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Poker keeps you young, just ask engineering wiz George Epstein By Suzan Filipek George Epstein has taught engineering courses at UCLA and for NASA, and he developed military defense systems for the Air Force, Navy and Army. These days he's become a master at poker. After giving a talk on the merits of the game, he was asked to teach at the Claude Pepper Senior Center in 2005. “Gee, what a great idea,” he recalls thinking at the time. “I had no idea it was going to work out like this. It’s just incredible,” the 86-year old area resident said of his classes' 250 membership. "He's the pioneer behind all of this," recreation facility director Gregory Glenn said on a recent Friday afternoon
THIRD book on the game is in the works, says poker maestro George Epstein, left with assistants Pat Box and Shirley Tye.
when the center is packed with some serious players. Studies have shown activity keeps you young. It keeps the
brain's synapses firing, Epstein explains, adding none of his poker students have developed Alzheimer’s.
He refains from playing with his students. Instead he travels to area casinos. He tested his luck recently at Texas Hold ‘em till 2 a.m. at Hustler. “I couldn’t leave, I was winning,” he smiles. He started playing cards as a child when he helped his dad deliver laundry in a Boston suburb. During World War II, stationed in Virginia on a destroyer, he played to pass the time. He was also head of radar, and became a hero on the ship, when he found the cause of recurrent failures. He finished his graduate studies at MIT, and in 1991 he retired from engineering management at The Aerospace Corp., when he considered a second career. Poker was in-
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lowing some wrangling at the city, started teaching. Some people think it’s gambling, he explained. Critical requirements It is a game of chance, but, like real estate hinges on “location, location, location,” poker’s “three critical requirements are patience, patience and patience.” He takes notes and sizes up his opponents’ body language. “It gives you an edge." He wins 70 percent of the time, folding five out of six hands. Starting cards are key, as is the game’s algorhythm; he even wrote a book about it. His third book is on the art of bluffing, inspired by his now 17-year old granddaughter. A multi-award winner, his most recent honor was being named a fellow with the Society of Plastic Engineers. Last year he was elected to the Seniors Poker Hall of Fame, and he consulted on U.S. drones in the Middle East. Early on he thought making $10,000 a year would be the key to happiness. As the years passed, and he eventually led a department with 100 physicists, chemists and lab assistants, he found money was not as important as giving back more than he received. He started a scholarship program at Fairfax High in his and his late wife’s name, Irene, 17 years ago. “She believed every kid should have the opportunity for higher education.” And, he plays his favorite game with war vets at the CalVet facility in West L.A. You can’t beat poker, he says. Claude Pepper Senior Center is at 1762 S. La Cienega Blvd. George Epstein's poker classes are limited to 20 students and meet on Fridays from 1:30 to 4 p.m. The next session is scheduled in the fall. Call 310-559-9677.
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Women can get fit, learn self defense at Circle 50 Club By Laura Eversz Women 50 and older who enroll in a new program at the Moo Sool Won School can earn a black belt in kung fu after only two years. Nece Strudwick, a white (or beginner) belt in the martial art, came up with the idea for the Circle 50 Club. “The 50s are a very important decade for us as women,” she said. “The Black Belt Program will fulfill the fitness, emotional and spiritual needs of these woman.” Teaching the class will be Grand Master Ari Moon, an 8th degree black belt, along with Master Beth Bueno, 65, who took up Kung Fu at age 54, and is now a 4th degree black belt in kung fu. Bueno, who lives on Fourth Ave., believes the discipline is the key to youth and longevity. “There’s no reason the body should go downhill with the right rest, proper nutrition, correct exercise and a good frame of mind. “Being a part of Circle 50 will allow women to empower themselves by getting in good health—in mind, body and spirit—as well as teach them to defend themselves.” The Korean classical and Chinese martial art using fluid movements of the hands and legs can prevent or eliminate problems often associated with aging, such as fatigue,
weakness, heart problems and liver dysfunction, said Bueno. “The main reason I began kung fu was to handle the start of arthritis in my hands and wrists, as well as old ankle injuries,” said Bueno. “Kung fu targets the joints, making them very flexible.” Today, Bueno says she is arthritis-free and has a healthy, flexible, 35-year-old body. “My mind is fast and clean. Spiritually, I am calm and at peace. I don’t need to worry about life and the future, as it will be great.” An introductory class including a fitness test will be offered at an open house at the School at 1149 Crenshaw Blvd. on Sat., July 27 from 9 to 11 a.m.For more information, call 323-857-1234.
GRAND MASTER Ari Moon, left, demonstrated the eagle pose to attendees at a recent introductory class for women over 50 at the Moo Sool Won School. At center is class organizer Nece Strudwick; at right, Master Beth Bueno.
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Couple see the world from their touring Model T Ford New Zealand in 2009. There, they joined a touring club for an excursion of the north and south islands in 2009. “We arrived shortly after their devastating earthquake,” said Wayne. However, their
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Bud Rice shares his D-Day experiences as pilot of a C-47 plane By Jane Gilman It was 69 years ago that Julian “Bud” Rice was piloting a plane to drop paratroopers near the French town of
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Moving to smaller home requires right decisions By Chris McKenry Guest columnist Downsizing a home happens for many reasons and can be a positive experience. Over the years we are fortunate enough to acquire a lifetime of memories, and with those most often we have treasures associated with each memory. But stuff can bury us alive. It can be difficult to find items when they are buried under other items that may be of value even if they are not used. Once that is realized, downsizing is much easier. After years of helping others downsize, I experienced my client’s anxieties as my family home was sold back east. In the same week, I inherited my brother and sister-in-law’s home after their passing. In a week’s time I planned a funeral, de-cluttered my brother’s home for staging and sold it at auction with my family home which was next door. While going through the house, everything brought back so many memories. The process moved swiftly as I kept a few items that had special meaning. I know family friends thought I must be crazy for moving so fast, but there was so much to do and I needed to get back to Los Angeles to both mourn and move forward. As a professional organizer, I know you can’t move forward while holding onto the
past. I paused many times and chuckled how my colleagues would be amazed at my hesitation to let go at times, and shed a few tears realizing it was just stuff that others could enjoy and use more than me. Liquidating an estate after a loved one’s passing may not be the same as downsizing to a more manageable home in our senior years. It may be to just a smaller, more convenient home that is easier to manage, or to an independent or assisted living community. Moving is always an opportunity to shed things long forgotten and find forgotten treasures that can have new meaning. Less space means less room for furniture and storage. Give yourself permission to let go
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Q: I’m older than many of my colleagues and not retiring anytime soon. How can I stay in the work force and still project a young energetic image? A: More people can relate to you than you can imagine. Baby boomers are aging but working as hard as ever. And with the economy in its current state, they’re remaining in their jobs and competing with younger coworkers. Meanwhile a Newsweek poll informs us that looks are valued over education in the workplace (though not over confidence or experience). So much for the not so good news. The great news is that there is a wealth of nonsurgical options that I can offer you that will keep your face looking fresh and your incredibly valuable confidence as high as it should be. In a nutshell, this is an ideal time to be maturing! The first step is Botox or Dysport, to smooth those parallel lines between your brows that make you look tired and cranky at work (even when you’re not). They can also minimize crows feet, lift a drooping mouth and smooth vertical bands on your neck. Injectable fillers, such as Juvederm, Sculptra, and Radiesse work their subtle magic to restore lost volume at cheeks, temples, lips and around the mouth, and under the eyes - all giveaways of aging. We’ve also recently seen some facelift-rivaling results with a few new skin-tightening devices; Ulthera and eMatrix. With minimal downtime you get smoother tighter skin, more even tone, reduced lines and wrinkles, and increased collagen production. To keep your skin in its best condition, periodic IPL’s (Intense Pulsed Light), also called Photo Facials, will remove age spots, freckles, and broken capillaries and simultaneously increase collagen production. Your work experience is uniquely yours. But I see helping you feel your best about your appearance and confidence as my job. It’s what drew me to this profession and what keeps me coming to work. Dr. Rebecca Fitzgerald is a Board Certified Dermatologist Located in Larchmont Village with a special focus on anti-aging technology. She is a member of the Botox Cosmetic National Education Faculty and is an international Training Physician for Dermik, the makers of the injectable Sculptra. She is also among a select group of physicians chosen to teach proper injection techniques for Radiesse, the volumizing filler, around the world. Dr. Fitzgerald is an assistant clinical professor at UCLA. Visit online at www.RebeccaFitzgeraldMD. com or call (323) 464-8046 to schedule an appointment. Adv.
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