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FATHER’S DAY ISSUE Friends for life: Conway baseball’s Noel Boucher and Barry Lueders INSIDE: FAULKNER COUNTY’S MEN OF DISTINCTION

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Publisher Jeff Hartley Editor Lori Quinn

Contributing Writers Jeanette Anderton Leah Ashby Detra Clark Marisa Hicks Colleen Holt Nancy Jackson Andrea Lennon Jill McCollum Susan O’Keefe Jennifer Stanley Jenny Strange Kelly Sublett Chief Photographer Brandy Strain Advertising Sales Director Betsey Barham

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BATTER UP!

Conway coaches are lifelong friends

good to be king

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Stu and Abby King

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DR. C’S NEW PLACE

Veterinarian clinic set to open soon

DISTINCTION

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Outstanding business leaders

Advertising Coordinator Molly May Advertising Sales Executives Sarah Allen Sarah Hiegel-Woodard Tara Mallett Lisa Licht Advertising Artists Jay Prince Lauren Morgenstern Editorial Advisory Board Leah Ashby Detra Clark Nicolle Fletcher Haley Crafton Fowler Sarah Frost Mary Harlan Nancy Jackson Cate Ketcheside Leslie Kostecky Caroline LaVan Velda Lueders Candace Meeks Misty Morse Carol Patty Amy Reed Lori Ross Mary Margaret Satterfield Jennifer Stanley Katherine Thomason Stefanie Holt Vann

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Back in time bonus room

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artscene

Upcoming season at Reynolds

columns 36. health

54. spiritual

56. book review

58. food

Things I learned from my father

by David Smith

‘Wonder’

by R.J. Palacio Susan O’Keefe review

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by Andrea Lennon

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Batter1Up!

Conway Coaches Are Lifelong Friends There are many dynamic sports duos: Jordan and Pippen, Johnson and Jabar, McGuire and Canseco. Conway High School baseball has its own in coaches Noel Boucher and Barry Lueders. The coworkers have been friends for almost 40 years. They are also former teammates, having played college baseball together at the University of Central Arkansas.

Noel, married to Ronda, has lived in Conway since 1977. They have three sons: Dr. Jacob Boucher, who works at Grant Medical Center in Columbus, Ohio; married to Erin with son Sam; Adam Boucher, the director of operations for Fieldhouse Athletic Academy; married to Chelsea; and Aaron

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Boucher, a 2016 Central Baptist College graduate in kinesiology and sports management. Ronda is a fifth grade teacher at Ruth Doyle Middle School and has taught for 30 years.

Barry is married to Velda and has two step-daughters, Elisabeth Lawrence and Catherine Burns, and a granddaughter, Zoe. He has lived in Conway since 1978. Velda is a realtor with Pam McDowell Properties.

The Boucher and Lueders families are also close friends outside the baseball diamond.

“Our wives have been friends almost from the beginning. They do a lot together, and we have all had a really good time throughout this journey,” says Noel. “The ballpark has

been our lives, but Velda and Ronda have been friends since Vel and I married. They really didn’t have a choice, as Noel and I have been best friends for nearly 40 years,” Barry adds with a laugh.

Noel began working at Conway Public Schools in 1982 and has been a varsity coach since 1984. Prior to signing on at Conway, he was a graduate assistant at UCA, where he also played baseball. In addition to his coaching duties, Noel teaches College and Career Readiness (Capstone) at Conway High School.

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for 31 years. He was also a graduate assistant before becoming a Conway Wampus Cat, working with UCA’s baseball and Sugarbear basketball programs. He played for the UCA baseball team from 1979-1980.

“Noel is the first baseball coach in Conway High School history. I wasn’t hired until the second year of the program, but I worked with his team while still at UCA,” says Bar-

ry. Today, in addition to coaching baseball, he teaches social studies, physical education, and football at Carl Stuart Middle School.

Of working together, Barry says, “I have been blessed to work with Noel….for all these years. It goes way beyond friendship.

His family is my family. His boys are like are like my kids. His parents were my parents.

We are truly blessed.”

Of the game, Noel says, “I enjoy teaching the game most. I also enjoy the kids. We have a lot of fun together.” Barry adds, “I enjoy watching kids develop skills but more importantly seeing them grow into maturing young men. We all forget how many games they won, but what they grow up to be is the best reward.” Noel concurs, adding, “What I do enjoy is when past players come back

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to see us and tell us about their lives. It’s great that those guys take time to do that.”

Among their goals for the players they coach, both strive to instill a good work ethic.

“Be the best you can be today and improve as you grow. You can’t be today what you can be tomorrow if you do the work.” Adds Noel, “Our daily goal is to enjoy what you get to do and get better at it every day.”

Asked which position is toughest to coach, Barry states, “The mental side of any position is the most challenging. It takes time to develop.

But I have to say pitchers are quite unique.”

Noel adds, “The toughest thing to coach is attitude. It doesn’t matter what spot on the field a kid goes to, if his attitude is right and he understands the expectations, things usually go pretty well. Teaching a player how to hit a moving round ball with a round bat (and hit it squarely) is kinda tough as well.”

Of their lives outside coaching, both are avid outdoorsmen. Barry enjoys camping with Velda in her new camper, hunting, and fishing.

Noel also loves to hunt and fish. They do differ in their Major League Baseball fandom. Noel is a Cleveland Indians fan, while Barry enjoys watching the Chicago Cubs. “I’ve been a Cubs fan for 50 years. Ernie Banks enjoyed every day at the ballpark.”

While the duo enjoys every team they coach, they always look forward to next season’s Conway Wampus Cat baseball team. “Every season and team brings new challenges, regardless of who is returning.

That’s part of the fun!” Regardless, Noel and Barry encourage people to show up and enjoy America’s favorite pastime, right here in Conway. “Come out and watch the Cats. We have quality young men with quality parents that represent Conway in a championship manner.

Can’t beat that!”

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feature story

‘Dr. C’ opening clinic in Conway Veterinarian excited about new opportunity

By Leah Ashby Photos by Brandy Strain Tucker Creek Vet will soon open its doors in Conway to take care of your pet’s needs.

Although Tucker Creek Vet is new, Conway residents will recognize a familiar face, Dr. Thomas Cabantac, business owner and veterinarian. Dr. Cabantac, and his wife, Jenny, have lived in Conway since 2005.

They are parents to Madden (9), London (7) and Quinn (5). Two miniature schnauzers, Atlas and Ollie, complete their family.

Dr. Cabantac, who was born and raised in Little Rock, attended the University of Central Arkansas for undergraduate studies and completed his studies at Tuskegee University for Veterinary Medicine. He and Jenny returned to Conway after graduation in 2005, and he has practiced at St. Francis Veterinary Clinic since.

Practicing veterinary medicine was in his future early in life. “When I studied anatomy and biology in high school (Catholic High in Little Rock), I decided I wanted to be a veterinarian. While in college, I began working as a veterinary assistant at the Little Rock Animal Emergency Clinic. That experience confirmed the fact that this was what I wanted to do with the rest of my life. Obviously, I love animals. Obviously, I love science and health. But, it’s the two in combination that has always peaked my interests.” He said.

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grooming and boarding. Dr. Cabantac looks forward to treating Faulkner County pets at his new practice.

“I love preventing diseases. I love healing diseases. I love watching these patients grow up into mature animals. In turn, when these patients are healthy, when they are healed, and when they are all grown up . . . the client (owner) is happy! If practicing the best quality medicine that I can possibly do will help these animals, AND make their human’s happy, then I feel I have served my purpose.” He said.

Dr. Cabantac’s wife, Jenny, not only praises her husband for his role as husband and father, but she is also extremely proud

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of his devotion to his profession.

“I don’t know if I’ve ever known anyone who loves their job more than Thomas. It’s the many facets of being a veterinarian that energize him: the people connection with the clients, the animal connection with the patients, the incredible amount of medical knowledge that he must operate with on a minute to minute basis, the skill required to perform a difficult surgery, etc. He’s in his sweet spot when all those facets combine

and he’s able to deliver excellent medicine to a patient he cares about and a client he values.” Jenny said.

Although his wife, Jenny, is his number one fan, Dr. Cabantac is also admired by many of his customers, including Rob and Kara Bell.

“Vets don’t come much better than Dr. Thomas Cabantac. He’s so fun and friendly but all business when it comes to your pet. He truly takes the time to listen and learn about your specific situation and has

a genuine concern for the wellbeing of your pet -- almost as much as you do.

Sometimes it can be scary going to the vet, but Dr. C always does his best to make us feel totally at ease. Always knowledgeable. Always ready to help. We’re so glad he’s in Conway!”

For more information on the grand opening or the clinic, visit their website at www.tuckercreekvet.com or email tuckercreekvet@gmail.com.

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feature story

It’s Good to be

KING

By Jennifer Stanley Photos by Brandy Strain

Stu and Abby King of Conway redefined their lives to create a schedule that worked for their family. Their little tribe includes Khyler, six; KateLeigh, two; and Kimber three months. The couple lives in Conway, and Abby is the owner of popular local boutique, HipSway.

HipSway offers clothing, shoes, accessories, and gifts. Their clientele ranges from teenagers to 60 year-old women. “I try to buy a little bit of everything for everyone. We stand out compared to the rest because we offer customer service you can’t find anywhere else. As soon as you walk in our door, you are greeted with a smile, and we offer to help you.

We also have certain clothing lines and a jewelry line you can’t find anywhere else in Conway,” says Abby. HipSway offers Show Me Your MuMu, MinkPink, and PPLA, among others. “Although work can be time consuming, I am so blessed that I absolutely love what I do. I wake up everyday and look forward to what my day is going to bring. I love my girls who work for me, and I love my customers.”

Married for eight years, Stu and Abby found themselves at a crossroads about two years ago.

“Right after we had our second child, KateLeigh, Stu was working over 60 hours a week, and I was working the same. We sat down and jokingly said ‘Wouldn’t it be great if Stu could stay home with the kids?’” says Abby. Their joking turned serious, and she and Stu began to discuss making the idea work.

“We prayed about it for a very long time and felt like this was the path the Lord wanted us to take.

We crunched the numbers, and Stu put in his twoweek notice to his job. We were very nervous but knew this was the path we were supposed to take.

This is what was best for our family.”

Stu’s typical day drastically changed. Now, instead of waking up and driving to work, he begins his day by waking the kids and preparing their breakfast.

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house, do the laundry, wash the dishes, and make sure the plants have been watered. By this time, KateLeigh is eager to get outside, so we head to gymnastics to burn off some built-up energy,” he shares.

Post-gymnastics, Stu heads to HipSway, where he works in fulfillment, completing online orders. “This is where it gets a little tricky; trying to manage both kids while I am getting all the orders ready to be shipped can get interesting. KateLeigh will be entertained for a while, but when she is ready to go, she makes sure to let me know,” says Stu. Once his HipSway work is completed, he and the kids head home for lunch, followed by a nap for their daughters. Once they are sleeping, Stu does any and everything else that needs to be done, including folding laundry or starting dinner.

“As their naps come to an end, we load the car and head out to pick up Khyler from school.

The day seems to be almost over, but it is only beginning. Next, we grab a snack before we head to the gym, and, after a good workout, we are off to practice or a game,” says Stu, who coaches Khyler’s soccer and baseball teams.

They end their day with a family dinner at home, followed by the kids’ bedtime. At this point, Stu and Abby catch up on each other’s days and discuss upcoming plans. They even find time to watch a little television on occasion! During their family time, they enjoy going to Khyler’s games, going to the park, going to church, reading and getting together with friends at Share the Love Kids Club.

One undeniable benefit of their work and family arrangement is the flexibility. Between them, they can be there in the event of a sick child or a school activity. As Abby says, “I do have a little flexibility. I say ‘little’ because I always have certain days and times that I would love to have ‘off,’ but sometimes work gets

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“...We were very nervous but knew this was the path we were supposed to take. This is what was best for our family.”

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crazy!” Abby typically works anywhere from 60 to 80 hours a week and is constantly on call for their employees. “However, if my children or husband need me, I am there in a heartbeat. I have been extremely blessed with amazing girls who work for me, who do everything they can to help me, so I can make my kids’ activities.”

The King’s family arrangement has been a resounding success. “Our kids love that their dad stays home. Stu is able to coach Khyler’s soccer and baseball games,….is able to bring KateLeigh to gymnastics, and, most importantly, he is able to teach and be there for all three kids,” shares Abby. When prompted for advice to other families weighing their own childcare options, Stu and Abby encourage prayer and reflection.

“Pray first, then do the pros and cons of having a parent stay home versus both parents working.”

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Things I Learned from my Father

By David Smith

On June 19th we will celebrate Father’s Day, a day that for many of us will bring back fond memories of the man who greatly influenced who we are today. For others, it will be an opportunity to make more memories with your dad. And sadly, for still others, there is no father figure in the picture. In my opinion, that is one of the greatest tragedies in the United States today. My brother and I grew up in what I like to call “Leave it to Beaver” land. We had an amazing mother and a great father who gave us the love that all children deserve and the firm discipline that all children need. I was a little bit “bull-headed” as my folks used to say and can clearly remember Dad telling me, “Son, you’d argue with a sign post,” or “You’d better straighten up and fly right,” and “You need an attitude adjustment.” He definitely knew how to get his point across. Sadly, I was only 22 years old when Dad died and I can’t count the times over the 42 years that he’s been gone that I would love to have had his advice.

Dad taught me respect – respect for him, for Mom, for “my elders” as he would say, and respect for other people in general. I grew up in a time when segregation was the norm, but Dad taught me to be color-blind and to treat everybody the same, regardless of the color of their skin. He taught me to respect all authority figures such as teachers, police officers, civic leaders, employers, etc. I didn’t always have to agree with everything they said but I was not al-

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lowed to argue or to “talk back” to them.

Most importantly, Dad taught me to respect God and to do my best to follow the instructions God gave us in His Word.

Dad taught me how to work hard and to earn my own David’s dad, way in the world. As John William Smith a Baptist minister, Dad never made a lot of money, so if I wanted any “spending money,” as he called it, I had to earn it. When I was about eleven years old, I recall him loading a big ol’ Yazoo push mower in the trunk of the car and taking me to one of the church member’s houses to mow the yard.

To crank the mower you had to wrap a pull rope around the top of the engine like a yo-yo and pull with all your might. I simply wasn’t strong enough to crank it, so he would fill it up, set the gas can off to the side and tell me not to let the mower die until I was done. He would always remind me, “Don’t put your foot under the side of the mower when you fill it up.” Now I’m sure that yard wasn’t as big as I remember it but I always had to refill the gas tank at least once.

Dad was a great listener, and he taught me to listen when others were speaking, not to interrupt, and to “use my inside voice.” He taught me to treat others like I wanted them to treat me and not to fight if at all possible, but to

stand my ground when necessary. He reminded me of Ephesians 5:25 when Shirley and I got married, and pointed out that my life was no longer about me but about her. Yes, I definitely owe my dad a great debt of gratitude for his life lessons.

Finally, Dad taught me to NOT do one thing that he did – smoke. You see, he grew up in an era when nobody knew how terribly bad for you that it was to smoke. By the time the truth was just coming to light about the damage smoking did to your health, it was too late. Although he tried to quit numerous times he was never able to stop and sadly, he already had the beginning stages of emphysema and heart disease. That’s what caused his fatal heart attack at the age of 47. He only got to see 2 of his 5 grandchildren.

Boy did they all miss out on someone who would, undoubtedly have loved to “teach them a thing or two.”

So, if you don’t smoke, don’t start. If you do, please stop. We have great medicines available now that really do work to help you stop. Give Blake or me a call and let one of us sit down with you and help you get a game plan. You certainly don’t want your children to miss the years with you that I missed with my dad.

David Smith is the owner and chief pharmacist at Smith Family Pharmacy where he works with his wife Shirley and staff. He graduated from the UAMS College of Pharmacy in 1974 and has been a pharmacist in Conway for over 41 years. He loves spending time with family and is NO1POP to 5 wonderful grandchildren.

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in the news

Edwards named Principal of the Year

Conway Junior High School Principal Todd Edwards has been recognized as the Middle Level Principal of the Year by the Arkansas Association of Educational Administrators.

Edwards has been Principal at Conway Junior High for the last 3 years.

Leaders from AAEA presented him with his award as students congratulated him

with cheers and music, then his staff hosted a reception for their award-winning Principal.

Superintendent Dr. Greg Murry says Edwards is a great leader at Conway’s Junior High School.

“Congratulations to Dr. Edwards on this significant accomplishment,” says Murry.

“He has done an outstanding job of leading Conway Junior High and this recognition is well deserved.”

“Dr. Edwards is a “multiplier” by nature,”

says Instructional Facilitator Alicia Francis.

“He encourages his faculty to utilize their natural talents for the betterment of their students’ achievements and successes. He knows how to help people build from their weaknesses and maximize their strengths.

CJHS has been blessed to have him leading their campus in technological advancements while equipping students with 21st century skills. Dr. Edwards is the epitome of a great leader, and CJHS is thrilled for him to receive such an incredible recognition.”

Paws For A Cause

Conway has not appropriated funds. We partner with local rescue groups to pull animals out of the shelter, get them adopted and transported to the east coast and locally to loving homes. The monies from donations like yours will aid in paying for any medical care the animals need when they are chosen for the “Paws in Prison” and “Rescue Waggin” program. We also assist in aiding animals in Faulkner County as needed in an emergency situation.

Sincerely, Our board members!

Chris Quinn, President, Tom DeBlack, Vice President, Susan Davis Treasurer, Vickie Crutchfield, Secretary, Terri Freeman, Susan Shaddox, Donna Clawson, Clay Smith, Mallory Hargrove and Jordan Newton

You are invited to join us on Saturday June the 11th for a celebration benefitting the Conway Animal Shelter! Come by Landers Toad Suck Harley-Davidson and participate in the fun! Hamburgers, Hot Dogs, Raffle, Poker Run, Door Prizes, Poker Tournament that night and much more! The real treat will be the presence of the Adoption Van with the first five adoptions paid for by Toad Suck Harley Davidson.

Festivities start at 10am and lunch served at noon!

It’ll be a great time for all!

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Regional: Dallas Children’s Theatre: The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane (The Other), dont u luv me? (C.J.)Theatre Three: Picnic (Hal Carter); Stage West Theatre: Vanya and Sonia and Masha and Spike (Spike); Oklahoma City Repertory Theatre: Vanya and Sonia and Masha and Spike (Spike); Shakespeare Dallas: Much Ado About Nothing (Claudio); Reduxion Theatre: Cabaret (Cliff Bradshaw); Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park: King John (Philip the Bastard); Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre: The Tempest (Ferdinand), Big River (Dick/Young Fool), Richard III (Ensemble) Film: Blueberry Hall ( John) Fight Choreography: Theatre Rapscallions: Oleanna (unarmed), Theatre Three: The Fantasticks (Single Sword), Picnic (Unarmed) Education/Training: University of Oklahoma: B.F.A in Theatre; National Michael Chekhov Association: Certified Teacher Candidate Awards and Recognition: 2016 Column Awards Nomination for Best Actor in an Equity Play (Hal, Picnic, Theatre Three), 2016 Column Awards Nomination for Best Supporting Actor in an Equity Play (Spike, Vanya and Sonia and Masha and Spike, Stage West), Stage West 2015-2016 Best Supporting Actor Award (Spike, Vanya and Sonia and Masha and Spike, Stage West), University of Oklahoma School of Drama 2014-2015 Best Male Performance Award (Iago, Othello, OU School of Drama) WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 41

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homes

1980-SOMETHING Keller Johnson’s bonus room displays prized possessions

By Colleen Holt Photos by Brandy Strain Keller Johnson of Conway may build homes for a living, but the getaway space he has built in his own home speaks directly to 44 WOMEN’S INC. / APRIL 2016

his heart.

On the top level of his home, a bonus room has been transformed into the perfect “man room” – one that reflects his growing up years in the 1970s and 1980s. The collection includes a myriad of posters, lunch

boxes, action figures, albums, comic books, and pinball machines.

Keller’s wife, Christi, decorated the room for his Christmas gift a few years ago. “She used items that I had that mean a lot to me.

They’re probably useless to somebody else.

B O N U S ROO M

It’s like 1980-something up there. All the stuff I have is sentimental.”

He particularly enjoys introducing his children and grandchildren to these icons of his generation. “We watch movies and play games. The kids love to play Pacman,” Keller said. “The kids can now see the things that I grew up with. They like my stuff.” The kids also like to purchase items for him. For example, his oldest daughter recently found a KISS album he didn’t have.

KISS is one of two huge influences in Keller’s life reflected in the décor of the room – the other is stunt performer/enter-

tainer Evel Knievel. “They were both of my generation,” he said.

A few months ago, Christi gave him a VIP meet-and-greet pass to a KISS concert at Choctaw Casino in Durant, Okla.

“I was able to meet the group and they autographed several things for me,” he said.

Among those autographed items are a KISS helmet his oldest daughter and son gave him for Father’s Day a couple years ago, a KISS lunch box, and a KISS collector wine.

All of these items are displayed in Keller’s room, along with his framed concert tickets, a photo of him and the band, posters of vari-

ous KISS albums and shows, and full-sized KISS action figures given to him by his youngest daughter.

As for Evel Knievel, he is the subject of perhaps the prized item in Keller’s collection – a home-edition pinball machine. Keller said pinball maker Bally offered four smaller editions of their favorite machines – Galaxy Ranger, Elton John, Evel Knievel and Fireball. Keller has three of the four, and is currently trying to find Galaxy Ranger.

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got it from a man outside of Detroit,” he said. An added, rare bonus came with his machine – a poster originally included with the game.

“Those don’t usually survive,” he said. Keller also has an Evel Knievel comic book.

Movie posters are an integral part of the décor, and they are nicely framed and displayed. A variety of genres are included, yet each has a special appeal to Keller. These include: • “Viva Knievel” – This was the only film Keller ever saw at the old Conway Theater.

• “Pippi Longstocking” – this was the first movie he went to see with friends as a young child.

• “White Lightning” – “Probably my favorite movie of all time.” Keller’s father was in the car business and Keller remembers his dad being around the people who helped supply the cars for the movie.

He said he remembers seeing the brown LTD and the police cars.

• Corvette Summer – “I just like Corvettes.” Owning and restoring Corvettes has always been a passion for Keller.

A wall full of black and white photos is a true compilation of the television era in which Keller grew up.

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“Dukes of Hazzard,” “Hogan’s Heroes,” “I Dream of Jeannie,” “The Beverly Hillbillies,” “The Munsters,” and “Wonder Woman.” Of course, Keller also has the iconic Farrah Fawcett swimsuit photo included in his display.

Keller said he enjoys his lunch box collection because it brings back memories of family and going to school.

“I have a Hee Haw lunch box because I watched that with my Grandpa,” he said. In third grade, he used a Six Million Dollar Man lunch box.

Although that original box is gone – “I still give my Mom a hard time about that” – he was able to find a replacement.

Another fun box is one from “Lidsville,” a short-lived Sid and Marty Krofft show.

Keller’s collection will always be under construction, as he continues to find collectibles through various sources – everything from eBay to private collectors. His collection also includes various full size pinball machines -- including KISS, Evel Knievel, and Playboy – all of which he purchased from a man he talked to starting more than 20 years ago. “I’ve bought 34 games from him, and it took me 20 years,” he said. Keller is currently working with a man in Little Rock who has been a contact for 17 years.

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Let’s start with the difference between the pre-qualification and pre-approval letter. While there are some legal distinctions, in practice both refer to what a lender is willing to lend you. As part of the process you will be asked to fill out a loan application and provide your lender with information about your income and debt history. The more information you can provide the lender at time of application the quicker the process will take.

One of the big advantages of going through this process is that you will now know your maximum budget albeit you don’t have to spend as much as you are pre-approved for. Additionally it could be very helpful to understand all the different types of loans. There are an assortment of government loans, fixed rate, adjustable loans, and a number of different loan assistance programs available. You will also know if there are credit concerns and if this is the case, most lenders will provide guidance or a mitigation plan to help you improve your credit score. Lending rules constantly change so your lender will have the latest requirements and rates for your review.

Another key reason to get a loan pre-approval, over the past few years there has been a heightened concern about safety and many sellers will not allow their homes to be shown unless a potential buyer has been pre-approved for a loan. Sellers want to know who is entering their homes and that they are ready, willing, and able to purchase the

property if it meets the buyer’s requirements. I expect the practice to grow so don’t be surprised or upset if sellers require buyers have been pre-approved.

Another advantage to a mortgage pre-approval is that it may provide additional negotiating power when submitting an offer. Although there are no guarantees having a pre-approval tells the seller that you are a serious buyer who has taken the time to start the loan process and there is a higher probability you will be able to obtain a loan vs. someone submitting an offer without a pre-approval letter.

Sellers consider many factors when selecting an offer on their home beyond just the price and one of these factors is the pre-approval. So what happens when a mortgage lender checks your credit? According to the Consumer Financial Protection bureau, a mortgage credit check is reported to the credit agencies as an “inquiry” which has a small, but negative impact on your credit score. If you elect to shop around for a mortgage it should not hurt your credit. If there are multiple mortgage credit inquiries within a 45 day window, these multiple credit check from mortgage lenders are recorded on your credit report as a single inquiry.

In todays every changing lender and loan requirements and processes it is best to check directly with your lender.

The Tobey Team is one of Faulkner County’s leading, knowledgeable and top producers. We are a full time agents with the knowledge, dedication, customer focus, and commitment to all aspects of your Real Estate needs.

Call us today with your real estate questions 501-3580023 Data sources Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (www. consumerfinance.gov) and local lender input.

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A New Season: Performance Hall

By Jennie Strange Submitted photos

While the City of Conway might not boast the public transportation or blocks of foodie restaurants found in larger metropolitan areas, we are home to Reynolds Performance Hall, a venue that could hold its own when compared to entertainment scenes all over the country. Opened in 2000 on the campus of the University of Central Arkansas (UCA), the 1,200 seat, state-of-the-art theater has developed a reputation for hosting premiere performing arts programming.

UCA Public Appearances, a division of the College of Fine Arts and Communication, is the entity responsible for booking each season. Led by Director Amanda Horton, the organization strives to provide a diverse selection of performances. “Our season is unique in that we have so many different types of shows. We hope at least one show will appeal to everyone,” Horton explained.

While the 2016-2017 Season line up was just announced in May, the process for researching and booking the coming at-

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tractions began months (and in some cases, years) before.

Twice a year Horton attends conferences to hear about the newest performances hitting the arts scenes. Arts presenters such as Horton are able to experience pieces of larger shows, meet with agents, and also strategize with other presenters from bordering states. “It’s great to be able to coordinate tour dates with other venues in our area- it helps keep our costs lower and enables us to bring in larger acts.”

While several of the shows coming to Reynolds this year were chosen by Horton and her Director of Marketing and Finance, Julia Dossett Morgan, because of their exposure to them at recent conferences, others are chosen from an ongoing wish list. “We keep a wish list of people we would like to see. Sometimes it takes years to get people here and sometimes we never get them. Randy Newman was on that list for years and we were able to book him last year,” Horton explained. Morgan added “We also listen to what the faculty, students, and the community are interested in- that’s where many of the names on the

list come from.”

Another wonderful fact about Reynolds Performance Hall is that individual tickets for performances range from only $30-$40 for the general public, with a variety of discounts for senior citizens, UCA students, faculty, and alumni. Season packages go on sale July 5; single tickets will open up on August 1.

For more information on the following 2016-2017 events, visit www.uca.edu/publicappearances .

Pops Series

Nitty Gritty Dirt Band: This concert of Country Rock and American Roots music kicks off the band’s 50th Anniversary Tour.

Ronnie Milsap: Enjoy this stop on the country soul singer’s farewell tour.

Danny Elfman’s Music from the Films of Tim Burton: Features the Conway Symphony Orchestra and UCA Choral Ensembles.

The Doo Wop Project: Traces the evolution of Doo Wop, performed by stars of Broadway smash hits Jersey Boys and Motown: The Musical.

Broadway Series

Once the Musical: This love story set in Dublin is the winner of eight Tony Awards including Best Musical.

Fame the Musical: Based on the Academy Award-winning film and Emmy Award-winning television series.

42nd Street: The timeless musical comedy classic featuring some of the greatest songs ever written.

Annie: A brand new incarnation of the iconic original best-loved musical.

Add-On Shows

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical: The beloved TV classic comes to life onstage.

Home Free : Country Acapella band and winners of Season 4 of NBC’s The Sing-Off. Adam Trent The Futurist: Interactive performance that is part magic, part concert, and part comedy.

Night Out Series

The Aluminum Show: A multi-sensory experience combining visual theater, dance, and humor.

Voces 8: A British octet vocal group performing classical and pop acapella numbers.

Cirque Eloize Saloon: An innovative mix of theatre, music, acrobatics, and emotions set in the Old West.

Sleeping Beauty: Presented by the Russian National Ballet Theatre.

Lecture Series

George Takei: Acclaimed actor from the Star Trek television series, as well as a powerful voice on issues ranging from politics to pop culture.

Dr. Marc Lamont Hill: Author, leading intellectual voice and political contributor.

Main Stage Education Series

Operation Lunchline 3D: Interactive musical show designed to help children grades K-6 learn about nutrition and exercise.

Everybody’s Hero: The Jackie Robinson Story: This play with music by Mad River Theatre Works tells the story of the first baseball player to break the sport’s color barrier.

Erth’s Dinosaur Zoo: Skilled performers and puppeteers bring to life dinosaurs and other creatures.

The Giver: Adapted from the Newberry Award-winning book by Lois Lowry.

Junie B’s Essential Survival Guide to School: A new musical based on Barbara Park’s popular book.

Jennie Strange is the founder and Executive Director of Blackbird Academy of Arts, a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing quality performing and visual arts education. She lives in Conway with her husband, Statler, and a random assortment of dogs, goats, and chickens. To submit your arts calendar events, email Jennie@blackbirdacademy.org

Calendar June Arts Events – Please check out the event website for more information and pricing.

June 2-4, 9-11: The Normal Heart @ The Lantern Theatre; 8:00 p.m. www.conwayarts. org (A) June 4: Buddy Case in Concert @ the Faulkner County Library; 2:00 p.m. Nancy@fcl. org (G) June 6-10: Triple Threat Camp: Aladdin @ Blackbird Academy of Arts; 9 a.m. – 3 p.m. daily www.blackbirdacademy.org (Ages 7+)

June 10: A Midsummer Night’s Dream presented by Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre @ the Lawn at UCA in front of McAlister Hall; 7:30 p.m. More dates at www. arkshakes.com (G) June 13-17: Dance Intensive @ Blackbird Academy of Arts; www.blackbirdacademy. org (Intermediate and Advanced levels) June 16: Open Mic @ the Faulkner County Library; 7:00 p.m. Nancy@fcl.org (PG13)

June 6-10: Cinderella Dance Camp @ Blackbird Academy of Arts; 9-11 a.m. See more summer camps at www.blackbirdacademy.org (Ages 3-5)

June 17: “Walking in Shakespeare’s Shoes: Family Friday with the Folio” @ the Faulkner County Library; 3:00 p.m.

Find more Family Friday events at www. arkshakes.com (G)

June 6-16: Youth Theatre of Central Arkansas Summer Theatre Intensive @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Center; www.uca.edu/theatre/ summer-intensive (Ages 10-18)

June 17: West Side Story presented by Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre @ Reynolds Performance Hall; 7:30 p.m. More dates at www.arkshakes.com (PG)

June 6-30: Youth Theatre of Central Arkansas Summer Film Intensive @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Center; 10 a.m. – Noon www.uca.edu/ theatre/summer-intensive (Ages 14-18)

June 18: Master Class: Acting with the Folio presented by Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre @ UCA’s Fireplace Room; 4:00 p.m. www.arkshakes.com (A)

June 20-24: Ceramics Art Camp @ Blackbird Academy of Arts; 9 a.m. – 12 p.m. daily.

Find more Art Camps at www.blackbirdacademy.org (Ages 9-12) June 23: Amy Kucharik in Concert@ the Faulkner County Library; 7:00 p.m. Nancy@fcl. org (G) June 24: Romeo and Juliet presented by Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre @ Reynolds Performance Hall; 7:30 p.m. More dates at www.arkshakes.com (PG) June 27: Shakespeare in Action: A Roundtable with Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre @ UCA’s Art Lecture Hall; 12:00 p.m. www. arkshakes.com (PG13) June 30: Twelfth Night presented by Arkansas Shakespeare Theatre @ Reynolds Performance Hall; 2:00 p.m. More dates at www.arkshakes.com (G) Rating key: G – Suitable for all ages PG-Suggested for ages 7+ PG13- Suggested for ages 13+ A- Suggested for Adults 18+

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7 Great Ways to Use Coffee Grounds in the Garden

By Mike Argo I was asked to write an article for WINC and knowing Father’s Day is just around the corner I began to ask what topic would be fitting. My thoughts then flashed to my own children and then my son who will be one of the many fathers celebrated this year. As my thoughts trailed off I ended up thinking about his coffee roasting business in Kentucky - Argo Sons Coffee, now branded as ‘Good Folks Coffee’, and hence the topic of this article . . . That being said, when you finish your morning coffee and you’re ready to dump the grounds, think twice! Instead of putting them in the trash they have many uses in the garden.

For starters they add nitrogen, potassium, and other minerals that vastly improve soil quality and eventually plant growth. But it doesn’t stop there. Here are 7 great ways to use coffee grounds in your garden compliments of “Your House & Garden”. . . .

1. Composting -Add coffee grounds to your composting bin. They’re a valuable

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source of nitrogen.

2. Pest Control - A barrier of coffee grounds around the plants may protect them from slugs and snails.

3. Cat Repellent - Put coffee grounds in the soil to keep cats away from digging in your garden.

4. Acid-Loving Plants - Place coffee grounds around the soil of your acidloving plants such as roses, rhododendrons, fothergillas, holly, gardenias and so on.

Coffee grounds increase acidity and nutrients in the soil.

5. Easy Fertilizer - Add 2 cups of coffee grounds to a 5 gallon bucket of water and allow it to steep overnight. Mixing these two ingredients is one of the simplest ways to make your own homemade fertilizer.

6. Mulch - Using coffee grounds as a mulch can help controlling weeds and keep your vegetable plants more hydrated during the heat of the day.

7. Boost Carrot & Radish Harvest -

Double your harvest of carrot and radish, mixing your carrot and radish seeds liberally with coffee grounds.

And if you’re not a gardener and these tidbits have little meaning for you - how about just spending Father’s Day having a great cup of coffee with the men in your family and throwing those grounds out back!

Happy Father’s Day!

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Brazilian waxing: Questions answered

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get asked about Brazilan waxing at least 10 times a day. As women, we are all intrigued and frightened about having this area waxed. Once you have it done you will probably never go without waxing this area again. Many women contemplate the advantages and disadvantages of waxing over shaving, particularly when it comes to the bikini area.

Bikini waxing is one of the most popular types of waxing done by women, along with leg and facial hair removal.

Exactly what is Brazilian waxing? It is a type of waxing involving the bikini area. This procedure normally involves the complete removal of all hair in the bikini area, front to back. Some types of Brazilian waxing leave a small line of hair.

Is it safe? If you avoid doing anything that would cause further irritation to the skin before and after, waxing can be safe. However, there are other risks involved after the fact. To avoid such a fate, make your appointment somewhere you trust that has high sanitary and customer service standards. Ask your aesthetician what precautions she takes to prevent infection and discomfort.

Yes, it is an awkward feeling the first time you have a Brazilian wax appointment. You will be undressed from the waist down and will be in some awkward positions with your esthetician seeing you up close and personal.

The client begins by completing a wax questionnaire. If this is not done where you go — run! The lack of a proper intake shows the level of care the salon takes in general.

You will remove your clothing from the waist down and use a disinfectant wipe. The procedure

will begin with a light application of oil spread over the area to be waxed. This prevents the wax from sticking to the sensitive skin. Next, wax is applied in sections over the area from which hair is to be removed. The wax is allowed to harden briefly, then one edge of each wax strip is pulled off in the opposite direction of the hair growth.

The waxer then works her way around the area.

This procedure removes the wax, hair and any dead skin cells lying on the skin surface. Finally, a soothing and healing post-wax essential oil is applied, as well as an antibiotic Does it hurt? Listen girls, the truth hurts. Of course ripping hair out of follicles isn’t going to be a comfortable experience. However, in the hands of an experienced esthetician the process is only minorly painful. The skill and experience of the service provider is key. The first time you do it, you may need breaks and a slower pace to acclimate to the new experience. Most say they have less discomfort during subsequent treatments.

It is not recommended to wax immediately before (or during) your period when you are generally most sensitive. About a week after your period, if you can time it that way, is the ideal time.

How long will the benefits of a Brazilian wax last? It really depends, but typically 3-4 weeks.

Hair grows at different cycles, depending on the person. Also, shaved hair does not grow back in one cycle. Sometimes after a first wax, shaved hair will still appear days after the wax. This is typically because the client didn’t wait long enough for all of the hair to grow out. You will, however, notice that after a few Brazilian bikini waxes, your hair will start to grow in much slower and finer.

Tips for a successful experience: • Use a licensed professional (an esthetic or cosmetology state license is required to be posted for public view) • Make sure the working conditions of the waxing salon, as well as the supplies, are clean and sanitary.

• Get all your questions answered up front before you start (preferably on the phone when making the appointment), and be sure to discuss medications you take, medical history, contraindications and other concerns.

• Think about taking an anti-inflammatory before your appointment to help reduce swelling and discomfort.

• Discuss post wax care before you leave the salon. At home you may need to use a product that helps prevent “acne.” Again, ask your professional what she recommends for YOU. • Hard (strip-less) wax is best, it is designed for sensitive areas.

Angela Jackson, owner of studio SKIN has been a licensed aesthetician for 16 years. She currently sits as an appointed member on the Arkansas Dept. Of Health advisory committee.

Angela is a member of Associated Skincare Professionals, an organization dedicated to the promotion of safe, quality skin care.

Angela practices in the Fayetteville area, has for over 14 years, under the direct supervision of a board certified plastic surgeon. Angela has been offering skincare in the downtown Conway area for the last 6 years. She offers expertise and certifications in corrective skincare, facials, chemical peels, microdermabrasion, airbrush tanning, full body waxing and make-up.

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spiritual

It matters what we want

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By Andrea Lennon My son volunteered to take me to the gym. He is sixteen. I am forty. He is athletic. I am not. I took the challenge. It was not pretty. We started by warming up on the bicycles. To be honest, I felt like the “warm up” was a pretty good workout.

I was ready to call it a day after two miles.

Unfortunately, the bicycles were only the beginning. Next came lunges, planks, curls, squats, push ups, sit ups, and mountain climbers. If you do not know what I am talking about, count yourself blessed!

At one point, I found myself lying on the mat with my face pressed against the floor. I was trying to breath. Maybe you have experienced a similar moment---that moment when you know that you have overdone it. I was thinking,”If I can stand up, I am out of here.” It was at that moment that my son looked at me and asked the question, “How bad do you want it?”

My honest reply, “Not bad enough!”

The next day I woke up and wondered if I would be able to move. I was scheduled to speak at two events that weekend. I knew I needed to have a spring in my step.

Everything from the top of my head to the bottom of my feet hurt. A day or two passed and I was struggling to walk.

The weekend arrived and I toured the facility of my first speaking engagement.

I saw the stage. It was elevated. I had to climb five steps in order to reach the platform. My heart sank. As I was being introduced, I wondered how I could effortlessly ascend the stage. Immediately my sons words came back to me, “How bad do you want it?” This time the answer was different. My reply, “I want this more!” Quickly I ascended the stage and thoroughly enjoyed teaching God’s Word. The best news is that I was able to descend the stage, too.

I will be honest with you. The experience taught a valuable lesson to me. In fact, it reminded me of a lesson that God taught me several years ago. The lesson is this.... it matters what we want. Our desires reveal the condition of our heart as well as our willingness to dig deep in

order to accomplish God’s plan.

I remember a time in my life when I did not want something that God placed before me. I struggled in that moment. I wanted what I wanted. I wanted God to get on board with me and my plans. I had a choice to make. I could disobey God and follow the desires of my heart; or I could fight the spiritual battle that was before me. I was torn... really torn.

During this season, I prayed, “Lord, help me to want You more.” That was the honest cry of my heart. You see, in that moment, I realized that my heart was the issue. The fact that I did not want to do the specific thing that God was calling me to do was only a symptom of a deeper problem. The solution to my situation was simple. I needed to want God more than I wanted anything else.

Maybe you are in a season of life where you find yourself wanting something that you should not want or not wanting something that you should want. Either extreme is hard. If so, express this simple prayer. “Lord, help me to want You more!”

When we want Him more, we want His plan for our lives.

In the book of 1 Thessalonians, Paul encouraged the Christians to live a life that was pleasing to God. One verse captures my attention. It states, “...brothers and sisters, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more.”

(1 Thessalonians 4:1, New International Version) What do you want more and more? I hope that your answer is Jesus. He is the One that you are looking for. Maybe we can talk about it the next time that I see you at the gym!

Andrea Lennon lives in Conway, Arkansas, with her husband, Jay, and sons, Jake and Andrew.

Andrea ministers to the women of Arkansas through a speaking and writing ministry called True Vine Ministry. To learn more about this ministry, access Andrea’s website at www. andrealennon.net.

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‘Wonder’ authored by R.J. Palacio Reviewed by Susan O’Keefe One could argue that the story is as indescribable and unusual as the main character’s facial features. The boy tells us up front and unapologetically that he won’t describe what he looks like, because “whatever you’re thinking, it’s probably worse.”

Wonder is the enamoring story of a middle school boy named August Pullman. Auggie has a congenital facial abnormality. People stare. Kids snicker. They point fingers.

“I thought the whole lesson to be learned was all about being nice. It’s a book for all ages. It gives parents a way to openly discuss teasing and bullying. There’s just a real message about kindness that permeates through the book,” offered one reader.

When Wonder opens, Auggie is faced with a new challenge. To go to school or to remain homeschooled? That is the question. Entering traditional school in the fifth grade, Auggie has a wide range of feelings to processs, plus he’s dealing with a wide range of reactions from both classmates and teachers.

During his initial visit, the principal, Mr. Tushman, assembles a group of students designated to give Auggie a tour and be especially nice to him. These top notch kids have been forewarned about their future classmate’s facial deficiencies. When they meet him, they stare at their feet or they purposefully gaze at the ceiling. Although there is a concerted effort, most of them eventually fall in with the crowd that makes fun of their new peer.

“There are so many things in life we cannot control, but how we treat others isn’t one of them. I wanted to scream at these kids “Just be nice!”,” said an Auggie fan.

And it isn’t only the kids. The adults are uncomfortable as well. Sometimes they talk behind their hands as if Auggie is unaware or invisible. With a keen spirit of mindfulness, Auggie doesn’t miss much. As he narrates portions of the book, he notices the uneasy glance his way, even if it’s only “for a millionth of a second.”

Auggie’s favorite holiday is Halloween. Behind a mask, he can pretend to be like everyone else. For a few hours, everyone accepts him as just another kid.

As the book’s hero, Auggie epitomizes character, courage, and cleverness. After 27 operations to repair what a mutant gene wrecked, there’s an underlying theme of perspective in his story. Auggie’s older sister Olivia realizes that losing a soccer match or missing out on the lead in the school play really isn’t a big deal compared to the insurmountable ob-

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stacles her baby brother has faced. And yet Olivia is human.

Her feelings are hurt when birthday party plans are made yet canceled at the last minute due to a sudden situation with Auggie.

Readers are never given a clear picture of their hero’s face.

Clues are sprinkled throughout the story about his craniofacial abnormality. He describes himself with a mushed-up face at birth and has concentrated for years on chewing properly. It’s a major struggle since the surgery to repair his cleft palate left a hole in the roof of his mouth.

Commentators have called Wonder a tearjerker and a sob story in parts. Others call it eye-opening as Auggie’s remarkable storytelling skills allow readers a glimpse of what life is like on the other side of a facial disfigurement.

“After reading Auggie’s story, I felt compelled to really reach out and practice kindness to people who sometimes just get left out. I don’t know what it feels like to have people gawk as I walk by. Auggie helped me know what that feels like, and it isn’t a pleasant feeling,” said one reader.

As anyone with a little bit of life’s experience can attest, people are much more complex and intricate than what meets the eye. And if beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, then Auggie and the beautiful story of Wonder should be tops on summer reading lists.

Susan recently moved to Augusta, Georgia, where her husband, Jack, is the Augusta University Men’s Golf Coach. Susan originally hails from Kentucky and graduated from the University of Louisville with a major study in Communications and a minor study in Health and Wellness.

Susan enjoys the adventures of motherhood as she parents Lucy, John-Freeman, Henry and Hogan (plus Oxford, the family’s black Labrador).

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food

Perfect Pot Roast Salt and black pepper One 3 to 5 pound chuck roast 2 or 3 tablespoons olive oil 2 whole onions, peeled and halved 6 to 8 whole carrots, cut into 2 inch pieces 3 cups beef broth 2 or 3 sprigs fresh rosemary 2 or 3 sprigs fresh thyme Generously salt and pepper the chuck roast. Heat the olive oil in a large pot or Dutch oven over medium high heat. Add the halved onions to the pot, browning them on both sides. Remove the onions to a plate. Throw the carrots into the same very hot pot and toss them around a bit until slightly browned, about a minute or so. Reserve the carrots with the onions. If needed, ad more olive oil.

Place the meat in the pot and sear it for about a minute on all sides until it is nice and brown all over. Poor enough beef stock over the roast to cover the meat halfway. Add onion, carrots and fresh herbs. Place lid on, then roast for 3 hours for a 3 pound roast in 275 degree preheated oven.

What’s the

BEEF about?

By Chef Jill McCollum, CC Photos by Brandy Strain

Beef comes in various types like; ground beef, ground chunk, ground round, and different steaks. However, ground beef is the most frequently

purchased type of beef and the largest beef item sold in the food stores. Ground chuck is the beef that comes from front beef shoulders. On the other hand, ground beef is the leftover pieces after cutting the beef into roasts and steaks.

This means that ground chuck comes from a particular part or from a special cut whereas ground beef comes from many parts or from other different cuts. As per the rule, ground beef should not contain any fillers, binders, and water. Ground chuck is mainly used for making meatballs or hamburgers.

Ground beef and ground chuck have many differences in their content, especially fat content. Ground beef comes with a little more fat than the ground chuck. When ground chuck comes with 20 percent fat, ground beef comes with 27 per cent fat. A three-ounce portion of ground chuck contains about 209 calories, 14 gm fat (5 gm saturated), 20 gm protein, and no carbohydrates. The protein in ground chuck is readily absorbed into the body.

Chef Jill McCollum, CC is the Caterer and Food Service Director for Central Baptist College. Jill is the owner of Jill McCollum Catering in Conway. She can be reached at jmccollum@cbc.edu or (501) 730-4422

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Sweet and Sour Ham Balls 1 ¼ pounds ground ham

1 ½ pounds ground fresh pork 2 cups corn flakes 2 eggs, beaten 1 cup milk Mix together and make into balls. ¾ cup brown sugar ½ cup cider vinegar ½ cup water ¾ teaspoon dry mustard Mix and pour over meat balls, Bake for 1 hour at 350 degrees uncovered. Makes 75 balls.

Ice Cream Dessert

1 (20 ounce) package chocolate sandwich cookies ½ cup margarine, melted 1 ½ cups chopped Spanish peanuts ½ gallon vanilla ice cream, softened 2 cups confectioners’ sugar 1 (12 ounce) can evaporated milk 2/3 cup semisweet chocolate chips ½ cup margarine 1 teaspoon vanilla extract Crush all but 10 of the cookies. Combine crusted cookies in a large bowl with melted margarine and peanuts. Press mixture into a 9x13 inch baking dish and freeze until cold. Spread softened ice cream over cold crust and freeze until set. Combine confectioners’ sugar, evaporated milk, chocolate chips, ½ cup margarine and vanilla in large saucepan and bring to a boil over medium heat. Boil for 7 minutes, stirring constantly. Remove from heat and cool completely; pour over ice cream and freeze until set.

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BEYOND HIS WILDEST DREAMS Artist Avery Moore’s project of selling shirts to fund mission trip quickly surpasses goal

By Kelly Sublett Submitted photos Twelve-year-old boys are often described as “fearless,” and Avery Moore is certainly an example. But he’s not skateboarding down stair rails or experimenting with extreme sports. Avery stuck his neck out in a goodwill business adventure, designing Tshirts with his trademarked giraffe logo.

“In January, I started a brand new adventure called #giraffedude9 designs,” he says. “The name comes from my Instagram name, which I am told really suits me.

Avery says his love for giraffes is unique among other kiddos his age.

“I collect them and even have a 7-foot giraffe in my room,” he says. “I have also always loved art and being able to imagine things and just putting it on a piece of paper.

“The #giraffedude9 designs started after my parents had a shirt with one of my giraffe drawings on it made for me for Christmas. I loved it! People told us we should start a shirt business with my giraffes on them — so that’s what we did.

“Although people regularly ask me why I love giraffes so much or why I don’t paint or draw something other than giraffes …

I don’t ever plan on giving up on my love for art … or giraffes. They have become an identifying characteristic of me. People know me as the ‘Giraffe Dude.’”

But Avery wasn’t planning for anything more than funding his first mission trip with his parents to the Dominican Republic over spring break.

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died for them and me,” he explains. “I started with a goal of selling 100 shirts to pay for my mission trip. My parents promoted it on social media and in no time at all, I tripled my goal!”

Avery fully funded his trip with the money raised from T-shirt sales.

With what money came next, he expanded his efforts to work with the Acts4Rawanda organization to buy school shoes for a boy his age in Rawanda named Fils.

“I was also able to send enough money for his mother to start her own business selling local produce,” he says. “She will hopefully be able to use this as a way to support her family.”

And although Avery strives to make a difference in the lives of people across the world, he admits having a personal goal to save for his own vehicle a few years down the road.

The Ruth Doyle Middle School sixth grader has shared his experiences and his personal mission with others, speaking to Ellen Smith Elementary students in May at the school’s Character Awards assembly.

“The featured character trait is Perseverance,” Avery’s mother Ashley says. “The administration heard his story from a few of the teachers who had ordered his shirts and asked him to speak about his new business and how he persevered to develop his talent into a way to raise money

A VER Y M OORE Young people are often the pulse of a community, as sporting events, school events and activities bring them into the spotlight.

Women’s Inc. wants to showcase these young people in a special feature each month. iMatter will seek to tell the stories of a new generation of community, skill, success and achievement. Do you know a student in Faulkner county, ages 10-23, who is truly one of a kind? Send youth’s name, school, parents contact GENERATION information (if under 18) and a brief explanation of why you think your youth or you would make a iMatter candidate to womensinc@thecabin.net.

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to fund missions.”

Avery’s talent for art and design and business are not the only ones. He plays the French horn in the band at Ruth Doyle and also plays piano.

“I feel like it is important to use the talents God has given us to spread the message of his presence,” he says.

Avery credits his family for their support throughout this remarkable experience.

“I have a mom, dad, and younger brother who have been very supportive of me throughout this new experience of selling shirts,” he says. “My mom has edited and sorted and packaged every shirt. This all wouldn’t be possible without her and my dad.”

Avery sells his T-shirts at his online Etsy shop, giraffedude9 Designs. There are several colors and designs to choose from. Go to Etsy.com/shop/giraffedude9 to take a look.

“I feel like I am being called to go and tell other kids about Jesus and how he died for them and me.”