Lss leader newsletter sept 2015

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Lutheran Social Services of Central Ohio Newsletter

Healing Emotional Scars

Fall Quarter

Inside President’s Message pg. 2 Grace House to Open pg. 2 LSS Steps in to Help Flood Victims pg. 3 Faith Mission Resource Center Expansion pg. 3 Delaware County Food Pantry Wraps Up Campaign pg. 4

“During my 20 years of marriage to my husband, I endured physical, sexual and emotional abuse. The physical pain was awful, but the emotional scars are what haunted me daily. When I reached out for help, everyone told me to stay, leaving me isolated and alone. The church I attended told me it was a sin to leave, my parents told me to stay for the kids, and my friends said but he is such a good guy. We went to marriage counseling, and I was told I needed to work on my communication and be forgiving of my husband’s anger. My mother always said I had to have done something to make him so mad and that I should treat him to his favorite meal so he was more relaxed. No one truly knew what I was going through and experiencing on a daily basis. I was so alone and so hopeless. It wasn’t until a woman slipped a CHOICES brochure in my Bible at church that I had any hope at all. I will always remember my first call to the CHOICES hotline because it was the first time I heard that it was not my fault. I began meeting with a counselor weekly and attending weekly support groups. I finally received the validation, support and education I needed to realize I could get out. My counselor was able to help me formulate a safety plan to leave my husband, link me to resources for my divorce and provided trauma specific therapy to heal my emotional scars. Without CHOICES, I would not be living my life free of abuse and misery.” - Linda Unfortunately, stories like Linda’s are all too common. This past year, CHOICES provided safe shelter to 742 victims of abuse and their children and answered the crisis

Linda has hope because of CHOICES hotline 3,108 times. In 2014, Franklin County police departments recorded more than 9,287 incidences of domestic violence. Domestic violence is an epidemic in our community, with one in four women experiencing it sometime in her life. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and you can help end the cycle of violence by showing your support of CHOICES and our mission. Purchase your own CHOICES t-shirt by visiting www.beardedturtle.net. All proceeds will be used to help women like Linda at CHOICES. Also, please like and share our posts on Facebook (/LSSCHOICES) and Twitter (@lssco), and post messages to social media on ending domestic violence with the hashtag #CbusSaysNotoDV. Let’s show our community we say no!

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