Featuring a trolley ride from the church to the reception— this classic wedding has it all
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JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2025
Welcome to our beauty, fashion, weddings and wellness issue. “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” —Audrey Hepburn, British actress
Meet Me in the Vineyard, page 22
Photo: Decora Topp Photography
from the EDITOR
Welcome to the first issue of the new year. By now, meals have been enjoyed, traditions embraced and gifts shared—including more than a few engagement rings. We couldn’t think of a better time to release our first-ever Special Wedding Issue. These pages are full of beautiful love stories (including mine) and advice for couples entering the wedding planning phase.
This month, two years ago, I was already elbows deep in planning for my June 2023 wedding. As a seasoned wedding photographer, I had seen it done hundreds of ways, with various traditions, timelines and budgets. This experience gave me an understanding of what’s essential and what’s just not. At the end of the day, the only thing that needed to happen was signing a marriage license—everything else was up to us to dream into reality. So, we built our dream wedding from the ground up. (Read more on page 18.)
Before you dive into this issue, I’d like to offer some advice regarding weddings in the digital era: Be yourself. Follow your gut while you’re planning, and don’t rush to book your vendors until you’re confident that your plans are rooted in authenticity. It can be difficult to plan a Pinterest-perfect wedding, but it’s even harder to plan a genuine one.
So let’s get started on creating a wedding day that feels like you. Looking for more real wedding inspiration? Read about Megan and John’s wedding day at 7 Vines Vineyard & Winery (page 22). And it’s never too early to focus on healthy skin. Esthetician Emma Reibel of Emma Whitney Beauty has helped us craft the wedding beauty timeline of your dreams on page 16, with everything from recommended treatments to routine care tips and day-of suggestions. (This advice is not just for brides!) We also dive into topics like bridal accessories (page 12), post-wedding care tips (page 14) and desserts (page 27).
Sending well wishes in this season of love!
Zoe Yates zoe@localmedia.co
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Megan and John Talbot, Photo by Decora Topp Photography, page 22
Attorney Sheila Kelly marks 15 years of serving community clients.
For White Bear Lake’s Sheila Kelly, choosing a career in law was based on an important tenant: Serve others. “I chose law as my new career because I found it interesting, and I like to help others,” says the proud graduate of William Mitchell College of Law.
With a focus on estate planning and elder law, Kelly landed on an area of law that enables her to help clients and their families before and during, what can be, difficult stages in life to understand their options and create an estate plan tailored to meet their needs. “The ability to help people establish a legacy and to ensure their loved ones have an easier time after my client is gone, because of the planning they did now with my assistance, is something I strive for each and every day,” she says. “I am grateful for my clients and their trust in me.”
Her unmatched commitment to clients dovetails with Kelly’s strong community connection. “I work and live in White Bear Lake, and that means a lot to me,” she says. And Kelly’s appreciation of the area has been returned in kind. “Folks here want to support the businesses in this area,” she says.
Kelly’s commitment to giving back is also evident through community involvement. She is the co-chair for the White Bear Area Chamber of Commerce’s Women in Business Networking Group and serves on the White Bear Area Food Shelf Board of Directors and the White Bear Area Education Foundation Board of Directors. Her support extends to White Bear Lake High School’s athletics. Kelly is a member of St. Mary of the Lake Catholic Church in White Bear Lake and Minnesota Women Lawyers, including its Diversity and Inclusion Committee.
“Being an active community member is important to me as a person, not just as a business owner,” Kelly says. “It is a privilege to have a business in White Bear Lake. I don’t take that privilege for granted.”
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Susan Isay
EDITOR
Zoe Yates
MANAGING CREATIVE DIRECTOR
Renée Stewart-Hester
MANAGING EDITOR
Hailey Almsted
DIGITAL EDITOR
Madeline Kopiecki
COPY EDITORS
Kellie Doherty and Sherri Hildebrandt
STAFF WRITERS
Mollee Francisco, Emily Gedde, Meredith Heneghan, Daniel Huss, Jennifer Pitterle and Rachel Schuehle
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Alexandra Eve, Ellie Fuelling, Kelly Neeb, Katie Tomsche and Kia White
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EDITORIAL INTERNS
Amy Holmberg and Mikayla Vo
EDITORIAL ADVISORY BOARD
Lisa Beecroft, Beecroft Marketing ; Kevin P. Donovan, White Bear Rotary ; Kelly Neeb, Greater White Bear Lake Community Foundation ; Lexi Munson, White Bear Center for the Arts ; and Russ Reetz, White Bear Lake Area High School
SENIOR MANAGING ART DIRECTOR
Sarah Dovolos
ART DIRECTOR
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Jamie Klang
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Yaz Lo
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Chris Emeott
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Brittni Dye
PRODUCTION MANAGER
Lisa Stone
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Mimi Coz
SENIOR ACCOUNT EXECUTIVES
Laura Bjorgo, Cynthia Hamre, Mary-Catherine Hartel, Sara Johnson and Lauren Warner
White Bear Lake’s Aaron Eken is named partner with Schwebel, Goetz & Sieben.
With more than 51 years providing clients in the Upper Midwest with expert legal services related to serious car accidents, Schwebel, Goetz & Sieben (SGS) continues to grow and bring new partners into the fold—including Aaron Eken, who has been with the firm since 2021 and is experienced in all aspects of personal injury litigation.
Eken, born and raised in Grand Forks, North Dakota, is a 2006 graduate of the University of North Dakota School of Law and, along with his wife and two children, has called White Bear Lake home since 2017. “My upbringing taught me the value of hard work, moral integrity and close relationships,” Eken says. “I value personal and professional relationships and will go the extra mile to maintain them, bringing an uncompromising sense of morals and ethics to everything I do.”
That sense of commitment was also developed after law school when Eken worked at a major insurance company. “I spent four years learning how insurance companies work, litigating personal injury cases,” he says. “I found my passion for trial work. Being in the courtroom was thrilling, but I felt unfulfilled working for the defense and knew I had to make a change.”
Over the years, Eken has assisted hundreds of families in times of crisis. “I care about my clients, and I work hard to help make things right,” he says. “The skills that I learned working
for an insurance company have helped my clients from the start of their cases through trial.” That experience has also led to Eken being acknowledged as one of Minnesota’s leading lecturers in trial practice and insurance law.
Eken, who is licensed to practice law in Minnesota and Wisconsin, views his expertise as a vehicle to achieve client satisfaction. “Keeping my clients informed and making sure their rights are protected is my goal in every one of my cases—no matter the size or complexity,” he says.
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BEST OF WHITE BEAR LAKE
WELCOME, READERS, to 2025 and our annual Best of White Bear Lake Readers’ Choice Poll, which celebrates life on White Bear Lake.
We don’t know of a better way to step into the year than by showing support and appreciation for local businesses, service providers and much more.
Our contest is live January 1-31 at whitebearlakemag.com, where you can vote for your “best of the best” in a number of categories. While some of your favorite selections return for another year, our Editorial Team has included a few more categories that highlight additional retail and business communities. Curious? Go online to vote!
To have your vote successfully entered and counted, follow these rules*:
1. One entry is allowed per person; each ballot needs to include an email address.
2. Voters need to vote in at least five categories.
3. Ballots must be completed by 5 p.m. January 31.
The top three finalists will be announced online on March 1. Our July/August issue and website will reveal the Best of White Bear Lake winners and runners-up—along with special features, including the Editor’s Picks and a host of community highlights.
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Knitting Heritage
Makwa Studio is a local business owned by Maggie Thompson of the Fond du Lac Band of Lake Superior Chippewa. Thompson knits her cowls, scarves and hats on an industrial knitting machine. Makwa Studio textiles often include pops of bright color and bold patterns; they are knit with fine threads that create a smooth and polished finished product.
“I first became interested in textiles when I was introduced to hand knitting at the Minnesota Waldorf School when I was in fourth grade,” Thompson says. “I never thought of it as a career until I was in college on a track to go into architecture. But I took a machine knitting course and switched departments the following year.”
As a textile artist and designer, Thompson derives inspiration from her Ojibwe heritage. Makwa translates to “bear” in Ojibwe and is one of the seven clans in the Ojibwe Nation. Thompson’s work explores themes of family history and the broader Native American experience. It is available at the Ann Tousley Luther Art Shop at White Bear Center for the Arts.
Ellie Fuelling is the communications manager at White Bear Center for the Arts. Learn more at whitebeararts.org.
Photo: Maggie Thompson
Pursuing Wellness
What does wellness mean to you? People often think of wellness as it pertains to physical health, yet it is so much more than that. Wellness is the active pursuit of habits and activities that contribute to mental and physical health. It is about how we choose to live and what brings us joy and fulfillment.
We are fortunate to have many options in our community to help “fill your bucket.” Studies show that working with your hands
The Next Day
For some couples, the wedding celebration spills over to the following day with gift-opening parties or gatherings to bid farewell to out-of-towners and the honeymooners. If the plan is informal and held at home, consider serving small bites, accompanied by coffee, tea, juice and, if needed, a pitcher of the hair of the dog.
Find the full recipes at whitebearlakemag.com.
Triple Berry Muffin Cake
This moist cake features a wonderful medley of fresh berries and a crispy, crumbly topping, just like your favorite breakfast muffin. Note: Consider making an extra batch(es), since a single recipe yields 10–12 servings.
Lemon Popovers
From the original The Best of Byerly’s cookbook, lemon peel adds a fresh taste to these crispy, puffy popovers. Remember: Minnesotans love popovers, so more than one per guest should be considered!
Bloody Mary Mix
Add a special touch to brunch with this easy, homemade version of a classic morning sipper. Note: With a prep time of only 15 minutes, it’ll be easy enough to make additional batches if guests love this recipe as much as we think they will.
Katie Tomsche is the content manager for Lunds & Byerlys. Taste more at lundsandbyerlys.com.
improves cognitive function while reducing anxiety and regulating your mood. Check out the White Bear Center for the Arts, Mahtomedi Community Education and White Bear Lake Community Services and Recreation to learn new ways to create. Perhaps yoga or water aerobics sound more appealing to you. Look into all the options the White Bear Area YMCA has to offer. For some, theater or learning about the community’s history is a go-to
form of self-care. The organizations within Hanifl Performing Arts Center—Children’s Performing Arts and Lakeshore Players— and the White Bear Lake Area Historical Society have many events to explore.
Kelly Neeb is the business manager at the Greater White Bear Lake Community Foundation. To learn more about the foundation, visit gwblcf.org.
Photo: Lunds & Byerlys
STYLE
A Guide for Guests
When choosing a dress for an upcoming wedding, it’s important to consider the venue and event formality. Different settings call for different styles, and choosing the right attire will help you feel comfortable and confident.
Beach Weddings
For beach weddings, think flowy and lightweight fabrics like chiffon or linen. Opt for soft colors and subtle prints to complement the casual setting. A knee-length or midi dress works best, paired with sandals or wedges.
Garden or Outdoor Weddings
Garden weddings are often more formal than the beach. A cocktail dress in soft pastels or a floral print is a great option. A knee- or tea-length dress with breathable fabrics like cotton or silk is ideal.
Rustic or Barn Weddings
Rustic weddings offer a relaxed vibe. A lace midi or maxi dress with neutral tones or earth colors suits the setting. Pair with block heels or boots for comfort on uneven ground.
Semi-Formal Weddings
These types of weddings offer more flexibility. A cocktail dress or a dressy jumpsuit in jewel tones or soft neutrals is appropriate. Midi or knee-length styles in a satin or crepe offer a chic, polished look. Pair with heels or dressy flats and subtle accessories for a balanced outfit.
Black Tie Weddings
For the most formal wedding dress code, choose a sophisticated floor-length gown in dark, rich tones or metallics. Fabrics like silk, satin or tulle enhance the luxurious feel. Pair with elegant heels and formal jewelry.
Alexandra Eve is a local
and wardrobe consultant. To learn more or for styling help this wedding season, visit alexandraeve.net.
STYLE
More Than the Dress
A.B.
Ellie is helping brides say “I
do” to
the perfect wedding accessories.
By Meredith Heneghan
WHEN IT COMES to curating one’s bridal look, there’s more than one way to do it. This fact has guided the career of Ash Adamson, designer at A.B. Ellie, a boutique wedding accessory design studio based in White Bear Lake.
“My sister was engaged, and she ended up choosing an accessory before her dress. It was this ‘aha’ moment,” Adamson says. That was 15 years ago; two years later, A.B. Ellie was born. Adamson co-owns the thriving e-commerce company alongside her mom, Tami Adamson, and sister, Danielle Dady. We asked Adamson about what trends are on the horizon and how to choose accessories to balance a bridal look.
What qualifies as a wedding accessory?
My mind goes to anything beyond the dress. So, obviously, the details we dive into include jewelry, neckties, bracelets, extra rings, clutches, shoes, veils. Those all play into the ensemble of your look. Pulling in these other aspects is important because, if you just have the dress on its own, it’s probably going to look unfinished. Jewelry and veils are our bread and butter.
What materials and trends will we start to see more of in 2025?
Bridal trends do and don’t change. There’s always going to be a bride that’s cool with a minimalist, A-line gown and minimal accessories, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
We’re seeing a resurgence of bohoness. People are craving a more maximalist approach: lace is coming back, more poetic and ethereal tones. Those romantic textures, corsetry, grand
Photos: Ash Adamson
A.B. Ellie specializes in distinct bridal jewelry and veils.
All A.B. Ellie merchandise is sold online and wholesale, and while the production takes place at its studio and Ash Adamson, designer, occasionally takes in-person appointments, A.B. Ellie is not a retailer. For a personalized shopping experience, A.B. Ellie offers complimentary styling sessions online with its Style Me service, which pairs customers with a stylist to find the right fit within A.B. Ellie’s accessories line.
silhouettes are all coming back in a contemporary way.
We’re mindful of what the dresses are doing, and we shape our accessories around that. Assuming that dresses are going more grand, accessories are simplifying. We’ve done a lot of statement pieces in the past, but now we work in more demure mediums, things that don’t overwhelm the look.
How do you decide what statement to make with your wedding accessories?
It comes down to personality. Some brides always wear statement earrings, so that’s a natural fit. For some people, the veil is top priority, so let’s start there before we even think about earrings. I would say when it comes down to making a statement, go with the “pick one” rule. The main thing is finding balance—picking that one statement and making sure that everything else enhances it.
Can wedding accessories go beyond the wedding day?
We pride ourselves on pieces that still feel beautiful years from now. Wear, rewear, repeat! Most of our pieces are not bridal exclusive, so it helps to know that you’re investing in something that you can wear again.
Hold your memories close with these preservation and care tips.
By Zoe Yates
EVERY WEDDING DAY inevitably reaches its conclusion. The vows are made, the marriage license is signed and happy guests have departed. It’s a bittersweet moment. Yet, before one relaxes into calm, post-marital bliss— it’s important to consider how you’d like to preserve and showcase details from this special day in your love story.
We’ve put together some strategies to preserve, value and share these details. Take a look and make a plan before the wedding comes—many of these tips should be followed while the memory and materials are fresh.
If you’ve chosen to invest in floral arrangements, consider pressing flowers from your bouquet to preserve their beauty for years. Floral preservationists specialize in creating lasting works of art from wedding flowers—including shadow boxes, floating frames, necklaces and ornaments.
Remember: Flowers should be preserved at their prime for the best color and results. Book your service well in advance, if hiring a professional, or set aside time after your wedding (or better yet, pass the responsibility to a crafty friend) to press your wedding flowers before they wilt.
Wedding days fly by and, unfortunately, so do our memories of the day. Consider taking some time to recount your memories for you to look back on. You could put pen to paper, record your recollections on your phone’s recording app or type out your impressions on your computer while they’re fresh in your mind. Or, fill a hand-bound scrapbook with Polaroids, hand-written speeches and cards from family and friends.
Wedding attire shouldn’t be forgotten. Heather Larson, general manager of Treasured Garment Restorations at St Croix Cleaners, recommends
bringing your attire to a trusted cleaner as soon as possible post-wedding to remove stains, eliminate damage and prevent discoloration. “I’ve seen mold start within five days from just tucking it away [while] the train is still wet,” Larson says. While most suits can undergo a typical dry cleaning, a specialized cleaning service for a dress after the wedding will give the best value for sale. Choosing a full preservation (complete with acid-free tissue and a museum-quality box) by a trained preservationist will protect your piece for decades to come. Note: Treasured Garment Restoration is offered at the Stillwater location of St Croix Cleaners, and attire may be dropped off in White Bear Lake.
Photography and videography are two of the most common ways to document one’s wedding day. But don’t let these artifacts just live on your computer. Take advantage of your vendor’s offerings, which could include custom albums or motion books. Parent albums (smaller versions of your custom album) are often available at a reduced price and make beautiful “thank you” gifts for your loved ones. Printed and framed family photos can be a thoughtful gift, too—just remember to order some for yourself to display. At a minimum, print your favorites and preserve them in a box or safe. You don’t want to risk losing these memories, which will only continue to feel more precious as the years pass.
Pressed Flower Shop; thepressedflowershop.com
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St Croix Cleaners, 4397 Lake Ave. S., White Bear Lake; 651.429.7510; stcroixcleaners.com St Croix Cleaners
An esthetician offers a handy timeline for event-ready skin.
By Jennifer Pitterle
AS WEDDING PHOTOS have become increasingly high-res and high-end over the decades, brides and grooms want to look their best. Makeup is an important part of the equation, says esthetician, entrepreneur and makeup artist Emma Reibel, but skin care—making a smooth and healthy foundation for a glam look—is crucial, too. “I love being able to help people feel beautiful on their wedding day,” Reibel says.
With a world of options, which skin treatments should you do, and when? Reibel, whose studio, Emma Whitney Beauty, is based in White Bear Lake, shares a handy timeline.
At least one year before:
» Consult with your skin care provider to make a treatment plan that’s customized for your skin.
» Try microneedling, if recommended by a licensed esthetician. This medspa treatment targets deep acne scarring, heavy pigmentation and some fine lines.
» Sunscreen If daily SPF isn’t already a part of your routine, start as soon as you can to protect your face from damage.
Eight to 12 months before:
» Start chemical peels. These medspa treatments address all kinds of
concerns, from uneven texture to acne to discoloration. Continue with regular treatments; spaced out to give your skin time to recover.
Six months before:
» Start dermaplaning. An esthetician uses a tiny razor to remove facial peach fuzz and dead skin. Continue regular treatments for a smooth canvas the week of the wedding.
» Try out other spa/salon treatments you’re interested in, like facials, to note any adverse reactions.
» Start an at-home lash serum for healthy, full lashes.
» Commit to your home skin care
Photo: Stephanie Holsman Photography
routine. “Cleanse morning and night, and use an exfoliant once or twice a week,” Reibel says. “Pair that with a serum like vitamin C or an anti-aging option. Finish off with a moisturizer, and wear SPF every single morning.”
Two to three months before:
» Start waxing brows and face to ensure hair starts to re-grow on the same cycle. “Stop using any retinol products five to seven days before your appointment,” Reibel says. “And let your brows grow in fully before your first wax if you want to try a new shape.” Continue regular waxing.
» Try lash extensions. These are semipermanent and can last up to a month with refilling; you’ll want a fresh refill the week of your wedding.
» Do a full-face preview with your makeup artist. “Any sooner and preferences and trends might change,” Reibel says.
The week of:
» Drink plenty of water to keep your skin hydrated.
» Get a final brow wax/shape.
» Schedule fresh lash extensions or a lash lift and tint (a great option for brides who don’t want false lashes).
» Receive fresh dermaplaning two to three days before the wedding.
The morning of:
» Cleanse. Arrive at the makeup chair with a clean, dry face (and your water to sip, of course!) “Skip your SPF that day,” Reibel says. “If there’s flash photography, the SPF can cause a white cast to show up on your face in photos.”
Emma Whitney Beauty, 1350 Highway 96 E. Suite 31, is by appointment; 612.470.3640; emmawhitneybeauty.com @emmawhitneybeauty
Emma Reibel
FROM CITYSCAPES TO COUNTRY ROADS
Editors share the stories behind their unique, intimate weddings.
Written by Editorial Staff
The celebration of love and the start of a new chapter—weddings bring together family, friends and cherished traditions while creating new memories to last a lifetime. In this, our debut wedding issue, we’re pleased to share the beautiful wedding stories of two of
our staff members: Zoe Yates, editor of St. Croix Valley and White Bear Lake magazines, and Hailey Almsted, managing editor and editor of Woodbury and Maple Grove magazines. Come along, as they share a closer view into their special days, filled with unique touches and personal moments—reflective of their individual love stories. It all begins with that first meeting … On the campus of Western Washington University in Bellingham, the future was foretold in more than one way. Zoe and October met while
working on staff for a student— magazine! After graduating and eventually moving across the country to the Midwest, the couple exchanged vows on a warm June day on their idyllic property in Polk County, Wisconsin. While they both grew up in Woodbury, Hailey and Nathan didn’t cross paths until meeting as incoming ninth graders at Woodbury High School. After growing together through some important milestones, the couple was married on a lovely September day at the Hewing Hotel in Minneapolis.
The bride’s vintage dress was purchased and altered at Sienna Cole Bridal. Owner Lisa Ramlet replaced the original skirt with a flowy, organic fabric. Zoe balanced the look with her grandmother’s pearl jewelry, secondhand clogs and a blusher veil (also from Sienna Cole).
The groom’s three-piece custom suit from Milbern Clothing Co. was inspired—in fit, style and material— by 1930s cinema stars like Jimmy Stewart. An acorn-patterned tie and boots from Red Wing Shoes completed the look.
VENDORS
» Desserts: Fiddlehead Kitchen, fiddleheadkitchenwi.com; Key’s Cafe and Bakery, keyscafe.com
The bride’s lustrous satin gown from Vow’d Weddings was altered and customized by Heather Baldridge from Custom Sewing by Heather, who added satin buttons—flown in from Serbia—down the back of the gown. The look was paired with a chapel-length, angel-cut pearl veil from Tailored Tulle, pearl-drop earrings and white, satin heels, featuring dazzling bows. In the evening, the veil was exchanged for pearl gloves, also from Tailored Tulle.
VENDORS
» Alterations: Custom Sewing by Heather, customsewingbyheather.com
The groom’s suit, from Milbern Clothing Co., included a sophisticated black jacket with satin lapels and a textured floral tie. His look was complete with Calvin Klein Brodie Oxford shoes and a gift from his bride: custom cufflinks adorned with the faces of their pets.
Photos: Type & Timber
What inspired your wedding day aesthetic and ambiance?
Zoe Yates (ZY): We decided early on that we wanted a wedding that was true to our relationship and lifestyle, fun for our 60 guests and as sustainable and community-focused as possible. During our venue search, it became clear that our 5-acre property would be the best place to host our wedding, which we dubbed Zoctober Fest. This choice allowed us to spend more time with our friends (many camped on our land) and invest in home and property renovations.
Hailey Almsted (HA): We both knew we wanted a more intimate wedding with the people closest to our hearts and sought to blend the elegance of traditional weddings with the peacefulness of elopements. To ease wedding day jitters, we chose a private first look and personal vow reading before the ceremony. In the evening, we opted for a dinner party atmosphere, which we and our 40 guests enjoyed. Our day was about us—and we felt surrounded by love.
What special details and traditions were incorporated into your wedding day?
ZY: The morning of our wedding,
we chose a private vow/letter exchange, with our photographer out of earshot. At our ceremony, we did a handfasting ceremony—a Celtic ritual in which two hands are tied with a cord to symbolize the binding of two lives—while reading mirrored personal vows. My friends gathered flowers for the reception tables, and we had a DIY beverage station and a homemade taco bar. We purchased secondhand plates, compostable utensils and Mason jars that we now use for canning. For dessert, we had an assortment of cakes, including one prepared by my 95-yearold great-grandmother that was topped with the cake topper from her wedding.
HA: Our ceremony was highly curated for us as a couple. We began with a ring-warming ceremony, where each guest held our rings, silently warming them with blessings, prayers and wishes for our marriage. At the same time, our officiant, my aunt Nicole Almsted, read sentiments she had gathered from several of our family members about how our love has impacted their lives. Following our traditional vows, we held a unity candle ceremony with our mothers. Finally, we honored both of our grandmothers by asking them to sign
our marriage certificate—another tearful moment for all.
What unique touches made your wedding memorable for guests?
ZY: The informality of our wedding day was a breath of fresh air for many of our guests. At the comfort of our home, there was an opportunity for everyone to relax and play. Our chickens roamed the property. My grandpa organized a game of Hammerschlagen with a giant log he procured. We had a bonfire, and the kids enjoyed racing around our forest trail and climbing tiers of hammocks hung from our white pines. Our friends played live music late into the evening, and we danced in the grass under the full Strawberry Moon.
HA: First, our favors: framed customized sketches of our guests created in real-time by Maria Ahrens. It’s a joy to visit our family and friends and see the sketches displayed in their homes. We had disposable cameras around from start to end, but we didn’t develop the photos until our first anniversary in September. Lastly, we had a traditional write-in guest book, paired with a vintage phone from After the Tone, where our guests left us voicemails and well wishes.
Meet Me in the Vineyard
Featuring a trolley ride from the church to the reception— this classic wedding has it all.
Growing up in St. Paul, Megan Talbot (née Conley) dreamed, as many girls do, of falling in love with a prince—specifically, Prince Harry. “I had a calendar of him and wanted to marry him,” Megan says with a laugh.
And while the girl-meets-royalty moment never came to pass—she found her forever person in due time, as a junior at St. Thomas University. Megan first locked eyes with Stillwater native John Talbot in a management class in 2018, but it took a year before they shared their first conversation at Plums Neighborhood Bar & Grill near St. Thomas. “We’re like the exact same person,” Megan says. “Our sense of humor is our favorite part about each other.”
After a 15-month engagement, the pair tied the knot at an elegant ceremony at St. Michael’s Catholic Church in Stillwater on July 20, 2024, followed by a reception at 7 Vines Vineyard and Winery in Dellwood. It was a day the couple remembers as classy, stress-free and, above all, fun.
Before the wedding, Megan embraced a mantra shared by a friend: The bride determines the vibe. She was determined to experience the day with joy and calm. “And I feel like it succeeded. It was just very fun and very relaxed,” she says.
The groom’s dinner took place at the Lowell Inn in Stillwater the evening prior to the wedding, and Megan spent the night in the hotel’s decadent penthouse with her mom, Sara Conley. Megan’s bridesmaids joined her at Lowell Inn the next morning, and it marked the first time she saw all the bridesmaids’ dresses together. Her bridesmaids picked out
Written by Zoe Yates — Photos by Decora Topp Photography
Vendors
» Bridal Attire and Alterations: The White Room, thewhiteroommpls.com
» Catering and Dessert: Donatelli’s, donatellis.com; Woullet Bakery, woullet.com
their dresses after selecting a shade of blue and referencing Megan’s Pinterest board. “You can see their personalities through the dresses they picked,” Megan says. “… It was a risk, but it turned out really well.”
John’s mid-blue suit was from Milbern Clothing Co. in St. Paul. The look was completed with a floral tie that complemented the bridesmaids’ dresses. Inspired by the sleek, modern cut of Meghan, Duchess of Sussex’s silk Givenchy wedding gown, Megan knew she wanted something classy and timeless for herself. She found her twopiece crepe dress at The White Room in Minneapolis and paired it with white
heels, pearl jewelry and a cathedrallength veil with pearl details that wowed as she walked down the aisle at St. Michael’s. “I was so excited to walk down the aisle. Leading up to the wedding … that was the moment I was the most excited for,” Megan says.
The journey on the Stillwater Trolley from St. Michael’s to 7 Vines was a highlight for the newlyweds and their wedding party. “It ended up being both of our favorite parts of the day,” Megan says, adding that their wedding took place during Lumberjack Days in Stillwater. “... Everybody was waving and honking. It felt like we were in a parade.”
The couple’s 185 guests wandered
the vineyard and enjoyed a social hour on the patio at 7 Vines. Despite it being mid-July, the weather was mild and sunny. As the sun went down, the Talbots enjoyed dessert—gelato and a personal Princess Torte from Woullet Bakery—and shared a first dance. “We were on the dance floor with our guests the entire night,” Megan says.
Later, the couple and their friends settled in at White Bear Country Inn and enjoyed a nightcap at Rudy’s Redeye Grill’s rooftop patio. After a post-wedding pool party at John’s parents’ house, the pair departed for a mini-moon in Duluth—followed by a honeymoon in Greece in September.
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Destination: Dessert!
Cottage bakers and resident makers are charting new territory.
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350 Degrees Bakery
by Editorial Staff
Photos by Chris Emeott
THE TOPOGRAPHY of the reception dessert table is evolving. The tiered white wedding cake is just the beginning of increasingly varied terrain. Whether you want to scale a macaron tower or explore rolling hills of gelato, modern wedding trends encourage couples to choose their own adventures. If you’re feeling a bit lost navigating this uncharted territory, don’t fret. We’ve compiled an assortment of makers and bakers to get you to your dream wedding dessert destination.
You might be breaking the glass on your wedding day, but your guests can break the brittle. For an exciting latenight bite, consider an out-of-the-box option like slabs of brittle (complete with wooden hammers for guests to break off pieces). St. Croix Baking Company, Hudson, Wisconsin; stcroixbaking.com
Cream of the Cakes designs beautiful, custom wedding cakes and cupcakes, but the cannoli and whoopie pies are sleeper hits on many wedding buffets. The bakery also has a selection of gluten-friendly and vegan offerings. Cream of the Cakes, Lakeville; creamofthecakes.com
Consider giving a sweet nod to one of Minnesota’s iconic music makers—Prince. If you’re a fan of him and cheesecake, take your pick of over 15
cheesecake varieties. Founding owner and head baker of Cheesecake Funk, Vanessa Drews, worked at Paisley Park. Cheesecake Funk, Minnetonka; cheesecakefunk.com
Personal cutting cakes are undeniably in—but they don’t need to be plain. For a wedding cake that is as intricate as it is delicious, look to baker Elouise Souja. Her designs feature delightful florals and whimsical color palettes, extending from personal cakes to equally captivating cupcakes. 350 Degrees Bakery, Mahtomedi; 350degreesbakery.net (Learn more about baker Elouise Souja by visiting whitebearlakemag.com.)
For a nontraditional show stopper, donut walls are a tried-and-true trend. They’re simple to build and customize—and can be a beautiful addition to
Painted Turtle Chocolatier
your wedding reception dessert display. Grandma’s Bakery, White Bear Lake; grandmasbakery.com
What’s sweeter than fine chocolate? As of August, Painted Turtle Chocolatier is under new ownership, and owner Jackie Van Norden is excited to bring a fresh taste to this Metro mainstay. Consider its truffles, such as chocolate caramel, peanut butter, milk and dark chocolate, or create your own flavor profile with the chocolatiers, for a fun display or addition to your dessert table. Painted Turtle Chocolatier, Osseo; paintedturtlechocolatier.com
If we all scream for ice cream, we’re bound to fall for gelato. This delicate, small-batch Italian treat is made in traditional flavors like almond stracciatella, hazelnut and pistachio. For intimate weddings, consider personal gelato cups in flavors of your choice. Orso Bianco Gelato, White Bear Lake; orsobiancogelato.square.site
Nothing says love like a handmade pie—especially when it’s heart-shaped. For a dessert that’s as sweet and gushy as you’ll be on your wedding day, consider a curated pie table. These tasty pies come in a variety of sizes (including hand pies, little tarts, pie jars, pie pops and whole pies) and flavors— many of which are infused with local booze. Sara’s Tipsy Pies, Stillwater; sarastipsypies.com
Kyiv Cakes’ signature layered honey cakes, which include traditional honey, lemon and raspberry options, are inspired by owner Iryna Motta’s childhood in Ukraine. Kyiv Cakes Bakery, Lakeville; kyivcakes.com
Add some artistic flair to your wedding dessert table with individual desserts. Patisserie Margo is known for its exquisite craftsmanship, elegant cupcakes, eclairs, rich chocolate mousse, creamy panna cotta with passion fruit and cherry and lime tarts. Patisserie Margo, Edina; patisseriemargomn.com
For something untraditional that still gets the oohs and aahs, look toward a macaron tower. Take it a step further with a beautiful macaron cake. Memoo’s Macs, Woodbury; memoosmacs.com
Sometimes, you just want a slice of decadent wedding cake. From a cutting cake to multitiered cakes—and even cupcake towers!—Nadia Cakes can design just about any delicious dessert. Nadia Cakes, Maple Grove and Woodbury; nadiacakes.com
Meet
Renee Stewart-Hester
Managing Creative Director
Q: What’s the best part of your job?
A: I love attending area events or dipping into local businesses and discovering story ideas to share with our editors and readership. It’s rare for me to return home without a new idea tucked away into my “What’s next to explore?” thoughts.
Q: How do you like to unwind?
A: I embrace any activity or occasion that brings me closer to water. I’m a Pisces, after all.
GOLFING FOR A CAUSE
The BEAR’ly Open is back and better than ever.
AFTER A CANCELLATION due to ice conditions in 2024, the BEAR’ly Open golf on ice event will return the first weekend of February. The annual event has brought joy to the community for 17 years, supporting White Bear Area Food Shelf’s efforts to combat food insecurity.
“The need within our community is the greatest that we’ve seen. We’ve seen a 52 percent increase in visitors to the food shelf in the past year ... We’re averaging 5,500 visitors per month,” says Perry Peterson, the food shelf’s executive director. “This is a key event to invite new sponsors and all our gracious sponsors from before to raise the finances that we need to meet that growing need.”
The festivities start with a dance party on January 31 at the White Bear Country Inn. The evening will include a social hour filled with live music, games, complimentary hors d’oeuvres and a cash bar.
The main event is the one-of-a-kind golf event
on February 1 on frozen White Bear Lake at White Bear Lake County Park. Participants can tackle 18 holes, custom-designed by event founder Ken Galloway, and swap out their usual clubs for creative alternatives, such as hockey sticks and tennis racquets to hit tennis balls.
For those unable to attend in person, an online auction will feature items and experiences donated by local businesses and community members. The auction will run from January 27 to February 1.
“We’re excited to be back this year,” Peterson says. “... It should be a fun party.”
Tickets and more information can be found on the BEAR’ly Open website. —Mikayla Vo and Zoe Yates
By community request, the Winter Farmers Market is back inside. More than 20 local vendors share locally grown and crafted items available for purchase. All ages. Free. Times vary. Normandy Park Education Center, 2482 County Road F E.; michelle@forksinthedirt.com; forksinthedirt.com
Polar Plunge
01/25
Take the plunge into freezing White Bear Lake while raising funds for Special Olympics Minnesota. This year’s goal is $225,000. All ages. Registration fees vary. Noon. White Bear Lake County Park, 5050 Lake Ave.; 763.270.7119; plungemn.org
Alice in Wonderland Jr. 02/15
The cast of Children’s Performing Arts’ showcases songs and scenes from their production, Alice in Wonderland Jr., running February 14–23 at Forest Lake High School. Ages 2 and older. Free. 10:30–11:30 a.m. Ramsey County Library–White Bear Lake, 2150 Second St.; 651.724.6007; rclreads.org
The Looney Lutherans in It Could be Worse 02/16
A trio of eclectic women use music, comedy and help from the audience to share their wisdom. All ages. $15–$35. 2 p.m. Lakeshore Players Theatre, 4941 Long Ave.; 651.426.3275; lakeshoreplayers.org
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Ice Boats at Sunrise
A hobby photographer captures a quintessential lake scene on a morning stroll.
White Bear Lake residents Michael and Sylvia Lovett view the changing landscape of White Bear Lake on daily walks down Lake Avenue. Michael, a former superintendent of White Bear Lake Area Schools, captured this award-winning image of ice boats at rest on the lake one winter morning. “I was out before dawn on December 20, hoping to get just this photo,” Michael says. “I walked along the ice at the shoreline and waited for the sun to rise … this is the result.” —Zoe Yates
To view other Lens on the Lake photo contest winners, visit whitebearlakemag.com.
Photographer: Michael Lovett
Title: Ice Boats at Sunrise
Equipment: iPhone 8
Category: Seasons
Award: First Place
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