Vol. LXXXIV No. 14 Omaha, NE
Oak Hills and Bikur Cholim Cemetery Merger in Council Bluffs Protects Sacred Ground by CLAUDIA SHERMAN They sit side-by-side on a hill overlooking Council Bluffs in peaceful repose amidst stately 100-year-old oak trees with only the sounds of an occasional bird chirping and fallen leaves scampering across the red brick road. The Reform and Orthodox cemeteries of Oak Hills/Bikur Cholim gently drape two acres of hillside on East Pierce Street. Walking among the graves and headstones, you wander back into the history of dozens of Council Bluffs and Omaha families. Ted Seldin, whose parents are buried at Oak Hills/Bikur Cholim, the only Jewish cemetery in Council Bluffs, has been involved in the Orthodox cemetery’s affairs since about 1985. However, the cemetery associations became concerned, he explained, because “under Iowa statutes, if a cemetery does not have a perpetual care fund and the cemetery grounds are not maintained, the city can assume ownership.” Neither the original Reform Council Bluffs Hebrew Cemetery Association, established in 1887, nor the Orthodox Society of Bikur Cholim wanted to risk such a possibility. So the two cemetery associations merged about a year ago into one board with representatives from both cemeteries. “It took four or five years to get the legal work done,” said Seldin, assistant treasurer of the board. In past years, Ken Sacks (now deceased) and Maynard Telpner, both Council Bluffs attorneys, had worked to maintain the state charter of the Orthodox cemetery association. Deborah Peterson, a former associate of Ken Sacks’ and now a partner with the law firm of Reilly Petersen Hannan and Dreismeier in Council Bluffs, “deserves great credit” for working through the complex details of the non-profit corporate merger required under Iowa law, Seldin said. Another Council Bluffs attorney, Sheldon Gallner of Continued on page 3
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The World’s Biggest Menorah Lights Up in Israel
The Jerusalem Municipality and the Meir Panim’ Organization, in association with the Israel Electric Corporation, have built what is claimed as “the world’s largest menorah in Jerusalem. On Monday, the night before Hanukkah, the menorah was officially inaugurated by Jerusalem Mayor, Uri Lupolinaski, Dudy Zilberslag, chairman of Meir Panim, a volunteer organization that provides food for the needy, former Knesset member Rafi Elul and Ashkenazi Chief Rabbi Yona Metzger. The menorah, which is built at the entrance to Jerusalem, is 21 meters wide, and
has nine branches, each of them 20 meters tall. It is made of 1800 light bulbs, each of them 500 watts strong, and weighs, in total, 50 tons. The menorah produces more light than all the lights along the Jerusalem-Tel Aviv highway. The idea to build the menorah was conceived by Zilberslag. He said that the menorah, built in Jerusalem, “will welcome and smile on the city and its people, just like his organization.” The menorah will be officially entered in the Guinness Book of World Records as the largest menorah in the world. Copyright: ISRANET
Family Life by PAM MONSKY Federation Communications Director Editor’s Note: The story you are about to read is true, and used with permission. The names and some details have been changed to protect the subject’s privacy. Welcome to the final installment of The Project Dreidel Chronicles. This series has introduced you to a few of the Omaha area Jews who have been helped by Jewish Family Service. The people featured in these stories have graciously agreed to share intimate details of their lives with the community in order to increase awareness of the programs and services offered by JFS that have made such a tremendous difference in their quality of Jewish life. Your gift to the Jewish Federation of Omaha’s Annual Campaign supports Jewish Family Service as well as the rest of our Centers of Excellence: the ADL/CRC, the Jewish Community Center, Jewish Educational and Library Services and Jewish Senior Services. Your gift to the Federation Campaign is what allows us to take care of each other in Omaha, Israel and 60 other countries around the world. Despite our best efforts, our communi-
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a fixed i n c o m e , began experiencing a sharp decline in her health. With no other family in town, Kim found herself in the position of the sole caretaker for her mother. The financial and emotional strain of taking care of Kim’s mother eventually became a burden that the entire family shouldered. Jerry Bauerman is in his late 50s and has held the same job for 25 years. Two months ago, he was fired. Jerry has some mental health issues and never graduated from high school. He has never written a resume and has no idea how to look for a job. He also needs help with the basic grooming and social skills that will make him more employable. These are just two examples of real-life situations that the staff at Jewish Family Service encounters on a daily basis. In addition to emergency aid, many people in our Jewish community need to learn basic skills so that they can become self-reliant. Continued on page 10
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