Memorial Brochure Lady Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi

Website for brochure: https://bit.ly/LadyFlorenceBrochure

6th - 7th August, 2022 CELEBRATION SERVICE

BIOGRAPHY

TRIBUTES

PART ONE: LYING IN REPOSE Venue: Lower Terrace, PIWC-Atomic File Past with background music (6:00am – 7:45am) Come ye that Love the Lord (pg. 48) Other songs of hope

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PART TWO: CELEBRATION SERVICE Opening Prayer (8:00) - Ps. Emmanuel Oppong Donkor Choruses - Royal Vessels Acknowledgements - Conductor Scripture Reading (1 Cor. 15:35-58) a. English: Deaconess Mrs. Efua Garbrah-Sarfo b. Ga: Rev. Prof. (Capt. Rtd.) Godson Tetteh c. Twi: Mr. Ebenezer Danso Song - My hope is built on nothing less (pg. 48) Prayer of Thanksgiving Song - Regent University (I am not moved by what I see...)

Biography - Family Member

Tributes: a. Children b. Widower c. Regent University d. PIWC-Atomic Offertory Sermon & Altar Call - Rev. Kofi Antwi-Boasiako Song by Bereaved Family Prayer for Bereaved Family - Aps. Eric Nyamekye Vote of Thanks - Family Member Announcements - Eld. Eric Atta-Sonno Closing Prayer Benediction

PART THREE: COMMITTAL SERVICE Venue: Dominion Gardens – Larteh OFFICIATING MINISTER: Aps. Eric Nyamekye (Chairman, The Church of Pentecost) Order of Proceedings a. Opening Prayer b. Song c. Lowering of Casket d. Committal e. Closing Prayer f. Benediction PART FOUR: 7TH AUGUST 2022 Sunday Service @PIWC-Atomic (08:00am) Post-Service Gathering by family members, friends and sympathisers at Regent Villa, Saka Tsuru Loop, Dansoman (13:30pm)

Conductor Aps. Emmanuel Gyesi-Addo/ Ps. Tony Mensah PIWC-ATOMIC in pictures

Picture taken on th 9 May, 2022.

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Biography

Birth and Parentage

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ady Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi was born on 27th September 1951 at Amamomo in Palladium, Accra. Her father's name was Mr. Ekem Parker, a businessman. Florence's paternal grandfather was Mr. Theophilus Parker from Cape Coast. Her paternal grandmother was called Auntie Naa-Bessah from Akoto Lante, James Town, Accra. Florence's mother's name was Madam Sarah Sarku Nettey. She came from Shia Wulu in Amamomo, Accra.

Lady Florence Larbi's maiden name was Florence NaaBessah Parker. She was named after her paternal grandmother, Auntie Naa-Bessah, and she grew up with the childhood name Naa-Bessah. At some point, because her paternal grandmother was known as Auntie, the name Auntie was used more frequently by her siblings and other family members as her household name.

Florence had fifteen siblings; she was the sixth born of her mother and the sixth born of her father. The marriage between Madam Nettey and Mr. Parker

Lady Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi (a.k.a. Auntie Florence)

produced two children of which Florence was the first born. Her other sibling, Mr. Theophilus Amartey Parker, is currently residing in the United Kingdom.

The only surviving sibling from the mother's side of an earlier marriage is Mrs. Justina Darku, whose maiden name was Justina Fearon.

Upbringing and Early Education As a child, Florence accompanied her mother to Kumasi when her mother got a job as the Matron for the University of Science and Technology now Kwame Nkrumah University of Science and Technology (KNUST). Her mother was later transferred to Accra as the matron of the University of Ghana Business School. Auntie subsequently enrolled at Anumle Primary and Middle School, Anumle, a suburb of Achimota, Accra. After successfully passing the Common Entrance Examination, she was admitted to Apam Secondary School in the Gomoa West District of the Central Region of Ghana, where she completed in 1971.

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biogra an opportunity to travel to the UK to be trained as a nurse. This could not materialise because of some challenges. Her brother-in-law, Lt. Colonel Ankrah, now deceased, therefore helped her to secure a job at the Ghana Commercial Bank. Her first job at the Bank as a cashier was in January 1972, at the Republic House branch, Accra. She worked in both junior and senior positions in various branches and departments of the Bank between January 1972 and July 1992. At some point, she was the officer in charge of the Dome Agency. She worked at the following branches of the Bank: Republic House, Kumasi Main (Stewart Avenue), Wenchi, and Osu. She was finally sent to the Republic House branch from where she brought her service with the Bank to an end. The departments of the Bank where she worked included the following: Central Accounts, Ledgers, Savings, Cash, Reconciliation, Standing Orders, and the Controller's Department (Head Office). She rose through various ranks at the Bank. The various training programmes she undertook at the Ghana Commercial Bank Training School included: New Entrants Course (1972), Cashier's Course (1976), Sub Assistant Accountants Course (1980), Accountant/Officer Gd. II Course (1985).

Family Life Auntie got married to Mr. Emmanuel Kingsley Larbi (now Professor Larbi), on 3rd December 1977, at the Achimota Christ Apostolic Church. Their marriage was officiated by the first General Secretary of the Church of Pentecost, Apostle James Egyir-Paintsil, Apostle Daniel K. Saforo, one of the pillars of the Christ Apostolic Church, and the Revd. Emmanuel Parker, of the Church of Pentecost. Auntie and her husband have four grown-up children.

Involvement in the Church of Pentecost Though her mother, Madam Nettey, had an Anglican heritage, when they relocated to Achimota, they joined the Christ Apostolic Church, which is located near the current Achimota Police Station. Florence was brought up in a good Christian home and would attend Sunday school service regularly and on time. She joined the Church of Pentecost after her marriage in 1977 following her marriage to Rev. Professor Larbi. Soon after her marriage in

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1977, since her husband was by then working in Kumasi, she requested a transfer in order to join her husband there. In Kumasi she became part of the Asokwa church where her husband was an integral part. Later when her husband got a new job with a British civil engineering construction company in 1979 and was posted to Bawku, Florence, relocated to Accra and joined the North Kaneshie Church. When she was later transferred by her employers to the Wenchi branch of the Ghana Commercial Bank, she worshipped at the Wenchi church for some time until her employers transferred her back to Accra. She then resumed her church activities at the North Kaneshie Branch of the Church of Pentecost, where she was later ordained a Deaconess.

Since 2003, Auntie and her husband have been part of the Pentecost International Worship Centre (PIWC), a ministry of the Church of Pentecost.

The Church initially met at the Accra Technical Training Centre where her husband was there as an Associate Minister. In October 2008, Florence and her husband were part of the members who moved from ATTC to form the nucleus of the PIWC-ATOMIC District church. Until Auntie's demise she was part of the District where her husband has continued to serve as an Associate Minister.

Further Education When Auntie joined her husband in 1986 at the Nairobi Evangelical Graduate School of Theology), Kenya, now Africa International University, she enrolled in the School's Diploma in Christian Ministry programme. She completed in 1988. She later enrolled at Daystar University, Nairobi, Kenya, in 1989 for a Bachelor of Arts in Administration programme. She had to abandon the programme because of the family's return to Ghana in 1989.

Later, Auntie took the opportunity to study for the BSc Human Development and Psychology programme at the Regent University College of Science and Technology, Accra, which she completed in 2015. She later enrolled in the Master of Philosophy programme in Guidance and Psychology at the Methodist University, Accra.

The Presbytery of beloved COP Asokwa Assembly, Kumasi, at Lady Larbi and Prof Larbi's rd wedding on 3 Dec. 1997. Among the delegation were – the General Manager, UAC Kumasi, Elder Clottey (Presiding Elder) and wife, and the leader of the Women's Ministry, Auntie Essie.

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Lady Florence Larbi in pictures, sunrise to sunset

Founding Associate at RUCST Auntie was one of the founding associates of Regent University College of Science and Technology. She served diligently as the Counsellor from the inception of the University in 2005 until her untimely demise.

As a founding member of the University, she was tirelessly involved in various aspects of the institution's life.

Involvement in the Extended Family Auntie Florence promoted goodwill among her siblings and made sure that they all settled differences amicably. She was disciplined and was involved in numerous church activities, such as community outreach programmes. Her warmth and infectious smile drew her close to people from all walks of life. She was very active in the activities of the extended family.

Unexpected Demise Auntie did not suffer from any protracted sickness; her death on June 3, 2022, therefore came to us as a shock. Our consolation, however, is that she died in the Lord, and we are therefore hopeful that we will meet her again to part no more.

Auntie Naa-Bessah, may your soul rest in peace until we meet again.

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Tributes

Tribute

in Honour of the Wife of My Youth & My Partner in Ministry

Rev. Professor E. Kingsley Larbi Our days on earth are like grass; like wildflowers, we bloom and die. The wind blows, and we are gone - as though we had never been here. Psalm 103:15-16, NLT

Last year, as Lady Florence's 70th birthday was approaching, I asked her how she would like to celebrate it. Her response was simple: “Very quietly, will be playing some music.”

The above quotation is one of the many scriptures that should continue to remind us of the brevity of human life (Job 14:1-2; Psalm 90:3-6; Isaiah 40:6-8; 1 Peter1:24-25).

Since then, we began the countdown to my seventieth birthday anniversary so that together, we could modestly celebrate it with a Platinum book launch, for which the proceeds were to be used to support the education of people from indigent or poor families and communities, a mission we have embarked on for the past several years.

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lorence and I got married on 3rd December 1977.

We spent a total of forty-five years together, sharing and shunning varied experiences. In God's own wisdom, it pleased Him to take her away unexpectedly on 3rd June 2022. An experience that shook me like a thunderbolt. My wife's sudden death strongly reminded me of the fact that we must accept each day that the good Lord gives us with a deep sense of gratitude, and do our utmost to live it to the full, for indeed “our days on earth are like grass, like the flowers in the field, we bloom and die. The wind blows and we are gone” unexpectedly. Tomorrow does not belong to us.

We had planned the proposed book launch for Sunday, 4th September 2022. The book launch was to be preceded by a one-hour, public musical event. We looked forward to hosting both the young and old and especially our friends and acquaintances, seventy years and older, to celebrate God's goodness with us.

We had chosen as our Guest of Honour, Dr. Modupe Taylor-Pearce, an eighty-nine-year-old Sierra Leonean preacher, who once served as the Registrar of the West African Examinations Council, and later as the Principal of Nairobi Evangelical Graduate School 10

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of Theology, our alma mater. So after parting company in 1989 in Nairobi, we were looking forward to meeting this octogenarian, who is currently the Canon Emeritus of the Anglican Church in Sierra Leone, the Diocese of Freetown, where he still preaches at the Cathedral and plays the saxophone often.

Lady Florence's death has once again strongly reminded me of what the Old Testament sage eloquently said thousands of years ago in the Book of Proverbs that we can make our plans, but it is the Lord who determines how far we can bring those plans to fruition or how far we can carry out those plans (Proverbs 16:9, NLT).

The demise of Auntie Florence, as I used to call her sometimes, has rendered the 4th September celebrations no more feasible.

Before her transition, she had already read through eight chapters of the manuscript of this very important book. The ninth chapter was ready for her perusal, but that never happened because of her hospitalisation.

Her departure is certainly going to deprive me of her helpful insights, generosity, wisdom, sacrifice, wise counsel, and many other important qualities she had. As “the wife of my youth,” and my partner in ministry, Lady Florence's support in my life is incalculable; it will be an understatement to Solemnisation of marriage by ordinance on 03 12 1977.

Lead officiating ministers, from left to right Apostle Joseph Egyiri-Painstil (First General Secretary of COP), Apostle Daniel K. Saforo (CAC) and Pastor Emmanuel Parker (COP).

Photo taken on Wedding Day (Signing of Marriage Certificates) 03 12 1977 M. C. Asiedu (Best Man), and Joana Paintsil (Maid of Honour)

Those in the group picture include Lady Larbi's mother (Mad. Sarku Nettey), and her senior sister, (E. Naa Dokua Fearon); others are Opayin Kofi M. Toah, and Obaapa Christiana A. Karle Awuku, (father and mother of the groom respectively). Others were Charles Agyei Appiah (Personnel Manager, GIHOC Distilleries), and Joseph Agyei Appiah (General Manager, Johnsons Wax), uncles of the groom.

indicate that she was a strong pillar in my life and ministry. As a partner in ministry, she never wanted to take the front seat; she always preferred taking the back seat so that she could quietly take care of the tasks that might have been abandoned or needed some attention. She often tried to work behind the scenes to put out fires when the need arose.

During my extended overseas travels in pursuit of higher education for our collective good and in fulfilment of what I considered to be my calling, she singlehandedly took care of the children for some time before we were able to reunite as a family. After our return from Kenya, her mother's house became a haven for me for nine months before we found an official accommodation suitable for our family. As a matter of fact, without the understanding and the support I received from her, during the various stages of our marriage, life would have been more difficult.

The full extent and impact of Lady Florence Larbi's counselling ministry came to full glare to me only after her demise. She did not neglect what she considered her divine assignment; she quietly and with dignity pursued that assignment with distinction without letting people know the individual lives and families she was touching.

My dear wife and partner in ministry silently touched countless lives; though she left me unexpectedly, I believe she finished the race the good Lord assigned her. She received her higher call when we mortals thought she still had

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Long-time buddies, S.T. Assiamah, M.C. Asiedu, Joana Paintsil, and S.G. Darko, and others, celebrate with Prof Larbi and Lady Larbi

Last picture taken with Lady Larbi on 9th May 2022

several more years to live in this world. As I looked at her motionless body on that fateful night of June 3, glaring at her face, I observed a strange phenomenon; I saw some peace and tranquillity all over her face. The very peace that had eluded her for weeks, in death, I saw that peace spread across her face. She indeed had slept in the Lord!

Though I grieve in her death, I do not do so like the rest of mankind who have no hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13b). As a faith community “We believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him” (1 Thessalonians 4:14, NIV).

Sweetheart, you have gone but I am hopeful that the marks of your good deeds will continue to inspire many, young and old, rich and poor. I bid you farewell with the strong conviction that you will rise again “when the Lord Himself comes down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet of God…” (1 Thessalonians 4: 16).

Till then, SLEEP WELL, DARLING; we will meet again!

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Tribute To Our Beloved Mother “A mother is a person who, seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie." —Tenneva Jordan This quotation aptly describes the kind of motherly care we were blessed as your children to receive from you. You had a very selfless way of putting your needs and concerns on the back burner, to focus on others.

You were a very present mother, and you showed interest in every aspect of our lives--our school life, our social life, and our spiritual life. You were even interested in the wellbeing of our friends. Well into our adult lives, every now and then, you would check in with us and ask, "How is everything going?" Well into our adult years, when we stayed out late, one thing was for sure. We would certainly receive a call from you to enquire about our whereabouts.

Mummy, you were a breath of fresh air. Yes, you were the life of the party, always knowing what to say and do to diffuse tension and set people at ease.

You were a Counsellor at heart; ready to offer counsel whenever the need arose. You were interested in the everyday lives of ordinary people. You would see a street hawker carrying so many items, and you would oftentimes advise the street hawker on how best to carry their wares. Occasionally, some of us would try

talking you out of this. And you would insist, saying "I'm just doing my job," Interestingly, the hawkers always took your advice in good faith and worked with your suggestions as they thanked you with smiles on their faces. They called you "Mummy."

You were a source of endless inspiration to us. You always expressed confidence in us, and in who we were capable of becoming. You saw greatness in all of us and reminded us of our greatness every chance you got. Perhaps, this is one of the things we would miss the most about you.

The few weeks you spent in the hospital in the latter part of your life, showed just how strong you were, and how devoted you were to the things of God. You kept saying, "God is in control." "Holy Spirit take control."

You were full of gratitude, even during your final days on earth. Ben remembers during one of the days at the hospital, you spoke to him, expressing deep gratitude for all the care and support you had received and shared some other things with him. That night, after spending the whole day waiting on you at the hospital, he told you he was going back home, to which you said "God be with you." It was a few days later that he realized that, that was probably your farewell message.

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While at the hospital, you longed to return home. So did we. We really looked forward to you coming back home, mum. Little did we know, that it wasn't your earthly home you were going to be discharged to, but your heavenly home.

We are comforted and consoled by the scripture: To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. (2 Cor. 5:8); and in the words of Billy Graham, "The moment we take our last breath on earth, we take our first in heaven."

So, Mummy, we have no doubt in our minds that you are now in heaven.

All of us are inspired and greatly encouraged by the life you lived and the countless testimonials of your impact that keep coming in from numerous people, both young and old.

We are convinced that the only thing left now, is to ensure that your legacy continues. This, we will try our best to do. Your memory not only lives in our hearts and minds; but in the hearts and minds of everyone you impacted with your life.

We love you mum; we wish you a blissful rest.

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Jemimah

Ben

James

Tribute to

Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi

Regent University College of Science and Technology Our days may come to seventy years, or eighty, if our strength endures; yet the best of them are but trouble and sorrow, for they quickly pass, and we fly away.” Psalm 90:10, NIV

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e know these words in Psalm 90:10, but we never thought they would be so real in Mummy's case. We celebrated with her when she turned 70 in September 2021. As we were looking forward to celebrating some more exciting years with her, little did we know that our excitement will be cut short and that we will be mourning our dear mother before she turns 71.

Mrs. Larbi will always be remembered for the motherly love and care she showed to all and sundry, her wise counsel to students, and her dedication to work. Her passion for students and the mandate that birthed the university was very admirable. At every meeting or university function, Mummy, as most students and staff affectionately called her, was always concerned about our students. She had the institutional memory

and would always insist on getting back on track when there seemed to be a deviation. Since her role as the University Counsellor fell within the Chaplaincy department, she was always present each time a member of the University community was getting married or celebrating any function. She would be part of the team to visit any university member who was ill or bereaved.

Her good neighbourliness will never be forgotten; she was always seen sharing cupcakes, drinks, and other sweets with members of the University. In fact, there are some senior members of the University who may not have cupcakes in their fridge because Mrs. Larbi will not be around to share goodies. She would call members of staff and even students at random just to check up on them and find out how they were doing.

Her motherly love and unconditional care for all were indeed unmatched. Indeed she will be greatly missed.

She was very resourceful for the university as a whole.

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functions, Mrs. Larbi would ensure that all guests were well served. We are at a loss on how we can overcome her demise. It will be an understatement to state that Mummy Larbi was an asset to the entire University community. As a University, we have lost a foundation member. She was a mother to everyone, students and staff alike.

Her life was well-lived. Though we wish she was still with us, we also believe that God knows why He took her away at such a time as this. We will miss her dearly, but we are convinced that we shall meet again. With this hope, we know we are not saying a final goodbye today. When the trumpet shall sound and the dead in Christ shall rise first, Mummy will be part of the great resurrection. Meanwhile, Mummy, members of the entire Regent Community wish you a peaceful rest till we meet again.

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At every meeting or university function, Mummy, as most students and staff affectionately called her, was always concerned about our students.

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Mummy at Regent University

Tribute

in Honour of Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi

Pentecost International Worship Center - Atomic (COP-ATOMIC) "And now, dear brothers and sisters, we want you to know what will happen to the believers who have died so you will not grieve like people who have no hope.

For since we believe that Jesus died and was raised to life again, we also believe that when Jesus returns, God will bring back with him the believers who have died."

1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 While the passing of Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi on 3rd June 2022 is great gain for her; it is a huge loss for all of us who knew her. There will be a gaping hole in our hearts for some time, but God will use the instrument of time to heal those holes.

From the records made available to us, Mrs. Florence Larbi was previously an active member of the Christ Apostolic Church. She joined The Church of Pentecost in December 1977 after her marriage to Rev. Prof.

Emmanuel Kingsley Larbi. In her initial days in The Church of Pentecost, Mrs. Larbi worshipped with the church's assemblies at Asokwa in Kumasi, North Kaneshie in Accra, and Wenchi. In all these assemblies, she was an active member playing various roles. This subsequently led to her being ordained a Deaconess in

the North Kaneshie Assembly of The Church of Pentecost.

Mama Florence Larbi together with her husband and children joined the Pentecost International Worship Centre-Accra in 2003, at the time we were worshipping at the Accra Technical Training Centre (ATTC). Her husband had just completed his tenure with the Central University College and just about beginning the Regent University College of Science and Technology. Her husband was soon requested by the church to serve as an Associate Minister in the PIWCAccra.

In October 2008, when PIWC-Atomic was carved out of the then PIWC-Accra, Mama Florence, her husband and the children opted to be part of the members who formed the nucleus of the new PIWC-Atomic. Until mummy's home-call, she dutifully and faithfully fulfilled her role as a very dedicated member and 'Osofomaame' of PIWC-Atomic.

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formidable force behind her husband's ministry providing him all the needed support to enable him efficiently play his role as an Associate Minister of this great church. As a mother, she was a great example to many of the young ladies. She was an extremely committed and dedicated mother to all who came to her for various support especially in counselling.

Mama Florence was a very dedicated Counsellor and she spent most of her time offering counselling services to members who required the service. In 2010, when the Counselling Ministry of PIWC-Atomic was being constituted, Mrs. Larbi was appointed a member of the seven-member leadership of that ministry. In that role, she actively joined forces with the rest of the team to offer all the various kinds of counselling services for which members flocked to the ministry.

In 2013, when the centre began a Shepherd-Sheep initiative aimed at ensuring that pastoral care was devolved to mature officers, Mrs. Larbi, though a minister's wife, requested that she be assigned some members. Twelve members were subsequently assigned to her and she was one of the few who consistently reported on her 'sheep'. Until the very end, the dedication of Mama Larbi and her commitment to the ministry work was unquestionable.

She would always call or send messages to check up on members who had not showed up in church services.

She indeed yearned for the spiritual growth of members and worked hard to have this realized.

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Ever sporting an infectious smile, Mrs. Florence Larbi was a very humble woman imbued with a deep sense of respect towards both the young and the old. Mrs. Larbi obviously had a very quiet disposition but yet her impact was just so palpable. She was always on hand to offer godly advice when the need arose. As far as the PIWC Women's Ministry was concerned, her love was evidenced by her regular attendance to almost all its programmes, where she always had a word or two to share with the leadership on how best to ensure the spiritual growth of the ministry.

Mama Florence, your sudden home call has brought home to us, the reality of how fleeting life here on earth indeed is. We will endeavour to make the most of every opportunity the Lord gives us and keep working while it is still day.

For now, PIWC-Atomic celebrates the life of Mama Florence and reiterate our deep appreciation for her service to the church all these nineteen years she was with us and the numerous lives she has impacted as a sweet mother full of godly counsel.

We are of the firm belief that our mummy, Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi indeed lived, ministered and died in the Lord and has now joined the Church Triumphant above.

Till we meet in Heaven, Mama Florence, have a most deserved rest in the bosom of our maker!

A Dirge

in Memory of Lady Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi

Apostle M. C. Asiedu She was different The first time I set my eyes on Auntie Florence in 1977, I realised she was different. She was beautiful, neatly and modestly dressed; she had small, round lips that was rare and so beautiful. She exuded confidence, yet calm and respectful in her demeanour.

My spiritual mentor and godfather, "Wonderful Larbi," as Professor Larbi was in those days affectionately called in The Church of Pentecost, Labadi Assembly, told me he had found the love of his heart. The description he gave to convince me and all others was these three words: "She is different."

She was DIFFERENT in her GIVING to others; She was DIFFERENT in her CARING for others; She was DIFFERENT in her RESPECT for others; She was DIFFERENT in her KINDNESS and SUPPORT for others; She was DIFFERENT in her LOVE and APPRECIATION for others; She was DIFFERENT in her SMILE and the CONSISTENCY of that SMILE; She was DIFFERENT in her PASSION to help others OVERCOME their CHALLENGES. I was there when it all happened On that momentous occasion, the occasion of their wedding on 3rd December 1977 at the Christ Apostolic Church, Achimota, I was there; I was the Best Man! I was there when it all happened. When I considered the amount of prayer that went into the occasion itself, that occasion gave me the strong impression that marriage was and still is a serious business.

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Over the years, I got married, and the relationship widened to include my wife, Elizabeth. Whilst we parted ways to pursue our separate callings, we later reunited in 2004. My wife Elizabeth and I could affirm that Auntie Florence was a virtuous woman, different in many ways.

Rest in Peace, it is well Today as we bid Mama Florence our last farewell, in pain and in sorrow, I can only say, it is well ….

Mama Florence, Rest in Peace, it is well; · Prof. will be fine, Rest in Peace; · Godson, Jemimah, Benjamin, and James will be fine, Rest in Peace; · I will be there to support them as long as the good Lord gives me life, Rest in Peace; · The Church will be there to support them, Rest in Peace.

The LORD OF HOSTS IS WITH US; THE GOD OF JACOB IS OUR FORTRESS. REST IN PEACE, IT IS WELL. (Words arranged by E. K. Larbi)

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Special Tribute

In Honour of Lady Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi (a.k.a. Auntie Florence)

Professor Emeritus Stephen Adei and Mrs. Georgina Adei

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he last person Stephen chatted with on the 7th of May, was Auntie Florence at the funeral of Deaconess Mrs. Margaret Badu Tobin, ending with her infectious smile and “mekyea Mama.” But we knew something had gone wrong when for a week neither Stephen nor Georgina received a call to enquire whether Georgina was okay and how she was doing. After a while, Stephen tried to make contact with her and Prof (as we call Apostle Prof Kingsley Larbi) but couldn't go through. We tried our Pastor at PIWC Atomic but to no avail (he later returned our call).

But eventually, we got Elder Nkansah online who told us that Auntie has had an operation, and something had gone terribly wrong. Apostle Prof Larbi later confirmed that she was in intensive care at the Korlebu Teaching Hospital.

us “I have gone to see Mummy. The doctor said she is doing fine. They have taken her off sedation. So, she's fully conscious;” only to read “Mummy has left us,” the next day.

The death of Lady Larbi, our dear friend, will be unforgettable. She was a dear, loving sister in the Lord and a good caring friend. Over the last decade plus, during which our family has had to deal with health challenges of our own including coma and kidney

For all her days in intensive care, we prayed for her recovery, and reports from Prof, through phone calls and WhatsApp messages became more and more encouraging. Even the day before she died, Prof told

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failure we can say without any equivocation that Lady Larbi showed love, care and sisterly concern for us, probably more than any single person outside our immediate family. We thank God for her life, concern and love.

Her youthful, cheerful looks and humility, not to mention her beauty, made us look to her as a “little sister”(young girl), who would be around to see us off to heaven because we thought that with our cemetery flowers, we will be the first to go to be with the Lord. But as God will have it our dear friend has gone ahead to be with the Lord. Adieu, our Friend and our sister. You will be dearly missed by us as we know by all your friends and brethren, especially by your husband and family. We are, however, comforted by the words of Prophet Isaiah that: The righteous perish, and no one takes it to heart; the devout are taken away, and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil. Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they lie in death (Isaiah 57: 1-2, NIV). Till we meet at Jesus' feet, Adieu, our beloved Sister and friend.

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Tribute by Siblings “Blessed are the dead which die in the Lord from henceforth; yea thou saith the spirit, that they may rest from their labour and their works do follow them.”

Revelations 14:13 Spirit to spirit and heart to heart, siblings forever, together and apart.

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rs. Florence Larbi, was a remarkable sister to us. Her presence was always felt, and was always there for the family. 'Aunty', as we affectionately called her, was the kind of sister who lived her life with so much confidence, and approached issues with a positive attitude. She was a peacemaker. With wise counsel and a good sense of humour, she would make difficult issues, seem simple, and stressless for all the parties involved.

Aunty, your death has left a big vacuum. We wonder who will be accompanying us as a representative at family gatherings. You have always been a guide and inspiration for us to keep a cool head when addressing issues.

We are so grateful to God for the years we got to spend with you and the closeness we shared. You had a kind and thoughtful heart, we always knew you truly cared. We have lost a wonderful sister and a special friend.

We love and miss you, however, we know you are with God your maker and He loves you more...

Aunty, yaa wo ojogban. Aunty, rest well.

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e knew you as a wonderful aunt, whom we affectionately called 'Aunty', the one who in our eyes never really grew old. Your smile was like sunshine, your heart was like pure gold, and your eyes were as bright as the shining stars.

Growing up as kids in the family house, we always looked forward to the exciting stories you had to tell us whenever you came home from your tedious banking job. Your stories always lightened up the atmosphere, filling the home with laughter. Your sense of humour was amazing. We would always run to welcome you from work knowing that you always had something delicious in your bag to give us. How can we forget your large and heavily-filled meat pie as well as your milky and chocolate cupcakes.

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You were always there for us; you were like a mother to us, praying passionately for our wellbeing and supporting us whenever you could. Indeed, you were a mother to all, we love you, but God loves you more.

We are deeply grateful to you for always supporting us physically and spiritually. You served as a grandma to our kids right from their delivery.

You have indeed left us with a lot of memories. We are yet to come to terms with the fact that you are really gone! Aunty, although we can't see your radiant smile or touch your hands, we have many lovely memories we shared, your surprise visits to our homes with fresh fish and lots of other goodies we cannot forget.

Rest well Aunty, Aunty yaa wɔ ojogbaŋŋ.

Other Tributes

Professor N.N.N. Nsowah-Nuamah First and the longest-served Chairman of Regent University Council & a former President of Regent

When I heard of your passing on the phone, I screamed! I wondered why good people die so early. When someone around me asked why I screamed, I told the person that we have lost a very nice person. I continued that I always think of my late mother as a very nice and a good woman; I saw Mama Florence as one such good and nice woman that I have ever met.

Mama Florence, your death is a blow to the entire Regent University College community and to all those who had one time been associated with Regent.

You were a humble and a loving mother to all students, staff and even the management.

I remember when I was at Regent, you would once in a while come to my office and ask how I was doing. Even when I left, you would still send me best wishes during Christmas, Easter and Father's day celebrations.

You were always in good spirits; your mood never changed. You were affable, soft-spoken and a virtuous woman. You were indeed a woman of noble character and a unifier, one who creates peace in the ocean without taking credit. She was the Abigail of our times.

We will forever miss you. Mama Florence, rest in perfect peace. Amen.

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Mr. Albert Kobinah Amonoo Founding Associate, Snr. Vice President (Rtd.) - Regent University

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n my capacity as Vice President of Regent, and later as Senior Vice President until my retirement, I had the opportunity to work with Mrs. Larbi on many fronts. As a mother of the University, she was keenly interested in the steady progress of the University.

She was also very much concerned about the wellbeing of individual members of staff. She tirelessly led hospital visitations of sick staff, carrying fruits and provision parcels. She was so committed to this work that she sometimes pre-financed the cost of some of the items needed.

As a key member of the Scholarship Committee, she strongly canvassed for assistance to needy students, particularly those she perceived as hardworking and God-fearing. She had a knack for resolving relationship challenges not only of staff but of students as well, especially among the female students. As a member of the Disciplinary Committee, Lady Florence's contribution provided a moderating influence on decisions taken. She spared no effort in seeking personal audience with me to plead for pardon or reprieve for serious cases bordering on possible dismissal of students.

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meetings with the respected University Counsellor on various issues.

As a mother of the University, she was involved in all hospitality aspects of University events. She had been at the forefront of fundraising and sponsorship drives to augment the University's resources. She also a played a leading role in the choice of culinary items to be served. I cannot forget the pivotal role she played in celebrating the birthdays of the University's executives and other key officers.

Since I retired in 2019, no officer, either past or present, in the University has related to me and my family more closely and often than Lady Florence. If she was unable to get hold of me, she would speak to my wife who she affectionately called “Sister Barbara,” for the onward relay to me. One remarkable

thing about Lady Florence was that all her interventions and overtures of peace were carried out discretely and at her own volition, without formal notification to the top leadership. This is the unsung mother and heroin of peace whose activities not only contributed to peace and stability in the University but also to some families as well.

Her death is a colossal loss not only to the husband, children and family but to the Regent Community and beyond.

May her soul rest in the perfect peace.

Rev. Dr. Lawrence Tetteh Worldwide Miracle Outreach (WMO) My first meeting with Lady Mrs Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi, was at the PIWC, Atomic, when I bellowed out a particular hymn during one of my preaching sessions. I noticed that she sang along with gusto, and lo and behold her faith had indeed found a resting place.

She called me Papa Osofo, whilst I called her Mama Florence. I never missed the opportunity to tell her how special she was to me and my family. On many occasions, she sought my interest and that of the ministry. She never missed my birthday.

She struck me as a woman with faith and fortitude who was soulfully spiritual without being overbearing. I noticed that she was the wife of Prof. Emmanuel Larbi, founder of Regent University College, where I was eventually asked to serve.

Mama Florence was a Mother to many. Her sense of the general welfare of people was strong and sound.

She possessed a strong personality and was a good manager of people and situations. She had the gift of turning things around, especially when situations looked dire and hopeless. She was often attracted to people by her strong disposition and the apparent solidity of her judgement.

She was so attentive whenever I delivered my messages and it soon became clear to me that her attentiveness was to enable her to dissect my messages and seek clarification on the portions that she felt strongly about. She was truly a woman of faith and had a great sense of love for the things of God. I listened to her wise inputs with rapt attention and subsequently on countless occasions her words of wisdom clearly resonated in my ears. Simply put, we were connected!

I dared not forget Mama's birthday on the 27 September every year, even when I was abroad. Mama Florence was a giver to a fault. I can offer no better tribute to her than to recount an awesome dispensation of her spiritual prowess during the many times we had an encounter with her. th

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She loved the things of God and loved people genuinely. She was always grateful when you prayed with her and even on her sick bed at the Korle-Bu teaching hospital when I visited, she appreciated the prayers that I shared with her and our conversation that brought a smile.

On behalf of the Lawrence Tetteh Ministries, my wife Barbara, the entire Tetteh family and on my own behalf, I wish Mama Florence a peaceful rest in the bosom of the Lord.

Sleep well Mama Florence, till we meet again; you will forever be in our memory.

Deaconess Mrs. Efua Garbrah-Sarfo Mama Larbi or Maa Larbi, as many of us called her, was a warm, friendly, unassuming yet very accomplished, dedicated and committed Christian lady.

For many of us, our initial interactions with Rev. Professor E. K. Larbi, Mrs. Florence Larbi and her family were in the early to mid-2000s. It was while we were worshipping at Kokomlemle at ATTC that the Larbi family joined us. One of my earliest favourite memories of Maa Larbi was when she gave me a surprise phone call about fourteen years ago. At the time, we had just been moved to PIWC Atomic. Mama introduced herself to me and asked how I was doing; we chatted for a while and she would subsequently give me a call virtually every other week or so to check up on me. I also began to return her calls and that is how our friendship began. I would later learn from Maa Larbi that she had taken on a personal project of collecting phone numbers of church members from the church office and would give them calls periodically to check up on them.

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Over the years, Maa Larbi made time to get involved in almost all church activities especially those of the Women's Ministry. Whether it was prayers, Bible studies, outreaches, conferences, retreats, or visitation to the sick or bereaved, Mama was sure to be amongst those availing themselves to learn at the Lord's feet or to impact others. She loved to pray and would often share a word of prayer by phone with someone in distress.

Mama Larbi was indeed a very warm and friendly person. I really enjoyed spending time with her whether it was a quick chat after a church event or it was a visit to their home, especially when they lived at Westlands/West Legon. We had refreshing times of fellowship together. Coincidentally, Mama's daughter Jemima, became my eldest daughter's very good friend while their youngest son, James, is a very

70th Anniversary Birthday Cake presented by the Women’s Ministry PIWC-Atomic

dear friend to our youngest daughter. This also enhanced the bond of friendship between our two families.

I was pleasantly surprised some years ago, to learn that Maa Larbi was undertaking counselling courses. I was amazed as I did not expect her at that time, due to her age, to have enrolled in formal classes. She explained her love for counselling and the need for her to always be abreast with industry practices, so as to be impactful at counselling sessions, both at Regent University and within church circles. For her, it was always about helping others.

We have lost a precious gem; she will be greatly missed! We are however comforted in the knowledge that she is resting in the arms of our Lord God. Mama Rest in in Peace and Rise up in glory. Amen.

70th Anniversary presentation by the Women’s Ministry PIWC-Atomic

Deaconess Mama Janet Ahenkorah “She stretches out her hands to the distaff and her hands hold the spindle.

She extends her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her filled hands to the needy." (Proverbs 31:19-20)

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ama Florence Larbi was a mother to us all. She was prayerful and patient, loved God dearly and lived very wisely as in Proverbs 11:30. From our days at PIWC ATTC to Atomic, her home was open to me and she always welcomed my visits with joy. I deeply respected her humble and caring personality, which was evident in the way she related to her husband, our Rev. Professor Kingsley Larbi and her children Paa Kwesi, Jemima, Ben and James. Whenever she wanted anyone to go the extra mile, she encouraged them with smiles and a loving attitude. She called her daughter Jemima a special name, Senior Abuya (meaning 'friend' in Hausa) as a way to pat her on the back and uplift her whenever she gave her an assignment.

Mama Larbi was a visionary, counsellor and unifier with a calm spirit and kind heart. She was very punctual, a gifted organizer and used her exceptional skills to advance the kingdom of God. Her contributions to soul winning efforts attracted national attention in a 2012 Edition of the Pentecost Fire magazine. It published her regular support for new converts, who were Muslim students who had enrolled at Global Call Academy, a nursing training school formerly located behind the mosque opposite our PIWC Atomic church building. Over the years, even as the nursing school moved multiple times to different locations across Accra, Mama Larbi continued to share the word of God, distribute Bibles, follow-up materials and refreshments for the students and teaching staff. And with each visit, many became new believers deciding to follow Christ.

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She was also very active with the Pentecost Professional Ladies evangelistic drive dubbed 'Catch Them Young' where our soul winning activities took us to many schools across Accra to bring students to Christ. Our beloved Mama is dearly remembered by the 198 Bible recipients and the numerous new converts who received follow-up materials. They are eternally grateful.

Mama Larbi was full of good works and charitable deeds. I often saw how she quietly gave to people and generously supported the work of God. I was blessed to fellowship with her and learned so much from our several years of friendship. My dear Florence, our Mama, 'Buddy Buddy', Senior Abuya, 'Good Girl', Ganyobi obɔ mɔdƐŋ, rest well! Rest in perfect peace in the arms of the Most High God.

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Mrs Florence N. A. Lartey

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y acquaintance with the late Lady Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi began in the year 2006 when by God's grace, I was employed to serve as the Resident Nurse at Regent University. While at the university, through my participation in the institution's regular morning prayer meetings, Mama Florence and I became very close friends because both of us had a passion for prayer. Apart from the morning devotions, the two of us met regularly during break-time to pray for the university and on other issues of concern to us.

Through her efforts, I became a member of the chaplaincy board of the university, where we would organize religious activities for the welfare of the administrative staff, students and lecturers.

Her show of concern for the sick especially students and staff who were admitted to the hospital was quite admirable. The two of us would pay them regular visits and pray with them, and also give them words of encouragement. In addition to the above, her extra effort in going round the offices to encourage workers to put in their best is worth mentioning.

One day, Lady Florence Larbi invited me to accompany her to a funeral at Amamomo, Accra. When we reached the house where the funeral was taking place I was very surprised to notice that it was my father's family house.

After the necessary introductions, both of us realized that we were related. This drew us even closer to each other as our friendship grew stronger and brought me closer to her family.

Even though I have retired from Regent University for almost six years now, she used to call me frequently for us to pray and also fraternise. Her last call to me was on May 13, 2022, two days after her first surgery. Her demise on 3rd June 2022 came as a great shock to me and my entire family, and we have still not recovered from it.

My dear sister and my bosom friend, rest in perfect peace; Auntie Florence, yaa wɔ ojogbaŋŋ.

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Melike and Mesut Yilmaz Former expatriate staff of Regent We write this with great sadness over the loss of our friend, Mrs Larbi.

We always used to chat with her on campus and on the way to campus since she always offered us a drive. She was always with us like a friend. I remember that when I became ill, there was a knock on the door, and she was standing in front of me with her usual peaceful smile. She had come over to help and pray for me. She always blessed us with her words. Mrs. Larbi was truly an incredible woman: full of love, compassion, and sincerity.

It is not easy to express our sorrow properly. We will miss her. Please, accept our heartfelt condolences for her passing.

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Mrs. Florence was truly an incredible woman: full of love, compassion, and sincerity

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Melike

Mesut

Melike and Mama Florence

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Godson Paa Kwesi Toah Larbi (Son) Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.

(NKJV, Psalm 116:15)

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o words can describe this painful loss. Mummy, you were a great support system in my life, your love, care and support are unmatched. It saddens my heart that you passed on too soon, you taught me love, patience and endurance. You praised me when I did good and corrected me with your gentle voice.

I will never forget that fateful day when you said goodbye forever, the cruel hand of death had snatched you away from us. You were a precious gift from God, filled with so much beauty, grace, love and patience which were your hallmark. Your strength and smile always made my days brighter.

I thank God for your life and cherish the memories we shared. I love you but God loves you more.

I will miss you dearly, but I know you are resting peacefully in the arms of your maker.

Rest well mum, till we meet again.

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Jemimah Afua Karle Larbi (Daughter) “And I heard a voice from heaven saying, “Write this down: Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now on.” Yes says the Spirit, “they are blessed indeed, for they will rest from their hard work; for their good deeds follow them!” Revelation 14:13, NLT

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ummy you were a strong pillar that kept me going in all spheres of my life, and you guided me with godly principles, you taught me to always be willing to lend a helping hand to others.

I will always remember the good times we shared together, your kind words of advice and how we cracked jokes and laughed about some of them.

You led an exemplary life, and your timeless legacy will continue to live on.

Thank you for being a loving mother to everyone that came around you.

Thank you for the selfless love, care and support that defined your heart of kindness. You were a great woman of faith, you stood forth and raised a generation.

A mother who could go to any length to put a smile on the face of anyone who was passing through the narrow path of life. Your words of advice were always heavenly sent to comfort those who were going through their trials of faith. Your labour of love and the many fruits it bears in the body of Christ would forever be a living testimony to the very life that you lived.

Sleep well my dearly beloved mother, you were heaven sent. Rest peacefully from the toils and snares of this world. Rest in the loving arms of God. Goodbye mum till we meet to part no more.

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Benjamin Kwaku Nettey Larbi (Son)

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ow do you go about life without someone you have known all your life? But I guess that is the nature of human life; no one lives forever.

One of my earliest memories of you was when during one of my outbursts as a child, I insisted I wanted a flying paper plane. Being the problem solver that you were, you improvised, and built a plane for me using a sheet of paper, just to calm me down. It didn't. I threw the paper plane away and cried some more. It took me a while to fully appreciate the great lengths you often went to make sure your kids were happy. As far back as I can remember, you would do everything humanly possible to put a smile on my face and that of my siblings.

You were a very present mother, and you showed interest in every aspect of our lives--our school life, our social life, and our spiritual life. You were even interested in the lives of our friends. Well into our adult lives, every now and then, you would check in with us and ask, “How is everything going?” Well into our adult years, when we stayed out late, one thing was for sure.

We would certainly receive a call from you to enquire about our whereabouts.

You had a very selfless way of putting your needs and concerns on the back burner, to focus on others.

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how to diffuse tension and set people at ease.

You were a Counsellor at heart; you would offer counsel at every opportunity. I would drive you through town every now and then to do your work.

Oh, I will miss those rides. Asides from the interesting conversations, about every conceivable topic.

You were interested in the everyday life of ordinary people. You would see a street hawker carrying so many items. And you would oftentimes advise the street hawker on how best to carry their wares.

Occasionally some of us would try talking you out of this. And you would insist, saying “I'm just doing my job,” Interestingly, the hawkers always took your advice in good faith and worked with your suggestions as they thanked you with smiles on their faces. They called you “Mummy.”

You were a source of endless inspiration to me. You always called me a great man. You called me a great man until I believed I was a great man. You saw greatness in me and always called it out. Perhaps this is one of the things I would miss the most about you.

The few weeks you spent in the hospital at the latter part of your life, showed me just how strong you were, and how devoted you were to the things of God. You kept saying “God is in control.” “Holy Spirit take control.”

You were full of gratitude, even during your final days on the earth. I remember during one of the days at the hospital, you spoke to me. You expressed deep gratitude for all the care and support you had received and shared some other things with me. That night, after spending the whole day waiting on you at the hospital, I told you I was going back home, to which you said “God be with you.” It was a few days later that I understood that was probably your farewell message.

While at the hospital, you longed to return home. So did we. We really looked forward to you coming back home, mum. Little did we know, that it wasn't your earthly home you were going to be discharged to, but your heavenly home.

How do I explain to your granddaughter that grandma who she enjoyed watching cartoons with over kallyppo and cupcakes, is now in heaven? You've left Daddy, who you called your boyfriend, with a lot of unanswered questions. It is well.

I'm comforted and consoled by the scripture: To be absent from the body is to and present with the Lord (2 Cor. 5:8); and in the words of Billy Graham, “The moment we take our last breath on earth, we take our first in heaven.” So, Mummy, I have no shadow of doubt in my mind that you are now breathing in heaven.

I am inspired by the life you lived and the testimonials of your impact that keep coming in from numerous people. I am convinced that the only thing left now, is to ensure that your legacy continues. This we will try and do. Your memory not only lives in our hearts and minds; we your children will try and demonstrate that in our lives too.

I love you mum. I wish you a blissful rest.

Benjamin Kwaku Nettey Larbi

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James Nana Darko Larbi (Son) "God made a wonderful mother, A mother who never grows old. He made her smile of the sunshine, and He moulded her heart of pure gold. In her eyes He placed bright shining stars, in her cheeks fair roses you see.God made a wonderful mother, and He gave that dear mother to me." -Wonderful Mother by Patrick O'Reilly

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y mother was my angel on earth. She was the sweetest person I have ever met and had such a pure, genuine, lovely soul. She had no guile, hate or ill-feeling towards anyone. She welcomed all people with arms open wide. If you wanted to see God's love, you could just look at my mother. My mother was so generous and would often find a way to give, even when she didn't have the means to.

She treated people with utmost respect, and viewed her work & ministry as a counsellor, as her God-given calling and assignment.

Whenever I visited her office, she would always excitedly speak about who she would be counselling that day. For whatever reason, she was always buying airtime, and I often wondered what made her rack up a high airtime bill.

Little did I know of the many people she always called to check up on, pray for, encourage and just talk to.

Though my last memories of my mother at the hospital weren't the most pleasant, there are many more beautiful moments we shared.

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One of my most fond memories of my mother, happened way early in my formative years. I was in primary school and had just gotten in trouble for misbehaving in class.

The punishment given to me was to write 500 hundred lines that said, “I will not misbehave again.”

Though I acted tough in front of my class, and tried to shrug off the intensity of the punishment, I couldn't handle it. 500 lines was a lot to write for any 8 year old.

When I got home, after attempting only 37 lines, I burst out into tears; this was way beyond what I could bear. My mum took the book, consoled me and told me she would come with me to school the next day to plead with the teacher…… She lied….. I woke up the next morning, to see her at the dining table still up, writing the lines I was supposed to write. She took the time to learn my scrawny handwriting and did her best to imitate it.

I went to school, only to find out that I was asked to write just 50 lines…This experience forever had an indelible mark on my heart towards my mum and showed the vastness of my mother's love.

My mother was God-fearing and raised us in the fear of GOD. Her love, devotion & passion for the things of GOD was exceptional, to say the least. She would encourage us to go to church and serve GOD wholeheartedly.

It took me quite a while to realize that my Mum, in many ways, was my best friend. I could talk to her about anything, anywhere and anytime. We would spend long

hours chatting in her room, watching TV or going out together. She was not the most outgoing person and liked to stay indoors, but she would often inconvenience herself just to be involved with my personal life, whether it be attending church or even going to work.

She would often call me at the most random times, to check up on me or ask me to come home when it was late or she hadn't seen me in a while. This she did, no matter how old I grew. When I came home, I would often see her cute frame sitting in the kitchen with the door open, peering into the hallway to see whoever came into the house.

At a point in my life, I wasn't too sure what I really wanted to do but my mother never once doubted me, but always believed and supported me in whichever course I took.

She encouraged me to follow God's plan for my life and focus on doing what pleased Him the most.

We may have lost you on earth, but Heaven Has gained both a saint and an angel.

"If roses grow in heaven, Lord please pick a bunch for me. Place them in my Mother's arms, and tell her they're from me. Ask her why ever so soon, she had to leave. Tell her that I miss her and oh Lord I plead, save a place right next to her for me.”

A mother holds her children's hands for a short while, but their hearts forever. Mrs Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi, you will forever be in our hearts.

Rest In Peace, Rest In Power & Rest in Paradise, Mummy. It's not goodbye… it's see you soon at trumpet sound!

Mummy, I thought we had a good 20 more years more. I thought we made plans about the future. I thought you'll be around a little while longer for us to spend more time together.

As you battled for your life in the hospital with so much bravery, you kept on asking me to hold your hands and take you home. I kept saying you will come home soon and I thought you would. We even had your room repainted and prepared to welcome you back home. Little did we know that you were not speaking of our home in Accra, but you were talking about a home and a city whose builder is GOD. This world was not your home you were just passing through. It wasn't worthy of you and now you've gone to your real home; Heaven.

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ummy as I affectionately called her, symbolized many things in my life. In fact, my encounter with her and my uncle, Rev. Prof. E. K. Larbi, gave me a clear picture of what it means to be a Christian. I remember back in my primary school days when I used to receive gifts from this loving and caring mother even when we had not seen each other. She would always extend greetings to Sisi's last born. As little as I was, I was eager to live with the woman I had so many fond memories of.

In the year 2008, I moved in to stay with the wonderful family at West Legon after my Senior High School exams (WASSCE). I got home late with my Uncle that night so I didn't see Mummy. The next morning when Mummy came out and saw me, she welcomed me with her infectious smile. The joy was so much when Mummy got to know that I was the last born child of Sisi, she admired me so much for reasons I didn't know. It later became clear to me that it was the love of God she exhibited to me and many other people who had an encounter with her.

As a mother, you were a great support to our uncle and father. You knew when to act and when not to act with your cool disposition. This and many more added to your peaceful and respectful nature.

Mummy, I believe that it is your work on earth that has come to an end and not through any human's misfortune. While we thank God for your life, we look forward to meeting again when Jesus, the Son of God, comes for His saints.

Da yie!

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Samuel Oku Asamoah Our uncle called her mummy, and so did we. Mummy took us under her wings. Though we have biological mothers, it was mummy who filled the gap and stood in when our uncle took us from the village to stay with him. Mummy, that Friday when we received the call bearing the news of your passing, we felt numb. Our only mother in Accra is no more!!!

Mummy, we know you are with your Maker now; Mummy, you will be sorely missed.

Ebenezer O. Danso The first classroom for a child is the mother's presence.

I am grateful to God for my time with you. You were a poster of the home I shared. This tribute to you cannot even express the smallest benefit of your grooming and how you ensured the shaping of a young one like me in the city of Accra. My gratitude will remain with you as you have moved on with your creator. You inspired me to be an example to all the nephews and nieces of your husband, Prof. E. K. Larbi. Your approaches to addressing situations gave me the impetus to show good leadership to the other boys from the village brought to the family. I could recall how your calmness of personality made me choose wisely in my anxious and daring moments.

I cannot forget how you asked me to commit everything to God and let it go. You always admonished me with life's valuable lessons, and that, there is always a reward for those who endure hardships and obeyed God (2 Timothy 2:3). The short time I lived with you was a rather long memory of a peaceful time.

As a mom, you were a great support to Prof. Larbi, your husband. You knew when to act and when not to act with your cool disposition. This and many more add up to your peaceful nature. To me, I owe you my ability to speak Ga in the land of Accra. Your personality as both a mother in training the youth was an opportunity full of lessons. I will try to emulate these virtues with much arduousness. I cannot forget your neatness and handy way of doing things. You prayed with me in my difficult moments. I cannot be ungrateful for permitting Prof. E. K. Larbi, a model to bring me around him for others to follow suit. This is not something that is taken in good faith by other women. You were an epitome of the virtuous woman described in the book of Proverbs.

Nyↄmↄ kɛbo aya dwoodwoo!

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Gifty Asiedu Your own children became brothers and sisters to me and other people staying with you, but you always treated everyone like your own. Mummy, there was never a dull moment with you. We all had conversations together, and laughed together especially in the kitchen.

I miss the way you educated and counselled me. These memories I have of you will never be forgotten. May the Lord keep you till we meet again. Amen

Rev. Eric Hymore Calvary Believers Church, UK This morning I want to pay a special tribute to your wife Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi, even before we meet tomorrow for the one-week celebration of her death.

I can say without a shadow of a doubt that the impact her life had on me cannot be measured. At the then Christ Apostolic church at Achimota School where we attended, she was a pillar of strength to all the youth. Her exemplary conduct was admired by all. She was the chief interpreter at the time. She was very smart and eloquent and also very much disciplined. She became my senior sister, my auntie and my counsellor, all rolled in one.

I remember her appointment at Ghana Commercial Bank and the testimony that followed gave us all food for thought. That it is better to trust in the Lord than to rush and follow the dictates of the world. Auntie Florence refused to yield to temptation and quickly rejected an offer for a job which had an evil condition attached to it. As she refused that evil, God paved the way for her to get a better place! And we, both young and adults in the church, were all encouraged to follow that path of righteousness in Jesus' Name.

Such was her faith and belief. May her soul rest in peace.

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Eunice Emefa Kufoalor For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. He holds success in store for the upright, he is a shield to those whose walk is blameless, he guards the course of the just and protects the way of his faithful ones. Then, you will understand what is right and just and fair—every good path. Proverbs 2:6-9 (NIV) I was waiting for the usual month-end call and wondered why I had not heard from you. I thought about you the whole time every day into the first few days of June, only to hear of your demise! We couldn't believe it. We were sad and heartbroken! The last time we met, you were so full of life, up and about, hale and hearty, so what changed?

Our paths crossed when I needed change in my life; I needed to do something new, and then I was told you needed someone to man your photocopy business on City Campus. I didn't have any experience, but you hired me anyway because I would learn on the job.

Because of our mother-daughter relationship, people hardly believed me when I told them I was your employee, not a relative.

Working for you taught me a lot. The Word of God you

would always share in addition to life's lessons. You took a particular interest in my well-being and treated me like one of your own. What a blessing!

As time will have it, I moved on and could not keep in touch much, but we reconnected a few years back, and it's been all wonderful till you had to make your way back to your maker. You will always call and check on my family and me or even send me a message on WhatsApp. Sometimes, I would see your call coming through when you come to mind. Our conversations never ended without you calling me "my dear Anointed Apostlewaa Emefa.”

You were so excited when I shared the news of the arrival of my son with you. You graced his christening with your presence, prophesied over him, and called him "My Great President". The plan was to come with him on my next visit so you see how big he has grown, but this is where life leaves us. I surely will share stories about you with him one day.

Now, the only thing that pains me is that I could not honour your request to share the picture of my husband and me in the cloth you gifted us because my outfit was not ready, but I am glad our paths crossed.

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Thank you for being part of my life journey and success story.

Your memories, my family and I will forever cherish; your name and who you are we will hold dear to our hearts. You were good to me and played a significant role in who I am today. Thank you.

Rest in Yahweh's bosom till we meet again.

Fare thee well, Mama Larbi….Fare thee well.

- Emefa

Mrs. Nancy Ansah Cobbah

I

joined Regent University College in January 2007. Mama, as I usually called her, was the University Counsellor. As the Public Affairs Manager of the University College, my work was quite enormous, and it included organising events of the University.

Mama, irrespective of being the First Lady (wife of the Founder), would always support all the activities under my outfit. She would provide advice, support, and especially buy the team in charge of events some sweets to keep us going. After every event, she would ensure that whatever meals and drinks shared, all drivers, cleaners, and security personnel at various posts of the University, got their share. With this, Mama complemented my skills and efforts.

As the University Counsellor, I also benefited from her counselling. I discussed several issues bordering my personal life. She used people's experiences to encourage me that God would visit me, and God has really done it.

Mrs. Florence Larbi was kind, accommodating and frank. She gave me all the support to function in various capacities, Public Affairs Manager, Deputy Registrar and Registrar.

Her influence lives on. Rest well. Till we meet again.

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Tributes

from the Book of Condolences in Honour of Lady Mrs. Florence Naa-Bessah Larbi

“Rest Well Mummy” Ps. Tony Mensah PIWC-Atomic 04/06/22 “Dear Mummy, It is with great pain I pen these few words. Mummy was a lovely person. A rep of Christ indeed.

God be with her precious soul.”

Apostle Eric Nyamekye (Chairman, COP) 05/06/22 “Sweet Mummy, We miss her dearly. She lived her life in the service of your Maker. Her impact on our lives will help us to remain focused.

May she rest well.”

Apostle Alexander Nana Yaw Kumi-Larbi (General Secretary, COP) 05/06/22

“Mama Florence, A woman of God, of dignity and nobility. She was an example of Christ in her generation.

We wish her godspeed.”

Apostle Emmanuel Gyasi-Addo Hatso Area Apostle, (ex IMD, COP) 05/06/22 “Dear Mummy, It is very sad and disheartening to see Mummy part this way. I was hoping to give her the best of cure and to help improve the quality of life. However, God knows why she had to go this way.

I wish her safe keeping in the Lord’s bossom.”

Dr. Paul Adomako 05/06/22 “Mama, You have finished the race gloriously. We will forever missed your kindness and care.”

Kwasi Appiagyei-Asiamah 05/06/22

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“Our hearts are bleeding for the passing of our dear Mama Larbi. The vacuum left is too big to fill but we are trusting God. Please Rev. Prof. Larbi, be strengthened in the Lord in this very difficult time. God is with you.”

Dr. Tony Danso-Appiah University of Ghana, Legon 08/06/22 “Florence, thank you for a committed and a supportive life you shared with Rev'd Prof. Larbi your dear husband to have achieved so much for the church and the nation. May you rest in peace and rise in glory.”

Most Revd. Dr. Justice Ofei Akrofi (former Archbishop of the Anglican Church of Province of West Africa) 08/06/22

“Such a good woman, a rare and uncommon gem, Mama Florence Larbi will forever remain in our hearts. We will always cherish her in our hearts.

May she rest in peace.”

Apostle Emmanuel Agyemang Bekoe (International Missions Director, COP) 11/07/22 “You lived a life of purpose. Rest Well Mum.” (Empowerment Worship Center) 11/07/22 Prophet Gideon Danso “Deepest sympathy my dear Kingsley on the home call of your dear wife. The God of compassion and comfort will comfort you and the family.”

Dr. Modupe & Aunty Olive Taylor-Pearce

“Your seat shall be empty.”

Rev. Dr. Nana Anyani-Boadum (General Overseer, Jesus Generation) 09/06/22 Signing of Condolences Book - Chairman, General Secretary and former International Missions Director of COP

Hymns MY HOPE IS BUILT ON NOTHING LESS

COME YE THAT LOVE THE LORD

1 My hope is built on nothing less Than Jesus' blood and righteousness I dare not trust the sweetest frame But wholly lean on Jesus' name

1 Come, we that love the Lord, and let our joys be known.

Join in a song with sweet accord, join in a song with sweet accord, and thus surround the throne, and thus surround the throne.

Refrain: On Christ the solid rock I stand All other ground is sinking sand All other ground is sinking sand 2 When darkness veils his lovely face I rest on His unchanging grace In every high and stormy gale My anchor holds within the veil 3 His oath, his covenant, his blood Supports me in the 'whelming flood When all around my soul gives way He then is all my hope and stay 4 When He shall come with trumpet sound Oh may I then in Him be found Dressed in his righteousness alone Faultless to stand before the throne

Refrain: We’re marching to Zion, beautiful, beautiful Zion.

We’re marching upward to Zion, the beautiful city of God. 2 The hill of Zion yields a thousand sacred sweets, before we reach the heav’nly fields, before we reach the heav’nly fields, or walk the golden streets, or walk the golden streets. [Refrain] 3 Then let our songs abound, and ev’ry tear be dry.

We’re marching thro’ Immanuel’s ground, we’re marching thro’ Immanuel’s ground, to fairer worlds on high, to fairer worlds on high. [Refrain]

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Original Platinum Book Launch arrangements now deferred until further notice in view of the demise of the author’s partner.

Appreciati

The entire Family of the late LADY MRS. FLORENCE NAA-BESSAH LARBI wishes to express our deepest sincere gratitude to all who sympathized and mourned with us during our time of bereavement. We are truly grateful.

May the good Lord bless all of you

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