Vol. LXXXIX No. 32 Omaha, NE
A Temple Israel Mother’s Day story: Raising children Jewish
Celebrating 89 Years of Service to Nebraska and Western Iowa
16 Iyar 5770
April 30, 2010
NCJW rules the Catwalk
by CLAUDIA SHERMAN Temple Israel Communications Coordinator Rabbi Eric Yoffie, president of the Union for Reform Judaism, describes non-Jewish partners who commit to raising their children Jewish as “heroes.” He believes they deserve celebration and gratitude. Rabbi Aryeh Azriel of Temple Israel agrees. “We Jews in Omaha and around the world must recognize and celebrate the mothers and fathers, born into other religions, but raising Jewish kids. Their work through the years enables Judaism to retain, educate, and embrace tens of thousands of youth. Their contribution to the continuity of our people will never be forgotten.”
Robyn, left, Susan, Lauren, and Allyson Freeman Five mothers, all from non-Jewish backgrounds, are raising their children as Jews at Temple Israel. Robyn Freeman, who last year celebrated 30 years of marriage with her husband Bob Freeman, was brought up in the Episcopal religion in Omaha. “Bob was very up front about communicating to me that he wanted his children to be raised Jewish. We dated for a long time -- six years -- and over this time period, I developed my own relationships with many friends who were Jewish which helped me understand why this was an important issue not just to Bob but to many of my Jewish friends.” The Freemans joined Temple in the early 1980s before the first of their three children was born. “As an interfaith couple, we thought our family would be welcome there,” Robyn said. Their daughters, Allyson, 26, Lauren, 24, and Susan, 19, “are strong and secure in their Jewish identity,” Robyn believes. “In addition to the significant factor of choosing one religion for our home, their Temple involvement, attending Jewish summer camp, and choosing colleges with a strong Jewish population, reinforced our parental commitment of raising our children in the Jewish faith.” Robyn was active at Temple as a room parent and served on several committees including one defining the role of the non-Jew. “Probably a definite turning point at Temple for me was my involvement on the Outreach Committee. It was chaired by Hermene Zweiback, who was a wonderful mentor to me and everyone else involved on the Outreach Committee. They were my support group and sometimes my ‘group therapy’ as well! “It’s not always easy,” Robyn admitted. “Foremost, you need to take your commitment very seriously and you need a partner who is 100 percent supportive and understands and recognizes that the non-Jewish parent is often making personal sacrifices. It’s extremely important that the Jewish parent be involved and active at Temple and in other Jewish organizations. It also takes a ‘village,’ including my children’s grandparents, Temple staff, OSRUI (Oling-Sang-Ruby Union Institute camp) and Camp Sabra. The other interfaith couples and families we bonded with at Temple became Continued on page 13
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Ready for my close up! Mother-daughter team Kelly and Riley Nogg are radiant before hitting the catwalk. Riley’s hair had extra flair thanks to her Posh Princess Designs barrette. See more photos on page 12
Temple high school teens see NYC up high, down low to Danny. by CLAUDIA SHERMAN Temple Israel Communications Coordinator At Ellis Island, “We went to the main hall that the For some, it’s the sights and sounds of New York City. immigrants went to,” added Danny, a senior this year. “I For others, it could be Shabbat dinner at the Empire have several relatives who came through there. I was State Building, a walk through the Lower East Side or looking at part of my family history.” SOHO, dinner at a New York deli, or Broadway. For 23 Rachel Scheet, 16, said the Jewish Heritage Museum Temple Israel high was really cool, school students, it because they showed could also be going to not just the New York City with Holocaust but before their classmates and and after the Rabbis Aryeh Azriel Holocaust, too.” On and Eric Linder. a Sunday morning breakfast stroll in the Danny Pachman, Lower East Side, “the 18, found Shabbat falafels were really services at good!” she said. At Congregation B’nai Ellis Island, “We saw Jeshurun and Kehilat some pictures of Hadar to be “interestJewish immigrants. It ing just due to the was cool, and it was fact that it was differkind of unreal to see ent than Temple. I the things they liked the music,” he said. He also enjoyed brought with them in their suitcases” which “walking through Central Park and see- Rachel Scheet, left, Scott Goldberg, Laura Gilinsky, and chaperone, were on view in a display. She was amazed ing the performers Jennifer Miller. there.” After dinner, the Omaha teens and their chaper- by the number of people who immigrated through Ellis ons, who also included Paul and Jennifer Miller and Island. As for the trip: “It was a lot of fun!” Toby Fellman, went to the top of Rockefeller Center. Established by Matt and Whitney Ferer, the Harvey D. The sight from the observation deck, or the Top of the Ferer Fund subsidized the cost of the four-day trip in Rock, “was a great view of the city at night,” according April for the Temple high school students.
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