




By Lavender Oman
Thank you to all the artists and resources I used
By Lavender Oman
Thank you to all the artists and resources I used
Being queer means experiencing the world differently. Intimacy can be one of the largest differences. BDSM and other Kink Communities can be a great way to explore intimacy. BDSM is adaptable to the needs of the participants which makes it great for many groups of people: Queer People.
BDSM is what you make out of it and of it. It can be a part of your huge life or just something you do from time to time; big elaborate scenes or more quiet play; sex or another kind of intimacy; physically intensive or soft and settled; just you or several people. Toys or no toys
Safe Sane Consensual
Everyone takes precautions to prevent accidents
Everyone is in a place to and are able to consent
All involved have knowledge and have agreed enthusacitally
Generally, negotiate in advance what activities you are willing to do, Likes/Dislikes, & Boundaries
Risk-aware consensual kink
An understanding that not everything is perfect and there are risks
Acknowledge the faults and issues, know how to handle it
Boundaries, Limits, and Safty Nets
Know what is happening, know the history, and learn
Both are practiced in the BDSM community. Some suggest one over the other. Others suggest a mixture of Both
There is so much to explore:
Boundaries and contracts Scene and Types of Play Toys and more