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Esther Basch, Holocaust survivor, educator and ‘Honey Girl,’ dies at 96
SHANNON LEVITT | STAFF WRITER
Esther Basch always said yes when asked to share her Holocaust survival story, which made her a gift to Holocaust educators everywhere. No matter if the audience was big or small, young or old, Basch would recount the harrowing tale of how the Nazis forced her and her parents into a packed train car with no food and water. Five days later, they arrived at Auschwitz on her 16th birthday. Almost immediately, she was separated from her mother and father, neither of whom she would ever see again.
Basch told her audiences about working in ammunition factories, walking in a death march and crossing paths with the infamous Nazi doctor Josef Mengele. Yet, even with all the horrors she experienced, she always ended her talk with a message about forgiveness.
“I cannot forget, but I can forgive because if I don’t forgive, then I suffer, and I suffered enough,” she always said. Sadly, she will not be sharing her message of resilience and forgiveness anymore. On Monday, April 14, Basch passed away from complications of flu and pneumonia, exactly 80 years to the day she was liberated by American soldiers in 1945. She was 96, a month shy of her 97th birthday.
Rachel Turet, Basch’s daughter who accompanied her as she got older, said her mother felt good about all the work she had accomplished to educate the public about the Holocaust.
“Having finished her earthly joy and mission, she had no more hearts that she could touch,” she told Jewish News. “If there is such a thing as a good death, that’s what mom had.”
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Renewed at Ruth Place after ‘Hell on Earth,’ says abuse survivor
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Julie, a 72-year-old Ruth Place graduate, suffered significant abuse at the hands of her brother while she was growing up. After being tortured, suffocated and thrown down the stairs, she sought help from her mother, who not only didn’t help but told her, “You deserve everything you get and worse.”
Julie, Kimberly and AJ (all three withheld their last names for privacy and safety) told a packed house on Thursday, April 24, how they each had been positively impacted by Ruth Place, a trauma recovery program founded by the National Council of Jewish Women Arizona (NCJW-AZ).
The three women told their individual stories of financial, physical, psychological and sexual abuse by family members and spouses. They described how they tried and failed to cope with that abuse for years. However, each said the help she had received at Ruth Place was pivotal in gaining self-confidence and stability.
“I was trying to cater to and serve the abusers in my life, and I didn’t know what I needed or how to ask for help. Since I’ve been coming to Ruth Place, I’ve just been blossoming,” Julie said.
The women spoke at NCJW-AZ’s second annual “You Are Worthy” breakfast, held at Scottsdale United Methodist Church, where Ruth Place rents space for a nominal fee.
“These are the people that you are supporting. These are the people that you are sponsoring. These are the people that are coming through our program and changing their lives,” Ruth Place Program Director Camea Peca told the crowd after the graduates had spoken.
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A few years ago, Basch moved from Phoenix, where she lived since 1975, to live with her daughter in Prescott. There, she quickly became a favorite of local musicians whose concerts she loved attending.
“She became the mascot of Prescott musicians,” Turet said. Before her mother had to use a wheelchair, she got up and danced — no matter the music. Even seated, she would dance while people moved alongside her holding her hands. Her favorite song was Leonard Cohen’s “Hallelujah,” and people sang it especially for her when she was in the crowd.
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Since her passing, musicians have been dedicating their sets to Basch to show their love and appreciation for her, Turet said.
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said Jon Meyers, director of ADDPC.
said Jon Meyers, director of ADDPC.
“Our hope is to create and promote opportunities for people to be embraced, become part of the community and find equitable opportunities wherever they
“Our hope is to create and promote opportunities for people to be embraced, become part of the community and find equitable opportunities wherever they
Meyers first came to know Stern through her mother, Amy Silverman, who read her personal essays about raising a daughter with Down syndrome on KJZZ, National Public Radio’s Phoenix affiliate station.
Meyers first came to know Stern through her mother, Amy Silverman, who read her personal essays about raising a daughter with Down syndrome on KJZZ, National Public Radio’s Phoenix affiliate station.
ask her holographic image questions and listen to her responses in her own words, thus preserving her voice and story for years to come.
Meyers was so captivated by the essays that he reached out to Silverman, and the two became friends.
Meyers was so captivated by the essays that he reached out to Silverman, and the two became friends.
about her Judaism with her fellow council members and speaking out for her rights
She already has some practice at
about her Judaism with her fellow council members and speaking out for her rights
“One time, I was in class and someone called me the R-word and I told him not to. The teacher was in the hallway and another student repeated the word,” she said. Rather than letting the situation go, she told her theater teacher, who was able
She already has some practice at
“One time, I was in class and someone called me the R-word and I told him not to. The teacher was in the hallway and another student repeated the word,” she said. Rather than letting the situation go, she told her theater teacher, who was able
“If someone has a disability, saying the R-word is like saying the F-word,” Stern said.
“If someone has a disability, saying the R-word is like saying the F-word,” Stern said.
lucky to have even crossed paths with her.
That’s how Stern first learned of the open council seat, but there’s no doubt she earned her position, Meyers said.
“Esther was really the definition of resilience, and inspired people by her call to action,” he said.
While performing in the musical “Hairspray,” she had another occasion to tangle with the offensive word, which appears in the script.
“When people meet my mom they instantly fall in love,” she said. She was known for her optimism, focus on love and her near-constant smile. Even when Turet searched for a picture in which her mother seemed somewhat serious, it proved an impossible task.
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That’s how Stern first learned of the open council seat, but there’s no doubt she earned her position, Meyers said.
To become a council member, Stern had to apply and demonstrate that she had something valuable to contribute, he said.
While performing in the musical “Hairspray,” she had another occasion to tangle with the offensive word, which appears in the script.
“That’s really bad and my friend said it on stage. I was not OK with that, so I went to the director and told her it was a bad word for people with disabilities, but she wouldn’t take it out,” Stern said.
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Director and Project Manager of the Hilton Family Holocaust Education Center Rabbi Jeffrey Schesnol said the technology can be utilized online or in person. “This will enable us to use it in schools that are unable to arrange field trips to the Arizona Jewish Historical Society (AZJHS),” he told Jewish News in an email.
“She’s on the council because she deserves to be on the council,” he said.
To become a council member, Stern had to apply and demonstrate that she had something valuable to contribute, he said.
Stern is creating a life and career as a member of her community, which makes her a great addition.
PHA Past President Sheryl Bronkesh met Basch long before she came to rely on her as one of PHA’s most reliable educators. Bronkesh’s mother, also a survivor, and Basch were friends. But it was Basch’s fearlessness in telling her story to anyone, and going anywhere she was needed, that really stood out to Bronkesh.
“That’s really bad and my friend said it on stage. I was not OK with that, so I went to the director and told her it was a bad word for people with disabilities, but she wouldn’t take it out,” Stern said.
She let her mother know about the conflict and they were able to convince the director of the need to remove the word from the script.
Ironically, her moniker, the Honey Girl of Auschwitz, did not originate from her sweet nature. It was given when she had just survived one of the darkest periods of the 20th Century. After she was liberated, Basch found a jar of honey and ate her fill, but because she was suffering from malnutrition, her body could not process so much of the sweet substance and she became ill.
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The nickname stuck for the rest of her life, and her speaking engagements were almost always billed as “The Honey Girl.” That name is incorporated in a cutting-edge interactive interview, holographic technology developed by the USC Libraries and inspired by Shoah Foundation’s Dimensions in Testimony initiative.
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A few months ago, she sat for three days answering a series of questions. The interview will allow future generations to
Though she didn’t live long enough to interact with her hologram, she saw what it would look like as well as how it would be integrated into the new Holocaust center, AZJHS Associate Director of Education, Anthony Fusco, explained to Jewish News.
“She’s on the council because she deserves to be on the council,” he said. Stern is creating a life and career as a member of her community, which makes her a great addition.
Stern graduated from McClintock High School in Tempe last year and now attends Glendale Community College, with a focus on dance. She is a regular performer at Detour Company Theatre, a Scottsdale theatre company for adults with intellectual, developmental and physical disabilities.
“She was very proud that we were able to secure her legacy and memory of the Holocaust,” he said.
Fusco gave a eulogy at Basch’s funeral. He fondly recalled discovering who she was about five years ago while scrolling Phoenix Holocaust Association’s (PHA) website, looking for local survivors to interview for AZJHS’ oral history project.
Stern graduated from McClintock High School in Tempe last year and now attends Glendale Community College, with a focus on dance. She is a regular performer at Detour Company Theatre, a Scottsdale theatre company for adults with intellectual, developmental and physical disabilities.
In fact, when Stern attended her first council meeting in January, she couldn’t wait to tell people of her involvement with Detour and share information about its upcoming shows.
“Esther was willing to talk to any group. A lot of our survivors will speak at schools, but Esther was willing to fly to cities with no other survivors,” Bronkesh told Jewish News. In fact, not long ago, Bronkesh was contacted by a professor at Colorado State University in Fort Collins who was interested in bringing a survivor to Colorado because there are no survivors in Fort Collins, nor even in nearby Denver.
In fact, when Stern attended her first council meeting in January, she couldn’t wait to tell people of her involvement with Detour and share information about its upcoming shows.
“There’s no question that she is going to thrive,” Meyers said. “She’s very gregarious and passionate about the things that matter to her.”
“Who is this Honey Girl? I need to meet her,” he remembered thinking. Reflecting on all that he learned working with her, and listening to her story, he counts himself
She let her mother know about the conflict and they were able to convince the director of the need to remove the word from the script.
“My friend Al was next to me when I told the director and he gave me the biggest hug ever and said that he loved me so much,” Stern said. Sadly, Al died in a car crash on Oct. 24, 2021.
Heart Can’t Even Believe It: A Story of Science, Love and Down Syndrome,” Silverman’s book about her daughter. When Gesher’s speakers’ bureau, Damon Brooks & Associates, was asked to find a speaker about Down syndrome for an event this spring, Hummell first asked Silverman to speak, thinking Stern might be too young.
Heart Can’t Even Believe It: A Story of Science, Love and Down Syndrome,” Silverman’s book about her daughter. When Gesher’s speakers’ bureau, Damon Brooks & Associates, was asked to find a speaker about Down syndrome for an event this spring, Hummell first asked Silverman to speak, thinking Stern might be too young.
They decided instead that Stern should tell her own story; it’s a real bonus that she is not afraid of public speaking.
“That was hard; it’s very hard to get emotions out and I was very, very upset,” she said.
“My friend Al was next to me when I told the director and he gave me the biggest hug ever and said that he loved me so much,” Stern said. Sadly, Al died in a car crash on Oct. 24, 2021.
“That was hard; it’s very hard to get emotions out and I was very, very upset,” she said.
On the recent anniversary of his death, Stern made a cake and took it to the crash site.
Bronkesh wanted to help, but said the university would also need to fly a caregiver because no survivors are capable of going alone. She called Basch, but it turned out that she was already booked for a speaking gig in Montana. Basch’s daughter said adding Colorado to the itinerary would be too much, but her mother called Bronkesh back and said, “I can do it. As long as I’m alive, I
“There’s no question that she is going to thrive,” Meyers said. “She’s very gregarious and passionate about the things that matter to her.”
Stern looks forward to sharing insights
Stern looks forward to sharing insights
“I don’t know how I did it without crying. I’m so proud of myself,” she said.
On the recent anniversary of his death, Stern made a cake and took it to the crash site.
Amy Hummell, executive director of Gesher Disability Resources, agreed that Stern is a good fit for ADDPC because of her ability to self-advocate.
“I don’t know how I did it without crying. I’m so proud of myself,” she said.
Amy Hummell, executive director of Gesher Disability Resources, agreed that Stern is a good fit for ADDPC because of her ability to self-advocate.
Hummell co-hosted a book event with Meyers a few years ago for “My
Hummell co-hosted a book event with Meyers a few years ago for “My
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They decided instead that Stern should tell her own story; it’s a real bonus that she is not afraid of public speaking.
“It’s not the same when someone tries to tell a person’s story for them,” Hummell said.
“It’s not the same when someone tries to tell a person’s story for them,” Hummell said.
Additionally, helping people with disabilities find jobs was one of the reasons for acquiring the bureau. Unemployment in the disability community is upwards of 75% and of that percentage, 75% are ready, willing and able to work — but haven’t been given the opportunity, Hummell said.
Additionally, helping people with disabilities find jobs was one of the reasons for acquiring the bureau. Unemployment in the disability community is upwards of 75% and of that percentage, 75% are ready, willing and able to work — but haven’t been given the opportunity, Hummell said.
“People have it in them to speak up but don’t know how, and often they’re not cheered on. Sophie has family support
“People have it in them to speak up but don’t know how, and often they’re not cheered on. Sophie has family support
Sophie Stern at her high school graduation
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Esther Basch holds a Torah for the first time at Rabbi Nina Perlmutter’s, left, home.
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Esther Basch, the Honey Girl of Auschwitz, was almost never seen without a smile.
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‘Israel @ 77,’ the Valley celebrates Israel’s birthday
SHANNON LEVITT | STAFF WRITER
During this year’s celebration of Israel’s 77th birthday on Thursday, May 1, the Valley of the Sun J (VOSJ) in Scottsdale changed things up a little by introducing the Torch Lighter Award. This honor was bestowed on community members Sigal Urman and Stacy Palestrant, who have gone above and beyond in their commitment to Israel and fostered understanding and empathy by promoting education, unity and hope through dialogue and conversation.
“We really wanted to recognize people who are doing something to promote Israel in our community,” Leah Zigmond, VOSJ’s chief youth and family programs officer, told Jewish News.
Urman opened a branch of the Israeli Scouts in Arizona about 10 years ago, thereby creating a bridge between Israeli and American Jewish kids. Every year, at least 100 kids register for the group’s activities.
Palestrant is someone who builds bridges by connecting leaders from disparate parts of the Jewish community, including synagogue members, youth groups and Jewish organizations. She hosts multiple meetups in her home to introduce people and encourage them to share ideas and strengthen bonds.
Zigmond is a driving force behind the decision for VOSJ to host an annual Yom Ha’atzmaut event for the community since its first celebration in honor of Israel’s 75th birthday in 2023. She also wants to keep the celebration on the day itself, or as close as possible, even when that means holding an outdoor event at a time when the temperature is rising in the desert.
“This year’s ceremony was moving, the band was energetic and the Israeli Scouts’ dance was spirited and inspired,” she said.
Zigmond’s passion for observing Yom Ha’atzmaut as a Jewish community in the Valley started when she was part of a 2022 fellowship in Israel for 10 days with JCC educators from around the country. She surmised that the yearly festival would be a perfect way for Valley Jews to connect with Israel and she started planning the first such event.
She also lived in Israel for 13 years.
“Israel can be a complicated place, but it is also such a symbol of hope for the Jewish people and a place around which we can come together. I just want our JCC to have that in our repertoire, a time that we come together to celebrate
Israel,” she said.
The first year VOSJ hosted Israel’s 75th birthday party, Yom Ha’atzmaut fell on a Sunday. Initially, that seemed like a real boon for the community, which could now attend at their leisure in the afternoon. Yet, the day turned out to be very hot. People turned out, but didn’t stay as long as they did the following year, when the celebration was held early in the evening on a Wednesday.
“Last year, that really created a very festive atmosphere, so we stuck with doing it in the evening. This year, it fell on Yom Ha’atzmaut in the middle of the week and the doors opened at 5 p.m. We got a lot of good feedback on that,” Zigmond said.
Some parts of the event were familiar to those who have come before and, of course, there were some new things to offer.
Once again, a shuk, or Israeli-style market, was set up for people to enjoy. The big difference this year is that a part of the shuk was dedicated to kids.
VOSJ is partnered with the Arizona chapter of the Children’s Entrepreneur Market (CEM) to create a place for kids to make and sell their own crafts and snacks. According to its website, CEM’s stated mission is “to develop vibrant and resourceful children through entrepreneurship and creative play that create momentum in their personal, educational, work and community life.”
CEM seeks to partner with various organizations to bring a diverse community together where many interactions for the kids become possible. Through experiential learning, it teaches young people about the power of entrepreneurship, innovation and leadership.
The hope was to help kids rise to the challenge of deciding what to sell, creating a booth, talking to customers and handling money. It was open to all kids and shared the values of VOSJ, according to Zigmond.
“It honored kids’ creativity and gave them an opportunity to learn the rules, do all the selling, explaining and talking to vendors,” she explained.
There was also a community shuk where the Jewish artisans who have come before sold their wares.
“The shuk is always a big draw because anyone who’s been to Israel loves this unique feature; it just has such an Israeli feel,” Zigmond said.
There was also singing, Israeli folk dancing, bouncy houses, games and lots of food trucks, kosher and kosher style. “There was so much variety in the marketplace and in food vendors,” she said.
“It’s just a really festive time, and these days it’s important to remember all the joy that we can associate with Israel and
the community,” Zigmond said. She called Thursday’s celebration one “of community and resilience.” JN
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Leah Zigmond hopes this celebration will continue to be an annual tradition.
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New congregation arises from SaddleBrooke Judaic Institute
Congregation B’nai Midbar is Southern Arizona’s newest Jewish congregation — with a 25-year history.
The congregation began when three SaddleBrooke residents formed the Institute for Judaic Services and Studies (IJSS) in 2000. Its primary purpose was to hold monthly Shabbat services and High Holiday celebrations.
spiritual heritage,” he added. “To open up our doors, my hope is that we can build bridges of friendship and express the spirit of welcoming in a world that increasingly is in need of the spirit of unity. By cultivating the spirit of genuine hospitality, I think Catholics and Jews can be a light in the world.”
B’nai Midbar began using the community room at the church in September 2024.
“It all came together with such love and such ease,” said Goldstein.
Over the years, the IJSS employed several rabbis, cantorial soloists and musical accompanists, with Rabbi Sanford Seltzer leading the group the longest, including in 2006, from 2013-2020 and 2022-2024, when he retired at age 92. Along with leading services, he taught numerous classes, fulfilling the “and Studies” part of the IJSS name.
“What started as a shared physical space has become a meaningful experience for both of us, an opportunity to get to know one another,” Vu said.
In lieu of rent, Erickson says, B’nai Midbar donates to the church.
“I thought it was the right place for me, to be someone to whom they could look up to, and I could serve them in a meaningful way,” said Seltzer of the IJSS congregation.
“Rabbi Seltzer is so scholarly and wise, and he has such charisma,” said B’nai Midbar Board President Joy Erickson, who moved to SaddleBrooke three years ago.
As a SaddleBrooke club, the IJSS was limited to residents of SaddleBrooke One and Two, retirement communities north of Oro Valley.
It “bothered me as a Jew” to refuse non-residents, says Esta Goldstein, who chaired the IJSS in 2023. Also frustrated by difficulties reserving meeting rooms at SaddleBrooke, she initiated the transition from a club to an independent congregation.
B’nai Midbar now holds services at Santa Catalina Catholic Church. Goldstein found the space after attending a meeting there and asking the priest, Father Huy Vu, if the congregation could rent a room one Friday night each month.
“He said, ‘We can do that, but you don’t pay us anything,’” she recalled.
The rent-free space isn’t about charity, it is about putting into practice the commandment to “love your neighbor as yourself,” which is second only to “love your God with all your heart, and with all your soul and with all your mind,” Vu said, citing Matthew 22:34-40.
It is about “recognizing our shared humanity and our roots in a similar
Erickson suggested the congregation be named B’nai Midbar, “People of the Desert,” and rewrote the congregation’s bylaws. She notes that a precursor to the IJSS, the Jewish Friendship Group, is still active, but its gatherings are purely social and limited to SaddleBrooke residents.
B’nai Midbar aims to attract new Jewish SaddleBrooke residents, some of whom are closer to the age 55 threshold, she says, noting that the congregation’s current demographic skews “much older than that,” along with members from farther afield.
Before he retired, Seltzer helped a rabbinic search committee identify his successor, Rabbi Daniel Price, who previously served as a rabbi-in-residence at Tucson’s Kol Ami Synagogue.
“He interviewed and we all said, ‘Yes, yes, yes,’” Goldstein recalled.
“I really enjoy my work with the congregation at B’nai Midbar,” said Price, who notes that at 67, B’nai Midbar’s monthly Shabbat schedule is perfect for him.
Price was a rabbi, educator and song leader in Connecticut for almost two decades. He moved to Tucson in 2018 after discovering the city’s charms while training for bicycle races.
The rabbi also gigs as a musician with a local classic rock band, Catalina Cruisers, which plays mostly private parties. Before his rabbinic career, he was a television producer and director in New York for 21 years.
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Price serves as the controller of the Academy for Jewish Religion, a pluralistic New York-based rabbinical school, and travels to the East Coast every six to eight weeks.
Like Erickson and Goldstein, he sees holding services at the church, located on the border between Oro Valley and Catalina, as an opportunity for B’nai Midbar to grow.
“I have many friends in the northwest, and I know that the northwest has been underserved Judaically,” he said, explaining that B’nai Midbar provides another option along with Chabad of Oro Valley and Congregation Beit Simcha.
Leslie Stellman and his wife, Judy, moved to the area from Baltimore in 2022 and now live in Oro Valley. Intrigued by an article about B’nai Midbar in a local newspaper, they attended a service, “and a bunch of good things happened,” Stellman said. “We thought the rabbi was terrific. He’s very creative, he plays the guitar, he’s very spiritual.”
After the service, they talked to other members and “really enjoyed the people, liked the leadership,” said Stellman, who served on synagogue boards in Baltimore.
“Joy Erickson is wonderful; she’s a terrific president. Esta Goldstein, the former president, is terrific. They welcomed us within five minutes. We felt like we’d been
members forever.”
Price wants to continue expanding the congregation’s Jewish knowledge.
Likening Judaism to Shakespeare or art, he says, “If you get the right docent, the more you know, the more interesting it gets. The more you can learn, the more it becomes compelling.”
B’nai Midbar has robust attendance, with 60-plus people each Shabbat.
“It’s not that they just come and sit. They sing, they’re involved,” Price said.
He added that the congregation plans events for those who may not attend services or Torah study, such as a Tu B’Shevat Seder, speakers and field trips.
One such event was a Passover seder held at the church on April 13, with members of both congregations attending.
“To me, it’s what Passover’s all about. You invite strangers. You invite someone to share this with you and tell the story because it’s so universal,” Erickson said.
This is the first seder Santa Catalina has hosted since he arrived in 2022, Vu said, but he attended a seder in 2012 as a student.
“The symbolism and the history, and the retelling the story of liberation, there’s a lot of emphasis placed on the idea of hope, and that’s resonating with us, for me and for Catholics as a whole,” he said in February, as his congregation
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For Santa Catalina congregants, the seder will be an opportunity to participate “in the tradition that Jesus himself participated,” Vu said, noting that much of Christianity is rooted in Judaism.
“I also appreciate how the seder engages all the senses” and encourages meaningful conversations, he said, adding that for the times we are living in, “interfaith understanding isn’t just a nice
idea — it’s a necessity.”
For the joint seder, Price selected The Promise Haggadah, which he’d first encountered at a 2005 Jewish education convention and adopted for his family celebrations. He was delighted to learn that a Tucsonan, Nanci Freedberg, wrote the Haggadah.
Some 27 Santa Catalina parishioners were sprinkled among the 128 seder
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Congregation B’nai Midbar Cantorial Soloist Eliyanah Powers and Rabbi Daniel Price lead a Shabbat service on Feb. 21, 2025.
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guests at 15 tables, making crosscongregational chats easy. Eight church members participated as volunteers for set-up, serving, and clean-up, along with volunteers from B’nai Midbar.
“So many people volunteered and worked so hard together. That was probably one of the best outcomes,” Erickson said.
Price, who led the seder, referenced his recent sermon on the dangers of creating an “us” and “them” dynamic. He amplified the evening’s inclusivity by having guests from both congregations take turns reading a paragraph or two from the Haggadah, just as many families do.
Some of the Catholic guests had been to seders before. Chris Kvidera, who attended the B’nai Midbar seder with her husband, Mark, had been a guest at a community seder in Minneapolis years ago as part of her graduate school training in social work, where she realized the rituals felt familiar because taking communion at Sunday Mass, also known as the Lord’s Supper, has its roots in the Passover meal Jesus shared with his disciples.
Vu offered reflections on the readings and rituals throughout the seder.
“In both our traditions, food is never just food. It is memory; it is stories, and shared stories and memories always bring hope,” he said.
After the reading of the Four Questions, Vu said asking questions is “not a sign of doubt but of freedom,” adding that both Catholics and Jews have long traditions of wrestling with faith.
Leslie Gordon, a B’nai Midbar member who lives in SaddleBrooke Ranch, said she is fond of interfaith programs, having been a spiritual seeker for many years before returning to Judaism.
Gordon particularly appreciates interfaith approaches to social justice issues. Toward the end of the seder, as Vu spoke of how the Jewish and Christian traditions call on us to be “people of justice, but also people of tenderness and compassion,” she murmured a fervent, “Yes!”
The seder ended with guests replete with gefilte fish, wine, matzah ball soup, chicken with potatoes and carrots and both traditional macaroons and French macarons, plus many other unleavened sweets — and most of all, with fellowship. JN
For more information, visit bnaimidbar.com.
Phyllis Braun is the feature writer for Arizona Jewish Post. This piece originally appeared on AZJewishPost.com.
Father Huy Vu of Santa Catalina Catholic Church speaks at the Congregation B’nai Midbar seder, April 13, 2025.
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Chris Kvidera and her husband, Mark,
Scottsdale business offers help to those in need of senior care
MALA BLOMQUIST | MANAGING EDITOR
Eleven years ago, Scottsdale resident Alexander “Alex” Corbett lost his mother to A lzheimer’s disease. Before her passing, his father took care of her until Corbett and his sister realized it was becoming too much for him.
But when
they started exploring options for his mother’s care, “it was like being in IKEA for the first time. It’s completely overwhelming,” Corbett admitted
“You don’t know what’s good, what’s bad or who to trust, everything costs thousands of dollars and you’re thinking about how you’re going to pay for this,” he said. “You’re also emotionally exhausted — this isn’t something fun.”
Corbett worked in medical device sales for 20 years and also did some pharmaceutical sales. Two years ago, a friend in the same industry left to open her own business. She introduced him to the Senior Care Authority, a national franchise that provides senior living options and eldercare consulting services. Having witnessed the emotional and physical hardship of his mother’s illness, he realized this was a business that made sense for him, too.
Corbett, who is Jewish, is now a senior care advisor with Senior Care Authority and the only franchise owner in Arizona. He said he wished his family had access to a senior care advisor who could have narrowed down the hundreds of choices to the best ones for his loved one, budget and logistics.
“When I discovered that I could make
“I TRY TO FIND OUT WHAT’S GOING ON AND GET ALL THE INFORMATION, SO WE CAN DO AN ASSESSMENT. I FIND OUT ALL THE HEALTH NEEDS OF THEIR LOVED ONE, WHAT THEY REALLY NEED.”
CORBETT
a career out of this (being a senior care advisor), it just happened organically,” he said. “My friend was doing it at the same time, so I thought, it’s a good time to make a jump and that we can support and learn from each other.”
His decision benefited Valley resident Lila Baltman, who found Corbett while researching care options for her 87-yearold stepfather with advanced dementia. She wasn’t happy with the care he was receiving at a local memory care facility and wanted to make a change, but was overwhelmed by the process.
“Finding a senior care community can definitely feel daunting, stressful and overwhelming — especially here in Arizona — where there are so many senior living options,” said Baltman.
The three primary services Corbett offers are placement services, eldercare consulting and senior drive self-assessments.
He explained that when people contact him, they are stressed out and in need of an immediate solution. “I try to take their stress from an 11 to a 4. It’s almost like therapy,” he said. “I try to find out what’s going on and get all the information, so we can do an assessment. I find out all the health needs of their loved one, what they really need.”
Corbett doesn’t charge the families he helps with placement because the facility pays his fees. If a person needs in-home care, a service he doesn’t offer, he refers them to an Arizona company.
He offers Elder Care Consulting, which includes advocacy, referrals, management and guidance in navigating the complexities of the healthcare system, for an hourly fee. This service also includes Peace of Mind visits to check on a loved one or engage them in activities.
“Maybe mom is here in Arizona, and the family lives in Nebraska, and they are
nervous and worried about their loved one. We can provide weekly visits,” he said. “We can be there to get information during meetings that they might have, and we can communicate with all the staff, medical providers and others on behalf of the family.”
Corbett said his third service is Beyond Driving with Dignity, a senior driver selfassessment program. For $500, the senior driver is given memory and cognition exercises and is presented with a score at the end.
He said this helps loved ones avoid a really hard conversation. Usually the driver realizes how they are doing during the testing and can conclude that it may be time to retire from driving.
“It is a gentle way to help your loved one transition away from driving and learn about all the transportation options that are available,” he said. “We have all the phone numbers of all the services and apps to put on their phone to make it not so scary because they don’t want to lose their independence.”
Corbett said most people don’t realize that there are certified professionals out there with the knowledge and expertise to help them navigate the complexities of senior living options.
“I think getting the word out is the biggest challenge,” he admitted.
As for Baltman, Corbett assured her that he would help her find a better memory care option for her stepfather, Glenn, and he did.
“He successfully introduced us to a much better memory care facility for Glenn that is actually only a few minutes away from where he had been living,” she said. “I only wish we had met Alex earlier and learned about this place sooner!” JN
For more information, visit seniorcareauthority. com/scottsdale.
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The gift of time: Embracing the present in a changing world
BOB ROTH | COLUMNIST
In our quest to extend life, we must not forget the profound value of the time we have right now. As we near the crest of the “Silver Tsunami,” with the 65-plus population set to double and the 85-plus population nearly quadrupling by 2050, it’s crucial to recognize that the only true currency we have is time and how we choose to spend it and with whom.
Many scientists today talk about time prosperity: the idea that our lifespan isn’t fixed, and that biological aging may be malleable, even reversible. Breakthroughs in fields like epigenetics (changes in gene expression that happen without changes
to the DNA sequence), regenerative medicine and AI-driven health diagnostics have opened doors that once seemed impossible. Human beings have already doubled their average lifespan over the past century. The question is no longer whether we can extend life, it’s how we will live it.
Yet, while biology races forward, our culture often lags behind. We still hear expressions like “senior moment” or “over the hill,” quietly reinforcing the idea that aging equals decline. But aging isn’t the problem. Ageism is. If we are serious about building a longer, healthier, more fulfilling future, we must start with a shift in mindset: one that values age, presence and connection, not just youth and speed.
Jewish tradition has long understood the sacredness of time. Every night before bed, many Jews recite the Bedtime Shema — a prayer of reflection and protection,
entrusting one’s soul to God. And every morning, upon waking and realizing they have been given another day, they say the Modeh Ani prayer, offering simple, powerful thanks: “I give thanks before You, living and eternal King, for You have mercifully restored my soul within me; Your faithfulness is great.”
Imagine if we all started our days that way — with gratitude and a sense of wonder at simply being alive.
This practice feels especially meaningful now, when the world around us is changing so rapidly. Up to one-third of older adults today are solo aging, which means living without a spouse, partner or close family. For those 65 and older, that figure may approach 50% in the coming decades. Aging is not only personal; it’s increasingly solitary. And it’s why the simple act of being present is more important than ever.
Presence doesn’t happen by accident. It requires intentionality.
It means:
• Practicing mindfulness, even if just for a few minutes a day.
• Keeping a gratitude journal, listing what made you smile or what you’re thankful for.
• Savoring experiences, instead of rushing to the next task.
• Engaging in activities that bring joy, like hobbies, art, music, travel or even a simple walk with a friend.
• Limiting multitasking to stay fully engaged with the people and moments in front of us.
• Accepting life’s imperfections, rather than wasting precious energy fighting them.
It also means making memories; not someday, but today.
Call your parents. Visit your grandchildren. Travel to that place you’ve always dreamed about. Go to the concert, the ball game, the family dinner. Take the photo. Say the words you’ve been meaning to say. Do the things you love with the people you love, while you still can. Because the truth is, none of us knows what tomorrow will bring. We live in an era where extending life may become normal. But making life worth living — filled with connection, meaning and joy is a choice we must make every day.
It’s often been said, and clergy and family members at countless bedsides will confirm; that no one, at the end of their life, ever wishes they had spent more time at the office. They don’t regret not working harder. What they do regret is the time not spent with loved ones: the missed family dinners, the unspoken words, the memories they never made. In our final moments, it’s the relationships, not the accomplishments, which matter most. So today, I empower you: start now. Pick up the phone. Plan that trip. Write that letter. Hug a loved one a little longer. Laugh until you cry. Open your eyes each morning with a prayer of thanks. Journal your memories. Set down your devices and savor a meal without distractions. We don’t control how many days we have. But we do control how present we are for the days we’re given. Time is the ultimate gift. Let’s live like we know it. JN
Bob Roth is the managing partner of Cypress HomeCare Solutions.
Brain games for seniors prove to be important play that help with mental acuity
MICHAEL GREENLAND, MSW | SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH NEWS
For seniors who are seeking to boost their mental acuity, there are dozens of wonderful, different brain games available today that are designed to test and improve their mental abilities. These games challenge cognitive skills, promote memory retention and encourage critical thinking, making them excellent choices for mental stimulation.
Finding the “best” brain games or activities for seniors to improve their cognition reminds me of the time when I asked the owner of a home fitness store, “What is the best fitness machine you have?” and his simple response back to me was, “The best fitness machine is the one you’ll use the most.”
The truth is, whatever brain game seniors will enjoy and participate in, that is the best choice for them. However, many seniors do appreciate having a variety of game choices that will help them stay mentally stimulated.
Brain games like jigsaw puzzles, word puzzles and card games can help stimulate cognitive function and memory in all seniors — particularly those with dementia. These activities promote mental engagement and can help slow the progression of cognitive decline. Playing simple, familiar games that evoke positive memories and focus on accomplishment are often best.
Here is a list of classic and contemporary brain game ideas that seniors can enjoy playing by themselves or with friends and family:
Card games offer a range of mental benefits by engaging strategic thinking, memory and problem-solving skills. Some popular card games that can be considered braintraining exercises include Bridge, Solitaire and Rummy. These games can help improve cognitive function, memory, and decisionmaking. Brain Busters are also fun-filled card games that test seniors’ knowledge on a variety of cool facts about the ocean, nature, space, pets and more.
Scrabble is a word game that sharpens critical thinking.
Rummikub boosts memory, logic and strategy through pattern recognition.
Bingo promotes social interaction and sharpens focus.
Chess enhances cognitive skills, including problem-solving, memory and strategic thinking.
Mahjong is a tile-based game that is great for sharpening memory, focus and social connection.
Sudoku is a numerical puzzle and is excellent for improving concentration, logic and memory.
Jigsaw puzzles enhance cognitive function and hand-eye coordination, and they are a relaxing, meditative activity for seniors.
Crossword puzzles are an excellent solo activity that tests vocabulary and sharpens problem-solving abilities.
Checkers is a simple board game that’s well-suited for seniors.
Word searches boost focus, vocabulary and visual skills.
Lumosity, CogniFit, Elevate, Peak and BrainHQ are all popular brain training app options that offer various games and
exercises designed to improve memory, attention and problem-solving skills. These apps offer free versions with limited access, but seniors can also purchase a premium subscription to access the full suite of games and personalized progress tracking. It doesn’t matter whether these brain games are played alone or with friends and family members, the games not only offer mental stimulation, but they also offer seniors a much-needed sense of fun, social engagement and purpose. JN
Michael Greenland is the owner/operator of Integrity Care Assisted Living Home in Scottsdale, a fivebedroom assisted living home that offers seniors 24/7 licensed care. He currently serves as the vice president of the Arizona Assisted Living Homes Association, representing more than 1,700 assisted living homes in Arizona. For more information, visit integritycare.com.
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Residents at Integrity Care Assisted Living Home play a game of cards. COURTESY
Summer is the Perfect Time to Start an Education Savings Plan
By Hon. Kimberly Yee, Treasurer of Arizona
As the summer months approach, it is the perfect time for families to pause and take a break from the hustle and bustle of the academic school year. This is an opportunity to focus on what’s ahead for your child’s future and create a successful pathway towards their higher education and career dreams. As the Treasurer of Arizona, I help to expand opportunities for all Arizona families to access higher education, from traditional college, vocational training and apprenticeships. With an AZ529 Education Savings Plan, families can put aside savings to grow over time and provide the gift of higher education to their loved ones.
The AZ529, Arizona’s Education Savings Plan is a tax-advantaged investment plan designed to help families save for a child’s future education expenses. Savings in an AZ529 plan are free from federal income tax, and withdrawals remain tax-free when used for qualified education expenses. Contributions to the AZ529 plan can be deducted from your Arizona state income taxes up to $4,000 per beneficiary for a married couple filing jointly or up to $2,000 per beneficiary for single filers.
AZ529 savings can be used to pay for a variety of education expenses, including tuition, fees, room, board, books, supplies, and required equipment. Funds can be used at accredited public and private colleges, universities, community colleges, technical training schools and apprenticeship programs. Additionally, AZ529 savings can be used on school tuition for private and religious K-12 educational institutions.
Some of the most common questions I hear when I am around the state sharing about the AZ529 plan are, “What if my child doesn’t go to college or vocational school? What happens to the money saved in an AZ529 plan?” There is great news on this front. The law now allows families the option of transferring qualified “leftover” 529 funds, of up to $35,000, into the account beneficiary’s Roth IRA retirement fund, free of any tax, penalty, or applicable income limits.
This is a wonderful opportunity for anyone to contribute to your loved one’s AZ529 plan and also receive the tax benefits for their contributions! Parents can save for their children. Grandparents can save for their grandchildren. Aunts and uncles can save for their nieces and nephews. Friends can save for their friends. Individuals may also open an account for themselves!
As we head into the summer, I encourage families to use this time as a unique opportunity to make the season both fun and forward thinking when it comes to education savings. Between pool days
and road trips, there are plenty of simple ways to start saving with an AZ529 plan and help children connect what they enjoy today with the possibilities of tomorrow.
Here are a few easy, summer-inspired ideas to get started:
1. Turn Summer Camp Savings into Education Savings
If you’re skipping a pricey summer camp this year or opting for a shorter program, consider putting that extra money into your child’s AZ529 plan. Even small amounts saved during the summer can grow over time and make a big difference when it’s time to pay for their future education.
2. Match Chores or Summer Job Earnings
Whether your child is mowing lawns, babysitting or doing extra chores around the house, offer to match their summer earnings with a contribution to their AZ529 account. It’s a fun way to teach individual responsibility while reinforcing the value of saving for the future.
3. Make Summer Outings Career Exploration Opportunities
Visiting a science museum, zoo or planetarium? Ask your child what future dream job sparks their interest. A summer outing can be planned around a child’s dream career, and then talk with your child about how an AZ529 Education Savings Plan will help them achieve that pathway.
4. Create a Career Week at Home
Select a week this summer to explore different careers as a family. Watch documentaries, visit local businesses, or invite friends and family to share about their jobs. Children thrive when they are inspired and summer break gives them that time to dream big and begin to explore their future. An AZ529 Education Savings Plan gives families a peace of mind about laying the groundwork for their loved one’s future.
As Arizona’s Treasurer, I remain committed to helping families access the tools they need to succeed and find financial freedom. This summer, I encourage Arizona families to take a moment to look ahead and start an AZ529 Education Savings Plan. It’s never too early and never too late to grow financial savings. This is the perfect time to invest in your loved one’s future education.
Visit www.AZ529.gov for more information.
Kimberly Yee is the Treasurer of Arizona.
Israel and
present.
YEHUDA KURTZER | JTA
Ithose who love it are stuck in a hopeless
Can we ever get back to the future?
’ve always appreciated the present-tense quality of Yom Ha’atzmaut. Coming right after Yom HaZikaron, a day of remembering past losses, it is like a full day of “dayenu“ prayer, a collective recognition of where we are and how far we have come. In Israel, Israelis gather in public parks and in backyards, under their vines and fig trees. I am skeptical of making big meaningful proclamations on Yom Ha’atzmaut; this year I sat with friends on the deck eating corn schnitzel and singing folk songs.
But then the day ends, and the work begins again, as it always does. This year I can’t shake the sense that Israel — and those of us who support it from afar — are stuck in a hopeless present tied too tightly to the traumas of the recent past. To pause in the present one day a year is a blessing; to live permanently while stuck in the present feels like a curse. The war in Gaza is unending, and now resumes with a massive call-up. The prime minister continues to define victory as Hamas’ utter defeat, which Hamas will never concede and which may be a “supreme goal” that can never be decisively reached. At earlier phases in the history of Zionism, we celebrated partial victories – most famously in the acceptance of the Partition Plan — and moved forward toward other attainable goals. Why then do Israel’s current leaders insist on the kind of absolute outcomes that make it impossible to get out of the present morass?
Meanwhile, only the extremists are speaking about the future. In Israel, the empowered right is building horrific plans for settling Gaza and ethnically cleansing its inhabitants; if that leads to the fighting lasting indefinitely, it seems they will be content. Out here in the West, the ascendant fabulist left also talks about a radical new future, through its own dystopian vision for the dismantling of Israel. Most of us, though, most Israelis, and most of us who support Israel from afar? We are stuck in a state of dreams arrested, waiting for a future that won’t come if we don’t even try to envision it.
We are paying a high cost for this stuckness.
Israeli families are suffering financially, psychically and physically, sending their loved ones again into an unending war,
holding up a fraying home front, praying that it — that they — will not be shattered.
Our hostages, not the priority of the country that once pledged to never leave its people behind, are living hopeless lives — so close, so far away. The bodies of hostages who were already killed remain to be buried.
So long as we are stuck in this present, the Palestinian civilians in Gaza too are stuck. They cannot live, heal, recover or mobilize further against Hamas and for better alternatives. Palestinian parents cannot offer their children a better future.
So long as we are stuck in this present, Israel’s visions and dreams of living in a new Middle East, normalizing with its neighbors, thriving in the family of nations, are being held back by its government’s choices.
And so long as Israel is stuck in this present, American Jews are stuck as well. Our institutions are stuck in defensive mode, with far more attention paid to rapid reaction to the news cycle than to the opportunities here to capitalize on the “surge” in Jewish life and other critical priorities. American Jews are stretched to their moral limits by the Israeli government’s intransigence in continuing to fight this war this way. And our community has internalized “war
mode” — the fight against Hamas there, the fight against antisemitism here — in ways that are preventing us from doing the constructive pro-democracy work that will stabilize our societies and protect us in the long run.
There are always alternative possible futures than the ones that seem inaccessible when we are stuck in the present. This is a “plastic hour” — a term coined by the philosopher Gershom Scholem to describe historical moments when new possibilities can emerge and that require human intervention and choice in those moments to influence the course of history. Remaining stuck is a choice; the alternative is moral imagination and wisdom that the Israeli government may lack but we do not endorse.
It would have been sufficient, at many moments in the past year, to take pride in the immense military successes of the war as a means of declaring victory, to choose to prioritize the hostages even at the cost of continuing the war to allow Israelis to embrace one another and to resume their lives, and to end the war for the sake of both Israelis and Palestinians to heal and to recover. There is only so much loyalty to the present that can be be demanded of people without providing them hope for the future, and we have passed that threshold. This insistence on stuckness is
then not just a terrible moral and political choice, but also psychologically corrosive for our people.
What will it take for us to get moving again? Those of us who are not in power need to reawaken the possibility of hope — to be the kind of people who will things into being — and we need to ensure the viability of those other possible futures. This can include investments in Israel’s struggling coexistence and peace-building sectors, and parallel efforts to rebuild trust between Jews and our neighbors here as well. We can push harder for conversations about the future of postwar Israel and plans to rebuild hope and trust for the Palestinian people for the days after Hamas rule. We can accelerate American Jewish conversations about what we’ve learned from these 18 months and what we can now do differently in American Jewish education and American Jewish politics. Building hope, change and sustainability travel hand in hand. And since the political sands will inevitably shift one day, we’d better be among those planning for that future and prepared to seize those moments.
And ultimately, we can simply promote a new discourse about hope for our weary people who see no light at the end of the tunnel. The belief in hope and the trust in incremental process is the Zionist way and the Jewish way. The Talmud tells the story of two sages, Rabbi Hiyya and Rabbi Shimon ben Halafta, walking through the Arbel Valley at that liminal moment between darkness and light. When the first dawn began to break, Rabbi Hiyya said to Rabbi Shimon: “This is the redemption of Israel: At first it comes slowly by slowly, and as it progresses its light increases.”
Yom HaZikaron, the day of the past, is passed; Yom Ha’atzmaut, the day of the present, has ended. I hope our leaders will look for light instead of doubling down on darkness. These 18 months should be sufficient as the darkest time before the dawn. The future for Zionism, the Jewish people, the Palestinians, and the State of Israel needs to start today. JN
The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of JTA or its parent company, 70 Faces Media.
A sunrise seen from Tel Aviv, Feb. 12, 2025.
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Featured Event
THURSDAY, MAY 15
Lag Ba’Omer Community Celebration:
5-6:30 p.m. Cactus Park, 7202 E. Cactus Road, Scottsdale. Join the Bureau of Jewish Education of Greater Phoenix, Pardes Jewish Day School and PJ Library for a party with songs, crafts, stories and activities. Cost: Free. For more information, visit jewishphoenix.com/events/lag-bomer-family-celebration.
Events
SATURDAY, MAY 10
Kids Night Out: 5-8 p.m. Valley of the Sun J, 12701 N. Scottsdale Road, Scottsdale. Join the VOSJ for a night out for kids in grades preK-8 to enjoy games, movies, pizza and more. For more information, visit valleyofthesunj.org.
THURSDAY, MAY 15
How are Jews Portrayed by the Qur’an: A Study of Qur’anic Texts: 10 a.m. Online. Join Valley Beit Midrash for a presentation by Rabbi Reuven Firestone, professor in medieval Judaism and Islam at Hebrew Union College, Los Angeles and affiliate professor of religion at the University of Southern California. For more information, visit valleybeitmidrash.org.
“Charlotte: A Holocaust Story of Strength, Courage and Hope:” 2 p.m. Online seminar. Join the Arizona Jewish Historical Society for a presentation by Holocaust survivor Charlotte Adelman. Cost: Free; RSVP required. For more information, visit azjhs.org/event/charlotte.
Lag Ba’Omer Community BBQ: 6 p.m. Fountain Park, 12925 N. Saguaro Blvd., Fountain Hills. Join Chabad of Fountain Hills for a BBQ, music and family fun. Cost: $18 adults; $50 per family. For more information, visit JewishFountainHills.com/BBQ.
Lag Ba’Omer Party: 6 p.m. for kids and adults; 7:30 p.m. adults only. Congregation Beth Tefillah, 6529 E. Shea Blvd., Scottsdale. Join CBT for dinner, bonfire, music and activities. For more information, visit bethtefillahaz.org.
Lag Ba’Omer Family BBQ: 6:30 p.m. Surprise Community Park, Ramada 1, 16089 N. Bullard Ave., Surprise. Join Chabad of Surprise for a BBQ dinner, games and activities. Cost: Free. For more information, visit jewishsurprise.com.
Lag Ba’Omer BBQ & Bonfire: 8 p.m. Chabad of Arizona, 2110 E. Lincoln Drive, Phoenix. Join Chabad for a BBQ, bonfire, music and more. For more information, visit chabadaz.com/lag.
FRIDAY, MAY 16
Lag Ba’Omer Festival: 6 p.m. Chabad Jewish Center of Mesa, Gold Canyon and Apache Junction, 941 S. Maple, Mesa. Join Chabad of Mesa for a bonfire, hors d’oeuvres, charcuterie meat board and Friday night service. Cost: $10 suggested donation. For more information, visit chabadmesa.com.
SATURDAY, MAY 17
Coffee & Cake Open House: 1-5 p.m. Integrity Care Assisted Living Home, 1721 N. 74th Place, Scottsdale. Learn more about this Jewish-owned assisted living home. Complimentary coffee, cake and light refreshments
will be served. Advanced registration is required by calling 480-252-9122. For more information, visit integritycare.com.
Parent’s Night Out at the ELC: 5-10 p.m. East Valley Jewish Community Center, 908 N. Alma School Road, Chandler. Kids in grades six and under can enjoy a night of activities, dinner and a movie. Cost: $45 for ELC and Camp Rimon children; $55 all others; registration closes May 2. For more information, visit evjcc.org/event/ parents-night-out-the-elc.
SUNDAY, MAY 18
Shema & Share Double Feature Film Screening: 1-4:30 p.m. Beth El Congregation, 1118 W. Glendale Ave., Phoenix. Join Beth El and the Greater Phoenix Jewish Film Festival for a double feature of “The Land of Promise” and “Seekers of Happiness.” Cost: Free. For more information, visit bethelphoenix.com/event/double-feature.
Café Europa: 1-4:30 p.m. Congregation Beth Israel, 10460 N. 56th St., Scottsdale. Join the Phoenix Holocaust Association for an afternoon of socializing for Holocaust survivors, their families and friends. For more information, visit phxha.com.
In the Footsteps of Ruth Charcuterie Workshop: 2-4 p.m. Congregation Beth Tefillah, 6529 E. Shea Blvd., Scottsdale. Join CBT for a celebration of Jewish womanhood and a hands-on workshop by restaurant owner Lucia Schnitzer where you will create a cheese charcuterie board. $36 for a small board, $54 for a large board; registration closes on May 17. For more information, visit bethtefillahaz.org/event/footsteps-of-ruth.
SUNDAYS
B.A.G.E.L.S: 9-11 a.m.; last Sunday of the month. Valley of the Sun Jewish Community Center, 12701 N. Scottsdale Road, Scottsdale. Grab a bagel and a cup of coffee at Bagels And Gabbing Every Last Sunday and enjoy some time with your friends and make new ones. You must register to attend. Bagels and coffee will be provided. Cost: Free for members, $5 for guests. For more information and to register, visit vosjcc.org.
THURSDAYS
Storytime at Modern Milk: 9:30 a.m. Modern Milk, 13802 N. Scottsdale Road, #163, Scottsdale. Storytime for babies, toddlers and preschoolers. Integrates children’s books and songs while giving parents new ideas for play. Cost: $5. For more information and to register, visit modernmilk.com/after-baby.
Meetings, Lectures & Classes
SUNDAYS
Chassidus Class: 9 a.m. Online. Learn about the Chasidic movement with Rabbi Yossi Friedman. Use this link: ChabadAZ.com/ LiveClass. Cost: Free. For more information, visit chabadaz.com.
Jewish War Veterans Post 210: 10 a.m. Online. Any active duty service member or veteran is welcome to join monthly meetings, every third Sunday. Cost: Free. For more information, email Michael Chambers at c365michael@yahoo.com.
Anxiety in the Modern World: 6 p.m. Online. Learn the secrets of the Torah for living stress-free in the current environment with Rabbi Boruch of Chabad of Oro Valley. Cost: Free. Use this link: zoom.us/j/736434666. For more information, visit chabadaz.com.
MONDAYS
Pomegranate Guild of Judaic Needlework, Desert Cactus Chapter: 10 a.m. The Oasis at Sagewood, 4555 E. Mayo Blvd., Phoenix. The guild meets the third Monday of the month, adjusted when necessary to accommodate Jewish holidays. For more information, visit pomegranateguild.org.
Mahjong: 1:30-3:30 p.m. East Valley Jewish Community Center, 908 N. Alma School Road, Chandler. Come play mahjong each week. For all levels. Cost: Free; registration required at evjcc.org/mahjong.
Ethics of Our Fathers: 7 p.m. Online. Learn with Rabbi Zalman Levertov. Use this link: bit.ly/2Y0wdgv. Cost: Free. For more information, visit chabadaz.com.
Quotable Quotes by our Sages: 7 p.m. Online. Learn with Rabbi Shlomy Levertov. Use this link: JewishParadiseValley.com/ class. Cost: Free. For more information, visit chabadaz.com.
Partners in Torah: 7:30 p.m. Online. Join a growing group of inspired learners with Project Inspire. Cost: Free. Use this link: us04web. zoom.us/j/3940479736#success, password is 613. For more information, email Robin Meyerson at robin@projectinspireaz.com.
Learning to Trust in God: 7:30 p.m. Online. Learn with Rabbi Yossi Friedman. Use this link: ChabadAZ.com/LiveClass. Cost: Free. For more information, visit chabadaz.com.
Torah & Tea: 7:30 p.m. Online. Learn with Rabbi Yossie Shemtov. Cost: Free. For more information, visit Facebook.com/ ChabadTucson.
Single Parent Zoom: 8 p.m. First and third Monday of every month. Join The Bureau of Jewish Education’s Family University single parents’ group for those looking to form
friendships and build their support system with like-minded people. For more information or to register, visit bjephoenix.org/ family-university.
TUESDAYS
Let’s Knit: 1:30 p.m. Ina Levine Jewish Community Campus, 12701 N. Scottsdale Road, Scottsdale. Share the pleasure of knitting, crocheting, etc. outside the social hall in the campus. Can’t knit? They will teach you! Every level welcome. Cost: Free. For more information, visit vosjcc.org.
Maintaining an Upbeat Attitude: 7 p.m. Online. A class exclusively for people in their 20s and 30s, learn how Jewish Mysticism can help with your attitude with Rabbi Shlomy Levertov. Use this link: JewishParadiseValley.com/YJPclass. Cost: Free. For more information, visit chabadaz.com.
Torah Studies: 7:30 p.m. Online. Learn with Rabbi Mendy Levertov. Use this link: ourjewishcenter.com/virtual. Cost: Free. For more information, visit chabadaz.com.
WEDNESDAYS
Torah Study with Temple Beth Shalom of the West Valley: 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Online. Weekly study group explores that week’s portion and studies different perspectives and debates the merits of various arguments. Intended for adults, Torah study is open to students of all levels. For more information, contact the TBS office at 623-977-3240.
Happiness Hour: 11:30 a.m. Online. Class taught by Rabbi Pinchas Allouche that delves into texts and references culled from our traditions to address a relevant topic. For more information or to join, visit cbtvirtualworld.com.
Lunch & Learn: 12 p.m. Online. Grab some food and learn with Rabbi Yehuda Ceitlin. Use this link: Facebook.com/ChabadTucson. Cost: Free. For more information, visit chabadtucson.com.
Torah Study with Chabad: 12 p.m. Online. Take a weekly journey of Torah with Rabbi Yossi Levertov. Cost: Free. For more information, visit chabadaz.com.
The Thirteen Petalled Rose: 1 p.m. Online. Kabbalah class that studies “The Thirteen Petalled Rose” by Rabbi Adin Even-Israel Steinsaltz, focusing on the many concepts of Kaballah and Jewish Mysticism and applying them to everyday life. For more information or to join, visit cbtvirtualworld.com.
Grief Support Group: 5-6 p.m. Online via Zoom. Therapist Susan Charney MCW, LCSW, leads a grief support group every first and third Wednesday of the month virtually for individuals experiencing the loss of an adult child or sibling. In lieu of any fees