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Contents

MAIN FEATURES 67 FALL IN LOVE WITH WINTER Take advantage of out of season weddings and make big savings.

122 101 TOP TIPS We asked our brides-to-be for their own tips to help you when planning your wedding.

132 A-Z OF WEDDINGS Tips and advice from A-Z.

GET THE LOOK 12 WEDDING DRESSES Beautiful gowns in every style!

28 BEST FOOT FORWARD Wedding shoes to ensure you look great from top to toe.

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PLANNING 34 CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE Legalities and Christianity in your Wedding.

36 RECEPTIONS Hosting the perfect party after your ceremony.

80 TABLE IDEAS Finishing touches and beautiful favours for your reception.

94 WEDDING FAIRS Wedding fairs near you.

THE ESSENTIALS 96 THE MEN Advice for nervous grooms and anxious Best Men! 100 PHOTOGRAPHY ADVICE Help to get the shots you’ll treasure for life.

104 PICTURE PERFECT What to ask your photographer, and our top 10 must-capture wedding shots.

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114 VideOgrapHy an essential way to make sure you capture every moment of your day.

116 transpOrt arriving in style on your special day.

138 BridaL Hair styles to suit every bride.

141 Make-up Bridal make-up tips to ensure you look good and feel great.

142 FLOWers Beautiful floral designs that are delightfully different.

144 Cakes think differently and ensure your cake looks and tastes great.

150 jeWeLLery Wedding rings you’ll both treasure forever.

152 entertainMent keeping young and older guests alike entertained.

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DRESSES

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Wedding

Dresses Find the wedding gown of your dreams with pages and pages of beautiful dresses from leading european designers...

When choosing your dress, don’t shop blind… do your research on our wedding dress pages and on sites like www.ukbride.co.uk, which has a searchable library of thousands of wedding dresses. Have a rough idea of what you’re looking for but be willing to deviate – a dress that looks great on a magazine model may not suit if you’ve a different stature, bust or complexion.

Style Guide: Empire Line: also known as princess line; a long line makes brides appear taller. good for covering up wider hips and balancing a larger bust.

A-Line: Like an empire Line dress but with a tighter bodice.

Fuller figured brides may want to avoid this style.

Column Dress: Works well with more petite figures.

Mermaid Dress: also known as Fishtail dresses; similar to column gowns but wider from the knee. a good option for those with small busts. n don’t take an entourage wedding dress shopping several friends and mums will inevitably like different dresses – one friend whom you can trust to give you honest feedback should be enough! n ensure your budget takes account of alterations and never buy a smaller dress that you intend to slim into.

Choose a gown that flatters your body. n practise walking not only in your bridal shoes but your dress too, and use sandpaper to slightly scuff the soles of your shoes to provide good grip.

This beautiful wedding dress is Peony from Stephanie Allin Couture stephanie allin is a top uk fashion designer in bridal, occasion and evening wear. stephanie is renowned for her exquisite use of the most luxurious fabrics which she individually hand picks every season. Best loved for her attention to detail, femininity and impeccable fit, stephanie has been making couture award winning dresses for over 20 years. Her wealth of experience is encapsulated in each dress, individually handmade in her workroom in Wales. “My style is all about great structure and fit and designing dresses with a freedom that encompasses fashion and a client’s individuality.”

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DRESSES

‘a’ line gown from sweetheart Bridal. www.sweetheartgowns.com >> a trio of shorter wedding dresses from Linea rafaelli, phil Collins Bridal and justin alexander. www.linearaffaelli.be www.philcollinsbridal.co.uk www.justinalexanderbridal.com

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Veromia; style 61362...

Veromia’s wedding dress designer is jason jennings. jason has been designing bridal, bridesmaid and evening gowns for many years. after graduating from the London school of Fashion in 1995 he went on to gain his Ba Honours at Central st Martins in 1997.

Jason Jennings jason then went to work for david Feilden where he stayed for 8 years honing his talent for designing gorgeous gowns whilst also teaching at the London school of Fashion and Central st Martins.

From there he went on to create his own label until in 2008 Veromia snapped him up to become their in House designer.

Being passionate about his designs and being male, jason understands how a woman should look, and pulls this into his designs, creating a well fitting sexy yet feminine look to all the labels he designs for the brand.

Ivory ruffled gown (121327) from Veromia’s Belice Collection.

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DRESSES

Annie colu mn dress by Stephanie Allin Coutu re.

Mermaid gown by Sincerity, style 3772; sensual san salvador - Chiffon mermaid has a V-tank neckline and an asymmetric pleated bodice. gown features cowl back neckline with asymmetric beaded sheer lace inset. style is finished with zipper and chapel length train. available in ivory and white.

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<< eternity’s mermaid dress (style 5052) is simple and clean looking in style, great for wearing with a bolero or wrap. www.eternitybridal.co.uk

Eternity Bridal’s Gatsby-inspi red gown, style 5083, features an empire line, capped sleeves in lace and rich crystal emb ellishment.

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Linea Rafaelli column gown with beautiful embroidered detail; www.linearaďŹ&#x20AC;aelli.be.

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View thousands of wedding dresses online at www.ukbride.co.uk Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s free to view thousands of up-to-date dresses online at UKbride.

You can even create your own dress and ďŹ nd similar ones at local bridalwear retailers.

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DRESSES

David Tutera

>> US celebrity wedding planner David Tutera has designed this Spring 2014 wedding dress for Mon Cheri: Strapless organza and tulle full modiďŹ ed A-line wedding dress with sweetheart neckline, softly curved back bodice, fully handbeaded ornately embroidered bodice with dropped waistline, ďŹ&#x201A;owing organza skirt with tulle overlay, skirt features a deep double hem border spilling into a chapel length train, detachable spaghetti and halter straps included. www.eternitybridal.co.uk

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Hepburn and Lanvin from Caroline Castiglianoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s new collection, The English Heritage Collection. Caroline set up her ďŹ rst bespoke bridal boutique in Surrey in 1991, specialising in classically understated, yet contemporary wedding dresses and bridal gowns. www.carolinecastigliano.co.uk

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DRESSES

Layers of lace in 2014â&#x20AC;&#x2122; s wedding dresses are a luxurious way to employ the trend towards a vintage look...

Biscay is Opulence Bridalâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 2014 ankle-length skirt with layered tuille and embroidered detail.

Lace elbow length sleeves and corsage detail.

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Cadiz by Opulenc e www.opulenceb ride.co.uk. antica Cosima by Rom evon.co.uk. fd ao tic an m www.ro Christiano Lucci’s Viola.

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For the fashion-conscious bride to be, designer Cristiano Lucci ignites the hopes and dreams of looking runway-worthy on a practical budget, with the brand’s classic semi couture range that promises to keep up with the latest trends of the glitterati, minus the exorbitant price tags.

And even for the less dramatically inclined, Cristiano Lucci promises a new destination for timeless staples.

Christiano Lucci

‘A’ line lace gown

by Lillian West www.lillianwe st.com.

Justin Alexander, style 8703

cap A-line silhouette with a V-neckline and pearl sleeves. Style includes a detachable beaded belt. Available in Ivory, Light Gold/Ivory and White.

<< Sincerity’s Luscious Long Island dress is a two piece slim lace and tulle overlay and charmeuse slip gown.

Overlay features square neckline, cap sleeves and deep V-back.

Gown is finished with chapel length train and charmeuse buttons enclose the back.

Available in Champagne/ivory, Ivory and White.

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BRIDESMAIDS

Girl Power

Brilliant, beautiful bridesmaids - treat your party to a stunning look on your wedding day with our pick of the brightest and best outfits for bridesmaids and flower girls...

Image: Kelsey Rose www.kelseyrose.co.uk

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BRIDESMAIDS

Black bridesmaidsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; dresses by Veromia www.veromia.co.uk.

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Romantica of Devon www.romanticaofdevon.co.uk

Sophia Tolli www.sophiatolli.c o.uk

>> Search for a style of bridesmaid dress that will flatter each of your girls’ figures. For instance, ‘A’ line cuts are a good ‘general’ style that tend to suit all body styles.

Similarly, darker colours look good on most people, and will create a strong colour theme to carry through to the rest of your wedding.

If you’re becoming stressed out with wedding planning, you can always delegate the choice to your chief bridesmaid.

Remember that many designers offer white gowns with coloured highlights for flower girls and younger bridesmaids.

Eternity bridal.co.uk www.eternity

>> Alfred Angelo white bridesmaid dress www.alfredangelobridal.co.uk.

Alfred Angelo www.alfredang elobridal.co.uk

li Linea Raffael ffaelli.be www.lineara

Dessy www.dessy.com

D’Zage www.dzage .co.uk

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WEDDING SHOES

This Page and Opposite: Shoes by Pink

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WEDDING SHOES

Step in the Right Direction Heart meets sole on your wedding day; as we look at bridal shoes. Shimmer in slingbacks and dazzle with diamanté, but walk down the aisle in style on the happiest day of your life... n You’ll be wearing your shoes for 12 hours on the day, so prioritise comfort over style when choosing wedding shoes. n If you’re not used to heels, opt for a flatter shoe, rather than trying to wear something that feels unfamiliar. n ‘Wear in’ your shoes around the house before the big day so you scuff the soles for more grip and don’t feel in pain on the day.

n Remember that shoes can be dyed to match colour highlights in your dress, or for your bridesmaids. n Consider a second pair of shoes such as ballet pump style wedding shoes for later in the day and especially for the first dance if your dress is cumbersome! n Consider vintage shoes as well as new ones - they make a lovely ‘something old’.

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WEDDING SHOES

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<< Wedding Shoe Selection – Benjamin Adams

Most wedding shoes in the country are made by Paradox - which owns sub-brands Pink, Benjamin Adams, Belle and Aura.

Paradox provides collections of Classic, Vintage and Chic wedding shoes, whilst Benjamin Adams has update the brand for 2014 with his Romance that Rocks collection, with crystal court shoes and outrageous platforms created.

Belle is the brand’s luxury range with gel pads and soft leather linings heavily embellished with crystals.

Aura is the firm’s affordable brand with nine styles including ballet pump Caring, kitten heeled Eternity and high-heeled Infinity.

Brides looking for something different should also consider Perfect Vintage; with the firm’s lace embellished styles the brand is the ‘next big thing’ in wedding shoes.

>> For the full collection of Benjamin Adams shoes, see www.benjaminadamslondon.com.

Benjamin Adams

Many suppliers can dye shoes for brides, either to pick out details from dresses or to create beautiful bridesmaids shoes. If no stockists near you provide this service, Rainbow Club’s online service will enable brides to buy from their nearest stockists and have their chosen shoes dyed at their colour studio by specialised colourists.

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MOTHER OF THE BRIDE

Mother’s

Day...

John Charles (www.johncharles.com)

Brilliant looks for the mother of the bride or groom... each of which is available with matching hat and fascinator...

The ‘rules’ of shopping for a mother of the bride or groom outfit suggest avoiding white and ivory... or, in general, making your dress look too much like a wedding dress and an all black outfit should be avoided too.

Many outfits are fairly traditional and conservative, but shop around and you can also find something stylish and individual!

However, keep in mind that this is your daughter's big day, and no one should outshine the bride!

Zeila www.zeila.net

Main image Condici: www.condici.com.

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A Christian

MARRIAGE

A Christian marriage ceremony takes place every 1.7 seconds in the UK. Here, we explore the religious and legal implications of a church wedding...

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WEDDING IDEAS

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he most popular religion across the UK’s 60,975,000 population is Church of England Christianity, with over 22% of the population declaring themselves a member of the C of E denomination, in the most recent national census.

In marriage terms that relates to over 250,000 Church of England marriages each year, of which 40% take place in church.

But these days, it’s even easier to marry in a church of your choice following Marriage Measure and Marriage Law Review.

The review is the result of a working group established by the Archbishop’s Council in 2002 which addressed the process of calling banns in church and relaxed the limitations of where couples may marry.

From 2008 couples have been able to marry in a church which has a special significance to them rather than in a parish church within the parish where either the bride or groom is resident.

Church weddings remain popular with couples, but recent changes in synod law mean couples now have a much wider choice of where they choose to marry!

Now, couples can choose to marry in a church if they can demonstrate a Qualifying Connection - that is, if the bride or groom was baptised, confirmed or if they habitually worship in that church, or if the person has had their usual place of residence in the parish of a particular church for at least six months.

Couples can also chose to marry in a church if their parents live or have lived in the parish in question or have habitually attended worship there.

In order to comply with UK civil and church law, banns - an announcement of your intention to marry -

must be read in the church in which you plan to marry, on three Sundays, usually but not necessarily consecutively.

Those over the age of 16 may marry with those aged under 18, requiring parental consent, and the time of your wedding must take place between 8am and 6pm on any day - wedding rehearsals take place outside these times in order that the ‘practice run’ isn’t rendered legally binding!

Civil ceremonies, conversely, require couples to give a notice to marry at their local registration office, regardless of the destination of their intended marriage and require the superintendent registrar’s permission to marry. The registrar will then issue the relevant documentation which must be presented at your civil ceremony to a person authorised to conduct weddings within that district.

Christians believe that marriage is the appropriate relationship in which to share a life together, raise a family, make love and make a life-long commitment to one another.

Couples often feel a greater affinity to the Church once they begin their wedding planning and are able to enrol on both pre-wedding ‘boot camp’ courses which aim to strengthen the bond between the couple by exploring the role of marriage in a Christian context, and the Alpha Course, an opportunity to explore the Christian faith and other religions in a relaxed ‘non-dogmatic’ way over ten thought-provoking weekly sessions, with an optional day or weekend away; see www.uk.alpha.org for further details.

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RECEPTIONS

RECEPTION CLASS

Planning your Party...

Your wedding breakfast is an opportunity for two families to come together and celebrate your love! Here, we suggest a few reception considerations to make sure your venue looks dazzling...

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hen it comes to creating a wonderful wedding reception, there’s no one-size fits all solution. Our top tips will help you to create a really memorable reception...

Candles, flowers, crystals and favours can all make your wedding tables look individual so exploit the opportunity to make your wedding unique here, more than anywhere else.

The Fundamentals

Above All...

There are many ways to style a venue in terms of colour, table dressings and the food you choose... but you can’t change the style, size or location of a venue, so view as many as possible in the run up to your wedding.

Have an idea of the style of wedding you’d like grand, posh, quirky, fun - and most of all enjoy shopping around.

Consider Your Options The most exciting aspect of planning your reception is the variety of options available to you - from grand historic castles to intimate boutique hotels, to marquees for a summer wedding on the lawn... the options are endless.

Talk to your chosen suppliers, have a firm idea of the number of guests you’ll be inviting and work out a budget early on - when you view a reception venue, do so armed with a good idea of figures so you can determine the exact price.

With every venue you visit you’ll pick up more and more ideas!

You may not have a clear idea of what you want from a reception but you’ll know roughly the style or scale of your wedding. Choose a venue which suits the size of your event, and the style.

Do dine or stay at your chosen venue too to accurately assess how happy you’ll be hosting your reception there.

All Year Round Don’t discount the idea of out of season or mid-week weddings. It’s natural that peak times command a premium, but planning your wedding in such a way as to avoid these times could save you thousands... a winter wedding perhaps?

With mulled wine, furry stole and bright red berries incorporated into your colour scheme?

Make It Your Own Search the internet for favours that suit the theme of your wedding, use photographs of yourselves to create table cards or get into the kitchen to bake cookie favours with your guests’ names iced onto them.

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Tips for Stylish Wedding

receptions Your wedding reception should be a celebration of your marriage and a chance for your respective families and friends to meet each other and toast your future. Make the most of our tips for making your reception an extra special occasion...

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M

ake your reception extra special and enjoy a beautiful party venue with little more than a bit of effort and a bit of imagination.

1. Dress up the entrance Your reception entrance will create a first impression for the type of reception you’ve organised. Use swags of greenery, topiary or line your entrance in silk, but do ensure your guests’ first impressions of your venue are favourable.

2. illuminate your venue It’s likely your venue will rely on conventional lighting. Consider candelabras, tea lights and fairy lights to provide ambience lighting. Additionally, consider how you’ll illuminate your reception when the main lights go off at night.

www.akphotographic.co.uk

RECEPTION TIPS

7. Allow time for your photographer A good wedding reception should allow your guests to socialise whilst you devote time to your photographer to allow them to take your formal shots. Make sure they’re entertained with a glass of champagne or Pimms, and perhaps some canapés.

3. tame the toddlers Make sure your reception includes entertainment for children. Little party bags with crayons and colouring books will keep children busy and allow parents to enjoy the day in peace.

8. name your tables Choose table names rather than numbers - music idols, titles of films or the word love written in different languages for example. As far as possible make them personal and imaginative and illustrate them wherever possible.

4. Add atmosphere with classical music If your budget can accommodate it, classical music like a string quartet or pianist will cover up the clatter of cutlery and the sound of conversing guests who have loud voices.

9. cut your centrepieces down to size Opt for table decorations that are less than 14in high, or more than 20in high - in other words, low enough for guests to see each other over them, or tall enough for guests to see each other across the table.

Add a few quirky details - for instance, a table magician or a bouncy castle for the children, or table fireworks...

5. create a playlist If your budget is more limited, create a playlist on your MP3 or burn a CD of background music (classical or light jazz) during your reception.

6. sparkle on your big day Sparklers not only look great when the lights go down or when you venture outside for your fireworks, but can be used to entertain children and for creating ‘lightpainting’ photographs (above).

10. tame your table planner Planning your seating arrangements can be a nightmare - especially if you’ve lots of politics to contend with. Use free software, like www.ukbride.co.uk’s table planner, to tame your tables.

11. plan for poor weather Of course we hope your day is sunny and warm, but ensure you have a backup plan too - personalised wedding umbrellas and indoor heaters for your marquee, for example.

12. Add a few quirky details Consider quirky details for your reception - a table magician, or caricature artist to add some fun to the day, a bouncy castle for the youngsters (and the young at heart!), or perhaps a basket of inexpensive slippers for women tired of their high heels.

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RECEPTION TIPS

13. create a colour theme Create a colour theme for your wedding and implement it within your reception, but do so with care. Use different shades of the same colour rather than trying to ensure everything matches exactly.

Chair covers are a good way to disguise naff looking reception chairs and with silk or taffeta bows, can help to reinforce your highlight colour.

14. caution with colour Coloured cakes look dramatic but some guests are turned off by garish or bright coloured cakes.

Avoid controversial colours like lime green.

If choosing colours isn’t your thing, a reception designer or wedding planner can take charge of just the decorating of your venue.

15. slip into something more comfortable If you’re wearing a large dress it may feel a little cumbersome when the time comes to enjoy your receptions. You may also feel hot and tired. Ensure you have something more comfortable to change into - a flat pair of shoes and knee-length dress for example.

Be imaginative with your finishing touches - shown above is a rustic table plan created with tags and flower pots from not on the High street, £45, www.notonthehighstreet.com. the galvanised pots make great presents for guests, too!

Above: Get creative with favours.

Left: Incorporate some little hand-made touches like these macaroons, or add some upcycled details like this vintage bird cage.

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Left: Wedding sparklers create great fun, and great photos!

Below: Ask guests to sign a wedding plate - this example is from www.signature platters.co.uk, £85, and is pre-fired and supplied with a signing pen that writes through the glaze.

Right: Consider a Photobooth for the couple and their guests to enjoy.

Left: Music request card from Etsy.

Below: This couple saved money by opting for a ‘high tea’ instead of a midday meal.

16. consider a photobooth Some photographers or videographers have pop up studios for high key shots of your guests, or ‘Big Brother’ style diary room setups. Guests in a videographer’s booth can record short messages wishing the couple well on their big day.

17. involve your guests If you’ve a DJ at your reception leave music request cards for them to pass to the DJ. Likewise leave disposable cameras on tables for guests to take their own candid shots of the reception.

18. create children’s meals Don’t forget to ask your venue to prepare cheaper child-friendly meals - rather than expecting them to eat full portions of adult food.

19. create a gift book Create a guest book that people can sign during your reception. Other companies offer wedding plates that can be signed, which are then posted off to be fired.

20. Make your wedding favours Bake cookies, make jam or design little place cards to use as wedding favours, instead of - or to supplement - ‘off the shelf’ wedding favours.

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Brampton Heath Golf Centre is a picturesque venue located in the beautiful village of Church Brampton, Northamptonshire.

This picture perfect venue offers weddings tailor-made to your requirements as Tracianna Rose and Simon found out.

“We knew that we wanted to have the civil ceremony at the same venue as the reception. To us it made much more sense than travelling around and we thought the guests would appreciate only having to drive to one venue as opposed to two, so that narrowed down our decision of venues anyway”

them. This was important to us as we already had in mind certain companies that we wanted to use. In fact it had deterred us from booking another venue because they would only allow the decor company they suggested to decorate the venue. Looking back we are glad about that as we couldn’t have asked for a better wedding .”

“One of the things we liked most was that although the venue had a list of preferred suppliers we didn’t have to use

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“The large windows allowed in lots of natural light, which we loved and it meant that everybody had a lovely view.”

The contemporary decor and white washed high vaulted ceiling meant there wasn’t any need for ceiling or room drapes, which in effect saved the couple money. the room is decorated in a neutral colour, which lends itself to almost any colour scheme.

“We loved the venue, it was so pretty with amazing views and the staff were extremely friendly, I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend it!”

After looking around 10 of Northampton’s finest venues, Tracianna and Simon decided on Brampton Heath Golf Centre.

“From the initial enquiry right the way through to the wedding we found the Events Team really pleasant to deal with, nothing was too much trouble and their reply time was usually within a few hours”.

balcony and the light and airy feel of the room.

The flexibility of the venue wasn’t the only deciding factor though, both Tracianna and Simon thought the venue was the perfect size. With nearly 100 guests for the Wedding Breakfast and around 150 for the evening party the venue suited them well.

They also really liked the large private

For more information please contact: Email: info@bhgc.co.uk Phone: 01604 84 39 39 Website: www.bhgc.co.uk You can also view lots of photos on the official facebook page: www.facebook.com/pages/BramptonHeath-Golf-Centre/121395404570371 Twitter BramptonHeathEvents@ BramptonSocial

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Britwell House

An elegant setting for civil weddings in a romantic Georgian Mansion close to junction 6 of the M40

Telephone: 07885 932691 w w w. b r i t w e l l h o u s e . c o . u k

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WEDDING IDEAS

A Seaside Wedding This month wedding photographer and stylist Mandy Carter hosts a styled wedding shoot with a great look for summer brides... a vintage seaside wedding!

Images: Mandy Carter, Dottie Photography; 01945 773368 or see www.dottiephotography.co.uk.

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WEDDING IDEAS

WE DO LIKE TO BE BESIDE THE SEASIDE... and this styled photoshoot from wedding photographer Mandy Carter makes it easy to see why!

Mandy took on-trend vintage colours and typography as her inspiration for her shoot, spending hours creating little personal touches like bespoke confectionery jars and tins for flowers that you can incorporate into your wedding too.

DIY touches will personalise your wedding and make the day really quirky - and whilst theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re more labour intensive, little touches like our tin table flower containers, and vintage sweety jars can be picked up for very little money; all you need is a keen eye for design. Mandyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s photography was treated to a vintage cross-processing effect that emphasised the traditional style that many couples are looking for.

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Centre: Our brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dress was created by Harriet of Tasty Vintage and featured layers of lace trim over a powder blue dress. Bright red shoes from a High Street retailer proved cost effective.

Above/Left: Confectionery was presented in a variety of jars found at vintage and antique fairs. Home-made labels were created with a vintage feel.

Mandyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; s styled wedding shoot provides a wealth of ideas you can adapt and incorporate into your own special day...

Opposite, Main: One of the biggest trends in wedding photography for 2014 will be the photobooth - an area that guests can go for a shot which will often include props.

Our models were Chelsea Fitzpatrick and Gareth Thomas... oh yea, and Ken the Dottie Pug! Left: Stripy individual cakes by Couture Cakes, with design touches by Dottie Creations.

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WEDDING IDEAS

Above: Framed prints made great finishing touches for our cake table and for the background of our ‘detail’ shots.

A vintage seaside setting allowed photographer Mandy to incorporate lots of driftwood textures and bright colours like our yellow beach hut.

Right: Vintage china, hand-made napkin labels and confetti cones.

Below: Ken the Pug in makeup. He’s so vain.

Opposite: A shabby chic beach hut and beach made a great setting for our vintage images.

We didn’t quite ‘trash the dress’ but it was a lovely change from formal wedding images.

Make your wedding your own with DIY touches - talk to a graphic designer friend or approach a local company to design items other than invites and ‘ b rand’ your wedding...

Suppliers and Experts...

Stationery: Dottie Creations; 01354 660804, www.dottiecreations.com.

Photos: Mandy Carter, Dottie Photography: 01945 773368, www.dottiephotography.co.uk.

Venue: Carrington House and the family’s beachhut www.carringtonhouse.net.

Dress: Harriet, Tasty Vintage: www.tastyvintage.com.

Makeup: Rochelle O’Brien: www.rochelleobrien.com.

Hair: Lisa, Ciao Hairdressers: 01733 241136.

Cales: Katie Watts: www.couture-cakes.co.uk.

Flowers: Lesa: 07735 434965.

Models: Chelsea Fitzpatrick, Gareth Thomas and Ken the pug.

Asst Photographer/Stylist: October Ward.

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WINTER WEDDINGS

FALL IN LOVE WITH WINTER Traditionally brides have always wanted to marry in the warmer months, but winter weddings have increased by around 15% in the last year, now accounting for around a third of weddings.

Ali Lovegrove is a fan of winter weddings and here, sheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s styled one to prove how beautiful they can be!

Images: Ali Lovegrove Photography; www.alilovegrovephotography.com.

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WINTER WEDDINGS

WINTER WEDDINGS are up by 15% in some areas and now account for over a third of weddings. Many venues offer competitive packages for winter weddings, but thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not the only reason to consider having one.

Photographer Ali Lovegrove has created this styled shoot to demonstrate that winter weddings can have a unique style, colour and personality all of their own.

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Hand-made stationery with a subtle design theme, bottles with winter berry smoothies, popcorn and vintage sweets all make this wedding really personal.

Stunning photography, meanwhile, is achieved by means of lightpainting, blowing confetti into the lens, and of course, Aliâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s photos are helped by the bright, high-key backdrop of a snowy country house hotel!

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Top: A pink and white table theme with handmade stationery and cymbidium orchids give a warm feeling.

Above/Left: Snow on the ground provides a highkey look for photos, and this confetti shot is really cute!

Left: Use candles and hand-cut letters to brighten up corners of your reception venue.

Embrace winter with warm Pimms, winter berry smoothies or shakes, cheerful vintage prints and hand-made finishing touches...

Left: Ali created a table of ‘vintage sweetshop’ favourites; candy canes, sundaes and marshmallows finished with edible glitter.

Below: Roses, freesias and cymbidium orchids are shown here with bouvardia and asparagus fern.

Winter weddings are the perfect place for ‘treats’ our shoot’s winter berry smoothies were served in bottles with candy-stripe straws.

Images: Ali Lovegrove Photography; www.alilovegrovephotography.com.

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Our bride’ s hand tied posy included freesia, bouvardia with eucalyptus and asparagus fern...

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Above: Photographer Ali used a technique known as light painting to create this effect. Ali took a long exposure photograph whilst the couple ‘painted’ the word love in the sky with sparklers.

Centre: Crimson table linen and hand-cut red hearts created a luxe effect for the top table. Cutlery tied with parcel string softened the look making it a little more rustic.

Right: A three tier cake featured a fruit and two sponge layers. Hand-cut heart shapes gave a lovely gradient colour from light pink to violet.

Consider personalised wedding umbrellas matched to your colour scheme, and a basket of ‘ w edding slippers’ for guests...

FINDING OUT MORE £ Photography: Ali Lovegrove (pictured left), www.alilovegrovephotography.com. £ Cake: Darren, No82 Cake Studio www.no82cakestudio.co.uk.

Sweets from www.facebook.com/goodies £ Stationery: Golden Apple, goldenappledesigns.co.uk.

LettersEtc, www.notonthehighstreet.com, Bunting by www.emma-bunting.co.uk.

Straws by www.peachblossom.co.uk. £ Flowers: Flowers by Suzanne. £ Hair/Makeup: www.tinabrocklebank.co.uk. £ Dresses: Oh My Honey, ohmyhoney.bigcartel.com, Caroline Chamberlain, www.carolinechamberlain.co.uk

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THE CRITERION RESTAURANT 224 PiCCAdiLLy, PiCCAdiLLy, London W1J 9HP. TELPHonE 020 7839 0105 SITUATED IN THE HEART OF LONDON we are a beautiful opulent grade ii* listed venue with a very rich and famous history.

With a breath taking ceiling made of hand made 24 carat gold mosaic tiles, ornate marble and jewelled walls makes us the perfect backdrop to any wedding.

The restaurant was recently voted as one of the Top Five Best Wedding Venues in London by Elle Magazine.

Being able to sit up to 200 people or 120 with, dance floor, drinks & canapĂŠ reception area makes the space very versatile for different wedding options.

We will not make you feel like Cinderella on your wedding day having to stop all celebrations before midnight. With the option of a 3am licence you can relax and enjoy the night without the feeling of an early finish.

Fully licensed for civil marriages and partnerships gives you the flexibility to have ceremony & reception under one roof.

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if you do decide to have your wedding at The Criterion, you can become part of history and walk in the footsteps of famous names and faces from TV, film, books and history.

From the meeting point for Arthur Conan doyle’s Sherlock Holmes and doctor Watson to downton Abbey’s Lady Edith means the Criterion echoes glamour and sophistication from a time gone by. Even The Suffragettes were known to regularly have afternoon tea and meetings at the Criterion as well as Winston Churchill also being a regular.

in modern day the Criterion has been a backdrop to many films on the silver screen. if your groom is looking to feel like a knight for the day what better way than to do this than where Batman The dark Knight Rises was filmed. other films include Rush, London Boulevard, Madonna’s W.E and many more.

So if you are looking for the Wow factor in a unique venue please contact one of the dedicated wedding team at the Criterion to organise a show round over a glass of champagne.

For more information contact Kelly on 0207 839 0105 or email kelly@criterionrestaurant.com or visit our website www.criterion restaurant.com/weddings.

Voted Top 5 Best Wedding Venues in London by Elle Magazine.

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Five Simple Tips

Seating Arrangements If there’s one element of your wedding planning sure to be fraught with stress... it’s negotiating the politics of arranging your tables. Allow us to help! n Traditionally, the groom sits to the right of the bride with (working outwards) alternating male and female place settings for the bride’s father, groom’s mother and best man (to the bride’s left) and the bride’s mother, groom’s father and chief bridesmaid (to the right of the groom). n However, with step-families and children featuring in many weddings, an acceptable current convention is to seat children at the top table and have dedicated tables for each set of parents or step-parents. n An alternative to politics is to create a sweetheart table a table of two where just the bride and groom are seated. n To plan your other tables, use www.ukbride.co.uk’s table planner - it’ll automate a tricky job. Remember to seat children nearest to the toilets, and elderly relatives away from speakers and drafts. Avoid creating a ‘singletons’ table - your table plan is not a great tool to try to matchmake single friends! n Don’t try to turn a blind eye to family politics - nip any hassle in the bud by pointing out that table planning is a practical necessity and you expect guests to get on and behave well, regardless of any existing politics. In doing so you’ll set the ground rules right from the start, so take a firm stand and explain that disagreements won’t be tolerated.

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COLOUR Co-oRdinATE TABLES

it’s a good idea of bear in mind how you’d like your reception tables to look when you’re establishing your colour theme, as they’re a great way of implementing your chosen colour scheme...

n Good as Gold: opt for a combination of soft gold (napkins, flowers) and a stronger shade (use this on your table runners, favour boxes and perhaps on glassware) to create a luxurious look that pairs well with soft gold groomswear or gold accents in your bridesmaids’ dresses. n Lilac and Soft Pink: An example of how softer shades and stronger tones can work really well together. There’s a huge number of soft pink table linens and favours out there, whilst a stronger highlight of purple works well to prevent the scheme looking too anaemic.

A third colour of soft blue adds depth. n Think Texture: don’t just consider colour this punchy pink colour is given extra luxe with table crystals, pearls and glassware.

Candles make cheap favours and look great when illuminated at night. They’re also available in a limitless range of colours.

Above: Candles help this scheme - they’re available in every single colour and you can even buy personalised ones as favours.

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Main: This country table scheme has been created with bright green; not an obvious wedding colour but we think it looks great. What’s more, it pairs well with polka dot vintage fabrics.

Below: Cover bland or garish chairs with plain covers then use voile to create accent colours. Incorporate displays of flowers enhance the look even further.

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Our magazine is posted directly into the letterboxes of brides-to-be in your area, and weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re now taking bookings for wedding businesses across the area...

Call our friendly team now on 01529 46 99 77 Or visit www.ukbride.co.uk/magazine/advertise

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Left; Gorgeous gumballs for guests! these small wonders make great place card holders at £3.50/ea from Not On the High street.

Below; chair covers and sashes are a great way of introducing your accent colour.

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Make the most of your wedding breakfast with our innovative ideas for creating top tables...

With an average of 75-100 guests, your wedding tables will dominate your reception venue and take up a good deal of room. However, with so much scope in terms of how to style and decorate them, you can really use your tables to express your style.

Decide on a theme, name each table and carry this through - different flowers, favourite bands - the quirkier the better. Opt for white or cream table linen and build in your highlight colour with chair covers, bows on the back of chairs, napkins, runners and charger plates.

Next, create a centrepiece for your table. Dramatic flower arrangements will have visual impact; tall and narrow arrangements with long trailing elements mean your guests won’t be peering round them all the time.

Incorporate place name into hand-tied floral sprigs, organza bags, candles or favours. Finish off with a sprinkle of petals, crystals or similar.

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Right; love is sweet personalised labels 18 stickers £8.50, Not On the High street - simply collect jam jars or buy them cheaply from antiques markets, then buy some sweets and you’ve some gorgeous, cost-effective table favours!

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WEDDING IDEAS Main; Your tables with sparkle with these mini table sparklers, available online - we found these on amazon for £5.99/three. Guests were given them to wave as the couple left for their honeymoon!

Right; candles make a great finishing touch for tables. these examples from Not On the High street are £60 for 24.

Inset; Diamonds are a bride’s best friend when creating a beautiful table. these table crystals are a good deal cheaper than the real thing, and look great scattered around. available in clear, gold, blue and ruby from ambience Venue styling.

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Five Simple Tips

Marquee Weddings A marquee will give you the flexibility to plan the size, shape and look of your reception down to the last detail... just be sure to consider our tips! n Book early; marquee companies sometimes have both new and old stock; confirm early to ensure the best marquee stock, especially during mid-summer when both weddings and country shows are at their height. n There are two types of marquee; canvas pole marquees which are better in summer with greater airflow and arguably better looking, and clear span marquees which are more stable, and don’t have poles and ropes getting in the way. n Budget for extras; flooring, the dance floor, luxury toilet blocks (one unit per 50 guests), silk linings, heating or air conditioning, lighting, furniture and crockery hire. n Position your bar (where people congregate) near your entertainment and ensure you don’t inadvertently create areas of congestion - around the entrance, for example. n After something different? Past Tents specialise in medieval and Tudor tents, The Raj Tent Club provides middle-east tents and Hooe’s Yurts supply Asian style yurts.

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WeddingFairs To advertise your wedding fairs in our 2015 edition call 01529 46 99 77 and speak to one of our friendly team.

May 2014 ThuRSDAY 1ST Mercure Newbury Elcot Park elcot, Newbury, Berkshire RG20 8NJ 0844 8159060 csales.mercurenewburyelcotpark@ jupiterhotels.co.uk www.mercurenewbury.co.uk/weddings Free entry and Free Parking – 6pm- 8.30pm Open evening SATuRDAY 10Th The Royal Berkshire hotel – An Exclusive Venue london Road, sunningdale, ascot sl5 0PP 01344 623322 spaterson@royalberkshirehotel.co.uk www.royalberkshirehotel.co.uk ThuRSDAY 15Th Grovefield house hotel taplow common, Burnham, slough, Bucks sl1 8lR 01628 603131 Weddings.grovefield@classiclodges.co.uk www.classiclodges.co.uk/grovefield_house_ hotel_windsor 6.30pm to 9pm

June 2014 SuNDAY 8Th JuNE Warbrook house eversley, Nr Hook, Hampshire RG27 0Pl 0118 9732174 warbrooksalesteam@deverevenues.co.uk www.deverevenues.co.uk/warbrookhouse 11am – 4pm Open day SuNDAY 15Th Mercure Newbury Elcot Park elcot, Newbury, Berkshire RG20 8NJ 0844 815906 csales.mercurenewburyelcotpark@ jupiterhotels.co.uk www.mercurenewbury.co.uk/weddings Free entry and Free Parking – 11am – 4pm SuNDAY 29Th Burnham Beeches Grove Road, Burnham, Bucks sl1 8DP 08447 368649

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Meetings.burnhambeeches@corushotels.com www.corushotels.com 11am to 3pm. Free admission

July 2014 ThuRSDAY 17Th Mercure Newbury Elcot Park elcot, Newbury, Berkshire RG20 8NJ 0844 815 9060 csales.mercurenewburyelcotpark@ jupiterhotels.co.uk www.mercurenewbury.co.uk/weddings Free entry and Free Parking, 6pm – 8.30 pm

August 2014 SuNDAY 10Th Magnolia Park Golf & Country Club arncott Road, Boarstall, Bucks HP18 9XX 01844 239700 info@magnoliapark.co.uk www.magnoliapark.co.uk Free admission for Brides. Free Parking WEDNESDAY 27Th The Royal Berkshire hotel – An Exclusive Venue london Road, sunningdale, ascot sl5 0PP 01344 623322 spaterson@royalberkshirehotel.co.uk www.royalberkshire.co.uk

September 2014 SuNDAY 7Th Cotswold Lodge 66a Banbury Road, Oxford, Oxfordshire OX2 6JP 01865 512121 www.cotswoldlodgehotel.co.uk time tBc. Free entry ThuRSDAY 11Th Mercure Newbury Elcot Park elcot, Newbury, Berkshire RG20 8NJ 0844 8159060 csales.mercurenewburyelcotpark@ jupiterhotels.co.uk www.mercurenewbury.co.uk/weddings Free entry. Free Parking. Open evening 6pm – 8.30pm

SuNDAY 14Th Burnham Beeches Grove Road, Burnham, Bucks sl1 8DP 08447 368649 www.corushotels.com meetings.burnhambeeches@corushotels.com 11am to 3pm. Free admission Royal Windsor Racecourse Maidenhead Road, Windsor, Berkshire sl4 5JJ 01753 498400 office@windsor-racecourse.co.uk www.windsor-racecourse.co.uk Free entry and Free Parking, Glass of bubbly on arrival and goody bag! 11.30am – 3.30pm ufton Court Green lane, ufton Nervet, Reading, Berkshire RG7 4Du 01189 832099 admin@uftoncourt.co.uk www.uftoncourt.co.uk 11am- 4pm. Free entry SuNDAY 21ST Oxford Town hall st aldates, Oxford, Oxfordshire OX1 1BX 01865 252195 townhall@oxford.gov.uk www.oxfordtownhall.co.uk 11am-3pm. Free entry De Vere Milton hill house Milton Hill, steventon, Oxfordshire OX13 6aF 01235 831474 kporter@deverevenues.co.uk www.deverevenues.co.uk/en/venues/milton-hill-house/weddings times tBc. Free entry Mill hall Greenham, thatcham, Berkshire RG19 8Xa 07824665119 info@millhallweddings.co.uk www.millhallweddings.co.uk times tBc – the Handmade wedding fair is the only fair of its kind in Berkshire. Pop up workshops and live performances.

SuNDAY 28Th Burnham Park hall Windsor lane, Burnham, Bucks sl1 7HR 01628 550380 functions@burnhampark.co.uk www.burnhampark.co.uk 11am to 4pm

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Taplow house Berry Hill, taplow, Maidenhead, Bucks sl6 0Da 01628 594978 coordinator@taplowhouse.com www.taplowhouse.com 12pm to 3.30pm. Free admission. Free parking Grovefield house hotel taplow common, Burnham, slough, Bucks sl1 8lR 01628 603131 Weddings.grovefield@classiclodges.co.uk www.classiclodges.co.uk/grovefield_house_ hotel_windsor 12pm to 4pm

October 2014

weddings.waddesdon@nationaltrust.org.uk 11am to 3pm. Free admission. Free parking De Vere Milton hill house Milton Hill, steventon, Oxfordshire OX13 6aF 01235 831474 kporter@deverevenues.co.uk www.deverevenues.co.uk/en/venues/ milton-hill-house/weddings times tBc. Free entry

Phyllis Court Marlow Road, Henley on thames, Oxfordshire RG9 2Ht 01491 570513 enquiries@phylliscourt.co.uk www.phylliscourt.co.uk Dates and times yet to be confirmed.

Warbrook house eversley, Nr Hook, Hampshire RG27 0Pl 0118 9732174 warbrooksalesteam@deverevenues.co.uk www.deverevenues.co.uk/warbrookhouse 11am – 4pm

Brampton heath Golf Centre

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ufton Court Green lane, ufton Nervet, Reading, Berkshire RG7 4Du 01189 832099 office@uftoncourt.co.uk www.uftoncourt.co.uk 11am-3pm. Free entry

Northcote house/ Sunningdale Park De Vere sunningdale Park, larch avenue, ascot, Berkshire sl5 0Qe 01344 634510 spryor@deverevenues.co.uk www.deverevenues.co.uk/en/venues/ sunningdale-park

Mercure Newbury Elcot Park

TO BE CONFIRMED

elcot, Newbury, Berkshire RG20 8NJ 0844 8159060 csales.mercurenewburyelcotpark@ jupiterhotels.co.uk www.mercurenewbury.co.uk/weddings 11am- 4pm. Free entry and Free parking

The Kings hotel Oxford Road, stokenchurch, High Wycombe, Bucks HP14 3ta 01494 609090 events@kingshoteluk.com www.kingshoteluk.com

SuNDAY 12Th Sulgrave Manor Manor Road, sulgrave, Banbury, Oxfordshire OX17 2sD 01295 760205 Julie.wood@sulgravemanor.org.uk www.sulgrave manor.org.uk 11am-4pm. Free entry Middle Aston house Middle aston, Oxon, Oxfordshire OX25 5Pt 01869 340361 www.middleastonhouse.com 11am-3pm. Free entry Weddings At Waddesdon Queen street, Waddesdon, aylesbury, Buckinghamshire HP18 0JH 01296 653241 www.waddesdon.org.uk/ weddings-at-waddesdon

Summer 2014 TBC

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November 2014 SuNDAY 9Th Brampton Grange sandy lane, chapel/church Brampton, Northampton, Northamptonshire NN6 8aD 01604 844717 info@bramptongrange.net www.bramptongrange.net 11am-4pm. Free entry-everyone welcome.

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sandy lane, church Brampton, Northampton, Northamptonshire NN6 8aX 01604 843939 info@bhgc.co.uk www.bhgc.co.uk Dates and times yet to be confirmed.

Magnolia Park Golf & Country Club arncott Road, Boarstall, Bucks HP18 9XX Info@magnoliapark.co.uk www.magnoliapark.co.uk

January 2015 SuNDAY 4Th Cantley house hotel Milton Road, Wokingham, Berkshire RG40 5QG 0118 9895104 events@cantleyhotel.co.uk www.cantleyhotel.co.uk Free Parking and Free entry

March 2015 SuNDAY 8Th Weddings at Waddesdon Queen street, Waddesdon, aylesbury, Buckinghamshire HP18 0JH 01296 653241 weddings.waddesdon@nationaltrust.org.uk www.waddesdon.org.uk/ weddings-at-waddesdon 11am to 3pm. Free admission. Free parking

De Vere Milton hill house Milton Hill, steventon, Oxfordshire OX13 6aF 01235 831474 kporter@deverevenues.co.uk www.deverevenues.co.uk/en /venues/milton-hill-house/weddings times tBc. Free entry

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IT’S HIS DAY TOO!

Advice for the Groom Whilst the blushing bride is the undoubted star of the day, we shouldn’t forget about her Prince Charming, so here, we offer nervous grooms a word of encouragement and a few ideas of how to ensure the day goes without a hitch...

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n The Best Man: choose your best man carefully! He should be responsible as well as a friend... and it’ll help enormously if your bride-to-be approves of your selection!

in agony on the day. likewise don’t opt for groomswear that’s too tight as you’ll feel uncomfortable after a day posing for photographs, eating and drinking!

traditionally, his responsibilities include organising the stag do, or weekend, rounding up relatives for the photographer and being the custodian of your luggage before you leave for the honeymoon.

n The Speeches: If comedy doesn’t come naturally, don’t try to be funny; just be sincere. If you do want to introduce humour, remember the audience includes children and grandparents - there’s nothing more embarrassing than poorly judged humour that suffers a very public death.

His responsibilities also include escorting the chief bridesmaid after the wedding. n The Stag Do: typically this involved a pub crawl, and if this is the case, make sure it’s held well in advance of the wedding. excepting a groom’s tendency to fall victim to drunken pranks and accidents, it’s also a great shame to organise and pay for a wedding only to feel too ill, hungover and tired to enjoy it. consider weekend activities which include younger teenagers and older groomsmen alike; adventure weekends, paintballing, karting and so on.

If you’re nervous about the delivery, don’t read from a script; have a good idea what you want to say, then use cue cards rather than trying to read complete text. Rehearse over and over until you’re completely familiar with your speech, and you can deliver it comfortably and confidently.

Make eye-contact with your audience and compliment the relevant people; your in-laws, the groomsmen, the bridal party and most of all your new wife.

Do use the phrase ‘my wife’ early on in the speech, as this will raise a cheer and make you feel more at ease.

n The Suits: Don’t rush your suits; visit several local suppliers, not just one and view the whole range available to you.

n The One You Love: Ironically, your wedding day is so busy you’ll spend very little time alone with your bride.

take inspiration from a colour swatch from the bridesmaids’ dresses supplied by your bride, and provide your groomswear supplier with this so they can match to it as closely as possible.

ask the chief bridesmaid to surprise your bride on the morning of your wedding with a token of your love - a piece of jewellery or perfume for example.

Buy your wedding shoes at least a month in advance and wear them in so you’re not

steal a few minutes away together to tell her you love her amid the excitement and constant stream of well-wishers.

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RECEIVE A FREE ENGAGEMENT PhOTOShOOT Just one of the beneďŹ ts of joining uKbride, social networking site for brides-to-be Visit www.ukbride.co.uk or see page 130 for details

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Find a professional photographer Need a helping hand to find a professional?

See the British Institute of Professional Photographers; www.bipp.com, the Master Photographers’ Association; www.thempa.com or Society of Wedding Photographers; www.swpp.co.uk. You can also find a photographer in your area at www.ukbride.co.uk.

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Picture Perfect Weddings Here, we find out what makes a professional photographer different from a well-meaning relative and discover why employing a professional photographer will never prove a false economy...

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hotography has changed dramatically with the advert of digital technology. For years, digital imaging had to ‘catch up’ with the quality and warmth of film.

Now, taking pictures is easier, with screens on cameras to preview exposures, no messy time consuming films to develop or film to buy. It’s quicker to design and print images on computers, easier to distributed pictures on CD and via the internet.

Consequently there are more photographers than ever, but whilst the medium has become easier, the skill of manipulating light, using flash, posing people and dealing tactfully with brides on an emotional day remains just as challenging. That’s why photography is still a job for the professional, not for a well-meaning friend or relative.

A professional photographer can work around overcast, rainy or exceptionally bright days.

They can capture tricky shots like the first dance; moving subjects in a dark room, or take control of a group for formal shots.

A professional photographer has plenty of kit, backup lenses, flashes and camera bodies… nothing is left to chance!

A photography company with two or more photographers enables both the bride and groom to be photographed during the course of their preparations.

Professional photographers also create photobooks of their images or large mounted photographic prints, rather than prints created on domestic photo printers.

Having years of experience enables a professional photographer to deal tactfully and professionally with anxious brides, nervous grooms, and guests – a skill that the amateur photographer just doesn’t possess!

As you’ll discover, your chosen photographer really does earn their fee!

Employing an enthusiastic amateur is a recipe for disaster! Get the pictures you deserve by hiring a professional!

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Ten Questions For Your Photographer

Even the UKâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s top wedding photographers will readily admit that choosing the right photographer for your special day is a challenge. However, our ten questions will ensure you have the information you need to make an decision as to who should capture your day...

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Are you a pro...?

Not all amateur photography is going to end in disaster, but the idea that one can attend a wedding as a guest and as the official photographer is unrealistic. Those who market themselves as photographers but don’t work as full-time professional wedding photographers may not be able to dedicate sufficient time and energy to capturing your big day.

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What’s your style?

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Will I Be Retouched?

There is much talk of different styles of wedding photography the main two being traditional and reportage. Traditional styles favour groups and romantic shots, reportage shots appear unposed and concentrate on a natural look that appears to be less intrusive.

Expect a professional photographer to perform post-processing on your images whether they’re shooting on film or digitally. Some, however, limit this to tone and colour correction.

Ask if your chosen photographer will perform black and white conversions, sepia tints and other similar effects, colour popping, or blemish removal and how much time they will put into post-processing your images.

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When can I see my photographs?

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Can I have my images on CD/DVD?

Can you obtain low-quality or watermarked versions of your images to use on Facebook or UKbride or email to friends? These days, our lives are carried out digitally, and being able to use your pictures in digital photo frames, on social networking sites and being able to email them or print them out at home is essential.

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What does my final album include?

Packages vary enormously – how many prints and at which sizes are included in your photographer’s price? What will your album look like and how many images will feature?

Never entrust capturing your wedding to your well-meaning friend or relative - a professional photographer will do a much better job of capturing the most important day of your life...

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Do you carry backup equipment?

Whether shooting on film or digitally, every photographer should have backup flashes, lenses and other equipment to carry on shooting in the event of faulty equipment.

Some photographers turn around their images rapidly whilst others take several months – sometimes even longer, depending on the time of year and number of members of staff working to post-process and present your pictures, so ask for an ETA on your images.

Make sure your photographer is insured against stolen equipment, lost or damaged films or memory cards or falling ill on the day of your wedding.

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Do you work alone?

Two or more photographers ensures the bride and groom can each be photographed getting ready, or that detail shots of your day can be captured whilst another photographer organises group photographs. The more photographers who attend your day, the more comprehensive your wedding images will be, particularly when your chosen photographers consist of both a male and female photographer.

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Are you fully insured?

Will we get on?

Getting along with your wedding photographer isn’t just a nicety. Your photographer should make you feel comfortable for relaxed looking shots. On an already emotional day, it’s crucial that your photographer is sufficiently assertive to pose and offer instruction to the wedding party.

It is sometimes a nice idea to arrange an ice-breaker engagement shoot for you and your intended before the big day so you get the hang of posing.

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CAPTURe THe DAY An expert will combine ‘reportage’ or ‘on the fly’ photography with more formally posed shots.

Wedding advice

Photographic M emories You’ll remember your big day for the rest of your life, but don’t rely on memories alone; talking to local wedding photographers, we this month reveal the top ten shots that ALL brides should be able to treasure long after the wedding cake has been cut and the confetti has fallen...

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ong after your wedding cake has been eaten and the flowers have wilted, your photographs will prove a lasting legacy for the happiest day of your life.

Remember that photography and videography are not interchangeable, and each serves a very different purpose.

Whilst a wedding DVD will provide a literal record of your day, with all the moments funny outbursts and expressions you may have missed - wedding photographs, when kept on your mantelpiece or on your desk at the office, have the potential to be moments frozen in time. It’s important, then, to capture them perfectly, and to do so with a high level of both technical and creative mastery.

Fortunately, the advent of digital cameras plus Photoshop and a new generation of technology-savvy digital photographers has provided brides with the greatest ever scope for creative, clever and artistically shot images.

In general, most photographers will shoot a combination of formal (i.e: staged) and reportage photography (i.e: unposed, unobtrusive, on-the-fly). Look for a photographer who values natural light, as well as being competent with flash, one that can provide an album as well as digital images.

Expect to pay between £1,000-£2,500 for a good photographer who incorporates postproduction work; there are some who provide

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an ‘images on the same day’ service which is certainly convenient, but images reach their customers untouched and this service usually doesn’t include professional prints and albums. Here, we’ve asked a couple of the area’s most experienced wedding photographers to provide their recommendations for the top ten must-capture shots of the day, and for advice when you’re looking for your wedding photographer.

1. I’m Getting Married in the Morning: Many brides opt out of having their photos taken in the morning. We always encourage brides to allow photographers to shoot them preparing for the big day.

It’s amazing how many interesting and beautiful images you can capture in such a small amount of time, and in just the

The first drop of champagne for breakfast, the finishing touches to your hair and make-up, the proud father looking on as his daughter walks down the stairs in her wedding dress...

All of these images need to be captured, preserved forever!

Left; Techniques like off-camera flash and black and white conversions in Photoshop have made the creation of contrasty, artistically posed formal images easy.

Above; A well-meaning amateur may well miss the most important moments you can’t repeat confetti throwing once the moment’s passed.

Images by Dean’s Street Photography www.andycross photographer.com.

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Left; Formal shots still feature in many photographers’ remit, but they can still look relaxed and fun.

Image: Don Lambert donlambert.co.uk.

Above/right; A professional photographer can capture images with correct colours in low light conditions - like dark churches with little natural light - or at dusk. Here, the couple were correctly exposed but the lovely sunset remains.

Below; Photographers are great at working with children.

surroundings of your bedroom’s four walls!

The first drop of champagne for breakfast, the finishing touches to your hair and make-up, the proud father looking on as his daughter walks down the stairs in her wedding dress... these images all need to be captured forever!

2. The small details: A growing trend over the past few years has been the importance of shooting the fine details.

Whether it’s the rings placed on an interesting texture, or the bride and groom’s place names at the top table, these incidental images help to break up any wedding album from just being a book of ‘people pictures.’

3. I do! If you’re lucky enough to have an easy-going vicar or registrar, that doesn’t mind photos being taken during the ceremony, you can get really memorable images of the two of you exchanging your vows and saying those all important words; ‘I do!’ (or even better, a ‘you may kiss the bride’ shot).

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4. Capture the Kids: Whether they’re screaming in the church, or looking as cute as a button, running around the grounds of your venue, there’s no getting away from the fact that kids can make very picturesque subjects for photographs.

5. Just the Two of Us: Both brides and grooms can be camera shy. If you or your husband-to-be aren’t particularly fond of having your photos taken, the opportunity of having a pre-wedding shoot with your photographer is always a good idea.

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“I offer a free UKbride engagement shoot.” said one photographer we spoke to. It means I not only have the chance to get to know my couple, but they also get to see how I work, and also which poses work best for them. Experience of a shoot with me beforehand helps them to relax on the big day which results in better images. It helps the couple to know what to expect.”

6. All Together Now: Some modern photographers are not huge fans of boring group shots where the

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to the groom and the best man. Whether it’s a tear coming from the bride, groom, or a family member sat at one of the tables, make sure your photographer is keeping an eye out for people showing their emotions. It’s images like this that add drama and atmosphere to your final wedding album.

8. Cutting the Cake: One of the most traditional photographs to be taken at any wedding is the cake-cutting shot.

“I don’t think I’ve ever been to a wedding and not seen the happy couple scream out for a shot of them cutting the cake.” said our photographer.

It may not be the most imaginative image of the day, but you’ve paid a lot of money for the cake... at least get a shot of you with it before all your friends and family eat the lot!

9. First Dance: It’s been a heck of a long day, and no doubt it feels like it has gone too quickly. Everyone has enjoyed a drink or two and it’s time for you and your other half to take to the dance floor for the first dance.

Successfully capturing a couple who are moving, in a dark room, and ending up with realistic looking skin tones is technically challenging. Only a professional photographer can capture moments like your first dance.

whole family are lined up, resembling a football team defending a free kick. So, how do you make these must-haves a more fun shot?

“Personally, I just get the group to hold hands, spread out, walk towards me and look happy.” said one photographer we questioned. “If I’m really lucky and happen to be shooting at a stunning venue, I make sure that this is in the background of the image.”

7. Speeches: One the most emotional parts of any wedding is the speeches, from the father of the bride,

All eyes are on you, including the lens of the official photographer and in a dark room with a moving subject, this is one of the trickiest shots to capture... it really highlights the difference between a poor photographer and a good one.

The first dance is quite intimate, with the couple really close together, holding one another tenderly.

So, make sure that your snapper concentrates on shooting an image that really captures the moment.

The lights, the crowd of friends and family in the background, this is a picture-perfect situation if ever there was one.

10. Relax and Enjoy the Day: You may want to get great shots of you both looking stunning, but you also have to make sure you enjoy the most important day of you life.

Try to imagine that the official photographer isn’t there; that they’re just one of the guests.

This way the photographer will not only get more natural photos of you, but you’ll also make the most of your wedding day.

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Screen Legend Having your wedding filmed is the most perfect way of recording the amazing story of your day, and uniquely it gives you the opportunity of watching all the people you love really enjoying it with you.

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f course the film will be a record of the key moments of your wedding, but it will be so much more than that – it will be a permanent record of those people you love, looking amazing and being so happy to be sharing your day with you.

And as time goes by, those couples who did decide to have their wedding filmed look upon it as not simply a record of the best day of their lives, but as an investment in their family’s heritage.

Some do’s and don’ts about choosing a wedding videographer: • Ask friends and family who have had their wedding filmed if they would recommend the videographer they chose • Meet a few videographers and spend some time chatting with them – you need to feel comfortable that this individual will be sharing your day with you • Ask to see an example or two of a full wedding they have filmed, don’t rely on a showreel.

“A wedding film is an investment in your family’s heritage.”

These people who mean so much to you both will never all be together again, and with a wedding film you will have beautiful, moving, speaking images of them having a fantastic time – images that you will be able to share with people who were unable to be there, or who haven’t yet been born!

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Couples who have had their weddings filmed are always surprised by how much more of the day they see in their film… so often the priceless parts that otherwise would have been lost forever.

• Don’t decide purely on price choose a company whose filming and editing quality and style is something you will love showing to your friends and family – this is one of the few thing you are spending money on that you will have after the wedding – make sure you invest carefully.

For information see the Institute of Videographers’s www.iov.com and www.ukbride.co.uk.

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Wedding

Transport

Ideas (PICTURED): n Camper Van: Jakabi Photography, www.ja kabiphotography.com. n Classic Car: AMBA Photography, www.a baphotography.co.uk. n Tractor ride: Henden Weddings, www.henden weddings.co.uk; Bridal designer: Stephanie Kate www.stephaniekate.co.uk. n Double Decker Bus: Notton House Photography, www.nottonhousephoto graphy.com.

You’ve got your wedding dress, hired the venue - now how are you planning on getting there? Your wedding transport is an important part of your day - you need to arrive feeling special, calm and composed, and you definitely want to make a show stopping entrance! The possibilities really are endless, and you can start here with these deliciously different ideas for your wedding transport!

1. VW Camper Van and Beetle: Perfect for a 1960’s hippy look! Boho is very much on trend, so add flowers to your hair for the full effect.

2. Double Decker: It will provide a splash of colour for your outdoor photos, and you could also ‘double it up’ as a ride for guests. You could book a party bus and sip champagne as you spend quality time with your guests.

3. On the farm: Fun, quirky and great for those outdoor ‘festival’ style weddings a tractor will make the perfect prop for your photographs, and the children at your wedding will love a ride!

4. Tandem for two: Environmentally friendly and hopelessly romantic, who could resist a tandem ride for two. Store your flowers in the basket and whisk off on a scenic route together before making your way to greet your guests.

5. Take to the sky: Create a remarkably memorable way to travel to your wedding with a hot air balloon ride. This will give you the perfect setting to get cool aerial photographs of your guests as you arrive.

6. Retro glam: There’s nothing quite like a classic car! Rolls Royce, Beauford, Daimler AMBA Photography - just whip out those sunglasses and www.ambaphotography.co.uk lipstick, and you’ll be the star of the show.

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Brides on a

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For brides on a budget or those seeking a smaller scale wedding with fewer frillsâ&#x20AC;Ś we provide some money saving tips to make sure it only rains pennies from heaven... now all thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s left to worry about is the Great British weather!

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pend or save? There’s a multitude of ways in which you can trim the cost of your wedding, but some may prove false economy.

For example, the cost of wedding photography can vary from £200 to £2,000 and over, but the difference in the end result is marked.

There’s a distinction to be made when planning your wedding between cost – what you pay for something – and value – whether something was worth the price you paid – and in the case of photography, a cheap photographer may show in terms of technical abilities and your final album.

That’s not to say, however, that all aspects of your wedding will be the same. For instance, favours can be expensive, usually priced per head so that a £2.50 favour seems more affordable when, in fact, the reality is 150 guests necessitates a spend of £375. In this case, making cookies with your guests’ names iced on and a little ribbon may require a morning in the kitchen, but will result in a dramatically cheaper favour that’s also much more personal.

Your Reception The smaller your wedding the cheaper the venue may be – and the shorter your guest list will end up being too.

Use a smaller venue as an excuse to shed some guests, consider a ‘no children’ policy or apply a ‘time limit’ – if you’ve not seen distant relatives for, say, five years don’t bother inviting them.

Enquire about the time of year you choose to marry and the day – mid-week weddings are often cheaper, as are out of season weddings.

Your dress Many brides choose to search e-Bay and other such auction sites for second-hand dresses.

Since wedding dresses are only worn once and can be dry-cleaned and altered to suit, you can shed hundreds, sometimes thousands, of pounds.

Our search revealed over 25,000 dresses priced from just £100 for a brand new, made to measure gown… though some brides like to be able to try on their gown before they order. An alternative, if you’re a ‘standard’ size and shape is to try one of Oxfam’s ten specialist wedding dress shops.

Flowers & cake Many churches have volunteers who will happily create your flowers in return for a donation to the church – the best place to find information is to talk to your local vicar or scan the parish noticeboard.

The best way to ensure your budget doesn’ t go awry is to set a realistic budget for each element and stick to it, and don’ t be afraid to ‘ stick up for yourself’ when the family tries to impose their will on your wedding...

Equally, supermarkets such as Marks and Spencer stock plain white iced fruitcakes which are considerably cheaper than employing the services of a cake artist. These can be ‘dressed up’ with embellishments of your choice.

Stationery & Favours Personal computers can be used to create your chosen wedding stationery, orders of service and table plan.

Visit a stationery specialist and purchase a nice stock of paper, perhaps with a textured finish.

Depending on the style of your wedding, embellish with ribbon, photographs of yourselves or other decoration.

Your wedding day should be personal or special to you. Whilst there may be one or two areas in which you can cut back, there may be others that are too important to you to force a compromise. Set your budget and don’t be afraid to negotiate on price. The frugal bride can shed £1,000s with a little initiative, a little chasing around and, above all, a good eye!

We love saving brides money... and so do the girls on our forum!

For money saving tips see www.ukbride.co.uk

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101 TOP TIPS

101 TOP TIPS

FROM REAL BRIDES AND BRIDES-TO-BE When you plan your wedding, a great source to help you is asking friends who have recently got married. We asked the girls on the UKbride Forum and over the next few pages we discover their 101 top tips!

#36 Wear your ‘Bridget Jones’ pants when visiting a bridal shop!

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We asked 420,000 UKbride members for their top tips for a stress free wedding... # 01 - You’ll be kept busy all day talking to family, friends. Try, to steal some time alone with your new husband though - it’s amazing how many brides see nothing of their new husband all day!

Joanne, Derby # 02 - Don't feel you have to circulate and talk to everyone - you’ll spend all day doing the rounds. Enjoy your day and let them come to you!

Alice, Manchester # 03 - Never buy anything without shopping around for a better price elsewhere.

Tatty # 04 - Set your budget before you start booking anything - and budget for each element of your wedding; it’s easier to manage lots of little budgets rather than one big one. Anna, Leeds # 05 - Keep an open mind; you may have ‘known’ what you wanted from day one, however most weddings are a process of evolution what you choose will change over time.

LauraJo87 # 06 - DIY as much as you can. Favours and table decorations can be made cheaply, and you also have the bragging rights when people compliment them!

WelshGirl, Cardiff # 07 - If you are on a tight budget, have a wedding later in the day and just an evening reception.

Natalie, Essex # 08 - Practice going for a wee in your dress... it’s easier to sit on the loo backwards!

AndreaJohnnysBird # 09 - When looking for a specific service get at least three quotes before choosing a supplier. Make sure they’re like-for-like.

Claire, York # 10 - Practise your first dance in the shoes you will be wearing.

Charlotte, Bridgeport # 11 - Buy a second pair of shoes to change into... more comfortable ones for when your feet get sore and for your first dance. Or wear comfy shoes under your dress... It’s a long day, be warned!

Chloe, Bradford.

# 12 - Buying dresses from abroad - especially those which copy more expensive designers - may seem like a bargain but without a proper fitting and with poor quality stitching.

I brought one, it was a false economy.

Clare, Runcorn # 13 - It's your day! H2B and you are the main people to consider so as long as your happy don’t worry to much about everyone else when making decisions.

Little Kettle # 14 - Something will go wrong... accept it. Your day will still be perfect in the event of a little rain, or if you spill something on your dress.

Taylor4Conner4Eva, Dinnington

#15 Use the forum on UKbride!

JOIN UKBRIDE and use the forum. There are hundreds of lovely ladies on the number one wedding website who are happy to go out of their way to help you. You'll have loads of fun, your wedding will run smoothly, it WILL cost you less and you'll make loads of new friends! Julian Wilkinson - UKbride (Boss Man)

# 16 - Relatives can cause friction on your day, especially well-meaning ones who try to help on the day but inadvertently ride roughshod over your feelings. Expect aggro from your in-laws and if it happens, you’ll be prepared, if not, you’ll be pleasantly surprised!

Shobna, Fulham

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101 TOP TIPS

# 17 - If you’re on a budget, source as many things from friends as you can, perhaps by way of wedding gifts. You might know someone that can bake - could they make your cake?

If someone is crafty with flowers could they make your bouquet? Your friend has a great car, could they transport you to the wedding?

Lisa, Herne Bay

# 22 - Beware the pre-wedding stag or hen night!

Don’t drink too much the night before or on the morning... you want to remember your wedding day, and a bride who slurs her vows really isn’t attractive.

Womble92

# 18 - If you’re working to a budget, don’t be afraid to scale your guest list to the bare bones.

Rather than have hundreds of guests that you have to feed conservatively, go all out and spoil just a small quantity. MrsB2B, Woking

# 24 - Organisation is everything! Don't try to take on too much all at once; tick one thing off your to-do list at a time.

NinaD2B

# 19 - Take care when choosing your bridesmaids; a lot of UKbride members have asked best friends, sisters etc, but once they become part of your bridal party relationships have changed. Pick carefully and if you’re having younger bridesmaids, make sure they’re not too tired or excited.

LauraJo87 # 20 - When buying/hiring or booking services, check what’s included; if it seems too good to be true it probably is.

Definitelymaybe

#21 Don’t skimp on your photos!

Please please please don't skimp on photography!

Our ‘friend’ took our photos, but we were really disappointed with the poor results and lack of proper album.

You don't have to book the most expensive photographer out there, but you could get a cheaper package from a reputable photographer, that will do a great job.

They might provide you with a disc of images on the day but if they are not good quality you’ll never be able to recreate the day exactly as it was.

Wedding photos are all you have after the wedding (except for your other half ), so don't compromise when it comes to preserving your memories.

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# 23 - When you first start planning your wedding it’s easy to get carried away. Don't book the first thing you see on impulse!

Dee, Enfield

# 25 - Don't be afraid to start planning early; by doing so you get together ideas of what you like and don’t like. Time to research all the styles and colours you’re looking for, start a scrapbook of ideas and most of all, if you know exactly what you want and how you want your day to go, planning and buying for the 'Big Day' will be less stressful.

Claire88 # 26 - Don't settle for something because it’s the only one you can find... search online, put in the legwork and hammer the telephone.

Spend a bit of time looking around and find exactly what you want in the correct colour, whether you’re looking for a table decoration, favour or a bridesmaid dress.

CuteyPye, Glasgow # 27 - Don't mention the word wedding when trying to get prices from suppliers such as florists and hotels! It's surprising how much cheaper things can seem when the ‘W’ word is not used.

KellyD81 # 28 - Go to plenty of wedding fairs. Not only do you get some good ideas, you can also win lots of things! I won a £150 voucher for wedding favours... and you get to taste all the lovely wedding cake samples! starbabe78 # 29 - Enjoy your engagement - introducing someone as your fiancé is lovely, and it’s easy to overlook how nice it is to be engaged whilst planning a wedding and worrying about paying for it all!

MrsEminson2B # 30 - ”It’s tradition!” How tired did I get of hearing that... but you don't have to stick to ‘tradition’ if you don't want to! Legobride, Holly Parker

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#35 Can your cake company deliver? # 31 - Set a budget for each element and stick to it.

It’s so easy to be tempted to agree to an extra £50 here and there.... but if you stick to your budget and refuse to budge you’ll find a supplier would rather drop their prices than lose a customer!

OWB - Emma # 32 - Every bride values, for instance, photography or reception drinks differently. The price you’re willing to pay depends on the value you place on something. There’s no such thing as what you ‘should’ pay for something, it depends how important that something is to you, so, make a list of the elements that are most important and make sure this is where your money is spent. Bridezilla, Haslemere # 33 - Once you've bought a wedding item, don’t keep looking at other options in case you find something you wish you had bought instead!

TashaMrsG2Be # 34 - The best way to budget is to use Excel. It’ll add things up automatically and you can use one column for your budgeted spend, and the next column for your actual spend. You can even use reg and green colour coding for ‘over budget’ and ‘under budget!’

Tori

# 35 - Make sure your wedding cake supplier will deliver your cake personally... mine didn’t and the person she used to deliver our cake left it on a table right next to a radiator!

GawjusLexi, Cockermouth # 36 - When you’re trying on wedding dresses, make sure you’re wearing your ‘Bridget Jones’ pants!

Nothing is worse than showing your bum in your thong to the lady in the bridal shop!

NicholaP44 # 37 - Keep your ushers busy! Make a list of who you want in your photos and assign an usher to round them up for you, which will give your photographer more time to work.

SamanthaP91 # 38 - Don't be afraid to haggle with vendors, and be prepared to walk away - if they won't give you a discount, ask for extras, if they won’t do that, there are plenty more suppliers to use!

BellaTwilight, South Shields # 39 - Go ‘Monica Bing’ on your bridal party, and especially on the groomsmen...! Give everyone a detailed schedule of the day, so that they know where they need to be and when.

Michelle, Selby

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# 40 - Men: we don’t know where they come from, we don’t know what they want... but they still have opinions. Remember it's H2B's day too, so ask him for opinions and ideas (you are, however, welcome to completely ignore any silly suggestions he makes though!).

Natalie, Canning # 41 - Set a date but make it as far away as you can bear to do... then divide your total budget by the number of months and you’ll know how much to save each month.

Charlotte, Leek # 42 - No matter what - don't fall out with your H2B! Always communicate; wedding planning should be fun, it’s not a chore, it’s meant to be something happy. If its getting too much, take a step back and remember why your getting married then do something that isn’t wedding related together.

XTeresainLoveX # 43 - It’s good to budget - but horrid to live without money because you’re saving for something.

If saving for your wedding leaves you penniless you’ll resent it, save an amount you can comfortable afford without making yourself miserable!

Officially Mrs Mann # 44 - If you’re already living together the chances are you don’t need traditional wedding gifts like ironing boards and dinner services... start a honeymoon fund that guests can contribute too, which will ease your budget, or if you’re feeling generous, ask guests to donate to your favourite charity instead. xxxPoshBirdxxx # 45 - When booking your honeymoon, make sure you know your budget, check to see if they offer a discount for the happy couple and what extra freebies they can throw in.

Elaine Long aka lovelylainee # 46 - When it comes to choosing bridesmaid dresses, don’t try to force your bridal party into wearing something they don’t like... come to a compromise. They need to be comfortable and happy in their dresses and you don’t want them to look self-conscious in your photographs!

Lula88 # 47 - Don’t think you have all the time in the world... it soon comes round FAST! Sarah, Olney # 48 - Hopefully, H2B loves you the way you are... so you don't need to starve yourself and spend endless hours in the gym to be a size-zero bride! Don’t ruin the run up to your wedding stressing about your weight!

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# 49 - Work out a rough guest list before looking at venues so you can work out rough costs.

Mazza, Bootle # 50 - Don’t rely on verbal agreements from suppliers; obtain contracts that specify exactly what is included in your packages and check every bit of small print thoroughly. Lovecat82 # 51 - You’ll cut the cost of your cake if you opt for tiers of sponge instead of fruit cake. You can even specify one fruit layer and two sponge ones - children prefer sponge cake too.

Laura, Shipley # 52 - Collect old flower pots, bird cages, glass fish bowls... anything that can be filled with flowers or used as a quirky DIY decoration.

Work your magic and they can look vintage-tastic!

Caroline&Ben2014 # 53 - If you’re looking for save money, out of season weddings or weekday weddings are much cheaper... winter wedding anyone?

Nikki # 54 - Consider getting wedding insurance.

Depending on your policy, if anything goes wrong on the day, like your cake not being delivered or your photographer losing your photos, then should have some back up.

Rachel Morgan # 55 - It’s not always necessary to be formal; sometimes a hog roast in the evening is more satisfying than a buffet. Lighter ways of eating in the evening will be appreciated after a large wedding breakfast earlier in the day. f4j2k14 # 56 - Your family may offer, quite generously to contribute - but it makes life more difficult if they aren’t specific and just say something vague like ‘we’ll help you out.’ Ask them to put the money into a special wedding savings account as soon as they can, that way you don't end up relying on cash that doesn't materialise, and you can keep on top of your wedding day cash flow by paying elements off as you go along.

Jodi, Luton # 57 - Everyone will have an opinion about your day and will love to give you ‘helpful’ advice on what looks good. Learn to smile politely and vent when they have gone Tori # 58 - Try on as many dresses as possible, and go with an open mind. It's usually the least obvious dress that turns out to be ‘the one.’

DebraM74

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101 TOP TIPS # 59 - Don’t worry about getting your dress dirty on the day. It will pick up dirt but it will still look fab... and let’s face it, there are better things to be doing on your wedding day than holding your skirt round your knees!

Kat # 60 - Take advantage of local flower arranging and other craft demos at local stores and local suppliers. You can learn to do a lot of things yourself rather than paying a premium!

Officially Mrs Mann # 61 - If you’re getting married abroad, make sure you take your wedding dress into account in terms of weight allowance or extra baggage if it won't travel in a suitcase. Lighter dresses are much easier to transport, but if you have to fold it you don't want a material that will crease and be crinkly in your pictures.

Elaine Long aka lovelylainee

# 69 - Take a deep breath before you walk down the aisle and slow down... brides tend to march down the aisle really quickly! Katie Benfield # 70 - There’s lots of pressure to conform to what others want you to do - have an honest conversation just you and your groom, then be strong; stick to your guns!

Little Kettle # 71 - Take advantage of your bridesmaids; get them to help with your invites and favours - with a cheeky glass or two! trikstaniksta

#72 Don’t take loads of family or friends

# 62 - Get a good eight hours of sleep the night before your wedding - you won't have time to sit with cucumbers on your eyes in the morning!

Lucy Tunnard # 63 - Don't be afraid to ask other family members for help whether it be financially or if you are stuck for ideas or you haven't got time to do all the invitations. The last thing you want is to be stressed out and feeling like you're on your own.

Mrs T Hurley 2B (Teresa) # 64 - Shop around and look for clever ways to save money - use chair sashes as table runners, which cost much less and are just as long!

Look at alternatives to the standard wedding and bridesmaid dress such as using cocktail dresses; you or your bridemaids can wear them and they cost a lot less.

Janie # 65 - If your parents are paying towards your wedding, slip into conversation that your guest list has been finalised... that way you won’t be badgered into having guests and distant relatives imposed on you! JessicaM43 # 66 - Consider hiring a bouncy castle... they keep children occupied all day, adults will love a cheeky drunken bounce later on in the night, and a it’ll make a quirky shot for your photographer to use.

EmandRob # 67 - If you’re having an evening buffet, don’t cater liberally, especially after a big wedding breakfast - not everyone will eat in the evening!

Beth, Gateshead # 68 - Make sure you eat breakfast; enough to settle your tummy without leaving you bloated! Nat

Don’t take loads of family or friends with you when you are viewing, go yourself or with one person, whose opinion you value. Then, when you have narrowed your choice down to two or three dresses, get the troops together to help you decide on the dress.

Hails

# 73 - Wedding planning is stressful - the best advice I can give is to forgive yourself the odd bridezilla moment! Just try not to turn into a monster too often Tori # 74 - Trying to explain ‘the sort of thing’ you want to a supplier is really vague. Collect lots of pictures from magazines, and take photos, of what you like. This will help you explain to your suppliers like florists, stationers, dress suppliers etc.

KATG (Kathleen) # 75 - Most Bridal Shops are by appointment only and especially on Saturdays. To avoid disappointment make sure you phone for an appointment well in advance. Traci, Staffs # 76 - Make sure you wear a very good bra when you are trying on dresses... a bad bra will ruin any good design. You may decide you want to wear other supportive underwear for your wedding day, if so, wear the same when trying on styles.

Hails

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101 TOP TIPS

#77 Get some sleep before the big day!

Have a good night , s sleep tiredness makes most people edgy!

# 78 - The most important aspect of buying your dream dress is to find the right shape that suits you. We all have different figures and shapes and the trick is to find the dress with the right shape of design that will flatter your best assets.

Amanda, Hartlepool # 79 - When you book your reception, ask if you can supply childrens’ food - this may work out cheaper per head if you’re able to feed the kids chicken dippers rather than a more expensive three course wedding breakfast!

Bella, Camden # 80 - When having make up and hair trials, look at least six weeks before in case you’re allergic to the make up they use. Wash your hair the night before so it’s not too soft to put up.

If your hair is curly, leave it; if it’s frizzy don’t put any products in it. This way your stylist will know exactly what your hair is like.

Sarah Howe, Leigh # 81 - Bully your man into writing his speech early and make him practise it over and over. Dani

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# 82 - If you’re planning to marry abroad, check that your marriage will still be legally valid in this country. Some countries’ marriage ceremonies aren’t recognised in this country and require you to visit your local registration office upon your return.

Cas, Bedworth # 83 - A ‘goody bag’ with crayons and colouring books for children will keep them quiet!

Lucy and Ben # 84 - Get some exercise in the months leading up to the wedding - exercise is a great outlet for stress, it’ll give you more energy and you’ll get in shape for the big day.

Penny Honiton # 85 - If you’re not keen on fruit cake, opt for sponge or chocolate cakes, or a pyramid of elaborate cupcakes.

Jen, Stirling # 86 - Italian Prosecco and Spanish Cava are cheaper than champagne, and tend to be a little sweeter, fruitier and less acidic... a money saver that’s better all round.

Georgina, Widnes # 87 - Smile when you speak... laughter and smiling are the best remedies for diffusing tension, and smiling is infectious, being able to laugh off stress with relatives is important! Jo & Mike

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# 88 - If your H2B is unsure of what to say in his speech, compliment the bride, then thanks each of the attendants, then the parents, and finally, make a toast. If he’s nervous and public speaking doesn’t come naturally, don’t try to be funny, just be sweet and sincere.

Louise, Brewood # 89 - Make sure you include a ‘contingency’ budget in your planning to account for any extras or unexpected costs.

Joanne, South Wales # 90 - Try and book your venue and the registrar at the same time; there is no point paying a deposit on your dream venue then discovering that no one is available to marry you. LauraJo87 # 91 - Wear a shirt, not a t-shirt or jumper on your wedding morning, I had my hair done beautifully... then realised I had to take my jumper off over my head!

Vicki, London # 92 - Remember your venue quote may not include registrar fees. These can be up to an additional £600 although prices vary from district to district.

Jessica, Overton # 93 - If your groom has a shaven head, make sure he doesn’t do it just before his wedding... having it done a week beforehand to give it some chance to grow back, otherwise his head will be really shiny on the photographs!

Sophie, Rushton # 94 - Get your guests to be part of the wedding when you send their invited out - include seeds in your invites and get them to grow their own buttonholes for example.

RubyManc # 95 - Wedding cookies are really easy to bake yourself and make great wedding favours you could even print your own messages on edible paper and use them as place markers.

Lucy and Steveo

# 98 - Always have a contingency plan; what happens if the hairdresser is late on the day?

Is there someone else that could step in at short notice? What happens if your Best Man is rushed to hospital and can’t make it (that's what happened on our day!). It’s easy to be upset by the unexpected, but something unexpected WILL happen. Shrug all but the most serious thing off, and calmly revert to your backup plan!

Little Kettle # 99 - If you're changing your name after you are married, start making a list of all the places you need to contact and add to it as you go along.

It’s something few brides consider but once they’re married they’re suddenly faced with a mountain of administration that interrupts a happy return from the honeymoon!

Jemima Allen # 100 - Candles! I can’t stress how important they are.

They look great in photos, they can decorate tables, receptions, churches... they can go in tea-light holders, wine glasses and vases, they can do on pillars in churches... the possibilities are limitless and they’re available in large quantities at little cost. A great way to make your venue look really impressive.

Sam Pearce, Staffs # 101 And Finally... Don’t stress! Your wedding will come together, it’ll look great no matter what your budget and it’ll be great fun no matter what stress you’ve had during the planning stages. You’ve spent a long time planning it and it’s going to cost quite a lot of money, so don’t panic about the small stuff; relax, enjoy and go with the flow. It’s your special day, so have a lovely time!

UKbride Editor

# 96 - If your on a budget for your dress, find the dress you want and then look around to see if you can get it cheaper. I managed to knock £500 off my dress by looking around. mrscookiecrew # 97 - It’s natural to want an international honeymoon but we saved lots of money by going on a mini-tour of the UK; Devon & Cornwall, Wales, and then up to the Lake District - the scenery was spectacular, and best of all, no sunburn... this country has some really understated places! xxshellxx

For loads more tips and plenty of advice talk to our members directly; they are really friendly and very knowledgable. Login to UKbride and visit www.ukbride.co.uk/forum

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The A-Z of

WEDDINGS

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From the moment he pops the question to the first glass of champagne on your honeymoon... we this month present an A-Z of weddings with tips, suggestions and moral support!

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is for AttENDANtS

Make sure your day runs smoothly, by choosing carefully those you want to support you on the most important day of your life.

The Chief Bridesmaid’s responsibility is to organise the hen night, help a bride with dressing and ensure her dress looks perfect on the day, and to witness the signing of the marriage register.

Flower girls, meanwhile have it a little easier — though their responsibility was traditionally to scatter flower petals before the bride walks down the aisle; a Pagan legacy celebrating the bride-to-be’s virtue.

is for Cupcake

B is for Bouquets

Once you have chosen your wedding theme or colour scheme, you can choose from a range of gorgeously designed flower displays, and most importantly your bouquet.

Floral designers, such as Elizabeth Inc, will help to set your perfect wedding scene.

Wedding cakes come in all shapes and sizes.

But especially popular now are towers of wedding cupcakes, beautifully decorated on massive tiers... they’re great for children!

D

is for Designer Wedding dress designers tend to update their

collection once or twice a year when they do, their

existing collections may still be

available in some bridal boutiques, However, if you’ve a favourite

dress designer, keep checking

their websites and UKbride.co.uk

for updated wedding dress designs.

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E is for ENtErtAINmENt A disco is a great staple of a relaxed reception — but consider a rat-pack tribute artist for live entertainment that will appeal to all ages, and table magician.

is for FLoWErS Source a professional florist with years of experience for your floral designs — in addition to your bouquet, consider stands with displays in church, table decorations and matching buttonholes.

In church, your flowers will have most impact on the ceremony table, the font, the lecturn and the pulpit.

See www.flowersandplants.org.uk for ideas and lists of suitable wedding flowers by colour, budget and season.

H is for

Help

G is for

GroomSmEN Options for the groomsmen include a morning suit — a one-buttoned tailcoat, ideally of pure wool and with dark grey pinstripe trousers — or a less formal suit with waistcoat.

The latter is a great way to carry through the bride’s chosen colour theme, so ensure you can take a fabric swatch along to your fitting.

For thoroughly modern grooms, you could also opt to avoid hiring your suits and instead treat yourself to a bespoke suit from an independent tailor, retaining it for the future.

Hotels make planning your wedding a cinch — with the all important civil license, reception venue with catering and dedicated wedding planners to help you out.

I is for INvItAtIoNS Opt for a professional wedding stationery designer who can create save the date cards, invites, table plans and thank-you notelets all in the same style using your chosen theme and colour.

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is for Joy Your wedding day will go by extremely fast, almost without you knowing. Make sure you capture each and every moment with photos and videos. Place disposable cameras on the tables and see everyone enjoying themselves, but make sure you have a professional to capture the moments you don’t want to miss. Don’t scrimp on a videographer — they don’t serve as a replacement for your photographer, but in addition to one, capturing funny soundbites and the character of your day.

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Night Time

K is for Killer Heels

Fireworks, marquee linings with sparkling lights, candles, disco lighting, sparklers and Chinese lanterns are all ways of create an ambience when your reception continues into the small hours...

Every woman loves a great pair of shoes.

From the most lavish, expensive and elaborately designed to the traditional, and comfortable.

You can have it all. Shop about to find the right ones to match your dress... but whilst your at it, why not treat yourself to a pair for in theevening too.

Independent bridalwear retailers can dye shoes to suit your bridesmaids’ highlight colour, with many stocking Rainbow and Paradox.

L is for Luxury Incorporate into your budget a little luxury for your guests. Champagne for your guests after your ceremony, just before your wedding breakfast accompanied by Pimms, champagne or mulled wine in the winter will enable guests to mingle and will provide your photographer with the chance to take your formal photographs.

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m is for marquee

Ideal for if you have lots of guests, or if you want something a little different.

Opt for a supplier who can source outside catering, furniture, a lining, heating and convenience hire.

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o is for outfits

Most brides know when they see ‘their’ dress - ‘the one.’ However, most report that their chosen dress was completely different to the style they thought they’d opt for.

After this, have a rough idea of your preferred theme or highlight colour and take your bridesmaids to

Opt for a historic hotel or stately home for your wedding and you’ll be assured of a beautiful backdrop for your photographs.

When buying an engagement ring, the traditional figure presented to a groom is that two to three months worth of salary should be spent.

In reality, grooms spend what they can afford — usually between £1,500 and £2,500. Around 76% of all engagement rings sold are classic diamond solitaires, and budgets permit different variations of characteristics of cut, clarity, caret weight and colour, so a little research in this respect before shopping is prudent.

Modern wedding bands are usually of simpler design, created in titanium, platinum or gold, with white gold the most popular.

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Q is for QUAINt

is for Rings

choose their outfits then give the groomsmen a sample of the fabrics to ensure they can choose their outfits to complement the bridal party.

P Even if you don’t want to delegate your entire wedding planning,

employing a professional wedding planner can afford you just a little

extra help or advice with out them

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‘taking over’ your day.

Help with everything from a

romantic proposal, a venue search

A visit to a day spa is a great way to extend your hen night — especially for older members of the hen party who may not enjoy a loud night out.

Local spa’s all offer excellent packages and treatments for wedding and hen parties, with the added benefit that you’ll look great and feel refreshed on your special day.

to producing a detailed itinerary

and timeline is money well-spent to ensure your day goes smoothly.

UKbride.co.uk will also provide

loads of help free of charge with free wedding planning tools like free table planner software.

t is for tiara A bespoke tiara is the perfect finishing touch for your outfit and a great way to keep rogue tendrils of hair in check. Opt for a taller tiara to elongate the face if you have a round face, a headband or very short tiara if your face is longer, and any style of tiara if you’ve a more oval-shaped face. Avoid cheap diamanté tiaras in favour of crystal or pearl designs.

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is for UKbride UKbride is a wedding planning website that takes social networking tools and wedding planning tools to put you in touch with other brides-to-be planning their wedding.

v Visit the site (www.ukbride.co.uk) for all the help you need, plus the chance to win a wedding up to the value of £25,000.

is for veils

If your wedding dress supplier and veil are different take a fabric swatch along.

What you will or won't wear in your hair is as important as veil length.

Your options range from dramatic pieces such as sparkly tiaras and crowns to jewel-encrusted barrettes, combs, and pins.

Ask for your wedding veil to be made with a detachable long tier so that you can keep a shorter veil on at your reception.

y is for you!

Your wedding should be the ultimate expression of you — your love for one another and your life together.

Make it personal, no matter what your theme and have fun personalising your special day.

W is for Weather Always have a ‘plan B’ in mind in case the weather turns — personalised wedding umbrellas for your guests, for example; see www.pure-treats.com.

is for

Zoom Lens Wedding photography has changed dramatically since the advent of digital technology. However, whilst it’s possible to pay just a few hundred pounds for your photography, it’s worth paying more for a real expert.

X is for Xmas Weddings are most popular during the summer, but you should at least consider an out-of-season wedding.

Not only are the savings considerable, but a stark landscape, snowy wedding and red berry colour scheme can all make a winter wedding the perfect Christmas present.

Avoid offers of having your photographs on a disc on the day — this means no post-production will have been undertaken. A professional photographer will cost between £1,500 and £2,500 but the difference in the quality of your photographs — which wil llast for the whole duration of your marriage — makes employing a cheap photographer a realfalse economy.

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Left; A Bo-ho look for long hair which tousles down.

Image by Linea Rafaelli.

Below; Worn up, this natural looking style can be beautifully accessorised with and hair slides.

Image by Benjamin Adams.

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Tiaras, fascinators and other accessories - we present five hair ideas for your day For those brides who just can’t decide on up or down, to the side or central why not try the half up half down.

There are endless options; loose tousled waves, curls, twists, plaits or just keep it simple with a little height on the crown and softly pinned off the face to create a sophisticated natural look for your big day.

Don’t forget your veil or hair accessory when consulting with your stylist. The stylist has to take into account where the accessory will be placed when creating your style.

Remember it’s your wedding day, be organised and book your appointments in advance.

Don’t be afraid to try something different, most brides try on more than one wedding dress so why not try a variety of hair styles until you find the perfect look for your perfect wedding day.

Most brides opt for one or several hair trials with a stylist before their big day. Don’t be afraid to take pictures and mood boards with you to your hair trial.

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Left; A formal ‘Grace Kelly’ style with perfectly placed tiara. Wedding dress Clarence by Anny Lin.

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HAIR IDEAS Main; Floral decoration in your hair and pearls will look great against the drama of a cathedral length train (removed for the purpose of this image). This look will be popular for 2014â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s vintage-style weddings.

Wedding dress shown by Stephanie Allen Couture.

Inset; Short styles can still look glamorous, especially when embellished with lace and a fascinator creating a layered look.

Ivory and white work brilliantly against darker hair shades.

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Five Simple Tips

Wedding Makeup Just a few tips, with our love, for ensuring you look dazzling on your day... n Your skin is a reflection of your lifestyle - smoking, lack of sleep and not hydrating your skin with water will all have an adverse effect on the way you look. Cut out the cigarettes and put the money towards your wedding fund! n Don’t rely on a friend - use a professional beautician to ensure you look flawless on your special day. Don’t be alarmed if she makes your makeup really strong - on camera, the effect won’t look as dramatic. n Any make-up artist will tell you the only way to apply foundation correctly is with a foundation brush, so invest in one before the big day and practise using it. n Avoid looking too pale for photographs, with the subtle use of blusher applied to the apples of your cheeks. n Whilst there are no set rules governing the use of lipstick or gloss on your wedding day, you should, either way, use a lip liner as close as possible to the colour of your choice... use a cotton bud to prevent the lipstick or gloss from bleeding.

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FLOWERS

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FLOWERS At Your reCeption

By being a little more creative your flowers can be an integral part of your wedding theme... here are our top tips and ideas...

n Think Seasonally: spring flowers include tulips, lilies, peonies, amaryllis and anemone. summer blooms you should consider include lilies, carnations, sunflowers, chrysanthemums, lavender and roses. in Autumn, think delphinium, hydrangea, and gerbera, whilst Winter flowers include snowdrop, hyacinth, lisianthus, lilacs and irises. n Work with Mother Nature: if you’re planning to marry in a hot, humid summer, avoid lily of the valley and tulips in favour of flowers that are less prone to wilting, like hydrangeas, dahlias zinnias. n Be Creative: Bouquets are beautiful and these can be hand-tied, tightly for a contemporary look or designed as trailing bouquets tied with raffia for a looser, vintage look. n Cut your Costs: only work with native, current flowers as this will be cheaper than trying to import something out of season.

Combine expensive ‘feature’ flowers with cheaper filler flowers and bushy foliage like ivy, fern and gyp.

Above; Large headed roses, gloriosa and cala lilies in a shower bouquet. Left; girl flower’s collection of spring hand-tied poseys and matching buttonholes with gerbera and freesia.

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Main; Cala lillies usually come in white but can feature striking colours like the ones used in this hand-tied bouquet, which also incorporates steel grass and bear grass.

Below; Eden of Tauntonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s summer arrangement utilises large-headed roses with more economical in-season lisianthus. The headdress features freesia and cheaper filler flowers.

Images: Courtesy of Flowers & Plants Association, www.flowersandplants.org.uk for advice and to search for a recommended local florist near you.

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WeDDing CAKes Are tAKing Huge steps forWArD - gone Are tHe usuAL WHite tiereD CAKes - sAY HeLLo to BrigHt AnD BeAutifuL CoLours, LAYers AnD ruffLes, HAnD pAinteD Designs AnD rustiC nAKeD CAKes!

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Make a statement: Every bride wants centre stage on her wedding day - and this shouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t stop at the dress! Make your wedding cake stand out with bold splashes of colour.

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Mix it up: Gone are the days of same sized tiers and shapes. Create an exciting and intriguing wedding cake using different heights, widths and shaped tiers.

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Classic Combo: Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the year of the sponge (bye bye fruit cake!), and couples are starting to choose even more adventurous flavours - such as cocktail inspired tiers, chocolate, and even lemon or carrot cake.

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Make a frill: Romantic frills and ruffles are a continuing trend this year mimicking folds of delicate wedding dresses.

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Love is sweet: Brides looking for a more relaxed atmosphere are using styled sweet tables and dessert bars - a great way to incorporate your favourite edible delights complimenting your wedding theme.

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Paint me up: Hand painted cakes are a hot trend this year - anything goes and it gives couples the opportunity to create their very own piece of art.

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Stay naked: More and more brides are opting for a rustic themed wedding, and naked cakes are the answer. Uncovered sponge cakes with layers of buttercream and jam, decorated with flowers.

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Cupcakes: Lots of brides are opting for cupcakes instead of the traditional wedding cake. You can add an array of colours, textures and flavours with these little delights. Some of the top trends for 2014 are coral, 20’s Gatsby-inspired and English Garden.

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Modern geometrics: Geometric prints are hot on the agenda for 2014, and wedding cakes are no exception.

Appealing to the modern day bride, they incorporate structured patterns and elegant clean lines.

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Rise of the bespoke bride: More and more couples want their wedding to be more personable and a reflection of their personalities. They want to look back on their photographs, and say ‘That was so us’. Creating a bespoke wedding cake is a great way to achieve this.

For more wedding cake ideas, visit www.ukbride.co.uk

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A PIECE OF

CAKE

Apart from the coveted wedding dress, your wedding cake is one of the most important parts of your wedding. We spoke to some of the top wedding cake designers to ensure you have the most fabulous cake ever!

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WEDDING CAKES

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Portion Control

When it comes to choosing the size of your wedding cake decide on how many portions you need to serve all of your guests first. if you have 120 guests attending your evening reception then a 3 or 4 tier cake will be perfect.

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Information Overload

When you go for your initial wedding cake consultation, make sure you are geared up with all of your information. Wedding cake designers want to know everything - from your colour scheme and flowers to your wedding dress and location. By paying attention to the details, it will make sure they build the right design for your wedding day and create a beautiful piece of art. take lots of print outs - a wedding cake designer will look at your key elements, and from there design your perfect wedding cake.

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Inspiration Creation

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It’s All About Timing

Keep an eye on wedding websites, blogs and forums for emerging trends. uKbride, twitter, facebook and pinterest are brilliant for finding inspiration and easy ways to personalise your day.

Cake designers get booked months in advance so give yourself enough time. Make an appointment about 6 to 9 months before your wedding, and have a good idea about your plans before seeking a consultation. get a feel of the cake company's style and different design elements that you like. if you are after a bespoke design, a consultation is a great way for you to see display examples. Make sure you taste the cakes on offer - it should be beautiful, and taste delicious too.

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Making The Cut!

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Cut cake prices!

After you’ve found the perfect designer for you and have agreed on your cake design and specifications, make sure you get everything confirmed in writing to avoid any potential misunderstandings.

Having a small, elegant and reasonably plain cake will keep the cost down significantly. for some, less is more and there are lots of beautiful

cake designs that do not require hours and hours of sugar craft. remember everything adds to the cost. the making, ingredients, delivery - but something relatively simple can look very impressive and will keep the cost down. Consider what's essential for your design. When keeping to a budget, there are lots of ways to keep the cost down – but above all, downsize on cake portions instead of downscaling the design.

Collecting your cake can also save on hefty delivery charges.

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Presentation Makes Perfect!

think creatively about how to present your cake. Why not stand it on a drum if your partners in a band, a tree trunk if it's an earthy wedding or a flowerpot for a vintage day?!

Most will have a budget for their wedding cake, and whether it’ s hundreds of pounds or a few thousand pounds it is important to be realistic about what you expect to get for your money...

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Chemistry Class

Just like any other relationship, no matter how talented a cake designer is, there should be a positive chemistry between both of you. He or she should be finely tuned to your requirements and should be able to guide and steer you in the right direction, making helpful suggestions on possible designs, flavours and fillings and how the cake may be best displayed.

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For the kiddies

if you are inviting a lot of children to your wedding consider having a separate table for them with their own cupcakes or a mini wedding cake. it is gestures like this that help to make weddings memorable.

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Get some Zzz’s

organising a wedding can be stressful, so don’t sweat the small stuff. once you’ve chosen a cake designer, relax and be confident that you’ve made the right choice.

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With this ring...

â&#x20AC;&#x153;I Thee Wed!â&#x20AC;?

With this ring, I thee wed; your wedding band is a symbol of your unending love - rings are exchanged and are worn on the fourth finger of the left hand as the Romans believed this contained the vena amoris, the vein of love...

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THE RING

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our wedding ring is not a benign object, but a symbol of your love for one another, a continuous band to represent an unending love.

Only since the Second World War have men accepted a wedding ring in return, but now ‘his and hers’ bands are common.

Wedding bands tend to be plainer, especially for men, with bevelled edges preferred and men’s bands generally wider than womens - around 6mm for men and 3mm for women, with a typical budget of around £500.

Conventionally, wedding bands are created in white or yellow gold or platinum, though more contemporary materials such as titanium are available. Typically silver is avoided as it tarnishes over time and doesn’t have the longevity necessary in a ring you’ll be wearing for decades to come.

Women’s wedding bands embellished with

this act is so recent that a firm precedent hasn’t been established.

As with any wedding element, shop around and view as many examples as possible, opting for a design that reflects you, personally.

Ensure you have your ring finger professionally measured rather than guessing sizes, and allow a little movement if you’re likely to remove it often.

Engraving is a popular, low-cost way to personalise your rings, with messages typically engraved on the inside of the ring for around £20.

For a completely bespoke ring, enlisting a bespoke designer is a more expensive but luxurious option, whilst travelling ring suppliers can visit you in your own home. Typically these will visit you in your home in the evening or at weekends, making life much easier, and can show you a couple of hundred samples before you choose your width, material, finish, embellishment and engraving, before they are delivered a month or so later.

Without the overheads of a chain of stores these can often work out surprisingly cost effective.

Women’ s wedding bands embellished with diamonds can be popular, but men typically opt for a more low-key look... diamonds can be popular, but men typically have the choice of matt, brushed or polished finishes but usually opt for a more low-key look.

Remain realistic about your lifestyle, opting for harder-wearing materials and simpler design if you work in a manual job, where you’re likely to subject it to rough treatment.

As a last resort, some brides and grooms even opt to put their ring onto a chain and wear it around their neck. Meanwhile, those in civil partnerships opt to put their rings on their left hands - though

A family jeweller will offer a great service and can usually show you any stones, allowing you to pick the one you’d like to embed in your chosen band.

Diamonds are the most common option, in which case it’s wise to ‘gem’ up on the four C’s - colour, clarity, cut and carat - which would be familiar from your engagement ring shopping.

Finally, consider a wedding ring that fits round or ‘halos’ your engagement ring - these are a modern design statement and look really great.

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ENTERTAINMENT

Main; A wedding disco will allow you to perform your first dance to your special song.

Inset; A piper is a great way to acknowledge scottish roots.

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Right; even if you’re not a classical music buff, a string quartet is a superb way to add class to your reception and cover up the clatter of cutlery during your wedding breakfast.

Below; think different - with ideas like bouncy castles and face painting for the children.

Let’s HAve

FUN Right; indoor and outdoor fireworks create spectacular photographs and they’re entertaining for guests too.

Weddings are a celebration, so introduce as much fun and as many surprises as possible into your reception...

Music; A wedding DJ is a staple but consider classical music during your wedding breakfast too. Alternatively, tribute bands performing as, for instance, the Beatles or ABBA will appeal to all generations.

Fireworks; outdoor - and indoor fireworks make a great photograph and will elicit lots of impressed oohs and ahhs from your guests.

First Dance; Consider dance lessons to surprise your guests when it comes to your first dance.

Children; Bouncy castles, giant outdoor games, and face painters all keep children entertained and help parents to relax.

Something Different; What about a mini casino, a table magician or perhaps celebrity lookalikes and circus performers? think outside the box and you’ll find something quirky to make your wedding stand out!

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The organised bride makes her life easy and her budgeting less stressful - here we look at what to book, and when, to make your life a great deal easier...

Your Wedding Day

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WEDDING PLANNING

12-18 Months: Even a year and a half in advance of your wedding day, planning is essential.

Make the fundamental decisions about the type of wedding you want by booking your church, and your hotel or marquee... you can then ask your reception venue about any additional services you’ll need e.g. catering, tables and chairs etc., and have ‘rough date’ in mind.

At this stage, set your budget too - the average cost of a wedding is £16,000 so this will allow you to save up and plan your ‘cash flow.’

Once you’ve liaised with your church and reception venue, ‘firm up’ your date as soon as possible.

For most brides, shopping for a wedding dress is a pleasure rather than a chore, and the chances are you’ve already chosen the dress of your dreams.

If not, now’s the time for find one you love, order it and attend at least two fittings in the run up to your wedding.

3-6 Months: This is the very latest stage that you can order your wedding cake some suppliers need even more notice to create your wedding cake.

By arranging each of the elements of your wedding at the correct time you’ll avoid disappointment and find it easier to budget

At this stage, you can also choose your attendants - the friends who will be honoured and prepared to put in the time and effort to help you plan your wedding!

Booking your honeymoon at this stage will leave you with a greater degree of choice rather than relying on availability closer to the event.

At this stage, you can also draft your guest list, which will help you to plan your wedding in terms of numbers and budget.

Finally, organise your reception entertainment now, as popular performers can be booked-up 18 months beforehand.

6-12 Months: By now you’ll have some fairly good ideas how you’d like your big day to be... now’s the time to confirm your guest list and check numbers with the venue and caterers, and organise your transport.

At this stage, you should also choose and pay for your wedding bands, commissioning any engraving or alterations you’d like to be completed.

Most photographers and videographers should be booked a year in advance; ask to see a portfolio of potential suppliers’ work to help you choose a photographer whose style fits what you are looking for.

You should also organise bridal bouquets, bridesmaid bouquets, buttonholes, venue decorations and the table centrepieces now, having had a meeting with your chosen florist.

1-2 Months: Now’s the time to organise your hen and stag nights and so apply for your Civil Application or have your Banns read. You’ll also need to attend a wedding rehearsal.

At this stage you should also organise a final fitting for your bridal party and the groom’s attendants to give time for any last minute alterations.

1 Week to Go: Make sure you have all of the elements you’ll need for your honeymoon organised, and wear your wedding shoes in around the house to avoid being in pain on your big day!

Your Wedding Day: Awake refreshed, relaxed... and hangover-free!

Enjoy a relaxed breakfast even if you don’t feel like eating, and leave yourself plenty of time to get ready. With so many family and friends, it’s difficult to find the time to spend with your new husband.

Try to spend at least some time together enjoying each other’s company and celebrating your wedding together, as well as with friends and family.

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When in rome... 13 nights in a double room at the five star st george roma hotel st george roma. the st george roma hotel is located in the historical centre of rome, within walking distance from piazza navona, Castel saint Angelo, Campo de' fiori, trastevere and the vatican City. guests of the saint george roma can also revitalise in the saint george spa and enjoy rooftop views from the terrace roof top Bar.

get a taste of the good life with a luxurious honeymoon in the glamorous playboys’ paradise of st tropez... 13 nights in a superior double room with garden view at the five-star Althoff Hotel villa Belrose, a luxury hotel situated near the beach in gassin. the region’s most iconic sights – include the formula one grand prix circuit in Monte Carlo, Antibes and Cannes for a glimpse at the lives of the rich and famous.

Beautiful white sandy beaches and azure blue seas... Barbados is the home from home of so many famous stars of film, tv and sport. it’s is a newlywed’s picture perfect paradise!

13 nights in a deluxe room at the four star fairmont royal pavilion Hotel with an ocean-front deluxe room and return flights. Located on the West Coast beach, a mile from Holetown and eight miles from the Barbados Wildlife reserve.

£ tHAiLAnD Phuket, Thailand from £1,450 per person, five star accommodation: 13 nights in a deluxe room at the five star Le Meridien Khao Lak Beach & spa resort. Located on pakwib beach, adjacent to Bangsak beach and thubtawan beach. these three beaches form a 13 km long stretch beach in Kuk Kak, which is 12 km from Khao Lak town.

£ KenYA Kenya from £6,386 per person, includes five star accommodation: 13 nights in a deluxe tent at the 5 star Mara explorer Camp with a deluxe tent, on its own private peninsula with the talek meandering around it.

Camp is for those who want to explore the wild tapestry of the Mara, surrounded by the finest of Africa style.

£ nApA vALLeY Napa Valley from £2,266 per person, includes four star accommodation: 13 nights in a standard king room at the four star Meritage resort & spa. the spa is set against the hillside of the famous grapecrusher statue and the perfect southern napa setting to visit both napa valley and sonoma.

£ seYCHeLLes Seychelles from £2,167 per person, five star accommodation: 13 nights in a hill view room at the 5-star Kempinski resort in which guestrooms open onto balconies or terraces and have a split-level design with separate sitting areas. surrounded by tropical and landscape, you can enjoy a full day cruise, with a morning cruise to praslin's paradise, then soak up the tranquil atmosphere of La Digue.

Main; Desroches Island Resort in the Seychelles - expect to pay £2,000/person and soak up the year-round warm sunshine.

£ greeCe Santorini, Greece from £3,090 per person, five star accommodation: 13 nights in a deluxe room at the five star Andronis Luxury suites in a premier suite. Area attractions also include Archaeological Museum and Museum of prehistoric thira.

£ MALDives Maldives from £1,310 per person, four star accommodation: 13 nights in a Club room at the 4-star gangehi island resort Hotel. price includes all meals, a club room for two and return flights. gangehi island resort Hotel is an elegant island retreat - wake up to the ocean at your door at this hotel, which is located by the sea and set on its own private white sand beach. for reservations, visit www.expedia.co.uk or call 0800 783 2384.

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theDirectory To advertise in our 2015 edition call 01529 46 99 77 and speak to one of our friendly team.

Disco Dave Seamer Disco 46 Magdalen road, oxford, oxfordshire oX4 1rB 01865 240054 www.daveseamer.co.uk dave@daveseamer.co.uk

Florist La Belle Floral Design 167 Broad Hinton, twyford, Buckinghamshire rg10 0XA 07709 450363 www.labellefloraldesigns.co.uk weddings@labellefloraldesigns.co.uk

Hair & Beauty The Bridal Works 3 park Avenue, newport pagnell, Buckinghamshire MK16 8Je 07879 333529 www.thebridalworks.co.uk enquiries@thebridalworks.co.uk

Honey moons World By Design 3 Lacemaker Court, London road, Amersham, Buckinghamshire Hp7 0Hs 01494 733633 www.worldbydesign.co.uk paul.thomas@worldbydesign.co.uk

Michael Jones Jeweller 1 gold street, northampton, northamptonshire nn1 1sA 01604 632548 www.michaeljonesjeweller.co.uk onlineshop@michaeljonesjeweller.co.uk Michael Jones Jeweller the grosvenor Centre, northampton, northamptonshire nn1 2eB 01604 636633 www.michaeljonesjeweller.co.uk onlineshop@michaeljonesjeweller.co.uk

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Photobooths HZ Photobooth 0800 689 0964 / 01604 210 763 www.hzphotobooth.co.uk info@hzphotobooth.co.uk

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James Thorpe Photography 7 Burns street, northampton, northamptonshire nn1 3Qe 01604 289234 /07531 490150 www.jthorpe.net james@jthorpe.net

Bish Bosh Becca Bramhill, newland road, ruishton, taunton, somerset tA3 5Jz 07974 069245 www.bishboshbecca.co.uk info@bishboshbecca.co.uk

Melbourne Photography 43 guilsborough road, ravensthorpe, northampton, northamptonshire nn6 8eW 01604 770608 www.melbournephoto.co.uk

Peter Moon Photography 81 Kenilworth Avenue, reading, Berkshire rg30 3eH 0118 9576727 www.petermoonphotography.co.uk Sanders and Jones Photography 11 rignall farm Barns, Handley park, Abthorpe road, towcester, northamptonshire nn12 8pA 0800 881 5324 www.s-jphotography.co.uk info@s-jphotography.co.uk Simon Earle Weir Bank, Monkey island, Bray, Maidenhead, Berkshire sL6 2eD 01628 879111 www.simonearle.co.uk se@simonearle.co.uk

Receptions & Venues Oxford Town Hall st. Aldates, oxford, oxfordshire oX1 1BX 01865 252195 www.oxfordtownhall.co.uk townhall@oxford.gov.uk

Transport Exclusive Cars Northants Ltd 12 Brooke road, great oakley, Corby, northamptonshire nn18 8Hg 01536 746060 www.exclusivecars.uk.com enquiries@exclusivecars.uk.com

Venues Britwell House Britwell salome, oxon, oxfordshire oX49 5LJ 01491 613354/07885932691 www.britwellhouse.co.uk ceciliaakressner@hotmail.com

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Buckinghamshire Railway Centre Station Road, Quainton, Buckinghamshire, HP22 4BY 01296 655720 www.bucksrailcentre.org Burnham Beeches Hotel Grove Road, Burnham, Buckinghamshire SL1 8DP 08447 368649 www.corushotels.com Cantley House Hotel Milton Road, Wokingham, Berkshire RG40 5QG 0118 978 9912 www.cantleyhotel.co.uk events@cantleyhotel.co.uk Crockwell Farm Eydon, Northamptonshire NN11 3QA 01327 361358 www.crockwellfarm.co.uk info@crockwellfarm.co.uk

Mill Hall Greenham, Newbury, Berkshire RG19 8XA 07824 665 119 www.millhallweddings.co.uk info@millhallweddings.co.uk Missenden Abbey London Road, Great Missenden, Buckinghamshire HP16 0BD 01494 866811 www.missendenabbey.co.uk Northcote House De Vere Sunningdale Park, Larch Avenue, Ascot, Berkshire SL5 0QE 01344 634510 www.deverevenues.co.uk Royal Windsor Racecourse Maidenhead Road, Windsor, Berkshire SL4 5JJ 01753 498400 www.windsor-racecourse.co.uk office@windsor-racecourse.co.uk

Greenhill Gallery Sutton Lane, Lower Brailes, Oxfordshire OX15 5BB 01789 842096/07891 477759 www.greenhillgallery.co.uk/contact amy@greenhillgallery.co.uk

The Kings Hotel Oxford Road, Stokenchurch, High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire HP14 3TA 01494 609090 events@kingshoteluk.com

Magnolia Park Golf & Country Club Arncott Road, Boarstall, Buckinghamshire HP18 9XX 01844 239700 www.magnoliapark.co.uk

The Tythe Barn Manor Farm, Launton, Bicester, Oxfordshire OX26 4SR 01869 321442 www.thetythebarn.co.uk info@thetythebarn.co.uk

Mercure Newbury Elcot Park Elcot, Newbury, Berkshire RG20 8NJ 0844 815 9060 www.mercurenewburyelcotpark@ jupiterhotels.co.uk csales.mercurenewburyelcotpark@ jupiterhotels.co.uk

The Westwood Country Hotel Hinksey, Hill Top, Nr. Boars Hill, Oxford, Oxfordshire OX1 5BG 01865 735408 www.westwoodhotel.co.uk weddings@westwoodhotel.co.uk

Weddings at Waddesdon Queen Street, Waddesdon, Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire HP18 0JH 01296 653241 www.waddesdon.org.uk/ weddings-at-waddesdon weddings.waddesdon@ nationaltrust.org.uk West Wycombe Estate West Wycombe Park Office, Buckinghamshire HP14 3AJ 01494 524411 www.westwycombeestate.co.uk office@westwycombeestate.co.uk

Wedding Fashion Confetti Bridal Centre 58 - 64 Charwood Road, Wokingham, Berkshire RG40 1RY 01189 789839 www.confettibridalcentre.co.uk caroline@theweddingdressshop.com

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