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Vol. LXXXV No. 49 Omaha, NE

Author Rochel Berman Delves into Tahara: The Final Act of Loving Kindness by MARY BORT for Beth Israel Synagogue For many of us, the topic of “death” can make us uncomfortable. For some, such a topic may be considered taboo. However, as Rochel Berman explains it, death and burial are a natural part of life and, therefore, should be discussed. She is the author of Dignity Beyond Death: The Jewish Preparation for Burial, a highly acclaimed Rochel Berman and uplifting illumination of the path the Jewish deceased are taken in their final journey prior to burial. Told through the voices of Chevra Kadisha members, Berman’s book includes a wealth of knowledge associated with one of the final life cycle events, known as tahara. Berman will be in Omaha to present a public lecture at Beth Israel on Wednesday, Aug. 30, 7:30 p.m. The topic of her talk will be “Tahara: The Final Act of Loving Kindness.” Dignity Beyond Death describes the work of the Chevra Kadisha, a society of volunteers who prepare the deceased for burial and perform tahara, the ritual purification of a body. As explained in the book jacket, “The volunteers of the Sacred Society quietly and privately wash, purify and dress the deceased. They simultaneously recite lyrical prayers from Psalms, thereby bearing witness to death as the last of life’s important passages.” Berman spent over two years to research and write the book. Dignity Beyond Death was named as a 2005 selection by the Association of Jewish Libraries and a finalist in the 2005 National Jewish Book Council Awards. Berman was a Chevra Kadisha member in Westchester, NY, for 17 years and is currently a member of a Boca Continued on page 7

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Omaha Couple Gets First Hand Look at Israeli War Zone quently changed, with safety as the absolute top prioriby LISA LIEB Federation Communications Specialist ty. I never once felt scared.” Thirty-seven days ago Stacey Rockman, chairman of The inside access given to mission participants was Omaha’s Partnership with Israel, was preparing for a trip nothing short of remarkable. The Rockmans were able to the Western Galilee in northern Israel for a to attend briefings from: Prime Minister Ehud Olmert, Partnership meeting. Then two Israeli soldiers were kid- Major General Benjamin Gantz, Commander of IDF napped, northern Israel became a war zone, and the Ground Forces; Stanley Fischer, Governor of the bank Partnership meeting was canceled. But the urge to go to of Israel; Ze’ev Bielski, Chairman of the Jewish Agency Israel was overwhelming, so Stacey and Jonathan for Israel (JAFI); and Arnon Mantver, Director of JDCRockman got on that plane. Israel to name just a few. “My heart was in Israel,” explained Stacey. “I feel like In addition, the group spent time in the Partnership I’m home when I’m in Israel and I needed to be home.” area, at summer camps established as safe havens for “It was important for us to go,” added Jonathan. “We children from the North, and Tel Nof Air Force Base. wanted to help in any way we could. We wanted to send This was a major coup as the UJC Group was the only Continued on page 3 a message that we weren’t afraid.” Two days after arriving in Israel, Stacey and Jonathan joined up with the United Jewish Communities (UJC) National Solidarity Mission. Most mission participants were top leaders and donors from large communities. It would be easy to feel out of place in such company. But Stacey and Jonathan were told, “You’re the future. If people like you don’t care about what happens in Israel, Israel won’t survive.” The Rockmans were very impressed with the way UJC handled safety concerns. “Our guides received frequent updates regarding the hostilities, to ensure we were never put in harm’s way,” The Ben Yakir Youth Aliyah Village has been turned into a summer camp for Ethiopian chilexplained Stacey. “As a dren who have been evacuated from northern Israeli absorption centers. Stacey Rockman, result, our itinerary fre- above, visits with children who have been in Israel just for a year or less.

Joint School Helps Bond Lincoln Jewish Community by JOAN K. MARCUS A combined religious school of Lincoln’s two congregations, Tifereth Israel and B’nai Jeshurun, has not only cemented friendships between the children, but it has solidified friendships in the whole community. Barb Straus, President of B’nai Jeshurun (South Street Temple) spoke of the history of the merger into one religious school. “Each of the congregations have traditionally had their own religious schools. We would often do one joint program during the year,” she said, “but, otherwise we would have no contact between the congregations or the kids during the year.” Straus added, “Both of our religious school populations were diminishing. For instance, when my older daughter, Julia Stanfield, who’s now 21, was in religious school, there were 45 kids in our school. But, by the time my younger daughter, Emily--a 16-year-old--was in school, there were 21 kids enrolled. The same thing was happening at Tifereth Israel and, in general, there wasn’t a whole lot of communication between the two.” Lincoln residents all agree that there had never been a whole lot of connection between the two congregations. They agree that there was a “coolness” that

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gram for the teenagers. At that time, Beth Evnen, the director of Tifereth’s religious school and I were friends and we spoke periodically about getting the high school kids together but we just couldn’t see a clear path.” In 2003, a committee of six--three people from each of the congregations-- spearheaded by Rabbi Stiel and assisted by Rabbi Stanley Rosenbaum of Tifereth Israel, began a study on the Four of the six members of the Joint Religious School merger of the two high Committee in Lincoln are: Barb Straus, left, Tracy Gordon, school groups. The first Shoshana Shaffin, and Kim Earl. meeting began nine months existed. The South Street Temple didn’t of planning. have much of a religious school program “Because of our long-term lack of comfor teenagers who were post b’nai mitz- munications between the two congregavah, but things began to change when tions, there were some who were uncerRabbi Debbie Stiel came to Lincoln and tain about the process,” Straus said. took her post as rabbi of South Street. “Some said that because of the philoRabbi Stiel--who moved to Overland sophical difference between the Park, KS, several years ago, wanted a class Conservative and Reform congregations, for eighth graders at the Temple. it might not work.” “Tifereth Israel had a program for kids Some of the concerns of the committee that age but very few kids came,” Straus were about the lineage of the Jewish parsaid. “It became increasingly important ents. According to Shoshana Schechterto Rabbi Stiel that we have a thriving pro- Shaffin, programming director for the

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school and wife of Tifereth Israel’s spiritual leader, Rabbi Royi Shaffin, “That’s just a reality of the difference between the Conservative and Reform movements. The Reform recognizes paternal descent and at this point, Conservative does not.” Both congregational boards met and gave approval for the plans for a joint high school program. The planning committee, which included Strauss, Kim Earl, Tracy Gordon and others, agreed that the process would be engaging, interesting, fun and a learning experience. They hoped the kids would enter into discussions and have joint social activities. Instead of a rigorous academic program, it would be a chance for teenagers to talk about ethics and values. It was hoped that the students would become engaged-intellectually and emotionally. The committee agreed that they didn’t want to turn the kids off because they weren’t stimulated. Other issues that took time to iron out were those of kashrut and the wearing of kipot. Another of the issues was that the group wanted to use both synagogues so the youngsters would feel comfortable. They agreed that all snacks would have a kosher symbol and that they would be pre-packaged. Continued on page 15

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