Kit | May + June 2018

your summertime agenda

TOP PICKS FOR MAY/JUNE EVENTS & TWO INDIANA GETAWAYS.

MAY+ JUNE

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the kit agenda MAY & JUNE EVENTS

mini kit: street appeal GET THIS GO-TO LOOK FOR MEN

mini kit: city chic UP YOUR EVERYDAY-URBAN STYLE

By the rules: wedding etiquette BE A GUEST “DO” WITH THESE FAQ’S

mini kit: makeup essentials 5 BEAUTY WINNERS FOR SUMMER

care kit: CAREGIVEr OF THE YEAR MEET DARLA ISRAEL, 2018 CICOA CAREGIVER OF THE YEAR

health: mental health TO FIND LIFE BALANCE, MANAGE YOUR ENERGY

travel kit: one tank trip HOUR-BY-HOUR GETAWAY RECS FOR TWO INDIANA DESTINATIONS

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mother’s day gift guide 20 LOVELY THINGS MOM WILL ADORE

weddings PEEK INSIDE 4 GORGEOUS WEDDINGS IN OUR SPECIAL LOOKBOOK

sumptuous bridal Bouquets TRENDING STYLES FOR EVERY WEDDING

recipe kit: rehearsal dinner BRING THE PARTY HOME FOR AN INTIMATE, EASY CELEBRATION

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THE KIT AGENDA GRAB YOUR PLANNER & TEXT YOUR FRIENDS. SUMMER EVENTS IN INDY ARE CALLING YOUR NAME!

THE MONTH OF MAY IS SYNONYMOUS WITH INDY. And June is turning out to be just as exciting. Get out there and enjoy the season.

Music & Entertainment Noises Off

Through May 20

Wicked Through May 13

A lot happened in the Land of Oz before Dorothy arrived. Don’t miss your opportunity to see the Broadway sensation highlighting the untold story of Elphaba and Glinda. With a score that includes Defying Gravity and For Good, Wicked has been hailed by The New York Times as “the defining musical of the decade.”

Ever gone to a play and something went wrong?

What happens when everything goes wrong?

From rehearsal implosions to backstage shenanigans, to onstage disasters, this show will leave the audience in stitches!

Tickets for this uproarious backstage comedy start at $25. (Recommended for patrons in ninth grade and older.)

Indianapolis Repertory Theatre, 140 W. Washington St., Indianapolis; (317) 635-5252; irtlive.com

May 24, 7:30 p.m.

To follow up on their 2017 album, Crack-Up, American indie folk band Fleet Foxes is on an international tour.

The band is known for their breezy, laid-back tunes, and will be joined by Brooklyn-based folk pop artist Amen Dunes. Tickets start at $25.

Murat Theatre, 502 N. New Jersey St., Indianapolis; (317) 231-0000; oldnationalcentre.com

June 15-20

This two-act musical is entertaining for the entire family. Based on Roald Dahl’s 1961 children’s book, the musical tells the fantastical tale of a boy, his insect friends and their amazing journey across the ocean on a giant piece of fruit. Tickets start at $12.50.

The Tarkington, 3 Center Green, Carmel; (317) 843-3800; thecenterfortheperformingarts.org

Annie

Murat Theatre, 502 N. New Jersey St., Indianapolis; (317) 231-0000; oldnationalcentre.com

Opens May 31

Dennis Miller at the Palladium May 18, 8 p.m.

Looking for an evening of laughs? Dennis Miller, the award-winning comedian, show host, sports commentator, author, actor and television personality, will be at the Palladium May 18. Tickets range $45-$125, and the former Saturday Night Live star takes the stage at 8 p.m.

The Palladium, 1 Center Green, Carmel; (317) 843-3800; thecenterfortheperformingarts.org

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Fleet Foxes

James and the Giant Peach

It’s a hard-knock life, but this G-rated musical makes it better! Children ages 3 and up will be charmed by little orphan Annie, despite her next-to-nothing start in 1930s New York City. Those ages 15 and under receive $10 off their ticket.

Beef & Boards Dinner Theatre, 9301 Michigan Road, Indianapolis; (317) 872-9664; beefandboards.com

Outlaw Music Festival June 23, 6 p.m.

This show is a must-see for any music fan. The incredible lineup for the Noblesville show includes Willie Nelson, Sturgill Simpson, The Head and The Heart, Old Crow Medicine Show and JD McPherson.

Ruoff Home Mortgage Music Center, 12880 E. 146th St., Noblesville; (317) 776-8181; livenation.com

arts & culture New Play Festival May 4-6

From page to stage.

IndyFringe and the Indiana Writers Center have put together a showcase featuring 10-minute plays written by emerging playwrights. The themes are as wide-ranging as the playwrights themselves.

Tickets for the festival are $12 for students/seniors, $15 for adults.

IndyFringe Basile Theatre, 719 E. St. Clair St., Indianapolis; (317) 522-8099; indyfringe.org

family & education The Music of Star Wars June 15-16

With summer comes Symphony on the Prairie.

This year, the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra (ISO) opens the season with music from Star Wars. The ISO will perform highlights from legendary John Williams, including themes from the original trilogy and recent extensions.

Don’t forget to BYO blanket, lawn chair, and food and drinks (alcohol accepted)!

Blooms in the Brewery at Four Day Ray

Mother’s Day Brunch at Conner Prairie

May 12, 11 a.m.

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Celebrate Mother’s Day with brews and blooms!

Grab your mom, daughter and/or fellow moms and head to Four Day Ray, the Fishers brewery that doesn’t sacrifice flavor for fashion. For $65, learn the art of flower arranging and bring home a fresh-cut, gift-worthy masterpiece.

Celebrate Mother’s Day with a delicious buffet meal at Conner Prairie.

The brunch buffet includes eggs, sausage, muffins, a waffle bar and more. There are two seating options: one at 11 a.m. and another at 12:30 a.m. Tickets start at $10.95 for youth, and $22.95 for adults.

Four Day Ray Brewing, 11671 Lantern Road, Fishers; (317) 343-0200; fourdayray.com

Conner Prairie, 13400 Allisonville Road, Fishers; (317) 776-6000; connerprairie.org

Conner Prairie Amphitheatre, 13400 Allisonville Road, Fishers; (317) 639-4300; indianapolissymphony.org

IPL 500 Festival Parade May 26, 11:45 a.m.

Nickel Plate Arts Presents: Warren Miller at Meyer-Najem Through June 29

Harry Fonseca: The Art of Living Opens May 19

Harry Fonseca was one of the most significant artists in the field of contemporary Native art.

This new exhibit presents insights into his warmth and humor, and includes paintings, ledger art, sketches and handwritten notes.

Eiteljorg Museum, 500 W. Washington St., Indianapolis; (317) 636-9378; eiteljorg.org

Hello Spring Through May 31

April showers bring May flowers on the grounds of Newfields, which includes the Indianapolis Museum of Art. See more flowers in a single stroll than you can anywhere else. A quarter of a million flowers will be arriving in stages, including different kinds of tulips you likely didn’t know existed.

You can also grab a pint in the beer garden.

Newfields, 4000 Michigan Road, Indianapolis; (317) 923-1331; discovernewfields.org

Get thee to the MeyerNajem headquarters, whose second story is showcasing a selection of Warren Miller works. Miller, a local artist, is known for his bold, graphic paintings.

He pursued an interest in art at an early age, and his artwork has been featured on the TV show Switched at Birth.

Meyer-Najem Construction, 11787 Lantern Road, Fishers; (317) 452-3690; nickelplatearts.org

Mother’s Day Weekend at the Indianapolis Zoo May 12 & 13

This family-friendly event puts the spotlight on all mothers — both human and animal. Special recognition starts right as you enter the zoo, with a special “Proud Mom” sticker. A scavenger hunt includes plenty of facts and features some of the zoo’s animal matriarchs. Once your family finishes the hunt, head to White River Gardens Gift Shop for a special gift.

Indianapolis Zoo, 1200 W. Washington St., Indianapolis; (317) 6302001; indianapoliszoo.com

Don’t miss one of the nation’s premier parades.

More than 300,000 spectators will line downtown Indy streets to celebrate the Indianapolis 500. Per tradition, the 33 starting drivers will serve as honorary grand marshals, riding in the traditional rows of three.

Downtown Indianapolis; (317) 614-6134; 500festival.com

Orchid Workshop: Orchid Basics June 9, 10 a.m.

Black thumbs be gone!

During this class, beginners will learn about orchids and basic care. The Central Indiana Orchid Society will also explore which orchids make the best houseplants.

This one-hour class costs just $5.

Garfield Park Conservatory, 2505 Conservatory Dr., Indianapolis; (317) 327-7184; garfieldgardensconservatory.org

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KIT TEAM NOTE

SIMPLY SMITTEN A “girly girl” I am not. Glitter and glam aren’t much my thing. I’m more of a T-shirt, blazer, skinny jeans and flats kind of girl.

There is one giant exception though. I simply can’t resist weddings. The soft pink florals, romantic lighting and overall giddiness of the big day pull me in every time. Plus, a love of all things stationery runs deep in my veins. Give me some embossed, goldfoil-stamped printables and I. Am. Smitten!

Kit’s Wedding Issue — in your hands right now — is always one of my favorites. I mean, did you see our cover shot? It’s a hard issue not to fall in love with.

Turn to page 53 for more gorgeous petals. You won’t regret it.

Everything I adore about weddings graces our pages in this issue. A handful of Central Indiana’s top wedding photographers offered up a glamorous glimpse into their favorite wedding shoots. The result (pages 29-37) is pure magic.

While the wedding day celebration is the main event, you want to look and feel your best for all of the occasions leading up to it. Stylist Laura Walters of Style Riot doesn’t disappoint. Turn to page 41 for wedding event ensembles that cover everything from engagement photos to the rehearsal dinner.

One of my favorite new departments that we launched in 2018 is certified etiquette coach Susan Beckwith’s By the Rules. Beckwith talks do’s and don’ts as a wedding guest on page 18 to prevent any embarrassing blunders. It’s a must read.

Enjoy the season, Kit readers. It shall be a lovely one.

ASHLIE HARTGRAVES KIT CREATIVE DIRECTOR

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A GO-TO LOOK FOR MEN

Do you have a hand in dressing a man in your life? Help him look amazing with an on-trend denim jacket and Balmain-inspired jeans. Distressed denim works well in multiple ways. Its rugged, rock star feel gives the opposite sex a chance to feel more in-tune with fashion — yes, they care! This year, look for jackets adorned with a picture or patch. The jeans speak for themselves, and thanks to Balmain’s collaboration with H&M, you can pass on the usual $1,000+ Balmain price tag. Tie on a pair of sneakers like these Vans and finish the look with a plaid shirt and gold watch. Stay sharp with a dab of pomade.

OUR MAN ON THE STREET We got our style tips from Johnny Perez, a fashion retail management student at the Art Institute of Indianapolis. Born in Santa Cruz, Calif., and raised in Logansport, Ind., Perez plans to move to sunny L.A. after graduation. Johnny wears it all, he says. He can be a cowboy one day, and style it up with SoHo trends the next. In L.A., he plans to pursue his dream of becoming a celebrity stylist, making a name for himself and his brand, Suker Perris.

GET THE LOOK Denim jacket, $59.99; jeans, $39.99; plaid shirt, $24.99; all at H&M. Vans Old Skool, $69.99 at Tillys. Nixon Time Teller watch, $100 at Nordstrom. Suavecito Pomade, $11.99 at Tillys.

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GET THE LOOK Embroidered jeans, $29.99; dress, $34.99; black biker jacket, $49.99; all at Target. tote bag, $78; BS SPF 30 Face, $20; BV Bruno shoes, $115; all at Love Your Body Boutique.

EVERYDAY CHIC

PEREZ’S ON-TREND URBAN LOOKS These pieces are modern takes on city-chic life. The trench coat-style dress perfectly complements the leather jacket. And black shoes makes everything “pop.” I pulled an embellished tote bag to pair with the khaki-colored dress. And the embroidered jeans? They should be in every woman’s closet — they’re fun, playful and perfect for parties and other outings. The jacket is the star of this look. It’s a powerful, versatile piece that keeps you looking sharp. It’s also a time saver. Wear it with jeans, casual tops, dresses — you name it.

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LYME DISEASE IS SNEAKY. IT’S CALLED THE GREAT IMPOSTER FOR A REASON. IT RARELY LOOKS THE SAME FROM ONE PERSON TO THE NEXT. The Great Imposter

Caused by a simple tick bite, Lyme Disease may appear early on as a rash, fever, headache, a few muscle aches and pains, and then may go away as strangely as it came on. Or it may not. It may cause no symptoms at all. And you may never have seen a tick at all. Kinda mysterious.

But then, years later, it can come back. It can flare up again. And when it does, it can look like, well… anything really. That’s why it’s called the Great Imposter.

For many, the primary problem may be fatigue, sometimes extreme, chronic, debilitating fatigue. Or weakness. Or poor stamina. For others it may be joint pain. Or back pain. Or muscle pain. Or stiffness. Or neurological symptoms like numbness and tingling, dizziness, or a hypersensitivity to noises, light, or smells that never before were a problem. Or strange skin rashes that come and go unpredictably. Or just come and never go. Or persistent, daily headaches. Or emotional symptoms like depression or anxiety. Or problems with concentration, memory, and “brain fog.”

Here’s the problem, though. There are LOTS of things that can cause fatigue.

Like lack of sleep. Or deficiencies in important nutrients like iron, folate, or Vitamin B12. Or poor diet. Or lack of exercise. Or thyroid dysfunction. Or other hormone issues. Or heart problems. The list is long, indeed.

And there are LOTS of things that can trigger joint pain, muscle pain, back pain, numbness, tingling, dizziness, headaches, or strange, mysterious rashes, and brain fog. And because there are lots of possible causes for all those things, and because Lyme is rare (actually, not so rare, see box), most people, including many physicians, never think of Lyme.

Testing

And there’s another problem, too. It’s the problem of testing. Even the very best blood test available today, done by the very best labs in the world, often results in something called a “false negative,” which means that even though the infection is present, the test just can’t find it. (Remember, it’s sneaky.)

So, if someone you know has been suffering with any (or several) of the symptoms that Lyme can cause, and if they’ve not yet been able to figure out why, then encourage them to ask their doctor about the possibility of testing for Lyme. It can’t hurt to ask or to test. And if you don’t test, you’ll never find it.

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LYME DISEASE: NOT SO RARE AFTER ALL » While only around 30,000 Lyme cases are reported to the CDC annually, a survey of testing labs reveals that the vast majority (about 90%) of all positive test results are never reported. » That means that around 300,000 Americans test positive for Lyme every year. » Add to that the fact that the blood test for Lyme frequently results in “false negatives,” then the number of Americans infected with Lyme climbs even higher.

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SOMETHING OLD & NEW FOR WEDDING ETIQUETTE

Weddings and etiquette go together like flowers and perfume. If there were ever a place to “get it right” this would be it. Unfortunately, there are a lot of opportunities for embarrassing blunders. Here, Susan Beckwith answers some FAQs on how to be a lovely wedding guest.

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What should a guest avoid wearing to a wedding?

The wedding is about the bride and groom.

Guests should show respect by making an effort and dressing appropriately.

While attempting to look your best is important, the goal should never be to upstage or detract attention from the happy couple.

Avoid wearing white, which is an old tradition but it still holds true today. Here are a few other items to never wear to a wedding: plunging necklines, all-over animal prints, over-the-top make-up, and anything too short or midriff baring. You also don’t want to draw attention by dressing overly casually. If there were ever a time to make the effort, it’s for a wedding. Need inspiration? Hop over to belleofthemidewest.com, for a couple wedding guest looks under $100.

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Is it in poor taste to have your gift shipped (think Amazon) instead of hauling it to the venue?

For many years, the expectation has been that guests should bring gifts to the reception.

However, with the rise of online registries, the trend has shifted. An added bonus of having your gift sent directly to the couple’s doorstep is that it circumvents the couple or their family the hassle of having to transport everything home at the end of the night. It’s still acceptable to take a gift to the wedding, but it’s definitely kosher to have one delivered as well.

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What should a guest wear to different types of weddings? Are rompers OK?

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When deciding on your wardrobe for the occasion, take into consideration the venue and time of day the ceremony is to be held. Generally, the more formal the wedding, the later in the day it is set.

Your attire should be in alignment with the overall formality of the festivities.

For example, a floor-length gown would not be a good choice for a rustic outdoor wedding. You shouldn’t wear a breezy sundress to black-tie-required nuptials.

It is OK to wear black but remember, it’s a wedding not a funeral. You want to avoid wardrobe selections

that look too stuffy. What about rompers? My personal opinion is that dressy pant rompers are an acceptable choice. I would not opt for short rompers, even for a laid-back wedding; they’re typically too casual and too revealing for the occasion.

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What should you do If you want to bring a significant other to the wedding but the invite only has your name on it?

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If the envelope does not include your boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s name on the invitation, or specifically state “plus one,” they’re not invited and you should not plan for them to accompany you to the festivities. The exception is if you’re engaged or married.

Weddings can be costly, and having to pare down the guest list is often one way couples try to keep expenses from becoming too exorbitant.

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Who traditionally hosts bridal showers?

Historically, throwing the bridal shower has been the responsibility of the maid of honor or bridesmaids. However, that is no longer the case. It can be hosted by whomever really wants to host it.

Oftentimes, it’s a combined effort. It’s definitely helpful to have multiple parties involved to break up the responsibilities and expenses. Also, having others outside of the bridal party help host can be

Susan Beckwith is a certified etiquette coach and blogs at BelleoftheMidwest.com born out of necessity. This is especially true if the attendants don’t live near the bride and groom. For example, my best friend and maid of honor lived in Waco, Texas, when I got married.

She coordinated efforts with my aunt to host a shower in her home. It would have been unrealistic to expect her to plan the event without help from someone local.

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What about wedding gift selections and how much to spend on a close friend or relative vs. not so close?

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I say stick to their registry, or give money.

There was a reason they spent time identifying things they want and/or actually need. If you decide to go with a monetary gift, the amount to give is a widely debated topic. Traditional etiquette says it should be equivalent to the estimated cost of hosting you at the reception. However, modern resources such as The Knot believe you should spend what “is appropriate to the relationship to the couple and also consider what’s reasonable in your city.”

The Knot suggests these gift amounts: “Coworker and/or a distant family friend or relative: $50-$75.

Relative or friend: $75$100. Close relative or close friend: $100-$150. Urbanite: $150-200+.” theknot.com/ content/rules-of-weddinggift-giving

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SUMMER MAKEUP ESSENTIALS

BEFORE YOU DIVE INTO SUMMER SHENANIGANS, BE SURE YOUR MAKEUP MINI KIT BAG HAS THESE 5 SUMMER MUST-HAVES Highlighter

All ages can have beaming cheeks, so long as the highlighter is applied in the right places! Blend Anastasia Beverly Hills’ Amrezy Highlighter high underneath the brow bone, then take it down to the tops of the cheekbones. This gives both the eyes and cheeks a lifted look. Next, pull the highlighter down the center of the nose to make it appear slimmer. Finally, add a little above the cupid’s bow for the perfect pout.

Anastasia Beverly Hills Amrezy Highlighter, $28 at Ulta.com

Shimmery Lip Gloss

Let your lips have all the fun! Sparkly lip gloss isn’t just for teenagers, so embrace a little bling for your pout. Urban Decay’s Hi-Fi Shine Ultra Cushion Lip Gloss feels good on. Pick it up in Fireball, a perfect summer shade.

Urban Decay Hi-Fi Shine Ultra Cushion Lip Gloss, $20 at ulta.com

Waterproof Mascara

Waterproof mascaras get a bad rap, but gone are the days of dry, flaky waterproof mascara. Tarte’s Lights, Camera, Splashes Waterproof Mascara glides on silky smooth and makes lashes gleam like a pair of black patent-leather shoes. Trick: Use waterproof mascara on bottom lashes year-round to keep day’s-end smudging at a minimum.

Tarte Lights, Camera, Splashes Waterproof Mascara, $23 at Ulta.com

Waterproof Eyeliner

From pool to playground to patio party, summer days can certainly throw a lot at ya. Water, sweat — no problem — keep your eyeliner intact no matter what kind of environment you’re in. Stila’s Smudge Stick Waterproof Eyeliner won’t budge all day.

Choose a fun eyeliner color for summer, especially if you’re skipping eyeshadow.

Stila Smudge Stick Waterproof Eyeliner, $22 at Ulta.com

Foundation With SPF

Sun-kissed skin always sounds better than it actually looks. For many of us, sun-kissed ends up more like sun damaged! Cover up the hyperpigmentation, often caused and deepened by the sun’s harmful rays, by using a moderatecoverage foundation with sunscreen in it. Clinique’s Even Better Glow Light Reflecting Makeup is the perfect foundation for summer because of its glowy properties, making your skin tone look perfected and youthful.

Clinique Even Better Glow Light Reflecting Makeup, $29 at Ulta.com

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Text by Dawn Olsen | Photos by Chris Whonsetler

Mom wipes away tears, knows just what makes you tick, and offers lots of free advice — even to her grown-up daughters. To honor her unconditional love, we’ve put together a Mother’s Day gift guide. Let your mama know how much you love her.

Check out Kit's social media for even more ideas.

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LOVE IN A LOCKET

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$84 at Rusted Window, rustedwindow.com

Moms and grandmothers will love these self-watering eco planters. They take the guesswork out of gardening and are fully reusable.

Crystals and semiprecious gems adorn these Keynote Lockets, but the real treasure is the message your mom will find inside.

IF SHE LIKES PINA COLADAS RACY MOMS

This vintage-look tee will delight any Hoosier bornand-bred mama. Plus, she won’t have to worry about what to wear to the 102nd running of the Indy 500.

She’ll love this pineapplepatterned robe! It’s soft and super lightweight. $40 at Bath Junkie, bathjunkiecarmel.com

$26 at Silver in the City, silverinthecity.com

FAMILY TREE

HER SWEET SPOT

Say it with sugar. These treats from Heavenly Sweets will melt mom’s heart. $3 per cookie at Heavenly Sweets, heavenlysweetscakes.com

She gave you roots. Give her back a bundle of branches.

This hanging décor piece will help make her garden or outdoor entertainment area memorable. $24.99 at McNamara Florist, mcnamaraflorist.com

LOYALTY CARDS

MOTHER BIRD

This mossy tear-drop house is just the thing for those moms who love watching birds at play outside the kitchen window. $14.99 at Allisonville Nursery, allisonvillegarden.com

She's with you through thick and thin. These handmade paper products can help you find just the right words to tell her how you feel.

EARTH ANGEL A bronze angel wing, dangling from a beautiful faux-pearlstudded chain, will remind her that you always feel under her loving care.

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IT’S GONNA BE LIT

Mom always said not to play with fire. But what about playing around with different scents?

These hand-poured Aspen Bay Candles are melt-worthy. $30.95 at R4 Galleria, r4shoppes.com

A LITTLE R&R

Bottle up your mom's favorite things. Custom mix a color/scent combo of bath scrubs, bath fluff and more.

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NIGHTIE NIGHT

These summer nightgowns are gossamer soft and sweet. Don’t worry about wearing them around the kids. There’s not a wardrobe malfunction in sight. $60 at Uplift Intimate Apparel, upliftintimateapparel.com

TOTES ADORABLE

Give this catch-all bag to your favorite mom.

It goes great with denim and is perfect for trips to the pool or grocery store.

SLIP THESE ON

Any hard-working mom will get a kick out of these sassy slip-ons. Lush Footsies are perfect for tired feet everywhere. $16.25 at R4 Galleria, r4shoppes.com

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MOTHER KNOWS BEST

Don’t let mom say, “I told you so.” Instead, give her this cheeky, yet beautifully embroidered hand towel. $14.99 at Allisonville Nursery, allisonvillegarden.com

IN YOUR OWN WORDS

This sterling silver necklace is fully customizable, allowing you to engrave an “I love you” or an inside joke. Ma’s going to love the sturdy chain, too. $200 at R4 Galleria, r4shoppes.com

SPRINGTIME SCARVES

It’s OK if you want to get yourself a little something for Mother’s Day. (We won’t tell.)

These lightweight scarves are perfect additions to your — or Mom's — springtime wardrobe.

Starting at $36 at R4 Galleria, r4shoppes.com

SPA DAY, ALL DAY

Now your mom can make any room in the house smell like she's getting pampered.

We love this fresh arugula scent. $46.99 at McNamara Florist, mcnamaraflorist.com

JEWELRY WITH A HEART

CHARMED, I’M SURE

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$65 at Silver in the City, silverinthecity.com

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This silver charm necklace from women-owned Figs & Ginger is happily handmade, and perfect for new mothers and grandmothers alike.

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CAREGIVER OF THE YEAR C CARE

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SAYS SHE’D DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN, IN A HEARTBEAT Alma “Sis” Kincaid was only 55 when doctors told her it was no longer safe for her to live alone. She would leave the stove on or burn potpourri, forgetting until the pot was scalded black. The family knew something had to be done, but what and who? Darla Israel, one of Alma’s seven children, decided she would become her mother’s full-time caregiver. That was 24 years ago.

For the next 24 years, Darla cared for her mother, who suffered from Friedreich’s ataxia, a rare inherited disease that causes nervous system damage and movement problems. About four years after moving in with her mom, Alma told her daughter she wanted to move back to their hometown of Indianapolis to be closer to other family members. Darla bought a house near Fountain Square.

“My mom is my mom, and you only get but one,” Darla says.

With help from neighbors and family, they planted a flower garden decorated with wind chimes that were among Alma’s most cherished gifts. Life as a caregiver was hectic, though. Darla balanced caring for her mom with raising two sons. And she also volunteered at their school.

Darla received CICOA’s 2018 Caregiver of the Year Award on April 18 during the nonprofit’s ninth annual Signature Breakfast. The award honors a personal caregiver in Central Indiana who models courage, sacrifice, strength and creativity while caring for another person.

When the call came for help, Darla was recently divorced and raising two young sons alone. They lived about 20 minutes from her Alma, who had a mobile home in Portland, Tenn.

“I talked to my boys, and I told them, we’re moving in with my mom. They were happy about it,” she says.

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“Darla is not just a caregiver full of compassion, love and dedication, but she is a hero,” wrote Miranda Brickley, Darla’s niece, in a letter nominating her for CICOA’s Caregiver of the Year Award. She wrote that her aunt is “someone who, because ‘life happened,’ grew strong, took courage in herself and found that life presents us the greatest gifts when we make ourselves, by our actions and deeds, a gift to others.”

AT LEFT: Darla Israel, CICOA Caregiver of the Year BELOW: Darla holding a photo of her family

“SOMEONE WHO ...

FOUND THAT LIFE PRESENTS US THE GREATEST GIFTS WHEN WE MAKE OURSELVES, BY OUR ACTIONS AND DEEDS, A GIFT TO OTHERS.“ Darla never imagined herself as a caregiver.

“I realized the care I was giving — by giving Mom her shots, changing and bathing her, and doing therapy with her — these were things I never imagined having the strength to do,” she says.

“The strength I found in myself and the love I felt for my mother got me through the difficult parts and surprised me.”

As Alma’s conditioned worsened (there is no cure or treatment for Friedreich’s ataxia), Darla realized she needed help.

About eight years ago, her mother spent several months in the hospital and became bedridden. When she was released back to Darla’s care, a nurse referred her to CICOA. “I called and said, ‘I don’t know what you can do for me, but I need help,’” Darla recalls. “CICOA helped me get aides and nurses. They helped me with meals. My care manager helped me with everything.

Without CICOA, I was totally lost.”

CICOA also funded a home modification to make their bathroom handicapped accessible. Meanwhile, Darla worked with her mom to help her build back strength so that she could once again move from one room to another with a walker.

Alma Kincaid died last fall at the age of 79. While Darla says there are challenges to being a caregiver, she would do it all over again given the chance.

“In a heartbeat. Just waking up and seeing her smile. That would make my day knowing I did something right,” Darla says. “It made by day, because she was happy.”

It was good for her sons, too, she says, and helped them develop empathy for others who are struggling. One day she knows she may need to lean on her children, because like her mother and her four sisters, she also has Friedreich’s ataxia. She takes it all in stride though, and says the key to being a caregiver is very simple.

“Have a kind heart,” she says. “That’s what my mom always told me.”

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Four Indianapolis couples share their gorgeous wedding lookbooks.

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BRIDE & GROOM Marisa Mokodean & Corey Waddell MOST SPECIAL MEMORY “Our officiant, Bailey, is a very close friend of both of ours and is the one who introduced us 11 years prior to us getting married. Having her officiate our wedding and weave the special moments Corey and I had shared throughout our ceremony was beyond special. It was a celebration of our love and commitment, and no one could have kicked off that celebration better than she did.”

VENUE Indianapolis Public Library Corey and Marisa hosted their ceremony and cocktail hour in the Simon Reading Room, with the reception following in the Atrium.

FLORIST Empty Vase (also bouquet on page 29) PHOTOGRAPHER Sarah & Rachel Photography TUXEDO/SUIT Indochino DRESS Jenny Packham, Glamour Closet in Chicago DJ Event One LIGHTING Evans Audio Visual DESSERT Gelato bar provided by DaVinci CEREMONY MUSIC Jan Aldridge VIDEOGRAPHY Blushing Films PIPE + DRAPE Evans Audio Visual HAIR/MAKEUP Something Blue

BRIDE & GROOM Maryam Semssar & Tommy Miller PERSIAN AMERICAN WEDDING The wedding was a celebration joining two families and celebrating best wishes for the couple in their new life together. Theirs was a Persian American wedding, combining the traditional Sofreh Aghd wedding ceremony (see tray of spices at left and photo this page) and the American wedding ceremony of exchanging vows and lighting of the unity candle. Maryam and Tommy were surrounded by loving family and friends all celebrating the cultural wedding.

MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT “Our most memorable moment was definitely seeing each other for the first time that day during the ceremony! We both wanted our first look to be while I walked down the aisle and the dramatic entrance coming down the stairs at the Artsgarden was the perfect entrance that we will never forget.”

PHOTOGRAPHY Cassie Conforti VENUE The Conrad Indianapolis VENUE CEREMONY The Artsgarden at The Conrad FLORIST Rusted Window WEDDING PLANNER Leslie Jones Weddings and Events CAKE Flying Cupcake Bakery Carmel DRESS Marie Gabrielle TUXEDO/SUIT DC Tux PHOTOBOOTH Shutterbooth

BRIDE & GROOM Julie Mahomed & Michael Kosene BRIDE’S SPECIAL NOTES “Our wedding ceremony was held at Llandfair Farm, Michael’s childhood home. We met in kindergarten, and I first came to the farm on elementary school field trips to see the animals.

It was surreal to be married at such a special place that has created so many memories for us over the years, surrounded by our parents, brothers, family and closest friends.

“We designed the wedding to incorporate elements from the many cultures and religions represented by our families. Michael’s mother, artist Nancy Noel, painted Protea in honor of the occasion. The protea (flower pictured on cake and in vase at right) is the national flower of South Africa, which is home to my father’s family. The painting was featured on the invitations and the original was displayed at the entrance to the reception, and the protea was the main feature of the floral design.”

PLANNER/DESIGNER Mon Amie Events, Inc., Monica Richard CEREMONY Private Estate CEREMONY ENTERTAINMENT Jan Aldridge Clark RECEPTION Newfields CATERING Kahn’s Catering FLORAL McNamara Florist, Alan Thompson PHOTOGRAPHY Jennifer Driscoll Photography VIDEOGRAPHY IndyVisual AV/RENTALS/LIGHTING A Classic Party Rentals, BBJ Linen, Evans AV, Event Source HAIR David Moran and John-Mark Oertel MAKEUP Tara Dumser, LaDolce Salon PAPERIE/GRAPHIC DESIGN Pomp & Polish, LLC RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT The Woomblies with Rebekah Meldrum LATE NIGHT ENTERTAINMENT DJ Gabby Love LATE NIGHT SNACK Mimi Blue Meatballs

BRIDE & GROOM Kayci Woodley & Matthew Mikrut HOW THEY MET Matt and Kayci met while playing on the NCAA’s intramural flag football team. They both work at the NCAA national office, so it was fitting that the two spent part of their wedding day at the place that brought them together. Kayci and Matt are both passionate about sports, so posing for photos at the NCAA Hall of Champions with their wedding party was a dream come true.

GROOM’S SPECIAL MOMENT “The favorite part of my day was seeing the joy on the faces of everyone who shared in our special day, from our parents to our siblings and our friends. But above all was seeing the joy on my wife’s face and knowing I would live that joy for the rest of my life.”

BRIDE’S SPECIAL MOMENT “Every moment, every breath, every single second of the day was perfect. It was an incredibly humbling experience to be surrounded by all the people we love most in this world. And of course I’ll always remember Matt crying during our first look and as I walked down the aisle. To see the tears of joy from him and other family members and friends throughout the day was indescribable.”

CEREMONY St. John’s Catholic Church RECEPTION Indiana Roof Ballroom WEDDING PLANNER Leslie Jones VIDEOGRAPHER Bob Ridge, IndyVisual PROGRAMS Oliver’s Twist FLORALS The Empty Vase HAIR Jennifer Sheena and Cami McDaniel, Hair Chic Hideaway (Moline, Ill.) MAKEUP Annette Smith BAND Bluewater Kings TRANSPORTATION Antique Limo RINGS Windsor Jewelry CAKE Heavenly Sweets DRESS The Wedding Studio BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Bella Bridesmaids RENTALS Wow Factors

EXPERT ADVICE Q+A

FINDING DR. RIGHT

New moms-to-be have so much to think about with the upcoming delivery of their little one — the list of questions may seem endless! That’s why it’s crucial to have an OB who is on your side — a doctor you can feel completely comfortable with. Let Dr. Amy H. Dodson, a board-certified OBGYN with St. Vincent Medical Group, be your guide for how to choose the doctor that’s right for you.

To schedule an appointment or for more information: St. Vincent Medical Group 317-415-6450 Visit one of our convenient locations or go online to schedule an appointment with a St. Vincent physician at getstvincentcare.com FISHERS 13914 Southwest Parkway, Suite 110, Fishers 46037 McCORDSVILLE 8535 N Clearview Drive, Suite #700, McCordsville, IN 46055

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At what stage of family planning should someone look for an OB?

Ideally, a woman will already have a relationship with an OB even before she starts trying to conceive. This is a great way to make sure she has a good rapport, that she’s already established there and the practice is familiar with her medical history. That being said, a lot of women choose a group after they’ve become pregnant. With that in mind, St. Vincent offers a meet-andgreet visit for new patients who just want to meet one of the doctors and tour the office.

Q A

What qualities should women look for in an OB?

Pregnancy brings a lot of questions, both from the pregnant woman and the OB. The woman needs to feel comfortable asking and answering everything! If she’s intimidated or just not comfortable with an OB, they’re probably not the right fit for her.

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What questions should be asked?

When selecting an OB, there a few questions to keep in mind. No. 1: Does the OB deliver at the hospital where you want to deliver? No. 2: Is the OB in a practice or solo, and is it a guarantee who will deliver?

For example, our practice is a four-doctor practice and we rotate who covers the hospital, so any of the four of us may deliver. This is pretty common these days, so it’s best to know up front. No. 3: Does the OB offer services you’re really interested in? For example: midwife services, tub bath, nitrous oxide for pain control, postpartum tubal ligations, etc.

Q A

What are a few things every mom should know?

Most importantly, every pregnancy is different.

And it’s also unpredictable. We all want to have a perfect, uncomplicated pregnancy and labor and delivery, but that’s not always a reality. Things happen. Don’t go in with any set expectations, and don’t compare your pregnancy to anyone else’s. Every woman has her own story, and that’s what makes the experience so amazing!

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MANAGING YOUR ENERGY

By Courtney Leach | Illustration by Alyssa Hoover

A 2017 study by Welch’s — yes, the grape jelly folks — of 2,000 moms of kids ages 5-12 drew a lot of attention. Among its findings: the average mom works a about 98 hours a week!

That’s a lot of overtime. According to Indianapolis life coach Mary Beth Braun, finding balance in the bustle of everyday life is all about managing your energy.

“Awareness is the first thing,” she says. “You might get a warning sign — a headache, a craving, being short with your family — and that means it’s time to put on your oxygen mask.”

Mary Beth says we should constantly assess our energy throughout the day, attending to our basic human needs when it’s exceptionally low.

“Go back to the basics. Address your sleep and nourishment and pinpoint what you need the most. Hydration, breath and rest are particularly important.” But don’t overdo it.

“We tend to fall for these huge 180s,” she says, “the extreme diets or the latest workout trend. Just notice that you need more veggies and water today and start there. Don’t let others tell you what you need. Notice what the warning signs are telling you that you need.”

She’s also a proponent of “doubling up,” a term she uses for focusing on herself while completing everyday tasks.

“First, figure out what the ‘game changer’ is for you. What gives you a return on energy? It doesn’t have to be something big. For me, it’s movement. So, when I go to my son’s lacrosse game, I walk around the track. It works with breathing, too.

Whenever I’m waiting for something, I focus on my breath for a bit.”

When all else fails, Mary Beth encourages women to master the art of starting over. “Every day the sun comes up, you get a clean slate. We all go through cycles where we’re running on empty for some time and then we can breathe again. Figure out your own rhythm.”

To read more from Mary Beth Braun, visit marybethbraun.com

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NUPTIALS A FAMILY FASHION AFFAIR

Styling by Laura Walters | Photos by Chris Whonsetler | Story by Brooke Reynolds | Shot on location at the Conrad Indianapolis | Flowers by Rusted Window

The wedding day is the primary focus of many of the bride's fashion decisions, but there are also bridal showers, the engagement photo shoot, the occasional luncheon and a rehearsal dinner to dress for.

In addition to the gown, think about attire for parents, and certainly the groom, to make everyone feel special, in sync and on point.

Wardrobe stylist Laura Walters of Style Riot, based out of Indianapolis, is a genius at putting together statement outfits for moments like these.

She brought her stylist savvy to this story with the help of her little sister, Lydia Walters, who is marrying Braedan Gallas later this year. Parents Andra and Mark Walters also joined us to show off some wedding event looks.

Brides take note: Laura offers bridal fashion consulting packages. Visit her website at mystyleriot.com/bridal for details.

Laura’s skills in styling came in handy when her sister, Lydia, needed help picking out outfits for her big pre-wedding events.

“It’s pretty fun to know that I can use my talents to help my sister feel confident in what she’s wearing during her special moments,” Laura says.

The sisters shopped together at Saks Fifth Avenue and found the perfect ensembles for engagement photos, a bridal shower and rehearsal dinner. Laura’s big piece of advice while they shopped was to keep thinking of ways to have fun with the clothes. She also emphasized that everyone should dress in a way that represents their personality.

Engagement photos

Groom Braedan Gallas and bride Lydia Walters don’t take themselves too seriously, and this unique collision of elegance and rock ‘n’ roll in their outfits tells that story. “Make sure the outfits represent your own personal style. However, come up with some complementary looks between the two of you, so there’s some cohesion in what you’re wearing,” Laura says. In other words, the couple should look like they go together!

ON LYDIA (BRIDE)

BCBG Dress, $350; Lamrque Black Jacket (page 41), $495; Jimmy Choo Flamingo Heels; all at Saks Fifth Avenue.

ON BRAEDAN (GROOM)

Theory jacket, $435; Theory shirt, $175; jeans model’s own; Saks black bow tie, $68; Gucci tiger shoes, $795; all at Saks Fifth Avenue.

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Bridal shower

Laura helped her own mom, mother-ofthe-bride Andra Walters, break the norm for her bridal shower attire. “Moms of brides, hear me on this: You don’t have to wear a dress to be elegant!” Laura says. Andra wore a very polished play on menswear. The metallic and green shades also complemented Andra’s skin tone.

Everybody can shine in what they’re wearing — not just the bride!

Lydia’s bridal shower dress was feminine and flattered her skin tone, but most importantly, it was comfortable. “I want every client to feel amazing in what they wear,” Laura says. “I believe in self-love and representing your true self. Personal style can have a huge impact on your presence in the world. Loving yourself on the outside is just as important as loving yourself on the inside.”

ON LYDIA (BRIDE)

BCBG Coral dress, $228 at Saks Fifth Avenue; Betsey Johnson shoes stylist’s own.

ON ANDRA (MOTHER OF THE BRIDE) Model’s own shirt; Les Copains Jacket, $1560 at Saks Fifth Avenue; Blue Les Copains pants, $295 at Saks Fifth Avenue; Tory Burch shoes stylist’s own.

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Rehearsal dinner

Lydia’s dress proves that black can be interesting, as long as you’re focusing on the embellishments and details. Laura suggested the belt to add more texture. The Yves Saint Laurent shoes Lydia wore are comfortable and beautiful.

The price tag on the shoes may seem exorbitant, but splurging on one item in each outfit can really be worth it. “On a day when you’re going to be standing and walking, higher-end shoes tend to be more comfortable,” Laura says.

“Mothers of brides often think they need to choose a floorlength dress in order to be elegant, but I encourage people to step outside the box and break the rules of traditional fashion,” Laura says. The layering of Andra’s chic short dress shows off her fun side.

ON BRAEDAN (GROOM)

Black suit jacket and pant by Boss, dress shirt by Saks Fifth Avenue, shoes by Trever Brandy, pocket square and bow tie by Saks Fifth Avenue.

ON LYDIA (BRIDE)

Black lace dress by Alice and Olivia, belt stylist’s own, shoes by Yves Saint Laurent.

ON ANDRA (MOTHER OF THE BRIDE)

Black dress by Holsten, white blouse by Saks Fifth Avenue, shoes by Jimmy Choo.

ON MARK (FATHER OF THE BRIDE)

Suit jacket and pant model’s own, purple tie and pocket square by Saks Fifth Avenue, shoes by Maganni.

Contact Saks Fifth Avenue for pricing.

LAURA WALTERS is a fashion stylist who specializes in personal styling, closet assessments and personal shopping. She also creates unique wardrobe collections for editorial and commercial features. Among her other services, she offers bridal packages for engagement photo consulting, wedding gown consulting or wedding events consulting. Visit mystyleriot.com.

Conrad Indianapolis KIT’S FASHION SHOOT FEATURED THE FOLLOWING ROOMS AT THE CONRAD: Bridal Shower

GALLERY SUITE: Toast with 50 of your closet friends in the Gallery Suite, one of the “Top 101 Suites in the World”.

Adorned with works by masters like Warhol, Picasso and more, you’ll enjoy a memorable experience on the 18th floor of Conrad Indianapolis, surrounded by fine art, stunning decor and incredible views.

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THE ARTSGARDEN provides beautiful and mesmerizing views of the Circle City. This seven-story glass atrium adjoins Conrad Indianapolis to the rest of the city. Nestled above the city’s most prominent intersection, the Artsgarden offers a picturesque space for ceremonies, receptions and special occasions. Perfect for receptions up to 250 guests, the Artsgarden was recently named one of the 22 Coolest Places to Get Married by Buzzfeed.

Rehearsal Dinner

SOUTH FOYER: Reserve the South Foyer for an intimate luncheon or reception among works of art from Indiana-based artists like Constance Edwards-Scopelitis and Jason Myers. Flanked with floorto-ceiling windows, this space can accommodate up to 80 guests in an environment of timeless elegance and sophisticated flair.

YOU AND YOUR GUESTS WILL CELEBRATE while enjoying the impeccable style and panache of the city’s finest address. Relax in the knowledge that Conrad Indianapolis’ wedding specialists, will work to ensure that every detail of your wedding celebration is planned and executed beyond your expectations.

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CRASH COURSE

Every new bride gets marriage advice, whether she wants it or not.

(Kit’s not that kind of girlfriend.) Instead, we rounded up some most-wanted tips leading up the big day so brides and their guests look and feel incredible.

WEDDING DAY

By Kortney Norris

The number one thing I always ask brides is, "How do you feel the most beautiful?" This will kind of give the stylist a road map and the direction to go in. A bride should feel her absolute best on her big day!

Inspiration photos are always great to have. Send the pictures to the stylist before your trial so that if any extensions or filler is needed he or she is prepared.

Always consider the weather and temperature especially if the wedding is outside. Unfortunately the weather is out of our control, but the stylist can help tame the hair!

Bring any and all accessories including veil, hair piece, or flowers for the hair to the trial run. You and the stylist will want to discuss placement so there is no confusion on the big day!

Finally, always be 100% honest. This is our job and our passion and want you to be so happy with your hair!

Kortney loves finding the beauty in every client through an in depth consultation. Together discovering what best fits you, your lifestyle, and your personality. She loves formal styling and makeup for weddings, events, and proms.

Kortney Norris Salon 1|4 1407 East 86th Street Indianapolis IN 46240 317.735.2747 salononefour.com

All hairstyles showcased were done by Kortney

TOP REASONS YOU NEED A WEDDING PLANNER Your wedding day is more than an event — it should be an experience! Wedding planners can help you achieve that. Leslie Jones, owner of Leslie Jones Weddings (lesliejonesweddings.com), explains how:

FLAWLESS WEDDING DAY SKIN

By Tonya Pylarinos – THE LIFESTYLE SPA

If you are a bride-to-be wanting to look flawless on your big day, its time to get serious about skin care. With all of your appointments, prepping, and planning, it can be difficult to take time off from your busy life to heal from invasive laser or surgical procedures.

Radio frequency treatments for face and body have become one of the most popular and requested treatments in the laser skin industry, and for good reason! The RF energy is used to safely heat tissue and stimulate subdermal collagen production. This will result in tighter skin and the reduction of fine, crepey lines. It also improves the appearance of cellulite when performed on the body, so you can be honeymoon trip ready too! Arm tightening treatments are also very popular with our brides wanting to wear a strapless/sleeveless wedding dress.

RF treatments are so popular because there is absolutely no downtime, and you can go back to your normal routine immediatly after. TempSure is the newest and most advanced RF device available, and we are thrilled to be the first and only practice in the state to have it! The protocol is very simple. Treatments are done in a series of 4, and spaced about 2-4 weeks apart to accommodate your schedule. You will see an immediate tightening effect post treatment, however the skin will continue to remodel collagen several months after your last treatment.

Starting as soon as possible will ensure the best result when preparing for your big day.

1. A wedding planner can see the big picture and guide/coach a bride to realize her vision, offer unique design ideas and the resources to bring them to life on the wedding day.

2. Wedding planners bring an attitude of fun!

Leslie is insistent on a positive vibe throughout the process. “I strive to invoke trust and be a calming influence,” she says.

3. Wedding planners have working relationships with all vendors and can match you with the best team for your day. Imagine working only with vendors who are reliable and add value, along with having a compatible personality and taste to yours!

4. Wedding planners keep everyone on the same page and informed. The masterful timing of the day is carefully choreographed to an effortless flow.

5. Wedding planners help save money and time.

“I believe a good wedding planner pays for their fee in the saving of time and hours of stressful research.

I can get direct to the source quickly,” she says.

Tempsure Envi RF is safe for all skin types and can be done any time of year. It fits perfectly into the routine of anyone who wants tighter, younger looking skin, with absolutely no downtime, surgery, or needles.

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Mother of the bride Jenny Semssar hired wedding planner Leslie Jones to plan the wedding of her daughter, Maryam, and son-in-law, Tommy. Jenny said they got so many compliments from guests about how this was the best wedding they’ve ever attended. Left to right: Cindy Miller, Jenny Semssar, Leslie Jones, Maryam Miller

for your year of wedding events.

1. Be yourself - There is nothing more powerful than feeling amazing in what you wear. Especially if it is a representation of exactly who you are. I encourage couples who are getting engagement photos to sit down together and discuss what defines them as a couple and as individuals. Play around with different styles, mix and match patterns and textures.

There are no rules. Have fun with it.

2. Include the family - If several events surrounding your wedding are going to include family, I encourage couples to sit down with those closest to them and coordinate what they are going to wear. This gives family time to buy clothing if needed (depending how fancy the attire will need to be) but also gives you an opportunity to coordinate for photos if that is something that's important to you.

3. Treat yourself - The year of your wedding is a big one.

Typically an engaged couple participates in several events leading up to the big day.

If you are mapping out a

budget, I would include a line item for clothing. These items will feel like a special treat for such a special time in your life, but will also create a lasting memory whenever you wear them in the future.

4. Hire a stylist! - Planning a wedding is a very large project with lots of details to coordinate and organize.

This can be super stressful, so dressing for all your wedding events shouldn't be. Imagine just having a fun, easy and relaxed styling experience! Hiring a stylist will help ensure you are wearing clothing complimentary to your body type, find the right clothing for your coloring and also create outfits that represent your personal style. A stylist can work with your existing wardrobe or help you shop for new pieces!

They typically can be there on your big day as well to help with any last-minute wardrobe needs.

Style Riot offer bridal styling! View packages online at mystyleriot.com

LAURA WALTERS is a fashion stylist who specializes in personal styling, closet assessments and personal shopping. She offers bridal packages for engagement photo consulting, wedding gown consulting or wedding events consulting.

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A LITTLE SOMETHING FOR THE BRIDESMAIDS Customize your gifts with scents as unique as your bridesmaids with over 200 scents to choose from: prices vary – Bath Junkie Carmel Have the whole party celebrate with champagne robes – Bath Junkie Carmel $68

fabric and style preference, fit and overall comfort in making decisions. Adjustable straps also provide for a nightgown to double as a slip, called a chemise.

Nightwear runs the full range from mid-price all the way to the unsurpassed luxury of custom designed, hand-made couture items.

APPAREL Your wedding day! For most, it’s a day that comes with great anticipation – and a lot of planning and preparation. So let’s talk lingerie!

First, even before dress shopping, get a professional bra fitting from a reputable source. Depending on your body type and cup size, the lingerie that is available to you dictates what dress style will work best for you.

A bustier provides lift and support while also shaping your waist and smoothing your mid-section.

A matching bra and panty can add that special flair along with shapewear to smooth it all out. (Don’t think for a minute that all those models look great in those wedding dresses without shapewear.)

Nightwear, also known as sleepwear or night dresses, is another high priority for your wedding/honeymoon wardrobe. You’ll want to consider a robe or cover up (great for lounging or protecting clothing from hair and makeup products) and night gowns. Consider your

Remember the garter and depending on where you will be honeymooning, a bathing suit (or two) that fits your body is a must have!

The lingerie items featured here are from Jane Woolrich, Lise Charmel and Va Bien. Jane Woolrich is a worldrenowned couture designer. Made-to-measure sizing insures the perfect tailored fit and a full array of silk or satin color options with dyed-to-armatch or complimentary lace make each item uniquely yours.

Please allow 8 weeks for delivery of couture items designed and crafted in England.

Lise Charmel is a brand of international influence based in France. Their attention to every detail and craftsmanship is taken to an art form in all they produce.

Va Bien melds the tradition and elegance of French design with the practicality of shapewear in creating their bustiers.

All Items at Uplift Apparel - nominee for 2018 best retail award by Intima Magazine City Center, Carmel IN upliftintimateapparel.com

Photos by Jessica Strickland

It’s more than an event.

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cutting-edge designs FRANKLIN 377 E. Jefferson St. Franklin, IN 46131 317.738.9837

INDIANAPOLIS 801 S. Meridian St. Indpls, IN 46225 317.624.0500

WHAT’S YOUR The flowers you carry on the big day are a big deal. Four of Indy’s top florists created these sumptuous bundles to feast your eyes on. With so many gorgeous styles, how do you choose just one?

STYLE?

HAND-TIED FLOWER ON FLOWER Pale shades of green and white keep the focus on a radiant bride.

FLOWERS INCLUDED: White parrot tulip, white garden rose, white ranunculus, green hydrangea, viburnum McNAMARA FLORIST mcnamaraflorist.com

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SOFT GARDEN OMBRÉ BOUQUET For a romantic palette and lots of texture, look no further.

FLOWERS INCLUDED: Freedom rose, spray rose, sweet pea, weeping cherry blossom, anemone, carnations, hyacinth JP PARKER FLOWERS jpparkerco.com

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SORBET BOUQUET Get an ultrabright pop against a white gown with this perfectly imperfect round bouquet.

FLOWERS INCLUDED: Ranuculas, garden roses, peonies, freesia, mini calla lilies RUSTED WINDOW rustedwindow.com

ROMANTIC ULTRA GARDEN Make a dramatic entrance with cascading greenery, robust blooms and ribbon upon ribbon.

FLOWERS INCLUDED: Garden roses, peonies, calla lily, blooming branch, spray roses, hybrid tea roses, eucalyptus THE EMPTY VASE theemptyvaseindy.com

STATE RECORD

TOURS

Discover 5 signed covered bridge routes.

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Raccoon Lake, Rockville Lake, Sugar Creek, Wabash River, Big Raccoon Creek, and Little Raccoon Creek Fishing Feet From Your Door

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PARKE COUNTY COVERED BRIDGE FESTIVAL

October 12-21, 2018 2018 FESTIVALS Bridgeton Rendezvous - April 28-29 Bridgeton Art & Wine Fair - May 12 Zoom Town 5K Covered Bridge Run/Walk May 19 Rosedale Strawberry Festival - June 1-3 Miami Indians All Nations Gathering - June 2-3

Bridgeton Quilt & Woodworking Show - June 9-10 Covered Bridge Antique Power Club Tractor Drive - June 23 & 24 Fireworks - Montezuma - July 4 Raccoon Lake - July 7 Rockville Lake - July 7 Bridgeton Milling Days/Craft Demonstration September 8-9

T on a tank of gas

TRAVEL

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Sometimes you just need to throw your purse in the car and have a little adventure. Luckily, these stops are just up the road and promise to deliver a full day of sights, sounds and – of course – treats.

By Courtney Leach

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on the agenda in

Parke County 8 am

fort wayne 8 am

8 am

WHEEL HOUSE DONUTS

MOCHA LOUNGE

111 East York St., Rockville, IN | (765) 731-1111

6312 Covington Road, Fort Wayne, IN | (260) 434-1999

Fresh cake donuts and you choose the toppings.

Locally owned, high-quality java and baked goods.

10 am

10 am

10 am

EXPLORE THE COVERED BRIDGES A signature sight in the area.

Details at lrwp.org

Go for a morning stroll or jog through the 716-acre preserved wetlands.

Noon

THIRTY SIX SALOON

11 am

108 East Ohio St., Rockville, IN | (765) 569-9441

CONJURE COFFEE

Great atmosphere, and don’t miss the pork tenderloin!

1 pm

701 Columbia Ave. Ste. B, Fort Wayne, IN | (260) 422-7770

Grab a frothy treat and take in the downtown art murals.

1 pm

TURKEY RUN STATE PARK

CINDY’S DINER

A great selection of trails at varying difficulties.

230 W Berry St., Fort Wayne, IN | (260) 422-1957

Take a seat at the bar of this local institution or, if it’s Thursday, head to “Lunch on the Square,” where area food trucks gather for the masses.

2 pm

7751 S. 890 W., Waveland, IN | (765) 435-2810

3 pm

Disconnect and stroll among the trees.

FORT WAYNE CHILDREN’S ZOO 3411 Sherman Blvd., Fort Wayne, IN | (260) 427-6800

SUGAR VALLEY CANOEING

More than 1,500 animals and beautiful, shaded exhibits.

1313 E SR 47, Marshall IN | (765) 597-2364

5 pm

UP THE CREEK BOAT-IQUE

3 pm

TINCAPS BASEBALL AT PARKVIEW FIELD

7 pm

Named “#1 Fan Experience in Minor League Sports.”

5 pm

TRUBBLE BREWING

7 pm

2725 Broadway, Fort Wayne, IN | (260) 267-6082

9 pm

Craft beers and an impressive menu. Enjoy a seat on the patio.

9 pm

7 pm

127 S. Jefferson St., Rockville, IN | (765) 592-6737

125 W. Jefferson Blvd, Fort Wayne, IN | (260) 424-6287

Spend the night in the old Parke County Prison.

3 pm

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Try the pina colada with homemade ice cream and breadsticks.

OLD JAIL INN

1 pm

5 pm

1313 E SR 47, Marshall IN | (765) 597-2364

ROCKVILLE SQUARE AND COURTHOUSE Plenty of photo ops and historical architecture.

noon

1 pm

3 pm

Canoe, kayak or float down Sugar Valley Creek.

11 am

Noon

8121 E. Park Road, Marshall, IN | (765) 597-2635

SHADES STATE PARK

10 am

EAGLE MARSH

THE EMBASSY THEATRE 5 pm

Catch a nationally touring show or special performance in the historic venue.

7 pm

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Rehearsal recipes Recipes and photos

by Katherine Costello

A wedding is a great time to see family and friends, but they can also be stressful. With so much planning already involved in a wedding, consider skipping the headacehes that traditional rehearsal dinners can bring with them.

I personally love the idea of hosting the rehearsal dinner at home or in a parktype setting. You can gather friends and family members and know the food will be fantastic. An at-home rehearsal dinner also gives you the flexibility to spend time with your closest friends and relatives in a comfortable setting.

With just a little delegation, hosting can be done without a hitch. Start by enlisting loved ones who like to cook.

Making a few key dishes ahead of time and setting up beforehand can be fun, and is truly a labor of love.

I strongly recommend outsourcing your main meat. I’ve included a list of some of my most-trusted places, and some even offer delivery and setup — and side dishes!

To supplement your meal, here are a few recipes, each serving 20 people.

The quantities can be easily doubled or tripled, and generally can be prepared ahead of time.

Buttermilk Cake

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Swiss Chard Salad I loved the wilted salad from my childhood, but as an adult, I prefer my greens on the crisp side, with plenty of flavor. (Yields about 20 servings.)

SALAD 1 /2 cup olive or grapeseed oil 12 pieces thick-cut bacon, fried and crumbled (reserve 3 tablespoons fat) 3 /4 cup finely chopped shallots or red onion 3 tablespoons sugar 5 pounds Swiss chard (or greens of your choice), stems removed (and reserved), cut into 1 to 11/2-inch strips 3 tablespoons reserved bacon fat 1 /2 cup chopped walnuts or cashews 1 /2 cup diced green olives Zest of 4 lemons 1 /2 cup pickled stems (see below) Cracked pepper, to taste

1| Heat oil and bacon fat in a large skillet over medium heat. Add the shallots and sautĂŠ until translucent. Stir in the sugar and cook until the shallots start to caramelize.

2| Allow the shallots to cool slightly, and then toss and coat your greens. You can store the greens, covered, in the refrigerator for 24 hours.

3| Just before serving, toss in the crumbled bacon, chopped nuts, olives, freshly grated lemon zest, and pickled stems. Season with cracked pepper, to taste.

QUICK-PICKLE CHARD STEMS Reserved chard stems 1 /2 cup cider or rice vinegar 2 tablespoons water 4 tablespoons sugar Suggested flavorings, or use your favorite herbs and spices: 1 teaspoon brown mustard seed, 1 teaspoon yellow mustard seed, 1 sliced garlic clove, pink pepper corns (2 per jar), sprinkle of red pepper flakes 1| Chop the chard stems to fit according to the jar size you’ve chosen. (I used two 5-ounce canning jars: one with stems long, one chopped.)

2| Bring the vinegar, water and sugar to a boil, stirring until the sugar dissolves. Let the mixture cool a bit and then pour into prepared jars.

3| Add flavorings to each jar, and then fill the jars with the stems.

Cover and store in refrigerater up to 30 days.

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Potatoes in Vinaigrette WITH FRESH HERBS

This easy-to-prepare dish can be made the day before your rehearsal dinner.

While tri-colored potatoes are pretty and are great to use, red potatoes work, too. You’ll steam them, but you’ll want to check them with a fork or knife to ensure they are fully cooked. (You certainly don’t want undercooked potatoes, but overcooked potatoes? That means mush.)

Add some fresh herbs and serve at room temperature. (Yields about 20 servings.)

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EQUIPMENT Large stockpot with tight-fitting lid Flexible steamer to fit in the bottom of the pot

INGREDIENTS 7 pounds red skin potatoes 2 tablespoons coarse salt 2 tablespoons smoked salt 1 /2 cup rice wine or red wine vinegar 3 tablespoons dill pickle juice 2 /3 cup Dijon mustard (or your favorite mustard) 1 cup olive oil 1 /4 cup capers 1 cup chopped parsley, stems removed 1 /4 cup fresh thyme, stems removed 1 /2 cup fresh dill, chopped with some sprigs for garnish 1 /4 cup chopped basil 8-10 green onions, thinly sliced

1| Wash the potatoes thoroughly. Fill the stockpot with about 11/2 inches of water and place your steamer in the bottom.

Add half of the potatoes, about 3.5 pounds, to the steamer. Sprinkle the batch of potatoes with 1 tablespoon each of the two salts, cover and turn on high heat. Check the potatoes after 10 minutes, and then every 2 minutes, until they are tender all the way through.

Strain, and repeat the process with the remaining potatoes.

2| To make the vinaigrette, blend the rice wine, dill pickle juice, and Dijon mustard with a whisk or immersion blender.

Slowly add the olive oil.

3| Toss the mixture with the warm potatoes, and sprinkle with the capers.

At this point, store the potatoes in the refrigerator until time to serve them.

4| Add the herbs and scallions just before serving. Don’t be afraid to go big on the herb — you’ll thank me later.

Buttermilk Cake

WITH FRESH STRAWBERRIES & WHIPPED CREAM CAKE 21/2 cups cake flour 1 /2 teaspoon salt 2 teaspoons baking powder Zest of 2 lemons 11/2 sticks butter, room temperature 11/4 cups granulated sugar 4 large egg whites, room temperature 2 teaspoons vanilla 11/4 cups buttermilk 1| Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line three 9-inch cake pans with parchment paper.

Sift together the flour, salt and baking powder in a bowl and stir in the zest.

2| In a separate bowl, beat the butter and sugar until fluffy, scraping sides often.

3| In a third bowl, whisk the egg whites, vanilla and buttermilk.

4| Add the flour mixture and the buttermilk mixture alternately to the butter and sugar, beginning and ending with the flour. Mix on medium, scraping the sides until blended. Do not overmix. Pour the batter into the prepared pans and bake for about 30 minutes. (After 25 minutes, keep a watchful eye on the oven.) When the centers of the cakes spring back, remove them from the oven.

5| Cool on a rack for about 5 minutes, and then carefully invert and finish cooling.

Once cooled, they can be assembled or wrapped and frozen for later use.

WHIPPED CREAM & TOPPING 2 tablespoons instant vanilla pudding 1 quart heavy whipping cream 2 quarts fresh strawberries, cleaned and sliced (reserve the prettiest ones for the top of the cake) 1 /2 cup granulated sugar Juice of 2 lemons 4 tablespoons powdered sugar 1 tablespoon vanilla extract 1 /2 teaspoon almond extract (optional) 1| For the whipped cream, add the vanilla pudding mix to 1/2 cup of the heavy whipping cream. Whisk and then set aside.

2| Mix the strawberries, granulated sugar and lemon juice together and set aside.

3| Add the powdered sugar, extracts, and pudding/cream mixture (which should have thickened) to the remaining heavy whipping cream. Beat slowly for a few minutes until blended. Taste the cream and add more powdered sugar if you want it sweeter.

4| To assemble, arrange one layer of the cake on a cake stand. Neatly arrange the sliced strawberries on the cake. Cover them with the whipped cream and repeat. Spread or pipe whipped cream on the sides and top (though it’s not required to cover the sides). Decorate the top with the reserved whole strawberries. (If I were serving 20-plus people, I would make two cakes.)

Steamed Deviled Eggs Deviled eggs are often overlooked. As crowd pleasing as they are, the process can be a pain. For me, hard-boiled eggs were never consistent. And they were always unnerving to peel … until I started steaming my farm-fresh eggs. It’s such a small change, but it makes a world of difference. You get perfect cook-and-peel eggs, and can steam dozens at a time.

For events like rehearsal dinners, I like to make a base recipe, and then add different flavorings. (Fillings are like iced tea — sweet or not, everyone has their preference.) Since we’re doing such a large quantity, bring out the pastry bag.

Do a simple pipe, and let your garnishes do the rest. Serve on a decorative egg platter or simple board with rock salt and fresh herbs. (Yields 48 deviled eggs.)

EQUIPMENT Large stockpot with tight-fitting lid Flexible steamer to fit in the bottom of the pot Ice bath and/or cold running water 2 16-inch pastry bags or 2 plastic zipper bags with 1 of the bottom corners snipped off to make a 2/3-inch opening

INGREDIENTS 2 dozen farm-fresh eggs 4 teaspoons ground yellow mustard seed Salt, smoked paprika and/or black pepper, to taste 2 cups olive oil mayonnaise 1 /3 cup (or to taste) sweet relish, drained 1 /3 cup (or to taste) dill relish, drained 1| Fill the bottom of the pot with 11/2 inches water and bring to a boil. Add about 12 eggs to the steamer, lower into the stockpot, cover and cook for 12 minutes.

(You can drop an egg into the ice bath and peel it just to check before breaking them all, but 12 minutes works perfectly for me every time.) Drain the hot water and place the eggs in an ice bath or under running water. Crack them all and quickly peel them under running water. Repeat this step as many times as necessary for all eggs.

2| Working quickly, slice the eggs and place the yolks in a medium-sized mixing bowl. Cover the yolks with a warm, wet paper towel to prevent them from drying out. Soak the white halves of the eggs in cold water for 5 minutes.

Then place them in a covered container and refrigerate until ready to fill.

3| Using a handheld mixer or immersion blender, beat the yolks until they have a crumbly texture. Sprinkle in the ground mustard; season with salt and pepper, to taste. Add the mayonnaise in batches, mixing on a low speed and scraping the bowl frequently. The mixture should resemble a thick paste. (Too thin means too much mayo.)

4| Once the filling is at the desired consistency, then comes “the great divide.” To accommodate everyone’s tastes, I add sweet relish to half of the filling and dill relish to the other half.

5| Place the whites on a serving platter.

Fill the pastry bags with each filling and pipe each egg. Then comes the fun part: garnishing with your choice of accoutrements! My go-tos are olives, roasted peppers, fresh herbs, truffle paste or leftover relish.

KATES FAV BBQ TAKEOUT: HOLY SMOKE HOG ROAST Delivers and caters all over Indiana.

Extensive menu includes smoked beef, turkey, pork, all types of cuts, plus vegetarian offerings. holysmokehogroast.com 43 S. Main St., Martinsville

CITY BARBEQUE AND CATERING Offers pick-up or full-service catering.

Has hickory-smoked meats, pulled pork, beef brisket, smoked turkey and chicken, and a variety of sides. citybbq.com Various Indianapolis locations

SQUEALERS BARBEQUE GRILL This award-winning barbecue joint has full-service catering with a variety smoked meats. Known for its Texas-style beef brisket. squealersbarbeque.com Three Indianapolis locations

DICK’S BODACIOUS BAR-B-Q Dick’s as pick-up service and full-service catering. Known for slow-smoked, Texasstyle BBQ, the team smokes chicken, beef, pork and salmon. dicksbbq.com 50 N. Pennsylvania St., Indianapolis

BARBECUE AND BOURBON All of their meat is smoked using allnatural woods. They offer full-service catering and Memphis-style barbecue chicken, beef, pork, and sausage. barbecueandbourbon.com 1414 Main St., Speedway

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Women Making a Difference

WMD AWARD

Now Accepting Nominations through July 23

Do you know a woman or a young lady who deserves to be recognized for her volunteer efforts or through involvement with an established volunteer program?

Kit is looking for women who are giving back and making a difference in their community.

Now Accepting Nominations through July 23rd. Finalists will be recognized at our inaugural event on September 20th and will be showcased in the November/December issue of Kit Magazine.

Please go to kitindy.com and fill out a nomination form today if you know someone who inspires others to give back.

T H E PA N E L O F J U D G E S

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DAVE AND LAUREN ROLLER Her engagement ring: Apex Diamonds Her wedding band: Coast Diamonds His wedding band: Camelot Bridal His watch: Seiko Presage Automatic collection Photography: Molly Connor Photography

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