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Orlando, Pinellas) to help and guide these Federations with their investment policies. Since its inception,

TOP has grown to include many Federations and nonprofit organizations in small Jewish communities in Florida and nationwide, managing over $80 million in assets.

What sets TOP apart from other charitable foundations is its commitment to maintain a strict anti-terror, anti-BDS (boycott, divestment, sanctions), pro-Israel investment policy. It has worked with its investment manager, Goldman Sachs, to create a screening tool that does not allow any such problematic companies to enter its portfolio.

to send contributions to the nonprofits that she regularly supports, thereby realizing tax-saving benefits. Carolyn Gora has created an endowment specifically to help children attend Jewish camps since that was an important part of her children’s experience as they were growing up and she wants to encourage that same experience for other children.

What role does TOP play in helping our Federation?

Earlier in this article, I alluded to the fact that TOP is our Federation’s legacy partner. They help us promote and secure legacy gifts and commitments, thereby ensuring a strong Jewish

our operating budget.

You don’t have to be wealthy or elderly to become a legacy donor. You just have to believe in the work Federation does, have a desire to support that work and want to ensure that our Federation continues to thrive for generations to come. Legacy donors may use current or after-lifetime gifts. IRA rollovers, cash and other assets are great options for a current gift. Using after-lifetime assets is a great way to support Federation without using assets you need today. Gifts in a will or trust or naming a beneficiary in a retirement plan or life insurance policies are the most popular options for an after-lifetime gift.

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March 2024

Volume 46, Number 7

President: Marsha Kistler

Board: Lisa Bendetowicz • Karen Fine

Shirley Frank • Helene Glocer

Carolyn Gora • Jerry Greenfield

Elisa Grossman • Andi Horowitz

Doreen Kostel • Michele Laboda

William Reynolds • Sylvia Simko

Brian Simon • Sherri Zucker

Executive Director: Debbie Sanford

Executive Assistant: Lori Ramos

Danielle Bernstein: Special Events and Program Coordinator

Dorothy Waldron: Bookkeeper

Steve Shirey: Facilities Coordinator

Jodi Cohen:

JFS Life Enrichment Coordinator

Nancy Klein: Friendly Visitor/JFS Coordinator

JFS Community Chaplain:

Rabbi Michael J. Schorin

Holocaust Educator: Ella Nayor

FGCU Student Representative: Matthew Boggan

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Monday, March 5

My trip to Tallahassee

FROM THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

 Debbie Sanford

Last month, I joined a bus trip to Tallahassee with other leaders in our area. The trip was organized by the Chamber of Southwest Florida for its Leadership 2024 class and they allowed me to tag along. After working on a nonprofit security grant (NPSG) for what felt like forever, I had business to deal with at our capitol.

It was an important opportunity to share with our legislators and key decision-makers how their legislation affects the Jewish community, the Federation and our Jewish institutions.

The Florida legislation had begun its 60-day session, so we had the opportunity to meet with all the senators and representatives from Lee, Charlotte and Collier counties. Those of you who

I thanked them for their work, and I made sure to remind each elected official how important their decisions were to not just Floridians but the Jewish Community, in light of what is happening in Israel and around the country. I spoke about our community’s safety and increased security and requested any good word they may be able to put in for the grant I just wrote. I encouraged them to vote positively on the new stronger antisemitism laws and, of course, keep the arts

an 80-foot television screen with an NPSG written on it.

I was thrilled with the opportunity to meet face to face with the people who helped me get my grant in on time and fill it out to the best of my ability because, believe me when I tell you, it is no easy feat! The group I was with was encouraged, too. They said, “Hey that’s what you have been talking about for 2 days!” They were all interested to hear the EOC Director talk about security, since they all knew so much more about its importance, and

know me know that I am not shy. I am not quiet. I am very passionate about what I do. Well, put the nerves aside, these qualities came in handy. Speaking on the actual Senate floor to Senate President Kathleen Passidomo and others, I felt very accomplished when I left.

and culture funding — I’ve applied for a program grant and was awarded the funding, only if the Governor passes the Arts & Culture budget. For that to happen, our representatives need to approve the full ask. (Fingers crossed for that!) A surprise itinerary addition on the second day was a trip to the Emergency Operations Center (EOC). You usually only see the facility and its director on the news during disasters, as witnessed after each hurricane to hit Florida, but they also play a large part in other things that directly affect us, like the nonprofit security grant I just wrote. Boy, what a surprise it was when I walked in and looked up to

an executive order from the Governor called Emergency Management War In Israel. I learned so much, too.

In addition to the lobbying opportunity I was afforded, I came back with some friends and partners in the community who now have a better understanding of what is happening in Israel, with security and safety, and what the Federation does for the community at large. It was a great networking opportunity, and I loved the entire experience. The bus ride was a little long, but it was worth it!

Side note: We took a tour with Supreme Court Justice Charles Canady and visited the state library. The oldest and rarest books are found here. I signed in as the Jewish Federation!

OUR MISSION

To strengthen and enrich the Jewish Community by providing and supporting philanthropic, educational and social service programs locally, in Israel and throughout the world.

OUR VISION

A Jewish Community that is based on Jewish values such as Tzedakah (benevolence), Tikkun Olam (repairing the world) and K’lal Yisrael (taking responsibility for one another).

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Celebrating together

By Danielle Bernstein, Special Events and Program Coordinator

We began the year with an unforgettable Major Gifts celebration! Charles Idelson graciously opened his home to the Southwest Florida Symphony, where they played enchanting melodies of Hans Zimmerman. My favorite part of the performance was when they played the theme song from “Interstellar.” Such a remarkable movie with an equally captivating soundtrack. The night was made complete with a delightful dinner on the patio. A huge thank you to Amy Ginsburg, Charles Idelson and everyone involved in making this event possible.

At the end of January, our community gathered at Temple Judea for a Tu B ‘Shevat event featuring an IDF lone soldier. Pitted fruits and an array of foods adorned the tables, symbolizing

the rich connection between nature and our traditions. The highlight of the evening was the moving speech by Logan Hepner, a veteran of both the Lebanon and Gaza wars. His words resonated, reminding us of the sacrifices made to ensure the safety of our people.

Concluding the 2024 Jewish Film Festival, we shared moments of joy, laughter and a few tears together. Personally, I am grateful for the invaluable lessons learned throughout this enriching experience. A heartfelt thank you to the Film Fest Committee and sponsors for making it all possible! Crazy to think we will be starting to look for new films again for next year.

Looking ahead, circle March 7 on your calendars for the highly anticipated Men’s Division Baseball Game at 1 p.m. for Jewish Heritage Day. Get

ready to enjoy an exciting day at Jet Blue Park! We will provide reserved parking, shaded seating and a pregame special event!

Let’s celebrate Purim together! For all of you PJ library families out there, the carnival will take place on Sunday, March 10 from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. For just $10 per family, enjoy a festive experience that includes engaging games, creative crafts and delicious food. Please register on the Federation website to attend this event! RSVP deadline is March 1.

 Danielle Bernstein

Before I conclude, I would like to remind you to save the date for our annual Holocaust Remembrance event at Shell Point on Monday, May 6 at

3 p.m. The Jewish Federation will commemorate Yom HaShoa with a Holocaust Remembrance program presenting guest speaker Michael Hirsh, local clergy and Holocaust survivors.

Lastly, mark your calendars for our annual Israel Festival on May 19 from 1 to 4 p.m. in Cape Coral. This is a free event, but registration is required for security purposes. Donations are always appreciated. I look forward to seeing you all at our next events!

To register for all events, please visit Jewishfederationlcc.org/calendar.

Expertise, when it matters the most

The value of Senior Housing Solutions

By Bruce B. Rosenblatt, CDP, Owner/Senior Housing Advisor

Nicknamed The Matchmaker of Senior Housing, I have over 30 years of experience in senior housing and am considered the foremost expert on senior housing in our area. I have overseen 75 senior living communities in 14 states including three in Southwest Florida.

Our Background:

In 2008, I formed Senior Housing Solutions as a way to help people navigate through the uncharted waters of senior housing.

I am knowledgeable, caring and resourceful. A certified dementia care practitioner, I am sensitive to the complexities of the aging process. I provide concierge-level services to my clients and stay current with the over 100 senior living options in our area as well as future trends in this industry.

As a long-time Southwest Florida resident, I am active in the Jewish community, supporting local Jewish Federations and synagogues in our area. I am active with the Parkinson’s Association of SWFL, the Alzheimer’s Association and other senior-related organizations. I am also a frequent guest speaker at many local clubs and organizations and a presenter with Florida Gulf Coast

University’s Academy for Learning for Life program.

The analysis

By staying current with all the senior communities in the area, I look beyond the fancy décor and glossy brochures to evaluate communities on quality of care and services, financial viability, operational stability, resident satisfaction, staff turnover, management responsiveness, hurricane preparedness and overall lifestyle. I have developed a proprietary matrix database with this critical information to assist people in making a sound and well-thought-out decision.

The process

Through an initial consultation, many times in the comfort of your own home, I will discuss your needs, budget, health concerns, timing and lifestyle preferences with you. By listening to you, the “Matchmaker” is able to determine which senior living options best meet your parameters.

We schedule visits for you and, if desired, will join you on your tours. I will help you understand the differences and assist you in narrowing down the choices. If appropriate, I can assist with negotiating and provide a nonlegal review of the residency agreement. Since family involvement is important, I can either meet with your family in person or virtually to review all the options with them.

Bruce B. Rosenblatt

Should a move not be imminent, I can help you develop your future plan and recommend home health care to provide a helping hand prior to the move.

I have helped hundreds of people with this decision and I fully understand many people aren’t ready to move but want a plan in place when they are ready.

The outcome

financial advisors, attorneys and medical professionals.

I will assist you every step of the way. I will also follow up with you after your move to make sure all is going well and, if necessary, speak to the administration on your behalf. As a key referral source to these communities, having me in your corner is invaluable. For those considering a move outside of Southwest Florida, I have established a national network of like-minded advisors who can offer assistance in those specific markets.

How are we paid

Our discussion includes an understanding of the types and costs of various places, wait list details, medical and financial qualifications, refund programs and demographics of each place.

Once the decision is made, I can provide resources to help make your move go smoothly. As a longtime resident of Southwest Florida, I have developed relationships with a wide range of specialists including downsizers, Realtors, home health, long-term care insurance experts,

Most of the time, Senior Housing Solutions services are 100% free to our clients since we are paid a referral fee from the community after you move in. However, if you have already done extensive research and are actively engaging with the senior communities or planning to move in three or more years, we do charge a consulting fee for our services. Please reach out to us for more details. For more information, please call 239-595-0207 or visit www.senior housingsolutions.net.

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The perfect recipe for happiness

By Nancy Klein, Friendly Visitor/JFS Coordinator

Let me take you on a journey to a place where laughter fills the air and smiles light up the room — not just any place but our most recent Lunch Bunch at Amavida Living, where an extraordinary event brought together residents, staff and some very special guests. Picture this: five therapy dogs and a mini horse, each with their unique way of spreading joy, walked into our lives, creating moments we’ll cherish forever. It was a scene straight out of a feel-good movie, one where you can’t help but wonder, “Who’s enjoying this more, the seniors or the staff?”

But the magic of companionship doesn’t stop with these adorable fourlegged visitors. Our community is a canvas for connection, painted with the vibrant colors of the Friendly Visitor Program. This initiative is all about weaving together the threads of companionship and shared experiences, creating a tapestry of friendships that brighten our days. Imagine having a friend who drops by just to share a story, a laugh or simply a moment of silence. This is the essence of our Friendly Visitor Program, a beautiful complement to the joy brought by our therapy animals.

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These visits, both from our furry friends and our dedicated volunteers, are not just about passing the time. They’re about creating connections that touch our hearts deeply. The therapy animals, with their unconditional love and gentle nature, remind us of the simple joys in life. In their presence, we find ourselves sharing stories of pets from days gone by or marveling at the mini horse’s gentle eyes and soft coat. And when our human visitors come along, they bring their own stories, their own warmth and

their eagerness to listen and share. It’s a beautiful dance of give and take, where every visit enriches our lives a little more.

If the idea of spreading happiness and forging connections within the community has sparked your interest, I encourage you to get in touch. We have strong partnerships with the Alliance for Therapy Dogs and Beesley’s Paws, organizations always on the lookout for new dog/handler teams to join their ranks. I’m here to guide you toward

making a meaningful contribution with your furry friend. And if pet therapy isn’t quite your cup of tea but you’re keen on making a difference by visiting elders on your own, we can arrange that, too. Rest assured, there’s a senior out there who would be overjoyed by a visit from you, with or without a fourlegged companion.

This story of Amavida Living, our therapy animals and the Friendly Visitor Program is more than just an account of events; it’s a testament to

the power of companionship, whether on four legs or two. It’s a reminder that in the hustle and bustle of life, moments of genuine connection are the true treasures. So, if this tale has sparked a desire to bring a little of this magic into your own community, reaching out to me at NancyKlein@jfedlcc.org or via phone at 239-481-4449x2 is the perfect first step. Together, let’s open our hearts and doors to the wonders of friendship and the simple joy of a wagging tail or a friendly visit.

Faster than I can run

Jewish Family Services update

By Jodi Cohen, Life Enrichment Coordinator

Morty starts coaching me from the very moment I wake up. His mantras include “Giddyup,” “C’mon” and “Whycantyoumoveanyfaster?” (Morty is my 5½-year-old pup.) Life tends to sail along at a clip, a trot, a pace that is faster than I can run. There are so many things to do and people to take care of.

I have a friend who makes her to-do list at the end of the day by simply writing everything down that she did during the day and then crossing it out!

 Jodi Cohen

I rarely set aside time in my own life to be quiet or reflective. In shul on Saturday mornings, I’m thinking about my next article for L’Chayim. Walking Morty at night, I run through my internal rolodex of people on my mishebeyrach list, as the moonlight is a perfect backdrop for prayer.

So, when I found myself sitting onstage as one of the presenters during the Holocaust remembrance event, organized by the Federation’s Ella Nayor, I had nowhere to run and nowhere else to be. Poems were read and survivors shared their stories. Dr.

TOGETHER we can make a Difference

INDIGENT FUND PACESETTERS

The Federation expresses special gratitude to our Indigent Fund Pacesetters for the example they set for the rest of us.

Anonymous

Jack Cohen-Marcia Can Help

Naomi Bloom

Barbara & Earl Magdovitz

Toni & Stuart Morgenstein

Karin Fine

Sherri & Ira Zucker

The Cadkin Foundation

Shalom Dancers

Taryn Sasser

The Jewish Federation loves our GENEROUS DONORS

INDIGENT FUND / MARCIA CAN HELP

Temple Judea

Temple Beth El

Temple Bat Yam

Temple Beth Shalom

Henry & Debbie Feinberg

Arthur & Phyllis Ohlstein

FOOD PANTRY

Temple Judea

Temple Beth El

Temple Beth Shalom

Marty Freling

Paul & Sylvia Simko

Lynn & Lory Kirby

Stephanie Levin

Robert Morley

Anne Peiffer

partner with the Federation. Director of Business Development Martha DaVila, Food and Beverage Director Kari Mathein and all of the Amavida staff did a terrific job once again, greeting us warmly, serving delicious food, raffling off terrific goodies and showcasing the Amavida Living community

I know I always say this, but it’s true: I can tell so much about the various senior living communities by the way that they communicate, plan and then attend to our group during an event. According to several Lunch Bunch folks, DaVila gave a great tour

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Temple Bat Yam

Shalom Dancers

Victor Gold

LINDA F. IDELSON CULINARY DESIGN FUND

Charles Idelson

Carolyn Gora

Anita Freedman

Claire Goldhagen

Rabbi Yossi & Rivky Labkowski

Anne Schwartz

Andy & Debbie Shuping

Hy Tuchman

James & Betty Rubenstein

Lynn & Lory Kirby

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nature made the experience enjoyable and user-friendly. Thank you to Amavida Living!

JFS held its first Lunch Bunch at the Heights Center, another wonderful community partner. A big shout out to Facilities Manager Kevin Mannix and Director of Arts and Community Programs Melissa Barlow for ensuring that everything went smoothly for us. Jason’s Deli delivered their tasty food. Victoria Staryk, a crime prevention specialist from Lee County Sheriff’s Office, spoke to our group about frauds and scams. There are so many scams out there. Trust your kishkes, meaning if someone or something is unfamiliar or doesn’t seem completely kosher, refrain from the invitation to call, click or confirm your personal information or send money.

Purim gift bags

Volunteers are gearing up to pack Purim

gift bags with hamantaschen and other goodies on Wednesday, March 13 from 10 a.m. to noon. Then, volunteers will deliver the bags to Jewish older adults all around the community the week of March 18. Please let me know if you’d like to be involved in packing or delivering Purim gift bags. We need all the hands and hearts we can round up! Call 239-481-4449, Ext. 1 or email jodicohen@jfedlcc.org.

Sponsor a Lunch Bunch or Sharing Shabbat

Jewish Family Services offers a free monthly Lunch Bunch and the new Sharing Shabbat program as a way for older Jewish adults in Lee and Charlotte counties to stay connected on a regular basis. We meet, we eat, we celebrate.

One way of supporting these programs is to be a sponsor. Q: Who should consider being a sponsor? A: A small

business owner, a nonprofit agency or a community member who would like to honor someone. Some of the sponsorship benefits include free advertising in L’Chayim and addressing the group at the luncheon, educating people about goods and services that directly relate to the needs of older adults. Another benefit is feeling good about supporting the ongoing work of JFS. The vibe at the Lunch Bunch and Sharing Shabbat is joyous. Please be in touch to find out more about sponsorship. No pressure!

The e Jewish Federaattion Annnuual Camppaign n provides the resources to strengthen and enrich our Jewish community locally, in Israel and around the world.

YOU MAKE IT HAPPEN

This year please consider making an additional campaign contribution in honor or memory of a loved one

Because kindness is contagious, we would like to highlight your generosity in L’CHAYIIM and notify personally those whom you honor. You may choose how your generosity y is noted and how we share your mitzvah with the community.

In memory of Frank M. Dreyfuss from Mae Folb

Honoring a special person through a tribute gift to Jewish Family Services of Lee & Charlotte Counties is a wonderful way to recognize a simcha or remember a loved one. Not only does your gift show your family and friends that you care, it goes to work helping Jews in need and building vibrant communities locally, in Israel and around the world.

Make a Gift jewishfederationlcc.org/tribute-memorials

HOW THE JEWISH FEDERATION SERVES

Local Jewish Education and Culture

 Community wide Jewish Education and Cultural Programs for all ages including the Jewish Film Festival, Jewish author events, Out & About Films, Israel celebration, day trips, Israeli folk dancing ,PJ Library & TRIBE, a young adult group.

 L’CHAYIM published monthly to keep the Jewish community informed about local, national and international Jewish issues.

 New CRC Community Relations Council to address issues of anti Semitism and Interfaith Relations.

 Israel Advocacy and Initiatives to strengthen local Jewish community ties with Israel. Holocaust education for middle and high school students in the community and a college campus Jewish life experience committee.

 Volunteer opportunities for all ages.

Overseas

 Funding to the Jewish Agency for Israel and the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC) for full spectrum social services to Israel and Jewish communities in 60+ countries around the world.

 Partnership 2Gether relationship with the Hadera Eiron Region in Israel.

Jewish Community Foundation

 An endowment that ensures future social and educational programming and support for our community.

 Needs based college scholarships and study scholarships in Israel.

 Jewish camp scholarships.

 Projects and programs aimed at Jewish community enrichment.

Local Seniors Services

 Lunch Bunch, a monthly gathering with a free lunch for older adults to meet and schmooze.

 Holiday baskets and teen visits to seniors and senior facilities for Rosh Hashanah, Hanukkah and Passover.

 Holocaust survivor outreach.

Local Social Services

 Non sectarian, individual and family outreach, information and referral services.

 Friendly Visitor Program.

Local Emergency Services

 Food Pantry and gift cards.

 Emergency financial assistance grants to families and individuals in crisis.

 Local disaster outreach and assistance.

Temple Beth El Mitzvah Day

By Laurie Morris

What did 155 people of all ages do on a Sunday morning in January, and why does it matter? Temple Beth El’s annual Mitzvah Day is a heartwarmingly intergenerational event created to benefit others. Breakfast was provided, after which Rabbi Luna opened the proceedings with a blessing over engaging in the needs of the community: “As Jews, we value Torah study and prayer, as well as being involved in wider community needs. We are given the sacred

opportunity to be part of the larger Lee County community and contribute our time, energy and resources as Jews,” she said.

How do you package 800 pounds of rice and beans for distribution to Gladiolus Food Pantry clients? One scoop at a time. Adults and children worked side by side, aided by Gladiolus Food Pantry staff.

Our Religious School students decorated cards for IDF soldiers, made bracelets for patients in Golisano Children’s Hospital and painted rocks with decorations and inspirational sayings. The kids are placing the rocks around Fort Myers for people to discover as happy surprises. Beaded bracelets with inspirational words on them, something they enjoyed creating, were delivered to Golisano Children’s Hospital along with festive blue and silver balloons that had adorned the Dubin Center.

For the Lee County Homeless Coalition, 100 bags of personal supplies such as toiletries and socks were assembled and delivered.

We assembled and delivered baby supplies in beautiful handmade tote bags to the Children’s Network of SWFL.

We also assembled and delivered 200 bag lunches consisting of PB&J sandwiches, fruit, chips, cookies and a drink for Community Cooperative.

As part of Goodies for the Good Guys and Gals, 700 homemade cookies for the Sheriff’s Department substations and fire houses that serve the temple

were baked and delivered by volunteer bakers.

Eva’s Closet and the Jewish Federation’s food bank received nonperishable food items. Books and prayer shawls were buried in the genizah behind the building with Rabbi Luna leading prayers. Anything with the word G-d on it was buried rather than thrown away.

There were information tables, too: Mitzvah Committee’s Disabilities and Inclusion subcommittee, Israel

The Helen & Edward Brancati Teacher Development Scholarship

The Helen & Edward Brancati Teacher Development Scholarship was begun with the feeling that education is the door to the future and that a good teacher is the key. One scholarship of $500 is awarded annually to the teacher who best exemplifies dedication to the principles

and the high professional standards of Helen and Edward Brancati.

Who may apply

Any teacher employed at an accredited school in the United States — classroom teachers seeking post-graduate education or needing funds for

required continuing education classes, workshops and conferences as well as for certification courses. Applicants may not use the scholarship money for post-graduate classes that will lead to an administrative position, removing them from the classroom.

A Jewish 12-step recovery group

Every Saturday at 10 a.m. on Zoom

Are you looking for a path to recovery? Whether it is alcohol, drugs and/or other addictions such as food, gambling, sex,

shopping, etc., we invite you to experience this Jewish 12-step program and discussion group. We meet Saturdays, 11 a.m. on Zoom, and we use

the guidebook “Twelve Jewish Steps to Recovery” authored by Rabbi Kerry Olitzky and Stuart Copans, M.D. All who might benefit are welcome.

Committee, Environmental Committee, Children’s Network of SWFL and voter registration.

As a departing treat, people walking to their cars found the Sheriff’s Department’s ice cream truck out front as a special surprise to top off Mitzvah Day. One hundred free ice cream cones were given out.

Community projects, tikkun olam, food, fun, family and friends: that’s why Mitzvah Day matters.

How to apply

The application deadline is March 31 at 11:45 p.m. The application and all details can be found at http://www. capecoralcf.org/grants-scholarships. html.

Zoom details are available by calling the Temple Beth El office at 239-4330018.

At the Museum

March being Women’s History Month provides a timely reminder to remember the courageous women who were UpStanders during the Holocaust — women like Magda Trocmé, Sophie Scholl, Irena Sendler, Hannah Senesh and Noor Kahn. Each put their lives and their families’ lives on the line to help protect Jewish people and fight against the Nazis. Each of them made an important impact, some paying with their lives for doing so. We also honor the thousands of others whose actions will never be known.

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Susan Suarez

We also honor modern-day UpStanders like Claudette Colvin, who as a teenager in 1955 refused to obey a bus driver and give up her seat, six months before Rosa Parks’ refusal to do the same; Niemat Ahmadi from North Darfur, Sudan, who stepped in to help sustain relief efforts for the 2003 Darfur war and genocide survivors and established the Darfur Women’s Action Group (DWAG); Malala Yousafzai, who was shot and nearly killed as a young teenager for going to school against Taliban restrictions. Surviving her attack, she became an advocate for girls’ and women’s right to education. Today, there are thousands of other women UpStanders at

work in our communities and across the world. While they might not make the news or headlines, they are just as committed to standing up and fighting for people whose basic human rights are being withheld or in peril.

This month

It has been a busy season so far at the Museum. Here is information about this month’s events.

Triumph of Resistance dinner is sold out

Our annual fundraising event, “Triumph of Resistance,” is now sold out. We are excited to hear special guest speaker Ruth Bielski Ehrreich share the story of her father, Tuvia Bielski, and his brothers. Together, the Bielski brothers built a refuge in the forests of what is now Belarus, and rescued 1,200 Jewish men, women and children fleeing the Holocaust. Ruth also joined us earlier this year to introduce a screening at the Museum of the film “Defiance,” which depicted the Bielski brothers’ story, and graciously answered questions about the film.

“Growing Up Sephardic in an Ashkenazi World”

GenShoah SWFL member Sam Varsano

will present “Growing Up Sephardic in an Ashkenazi World” at the Museum on Wednesday, March 13 at 2 p.m. His presentation will take place in the Herbert H. Schiff Classroom. Reservations are required – please visit hmcec.org to RSVP.

“Zoog Mir in Yiddish”

GenShoah SWFL member Sol Awend will present a class Sunday, March 17 that is suitable both for those interested in learning to speak Yiddish and those who already do. The program will take place in the Maureen and Arnold Lerner Classroom at 3:30 p.m. Reservations are required as space is limited – visit hmcec.org to RSVP.

Lecture by docent Stuart Mest, M.D.

Museum Docent Stuart Mest, M.D. will present “The Holocaust: Medically Driven Genocide.” The lecture will take place at the Museum Wednesday, March 20 at 2 p.m. in the Herbert H. Schiff Classroom. Reservations are required – please visit hmcec.org to RSVP.

Other news

Additional docent tour added

Due to popular demand, we have added another docent-led public tour. They will now be offered on Sundays, Wednesdays and Thursdays. Reservations and prepayment are required for these tours, as space is limited. Please visit our website for more information and to purchase your tickets.

Matching Challenge Grant

The Museum has received a generous Matching Challenge Grant of $100,000 from Jack and F.E. Nortman, along with friends of the Boxcar Foundation to help support the Museum’s traveling “Boxcar Education Project.”

GenShoah upcoming programs

By Shelley Lieb and Ida Margolis

The following is information you need for GenShoah SWFL’s upcoming programs:

Back by popular demand: Genealogy Workshops – Bring your device and follow the lead of Hank Bitterman, 2G, who takes you to various online resources to find out about you and your family’s past. Hank shares his knowledge from his own family findings both in the U.S. and abroad. This session is limited in size and will provide a good starting point for further inquiries. Sunday, April 7, 1 p.m. Location TBD. RSVP required: Shelley Lieb liebro@gmail.com.

A special invitation to GenShoah members and guests “They Were Children: Rescue as Resistance” – This

exhibit is about a specific resistance group, the OSE, that was active in German-occupied France. It provided a network of escape to Switzerland when children were being deported throughout France. A team of archivists from the FGCU library traveled to France and now share their information, discoveries and artifacts-on-loan. This free exhibit is open to the public through March 31, M-F, 9 a.m.-5 p.m., FGCU Archives, Bradshaw Library.

GenShoah members are invited for a private tour (lunch included) on Sunday, March 3, 10 a.m. FGCU Archives — limited attendance; RSVP required: Shelley Lieb liebro@gmail.com.

Growing Up Sephardic in an Ashkenazi World by Sam Varsano – Wednesday, March 13, 2 p.m.

Holocaust Museum. RSVP required: hmcec.org (special events)

Yom HaShoah Commemoration GenShoah SWFL is already planning for the Yom HaShoah program in Collier County on Sunday, May 5, 4 p.m. at Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center. RSVP requested: jfgn.org. Pre-event reception for GenShoah SWFL and survivor, 3 p.m. at Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center.

We encourage you to invite your children/grandchildren to be at your side for this program. It is an opportunity to share your history with your family in a meaningful way.

And for those who are 2Gs and would like to remember parents who were survivors, please submit your name, along with the names for remembrance, to genshoahswfl@hmcec.org. Here are

The Boxcar Exhibit travels to schools, public libraries and other locations throughout Southwest Florida. Since 2008, over 150,000 students, teachers and members of the public have seen the exhibit and learned more about the dangers of hate. Please consider a donation, as your gift will be matched to double the impact!

“Forgeries and the Holocaust” Exhibit extended “Forgeries and the Holocaust” will be on display in the Estelle and Stuart Price Gallery through March 2024. We hope you will explore this fascinating exhibit and take the brief quiz at the end to test your knowledge of how to spot a forgery.

Antisemitism film

Now showing in the Maureen and Arnold Lerner Classroom, “Antisemitism,” is a film produced by the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum. This film is available to view for all visitors to the Museum.

Save the Date

Sunday, May 5 at 4 p.m. – Yom HaShoah Community Commemoration at the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center.

Many thanks for your continuing support of our mission – to teach the lessons of the Holocaust to inspire action against bigotry, hatred and violence, and our programs and events. I hope to see you at the Museum soon!

examples of how to list the names:

• Rochelle Lieb, daughter of Auschwitz survivors Mayer Zelcer and Marta Zwecher Zelcer

• Ida Margolis, daughter of Auschwitz survivors Max and Janet Zuchter Moskowitz

Zoog Mir in Yiddish – March 17 and April 21, 3:30-5 p.m. at Holocaust Museum. Limit 20 people. RSVP required to attend for each session: hmcec.org.

Book discussion – “All the Frequent Trouble of Our Days: The True Story of the American Woman at the Heart of the German Resistance to Hitler” by Rebecca Donner. Date TBD. For additional information, contact Estelle Kafer ekafer520@gmail.com.

Cantor Marshall Portnoy returns to Fort Myers

Book signing and performance April 19

By Reina Schlager

Cantor Marshall Portnoy of international acclaim has compiled the “Marshall Portnoy Anthology,” published by Transcontinental Music Publications. On April 19 at 7:30 p.m., he will perform selections from the anthology at Temple Beth El with participation of the Temple’s choir and religious school. Books will be available for purchase and there will be a book signing prior to this special Shabbat service. A giant in the Reform movement, Debbie Friedman described Cantor

Portnoy as, “Thoughtful and gentle, mindful and kind, this loving soul takes the listener, with every note he sings to a place of hope and calm.”

Marshall Portnoy is cantor emeritus of the Main Line Reform Temple in Wynnewood, Pennsylvania, where he has served since 1994, and a past vice-president of the American Conference of Cantors.

A graduate of Yale, Cantor Portnoy was invested both by the Jewish Theological Seminary and the Hebrew Union College. His

two-volume work, “The Art of Cantillation,” has brought the skill and joy of reading Torah and Haftorah to tens of thousands around the globe. His musical works are widely performed throughout the United States, and he is the recipient of frequent commissions.

The anthology may be purchased in advance at https://www.transcon tinentlmusic.com/PDS-MarshallPortnoy-Anthology-79938.

Marshall Portnoy

As the iPhone’s ringtone played the opening bars of “Copa Cabana,” Rose was ready. It was the precise hour for Zooming with the grandkids — an event that Rose anticipated each and every Sunday.

After an exchange of pleasantries, granddaughter Abby announced a surprise. “Bubby, we know you love to travel and that you love Barry Manilow. So, we’re coming to Florida and all of us are taking you, all expenses paid, to Las Vegas!”

but that “I just need time to digest it all.”

Later on, as Rose sipped an iced tea with her best friend, Bea, Rose agonized about how to bring up a delicate subject that she’d kept from her friends and family for months. “Bea, I’ve never told anyone, but now I have to. I can’t even think about a trip to Las Vegas. I have bathroom problems. I’m incontinent.”

Rose swallowed hard. Tears welled in her eyes as she thanked Abby and all the grandkids for their generosity. But there was hesitancy in Rose’s voice, something Abby discerned immediately. “Bubby, aren’t you happy? Is there something wrong?” As Rose recovered her composure, she reassured Abby that the gift was much appreciated

With that, Rose led Bea to her hall closet where dozens of packs of adult underwear were stored. “Look here. It’s what people joke about. Adult diapers. I hardly go out anymore because I never know what will happen. That’s the real reason I can’t go to the movies with you or to Las Vegas or anywhere far away. My life revolves around the bathroom and the accidents that I have several times a week.”

Bea sympathized with her friend. “Truth be told, I’ve had a few close calls myself. And if I don’t make it, the clean-up is … well…” Rose jumped in, “Mortifying.”

Ruth and Bea are not alone in their reluctance to discuss issues surrounding bowel difficulties. Some older adults don’t want to talk about it with anyone, including a doctor, while others, like Rose, eschew the neighborhood store and shop for adult incontinence underwear far from home where they won’t be recognized. Nonetheless, gerontology professionals agree that an open and honest admission of how incontinence affects daily life could calm social situations and alleviate stress.

In order to promote communication and understanding, an Australian government website offers a wide range of information on what the Aussies call “faecal incontinence.” The condition is defined as the experience of leakage from the bowel or when a stool is passed at the wrong time or the wrong place. Amazingly, the site reports that as many as 1 in 20 older adults have poor bowel control that affects how they conduct their daily lives.

A ubiquitous problem, the Australian site even includes a detailed map of the 19,000 public and private public toilet facilities located throughout the country.

In a recent article, author Jodi Eichler-Levine describes her bathroom challenges resulting from colon cancer. As a professor of Jewish studies, Eichler-Levine turns to the Talmud for guidance. There, she found evidence of Judaism’s practical approach to one of many everyday problems.

Eichler-Levine quotes the Babylonian Talmud, Berakht 54B, where Rav Yehuda writes, “There are three matters which, when one who prolongs their duration, extends a person’s days and years. They are: One who prolongs his prayer, one who prolongs his mealtime at the table, and one who prolongs his time in the bathroom.”

In an ancient effort to combat the discomfort and shame often associated with bathroom issues, Eichler-Levine reminds us of the Talmudic prayer for using the facilities:

“The rabbis disagree about what to say upon entering the bathroom (bei ha-kisei; literally, “the house of the seat”). One says to begin by speaking to the angels who accompany him.”

Another rabbinic sage says that we should recite the following: “Guard me, guard me; help me, help me; support me, support me; wait for me, wait for me, until I enter and come out, for this is the way of man.”

Naturally, there is a blessing to make when we leave the bathroom as well. We are grateful to God who “formed man in wisdom and created in him many orifices and cavities. It is … known … that were one of them to be ruptured and blocked, it would be impossible to survive and stand before you. (Berakhot 60b)

Why discuss something that has been taboo for so many? Maybe we Jews are more inclined to deal with the subject given that the incidence of Crohn’s Disease and Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD) among Jews is greater than among the general population. The result: more of us Jews may have to deal with a messy accident than those in other ethnic groups.

What to do? The answer might be had in a popular children’s book written in 1977 by Minna Unchi and translated into Hebrew and English by Amanda Mayer Stinchecum. The book tells children that all animals defecate and rather than feeling shame or embarrassment, defecating is a natural part of life. The book is titled “Everyone Poops,” and although its message is for little ones, the matter-of-fact practical approach to one of life’s messier processes reminds us that an honest approach to incontinence is helpful, compassionate and a very Jewish thing to do.

Rabbi Barbara lives and works in Italy. For 10 years, Rabbi Barbara Aiello served the Aviva Campus for Senior Life as resident rabbi. Currently as Rabbi Emerita, she shares her experiences on Aging Jewishly with audiences around the world. Her columns are collected in her book, “Aging Jewishly,” available on Amazon. She is also host of the 18-year Radio Rabbi program, WWPR 1490 AM. Contact her at Rabbi@RabbiBarbara.com

The most complete guide to Jewish Oscar nominees

Stars of David

By Nate Bloom, Stars of David Contributing Columnist

Editor’s Note: Persons in bold are deemed by Nate Bloom to be Jewish for the purpose of this column. Persons identified as Jewish have at least one Jewish parent and were not raised in, or identify with, a faith other than Judaism. Converts to Judaism, of course, are also identified as Jewish.

In past years, the deadline for this column, and the date when Oscar nominations were announced, made it impossible for me to tell you who the Jewish Oscar nominees are before the Oscars are presented. This year, the “stars aligned” and I can write that column for you. For many years, I’ve written a ‘guide’ to Jewish nominees for weekly Jewish papers. I know I provide my readers with the most complete and accurate list of Jewish Oscar nominees. I do regret that I don’t have the space to give you more “bio” details.

The Oscars will be presented on Sunday, March 10 (ABC, begins at 7 p.m.). Jimmy Kimmel will host. The Governors’ Awards (honorary Oscars) were presented last November. Mel Brooks, 97, was one of the three awardees. He gave an amusing short speech (on YouTube).

Here are the Jewish nominees in all but the ‘technical’ categories (like editing, costumes, etc.)

Acting

This is the oddest year I’ve ever seen. No Jew was nominated for playing a non-Jew and four actors were nominated for playing “real” Jews. But only one of the four has a “claim” to being Jewish. In the best actor category, there is Cillian Murphy as physicist J. Robert Oppenheimer in “Oppenheimer” and Bradley Cooper as Leonard Bernstein in “Maestro;” Jodie Foster, a supporting actress nominee, is “up” for playing Bonnie Stoll (now 71), Diana Nyad’s swim coach in “Nyad.”

That leaves Robert Downey, Jr., 58, a supporting actor nominee. He’s “up” for playing Lewis Strauss, a government official, in “Oppenheimer.” Downey’s paternal grandfather was “half Jewish,” and his paternal grandmother was ‘just’ Jewish. Downey always credits his Jewish wife with saving his life (he was a drug addict). He’s called himself “Jewish-Buddhist.”

Best original screenplay

“Anatomy of a Fall” (French film) was co-written by nominee Arthur Harari, 42. Harari’s paternal Sephardi grandfather was born in Egypt and became a well-known French actor. With help, I found out that Arthur Harari’s parents are Jewish, too. Also in this category: Josh Singer, 52, the co-writer of “Maestro,” and Sammy Burch, 36, for writing “May December.” Burch’s mother is Jewish.

Best adapted screenplay

Noah Baumbach, 54, for co-writing

“Barbie.” His father is Jewish. The Oscar nomination citation notes “Barbie” was based on characters created by the late Ruth Handler, the co-founder of Mattel Toys; Also: Jonathan Glazer, 58, a British Jew, for “The Zone of Interest,” a film about the Holocaust (loosely based on a novel) — and the citation for “Oppenheimer” notes it was based on a historic study co-written by the late Martin J. Sherwin

The Oscar for best non-English language film goes to the film’s director. “Zone” is a non-English nominee and if it wins, Glazer, who also directed “Zone,” gets the Oscar.

Best score

Laura Karpman, 64, for “American Fiction” and Robbie Robertson, who died last August, for “Killers of the Flower Moon.” Robertson was famous as the “lead guy” and chief songwriter for “The Band,” a top ’70s band. Robertson’s mother was of a member of the Cayuga and Mohawk tribes. He was 12 when he found out that his deceased father was Jewish. His father’s brothers were very kind to him and in a 2018 documentary, he said he felt his ‘burning ambition’ was a genetic gift of his father. In a memoir, Robertson made this wry remark about his Jewish and “First Nations” heritage: “You could say I’m an expert when it comes to persecution.”

Best original song

Diane Warren, 67, for “The Fire Inside” from” Flamin’ Hot.” Warren has been nominated 15 times for an Oscar, and has never won — and Mark Ronson, 48, the co-writer of “I’m Just Ken” from “Barbie.”

Best animated film

The nominees for best animated films are a hodgepodge of animators and producers. Amy Pascal, 65, a top veteran producer, is “up” for “Spiderman — Across the Spider-Verse.” She shares the nomination with four others.

Best film

The best film Oscar goes to a nominated film’s principal producers. There are 10 nominated films and a lot of producers. My practice is not to work very hard to “verify” producers almost no one outside Hollywood has heard of and probably won’t win. Here are the producer nominees I am “sure of:” Fred Berner, 70, and Steven Spielberg, 77, “Maestro”; David Heyman, 62, (Jewish father) “Barbie;” and Charles Roven, 74, “Oppenheimer.”

Two more notes

“Zone of Interest” is a best film nominee, too. But Jonathan Glazer was not a “Zone” producer — and — “Killers of the Flower Moon” is a best film nominee, but its screenplay wasn’t nominated. The screenplay was based on a nonfiction study of the same name by David Grann, 56.

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What’s in a name

By Brian Simon

Here’s another thing that has become more complicated as I have aged: names.

Naming used to be relatively straightforward. You had a first name. You had a last name. When a man and a woman got married, the new family took the husband’s last name.

Admittedly, that presents a host of problems. What if the marriage doesn’t last? What if the woman has already established herself professionally? What if the man’s last

name is Snotfountain? Even if it’s pronounced SNOT fon TAYN, it’s still problematic.

There are many modern solutions young couples are choosing. One is the combination last name. Mr. Jones marries Ms. Smith and they both change their names to Jones-Smith, sometimes hyphenated, sometimes just smushed together Jonessmith.

This is a good short-term solution but could present problems when their children get married. Young man

Jones-Smith marries young lady KleinSnyderman and they become … a law firm? A couple generations down the line their grandkids will have pretentiously long names like royal families.

A friend of mine in Fort Myers, Bernie King-Smith, has a funny story about his family’s hyphen that goes back to the 1930s in Australia. Bernie’s grandfather was born Albert King Smith. King was his middle name in honor of his mother’s family. Albert started an accounting practice out of his home in Melbourne. Unfortunately, there were so many other Smiths that the local post office kept mixing up his mail, delivering it late or sometimes not at all. When he complained, the postmaster clapped back, “What do you expect with a last name like Smith?” Albert suddenly had the bright idea to add the hyphen, so the Smiths became the King-Smiths. And — bonus! — the hyphenated name also suggested a family of high station.

Back here in the 21st century, another newfangled solution is for the man to take the woman’s last name. According to a recent Pew survey about 5% of men choose this option. Also, according to a survey I just made up, 99.8% of those men’s fathers roll their eyes.

Still another possibility is for couples to make up a new last name for the family. Mr. Portnoy marries Ms.

Williams and they become Mr. and Mrs. Coolerthanyou (pronounced Coo LAY than YOU).

I’m proposing we go back to the way our ancestors did it in Hebrew. No last names. We’re all ben or bat. I am Brian, son of Herb and Barbara. I married Mindi, daughter of Barry and Sandi. Our children are the son and daughter of Brian and Mindi.

Certain Nordic countries already do this, and they’re not even Jewish. Icelandic CrossFit champion Katrin Davidsdottir is literally David’s daughter. Her brother’s last name is Davidsson. According to Iceland Hotel Collection Magazine, a name I swear I am not making up, people are listed by first name in Icelandic phone books. Can you believe that? They still use phone books in Iceland!

Even Iceland, though, has changed with the times. Some women now use their mothers’ names instead of their fathers’, especially if they’re mad at their dads.

I confess to being a bit of a Neanderthal on this topic. I wanted Mindi to take my last name. She has done it great honor. I don’t judge others if they choose to hyphenate or smush or whatever. But it does present one more modern problem. If it’s easy to find each other’s mother’s maiden names, what will we use for our online security questions?

 Brian Simon

FROM THE BIMAH

A piece of my legacy

By Rabbi Bruce Diamond

Ihave written over 250 “Bimah” pieces for this monthly since 1997. Like the more than 1,500 sermons I’ve delivered over 50 years and more, I wonder if they do any good and have much lasting effect. Who knows? I suppose we can ask the same question about our lives in general, but let’s not get too philosophic, OK?

 Rabbi Bruce Diamond

What I have noticed is that I’ve been mellowing out and getting more intimate and personal in these monthly columns. I used to be a lot angrier. Not so much anymore. Takes too much energy.

For quite a while, I used this space as both a cudgel to pound with and as a platform to display my erudition. Not anymore. (You might be interested to know that a number of Federation directors have required a preview of what I’ve written and have “spiked” several of them over the years as too provocative or outside the paper’s mission as a public relations vehicle for their organization.)

Let me be candid with you. Like most of us in the home stretch, legacy becomes important, and I am thinking about these Bimah articles as just that — legacy.

Legacy as I use the term doesn’t mean being remembered by lots of people over a long time, because generally that doesn’t happen unless you’ve done extraordinary things for the good or the bad impacting large populations and effecting the chain of important events. That’s not me.

And I am not referring to making large donations to have your name on some sort of public building or facility. That’s also not me. And besides, over not too long a time, the people using the space with person’s name on it don’t give that name a second thought and have no idea who that person was anyhow, right?

In some of the synagogues that used me, there were hundreds of those little bronze memorial plaques with the names of the deceased and their dates of death lining the walls. Of course, I was familiar with the more recent ones, but neither I nor most of the worshippers had the smallest idea who these people were. Just little slabs of bronze now and little more, but that’s the way of the world. (Read Percy Shelly’s short poem “Ozymandius” that poignantly addresses this. I like it a lot!)

And by legacy I also don’t intend how much money and valuable stuff you leave your kids. No matter what and how much, that’s not going to change how they feel about you when you’re gone, whether they give you much thought or light a candle and recite qaddish for you at the appropriate times.

Here’s what I mean by legacy. Like some rabbis for whom continued scholarship is important, I spend a lot of time studying very old writings and mining them for a deeper understanding of new ways for me to look at things.

Of course, there are the classic texts that stand as intellectual monuments to bygone eras. But more often than not, I am reading much smaller fragments on stone, clay, parchment or papyrus that have randomly survived. That’s more valuable to me, since it puts me directly in touch with someone else more or less like me who lived long ago, without any filtering and other tampering by editors and publishers over the ages.

Like most of

us

in the home stretch, legacy becomes important…

That’s how I’ve come to look at these little Bimah columns. Who knows what will make the cut hundreds if not thousands of years from now? What are we writing that will end up like some future Dead Sea scrolls? I can assure you that the men who wrote those scrolls more than 2,000 years ago had no idea what an important impact they continue to have in our times. Some of those writers would feel honored, others astounded, and others still might find it absolutely hilarious. (For more on this, read Walter Miller’s “A Canticle for Leibowitz.”)

So, if by some twist of fate, archeologists find this under the rubble of the ancient ruins that were uncovered during the onset of the next Ice Age as the waters covering the Florida peninsula recede, I want them to know a bit about us from heart to heart. That’s what I mean by legacy.

Rabbi Bruce Diamond serves at Community Free Synagogue in Fort Myers

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The holiday of Purim

By Rabbi Yitzchok Minkowicz

One of the most renowned aspects of the Purim celebration is masquerading. Children, and even adults, don masks and wear costumes.

What is the source of this custom? On a very basic level, it is an expression of happiness and Purim is a day when our joy is given full expression. Its significance, however, is historically related to the Purim miracle. Why was Esther successful? Because she concealed her identity and Achashverush, the Persian king, did not know that she was Jewish until it became crucially important for him to know this.

the mystical core of Purim. Our sages tell us: Where is there an allusion to the story of Esther in the Torah? The phrase hastier astir — “I will conceal.” And indeed, G dliness is concealed throughout the story of Purim. On a superficial level, the narrative reads like a palace intrigue. One can follow the story without being aware of the working of G d’s hand. Indeed, the Megillah, the book of the Bible that records the story of Purim, does not even mention G d’s name.

sea and the miracles of the Exodus from Egypt.

How is Purim superior? Because the miracles of the Exodus broke the natural order. The ordinary pattern of day-to-day existence hinders G d’s will from being expressed. On Purim, by contrast, G d’s will was carried out even though the natural order remained unchanged.

If one had asked a bystander in Shushan if there was any way Haman, the Persian courtier who desired to destroy the Jews, would have been

Yet, that is exactly what happened. Moreover, Haman wasn’t struck down with a bolt of lightning. Instead, the very same court and king that elevated Haman to his position of prominence had him executed and the Jews saved. The natural order became supernatural, as it were. The G dliness that was concealed suffused the natural order and took control over it.

On a deeper level, the concept of concealment is intrinsically related to

One the other hand, the very name Megillah relates to the Hebrew word gilui , meaning “revelation,” and Purim is considered one of the greatest miracles, surpassing in a certain way even the splitting of the

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…Purim is considered one of the greatest miracles, surpassing in a certain way even the splitting of the sea and the miracles of the Exodus from Egypt.

This also explains why Purim is celebrated through rejoicing in a very physical way. Yes, we listen to the Megillah and add a special Purim prayer but the primary element of the observance of the holiday is feasting, simply celebrating in a physical way to the extent that our sages say that it is an obligation to become so drunk on Purim that one does not know the difference between “Cursed be Haman” and “Blessed be Mordechai.” Since the miracle permeated through to the most material levels, its commemoration also involves the body as well as the soul.

humiliated and vanquished and the Jewish people saved, he would have looked at you in disbelief. Haman was the most powerful person in the land and wore the king’s signet ring. There was no natural way that his plan to annihilate the Jews could

This celebration should not be restricted to one’s own household. We give shalach manos — presents of food — to our friends and matanos l’evyonim — gifts to the poor, so that they also should tangibly experience the joy of this holiday.

Rabbi Yitzchok Minkowicz serves at Chabad Lubavitch of Southwest Florida.

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Prayer in these times

By Rabbi Nicole Luna

In the Book of Psalms 122:7, we read, “Sha’alu Shalom Yerushalayim” — “Pray for the peace of Jerusalem, may there be peace in your ramparts, quiet in your fortress. For the sake of my kin and my friends, I pray for your peace.” Yet, praying for peace in Jerusalem, in Israel, is not so straightforward today.

I asked some Temple Beth El (TBE) congregants, what does it mean to you to pray for peace right now? And understandably, some people said, peace is not in the cards right now. Peace is a pipe dream. We pray for victory over evil, for the release of the hostages, for Israel’s survival, for victory with ethical underpinning, for the safety of the soldiers of the IDF and the United States Armed Forces, for the eradication of those who want to destroy us without losing our humanity, for all those grieving and mourning and in pain. There is no shortage of our prayers for Israel.

 Rabbi Nicole

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the angels who sing at the demise of the Egyptians. Yet, I think I too would praise God for shattering the foe if it meant alarm sirens would never again cry out in S’derot warning of approaching missiles, if young people could dance in the Negev without fear of murder and rape, if all those displaced from their kibbutzim on the border of Gaza and now living in hotels could return home and live in safety.

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So perhaps now is not the time to pray for peace. We find support for that within the Torah. Ecclesiastes tells us,

At a time when it might feel difficult to pray for peace, our tradition offers us a prayer that asks God to end the reign of the evil.

“A season is set for everything, a time for every experience under heaven. A time for slaying, a time for tearing down, a time for ripping, a time for hating, a time for war and a time for peace.” We pray for the success of the IDF as they slay Hamas fighters, tear down Hamas infrastructure, wage war to ensure the safety and survival of the Jewish people in the land of Israel.

Even more, Moses, Miriam and the Israelites call out to God after they escape Egypt, saying “Adonai Ish Milchama” — God is a man of war. They sing the words, “Horse and driver he has hurled into the sea,” “Your right hand Adonai shatters the foe,” “You break Your opponents. You send forth your fury.”

On one hand, the words seem overly bellicose and militaristic. God as a man of war? Indeed, our tradition will later imagine God rebuking and silencing

Another prayer in our liturgy offers us some direction. This is not a prayer for peace, but rather a curse for our enemies. In the Reform prayer book, Mishkan T’filah, it reads as part of the weekday T’filah, “V’larisha al t’hi Tikvah — And for wickedness, let there be no hope, and may all the errant return to You, and may the realm of wickedness be shattered.” What we pray for is not the annihilation of our enemies but that they stop trying to annihilate us. At a time when it might feel difficult to pray for peace, our tradition offers us a prayer that asks God to end the reign of the evil.

And yet, peace will always be part of our prayers. Indeed, it is unavoidable. It is unavoidable because as the Talmud tells us, God’s name is peace. If we struggle to understand what peace means now, if we struggle to articulate what we’re praying for when we pray for peace, if we struggle to pray for peace, it’s because the complexity of the divine is wrapped up in the idea. But just as God encompasses multiple understandings and relationships, so too can our prayers for peace be broad and wide enough for us to find something to connect with and relate to. Peace is so much more than a cessation of hostilities.

Peace in Hebrew, shalom , comes from the root Shin, Lamed, Mem , meaning whole, complete, full. Let us pray for the hostages to hold onto hope, return home and know the fullness of life after such trauma. Let us pray for guidance and wisdom for Israel’s officials that they lead with the whole of Israel’s interests, needs, values and ethics at heart. Let us pray for an Israel that feels whole, stable and complete in its mission given by God in the Torah to be Or La’Goyim — a light to the nations. This is shalom.

Rabbi Nicole Luna serves at Temple Beth El in Fort Myers.

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For more information or to join, contact Debbie Sanford at 239.481.4449 ext. 6 debbiesanford@jfedlcc.org

Jewish Community “Meet the Author” Event

This event will be held at Temple Judea 14486 A&W Bulb Road, Ft Myers, 33908

Wednesday, March 13th 6pm

Join this “live” zoom event where Mr Cohen will describe his journey with a Q&A. My Jesus Year is part memoir, part spiritual quest, part anthropologist’s mission. It is a humorous, personal, ultimately inspirational exploration of Evangelical Christianity by the son of an Orthodox Rabbi on his journey through America’s Bible belt.

Thank you, Temple Judea Chaverot, for hosting and providing drinks & dessert. Feel free to bring a DAIRY or PAREVE Meal RSVP to Rivkah rsk5041@comcast.net or 770-891-0101

This event is co-sponsored by: Temple Beth EL, Temple Shalom, Temple Judea, The Community Free Synagogue, and The Jewish Federation of Lee & Charlotte Counties

By Rabbi Lawrence Dermer

The beginning of the story of Purim tells how Mordechai saved the king from the two assassins, Bigtan and Teresh. We would think the king might somehow repay him for watching his back but Mordechai is not looking for a pay day. He just wants to get closer to Hashem and his Jewish soul, his neshama rejects any personal reward.

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 Rabbi Lawrence Dermer

Surprisingly, it’s Haman not Mordechai who is honored when the king appoints him to the position of head minister. Haman becomes a big shot in the kingdom and all the king’s slaves are ordered to bow before him. In other words, this has all gone straight to his head and his ego is out of control.

Out of all the people in the town of Shushan, only Mordechai has the chutzpah to refuse to bow to Haman and in doing so risks his life. The people could now see how inflated Haman’s ego had become and they could also be inspired and influenced by Mordechai’s bold and fearless actions.

There’s a distinct difference between Mordechai and Haman and herein lies the deeper meaning of Purim. Haman’s only interest is his own gain, his desire for power. He wants to rule the world and doesn’t care who he destroys in the process even if he ultimately destroys himself. Haman certainly paved the way for other megalomaniacs like Mao, Stalin and Hitler.

Mordechai on the other hand wishes only to remain loyal to Hashem, the one true king, using him as a mentor and good example of how to conduct himself. Mordechai can’t be bribed or influenced. He can stand firm while everyone else bows to Haman. He can’t

be bought at any price, and he is certain that everyone will soon see who the real king is. He leads by example with the understanding that he cannot impose his ways on others.

Haman gains control of the kingdom and decides to use the power he’s been given to execute his evil plan and destroy his main enemy, Mordechai, who represents the spark of Divine light that is within each of us, the inner spiritual strength and still small voice that allows us to stand up for what is right. This is the strength that can give us the ability to rise above any challenge.

…the story Purim demonstrates for us what we can accomplish when we hold fast to our Jewish traditions and Torah values.

Facing Amalek, those who wish to destroy us, is something we’ve dealt with throughout our history in the form of Haman, Pharoah and Hitler. Even today, we deal with Amalek in the form of nations that swear to our destruction, like Iran and terrorist groups like Hamas and Hezbollah. Each year, the story Purim demonstrates what we can accomplish when we hold fast to our Jewish traditions and Torah values. Whether in the past or in the present day, we hold the key to our own success or failure. Am Yisrael Chai!

Rabbi Lawrence Dermer serves Shalom Life Center in Fort Myers.

By Rabbi Marc Sack

While this column is not about Israel’s war in Gaza, we must keep that conflict and our support for Israel on the front burner of our community agenda. I highly recommend a guest essay in the Feb. 1 New York Times by Liat Atzili, who was held captive by Hamas for 54 days: “Choosing Rebirth Over Revenge After My Release From Gaza.” The column was uplifting, the best of the Israeli spirit.

Stephen Carter, a law professor at Yale, in his book “Civility,” tells a story from his childhood. In the early 1960s, Carter’s family moved into a new home in Washington, D. C. On moving day, the young Carter sat on the front step of the house and watched people drive by and stare. They had never had a Black family in the neighborhood. One woman got off a bus, walked by the house to her own home, then came out with a plate of cream cheese-and-jelly sandwiches and a carton of milk. Her name was Sara Kirshenbaum.

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Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World.” Dr. Murthy told the story of a young woman who moved to Dallas where she knew no one for a new job. Before Christmas, she put flyers in the doors of her neighbors inviting them to a potluck dinner on Christmas day. Surprisingly, most of her neighbors showed up. They had nowhere else to go. When Leni and I moved into the small community near Temple Judea, we noticed something we had never seen before. Everyone waved. When we walked our dog, the people in the cars driving by all waved to us, including people we did not know. It’s not that our neighbors are particularly close but everyone is friendly.

is what good neighbors are supposed to do.

More recently, Vivek Murthy, the Surgeon General of the United States, wrote the book, “Together: The Healing

Now we have a neighbor whose memory is failing. She lives with her husband who takes good care of her, but occasionally we see her outside by herself and confused. So, we all have her husband’s number programmed into our phones. We can all call him if his wife needs help. Looking out for each other is what good neighbors are supposed to do.

Years ago, I read a commentary on the Torah portion that has the Flood story. The commentary told how the different religious communities of Sarajevo came back together after the Bosnian civil war. It was a Muslim cleric who preached togetherness to his community and his fellow clergymen. He said, “I say to you that we are all in the same boat, together.” In Sarajevo, in contrast to other Bosnian cities, people of different communities shopped in the same stores, ate in the same restaurants and managed to resume friendly relations with each other.

In my neighborhood, we are not close friends, but we’ve decided that we’re all going to look out for each other. We’re all in the same boat — people who need some help from time

to time. Our sense of ‘home’ is partially connected to the house we live in and its comfort. It is partially connected to the memories we build in that house. But it is also connected to the people who live around us, to the neighbors who are friendly, or not; to the sense of welcome we get from the people we see every day.

A place feels like home when there is a thick web of relationships that link us to the people around us. It is a sense of responsibility for each other, and the acts of kindness that grow out of it, that make the world a little better for all of us.

Rabbi Marc Sack serves at Temple Judea in Fort Myers.

Giving Circle

What is a Women's Giving Circle?

The Women's Giving Circle empowers women as funders, decision makers and agents of change. Members contribute $360 and have an equal vote where funds are distributed.

A chance to make an impact on the lives of women and children in Israel & Overseas

Decide collectively where funds will be dispersed

Achieve greater impact as a circle

Meet new people & enjoy the company of other like-minded women of all ages in our community

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It’s Adar, be happy!

By Rabbi Sunny Schnitzer

This month, we celebrate Purim, a holiday filled with costumes and sweets, bad jokes, laughter and a bit of drinking. It seems an almost frivolous holiday, the Jewish Halloween. But Purim is not a frivolous thing. It is not a holiday that one should ignore as having significance only for children.

 Rabbi Sunny Schnitzer

Purim is viewed by the Jewish mystics, the Kabbalists, as the most hidden of days. Hidden because God’s nearness is not as obvious to us on this day as compared to Yom Kippur or Passover when we celebrate God’s direct intervention on behalf of the Jewish people. In fact, God is never even mentioned in the Book of Esther.

So, with this idea that God is not present and no one is looking, the tradition teaches that on Purim we get a little shikker, a little drunk.

We are told in the Talmud by the rabbi known as Rava, that one should consume so much Purim “spice” (the word for wine or whiskey is actually never mentioned) that one cannot tell the difference between the words “blessed be Mordechai” and “cursed be Haman.” We will be so high that we will not know the difference between good and evil. And herein lies the secret of Purim.

I was taught that the Hebrew words for blessed be Mordechai (Baruch Mordechai) and cursed be Haman ( Arrur Haman ) have the same numerical value of 502. So, this gematria (the art of turning letters into numbers and then finding other phrases in the Torah or elsewhere that have the same value to ascertain hidden meanings in the text) is hinting to us that good and evil are not so very different.

The words themselves indicate that good, represented by Mordechai, and evil, represented by Haman, have an implicit relationship. The essential message is that good and evil are two sides of the same coin. This is not to say that good is really evil or evil really good. Rather, each contains the potential for the other. Perhaps this is why there is no devil in Judaism. There is no opposite, opposing force to God. The potential for good and evil is within each of us, and us alone.

It has been said that when enough beings on this planet achieve this understanding of the nature of evil, we will achieve Messiah consciousness. We will no longer wait for a person or a manifestation of God to bring us to a better day, we will do it ourselves. We will enter a new era of awareness.

Rabbi Sunny Schnitzer serves Bat Yam Temple of the Islands.

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TEMPLE JUDEA PRESCHOOL

Fort Myers

Suki Kelly, Preschool Director

February was a busy month for Temple Judea Preschool. We had another successful fundraising event at the Plantation Golf and Country Club. It was a wonderful time celebrating the school with our wonderful families and staff. We look forward to updating our playground soon. If you are interested in sponsoring playground equipment, please contact Suki Kelly at the preschool.

Temple Judea Preschool is blessed to have such an amazing Parent Board that helps our events come alive. I am grateful for the dedication and hard work they put into our school!

In February, our Pre-K class started its Teaching Time program, where the children teach their peers a skill or about a specific topic. The children had a wonderful time, and we all learned a lot! This is a wonderful program that lets our Pre-K students get used to public speaking. As adults, many of us struggle with standing in front of our peers to speak. We encourage our children to do this by offering various activities and programs that promote public speaking. We love watching the children progress, becoming more comfortable throughout the year.

March will be a wonderful month for TJP. We are starting the month with one of our favorite themes, Dr. Seuss week. The children will have fun dressing

up throughout the week and reading many of our beloved Dr. Seuss books. We are also excited to celebrate Purim! Our children will make masks and various instruments to march throughout the school and eat delicious treats to celebrate.

We are getting ready for reenrollment for current students and will offer enrollment opportunities for future TJP students as well. If you are interested in joining our preschool in August 2024, please reach out to us to set up a tour. Spots are filling up quickly.

Special thanks to our amazing TJP parents who came to volunteer their time and effort to paint our Pre-K building. We are so excited that we are another step closer to having our building back!

TEMPLE BETH EL RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

Fort Myers

This is the time of year when it gets busier as we enter into many fun holidays and lessons coming up. Our religious school students are starting to get excited for Purim, Passover, Tu Bi’shvat, and more.

The tot shabbat program every month is growing tremendously and is so full of life with so many little ones and their families joining. It has been so exciting to see a big handful of our tot shabbat families join us for our Mazel Tots program that we have on Sunday mornings. Jennifer has been amazing at creating projects for the little ones, reading stories, singing songs with them and welcoming all these families to Temple Beth El. Be on the lookout for our next upcoming session of Mazel Tots.

Rabbi Luna and her confirmation students have focused on disability in the Jewish tradition. February was Jewish Disability Awareness, Acceptance and Inclusion month. At the end of the month, they visited the LARC Cape Coral group home for adults with developmental disabilities. They have been visiting the home for the past seven years and it has become very meaningful for our confirmation students to meet new people and help others.

Morah Brianna and her class have been working on the lesson Bal Tashchit, which is the Jewish value of not being wasteful or destructive. The students used recycled shoe boxes to create tzedakah boxes. The craft ties in with not being wasteful because we want to limit the amount of trash we have on Earth. This teaches the children that we can repurpose things that no longer work for their original purpose so they don’t turn into trash. This continued their conversation about charity and treating the planet and its people with kindness and compassion. The kids quickly tied this all to Noah’s Ark which led them to watch a story called “The Chameleon Saved Noah’s Ark.” The students are truly remarkable in how they process these lessons and remember other lessons they have

already learned and how they all interact with each other.

Morah Lindsay’s class learned about Shalom Bayit, which is the Jewish value of peace in the home. Shalom Bayit emphasizes the importance of working together as a family to make the home a nurturing, harmonious environment despite whatever chaos, stress or conflict may challenge the peace. The children are continuously learning their aleph-bet each week, saying their blessings and feeling the importance of being together as a Jewish community.

Moreh Sam’s class has been focusing on the concept of Achrayut, which means responsibility or accountability, implies action and not simply feeling. The kids talked about the responsibilities of keeping the planet clean, healthy and green. They talked about Honi, the circle man who prayed for rain for the Jews. All the students made family trees that tied into the responsibility they have for their families. They included things that they love about their families on their family trees.

At the end of the month, we had a great parent meeting to discuss and plan for our joint Purim Carnival. This year, Temple Beth El will host the Purim Carnival that will be cosponsored with Temple Judea and PJ Library. It is going to be a fun-filled morning with games, crafts, food and other exciting things. It will be open to the community and information will be on the Temple Beth El website for registration. Make sure that you go

to templebethel.com to find all the information about this exciting event. You can come in Purim costumes or just regular clothes. It is being held on Sunday, March 10 from 10 a.m. to noon.

Along with the parent meeting, our Membership Committee held a Parent Appreciation Brunch for all our Religious School parents. It was a wonderful morning during which we all got to be together and chat.

If you are interested in our upcoming events or in joining our religious school, please feel free to contact Allison Fego at religiousschool@templebethel.com or call the office. Our school is continuously growing and if you or someone you know would be interested in joining as an educator, please let us know.

Students paint rocks at Mitzvah Day

Noah Schiff, Josh Fego and Mason Benedon fill food bags with the Gladiolus Food Pantry

Morah Lindsay's class puts painted rocks in our garden

Abby Schiff, Elia O'grady, Eli Davis, Morah Lindsay Davis and Dani Weiner make bracelets at Mitzvah Day

Jacoby Litvak helps on Mitzvah Day

Mazel Tots

Allison Fego, Religious School Coordinator

Joshua Fego wrote a beautiful note to the IDF soldiers.

TEMPLE JUDEA RELIGIOUS SCHOOL

Fort Myers

Abbie Grossman, Religious School Coordinator

Stepping into 2024, Temple Judea Religious School has witnessed some standout moments that truly capture the essence of community and growth. Recent events like Tu B’Shvat and Religious School Shabbat showcased our commitment to building connections and fostering the development of our students.

For Tu B’Shvat, the New Year for Trees, we celebrated with a traditional approach by planting a tree on our temple grounds. This living symbol isn’t just about nature, it’s a nod to our green efforts and the idea that it will be around as our kids grow up. It’s a tangible reminder of the sustainability values we want our youngest crew to carry forward.

Now, let’s delve into the Religious School Shabbat — a real standout. Our students didn’t just participate in the service; they owned it. Taking charge with confidence, they led the prayers and filled the sanctuary with

their voices. They clearly experienced a strong sense of pride and accomplishment. It was a moment that left everyone in awe as our kids truly excelled.

Looking ahead, mark your calendars for the Purim Carnival on March 10 at Temple Beth El. It’s shaping up to be a day packed with fun, laughs and a good dose of community vibes. As we gear up for this shindig, it reminds us how traditions bring us together and make our community the amazing place it is.

For further details on upcoming events or to explore active involvement in our programs, kindly contact Abbie Grossman at 239-770-4546 or tjswfledu@gmail.com. Let us continue to cultivate growth, harmony and a sense of belonging within the embracing arms of Temple Judea Religious School. Together, we sow the seeds of a flourishing community, rooted in shared values and blooming with the unique contributions of each member.

BBYO

Naples/Fort Myers

Cayla Schreier, BBYO Southwest Coordinator

Updates from BBYO Naples and Fort Myers

By Cayla Schreier, BBYO Southwest Coordinator

Naples BBYO started off the new year, 2024, strong. On Sunday, Jan. 7, our Naples BBYO Chapter board held its first meeting at First Watch. The board members discussed goals for their upcoming term. They had a nice time catching up with one another and were excited to plan future events.

On Sunday, Jan. 21, our teens participated in Temple Shalom’s Mitzvah Day. We met up for a delicious breakfast at 8:30 a.m., which the Temple Shalom Men’s Club was generous enough to sponsor. Temple Shalom congregants, along with the teens, participated in numerous mitzvahs, such as: “Welcome Home” sign making for Habitat for Humanity, dog biscuit making, jewelry making and Meals of Hope. Our teens over the age of 16 donated blood for the blood drive. Thank you to Bobbie Katz, the Men’s Club and Temple Shalom for organizing this wonderful day of mitzvahs. Our teens planned three events for February. A Cookie Decorating Orientation was planned to serve as a kickoff

for our Naples teens to introduce prospects to their local BBYO chapters and to engage their current members. This program allowed current members and prospects to get to know one another, decorating some delicious sugar cookies in the process.

The Mishpacha B’nai B’rith girls planned a Galentine’s Day Party, which consisted of chocolate desserts, a romantic comedy and making felt tied pillows. The Negev AZA boys planned a Pre-Superbowl Game party, where they ate snacks, watched highlights from the 2023-2024 Football season, played Spikeball, foosball, pingpong, corn hole and set up Superbowl Squares for the Kansas City Chiefs and San Fransisco 49ers.

As of this writing, three of our teens plan to attend BBYO’s International Convention in Orlando. Please keep an eye out for more details about upcoming events.

What is BBYO?

BBYO is a diverse and inclusive Jewish youth group to encourage Jewish teens

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is available through TOP Jewish Foundation of Lee & Charlotte Counties and may be used for travel to Israel to participate in programs that are volunteer or educational in nature.

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is proud to offer the Stevan & Marilyn Simon Family Scholarship. This scholarship is open to those at least high school age who demonstrate leadership qualities and will be participating in a 2week or longer program in Israel. A short essay is required.

to become more immersed and interested in meaningful Jewish activities and programs. This organization accepts Jewish teens attending 8th through 12th grades of all backgrounds, sexual orientations, gender, race, denominational affiliation or socioeconomic status. BBYO currently reaches over 70,000 teens worldwide, with participants in over 60 countries and hundreds of chapters across the United States.

Supporting our Teenage Jewish community

It is crucial to engage teens post-B’nai Mitzvah age in Jewish activities. Having teens get involved in BBYO and be eager to create and confidently continue their own Jewish community within their greater Jewish communities is critical to our future.

The BBYO chapter of Naples has entered its 11th year of partnership with Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, Temple Shalom, Chabad of Naples and Beth Tikvah. Each organization provides

financial support, volunteers and community involvement opportunities for the BBYO teens. We thank each and every one of our BBYO alum, friends and other supporters for making this a safe and positive environment for the teens of BBYO Naples and Fort Myers.

If you know of someone who has a teen who might like to join BBYO Naples or Fort Myers or know of someone who may want to be an advisor to our chapters, please email me at cschreier@bbyo.org. You can also follow us on Instagram at Mishpacha_BBG and Negevaza.

Scholarships to attend BBYO conventions and summer programs are available through both Jewish Federation of Greater Naples and the Temple Shalom Men’s Club. Please contact me for more information on scholarships. If you are a BBYO alum and would like to be included in our Friends and Alumni of BBYO mailing list, please email us at mjs0821@aol.com.

TEMPLE JUDEA

Fort Myers

(239) 433-0201 • www.tjswfl.org

Join us at Temple Judea for a busy, joyous month of March.

Save the date! Saturday, April 6 will be a special Shabbat to recognize and thank Rabbi Marc and Leni Sack for their 11 years at Temple Judea. RSVPs are required no later than March 29 so we can prepare for the kiddush luncheon. On Sunday, April 7 from 5 to 8 p.m. at Gulf Harbor Yacht Club, we will celebrate Rabbi Marc and Leni Sack. Tickets purchased by March 15 are $75 per person; March 16 to March 29, they are $95. To RSVP and for information on sponsorship and tributes, contact the office at 239-433-0201.

Rabbi Marc Sack’s introduction to Judaism class continues. This class is a must for anyone interested in conversion to Judaism but is open to all who have an interest in learning. Please call the office with questions.

Wednesday, March 6 at 7 p.m., Interfaith Study and Discussion at Temple Judea:

“How is God Active in the World Today?” with Cypress Lake United Methodist Church, Thomas A. Edison Congregational Church and Temple Beth El.

Purim festivities

Reading of the Megillah Saturday, March 23 at 6:30 p.m.

Members, please pick up your Purim Shalach Manot bags in the social hall beginning March 19 at 10 a.m. Lists of those sending greetings can be pulled alphabetically by last name in the accordion folders.

Temple Judea Religious School continues Sundays 9:30 a.m.-noon and Tuesdays

4:30-6 p.m. Tot Shabbat will be Friday, March 8 at 3:30 p.m., with music

SHALOM LIFE CENTER

Fort Myers

(239) 218-3433 • www.shalomlifecenter.org

Shalom Life Center (SLC) is Southwest Florida’s premier warm and welcoming home for contemporary Jewish life with a passionate commitment to Israel, community and spiritual growth where everyone is always welcome to be a part of a spiritual community. We are a warm and welcoming Shalom Life Center family!

Every Saturday morning at 10 a.m., SLC offers an interactive and participatory Torah study led by Rabbi Lawrence Dermer with a focus on the relevance of our timeless traditions and bringing the ancient wisdom of Torah into our daily lives.

SLC offers individualized learning and spiritual guidance including bar/bat mitzvah preparation as well as special needs bar/bat mitzvah preparation. SLC

also offers Pop Up Shabbat experiences that are open to the whole community as well as weekly Torah study, Café Kabbalah, Book Club, and so much more. If you’d like to learn more, please send us an email or give us a call.

SLC also offers many other opportunities to enhance your Jewish life and learning as well as further your involvement in community service while making friends in a warm and welcoming Jewish spiritual community without the commitment of membership dues.

Let your spirit soar at Shalom Life Center where community is family and prayer is always inspirational, meaningful and musical.

For more information, visit www. shalomlifecenter.org.

High School Students: Earn CAS Credits!

The Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties is interested in hearing from teenagers in high school who might like to earn CAS credits though various work in the Jewish community. If you are interested, please send the following information to debbiesanford@jfedlcc.org:

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and Shabbat stories with Morah Abbie, including challah and juice.

Hazak continues its meet and lunch at Lakes Park on Thursday, March 21.

Contact Fran Chernow at francesca 10@gmail.com or 607-423-1078 for details and other events.

Chaverot will make hamantaschen on Sunday, March 10 at 1:30 p.m. Availability is limited; RSVP to Rivkah Katz at rsk5041@comcast.net.

On March 13, Chaverot will host Jewish Community Book Club at 6 p.m. The book is “My Jesus Year, A Rabbi’s Son Wanders the Bible Belt in Search of His Own Faith” by Benyamin Cohen, a humorous, personal exploration of his visits to Southern churches and how it helped him find his Jewish faith. Benyamin Cohen will join us via Zoom! Please bring a pareve or dairy meal for yourself. We will supply drinks and dessert. This is open to the entire community. Please RSVP to Rivkah Katz at rsk5041@comcast.net. Chaverot continues to look for ideas for events of all kinds, please email Rivkah Katz at rsk5041@comcast.net with suggestions.

Temple Judea continues to accept food donations to the Cadkin Foundation Food Pantry at Jewish Federation. There are collection envelopes

near the front door for contactless monetary or gift contributions. Contributions may be mailed. Please call the office to ensure your contribution has been received.

Temple Judea is conducting in-person services with an online Zoom option. Synagogue members may use the Zoom ID and password as published in our weekly megillah. Non-local residents may contact the synagogue for information.

Regularly scheduled events

• Friday evening Shabbat services, preceded by wine and cheese at 6:15 p.m., services at 6:30 p.m.

• Saturday morning Shabbat services at 9:30 a.m. Kiddush luncheons served every Shabbat. To sponsor, contact JoAnn Lewin.

• Morning minyan every Monday at 9 a.m., followed by breakfast and Jewish current events with Rabbi Sack at First Watch, 13211 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers.

• Every Monday, Temple President Jan Klein will be at Temple Judea from 11:30 a.m. to 3 p.m. to meet, listen to and discuss ideas, suggestions and concerns.

We would love to see you in person or on Zoom.

CHABAD LUBAVITCH OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA

Fort Myers

(239) 433-7708 • www.Chabadswf.org

Please feel free to join Chabad Lubavitch of Southwest Florida for these March 2024 programs:

Prayer services

• Friday Nights: March 1 & 8 at 6 p.m.; March 15, 22 & 29 at 7 p.m.

• Saturday Morning 10 a.m.

• Saturday Evenings: March 2 & 9 at 6 p.m.; March 16, 23 & 30 at 7 p.m.

Educational classes

• Saturday Morning Kabbalah Class 9 a.m.

• Saturday Kiddush & Farbrengen 12:15 p.m.

• Online Classes: https://www.you tube.com/@Rabbiminkowicz

Purim celebrations

• Fast of Esther: Thursday, March 21 – fast begins at 6:18 a.m. and ends at 8:04 p.m.

• Purim Megilah Reading & Party: Saturday, March 23 at 9 p.m.

• Sunday March 24: Schacharit prayers at 8:30 a.m.; Megilah reading at 9 a.m.

Happy Purim!

MTEMPLE BETH EL

Fort Myers

(239) 433-0018 • www.templebethel.com

itzvah Day, Jan. 28, was tremendously successful with 155 attendees of all ages donating supplies and volunteering to fulfill a variety of meaningful community projects.

Then, in February, Temple Beth El made incredible memories during its TBE cruise, with Rabbi Karaoke, services on deck, members schmoozing and relaxing. The bus ride to/from the cruise was a trip in itself!

“And the Living Is Easy,” the final musicology presentation cosponsored by Sisterhood and Men’s Club, is Sunday, March 3 at 1 p.m. Enjoy a delicious deli lunch prior to Dr. Tom Cimarusti’s lecture/recital on beloved composer/ musician George Gershwin. Questions? Email mensclub@templebethel.com.

On March 6 at 6 p.m., an Interfaith event will be sponsored by TBE, Temple Judea, Thomas Edison Congregational Church and Cypress Lake United Methodist Church. Let’s stand together with other faiths — held at Temple Judea. On March 8, we will have a 5:30 p.m. Community Dinner with early Shabbat Service at 6:30 p.m. Please note the time change.

Our brand-new Mazel Tots program, Sunday school for the little ones, continues in March on Sundays at 10 a.m. On March 11, Gerald Ziedenberg concludes his 7-part captivating history series: “Modern Jewish History.” This is on Zoom at 7:30 p.m. Thank you, Gerry!

Sisterhood’s March event, “Designer Handbag Bingo,” is on March 17. If you have never attended, it’s an afternoon of fun, food, handbags and, don’t forget, door prizes. This begins at 1 p.m. and has an entrance fee. You can also register online. The very next day, March 18 at 12:30 p.m., is our next Ladies who Lunch. Can March top February’s Valentine’s theme? It just gets better and better. Remember, Sisterhood or Temple membership is not required. Please RSVP. Email questions to sisterhood@templebethel.com.

Men’s Club will be at JetBlue Stadium on Sunday, March 24 from 1 to 4 p.m. These are “best seat” tickets — behind home plate, covered seats and includes free parking! The Temple has a block of 75 seats; please register today! Men’s Club’s motto: We have fun!

On Sunday, March 31 at 9 a.m., a representative from the Anti-defamation League (ADL) will make a presentation. The ADL helps fight antisemitism, extremism and bias. Learn more about this important organization over

breakfast sponsored by the Men’s Club. Registration is required.

Have a nice voice? Love to sing? Our choir has openings. Please email your interest and contact information to info@templebethel.com.

Temple Beth El’s vibrant Israel Committee meets the first Wednesday of every month at 7 p.m. on Zoom. We have a commitment to the Lone Soldier program and the committee works to educate congregants about Israel and to counter disinformation in the news.

Do you knit? We are knitting caps for IDF soldiers. If you would like to participate, please contact the office at 239-4330018. This will be an ongoing activity.

Recurring Temple Beth El programs

• Nonperishable collections in the lobby shopping cart whenever the Temple is open

• Torah Study led by Rabbi Luna, no prior study experience is required, Saturday mornings, 9 a.m. on Zoom

• Book Club: March 6, 2:45 p.m. on Zoom, “We are the Lucky Ones” by Georgia Hunter and April 3, “Signal Fires” by Dani Shapiro

• Tot Shabbat, a kid-friendly service, is March 1 and April 5 at 6 p.m. Bring your kids, bring your grandkids… Come for the fellowship, the fun and the pizza. Please RSVP at 239-433-0018.

• History & Heritage of Our People is the third Tuesday of the month, 7 p.m. on Zoom.

• Shabbat services: Fridays at 7:30 p.m. live in the sanctuary, on Zoom and on Facebook

• 12-Step Recovery Group: 11 a.m. Saturdays on Zoom. We are seeking a path to recovery via Judaic spiritual principles and the Twelve Steps, using the book “Twelve Jewish Steps to Recovery” by Olitzky and Copans, second edition.

There’s always something happening here at TBE, and our members make it happen: Current Events, Coffee & Chat, Theology & Life, Francophone & Hispanophone groups, Environmental Group, Solo Travelers, Caring Visitors. Follow us on Facebook and/or Instagram: @TempleBethElofFortMyers. You can always contact the office at 239-433-0018. Let’s pray for peace around the world.

Temple Beth El … where everyone matters.

COMMUNITY FREE SYNAGOGUE

Fort Myers

(239) 247-4556 • www.fortmyerssynagogue.com

Heartfelt condolences are extended to the friends of Roberta (Bobbie) Weinberg who was laid to rest in February. A unique and remarkable woman, Weinberg studied architecture and went on to become highly proficient in computer technology, working for the Canadian Space Agency at the John H. Chapman Space Centre, Longueuil, Quebec.

We will celebrate Purim Eve, Saturday, March 23, with the traditional megillah reading. Once again, we will play bingo between the chapters, commemorating the lots the Haman cast in the story. It’s free with great prizes, and we’ll be

taking a collection to send to our sister congregation Ahavat Yisrael in Itonko, Uganda. Those in costume will get an extra bingo card. Bring wine if you wish to observe the “ad dlo yahda” tradition.

The Rabbi and Mrs. Diamond will bake hamantaschen and bizcochos (Sephardic Purim cookies) on Thursday evening, March 21 at home. If you’d like to help, email synfree@comcast.net.

This year, the two Community Free sedarim will be held at the synagogue’s home on the Unity campus. Seating will be limited to 70 persons each night and by reservation only. Invitation letters will be mailed out 30 days before Passover.

BAT YAM TEMPLE OF THE ISLANDS Sanibel

(773) 251-8862

• www.batyam.org

News and events are continuing apace at Bat Yam Temple of the Islands. The “Shabbat Bus” from Shell Point has regular riders who appreciate the ease of transportation. They arrive in good time for the service and are back on the bus after enjoying the Oneg Shabbat. Our congregation is growing, and we are pleased to welcome new faces weekly. One of our newbies has already

before March 31, 2024,

joined the Board. Allison Goldberg fills the vacancy created by Gary Weiss.

The Caring Committee created a “Meal Train” for both Rabbi Sunny Schnitzer and Vickie Fuchs after their surgeries. We wish them both a continued and complete recovery. They have both expressed gratitude for the meals cooked and brought to them by congregants.

Bat Yam Temple of the Islands started a new tradition of celebrating

If we do not have your address and you wish to receive an invitation, please email it to the synagogue or mail it to The Community Free Synagogue, 7210 Falcon Crest Court, Fort Myers, FL 33908. Be sure we get it before March 15. The seder suppers are free and open to all with confirmed reservations.

The Community Free Synagogue meets on the Unity Campus, 11120 Ranchette Road in South Fort Myers. Shabbat Eve begins each week at 6:30 p.m. with a Shabbat meal followed by worship at 7:30 p.m. with a social hour at its conclusion. If you plan to attend dinner, consider bringing a nondairy dish, side dish, salad, a bottle of wine or dessert. The rabbi makes the hallah each week and Coordinator Natalie Fulton prepares the soup. There is no charge for the meal, but we do collect a tip for Lucy who sets and cleans up for us. Please keep in mind the influx of several wonderful

birthdays and anniversaries during the first Shabbat of each month. The recipients will be given the honor of a group Aliyot and a special blessing from Rabbi Schnitzer.

Calendar of Events for March

Services led by Rabbi Sunny Schnitzer

• Friday, March 1, 8, 15, 22, 29, 7 p.m., Shabbat Service, including birthday and anniversary celebrations

• Saturday, March 2, 9, 16, 23, 30, 10:30 a.m., Torah Study in Friendship Hall and Zoom

• Monday, March 4, 10 a.m. talk, “Jews and Hollywood,” at Shell Point by Rabbi Schnitzer

new participants when you prepare for our qabbalat shabbat meal.

Our worship generally follows a traditional format; however, the Torah is often read and the rabbi gives a short talk each week. The service is highly participatory, egalitarian and in keeping with the positive, joyous spirit of the shabbat.

The rabbi teaches Torah via Zoom every shabbat morning starting at 9:30 a.m. Logon information is on the synagogue’s website, www.fortmyerssynagogue.com. If you do not operate a computer, the rabbi will arrange to have you join him at his home as he teaches and leads the Torah discussion.

Everything is always free and memberships are not for sale. There are no fundraising solicitations. The synagogue is an “intentional community” designed to create a peaceful, stable and harmonious setting for our prayer and study under the rabbi’s guidance.

• Wednesday, March 6, 12:30-2 p.m., Adult Education led by Rabbi Schnitzer

• Friday, March 15, 7 p.m., “Annual Pulpit Swap with SCUCC.” Services led by Rabbi Schnitzer and the Rev. Dr. Boyea

• Sunday, March 17, 9:30 a.m.-noon, SCUCC church service led by the Rev. Dr. Boyea and Rabbi Schnitzer in Annual Pulpit Swap, after which there will be a brunch and a program on solar

• Thursday, March 21, 4-5:30 p.m., Bat Yam Board of Trustees meeting. Congregants are welcome as observers.

• Saturday, March 23, 5-8 p.m., Bat Yam Purim holiday event

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Fellowship of Peace

By Cheryl Fulmer, Ellen Feingold and Marcia Rudin

The Jewish people will welcome the marvelous holiday of Purim this year, beginning Saturday evening, March 23 and ending at sundown Sunday, March 24. Besides all the merriment associated with reading the Book of Esther and drowning out the name of Haman (curiously so similar to Hamas), the story itself has relevant underpinnings to our own today.

This year, we will surely recognize Queen Esther’s bravery and valor to be even more compelling because of the rampant antisemitism in many countries of today that has openly flourished ever since the heinous crimes against our Israeli brethren on

Oct. 7. We will ask ourselves whether we would have had the courage Esther had to confront the King of Persia so long ago. (Scholars speculate that the events commemorated by Purim happened in the 5th century B.C.E.)

Are we prepared to stand up for Judaism in today’s world? Are we able to deliver a convincing argument against the antisemites? It is one of the many wonders of Jewish culture that events that happened to us twoand one-half millennia ago can be so relevant to today’s issues.

And so, we at Chavurat Shalom continue to celebrate our Jewish history, culture and community. We continue our

Shabbat services led by volunteers every Friday evening throughout the year at 7:30 p.m. Beginning in May, we will hold our informal Zoom “Schmooze” on Tuesday evenings at 7:30 p.m. twice a month instead of just once a month.

February was, as always, a busy month for us: Dr. Ellen Feingold led our monthly “Torah Talk;” on the other three Saturday mornings, members led the Len Minsky Current Events discussions; Marcia Rudin hosted an informal “Schmooze” session via Zoom; in the “Ask the Doctors” program, physicians Mark Peppercorn, Marge Peppercorn, Hy Kempler, Sheila Kempler, Don Bachman, Karen Back and Ellen Feingold answered members’ medical questions; and guest speaker Jonathan Engler spoke on “My Voyage to a Personal Understanding of the ‘Other’ – Israel, Israeli’s Sephardic Majority and How I Feel this is Essential to Understanding What is Happening in the Country Today.”

March schedule of events

• Friday, March 1, 7:30 p.m. – Shabbat service conducted by volunteers

• Saturday, March 2, 10 a.m. –“Torah Talk” with Ellen Feingold

• Tuesday, March 5, 7:30 p.m. –Informal “Schmooze” hosted by Marcia Rudin

• Friday, March 8, 7:30 p.m. – Shabbat service conducted by volunteers

• Saturday, March 9, 10 a.m. – Len Minsky Current Events

• Tuesday, March 12, 7:30 p.m.

– “What You Might Want to Know About Unitarian-Universalism” with Reverend Margaret L. Beard

• Friday, March 15, 7:30 p.m. – Shabbat service conducted by volunteers

• Saturday, March 16, 10 a.m.

– Len Minsky Current Events

• Tuesday, March 19, 7:30 p.m. –Chavurat Shalom Board Meeting – all are invited

• Sunday, March 24, Time TBD –Purim party

• Tuesday, March 26, 7:30 p.m. –The Real Fight for Academic Freedom with Jennifer Mittelstadt

• Friday, March 29, 7:30 p.m.

– Shabbat service conducted by volunteers

• Saturday, March 30, 10 a.m. –Len Minsky Current Events

All Chavurat Shalom activities, except for the Purim party, will be held over Zoom until further notice. All times are Eastern Standard (Florida) Time. Everyone is welcome to attend. If you want to get more information about these events and to obtain a Zoom link, send an email request to chavuratshalom@gmail.com.

Responding to the continuing Israel/Hamas war, Chavurat Shalom’s Tzedakah Committee will continue to direct available Tzedakah funds where needed. We thank those of you who answered our request for funds to be allocated by the Tzedakah Committee to help Israelis harmed by the invasion of Israel by Hamas on Oct. 7. Chavurat Shalom (Fellowship of Peace) is an informal group from every Jewish religious tradition that meets to worship and learn together. We welcome people of all faiths from Sanibel, Fort Myers, other Southwest Florida locations and from all over the country. We are not affiliated with any Jewish organized movement. Our group is community-led. Each person has an equal voice in it and may participate to whatever extent desired.

One person can make a difference

Thank you, Henrietta Szold

By Janett Edelberg, President’s Council for Collier/Lee Chapter

In March, Collier/Lee Hadassah celebrates the 112th anniversary of Hadassah’s founding. We proudly honor the person who created an organization of depth and meaning that has become the largest Jewish women’s organization in the U.S., with 300,000 members in all 50 states.

At Purim in 1912, Hadassah, the Zionist Women’s Organization of America, was born in Baltimore. Two years later, Henrietta Szold sent two nurses to the Holy Land to provide desperately needed health care. Over the years, Hadassah has built the foundation of Israel’s modern-day health-care system. Today, Hadassah’s two hospitals, Mt. Scopus and Ein Kerem in Jerusalem, are world-renowned medical research and health-care providers. Newsweek named Hadassah Hospital at Ein Kerem one of the world’s best “smart hospitals.” They have 1,300 beds, 31 operating rooms and treat 1 million patients annually regardless of race, religion or nationality.

Hadassah’s commitment to improving children’s lives started during WWII (1933) when Henrietta Szold founded Youth Aliyah. Hadassah estab lished three Youth Aliyah Villages in Israel to support, educate and care for 30,000 displaced children from around the world. Many displaced Ukrainian children have found a home in one of Hadassah’s villages today.

Hadassah International was founded in 1983 to enhance the image of Israel through the work of the Hadassah Medical Organization. Hadassah Inter national now spans five continents with over 50 medical research part ners worldwide. Hadassah Interna tional showcases the philosophy that advancement and cooperation in med icine transcend politics, religion and national boundaries.

this generation to serve as mentors for the next, to help nurture and grow future leaders to make Hadassah stron ger. Our mission continues to evolve and pivot to face current challenges and the ones that lie ahead. Hadassah is committed to being a welcoming, diverse place for all generations.

Please join us

to support Hadassah Collier/Lee Hadassah is a vibrant chap ter with programming to educate you about Hadassah’s mission, vision and values, entertain you with delightful performances, feed you with delicious food and introduce to you a group of women with a wide variety of interests.

events. For more details and to regis ter (advance registration is required), please contact CollierLeeHadassah@

All of this comes from one woman with a vision, dedication and a dream!

Looking forward

More than 100 years later, Collier/Lee Hadassah is proud to advance Henrietta Szold’s legacy. We continue to build a strong community in the U.S. and Israel. Hadassah looks to the future by empowering members, both women

Organization, “Hadassah Firsts,” a presentation by Dr. Karen Ezrine, who will touch on areas that make Hadas sah among the leading medical centers in the world

• April 3: Hadassah Associates Recognition Event, where we will honor the contributions of our male members

Janett Edelberg

RSVP

March 18, 2024

JEWISH WAR VETERANS — Victor Paul Tuchman Post 400 (239) 246-3151

IDF special forces reservist describes terror attacks to Temple Judea audience

By Michael Hirsh, Jewish War Veterans Post 400

More than 100 Temple Judea and JFED members, as well as a contingent from Jewish War Veterans Post 400, gathered Sunday morning, Jan. 28 to hear Logan “Aleph” (a pseudonym), a former member of the elite special forces Israel Defense Forces unit upon which the acclaimed television series “Fauda” was based, describe how reservists such as himself boarded airliners in Miami as soon as they received word of the Oct. 7 attacks.

weapons and ammunition before confronting the enemy. (Israeli reserve units are notoriously short of weapons and personal protective equipment, leading them to try to raise money to buy the needed items.)

By the evening of Oct. 9, “Aleph” was with a special forces police unit, “kicking down doors and arresting suspected terrorists living in Israel and the West Bank.” Their operating principle is “be bold, take initiative in time of uncertainty.” He personally knew 18 people killed in the attacks.

“Aleph” graduated with an engineering degree from Brandeis University in 2006 and expected to be commissioned in the U.S. Army after four years of ROTC, only to learn he’d been rejected because of childhood asthma. His response? Make aliyah and join the IDF. He moved up through the ranks, fighting in the second Lebanon war in 2006 and the first Gaza war in 2008. His current assignment is with the Inbar reserve unit, a part of the border guard force consisting of undercover fighters from the Israeli Special Forces. He lives in the U.S. with his wife and young daughter and is a mechanical engineer.

He told the audience that when the call-up happened, “More than 300% of the expected reservists showed up. But they had no guns, no vests.” The inventive soldiers began raiding kibbutz armories — breaking in and taking

“This attack was an attempted Holocaust,” he said, quoting Hamas spokesmen who publicly promised to “bring annihilation to the Jews,” and vowing to “attack every Jew in the world.” Asked about the attack on Oct. 7, “Aleph” said, “The reason was that our enemy saw us as weak. We had three years without a government.”

In closing, he challenged the audience to get involved, urging Jews of all denominations to support Israel. If you’re interested in contributing to his unit, please contact Itzik Cohen, deputy unit commander of Inbar, at vtrzik.c@gmail.com.

Jewish War Veterans Post 400 invites Jewish U.S. veterans of recent wars to be a part of our group. Veterans need other veterans. Contact Post Commander Harvey Charter at hbcharter@ aol.com.

Members (and a spouse) of the Fort Myers Jewish War Veterans post chat with IDF Special Forces reservist Logan “Aleph” (right) prior to his presentation at Temple Judea.

JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA (239) 566-1771

Reflection times

By Marina Berkovich, JHSSWF President

DMarina Berkovich JHSSWF President

uring the Q&A after my January’s presentation “The Jewish Confederates,” someone asked, “Why are you covering the Confederates?” In all honesty, I felt like impulsively responding, “Why do you all like living in the South ’cause it’s still nice, but want to eradicate any reference to Confederacy?” A few nights before, a gentleman to whom I mentioned my presentation already berated me for it, calling the Confederate Jews traitors and lowlifes. He was not ready for a civil conversation, but I later learned that he spent half the night researching and reading. So, I replied to the question, “So that you would be informed. It’s kind of like knowing facts about Israel so you can refute the uninformed.”

On March 4, 1845, when Florida was admitted into U.S. statehood,

its very first Senator was David Levy Yulee, a Jewish man, who suffered the burdens of institutionalized antisemitism in U.S. politics for the entirety of his political career. He was pro-slavery. His father, Moses Levy, formerly a slaveowner and slave-trader, became a significant figure in the antislavery movement later in life and influenced attitudes in Europe not only vis-à-vis slavery, but Jews, becoming the first Jewish speaker in private society circles of England.

People change over the course of their lives. Haven’t you? Historical figures do and with much more visible and lasting effects than ordinary folk. Haven’t we all changed since the Oct. 7 massacre? How about since Russia’s invasion of Ukraine? There are future changes of historic proportions on the horizon. I assure you that each one of us will be altered by them.

It’s part of life experience, learning how to change in response to changing times without losing the core values one holds dear. To me, those have always been liberty, integrity, self-respect and the ability to reflect on history without

having the urge to revise it because of demands from new societal perspectives and pressures. I am guided by the intrinsic drive to conduct not only an honest search of available facts but to withstand the demands of cultural revolutions and openly present those facts to all people, so that they can draw their own conclusions and reflections.

The correlation between historic and current events sometimes seems uncanny and often not coincidental. But those are the hypothetical suppositions. Our future will tell. Our past has already spoken. How informed you choose to be in order to discern its lessons, hints and messages is entirely up to you. I’m saddened that too many prefer to remain uninformed and, worse, twist facts into something supporting the revisionists’ views, even supplying fuel to modern-day libels.

Stay historically informed

The newest documentary film in SWFL Jewish Pioneers series, “A Midsummer Dream,” about Michael Mendelsohn, will premiere on March 21, 3 p.m. at the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center. Born into an

Ashkenazi family in the U.K., Mendelsohn spent his life between being a professional pharmacist and playing double bass and piano in various groups and orchestras in England and Naples, Florida. Free to members. Registration is required. Tickets may be purchased at jhsswf.org.

Your generosity helps us in our research, future films and presentations. Donate online, by mail or contact us at office@jhsswf.org. Sign up as a member to receive announcements, reminders and news. To sponsor Goldstein’s new composition recording, please reach out to us directly. We can be reached at The Jewish Historical Society of Southwest Florida, 8805 Tamiami Trail North, Suite # 255, Naples FL 34108, 833-547-7935 (833-JHS-SWFL), www.jhsswf.org and office@jhsswf.org.

The Jewish Historical Society of Southwest Florida is a 501(c)3 charitable organization. Contributions are deductible to the fullest extent allowed by law.

By Ida Margolis and Shelley Lieb

Most of the readers of this column will remember the gentle and genial host Mr. Rogers and “Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood.” Many people admired Mr. Rogers, but some did not. The same was true about his advice: “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” Some people did not like this advice, but many more did.

Since the massacre in Israel and the Hamas-Israel War, I have read that many individuals from throughout the U.S. volunteered to go on missions to Israel to do a number of tasks, from preparing meals for IDF soldiers to harvesting produce because those who usually harvest were not available. One of our GenShoah SWFL members went to Israel soon after the war began. And you may have heard that a mission from Temple Shalom in Naples went to Israel. In addition to bringing needed clothing items and letters to IDF, they also performed many jobs.

I was very moved when I heard their stories. Some said it was one of the most important things that they had ever done. Most said they would go back if they could. I thanked each one with whom I spoke. I would like to thank each and every one who has volunteered. They were the helpers that soldiers and others were looking for. They were there to help when needed.

At GenShoah meetings, often 2Gs (i.e., second-generation children of Holocaust

survivors) tell their parent’s story. And often, the story includes a helper of some sort. A helper who gave someone in a concentration camp an extra piece of food, a non-Jewish family who hid the Jewish child who was their family member. We also should acknowledge the helper who was able to get papers to a person trying to get out, as well as

the family who took in a child from the Kindertransport.

Most of the helpers from WWII are no longer alive, but it is meaningful to tell their story. A number of 2Gs are writing their parents’ stories, which will be posted on the website of the Holocaust Museum. More volunteers will go to Israel. Their story is important as well. Not everyone can go

to Israel to be a helper at this time. But everyone can do something to help. Make a donation. Write to a soldier in the IDF. Listen to the stories. Say thank you to the helpers. Be there for others whenever you can.

About GenShoah SWFL

GenShoah SWFL is a group for children and descendants of Holocaust survivors and anyone interested in the mission of GenShoah of SWFL, which is:

• Promotion of Holocaust education and human rights

• Preservation of history and memories of the Holocaust

• Connecting the Second Generation with one another

• Support of the Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center

Our group is always open to interested people. There aren’t any dues or forms to fill out. If you would like to receive our newsletter and program announcements, just send an email to genshoahswfl@hmcec.org or liebro@ gmail.com. If you would like to volunteer to help with future programs, please let us know that, too!

Thank you to those who support our mission, read the newsletter, attend GenShoah programs and are members of the Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center in Naples. We do encourage membership at the Museum as we are an affinity organization with them. If you are not already a member of the Museum, please consider joining or making a donation.

Judit Price, Holocaust survivor; Judy Isserlis, editor of 2G stories; and Rochelle Miller, 2G

Museum volunteer Becky Cornacchia spoke at GenShoah’s open house about her friend and Holocaust survivor Rene Bedouk, who passed away recently.

Holocaust survivor Rob Nossen

BAT YAM TEMPLE OF THE ISLAN DS REFORM

Friday evening services at 7pm at the Sanibel Congregational United Church of Christ,

2050 Periwinkle Way, Sanibel

Spiritual Leader and Cantor:

Rabbi Sunny Schnitzer

President: Janice Block Chaddock

Vice Presidents:

Sandra Teger, Annette Pacyga

Email: batyamsanibel@gmail.com

Website: www.batyam.org

Services: October through April

For more information on our service times and programs, please write to batyamsanibel@gmail.com or PO Box 84, Sanibel, FL 33957

CHAB AD OF BONITA SP RINGS/ESTERO ORTHODOX

24611 S. Tamiami Trail Bonita Springs, FL 34135-7024

Rabbi Mendy Greenberg

Phone: 239-949-6900

Web site: www.JewishBonita.com

Services: Saturday at 10:00 a.m. followed by a Kiddush

CHAB AD JE WISH CENTER OF C APE CORAL ORTHODOX

1716 Cape Coral Pkwy. W.

Cape Coral, FL 33914

Rabbi Yossi Labkowski

Phone: 239-963-4770

E-mail: info@chabadcape.com

Web site: chabadcape.com

Sunday - Friday 8:00 A.M Shacharit

Friday Evening 5:30 P.M.

Saturday Kabbalah Class 9:00 A.M.

Shabbat Services 9:30 A.M.

Kiddush Luncheon 12:00 P.M.

Hebrew School of the Arts Sunday 10:00

A.M - 12:30 P.M

JLI Classes Monday 7:00 P.M.

Torah Study Tuesday 7:30 P.M.

Women's Weekly Class Wednesday 11:30 A.M.

CHAB AD OF CHARL OTTE COUNTY ORTHODOX

204 E Mckenzie St Unit B, Punta Gorda, FL 33950

Rabbi Simon Jacobson

Phone: 941-833-3381

E-mail: chabadpg@yahoo.com

Web site:

www.chabadofcharlottecounty.com

Services: Saturday at 10:00 a.m. followed by a kiddush

Torah study: Wednesday at 8:00 p.m.

SYNAGOGUES & JEWISH ORGANIZATIONS IN LEE & CHARLOTTE COUNTIES

www.JewishFederationLCC.org

COMMUNITY FREE SYNAGOGUE

CONTEMPORARY TRADITIONAL

The Unity Campus 11120 Ranchette Road Fort Myers, FL 33966

Phone: 239-247-4556

E-mail: synfree@comcast.net Web site: www.fortmyerssynagogue.com

Sabbath Eve Dinner every Friday at 6:30 followed by worship at 7:30 PM

Torah Study on Zoom every Sabbath morning from 9:30-11:00

Meeting Room ID 527 117 7864 passcode

435419

Rabbi Bruce Diamond, D.D. cantoral soloist Traci Pavel

SHALOM LIFE CENTER

TRANS DENOMINATIONAL

19691 Cypress View Drive

Fort Myers, FL 33967

Rabbi Lawrence Dermer

Phone: 239-218-3433

E-mail: info@shalomlifecenter.org

Web site: www.shalomlifecenter.org

Shabbat Evening Services

7:30 p.m. (Oct-Apr)

7:00 p.m. (May-Sept)

Saturday Torah & Kabbalah Study

10:00 a.m.

TEMPLE BETH EL REFORM

16225 Winkler Road, Fort Myers, FL 33908

Rabbi Nicole Luna

E-mail:rabbiluna@templebethel.com

Learning Tree Preschool Director: Amy Amon

Email: learningtreefortmyers@gmail.com

President: Reina Schlager

Email: tbeboard@templebethel.com

Phone: 239-433-0018 • Fax: 239-433-3235

Office Manager: Karen Kagan

Email: manager@templebethel.com

Web site: templebethel.com

Shabbat services: 7:30 p.m. Friday

Torah study 9:00 a.m. Saturday

Religious & Hebrew School: 9:30 a.m.- Noon Sunday

Judaica Gift Gallery

Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism;

TEMPLE BETH SHALOM

REFORM

CHAB AD L UBAVITCH OF S OUTHWES T FLORIDA ORTHODOX

5620 Winkler Road

Fort Myers, FL 33919

Rabbi Yitzchok Minkowicz

Phone: 239-433-7708 • Fax: 481-9109

E-mail: rabbi@chabadswf.org

Web site: www.chabadswf.org

Services: Friday 5:15 p.m.;

Saturday Kabbalah

class 9:00 a.m.; Shacharit 10:00 a.m.; Kiddush at noon

Minyan: Monday & Thursday 7:00 a.m.

CHAVURAT SHALOM OF SWFL

CHAVURA

20031 Sanibel View Circle unit 202 Fort Myers, FL 33908

Chavuratshalom@gmail.com

www.chavuratshalomofsouthwestflorida.org

Cheryl Fulmer, President

Shabbat services - 7:30 p.m. Friday

Jewish current events - Saturday morning

Speakers series - Tuesday evening

TEMPLE JUDEA

CONSERVATIVE

14486 A&W Bulb Road

Fort Myers, FL 33908

Rabbi Marc Sack

E-mail: rabbi@tjswfl.org

President: Jan Klein

Religious School Coordinator:

Abbie Grossman

Preschool Director: Suki Kelly

templejudeapreschool@gmail.com

Phone: 239-433-0201 • Fax: 239-433-3371

E-mail: tjswfl@gmail.com

Web site: www.tjswfl.org

Services: 6:15 p.m. Friday and 9:30 a.m.

Saturday Minyan: 9:00 a.m. Monday

Religious School: Sun. 9:30 a.m. - noon; Wed. 4:30 - 6:00 p.m.

Early childhood education: Preschool, M-F, ages 18 months-5 years; “Mommy & Me,” 12 months-2 years

Affiliated: United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism

TEMPLE SHALOM CHARLOTTE HARBOR AND THE GULF ISLANDS

REFORM

23190 Utica Ave., P.O. Box 494675

Port Charlotte, FL 33949-4675

Rabbi Solomon Agin

President: Judith Migdol

Phone: 941-625-2116

E-mail: shalom06@netzero.com

Web site: templeshalomfl.com

Beginning Hebrew:

Tuesday 4:15 - 5:15 p.m.

Advanced Hebrew:

Thursday 4:15 - 5:15 p.m.

Organizations: Sisterhood

Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism

COMMUNITY ORGANIZATI ONS

• AIPAC

(American Israel Public Affairs Committee): Jacki Waksman - 954-653- 9053

• AJC (American Jewish Committee): Brian Lipton - 941-365-4955

• Anti-Defamation League: 561-988-2900

• B’Nai B’rith International: 941-302-4500

• Chabad Jewish Student Life at FGCU Rabbi Mendel Gordon - 347-452-0489 mendelgordon@gmail.com

• Chevra Kadisha: Taryn Sasser

• Generations of the Shoah SWFL: 263-9200

• Hadassah - Collier/Lee Chapter: Joyce Toub - 518-330-1559

702 S.E. 24th Ave., Cape Coral, FL 33990

President: Helene Glocer

Phone: 239-772-4555

Spiritual leader: Cantor Barry Butensky

Email: templebethshalomcommunications

@gmail.com

Web site: www.templebethshalomcc.org

Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday Saturday morning Torah Service/Torah study twice monthly at 10:00 am Enrichment night every Wednesday at 7:00 p.m. via Zoom. Shabbat 10:30 a.m.

• Hadassah-Sharon Chapter (Charlotte County): Odette Port - 941-505-1409

• Hazak 55+ Chapter: Joyce Rosinger - 239-437-1566

• Israel Bonds: Regional Headquarters: 800-622-8017

• Jewish Community Services: 239-481-4449

• Jewish National Fund: Joshua Mellits, Director, Western Florida 941-462-1330 ext. 865

Memorial Tree Planting in Israel 1-800-542-8733

• Jewish War Veterans: Post 400: Commander Harvey Charter - 239-246-3151

• Mikvah Bashka of Southwest Florida: Nechamie Minkowicz - 239-822-2784