98 G. W. Allport characterizes a mature personality using 6 types of behavior: 1. Having a broad awareness of your own “I” with activity in many areas of life and with adequate love of yourself. 2. Being capable of friendly interaction and warmth without possessiveness or jealousy. 3. Having emotional certainty and self-confidence and being able to overcome various obstacles and your own shortcomings without bitterness; knowing how to express your opinions and feelings with regard for others. 4. Seeing things realistically, as they really are, not as you would like them to be; attempting to achieve realistic objectives. 5. Having a view of yourself and humor. Knowing your weaknesses and strengths. Being able to laugh at yourself and with others that you love without weakening them. 6. Having a harmonized philosophy of life – being consistent and having a dominant goal or topic, finding sense and tasks from life.
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managerial integrity
He is not a mind-reader. He is able to listen to others and look at the world from their perspective. He knows that his view of the world around might differ from that of others. This is why he does not create different assumptions without talking about them with the people these assumptions concern.
He has doubts “about things”. Having doubts about things means accepting that something might be different. It is not a passive stance, but active skepticism. Of course, having doubts about things does not mean constantly doubting principles or values.
He trusts himself and others. Having continual doubts about yourself and others means carrying a lot of uncertainty. Trusting yourself and others, meanwhile, does not mean blocking any feedback or self-reflection or excluding your conscience. Trusting yourself and others means having the ability to see qualities.
He does not talk negatively of people who are not there. It is entirely unacceptable to doubt the qualities of a subordinate in front of his colleagues or his own subordinates without that person being present. You can, of course, be critical of certain behavior and provide clear and direct feedback about events for which you would like a different resolution or result. Always in the presence of the person whom the feedback concerns, of course. It is better if there is nobody else there. Sometimes, of course, perhaps at a meeting, we cannot resist comparison. Here we need to stay on the factual level, with no personal interpretation. It is more complicated in the situation in which we are talking to our bosses about how we see our staff. In such a situation, the basic rule is to apply the same rules to one as to another, meaning comparison according to the same criteria.
He treats others with respect, does not devalue and does not use others to make sure he gets ahead himself (does not clamber over others).
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