Living 50 Plus Magazine June/July 2024

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Huntsville Botanical Garden is hosting a whimsical journey through an mesmerizing exhibit, Glass in Flight. Wander among 21 breathtaking, larger-than-life glass sculptures that capture the delicate beauty and intricate details of nature’s most fascinating pollinators – from the vibrant wings of butterflies to the iridescent shimmer of dragonflies, the meticulous craftsmanship of beetles, and the gentle buzz of bees. This exhibit is more than a display; it’s an invitation to see the Garden and its inhabitants in an enchanting light. Each piece, crafted with exceptional artistry by artist Alex Heveri, tells a story of flight, transformation, and the delicate balance of nature. For more information, go to hsvbg.org/glass-in-flight.

Glass in Flight • Through October • Huntsville Botanical Garden •

City Lights & Stars Concert Series Great live music with an amazing view

FFor the 31st Season, Burritt on the Mountain is welcoming back their long running Summer Concert Series. The City Lights & Stars Concert Series will feature eight concerts this season through September, with musical acts from varying genres.

This years lineup features a fabulous mix of local hometown favorites and regional talent on the Isenberg Gazebo stage. Guests can enjoy being entertained under the Alabama stars with the breathtaking view of the city of Huntsville only Burritt can provide.

A casual atmosphere encourages attendees to bring chairs, blankets and picnic food to enjoy a relaxed musical experience. Food trucks will be onsite and wine, beer and other drinks are sold at every concert.

Concerts start at 7:30 p.m. .

Upcoming Concert Dates

July 5 – Top House

Fast paced, high energy foot stompers, and ballads that’ll make you cry. It’s kind of like a rock band married old fashioned bluegrass and had a little baby. And named it TopHouse.

July 19 – Eric Essix

Over a period of more than 32 years and 27 full length album releases, Eric Essix has not only maintained a steady flow of new music that continues to push the boundaries of contemporary jazz throughout his career. Eric shares his Birmingham Alabama southern roots through his compositions. His music reveals the soul of the man and his music.

August 9 – Gwen & The Retro Kats

This is the rare band that brings together the deeppocket swing of the 1930s and 1940s and contemporary beats like Bruno Mars “Uptown Funk” and Lizzo’s “Juice!” A veteran on the Southeast music scene, Gwen is one of the busiest bandleaders in Atlanta, along the way being named “Favorite Jazz Artist” by the readers of Creative Loafing magazine and taking her act overseas to France, Eastern Europe and Turkey.

August 30 – Calypso Vision

Calypso Vision is in its 10th Year bringing folks that relaxed beachfront spirit, with a “Gumbo Mix” of Buffett-Style Trop and Classic Rock! The Calypso Vision is simple and easy to see, as it focuses on great music offering an escape from the mundane!

September 20 – In the Mood Swing Band

Calling Huntsville “Hometown”, Huntsville’s In the Mood is an exciting 21 piece big band. Specializing in swing and jazz making every occasion an exciting event. Influences include Glenn Miller, Frank Sinatra, Henry Mancini, Cole Porter Bobby Darrin, Ella Fitzgerald and Count Basie.

For more information and to purchase tickets, go to www.burrittonthemountain.com

Global Rhythm and Blooms • Every Thursday starting at 5 p.m. Huntsville Botanical Garden • hsvbg.org/grb

Global Rhythm & Blooms is an enriching event series dedicated to celebrating the vibrant tapestry of cultures from Huntsville’s international communities that make our city so special. Through a series of engaging and immersive experiences, attendees will have the opportunity to learn about diverse cultural traditions and contemporary expressions through music, dance, food, and drink. The event series will take place in the Cedar Glade on Thursdays through Sept. 26, from 5 PM – dusk. Join Huntsville Botanical Garden on this enriching cultural journey every Thursday under the Cedar Glade canopy.

Concerts in the Park • Every Monday starting at 6:30 p.m. • Big Spring Park in Huntsville • artshuntsville.org

A Huntsville summer tradition, Arts Huntsville and Huntsville Parks & Recreation’s Concerts in the Park is held every Monday evening starting at 6:30 p.m. The free series showcases local music talent in a mix of genres. It is held behind the Huntsville Museum of Art.

Upcoming concerts include:

June 24 - 3 Savile Row and Moondust Big Band

July 1 - The Nerve / O’Rian

July 8 - The Ricky J Taylor Combo / 3Way Handshake Band

July 15 - Jimmy Henderson Trio / J-Class Band

July 22 - Groupo 100F / Emily Joseph Band

July 29 - Remy Neal / Charles and Tanya Harris

Check out the weekly schedule of food vendors at artshuntsville.org.

IN SP IR E

Roots & Shoots Farmer’s Market • Every fourth Saturday 9 a.m. - 1 p.m. • Huntsville Botanical Garden • hsvbg.org

Discover the freshest bounty from our region’s finest growers, artisans, and makers, as they come together to showcase their passion and craftsmanship at the Roots and Shoots Farmer’s Market. Setting up in the Pavilion, our market is free to attend. Delight in fresh produce, artisanal goods, and community vibes.

This weekly event takes place in Oakwood Farms Market’s spacious outdoor pavilion from April through November, every Friday from 12 p.m. to 4 p.m. Enjoy the beautifully landscaped venue located at 5001 Adventist Blvd, NW in Huntsville. Come out and support Oakwood Farms Market and other local vendors.

Independence Celebration at MidCity • June 30, July 4 and 6 • MidCity District, 5901 University Drive • www.midcitydistrict.com

Join MidCity District for the annual Independence Day Celebration! The 2024 MidCity fireworks show is on Thursday, July 4 accompanied with live music by Madison City Orchestra. It all starts Sunday, June 30 with The Market at MidCity and the Watermelon Carving Contest. Come back on Thursday, July 4th for music at The Camp and 20 minutes of spectacular fireworks with the Madison City Orchestra. On Saturday, July 6, The Camp is hosting a Mullet and Mustache Contest. Find MidCity District on Facebook or go to www.midcitydistrict.com for times. Parking is free.

Ditto Landing’s Independence Day Celebration June 29 • starting at 5 p.m. • www.dittolanding.org

The Ditto Landing Independence Day Celebration will be held June 29. Located in south Huntsville, the celebration is one of the best of the year with live music, food trucks and fireworks -- all along the scenic Tennessee River. Gates open at 5 p.m. It is a free event.

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Mark your calendars for the Annual July 4th Star Spangled Celebration. Sponsored by the City of Madison Parks and Recreation, the event will include live music, food vendors, inflatable rides, a free shuttle service, and FIREWORKS! Food trucks will be available 5-8 p.m. There will be live music starting at 5 p.m. by Redstone Avenue, and 7 p.m. by GROOVE. Fireworks will begin around 9 p.m. All parking will be available at Bob Jones High School. A free shuttle service begins at 4:30 p.m.

Independence Day Celebration & Firework Spectacular! • July 4 • Gates open at 5 p.m. • Toyota Field in Madison

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City of Madison Star Spangled Celebration

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Broadway Theatre League • 20204-2025 Season Preview • www.broadwaytheatreleague.org.

The 2024-2025 season Broadway Theatre League was announced recently. The new BTL season will feature three Huntsville premieres, a feelgood favorite, a family classic, and Huntsville’s all-time most requested show. For tickets or more information, go to broadwaytheatreleague.org. Shows are presented at the Von Braun Center in Huntsville. Here is the lineup for the 65th season: Tina - The Tina Turner Musical (Nov. 22-24),

CLUE: A New Comedy (Jan. 3-5, 2025), SIX The Musical (Feb. 4-9, 2025), Mama Mia! (March 28-30, 2025), Peter Pan (April 22-27, 2025), and Les Misérables (May 6-11, 2025).

Shakespeare in the Garden: Romeo & Juliet• July 26, August 3,9 • Huntsville Botanical Garden • www.hsvbg.org

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BLESSED TO BE ALIVE

David Webb’s road to recovery after near-death strokes is nothing short of a miracle, one that has him thankful for being given a second chance

STORY BY BOB LABBE

PHOTOS BY JOSHUA BERRY

DDavid Webb continues to follow his road to recovery. The world record-setting powerlifter is currently making headway on his journey after suffering neardeath strokes in early 2022 and to the amazement to everyone, including his doctors, Webb is again lifting weights in record form and earlier in 2024 achieved what is known in the sport as being a member of the 1000-pound club.

“I saw my neurologist in January, and was cleared for a year with no restrictions, but instructions to be smart,” said the 66-year-old Webb. “This road required a lot of help from my friends at Powerhouse Gym and my training partner as without the support from the personal trainers of Nate, Nathan and Josh and their constant encouragement, I would not be where I am today. My wife, Nancy has been my rock and the one person who kept me in line of not overdoing my recovery.”

Listening to Nancy, working with therapists and following the guidance from his doctors, Webb was deter-

mined to show all concerned he would make a comeback. His true grit and pure spunk pushed him to stand tall, overcome his limitations and to make his way to the lifting platform for the competition he desires. After 10 months of rehabilitation, he returned to competing in November 2022. In a new age bracket of 65-69 Webb was back at his old form of setting records. In his first competition, he set a new bench press world record of 226 pounds in two different categories. He also set 11 new state records in his first meet since his strokes. Two weeks later in Decatur at the Golden Ape Power Challenge he moved to a higher weight class and set 12 new state records.

“Those meets were very rewarding as the weights I’m lifting now is different as my form is better and I feel my strength is solid,” said Webb. “But one thing I did learn is the fact I had a second chance at life and I wasn’t going to blow it. I was going to run it up the flagpole. I have the entire use of my body and I feel I’m

blessed beyond measure.”

Webb also feels he’s blessed just to be alive.

After retiring from his job on Redstone Arsenal, Webb suffered a massive stroke near his brain stem in January 2022, just days after his last day of working his fulltime job. He was going through a training workout when he had his incident. Upon being rushed to Crestwood Hospital he was assessed, and doctors indicated there was 99-percent blockage and he was immediately started on an IV and administered a “clot-buster,” a drug used to break up a clot and help restore blood flow to the brain. The stroke was located on his left side. After being stabilized, Webb was transferred to Huntsville Hospital’s Neurology ICU Unit where he remained under constant care for 13 days.

“I felt lucky just to be alive,” said Webb. “I know a lot of prayers came my way and soon more miracles were coming my way. My neurologist, Dr. Kate Heaton, oversaw my case and she was spot-on with her diagnosis. She said there would be a great chance of having another stroke, and once released to go home, to stay home, rest and recover.”

On Super Bowl Sunday, just 17 days after his original episode, Webb again suffered another stroke this time on his right side. His doctor told him his days as a powerlifter were over and physical therapy would be required to regain most of his functions, including walking again.”

Webb began his therapy where he could not let go of the use of his walker to walking with a cane in just four weeks. He felt his trainer had challenged him in ways he never knew was possible. Webb was soon released by Dr. Heaton to begin lifting a light number of weights, but Webb had other plans, which included returning to a competition level of powerlifting.

The first attempts at lifting weights were eyeopening and humbling. Webb went from competition squatting 280-pounds to barely able to squat the 45-pound bar. He struggled to curl a five-pound dumbbell, bench press 90-pounds or deadlift more than 150-pounds. “I knew right away I was on a long road to recovery,” added Webb, who indicated his road included many friends at Powerhouse Gym and his workout partner, Bobby Brown. “I still thought I could compete as I wondered how long of a road was it going to be.”

For the exceptionally positive and proactive Webb, additional miracles were about to be bestowed upon him on his road to recovery.

In November of 2023, Webb set nine state records in four different categories in the World Raw Powerlifting Federation Big Ape Competition in Decatur.

In March of this year, he took additional steps in his own mind of recovery by setting Alabama state records at the U.S. Powerlifting Association Buddy Capps Classic competition in Louisville, Ky. It was during that meet he joined the elusive 1000 Pound Club by lifting a total of over 1,000 pounds in total lifts of the bench, deadlift and squat.

“I’m very blessed. I’m stronger now than before my strokes and I thank the Lord for giving me another day,” said Webb.

Although his lifting marks are impressive, Webb still battles the effects of the strokes as his right side of his body is numb from his knee to his neck all the way to the top of his head. There is no pain, but he only has what he believes is feeling of about 10-percent of the pressure in his hand when he grabs an object like a bar in the weight room.

“I have to watch the bar carefully as I’m squeezing, but I can’t tell how much pressure I’m putting on the lift as I have to keep my right hand level with my left when I lift,” explained Webb. “It’s a little weird. I can’t feel it. I must consciencely pull my right side up to match my left. My stamina is not as great as before my strokes. I notice I take more naps than I did before my strokes. But one thing that has been good is my eyesight. I had double vision after my strokes, but that situation has been restored as I see as good as I ever have. My voice box was affected by the strokes. That hasn’t gotten much better.”

Before his strokes, Webb was lifting a total of 942 pounds. He’s now over the 1,000-pound mark and among the elite in his diverse class of lifters. He normally competes in the 165-181.7-pound weight class master’s 65-69 age division. His summer competition schedule included the Southeast Regional Championships in Orange Beach, Ala and the Alabama State Games where powerlifting was being included for the first time in the Games’ 40-year history. That event is a qualifier for the 2024 State Games of America set to be hosted in San Diego later this year.

Webb hopes to make it to Charleston, S.C. in November for the North American Championships. There, he hopes to set three world records as he once held three other world marks, but two have since been beaten. Holding onto one current world record is an achievement he’s extremely proud off. “There are reasons certain people were put in my life during this time as at one time I never really understood the severity of my stroke as I struggled just to walk and my doctor said they’ve never seen this type of condition from a stroke revamp so quickly,” said Webb. “I guess I’m an anomaly.”

Growing up in Louisville, Ky., Webb didn’t partake in athletics until his four-year stint in the U.S. Army where he played racquetball, softball, bowling and the martial arts. Once moving to Alabama in 1983 and taking up residence in the area of Monrovia-Madison, he became an Alabama state champion racquetball player and disc golfer. He also earned his teaching certificate for U.S. Kids Golf. Prior to his strokes he has set numerous state, national and world records in powerlifting.

Webb is determined to succeed and prove to himself he can survive. He’s also eager to show others how they have affected his life in a positive and successful way. His message to others who may suffer similar medical conditions and get a second chance is to surround themselves with others who can help and to encourage you to do your part as others around you are impacted by your pain and suffering.

“I feel fantastic. I’m very blessed. I’ve clawed my way back little more than two years after my two strokes,” said Webb. “I know I have a second chance and with all of that support on my road to recovery, I can’t fail.”

RECIPE

Sheet Pan Cajun Shrimp Fajitas with Bell Pepper

MMeals savored with loved ones are intended to produce smiles and shared moments. Take the first step toward bringing back the joy and magic while making Sheet Pan Cajun Shrimp Fajitas with Bell Pepper.

Recipe courtesy of Albertsons

Total time: 30 minutes

Servings: 4

2 green bell peppers

2 yellow bell peppers

1 lime

1 medium red onion

2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil

1 1/2 pounds raw, peeled shrimp, fresh or frozen

5 teaspoons Cajun seasoning, divided

1 teaspoon salt

1/2 cup ranch dressing

12 small flour tortillas

Preheat oven to 450 F.

Wash and dry green bell peppers, yellow bell peppers

and lime. Trim, seed and slice bell peppers lengthwise into thin strips; transfer to large baking sheet. Peel, halve and slice onion lengthwise into thin pieces; add to baking sheet with bell peppers. Drizzle veggies with oil, toss to combine and spread in even layer. Bake until veggies have softened slightly, about 5 minutes.

If using frozen shrimp, place them in colander and run under cold water to thaw slightly. Place shrimp on clean towel or paper towels and pat dry. Remove baking sheet from oven. Arrange shrimp over veggies then sprinkle with 4 teaspoons Cajun seasoning and salt; toss to combine and spread in even layer. Bake until veggies are tender and shrimp are cooked through, 5-7 minutes. Remove from oven. Cut lime into wedges. In small bowl, stir ranch dressing and remaining Cajun seasoning. Warm tortillas in skillet, oven or microwave, if desired. Divide tortillas between plates and fill with shrimp and veggies; drizzle with spicy ranch and serve with squeeze of lime.

SOMETHING TO LAUGH ABOUT

Here is what the experts say in regard to the benefits of a few good belly laughs

MMost people have heard the adage that “laughter is the best medicine.” There are many indications that laughter can be beneficial to the mind and body, and that the perks of laughter and humor are far-reaching.

Various professionals have studied the clinical benefits of laughter, including Dr. Lee Berk and Dr. Stanley Tan at Loma Linda University in California. Here is what these experts say in regard to the benefits of a few good belly laughs.

Boosts immune system

A recent study titled “The Laughter Prescription” and published in the American Journal of Lifestyle Medicine found that the amount of laughter a person experiences is related to the immune system’s ability to fight off infections, among other benefits. The study references additional research that indicated spontaneous (not forced) laughter boosts the immune system by increasing natural killer (NK) cell activity. Levels were

measured after participants watched a one-hour humorous video. NK cells are lymphocytes with a unique ability to kill a broad spectrum of cancerous and virus-infected cells, according to the National Institutes of Health. Laughing out loud improves immune system function and increases heart rate and oxygen levels.

Lowers blood pressure

Individuals who laugh often have lower blood pressure than those who laugh less often. Lower blood pressure reduces the risk for stroke and heart attack.

Helps heal the brain

Laughing can help reverse symptoms of grief or depression by increasing the pleasure-enhancing neurochemicals in the brain, according to the Dr. Sears Wellness Institute. A good laugh also may help people recovering from chronic illnesses by helping to alleviate fear and anxiety that could otherwise preoccupy the mind.

Suppresses stress hormones

Drs. Berk and Tan found that the stress hormones epinephrine and cortisol decrease following laughter. Laughter may help people feel less stressed and overwhelmed.

Provides a small body workout

Hearty laughter can exercise the diaphragm, contract the abdominals and even work the shoulders and muscles in the face. Laughter also gets the heart pumping at a rate that burns a similar amount of calories per hour as walking slowly.

Provides natural pain relief

Research suggests that laughter decreases inflammation that may contribute to pain. Researchers at the University of Maryland found that laughing also increases blood flow, which may help to reduce pain as well.

Finding ways to laugh more is an easy and fun way to improve overall health.

He composes, performs and mentors songwriters in a lifetime of music

JIM PARKER

STORY BY GREGG PARKER

FFocused on music since the early 1960s, Jim Parker pursued an 8-to-5 career but always cherished the music scene. In fact, Parker’s musical career is still on a high note.

In 2001, he founded “Jim Parker’s Songwriters Series” at Bandito Burrito on Main Street in Madison. By 2005, his gathering of musicians had accepted an invitation for a permanent home at the Von Braun Center Playhouse.

“We’re still going strong after 19 years, bringing hit songwriters to the stage from around the states,” Parker said. “We tell the stories behind our songs that have earned National Chart recognition, Grammies and Gold and Platinum records.” Plus, the series introduces upand-coming local songwriters.

Jim Parker’s Songwriters Showcase plans seven more shows in 2024.

Composing in 2017, “Billy Droze released our bluegrass hit (written by Billy, Ronnie Bowman and me) called ‘Better With Time.’ It was on the bluegrass charts for eight weeks at No. 1 and gets airplay around the

world today,” Parker said.

Also on the “To Whom It May Concern” album, “Home in Hell” released at that same time. Droze and Parker wrote that song.

Parker penned “Back to the Country” in 1969 for release on the mini-series “D.B. Cooper, Where Are You?” The song also had a release in 2022. A live performance of the song is available on YouTube, performed by Baby and videotaped on “The Real Don Steele Show” in Los Angeles in the 1970s.

In addition, “Back to the Country” was licensed on ABC, The CW, TNT Network, ITV Canada, Hallmark and AMC networks.

In January 2022, Billy Droze and John Anderson re-released the classic country song “Chicken Truck” on RBR Entertainment Records; Parker and Anderson wrote the song. In 1981, Anderson originally released “Chicken Truck” as his second single, which reached No. 8 on national country charts.

“I met Mark O’Connor in the early 1980s when he permanently moved to Nashville. I’d been there since

1975 and was established as a songwriter,” Parker said. “Mark had already proven his skill level in the music industry after playing (fiddle at) The Opry at 12 years old. He was 25 when we met and was only doing about four demo sessions a month.”

To supplement his income, Parker was working in the Country Music Hall of Fame’s mailroom, selling “All Food Tabs” (multi-level marketing) and playing guitar on the road with musicians Dave and Sugar. “Mark got involved in marketing to supplement his income, too, and had Jim Ed Norman (producer and arranger of The Eagles strings) purchase the product,” Parker said.

“Jim Ed heard Mark’s fiddle work and invited him to a Master Session on Michael Martin Murphy. Mark took off from there,” Parker said. Along with many Master Sessions and bookings as first-call fiddle, “Mark played on every 1980s country hit coming out of Nashville.”

O’Connor credits Parker for establishing him in Nashville, ironically due to their multi -level marketing. Forwarding to 2023, Mark completed his autobiography, including a feature for Parker, and messaged Parker for a Nashville meeting. “I drove up the next day and met Mark’s wife Maggie and three couples he’d invited for the evening. Mark and Maggie, also a clas-

sically trained violinist, were singing together,” Parker said about first hearing Mark sing.

The O’Connors were writing their own song, so Parker asked if Mark needed “words.” “I went home and forwarded three sets of lyrics. They selected ‘Spice of Life,’” Parker said.

When the O’Connors sang “Spice of Life” at the Opry, Parker’s family visited them backstage. “Before their outstanding performance of ‘Spice of Life’ (our co-write), Mark gave us a shout-out, mentioning our hometown. Life is good!” Parker said.

Meanwhile, Jim Parker’s Songwriters Series has continued. “I’m inspired because I’m helping sustain my songwriter friends in the business. With the current pay scale of .003 per Spotify stream, it takes about 3.7 million streams to make $1,100,” he said.

The series “is mostly joyful but at times stressful. Booking compatible songwriters and coordinating everything over the past 19 years has had its moments,” Parker said.

Parker praised the VBC staff. “We make a good team. It was exceedingly difficult when COVID-19 closed our doors. We survived and plan to continue as long as it’s successful,” he said. Tickets are available at the VBC

Box Office.

Parker’s plans include a new song that he’s co-writing with Grammy winner Gary Nichols and Davin McCoy. “I’ve partnered with Don Howard, an incredible artist, who’s illustrating my poems in a book” with completion by year-end.

Parker has worked as Associate Broker with Averbuch Realty, 11 years; RE/MAX, 23 years; Coldwell Banker, two years; and founded Parker Realty Group in Madison in 1985. “I’ve been in the real estate industry for 44 years, earned my Emeritus status and I’m still going strong,” he said.

Lysa, his wife of 45 years, co-authored (with Barbara Nicholson) “Attached at the Heart” and cofounded Attachment Parenting International. (attachmentparenting.org) Lysa teaches yoga online and home-schools granddaughter, Layla.

The Parkers’ sons live in Huntsville. Older son, Jesse, works for the Missile Defense Agency. Jamison owns a clothing business, Huntsville Fresh (Instagram @huntsvillefreshclothing, www.HuntsvilleFreshClothing.com) and works for Lyft and Uber; he has two children.

For more information about Jim Parker’s Songwriters Series, visit jimparkermusic.com or Averbuchrealty.com.

Dating later in life

Many people 50 plus have years ahead of them to devote to new relationships. Here’s what they may want to know before navigating twenty-first century dating waters.

PPeople are living longer, a reality that can be traced to a number of factors, including advancements in medicine and greater dissemination of information regarding preventive health care. According to data from the United Nations Population Division, the average life expectancy in the United States is 81.65 for women and 76.61 for men. Canada has even higher life expectancies, at 84.74 for women and 81.15 for men.

As people live longer, some may outlive their significant others and ultimately find themselves once again interested in sharing experiences with a special someone. Seniors ready to re-enter the dating pool may find that things are quite different from what they experienced as naïve teenagers or young adults. Dating used to be about hanging out with friends and meeting people at shared events, such as school dances or work parties or even while enjoying a night out with friends. Nowadays, dating often begins in cyberspace. This can be confusing and anxiety-inducing for adults who didn’t grow up with technology guiding their every move. According to a report in The Atlantic, more than

one-third of baby boomers are not currently married, and this generation has had higher rates of separation and divorce and lower rates of marriage than the generations that preceded them. Many boomers have years ahead of them to devote to new relationships. Here’s what they may want to know before navigating twentyfirst century dating waters.

· You’re not in this alone. While online dating may

be portrayed as a young person’s game, plenty of older adults are now finding connections online. In fact, many different dating apps are geared toward the senior set, including SeniorMatch, eHarmony, Singles50, OKCupid, and Silver Singles, among others.

· You have more time for fun. As a senior, you may have more time to devote to recreation and leisure. This can be a great opportunity to get out and meet someone who shares your passions and interests.

· Online dating has its advantages. While online dating apps and websites may have certain things working against them, particularly if their algorithms for pairing people are not fine-tuned, they also can be helpful. Online dating can expand social circles beyond local neighborhoods or even states, provinces or countries. You’re casting your net over a much larger body of water. Furthermore, dating app profiles typically spell out exactly what another person is seeking, which can save seniors from having to revisit awkward dating moments from years past.

Seniors may have to navigate new waters in modern dating. But with a good mindset and a little persistence, it is possible for seniors to find a special someone in cyberspace.

Breathtaking daylilies bring color to gardens

By Dr. Eddie Miles Louis Smith, MSU Extension

DDaylilies are one of my favorite plants. I have more than 200 daylilies growing in my gardens, and I continue to plant more each year.

The only thing I don’t like about daylilies is that each individual flower lasts only for a day --hence the name “daylily.” But the fact that the plants produce multiple blooms over several weeks provides an extended period of color.

Originally, daylilies came in just yellow, orange and red. However, today’s cultivars boast a breathtaking array of colors, including near-whites, pastels, vibrant yellows, oranges, pinks, vivid reds, deep crimsons, purples, nearly true blues and intricate blends.

Daylilies are hardy and easy to care for. They prefer full sun to partial shade and can thrive in a variety of soil types, although welldrained soil is ideal. They work well in perennial borders, mixed flower beds and as a ground cover on slopes. Daylilies are droughttolerant once established.

A couple of weeks ago, I visited Rolling Oaks Daylilies where I admired hundreds of beautiful selections in full bloom across the prop-

Cross Bones daylilies produce 26-30 buds, giving them an extended blooming period. Below: Kayla daylily has black-purple blooms with green throats and white-toothed edges.

erty. I must admit the number of blooming daylilies was overwhelming, and the beautiful blooms came in so many colors, shapes and sizes.

Owner Kay Cline showed me some of her favorites growing in the gardens.

Hydra, an unusually formed, vibrant yellow-green double daylily had impressive, 8.5-inch blooms adorned with teeth-like edges. This variety is relatively tall, often reaching 32-48 inches. Foliage consists of long, arching, grass-like leaves that form a dense clump.

Another of her favorites was Cross Bones, which featured delicate ruffled edges in a striking orchid-purple hue with a yellow-green throat. The color patterns were breathtaking, making it a true eye-catcher in the garden.

The 7-inch flowers of Cross Bones were held high above the foliage on sturdy stems reaching 32 inches tall, making them quite prominent in the garden. This daylily produces 26-30 buds and is known for its extended blooming period.

Daylilies with ruffled and toothed petals have always been among my top picks. Buddy’s Kayla is a prime example that stood out as a rockstar. Its black-purple blooms with green throats and white-toothed edges were mesmerizing.

It’s important to note that daylilies do not grow from bulbs but from bare roots. These roots store essential

nutrients and energy, enabling the plants to endure harsh conditions and regrow each year.

For optimal growth, plant daylilies in full sun in moist but well-drained soil. In hot climates, dark-colored cultivars benefit from afternoon shade to maintain their vibrant colors.

When planted in the right conditions, daylilies can bloom year after year with minimal care. Their resilience and stunning beauty make them delightful additions to gardens. I hope daylilies become one of your favorite plants, too.

VAN GOGH

A new exhibit opens in Huntsville showing visitors the renown and multidimensional life of artist Vincent Van Gogh like never before

STORY BY MARIA RAKOCZY

WWhen you step into Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience, you’re not stepping into an ordinary art gallery. You’re stepping into a full experience that, more than just hanging paintings on a wall, surrounds you in the moving and skillful pieces of Vincent Van Gogh.

Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience opened May 30 at 6123 University Drive Unit 100 in Huntsville. You can get tickets and information concerning what days and hours it is open at www.vangoghexpo.com/huntsville.

The exhibit is presented by Exhibition Hub, an international exhibition distributor, curator, and producer.

Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience was the group’s first ever digital art project. It was launched in 2017.

According to John Zaller, Executive Producer of Exhibition Hub, they chose Van Gogh’s art to be the subject of their first exhibition because of his renown and multidimensional life.

“We focused on Vincent Van Gogh because he really is the rockstar of the art world. He’s well-known. He has an incredible story. His work is recognizable but also very

captivating in a very special way,” said Zaller.

The exhibit uses high-tech projection technology to display and animate more than 400 Of Van Gogh’s works including both sketches and completed pieces. It has traveled the country and is now arriving in Huntsville.

Zaller said Huntsville was a perfect place to take Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience next.

“Huntsville is a very smart market. It’s a market that really celebrates culture. It’s a market that really values these types of experiences just from the research that we did. We basically just decided that it was the place to come where people would really appreciate this work, and also from the technology perspective. With all the technology that’s in Huntsville being developed there, we thought that it would be a nice nod to all the technology that’s being created there as well.”

Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience goes beyond a typical art display by delving into the artist’s life. Walking through the exhibit is like walking through his life from his early years to the end of his life.

In the process of designing the exhibit, Zaller and the team became acquainted with Van Gogh as both a person and an artist. Zaller explained, “We poured over Van Gogh’s works and also got really in depth into his life story, his biography, really got to know him in great detail so that we could put together a story that not only features over 400 of his sketches and paintings, but also gives you a real glimpse into his life and his times and his struggles.”

Letters between family members and Van Gogh, stories of his brother and sisters, and the artist’s earlier works grace the first galleries of the exhibition. These pieces all lead up to the immersive gallery or what Zaller calls the “the crown jewel” of the exhibit. The immersive gallery displays over 400 of Van Gogh’s pieces to a custom score in a 35 minute display that wraps the guests inside the paintings by projecting them on the walls of the room in a 360 degree experience.

Starry Night is one of the paintings featured in the immersive gallery. Exhibition Hub’s high-tech projection

system immerses you in this renowned painting, which because of the short brush strokes, inspired by Japanese art, used by Van Gogh make the painting appear crisp on the projections.

Zaller says they chose to make Starry Night a significant part of the exhibit because it’s one of Van Gogh’s most famous works and for its extraordinary technique and unique perspective on the night sky.

“It’s emblematic of Van Gogh’s entire style where he said, ‘I’m going to paint a different way. I’m going to paint not just what I’m seeing but what I’m feeling.’ And he felt the power of those stars in the sky in such a way that they became these glowing orbs, these swirling glowing orbs,” explained Zaller. “It, really, in a way, sums up his work so powerfully that we decided that it really needed to be featured and it really is featured right in the middle of the immersive experience.”

After exploring Van Gogh the artist, the galleries that follow the climactic display of Starry Night and other famous paintings explore Van Gogh the man by delving

into his mental struggles. The final gallery places you up close and personal with Van Gogh the person with displays of his self-portraits.

“We give you a glimpse into some of the struggles he incurred as an artist and as a human being with a really beautiful wrap up of dozens of Van Gogh’s self-portraits surrounding you in the room. You feel very close to him at that point,” Zaller said.

At the end of the exhibit, guests are invited to express their inner artist and create artwork of their own design that then gets incorporated into the exhibition. The finale also includes a virtual reality aspect that takes you through the French countryside but through the lens of Van Gogh’s paintings of provincial scenes.

“There’s a real power in digital art in terms of helping you get centered and focused and relieving anxiety and stress, and so, that’s it; it’s just a great getaway in that regard,” described Zaller. “We’re happy to bring Van Gogh’s works to a new audience in a new way, and we think that this type of digital art projection can introduce a lot of new audiences to art in very powerful ways that they’ll be able to carry with them for a long time.”

See Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience for yourself at its Huntsville location at 6123 University Dr. Visit vangoghexpo.com for more information and tickets.

OUT OF THE FIRE

Dr. Harry Hobbs’ remarkable journey through the fire of life to become the man he is today

STORY BY ERIN COGGINS

PHOTOS BY JOSHUA BERRY

TThose in the community may recognize Dr. Harry Hobbs as a soldier, a spokesperson for the Huntsville Police Department, a professor and dean, the founder of Community Awareness for Youth (CAFY) and presently as the Vice President of Employee Engagement at Huntsville Utilities. But what they do not know is that Hobbs lifted himself out of the fire to become the man he is today.

Or at least until they read Harry’s book.

Harry, along with his wife Erica, last year published his first book titled “A Flawed Man’s Plans in God’s Hands”. Released last July, the book is currently sold on Amazon, Wal-Mart, and other online retailers.

The book details Harry’s journey through life along with three brushes with fire, which he says has anchored him his entire life.

“I had a traumatic event as a child that resulted in being scalded on my back. That was my first encounter with fire,” Harry said. “I also had a traumatic ex-

perience in the military that resulted in third-degree burns on my face. And our house burnt down when I was a child. So, these three events have anchored me in life a little bit.”

The book, which begins with Harry’s experience of growing up biracial in Kentucky during the ‘60s, was not intended to be a tell-all book. In fact, Harry initially wanted to write a book on how to make it in corporate America.

“My idea was to write a book on how to get two doctorate degrees. How do you become excellent?” Harry said.

But his wife had another idea. Erica awoke about two years ago detailing a dream she had of Harry writing a book about his life.

“She said she had a vision from God. She said we were going to write this book. I would not have been able to write this book without my wife,” Harry said. “I never thought I would write a tell-all, but I guess I did.

I had to worry about some fallout because even people and members of my family may not have wanted their stories told, but they are part of my story. This is my story.”

Harry’s story is full of decisions, but the first decision addressed in the book was not one of his. Born out of wedlock to a black mom and white dad, Harry’s aunt and grandmother made the decision to raise him. He was the only biracial child in a five-mile radius and experienced racism from both sides.

“Initially, I was the African American kid that they wanted to beat up because I looked like the enemy. People would bully me,” Harry said. “There were instances where I was told I was on the wrong bus. I have memories of being with my grandfather, a very dark African American man, at a store in Barton when the police were called because he was with a white kid. I can’t tell you how many times my family would go shopping and I would become a problem. I felt guilty about that. You know, causing issues everywhere I

went. This was until I could figure out and understand that America was in the middle of trying to find their identity on this.”

To get out of poverty, Harry made the decision to join the U.S. Army at the age of 17. He was enlisted for 10 years and an officer for 20 years. His last assignment was the ordnance proponent chief in charge of all ordnance proponent training.

“I had my ups and downs in the military. I repeated the sins of the father and had a child out of wedlock,” Harry said. “I had never revealed this before until writing this book.”

It was while serving overseas that Harry met Erica. During his first assignment overseas while working as an off-duty bouncer at a club, Harry carded Erica as her sister accompanied her to the entrance of the club.

“I was 19 years old, and she was 16 years old. I told her sister that night as I let her in the club that I would protect her. And I have been protecting her ever since,” Harry said. “Her father, retired military, tried

Dr. Harry Hobbs with his wife Erica

I want to be the bridge, whether it’s race, whatever the divide is, whether it’s education, whether it’s the have or have nots. I’ve been there. I’ve lived it.

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to run me away, and rightfully so. I just kept trying to win the family over.”

The couple have been married for 43 years. Harry said they had their ups and downs as a young couple in Germany. They had a child early. One of the commonalities that kept them grounded was being multiracial. Erica is African American, Native American and Asian. Their stories are a big part of the book.

“People may look at her and say she’s African American and I’m white, but in reality, I was more African American than her because I grew up more in the culture. She grew up in a more diverse culture, traveling around in a military family,” Harry said. “We always thought that was pretty funny, that we were always judged by the color of our skin, not our experience in our cultures.”

Harry says the book title came naturally because he is–a flawed man with a plan.

“The flawed man’s plans are in God’s hands. It was only by the grace of God, you know, that I would take myself forward and then two steps back,” Harry said. “I was trying to overcome the carnal man, overcome the abandoned, you know. I was an abandoned kid living in poverty in between races, identity crisis and trying to figure out how to navigate it.”

One way Harry navigated his life was being ambitious, taking advantage of every opportunity that came his way, including obtaining two doctorate degrees–one in human resource management and the other in business administration.

“I didn’t want to leave any doubt of my credentials. I didn’t want to leave anything on the table,” Harry said. “In the military, I attended every school I could because I wanted to give myself every op-

Dr. Harry Hobbs with his wife Erica receiving the AUSA Volunteer Family of the Year Award in 2018.

portunity to be able to have the knowledge to help other people.”

To pay it forward, he has mentored thousands of young people to go to the military academy, college, job market and military. He worked as the JROTC instructor at Columbia High School and currently serves on Gov. Kay Ivey’s board on the Workforce Innovation Opportunity Act. He also has a diversity equity inclusion certificate from Cornell University.

“I want to be the bridge, whether it’s race, whatever the divide is, whether it’s education, whether it’s the have or have nots. I’ve been there. I’ve lived it,” Harry said. “I know what it feels like to be a statistic and not heard. I’ve seen things within my own family that could not break that cycle. And I’ve been through third-world countries. I’ve seen things and I know how precious life is.”

He does not brag about his accomplishments, instead, he uses them as a way to heal and pay it forward.

“I think I am (ambitious) because I wasn’t supposed to be here, and because of that, I will always owe a debt to society and to the community I live in,” Harry said. “I’ve always tried to honor the decision my grandmother and aunt made by not aborting me,

by not giving me away to a home. And then I have a little survivor guilt from the war as well. I got the opportunities that most people could only dream about. And so, I always want to honor that by giving my best effort.”

Harry admits that the stories he shares in the book are not typical dinner conversation topics. Along with the personal stories about his family, he shares his past of dabbling in drugs and street life. He calls it a book of forgiveness, redemption, restitution and success.

“Sometimes in life, you make the same mistake a couple of times before you understand how to break away from that mindset and peer pressure,” Harry said. “There is a way to succeed in America. And if people feel that they’ve made mistakes, they can recover. Success is different for different people, and they are worth something even if you have gotten here by accident.”

Add love to the list of words Harry uses to describe his book. “Love can be forever. I believe in love. I believe in the American dream. It’s messy. It’s dirty. Marriage is hard,” Harry said. “But I believe in it, and I believe in Jesus. And I’m not ashamed of it. That’s my story and I’m sticking with it.”

Secure your financial privacy

These tips from the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority can help individuals safeguard their privacy

PSafeguarding personal financial data has never been more important, as an increasingly digital world has made online banking that much more prevalent. Cyber crimes are a significant concern. According to the Federal Bureau of Investigation, no less than 422 million individuals were impacted by cyber crime .last year, and nearly 33 billion accounts are anticipated to be breached by the end of this year. Cyber crimes are happening every day, even if the public only hears about the largest data breaches.

Financial institutions as well as retailers and other businesses that require the use of personal financial information are obligated to safeguard customer data. According to the Federal Trade Commission, financial institutions protect the privacy of consumers’ finances under a federal law called the Financial Modernization Act of 1999, also known as the Gramm-Leach-Bliley Act. That law governs banks, securities firms, insurance companies, and companies providing many other types of products and services. The law dictates how financial institutions can collect and disclose customer’s personal financial information.

Individuals also have key roles to play in protecting themselves. Though even the best precautions cannot completely secure your financial privacy, every little effort is worth it to reduce your risk of being victimized by data theft. These tips from the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority can help individuals safeguard their privacy.

· You have the right to opt out of the sharing of some of your personal information with affiliates and nonaffiliates of a financial institution. For example, you

can opt out of receiving prescreened credit offers by way of credit bureaus selling information about you to lenders or insurance.

· Increase awareness of phishing scams. These often are emails that appear to come from legitimate firms or financial regulators asking for personal information. These entities would never ask for account numbers, passwords, credit card information, or Social Security numbers through email. Verify all communication with the financial institution by contacting that institution directly at the number listed on your account statement or bill.

· Be aware of where you click online. Never click on a questionable link or download a suspicious email attachment.

· Strong passwords can keep accounts more secure. Resist the urge to use the same password across many accounts. Once that password is compromised, the cyber criminal may be able to try it on your other accounts. Consider using a password manager to suggest and save strong and unique passwords for each account.

· Utilize multifactor authentication whenever it is available. MFA adds an extra layer of protection by using a password as well as a unique code or biometric to unlock the account.

· Conduct all financial business on a personal device on a secure network. Delete the cache and history frequently to avoid leaving a digital trace.

These steps can help protect financial security. Individuals need to be diligent in safeguarding their information from cyber criminals.

Studio 60 celebrates 50 years of serving area’s active seniors

SSTUDIO 60 Senior Center, Inc., formerly the Huntsville-Madison County Senior Center, is celebrating a milestone this year. It was created 50 years ago in 1974 when three organizations serving senior citizens were merged. Since 1994, it has been located in a state-of-the-art 47,500 square foot building at Brahan Spring Park. Over the past five decades, the center has been providing many opportunities for area seniors to stay active doing what they enjoy.

STUDIO 60 Senior Center is located at 2200 Drake Ave SW in Huntsville. It is a non-profit organization dedicated to providing a community focal point where mature persons, as individuals or in groups, come together for services and activities which enhance their

dignity, support their independence and encourage involvement in community activities.

The mission of the STUDIO 60 Senior Center is to improve the lives of all older adults, no matter what their income level, through care services and programs. Each service, activity, or program offers the opportunity for social interaction, recreation, essential support for their health and well-being, education on health/computer/language issues, support of their independence, or to encourage volunteerism and community involvement.

The center offers many programs and classes, including:

• Creative Skills – Ceramics, woodworking, painting,

sewing, and needlework are some of the classes offered continuously.

• Education – History, languages, writing, and genealogy are just some of the classes that are offered.

• Health – Maintenance programs feature exercises, screenings, education, and stress management.

• Recreation – Organized activities range from table games, trips, and dances, to sporting events, line dancing, and performing arts.

• Retired and Senior Volunteer Program – Seniors provide valuable services for area non-profit agencies.

• Satellite Centers – 39 satellite groups, extensions of the Senior Center, meet throughout Madison County.

• Transportation – Assistance is provided for those unable to use the City Shuttle.

Care Services

• Center for Adult Day Health Care – Supervised weekday program for mentally or physically disabled adults.

• Homemaker Services – In-home services to promote independent living.

• Meals on Wheels – Volunteers deliver nutritious lunches to homebound seniors Monday through Friday.

• Nutrition Centers – Providing fellowship, recreational activities, and a hot midday meal Monday through Friday at eight locations in Madison County, including the Senior Center on Drake Avenue.

For more information, go to www.seniorview.com or call 256-880-7080. Oneofthecountry’smost comprehensiveseniorcenterprograms, wearereimaginingaging throughwellness,connection, andlifelonglearningallinavibrantinclusivespace.

Episcopal of the Nativity

Awaken your spirit with the North Alabama Hallelujah Trail

Step back in time as you discover North Alabama’s oldest places of worship

From Alabama Mountain Lakes Tourist Association

The North Alabama Hallelujah Trail features 32 churches that are at least 100 years old, stand on their original sites, still hold services, and are accessible to the public.

These structures paint an immaculate portrait of North Alabama’s history and combine to tell the remarkable story of early Alabamians’ spiritual journey.

The Hallelujah Trail winds through 16 counties and the churches were selected during an intensive two-year research process.

While some churches were designed by experienced architects, many are simple expressions showcasing the blood, sweat, and tears of early church members who simply felt the calling. Many church interiors feature what seem to be inelegant designs, but the gentle grace

and perfect balance of the construction is what really stand out.

Several white-painted timber-framed churches are nestled in quiet surroundings, standing as testimonies to those who wished to create a place of silence, prayer, and spiritual joy. Others can be found in serene locations, open on three sides, married to the woodlands with only a single room. Like the forest, each church has its atmosphere, fragrance, light, and shadow. Sturdy benches and a simple wooden pulpit are the sole furnishings in some.

The stained-glass windows are perhaps the most breathtaking feature of many churches on the trail. The glimmering sunlight warms and fills the sanctuaries with colorful prisms of nature’s power. The beautiful gothic, cathedral-like structures are truly great wonders of art. In addition, the tall, elegant steeples rise into the heavens, touching the sky and providing a direct connection

for the church denizens down below.

Some churches can be described as grand gothic edifices while others are simple clapboard buildings. No matter, the passion of the churches’ parishioners pulsates through the walls. Whatever your beliefs, these houses of worship cause us to pause, reflect, and recount the most important events in our lives: birth, marriage, death, and the mysteries that await.

A few of the churches along the trail are listed below. For a full list and to download a pdf Hallelujah Trail guide, go to northalabama.org/places-to-visit/trails/ hallelujah.

St. John’s Episcopal Church

202 Gordon Drive SE, Decatur

Woodville Methodist Chapel

106 Pear Street, Woodville

Temple B’nai Sholom

103 Lincoln Street SE, Huntsville

Episcopal Church of the Nativity

208 Eustis Avenue, Huntsville

Cambridge United Methodist Church

13980 Cambridge Lane, Athens

First Presbyterian Church of Athens

112 South Jefferson Street, Athens

Joseph Catholic Church

1111 East College Street, Florence

Trinity Episcopal Church

410 North Pine Street, Florence

First Presbyterian Church of Tuscumbia

103 N. Broad Street, Tuscumbia

Mount Pleasant Methodist Church

Highway 724 & CR 87, Russellville

Corinth Church

2540 County Road 57, Double Springs

Church of the Forest

51 County Road 94, Houston

Courtland Presbyterian Church

Milton, Courtland

Pine Torch Church

1955 County Road, 70 Moulton

The Tabernacle

35 Tabernacle Road, Hartselle

St. John’s Evangelical Protestant Church

512 2nd Avenue SE, Cullman

Shady Grove Methodist Church

895 County Road 846, Logan

First Methodist Church of Guntersville

539 Gunter Avenue, Guntersville

First Presbyterian Church of Guntersville

901 Gunter Avenue, Guntersville

First Presbyterian Church of Athens

Temple B’nai Sholom

Cambridge United Methodist Church

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