Publisher’s Note
Wesurvived January!
At the time of this writing, it seems like everyone has been waddling around town bundled up like marshmallows, braving single-digit temps while dodging relentless snow akes. (Seriously, when will it stop?) On the bright side, winter sports fans are living their best lives, and the annual Polar Plunge on Lake Fenton (February 1) promised plenty of frozen fundraising for thrill-seekers. What can I say? I guess I’m always looking for that silver lining. is month, you’ll want to check out our “7 Questions” feature with Dr. Shan Jackson, one of Flint’s best-dressed health pros and a My City contributing writer. She’s got a resume that’ll make your head spin (in a good way). Curious? Check out pg. 6 to learn more about this fascinating Flintite.
Speaking of action, we take a behind-the-scenes look at the Law Enforcement Regional Training Academy (LERTA) in Fenton Township. is isn’t just any academy – there, future o cers gear up to protect and serve, under the authority of the Mott Community College Department of Public Safety. Peek into the rigorous training process on pg. 8.
Since 2017, my good friend Judge Duncan Beagle has been busy with his passion project, the Vehicle City Sports Committee. is nonpro t is shaking things up in Flint and Genesee County, championing high school athletes and turning Atwood Stadium into a prime venue for youth and amateur events. Get the full scoop on pg. 46. So, it’s the “month of love” – and this is our annual bridal issue. Fun fact: Turns out Gen Z is keeping the dream of “I do” alive (according to surveys), with marriage still a goal for most. Starting on pg. 16, you’ll nd expert advice on rings, gowns and much more, plus an interesting dive into historical weddings celebrated at St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Downtown Flint.
As February rolls in, we also celebrate Black History Month, and the Flint Institute of Arts is shining a spotlight on African American artists with two must-see exhibitions featuring Romare Bearden and Judy Bowman. Learn more about these unique showcases on pg. 12. And, we have coverage of the community’s annual celebrations honoring the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. (pg. 52-55).
While it’s far too cold to frolic outdoors, I suggest you grab a blanket, cozy up on the couch and spend some quality time with My City anks for reading!
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Second Chances Hope Awaits
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Meet FROST
The Swirly-Furred Sweetheart Ready to Steal Your Heart!
This one-year-old Abyssinian guinea pig is as cool as his name suggests! With his wild, swirly fur (we call it “character!”) and his squeaky enthusiasm for veggie snacks, Frost is sure to melt your heart. He’s super friendly and would be a wonderful rst pet. Research is key before bringing any new, furry friend into your life – here are some important things to know about guinea pigs:
• Gentle, social creatures, guinea pigs make wonderful pets for families, kids or rsttime pet owners.
• With their charming squeals and unique personalities, guinea pigs are highly interactive and love bonding with their humans.
• ey’re relatively easy to care for with the right cage setup, fresh veggies, hay and a little daily attention.
• Caring for a guinea pig can help children learn about pet care and responsibility in a manageable way.
• Guinea pigs o en live 5-7 years, o ering a long-term companionship.
Frost would thrive in a home where he gets plenty of love, treats and attention. He’s sure to be a delightful companion who brings joy and laughter to your life. If you’re ready for a pet that will greet you with adorable squeaks of joy, Frost might just be your perfect match!
wedding journey is all about turning dreams into reality, and the trends for 2025 will influence every step! From show-stopping bridal gowns to picture-perfect honeymoon destinations, this year’s weddings are blending timeless romance with modern flair. In addition to advice contributed by local event planning, jewelry, gown and finance experts, we’re highlighting standout local venues, tech-savvy celebrations, vibe-setting themes and inspiring color palettes. Whether you envision a classic ceremony or an unconventional party, this year’s trends will inspire couples to create a day that’s as unforgettable as their love story.
DISPLAY YOUR PERSONAL TASTE WITH A T me We g
BY VERA HOGAN
you and your betrothed have speci c interests you would like to share with friends and family at your wedding? en, a theme-based celebration may be the perfect way to showcase these interests – and your creativity – on your big day. The popularity of theme weddings has grown significantly in recent years. Although time-honored traditions remain popular, couples are opting to add more fun and excitement to personalize their happy event.
HOW DO YOU CHOOSE A WEDDING THEME?
If you’re unsure what style is right for you, details like the date or location can serve as a guiding force. However, the best theme or style inspiration comes from your relationship and the interests you share and are passionate about. e experts at theknot.com o er the following wedding theme ideas:
Ru ic
A rustic wedding theme is all about connecting your celebration to nature. is concept can take many forms, from a farm-to-table garden dinner to a ceremony performed in a wild ower eld. A focus on warmth and hospitality guides this casual aesthetic. e venue for a rustic wedding could be a barn, or perhaps an apple orchard. ere are many such wedding venues in Genesee County and throughout Michigan. is celebration theme is all about hospitality, great food and entertainment.
L e Bl m
Flowers are a big part of almost every type of wedding, but with a garden theme, owers are the moment. A garden wedding works especially well for spring nuptials, especially if you’ve chosen a pastel color palette. Garden wedding venues could include a private estate, botanical garden, vineyard, or a ballroom transformed by abundant blooms. Consider investing in elaborate bouquets, a blossoming ceremony arch and focal centerpieces on the reception tables. →
Extraordinary Team, Exceptional Experiences
AtFenton Winery & Brewery, wedding planning is a collaborative journey led by Co-owner Ginny Sherrow and her dedicated team. “Our full-time coordinators become a steady source of knowledge and expertise for our couples throughout the average 18-month planning period,” Sherrow shares. “We cherish the long-term relationships we build – not only before the special day but afterward, as couples return to enjoy our Taproom and gardens.”
For many couples, the logistics of vendor coordination, setup and cleanup can feel overwhelming. FWB simplifies the process by offering an inclusive service. “When you book with us, vendor coordination is part of the package,” Sherrow explains. “Couples can choose from our preferred vendors or bring their own, and we hold everyone accountable to ensure a seamless experience.” The team also handles all setup and cleanup, except for personal décor and florals, allowing couples to personalize the space while leaving the heavy lifting to the professionals. This hands-on approach is inspired by FWB’s mission: “to be a part of your story.” Sherrow elaborates, “Fenton Winery & Brewery exists to provide a place for people to connect, celebrate and be together. Creating the best possible experience ensures people return and become part of our community.”
Over 12 years, FWB has hosted more than 800 weddings, perfecting a process that combines professionalism with a personal touch. Couples often praise FWB’s attentive team, outstanding service and unforgettable food and beverages. The venue’s commitment to excellence has earned it recognition as the 2024 Best Wedding Venue by View Group readers and a Best of Weddings award from The Knot. “Those awards solidify for us that we are doing the right things in creating memorable experiences at Fenton Winery & Brewery,” Sherrow adds. “We’ve developed a proven process to host a carefree, joyous wedding day.”
Reflecting on memorable moments, Sherrow notes, “Witnessing the vow exchange and the ‘I do’ is always the most moving. It’s the beginning of a new marriage, and being part of that is incredibly special.”
V tage
Local antique shops typically o er a variety of trinkets from eras past that can provide inspiration for a vintage-themed wedding. To create the vibe, you’ll want to focus heavily on the Gilded Age and Victorian design. For starters, think candelabras, cloche jars, ligree photo frames and upholstered velvet furniture. Ideal venues could include a historic courthouse or hotel, garden or chapel.
THE BEST THEME OR STYLE INSPIRATION COMES FROM YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND
THE INTERESTS YOU SHARE AND ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT.
Cel
tial
A celestial wedding theme wedding will be a sparkle- lled collection of midnight blue and black, just like a star-speckled night sky. A planetarium, museum or lo could o er the perfect venue.
Ju Beachy
If you want a laid-back, chill day that is reminiscent of a beach vacation, hit the sand for
your nuptials. Beyond an actual beach, you can host a beachthemed wedding at a waterfront resort or lakeside golf course. Breezy linen fabrics, lighthouse motifs and blue watercolor stationery help to form this nautical, relaxed style. Treat guests to a seafood bar featuring local catches, lobster rolls or fresh shrimp cocktails. A waterfront view will really bring together this maritime-inspired theme.
Go Retro
Even if your wedding guests can’t jive like the “American Bandstand” dancers could back in the day, that’s what the vibe should feel like at a retro wedding. Pull retro theme ideas from the ‘50s and ‘60s, a time when bold colors like teal, cherry red, neon pink and canary yellow brought new energy to home decor and fashion. Include a few throwback details, like Coca Cola served in its signature glass bottles. Ideal venues include an art gallery, vintage theater, restored historic building or a diner.
If you want to depart from tradition and begin your marriage journey with a celebration that is uniquely you, opt for a theme wedding! For more ideas, visit theknot.com.
It’s Better When We’re Together!
When a couple’s big day is on its way, there are many reasons to celebrate. While many take the traditional route, more than half of today’s couples are opting for much more inclusive versions of these celebrations, such as a “Couples Shower” or a “Wedding Shower” that allow all of your guests to mingle long before the nuptials commence.
An event like this takes the place of the classic “Bridal/Groom Shower”. These party types tend to divvy up loved ones who would like to see both of you on these special days, rather than having to choose whom to spend time with. They often gravitate toward more of an openhouse format, but that depends on how fancy you two want your celebration to be!
At The Laundry Room, you can go with an extravagant affair that includes a delicious sitdown meal and incorporates the formal opening of gifts and a fabulous craft cocktail bar. You can also opt for something more casual, such as an appetizer grazing table, outdoor games, and a signature punch beverage that you and your sweetie chose together. It’s important to have someone, like our Venue Coordinator, to walk you through the process of creating the event you are looking for, so that you are free to enjoy the day celebrating the most important thing: the love you share with the person you have chosen to spend your life with.
It is crucial to choose a venue that can provide everything that you and your partner would like to include; great food, amazing beverages and a comfortable atmosphere. Flexible spaces, like The Laundry Room, are a great option for couples who want to celebrate all of the moments that lead up to their special day, jointly, rather than apart. Because it really is better when you two are together!
If You Dream It, We Can Make It
CRAFTING MEMORIES AT MEDAWAR’S
WWhere Dreams Take Shape
Every great design starts with a vision. Perhaps you’ve imagined a sparkling engagement ring as unique as your love story, or an anniversary band that marks decades of cherished memories. Maybe you’ve inherited a sentimental piece and want to reimagine it into something new. At Medawar’s, we invite you to bring your ideas, inspiration, and passion into our world of exceptional craftsmanship.
Our custom design process is a collaborative journey where your dreams take center stage. It all begins with a conversation. Share your vision with our expert designers, who listen closely to understand your style, preferences, and the story behind your piece. From there, we bring your ideas to life through sketches and 3D digital renderings that let you see every detail before it’s created.
The Art of Custom Design
At Medawar’s, our passion for perfection is matched only by our commitment to innovation. Once your design is finalized, our team of skilled
hen it comes to celebrating life’s most significant milestones, no piece of jewelry shines brighter than one that’s been uniquely crafted just for you. At Medawar’s, we believe that your story deTO START YOUR JOURNEY, VISIT MEDAWARS.COM/CUSTOM-DESIGN OR VISIT
serves a design as extraordinary as the moments it represents. From custom engagement and wedding rings to anniversary bands and heirloom-worthy treasures, we transform your dreams into breathtaking reality.
artisans and state-of-the-art technology come together to craft your piece. Using only the finest materials— platinum, gold, diamonds, and vibrant gemstones—every detail is meticulously executed to ensure your jewelry is as stunning as it is personal.
What sets us apart is our attention to every intricate element. We’ll help you select the perfect diamond or gemstone, educate you on cut, clarity, and carat, and ensure your piece is designed to last a lifetime. The result? A one-of-a-kind masterpiece that embodies your style and tells your story.
Why Choose Medawar’s?
When you choose Medawar’s for custom jewelry, you’re choosing more than a jeweler; you’re choosing a partner in creating memories. With over 105 years of experience, our family-owned business has been trusted by generations to commemorate life’s most meaningful moments. We’re not just experts in design; we’re artists who pour our hearts into every piece we create.
And because we know that every detail matters, our process is as seam-
less as it is inspiring. From the initial consultation to the final unveiling, we keep you involved every step of the way. The joy of seeing your dream design come to life is a moment we treasure just as much as you do.
Beyond Engagement Rings
While custom engagement and wedding rings are a cornerstone of what we do, our expertise extends far beyond. Anniversary bands, family heirlooms, redesigns of cherished pieces—if you can dream it, we can make it. Whether you’re celebrating a new chapter or honoring a legacy, our designs are crafted to be as timeless as the moments they commemorate.
Your Story, Our Craftsmanship
Jewelry is more than an accessory; it’s a reflection of who you are. At Medawar’s, we take pride in transforming your dreams into designs that are as unique as your journey. Visit us at Medawar’s and let us help you create a piece that captures the essence of your story—because when it comes to celebrating love, family, and milestones, only the best will do.
Dreams don’t just happen—we make them come true.
ce MEETS NATURAL Beauty at Vale Royal Barn & Inn
Nestled in eight picturesque acres, Vale Royal Barn & Inn offers a magical setting for outdoor weddings, blending rustic charm with natural splendor. Owner Valerie Johnson describes the venue as “a place where couples can truly make their day their own.” With exclusive weekend access to the property’s country house, couples and their guests are invited to immerse themselves in an atmosphere of serenity.
What makes Vale Royal stand out? Its variety of outdoor spaces, each offering a unique backdrop. “Ceremonies can be held on the river dock, in a wooded grove, the garden courtyard or the back field,” Valerie says. “Each space highlights the natural beauty of the property, creating a stunning canvas for any wedding theme.” Guests will also find charming features like a historic 1836 barn preserved from demolition, moved from the original Vale Royal
Farm which was located near the corner of Bennett Lake Rd. and Old US 23. And, a covered bridge on the park-like property is perfect for unforgettable photos.
The venue’s attention to detail extends to every aspect of the celebration. Tables, chairs and outdoor benches are included in the rental, while guests can enjoy lawn games, a petting farm or even ride a mechanical bull. As the evening winds down, bonfire pits beckon loved ones to gather under the stars. “We strive to make every moment magical,” Valerie shares.
Even inclement weather doesn’t dim the charm. “We have beautiful indoor options to ensure every wedding runs smoothly,” Valerie adds. One memorable event featured a groom arriving at the river dock in his bass fishing boat, showcasing the venue’s unique appeal.
With its rustic elegance, exceptional amenities and thoughtful design, Vale Royal Barn & Inn offers an extraordinary experience for couples looking to celebrate their love amidst breathtaking natural beauty.
Whether your wedding or engagement ring is brandnew or a family heirloom, a professional appraisal is essential to protect your investment. “Jewelry is often sentimental, and while you can’t replace the sentiment, an appraisal determines its value,” says Chip Beltinck, Owner of Sawyer Jewelers in Fenton. “This is crucial in cases of theft, mysterious loss, or even something as simple as losing a ring while swimming or washing your hands.”
A thorough appraisal includes detailed, itemized information. “It should cover the color, clarity, measurements and size of each stone, total weight, gold content, and includes detailed photos,” Beltinck explains. “For colored stones, quality and grading are important, too. Accurate documentation ensures you can recover the item’s value from your insurance company.”
It’s also important to choose a qualified appraiser. “Look for someone certified by the Gemological Institute of America (GIA),” says Beltinck. “GIA experts are globally recognized. At Sawyer Jewelers, we’re proud to have two Grad-
uate Gemologists (GGs) on staff.”
Beltinck warns against vague or inflated appraisals. “A vague appraisal can make replacing an item nearly impossible. Overvaluing jewelry may increase your insurance premiums unnecessarily,” he notes.
Appraisals tie directly into insurance coverage. “Be proactive,” advises Beltinck. “Appraisals should be updated every three to five years, depending on the item’s value. Confirm with your insurance company whether replacement costs include reproducing custom pieces. At Sawyer Jewelers, we factor in unseen costs like labor, custom work and CAD design.”
Beltinck shares a memorable story: “A customer lost a vintage heirloom ring passed down from her mother. Thanks to her detailed appraisal, including photos and CAD design, we created a nearly identical replica. While the sentimental value couldn’t be replaced, she was thrilled to have the appearance of what she lost.”
A professional appraisal not only protects your jewelry’s value but also ensures peace of mind should the unexpected happen.
Say “Yes” to the Trend WEDDING GOWNS 2025
BY SHERRON BARDEN
For the upcoming wedding season, brides are redefining tradition with fresh perspectives on style, individuality and sustainability. This year’s gown trends reflect a perfect blend of timeless elegance and modern innovation, with designs that cater to every love story and personality.
THESE ARE SOME OF THE STYLES ARE DEFINING 2025 GOWN DESIGNS:
ROMANTIC MAXIMALISM
Featuring full skirts, lush textures and intricate details, this trend exudes romance and grandeur with ball gowns and A-line silhouettes embellished with lace appliques, 3D owers and layered tulle.
SLEEK & SOPHISTICATED MINIMALISM
On the opposite end, these sleek gowns give brides an elegant and timeless look, speaking through simplicity with clean lines and quality, luxurious fabrics such as satin and silk.
TWO-PIECE ENSEMBLES
O ering brides a more versatile, modern and playful look, these ensembles feature mix and match tops and skirts for a custom out t that can even be re-worn a er the big day.
THE FABRICS
Texture
Tulle, lace and organza remain in the forefront of bridal wear, with layered designs and intricate patterns adding luxurious and multi-dimensional depth. →
Finding the Per Gown
Expert Advice from Expressions in Silk Bridal
Voted the 2024 City’s Choice for Favorite Bridal Shop, Expressions in Silk has been helping brides-to-be find “THE dress” for their big day for over four decades.
Shop owner Patti Ruhala and her expert team believe shopping for your wedding gown should be an exciting, stress-free experience. She graciously shared valuable tips for making this important decision.
WHEN TO START SHOPPING
Plan to shop 9-12 months before your wedding. “While many gowns are available for immediate purchase, extra time ensures that any design changes or size orders can be completed without stress,” Patti notes. Some designers also offer quicker delivery options if needed.
FINDING THE RIGHT FIT
“Every bride is unique, and finding a gown that flatters your body type starts with trying on the four main styles: ballgown, fit-andflare, sheath and A-line,” Patti states. “You can’t always tell how a dress will look based on photos of size-four models.” Once you determine your favorite silhouette, focus on details like lace, beading, shimmer or fabric types. The wedding venue also plays a role; an outdoor setting might inspire a fairytale gown, while an elegant indoor venue may call for a more formal look.
UNDERSTANDING ALTERATIONS
Since gowns are designed with standard measurements, tailoring ensures the dress hugs your body in all the right places. Typical alterations include hemming for height, adjusting for your bust, waist or hips, and adding a bustle. Some designers offer custom measurements, but additional adjustments may still be necessary.
TRENDS TO WATCH
“This season, brides are loving both simple, unembellished gowns and those with intricate beading or shimmer. Light, airy fabrics and styles featuring sleeves or modest designs are also trending,” Patti says.
WHAT MAKES EXPRESSIONS IN SILK UNIQUE
With over 40 years of bridal expertise, the team is passionate about creating a fun, personalized shopping experience. Their collection features one-of-a-kind gowns, ensuring your dress is truly special. “On-site seamstresses, experienced stylists and even a florist and officiant on staff make this a one-stop shop,” Patti adds. As one happy customer, Jenny Armstrong, put it: “The ladies here made me feel so special and went above and beyond to make my wedding look a dream come true! If you want the PERFECT dress and the best service you’ve ever had, go to Expressions in Silk Bridal!”
Sustainable Choices
Brides can feel good about choosing a dress that respects the environment, with a growing number of collections featuring fabrics such as recycled polyester, bamboo silk and organic cotton.
Metallic Shine & Glitter
Ideal for evening weddings and brides who love a bit of sparkle, metallic accents woven into the fabric create an elegant glow without overpowering the design.
SILHOUETTES
• Flowing A-Lines
• Princess Ball Gowns
• e Sleek Sheath
NECKLINES
Plunging V-Necks
Adding a modern, bold touch, a daring, plunging neckline is perfect for brides looking to make a fashion-forward statement with their gown.
Halter & High Necklines
A chic look that’s ideal for brides who prefer more coverage, this style offers elegance and sophistication.
Square
This look is inspired by vintage styles but with a contemporary twist. Framing the shoulders and décolletage, it gives the bride a timeless look.
SLEEVES
• Illusion Sleeves with Embroidery
• O -the-Shoulder Sleeves
• Detachable Sleeves for Flexibility
EMBELLISHMENTS
Pearl Detailing
Adding classic elegance and a refined, luxurious finish, pearls are a top embellishment for 2025.
3D Floral Appliques
Perfect for brides with a love of nature-inspired styles, 3D oral appliques bring dresses to life with realistic, textured blooms.
Statement Bows
Placed on the back, waist or shoulders to add drama, oversized bows add a unique and playful element.
COLOR TRENDS
Soft Neutrals Beyond White
Offering a warm alternative to the staple white, soft neutrals like blush, champagne and pastel shades are ideal for outdoor or spring weddings.
Earthy Tones for a Rustic Look
Perfect for outdoor or bohemian ceremonies, terracotta, sage and olive are bringing a rustic vibe to wedding fashion.
Subtle Metallic Accents
For evening weddings, metallic hues and fabrics with a shimmer add a glamorous touch. ese shades give gowns a captivating glow under evening lights.
• Bows
• Corsets
• Drop Waists
• Neck Scarves
• Basque Waistlines
• Minimalist Structured Designs
• Floral Elements
VEILS
Short & Playful for a Modern Twist
Chic, fun, and perfect for brides opting for a minimalist or contemporary gown, short veils convey a non-traditional vibe.
From intricate embellishments and bold silhouettes to eco-conscious fabrics and unexpected pops of color, the 2025 bride has more choices than ever to make her walk down the aisle as unique as her journey to it.
C g Beautiful Traditions
TRACY’S CREATIONS CUSTOM SPECIALTY ALTERATIONS IN FENTON
Tracy’s Creations not only alters clothing for special occasions, but is frequently asked for custom garment reconstruction, too. “I love the creative challenge of modifying previously worn pieces to make beautiful new creations!” smiles Tracy Ellis-Nuttle, Owner/Seamstress with 40+ years of experience. “Designs circle around borrowing elements and features between the generations. It’s exciting to see styles reemerge and become fresh again!” she shares. “All things Bridal and Beautiful really inspire me!”
In 2024, Tracy converted several mother’s vintage gowns into wearable art for today. Imagine mother’s 1990ish white satin with heavily-beaded trim turned into daughter’s wedding day dressing robe. Or, reshaped into a shower, rehearsal or reception dress. Or, transformed into a receiving blanket or baptism gown and bonnet to welcome a new grandchild. “These clever and gorgeous recreations are unique heirlooms that keep family traditions flowing into the future,” Tracy adds. Perhaps you are considering doing something with your mother’s vintage gown. Custom work often requires greater artistic creative time, so Tracy only works on these projects in the slower, winter months. As Tracy is a one-woman production team, she asks that brides call months in advance to be placed on her waiting list. “There are only so many hours in the schedule to see clients, sew and prepare for fittings – I really need an assistant!”
Tracy’s Creations offers specialty alterations, suit-tailoring for grooms, and is also a dealer for The Wedding Gown Preservation Company. “Getting your wedding gown cleaned and properly preserved this year means your daughter may choose to do something creative with it to make a tradition of her own!”
Call to inquire at 810.252.0064.
We g COLOR TRENDS FOR 2025
AS BOLD AS YOUR LOVE
STORY!
BY SHERRON BARDEN
When it comes to weddings, color isn’t just decoration – it’s the vibe, the energy and the magic element that ties everything together. Whether you’re dreaming of an opulent affair or an intimate celebration, the colors you choose will set the tone for your big day.
JUICY REDS
Juicy red leads the way, a vibrant shade perfect for creating an atmosphere of passion and excitement. Pair it with metallic gold for a regal touch, or so en it with blush pinks for a romantic twist.
EARTH TONES
If you’re drawn to earthy elegance, you could explore all shades of brown. From caramel to cocoa, these tones bring warmth and sophistication, especially when paired with lush greenery or so beige accents.
DREAMY HUES
Looking for something dreamy and serene? So , less-saturated tones – like dusty blue, muted lavender, or pale peach – are your go-to hues. ey create a relaxed, ethereal mood, perfect for garden or beach weddings.
OLD-WORLD
For those who adore timeless charm, ne art-inspired, old-world hues like deep emerald, navy, or burgundy evoke the elegance of a European estate. ink vintage-inspired orals, candlelit tables and ornate details.
METALLIC SPARKLE
Metallic moments – gold, silver and even copper – add sparkle and glamour to any celebration. Use metallics sparingly for a chic accent, or go all out for a luxe, modern look.
MONOCHROME
Minimalists will swoon over monochrome and minimal palettes. Shades of white, cream or gray keep things crisp and contemporary while letting other elements, like oral arrangements or textures, shine.
CLASSIC GREEN
And let’s not forget classic green – fresh, versatile and always elegant. Green is the perfect way to highlight nature’s beauty, whether it’s woven into bouquets or used as lush table runners.
NO MATTER YOUR PALETTE, your wedding colors will set the stage for memories that last a lifetime. So, what shades will you choose to paint your love story?
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T H eym n Destinations WHERE ROMANCE MEETS ADVENTURE
BY SHERRON BARDEN
Your honeymoon is your rst big adventure as a married couple – a chance to unwind, connect and kick o your new chapter with a little (or a lot of) indulgence. From mind-blowing sunsets to unforgettable escapades, these destinations promise romance, relaxation and a sprinkle of adventure. oughtful planning will make your honeymoon a memory you’ll cherish forever. Here are ve dreamy spots to inspire your getaway:
GREECE
Best Time to Go: Late May - mid-June and September - early October
Postcard-perfect moments await in Greece, where history meets vibrant nightlife.
• Watch the Aegean sun melt into the horizon in Santorini.
• Stroll hand-in-hand through Athens’ ancient ruins, feeling like time travelers.
• Discover quaint villages and serene beaches for lazy a ernoons.
• Party like never before in Mykonos, where the celebration doesn’t stop.
Whether you’re sipping ouzo by the sea or dancing the night away, Greece is a honeymooner’s paradise.
SICILY & THE AMALFI COAST
Best Time to Go: Late May - mid-June or September -early October
(Heads up: It’s Italy’s Jubilee Year, so expect extra crowds!)
Welcome to la dolce vita – the sweet life.
• Wander Taormina’s lively streets with Mount Etna as your backdrop.
• Catch golden-hour magic at the Valley of the Temples in Agrigento.
• Savor Sicilian treats and Marsala wine at cozy cafes.
• Drive the Amal Coast’s winding roads with views that rival the best love stories.
• Lounge on Positano’s sun-drenched beaches, surrounded by pastel cli s.
Finish the day with seaside dinners where every bite tastes like amore.
MALDIVES
Best Time to Go: November-April (May-October is rainy season) Ready for the ultimate luxury honeymoon? e Maldives has it all:
• Sleep in an overwater villa and wake to the sound of gentle waves.
• Snorkel through vibrant coral gardens teeming with marine life.
• Treat yourselves to a spa day above impossibly clear waters.
• Enjoy a meal at an underwater restaurant – yes, really!
It’s the kind of place that makes you feel like you’re living a dream.
SOUTH AFRICA & THE SEYCHELLES
Best Time to Go: May or October Two destinations, one unforgettable honeymoon.
• Start with a safari at Kruger National Park and spot the Big Five.
• Toast your future with great local wine in Stellenbosch.
• Catch a sunset atop Cape Town’s Table Mountain – it’s pure magic.
• Fly to the Seychelles, where crystal-clear waters await on Mahé’s beaches.
• Snorkel the colorful reefs of La Digue or explore lush island trails.
Plan your future with romantic seaside dinners under starlit skies.
ST. LUCIA
Best Time to Go: Avoid hurricane season (June-November). is lush Caribbean island is straight out of a fairytale.
• Stay in a villa with breathtaking views of the iconic Pitons.
• Dive into the turquoise sea for a snorkeling adventure.
• Enjoy private dinners under a canopy of stars.
St. Lucia blends tropical beauty with intimate charm, making it a perfect spot for newlyweds.
Whether you’re chasing sunsets, savoring ne wine, or exploring underwater wonders, these top honeymoon destinations promise to make your rst trip as a married couple unforgettable. So, where will your adventure begin?
THE APP-IEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE
Tech-savvy couples embrace digital trends
BY VERA HOGAN
It’s 2025 and tech-savvy couples are bringing the digital world into their wedding day. Foregoing some old traditional practices can save time, money, and even the environment.
To help couples incorporate the latest technology into their big day, wedding professionals that include theknot.com, hgtv.com, zola.com, theclybourn.com and many others offer these trending tech tips:
Wedding Website
Personalized wedding websites serve as a hub for all your important details, such as venue info, RSVPs and gi registries. ere are many user-friendly platforms available that make building a wedding website simple, ensuring that even the least tech-savvy couples can create a memorable online presence for their special day.
Digital Invites
Although traditional paper invitations are still a preferred choice, especially for a couple’s older generation loved ones, digital invites have gained popularity for their convenience and eco-friendliness. Consider sending out digital invites via email or through a dedicated wedding invitation site. Not only can you save money on printing and postage, this format helps you more easily track RSVPs.
Social Media Hashtag
Create a unique wedding hashtag that re ects your personality and your big day vibe. Encourage guests to use this hashtag when posting photos and updates on social media platforms like Instagram and X. Couples will be able to relive their special day through their guests’ perspectives and share the joy with friends and family who were unable to attend.
QR Codes
Another trend is to create QR codes that wedding guests can scan and use to upload photos from the day, allowing the couple to see the celebration from the guests’ point of view. Display the QR code on the bar and other key locations at the reception so guests can contribute to the wedding’s visual story.
vites guests to leave digital messages, photos and good wishes. This allows couples to capture memories during the celebration while reducing the risk of losing valuable signatures or notes.
Photo Booths with a Digital Twist
A staple at wedding receptions, photo booths now come with a modern twist. Choose a digital photo booth that o ers animated GIFs, virtual props and instant sharing options. Guests can receive digital copies of their photos to share on social media, preserving the memories for years to come.
Tech-Savvy Entertainment
The purpose of the reception is to celebrate and have fun! Keep your guests engaged with tech-savvy options. Consider hiring a digital caricature artist, a live-streaming DJ, or even a holographic performance for you and your guests.
Inc r g digital t nds c m e y r celebr n unique y r l e y.
Livestream Your Ceremony
With the increasing number of destination weddings or guests unable to attend due to various reasons, consider live-streaming your ceremony. Platforms like Zoom or YouTube Live enable you to share your big day in real time with loved ones who can’t be there in person.
Wedding Planning Apps
Streamline your planning process with an app that helps you stay organized, manage your guest list, produce to-do lists, and even assist with creating the reception seating arrangements.
Interactive Guest Book
Replace the traditional paper guest book with a touchscreen display or tablet that in-
As weddings continue to evolve, technology offers couples exciting ways to personalize their big day, save resources and create unforgettable memories. From digital invites and live-streaming ceremonies to interactive guestbooks and tech-savvy entertainment, these innovations are helping couples celebrate in style while keeping pace with the times. Whether you’re a tech enthusiast or simply looking for ways to modernize your wedding, incorporating digital trends can make your celebration as unique as your love story. After all, the best weddings are the ones that reflect the couple – and in 2025, that often means blending tradition with a touch of technology.
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FINANCIAL TIPS FOR Newly ds Building a Strong Foundation
BY FRED HENSLER
tarting a life together is an exciting journey; however, financial problems create major stressors and are one of the leading contributors of divorce. To ensure a stable and prosperous future, it’s essential to manage your finances wisely. Here are some practical steps and strategies for financial planning and investment for newlyweds:
OPEN COMMUNICATION
Both before and a er you are married, have a conversation about your individual and shared nancial goals. ese include short-term goals like a honeymoon or buying a car, and longterm goals like purchasing a home or saving for retirement.
Financial Histories: Transparency is key to building trust and understanding. Share your credit scores, debts, assets and income.
WHO IS RESPONSIBLE: what bills are each of you going to pay separately and which will be paid together?
CREATE A BUDGET
Joint Budget: is incorporates both incomes and expenses and will help you e ciently manage household nances.
Track Expenses: ere are budgeting apps and spreadsheets to make this process easier.
Credit: Keep a credit card only for emergencies – car repair, roof or major home repair. It is not “I want a new hunting ri e” or “I need a new out t for the party.”
EMERGENCY FUND
Save for Emergencies: Set aside a portion of your income to cover unexpected costs like medical or job loss. Aim for 3-6 months’ worth of living expenses and make sure that this money is separate from your monthly budget. It should be held in a safe interest-bearing account, not a checking or basic savings account.
Most investment rms and credit unions have money markets that pay well above the basic accounts.
MANAGE DEBT
Debt Repayment Plan: Create a plan to pay o any existing debts, prioritizing high-interest debts like credit cards to save on interest payments.
Avoid New Debt: Be cautious about taking on new debt – if necessary, ensure it’s manageable within your budget.
INVEST WISELY
Start Early: e sooner you start investing, the more time your money has to grow. Consider opening a joint investment account or individual Roth retirement accounts (IRAs).
Consult an Expert: If you’re unsure where to start, consult a financial advisor. Be careful not to use a mutual fund, or an annuity or insurance salesperson as a financial advisor. Banks are for banking, insurance companies protect your home and car.
A qualified investment manager who is a trusted advisor can make a significant impact in your future together.
INSURANCE PROTECTION
Life Insurance: Consider purchasing a policy to protect each other nancially in case of an unexpected event. Do not over-insure; in many cases, a term policy is a ordable and will provide the protection you need.
Health Insurance: Ensure you have adequate healthcare coverage. Compare plans to nd the best option for your needs and budget.
SAVE FOR MAJOR PURCHASES
If you’re planning to buy a home, start saving for a down payment. This will reduce the amount you need to borrow and lower your monthly mortgage payments.
Vehicle Purchase: To minimize debt, save for a substantial down payment or consider buying
Remember: communication and teamwork are crucial to successful nancial planning and investment.
a reliable used car. e operative word is NEED. Many people buy a new car because they “want” it. It will make you feel really good … for about two months – it could become a burden if you have to pay for it for ve, six or even seven years.
PLAN FOR RETIREMENT
Retirement Accounts: I can’t emphasize how important this is! Contribute to retirement accounts like 401(k)s or IRAs. Take advantage of employer-matching contributions or the Roth option if they are available.
Long-Term Planning: Discuss your retirement goals and develop a plan to achieve them. e earlier you start, the more secure your retirement will be. When it comes to selecting the investments, seek assistance.
REGULAR FINANCIAL CHECK-INS
Monthly Reviews: Schedule time with each other to review your budget, expenses and investments. is will help you stay on track and make necessary adjustments.
Annual Reviews: Conduct a comprehensive annual review of your nancial situation when you assess your progress toward your goals and update your plans as needed.
EDUCATE YOURSELVES
Financial Literacy: Read books, attend workshops, or take online courses to enhance your nancial knowledge. By implementing these strategies, newlyweds can build a strong financial foundation and set themselves up for a prosperous future.
Love Air
… is in the
COMPILED BY KAREN PIACENTINI, OWNER OF FENTON’S OPEN BOOK
… and on the pages!
Are you a sucker for swoon-worthy cowboys, ery college romances or heart-tugging tales of second chances? If so, this list of romantic reads will have your heart racing and your imagination soaring! From charming small towns to whirlwind adventures, these books o er the perfect escape into love stories as unforgettable as they are irresistible. So, grab your favorite blanket, pour yourself a glass of wine (or hot cocoa) and prepare to fall head over heels with these captivating titles compiled by Karen Piacentini of Fenton’s Open Book.
• Done and Dusted | By Lyla Sage
• Daisy Haites: The Great Undoing | By Jessa Hastings
• Wildfire: A Maple Hills Novel | By Hannah Grace
• Wild Love | By Elsie Silver
• Say You’ll Remember Me | By Abby Jimenez
• Is She Really Going Out With Him? | By Sophie Cousens
CITYWIDE TRIBUTE EVENT IN HONOR OF Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Genesys Conference & Banquet Center | 1.16.2025
THEcommunity gathered for a distinguished event themed “Equity, Justice & Voting Rights,” which celebrated Dr. King’s enduring legacy. Presiding over the program was Venetia Petteway, Director of STEM Diversity Initiative and Corporate & Community Engagement at Kettering University. e evening opened with a ag ceremony led by the Urban Boy Scouts, under the direction of Cory Moore, and a heartfelt welcome from UM-Flint Chancellor, Dr. Laurence Alexander. Pastor Christopher Taylor of Antioch Baptist Church gave the invocation, setting a re ective tone as guests enjoyed dinner accompanied by a musical selection from vocalist Jasmine Turman and pianist Coscetia “Coco” Weatherly-McGee.
Greetings were delivered by The Honorable Sheldon Neeley, Mayor of Flint, followed by event committee chair Anthony Alexander, who introduced the 2025 MLK Scholarship recipients: Kettering students Mark Evans, Titus Francis, Eliana Martinez and Elena Pizana. These scholarships honor students who embody Dr. King’s ideals of humanitarianism, leadership and social justice.
Steven Low, Executive Director of the Flint Jewish Federation, recognized the winners of the MLK Essay Contest: Jarena Lee (1st place), Sophia Halloun (2nd place) and Autumn Medrano and Jasmine Reeves (3rd place).
Keynote speaker Dr. Clarence Nixon, Jr., PhD, CEO & Founder of t.Lab and multiple leadership award-winner, inspired all with his message.
e evening concluded with a benediction by Dr. Frank Woods, Pastor of New Hope Missionary Baptist Church, and a communal rendition of “We Shall Overcome,” reminding attendees of the shared commitment to Dr. King’s dream.
PHOTOS BY MICHAEL TEWS, MOTT COMMUNITY COLLEGE
19th Annual Dr . MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. Mentoring Inspiration Breakfast
St. Michael’s Conference Center | 1.20.2025
PHOTOS BY ALEX
DAWSON,
BBBS FLINT & GENESEE COUNTY
Hosted by Big Brothers Big Sisters of Flint and Genesee County, this cherished community tradition honors Dr. King’s legacy by celebrating mentorship, volunteerism and service.
e morning began with a warm welcome and invocation from James Washington, Chairman of the BBBS Board of Directors, followed by a soulful musical selection by Big Sister Carrie Edwards. Genesee County Commissioner and Berston Field House Executive Director James Avery served as the Master of Ceremony, guiding the program with energy and enthusiasm.
e keynote address was delivered by Mama Sōl, a Flint native and celebrated hip-hop artist, spoken word performer and community advocate. Known for her inspirational work and activism, Mama Sōl has recently worked alongside Dr. Mona Hanna to improve the health of Flint mothers and infants through the Rx Kids program. Her words inspired attendees to carry forward Dr. King’s vision of equity and service.
A stirring “Call to Action” was presented by Big Brother Travis Rodgers, urging the community to deepen their commitment to mentoring and youth empowerment. e event concluded with heartfelt closing remarks from Lisa Humphrey, President/CEO of BBBS of Flint and Genesee County.
What began as a tribute to Dr. King’s vision has grown into a cornerstone event for National Mentoring Month, attracting over 100 supporters annually. is year’s breakfast aligned with key mentoring milestones such as “I’m a Mentor Day” and “ ank Your Mentor Day,” underscoring the transformative power of positive relationships in shaping the future.
Attendees, including “Bigs” and “Littles” from the program, community leaders, civic organizations and volunteers came together to celebrate the successes of mentoring initiatives and reaffirm their shared commitment to empowering local youth.
FEBRUARY 2025
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Danny Paul in Concert Presented by Genesee District Library Swartz Creek - Perkins Library Senior Center 21 Flint School of Performing Arts Celebrates Black History
Presented by Flint School of Performing Arts Winger & FireHouse FIM Capitol Theatre 2.21 - 3.2
Weekly Fri-Sun Cabaret Presented by Fenton Village Players
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Economic Anxiety
BY DR. CHRISTOPHER DOUGLAS
Last month, I discussed the Median Voter eorem and how voter concerns with the economy pointed to a Trump win. is presented a puzzle, as economic indicators leading up to the election were strong. Economic growth was a healthy 3%, the unemployment rate was below 4% and in ation was 2.4%, which was above the Federal Reserve’s 2% target but falling. Why did the economy dominate voters’ concerns, which spelled trouble for the incumbent Democratic Party?
e answer is: in ation. Consider the “Rule of 70,” which says that 70 divided by the rate of in ation is approximately how long it takes for prices in the economy to double. Under 2% in ation, which is what in ation averaged prior to COVID, prices doubled every 35 years. is is not great, but if it is widely anticipated and wages keep up (which
they were), not terrible. Under 10% in ation, which is approximately what in ation peaked at in the spring of 2022, prices double every seven years. Another way to see this: under 2% in ation, $1 today will have $0.61 of purchasing power in 25 years. Under 10% in ation, $1 today will have $0.61 of purchasing power in just ve years. us, 10% in ation packs 25 years of 2% in ation into a ve-year window.
In ation is de ned as the average increase in prices in the economy. Some prices rise more rapidly than average, some less than average. In general, consumer prices are 23% higher now compared to pre-COVID. However, housing prices are 53% higher, rent and grocery prices are 27% higher, gasoline prices are 24% higher, utility prices are 30% higher, new car prices are 22% higher, and used car prices are 25% higher.
Suppose the burst of in ation we experienced did not occur and prices remained on their pre-COVID trend. In general, consumer prices would be 10% higher, housing prices would be 23% higher, rent would be 16% higher, groceries 10% higher, and utility prices 5% higher.
e price of gasoline would be unchanged, as the price of gasoline was at in the 2010s due to new sources of crude oil being accessible by fracking. e price of used cars would be 2% lower, as used car prices were falling pre-pandemic.
Milton Friedman said that in ation is “taxation without representation” as no voter voted for these higher prices. In ation
is imposed on voters through irresponsible scal and monetary policy. Worse, in ation is a regressive tax, as lower income voters are less able to pay these higher prices. If you are upper-income, you get annoyed at these higher prices but just pay them. If you are lower-income, higher prices, especially those for necessities such as housing and utilities, might cause you to miss meals.
e typical voter is a 50-something working class voter and this voter got hammered by in ation. It is a near certainty that whenever there is a burst of in ation, voters will toss the incumbent party out of o ce.
Dr. Christopher Douglas came to the University of Michigan-Flint in 2006. He earned a B.S. in Electrical Engineering and a B.S. in Economics from Michigan Technological University in 2001, and his Ph.D. in Economics from Michigan State University in 2007. As Associate Professor and Chair of the Department of Economics, he teaches Principles of Microeconomics, Principles of Macroeconomics, International Economics, Public Finance, and Sports Economics.
An Ode to Marriage
BY LESLIE TOLDO
Ifyou are a statistics person, love and marriage go together about like divorce and marriage do. Around half of all marriages in this country end in divorce. Not very romantic, is it?
According to the National Institutes of Health, the leading causes of divorce in the U.S. are lack of commitment, adultery, too much arguing, marrying too young, nancial issues and substance use.
I have been through divorce. As for what caused my rst marriage to end, marrying too young is the best explanation. Chronologically, we were not that young. How about we take that further and call it emotional immaturity? You really don’t have to be a certain age to be emotionally immature, which I was. Not blaming the ex. at was on me.
When my rst husband proposed marriage, I was 25 and very fearful of becoming an old maid. (Can you even use that expression anymore?) Regardless, that is where my head was. I remember my father asking me why I wanted to get married, and I had no answer; but I thought to myself, “Because he asked me.” I did not
realize it 30-plus years ago, but my dad had asked the most important question there is when it comes to marriage: Why?
Why even get married, especially when half of marriages end in divorce? I guess a lot of people are not really thinking about that, because the marriage rate per 1,000 women ranges between 16 to 18. According to data from the U.S. Census Bureau, those numbers have remained stagnant for decades.
Before you call me a cynic, you should know that I have been married – this time – for almost 17 years. We are happy, and that is because we asked ourselves and each other a lot of questions before we walked down the aisle (well, beach, actually.) We asked if we were ready to commit, if we regarded one another as best friends, if we were honest in this relationship, if we agreed about nances – and so many other important questions. Is it perfect?
Of course not. I don’t know of any perfect marriages, but I know of plenty that are happy.
Despite our seemingly Spocklike thought process about it, my
husband and I enjoy a romantic marriage. We are more like besties, however, than anything else. I can’t really tell you exactly why our marriage works; I am not expert on love. I could tell you a lot more about what not to do in any relationship, than I could o er advice about how to succeed at marriage.
I will say there is some great news about marriage. e Census Bureau reports that between 2008 and 2022, the divorce rate per 1,000 women fell from ten to seven. Maybe that means we are starting to put more thought
into this life-changing decision. It could be that we, as a society, stress relationship-building much more than they did when my parents got married. ey made it 50 years before my mother passed. Marriage is about far more than a ection. It is dedication and the kind of love that will get you through the best and worst of times together as a team. In this month dedicated to all things romance, I say follow your heart; but if you are considering marriage, make sure your brain is a huge part of the process.
An Emmy-nominated anchor/meteorologist/reporter at FOX66 and NBC25, Leslie Toldo recently retired from TV news after a career of over 30 years, nearly 20 in Flint. She is a blogger, writer, wedding and funeral o ciant. Born and raised in Baton Rouge, LA, she graduated from the University of Wyoming. An avid kayaker, boater and runner, Leslie lives in Linden with her husband, Ellie the cat and two dogs: Gus and Lucy.
Super Bowl Sunday FOOD & FUN!
BY CHERYL DENNISON
Areyou ready for one of the most exciting sporting events of the year? is year, Super Bowl LIX will take place on February 9 in one of my favorite cities: New Orleans. And while it is not known at the time of this writing what teams will play for the coveted Lombardi Trophy, it is always exciting to watch the best of the best do battle. is year, ticket prices for Super Bowl 2025 are expected to start at $7,450 per seat, so most of us will be watching the game at home with a group of friends and family, at a Super Bowl party or favorite sports bar. e half-time entertainment will feature hip-hop rapper Kendrick Lamar. Louisiana native and ve-time Grammy Award-winning singer and songwriter Jon Batiste will perform the National Anthem.
Of course, what I like best about game-day watch parties is the food. And the most popular menu items (no surprise) are pizza, wings, and chips & dip. According to restaurantware. com, pizza makes up for
en wing sales.
On Super Bowl Sunday, 11.2 million pounds of potato chips and 8.2 million pounds of tortilla chips are purchased. Also not surprising, football fans will drink about 325.5 million gallons of beer, equating to 50 million cases. But not everyone drinks beer during the big game –$2.37 million worth of soda is also consumed.
One of my favorite foods to serve on Super Bowl Sunday is a steaming pot of chili with all of the xings (sour cream, cheese, green onion and Fritos). My family also enjoys my Bu alo Chicken dip, which I serve with tortilla chips and celery. And of course, homemade guacamole is another favorite. Tater Tot Casserole (topped with cheese, bacon, green onion and sour cream), pigs in a blanket, nachos, submarine sandwiches are other yummy options to serve while watching the big game.
Of course, we have to have some delicious desserts to ensure a sweet ending on Super Bowl Sunday. Topping the list of favorites are cookies! If you’re too busy to bake, just pick up a tray of your assorted favorites at the local market or bakery. My family loves homemade chocolate chip, peanut butter and oatmeal raisin. If you make your own cookies, you will surely be the MVP of the day! Homemade brownies are another favorite game-day treat.
is cherished American tradition is always a super-special opportunity to celebrate with family and friends. And there is nothing more exciting than donning your spirit wear and cheering your team on, especially when they score that winning touchdown!
Kindness & Generosity DON’T
COST A THING
BY VERA HOGAN
During the nal days of 2024, a good friend and I were chatting about our concerns regarding the upcoming year and its many unknowns. She very wisely stated, “ ere is nothing we can do except take care of ourselves, and always be kind and generous to those who need it.” I wholeheartedly agreed.
Generosity means di erent things to di erent people. Some view generosity as freely sharing their time and talents to make life better for others. en, there are those who think generosity means giving money to the less fortunate.
Both are not wrong, but it depends on a person’s means and what they have to o er.
People are fascinated with multi-mil-
lionaires and billionaires, which is one reason many spend more than what they have to spare on a chance to win one of the huge lottery jackpots. e odds of winning are astronomical, but it is o en said, “You gotta play to win.” e thing is, someone always wins.
I’ll admit that when the two big games’ jackpots start approaching a billion dollars, I spend $6 on three tickets. I’m not sure exactly what I would do if I actually won. I like to dream big. Most people say they might quit their job, buy a new house, pay o all bills and secure their kids’ futures, give to charity and do more traveling.
I would probably do most of those things, too, but have another idea. From 2008 to 2013, there was a show on TV called “Secret Millionaire.” I loved that show! It was about millionaires, usually a married couple, who would move to a disadvantaged community. ey acquired low-income housing and secured menial, minimum wage jobs. ey made friends easily and vol-
unteered at several local events. In doing this, they learned what the most pressing needs were in that community.
At the end, the couple revealed their identities during a public gathering at which they doled out several sums of money for speci c needs. ey weren’t massive sums, but very generous. For example, $100,000 went to the local re department for a much-needed new re truck. Or $20,000 to the local high school to purchase band instruments and uniforms. And $50,000 was given to the owners of a local diner who had fallen on hard times, to help them keep the business a oat. Other examples included paying for a child’s braces, and more. ose are just a few examples. Everyone cried! If I were younger, I would love to have the means to do this – travel, make new friends and share the wealth with those who deserve and need it the most. What could be more rewarding? But since I’m not a multi-millionnaire and probably never will be, I’ll just stick with being as kind as possible and sharing the gi s I do have with others.
