: Seven Biblical Principles for Godly Leadership.
This Bible study was born out of a deep desire to leave my grandchildren a legacy of what godly leadership truly is—how it works and how we can apply it in our daily lives.
As we embark on this journey together, I encourage you to set aside time each week to reflect on the study questions and use the ample space in your book to record your thoughts. While we will discuss only a few of the questions during our weekly one-hour sessions, my prayer is that your personal study outside our meetings will be a time of profound spiritual growth.
Below is our study schedule. Please note the new Zoom login credentials for our sessions. We will meet exclusively on Zoom; however, recordings of previous sessions, along with the eBook and bonus materials, can be accessed at www.gbaathens/leader.
Becoming the Leader God Wants You to Be � Zoom Meeting ID: 695 669 5487 � Passcode: 819277
Study Schedule:
Session One: Lead with Humility – Matthew 20:26
Thursday, March 20, 2025 – 7:00 PM ET
Session Two: Seek Wisdom from God – James 1:5
Thursday, March 27, 2025 – 7:00 PM ET
Session Three: Be Courageous in Faith – Joshua 1:9
Thursday, April 3, 2025 – 7:00 PM ET
Session Four: Love and Serve Others – 1 Corinthians 16:14
Thursday, April 10, 2025 – 7:00 PM ET
Maundy Thursday Dinner
Thursday, April 17, 2025 – 5:00 PM ET
Augusta North Annual Conference
Thursday, April 24, 2025
Session Five: Stay Rooted in God’s Word – Psalm 119:105
Thursday, May 1, 2025 – 7:00 PM ET
Session Six: Be Led by the Holy Spirit – Romans 8:14
Thursday, May 14, 2025 – 7:00 PM ET
Session Seven: Walk in Integrity – Proverbs 11:3
Thursday, May 21, 2025 – 7:00 PM ET
Each session will offer in-depth biblical teachings, reflection questions, and practical applications designed to help you grow as a Christ-centered leader. Whether you are an experienced leader or just beginning your journey, this study will inspire and equip you to embrace God’s calling in your life. Are you ready to become the leader God wants you to be? Let His Word be your guide.
Blessings,
Marben Bland, Pastor, Greater Bethel, African Methodist Episcopal Church – Athens, Georgia