From the Journal of Joshua Fryfogle
Liberty, Liberally Volume I - Issue X
Written May 12, 2016, and published in The People’s Paper, as part of the Vote Local Campaign. As this publication enters year 10, I consider the work that went into this business to keep it going these last 9 years. I can’t help but consider the hard work of a man I never knew, Vaughn Fryfogle, Sr., who passed away on February 13, 1975 - over 40 years ago, before I was born. So much time and heart and family goes into a business, and that’s what comes out of a business too. If you work hard, like my great grandfather. Vaughn Franklin Fryfogle, Sr. He started a business in small town Mississippi. V.F. Fryfogle’s Hardware. From that lifestyle sprung a tradition of business ownership in my family. Of course, that was more common then, when my great grandad was in business, before corporate interests “invested” so heavily in our communities... But I digress. He was a “Yankee” in small town Mississippi, something that would certainly present some obstacles to success. Still, he was accepted and admired, despite his unorthodox religion, German heritage, or Yankee roots. My Pawpaw Fryfogle would only attend Jehovah’s Witness meetings, because the other church groups at the time were still segregated. He donated the land for their Kingdom Hall, and the materials from his hardware, and built it, too. But he was a freethinker, refusing to be baptized into their organization. Before he opened the hardware store, he built houses all over the area, tearing down old buildings and reusing the lumber and nails. He learned efficiency when times were tough, learning to work hard and smart. The Great Depression was during the prime of his life, and he was the product of that time. Looking back on my teens and early twenties - a life of ease compared to my grandfather’s boyhood - the time I spent working for family, I see how much it shaped me. I worked with a man named T.A. Rampshure, who knew my great grandfather very well. He worked for him in that old hardware store. He installed carpet and vinyl flooring back then, a subcontractor for my Pawpaw Fryfogle, and continued to do so throughout his life. T.A. taught me to install flooring, and paid me a percentage by the yard. He taught me to hustle. T.A. expected a lot of me. T.A. was working primarily for older folks in the community, by the time I came to work for him at around 16 years old. As his helper, I hauled the tools, did all the running to and from, heavy lifting, and learned the skills of a carpet mechanic along the way. Still, I learned something more than that. Helping T.A. allowed me to work in the homes of the elders of that
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community. The people who requested T.A.’s services were usually of that generation, my great grandad’s generation; his customers from the old hardware. I would walk in, and these older folks would look me up and down, and ask, “Who’s boy are you?” They knew I was a Fryfogle, by family features, so they didn’t bother confirming. They just wanted to know which of my Great Grandfather’s sons I had descended from. I would oblige politely, and they would always take the time to tell me how much they respected him, by telling me something about him.
“Hardest working man I knew!” “An honest man.” “All business!” “You could set your clock by him. He was dependable.” The compliments and admiration from these elders, heaped upon my young head as if it were my inheritance, was a heavy burden to me, because I was none of those things that they said about my Great Grandad. I was a reprobate, school drop out, good for nothing, dishonest, untrustworthy kid who only worked because I had to. I did not appreciate those accolades then, at least not for what they were. I might have pretended I was worthy for a moment or two, basking in the glow of someone else’s accomplishments. But I always knew it wasn’t deserved. These elders expected a lot of me. T.A. would always nod along in agreement during these predictable conversations. These people who knew my great grandfather, they spoke so highly of him. They didn’t bring up his material wealth - but they did talk about his character, his unique characteristics, what made him someone to remember. His financial security was a side note in his legacy; his wealth was a side effect of his worth. This alludes to something special for me. My grandfather built a good business as a result of his conscious character development. No one spoke of his failures when he was gone. They were forgotten. His business was remembered, but only for context in storytelling. He died digging a fencepost. He died working. I’ve been told this by so many, a common theme after recollecting their unique stories. His death was the perfect symbol of the man I never knew. A simple, hardworking inheritance - a spiritual blessing of physical burden. Years later the hardware store burned down. All his worldly wealth, consumed in a column of flame. Yet his memory is still here, his soul beyond the reach of that fire, eternal life.
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From ‘The Book of Lambspring’, 1599.
Written on April, 8, 2016 [Editor’s Note: The Vote Local Campaign was first launched as an effort to raise awareness about the real impact of shopping with locally-owned business, as it pertains to political outcomes. We intended to relaunch the campaign, in coordination with the election cycle, but world events disrupted that plan. Now more than ever, and as a result of that global disruption of the economy, this conversation is more relevant than in 2016, when the Vote Local Campaign first began. I played the role of a political candidate then, as a way of drawing public attention to the topic of supporting locally-owned business. Now, we’ve partnered with other local business owners to create a slate of ‘candidates’, none of whose are actually running for office... but they are asking for your vote.]
Nope, not a job I want. We, the Employers, need to do a better job at this self-governance thing. But we want a hero! Someone to slay the dragons! Someone to lead us into battle! A symbol of the best of us, a savior to the rest of us!
I imagine the Roman Gladiators must have felt a similar relationship with the people of their time. They were surely treated as gods among men. They probably were indulged in every vice and pleasure, made to feel honored wherever they went, relieved of worldly worries it must have been great! Until it was time to be killed in public.
I’ve gotten the question, “Are you gonna run for an office?” I mean, I am campaigning, so I get it. “You could end up in a real position someday!” Well, I am flattered, but, uh... have you seen what we do to those we elect? Have you seen what we’ve done to families and friends near those people? We treat our elected officials like fodder for a rumor mill. These people work for us! We are the worst bosses of all time, joining in on the melee. If it weren’t for our short attention spans and general apathy, it would be unbearably cruel to them. It’s like the modern day Roman Colosseum... of the Mind! We display their lives, show their weaknesses, curse them, blame them for failure - its a bloodbath. Consider the contempt that might create amongst the elect towards the People our public servants towards the public. Some unsuspecting but presumably sincere citizen takes on the task of public service, a triumphant winner of an election, cheered along by willing supporters. Then, everything changes. We send them off in fanfare, but should they fail, even in their private lives, we publicly shame them!
Imagine the feelings they felt, knowing that the same adoring public would cheer at their death.
We see the same mentality among ancient Mesoamerican cultures, where we’ve learned that they practiced human sacrifice. The ‘victims’ were seen as giving their lives for the community. Public service, if you will.
Now we are not nearly as cruel these days. We’ve toned it down a bit. We don’t kill our heroes to please the gods anymore. We are more civilized, and modern.
We just disgrace them publicly, dragging their entire families down from the pedestals we placed them on. And their sacrifice is never sufficient, either.
We have these public pedestals, and there will always be more who are willing to be placed there, thinking it will be different for them. And maybe it will. I mean, we’re modern, and sophisticated, right? CONTINUES ON PAGE 2
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From the Journal of Joshua Fryfogle