2020 February

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Neighbors

Little Silver An exclusive magazine serving the residents of Little Silver | FEB 2020

Newly Renovated, Permanently Home:

The Piskadlo Family COVER PHOTO CREDIT: SHINE BRIGHT STUDIOS


Letter From The Publisher

Neighbors

Little Silver

PUBLICATION TEAM

Publisher | Ryan Keating Content Coordinator | Allison Merchant Designer | Jackie Weir Contributing Photographer | Avery Brighton | Shine Bright Studios Content Assistant | ToniAnn Romeo

ADVERTISING Contact | Ryan Keating Email | rkeating@bestversionmedia.com Phone | (732) 691-2652

SHARE MORE THAN OUR MAGAZINE! Connect with us on Facebook and Instagram @LittleSilverNeighbors_BVM

FEEDBACK/IDEAS/SUBMISSIONS? Have feedback, ideas or submissions? We are always happy to hear from you! Deadlines for submissions are the 5th of each month. Go to www.bestversionmedia.com and click “Submit Content.” You may also email your thoughts, ideas and photos to: rkeating@bestversionmedia.com.

CONTENT SUBMISSION DEADLINES: Content Due—Edition Date December 5—January June 5—July January 5—February July 5—August February 5—March August 5—September March 5—April September 5—October April 5—May October 5—November May 5—June November 5— December

Correction: In the January issue of Little Silver Neighbors we incorrectly listed the byline and information of Town News Bulletin, Environmental Commission, on page 26. The event Environmental Day, not the Environmental Commission, is 10 years old. We apologize to the Environmental Commission, and to our readers, for this error.

Happy February, it’s 2020 and the new year is in full swing! This month we have some great content for you to enjoy with your friends, family, or even a special Valentine! Fun fact—your publisher’s Valentine was born and raised right in Little Silver. I’m blessed to have her in my life, Happy Valentines Day Love! Our featured residents this month are the Piskadlo Family! Thank you for sharing your story with all of your Little Silver Neighbors, it’s a privilege to have you join us for our February edition. The new year may have just started off, but there are already so many wonderful stories happening around town, and we are excited to bring these stories into your homes. We are featuring a new addition to the magazine, local art wizard Brian Meulener created our first official cartoon section, a big thank you goes out to Brian! Maybe you heard of the dog that was lost around town recently? Well with the help of the amazing Jill Arnold from Love a Foster we are excited to feature “Silver” this month on our adoption page! What a sweetheart of an animal, and if there is anyone in town willing to adopt Silver, please reach out—we will be happy to help connect you for the adoption and feature you in an upcoming issue!! Also in store for you this month are stories on the Parker Family Health Center, The Kortney Rose Foundation fundraisers, and a submission on Voter Education with League of Women Voters. Along with some excellent articles from our Expert Contributor sponsors Zephyr Performance Training and Atlantic Pediatric Dentistry! In our Around Town section we have a preview of the upcoming EFLS annual big event! Keep an eye out for the calendar of events this month and don’t forget to mark your calendars so you don’t miss out on any of the great local happenings. Last but not least, I would like to take a minute to thank our local business sponsors! Without them we wouldn’t have our community publication, thank you for your continued support. Gratefully Yours, Ryan Keating Publisher

Any content, resident submissions, guest columns, advertisements, and advertorials are not necessarily endorsed by or represent the views of Best Version Media (BVM) or any municipality, homeowners associations, businesses, or organizations that this publication serves. BVM is not responsible for the reliability, suitability, or timeliness of any content submitted. All content submitted is done so at the sole discretion of the submitting party. © 2020 Best Version Media. All rights reserved.

Sea BRight

1120 Ocean Avenue Sea Bright, NJ 07760 732.212.0881 Lunch Mon-Sat 12-3 Dinner Sun-Thur 5-10 Fri & Sat 5-11 Dinner Delivery Area Limited

Red Bank

yumirestaurant.com 2

Little Silver Neighbors

February 2020

9 Broad Street Red Bank, NJ 07701 732.842.8868 Lunch 11-2:30 Dinner 5-9:30 weekends 5-10:30 No Reservations 3


Letter From The Publisher

Neighbors

Little Silver

PUBLICATION TEAM

Publisher | Ryan Keating Content Coordinator | Allison Merchant Designer | Jackie Weir Contributing Photographer | Avery Brighton | Shine Bright Studios Content Assistant | ToniAnn Romeo

ADVERTISING Contact | Ryan Keating Email | rkeating@bestversionmedia.com Phone | (732) 691-2652

SHARE MORE THAN OUR MAGAZINE! Connect with us on Facebook and Instagram @LittleSilverNeighbors_BVM

FEEDBACK/IDEAS/SUBMISSIONS? Have feedback, ideas or submissions? We are always happy to hear from you! Deadlines for submissions are the 5th of each month. Go to www.bestversionmedia.com and click “Submit Content.” You may also email your thoughts, ideas and photos to: rkeating@bestversionmedia.com.

CONTENT SUBMISSION DEADLINES: Content Due—Edition Date December 5—January June 5—July January 5—February July 5—August February 5—March August 5—September March 5—April September 5—October April 5—May October 5—November May 5—June November 5— December

Correction: In the January issue of Little Silver Neighbors we incorrectly listed the byline and information of Town News Bulletin, Environmental Commission, on page 26. The event Environmental Day, not the Environmental Commission, is 10 years old. We apologize to the Environmental Commission, and to our readers, for this error.

Happy February, it’s 2020 and the new year is in full swing! This month we have some great content for you to enjoy with your friends, family, or even a special Valentine! Fun fact—your publisher’s Valentine was born and raised right in Little Silver. I’m blessed to have her in my life, Happy Valentines Day Love! Our featured residents this month are the Piskadlo Family! Thank you for sharing your story with all of your Little Silver Neighbors, it’s a privilege to have you join us for our February edition. The new year may have just started off, but there are already so many wonderful stories happening around town, and we are excited to bring these stories into your homes. We are featuring a new addition to the magazine, local art wizard Brian Meulener created our first official cartoon section, a big thank you goes out to Brian! Maybe you heard of the dog that was lost around town recently? Well with the help of the amazing Jill Arnold from Love a Foster we are excited to feature “Silver” this month on our adoption page! What a sweetheart of an animal, and if there is anyone in town willing to adopt Silver, please reach out—we will be happy to help connect you for the adoption and feature you in an upcoming issue!! Also in store for you this month are stories on the Parker Family Health Center, The Kortney Rose Foundation fundraisers, and a submission on Voter Education with League of Women Voters. Along with some excellent articles from our Expert Contributor sponsors Zephyr Performance Training and Atlantic Pediatric Dentistry! In our Around Town section we have a preview of the upcoming EFLS annual big event! Keep an eye out for the calendar of events this month and don’t forget to mark your calendars so you don’t miss out on any of the great local happenings. Last but not least, I would like to take a minute to thank our local business sponsors! Without them we wouldn’t have our community publication, thank you for your continued support. Gratefully Yours, Ryan Keating Publisher

Any content, resident submissions, guest columns, advertisements, and advertorials are not necessarily endorsed by or represent the views of Best Version Media (BVM) or any municipality, homeowners associations, businesses, or organizations that this publication serves. BVM is not responsible for the reliability, suitability, or timeliness of any content submitted. All content submitted is done so at the sole discretion of the submitting party. © 2020 Best Version Media. All rights reserved.

Sea BRight

1120 Ocean Avenue Sea Bright, NJ 07760 732.212.0881 Lunch Mon-Sat 12-3 Dinner Sun-Thur 5-10 Fri & Sat 5-11 Dinner Delivery Area Limited

Red Bank

yumirestaurant.com 2

Little Silver Neighbors

February 2020

9 Broad Street Red Bank, NJ 07701 732.842.8868 Lunch 11-2:30 Dinner 5-9:30 weekends 5-10:30 No Reservations 3


Expert Contributors

ALLERGY AND IMMUNOLOGY Allergy & Asthma Associates of Monmouth County DR. TINA ZECCA, Board Certified, Allergy & Immunology/Owner (732) 741-8222 www.monmouthallergy.com

CRAFT BREWERY Ross Brewing Company JOHN COCOZZA Founder & President (732) 835-ROSS info@rossbrewing.com

CUSTOM HOME, KITCHEN & FLOORING TOM NARDINI Family Owner/ Operator “showroom address” 162 East Newman Springs Road Red Bank, NJ 07701 Info@nardinicustom.com * 732.383.7711

FAMILY LAW ATTORNEYS 732-383-7711 SHOWROOM LOCATION 162 E. Newman Springs Rd. Red Bank, NJ 07701

FULL SERVICE SALON

Salon Jenae SHARON NESBIHAL, Creative Director (732) 450-0555 • www.stevenjenaesalon.com

HEATING, COOLING, & PLUMBING

Brown’s HVAC DOUG BROWN, General Manager (732) 741-0694 • www.brownshc.com

FULL SERVICE INSURANCE AGENCY

Oliver L.E. Soden Agency HAL SODEN, JR., Principal (732) 521-0001 • Info@sodeninsurance.com

To learn more

about becoming an expert contributor, contact Ryan Keating at rkeating@bestversionmedia.com or (732) 691-2652.

NJ Ortho Group GORDON D. DONALD, MD Medical Director & Director of Spinal Surgery (732) 747-7110 • www.nj-ortho.com

• Design • Build

PEDIATRIC DENTIST Atlantic Pediatric Dentistry, PC DR. SAFARI D.D.S. & DR. GUERRASIO D.M.D. Doctors / Practice Owners (732) 842-1155 atlanticpediatricdentistry.com

PHYSICAL/BALANCE THERAPY CENTER

HOSPITAL

Hackensack Meridian Health Riverview Medical Center 1 Riverview Plaza, Red Bank, NJ 07701 (732) 741-2700

MEDICAL AESTHETICS

Tonneman & Connors LLC NOEL TONNEMAN & CHERYL CONNORS (732) 696-2500 www.tcnjlaw.com

Plan Now for Spring Construction

ORTHOPEDIC SPINE CARE & SURGERY

• Custom Renovation • Additions

• Specialty Millwork

732-383-7711

#13VH04905000

SHOWROOM LOCATION 162 E. Newman Springs Rd. Red Bank, NJ 07701

• Construction Management

www.nardinicontracting.com

www.nardinicustom.com

Fyzical Therapy & Balance Center DONNA SINGER, PT, MPA, Practice Owner/Director (732) 758-0002 • www.fyzical.com/little-silver

REAL ESTATE AGENCY

Beata Advanced Aesthetics MAGDY NASRA, MD (732) 888-8255 mnasraoffice@gmail.com

Gannon Holsey Group PATRICIA G. HOLSEY, Broker/Owner (732) 759-8787 www.gannonholsey.com

https://www.beataaesthetics.com/

THE BRENNAN GROUP AT MORGAN STANLEY

Financial Advisors/Wealth Management SEAN BRENNAN Senior Vice President/Financial Advisor (732) 936-3376 • sean.brennan@morganstanley.com

SICKLES MARKET

REGENERATIVE NON-SURGICAL SPORTS MEDICINE Apex Sports & Regenerative Medicine DR. DANIEL SAVARINO, DO, RMSK, Founder, Physician (732) 504-6915 www.apexsportsnj.com

PERFOMANCE TRAINING & FITNESS

SICKLES S I NCE 1908

Sickles BOB SICKLES, OWNER (732) 741-9563 www.sicklesmarket.com

Bottles by Sickles BOB SICKLES, OWNER (732) 852-5353 www.sicklesmarket.com

Zephyr Performance Training Solutions (732) 389-8977 info@zptsolutions.com

East Coast - Ideal Property Management www.ECIpropertymanagement.com

Service you deserve

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Little Silver Neighbors

February 2020

When you enter a community managed by East Coast-Ideal Management you will notice the carefully tended grounds, the pristine streets and the beautifully maintained buildings. It is abundantly evident that the property is thriving and is in capable hands.

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Expert Contributors

ALLERGY AND IMMUNOLOGY Allergy & Asthma Associates of Monmouth County DR. TINA ZECCA, Board Certified, Allergy & Immunology/Owner (732) 741-8222 www.monmouthallergy.com

CRAFT BREWERY Ross Brewing Company JOHN COCOZZA Founder & President (732) 835-ROSS info@rossbrewing.com

CUSTOM HOME, KITCHEN & FLOORING TOM NARDINI Family Owner/ Operator “showroom address” 162 East Newman Springs Road Red Bank, NJ 07701 Info@nardinicustom.com * 732.383.7711

FAMILY LAW ATTORNEYS 732-383-7711 SHOWROOM LOCATION 162 E. Newman Springs Rd. Red Bank, NJ 07701

FULL SERVICE SALON

Salon Jenae SHARON NESBIHAL, Creative Director (732) 450-0555 • www.stevenjenaesalon.com

HEATING, COOLING, & PLUMBING

Brown’s HVAC DOUG BROWN, General Manager (732) 741-0694 • www.brownshc.com

FULL SERVICE INSURANCE AGENCY

Oliver L.E. Soden Agency HAL SODEN, JR., Principal (732) 521-0001 • Info@sodeninsurance.com

To learn more

about becoming an expert contributor, contact Ryan Keating at rkeating@bestversionmedia.com or (732) 691-2652.

NJ Ortho Group GORDON D. DONALD, MD Medical Director & Director of Spinal Surgery (732) 747-7110 • www.nj-ortho.com

• Design • Build

PEDIATRIC DENTIST Atlantic Pediatric Dentistry, PC DR. SAFARI D.D.S. & DR. GUERRASIO D.M.D. Doctors / Practice Owners (732) 842-1155 atlanticpediatricdentistry.com

PHYSICAL/BALANCE THERAPY CENTER

HOSPITAL

Hackensack Meridian Health Riverview Medical Center 1 Riverview Plaza, Red Bank, NJ 07701 (732) 741-2700

MEDICAL AESTHETICS

Tonneman & Connors LLC NOEL TONNEMAN & CHERYL CONNORS (732) 696-2500 www.tcnjlaw.com

Plan Now for Spring Construction

ORTHOPEDIC SPINE CARE & SURGERY

• Custom Renovation • Additions

• Specialty Millwork

732-383-7711

#13VH04905000

SHOWROOM LOCATION 162 E. Newman Springs Rd. Red Bank, NJ 07701

• Construction Management

www.nardinicontracting.com

www.nardinicustom.com

Fyzical Therapy & Balance Center DONNA SINGER, PT, MPA, Practice Owner/Director (732) 758-0002 • www.fyzical.com/little-silver

REAL ESTATE AGENCY

Beata Advanced Aesthetics MAGDY NASRA, MD (732) 888-8255 mnasraoffice@gmail.com

Gannon Holsey Group PATRICIA G. HOLSEY, Broker/Owner (732) 759-8787 www.gannonholsey.com

https://www.beataaesthetics.com/

THE BRENNAN GROUP AT MORGAN STANLEY

Financial Advisors/Wealth Management SEAN BRENNAN Senior Vice President/Financial Advisor (732) 936-3376 • sean.brennan@morganstanley.com

SICKLES MARKET

REGENERATIVE NON-SURGICAL SPORTS MEDICINE Apex Sports & Regenerative Medicine DR. DANIEL SAVARINO, DO, RMSK, Founder, Physician (732) 504-6915 www.apexsportsnj.com

PERFOMANCE TRAINING & FITNESS

SICKLES S I NCE 1908

Sickles BOB SICKLES, OWNER (732) 741-9563 www.sicklesmarket.com

Bottles by Sickles BOB SICKLES, OWNER (732) 852-5353 www.sicklesmarket.com

Zephyr Performance Training Solutions (732) 389-8977 info@zptsolutions.com

East Coast - Ideal Property Management www.ECIpropertymanagement.com

Service you deserve

4

Little Silver Neighbors

February 2020

When you enter a community managed by East Coast-Ideal Management you will notice the carefully tended grounds, the pristine streets and the beautifully maintained buildings. It is abundantly evident that the property is thriving and is in capable hands.

5


Resident Feature

Newly Renovated, Permanently Home:

The Piskadlo Family

Before... the local cuisine. “We do love to go out to eat and we have been crossing restaurants and bars off our list one by one since we moved in,” Michael said. Often on winter nights Michael will unwind with a fire and cook dinner with Claire as his sous chef/wine drinker. Claire is a speech language pathologist and works with adults and geriatric population in a rehabilitation facility and long-term care facility. “I love working with the adult population, most of which have swallowing or speech and language disorders from a brain injury (stroke/ TBI), or neurologic deficits/disorders such as Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, and dementia.” Claire relaxes after a day of work with a walk around the neighborhood with her husband and their Yorkie Bichon, Lucy. She was a surprise birthday present from Michael for her 22nd birthday. Lucy has enjoyed being a companion to Claire across three different states, four homes, and 11 years.

Before... “She is the LOVE of my life and my sidekick,” gushed Claire. “She loves it here [Little Silver], where at first she didn’t like it. She was very nervous, but now she loves it. She loves her backyard, to bark at the other dogs that go by, to look out the window. She’s like the neighborhood watchdog. She sits on the armchair and loves to watch everyone pass by. She’s super cute.” Lucy also helped the Piskadlos with their transition moving into a new town and new community. She was the ultimate icebreaker for conversations on the street and in the neighborhood. “One day when I first moved in, I was walking Lucy around and some other woman was also walking her dog. We ended up walking side by side. When I was walking into my house, she said, ‘oh, you live here?’ She said she was looking forward to seeing our renovations. So, I invited her and the dog to come in.” One of the largest appeals of Little Silver to the Piskadlo family was the ability to walk

After...

Photos Courtesy of the Piskadlo family

We would like to thank Stacie Bender Heritage House Sotheby’s International Realty for sponsoring this month’s feature story. By Allison Merchant

Photo Courtesy of Chris Jorda Photography

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“F

aith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” - Martin Luther King, Jr. We have all been faced at one time or another with a challenge that seemed impossible to overcome. An endeavor that was daunting in its nature and shadowed without guarantee of the outcome. Claire and Michael Piskadlo took their own steps without seeing the whole staircase nearly three years ago, into their new home in Little Silver. “Have faith, everything happens for a reason, and it’ll work out in the end,” Claire said. “That’s what we always say to each other.” June 1, 2017 the couple purchased their first home together, six months before their wedding. Claire affectionately referred to the house as haunted when they first encountered it. “We walked in, we were terrified, and [decided] never mind,” she laughed. They had been house hunting on North Sunnycrest, determined to live in a town they fell in love with at first sight. “We looked at a lot of other houses, but we couldn’t really beat this neighborhood and the street,” Claire said. “It’s a quiet street, it’s not on a main road. There are many families—a lot of dogs, you have people walking their dogs—which we love.” After many months of searching fruitlessly, the Piskadlos returned to their haunted house with

Photo Courtesy of Shine Bright Studios open minds and courageous hearts. It was then they realized that with some hard work and TLC, there was an opportunity to make it their own. “We gutted the entire house from top to bottom, we only kept the original floors,” said Michael. “Everything was refinished, every single piece of it, besides the basement —which is still haunted. This was within six months before we got married. They were ripping out our front porch when we left for our honeymoon. We had excavators on our front lawn when we were moving in within three weeks because we didn’t have a place to live. We did the front walkway, driveway, and front porch.” Those six months leading to their wedding were a whirlwind for Claire and Michael. Wedding preparations and an entire house renovation all while each working full-time positions. Michael is a chef and works at his brotherin-law’s family restaurant and business, Attilio’s, in Toms River. “I started in a restaurant when I was 17 just doing regular stuff: bussing, takeout counter. I always used to mess around in the kitchen and asked the guys if I could make pizzas. Then one night a guy never showed up, so the head chef said, ‘can you fill in on a busy Friday night?’ I said sure and just fell into it,” Michael said. When they aren’t cozied up at home, the two admit to being large foodies, exploring all Little Silver Neighbors

February 2020

7


Resident Feature

Newly Renovated, Permanently Home:

The Piskadlo Family

Before... the local cuisine. “We do love to go out to eat and we have been crossing restaurants and bars off our list one by one since we moved in,” Michael said. Often on winter nights Michael will unwind with a fire and cook dinner with Claire as his sous chef/wine drinker. Claire is a speech language pathologist and works with adults and geriatric population in a rehabilitation facility and long-term care facility. “I love working with the adult population, most of which have swallowing or speech and language disorders from a brain injury (stroke/ TBI), or neurologic deficits/disorders such as Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s, and dementia.” Claire relaxes after a day of work with a walk around the neighborhood with her husband and their Yorkie Bichon, Lucy. She was a surprise birthday present from Michael for her 22nd birthday. Lucy has enjoyed being a companion to Claire across three different states, four homes, and 11 years.

Before... “She is the LOVE of my life and my sidekick,” gushed Claire. “She loves it here [Little Silver], where at first she didn’t like it. She was very nervous, but now she loves it. She loves her backyard, to bark at the other dogs that go by, to look out the window. She’s like the neighborhood watchdog. She sits on the armchair and loves to watch everyone pass by. She’s super cute.” Lucy also helped the Piskadlos with their transition moving into a new town and new community. She was the ultimate icebreaker for conversations on the street and in the neighborhood. “One day when I first moved in, I was walking Lucy around and some other woman was also walking her dog. We ended up walking side by side. When I was walking into my house, she said, ‘oh, you live here?’ She said she was looking forward to seeing our renovations. So, I invited her and the dog to come in.” One of the largest appeals of Little Silver to the Piskadlo family was the ability to walk

After...

Photos Courtesy of the Piskadlo family

We would like to thank Stacie Bender Heritage House Sotheby’s International Realty for sponsoring this month’s feature story. By Allison Merchant

Photo Courtesy of Chris Jorda Photography

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“F

aith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” - Martin Luther King, Jr. We have all been faced at one time or another with a challenge that seemed impossible to overcome. An endeavor that was daunting in its nature and shadowed without guarantee of the outcome. Claire and Michael Piskadlo took their own steps without seeing the whole staircase nearly three years ago, into their new home in Little Silver. “Have faith, everything happens for a reason, and it’ll work out in the end,” Claire said. “That’s what we always say to each other.” June 1, 2017 the couple purchased their first home together, six months before their wedding. Claire affectionately referred to the house as haunted when they first encountered it. “We walked in, we were terrified, and [decided] never mind,” she laughed. They had been house hunting on North Sunnycrest, determined to live in a town they fell in love with at first sight. “We looked at a lot of other houses, but we couldn’t really beat this neighborhood and the street,” Claire said. “It’s a quiet street, it’s not on a main road. There are many families—a lot of dogs, you have people walking their dogs—which we love.” After many months of searching fruitlessly, the Piskadlos returned to their haunted house with

Photo Courtesy of Shine Bright Studios open minds and courageous hearts. It was then they realized that with some hard work and TLC, there was an opportunity to make it their own. “We gutted the entire house from top to bottom, we only kept the original floors,” said Michael. “Everything was refinished, every single piece of it, besides the basement —which is still haunted. This was within six months before we got married. They were ripping out our front porch when we left for our honeymoon. We had excavators on our front lawn when we were moving in within three weeks because we didn’t have a place to live. We did the front walkway, driveway, and front porch.” Those six months leading to their wedding were a whirlwind for Claire and Michael. Wedding preparations and an entire house renovation all while each working full-time positions. Michael is a chef and works at his brotherin-law’s family restaurant and business, Attilio’s, in Toms River. “I started in a restaurant when I was 17 just doing regular stuff: bussing, takeout counter. I always used to mess around in the kitchen and asked the guys if I could make pizzas. Then one night a guy never showed up, so the head chef said, ‘can you fill in on a busy Friday night?’ I said sure and just fell into it,” Michael said. When they aren’t cozied up at home, the two admit to being large foodies, exploring all Little Silver Neighbors

February 2020

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around town. They were drawn to the juxtaposition of the quietness of neighborhoods with the proximity of downtown nightlife. Neither grew up in a small town and craved that feeling of community and trust when walking along beautiful tree-lined streets. “When you walk around, everyone says hello to each other,” Claire said. “You can drive by and people say hello, people will stop you and say hello. If you’re in a restaurant and you know somebody from your town, they’ll stop and say hello. In the grocery store, you’ll stop and chat because they live in your neighborhood and they’ve seen you walking your dog. It’s cute that everyone just knows each other.” Claire and Michael continue to look to the future and being a part of the community. The two recently joined the Rumson Holy Cross Church and are excited about new opportunities to become more involved. Their home renovations, inside and out, are an ongoing project. Taking pride in their home and neighborhood has been their favorite way to join in the local camaraderie. “Every house is super unique and has its own little character. Everyone does nice landscaping and is always mowing their lawn, raking their leaves, setting up Christmas lights, or decorating for Halloween.” When they experienced their first Halloween two years ago, the pair were blown away by the tradition and collaboration of the neighborhood. Claire admitted it was like something out of a movie and affectionately refers to it as ‘storybook land’. “We love our neighbors. We have become really good friends with the couple that live directly next door—even our dogs love each other! They are super helpful with recommendations and getting to know what’s around. We couldn’t ask for better people to live around.” Three years ago, Claire and Michael entered an open house spontaneously. Together they took that step forward with the mentality that everything happens for a reason. Today they continue to climb, reaching new heights that renew that little bit of faith . “We love living here, all the memories we can make, and all the people we can meet in the future and in the years to come.”

DO YOU KNOW A NEIGHBOR WHO HAS A STORY TO SHARE? Nominate your neighbor to be featured in one of our upcoming issues! Contact us at amerchant@bestversionmedia.com.

Photos Courtesy of Shine Bright Studios

Gordon D. Donald, MD, FACS

Orthopaedic Spinal Surgeon Introducing:

Living Orthopedics Biologic Solutions for: Low Back Pain Knee & Shoulder Arthritis Stem Cells / PRP *Non-Surgical* 46 Newman Springs Road East Suite D Red Bank, NJ 07701 732-747-7110 www.NJ-Ortho.com 8

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around town. They were drawn to the juxtaposition of the quietness of neighborhoods with the proximity of downtown nightlife. Neither grew up in a small town and craved that feeling of community and trust when walking along beautiful tree-lined streets. “When you walk around, everyone says hello to each other,” Claire said. “You can drive by and people say hello, people will stop you and say hello. If you’re in a restaurant and you know somebody from your town, they’ll stop and say hello. In the grocery store, you’ll stop and chat because they live in your neighborhood and they’ve seen you walking your dog. It’s cute that everyone just knows each other.” Claire and Michael continue to look to the future and being a part of the community. The two recently joined the Rumson Holy Cross Church and are excited about new opportunities to become more involved. Their home renovations, inside and out, are an ongoing project. Taking pride in their home and neighborhood has been their favorite way to join in the local camaraderie. “Every house is super unique and has its own little character. Everyone does nice landscaping and is always mowing their lawn, raking their leaves, setting up Christmas lights, or decorating for Halloween.” When they experienced their first Halloween two years ago, the pair were blown away by the tradition and collaboration of the neighborhood. Claire admitted it was like something out of a movie and affectionately refers to it as ‘storybook land’. “We love our neighbors. We have become really good friends with the couple that live directly next door—even our dogs love each other! They are super helpful with recommendations and getting to know what’s around. We couldn’t ask for better people to live around.” Three years ago, Claire and Michael entered an open house spontaneously. Together they took that step forward with the mentality that everything happens for a reason. Today they continue to climb, reaching new heights that renew that little bit of faith . “We love living here, all the memories we can make, and all the people we can meet in the future and in the years to come.”

DO YOU KNOW A NEIGHBOR WHO HAS A STORY TO SHARE? Nominate your neighbor to be featured in one of our upcoming issues! Contact us at amerchant@bestversionmedia.com.

Photos Courtesy of Shine Bright Studios

Gordon D. Donald, MD, FACS

Orthopaedic Spinal Surgeon Introducing:

Living Orthopedics Biologic Solutions for: Low Back Pain Knee & Shoulder Arthritis Stem Cells / PRP *Non-Surgical* 46 Newman Springs Road East Suite D Red Bank, NJ 07701 732-747-7110 www.NJ-Ortho.com 8

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Expert Contributor

Rinses - Mouthwash and oral rinses are a great tool to add to your child’s oral healthcare routine. Fluoridated rinses have two primary functions. The first is to freshen the breath by neutralizing odor causing compounds in the oral cavity. The second is to act as a vehicle to apply the Fluoride ion to weak areas of the enamel. Fluoride helps to restore areas that have started to become compromised by inserting itself in the enamel matrix and acting as a fortified bandage. Children with a high cavity rate or undergoing orthodontic treatment are prone to areas of weakened enamel, and often benefit from a fluoridated rinse. Mouthwash can be used daily but should only be given to children that understand

Finding the Best Fit for Your

Child’s Teeth

B y At l a n t i c P e d i at r i c D e n t i s t ry LET ME PAINT A PICTURE FOR YOU. A parent with their children in tow head to their local grocery store or pharmacy to pick up some necessary items, like toothpaste and floss. Once in the store, they head over to the dental hygiene aisle and the parent is stunned by the tidal wave of tooth paraphernalia that fills the shelves. Which paste is best? Do I want mouthwash, and what type? Should the toothbrush be manual, or battery operated? The options are endless and often confusing. Dental health is extremely important for children and having the right tools at home sets them up for a lifetime of good habits and health. These are the basics of what you should look for next time you wander down the dental aisle.

Toothbrush - The toothbrush is the symbol of dentistry and dental health. It is your go-to weapon when fighting plaque and dental decay. To maximize your child’s benefit when they brush, there are a few things you should look for when making your selection. The first is the head size of the toothbrush. Smaller heads make movement around the mouth easier and allow parents to reach the trickiest spots for children. Most brushes have age designations written on their packaging for this reason. The bristles of the brush should be soft. Enamel may be the hardest substance in the human body, but gum tissue is definitely not. The mechanical action and pressure of the bristles against the teeth and gums should be gentle and consistent. Excessive force and a harder brush can cause damage to the gum tissue, and the changes could be permanent. Finally, the great debate of electric versus manual is really not a debate at all. The answer is whatever works for you! Electric toothbrushes (not the disposable battery-operated kind) are superior in removing plaque and stain, but

the concept of “swish and spit.” Ingestion of large quantities of Fluoride over time can be harmful to the body and the permanent teeth that are developing within the jaws. There is a plethora of choices out there when it comes to your child’s dental health tools, and I hope that this quick read helps you select the best options for you and your loved ones.

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if a manual brush is your child’s speed then that is what you should use. Consistency is key and your ultimate goal should be to brush twice a day for a period of two minutes each time.

Audi • BMW • Mercedes • Jaguar • Land Rover • Mini • Porsche • Volkswagen • Volvo

Toothpaste - Whether your child is a bubblegum aficionado, or strictly sticks with mint, there are specific things that parents should look for when picking out their child’s toothpaste. The most important thing is the Fluoride content. Toothpaste is simply a vehicle that carries the fluoride and deposits it through the mouth when brushing. Many people believe that it is the primary tool to clean the teeth, but that title actually belongs to the brush itself. Children between the ages of one and twelve should use a paste that has a Fluoride concentration suitable for their young age. In addition, no more than a pea-size amount (less for those under age three) should be used with each brush. Whitening pastes are attractive to tweens and young adults, but they should be used with caution. These types of pastes are often comprised of abrasive particles that can wear away the outer enamel over time. Surface stains may improve while brushing with this type of toothpaste, but it may cause an increase in sensitivity and tooth translucency as the enamel is being worn away.

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➢ never surprised - All prices must be approved by you before any work is done

➢ skilled - our team is factory trained & ASE certified

Floss - Floss really is “the boss” when it comes to maintaining

“Excellent, Fast Service, Very Reasonably Priced. I will defintely go back and recommend them highly”

healthy teeth and gums. That simple piece of string is extremely effective in removing plaque and food debris from between the teeth. There are many different types of floss. You and your child should try a few to see which works best for you and for them. Small children should be flossed daily by their parents using floss sticks. The handle of these devices gives the caretaker more control and easier access to the hard to reach areas in the back of the mouth. Older children in orthodontics should continue to floss throughout their treatment. Special floss threaders and modified floss sticks help to clear plaque around the brackets and wires.

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Orthopedic rehabilitation Balance retraining and fall risk prevention Joint replacement rehabilitation Sports Injuries Vestibular rehabilitation Neurological rehabilitation Osteoporosis exercise program Parkinson’s Disease exercise program Post-rehab fitness programs

Call for an appointment today! 732-758-0002 Little Silver Neighbors

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This location is a member of the Hospital for Special Surgery Rehabilitation Network

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New Neighbors offer

February 2020

CELEBRATING

30

YEARS

Proudly healing the Little Silver Community, one joint at a time!

Promoting good health, healing, and prevention of re-injury for clients of all ages

1/8 mile south of the Little Silver railroad station 116 Oceanport Avenue, Little Silver 11


Expert Contributor

Rinses - Mouthwash and oral rinses are a great tool to add to your child’s oral healthcare routine. Fluoridated rinses have two primary functions. The first is to freshen the breath by neutralizing odor causing compounds in the oral cavity. The second is to act as a vehicle to apply the Fluoride ion to weak areas of the enamel. Fluoride helps to restore areas that have started to become compromised by inserting itself in the enamel matrix and acting as a fortified bandage. Children with a high cavity rate or undergoing orthodontic treatment are prone to areas of weakened enamel, and often benefit from a fluoridated rinse. Mouthwash can be used daily but should only be given to children that understand

Finding the Best Fit for Your

Child’s Teeth

B y At l a n t i c P e d i at r i c D e n t i s t ry LET ME PAINT A PICTURE FOR YOU. A parent with their children in tow head to their local grocery store or pharmacy to pick up some necessary items, like toothpaste and floss. Once in the store, they head over to the dental hygiene aisle and the parent is stunned by the tidal wave of tooth paraphernalia that fills the shelves. Which paste is best? Do I want mouthwash, and what type? Should the toothbrush be manual, or battery operated? The options are endless and often confusing. Dental health is extremely important for children and having the right tools at home sets them up for a lifetime of good habits and health. These are the basics of what you should look for next time you wander down the dental aisle.

Toothbrush - The toothbrush is the symbol of dentistry and dental health. It is your go-to weapon when fighting plaque and dental decay. To maximize your child’s benefit when they brush, there are a few things you should look for when making your selection. The first is the head size of the toothbrush. Smaller heads make movement around the mouth easier and allow parents to reach the trickiest spots for children. Most brushes have age designations written on their packaging for this reason. The bristles of the brush should be soft. Enamel may be the hardest substance in the human body, but gum tissue is definitely not. The mechanical action and pressure of the bristles against the teeth and gums should be gentle and consistent. Excessive force and a harder brush can cause damage to the gum tissue, and the changes could be permanent. Finally, the great debate of electric versus manual is really not a debate at all. The answer is whatever works for you! Electric toothbrushes (not the disposable battery-operated kind) are superior in removing plaque and stain, but

the concept of “swish and spit.” Ingestion of large quantities of Fluoride over time can be harmful to the body and the permanent teeth that are developing within the jaws. There is a plethora of choices out there when it comes to your child’s dental health tools, and I hope that this quick read helps you select the best options for you and your loved ones.

Your Trusted European Auto Repair Shop

if a manual brush is your child’s speed then that is what you should use. Consistency is key and your ultimate goal should be to brush twice a day for a period of two minutes each time.

Audi • BMW • Mercedes • Jaguar • Land Rover • Mini • Porsche • Volkswagen • Volvo

Toothpaste - Whether your child is a bubblegum aficionado, or strictly sticks with mint, there are specific things that parents should look for when picking out their child’s toothpaste. The most important thing is the Fluoride content. Toothpaste is simply a vehicle that carries the fluoride and deposits it through the mouth when brushing. Many people believe that it is the primary tool to clean the teeth, but that title actually belongs to the brush itself. Children between the ages of one and twelve should use a paste that has a Fluoride concentration suitable for their young age. In addition, no more than a pea-size amount (less for those under age three) should be used with each brush. Whitening pastes are attractive to tweens and young adults, but they should be used with caution. These types of pastes are often comprised of abrasive particles that can wear away the outer enamel over time. Surface stains may improve while brushing with this type of toothpaste, but it may cause an increase in sensitivity and tooth translucency as the enamel is being worn away.

Why Choose Us?

➢ TrusTed - Over 40 Five Star Google Reviews ➢ ConvenienCe - We offer loaner cars, vehicle pick up & drop off, customer shuttles to work or home

➢ GuaranTeed QualiTy - We back our work for 3 years or 36K miles

➢ never surprised - All prices must be approved by you before any work is done

➢ skilled - our team is factory trained & ASE certified

Floss - Floss really is “the boss” when it comes to maintaining

“Excellent, Fast Service, Very Reasonably Priced. I will defintely go back and recommend them highly”

healthy teeth and gums. That simple piece of string is extremely effective in removing plaque and food debris from between the teeth. There are many different types of floss. You and your child should try a few to see which works best for you and for them. Small children should be flossed daily by their parents using floss sticks. The handle of these devices gives the caretaker more control and easier access to the hard to reach areas in the back of the mouth. Older children in orthodontics should continue to floss throughout their treatment. Special floss threaders and modified floss sticks help to clear plaque around the brackets and wires.

Melanie C. - Google 

$29 off

your next service One time use per household, cannot combine with any other offer, for a limited time only.

732.402.0896

Orthopedic rehabilitation Balance retraining and fall risk prevention Joint replacement rehabilitation Sports Injuries Vestibular rehabilitation Neurological rehabilitation Osteoporosis exercise program Parkinson’s Disease exercise program Post-rehab fitness programs

Call for an appointment today! 732-758-0002 Little Silver Neighbors

Mention Little Silver Neighbors to take advantage of our New Neighbors offer

JAAutowerks.com | 193 Newman Springs Rd. E, Shrewsbury NJ 07702

This location is a member of the Hospital for Special Surgery Rehabilitation Network

10

New Neighbors offer

February 2020

CELEBRATING

30

YEARS

Proudly healing the Little Silver Community, one joint at a time!

Promoting good health, healing, and prevention of re-injury for clients of all ages

1/8 mile south of the Little Silver railroad station 116 Oceanport Avenue, Little Silver 11


Education

Competition

Nursery Times

No Bake

Moby Dick Rehearsed

By RBR

|

Photo Courtesy of RBR Photos Courtesy of St. John’s Nursery School

Last month, Red Bank Regional High School’s Theatre Company performed Moby Dick Rehearsed, Orson Welles’ imaginative 1955 adaptation of the well-known book. From the depths of Melville’s imagination to the hearts and minds of the young cast, the production was lively and well received by audiences. The Visual and Performing Arts Academy students are involved in all aspects of the production. Students who join the fall drama and spring musical get a chance to work with staff who are veterans in theater production, like RBR Alumnus, Director Reuben Jackson, Costumer (Speech Therapist) Erin Ciallella, Technical director (Interactive Media Teacher) Carl Grillo, and Lights and Sound Advisor and also RBR alumnus, Francis Hankins. New to the design team was set designer Ashley Basile, a recent graduate in Set Design at Mason Gross School of the Arts at Rutgers University. Save the dates for RBRTC’s spring production of Disney’s Beauty and Beast April 2-5 in the Joe Russo III Theatre. Tickets will go on sale in early March. By Wendy Whit tle | Photos Courtesy of Point Road POINT ROAD SCHOOL’S KIDS HOLIDAY NO BAKE COMPETITION went live on Facebook on Friday, December 20, right before the holiday break. There was no holding back the third and fourth grade students as they whipped, chopped, and plated a special “no bake” dessert for three judges to try before a “studio audience” of their peers. Nine students (Nate Aninowsky, Robbie Gibbons, Max Healy, Abby Jain, Noah Nakhleh, Jeremy Ra, Josiah Ra, Sean Ricard, and David Schivell) from Mrs. Whittle’s third and fourth grade enrichment program had 30 minutes to create a delectable dessert using ingredients they had brought from home and baking tools that were provided. The only “baking” that was allowed was using a microwave for melting. Prior to the competition, these students had spent time researching different recipes that they might use, taking into consideration preparation time, ingredients and their peer’s allergies and taste preferences. Desserts created included Cannoli Cones, Oreo Cake Pops, Cake Batter Truffles, Chocolate Mousse, Nanaimo Bars, and Deconstructed Holiday S’mores! While students were preparing their creations, they were interviewed regarding their preparation process. They were also interrupted with challenges where they had to answer questions regarding a book they had been reading about the Titanic. Students then presented their creations to the judges, Mrs. Capone, third grade teacher, Dr. Albert-Devine, principal, and Julie Pedalino, school psychologist. The winner of the competition was Jeremy Ra with his Easy No Bake Pineapple Cheesecake.

St. John’s Nursery School ABC Prep Inc. T/A St. John’s Nursery School Captain Ahab, played by Lucie Chantepie, struggles with her past and manipulates her sailors into executing her plan but it doesn’t turn out as she expected.

2 1/2 - 5 year olds St. John’s Nursery School provides an informal & happy atmosphere with a wide variety of activities planned particularly to meet the physical, social, emotional and intellectual needs of pre-school children. Our program is flexible so each child is free to learn in a stimulating environment, although within a controlled framework.

You can view the whole competition at the following link: https://bit.ly/2sFj6nD.

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325 Little Silver Point Road Little Silver, NJ 07739 stjohnsnurseryschool@gmail.com (732) 741-2788 Anne Connell & Liz Halpin

Little Silver Neighbors

February 2020

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Education

Competition

Nursery Times

No Bake

Moby Dick Rehearsed

By RBR

|

Photo Courtesy of RBR Photos Courtesy of St. John’s Nursery School

Last month, Red Bank Regional High School’s Theatre Company performed Moby Dick Rehearsed, Orson Welles’ imaginative 1955 adaptation of the well-known book. From the depths of Melville’s imagination to the hearts and minds of the young cast, the production was lively and well received by audiences. The Visual and Performing Arts Academy students are involved in all aspects of the production. Students who join the fall drama and spring musical get a chance to work with staff who are veterans in theater production, like RBR Alumnus, Director Reuben Jackson, Costumer (Speech Therapist) Erin Ciallella, Technical director (Interactive Media Teacher) Carl Grillo, and Lights and Sound Advisor and also RBR alumnus, Francis Hankins. New to the design team was set designer Ashley Basile, a recent graduate in Set Design at Mason Gross School of the Arts at Rutgers University. Save the dates for RBRTC’s spring production of Disney’s Beauty and Beast April 2-5 in the Joe Russo III Theatre. Tickets will go on sale in early March. By Wendy Whit tle | Photos Courtesy of Point Road POINT ROAD SCHOOL’S KIDS HOLIDAY NO BAKE COMPETITION went live on Facebook on Friday, December 20, right before the holiday break. There was no holding back the third and fourth grade students as they whipped, chopped, and plated a special “no bake” dessert for three judges to try before a “studio audience” of their peers. Nine students (Nate Aninowsky, Robbie Gibbons, Max Healy, Abby Jain, Noah Nakhleh, Jeremy Ra, Josiah Ra, Sean Ricard, and David Schivell) from Mrs. Whittle’s third and fourth grade enrichment program had 30 minutes to create a delectable dessert using ingredients they had brought from home and baking tools that were provided. The only “baking” that was allowed was using a microwave for melting. Prior to the competition, these students had spent time researching different recipes that they might use, taking into consideration preparation time, ingredients and their peer’s allergies and taste preferences. Desserts created included Cannoli Cones, Oreo Cake Pops, Cake Batter Truffles, Chocolate Mousse, Nanaimo Bars, and Deconstructed Holiday S’mores! While students were preparing their creations, they were interviewed regarding their preparation process. They were also interrupted with challenges where they had to answer questions regarding a book they had been reading about the Titanic. Students then presented their creations to the judges, Mrs. Capone, third grade teacher, Dr. Albert-Devine, principal, and Julie Pedalino, school psychologist. The winner of the competition was Jeremy Ra with his Easy No Bake Pineapple Cheesecake.

St. John’s Nursery School ABC Prep Inc. T/A St. John’s Nursery School Captain Ahab, played by Lucie Chantepie, struggles with her past and manipulates her sailors into executing her plan but it doesn’t turn out as she expected.

2 1/2 - 5 year olds St. John’s Nursery School provides an informal & happy atmosphere with a wide variety of activities planned particularly to meet the physical, social, emotional and intellectual needs of pre-school children. Our program is flexible so each child is free to learn in a stimulating environment, although within a controlled framework.

You can view the whole competition at the following link: https://bit.ly/2sFj6nD.

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325 Little Silver Point Road Little Silver, NJ 07739 stjohnsnurseryschool@gmail.com (732) 741-2788 Anne Connell & Liz Halpin

Little Silver Neighbors

February 2020

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Charity Spotlight

Auto Reflections Runs Toy Drive By Allison Merchant | Photos by Patrick Naughton December 22, 2019, among the all wheel and 4-wheel drives, there was a different kind of drive on the lot of AUTO REFLECTIONS DETAILING CENTER in Little Silver, NJ. “We wanted to do something local to support the children and the hospitals,” said Patrick Naughton, Owner of Auto Reflections. In lieu of the holiday season, the family-owned detailing center hosted a charity toy drive. “We wanted to use the cars as a grouping to let people come— it brings a lot of people together— so it definitely helps. I’ve always had a personal thing where I always wanted to not only be able to donate and give back, but actually give to the child. You can see their reactions. It was one of the main factors for me, but Stephanie [wife and co-owner], was able to find something like that with Unterberg Children’s Hospital in Monmouth Medical. That is where we’re donating to so we want to keep it as local to the community as possible.” People came out from around town and local communities to contribute their donations. Naughton family friend Joseph Boscia also came out to support the drive. Boscia is the co-owner and partner of the accounting firm Boscia & Boscia PC. He assisted with organizing the drive by spreading the word out to locals and delivering donations. The event was truly a family affair with their children helping collect and promote donations. Claire Naughton was asked about her favorite part of the day and working for a good cause. “Probably just getting the toys, giving them to the kids. Even though I don’t get to do it [deliver the toys], at least they get to have some presents.” All donations were delivered in person by the following day at the Children’s Hospital in Monmouth Medical. Auto Reflection Detailing Center has been the only Full Service 100% Hand Car Wash in Little Silver since 2017. It is a family-owned operation and they have been in the Hand Car Wash and Detailing business for more than 10 years.

Offering: GK Keratin Smoothing Treatments • $199 (reg $250+) or

Express treatments

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145 Wyckoff Rd, Ste 104, Eatontown, NJ 07724 P: 732.696.2500 F: 732.696.2499

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February 2020

• $75 (reg $99+)

Fight the winter frizz and dry hair with a keratin. Nicole Rubino, GK hair International Hair Artist, is now taking new clients. She has been in the industry for 15 years and specializes in color and chemical services.

Treatments last 3-5 months with proper aftercare. It will reduce curl, eliminate frizz, add shine, and cut your blow dry time in half.

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Charity Spotlight

Auto Reflections Runs Toy Drive By Allison Merchant | Photos by Patrick Naughton December 22, 2019, among the all wheel and 4-wheel drives, there was a different kind of drive on the lot of AUTO REFLECTIONS DETAILING CENTER in Little Silver, NJ. “We wanted to do something local to support the children and the hospitals,” said Patrick Naughton, Owner of Auto Reflections. In lieu of the holiday season, the family-owned detailing center hosted a charity toy drive. “We wanted to use the cars as a grouping to let people come— it brings a lot of people together— so it definitely helps. I’ve always had a personal thing where I always wanted to not only be able to donate and give back, but actually give to the child. You can see their reactions. It was one of the main factors for me, but Stephanie [wife and co-owner], was able to find something like that with Unterberg Children’s Hospital in Monmouth Medical. That is where we’re donating to so we want to keep it as local to the community as possible.” People came out from around town and local communities to contribute their donations. Naughton family friend Joseph Boscia also came out to support the drive. Boscia is the co-owner and partner of the accounting firm Boscia & Boscia PC. He assisted with organizing the drive by spreading the word out to locals and delivering donations. The event was truly a family affair with their children helping collect and promote donations. Claire Naughton was asked about her favorite part of the day and working for a good cause. “Probably just getting the toys, giving them to the kids. Even though I don’t get to do it [deliver the toys], at least they get to have some presents.” All donations were delivered in person by the following day at the Children’s Hospital in Monmouth Medical. Auto Reflection Detailing Center has been the only Full Service 100% Hand Car Wash in Little Silver since 2017. It is a family-owned operation and they have been in the Hand Car Wash and Detailing business for more than 10 years.

Offering: GK Keratin Smoothing Treatments • $199 (reg $250+) or

Express treatments

Happy New Year from Gannon Holsey! Thinking of Moving or Finding your First Home?

Compassionate and experienced law firm specializing in all areas of family law including divorce, child custody and parenting issues, alimony, equitable distribution, enforcement and modification of existing orders, premarital agreements and appeals

Give us a call today and we’ll take care of the rest!

OFFERING SERVICES IN MEDI ATI ON, COLLABOR ATI VE DI VOR CE, AR BI TR ATI ON & LI TI GATI ON

732.759.8787 | www.gannonholsey.com 350 Silverside Avenue | Little Silver | New Jersey | 07739 14

Little Silver Neighbors

145 Wyckoff Rd, Ste 104, Eatontown, NJ 07724 P: 732.696.2500 F: 732.696.2499

W W W.T C N J L AW. C O M

February 2020

• $75 (reg $99+)

Fight the winter frizz and dry hair with a keratin. Nicole Rubino, GK hair International Hair Artist, is now taking new clients. She has been in the industry for 15 years and specializes in color and chemical services.

Treatments last 3-5 months with proper aftercare. It will reduce curl, eliminate frizz, add shine, and cut your blow dry time in half.

31 Church St. Little Silver, NJ 07739 • (732) 450-0555 salonjenaenj.com salonjenaenj facebook.com/SalonJenaeNJ

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Calendar of Events February 2020

EVERY TUESDAY

FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 14TH

@Little Silver Library Times: 9:30am (toddlers), 10:30am (babies), 1:30pm (preschool), 3:30pm (school age)

MONDAY, FEBRUARY 17TH

Story Time with Ms. Val

EVERY WEDNESDAY

Drop-In Homework Help

Red Bank Regional students, Thomas Feldkamp and Cooper Strauss are volunteering their time to assist middle school students with homework assignments. @Little Silver Library Time: 3-4pm

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 1ST

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against La Salle University

@Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 3pm

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against Wagner College

@Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 7:30pm

World Read Aloud Day SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 2ND

Groundhog Day Superbowl

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 8TH

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against Bucknell University

@Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 4pm

SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 9TH

2020 Fashion Show hosted by RBR Source

Proceeds will benefit The Andrew Kroon Memorial Scholarship Fund. @Oyster Point Hotel, 146 Bodman Pl, Red Bank, NJ

TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 11TH

Annual Meeting of the Little Silver Democratic Club @See www.littlesilverdems.org Time: 7-9pm

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Valentine’s Day Presidents Day

THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 20TH

National Love Your Pet Day TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 25TH

Mardi Gras

WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 26TH

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against Farleigh Dickenson

University @Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 9pm

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 29TH

Great Food For a Great Cause

Kortney Rose Foundation Turning Point Fundraiser @all Turning Point locations

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against Delaware University

@Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 4pm

Bulk collection is always your second pickup of the week and includes furniture and carpeting. No more than three items can be placed at the curb per pickup and must be placed to the curb the night before, along with any regular trash. No appliances, electronics or construction material permitted. No more than three items per week. Pickup is every week as follows: Zone 1: Monday and Thursday Zone 2: Tuesday and Friday

Single-Stream Recycling

Bottles, cans, plastic, newspaper, small cardboard and mixed paper can all be placed in the same container. Cardboard that is too large for a container should be flattened, tied and placed next to the container. Pickup is every other week as follows: Zone 1: Wednesday February 12th, Wednesday February 26th Zone 2: Wednesday February 5th and Wednesday February 19th Note: As of October 1st, single use plastic bag, polystyrene container and plastic straw use is prohibited in Little Silver. The Borough is giving away reusable bags at Borough Hall and in the Library. The Little Silver Fire Department and EMS are supporting this effort with a fund raiser, a reusable bag for a $5 donation. Support our volunteers and support our environment at the same time.

Pet Corner

Important Trash and Recycling Information for All Residents

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Brush Pickup

Note: Starting January 2020 brush only can be put to the curb at any time from January through October. There will no longer be zones for brush placement or pick-up.

UPCOMING EVENTS: March 20, 2020 for the EFLS Annual Big Event Planting Seeds of Knowledge, located at Navesink Country Club. Ticketing information and additional details to follow. Visit at EFLS.org March 21, 2020 for the Little Silver Environmental Day, located at Little Silver Woman’s Club from 9am to 1pm.

CRYOTHERAPY ▲ SLIMMING TONING ▲ INFRARED SAUNA

March 28, 2020 for RBR Source’s 20th Anniversary Cocktail Party fundraiser.

Cryotherapy is YOUR solution for: metabolism ▲ weight loss ▲ cellulite anti-aging ▲ detox ▲ energy ▲ pain inflammation ▲ recovery ▲ sleep depression ▲ anxiety ▲ mood

April 25, 2020 for the Buc Backer Foundation’s Cornhole Tournament, located at Red Bank Elks. Ticketing information and additional details to follow. Visit at bucbackerfoundation.com

661 Broad Street Suite 4 Shrewsbury, NJ 07702 732.268.7781 arcticfirecryo@gmail.com @arcticfirecryo

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Join us in January!

Kids Eat Free All Month! Two Special Dinners:

January 8th- Cognac for a Cure benefitting the American Cancer Society nd January 22 - Hope Family Wines Dinner We will be closed on Mondays January 1, 2020 until March 31, 2020

26 W. Front St, Red Bank – (732) 383-5664

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Calendar of Events February 2020

EVERY TUESDAY

FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 14TH

@Little Silver Library Times: 9:30am (toddlers), 10:30am (babies), 1:30pm (preschool), 3:30pm (school age)

MONDAY, FEBRUARY 17TH

Story Time with Ms. Val

EVERY WEDNESDAY

Drop-In Homework Help

Red Bank Regional students, Thomas Feldkamp and Cooper Strauss are volunteering their time to assist middle school students with homework assignments. @Little Silver Library Time: 3-4pm

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 1ST

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against La Salle University

@Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 3pm

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against Wagner College

@Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 7:30pm

World Read Aloud Day SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 2ND

Groundhog Day Superbowl

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 8TH

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against Bucknell University

@Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 4pm

SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 9TH

2020 Fashion Show hosted by RBR Source

Proceeds will benefit The Andrew Kroon Memorial Scholarship Fund. @Oyster Point Hotel, 146 Bodman Pl, Red Bank, NJ

TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 11TH

Annual Meeting of the Little Silver Democratic Club @See www.littlesilverdems.org Time: 7-9pm

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Valentine’s Day Presidents Day

THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 20TH

National Love Your Pet Day TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 25TH

Mardi Gras

WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 26TH

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against Farleigh Dickenson

University @Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 9pm

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 29TH

Great Food For a Great Cause

Kortney Rose Foundation Turning Point Fundraiser @all Turning Point locations

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Match - Playing against Delaware University

@Little Silver Tennis Club, 100 Birch Ave, Little Silver Time: 4pm

Bulk collection is always your second pickup of the week and includes furniture and carpeting. No more than three items can be placed at the curb per pickup and must be placed to the curb the night before, along with any regular trash. No appliances, electronics or construction material permitted. No more than three items per week. Pickup is every week as follows: Zone 1: Monday and Thursday Zone 2: Tuesday and Friday

Single-Stream Recycling

Bottles, cans, plastic, newspaper, small cardboard and mixed paper can all be placed in the same container. Cardboard that is too large for a container should be flattened, tied and placed next to the container. Pickup is every other week as follows: Zone 1: Wednesday February 12th, Wednesday February 26th Zone 2: Wednesday February 5th and Wednesday February 19th Note: As of October 1st, single use plastic bag, polystyrene container and plastic straw use is prohibited in Little Silver. The Borough is giving away reusable bags at Borough Hall and in the Library. The Little Silver Fire Department and EMS are supporting this effort with a fund raiser, a reusable bag for a $5 donation. Support our volunteers and support our environment at the same time.

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Brush Pickup

Note: Starting January 2020 brush only can be put to the curb at any time from January through October. There will no longer be zones for brush placement or pick-up.

UPCOMING EVENTS: March 20, 2020 for the EFLS Annual Big Event Planting Seeds of Knowledge, located at Navesink Country Club. Ticketing information and additional details to follow. Visit at EFLS.org March 21, 2020 for the Little Silver Environmental Day, located at Little Silver Woman’s Club from 9am to 1pm.

CRYOTHERAPY ▲ SLIMMING TONING ▲ INFRARED SAUNA

March 28, 2020 for RBR Source’s 20th Anniversary Cocktail Party fundraiser.

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April 25, 2020 for the Buc Backer Foundation’s Cornhole Tournament, located at Red Bank Elks. Ticketing information and additional details to follow. Visit at bucbackerfoundation.com

661 Broad Street Suite 4 Shrewsbury, NJ 07702 732.268.7781 arcticfirecryo@gmail.com @arcticfirecryo

Little Silver Neighbors

Join us in January!

Kids Eat Free All Month! Two Special Dinners:

January 8th- Cognac for a Cure benefitting the American Cancer Society nd January 22 - Hope Family Wines Dinner We will be closed on Mondays January 1, 2020 until March 31, 2020

26 W. Front St, Red Bank – (732) 383-5664

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he League of Women Voters of Monmouth County hosted “Prepare to be Counted: The Implications of the 2020 Census,” on Sunday, January 12, 2020. The event took place at Temple Shalom Reform, 5 Ayrmont Lane, Aberdeen. The event featured guest lecturers: Alyssa Moreno, Civic Engagement Coordinator, League of Women Voters of New Jersey and Ian Hull, Deputy Regional Director New York Regional Census Center. The league’s census will occur in three phases: education, get out to count activities and watchdog reporting. Census day will take place in April 2020. Leagues help everyone get counted and work in complete count committees to bring to light the low-reporting areas. The leagues communicate where the additional support is needed. The Census takes place every 10 years and counts every resident in the United States, according to the United States Census Bureau. The first Census was taken in 1790. Census Bureau must build an accurate address list of every housing unit in order to get an accurate count. Originally the Census was used to tax or confiscate property into military service. The Census will require counting a growing and diverse population of around 330 million people in more than 140 million housing units. The Census is mandated by Article I, Section 2 of the Constitution. The research conducts in four areas including using the Internet to increase self-response, using existing government data sources to answer census questions and reduce follow-up workload, using existing maps and addresses to reflect changes rather than walking every block in all the neighborhoods in the country, and automating operations to increase productivity and reduce staff and offices. The Census determines how more than 675 billion dollars of federal funding gets distributed to states and communities every year, according to the Census Bureau. It impacts housing, education, transportation, employment, health care, and public policy. The accuracy relies on the participation of residents. The program hosted by the League of Women Voters of Monmouth County is a part of their “Hot Topic Series.” The series provides information regarding non-partisan explorations of topics critical to the democracy.

Residents use the census to support community initiatives involving legislation and consumer advocacy, according to the Census Bureau. Local government officials use the census to ensure public safety and plan new schools and hospitals. Businesses decide where to build factories, offices, stores, which creates jobs. Real estate developers and city planners plan new homes and improve neighborhoods. To learn more about the Census and the history behind it, visit http://census.gov. The League of Women Voters was founded in 1920 by Carrie Chapman Catt during a convention of the National American Woman Suffrage Association in Chicago. The league was founded just six months before the 19th Amendment was ratified. The founders believed that the league should maintain a nonpartisan stance to protect from becoming mired in politics. The league is a political experiment designed to help 20 million enfranchised women carry out their responsibilities. The League of Women Voters is fully committed to diversity, equity and inclusion in principle and practice. They do not discriminate against gender, age, sexual orientation, culture, religion, and many others, according to their official website http://lwv.org. They support over 800 state and local Leagues in their work on league priority issues within the Campaign for Making Democracy work. The vision is to have a democracy where every person has the desire, the right, the knowledge, and the confidence to participate. Http://lwvwesternmonmouth.org, http://lwvgrba.org and http://lwvto.org are all websites you can visit to learn more information about the League and how you can get involved.”

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February 2020

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Around Town

Implications of the

2020 Census

| B y To n i A n n R o m e o

T

he League of Women Voters of Monmouth County hosted “Prepare to be Counted: The Implications of the 2020 Census,” on Sunday, January 12, 2020. The event took place at Temple Shalom Reform, 5 Ayrmont Lane, Aberdeen. The event featured guest lecturers: Alyssa Moreno, Civic Engagement Coordinator, League of Women Voters of New Jersey and Ian Hull, Deputy Regional Director New York Regional Census Center. The league’s census will occur in three phases: education, get out to count activities and watchdog reporting. Census day will take place in April 2020. Leagues help everyone get counted and work in complete count committees to bring to light the low-reporting areas. The leagues communicate where the additional support is needed. The Census takes place every 10 years and counts every resident in the United States, according to the United States Census Bureau. The first Census was taken in 1790. Census Bureau must build an accurate address list of every housing unit in order to get an accurate count. Originally the Census was used to tax or confiscate property into military service. The Census will require counting a growing and diverse population of around 330 million people in more than 140 million housing units. The Census is mandated by Article I, Section 2 of the Constitution. The research conducts in four areas including using the Internet to increase self-response, using existing government data sources to answer census questions and reduce follow-up workload, using existing maps and addresses to reflect changes rather than walking every block in all the neighborhoods in the country, and automating operations to increase productivity and reduce staff and offices. The Census determines how more than 675 billion dollars of federal funding gets distributed to states and communities every year, according to the Census Bureau. It impacts housing, education, transportation, employment, health care, and public policy. The accuracy relies on the participation of residents. The program hosted by the League of Women Voters of Monmouth County is a part of their “Hot Topic Series.” The series provides information regarding non-partisan explorations of topics critical to the democracy.

Residents use the census to support community initiatives involving legislation and consumer advocacy, according to the Census Bureau. Local government officials use the census to ensure public safety and plan new schools and hospitals. Businesses decide where to build factories, offices, stores, which creates jobs. Real estate developers and city planners plan new homes and improve neighborhoods. To learn more about the Census and the history behind it, visit http://census.gov. The League of Women Voters was founded in 1920 by Carrie Chapman Catt during a convention of the National American Woman Suffrage Association in Chicago. The league was founded just six months before the 19th Amendment was ratified. The founders believed that the league should maintain a nonpartisan stance to protect from becoming mired in politics. The league is a political experiment designed to help 20 million enfranchised women carry out their responsibilities. The League of Women Voters is fully committed to diversity, equity and inclusion in principle and practice. They do not discriminate against gender, age, sexual orientation, culture, religion, and many others, according to their official website http://lwv.org. They support over 800 state and local Leagues in their work on league priority issues within the Campaign for Making Democracy work. The vision is to have a democracy where every person has the desire, the right, the knowledge, and the confidence to participate. Http://lwvwesternmonmouth.org, http://lwvgrba.org and http://lwvto.org are all websites you can visit to learn more information about the League and how you can get involved.”

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Eschew the Ordinary, Choose the Bold 18

Coming to downtown Red Bank Hand-crafted artisinal ales and lagers Made with Monmouth County-grown ingredients Try our Navesink IPA, made with eight different varieties of hops and ruby red grapefruit! • Or our Shrewsbury Lager, it’s crisp, refreshing, and perfectly balanced! • Our beer is perfect for enjoying at the beach, on a boat, on a deck, or just about anywhere! • Stop by our tasting room to sample freshly-crafted beer and visit our gift shop

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Expert Contributor

Martial Arts

B y Je n n a S u y d a m , H e a d i n s t r u c to r o f Wo m a n C o m b at C lu b at Z e ph y r P e r f o r m a n c e Tr a i n i n g | P h oto C o u rt e s y o f Z e ph y r P e r f o r m a n c e Tr a i n i n g

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ates of female involvement in martial arts is rising and it’s not hard to see why. Martial arts offers incredible benefits to both men and women practitioners. However, those benefits may manifest differently between these two counterparts. Women may find their way into martial arts for various reasons, ranging anywhere from fitness to self-defense to community. These reasons not only draw women to begin practicing, but also aid in encouraging them to continue. Fitness

The fitness aspect of martial arts is challenging unlike any other exercise regime. It’s not uncommon to hear around the gym “I didn’t think I’d be this sore” from those new to the sport. Through an evolving, creative, and building curriculum, martial arts students gain physical strength, flexibility, and increased spatial awareness as well as mental benefits including confidence, assertiveness, and perseverance. A common adage heard in the world of martial arts is that one becomes “comfortable being uncomfortable,” thus allowing those who practice it to be both mentally and physically prepared for challenges they may face on and off the mats.

Around Town

Women in

ELFS lawn sign for family sponsors Green Level ($800) and above.

Community

The added bonus of training martial arts? The community built on the mats. This community is small and tight, forged by the shared experience of growing together throughout a martial artist’s journey. The type of bonds created by training together are ones that last a lifetime. You can’t help to get close with the people you train with, really quickly. I’m with my team day in and day out; they’re my family. Betsy Sullivan, a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu student at Zephyr Performance Training, offers this advice for women thinking about trying out a martial art, “If you can get over your own insecurities and be brave enough to suck at something new, it’s an incredible journey.”

By Allison Merchant | Images Courtesy of Kelly Oldroyd

ON THE FIRST NIGHT OF SPRING, get ready to celebrate a new planting season. This year we will be Planting Seeds of Knowledge with the EFLS at their 2020 annual big event. For the second consecutive year, dancing, drinking, and auctioning will be hosted at the Navesink Country Club. The event is set for FRIDAY, MARCH 20 and will once again host an array of items for auction. Funds will contribute to educational tools to Point Road and Markham Place schools. This year some of the exciting items on the auction block include a guitar played and autographed by Bruce Springsteen, an autographed U2 album, and a Masters flag signed by Tiger Woods and Bill Nicholson. Also some entertainment lined up for the evening will be music by DJ Mo Talent and an illusionist. Each year the EFLS sets out to raise funds in response to requests submitted by school administration and teachers. Grant approval and allocations are made in May. This year some of the things that have come in so far include a continuation of the one-to-one ratio with chromebooks for students and new courseware materials for the mathematics department. “[Little Silver’s Superintendent] Dr. Kossack has shared with us that when you combine the savings of both the lower school and middle school grant, we were able to save the district $168,000 in subscription fees over 5 years,” shared Kelly Oldroyd, President of EFLS. “However, our greatest success story in 2019 was the funding of a multiyear contract for new Social Studies courseware for grades K-4. Through this grant, ALL Little Silver students now have access to updated materials that remain relevant through the support of a consistently refreshed

Annual Fundraiser

Self-defense

Self-defense is an inherent part of martial arts and is often viewed as a contributing factor to women beginning a martial arts journey. Most selfdefense seminars offered are rooted in some form of martial arts. In learning a martial art, women not only reap all the physical and mental benefits, but also learn practical skills that could be employed in any confrontation if need be. Often, we see that women who train have an increased sense of confidence and assertiveness and can convey that. Evidence has shown that women who exude these traits, are much less likely to be targeted or ultimately victims.

3.20.2020

NAVESINK COUNTRY CLUB For ticket information, visit www.EFLS.org

o n l i n e subscription. When coupling this grant with the one made for the same program for grades 5-8 in 2018, your support has allowed the EFLS to save the district an estimated $168,000 in subscription fees.” These amazing strides in providing educational tools for the Little Silver School District are made possible with collaboration. “Something that has not been said enough is at the end of the day, people are saying it’s the EFLS that’s doing all this, but it’s not the EFLS, it’s the community,” Oldroyd said. “It’s our sponsors, our corporate and family sponsors. It’s the people that attend the event and bid on auction prizes or bid at home. We’re doing it together, the EFLS is just the implementers of these gifts but its the community at large thats providing them. I like to think that we’re really working on this together and we can’t do this without them.” For the 2019-2020 school year the EFLS also began implementing new sponsorship incentives for both businesses and families. Corporate sponsors now have the addition of a Business Guide. Fall 2019 EFLS worked with Silverweb Custom Web Systems to build a new easier to use website and one of the best new features is the Business Guide. All Blue Level ($500) and above sponsors are listed in the business guide. For family sponsors there is now a whole new sponsorship level. This year Green Level ($800) and above will receive a lawn sign to proudly display in the weeks leading up to the event acknowledging their high level of commitment to the EFLS and Little Silver schools. Also, all family sponsors will be invited to an ice cream social at the end of the school year to celebrate. “To our sponsors, a big thank you and congratulations of what we’ve done together and what we hope to continue to do together.”

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Expert Contributor

Martial Arts

B y Je n n a S u y d a m , H e a d i n s t r u c to r o f Wo m a n C o m b at C lu b at Z e ph y r P e r f o r m a n c e Tr a i n i n g | P h oto C o u rt e s y o f Z e ph y r P e r f o r m a n c e Tr a i n i n g

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ates of female involvement in martial arts is rising and it’s not hard to see why. Martial arts offers incredible benefits to both men and women practitioners. However, those benefits may manifest differently between these two counterparts. Women may find their way into martial arts for various reasons, ranging anywhere from fitness to self-defense to community. These reasons not only draw women to begin practicing, but also aid in encouraging them to continue. Fitness

The fitness aspect of martial arts is challenging unlike any other exercise regime. It’s not uncommon to hear around the gym “I didn’t think I’d be this sore” from those new to the sport. Through an evolving, creative, and building curriculum, martial arts students gain physical strength, flexibility, and increased spatial awareness as well as mental benefits including confidence, assertiveness, and perseverance. A common adage heard in the world of martial arts is that one becomes “comfortable being uncomfortable,” thus allowing those who practice it to be both mentally and physically prepared for challenges they may face on and off the mats.

Around Town

Women in

ELFS lawn sign for family sponsors Green Level ($800) and above.

Community

The added bonus of training martial arts? The community built on the mats. This community is small and tight, forged by the shared experience of growing together throughout a martial artist’s journey. The type of bonds created by training together are ones that last a lifetime. You can’t help to get close with the people you train with, really quickly. I’m with my team day in and day out; they’re my family. Betsy Sullivan, a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu student at Zephyr Performance Training, offers this advice for women thinking about trying out a martial art, “If you can get over your own insecurities and be brave enough to suck at something new, it’s an incredible journey.”

By Allison Merchant | Images Courtesy of Kelly Oldroyd

ON THE FIRST NIGHT OF SPRING, get ready to celebrate a new planting season. This year we will be Planting Seeds of Knowledge with the EFLS at their 2020 annual big event. For the second consecutive year, dancing, drinking, and auctioning will be hosted at the Navesink Country Club. The event is set for FRIDAY, MARCH 20 and will once again host an array of items for auction. Funds will contribute to educational tools to Point Road and Markham Place schools. This year some of the exciting items on the auction block include a guitar played and autographed by Bruce Springsteen, an autographed U2 album, and a Masters flag signed by Tiger Woods and Bill Nicholson. Also some entertainment lined up for the evening will be music by DJ Mo Talent and an illusionist. Each year the EFLS sets out to raise funds in response to requests submitted by school administration and teachers. Grant approval and allocations are made in May. This year some of the things that have come in so far include a continuation of the one-to-one ratio with chromebooks for students and new courseware materials for the mathematics department. “[Little Silver’s Superintendent] Dr. Kossack has shared with us that when you combine the savings of both the lower school and middle school grant, we were able to save the district $168,000 in subscription fees over 5 years,” shared Kelly Oldroyd, President of EFLS. “However, our greatest success story in 2019 was the funding of a multiyear contract for new Social Studies courseware for grades K-4. Through this grant, ALL Little Silver students now have access to updated materials that remain relevant through the support of a consistently refreshed

Annual Fundraiser

Self-defense

Self-defense is an inherent part of martial arts and is often viewed as a contributing factor to women beginning a martial arts journey. Most selfdefense seminars offered are rooted in some form of martial arts. In learning a martial art, women not only reap all the physical and mental benefits, but also learn practical skills that could be employed in any confrontation if need be. Often, we see that women who train have an increased sense of confidence and assertiveness and can convey that. Evidence has shown that women who exude these traits, are much less likely to be targeted or ultimately victims.

3.20.2020

NAVESINK COUNTRY CLUB For ticket information, visit www.EFLS.org

o n l i n e subscription. When coupling this grant with the one made for the same program for grades 5-8 in 2018, your support has allowed the EFLS to save the district an estimated $168,000 in subscription fees.” These amazing strides in providing educational tools for the Little Silver School District are made possible with collaboration. “Something that has not been said enough is at the end of the day, people are saying it’s the EFLS that’s doing all this, but it’s not the EFLS, it’s the community,” Oldroyd said. “It’s our sponsors, our corporate and family sponsors. It’s the people that attend the event and bid on auction prizes or bid at home. We’re doing it together, the EFLS is just the implementers of these gifts but its the community at large thats providing them. I like to think that we’re really working on this together and we can’t do this without them.” For the 2019-2020 school year the EFLS also began implementing new sponsorship incentives for both businesses and families. Corporate sponsors now have the addition of a Business Guide. Fall 2019 EFLS worked with Silverweb Custom Web Systems to build a new easier to use website and one of the best new features is the Business Guide. All Blue Level ($500) and above sponsors are listed in the business guide. For family sponsors there is now a whole new sponsorship level. This year Green Level ($800) and above will receive a lawn sign to proudly display in the weeks leading up to the event acknowledging their high level of commitment to the EFLS and Little Silver schools. Also, all family sponsors will be invited to an ice cream social at the end of the school year to celebrate. “To our sponsors, a big thank you and congratulations of what we’ve done together and what we hope to continue to do together.”

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Charity Spotlight

Charity Spotlight

Strong Stories and Healthy Hearts:

The Community of Parker Family Health Center

Bridging The Gap By Allison Merchant Photo Courtesy of KRF

By Allison Merchant P h oto b y Av e ry B r i g h to n Shine Bright Studios This article is a second installment of the Charity Spotlight about the Parker Family Health Center.

WE ARE ALL CONNECTED BY STORIES. Each person has a story to share, a story to hear, a story to evoke empathy. The humanity in each of us is drawn to these stories, melding people together into a community. The Parker Family Health Center (PFHC) opened in July 2000 in a converted trailer parked in an empty lot on Shrewsbury Avenue in Red Bank. The clinic staff saw three patients on that first summer night. Its mission was to provide free medical care for Monmouth County residents who were uninsured and had an annual income of 300% under the federal poverty income level. 20 years later, the PFHC still continues this work, serving as the primary healthcare provider for these patients. The Center enables uninsured patients to establish the routine relationship with a medical caregiver that insured patients enjoy with their primary physicians. The Center remains on the same Shrewsbury Avenue lot, now transformed into a stately red brick building with staff and volunteers ready to help. “We offer a lot of services,” said Mary Nicosia, Parker Family Health Center’s Clinic Director. “We have primary care and we have about nine specialists on a regular basis. We’re like a little ambulatory care facility. We need more space because we’ve really outgrown our space. As an example, we have one room that we use for four different functions. And our small lunchroom also serves as the interpreters waiting room. The PFHC is always looking for ways to grow and better serve its community. A small core staff is supported by more than 100 volunteer physicians, nurses, and interpreters. There is always a need for more help. Centrally located in Red Bank, PFHC provides healthcare for all the surrounding towns and communities in Monmouth County. Some people question the benefit of supporting such a facility. “I’ll give you a reason why a person in Rumson or Little Silver should care about PFHC and the West Side of Red Bank,” said Dr. Eugene Cheslock. “Say they 22

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Seated (center): Carmen Phaneuf, APN, PFHC staff. Standing, from left to right: Dr. Tim Sullivan, PFHC Board member, Kelli O’Brien, PFHC Board member and Chief Hospital Executive, Riverview Medical Center, Kathy Pouso, RN, BSN, PFHC Board member and Director of Patient Care Services, Riverview Medical Center, Dr. Eugene Cheslock, PFHC Founder, Past President, and Board memberGina Petillo, PFHC Board Co-Chair. All are residents of Little Silver and are critical to the success of the PFHC.

[patients] pick up a case of hepatitis or pick up a case of tuberculosis. There’s an impact from that on the whole community, because these folks serve and work in Shrewsbury, Rumson, Little Silver, Lincroft, Navesink, and beyond.” “There’s no one that’s immune to others’ illness,” added Dr. Tim Sullivan. “The other thing is, we’re a safety net. When the economy took a downturn in 2008 and a lot of people lost their jobs, our patient numbers spiked. Then, as the economy recovered, people got back to work and they had insurance again; but we were the safety net. We could provide the coverage and the prescriptions to renew the medications that otherwise they would have had a real hard time with.” There are also many patients that come to PFHC after being discharged from Riverview Medical Center. “We have a very good relationship with Riverview Medical Center,” explained Nicosia. “Sometimes a patient without insurance finds themselves in a terrible situation,” elaborated Nicosia. “Maybe they suffer a heart attack and have nowhere to go once they leave the hospital. They can come to Parker. Other times a patient may have lost a job and their health insurance. Their blood sugar goes way up, and they can’t afford their medication. These people become our patients.” The Center also receives many patients from Bayshore Hospital in Holmdel and even Monmouth Medical in Long Branch. Through word of mouth, people travel to PFHC because of its emphasis on the transitional care from an urgent center. The hospitals recognize the importance of PFHC and its work throughout the county. “If we’re going to continue to maintain the care we provide, we need involvement from local families and local businesses that are willing to believe in our mission and are willing to support us,” said Sullivan. “2020 will be our 20th

anniversary. We want to use this anniversary, hopefully, to increase the public’s awareness. We’re hoping our anniversary year will increase the fundraising that we need to stay in business.” Cheslock added, “I think also for the donors in the communities surrounding us and within Red Bank: you can see your money at work every day. You want to come over here, visit, and see your thousand-dollar donation at work. You have access to your point of giving. Secondly, Parker (PFHC) being here elevates the standard of living in this community, because it says that even if you don’t have health insurance, you have access to it. And that in itself raises the standard of living. And by a person in Sea Bright giving to Parker, they’re elevating the standard of living in this neighborhood in general. Because the less fortunate folks are getting the same care as they are, ensuring better health throughout the community.” The care and dedication of each staff member and volunteer at the center is seen each day. It truly serves as the heart of the community. When PFHC opened its doors in 2000, people from different backgrounds flocked to the center because of memories about the Parkers, Senior and Junior, on the West Side. “Italians, black, and others lived in harmony,” said Cheslock. “One lady came in and she said, ‘I have to tell you a story about Dr. Parker, Sr.’ She said, ‘My father went off to service for four years in the Navy during the second World War. My mother had three children; we essentially had little or no income except the check that came from the Navy department.’ And she said, ‘I went in to Dr. Parker and told him, ‘I really don’t have the money to afford the care for myself and the three children.’ Dr. Parker said to her, ‘Your husband’s service is the payment.’ Stories like that come up and it makes you appreciate how Little Silver Neighbors

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we are all one. Should all be one. And what service they [the Parkers] provided for this community, regardless of color, creed, or whatever.” Sullivan added his own story. “One day my wife got a call at home from a patient that I had diagnosed with cancer. We had referred him to UMDNJ and he had the surgery. He called to thank me for saving his life. This is why I love to volunteer at Parker.” PFHC truly operates as a family unit. It all comes down to treating the patient with care and kindness. There are circumstances, obstacles, and sudden changes that challenge everyday life. The team at PFHC understands this and helps support and give life a push back. “We have a little boy who has Down Syndrome. He’s from Mexico,” said Nicosia. We know he’s had some cardiac issues, and we’re taking care of him. He’s seen a pediatrician here, we’re taking care of everything, and we were recently asked to write a letter to try and keep him here in this country. If he goes back to Mexico, he won’t get the care that he needs like he receives here. We have several stories like that.” “Here’s another case,” added Cheslock. “A 61-year-old lady, divorced, ugly divorce. Now without insurance and working two or three jobs to make a go of it. Where does she go? She’s found her way to Parker. And the most rewarding case we have is a case like that. That we care for her until she finds good employment or self-reliance out there and leaves us.” “Those are the ultimate cases for us, the transitional care, which we think that’s what we’re supposed to be doing. Not be a permanent home. Maybe yes if all the stars don’t align right, but a temporary home until you can get on your feet. And in that temporary time, we’re giving you the best care you can get anywhere.” The Parker Family Health Center is located at 211 Shrewsbury Avenue in Red Bank, NJ. The Center is open Monday through Friday as well as Saturday mornings. Additional information about the Center can be found at: www.parkerfamilyhealthcenter.org or call (732) 212-0777.

February 2020

On Jan 4, the Kortney Rose Foundation (KRF) announced that its 2019 annual donation to fund research for pediatric brain tumors totaled $166,500, an increase of nearly 15% over last year. This is KRF’s thirteenth annual donation to the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP), made in memory of nine-year-old Kortney Rose Gillette, who died of a brain tumor in 2006. “We’re truly grateful to our many donors, volunteers, and corporate partners who helped us set fundraising records this year,” said Kristen Gillette, Founder and Executive Director. “This incredible support enables KRF to continue making significant and impactful annual donations to accelerate the changes needed in the underfunded pediatric brain tumor space.” This year KRF was recognized by the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia for “bridging the gap in brain tumor research funding in honor of Kortney Rose Gillette.” This was inscribed on a plaque installed on the bridge connecting the lobby of CHOP’s main hospital to the children’s oncology floor. Mark your calendars for this year’s “Great Food for a Great Cause” fundraiser taking place at all Turning Point Restaurant locations on Saturday, February 29 and Sunday, March 1.

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Charity Spotlight

Charity Spotlight

Strong Stories and Healthy Hearts:

The Community of Parker Family Health Center

Bridging The Gap By Allison Merchant Photo Courtesy of KRF

By Allison Merchant P h oto b y Av e ry B r i g h to n Shine Bright Studios This article is a second installment of the Charity Spotlight about the Parker Family Health Center.

WE ARE ALL CONNECTED BY STORIES. Each person has a story to share, a story to hear, a story to evoke empathy. The humanity in each of us is drawn to these stories, melding people together into a community. The Parker Family Health Center (PFHC) opened in July 2000 in a converted trailer parked in an empty lot on Shrewsbury Avenue in Red Bank. The clinic staff saw three patients on that first summer night. Its mission was to provide free medical care for Monmouth County residents who were uninsured and had an annual income of 300% under the federal poverty income level. 20 years later, the PFHC still continues this work, serving as the primary healthcare provider for these patients. The Center enables uninsured patients to establish the routine relationship with a medical caregiver that insured patients enjoy with their primary physicians. The Center remains on the same Shrewsbury Avenue lot, now transformed into a stately red brick building with staff and volunteers ready to help. “We offer a lot of services,” said Mary Nicosia, Parker Family Health Center’s Clinic Director. “We have primary care and we have about nine specialists on a regular basis. We’re like a little ambulatory care facility. We need more space because we’ve really outgrown our space. As an example, we have one room that we use for four different functions. And our small lunchroom also serves as the interpreters waiting room. The PFHC is always looking for ways to grow and better serve its community. A small core staff is supported by more than 100 volunteer physicians, nurses, and interpreters. There is always a need for more help. Centrally located in Red Bank, PFHC provides healthcare for all the surrounding towns and communities in Monmouth County. Some people question the benefit of supporting such a facility. “I’ll give you a reason why a person in Rumson or Little Silver should care about PFHC and the West Side of Red Bank,” said Dr. Eugene Cheslock. “Say they 22

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Seated (center): Carmen Phaneuf, APN, PFHC staff. Standing, from left to right: Dr. Tim Sullivan, PFHC Board member, Kelli O’Brien, PFHC Board member and Chief Hospital Executive, Riverview Medical Center, Kathy Pouso, RN, BSN, PFHC Board member and Director of Patient Care Services, Riverview Medical Center, Dr. Eugene Cheslock, PFHC Founder, Past President, and Board memberGina Petillo, PFHC Board Co-Chair. All are residents of Little Silver and are critical to the success of the PFHC.

[patients] pick up a case of hepatitis or pick up a case of tuberculosis. There’s an impact from that on the whole community, because these folks serve and work in Shrewsbury, Rumson, Little Silver, Lincroft, Navesink, and beyond.” “There’s no one that’s immune to others’ illness,” added Dr. Tim Sullivan. “The other thing is, we’re a safety net. When the economy took a downturn in 2008 and a lot of people lost their jobs, our patient numbers spiked. Then, as the economy recovered, people got back to work and they had insurance again; but we were the safety net. We could provide the coverage and the prescriptions to renew the medications that otherwise they would have had a real hard time with.” There are also many patients that come to PFHC after being discharged from Riverview Medical Center. “We have a very good relationship with Riverview Medical Center,” explained Nicosia. “Sometimes a patient without insurance finds themselves in a terrible situation,” elaborated Nicosia. “Maybe they suffer a heart attack and have nowhere to go once they leave the hospital. They can come to Parker. Other times a patient may have lost a job and their health insurance. Their blood sugar goes way up, and they can’t afford their medication. These people become our patients.” The Center also receives many patients from Bayshore Hospital in Holmdel and even Monmouth Medical in Long Branch. Through word of mouth, people travel to PFHC because of its emphasis on the transitional care from an urgent center. The hospitals recognize the importance of PFHC and its work throughout the county. “If we’re going to continue to maintain the care we provide, we need involvement from local families and local businesses that are willing to believe in our mission and are willing to support us,” said Sullivan. “2020 will be our 20th

anniversary. We want to use this anniversary, hopefully, to increase the public’s awareness. We’re hoping our anniversary year will increase the fundraising that we need to stay in business.” Cheslock added, “I think also for the donors in the communities surrounding us and within Red Bank: you can see your money at work every day. You want to come over here, visit, and see your thousand-dollar donation at work. You have access to your point of giving. Secondly, Parker (PFHC) being here elevates the standard of living in this community, because it says that even if you don’t have health insurance, you have access to it. And that in itself raises the standard of living. And by a person in Sea Bright giving to Parker, they’re elevating the standard of living in this neighborhood in general. Because the less fortunate folks are getting the same care as they are, ensuring better health throughout the community.” The care and dedication of each staff member and volunteer at the center is seen each day. It truly serves as the heart of the community. When PFHC opened its doors in 2000, people from different backgrounds flocked to the center because of memories about the Parkers, Senior and Junior, on the West Side. “Italians, black, and others lived in harmony,” said Cheslock. “One lady came in and she said, ‘I have to tell you a story about Dr. Parker, Sr.’ She said, ‘My father went off to service for four years in the Navy during the second World War. My mother had three children; we essentially had little or no income except the check that came from the Navy department.’ And she said, ‘I went in to Dr. Parker and told him, ‘I really don’t have the money to afford the care for myself and the three children.’ Dr. Parker said to her, ‘Your husband’s service is the payment.’ Stories like that come up and it makes you appreciate how Little Silver Neighbors

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we are all one. Should all be one. And what service they [the Parkers] provided for this community, regardless of color, creed, or whatever.” Sullivan added his own story. “One day my wife got a call at home from a patient that I had diagnosed with cancer. We had referred him to UMDNJ and he had the surgery. He called to thank me for saving his life. This is why I love to volunteer at Parker.” PFHC truly operates as a family unit. It all comes down to treating the patient with care and kindness. There are circumstances, obstacles, and sudden changes that challenge everyday life. The team at PFHC understands this and helps support and give life a push back. “We have a little boy who has Down Syndrome. He’s from Mexico,” said Nicosia. We know he’s had some cardiac issues, and we’re taking care of him. He’s seen a pediatrician here, we’re taking care of everything, and we were recently asked to write a letter to try and keep him here in this country. If he goes back to Mexico, he won’t get the care that he needs like he receives here. We have several stories like that.” “Here’s another case,” added Cheslock. “A 61-year-old lady, divorced, ugly divorce. Now without insurance and working two or three jobs to make a go of it. Where does she go? She’s found her way to Parker. And the most rewarding case we have is a case like that. That we care for her until she finds good employment or self-reliance out there and leaves us.” “Those are the ultimate cases for us, the transitional care, which we think that’s what we’re supposed to be doing. Not be a permanent home. Maybe yes if all the stars don’t align right, but a temporary home until you can get on your feet. And in that temporary time, we’re giving you the best care you can get anywhere.” The Parker Family Health Center is located at 211 Shrewsbury Avenue in Red Bank, NJ. The Center is open Monday through Friday as well as Saturday mornings. Additional information about the Center can be found at: www.parkerfamilyhealthcenter.org or call (732) 212-0777.

February 2020

On Jan 4, the Kortney Rose Foundation (KRF) announced that its 2019 annual donation to fund research for pediatric brain tumors totaled $166,500, an increase of nearly 15% over last year. This is KRF’s thirteenth annual donation to the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP), made in memory of nine-year-old Kortney Rose Gillette, who died of a brain tumor in 2006. “We’re truly grateful to our many donors, volunteers, and corporate partners who helped us set fundraising records this year,” said Kristen Gillette, Founder and Executive Director. “This incredible support enables KRF to continue making significant and impactful annual donations to accelerate the changes needed in the underfunded pediatric brain tumor space.” This year KRF was recognized by the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia for “bridging the gap in brain tumor research funding in honor of Kortney Rose Gillette.” This was inscribed on a plaque installed on the bridge connecting the lobby of CHOP’s main hospital to the children’s oncology floor. Mark your calendars for this year’s “Great Food for a Great Cause” fundraiser taking place at all Turning Point Restaurant locations on Saturday, February 29 and Sunday, March 1.

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Join us for a STRESS MANAGEMENT FUN-SHOP! Featuring ROSEMARIE POVERMAN, LCSW

“Clinical Edutainer” specializing in humor as self-empowerment

Wednesday, February 19th- 2:00 PM Light refreshments served RSVP by Feb. 17th to 732-747-7540 We’ll see you at

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5 | MIKE | JUNE 17, 2002 “I hated seventh grade!” Mike smiled as he sat down with Patrick. “I’m so glad it’s over.” “Don’t get too comfortable,” Patrick laughed. “We have eighth grade, which I hear is worse.” “Joy,” Mike groaned. “Anything’s better than home right now.” “How come?” “Mom and Dad are arguing,” Mike shook his head. Patrick sighed. “Again?” “I know. Ever since we moved, I’ve heard nothing but yelling.” Mike looked at his friend who gave him nothing but a look of pity. He never heard anything wrong with Patrick’s parents, but he was sure they got along better than his own. Mike heard his parents yelling at each other so much, he forgot what their normal voices sounded like. “Don’t be too hard on yourself,” Patrick playfully punched his friend. “You have your brother. I wish I had one to talk to when I’m down.” “We never get along,” said Mike. “Never.” “I know,” said Patrick. “but you guys should still talk to each other.” “The few times you’ve met him were the worst of the times I spent with you.” “He wasn’t too bad,” Patrick tried to think of the few times James was tolerable, but Mike knew that even Patrick was lying. “Are we talking about the same James?” Mike snickered. “James Fallon? My brother? The one who calls us fairies or fruits every time we talked to each other in front of him.” “That’s his problem,” Patrick laughed. “He doesn’t have a special bond like we do. He should get his own friend and see how good it is.” “The few times he hung with us was too much,” Mike groaned, remembering each word the two spoke to each other and mockingly repeating them at dinner or on the school bus. “Way too much.” “Well,” Patrick tried to lighten the mood. “if he’s no help with you, I’ll be.” 6 | PATRICK “I really can’t stand children sometimes,” I blurt out. I usually never say something like this, but it’s been getting worse with Olivia, and therefore, worse with me. “Don’t say something you might regret,” Jo tries to get me to sit with her on the couch, but it’s not really working. “I’ll worry about that later,” I say. She sighs. “Just sit down.” I do. Whatever Emmett wants Saturday is what I’m giving him. It doesn’t matter what I have done. He wants it Saturday? Fine. I’ll give him what I can. “How about this?” Jo moves closer towards me. “I’ll take time off of work and let you write the rest of your book.” “You sure?” “Believe me,” she says. “I would love to take off and help. I can’t let you go through all of this on your own.” “You just want time off from work, don’t you?” She smiles. “Yeah.” “Olivia’s probably going to be the same as twenty kindergartners.” “Just start writing,” she laughs. Sitting at the computer thinking you have everything makes you realize you really have nothing. With plotting and writing down the scenes I know, I realize I have nothing in between. Whatever I want my characters to do doesn’t work with the rest of the next draft. Soon enough, I just start improvising. 24

It’s all just a blank screen to me. Everything I type just becomes the same word and I can hardly entertain myself with the idea. I type one word, then backspace. Then another word, then backspace again. As of right now, I’m annoyed with my characters. My married couple is less in love and more into arguing with each other constantly. I know I have to edit more, but why make more out of it? “This is great,” I tell myself. “Just great.” I’m almost about to pass out when I keep thinking of inspirational quotes. That usually helps me in terms of writer’s block, but alas, it doesn’t. I hear Jo tending towards Olivia. Once a sweet little girl, now becoming a little brat. Jo’s right. I do regret saying that. I can’t blame stress on my kid. She is, after all, just a kid. I have to try and be sympathetic. But I also have to lay down the law sometimes. Then I hear yelling and my annoyance returns. I go upstairs and see Olivia under the covers while Jo is trying to remove them and not drop the spoon filled with medicine. “Alright,” I raise my voice. “Olivia. Out.” She surprisingly does what I say. “Take your medicine like Mommy wants,” I try to keep my demanding tone, but it doesn’t work clearly. “No!” she yells and stuffs herself back into her covers. I’ve had enough and walk to her bed. “Olivia,” I raise my tone again. “If you don’t get out of those covers, I will rip them off from you!” “Patrick!” Jo clenches her teeth at me. “What are you doing?” “I have to do this,” I look at her. “Someone has to.” “This is not the way,” she whispers, as if Olivia can’t hear it. “I’m doing this my way now,” I snap. “Your way is not working.” After attempting to get the covers off, Olivia obeys and says, “I’m feeling better now.” “Does that mean you can go to school?” She nods before reluctantly taking the medicine and leaving the bed, finally. Without hesitation, Jo grabs my arm and drags me to our room. “What were you thinking?” she yells after shutting the door. “What do you mean?” I can hardly believe her. “It worked!” “Scaring our kid? Yeah, it definitely worked.” “That’s exactly how I was raised,” I look at her in disgust. “You baby her! That is why she’s like that!” She shakes her head. “You are ridiculous. I don’t want our baby scared of us.” “And that is how she takes advantage of us!” “You know what?” she hands me my pillow from our bed. “You’re sleeping on the couch tonight.” I stare at her in complete and utter disbelief for a good minute, throw the pillow back, and walk out the door.

B y L S N Te a m

Little Silver Neighbors is seeing 2020! Reminisce with us and the first year of the magazine with our families then and where they are now. “Love every day as if it were your last,” said Leigh Genkinger. “As a family, we love making each other laugh. Every single one of us has their own sense of humor, which keeps us constantly laughing.” This month catchup with the Genkinger Family! Little Silver Neighbors, June 2018 Edition M o n t h ly C o m i c a l C o m m e n ta ry

Photo by Erica Hawxhurst, Emersen Rose Photography

|

Now

By Brian Meulener

“LITTLE SLIVER”

DO YOU SUFFER FROM ARTHRITIS PAIN? CHRONIC LIGAMENT OR TENDON INJURIES? SPORTS INJURIES?

DON’T OPERATE...

REGENERATE!!

My Old Friend is told in two different perspectives about a man named Patrick Egan who is a successful author, married, has a daughter, while one day he reads that Mike Fallon had escaped from jail after eleven years of being locked up due to an attempted murder. Now Patrick has paranoia that gets in the way of his whole life, knowing he has one objective now: He has to survive before everything gets out.

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To read the beginning chapters, see the past October 2019 and January 2020 Editions of Little Silver Neighbors

Little Silver Neighbors

Then Photo By Danny D of DeLucia Digital

Creative Reads

By Justin Campana

Seeing 2020

Looking Back

An Excerpt from My Old Friend

February 2020

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5 | MIKE | JUNE 17, 2002 “I hated seventh grade!” Mike smiled as he sat down with Patrick. “I’m so glad it’s over.” “Don’t get too comfortable,” Patrick laughed. “We have eighth grade, which I hear is worse.” “Joy,” Mike groaned. “Anything’s better than home right now.” “How come?” “Mom and Dad are arguing,” Mike shook his head. Patrick sighed. “Again?” “I know. Ever since we moved, I’ve heard nothing but yelling.” Mike looked at his friend who gave him nothing but a look of pity. He never heard anything wrong with Patrick’s parents, but he was sure they got along better than his own. Mike heard his parents yelling at each other so much, he forgot what their normal voices sounded like. “Don’t be too hard on yourself,” Patrick playfully punched his friend. “You have your brother. I wish I had one to talk to when I’m down.” “We never get along,” said Mike. “Never.” “I know,” said Patrick. “but you guys should still talk to each other.” “The few times you’ve met him were the worst of the times I spent with you.” “He wasn’t too bad,” Patrick tried to think of the few times James was tolerable, but Mike knew that even Patrick was lying. “Are we talking about the same James?” Mike snickered. “James Fallon? My brother? The one who calls us fairies or fruits every time we talked to each other in front of him.” “That’s his problem,” Patrick laughed. “He doesn’t have a special bond like we do. He should get his own friend and see how good it is.” “The few times he hung with us was too much,” Mike groaned, remembering each word the two spoke to each other and mockingly repeating them at dinner or on the school bus. “Way too much.” “Well,” Patrick tried to lighten the mood. “if he’s no help with you, I’ll be.” 6 | PATRICK “I really can’t stand children sometimes,” I blurt out. I usually never say something like this, but it’s been getting worse with Olivia, and therefore, worse with me. “Don’t say something you might regret,” Jo tries to get me to sit with her on the couch, but it’s not really working. “I’ll worry about that later,” I say. She sighs. “Just sit down.” I do. Whatever Emmett wants Saturday is what I’m giving him. It doesn’t matter what I have done. He wants it Saturday? Fine. I’ll give him what I can. “How about this?” Jo moves closer towards me. “I’ll take time off of work and let you write the rest of your book.” “You sure?” “Believe me,” she says. “I would love to take off and help. I can’t let you go through all of this on your own.” “You just want time off from work, don’t you?” She smiles. “Yeah.” “Olivia’s probably going to be the same as twenty kindergartners.” “Just start writing,” she laughs. Sitting at the computer thinking you have everything makes you realize you really have nothing. With plotting and writing down the scenes I know, I realize I have nothing in between. Whatever I want my characters to do doesn’t work with the rest of the next draft. Soon enough, I just start improvising. 24

It’s all just a blank screen to me. Everything I type just becomes the same word and I can hardly entertain myself with the idea. I type one word, then backspace. Then another word, then backspace again. As of right now, I’m annoyed with my characters. My married couple is less in love and more into arguing with each other constantly. I know I have to edit more, but why make more out of it? “This is great,” I tell myself. “Just great.” I’m almost about to pass out when I keep thinking of inspirational quotes. That usually helps me in terms of writer’s block, but alas, it doesn’t. I hear Jo tending towards Olivia. Once a sweet little girl, now becoming a little brat. Jo’s right. I do regret saying that. I can’t blame stress on my kid. She is, after all, just a kid. I have to try and be sympathetic. But I also have to lay down the law sometimes. Then I hear yelling and my annoyance returns. I go upstairs and see Olivia under the covers while Jo is trying to remove them and not drop the spoon filled with medicine. “Alright,” I raise my voice. “Olivia. Out.” She surprisingly does what I say. “Take your medicine like Mommy wants,” I try to keep my demanding tone, but it doesn’t work clearly. “No!” she yells and stuffs herself back into her covers. I’ve had enough and walk to her bed. “Olivia,” I raise my tone again. “If you don’t get out of those covers, I will rip them off from you!” “Patrick!” Jo clenches her teeth at me. “What are you doing?” “I have to do this,” I look at her. “Someone has to.” “This is not the way,” she whispers, as if Olivia can’t hear it. “I’m doing this my way now,” I snap. “Your way is not working.” After attempting to get the covers off, Olivia obeys and says, “I’m feeling better now.” “Does that mean you can go to school?” She nods before reluctantly taking the medicine and leaving the bed, finally. Without hesitation, Jo grabs my arm and drags me to our room. “What were you thinking?” she yells after shutting the door. “What do you mean?” I can hardly believe her. “It worked!” “Scaring our kid? Yeah, it definitely worked.” “That’s exactly how I was raised,” I look at her in disgust. “You baby her! That is why she’s like that!” She shakes her head. “You are ridiculous. I don’t want our baby scared of us.” “And that is how she takes advantage of us!” “You know what?” she hands me my pillow from our bed. “You’re sleeping on the couch tonight.” I stare at her in complete and utter disbelief for a good minute, throw the pillow back, and walk out the door.

B y L S N Te a m

Little Silver Neighbors is seeing 2020! Reminisce with us and the first year of the magazine with our families then and where they are now. “Love every day as if it were your last,” said Leigh Genkinger. “As a family, we love making each other laugh. Every single one of us has their own sense of humor, which keeps us constantly laughing.” This month catchup with the Genkinger Family! Little Silver Neighbors, June 2018 Edition M o n t h ly C o m i c a l C o m m e n ta ry

Photo by Erica Hawxhurst, Emersen Rose Photography

|

Now

By Brian Meulener

“LITTLE SLIVER”

DO YOU SUFFER FROM ARTHRITIS PAIN? CHRONIC LIGAMENT OR TENDON INJURIES? SPORTS INJURIES?

DON’T OPERATE...

REGENERATE!!

My Old Friend is told in two different perspectives about a man named Patrick Egan who is a successful author, married, has a daughter, while one day he reads that Mike Fallon had escaped from jail after eleven years of being locked up due to an attempted murder. Now Patrick has paranoia that gets in the way of his whole life, knowing he has one objective now: He has to survive before everything gets out.

55 N GILBERT ST SUITE 1101 TINTON FALLS, NJ 07701 (732) 385-APEX(2739) www.apexsportsnj.com

To read the beginning chapters, see the past October 2019 and January 2020 Editions of Little Silver Neighbors

Little Silver Neighbors

Then Photo By Danny D of DeLucia Digital

Creative Reads

By Justin Campana

Seeing 2020

Looking Back

An Excerpt from My Old Friend

February 2020

25


Town News

Little Silver Environmental Commission By Bonnie Akey LITTLE SILVER ENVIRONMENTAL DAY is SATURDAY, MARCH 21 from 9am - 1pm at the Little Silver Woman’s Club. Hosted by the Environmental Commission, the event will consist of electronic recycling (anything with a plug), gently-used clothing upcycling, and a paper shredding truck in the parking lot. There will be a composting workshop and Composters for sale at greatly reduced (county subsidized) cost. If you would like to order a Composter (Earth Machine), notify Bonnie Akey at BonW@aol.com. There will also be many interesting activities inside the Woman’s Club. Please come out and join in the fun at Little Silver Environmental Day.

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Team By Allison Merchant THE MONMOUTH UNIVERSITY MEN’S TENNIS TEAM is beginning their 2020 Spring season. Assistant Coach Michael Schwartz spoke to Little Silver Neighbors about the team’s excitement to return to Little Silver and the welcoming community. “Last year we had 18 wins and two losses, the best winning percentage in the NCAA,” Schwartz said. “We’ve been Conference Champions for four consective years, remaining undefeated for three of those years. The team is looking forward to continuing that record.” 2019 was the first year the team held their indoor matches at the Little Silver Tennis Club, in Little Silver.

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The togetherness of the town is really what makes this court home for the team. It allows the players to interact with neighbors, friends, and become role models for kids in the community. This year’s team includes Head Coach Chris Leicht, Max Benaim (senior), Gabriel Busato (freshman), Will Cooke Wharton (junior), Charles Gortzounian (junior), Austin Klapman (sophomore), Sergio Martinez (senior), Sasha Pachnev (sophomore), and Christof Zeiler (freshman). Join the Hawks for their first home match on Sunday, February 1 at 3pm against the La Salle Explorers.

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Little Silver Environmental Commission By Bonnie Akey LITTLE SILVER ENVIRONMENTAL DAY is SATURDAY, MARCH 21 from 9am - 1pm at the Little Silver Woman’s Club. Hosted by the Environmental Commission, the event will consist of electronic recycling (anything with a plug), gently-used clothing upcycling, and a paper shredding truck in the parking lot. There will be a composting workshop and Composters for sale at greatly reduced (county subsidized) cost. If you would like to order a Composter (Earth Machine), notify Bonnie Akey at BonW@aol.com. There will also be many interesting activities inside the Woman’s Club. Please come out and join in the fun at Little Silver Environmental Day.

Monmouth University Men’s Tennis Team By Allison Merchant THE MONMOUTH UNIVERSITY MEN’S TENNIS TEAM is beginning their 2020 Spring season. Assistant Coach Michael Schwartz spoke to Little Silver Neighbors about the team’s excitement to return to Little Silver and the welcoming community. “Last year we had 18 wins and two losses, the best winning percentage in the NCAA,” Schwartz said. “We’ve been Conference Champions for four consective years, remaining undefeated for three of those years. The team is looking forward to continuing that record.” 2019 was the first year the team held their indoor matches at the Little Silver Tennis Club, in Little Silver.

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February 2020

The togetherness of the town is really what makes this court home for the team. It allows the players to interact with neighbors, friends, and become role models for kids in the community. This year’s team includes Head Coach Chris Leicht, Max Benaim (senior), Gabriel Busato (freshman), Will Cooke Wharton (junior), Charles Gortzounian (junior), Austin Klapman (sophomore), Sergio Martinez (senior), Sasha Pachnev (sophomore), and Christof Zeiler (freshman). Join the Hawks for their first home match on Sunday, February 1 at 3pm against the La Salle Explorers.

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D AV I D V. L O P E Z , M D Orthopaedic & Sports Medicine Specialists, Inc. ASSISTANT PROFESSOR - DEPARTMENT OF ORTHOPEDIC SURGERY, THE SETON HALL - HACKENSACK MERIDIAN SCHOOL OF MEDICINE

FROM ACL RECONSTRUCTIONS TO MUSCLE-SPARING APPROACHES TO hip replacements, Dr. David V. Lopez of Orthopaedic & Sports Medicine Specialists in Little Silver provides unparalleled services. With patients ranging from little league athletes to weekend warriors, he prides himself on utilizing minimally invasive surgeries to help speed recovery time for all of them.

An expert in sports medicine, Dr. Lopez has contributed articles to several top-tier medical journals and a book entitled Field Guide to Fracture Management. His dedication drives him to always stay up to date on the current trends and implements the most beneficial tools and techniques into his everyday practice.

200 White Road, Suite 101 Little Silver, NJ 07739 732-888-2100 • LopezOrtho.com NEW LOCATIONS: 77-55 Schanck Road Suite B-9 Freehold, NJ 07728 3840 Park Avenue Building A-Suite 101, Edison, NJ 08820


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