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About the Cover
40 features COVER STORY
40 Life with The Marrs Family: From their businesses to their passions, and most importantly, their family.
Love/Wedding Features 30 Singles in the City 38 Love in the Workplace: Ben and Janette Cade 55 Embarking on the perfect beginning 58 Ultimate Wedding Destination & Services 4
Life with The Marrs Family
Meet Dave and Jenny Marrs, co-hosts of the hit TV show “Fixer to Fabulous” on HGTV. Get to know them on a deeper level as we discuss their businesses, passions and, most importantly, their family.
Featuring Northwest Arkansas 44 Saving Grace: hope and healing to break the cycle of poverty 46 Ozark Off Road Cyclists promote mountain biking 48 Why I Run: Anthony Gallo, Running With The Flow of Life 50 The Creative Edge: Julie Gowing Hayes, Creating Creative Connections 52 Bentonville Sophomore Marissa Gianneschi sparkles on and off the softball diamond
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in every edition WHAT’S HAPPENING IN THE OZARKS 12 Calendar of Events - This month, you’ll love having fun in the Four States. Check out a wedding expo or learn how to make heart-themed items to decorate your home. Come on in, the water’s fine at a local Polar Bear Plunge, or warm up during a hike to learn about local owls. Whether you love being indoors or outdoors, fall in love with the Four-State Area in February. 11 Northeast Oklahoma Events 14 Cultural Arts and Entertainment 16 Connect2Culture presents ... Home/Lifestyle 21 Tastes of the Four States - Club 609 22 Show Me Dining Guide 60 Your House ... Your Home Country Chic Decorating 78 The Great Outdoors - Pictures on the walls 80 A Naturalist Voice - Skunks looking for sweethearts would rather smell nice
37 Recipe: Marry Me Chicken 69 Freeman Health System earns highest STEMI designation 70 Spotlighting Compassionate Care 72 Healthcare Professionals 75 Health Events 76 Fit for Life: Heart Veggies: Loving veggies can show your heart love 77 Missouri statewide drug database launched last December
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18 Experience Carthage 19 Show Me Carl Junction 20 Joplin Arts District 27 Fashion Forward - Magnolia & Sunshine 28 Things We Love 68 Honoring Our Local Presidents: Paula Baker
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Welcome to February
The shortest month with the biggest heart! We celebrate love in this issue. Romantic love, of course, but also love in action. Our cover story details how local HGTV stars, Dave and Jenny Marrs, prioritize time and communication as a couple and as a family. You’ll be inspired by their determination to pursue their dreams, while also making a big impact in their Northwest Arkansas community and around the world (see page 40). Our Northwest Arkansas section also highlights the life-changing work of Saving Grace, a nonprofit that helps young women facing homelessness as they age out of foster care. Though career guidance and educational assistance are crucial, the director credits caring, long-term mentoring relationships as the key to the program’s success. Meet “Grace” on page 44. This is our first time to feature Northwest Arkansas in the magazine. There’s much to love about this vibrant corner of the Four States. We’re blessed to live in a region where we have an abundance of opportunities for work and play! This Valentine’s month issue would be incomplete without our popular Singles in the City section. Beginning on page 30, we introduce you to 10 successful men and women who are ready to find that special person to share life’s adventures. Keep an open mind as you flip through, because we’ve helped numerous people connect and even had one marriage. If you’re ready to write your forever love story, our Ultimate Wedding Destination & Services section provides you with everything you need to make your dream wedding a reality (page 58.) These professionals provide the support you need to make your special day magical and stress free. Don’t forget to pick up our 2024 Wedding Guide this month for even more great resources. So, whether it’s savoring the new menu items at the iconic Club 609 in Joplin (page 21), staying in for a special dinner of Marry Me Chicken (page 37), or gathering your girlfriends for a Galentine’s event, enjoy every opportunity to make memories with those you love. The recent passing of an important man in our community served as a powerful reminder to treasure the moments and love each other enough to have the hard conversations. Jim Adams exemplified love in action as a husband, father, veteran and through his work with Horses of Hope. We’re grateful to have called him a friend. “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13
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EVENTS Northeast OK Grove, OK
Feb. 6: Valentine’s Paint Party, 6-8 p.m., Brush & Palette Art Gallery, 18 W. 4th St. Valentine’s Paint Party is an acrylics on canvas by Karen Clary. Classes are $30 for non-members and $20 for members and students. More information: 918.786.9698. Feb. 10: Heartland Express. Doors open at 5 p.m., music at 6 p.m. Grove Middle School, 517 W. 10th St. The River Ridge Bluegrass Association will deliver Bluegrass music once a month during the winter months at the Grove Middle School Auditorium. Feb. 22: Grand Area Creative Alliance Meeting, Noon-1:15 p.m., St. Andrews Episcopal Church, 555 E. 3rd St. The Creative Alliance showcases organizations, businesses and individuals that inspire, enrich and educate the members of our community. Creative Alliance meets on the fourth Thursday of the month. All types of creators and all supporters of the arts are welcome to attend.
Miami, OK Feb. 2: An Evening with Mark Lowry & Friends, 7-10 p.m., Coleman Theatre, 103 N. Main St. Christian artist and comedian Mark Lowry brings his unique brand of humor, song and storytelling for an evening to be remembered. Along with Mark will be Endless Highway and a preshow with Riley Harrison Clark. Tickets: Gold Circle: $50, Orchestra Tier 1 $38, Orchestra Tier 2 $35, Loge $28 and Balcony $25. Plus, tax and fees. More information: 918.540.2425. Feb. 10: Edwin McCain, 8-11 p.m., Buffalo Run Casino Peoria Showplace, 1000 Buffalo Run Blvd. Tickets start at $20. Ages 18-up. Doors open at 7 p.m., show starts at 8 p.m. Edwin McCain has built an enviable career over the past 20 years by balancing massive pop success with the year-round touring schedule of a tireless troubadour. More information: 918.542.7140. Feb. 22 & 24: Miami Little Theatre Presents “Arsenic and Old Lace.” Feb. 22 at 7 p.m. and Feb. 24 at 2:30 p.m., Coleman Theatre, 103 N. Main St. Purchase tickets online or call 918.540.2425. Feb. 24: Phillip Phillips, 8-11:30 p.m., Buffalo Run Casino Peoria Showplace, 1000 Buffalo Run Blvd. Tickets start at $20. Ages 18-up. Doors open at 7 p.m., show starts at 8 p.m. Former “American Idol” winner Phillip Phillips is best known for his hit, “Home,” which marked the most successful coronation hit of any “American Idol” winner to date. More information: 918.542.7140.
Dates and times are subject to change. Please call the Miami Convention and Visitors Bureau at 918.542.4435 to confirm.
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If you have an event you would like to see listed in the Calendar of Events, please email your request to: events@showmetheozarks.com. Events are printed on a space available basis and must be received by the 5th of the month prior to the month of the scheduled event. Northwest Arkansas Feb. 2-4: The Northwest Arkansas (NWA) Home Show 2024, Friday 10 a.m.-6 p.m., Saturday 10 a..-5 p.m., Sunday 11 a.m.-4 p.m. Rogers Convention Center, 3303 S. Pinnacle Hills Parkway, Rogers. An exhibition of the NWA Home Builders Association for home building and remodeling. From landscaping ideas to home remodeling and everything in between. Feb. 4: Radiant Moms Retreat at Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art, 2-5 p.m., 600 Museum Way, Bentonville. Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art’s permanent collection spans five centuries of American art by Rockwell, O’Keeffe, Lichtenstein and others. You can also visit Frank Lloyd Wright’s Bachmann-Wilson House, Buckminster Fuller’s Fly’s Eye Dome or tour the extensive museum grounds. Feb. 8: Adult Night at Scott Family Amazeum, 6-8 p.m., 1009 Museum Way, Bentonville. Pre-registration and payment required. $30 for Amazeum members, $35 for non-members. Ages 21–up. Embark on a journey through size and scale with a unique Amazeum twist, featuring larger-than-life experiences, like giant Bernoulli, tiny drawings that pack a big punch, life-size kerplunk for a colossal showdown and an array of other captivating activities. More information: info@amazeum.org or call 479.696.9280. Feb. 11: Say I Do Wedding Expo, 11 a.m.-3 p.m., Benton County Fairgrounds & Expo, 7640 SW Regional Airport Boulevard, Bentonville. See all the NWA wedding community has to offer, as well as the latest wedding trends. Showcasing wedding venues, formal wear, music, photography, catering, flowers and so much more. Free admission and free parking. Don’t forget to complete the wedding registry for your chance to win a $300 gift certificate. Feb. 24: Great NWA Model Train Show, 9 a.m.-4 p.m., Benton County Fairgrounds & Expo, 7640 SW Regional Airport Boulevard, Bentonville. More information: 479.725.4017. Carl Junction Community Center, 303 N. Main St., 417.649.7237 Monday, Wednesday & Friday Pickleball, 6-10 p.m., Tuesday & Thursday 1-3 p.m., and Sunday 1-6 p.m. Tuesday yoga 6 p.m. Carl Junction Lions Breakfast, 8-11 a.m. The CJ Lions Club sponsors a monthly buffet breakfast with proceeds going to various community organizations and projects. Adults and children 11 and up, $7; children ages 3-10, $3; children under 3 eat free. Joplin, MO Shoal Creek Conservation Education Center, 201 W. Riviera Dr. Your local connection to Missouri’s fish, forests and wildlife. Check out the native plant landscaping, exhibits or hike the trails. Purchase a fishing or hunting permit, attend a nature program or watch for wildlife along the trails and banks of Shoal Creek. Enjoy a variety of free public programs throughout the year. Education Center is open Tuesday-Friday, 9 a.m.-5 p.m., and Saturday, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Closed Sunday, Monday and most state holidays. Call 417.629.3434, email Shoal.Creek@mdc.mo.gov or visit mdc.mo.gov/events for upcoming events. The parking lot, grounds and trail are open seven days a week from sunrise to sunset. 12
Feb. 3: Bird Walk at Cardinal Valley Wetland, 8:30-9:30 a.m. Registration required. Ages 10-up. Celebrate World Wetland Day by joining MDC staff at Cardinal Valley Wetland to learn about winter waterfowl and the importance of wetlands in Missouri. This is an easy rated walk with flat natural surfaces and is less than one mile round trip. Feb. 7 & 8 and Feb. 21 & 22: Project Feeder Watch, Feb. 7 & 8, 10:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m., and Feb. 21 & 22, 10:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. No registration required. Recommended for ages 12-up. A winter-long survey of birds. Feb. 10: Short-Eared Owl Hike, 5-6:30 p.m. Registration required. Ages 10-up. Winter in Missouri means short-eared owls may be seen flying low over native grasslands in search of mice, rabbits and other small mammals. Join us at Shawnee Trail Conservation Area to discover more about these uncommon winter residents. Feb. 13: Introduction to Fly Tying, 6:30-8 p.m. Registration required. Ages 12-up. Join the Shoal Creek staff and MAKO fly fishers as we continue a fly-tying series designed for beginners and experts. We will go over equipment and supplies needed as we tie Wolly Buggers. Feb. 16: Little Acorns – Calling All Owls, 10:30-11 a.m. Registration required. Recommended for ages 3-7. Soaring through the nighttime sky is a feathery predator with a lot to say. Join us for Little Acorns to learn about the owls of Missouri and make a craft to take home. Feb. 17: Bat Box Workshop, 1-3:30 p.m. Registration required. Ages 10up. Bring your family to learn more about being landlords for bats and to put together your own bat roosting box (one box per family). Feb. 21: Virtual Program – Where Can I? Crappie Fish, 12-12:30 p.m. Registration required. Ages 12-up. Warmer days are just around the corner and spring fishing will be in full swing. Anytime is a good time to fish for crappie, but when spawning starts, it gets very exciting. We will discuss a crappie’s life and where to fish for them. Pittsburg, KS Jan. 10-March 13: Angel Brame – Re-Purpose, Re-Engineer and Relocate Special Exhibit, Porter Hall on Pittsburg State University Campus, 202 E. Cleveland Ave. More information at Facebook.com/ PittStateArtDept. Feb. 2 & Feb. 4: “Cinderella” by Pittsburg State University Opera Theatre, Feb. 2 at 7 p.m., Feb. 4 at 3 p.m., Bicknell Family Center for the Arts, 1711 S. Homer St. Order tickets: pittstate.edu/office/ticket-office or call 620.235.4796. More information at BicknellCenter.com or Facebook. com/BicknellCenter. Feb. 10: Polar Plunge with Special Olympics Kansas Southeast Region, 9 a.m., The Crimson Villas, 1904 S. Rouse St. More information at SOKS.org or Facebook.com/SEKSOKS. Feb. 14: NYC’s “STOMP,” Bicknell Family Center for the Arts, 1711 S. Homer St. Watch, listen and be transported as matchboxes, brooms, garbage cans, Zippo lighters and more fill the stage with an inventive and invigorating show that’s dance, music and theatrical performance blended in one electrifying rhythm. Order tickets: pittstate.edu/office/ ticket-office or call 620.235.4796. More information at BicknellCenter.com or Facebook.com/BicknellCenter. Feb. 17: JUMP!, 8 p.m., Kansas Crossing Casino, 1275 US-69. Order tickets: KansasCrossingCasino.com. More information at KansasCrossingCasino. com or Facebook.com/KansasCrossingCasino.com. Feb. 17: Sausage Making Workshop, 10 a.m.-1 p.m., Crawford County Historical Museum, 651 S. US-69. More information at Facebook.com/ CrawCoMuseum. George Washington Carver National Monument Visitor Center Free Programs. Two miles west of Diamond, Missouri, on Highway V, one-
quarter mile south on Carver Road. Visitor Center and Park Grounds open daily 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Call 417.325.4151 or visit www.nps.gov/gwca. *Programs will be presented outside on park grounds. Feb. 3 & 4: African American Trailblazers, 1 p.m. Talk with a park ranger and explore contributions made by African American trailblazers and discover their pioneering achievements. Feb. 10: Wonders of the Night Sky, 6-8 p.m. Learn about celestial navigation, star stories and the effects of light pollution. Feb. 11: Interracial Understanding, 1 p.m. Join a park ranger to discuss George Washington Carver’s rise to fame and his efforts for interracial understanding after his 1921 appearance before the United States House Ways and Means Committee. Feb. 15: Coffee with Carver: To Fill the Empty Dinner Pail, 10 a.m. George Washington Carver’s outreach to impoverished families included sharing information about enriching the nutritional value of their meals, thus improving their health, with sweet potatoes and peanuts. Following the ranger talk, participants will make sweet potato flour, starch and mock coconut, plus a milk alternative made from peanuts. Feb. 17 & 18: Historic Neosho Schoolhouse, 1 p.m. Stop by the visitor center and learn about the historic 1872 Neosho Colored School and the neighborhood that supported the education of hundreds of African American children. Feb. 24 & 25: Film: “Underground Railroad – The William Still Story,” 1 p.m. This Public Broadcasting Service film explores the life of William Still, an unheralded hero of the Underground Railroad. (60 mins.) ArtForms Gallery Workshops, 620 N. Broadway, Pittsburg, KS. 620.240.0165. ArtForms Gallery is a co-op of artists offering monthly workshops ranging from acrylic painting, watercolor, glass fusing, pottery, metalsmithing, jewelry, textiles, kids’ art and more. Please call ArtForms Gallery to register for any artist’s workshop. Refunds/ Cancellations: Decisions regarding refunds and cancellations are determined by the artist leading the workshop. For more information, check the Facebook page at ArtFormsGallery620/ or see our website at www.artforms-gallery.com. Every Tuesday (Feb. 6, 13, 20 & 27): Art Explorations, 12:30-3:30 p.m. Free. Join Gallery Artist Pat Glick every Tuesday afternoon for a fun time working on your own project or art. Bring your materials and create with us for free. Feb. 4: Show Your Heart!, 1-3 p.m. Workshop fee $40, due at time of registration. Class limit of 10. Ages 12-up. Artist: Dianne Miller. Immerse yourself in the art of glass fusion, where vibrant colors and your personal touch come together to craft a unique heart masterpiece. Feb. 17: Tea Time Collaboration, 1-3 p.m. Workshop fee $40, due at time of registration. Class limit of 6. Ages 8-108 years old. Artist: Sarah Prince. Designer Florals by Rilie will demonstrate how to make your own teacup flower arrangement. Each person will make one and take it home. Feb. 18: Upcycled Sweater Hats, 1-3 p.m. Workshop fee $30, due at time of registration. Ages 12-up. Artist: Brenda Hayes. Make your own unique hat, using old sweaters. Feb. 24: Cuttlebone Casting, 1-4 p.m. Workshop fee $50, due at time of registration. Class limit of 10. Ages 12-up. Artist: Nicole Meyer-Foresman. Learn to carve and cast into the dried bone of a cuttlefish. The organic layers of this material create beautiful textures and patterns into any design, naturally. Feb. 27: Time for the M“ART”Y Party, 2-4 p.m. Workshop fee $40, due at time of registration. Class limit of 10. Ages 12-up. Artist: Debbie Southard. This would be a good class for someone who has not painted before or
has never done pouring art before. There will be a Mardi Gras cake to share. Whoever gets the baby wins a prize. Wildcat Glades Friends Group, 201 Riviera Dr., Joplin, Missouri. All programs are free of charge, unless otherwise noted. Registration is requested. To register, email robin@wildcatglades.org or visit the Facebook page for online registration options. Robin Standridge, executive director, robin@wildcatglades.org. 417.708.7713 or 417.629.3434 X4540. February Program List: Wildcat Glades Nature Group. This month, the Wildcat Glades Nature Group, along with other partners, will host a Yoga in Nature event, a Preschool Connections program, our monthly Nature Explorers program, and a special partnership program on Missouri’s invasive plants. We will also continue to work on our Habitat Restoration project along the trails at Wildcat Park. Various Dates in February, Ongoing Project: Wildcat Park Habitat Restoration Initiative. Wildcat Glades Nature Group, in partnership with Missouri Southern State University, continues to have work days to remove invasive species at Wildcat Park. The Restoration Plan is an ongoing project that will be carried out over the next 10 years. Workdays are held every other Saturday. If you are interested in becoming involved with the project, you can check out the Facebook page or reach out to colvin@wildcatglades.org. Every other Saturday at Wildcat Park: KCU Student Trail Workdays. The Kansas City University Students for a Sustainable Future Organization spend every other Saturday at Wildcat Park working on the trails. These future medical professionals work with Wildcat Glades volunteers to remove invasive plant species from the trails, remove graffitti off various surfaces clean up trash and much more. Feb. 10: Yoga in Nature for Kids, 10:30-11:30 a.m., Wildcat Glades Education Cottage. Free. For ages 4-up accompanied by an adult. Led by Amanda, a registered yoga teacher, this class is designed to incorporate elements of fun, breathing and yoga poses specifically for kids. Must pre-register. Sign up by following the instructions on our Facebook page, by visiting https://bit.ly/YogainNature2024 or by emailing colvin@ wildcatglades.org. Feb. 10: Nature Explorers: Tracks & Snacks, 1-2 p.m., Wildcat Glades Education Cottage. Free. For ages 7-14. Who’s hungry for track identification? At this month’s Nature Explorers, we’ll identify fresh tracks from around the park. After we’ve identified, we’ll eat some snacks and watch footage of the animals leaving the tracks. Must pre-register. Sign up by following the instructions on our Facebook page, by visiting https://bit.ly/TrackandSnacks or by emailing colvin@wildcatglades.org. Feb. 14 & 17: Preschool Connections – Tracks. Feb. 14, 10-11 a.m., Feb. 17, 1-2 p.m., Wildcat Glades Education Cottage. For ages 3-7. Sponsored by Calvin Cassady. At this month’s Preschool Connections, we’ll explore the different kinds of tracks found in Wildcat Park and maybe make some of our own. After that, we’ll read a story, sing a song and make a track-tastic craft that’s sure to leave an impression. Must pre-register by visiting https://bit.ly/PreschoolConnectionsFeb24 or by emailing colvin@ wildcatglades.org. Feb. 24: Stopping the Invasion – Invasive Plant Species in Missouri, 10 a.m.-Noon, Wildcat Glades Education Cottage. Free. For ages 13up. There’s something lurking in your backyard. Invasive species have taken root in Missouri, and it’s time to fight back. Join us as we learn to find, identify and destroy the invasive species growing all around us with esteemed Ecological Restorationist Dr. Jason Willand. Must preregister by visiting https://bit.ly/WildcatInvasives or by emailing colvin@ wildcatglades.org.
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This content is also available at connect2culture.org/calendar. Joplin, MO Performances: Jan. 31-Feb. 5: “Vanya & Sonia & Masha & Spike,” 7:30 p.m. (Sunday 2:30 p.m.), Joplin Little Theatre, 3009 W. 1st St. This comedy revolves around middle-aged siblings Vanya and Sonia, who share a home in Bucks County, Pennsylvania, where they bicker and complain about the circumstances of their lives. For mature audiences only. Reservations encouraged; reserve your ticket at joplinlittletheatre.org or by calling 417.623.3638. Tickets: Adults $18, senior citizens/students $15. More information: info@joplinlittletheatre.org, 417.623.3638. Feb. 1: Apollon Musagéte Quartet, 7 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Beshore Performance Hall, 212 W. 7th St. Acclaimed Polish ensemble makes its Pro Musica debut. More information: director@ promusicajoplin.org, 417.625.1822. Feb. 4: Letters Aloud: “Thanks, But No Thanks – The Greatest Rejection Letters Ever!,” 2 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Beshore Performance Hall, 212 W. 7th St. Connects live audiences to famous (and infamous) historical figures through their intimate correspondence. Tickets: connect2culture.org, 417.501.5550, C2C box office inside the Cornell Complex (Tuesday-Saturday, 1-5 p.m.). Tickets: $30-$35. More information: lauren@ connect2culture.org, 417.501.5550.
is a suggested, minimum donation of $35. For reservations, email info@ codaconcerthouse.com. In response to reservations, a confirmation email with the address, directions, parking, etc., will be sent in return. All proceeds benefit the artist performing. More information: info@codaconcerthouse.com. Feb. 29-March 2: “The Great Gatsby,” 7:30 p.m. (Saturday 2 p.m. & 7:30 p.m.), Missouri Southern State University Bud Walton Black Box Theatre, 3950 E. Newman Rd. The breathtaking glamour and decadent excess of the Jazz Age come to the stage in F. Scott Fitzgerald’s classic novel, and in Simon Levy’s adaptation. Tickets available at showtix4u.com/event-details/76665. Tickets: General admission $10, seniors/students/military $8, MSSU faculty/ staff $6, children (ages 3-10) $4. More information: performingarts@mssu.edu, 417.625.3002. Events: Feb. 1: Winter Family Book Night, 5:30-7 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Enjoy a cozy evening of reading, making crafts and eating snacks. More information: cmatekel@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.2184. Feb. 3: Saturday STEAM Club (ages 5-12), 1-2 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Explore high- and low-tech STEAM activities in this hands-on, childled program. Children ages 8 and under must be accompanied by an adult. More information: cmatekel@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.2184. Feb. 4, 11, 18 & 25: Open Mic Comedy Night, 9 p.m., Blackthorn Pizza & Pub, 510 S. Joplin Ave. Try out your latest stand-up routine or take in the acts of local comedians. Age restrictions: 18+ until 10 p.m. 21+ from 10 p.m. until close. More information: potterdakoda1982@gmail.com, 417.540.9186.
Feb. 10: “Be My Broadway Valentine,” 2:30 p.m. & 7:30 p.m. at Joplin Little Theatre, 3009 W. 1st St. Eighth Biennial Valentine Concert! Reservations encouraged; reserve your ticket at joplinlittletheatre.org or by calling 417.623.3638. Tickets: $14. More information: info@joplinlittletheatre.org, 417.623.3638.
Feb. 5 & 6: “All Quiet on the Western Front” Auditions, 7 p.m., Joplin Little Theatre, 3009 W. 1st St. Chronicles Paul Baumer’s observations of life and death in the mud of the trenches and the impossibility of returning to civilian life after living in hell. For mature audiences only. Performance runs March 20-24. More information: info@joplinlittletheatre.org, 417.623.3638.
Feb. 10: Charles McPherson Quintet, 7 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Beshore Performance Hall, 212 W. 7th St. An alto saxophonist born in Joplin and raised in Detroit, Charles McPherson’s natural talent and profound work has taken him to concert venues, festivals, orchestras and jazz halls across the globe. Tickets: connect2culture.org, 417.501.5550, C2C box office inside the Cornell Complex (Tuesday-Saturday, 1-5 p.m.). Tickets: $30$35. More information: lauren@connect2culture.org, 417.501.5550.
Feb. 5 & 12: League of Books and Bindings Chapter Book Club (ages 8-12), 4:15–5:15 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Hands-on book club discusses and explores “Mac B., Kid Spy!” Registration preferred; register by calling 417.623.7953 or emailing childrens@joplinpubliclibrary.org. More information: cmatekel@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.2184.
Feb. 15-18 & 22-25: “Peter Pan and Wendy,” 7 p.m. (Sunday 2:30 p.m.), Stained Glass Theatre Joplin, 2101 Annie Baxter Ave. A loopy, fun and fast-moving adaptation of J.M. Barrie’s original novel! Tickets can be purchased at sgtjoplin. square.site. Tickets: Adults $12, children (ages 4-14) $5, children ages 3 and under admitted for free. More information: sgtjoplin@gmail.com. Feb. 16: Joplin Improv Live Show, 8 p.m., Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave. Enjoy happy hour at 7 p.m. Stick around for a free improvised comedy show. More information: joplinimprov@gmail.com. Feb. 17: American Patchwork Quartet, 7 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Beshore Performance Hall, 212 W. 7th St. American Patchwork Quartet is on a mission to reclaim the immigrant soul of American roots music. Tickets: connect2culture.org, 417.501.5550 or C2C box office inside the Cornell Complex (Tuesday-Saturday, 1-5 p.m.). Tickets: $30-$35. More information: lauren@connect2culture.org, 417.501.5550. Feb. 22: Concert Band Winter Concert: Fracas, 7:30-9:30 p.m., Missouri Southern State University Taylor Performing Arts Center, 3950 E. Newman Rd. Under the direction of Dr. Brandon Robinson, the MSSU Concert Band performs its first concert of the semester. More information: performingarts@mssu.edu, 417.625.3002. Feb. 25: Lightwire Theater: “The Ugly Duckling,” 2 p.m., Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Beshore Performance Hall, 212 W. 7th St. The classic tale of “The Ugly Duckling” in a brilliant, new light! Tickets: connect2culture.org, 417.501.5550 or C2C box office inside the Cornell Complex (Tuesday-Saturday, 1-5 p.m.). Tickets: Adults $15, children (ages 3-17) free. More information: lauren@connect2culture.org, 417.501.5550. Feb. 27: Eddie 9V House Concert (ages 18+), 7 p.m., The Coda Concert House, 2120 E. 24th St. This old-soul artist turned away from the path of college and jobs to burst onto the blues club circuit of his native Atlanta, Georgia. There
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Feb. 6: Rock Club, 5:30 p.m., Joplin History & Mineral Museum, 504 S. Schifferdecker Ave. Club members listen to presentations on various rockrelated topics, show off their favorite finds during a show-and-tell portion, help plan upcoming rock shows and enter to win a door prize. More information: joplinmuseum@gmail.com, 417.623.1180 X1586. Feb. 6: Tuesday Knight Chess (ages 11-18), 6-7:30 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Designed for teens in grades 6-12 with basic knowledge of and experience playing chess. More information: teen@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.7953 X1027. Feb. 6: Chat & Craft (ages 18+), 6-8 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Whether you crochet, knit, stitch, draw or paint, bring along your current project and chat with others. More information: sturnerhill@ joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.7953 X1030. Feb. 7: Adult Take-Home Kit (ages 18+), Noon-3 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Kits can be picked up in the Reference Area and are available on a first-come, first-served basis from Noon to 3 p.m., or while supplies last. More information: sturnerhill@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.7953 X1030. Feb. 8: Joplin Writers’ Guild, 6 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Includes a wide variety of writers, from hobbyists to professional, published writers. Dues are $10 for the year, but anyone interested can attend their first meeting free. More information: s.v.farnsworth@gmail.com, 417.691.0480. Feb. 19: Downtown Poetry Reading and Open Mic, 6-8 p.m., Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave. Featured reader, Hannah Dow, begins at 6:15 p.m. Open mic readings follow at 7 p.m. More information: julieramon0802@gmail.com. Feb. 22: Anime/Manga Hang Out for Grown-Ups (ages 18+), 6-7:30 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Watch anime and hang out with people with similar interests! More information: sturnerhill@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.7953 X1030.
Feb. 24: Lego Build-a-Thon (ages 4-12), 1-2 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Collaborate, build and explore your creative side. More information: cmatekel@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.2184. Feb. 27: Dog Day Afternoon (ages 6-12), 4-5 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Independent readers practice their skills by reading to certified therapy dogs. Register in-person or by calling 417.623.7953. More information: cmatekel@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.2184. Feb. 29: Open Mic Night, 7-9:30 p.m. Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave. Performers are allotted five to eight minutes per set. Two vocal mics, a quarter inch plug-in for guitar/piano and an aux cable will be available. To sign up early, message at Facebook.com/joplinavecoffeeco. More information: autumn@joplinavenuecoffeecompany.com, 417.483.5558. Exhibits: Jan. 13-March 2: “Pulped Under Pressure: The Art of Handmade Paper,” Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. 7th St. These works encourage a contemplative slowing down even as they urge acknowledgement of some of the most pressing issues facing civilization today. More information: shaun.conroy@spivaarts.org, 417.621.9814. Jan. 13-March 2: “Those Who Can, Teach: The Work of Art Educators,” Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. 7th St. This is an invitational exhibit for area art educators to display their own professional works. More information: shaun.conroy@spivaarts.org, 417.621.9814. Jan. 17-March 4: “The Third Grade Collaboration,” Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex, Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. 7th St. This year, students are creating a continuous public installation in the Jo Mueller Reserve Gallery in response to the exhibit Pulped Under Pressure: The Art of Handmade Paper. More information: shaun.conroy@spivaarts.org, 417.621.9814. Jan. 18-Feb. 29: “Surrealism” by Joplin High School Students, Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. Students from Joplin High School’s drawing and painting classes created surrealist pieces as their capstone project for the close of the semester. More information: jill@postartlibrary.org, 417.623.7953 X1041. Classes: Feb. 4, 18 & 25: Introduction to Improv - Foundations 1.0 (ages 17+), 5:307 p.m., Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave. Teaches the basics of improv, starting with the fundamentals and adding to skills along the way. Registration required; register at joplin-improv.square.site. Cost: $15 per class; $75 for all six classes. More information: joplinimprov@gmail.com. Feb. 13: Yoga Class (ages 18+), 6-7 p.m., Joplin Public Library, 1901 E. 20th St. This class is open to any experience level. A few yoga mats will be available, but attendees should bring a yoga mat, towel or small blanket to practice on. More information: sturnerhill@joplinpubliclibrary.org, 417.623.7953 X1030. Recurring Classes: Create N Sip Studios, 1505 W. 10th St.: Wednesdays: Wine’d Down Wednesday, 5-9 p.m. Combines the best of both worlds with canvas and home decor DIY event! Prices vary depending on chosen project. Cost: $28-$58. More information: coleman@creatensip.com, 417.680.5434. Saturdays: Saturday Morning Choose Your Canvas, 10 a.m. Select the painting you want to recreate and let the experienced staff at Create N Sip help you make a masterpiece. Prices vary depending on chosen project. Cost: $28$176. More information: coleman@creatensip.com, 417.680.5434. Elements Art Gallery and Studio, 2207 W. 7th St., Ste. 8: Tuesdays and Wednesdays: Art Buffet, 1-4:30 p.m. Create with others and receive assistance from professional artists. Cost: $5 with your supplies, $15 with provided acrylic and watercolor supplies. More information: hawkinsarts@ gmail.com, 417.691.8285.
Firehouse Pottery-Joplin, 112 S. Main St.: Tuesdays: Ladies’ Night Out (ages 18+), until 8 p.m. Gather your girls and enjoy a creative evening. More information: firehousepotteryjoplin@gmail.com, 417.553.0671. Fridays: Date Night, until 8 p.m. Friday nights are date night 2-for-1 studio fees until 8 p.m. for all couples. More information: firehousepotteryjoplin@gmail. com, 417.553.0671. Judy’s Ballroom Dance, 3950 E. Newman Rd.: Tuesdays: Foxtrot with Judy Schneider, 6-7 p.m. Begin learning ballroom dance with the foxtrot. This group meets on Tuesdays, Jan. 9-Feb. 13. Cost: $75 per person; $50 for students. More information: schneider-j@mssu.edu, 417.392.0215. Fridays: Bachata with Patricia & Ricardo Luna, 6:30-8 p.m. Learn the Bachata dance, a beautiful, easy Latin dance from the Dominican Republic. This group meets on Fridays, Jan. 12-Feb. 16. Cost: $75 per person; $50 for students. More information: schneider-j@mssu.edu, 417.392.0215. Local Color Art Gallery & Studio, 1027 S. Main St.: Tuesdays: Beginner Watercolor Class with Barb Hicklin (ages 8+), 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Informative and fun watercolor class for beginners. Registration required; register by calling 417.553.0835. Cost: $20. More information: margiemonet@ gmail.com, 417.553-0835. Tuesdays: Tuesday Oil, Acrylic & Watercolor Come & Go, 2-5 p.m. Weekly drop-in painting class for adults. Paula Giltner teaches watercolor, oil and acrylic painting techniques and design principles. Cost: $20. More information: jnpgiltner@hotmail.com. Wednesdays: Wednesday Oil, Acrylic & Watercolor Come & Go, 2-5 p.m. Weekly drop-in painting class for adults. Paula Giltner teaches watercolor, oil and acrylic painting techniques and design principles. Cost: $20. More information: jnpgiltner@hotmail.com. Spiva Center for the Arts, 212 W. 7th St.: Tuesdays: Creation Station (ages 6-11), 4-5:15 p.m. Register your child today to explore the galleries, enjoy fun activities and experiment with a variety of media, including painting, drawing, clay, collage, sculpture and more. Register at spivaarts.org/classes. Cost: In advance $6, at the door $8. More information: jhenning@spivaarts.org, 417.621.9812. Fridays: Memories in the Making, Noon-2 p.m. This art experience is centered on the expression of creativity through painting for those dealing with memory loss. No registration required. More information: jhenning@spivaarts.org, 417.621.9812. Tanglefooter’s Round Dance Club, 1802 W. 2nd St.: Mondays: Tanglefooter’s Round Dance Club, 7-8 p.m. Beginner- and intermediate-level ballroom dancing. Ages 14 through adult welcome. Cost: Individual $7.50, couple $15. More information: mike@gfeneosho.com, 417.529.0686. Monett, MO Feb. 25: Hello Youth Talent!, 3 p.m., Monett High School Performing Arts Center, 1 David Sippy Dr. A special concert presented by the Ozark Festival Orchestra (OFO), a community orchestra comprised of musicians from Southwest Missouri, featuring the winners of the OFO’s annual Young Artist Concerto Competition. Tickets: Adults $10, seniors $5, students (ages 18 and under) admitted free. More information: ozarkfestivalorchestra@gmail.com, 417.849.6865. Neosho, MO Feb. 3: ArtCon 2024, 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Neosho Junior High, 14646 Kodiak Rd. Features free Q&A panels, autographs and photo ops, cosplay contest, Smash Brothers tournament, board games, specialty vendors, artist alley, appearance by actor Isaac Singleton, comic creators and more. For more details or tickets, visit neoshoarts.net. General admission: $5, kids ages five and under free. More information: neoshoartscouncil@gmail.com.
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Rejection,
Jazz, Ducks presents... and Roots By Ann Leach
LETTERS ALOUD:
Thanks, But No Thanks The Greatest Rejection Letters Ever!
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aul Morgan Stetler’s biggest rejection led to his creation of a series of productions focused on letters. “I’ve been an actor for many years in Seattle and I am no stranger to rejection,” Stetler said. “I wanted one role badly and was up for the lead role and I knew I was right for it. I gave the best audition of my life and came back for a callback and really felt like I had it. I didn’t get the part and it was devastating. I felt like I was losing something that I never got to explore.” That event found Stetler thinking, “I can’t continue to put myself in a situation where other people are making decisions for me about what I can and cannot do.” So, he began creating and producing work and being someone in charge of his own vision. “And that led me to creating this show,” he said. Stetler began curating letters he found and looked at how he could create an arc that would take the audience on a journey. “I started out with form letters of rejections and then moved to personal rejections early in your career, and what I found is that they are tremendously funny and what it’s really about is perseverance and people who
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don’t give up when they experience adversity.” Audience members will be asked to jot down a quick rejection story of their own that will be collected and possibly read during the second act of the show. “This started when we got a letter handed to us in 2015 when we performed in a tiny Alaska town,” Stetler said. “She told us she was having fun and then described what she was wearing and where she was sitting and that we might want to watch out for her. It was so cute. So, we read her letter on stage and she loved it. So, thanks to Kayla, we have a new way of communicating with our audiences.”
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LETTERS ALOUD: Thanks, But No Thanks - The Greatest Rejection Letters Ever Sunday • Feb. 4 • 2 p.m. Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex Beshore Performance Hall Tickets: $30-$35, plus fees. Call the box office at 417.501.5550. “We make our shows for people of no particular age,” said Lightwire co-founder Eleanor Carney, who founded it with husband, Ian. “We are definitely family. Your 7-year-old is laughing at one thing and the 40-year-old is laughing at something else, and we include a wide variety of music.” The performance is given in an all-dark theater where suddenly light illuminates the actors’ costumes that are outfitted with the illuminescent wire and a personal battery pack (using rechargeable batteries) that allows each actor to dim or brighten themselves as their roles demand.
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harles McPherson was born in Joplin and moved to Detroit at the age of 9, where he studied with renowned pianist Barry Harris and started playing jazz professionally at age 19. From there, McPherson’s career took off, expanding rapidly and taking him to concert venues, festivals, orchestras and jazz halls across the globe. Today he is 84 years old and just as passionate about his music as he has always been. “I’m in good shape and still travel,” he said. “If you live long enough and you’re healthy and your mind is still good, then it’s almost better in a way than when you were a youth.” He elaborated on this thought and added, “Wisdom is what comes from living life and trial and error and if you can keep your wits, then a lot of times that creativity and that vision is bigger than when you were 35. And that’s the blessing. If you keep learning something and stay involved then you age more slowly, and your wisdom and you are a happier camper.” His return-to-Joplin performance (he performed a year ago when the downtown mural depicting famous African American artists with a tie to Joplin was unveiled and his profile was included.) includes a mixed menu of original compositions and selections from the American Songbook. “I’ve got a wonderful band coming with me,” McPherson said. “We’ll be playing the Blues and some Bebop.”
Want to go? CHARLES MCPHERSON
Saturday • Feb. 10 • 7 p.m. Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex Beshore Performance Hall Tickets: $30-$35, plus fees. Call the box office at 417.501.5550. Ian and the crew build all the costumes and sets, including attaching the wire to the skeleton of each costume. “You can spend a lot of time watching the show and thinking about how the actors are doing what they’re doing,” Eleanor said. “Or you can just surrender to the story and watch the ducks. Our work is very story-driven.”
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his diverse group of Grammy-winning and -nominated musicians is on a mission to reclaim the immigrant soul of American roots music. The American Patchwork Quartet draws on a repertoire of centuries-old American folk songs that highlight America’s immigrant roots. They showcase America’s dynamic present by combining the diverse talents of four U.S. citizens, each with a unique cultural background. They are celebrating their debut album that releases Feb. 9. “We will perform timeless American folk songs from our album,” APQ founder, guitarist and vocalist, said Clay Ross. “These songs helped define our American identity before the commercialization of music. The songs have been passed down for centuries through the oral tradition and the power they have to reflect the human experience is still true today.” Ross created the concept for APQ but did so with specific musicians in mind. “I try to create a framework where everyone in the group can contribute and feel a sense of ownership for their part in our musical collage,” he said. “The work has grown through an organic process of collaboration with input from each of the musicians.” The response has been favorable from audience members. Ross said, “People often walk out saying our music has moved them to tears and that our message is a much-needed dose of hope and solidarity during a time of great division.”
Want to go? AMERICAN PATCHWORK QUARTET
Saturday • Feb. 17 • 7 p.m. Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex Beshore Performance Hall Tickets: $30-$35, plus fees. Call the box office at 417.501.5550.
Want to go? LIGHTWIRE THEATER
Sunday • Feb. 25 • 2 p.m. Harry M. Cornell Arts & Entertainment Complex Beshore Performance Hall
Tickets: Adults $15, children (3-17) free. Call the box office at 417.501.5550. February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 17
Experience Carthage
In the spirit of continuing to explore and experience Carthage, Missouri, this month we wanted to feature new programming and events hosted by the Carthage Parks & Recreation Department. Did you know? The Carthage Parks & Recreation Department has begun holding programming at Memorial Hall. The programming began in October 2023. The first class held was “Painting with Juanita Canvas: Harvest Pumpkin.” “It was a well-attended class. We had lots of fun! Juanita had a lot of different painting techniques, snacks and small door prizes,” reflects Chelsea Cholley, recreation and events coordinator for Carthage Parks & Recreation Department. Since October, the department has held four different programs, including a “Centennial Roots Simple Sourdough” workshop held in November that was sold out. The response from participants has been positive. Many locals enjoy the opportunity to try something new and to walk away learning a new skill. The next two classes will be held in February, and both would make a perfect date night activity for the upcoming Valentine’s holiday. The “Wing of Romance” paint class with Juanita’s Canvas will be held Saturday, Feb. 3, from 2:30 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. This is a special paint class tailored just for couples. If you prefer a different way to create, a Sushi 101 class will be held Saturday, Feb. 17, from 11 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. Dive into the art of sushi making with a hands18
ExperienceCarthageMo.com on experience. In this 2-3 hour session, Ryan will guide you through the delicate process of crafting traditional sushi rolls and Nigiri. Whether you’re a sushi novice or a seasoned enthusiast, this class is perfect for anyone eager to enhance their culinary skills and enjoy the delicious rewards of homemade sushi. Follow the Carthage Parks & Recreation Department
Facebook page for additional details and links to register for upcoming classes. If you are interested in partnering with the Carthage Parks & Recreation Department to bring a class, activity or program, you are encouraged to reach out to Chelsea Cholley at 417.237.7050 or c.cholley@ carthagemo.gov.
The Carl Junction Area Chamber of Commerce loves its power couples! You see these faces all over town and they are always willing to lend a helping hand. Each of these couples holds a special place in our hearts and they deserve a special Valentine’s Day shout out. Thank you for all you do and for always being there! - Executive Director Nick Howard, Carl Junction Area Chamber of Commerce
“What is it like to work with your spouse?” Julianna and Charlie Crow Farmers Insurance Julianna: Incredibly rewarding! We’re best friends! Have you ever worked with your best friend? We share the same passion for helping people and we love coming up with new ways to simplify things. We’re always on the same page and we’re continuously laughing. Communication is key in any relationship, and we really strive to be effective communicators. We split when necessary to take care of two needs at once and that’s made easy when you have a partner you literally trust with your life. It’s not for everyone, but we agree, working together is the best decision we’ve made.
Mike and Jennifer Johnson Union Station Deli & Event Center
Tosha and Dan Howe The LilyPad Cafe
Jennifer: Mike and I met shortly after I moved to Missouri from Michigan in 1992. We married in 1997. In 2013, after a stint in the military for him and me working various jobs, we made the decision to purchase a restaurant. We have now been in business together for over 10 years, operating Cheezies Pizza and then Simple Simons Pizza in Joplin. In August, we sold Simple Simons to start Union Station Deli & Event Center. We love working together because we complement each other and support each other. He is my best friend and I love spending time together, building, creating and overcoming. Knowing you’re in it together is so reassuring and knowing Mike has such faith in me to go all in with me is humbling. His vision and attention to detail has made our space beautiful and I truly admire his ability to make what I dream up into reality. We are living our best life because we make a great team.
Tosha: I had a dream to one day open my own coffee shop or restaurant. There were so many times we thought why not a food truck, but we feared to take that leap. I kept seeing this building for rent. I dismissed it the first time but felt the Lord kept bringing it to my attention on my feed. The next morning, Dan and I decided to look at the building. We prayed on it and one day at church the sermon spoke to me. Dan and I decided to go ahead and rent the building to start the LilyPad Cafe. Originally it was just going to be me, but then we realized we wanted to do this together. It’s been a blessing to our family to be able to see each other through the day and spend some much-needed family time at night with our daughters. As everyone knows, working with your spouse can bring some disagreements. It also allows you to grow within those disagreements because we both want the same for our business. Together I feel we have built a greater bond with each other, but through our faith we have built our dream. I couldn’t have done this without him, and I feel blessed to have him by my side.”
Events
Feb. 1: First Thursday Power Breakfast Feb. 10: 2024 Chamber Project (volunteers needed) Feb. 15-18: Employee Appreciation at Gambino’s Pizza
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• The Jo Muller Reserve Gallery welcomes area third graders in a collaborative project. Urban Art Gallery, 511 S. Main St: Love It or Leave It!, a group show for February. Check out more on their Facebook page.
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isit these local establishments to experience a variety of creative events and entertainment this winter:
JOPLIN ARTS DISTRICT NEWS - A snapshot of news, events and activities happening in February.
Bar and Restaurant Offerings Blackthorn Pizza and Pub, 510 S. Joplin Ave.: Join us for open comedy night at 8:30 p.m. on the first and third Sundays of the month. Jomo Pride presents the Valentine Drag Show Feb. 10 at 7 p.m. $10 cover. Brew Pub & Parlor, 813 S. Main St.: Karaoke every Tuesday at 8 p.m. Catch a free comedy show the last Friday of every month.
ART EXHIBITS, THEATER AND MUSIC: Connect2Culture, 212 W. 7th St.: For event schedule, visit www.connect2culture.org. For ticket information and other details, call 417.501.5550. All performances are held in the Harry M. Cornell Arts and Entertainment Complex. • Feb. 4, 2 p.m.: “Letters Aloud: Thanks, But No Thanks-The Greatest Rejection Letters Ever!” • Feb. 10, 7 p.m.: An alto saxophonist born in Joplin and raised in Detroit, Charles McPherson’s natural talent and profound work has taken him to concert venues, festivals, orchestras and jazz halls across the globe. • Feb. 17, 7 p.m.: New York-based American Patchwork Quintet reclaims the immigrant soul of American roots music. • Feb. 25, 2 p.m.: A series finalist on ABC’s “America’s Got Talent,” Lightwire Theatre uses cutting-edge blend of light, technology and music to tell captivating stories. Adults $15 + fees (children 3-17 free).
Chaos Brewing Company, 122 S. Main St.: Free trivia Wednesdays at 7 p.m. Local putting night competition every second Thursday from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. each month. Club 609, 609 S. Main St.: Students from St. Peter’s school present “Art Seen Through the Eyes of a Teen.” Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave.: Local artist Debbie Reed and her exhibit, “Patterns.” 530 Somewhere, 530 S. Main St.: Local artist Eric Beezley will show paintings from his exhibit, “Art for All.” Dance Clubs:
Local Color Art Gallery, 1027 S. Main St.: Tuesdays 11 a.m. to 1 p.m., beginner watercolor class with Barbara Hicklin for $20. You bring your own supplies. Tuesdays at 2 p.m., join class with Paula Giltner to improve your use of watercolor, oils or acrylics. Call 417.553.0835 to register for classes.
Club XO, 502 S. Joplin Ave.: Fridays, Ladies Night.
Spiva Center for the Arts, inside the Cornell Complex, 212 W. 7th St.: • “Pulped Under Pressure: The Art of Handmade Paper” in The Freeman Health System Main Gallery. • “Those Who Can...Teach: The Work of Art Educators” in the Sharon & Lance Beshore Gallery. • Harry M. Cornell Jr. Permanent Collection Gallery presents “The Threads of Time.”
Xscape Bar, 530 S. Joplin Ave.: Thursday-Saturday.
Blackthorn Pizza & Pub 510 S. Joplin Ave • Joplin, MO • 417.623.2485 Facebook: @BlackthornPizza&Pub Blackthorn Pizza & Pub is a welcoming and inclusive Irish pub in the heart of downtown Joplin. This hip spot is famous for its delicious food, huge beer selection on tap, the area’s best live music and unforgettable drag shows. Follow Blackthorn on Facebook for upcoming events. Open 7 days a week and now also open for lunch Thursday through Monday. 20
Whiskey Dick’s, 516 S. Joplin Ave.: Outdoors Fridays/ Saturdays.
Countryside in the City Florist • Event Planner Event Venue 422 S. Joplin Ave. 417.781.3719 www.countrysideflowers.biz Countryside in the City is one of the leading florists in Joplin for fine, quality roses, flowers, plants and gifts for every occasion. Let our experienced designers and staff create a one-of-a-kind gift you will love. We also offer beautiful custom-designed wedding flower arrangements including wedding bouquets, centerpieces and boutonnieres. Open Monday-Friday 8 am-5 pm and Saturday 9 am-1 pm. Convenient parking.
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Club 609
lub 609 has been the go-to spot for first dates, birthdays, celebrations with friends and countless special moments for almost 34 years. Located at the heart of Joplin, the restaurant has become an iconic destination for food and drink enthusiasts, as well as anyone looking for a welcoming and lively atmosphere. Recently, I had the pleasure of catching up with General Manager Steve Williams, who treated me to a tasting and explained some exciting menu changes. The new options include a “Butcher’s Choice,” the daily “Catch of the Day,” and a rotating “Appetizer of the Week.” These specials add to the already abundant menu, offering a chance to explore new delights like Wahoo fish, a T-bone steak or savor old favorites like seafood pizza or bacon-wrapped chicken livers. The bar menu has also been updated, and you will find dozens of drink specialties, not to mention the wine and beer options. I sampled Cait’s Lollipop, a fruity tequila drink crafted by Bartender Caitlyn herself, along with her colleagues who designed most of the new drink menu. I also tried the 609 Espresso Martini and loved its sweet caffeine kick. The tasting kicked off with bacon-wrapped scallops, a perfect mix of sweet and smoky flavors with a Cajun sauce and balsamic glaze. Next up, the parmesan-crusted chicken, with asparagus and creamy mac and cheese, was the perfect comfort meal on a chilly day. For a lighter option, the fiesta chicken salad, tossed in chipotle ranch dressing and topped with crispy tortilla strips, was delicious. Last was the wasabi-panko encrusted tuna, served in a creamy soy reduction with perfectly grilled vegetables. Regenia, our server, added to the overall experience with her friendliness and attention to detail. Beyond the tempting menu, what makes Club 609 special is its commitment to the Joplin community. From the local artists featured on the walls to its dedication to collaborating with schools and organizations to raise funds for various causes, it’s a restaurant with a big heart. Whether you’re planning a night out with friends, a Valentine’s date or a family gathering, downtown Joplin’s Club 609 is the place to be. With its welcoming atmosphere, delicious food and dedication to the community, it’s no wonder it’s the place to be. >> Club 609 is located at 609 Main Street • Joplin, MO • 417.623.6090 • www.club609.com • Open M-F 11 a.m.-10 p.m.; Saturday 11 a.m.-10:30 p.m. • Bar open later
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Red Onion Café
Hackett Hot Wings
203 E. 4th • Downtown Joplin, MO 417.623.1004 • www.redonioncafe.com
520 S. Main • Joplin, MO 417.625.1333 • www.hacketthotwings.com “The only wings better are on an angel.” Offering 13 flavors of wings, plus salads, catfish, chicken tenders, chicken sandwiches, hamburgers, boneless wings and more! Call for catering and reservations. Now offering an additional dining area and sports room with 17 big-screen TVs and full bar featuring Coach Hackett’s Ultimate Bloody Mary. Check out the online store at hacketthotwings.com. (Smoke-free) $-$$ Hours: Mon-Thurs, 11 a.m.-9 p.m.; Fri-Sun, 11 a.m.-10 p.m.; Mon-Wed Lunch Specials, 11 a.m.-2 p.m.; Mon-Wed Happy Hour, 3-6 p.m.
Casual urban dining in historic downtown Joplin since 1995. Famous for fresh salads, smoked chicken dip, burgers, pasta, grilled fish and steaks. The menu has a wide variety of gluten-free, low-carb and keto-friendly items. Extensive craft beer menu and wines by the glass. Full-service catering for groups large and small. Consistently voted “Best Restaurant” and “Best Menu” by 417 Magazine and The Joplin Globe. $-$$ Hours: Monday-Saturday 11 a.m.-9 p.m.
Club 609
Bailey’s Family Dining
609 Main Street • Joplin, MO 417.623.6090
1200 Briarbrook Dr. • Carl Junction, MO 417.781.2944 • Like us on Facebook!
“Treat your appetite to a GOURMET DELIGHT served ‘Joplin style’.” Flavorful specialties for any occasion, featuring salads, burgers and sandwiches. Delicious entrees – beef, chicken, pork, seafood and seven “pastabilities!” Offering appetizers, homemade desserts, soup du jour, beer, wine and mixed drinks. Kids menu available. $-$$$
Bailey’s restaurant offers a variety of home-cooked meals that are sure to satisfy. Enjoy one of our many delicious burgers with hand-breaded onion rings or try a pulled pork chimichanga. On the weekend, join us for breakfast where everything is made from scratch. From sweet to savory, we offer specialty pancakes, omelets and all your breakfast favorites. $-$$
Hours: Kitchen open Monday-Friday 11 a.m.-10 p.m. Saturday 11 a.m.-10:30 p.m. • Bar open later
Hours: Monday-Friday 11 a.m.-10 p.m.; Saturday-Sunday 7 a.m.-10 p.m.
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Granny Shaffer’s Restaurant 2728 N. Range Line Rd. • Joplin, MO 417.659.9393
For over 50 years, Granny Shaffer’s has been serving up the best home cooking in the area. From made-to-order breakfast served all day to pasta, steak and Dowd’s catfish, you’re sure to find something to love. Here at Granny Shaffer’s, it’s the little things that make the difference, like serving real butter with our homemade rolls and making our pies from scratch. There’s a reason we’ve been in business for so long! Come see us for your next meal: breakfast, lunch or dinner! $-$$ Hours: Mon-Sat, 6 a.m.-8:30 p.m.; Sun, 7 a.m.-3 p.m.
TRACKSIDE
BURGERS & BBQ
Trackside Burgers & BBQ 1515 West 10th St. • Joplin, MO 417.717.1161
Trackside Burgers & BBQ is more than just award-winning burgers! We also have gourmet chicken sandwiches and tenders breaded and cooked to order, salads and much more. Trackside also offers award winning barbecue specials and catering for events, large and small. We are locally owned and operated. Come by and dine in, pick up a delicious meal from our drive-thru or order online! Cookin’ good food is what we do! $-$$ Hours: Monday-Friday, 11 am-8 pm; Saturday, 11 am-3 pm
Finn’s
Haven 55
408 Havenhurst Drive • Pineville, MO 417.223.2055 • www.haven55.com
2707 E. 32nd Street • Joplin, MO 417.624.3466 • www.finnsjoplin.com
Haven 55 is a cozy country restaurant with a magnificent view, delicious homestyle food and exceptional service. The culinary masterpieces from Owner and Executive Chef Alan Bone cannot be beat. You will love the New York strip steak with blue cheese cream sauce, the fried green beans, and you don’t want to miss Wednesday night prime rib! Located on the site of the old Havenhurst Mill, built in 1868, this historical restaurant overlooks the dam on Little Sugar Creek. $-$$$ Hours: Tues-Sat for lunch 11 a.m.-2 p.m., and dinner 5 p.m.-9 p.m.
Finn’s is a semi-fine dining restaurant that caters to all your dining desires. Enjoy our dog-friendly patio and warm, inviting fireplaces. From our uniquely crafted cocktails, farm-fresh ingredients and Joplin’s best in-house bakery paired with our elegant, intimate atmosphere for small gatherings or a night out. Finn’s chefs are experts in their craft, with just the right touch to make your restaurant experience special. $$-$$$ Hours: Monday -Saturday: 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Sunday: CLOSED
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Mis Arcos
Sam’s Cellar Bar & Oven
1926 S. Garrison Ave. • Carthage, MO 417.237.0547 For the delicious authentic Mexican food you crave, there’s no place like MisArcos. We offer great choices, from our mouthwatering quesadillas to sizzling fajitas to massive burritos. There’s a reason we were voted Best of the Four States for Mexican food! Did we mention our two for $5 margaritas? Mis Arcos is the home of great food, fun times and lots of laughs! $-$$ Hours: Mon-Wed, 11 a.m.-9 p.m.; Fri, 11 a.m.-9:30 p.m.; Sat/Sun 11 a.m.-9 p.m.
101 N. Wood • Neosho, MO 417.451.3330 • www.samscellar.com Sam’s Cellar offers a unique dining experience under the historic square in Neosho, MO. Enjoy gourmet wood-fired pizzas, burgers, wings, wraps, subs or a specialty salad. The full bar offers signature cocktails, draft beers and wine to wet your whistle. Come visit us at Sam’s Cellar for a dining experience you will never forget! Voted “2023 Business of the Year” by the Neosho Area Chamber of Commerce & the Neosho community. $-$$ Hours: Monday-Sunday, 11 a.m.-Close
Casa Montez
Shawanoe Restaurant
4224 S. Main St. • Joplin, MO 417.624.2272
70220 East Hwy 60 • Wyandotte, OK 888.992 SKY1 Shawanoe Restaurant, located inside Indigo Sky Casino, is serving delicious award-winning chef creations daily. Bring your family and friends and enjoy delicious desserts, gourmet sandwiches, upscale salads, and a wonderful selection of pasta dishes. For the steak lover, mouth-watering steaks cooked to perfection. Everything to satisfy your appetite, plus your favorite beverage. Go to indigoskycasino.com for additional information. Located inside Indigo Sky Casino, Hwy 60 West of Seneca, MO. $-$$$
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Casa Montez is back in business and ready to serve you! The team at Casa Montez is serving up all of your favorite recipes as before as well as their famous cheese dip. If you’re looking for the perfect Mexican cuisine including delicious tacos, enchiladas, fajitas and so much more, you must visit Casa Montez at their new location. Call ahead for your to-go order and conveniently pick up at the walk-up window. $-$$
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Hours: Tuesday-Saturday 11 a.m.-8 p.m.
Bricks & Brews
Club 1201
1531 Military Ave. • Baxter Springs, KS
1201 E. 32nd Street • Joplin, MO 417.626.0032 • club1201.com
620.304.2056 • www.bricksandbrewswoodfire.com Bricks & Brews Woodfire Grill & Pub is bringing classic woodfired pizza to Route 66! In addition to our delicious pizza, we also offer a selection of appetizers, salads, sandwiches, desserts and have recently added barbecue and a salad bar to our extensive menu. Come in and enjoy our full bar, as well, featuring a large selection of craft beers. Don’t miss live music every weekend! Come see your favorite local artists perform. We can’t wait to see you soon! $-$$ Hours: Mon-Thu, 11 a.m.-10 p.m.; Fri/Sat, 11 a.m.-12 a.m.; Sun, 11 a.m.-8 p.m.
Tractors BBQ and Grill 1008 E. 12th St. • Lamar, MO 417.682.6677
Tractors BBQ and Grill: Small Town, Big Flavor! We pride ourselves on offering a large versatile menu and serving our community for breakfast, lunch and dinner. From comfort classics to barbecue and everything in between, you will not leave hungry. We offer a Sunday buffet from 10:30 a.m. to 2 p.m. and catfish buffet Tuesday night from 5-8 p.m. Stop by and let us serve you! We are open Tuesday through Saturday 6:30 a.m.-9 p.m.; Sunday 6:30 a.m.8 p.m. Closed Monday. $-$$
Now serving Joplin’s best brunch! Homemade beignets, pastries, biscuits and gravy, peppered bacon, eggs and parmesan fried potatoes and more! For lunch, enjoy your favorite appetizers, “out-of-this-world” salads, seasoned breads and your choice of dressing, soup du jour, sandwiches from burgers to apricot turkey and over 30 other choices! We offer a full service catering menu for private parties, business meetings and special events. $-$$ Hours: Tuesday-Thursday: 11 a.m.-3 p.m.; Friday: 11 a.m.-10 p.m.; Saturday and Sunday: 9 a.m.-2 p.m.
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Elegant floral wrap blouse, cinched at the waist for a slimming look. Flared Risen denim and ivory boots made by Corky’s.
101 S. Washington St. • Neosho, MO 417.346.9353 magnoliaandsunshine.com
Fashion Forward • Magnolia & Sunshine
Elevated casual for a date night or girls’ night out.
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Zena Suri Alpacas
35401 S. 580 Road • Jay, OK • 804.389.2579 www.zenasurialpacas.com
Wig’N Out Boutique
20 S. Main St. • Webb City, MO 417.717.5099 • www.wignoutboutique.com
The United Nations has declared 2024 as the Year of the Camelid— the camel, the llama, the guanaco, the vicuña and the beautiful alpaca. Meet Amazing Suri Alpaca at Zena Suri Alpacas.
Love is in the “hair” at Wig’N Out Boutique! We have a large collection of stylish wigs, extensions and hair pieces and would love to help you with your hair goals and needs! At Wig’N Out, you’ll also find stylish clothing, shoes and accessories for every occasion. “We’ve got you covered from head to toe!”
These are earth-friendly animals that produce some of the best fiber, which is warm and soft, light and durable, fun for fiber lovers, basically hypoallergenic and loved by farmers and fashionistas around the world. We grow some of the best right here near Grand Lake, Oklahoma. Tour, touch and learn. Call 804.389.2579. Ask about our cozy cabin and plan to stay a bit longer.
Magnolia & Sunshine
101 S. Washington St. • Neosho, MO 417.346.9353 • www.magnoliaandsunshine.com Follow us on Facebook & IG The Neosho square is a hidden gem for boutique shopping and dining. The historic charm of Magnolia & Sunshine’s location creates the perfect backdrop for a girls’ day! We offer elevated casual clothing, beautiful accessories, shoes and gifts, and we can’t wait for you to experience it, too! 28
Extreme Sports Scuba
5203 S. Range Line Road • Joplin, MO 417.659.9009 • www.extremesportsscuba.com Your adventure starts here at Extreme Sports Scuba. February is the perfect time to learn to dive. Stop in on Valentine’s Day, Feb. 14, to purchase the Valentine’s Special: buy one open water class for yourself and get one free for a second person. Owner Deb Weston takes pride in running a family business alongside grandson Drake.
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Courtney’s Candles and Creations
2029 S. Willard Ave. • Joplin, MO 417.624.1838 • www.courtneyscandles.com Elevate your Valentine’s Day celebration with our candles, fragrances and perfect gifts for your loved ones. At Courtney’s Candles and Creations, we offer a wide selection of brands like Courtney’s Candles, Woodwick, Tyler, Zodax, Aromatique, Mixture, Warmies and more. Whether it’s the warmth of cinnamon apple, the sweet embrace of vanilla or a custom scent that’s uniquely yours, we offer something for everyone. Stop by and see us today or order online!
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SINGLES IN THE CITY
Singles FRONT ROW (L-R): Donnetta Rivera, Olive Sullivan. BACK ROW (L-R): Francesca Moore, Callie Aleshire, Jason Sellars, Reesie Kiser, Julie Hines, Nathan Wagner, Jackie Hendrix, Mandy Edmonson.
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e are delighted to share with you this year’s group of Singles in the City. These 10 individuals are independent gogetters living their best life and are looking for the right person to share their joy with. This dynamic group comprises people in the arts, business owners, entrepreneurs, those in the retail and service industries, and all-around ambitious, goal-oriented people. Meet the 2024 Singles in the City on the following pages. February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 31
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Media Specialist Francesca Moore City: Rogers, Arkansas
Occupation: Business Owner/
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I love to cook, especially for friends and family. Strength training and spending time in the gym, which I consider my ME time when possible. I enjoy spending as much time as possible in Northwest Arkansas with my daughter. Rogers and Bentonville are my top two spots. There are so many things to do there. A few would be biking, hiking, enjoying time on Beaver Lake, dining, visiting the wineries, breweries, yoga, going to concerts and so much more. I am the owner of Pure Radiance Lash & Beauty Bar also offering mobile services. I am a certified lash artist, spray tan artist and teeth whitening specialist, enhancing a person’s natural beauty through lash artistry, vegan spray tans, teeth whitening and a few other services I offer. I am here to provide a personalized experience that will leave you feeling empowered and beautiful. I’m also the promotions director and event coordinator at KSN and KODE TV since 2009 as well as a part-time sales associate at Victoria’s Secret since 2019. What do you look for in a partner? Physical attraction and a common connection on all levels. I’ve learned it is very hard to move forward without having similar likes or interests. What are your deal breakers? Tobacco user and someone who does not respect their health and body. Someone who is constantly on their cell phone while together. Communication is big to me, so if a guy is on his cell phone nonstop, that leaves little to zero room for conversation or getting to know each other. What would a dream first date be like for you? There are just too many options for me to list one. I think just being open to anything that both can enjoy. What is your love language? That would definitely have to be cooking. For what in your life do you feel the most grateful? My son and 32daughter. I think we all have a why and they are definitely mine.
Carthage, Missouri Callie Aleshire City: Age: 31
Occupation: Assistant Supervisor
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I am an energetic person who values faith and fun, and who tries to see the best in everyday life. I enjoy multiple sports, including running and Ultimate Frisbee, and also spending time with friends and family. What do you look for in a partner? My ideal partner would be someone who is compassionate and who wants to make a positive difference in the world around them. Someone who enjoys having fun and wants to share many laughs and adventures together is a must! What are your deal breakers? My faith is very important to me, so someone who shares the same faith is valuable to me. Someone who is rude and disrespectful to others is also a top deal breaker for me. What would a dream first date be like for you? You can never go wrong with doing something fun together and seeing how that person interacts with you, so maybe miniature golf or axe throwing. Then afterwards, go out for a meal or coffee to enjoy good conversation and share stories of our past adventures. What’s your favorite love story and why? My favorite love story would have to be Arthur and Molly Weasley from the Harry Potter series. No matter what they face throughout the book series, they have a solid foundation of love and compassion for each other, and it easily extends to loving those around them. It’s a love story that can easily be overlooked, but it’s a beautiful, quiet and enduring kind of love. What’s your favorite love song and why? “Love Like This” by Ben Rector. It idealizes the beauty of how love changes us and our perspective of what’s important in life, and how love draws us close to that special person. For what in your life do you feel the most grateful? My family and friends! I don’t know where I would be in life without their love and support throughout my life. They’ve always been there for me, whether for advice or a helping hand.
Project Manager Jason Sellars City:andJane, Missouri Age: 45 Occupation: Flooring Sales
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I love the outdoors and water. I spend my free time on a body of water or driving Jeep trails through the forest. What do you look for in a partner? I want a carefree and easygoing woman who has a desire to succeed professionally. What are your deal breakers? Deal breakers are cigarette smoking. Other than that, I’m very open minded. What would a dream first date be like for you? A dream first date would be driving out to a creek, river or lake and having a campfire. Music playing with drinks and good snacks. Taking the dirt roads back into town with no hurry. What’s your favorite love song and why? Picking a favorite love song is hard for me. There are so many good love songs and each of them means something different depending on my mood. Music is a huge part of my life! For what in your life do you feel the most grateful? I’m very grateful for my parents’ love. They’ve shown me that a true love can exist. It’s not always 50/50, sometimes you’re the 70 and sometimes you’re the 30. Being selfless and compassionate for your partner is a must in a strong relationship.
Webb City, Missouri Donnetta Rivera City: Age: 55 Occupation: Writer
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I’m pretty much a free spirit. I live out loud and I’m a country girl at heart. I love travel, art, the beach, the ballet and dancing. In my free time, I love to sculpt, hang out with friends and family and play cards or board games. What do you look for in a partner? Loyalty, a good sense of humor is a must and an adventurous spirit. What are your deal breakers? A homebody and jealousy. What would a dream first date be like for you? Take me dancing, bring me wildflowers, dark chocolate and red wine and you can win my heart. What is your love language? Touch and quality time. What’s your favorite love song and why? “Like I’m Going to Lose You” by Meghan Trainor because it has a deeprooted meaning to me. If you could learn one skill or ability perfectly, what would it be, and why? To sing. I’m totally tone-deaf. February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 33
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Instructor Reesie Kiser City:Fitness Carl Junction, Missouri Age: 47
Occupation: Realtor, Business Owner,
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I was born and raised in West Texas. I have lived in Maryland, San Diego and have resided in Joplin for over 16 years now. I love to travel. I am a voracious reader; I love country concerts but I won’t say no to any type of music. I love to dance and sing karaoke even though I sound like a cat dying when I sing. Self-proclaimed nerd.
Joplin, Missouri Julie Hines City: Age: 53
Occupation: Automotive Sales Consultant
What do you look for in a partner? The last time I dated, my phone attached to the wall. My best answer to this is to bring the best you’ve got and we will go from there.
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I love baking and cooking for my family and friends. Spending time playing pickleball as much as time will allow. During the summer months, I love spending time at any body of water.
What are your deal breakers? Aaahh, this is a hard question. I’ve been on a journey of growth and I have a LOT more deal breakers than I used to have. Let’s start with knowing if my dog doesn’t like you, it’s gonna be a problem.
What do you look for in a partner? A man that is kind, patient and loves Jesus. At our age, we all have life experiences that have shaped us to who we are now. I would like a man that is able to laugh, love and grow together as a couple.
What would a dream first date be like for you? My dream first date would be something that doesn’t feel like a date. Meeting to walk through a fun art exhibit, maybe meeting up at a farmers’ market or local festival.
What are your deal breakers? Someone who is rude to others and not compassionate to all walks of life.
What is your love language? Acts of service. Good luck getting me to accept any help, though, so that’s going to be a fun hurdle to navigate. What’s your favorite romantic comedy and why? I don’t actually believe in favorites as that limits you, but I really think “When Harry Met Sally” is a spot-on, funny romantic comedy. I think if someone sang “The Surrey With The Fringe On Top” to me in the middle of a mall, I’d die laughing. For what in your life do you feel the most grateful? I am the most grateful for my children but I don’t plan to introduce anyone I date to my kids. That might sound harsh, but I’m content with my kids thinking I don’t know men exist on the planet. Ha! When did you last sing to yourself or to someone else? I just sang to everyone within a six-foot range while I walked around at Disney. I’m pretty sure they are thrilled about the sounds of a dying cat being sung to the 34Disney music piped all around us.
What would a dream first date be like for you? Meet for a coffee or a Coke and quick snack. Then find an activity where we can get some exercise and conversation to get to know each other. If we are getting along and want to grab lunch or dinner, that’s a great date. What’s your favorite romantic comedy and why? “The Proposal” with Sandra Bullock and Ryan Reynolds had such chemistry and banter. Every time I watch it, I laugh and cry. Yes, every time I watch it … What’s your favorite love song and why? “I Love the Way You Love Me” by John Michael Montgomery. It fits my personality perfectly. I love to slow dance to it while that special man is singing it to me in my ear. For what in your life do you feel the most grateful? To have been loved unconditionally by a great man that showed me how to be loved and give great love in return.
Olive Sullivan
Occupation: Writer and Bookbinder City: Pittsburg, Kansas Age: 63
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I’m in the process of reinventing myself after being widowed from a happy six-year marriage, but here are the things I do know: I’m a poet, playwright and bookbinder, a retired college professor and former journalist. I have two grown sons. I enjoy traveling anywhere that requires a passport. I like hanging out by water and I detour for waterfalls, castles and beaches. I love flea markets and architectural salvage, junk with potential. I also enjoy music, especially blues, and eating out—Italian, seafood or a good steak. I am a big reader, favoring mystery and steampunk fantasy, but with a literature degree that makes me seek out classics from time to time as well. I enjoy taking long walks on the prairie with my dog, Balthazar (all my dogs are named after Shakespearean characters). What do you look for in a partner? I prefer intelligence over appearance, value a sense of humor and kindness, and wouldn’t mind a man who likes to cook. Open minded and interested in the world around. I am comfortable with my quirks, and I’m looking for someone with compatible quirks of his own. What are your deal breakers? Deal breakers include cruelty, bigotry and ignorance. And there will be a dog in my life, so if you don’t like dogs, that’s probably a deal breaker, too. What would a dream first date be like for you? Remembering this is a dream date: We meet on a Smithsonian Institute cruise to Lisbon, which features guest lectures and performances of Shakespeare’s plays. A more realistic date would be dinner at a nice restaurant followed by live local music somewhere. What is your love language? My love language is to give gifts. The language I like to receive is touch, not necessarily sexual, but a nice back or foot rub, or just holding hands or a good hug. If you could learn one skill or ability perfectly, what would it be, and why? The skill I’d love to master is playing the piano, but since I’ve attempted to learn several times, I think I just don’t have what it takes, so I enjoy listening to others play instead. I am always trying to perfect my bookbinding skills. It will be a lifelong endeavor.
Nathan Wagner
Occupation: Realtor City: Riverton, Kansas Age: 33
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I was born and raised in the Joplin area and I LOVE helping people buy and sell real estate. I am a licensed Kansas and Missouri realtor with Keller Williams Realty Elevate. In my free time, I enjoy kayaking, fishing, hiking and pretty much anything that involves the outdoors. What do you look for in a partner? I look for honesty, good communication and compassion in a partner. What are your deal breakers? My deal breakers are lying and pettiness. What would a dream first date be like for you? A dream first date for me would probably have to be going out to eat and then going for a walk to get the chance to have better conversation in a more relaxed setting. What’s your favorite love song and why? My current favorite love song would probably be “Spotless” by Zach Bryan. The reason for that is because none of us are without our faults, but the right person will love you regardless. For what in your life do you feel the most grateful? I am most grateful for my close friends and family. They make life much more enjoyable. When did you last sing to yourself or to someone else? February 2024 showmetheozarks.com • 35 I am by no means a great singer, but I sing to •myself daily.
SINGLES IN THE CITY
Webb City, Missouri Mandy Edmonson City: Age: 40
Occupation: Photographer
Construction Jackie Hendrix City:Server/Retail Joplin, Missouri Age: 47 Occupation:
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I am a bit of a free spirit; I am a hard-working woman who lives and loves with her entire heart. I have a newfound love of fitness. I love live music, art and the great outdoors and am always looking for adventure. What do you look for in a partner? Chemistry and good energy, possessing a great sense of humor, a sharp mind, great communication, self-awareness, confidence and a down-toearth great human. What are your deal breakers? I look at a person’s soul. If there isn’t good energy and chemistry, I am not interested. What would a dream first date be like for you? One that leaves me with a smile, connection, good chemistry and leaves me looking forward to the next one. What is your love language? Music. Sing to me or send it in a song. Words of affirmation and physical touch. I am also a giver, so acts of service is also my love language. For what in your life do you feel the most grateful? I am grateful for God for never giving up on me, my amazing friends and family, my freedom and the men and women who fought for it, and for good 36music; it never leaves.
Please tell us a little bit about yourself and what you like to do in your free time. I’m a people person, ambitious and driven. I am a photographer and party decorator and am very passionate about my work! I always strive to believe in the good within everyone. In my free time, I like to spend time with my daughter, going to the gym, shopping and spending time outdoors. While I would consider myself an extrovert, I also love a quiet night in! What do you look for in a partner? A partner who can communicate, who is helpful and likes to serve others, who is hardworking, a man I can trust, respect and follow in the path of Godliness. What are your deal breakers? Values that don’t align with mine, a partner who isn’t faithful. What would a dream first date be like for you? A picnic date, star gazing, talking, laughing and just enjoying the moment. I also think a couples cooking class would be fun! What is your love language? Quality time spent together, cuddling and just being present with one another. For what in your life do you feel the most grateful? I’m grateful for my parents, who taught me right values and always supported me in every endeavor. I’m grateful to the Lord above for blessing me with my daughter through adoption, a beautiful life-changing miracle! A love I never knew existed! I am so incredibly blessed. When did you last sing to yourself or to someone else? I love to sing! I sing daily in my car and in the evening at bedtime with my daughter. There’s something about it that just makes me happy.
By Kristi Spencer
Marry Me Chicken is a dish that’s creamy, juicy and bursting with flavor! Rumor has it this chicken dinner is so irresistible it might just prompt a marriage proposal. In this version of the dish, made famous by TikTok, I’ve put a personal spin on the original recipe. Serve this over mashed potatoes, pasta or rice, and let me know how it goes!
Marry Me Chicken INGREDIENTS 4 chicken cutlets Salt and black pepper, to taste ¼ cup all-purpose flour 3 tbsp extra-virgin olive oil 3 tbsp unsalted butter
3 garlic cloves, chopped 1 tbsp tomato paste ½ tsp dried oregano Red pepper flakes, to taste
1 cup low-sodium chicken stock ½ to ¾ cup heavy cream ½ cup grated Parmesan Fresh basil, chopped
Lower the heat to low and add the chopped garlic to the pan. Cook until the garlic becomes fragrant. Stir in the tomato paste and cook for a few minutes until it deepens in color. Add the dried oregano and red pepper flakes to enhance the flavors.
close eye on the cream to prevent overcooking; adjust the heat as needed. Stir in the grated Parmesan, adding more cream if desired and season to taste.
DIRECTIONS Begin by seasoning the chicken cutlets with salt and black pepper. Dredge each cutlet in flour, shake off any excess and transfer the coated cutlets to a large plate. In a pan over medium-high heat, heat the olive oil. Reduce the heat to medium, add the butter and cook the chicken cutlets until golden brown color on one side. Flip the cutlets and repeat the process to ensure a golden finish on both sides. Check to make sure the chicken is cooked through and then transfer to a plate.
Increase the heat to medium and pour in the chicken stock. Simmer until the liquid reduces by half. Add ½ cup of heavy cream, warming it through while stirring continuously. Keep a
Return the cooked chicken to the pan, allowing it to warm through in the sauce. Once warmed, remove the pan from heat and garnish the dish with fresh basil.
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Love in the Workplace
Love Above All Else Ben and Janette Cade Owners of Christine’s Vineyard 25695 Mulberry Rd. Webb City, MO 64870 417.499.3912 www.christinesvineyard.com
By Amy Howe
What role do each of you play in your business? Ben: I’m on site most of the time and am the primary manager of the grounds, facility and equipment. I maintain the property, care for the vines, make the wine, order and stock inventory for the tasting room, and perform improvements, repairs and maintenance on the buildings. For 2024, I’ll be adding the role of wine distributor as we kick off our wholesale campaign selling our wines to local retail establishments. I’m also responsible for the finances, recordkeeping and licensing needs of the business. Janette: I’m the idea factory and the public relations manager. I work a full-time job outside of the winery yet still manage to continuously identify potential improvements and new directions for the business. I handle all the communication with customers, interaction with other businesses and maintain a lively social media presence to attract new interest and keep our followers informed along the way. As part of our 2024 wine wholesale project, I’ll now be tasked with contacting retail wine sellers and building our distribution base in Missouri. I also organize the monthly Latin dance nights, lead the popular paint parties and manage our special events. If you can’t tell, we are both very, very busy every day!
How did you meet? Janette: We met through family many years ago but didn’t become close until we started training for triathlons on the same team. It was our shared sense of dedication and determination that brought us together and sparked our fiery and adventurous relationship.
Tell us a little bit about the background of your business and what it has been like to see it grow together.
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Ben: Christine’s Vineyard was established in 2018. It grew rapidly from a backyard adventure to a popular local venue. Visitors have long enjoyed the beauty and tranquility of the rural location, including the pond and vineyard. Since officially taking the reins in 2022, we have implemented
many improvements to the comfort and usability of the space. It gives us great satisfaction to continue to improve the experience of our friends and visitors. It has been both amazing and humbling to watch our labor transform into joy and comfort for our guests.
What’s the most challenging thing about working together? Janette: The most challenging part of working together is communication, communication and communication. We spend almost all our time together working out what happened, what is happening and what to do next. Then we move into the who, the when and the how of every decision along the way. It can be difficult, yet it is crucial to staying on top of the business and remaining effective and efficient.
What would you say is the best part of working together? Janette: The best part of working together is that we have a shared sense of responsibility and accomplishment in a business that we can watch grow every day. We can share in the joy and pride of the continued success of our contributions.
How do you keep the spark alive when you spend so much time together? Ben: We keep the spark alive by setting aside time to spend together unrelated to the business. We are fortunate that we have such amazing staff to support us, which allows us to get away as necessary. Janette: We have found that our activities or location are far less important than making sure to be truly present and deliberately attentive to one another. An example I recall was a day we were planning to work on regular tasks in the tasting room. Sensing that we needed a break to reconnect, Ben grabbed a bottle of wine, two glasses and led me by the hand to a table in the sunshine for a much-needed mini date. These romantic, spontaneous and sensitive moments are the important ones to be remembered and keep us going through the harder times.
Has working together strengthened your marriage in any way? Ben: Working together has certainly forced us both to grow and expand our capacities. Our marriage has been strengthened by our improved communication skill, our ability to separate responsibilities and our stubborn determination to stay engaged and work through tough challenges. Janette: Working together has brought light to the importance of having polarity in our relationship. It has taught us that we need to be mindful and understanding of each other. Like running a business, being in a successful relationship requires a lot of dedicated work. Communication skills and having the tools to reconnect are key to success.
What advice would you give to a couple who’s thinking of going into business together? Ben: Jump in with both feet! Just realize that you must have the grace and patience with yourself and your partner to allow for the incredible scale of growth and challenge you will face and the mistakes you will inevitably make. We constantly remind ourselves that no matter what setbacks we face or sacrifices we must make, our marriage and our commitment to loving each other unconditionally is to be held above all else.
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SMTO Cover Story
Life with The Marrs Family
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estled among the beautiful backdrop that is Northwest Arkansas, you’ll find the homestead of Dave and Jenny Marrs, the couple making a big impact on their smalltown community and the entire country and parts of the world.
that each kid may only be participating in one sport at a time, but we are purposefully making them a priority in their daily lives.”
Having now lived in Northwest Arkansas for over 20 years, the couple, like so many of us, enjoy the simple life outside of work. They’re raising their five children, ranging in ages from 13 to 4 and tending to a menagerie of animals, including cattle, donkeys, sheep, alpaca and some barn cats and many other animals. You’ll also find the couple tending to their gardens and often dreaming about their businesses and what’s next for them.
A unique way the couple spends time with the kids is taking each one on a solo work trip when time allows.
Outside of their home life, which is their absolute top priority, Dave and Jenny have taken on many endeavors and have seen exponential growth on the business side of things. They own a construction company, Marrs Developing; Jenny continues to keep up with her blog, Blessings and Raindrops; they operate a berry farm called The Berry Farm; Jenny recently released a book, “House + Love = Home”; they host an Airbnb in Rogers, Arkansas, named The Welcome Inn; they have an incredible television show on HGTV, “Fixer to Fabulous”; competed on season three of “Rock the Block”; and the duo most recently opened a mercantile storefront in Centerton, Arkansas, called Marrs Mercantile. That’s a lot, for anyone, but such an accomplishment. And it leaves one to ask how they do it all and still make time for a vibrant family life and time for each other. Dave and Jenny say their priority is their kids in anything and everything they do. “Our kids come first,” says Jenny. “If they have basketball games throughout the week, we are there. We definitely try to create some boundaries on sports so
The duo most recently opened a mercantile storefront in Centerton, Arkansas, called Marrs Mercantile.
To Dave and Jenny, it’s all about finding balance and taking the time to slow down when it’s available. “We’re really big on sitting down together as a family during the evenings for dinner,” says Dave. “The day goes by so fast. We drop the kids off at school in the morning and then we are home for dinner, which leaves just a few hours before bed. Those few hours matter.”
“We’ve had to travel a little more lately and might have a trip that is two or three days long,” says Jenny. “We will bring one kid with us to create that special one-on-one time together. We go to dinner, walk around, whatever we can squeeze in while on the trip.” Jenny says they also do this at home and create a special date night with one child at a time to ensure they’re getting quality attention. As for quality time for just the two of them, well, Dave and Jenny are together just about 24/7. The couple make it a priority to enjoy a breakfast meeting together or have a lunch date, even if it’s a time dedicated to talking about work. “As a couple, you always wish you have a little more time,” says Dave. “But we are in a season of life where the kids are going in different directions, we’re busy with the show, the farm, work, everything else. We understand that this season of life is just busier right now.” Part of their work life includes non-profit and charitable work. Over the years, the Marrs family wanted to do
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more for their community and around the globe. In 2014, they started a venture called The Blueberry Farm in Northwest Arkansas. This was a way to provide an education and skills opportunity for orphaned and at-risk teenage boys in rural Zimbabwe by partnering with the organization Help One Now. “We aren’t looking to solve long-stemming issues of hunger and poverty with a short-term investment,” says Dave. “We are committed to the long-haul with these kids. We want to sow seeds of truth and righteousness and love. The fruit that will result will be long-lasting: eternal.” In partnership with Help One Now, Dave and Jenny not only provide their Northwest Arkansas community with fresh, locally grown food and a beautiful event venue space, but their efforts also teach orphaned children across the globe how to do the same in their own community. Their biggest business success to date is their show, “Fixer “We share everything,” says Jenny. “We both have to Fabulous” on HGTV. In its fifth to be in the loop on everything – the kids’ schedules, season, Dave and managing the house, managing the business. Jenny embrace the We have to be in sync with one another.” community in which they live and work by renovating classic the business. We have to be in sync with one homes. They transform historic houses in another.” desperate need of updates and turn them into And it helps that both Dave and Jenny share charming forever homes. Dave is the skilled very similar personalities. craftsman, builder and general contractor, while Jenny supports the design side of their “We love to start a project and dream of what it could be,” says Dave. “We enjoy thinking business. of different things we could put in to these Dave and Jenny enjoy working together on all houses and how to tell their family story the of their projects and in doing so, it helps them best way possible. Even when we are home, each understand one another at the end of a in our down time, we sometimes talk about crazy, hectic workday. work because we love what we do so much.” “We both get it, we understand it,” says Jenny. It’s the love for what they do that ultimately “We understand each other’s challenges and created the idea for their storefront, Marrs when we get home and are exhausted – we Mercantile, a cozy warmth of refurbished just get it!” displays and custom furniture located in painted the facade and added a beautiful “We know the feeling of having had to smile historic downtown Centerton, Arkansas. pergola to cover the outdoor patio, which now on camera for 12 hours and continually talk,” overlooks a play garden Dave built for kids to “For years we have dreamt of creating a says Dave. “And then we have to catch up on enjoy. The main transformation happened on unique place to serve our Northwest Arkansas the 50 emails, missed calls and text messages the inside, where they really wanted a space community,” says Jenny. “We saw the potential on the way home so we can be present for our that would feel like home. in a 100-plus-year-old building that originally family, which is the most important time of housed the Centerton Bank. This charming “The Mercantile is a place where we want our our day. Jenny and I have the opportunity of building is full of history and has had many community to pause from the pressures of understanding that together.” owners since it was first built in 1905. While daily life,” says Dave. “We want our guests to What has strengthened their marriage by it has had more than its fair share of wear and feel as though they stepped back to simpler working together is all of the communication tear, we knew the building needed to be saved times when they enter inside. We envision that has to be done. families meeting here to gather and shop and and transformed into something amazing.” “We share everything,” says Jenny. “We both Work began inside and out to renovate play. The goods we sell are some of our very have to be in the loop on everything – the kids’ the neglected building. The couple had gas favorite things, handmade by artisans and schedules, managing the house, managing lanterns handcrafted for the exterior lighting, artists we have worked with for years.” 42
With everything they have going on at work and home, it’s hard to imagine asking, “What’s next?” for the duo and being met with more plans, but that’s exactly what they’re doing. “We’d love to do more international projects,” says Jenny. “That has been so much fun and so new and has forced us outside of our comfort zones and caused new creativity, which has been great.”
Dave and Jenny still plan to be in Northwest Arkansas, God willing, unless they’re called upon some crazy or unexpected adventure. “Five years from now, our twins will be freshmen in college,” says Jenny. “Wow! I can’t begin to think about that.” And while we all love the hard work they do for a great television show, well, who knows what will be next?
“The show is very demanding work but we will continue to do it as long as God calls us to that work,” says Jenny. “We do know that I’ll still be writing and Dave will still be building furniture – those are our passions outside of building and designing and where you’ll always find us.”
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SMTO Featuring Northwest Arkansas
Saving Grace
hope and healing to break the cycle of poverty By Don Lowe
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ver the past 14 years, Saving Grace NWA has provided a comfortable place that’s designed to help young ladies between ages 18-24 years old find their way forward to a much better future after putting a difficult past behind them. “Saving Grace stands alone in our region in its approach to long-term transitional living for young women who have aged out of care or are facing homelessness,” affirms Kamber Henson, who serves as director of development for this nonprofit organization. “We don’t put a time limit on healing and forming healthy habits. “We invest what it takes to empower ‘Grace’ to alter the trajectory of her life and create lasting generational change. As a result, when ‘Grace’ is ready to leave our program, she does so fully equipped to live independently, healed from her past hurts and ready to be a life-giving member of society.” Saving Grace Founder and Executive Director Becky Shaffer offered more detailed perspective, explaining, “We provide more than just transitional housing for girls aging out of foster care or facing homelessness. “We provide opportunities to heal from childhood trauma through equine-assisted therapy, experiential learning and play, a loving community who meets each one right where they are 44
and a safe place to learn through mistakes. In addition, we have an incredible community of women who surround our girls through mentoring. “These brave and gutsy women choose to mentor for life, inviting ‘Grace’ to join them in their own Becky Shaffer - Executive Director lives. We believe this is imperative for breaking the cycle of poverty. ‘Grace’ can’t be what she can’t see.” Henson says, “Offering a space for safe, healthy, Godly relationships to form is a pillar of our program. Author and educator Ruby Payne shares one of the greatest reasons one overcomes generational poverty is because ‘they have a key relationship that promotes otherwise.’ “While we believe coaching, counseling and other pieces of our program are crucial to empowering ‘Grace’ to independence, we believe mentorship is most valuable. Each young woman is paired with three mentors who commit to a lifelong relationship with her. These mentors play a vital role in reshaping the idea of family for ‘Grace.’ “We continue to see the fruits of these relationships extend beyond ‘Grace’s’ time in the program.” While it’s not an overnight turnaround, Henson continues, “Our goal is to empower ‘Grace’ to overcome the odds stacked high against her and help her become independent. Our hope is that through this program, ‘Grace’ will
Saving Grace NWA Fast Facts Year Started: Founded in 2009; doors opened in 2010. Founders: Becky Shaffer and her husband, Kent Shaffer. Employees: Ten full-time staff members and eight part-time resident assistants. Lending a Helping Hand: In the last year alone, more than 2,000 volunteers helped at Saving Grace. Growth/Expansion: Finished Phase 1 renovation of Grace Cottage and moved entire program to Grace Farms (summer 2023). Currently serves 11 young women at a time. Eventually, there will be housing for 50 women. Additionally, educational opportunities are available to alumni.
have the opportunity to heal at her own pace and become who she never dreamed she could be. “When even one person experiences positive life-change, the ripple effects are endless, and generations are impacted. The path to healing is not a quick process or linear, especially with deeply rooted layers of trauma. Intentional moments of rest, play and working through past hurts move ‘Grace’ forward as she sets the pace of her healing journey.” Being part of this organization is special for Henson. “When you witness firsthand a young woman, deeply impacted by trauma and abuse, start to heal a little at a time and start dreaming about her future in a new and positive light, it changes you. The young women in our program are brave and inspire me daily.”
Support: GIVE – Saving Grace is 100% community-funded. Change a life today at savinggracenwa.org/give. SERVE – At Saving Grace, we’re all in this together. Whether you want to plan a workday with your team or serve with your family, the opportunities are there. Email serve@savingrracenwa.org for more information. By the Numbers: At savinggracenwa.com, statistics show that 23,000-plus youth age out of foster care each year in the U.S. on their 18th birthdays. Less than 3% will achieve a college education in their lifetime. And only 1 of every 2 children aging out will have gainful employment by 24 years old. Twenty percent of children aging out on their 18th birthdays become instantly homeless. Physical Address: 12161 Hwy 72 West, Bentonville, AR 72712. Located at a farm in Centerton, Arkansas that was purchased in 2021. Phone Number: 479.636.1133 Email Address: admin@savinggraenwa.org Website: www.savinggracenwa.org Spring Fundraiser: 15th Annual Butterflies & Blooms Luncheon, Thursday, March 28, from 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. at Rogers Convention Center, 3303 S. Pinnacle Hills Parkway. This events helps raise a third of the yearly budget. February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 45
SMTO Featuring Northwest Arkansas
Ozark Off Road Cyclists promote mountain biking By Don Lowe
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zark Off Road Cyclists (OORC), a chapter member of the International Mountain Biking Association (IMBA), has been heavily involved in helping promote this rapidly growing recreational activity across Northwest Arkansas and the River Valley for more than 25 years. HB Fink, who serves as OORC Club secretary, says this specific organization “began in the late 1990s and was formally established in 1997 as a chapter of the IMBA and eventually became a 501(c)(3). It was very grassroots with a loose-knit group of mountain bikers who had ties with local bike shops.” As Fink considers what has led to the mountain biking boom and phenomenon throughout this area he suggests, “That can be attributed to a lot of things, especially the support of the Walton Family Foundation and the non-stop building of new trails. “Besides having a core group of local riders and enthusiasts who have been doing it for many years, you can tell when you’re out on the trail that it has attracted a whole new audience to the Ozarks’ magnificence.” Fink also says, “People are discovering how great the outdoors and trails are in this region. I will add that it’s helped with promoting the area when Bentonville announced a few years ago that they are the ‘mountain biking capital of the world.’ That title is debatable, but we have fun with it.”
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Not surprisingly, there’s no shortage of options for biking enthusiasts. Fink says, “I’m biased since most of the trails we (OORC) build, ride or maintain are in the Fayetteville area (Washington County). “Some of the most popular trails include Kessler Mountain, Devils Den State Park, Centennial Park, Coler & Slaughter Pen (Bentonville), Hobbs State Park (Karst Trail), Buffalo Headwaters, Blowing Springs, Back 40 and Little Sugar (Bella Vista), Lake Leatherwood and Passion Play (Eureka Springs), Lake Wedington, Lincoln Lake and City Lake (Siloam Springs).” In thinking about key aspects vital to creating all these venues and upkeep of them, Fink maintains, “First and foremost, I believe it’s been
the passion of a series of people with similar interests and visions for how this sport could grow and develop here. And you can’t overlook the financial support that has made this possible. “After the trails are built, there are dedicated volunteers who do most of the heavy lifting and help maintain them. OORC is a perfect example of that. In 2022, there were just over 10,000 volunteer hours among all our branches at a value of $299,500.” While mountain biking has its demands, there is an excitement for pedaling along a course. Fink says, “The biggest challenge is that the terrain or surface can change over time. You might be familiar with a trail but there’s something new as the seasons change. “There’s also the challenge of trying to clear a technical spot you’ve never cleared before and the satisfaction of overcoming that obstacle. “What can make it invigorating is the scenery and satisfaction of being outdoors. Also, the camaraderie of riding with a group of friends. That’s a big part of why we plan so many group rides.” Fink believes mountain biking is for everyone and he says, “Personally, I’d say it’s an activity/sport you can do from a young age to when you’re old. I’ve coached kids as young as five years old and have friends in their 50s, 60s and even 70s who are still riding, some even competitively. “There are programs like National Interscholastic Cycling Association (NICA) that give kids from sixth to 12th grades an opportunity to ride or race. Their mantra is #morekidsonbikes. OORC has partnered with some of these teams to encourage and demonstrate stewardship.”
Ozark Off Road Cycling Mountain Biking Fast Facts About OORC: Committed to developing sustainable trails to support multiple user groups, including hikers, mountain bikers and trail runners, while identifying appropriate opportunities for mountain bike progression. Officers: Rob Reno/President; David Godwin/Vice President; HB Fink/Secretary; Jonathan Shaver/Treasurer; Crystal Cox/ Events Coordinator; Michelle Roth/Rides Coordinator OORC Branches: CC Riders, Borderline, Frontier, River Valley Phone Number: Rob Reno, 479.236.2589 Website: https://oorc.org/
Fink is ecstatic to be part of OORC, and he says, “It has become like a second family to some of us, especially considering all the time we spend riding bikes, working on trails or running events.” The OORC family will host its 19th annual Buffalo Headwaters Challenge Feb. 2-4, which is one of the largest group mountain bike rides in Arkansas with more than 300 participants.
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SMTO Featuring Northwest Arkansas
Anthony Gallo
Running With The Flow of Life By Ann Leach
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aintaining a running habit has offered several stops and starts to Bentonville, Arkansas, runner Anthony Gallo. Born and raised in New York City, Gallo, with the help of his teachers, started a swim team his sophomore year of high school. “So that had me swimming competitively for the rest of my high school years.” As Gallo considered college and a career, his aspirations were to become a pilot. “I went to the University of North Dakota’s flight school 48
program and at the start of my freshmen year, my mom suggested I go talk to the head coach of the swim team,” he said. “This was a Division II college team that had won its conference eight years in a row. I was very hesitant to go talk to the coach.” Working up the nerve to approach the coach, Gallo was invited to a team practice. “The head coach allowing me to walk on a team like this had a huge impact on me in life,” Gallo said. “It is also where I learned my love for running. When we were not in the pool, Coach had us running.”
“I finally had the guts to enter an Olympic distance triathlon event in Bentonville in 2018. I have been racing triathlons every year since.” Flight school training and the time it required meant Gallo had to leave the swim team after his first year of college. “But the coaching leadership I witnessed and the passion for sports never left.” Gallo’s flying career progressed, and he served as a flight instructor, a New York City tour pilot, freight pilot and airline pilot. The stressors of the work necessitated self-care options and Gallo turned to running. “I started training myself to run and entered races here and there,” he said. “I have to admit that I love the competitiveness of racing and run training can get quite technical at times. Sometimes you just need to put all that technical jargon out of your head and just run.” Gallo left the airline industry in 2009 and became a pilot at Walmart in Northwest Arkansas in order to have a better quality of life. “I stopped running for a few years as my wife and I settled in and had our two beautiful girls and life was quite busy.”
As Gallo got used to parenthood, he slowly started to get back into good physical shape. He was also falling in love with the idea of competing in a triathlon. Gallo returned to the airline industry and flying for the airlines in 2014. “My schedule improved, and I started training myself to swim and bike and run again,” he said. “I finally had the guts to enter an Olympic distance triathlon event in Bentonville in 2018. I have been racing triathlons every year since.” He’s also paying forward his positive coaching experience from college and in 2021 helped develop and coach Youth One80 multisport athletes in Bentonville. “My daughters are part of it, and we have kids between the ages of 5 and 12 on the team,” Gallo said. “It has been one of the most rewarding aspects of sports for me. To watch these kids progress and increase their confidence in themselves is the biggest gift any coach can receive.” February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 49
SMTO Featuring Northwest Arkansas
Julie Gowing Hayes
Creating Creative Connections
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t’s a new year of growth and vision and I love looking out and seeing trees. I for Bella Vista, Arkansas, artist Julie paint a lot of birds and so I have a lot of Gowing Hayes. “I had COVID and breast feeders outside my studio windows.” Hayes finds her inspiration in nature and has a deep-rooted cancer in 2022, so 2023 was a recovery for the land along with the trees, flowers and wildlife year,” she says. “So, I am working myself respect it supports. “I can never get enough of the beauty God created in nature,” she says. “From the sunlight drifting through back into some semblance of a regular leaves to highlight some bird or flower that otherwise may creative practice. I have a home studio have gone unnoticed, or the exquisite harmony of a beautiful
An interest in art came early for Hayes. Her mother kept all of her sketches, including some she drew at age four. “I spent every moment I could in the art room during high school and went into fashion design in college. Then came children and a career, and moving a lot for my husband’s career prevented me from finishing.” Hayes had a hiatus from art for 20 years. As a corporate career woman in North Carolina, Hayes was moving up in the company and was eligible for a promotion, but Pink Glads - oil she did not have a completed college degree. The company paid for her education. “They didn’t care what the degree was in. So, I went for one in studio art.”
Misty Morning Perch - oil
Life progressed and Hayes’ husband took a job at the corporate office of Walmart in 2008, which brought them to Arkansas. “It was a big change, but my husband encouraged me to do art full time and I said ‘yes’. My husband is now a minister. We live in an A-frame house, and I have kind of taken over a lot of it with my home studio.”
“I can never get enough of the beauty God created in nature.” Solitude - plein air oil
color palette that blends into an inspiring composition and it all accompanied by birdsong and fresh air.” Hayes grew up on a farm in southwest Iowa and began her love for the outdoors there. Her father was involved in local conservation efforts that included tree planting, watershed developments and improved farming techniques. “And my mom had a love for gardening and bird watching,” she says. “It all contributed to my representational art style with hints of impressionism.”
Besides painting in her studio, Julie loves to paint en plein air and has participated in many local and regional events. Her love of painting outdoors has also provided lasting friendships. Through this love of painting outdoors, she met other artists, some who have become best friends. “We travel and paint together and have done so since 1999,” Hayes says. “We call each other ‘Three Who Paint’ and have a website with that name.” Today, Hayes is working on several paintings for the Women Artists of the West (WAOW) Woolaroc Museum Invitational in Bartlesville, Oklahoma, which opens May 4, and will include the work of 37 WAOW members. “I am a Signature Emeritus member and a board advisor for the group,” she says. “And also serve on the board for Heart of America Artists Association. I am also represented by Cherry’s Custom Framing and Art Gallery in downtown Carthage, Missouri.” To learn more, visit www.juliehayesart.com.
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SMTO Featuring Northwest Arkansas
Bentonville Sophomore Marissa Gianneschi sparkles on and off the softball diamond By Don Lowe
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s Bentonville Lady Tigers sophomore rising star Marissa Gianneschi gets set for the 2024 softball season, this talented young lady is laser focused on performing at a high level this spring. Longtime Bentonville Head Coach Kent Early appreciates Gianneschi’s dogged determination and says, “Marissa is an extremely hard worker. She is very driven to succeed. Her work ethic is why she will be successful.”
Being the epitome of a team player, Gianneschi is switching positions in ’24, and Coach Early says, “Marissa is an outfielder for us. She also works at catcher in a limited role.
Gianneschi’s interest in this sport began at an early age, and she says, “I’ve played about 10 years. My parents started me in tee ball and my sister (Emily) played softball. I always wanted to do what she was doing. “What I enjoy is being able to compete with some of my best friends. It’s so fast-paced and I’m constantly learning and discovering new tricks. There’s so much energy that goes into it and there is no better feeling than to make a smooth fielding play or get a good hit.” 52
“When Marissa came to us, she was a catcher. But we moved her to the outfield. She has made big strides in her play as an outfielder. She has good range, but her arm strength is probably her biggest asset. She’s very accurate with her throws.” In assessing her own skillsets and athletic abilities as an outfielder, Gianneschi says, “I’m tall. I have good communication skills and a decent eye when the ball is coming off the bat. “Being tall allows me to reach certain balls better. Communicating is always key with being able to talk to your teammates and reading the ball while getting good first steps.
Having focus and being aggressive is good. Just staying present and reading the hitter helps to set yourself up for the easiest out.” Along with her solid play in the outfield, Coach Early says, “Offensively, Marissa has improved the most. She has the capability of being a big bat in our lineup. She has good ‘pop’ in her bat.” Regardless of her God-given abilities as an athlete, Gianneschi says, “Having short-term memory is big because no matter the outcome of an at bat or play, the game is still going. Also, staying aware and understanding what you could do to have the best outcome for the team.” Gianneschi is motivated and Coach Early assures, “She’s a tireless worker. She has goals for herself and wants to achieve them. Marissa can maintain focus on those goals and not be distracted by other things.” Coach Early is ecstatic to have an exemplary student-athlete like Gianneschi who handles herself so well on and off the softball diamond
and he raves, “Marissa is an outstanding young lady. That starts at home. Her parents have done an amazing job raising her and teaching her how to be successful. She carries those traits into our program. “Marissa is very smart and academically she will be able to go wherever she wants. Her work ethic is making her softball side catch up to her academics. Marissa’s energy that she brings every day is what a coach wants and loves to have on a team. Marissa wants to win. That’s what I love. Winners win.”
Bentonville Lady Tigers Softball Star Marissa Gianneschi Fast Facts Age: 15
Favorite Food: Pasta
Height: 5’11”
Favorite Sports Movie: “Remember the Titans”
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perfect beginning Embarking on the By Amy Howe
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hen love is built out of a friendship, it’s meant to stand the test of time. That’s the love story of Sydni and Jarred Hall from Purdy, Missouri. The couple recently embarked on the enchanting journey of marriage, celebrating with laughter, tears of joy and cherished memories for a lifetime. Sydni and Jarred met through mutual friends, and as they say, the rest is history. “We really kicked it off as good friends,” said Sydni. “We would hang out quite a bit, and it turned into a really good relationship out of nowhere.” When the time was right, Jarred made plans to pop the question to Sydni, though things didn’t go as planned. “We went to Branson for the weekend,” Jarred explained. “We planned to shop around and do some fun things together. My original plan was proposing to Sydni on the Ferris wheel, but I immediately forgot because I was so afraid of heights. Needless to say, I freaked out once we were on it.” Not only was Jarred fearful the entire Ferris wheel ride up, there was a malfunction right as they reached the top. “One would think that would have been the perfect opportunity to propose, but my fear of heights had too much of a hold on me,” Jarred said, laughing at the memory. “So I ended up proposing in the hotel room later that evening.” Sydni said yes right there in the hotel room that evening. Queue the wedding planning!
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I was a mess of tears and couldn’t stop crying, but when I looked at Jarred I was filled with peace, said Sydni.
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Sydni had big ideas for the wedding of her dreams and researched the perfect venue. She and Jarred ended up choosing Venue 105 in Carthage, Missouri. “Venue 105 was our first stop, and we ended up loving it. We booked that day,” said Sydni. “We knew it was the one and didn’t end up going to look anywhere else.” Venue 105 is a beautifully constructed 5,000-square-foot event barn wedding venue with exquisite detail. It’s nestled in oak trees and has a white-washed barn, perfect for all styles of weddings. The venue also offers a shaded outdoor ceremony area with bench seating, and a spacious bridal suite. It was the perfect spot for the Hall wedding. Every detail was thought out, and one of the best parts of their day was the walk down the aisle. “I was a mess of tears and couldn’t stop crying, but when I looked at Jarred, I was filled with peace,” said Sydni. “I was so nervous about being the center of attention, but when I saw him it was like it was just me and him there and no one else.” Jarred was excited to watch Sydni walk down the aisle, and while he was really nervous, he was just glad she was there.
“There were so many emotions. I was excited and nervous, but when I saw her, I was instantly happy she didn’t get cold feet,” said Jarred. Sydni’s uncle walked her down the aisle and helped calm her nerves. The couple tied a unity cross with a Bible verse that said, “A cord of three strands is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.” Sydni and Jarred made their send-off under an umbrella of LED fiber lights held by all of their friends and family. The happy couple are still in their newlywed phase, now just five months married, but are excited to share their story.
The Details
Venue: Venue 105
Dress: Gracie’s Bridal
Makeup: Haylie Carman
Photographer: Laura G. Photography
Hair: Chrissy Hancock Catering: Jami Lynn’s
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Venue 105 Say “I do” in the peace and tranquility of the countryside. Venue 105 is a beautifully constructed event venue and wedding barn located just outside of Carthage. Surrounded by oak trees and nestled in a serene country setting, Venue 105 offers amazing views inside and out, providing endless possibilities for your wedding day. At Venue 105, you will find all the amenities of a modern wedding. The white-washed barn features an elegant yet inviting atmosphere with high ceilings, polished concrete, stylish light fixtures and fairy lighting, rustic details and a jaw-dropping chandelier. The 5,000-square-foot, climate-controlled space offers plenty of room to celebrate with all your friends and family. Venue 105 is located at 6960 County Road 105, Carthage, MO. Visit www.venue105.com or Facebook: @Venue105. Email: host@venue105.com. See this beautiful venue in person by scheduling a private viewing today! Phone 417.850.8582
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Lendonwood Gardens When planning a wedding at Lendonwood Gardens in Grove, Oklahoma, the beauty of the ceremony is only enhanced by gorgeous flowering plants, towering oaks, richly textured evergreens, and lovely water features. Amenities include a gazebo surrounded by rose gardens, an open-air Japanese pavilion overlooking a koi pond, and numerous spots for memorable photographs on the special day. Open grassy areas allow space for chairs, tables, bands and dancing. Electricity is available at key locations to offer romantic lighting for evening ceremonies and facilitate food service and music. The back entrance of the Gardens is close by, offering easy access for caterers, florists, musicians and those with mobility problems. Restrooms and additional parking also are located near the back entrance. Lendonwood Gardens looks forward to sharing the beauty of the Gardens on your special day. Please call 918.786.2938 or visit www.lendonwood.com for more information or to reserve a date for your outdoor wedding.
Amadeus Ranch Amadeus Ranch is a beautiful Tuscan-style venue atop rolling hills in Southwest Missouri. Complete with exposed beams and sparkling chandeliers, our venue can match any wedding style from simple to extravagant. Our outdoor patio, complete with a gorgeous arbor, is the perfect setting for your wedding ceremony or dancing under the stars. We are booking 2024 and 2025 fast but still have availability for any season! We would love to help make your special day worry-free with our packages, which include linens, tableware, decor, vendors, wedding consultation and more! Call, text or email to book a visit to Amadeus Ranch. We look forward to meeting you! 417.850.1042 or 417.850.0980 or email amadeusranchvenue@gmail.com. Check out our website: amadeusranch.com and find us on Facebook! 58
La Boussole Medical Spa Voted Best Day Spa in Joplin and Four State Area, La Boussole Medical Spa & Wellness Center provides a tranquil day spa destination for excellence in aesthetic medicine, weight management, anti-aging treatments and whole-body health and wellness. Pre-wedding services include a free consultation and skin analysis. For the bride and/or groom, as well as the entire wedding party, we can customize our services to ensure you feel your most beautiful for your big day! All services are available for all areas of the body, including face, neck, decolletage, shoulders, back, arms and hands. For a full list of services, visit www. LaBoussoleJoplin.com. 5594 W. Junge Blvd. • Joplin, MO • 417.434.4449
Civil War Ranch Add some country charm to your special day! Whether your style is traditional, country, rustic or chic, the Civil War Ranch offers just the right settings. Take a break from the world’s hectic pace and unwind inside our pre-1900s fully insulated Wedding Barn, gather on the shore of our picturesque spring-fed 2.5-acre pond, celebrate on our beautiful large landscaped Barn Courtyard, relax under our Rose Arbor and Wedding Tree, or picnic in our expansive Pole Barn. We strive to provide value for our couples as well as a beautiful backdrop for their special day. Our full-day rental is from 8 am to 11 pm, and if you book a Friday, you get Thursday included. Maybe you want to save more by booking Monday through Wednesday or want a small, quick wedding with just your closest family. We have that, too. Browse our gallery and check our prices and availability on our website at www.civilwarranch.com. Book a tour through our website, Facebook page or by calling 417.237.0771. We can’t wait to hear from you! 11838 Civil War Ave., Carthage MO.
96 Elite If you desire to host an elegant wedding or event in a luxe space, 96 Elite is the venue for you. 96 Elite is an 11,000-square-foot building outfitted with stained concrete floors and fashionable, whitewash shiplap walls. The main indoor wedding space includes 26-foot-high ceilings and an elegant six-foot-tall Swarovski crystal chandelier. Also inside is a gorgeous foyer and spacious upper balcony. Outside, a paved courtyard is surrounded by the beauty of nature and the perfect place for outdoor ceremonies. Walk the pathway and you’ll find the nearby boat dock, rowboat, ornate fountain, gazebo and romantic Heart Pond! Schedule a tour today by calling 417.849.1915. 23895 State Hwy. 96 • Oronogo, MO • 417.849.1915 • www.96elite.com
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Country Chic Decorating
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f you are a fan of HGTV, then you have seen one of the many shows where they restore old houses, transforming them into modern functioning homes. Since many of the projects are old farm houses, the decorating style of most of the homes is geared toward what would be described as country chic, which results in an elegant home with comfortable touches. Country decorating is a wide-ranging style that depends on geographical location but is generally defined by muted colors, especially white and cream, and the use of antiques or furniture painted with the use of milk-paint or chalk paint. Shabby chic is a form of interior design where the furnishings are chosen for their worn appearance and signs of loving wear and tear. Country chic combines both country and shabby chic into one style that is easy to achieve.
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Here’s how the style breaks down: Colors: Most rooms are painted soft colors, such as cream, white, soft gray or a neutral beige, however, soft gray-blues and sage-greens will work for the wall colors for this style as well. Base trim and crown molding should also be painted in a soft neutral color. A more modern, country look can be achieved by the addition of brighter accent colors such as barn red, matte black, country blues or sage greens to set off the design. Most of these colors should be found in the accessories and not in the main colors on the walls or furniture.
Furniture: While some of the furniture in a country chic design can be found by using antiques, using new furniture that has been painted a soft white or black and sanding the edges to give them the appearance of being worn by time will also work. Many people find they prefer classic fabric-covered sofas and chairs along with some leather furniture pieces to keep it from feeling too old and worn. Old metal furniture can be utilized; leaving the rusted areas for a worn feeling, or paint new metal pieces and then distress them by sanding off some of the paint at the edges.
Accessories: Country-style accessories, such as worn pottery, pewter and metal accent pieces, small glass vases for fresh flowers or baskets to hold napkins and utensils in the kitchen or towels in the bath, are perfect for country chic styles. Family photos printed in black and white and framed in rustic wood frames would be perfect for this style of decorating, as would anything showing the countryside such as framed botanical or floral prints.
Fabrics: A country space will benefit from fabrics such as subtle, muted stripes, small floral prints, large checked fabrics or gingham. However, burlap, Parisian prints and muted, paisley fabrics would also work in almost any room of this decorating style. Decorative pillows on couches, chairs and propped into baskets near the bed will add to the comfy, downhome feeling you are trying to achieve. Minimal window coverings such as sheer curtains, that allow a clean, fresh feeling, are perfect for the windows, or the use of wooden shutters painted a crisp white or subtle cream would work as well.
Lighting: Metal chandeliers with simple chandelier bulbs or the use of Mason jar lights and Edison bulbs would make great lighting pieces, as would wooden lamps with soft linen shades. Avoid anything too modern, such as bright brass finishes, while seeking out softer, silver metals and oilrubbed bronze.
Flooring and Countertops: You may be able to remove existing carpet and find old hardwoods you can refinish underneath, or install new hand-scraped or oil-rubbed wood flooring in a warm honey tone or a rich, dark color. Large, stonelook tiles in warm tones would look perfect on the floors of a kitchen or bath in country chic decorating, as would area rugs in muted tones and patterns. Soft cream or white countertops using quartz or granite would be perfect for countertops in this style of decorating. The goal of country chic decorating is to add pieces to your home that speak of the countryside, well-loved and worn family antiques, and things that make it feel comfy and cozy all year long. Give country chic decorating a chance to capture your imagination and your heart. February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 61
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FREEMAN HEALTH SYSTEM
PAULA BAKER President & Chief Executive Officer • Freeman Health System What is an average day for you as president? I guess the best response to this question is to say I don’t really have average days. It is actually one of the things I enjoy most about my position. Every day is different and exciting. Although I start the day out with a schedule, it hardly ever follows it exactly. There are always unexpected issues that arise that require my attention. This novel aspect of my position is very appealing to me. I do, however, have certain priorities I attempt to accomplish every day, such as meeting with my team, visiting patients in the hospital and talking with my physicians about issues germane to them. What do you love most about your field and what you do? I love that Freeman Health System fulfills a critically important mission. We are here for people when they are sick, injured or have a family member in need of our services. These can be some of the most terrifying moments an individual will ever face. It is our honor to walk alongside our patients during these difficult times offering compassionate, quality care. It is also a great blessing to share the happy moments with them, such as the birth of a new child or a cure from their disease or injury. There are not many jobs that offer this level of gratification and the knowledge that what you are doing matters tremendously. We have the opportunity every day to make a positive difference in the lives of the people we serve and we are honored and humbled by this experience. How many messages are in your inbox? Let’s just say there are five digits’ worth, but please don’t tell my IT Department!!! In your opinion, what does it take to be an excellent leader? Most importantly, I believe you have to possess great passion for the organization and people you are leading. You have to believe what you are doing is worthwhile and makes a positive difference in people’s lives. To be an excellent leader, you must have great respect for your team and understand that they are central to the success of your organization. You have to believe in them and be supportive of them and listen to what they have to say. A great leader has the vision to see what could be, rather than what is at this exact moment in time. An effective leader is determined and does not view failure as an option. What advice would you give a young person starting out in their career? My best advice is to be true to your passion. If you do that, you will enjoy your work and find great gratification in it. I would also say it is important to always believe in yourself, even if other people doubt your abilities and attempt to discourage you in your pursuits. Don’t listen to them but have confidence in your ability to be successful. Your dreams and goals are within reach if you are willing to work hard and not give up when the going gets rough.
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What do you like to do for fun? I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. I am a movie buff and my son and I go to the theater about once a week. I enjoy cooking and entertaining as well. SPECIAL PROMOTION
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STEMI designation By Kevin McClintock Freeman Media Relations Coordinator
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reeman Health System was the first in the Joplin area to receive the coveted Level 1 STEMI Center designation from the Missouri Department of Health and Senior Services in 2017, and it will remain a STEMI Level 1 hospital through 2026. STEMI is a common name for ST-Elevation Myocardial Infarction, a serious heart attack in which one of the heart’s main arteries is blocked. Each year, more than 250,000 individuals experience a STEMI. To prevent death, it is critical to restore blood flow as quickly as possible, either by mechanically opening the blocked vessel or by providing clot-busting medication. “Year after year, our heart care team meets stringent standards to provide rapid, quality care when it matters most,” said Paula Baker, Freeman president and chief executive officer. “Time is critical during a cardiac emergency, and our caregivers demonstrate their skill and compassion with sophisticated heart procedures time and time again.” Freeman received Level 1 honors in 2020 and now 2023; each designation is valid for a three-year period. “No matter how many times we receive our Level I STEMI accreditation, it is always very special and rewarding,” said Freeman’s Director of Cardiac and Vascular Services Melinda Estes, AGACNP, FNP. “Each designation proves our team’s dedication, determination and hard work.” One of 16 Level 1 STEMI Missouri hospitals, Freeman has a door-toballoon time of less than 55 minutes, much lower than the 90-minute recommendation. “Our team continues to strive for excellence and presses forward as a leader in STEMI care for our patients and our community,” Estes said. To earn the Level 1 STEMI designation, Freeman completed an extensive and detailed certification process last year that included paramedics, nursing staff, physicians, cardiologists, cardiothoracic surgeons, system quality analysts and administration. The hospital demonstrated it has the providers and resources needed to treat STEMI patients, and its physicians and staff met and will continue to meet strict standards of education and demonstrate proficiency in the latest proven STEMI treatments. Freeman is specifically equipped to treat STEMI patients – improving both speed and quality of care – by coordinating 911 response system, ambulance services and hospitals in a comprehensive, integrated approach.
“The STEMI Level 1 designation is a testament to the teams that we have at Freeman and the collaboration that takes place on each and every STEMI patient to ensure that we are providing not only efficient care, but quality and accurate care each time,” said Freeman STEMI Coordinator Michelle Wolfe, RN, RCIS. For more information about Freeman’s nationally recognized heart care, call Freeman Heart & Vascular Institute, 1102 W. 32nd St., Joplin, at 417.347.5000 or visit freemanhealth.com/heart. February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 69
Spotlighting Compassionate Care
By David O’Neill, Freeman Marketing Communications Coordinator
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urses aren’t recognized nearly enough for the compassionate and skillful care they provide patients and families and, often, their own colleagues. One way Freeman Health System lets its nurses know how much they matter is by taking part in an international recognition program known as the DAISY Award For Extraordinary Nurses. Freeman Clinical Compliance Specialist Nichole Lopez said her passion for the award is driven by the much-deserved and meaningful light it shines on its nurses. “The DAISY Award is one of the ways we can let our nurses know how much they are appreciated and valued for the extraordinary care they give each day.”
In attendance at the annual DAISY Award Celebration in January, from left, were Freeman Health System’s Nicki Lopez, Clinical Compliance Specialist; Jeanee Kennedy, Chief Nursing Officer; Rachel Sweet, Physician Group Supervisor; December DAISY Award winner Trina Busick, RN; and Jeff Thompson, Chief Clinical Officer.
The award is named for J. Patrick Barnes, who was diagnosed with the auto-immune disease Idiopathic Thrombocytopenic Purpura in 1999. During Barnes’ eightweek hospitalization, his nurses demonstrated a level of kindness and compassion that helped him and his family through the darkest hours of their lives. Their experience inspired the creation of the DAISY Award, which allows patients, families and co-workers a way to express their gratitude to nurses. The acronym, incidentally, stands for “Diseases Attacking the Immune System.”
How It Works
“Extraordinary Nurse.” The certificate reads: “In deep appreciation of all you do, who you are, and the incredibly meaningful difference you make in the lives of so many people.” Honorees also receive a DAISY Award pin and a beautiful and symbolic sculpture titled “A Healer’s Touch,” hand-carved by artists of the Shona Tribe in Zimbabwe. Each nomination tells a unique story. One example is a recent DAISY winner who wrote this about her nurse: “She has always been a patient advocate and never given up … Had she not gone the extra mile, I wouldn’t be here today writing this.”
Freeman nurses are nominated by patients, families, co-workers and physicians either online or with submission forms placed in nomination boxes throughout Freeman locations. In 2023, Freeman received over 150 nominations; this number is up significantly from the prior year. Nominations are then sent to a committee that selects the DAISY award recipient.
The DAISY Foundation has recognized Freeman as a model of how the award can be promoted and utilized by healthcare organizations. “A lot of it has been making nomination forms available for patients, visitors and employees to complete,” Lopez said. “We’ve placed nomination boxes all over the campuses with flyers that explain the DAISY program. Having nominations both online and in paper form means we make the process accessible to everyone.
Each month at an award presentation at Freeman, Lopez said, DAISY winners receive a certificate commending her or him as an
Lopez takes great pride in coordinating the program. “When nominations are received, I make sure we are recognizing these
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A DAISY Awards Celebration cake.
“The DAISY Award is one of the ways we can let our nurses know how much they are appreciated and valued for the extraordinary care they give each day.” - Nichole Lopez
Four of the DAISY Award Winners from 2023. From left, Megan Spiering, NP; Shelly Shoemaker, RN; Sierra Kerbs, RN; and Trina Busick, RN.
Each month, DAISY Award winners receive a gift bag that includes a hand-carved sculpture by an artist in Zimbabwe.
individuals. We’re proud that our participation in the DAISY program has been and continues to be a powerful way to honor the hard work of our nurses.”
A Special Celebration
Because every nomination represents a meaningful recognition for the nurse who receives it from a grateful patient or colleague, Freeman celebrates annually with a celebration and ceremony honoring all of its special nominees. At this year’s celebration in early January, nominees were recognized individually with a copy of their nomination form(s) – emphasizing the impact they had on their patient or colleague – as well as a special DAISY Nominee pin and a note from the Freeman leadership team. “We’re honored to partner with the DAISY Foundation to recognize the work of our nurses,” said Freeman Director of Nursing Jeanee Kennedy. “Being part of a global recognition program enables us to recognize our nurses for the outstanding work that they do in a big way and share their stories with others around the world. We want our nurses to know the work they do is meaningful and appreciated, and DAISY is one way we are able to do that.” DAISY reinforces the importance of compassion in healthcare – and making a difference in the lives of patients and their loved ones. “Recognition and celebration mean more now than ever before as nurses tackle the ongoing challenges of healthcare,” Lopez said. February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 71
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r. Vigyan Bang and his team at Freeman Health System serve as a one-stop shop for patients with heart disease. As an interventional and structural cardiologist, as well as the director of the structural heart program at Freeman, Dr. Bang cares for patients with simple heart problems as well as complex heart blockages and valvular heart disease, thereby avoiding the need for open heart surgery in most cases. Dr. Bang comes from a family of doctors so his decision to go into healthcare was an easy one. “Seeing my parents touch countless lives made this decision quite natural for me,” says Dr. Bang. “In fact, my father is also an interventional cardiologist.” Dr. Bang prides himself on getting to know his patients and will spend time understanding their medical problems, goals and beliefs so he can provide an individual treatment plan for each one of them rather than a one-size-fits-all approach. “For some, it might mean performing complex lifesaving heart procedures while for others it might mean sticking to medications only,” says Dr. Bang. “Treating two patients with the same medical problem differently, based on their beliefs, is what makes my job very interesting. It helps me help them achieve their goals.” The most rewarding part of Dr. Bang’s job is treating patients having a heart attack where he is able to snatch them from the jaws of death and instantly turn things around for the patient. “It feels like an interception with a 90-yard touchdown,” says Dr. Bang. “Every single time. It is quite addictive!” Dr. Bang also enjoys teaching medical students and residents who rotate with him so he can pass on the knowledge to the next generation.
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Outside of work, Dr. Bang and his wife enjoy traveling and getting to know local culture and cuisine. They also enjoy playing tennis and hiking with their dog, Taver.
“Seeing my parents touch countless lives made this decision to become a doctor quite natural for me.”
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s a board certified neurosurgeon with Freeman Health System, Dr. Noah Converse often treats patients with either nerve or spinal cord compression, and addresses problems such as brain tumors. He also treats patients with traumatic injuries to the brain or spine. Growing up, Dr. Converse always wanted to study law; however, a unique program during high school allowed him to get his firefighter and EMT certification while still in school. “Ultimately, this exposed me to careers in healthcare and led to working in an emergency room during college, which really changed my perspective,” he said. Instead of pursuing law, Dr. Converse decided to pursue medicine and changed from an English major to a neuroscience major in college, and later worked with the neurosurgeons at the University of Utah. Seeing patients overcome debilitating disabilities and pain is by far the most rewarding part of his job. “Seeing a patient go from using a wheelchair to regaining their independence and walking on their own again is an honor to be a part of,” he said. Dr. Converse loves innovation and believes neurosurgery will have many of the greatest advancements in medicine over the next 30 years. “In neurosurgery, there are quite a few frontiers that we are just beginning to understand,” he said. “I love anything to do with pioneering new methods and treatments to overcome obstacles and difficulties.” When he’s not working, Dr. Converse enjoys spending time with his wife and seven children. He is active in his church and enjoys sporting events, running and offshore fishing.
DR. NOAH CONVERSE “I love anything to do with pioneering new methods and treatments to overcome obstacles and difficulties.”
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elping patients, listening to them and understanding what their goals are is what Dr. Chance Matthiesen does each day alongside his patients. As a radiation oncologist, Dr. Matthiesen meets and consults patients who have received a cancer diagnosis or other diagnosis in which radiation therapy is a therapeutic option for them. “I develop relationships with my patients, getting to know them beyond just as my patient and who they are in their own lives,” says Dr. Matthiesen. Those relationships are what Dr. Matthiesen attributes to a successful career and compassionate bedside manner. It’s important to Dr. Matthiesen to focus on each patient as an individual, ensuring each decision made is best for them. “I’m also very transparent with my patients,” says Dr. Matthiesen. “I try to be the most upfront and honest at all times and discussing difficult cancer decisions as kindly as possible.” Radiation oncology is a field that is always changing and is continuing to get better. “In my career time, so many advancements have been made to improve radiation outcomes and minimize side effects. I enjoy being able to participate in research to do my part to advance the field further during my career. As Freeman Radiation Oncology continues to grow and advance, each year Dr. Matthiesen reflects on the improvements he sees. “I am always surprised at how far we continue to press onward with excellence,” he says. “Patients do not need to travel far to receive the best oncologic care for them or their family. They simply need to come to Freeman.” Outside of work, Dr. Matthiesen loves spending time with his family. Together, they enjoy supporting the Joplin community, Joplin schools, volunteering for community service and going to church.
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CHANCE MATTHIESEN, MD Freeman Cornell-Beshore Cancer Institute Radiation Oncologist, Medical Director Department of Radiation Oncology 3415 McIntosh Circle Dr. • Joplin, Missouri 417.347.4000
Joplin, MO Every day: Alcoholics Anonymous Meetings. Call 888.740.4568. Every Monday: Tips for Living a Healthy Life, 10 a.m.12 p.m., South YMCA, 3404 W. McIntosh Circle. Free; registration required. Call 417.625.2492. Every Day: 12-Step Recovery Meetings, Alano Club, 1800 E. 30th. Call 417.623.9645. Feb. 28: Grief Support Group meets every fourth Wednesday of each month, 6-7:30 p.m., Hospice Compassus, 2216 E. 32nd St., Ste. 201. Call 417.623.8272. Freeman Health System Joplin, MO All events are free and open to the public, unless noted; support group meetings are cancelled on days Joplin R-VIII Schools close due to inclement weather. Feb. 6: Espresso Yourself Breast Cancer Support Group, 5-6 p.m., Joplin Avenue Coffee Company, 506 S. Joplin Ave. Come and enjoy a coffee courtesy of Freeman CornellBeshore Cancer Institute. Our monthly breast cancer support group enables members to share, gain helpful information and useful tips, as well as form new friendships. Enjoy listening to a special guest from time to time. RSVP to Marcella Sowell at 417.347.2662. Feb. 7: Freeman Cancer Support Group, 2-3 p.m., Freeman Cornell-Beshore Cancer Institute, 3415 McIntosh Circle. Call Kelley Wheeler at 417.347.4000 for more information. Feb. 9: Galentine’s Day Sip & Shop, 4-8 p.m., The Roxy Event Center, 102 S. Joplin Ave. Join the Freeman Development Office for this special event in support of the Freeman Helping Friends Mammogram Fund, which provides mammogram screenings for local women in need. Evening includes shopping while enjoying delicious libations from area food and beverage partners. For more information about tickets to this event, please call 417.347.4624. Tickets also sold at the door. Feb. 20: Freeman Bariatric Weight-loss Support Group, 5:30-6:30 p.m., Freeman Business Center Conference Rooms, 3220 McClelland Blvd (back entrance). Designed to help those who have had bariatric surgery. For more information, call Janice Drake at 417.347.1266. Feb. 20: Ozark Center Daytime Autism Support Group, 12:30-1:30 p.m., Bill & Virginia Leffen Center for Autism,
2808 S. Picher Ave. Open to people with autism, parents and caregivers. Call 417.347.7850 for more information. National Adult Literacy Action, 123 S. Main St., Joplin - For information on NALA, call 417.782.2646, email Jessica@ joplinnala.org or visit www.joplinnala.org. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday: 8:30 a.m.-5 p.m., Thursday & Friday: 8:30 a.m.-12 p.m. Nevada, MO Feb. 3: Birth and Beyond Class, 8:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Meets at the NRMC Mezzanine Conference Room. This class covers childbirth, breastfeeding and infant care for women in their last trimester. Includes a tour of the NRMC OB when available. $15 registration fee. Fee may be waived if cost is prohibitive. Register at 417.448.3710. Feb. 27: Rich Hill Family Medical Clinic Screenings, 11 a.m.12 p.m., Kern Senior Center. Free health screenings are offered every fourth Tuesday of the month to residents of Rich Hill. Integris Baptist Regional Health Center, Grove, OK INTEGRIS Baptist Regional Health Center, Miami, OK - For more information, visit www.integrisok.com/baptist-regionalhealth-center-Miami-ok. Every Tuesday: Free blood pressure and glucose screenings provided by INTEGRIS Regency Home Care and Hospice. First Tuesday: Commerce Nutrition Center, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Second Tuesday: Nine Tribes Tower, 10-11 a.m. Third Tuesday: Miami Senior Center, 10-11 a.m. Fourth Tuesday: INTEGRIS Baptist Village, 9-10 a.m. Feb. 6: Alzheimer’s Support Group meets first Tuesday monthly, 11 a.m., Generations fourth floor visiting room. Call 918.542.3391. Feb. 13 & 27: Depression Support Group meets the second and fourth Tuesday of each month, 2 p.m., Northeastern Tribal Health System Conference Room, 2301 Eight Tribes Trail. Call 918.675.2093.
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HEART VEGGIES
Loving veggies can show your heart love By Bradley Morris
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ebruary is the month of heart health, and heart disease is the leading cause of death in Americans. Because of this, it’s not uncommon for people to start looking for healthier heart options during this month. There are many ways to work to improve your heart health, but one of the easiest and most applicable ways is by eating your vegetables. That means that for most of us, working to eat more vegetables will help us maintain good heart health in addition to all the other health benefits vegetables give. So, how many vegetables should you eat a day? There is a variety of estimates that fall between two and four cups a day (the average American is estimated to eat one and a half cups of vegetables each day). It’s important to remember everyone’s health is different, and while I’ll discuss some things to keep in mind while looking at your diet, ultimately you know your health and should always consult your doctor or a nutritionist before making any drastic dietary changes. Why vegetables? It’s impossible to list everything because there’s so much variety to each vegetable’s nutrition and so much can work toward your heart health, but there’s two specific qualities we can focus on: soluble fiber and potassium. Many vegetables will have a mix of both these qualities, but some veggies lean more on one than the other, so mixing up the vegetables in your diet is a great way to try covering all bases. Soluble fiber can help lower your bad cholesterol levels, and bad cholesterol is bad because it’s the cholesterol that builds up in your veins and potentially causes dangerous blockages. Soluble fiber also seems to be connected with vegetables high in antioxidants; there are many types of antioxidants, and each can help heart health in their own way, so diversifying your diet with different vegetables can be prudent. Good sources of soluble fiber are carrots, asparagus and broccoli, which is also a great source of potassium. Potassium helps reduce blood pressure by helping you get out more sodium when you go to the bathroom. This helps reduce the damage to your heart high blood pressure can cause, but potassium can be an issue if you have a kidney disease or are taking certain medications. The warning above isn’t just for show; always check with your doctor to make sure your medications guide your diet. Potassium and other heart-friendly nutrients can be found in leafy greens, such as spinach, and gourds, such as squash. Consistency is the key to getting the most out of vegetables. While it’s easy to focus on improving your heart health – and there’s so much more we can do than just getting our veggies – the best way to have better heart health is to take what we learn this month and apply it year round.
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Missouri statewide drug database
LAUNCHED LAST DECEMBER
By Bridget Bauer
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assed in 2021, Missouri’s law to establish a statewide drug database for opioid prescriptions was finally launched last December. Trying to help doctors identify addiction, the program requires pharmacists to report when providing drugs listed under controlled substances. Pharmacists and doctors are required to check information in the database collection to see if patients have been getting opioids from multiple providers. While other states had prescriptions drug databases for years, Missouri became the last state to adopt a program. Information from the database is only used for patient care and cannot be shared with law enforcement. “I thought it was already in effect and kind of shocked it wasn’t,” Teddy Steen, executive director of ASCENT Recovery Residences, said. “What I really want to see happen is not giving pain pills for every kind of pain.” While Steen has had several dental procedures, she has never taken prescription opioids for the pain. She knows of fellow recovery addicts who have had dental procedures and were prescribed valium and hydrocodone before the procedure was ever started. “I take three Advil and two extra-strength Tylenol,” Steen said. “I’ve had teeth pulled, root canals and implants, and it managed my pain very well. My hope would be for doctors to make opiates for pain relief the last resort and not the first.” Steen would like that to happen more often. However, doctors and hospitals, at one time, had their hands tied when it came to prescribing opioids for pain. In 1999, the Veteran’s Health Administration included pain as the fifth vital sign in their national pain management strategy. Two years later, the Joint Commission on Accreditation of Healthcare Organizations released Standards Related to the Assessment of Treatment of Pain. - Will Humble, M.P.H. Director Arizona Department of Health Services, July 29, 2014. However, because documented research showed a significant rise in opioid addiction and related deaths, delegates at the 2016 American Medical Association (AMA) meeting voted to stop treating pain as the fifth vital sign because they believed the initiative, along with other factors, exacerbated the opioid crisis. - Moving Beyond Pain as the Fifth Vital Sign and Patient Satisfaction Scores to Improve Pain Care in the 21st Century (Anson, 2016).
What the database is not going to help with is reducing the number of overdose deaths caused by fentanyl. Because fentanyl is so cheap, addicts graduate from opioids to buying fentanyl off the street. Or they buy other pills they don’t know are laced with fentanyl. If doctors would use other methods to treat pain or subscribe fewer opioids, that might help curb the addiction rates for those who get started because of pain, particularly for young athletes, who are very susceptible. “The fifth vital sign kicked things up a notch,” Steen said. “Pill seekers know how to get drugs, and we don’t really know what is in some of the drugs. Hopefully, the health industry will become more cautious and look at alternatives for pain or prescribe smaller amounts and be incredibly careful with refills. If they were more cautious, it might slow down the addiction to other drugs.”
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The Great OUTDOORS By Larry Whiteley
An award-winning magazine and newspaper writer, radio host and blogger for more than 40 years. His book, “Seasons: Stories of Family, God and the Great Outdoors,” is available on Amazon and Amazon Kindle.
Pictures T on the walls
he early years of my life were spent on Grandma and Grandpa’s farm. If you needed to go to the bathroom, you walked 20 yards down a path to a little building away from the house. It had no deodorizer.
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SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT “Where we love is home. Home that our feet may leave, but not our hearts.” – Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.
Oil lamps or candles lit the night in the farmhouse. There was no electricity. In winter, we warmed ourselves by a pot-bellied wood stove. Grandma cooked all the meals on another wood stove in the kitchen. Water came from a bucket we carried from the spring. Hauling hay for the animals was with a pitchfork and a horse-drawn wagon. We slopped hogs, butchered them and hung them in the smokehouse. Milking cows was by hand with a bucket and a stool. We drank the milk and churned the cream into butter. We raised chickens for their meat and eggs. I still remember Grandma wringing a chicken’s neck. I can still smell the aroma of wet feathers as the chickens were dipped in a bucket of boiling water to help make the plucking of feathers easier.
look at my computer or smartphone without turning on the television and listening to negative news and commercials. In my garage and barn is the latest and greatest hunting, fishing and camping gear. I have a bass boat with the newest electronics that does everything but hook the fish. There is a duck boat, ATVs and a 4-wheel drive truck to haul it all. My grandpa wouldn’t believe how things have changed. I stop writing and sit back in my chair. There are memories on every wall of fish, ducks, deer and turkey from my outdoor adventures. Grandpa’s old, rusted rifle sits in a corner. So does his old fishing rod and tackle box. His old shotgun is locked in the gun safe, next to my single-shot rifle my grandson used to take his first squirrel. Also, on all the walls are pictures of kids and grandkids. Most are of their first fish or deer and times we spent with them in the outdoors. Grandpa and Grandma’s farmhouse is also there. Some might say my wife and I have spoiled our kids and grandkids. We have helped them when needed. We call it making investments in the lives of good kids. They work, get good grades and are not into bad things people do today. We tell them we wouldn’t do what we do for them if they weren’t good kids. Most of our investments in them are in the pictures on the walls. Kids spell love T.I.M.E. We gave our kids and grandkids plenty of that. Our time investment has been through outdoor adventures throughout their lives. I have no doubt they will do the same.
Everything we ate was grown on the farm. We hunted and fished, not for fun, but to survive. Even at a young age, my little single-shot rifle sometimes meant the difference between having squirrel or rabbit for a meal or going hungry. A mess of bluegill caught with my cane pole and a worm was a special treat. We picked wild fruits and gathered nuts. There were no supermarkets or fancy restaurants in those days. There was also no depending on the government to take care of us. We took care of ourselves and worked hard. We struggled but were proud of who we were, what we had and what we accomplished. When not working around the farm, I explored the fields and forests. I climbed trees, rested in the limbs’ comforting arms and daydreamed. I camped out under the stars on summer nights. I captured lightning bugs and put them in a Mason jar with holes in the lid. I still see all that in my mind’s eye and feel it in my heart. I am a writer today because of it. When I got older, Grandpa let me hunt turkeys and quail with his old shotgun. He even taught me how to use his old rifle. I hunted what few deer were around back then. Grandpa also surprised me one year with his old bait casting rod and reel and a rusted metal tackle box with some funny-looking lures. I became a “real” fisherman. The love of God’s great outdoors was planted deep in my soul. A lot of years have passed since those days. Things have changed. I know my grandkids cannot believe the stories I tell about growing up on the farm. They think nothing about it when they flip a switch and a light comes on, or turn a handle and water comes out. They sure don’t think about it when they flush a toilet. I do! I sit at my desk writing this on a computer that corrects my spelling and grammar. It stores the articles I write, helps me research, sends and receives messages and much more. If I want to know the weather, I
My grandpa and grandma invested in me. They gave me as much time as possible while trying to survive on that old farm. I have fond memories of my grandma and grandpa from long ago when things were a lot different than they are today. Things have changed, but time investment is still the most important thing you can do to make a difference in kids’ lives. I hope our kids and grandkids will have fond memories of us. I thank God for the way I grew up. It helped shape and mold me, despite a few wrong turns and stumbles, into who I am. Thinking about that time long ago helps me appreciate what I have. My health is good, but I realize that can change at any moment. I still hunt, fish, camp and write about it. I don’t know how many more years the good Lord will let me keep doing what I love to do before He takes me home. Until then, I will be outside enjoying the outdoors He created and inside enjoying pictures on the walls. February 2024 • showmetheozarks.com • 79
Skunks looking for sweethearts would rather smell nice Field notes by J. Cantrell, photos courtesy of the Missouri Department of Conservation
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n second grade, there was a week I wore a white mask, a slim black sport coat, a backwards two-toned ballcap and I also donned a long fluffy black-and-white tail. That was my attire during performance practice and two days of our school’s play. I wasn’t a lead actor (Pepe Le Pew character), but my skunk role did have a name, John Paul, a neighboring “stinker.” My acting debut probably reinforced my empathy for wildlife. Who knows? But, I certainly enjoyed learning about skunks and saw there was more to them than their odoriferous repute. I have a wide and varied relationship with our striped skunks of the Ozarks. One of my first real skunk encounters, like so many people’s first introduction, was while camping. Encounters are common where skunks have learned to depend on messy campers and picnickers. I was probably eight or nine, and my mom and aunt had fixed quite a meal of porkchops, potatoes and fritters on the grate by the fire. The cousins and I had just finished eating, and my aunt loosely wrapped the leftovers in foil. All of us kids were animal lovers and devoted to Wild Kingdom on Sunday nights and our own collection of pets at home. So, we were delighted when an adult striped skunk boldly charged toward us in the firelight with its lean body flattened, nose to the ground and tail upright. Our adult role models corralled us to our camper, and I remember hogging the crack of the screen door watching that beautiful wild animal. It made little work of the folded aluminum foil and devoured the sauce-covered chops. I was fascinated by how beautiful this animal was and how agilely it moved. In later years, I’ve dealt with loaning people live traps who have a problem critter in the yard. I’m guessing since the striped skunk is 80
armed with a chemical defense, the skunks “feel” they don’t have to run away. They’ve learned through time to do as they please when they are familiar with food opportunities near a camping area or café dumpster. In wilder areas, they rely on prey such as caterpillars, grubs, beetles and even ground-nesting bumblebees. Their omnivorous diet allows them to search for wild fruits, grains and greens as well. Skunks have heightened senses of smell and hearing. And although at an early age I judged them to be bold because they can spray and detour enemies and predators, striped skunks prefer not to spray, and that stinky substance is something they’d rather not have on their fur. They can search for and hunt mice and voles easier if they don’t have an unpleasant fragrance. So, skunks are known for giving warning. They can spray but would rather let the dog or other intruder by without incident. However, if feeling threatened, skunks stomp their feet, do pushups of sorts and handstands to look bigger. If they fail with the warning, they can spray very accurately in the intruder’s face, eyes and mouth from about 10-15 feet away. Students are fascinated how ontarget the misting is, plus the substance actually glows in the dark! February holds some risk for the genuine John Pauls and Pepe Le Pews. It is easy to notice that suddenly there is an increase of striped skunks meeting their fate on our highways and country roads. The “people celebration” of Valentine’s Day aligns with the winter season coming out of the darkest period and the lengthening daylight triggering responses in several local wildlife members. Pepe Le Pew was an animated skunk in constant pursuit of love. That emotion is relatable to real ones and unfortunately some get distracted around traffic. This month, we are likely to see more skunks moving about looking for company. Let’s remember to put up our campfire meal’s leftovers and keep the area clean. Enjoy our native wildlife from a distance, including ones associated with “Pew.” I look forward to seeing some of you on nearby nature trails! - Jeff Jeff Cantrell is a local naturalist and Stream Team biologist with the Relevancy Branch of the Missouri Department of Conservation. His emphasis is volunteer engagement and may be reached at jeff. cantrell@mdc.mo.gov.
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