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The Loft At 132 is a gorgeous wedding and event space located in downtown Sun Prairie, just minutes away from Madison. It has been designed to bring big dreams & bold imaginations to life. Large or small, elegant or casual, indoor or outdoor, The Loft At 132 has the ability to transform itself into the perfect space to accommodate any style and need.

Beautiful Outdoor Rooftop With Bar Bartending service provided Maximum capacity is 300

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Make your dream wedding a reality at SentryWorld Celebrate your wedding day at SentryWorld. Warm, beautiful spaces—indoors and out—and breathtaking facilities provide the perfect backdrop to your wedding. And you get attentive service whether you’re planning a large wedding, an intimate gathering, or an extended celebration at our onsite boutique hotel. Pick the package and amenities you want to make your day uniquely yours.

With full-service care and a first-class approach, we can help with all the details.

sentryworld.com/weddings | 715-346-8707 or 866-479-6753 601 N. Michigan Avenue, Stevens Point, WI 54481

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Expo Center at Wisconsin State Fair Park Milwaukee, WI Wisconsin’s largest and most prestigious Wedding Expo will be back for our 53rd fantastic year featuring 150+ leading exhibitors. The latest trends in wedding gowns, tuxedos, floral arrangements, hospitality, entertainment and more will be showcased. Meet knowledgeable industry professionals one-on-one. And don’t miss our professionally styled and choreographed Runway Fashion Show!

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See the latest fashion trends in our live-streamed Runway Fashion Show. Engage and chat with all of our featured exhibitors, and receive exclusive goodies just like you were there in person!

NOTE: At press time, plans are in place to hold a hybrid show both on-site [following state and local protocols] and on-line. If officials enact ordinances prohibiting such in-person gatherings, then the show will be held on-line only. Monitor The Wonderful World of Weddings website [www.wisconsinweddingshow.com] for up-to-date details.

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NEWLYWEDS

Local couples share their love stories and wedding photos.

70 SAVOR THE MOMENT It’s your day, and it’ll pass in the blink of an eye. Stop for a moment to enjoy the lovely details that make it so special.

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POWER OF LOVE

Bright, airy details and a minimalist vibe let a striking love story take the spotlight at the Covenant at Murray Mansion.

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SWEET SUMMER ROMANCE

Flourishing florals add a lush touch to this blissful summer wedding at Willow Pond Bed and Breakfast.

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ENCHANTED GARDEN

These fresh takes on tiny treats and tasty cakes are a vision to behold.

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LOVE IS IN THE AIR

Floating florals set the tone for a dreamy wedding day at The Farm at Dover.

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LAKE COUNTRY’S PREMIER WEDDING VENUE The Carriage House is more than just an event space, it’s a completely new experience like none other in Lake Country. Set in the completely renovated Club at Lac La Belle golf course in Oconomowoc, The Carriage House has something unique to offer no matter the season.

www.carriagehouseatlaclabelle.com | (262) 714-4379

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EDITOR’S NOTE PUBLISHER’S NOTE

18 ACCESSORIES Add a wow moment to your bridal look with these statement earrings.

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Your wedding worries, solved.

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Choosing The Madison Concourse Hotel and Governor's Club as your wedding venue ensures that you and your guests will be taken care of throughout your wedding celebration - from check-in to check-out.

With over 370 guest rooms, 27,000 square feet of event space, private dining options, and an in-house culinary team, our hotel has everything you need for the wedding of your dreams (including cozy beds to dream in).

Say "yes!" to no stress. Our expert wedding team is here to help you craft the perfect proposal for your big day.

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Breathtaking natural beauty, lakefront location, sandy beach, elegant ballrooms, Aspira Spa, lakeview restaurants, and all the premier amenities of a AAA Four Diamond resort– the perfect setting for your special day.

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With family and friends traveling half way around the world to attend their festive, fashionable fusion wedding, Molly and Bobby called upon our culinar y team to prepare a pageant of authentic flavors flowing from open-air Rooftop ceremony to bedecked Ballroom dinner.

After the groom arrived on a white horse, of course.

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Let us orchestrate your incredible.

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EDDINGS ARE ABOUT UNITY: You and your soulmate becoming one. Your family and friends coming together to celebrate your union. Your wedding professionals working together to make your big day happen. And despite the social distancing we’ve adapted to, something magical is happening.

The soon-to-be-wed and the thousands of creative professionals who work with them are reimagining traditions, reevaluating what matters most and discovering new ways to gather in the name of love. As we put together this issue, we worked with many unknowns and new of way of doing things—but the excitement, dedication and determination of couples continues to inspire us every day. Our hearts are with you, and we are here to tell you that weddings are still happening and will continue to happen, in inventive and awe-inspiringly innovative ways.

From pressing social issues that raise our awareness and care for others (see Planning with Intention on page 28) to health concerns that spur us to think outside the cake box and concoct the cutest little single-serving sweets (see some adorably tiny treats on page 82), the wedding world is reinventing itself to become more flexible and more dynamic—better for everyone.

Human nature is resilient. Together, we are facing our new challenges with imagination and determination, and uniting to celebrate what matters most—love.

Megan White

{On our covers} The Spring/Summer 2021 issue of Wisconsin Bride has two stunning covers. Inside each you’ll find the information you need to plan the wedding of your dreams.

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{November, December & January Cover} Photography: Ashlea Snell Photography. Design & planning: Socialite Suite Events. Venue: The Covenant at Murray Mansion. Florist: Branching Out & Co. Dress: Tara LaTour from Strike Bridal Bar. Groom’s suit: Kohl’s.

Bride’s makeup: Shalisa Elizabeth Artistry. Groom’s makeup: Noor Khali. Hair (bride & groom): Noor Khali.

Jewelry: Tasha Rae Jewelry. Models: Deja Imani & JaQuin Brown-Holland

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{February, March & April Cover} Photography: Whitney and Matsaya Photography. Wedding Planner: Fresh Coast Events.

Gown: Madi Lane Bridal Dress from Miss Ruby Boutique. Bridal Accessories: Jaxie Bridal. Florist: Feisty Flowers. Rings: Tasha Rae Jewelry.

Hair: Hnubhli Designs. Makeup: Melody Sopa Artistry. Venue: Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum. Model: Nikki Caceanova

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PUBLISHER'S LETTER

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OVER THE PAST COUPLE MONTHS I haven't been able to turn off my mind because of so many unknowns for Wisconsin couples and wedding vendors. I have been thinking of different ways to partner with wedding businesses during this time, how to support couples changing their dreams and the new reality of future wedding days.

As a publisher, as a past bride, as a previous wedding planner, and also as a partner in the Wisconsin wedding community, my heart goes out to all of you. I try to imagine and understand what is running through the hearts and minds of couples right now, and especially our amazing Wisconsin wedding vendors. I also try to imagine the brides and grooms, and all the challenges and emotions they are facing with rescheduling, postponing, and all the little details to make wedding dreams a reality. Then, as a former wedding planner, I think of all the operations that would need to be accomplished within the venue to make sure the couple's day would be absolutely perfect, but still provide a safe, healthy and happy environment for their wedding guests, the team who is working at the wedding, and again for the couple themselves. Finally, I think as a wedding vendor. These amazing people are the main resource to insure an amazing wedding day no matter if it’s postponed or not. They truly are the magicians who make all these crises disappear and surround you with positive energy for your wedding day.

They got this! That’s why you hire them—they will take care of you.

We’ve assembled some helpful tips to help you through this pandemic planning. Visit our website, wibride.com, for recent articles about “Planning your Wedding during Covid-19” and “Vendor availability for 2020.” Stay tuned for 2021 availability! And of course check out our real weddings to help you find hope and inspiration.

For the recently engaged couple, utilize our vendor directory on mnbride.com and turn to our Essentials Guide/Venue Tour in the 2021 magazine on page 38. Here, you’ll find a variety of our great Wisconsin M B E R Bride members who are ready to make wedding dreams come true. And, don’t forget to sign up for our bi-weekly e-newsletter. This is where we share our recently published real weddings, new educational and inspirational articles, and more. Wisconsin Bride wants to be the tool to help you connect the dots to find the perfect wedding vendor and generate inspirational ideas for your wedding day.

Follow me on Instagram @Sonja_WIBride, where I love to share what Wisconsin Bride and our amazing members are up to! #WIBrideMember One last thing: On your wedding day, remember to take one last breath as you walk down the aisle, because the only thing that really matters is waiting for you at the end with a smile. Keep dreaming. Your day will come.

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A LAKESIDE WEDDING HAS A NICE RING TO IT Tie the knot at the Lake Geneva area’s premier lakefront destination ceremony venue.

Convenient to Chicago, Milwaukee, and Madison, Lake Lawn Resort sits on two miles of Delavan Lake shoreline and features rolling lawns, charming courtyards, and sweeping views. Have your dream wedding lakeside, under a tent, or in one of our stylish indoor spaces.

ACCESSORIES

Be Bold

Add a wow moment to your bridal look with these statement earrings. text LARA M. BURNAP

“Bow Baguette Waterfall” Diamontage earrings. $375, from Margaret Rowe (margaretrowe.com)

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“Graziella” earrings with preserved white and gold hydrangeas and ruscus leaves. $108, from Les Couronnes de Victoire (lescouronnesdevictoire.com) The “Fanchette” modern estate opal and diamond earrings. $1,790, from Brilliant Earth (brilliantearth.com)

Ombre tassel stack earrings in blush. $40, from StilWorks Studio (etsy.com)

The “Estee” Swarovski crystal earrings. $325, from Jennifer Behr (jenniferbehr.com)

“Blessings and Beginnings” pearl-accented 18K gold-plated earrings. $129, from Satya Jewelry (satyajewelry.com)

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SUGAR PEAR DESIGN There’s just something satisfying about a classic black-and-white invitation suite. This ensemble sets the mood for a timeless black-tie affair; the suite’s clean design paired with a crisp, contemporary sans-serif let the most important details of the day take the spotlight.

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Deep, dramatic tones and minimalist layouts command attention in these color-blockinspired invitations.

ADVENTURE AWAITS

PHOTOS COURTESY OF: (TOP LEFT) ADELINE MARGARET, PHOTO BY: NIKKI KATE PHOTOGRAPHY. (TOP RIGHT) DCO LOVENOTES, PHOTO BY: STEPHANIE KOPPA PHOTOGRAPHY. (BOTTOM LEFT) PAPER ENVY, PHOTO BY: HEATHER COOK ELLIOT. (BOTTOM RIGHT) MJ CREATIVE CO.

ADELINE MARGARET Warm, modern neutrals meet a little whimsy in this suite. Abstract, earthy elements quietly grace the bottom of the invite, playing off the unique asymmetrical shape for a lighthearted, boho vibe.

Milwaukee, adelinemargaret.com

EFFORTLESS ELEGANCE

PAPER ENVY Minimalism does not equal boring—just take a look at the inviting combination of sweeping script and rich forest green. Debbie Pape of Paper Envy embossed the bride’s own herbal illustrations on the suite, an expression of the bride’s creative personality. The invite’s coppery-bronze bevel edge adds warmth and subtle glamour, a unifying element with the shimmery envelope liner.

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MAGICAL AND MOODY

DCO LOVENOTES Danielle Cole of DCo Lovenotes worked with India ink to create the organic, flowing background in mauve and burgundy, then topped it off with hand-placed hints of rose gold foil. The depth and drama evokes a sense of passion and romance, perfect for a fearless couple.

Milwaukee, dcolovenotes.com

SUNNY DAYS AHEAD

MJ CREATIVE CO. Sunny tones dance with modern calligraphy in a suite that makes you smile. Mariah Halvorson, owner of MJ Creative Co., created this collection with a dip-dye process on cotton stock to produce lively, one-of-a-kind colors. The resulting summery brights are bound to leave your guests eagerly anticipating your celebration.

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That big wedding you thought you wanted? Maybe not.

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HEN THE GLOBAL PANDEMIC FORCED COUPLES TO CHANGE THEIR WEDDING PLANS , it didn’t stop them from getting married. Instead, it made many rethink how they would go about it.

Though some brides (and some of their mothers) have dreamed since they were little girls about a big, beautiful wedding with all the bells and whistles, many couples saw this as the perfect opportunity to cut back, pare down and simplify, to create exactly what they want: an intimate gathering that doesn’t skimp on style but is steeped in meaning.

CHANGES IN ATTITUDES “I had started to see smaller weddings, or at least interest in them, but COVID-19 definitely has pushed this trend to the forefront,” says Keesha Jones-Sutton, owner of Hello, Divine in Milwaukee. “My couples were having a lot of anxiety about downsizing their weddings to the point of wanting to cancel. I assured them that not only would their wedding be perfect, but it would be much more meaningful because only those closest to you would be in attendance and it would be less stressful not having to worry about so many guests.”

While the big blowout didn’t happen, wedding bells still rang. They kept the wedding, just not the crowd.

“Couples have been planning their big day for a year or more, and they just want to be married,” says Amy Murphy of Relax Event Planning in Madison. “They have been looking forward to this monumental life event for a long time and some have their heart set on that specific date.”

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friends and living up to the hype, couples do feel like they have to go big or go home,” JonesSutton says. “The pandemic gave a lot of couples permission to step back and re-evaluate what was important to them and take back their power to do what would make them happy in the end.

My couples all have said they couldn’t have seen their day any other way. It has been much more memorable and meaningful for them.”

A small wedding offers the opportunity to put your own stamp on it and share it with your nearest and dearest.

Unlike a wedding with hundreds of guests, you’ll have time to actually sit down and talk with your friends and family members, as well as give them a chance to get to know each other.

With a small guest list, your options are almost unlimited as far as a venue goes. The site itself can be an expression of you as a couple.

“What I’ve noticed with our clients is that many [couples] have chosen to hold their wedding at either their own home or backyard or at their family’s cabin or lake house, which makes the location more meaningful to them and their families,” says Krista Dentice, owner of Weddings With a Twist in New Berlin.

MAKE IT MEMORABLE Since your guest list is smaller, you also might splurge on a few special touches. Be aware, though, that a small wedding doesn’t necessarily mean it will be small in expense.

HOW DO YOU DEFINE SMALL? GRETCHEN CULVER, ONE OF THE FOUNDERS OF THE NATIONAL SMALL WEDDING SOCIETY, EXPLAINS THE DIFFERENCES IN WEDDING SIZES:

A mini wedding – also known as a small wedding or intimate wedding – has fewer than 50 guests, but all the traditional elements, just on a smaller scale. The budget, however, might not be mini: The same vendors as those at a larger wedding are required, with cocktails, a meal, desserts and dancing, but with fewer people to serve, presumably in a smaller space.

A micro wedding , or tiny wedding, has 30 or fewer guests. It might last only an hour or two, just long enough for a ceremony, followed by drinks and light snacks or cake, a few photos and possibly video.

Culver’s company, Minne Weddings, creates all-inclusive micro-wedding packages that include a venue, a ceremony, cake and champagne, personal flowers and a photographer. (Add-ons are available.) This size is perfect for the couple who doesn’t want to do any planning.

An elopement is when a couple gets married with just an officiant and each other (and required witnesses, depending on locale).

There’s nothing traditional about this bare-bones ceremony, but some newlyweds choose to send out “Just eloped” announcements and have a party later on.

A minimony is a new trend popular with couples who just want to marry and get on with their life together. It’s an “enhanced elopement” with 10 to 20 people attending the ceremony with no celebration following, but a big party or reception planned down the road: #marrynowpartylater!

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make sure angles are right, and other details that ensure a smooth event. If you don’t have a techsavvy friend, she suggests hiring a professional.

PLANNING MAKES PERFECT

If good food, good wine and gathering with good friends are important, consider a gourmet meal in a family-style setting. Each place setting can be personalized with a special note or favor for the guest. Consider serving that deliciously decadent cake that’s a work of art in itself. If casual is more your style, end the evening around a fireplace or by a fire pit, making s’mores as a late-night snack or go nostalgic with milk and extra-special cookies.

And planners agree you should not scrimp in certain areas.

“I think number one is food,” says Oscar Sanchez of Milwaukee-based Ambrosia Events.

“No matter how small or big your event, the food definitely will be a factor to enjoy the day. I mean, who doesn’t love good food?”

Murphy concurs. “Couples should not skimp on quality food and a well-stocked bar. This is a huge part in making an enjoyable total guest experience.”

You can also go all-out for elements you might otherwise feel were too indulgent, suggests Cheri Davis of Cheri Denise Events in Milwaukee: Opt for fantastic florals, exceptional décor, luxe attire.

PRESERVE THE MOMENTS No matter the size of your wedding—even if you decide to elope—have a good photographer (and, if possible, a videographer) on hand to capture the moment.

“Don’t skimp on photography,” Murphy says.

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style and will perfectly capture your happily ever after.”

“The photographer and cinematographer capture your love story and moments that the couples are totally oblivious to,” Davis points out.

When the wedding is over, you can relive it all.

VIRTUAL WEDDINGS Another trend, particularly at the height of the pandemic: a virtual wedding, with the ceremony held online and guests “attending” from the comfort of their homes. Virtual weddings also allow guests to attend who couldn’t make it otherwise because of travel restrictions, health or comfort level, given the status of health precautions.

Sanchez recently worked on a very small ceremony in which the groom’s family couldn’t come from Peru because there were no flights, and the bride’s family was supposed to travel from Russia [but couldn’t], “so both families were watching the ceremony on livestream, and the only ones who were able to attend were eight friends from Milwaukee.”

Make sure the person who’s in charge of Zooming knows what they’re doing. Sanchez suggests having your event planner discuss the logistics with whoever will do the livestreaming.

“It’s like planning a live TV show, where all the pieces have to play at the same time.”

Further, says Jones-Sutton, “The key is to practice, make sure you have the right equipment, and record.” Another important factor, she says, is to have a person in charge of Zoom to make sure everyone is muted and unmuted at the right times,

If ever there’s been a time when a planner has been helpful, it’s been during the coronavirus crisis. Some couples rescheduled a spring 2020 wedding for fall 2020, only to find that large gatherings were still not safe. “A planner can assist significantly with last-minute changes, whether that be the date, location, size, or any new COVID restrictions,” Dentice says. “We also have great knowledge of what is going on in the industry, how other couples have handled COVID-related issues, and have many local vendor connections to provide services in a pinch.”

In addition, she adds, a wedding at home or in a backyard requires a lot more work and logistical issues than most couples realize—but a planner does, and can make sure no details are missed.

WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS Planners have mixed views on future trends.

“By 2022, I believe we will see the return of large weddings,” Murphy says. “Couples want to celebrate with all of their family and friends, and this is the one time in their life they have the opportunity to bring everyone together.”

Others believe that even when the coronavirus threat has declined, the pandemic has changed the essential nature of how people will gather in groups. Couples are placing more value on the ceremony itself, their vows, and having friends and family close by to share in the moment, says Davis.

Still others predict a trend of “marry now, party later,” with an elopement or very small ceremony as soon as possible, and a big celebration on the couple’s first or second anniversary.

The trend to having more small weddings is “definitely here to stay,” Jones-Sutton believes.

“I am even looking forward to doing more intimate affairs. I can really hone in on what my couples want and give them a day that is unique and more personal to them.”

Whether you’ve always dreamt of an intimate, personal event or circumstances dictated your small wedding, one thing holds true. “You should be focused on the love of your life and be present in the moment,” Jones-Sutton says. “Focus on the good. Some of the most beautiful moments are created from changed plans or mistakes.” *

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FOUR ROSES BOURBON AND FLASK Flasks are the go-to groomsmen gift, so step it up a notch and pair it with a bottle of Four Roses Small Batch Select bourbon. Make it even more meaningful and send it to them as a “proposal gift” with the invitation to be a groomsman. $32, drizly.com (bourbon), $15, fourrosesbourbon.com (flask)

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For the 21st-century outdoorsman, this wireless charger keeps his phone battery refreshed and ready for any excursion. These unique designs are made of wood and resin, so no two are alike. $59, carved.com

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PERSONALIZED WOODEN CELL PHONE SPEAKER Music-loving guys will appreciate this compact, portable speaker with a distinctly earthy vibe—just set your phone in it and it’ll amp up your tunes. Have the giftee’s initials engraved on it for an extra personal touch. $35, themanregistry.com

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Got a workaholic groomsman? This funky, fresh take on a USB drive keeps his files safe, and stylish, too. $29, More Than Sea Glass on etsy.com

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‘BEST MAN’ CUFFLINKS A timeless gift, these cufflinks get a modern update with lasercut bamboo wood and give the whole party a polished, cohesive look on the big day. Bonus: With each set purchased, a tree is planted, a double gift for your eco-friendly buddies. $40, onehappyleaf.com

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PERSONALIZED WOODEN BALLPOINT PEN Keep your gifting effortless with this classic. The sleek and luxurious wood finish dresses everything up; top it all off with your pal’s name engraved on it. $20, customdesign.shop

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PERSONALIZED WOODEN PARTY BEVERAGE TROUGH Parties to come will be complete with bottles chillin’ in a woodsy beverage trough. Manly enough for his cave, classy enough for his significant other to borrow for her soirées, too! $100, themanregistry.com *

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Wedding Planning with Intention

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Here are a few simple things you can do to support BIPOC vendors.

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1. CHOOSE YOUR VENDORS WITH INTENTION .

You’re already researching businesses, styles and prices, so take a few minutes to research the owners, too, and keep BIPOC-owned businesses in mind. “There are a multitude of amazing and talented BIPOC vendors who are looking for a seat at the table,” says Mikel McGee of 414loral.

“These vendors are often the ‘best-kept secret’” and deserve more recognition (and clients). Also keep in mind, however, that you should view diversity as more than a trend du jour: Consider such businesses as you would any vendor, and hire based on merit, expertise in their field and whether their style aligns with yours.

Besides hiring traditional wedding vendors, think outside the box for other wedding needs.

Shalisa Smith, makeup artist and owner of Shalisa Elizabeth Artistry, suggests purchasing wedding party gifts from a Black-owned business, for example, or having your rehearsal dinner at a BIPOC-owned venue. “The opportunities to support are endless!” she says.

2. THANK YOUR VENDORS BOTH DURING AND AFTER THE PROCESS . A little bit of kindness can

go a long way in supporting all the people who work tirelessly to bring your vision to life. Offer to donate to an organization in their name or give them a gift card to a local business to show how much you appreciate them. Likewise, Smith notes, you can also thank them buying gift cards for their services to give to others.

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3. CONTINUE TO SHARE THAT APPRECIATION FOR YOUR WEDDING VENDORS AFTER THE BIG DAY. Write reviews and testimonials about your

vendors’ products and services. In a world of smartphones, we often judge by the reviews that are at our fingertips. Taking a few minutes to write about how well your vendors treated you or how beautiful their creations are can help them immensely.

It’s little things like this that can help BIPOCowned businesses expand to a larger client base, says photographer Amanda Evans. “Many times clients in any industry are quick to share a negative experience they may have encountered, but not as likely to share positive experiences.

Word of mouth goes a long way in our industry.

Tagging artists and vendors on social media, leaving reviews on Facebook and Google, and telling family and friends help our businesses to grow and thrive. I’m very confident that I provide a great service for my clients, but it’s a matter of potential clients knowing that I even exist.”

4. PROMOTE YOUR VENDORS ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

Like, comment and share the work that your vendors post on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest. To put your intentions front and center, Smith suggests using a Black-owned business as a backdrop for your engagement or wedding photos and share them on social media. Or find a cool mural created by a BIPOC artist to pose in front of, such as those in Black Cat Alley in Milwaukee, which features an array of muralists.

5. BE OPEN ABOUT YOUR OWN BACKGROUND AND THE POSSIBILITY OF DISCUSSING DIVERSITY WITH OTHERS. Express yourself and share your heritage

with your vendors. They can use it as inspiration in planning for your wedding. Embracing your families’ marriage traditions and beliefs can be a powerful starting point for planning your wedding, and it’s empowering for people to see you showcasing your cultural background, especially if they see people like themselves reflected in your celebration.

Planning with a more diverse team of vendors can also present an opportunity for discussions with friends and family. Sometimes these discussions take people out of their comfort zone, but they can

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honor. Or instead of party favors, leave a little note card at their place setting informing them that you have donated in their honor to your organization of choice.

As always when making donations, be sure to vet the organizations beforehand to verify that they are legit. Don’t have time to research them? Here are a few local organizations that were suggested by McGee, Smith and Evans, and are run

by BIPOC leaders:

also lead to constructive conversations where everyone learns something new or starts to see life from a new angle. Greater awareness and a deeper understanding of people who aren’t “like me” can help normalize the notion of diversity — that we’re all different in our own unique and beautiful ways, yet share as much or more in common with each other.

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ACLU of Wisconsin is a state affiliate of the national American Civil Liberties Organization. It is best known for its work in the courts, legislatures and communities to defend the civil rights and liberties of all citizens.

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The DREAMer Next Door is a scholarship program for matriculating Development, Relief and Education for Alien Minors (DREAM)—young people who were brought here as children without documentation—who do not qualify for the federal college financial aid because of their DREAM status.

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The Milwaukee Urban League Young Professionals, an auxiliary arm of the Milwaukee Urban League, offers professional development opportunities through community service and networking.

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Public Allies provides leadership training opportunities with the goal of creating a more equitable society through more diverse leadership. *

6. PUT YOUR MONEY WHERE YOUR MOUTH IS AND INCORPORATE CHARITABLE GIVING INTO YOUR CELEBRATION.

Consider forgoing the traditional wedding registry and instead donate to organizations that are working toward more inclusive communities or helping level the playing field for people from marginalized communities. In lieu of registry gifts, ask your guests to donate to an organization in your

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Shalisa Smith, based in Milwaukee, is a makeup artist with a stunning portfolio of flawless looks for every occasion, from weddings to fashion shoots.

She’s released skin care products with Bee Cosmetics and offers virtual makeup lessons where you can learn her professional tips and tricks.

Amanda Evans is a Milwaukee-based wedding and lifestyle photographer who lives for natural lighting. Her style is a mix of modern and classic, portraiture and candid moments.

Mikel McGee is the creative mastermind behind this Milwaukee floral design studio that provides services from floral subscriptions to wedding arrangements.

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How to choose the venue that’s right for you.

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a lot about you as a couple, so picking a venue is a crucial step and should be one of the first decisions you make together. The venue also affects how you’ll implement your décor and design. Depending on the size of your guest list and budget, the choices can be almost endless.

Whether it’s a charming garden in bloom to a well-manicured country club lawn, here are a few options to help you decide on your ideal venue. Before getting your heart set on any venue, however, be sure to check for restrictions due to COVID-19.

BARNS Many couples love a rustic barn setting—you have shelter when you need it, but also allows guests to dance under twinkling lights or a moonlit sky. A barn reception can also serve as a special nod to family history. Such a venue can occasionally present a challenge with catering, restrooms and entertainment, depending on the age and restoration of the barn. And if the barn has neither heat nor air-conditioning, considering seasonal temperatures is a must.

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EVENT CENTERS Some event centers provide full-service packages, making the planning process easier and more affordable. Others have a preferred list of wedding vendors, so you can choose within certain parameters. Depending on the space, event centers can be easily transformed into your dream wedding. Generally, the staff is experienced and has worked with local wedding vendors, for better communication all around. One challenge is the possible turnaround time for decorating, especially when another event is scheduled the day or evening before.

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CHECK OUT: The Farm at Dover, Dover | The Bowery, Rubicon | Gatherings on the Ridge, Eastman | The Barn at Trinity Peak, Oconomowoc | Pioneer Creek Farm, Lomira | Enchanted Barn, Hillsdale

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GARDENS A garden’s style can determine your whole day’s vibe, but one thing is assured: Fragrant blooms and a beautiful landscape will add special flair to your day and can transform it into a dreamy affair.

Allow the garden setting to speak for itself—with nature as your backdrop, your table arrangements and other décor can be simple and subtle. For this reception venue, be certain to outline a rain plan, just in case the weather is not in your favor on your special day.

CHECK OUT: The Greenhouse at Bittersweet, La Crosse | Green Bay Botanical Garden, Green Bay | Mystical Rose Gardens, Baldwin | Olbrich Botanical Gardens, Madison

HOTELS, LODGES, RESORTS If you picture a big wedding in a grand ballroom, a hotel could be perfect for you. Hotels can easily accommodate a large group but can usually arrange an appropriate space for a smaller guest list, and the staff knows how to handle a reception of any size. You can usually reserve a block of rooms for your out-of-town guests, for added convenience. One challenge? You might be sharing the venue with another wedding party or a group of conventioneers.

CHECK OUT: The Edgewater, Madison | The Pfister Hotel, Milwaukee | The Ridge, Lake Geneva | The Ingleside Hotel, Pewaukee | The Charmant Hotel, La Crosse | The Delafield Hotel, Delafield | The

Madison Concourse Hotel, Madison | The Osthoff Resort, Elkhart Lake | Lake Lawn Resort, Delavan | Gordon Lodge, Baileys Harbor | Milford Hills, Johnson Creek

MUSEUMS A museum is a stunning and sophisticated venue for your reception. Many museums’ event staff members are experienced in executing weddings and can offer great insight for creating your ideal event. Some museums have preferred vendors, however; which may limit your options for catering or décor. The bonus with museums is that you can usually arrange for certain galleries to be open for a limited time during your event, so guests can browse the exhibits during cocktail hour.

CHECK OUT: Harley Davidson Museum, Milwauke | Milwaukee Public Museum, Milwaukee | Madison Museum of Contemporary Art, Madison | Charles Allis and Villa Terrace Art Museums, Milwaukee | Milwaukee Art Museum, Milwaukee

BREWERIES, DISTILLERIES, VINEYARDS We Wisconsinites love our libations, so anyplace that makes these beverages is a natural choice.

Guests will love the individuality that comes with an unusual space and have fun trying out the different drinks. Many producers are located in historic buildings with rustic brick, beams and ornate woodwork. Others are in shiny new establishments and add a sleek, modern feel to your event.

CHECK OUT: Over the Vines, Edgerton | Best Place at the Historic Pabst Brewery, Milwaukee | Villa Bellezza, Pepin | Great Lakes Distillery, Milwaukee | Good City Brewery, Milwaukee | Milwaukee Brewing Company, Milwaukee

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PARKS If a casual setting surrounded by the natural beauty of Wisconsin is your style, consider a public park. These receptions can feel relaxed and intimate, and if you’re planning a simple event for a small group, you may hold the ceremony and reception in just about any public place in the park. For a larger event, or if you require shelter or equipment, check with the park manager. Also scope out the space to make certain there are adequate restroom facilities, resources to meet your electrical needs and places to shelter in case of inclement weather. (During the COVID-19 pandemic, most visitor centers, playgrounds and enclosed shelters are closed.)

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HISTORIC SITES The charm of a bygone era can set the scene for a lovely wedding that honors tradition and revels in details like high ceilings, stone fireplaces, hardwood floors and intricate carvings. Adding to the joy of the wedding is the adventure of learning something new about Wisconsin’s proud history.

CHECK OUT: The Old Courthouse Museum, West Bend | Rothschild Pavilion, Wausau | Milwaukee Athletic Club, Milwaukee | Historic Pritzlaff Building, Milwaukee | Story Hill Firehouse, Milwaukee | The Treasury, Delavan

HISTORIC HOMES Just because you didn’t grow up in a stately mansion doesn’t mean you can’t get married in one. A reception in a historic home, many on 34

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the National Register of Historic Places and sometimes open to the public for tours, can satisfy that dream of luxe living. Many historic homes have event planners and can take care of details such as catering, décor, preparation and cleanup for you. Sometimes availability is limited depending on tour schedules, and not all homes can accommodate large groups.

CHECK OUT: Paine Art Center and Gardens, Oshkosh | Villa Filomena, Milwaukee | Fairlawn Mansion, Superior | The Wisconsin Club’s City Club, Milwaukee

PRIVATE HOME OR BACK YARD A private home can provide a unique space all your own, often filled with special meaning.

Preparations and day-of workload may discourage many parents or friends from offering their homes, however, and size restrictions can also come into play. Among other challenges are arranging for adequate kitchen space, restrooms and parking.

Inform the neighbors of the special occasion so they can anticipate traffic and possible noise (and not call law enforcement with a complaint).

COUNTRY CLUBS If you dream of a classic space, a country club could be your best fit. Set on immaculate greens, country clubs offer sophisticated style and brilliant outdoor space, and frequently offer event planning services as well as in-house catering.

Your event may not be totally private, however, if club members can access the pool or grounds.

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RESTAURANTS For a small, intimate wedding, a restaurant is an excellent option. With possibilities for a unique menu and cozy ambience, this type of reception venue is relatively stress-free; guests could even order directly from the menu. Prior to booking your event, consult with the restaurant owner or general manager about space limitations and noise level during the time frame you are considering.

If noise is a concern, inquire about a separate area or private event room for your reception. Some restaurants will rent the entire space for your event, in which case they’ll close it to the public.

Check with your personal favorites to learn about availability!

TENTS A tented reception is a fantastic option that can comfortably accommodate a large guest list.

While providing guests with shade and cover (and sometimes air conditioning or heat), everyone can still enjoy the sunset and dance into the evening under the stars. A tent company will have many options to choose from, including lighting, table and chair rentals. Before finalizing arrangements, get to know your site so you can provide any electrical outlet information to your rental company.

CHECK OUT: D & S Party Tent Rentals, Wisconsin Dells | JK Rentals, Kewaskum | Event Essentials, Windsor *

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details, low back, sweetheart neckline, etc. Look at gowns on Pinterest (or in Wisconsin Bride!) Once you’re ready to step into the shop, bring pictures so your stylist has an idea of what you like and think you want.

That said, be open: Just because you don’t like the style in a photo doesn’t mean you won’t like it on yourself. Your stylist can show you things you might not even have thought of, explains Jennifer Kapinus at Vera’s House of Bridals (and granddaughter of Vera herself ), and most brides surprise themselves with what they fall in love with.

SCOUTING EXPEDITION

Do a little recon, visiting various stores. Check out websites, social media and reviews to narrow down your list. Look for shops that have a variety of styles and price options, and a staff you like, trust and treat you like the VIP you are. While doing recon, ask about in-store sizing. “It’s not uncommon to find your dream gown without seeing it in exactly your size,” Kapinus says, “but you will still want to be able to try on gowns that fit well.” Discuss in advance the styles you like and make sure they have those in your size. And be aware that bridal gowns differ in sizes from designer to designer and fit differently than everyday clothing. “Try not to fixate on the size of the gown that you are in; a dress fitting well is so much more important than the number on the tag,” Kapinus advises.

BRING ON YOUR BESTIES

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This is embarrassing, but I’m terrified of choosing a wedding gown. I don’t have the greatest figure—at least I don’t think I do—so shopping for the perfect dress is daunting. How will I ever find something that I like that I also think looks good on me?

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Whether you’re a size 2 or 22, finding the perfect gown can be stressful. Brides-to-be can find themselves overwhelmed with too many—or too few—options. Stay positive and focus on finding the dress that helps you radiate confidence. “Self-love” might be an overused term, but it’s essential when you’re shopping for your wedding dress.

FIND INSPIRATION

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Before you walk through the shop doors, do your hair, makeup and anything else that makes you feel like your best self. Kapinus suggests wearing something you’re comfortable in and bringing undergarments and/or shapewear if you want. “Keep in mind your stylist will be helping you in and out of the gowns, so most brides wear nude underwear and a strapless bra,” she says. Hate strapless bras? No problem. Most bridal gowns have built-in bra cups for extra support.

BRING IT ON

Once at your appointment, remember to keep that positive energy flowing. If a gown doesn’t feel right, don’t get discouraged — there’s always another to try on. And remember, the person you’re marrying already thinks you’re beautiful; what you wear should just help you feel even more so, all the way down the aisle.

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VERA’S HOUSE OF BRIDALS

When you gather your group for the appointment, keep it light. Choose friends and/or family who make you feel your best—no negative energy allowed—but will also be honest and respect your decisions. And keep it a small, intimate group. You want opinions, but not too many.

ENGAGEMENT PARTY INVITES TAYLOR DESIGN & STATIONERY

Send 4 weeks before the party Engagement parties can be a nice prequel for guests to meet before the big day. Some couples have a get-together right after the proposal, others wait up to three months post-engagement, so work backward to figure out when to finalize your design.

WEDDING INVITATIONS

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We’ve barely gotten engaged, and already people are telling me I have to start sending out announcements! What’s the protocol for announcements and invitations?

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You want your stationery to be as unique as your relationship, to reflect who you are as a couple, so finding the right designer or graphic artist early is a must. Once you choose your designer, they can advise you on the ins and outs, but here are some general guidelines.

SAVE-THE-DATES

Order 10-12 months before the wedding; send 6-12 months before These will be hanging on your guests’ fridges for a while, so make sure you love them. The cards should include you and your partner’s names, the wedding date or weekend, and a

location. If you have yet to pick a venue, add the city or town. A savethe-date card can also say “formal invitation to follow,” to give guests a heads up. Some couples just go with text and a design, while others use an engagement photo.

Star McMurtry, owner of Taylor Design & Stationery in Franklin, suggests adding an extra two months for sending destination wedding save-the-dates. This gives guests time to clear their calendars and make travel plans. “It also gives them something to look forward to—the wedding invitation!” she notes.

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My fiancé and I have been talking about whether I’ll take his last name or keep my own. I’m so conflicted! Could I ask him to take my last name, or is that just not a thing?

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Taking the last name of your spouse is a tradition you don’t have to follow.

In the olden days, it signified that the wife was “transferred” from her family’s property to the husband’s. Today, marriage is about two people who love each other, name change or not, so switch it up if you want. Our wedding professionals offer a few ideas.

IF IT AIN’T BROKE

A lot of brides keep their name because it’s the zero-hassle option—no need to change social media, business cards or legal documents—and it’s certainly not unheard-of these days.

Finalize design: 5-8 months before; send 2 months before This is the go-to information card for your guests. A traditional invite includes a host line, usually the couple’s parents. Then comes the request line where you ask your guests to attend; next come the couple’s names, followed by the date, time, and ceremony and reception location(s). There are endless wording options; if in doubt, ask your stationer.

McMurtry says for local weddings, couples should be discussing design concepts with their designer and placing orders five to six months before their wedding day. For destination weddings, couples can begin as early as eight months before, no later than six months. Many couples like to match the invitation suite to their wedding palette for

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a cohesive look, but Debbie Pape of Paper Envy in Elm Grove says working with your stationer early not only allows you to get exactly what you want but also helps you figure out what other details still need to be discussed and gathered, such as guest accommodations.

Make sure you add an RSVP deadline so you can get the final guest count to your venue on time.

(It’s also fun to see who is coming so you can play match-maker with your single friends.)

DAY-OF STATIONERY

Finalize design: 2-3 months before Your guests will be eyeing the dayof stationery all day (and night)— place cards, seating charts, signs, menus, program, favors, etc.

Two to three months before the wedding is a great time to sit down with your stationer, since, as Pape notes, other wedding elements come into play. For example, your stationer will need dinner choices for the response card and/or menu, so plan your tasting dates accordingly.

“It’s OK if you don’t have all this information when you first sit down with the stationer,” Pape says. “It’s a process that we work together on, and it’s typically a super-fun experience.”

This option offers a shared name as a couple. “You may feel uncomfortable changing your last name, but your partner may feel less attached to theirs,” says Genesis Lopez of Ambrosia Events. “Have a conversation with your partner about their feelings on taking your last name.”

of you. “It’s a great way to represent unity and the start of a new life together,” Lopez says. Or simply invent something new. “Not only are you passing on your new last name,” says Meredith Sipe, CEO and owner of Blue Fancy Events, “but you’re passing on a pretty cool story for your future children and grandchildren.”

HYPHENATE

KEEP YOUR NAME PUBLICLY

Hyphens can work wonders. A small dash between you and your spouse’s last name is the perfect way to recognize both families—even better if the names sound great together. Remember, though, if kids are in your future: Will the name be awkward to pronounce? Will it create challenges if they marry someone with a hyphenated name?

This is a great option for all you professionals out there. Legally, you take your spouse’s last name, but continue to use your unmarried name in work situations (for example, if you’re a magazine writer).

MERGE OR CREATE A NEW ONE

Merging your last names together can be a fun way to make something brand-new for the both

MAKE YOUR LAST NAME YOUR MIDDLE NAME

If you’re planning on having kids, this is a great way to keep the name in the family.

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THE CARRIAGE HOUSE AT LAC LA BELLE

THE BOG Nestled in the scenic rolling hills of the Wisconsin countryside only 25 minutes north of downtown Milwaukee, The Bog offers a lovely setting year-round. The breathtaking views set a beautiful stage for your special day and our high commitment to quality is reflected in our exceptional amenities, incomparable service and superb cuisine. Book your happily ever after today!

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Set in the completely renovated Club at Lac La Belle golf course in Oconomowoc, The Carriage House is a completely new experience like none other in Lake Country. Accommodates up to 250 guests, features a bridal prep suite, multiple catering options, large three-season patio with additional bar, outdoor seating, fire pits, yard games and more!

Filled with wonderful art and surrounded by breathtaking gardens, Villa Terrace is a historic mansion located on Milwaukee’s vibrant East Side. The unparalleled beauty of the Mediterranean-style villa will surround your guests as they appreciate tranquil views of Lake Michigan from the Terrazzo Della Luna or stroll through the Renaissance Garden.

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THE CHARMANT HOTEL

DELAFIELD HOTEL

THE EDGEWATER

For the most charming of weddings, experience The Charmant, a luxury boutique hotel and restaurant housed in a former candy factory. You and your guests will overlook the scenic Mississippi River while taking in sweeping views of Downtown La Crosse.

Glamorous. Sophisticated. Exceptional. Delafield Hotel is the perfect setting for a simple or lavish wedding celebration—the choice is up to you!

Once inside, Delafield Hotel surrounds you with rich cherry wood, eclectic art and contemporary furnishings, providing you with the relaxed, yet luxurious, environment you would expect from this Four Diamond hotel.

Madison’s Place for Views & Vows. Weddings at The Edgewater are unparalleled in the region.

Magnificent water views are visible from many of our venues and guest rooms. The expertly trained teams bring passion and magic to every wedding.

Plus, you can relax and prepare for your special day in luxury at our spa and salon. This is the place for enchanted beginnings.

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THE IVY HOUSE

The Celtic House sits just off the 18th green and boasts gorgeous sunset views, lush lawn and rolling terrain. It features a neutral color palette and modern decor, allowing you to easily customize the space as you see fit. A dedicated wedding planner, professional staff, and amazing culinary team believe that each wedding should be an experience that you and your guests will remember forever.

Intimate or extravagant, indoors or outdoors, The Ingleside Hotel in Pewaukee sets the stage for a truly memorable event. With newly renovated accommodations for 50 to 500 guests and professional on-site wedding specialists, assistants are ready to help with ceremonies, receptions, showers, gift openings and much more. Contact one of The Ingleside’s wedding specialists to schedule an appointment. Photo

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The Ivy House is a multi-award winning wedding venue that boasts cascading greenery, skylights, cream city brick, a large bar made from reclaimed bleacher board and a specious ivy-drenched patio.

If you love lush botanicals, great drinks and an allnight dance party, this is your place!

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TR APPERS TURN

LAKE LAW N R ESORT

Begin the next chapter of your life with a day to remember among family and friends. It’s your day, and Trappers Turn wants to ensure it goes perfectly—because this day is all about you and your love. From the catering, cake and champagne to the breathtaking, picturesque scenery—they’ve got you covered. Breathe out. Relax. You’re in good hands.

A lakeside wedding has a nice ring to it! Located just outside of Lake Geneva, Lake Lawn Resort is Southeast Wisconsin’s premier lakefront destination wedding venue. The resort sits on over two miles of shoreline on Delavan Lake and features rolling lawns, charming courtyards, and sweeping views of the lake.

262.728.7950 | LakeLawnResort.com

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THE MADISON CONCOURSE HOTEL Say “yes” to no stress and having everything you need under one roof in the heart of beautiful downtown Madison. The f lexible grand ballroom is the perfect setting for your vision and guest list. At the end of the night, your bed is just an elevator ride away! Let this expert wedding team help you craft your big day.

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MUSE AT SENTRY

Promise your love on a rooftop garden overlooking Lake Monona with views of the downtown skyline and Capitol dome. Monona Terrace marries the ideal wedding venue location with service and style to help you create an event to cherish and remember— forever. Let these talented professionals orchestrate your incredible wedding day at Monona Terrace

Whether you’re looking to reserve space for a small gathering or planning to host a wedding reception, Muse at Sentry offers you stylish and modern spaces in an artistic environment. We can also help you choose a menu to satisfy your guests and supply audio and visual equipment rentals. Whether it’s during the week or on the weekend, we’re able to meet whatever needs you may have. Photo by Lisa Young Photography.

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715.346.1800 | Experiencemuse.com

OVER THE VINES VINEYARD & WINE BARN Over the Vines is family owned and operated located just 30 miles south of downtown Madison and boasts one of the most stunning event locations in the Midwest. Look no further for your wedding location that offers both indoor and outdoor options, ceremony and reception onsite, and loads of complimentary add ons. Close enough for convenience, far enough for you to be able to disconnect and enjoy.

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SENTRY WOR LD At SentryWorld, dream weddings become reality. We offer breathtaking facilities coupled with a wide variety of packages and amenities to deliver an exceptional experience with firstclass service. From high-quality, handmade menu options to picturesque photography sites, we have everything you need to make your day uniquely yours. Photo by CJ Photography.

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PHOTO BY: TWIG & OLIVE PHOTOGRAPHY. PLANNER: CHERRY BLOSSOM EVENTS. VENUE: THE HISTORIC PRITZLAFF.

AN EXCLUSIVE GUIDE TO TOP-TIER WEDDING VENDORS IN WISCONSIN.

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88 EVENTS

AMBROSIA EVENTS

BE INSPIR ED SALON, INC.

88 Events is a full-service event company, specializing in Wedding and Event Planning, Coordination, Florals and Decor. The 88 Events team is comprised of talented industry professionals who are passionate about design and bringing your vision to life. Let’s make your day beautiful together! Photo by Devon Rose Photography

Ambrosia Events is a full-service, Milwaukee-based event planning, design and decor company that also provides f lorals, rentals, pipe and drape, lighting and special effects.

We are grateful to be recognized as an award-winning bridal hair & makeup salon. It is truly a testament to the talent of our amazing bridal stylists & brides we work with each year! We offer exclusive bridal packages options so your planning process is easy & thorough.

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608-271-2771 | BeInspiredSalon.com

920.470.3656 | events88.com

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ENTERTAINMENT

BLUE FANCY EVENTS

BLUE PLATE CATERING

This Milwaukee & Madision based family of planners is committed to developing trusting relationships with each of their couples, in order to allow for easy and stress free planning. They pride themselves on excellent communication, honesty, and a level of authenticity that is palpable from the moment you meet.

Experience the peace of mind that comes from partnering with a full service caterer. Voted Wisconsin Bride Magazine’s 2017 Best Caterer and Best Caterer Finalist 2014-2020. Photo by Maison Meredith Photography.

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Celebrations Entertainment is the premier wedding entertainment company in Madison. With more experience than any company in southern Wisconsin, think fun, modern and professional. At Celebrations, every event is personally coordinated to fit your vision and personality. Photo booths, specialty lighting, casino entertainment and more are available. Another plus? “We have the honor of being a winner in ‘The Best of Madison’!”

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DAFFODIL* PARKER

DARLING WEDDING CO.

daffodil*parker is a passionate, design-progressive floral studio located in downtown Madison. Our womenowned business has created petal-perfect, exquisite designs for couples since 2006! Voted “Best Florist” though Wisconsin Bride Magazine every year since 2011 - we LOVE what we do! Whether you want to obsess with us about your favorite shade of dahlia or gush about your grand tablescape, our designers are always primed and ready to flower dream with you.

As Dane County’s longest-running planning company we understand that this is a super exciting time, but also a little bit stressful. We’re here to help you kick all that stress to the curb and get straight to the party. We offer planning packages ranging from “we just need a little help before the wedding and on our special day” to “we have no clue where to start and don’t have time to figure it out!”

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MIDWESTERN BRIDE Personal, purposeful planning. Your wedding day is meant to be a reflection of your story and our team of planners are here to guide you on that journey. We work with you to incorporate the different elements of your personality and style to create a one of a kind event. With planners all over Wisconsin we work with you to find the best fit for your budget, location, and personality. We can’t wait to meet you, Cheers!

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MILWAUKEE FLOWER CO.

THE PAPER ELEPHANT

Sally and her team are committed to artfully executing each couple’s unique vision by designing with flowers that evoke emotion and showcase the most spectacular blooms. Collaboratively they curate your wedding flowers with a human and high touch experience.

The Paper Elephant offers genuine and romantic, timeless imagery for couples who believe that LOVE is a legacy. They are not just photographers of pretty photographs, but preservers of your love and relationship. Their goal is to capture the most beautiful side of you and authentically tell your story for generations to come. They cannot wait to document your story.

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RIVER VALLEY CATERING

VER A’S HOUSE OF BRIDALS

Relics Rentals provides rad rental solutions for events, interiors, or whatevs by renting, sourcing, creating, and designing well-appointed spaces. We’re the ace up your sleeve for planners, art directors, real estate professionals, homeowners, brides, photographers, caterers, party hosts, and more. We’re at your service for one feature of your event or the whole dang affair.

Located in River Falls and serving the greater Twin Cities area, River Valley Catering understands that a key aspect of a great caterer is giving clients exactly what they want by customizing the perfect menu to their vision. Whether you’re planning an intimate wedding or a gala of the year, choose a caterer that can take care of your wants and needs.

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715.425.8106 | rivervalleycatering.com

Since 1964, Vera’s House of Bridals, has been helping brides of every style, size and budget find the wedding dresses of their dreams. Third-generation family owned, located in Madison, WI, they pamper their brides with exceptional service and the largest selection of over 800 designer gowns from around the world. Fun, easy and stress-free shopping is something you’ll remember long after you say, “I do.”

BEAUTY & APPAREL

PHOTO: PAPER ANTLER. VENUE: HORSESHOE BAY GOLF CLUB. RENTALS: RELICS VINTAGE RENTALS

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LOVE AT THE LAKE Lauren & Tim TEXT: WEDDING: September

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Sydney Stevens Big Foot Country Club, Lake Geneva due to COVID

CEREMONY & RECEPTION:

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Kelly Grace Photography Lauren O’Brien was 10 years old when she decided 14-year-old Tim Allen was her “ultimate childhood crush” after they met at family gatherings at Lake Geneva. Ten years later, Tim’s dad learned about the crush and was successful in his mission to set them up. Fast forward four summers, and the two were back at the lake where it all started. Tim told Lauren he couldn't imagine spending the rest of his life without her. After Lauren said “yes!” she was surprised to see her closest family and friends waiting in Abbey Harbor House to celebrate their engagement. On their wedding day, the rain forced the ceremony inside, but the planner and vendors did a seamless job transitioning. Lauren and Tim said “I do” in the ballroom 46

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under a large floral circle filled with greenery and white flowers, a gift from the florist. A neutral palette of white and silver decorated the venue, with light blue in the linens and floral bouquets to adding a pop of color.

Guests could sip on some bubbly at the custom-made Champagne wall, which was the talk of the night, or head over to the “You + Me” neon sign above the fireplace for a photo-op. The couple’s favorite part of the night was hearing the speeches about their love story through the eyes of family and friends. But nothing could top the sentimental speech from Lauren’s dad. “He gave his blessing, and you could see how happy he was that Timmy and I would be spending our lives together,” Lauren says.

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LOVE THY NEIGHBOR Catherine & Benjamin TEXT: Sydney Stevens 6, 2019 CEREMONY: Church of the Gesu, Milwaukee RECEPTION: Blue Mound Golf & Country Club, Wauwatosa HONEYMOON: Hawaii

WEDDING: July

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Hart & Fig Photography Catherine Snow took the phrase “love thy neighbor” seriously when she met her downstairs neighbor Ben Miller their sophomore year at the University of Dayton. Their neighborly friendship turned romantic when Ben asked Catherine to be his date at a family wedding in the summer before their junior year. Eight and a half years later, Ben pulled off the charming proposal Catherine had always dreamed of, when she came home after work to find their dog, Riri, with a ring box hanging from her collar. After his proposal, Ben surprised her again, with close friends waiting to celebrate at a dinner at Pizza Man off Downer, their go-to date spot at the time. The couple’s wedding vision of sexy chic came together perfectly with a black and 48

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white design theme. Catherine carried white peonies with pops of green, tall black centerpieces with ferns adorned some tables, while others had mini bouquets matching the bride’s, with candles for a romantic touch; the cake was kept simple, with a fern design to match the centerpieces. The cigar bar outside served dark liquor and included monogrammed matchbooks, an homage to Catherine’s childhood in Chicago, when she would accompany her dad to cigar shops. “I remember loving those boxes and the smells. It was something I always wanted at our wedding,” she said. As the sun went down on their perfect July day, everyone gathered on the dance floor to celebrate Catherine and Ben’s everlasting love.

YOUR Dream Dress FOR LESS White Dress Off The Rack has an incredible selection of wedding dresses ranging from $350-$2,000.

Being the sister store of White Dress Bridal Boutique, you will surely find a pretty dress with an even prettier pricetag!

Justin Alexander from Mira Couture by the bride; made by Mira Couture | EARRINGS: Beholden | SHOES: Jimmy Choo | ALTERATIONS: Mira Couture | HAIR: Angela Trost at Texture Salon | MAKEUP: Kate Troxell | GROOM’S & GROOMSMEN’S ATTIRE: The Black Tux | FLORIST: Jane Kelly Floral | CAKE/DESSERTS, BEVERAGES/BARTENDING, CATERER, LINENS : Blue Mound Golf & Country Club | INVITATIONS: Shelby Design Co. | BAND: Bluewater Kings Band | RENTALS: Arena Rentals | TRANSPORTATION: Jones Travel, Go Riteway | VIDEOGRAPHER: One Fine Day Productions | WEDDING PLANNER/COORDINATOR: Melissa Shaw at MK Social GOWN & ACCESSORIES:

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WINTER WONDERLAND Jennifer & Matthew Sydney Stevens WEDDING: January 4, 2020 CEREMONY: St. Patrick’s, Racine RECEPTION: The Covenant at Murray Mansion, Racine HONEYMOON: Puerto Vallarta, Mexico TEXT:

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The Paper Elephant Jennifer McIlquham’s dog, Helix, knew her “mom” and Matthew Suarez were destined to be together. Jennifer and Matthew were each out walking their dogs when Helix broke free and ran to Matthew’s dog, Reggie. “They started playing, and the rest is history!” Jennifer says. Fast-forward two years at the same park: Matthew got down on one knee to propose. The couple’s January wedding day was warmed by family taking part in their Catholic ceremony. Godparents brought gifts down the aisle and walked in the procession to make the day even more special. Murray Mansion became an elegant winter wonderland, with evergreen trees embellished according to the white, silver and 50

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green palette. Small pine tree centerpieces decorated the guest tables while white houses with lights and garlands adorned the head table.

One of the couple’s favorite moments — second only to their first sight of each other in the church — was when the two went up to the balcony during the reception. “We took a minute to ourselves to take everything in from the day and enjoy looking out at everyone who was there to support us and our future,” Jennifer says. Guests received chocolates Jennifer had hand-wrapped and placed in boxes with wooden name tags. The big surprise: The newlyweds held a gender reveal after the ceremony to share the news of their baby-to-be: It’s a girl!

Brandi’s Bridal Galleria | HAIR & MAKEUP: Posh Beauty Bar Generation Tux | FLORIST: Jaimer’s Floral | CAKE/DESSERTS, BEVERAGES/BARTENDING, CATERER, LINENS: The Covenant at Murray Mansion | INVITATIONS, PROGRAMS & SIGNAGE: Stephanie McDonough | DJ: Midwest Sound VIDEOGRAPHER: David Schulta | WEDDING PLANNER/COORDINATOR: Hannah Capelli at The Covenant at Murray Mansion GOWN & ACCESSORIES, BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES, ALTERATIONS:

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Natalie & Trevor Sherri Hildebrandt The Gardens Wedding Center, Allenton HONEYMOON: Belize

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Brianna Lane Photography When Natalie Kraemer was a junior in high school in 2008, she met a college freshman named Trevor Anderson at a friend’s house. The two dated for a couple years, broke up, but occasionally ran into each other while attending the same college and when they both briefly lived in Atlanta. Cut to 2018: Natalie and Trevor met for dinner in Minneapolis, and the old feelings reignited. Ten years after they first dated, they were married on what Natalie describes as “the best day ever,” in an outdoor ceremony with family and friends from across the country. The day had a relaxed feel: The bride went barefoot and wore flowers in her hair. Her gown was personalized with shoulder straps fashioned from lace from her mother’s wedding dress. Family and friends played a big part in 52

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the ceremony. As she walked down the aisle, Natalie’s sister sang “Beautiful Things” by Gungor; the officiant was a friend of both bride and groom, and the bride’s cousin served as videographer. The couple wanted a reception with a backyard vibe, so with the help of her mother and friends, Natalie used an abundance of flowers from their own yard, along with some purchased blooms to create everything from centerpieces to boutonnieres, and used items from her mother’s rental company to create table décor and displays. Adding to the backyard-party feel were games and good eats, with an ice cream truck serving up dessert. After dinner, the couple managed to slip away for a moment alone to enjoy the sunset and revel in newlywed bliss.

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The Wedding Shoppe, St. Paul | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Bridesmaid’s choice | ALTERATIONS: St. Croix Cleaners | HAIR: Abby Mondloch | MAKEUP: Mel Noel | GROOM’S ATTIRE & ACCESSORIES: Zara | GROOMSMEN’S ATTIRE: H&M, Amazon | FLOWERS: Harrow + Bloom (floral wreaths and altar canopy); by family and friends of the bride | DESSERTS: The Gardens Wedding Center ice cream truck | CATERER, BEVERAGES & BARTENDER: The Gardens Wedding Center | DÉCOR: Jane Kraemer, POPdesigns Bridewise Rental | TRANSPORTATION: Phase 1 Limousine services | VIDEOGRAPHER: Amanda Mondloch GOWN & ACCESSORIES:

Waterfront Setting • Indoor & Outdoor Event Spaces • Wedding Coordination Team From private lakeside vows to grand ballroom events, no matter your wedding style or party size, a wedding at Gordon Lodge offers an unforgettable experience at an unimaginable location. Plan your perfect day at GordonLodge.com.

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MADE WITH LOVE Lauren & Miguel TEXT: WEDDING: January

4, 2020

Sydney Stevens

CEREMONY & RECEPTION: Mercantile

HONEYMOON: Oahu,

Hall, Burlington

Hawaii

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Something Unique Film Lauren Hill had a “thing” for Miguel Lunar after they met in high school, when she was a freshman and he a sophomore. Their friendship deepened after when Miguel returned from his first deployment in the Middle East in December 2017. The connection was strong, and the two spent most of the next two weeks together. After more than a year of dating, the two headed to Milwaukee from Washington to surprise their families for Easter weekend.

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on the Calatrava Bridge, when he popped the question — perfectly, according to Lauren. “He is so sentimental and listens to every little detail that I love about everything, so he most definitely nailed it,” she says. The wedding featured a simple palette of neutrals with natural greens, with an elegant eucalyptus and ranunculus display above the altar. The wedding was truly a family affair: Lauren honored her parents by having them walk her down the aisle; her brother served as the officiant, and they made time to celebrate her mom’s 60th birthday, which fell on the wedding day. Miguel’s dad and stepmom used wood from his grandmother’s yard to make the centerpieces and altar, matching the rustic-chic theme.

GOWN & ACCESSORIES: Bliss Bridal | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: David’s Bridal | ALTERATIONS: Sewing by Suzy | HAIR & MAKEUP: Emily at Legacy Salon | GROOM’S & GROOMSMEN’S ATTIRE: The Black Tux | FLORIST: Kathy at Gooseberries Fresh Food Market | CAKE/DESSERTS: Simma’s Bakery | BEVERAGES/BARTENDING: Mercantile Hall | CATERER: Smoke Shack | DÉCOR: By the groom’s family | LINENS: Mercantile Hall | INVITATIONS, PROGRAMS & SIGNAGE: Etsy, HK Graphics | DJ: Mercantile Hall | WEDDING PLANNER/COORDINATOR: Stephanie Heft

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BADGERS AT HEART Allison & Nolan TEXT: Sydney Stevens 19, 2019 CEREMONY: Blessed Sacrament Parish, Madison RECEPTION: The Edgewater, Madison HONEYMOON: Vietnam

WEDDING: October

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Twig & Olive Photography Alli Sontag and Nolan Hartwick have Badger football to thank for their serendipitous tailgate meeting. Even though the two moved to Chicago after graduating from UW-Madison, they return every fall to cheer on their alma mater. Three years into dating, the couple was enjoying a picnic by Lake Michigan when Nolan pulled a handmade picture frame out of his backpack and said they needed to make a new memory to put in the frame. He pulled out the ring and popped the question just as the sun was setting over the lake. The couple exchanged “I do’s” looking at Lake Mendota from The Edgewater, 56

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which combined the classic and modern Madison the two fell in love with. Alli and Nolan paid homage to their favorite city by having bag boards, hand-decorated cookies, Ian’s Pizza and, of course, a guest appearance from Bucky Badger. By the end of the night, the photo guest book was filled with Polaroids and notes for the bride and groom for a fun keepsake. But nothing could compare to the feeling the couple had at the ceremony. “It was such an emotional moment seeing each other for the first time as I walked down the aisle to Nolan, and it made the ceremony even more meaningful to both of us,” Alli says.

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MADISON’S PLACE FOR

Weddings at The Edgewater are unparalleled in the region. Magnificent water views can be seen from many of our venues and guest rooms. Our expertly trained wedding and catering team bring passion and magic to every wedding. Plus, you can relax and prepare for your special day in luxury at our spa and salon. This is the place for enchanted beginnings.

MADISON’S PLACE

1001 Wisconsin Place Madison, WI. 608.535.8200 I theEdgewater.com

“Aubrey” by Anne Barge from Bella Bianca Bridal Couture | BRIDES’ SHOES: Betsy Johnson | EARRINGS: BHLDN | ENGAGEMENT RING & BAND: Brilliant Earth | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: The Dessy Group from Brideside Chicago | ALTERATIONS: Bella Bianca | HAIR: Nataliya Ilkiv Hair | MAKEUP: Roxana Lopez at The Edgewater Spa | GROOM’S & GROOMSMEN’S ATTIRE: The Black Tux, The Tie Bar | FLORIST: daffodil*parker | CAKE: Bloom Bake Shop DESSERTS: The Edgewater | COOKIES: Howes Sweet Custom Cakes and Cookies | BEVERAGES, BARTENDING, CATERER & LINENS: The Edgewater | DECOR, INVITATIONS, PROGRAMS, & SIGNAGE: Minted, Etsy, Steve Gall (the bride’s uncle) | BAND: Bluewater Kings Band TRANSPORTATION: Badger Bus Trolley | PLANNER/COORDINATOR: Rachel Tatge from Top Shelf Weddings & Events

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LOVE ACROSS THE MILES Claudia & Lee Sherri Hildebrandt WEDDING: November 15, 2019 CEREMONY: St. Anne Catholic Church, Coleman RECEPTION: Green Bay Distillery HONEYMOON: Hawaii TEXT:

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Abbots Lane Photography (Josh Witzel) Claudia Cabrera and Lee Meyer’s romance stood the challenge of time and distance even before their marriage. The two met in Claudia’s native Venezuela in 2014, when Lee was there working with a baseball team. After that day, “we didn’t stop talking,” Claudia says.

The conversation continued with Claudia’s move to the U.S. They were in Fresno, California, and about to drive to Lee’s hometown of Pound, Wisconsin, but decided to spend a few days in Carmel. After watching a Packers game, they went for a walk on the beach with their puppy, appropriately named Lambeau, when Lee asked a group of young people to take their photo. In reality, he was confiding that 58

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he was about to propose and asking if they would take a video of the magic moment. The ceremony was equally magical, made even more meaningful for Claudia when the musicians sang a song in Spanish that her late grandma sang to her as girl. A highlight at the reception was entertainment by dueling pianos and other instruments. “It was as special as we dreamt,” Lee says. A “memory table” added a unique touch: a table set with chairs, place cards, linens and centerpieces for the people Lee and Claudia loved who have passed on. “Our cultural backgrounds are so different,” Claudia says, but both families enjoyed the mix and joyously celebrated the new couple.

Tie The Knot | BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: David’s Bridal | GROOM’S & GROOMSMEN’S ATTIRE: Men’s Wearhouse Ashley Artistry & CO | FLOWERS: French Street Floral & Gifts | CAKE/DESSERTS: Monzu Bakery | CATERER, BEVERAGES & BARTENDING: Green Bay Distillery | DÉCOR: DIY, with assist from From This Day Forward Wedding Planners | LINENS: Green Bay Distillery | INVITATIONS, PROGRAMS & SIGNAGE: Shutterfly | MUSICIANS/DJ: Felix & Fingers Dueling Pianos | TRANSPORTATION: Prestige Limousine | WEDDING PLANNER/COORDINATOR: Liz Walker, From This Day Forward Wedding Planners GOWN & ACCESSORIES:

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A FAMILY AFFAIR Angie & Ryan Sherri Hildebrandt The Greenhouse at Bittersweet, La Crosse HONEYMOON: Mexico

TEXT: WEDDING: August

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Pink Spruce Photography Angela Wierzbicki and Ryan Capwell created a wedding day that will be remembered as a relaxed, festive gathering of family and friends, full of personal touches. It was even more of a family affair at the reception, when they marked Angie’s grandparents’ 65th wedding anniversary with a special cake, made by her mother. At their outdoor ceremony, the new couple mixed soil from each of their parents’ properties as part of a unity ritual, then planted a tree. The couple, who met while working at a local grocery store, wanted to have a natural theme, so The Greenhouse at Bittersweet Flower Market made the perfect blooming background, as well as providing plants and flowers galore for the venue, including thistles and dahlias in autumn 60

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colors in the arrangements. Personal touches included centerpieces using her grandmother’s antique blue Mason jars filled with fairy lights, while family and friends made many of the signs and other décor. The little ones had their own special table with snacks and treats, plus specially drawn cartoon pictures of the bride and groom to color. Pets weren’t forgotten, either.

Signature drinks gave a nod to their pets: the Augie Grog (a rum punch) in honor of their dog, and the Crosby Cooler (a vodka spritzer) for their cat. “The best part of our day is that it felt like no stress and just love and enjoyment from family and friends,” Angie says. “Ryan and I are pretty goofy, so we kept it light and just had fun together.”

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WE’LL ALWAYS HAVE PARIS Lindsay & Joey TEXT: WEDDING: November

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Sherri Hildebrandt

CEREMONY & RECEPTION:

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NORTHERN LIGHTS Sara & Jake TEXT: WEDDING: December MINI-MOON: Canoe

Bay, Chetek

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The Loft at 132, Sun Prairie Louise & Banff National Park, Canada (delayed due to COVID-19)

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a “Bubbles & Buds” entrance wall, where guests could select Champagne (Sara’s drink of choice), or Jake’s go-to, Bud Light. Channeling a cozy “up north” vibe, seasonal greenery, pendant lighting and Edison bulbs were blended into the neutral color palette. The exposed brick, walls of windows and warm wood tones added to the charm. Jake’s favorite moment was “standing at the altar and feeling so incredibly happy as I saw Sara walking down the aisle. That’s the moment that I’ll never forget,” he says. The drinks flowed, with three specialty cocktails dedicated to their three beloved dogs. From an area to snap Polaroid pictures to a cigar station on the rooftop, the night was unforgettable — as it should be.

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large willow trees and surrounding area. Along with touching moments, like when Joey whispered “You look so beautiful” to Cait just before the ceremony started, they created some off beat memories, too. The entire 20-person bridal party nearly ended up in the lake when they posed for photos on the dock and suddenly heard a huge CR ACK! as the dock began to sink. (Luckily, no one fell in.) And Joey, who said all he wanted for the wedding dinner was a Culver’s burger and Portillo’s chocolate cake, got his wish: a Culver’s cheeseburger was served on a silver platter at dinner, and Portillo’s chocolate cake was served to all the guests. Since Cait’s father loves setting off fireworks, they were a must, and the evening ended dramatically as the skies lit up. “He did not disappoint,” says Cait.

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A SWEET BEGINNING Elise & Ariez TEXT: WEDDING: September

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Marit Williams Photography During their sophomore year at Hudson High School, Ariez Sime would throw candy at Elise Martin to get her attention when she walked into math class. Their relationship only grew sweeter during summers in high school and college, when they spent time at Ariez’s grandparents’ place on the St. Croix River. That’s where he proposed in 2017, at sunset on a summer night. “We had a short ceremony with some of our favorite Bible verses that reminded us to remain grounded in faith, love one another and see the beauty in the mundane,” Elise says. The peace and intimacy of Birch Hill Barn made their venue choice an easy one, and personal 68

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touches—such as chocolates for their guests from Knoke’s Chocolate in Hudson, the same kind that Ariez would put in Elise’s backpack to surprise her—made the day even more special. Elise credits Studio Fleurette for the boho chic vibe she sought in the décor, using “flowers and more flowers,” glass votives, delicate linens and chandeliers, with greenery, vines and loose flowers strewn across the reception tables. Elise recalls an especially vivid moment just before the ceremony when she had some time alone. “I took a minute to pause and realize how blessed I was,” she says, “and how excited I felt to be marrying my best friend.” *

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text SHERRI HILDEBRANDT photos WHITNEY AND MATSAYA PHOTOGRAPHY planning + styling FRESH COAST EVENTS

SAVOR THE MOMENT IT’S YOUR DAY, AND IT WILL PASS IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE. STOP FOR A MOMENT TO ENJOY THE LOVELY DETAILS THAT MAKE IT SO SPECIAL.

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Where better to reflect on beauty than in the midst of it, at Milwaukee’s classic Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum?

Our bride’s Madi Lane gown from Miss Ruby Boutique is a rich confection of layered tulle with a floral motif, off-the-shoulder straps and a sweetheart neckline— romance at its most elegant. Her hair, a cascade of loose waves, is an inspired artist’s vision, thanks to Hnubhli Designs.

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The Cake Lady’s sublime work of art features delicate brushstrokes of color to mirror the pale pinks and yellows in the floral arrangement by Feisty Flowers.

Flecks of gold leaf outline the layers of ruffled icing, hinting at the delectable treat beneath.

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Our bride puts her best foot forward with the tender colors of spring in this casual bouquet from Feisty Flowers.

Included among the blossoms are juliet garden roses, tulips, white delphinium,yellow ranunculus and oncidium orchids.

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Thoughtfully designed stationery from Coqui Paperie sets the tone before the big day. Swirls of elegant calligraphy on deckle-edged paper bring a fresh feel to the suite that employs sunrise-rosy hues with the blues of Lake Michigan. It’s all tucked into an envelope lined with a watercolor reproduction of Villa Terrace’s beloved waterfall stairs.

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All a-twirl in happy reverie, our bride knows she’s simply radiant with the understated, natural makeup of Melody Sopa Artistry.

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A grouping of refined bouquets graces the ceremony site, adding dimension and geometric interest and a dramatic contrast to the whitewashed walls and brick floor.

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Who says weddings are just afternoon and evening affairs? A wedding brunch served up by Simple Eats Mke is a bright start to wedded bliss. Guests will love to linger over mimosas, fresh fruit, breakfast pastries and a mug of Italian roast served on this tablescape, with a spot of color in the linen napkins from Windy City Linens and menu cards from Coqui Paperie. *

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Tasha Rae Jewelry

BRIDAL ACCESSORIES

Hnubhli Designs

FLORIST

Melody Sopa Artistry

CAKE

Windy City Linens

CATERER

Relics Rentals

Jaxie Bridal

Feisty Flowers The Cake Lady Simple Eats Mke VENUE

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Madi Lane Bridal Dress from Miss Ruby Boutique

Villa Terrace Decorative Arts Museum

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THE POWER OF LOVE BRIGHT, AIRY DETAILS AND A MINIMALIST VIBE PUT A STRIKING LOVE STORY IN THE SPOTLIGHT AT THE COVENANT AT MURRAY MANSION. Text MEGAN WHITE

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Design & Planning SOCIALITE SUITE EVENTS

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Big, loose florals in a classic combination of white and green is updated with dramatic pops of burgundy.

Branching Out & Co. used faint pink roses, chocolate cosmos, veronica, scabiosa and locally grown Queen Anne’s lace accented by olive branches and soft plumosa. Whimsical wisps of jasmine cascade from the mantel, playing off ornate details in the historic Murray Mansion.

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Our couple makes a breathtaking entrance, the groom in a subtle blue suit from Kohl’s, the bride in an effortlessly breezy ball gown by Tara LaTour from Strike Bridal Bar. Accompany the look with florals — the ribbon’s hint of pale blue ties together the ensembles.

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1} Classic and clean invitations by Kasey Cody & Co. allude to the minimalist appeal. The monogrammed crest suggests the nostalgic venue, while a modern take on calligraphy pleasingly contrasts old and new.

2} A bold floral hairpiece by Branching Out & Co. with fresh, romantic flair pairs perfectly with a naturally elegant hairstyle by Noor Khali.

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4} Murray Mansion was built in Racine in 1874 and is an ideal location for a timeless, intimate wedding like this one, styled by Socialite Suite Events. Clean white walls and gleaming wood floors clear the frame, keeping all the attention on the nearly-weds.

5} Our bride pauses to take a breath before starting her journey down the aisle. Makeup by Shalisa Elizabeth Artistry accentuates her natural beauty and leaves her glowing with anticipation and confidence.

Behind her, the grandeur of the staircase complements her poise.

6} Add some cutting-edge details to your look. Pearls artfully embellish the couple’s hairstyles, thoughtfully and creatively styled by Noor Khali.

7} A refreshing pale blue suit makes a soothingly suave statement. This of-the-moment hue commands attention with lighthearted assurance as our groom steps into life as a newlywed. *

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Venue: THE COVENANT AT MURR AY MANSION Florist: BR ANCHING OUT & CO. Dress: TAR A LATOUR FROM STRIKE BRIDAL BAR Groom’s suit: KOHL’S Bride’s makeup: SHALISA ELIZABETH ARTISTRY Groom’s makeup: NOOR KHALI Hair (bride & groom): NOOR KHALI Jewelry: TASHA R AE JEWELRY Invitations: K ASEY CODY & CO. Models: DEJA IMANI & JAQUIN BROWN-HOLLAND

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SUMPTUOUS FLORALS ADD A LUSH TOUCH TO THIS BLISSFUL SUMMER WEDDING AT WILLOW POND BED AND BREAKFAST. text SYDNEY STEVENS photography AMANDA STEINHAUER PHOTOGRAPHY

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THIS PAGE This edgy bride’s bright smile is highlighted by a bold red lip, courtesy of K Charles Beauty. A flirty length of cascading blue and white ribbons tie together her grand bouquet of summer florals.

OPPOSITE PAGE The serenity of Willow Pond Bed and Breakfast in Weyauwega is a dreamy backdrop for your big day.

The round arch is rife with blossoms from The Flower Mill, including king protea, roses, tulips, spray roses, thistle, lisianthus, ruscus, ivy and preserved palms.

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ABOVE A classic boutonnière of white spray roses, leatherleaf and limonium, designed by The Flower Mill, accents the groom’s suit in a striking royal blue, with a whimsical bowtie, both courtesy of DuBois Formalwear.

CENTER The circular arch, symbolizing eternal love, makes the perfect frame for outdoor “I do’s.” Lauren Lee at The Flower Mill created this lavish vision with an abundance of dusty pinks and natural greens that match the bouquet and boutonnière.

BELOW Make a statement in this one-of-a-kind gown from Wardrobe By Dulcinea. The traditional high neck with open side paneling creates a casual-chic look to match the relaxed outdoor vibe.

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ABOVE Swoon over this marvelous bouquet from The Flower Mill. Shades of warm pink, dusty rose and fresh green echo the florals in the arch and boutonnière.

CENTER Gliding across a tranquil pond in a canoe for two, our couple shares a private moment—what could be better than basking in the beauty of nature after that first kiss at the altar? The pretty-as-a-picture landscape makes for your memories that last a lifetime.

BELOW LEFT Blue tableware atop sheer white linen is simplicity itself. Tall candles add dimension, while the silver accents set off the rustic wood table. A bowl of blueberries, in harmony with the palette, adds a fresh prequel to the sweet day’s sweet treats.

VENUE & CANOE:

Willow Pond Bed and Breakfast

BELOW RIGHT Cake not your thing? No problem. Opt for ease and serve up doughnuts on silver platters adorned with pink and white florals for a seasonal touch. *

FLORAL & RENTALS:

Lauren Lee, The Flower Mill DOUGHNUTS:

Kwik Trip TABLES:

Grit and Gloss GOWN:

Wardrobe By Dulcinea (Etsy) GROOM’S ATTIRE & ACCESSORIES:

DuBois Formalwear RINGS:

Alyssa and Anna Fine Jewelry HAIR & MAKEUP:

Kate Charles, K Charles Beauty MODELS:

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THESE FRESH TAKES ON TINY TREATS AND TASTY CAKES ARE A VISION TO BEHOLD.

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Enter the grounds of Sanger House Gardens, and you’re greeted by lush greenery and vibrant blooms — an idyllic setting for a dessert table of berry-bedecked goodies.

Surrounded by the cutest little single-serve confections, cakes with fresh floral adornments set the whimsical tone.

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FLORIST:

The Milwaukee Flower Co. TWO-TIERED CAKE:

The Cake Lady

CAKESICLES AND LAVENDER CAKE:

Mia Stav Cakes

SMALL CONFECTIONS:

Yield Bakehouse Le Rêve Patisserie MENU: Paper Envy RENTALS: Relics Rentals VENUE: Sanger House Bed & Breakfast

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Start your summer soirée with a demure shot of white-chocolate cheesecake (with a hint of raspberry), concocted

by Yield Bakehouse.

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Let’s talk tarts and cream puffs. These morsels from Yield Bakehouse are dipped in white chocolate and, like little works of art, embellished with glimmering edible gold leaf for a touch of glamour.

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Minimalism at its finest: Delicate lavender tendrils twine up the side of a single-layer cake by Mia Stav for an understated floral masterpiece. Vanilla buttercream with a raw edge adds texture to the otherwise spare design.

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Why settle for less when you can have more?

More berries, that is!

A raspberry dacquoise from Le Rêve Patisserie is a macaron taken to the max, with a filling of vanilla mousseline and fresh raspberries, precisely topped with a single perfect raspberry as the finishing touch.

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by Le Rêve Patisserie are a treat for the eyes and the palate, shown to advantage in a goldtrimmed display box from Relic’s Rentals.

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Brush up on your French with a charismatic version of a cream puff and impress your guests with this pâte à choux. Filled with pistachio and Chantilly cream, the choux à la crème aux pistache is a decadent bite-size delicacy, artfully crafted

by Le Rêve Patisserie.

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Cakesicles aren’t just for kids. Dainty sprigs of lavender decorate these Mia Stav vanilla cake and buttercream delights covered in white chocolate, giving these fun goodies grownup appeal. Resting on etched glassware from Relics Rentals, the look is a luxurious combination of vintage and modern.

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A soft, romantic design

by Paper Envy highlights the refreshing garden party menu. An ethereal belly band of handmade paper incorporates dried flowers within the paper itself.

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You can’t go wrong with effortless mini cupcakes

by Yield Bakehouse.

Lemon gives them the sunny hue and summery taste, and lavender sprinkles step up their party appeal.

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In the background, a two-tiered cake by the Cake Lady features seasonal florals: love-ina-puff vine, snapdragons, cosmos, pansies and zinnias—all fresh-picked from Milwaukee Flower Co.’s garden. A hint of mauve in the place settings from Relics Rentals complements the delicate pink pop of the zinnias for a welcoming place to dine with your closest friends. *

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LOV E IS IN THE AIR FLOATING FLORALS SET THE TONE FOR A DREAMY WEDDING DAY AT THE FARM AT DOVER. Text SYDNEY STEVENS Photos THE PAPER ELEPHANT Styling THE DARLING WEDDING CO.

(this page) On 20 acres of natural beauty, The Farm at Dover is the perfect balance of rustic and elegant, making for magical matrimony, styled by The Darling Wedding Co. (opposite page) Suspended above an intimate, elegant tablescape, this enchanting floral cloud includes natural pampas grass, bleached plume reeds, tall wild grass, bunny tail, fern with dried broom bloom, limonium and sun palm spears, designed by Evoke Chancy Floral.

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1 (1) The groom makes a statement in a tan suit paired with a light pink bowtie from Nedrebo’s Formal Wear.

The boutonnière by 414loral features bunny tail, snowberry and bleached Israeli ruscus, gathered with a tangerine ribbon for a touch of color.

(2) There’s no love quite like puppy love. Gramps, the star of the show, bears breathtaking botanicals—silver dollar eucalyptus, knifeblade acacia, salmon cremones and quicksand roses—courtesy of his owner, 414loral.

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(3) Petite Parisian pastries by Le Macaron adorn the sweets table, accompanied by toffee, quicksand and white majolica spray roses, blush chrysanthemums, dried fan palms, white hydrangeas, vintage carnations, phalaenopsis orchids and blackberry lily seeds from Blooms by Brandi. (opposite page) Under the suspended bouquet by Evoke Chancy Floral, rose-gold cups accent a dusty mauve tablecloth, harmonizing with the soft hues of the centerpiece of roses, bunny tails, pampas grass, dahlias, scabiosa pods, bleached ruscus and foraged grasses, created by daffodil*parker.

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(this page) The groom whispers sweet nothings to his bride, resplendent in the “Phoebe” dress by Kelly Faetanini from White Dress Bridal Boutique; chic meets sexy with a sweetheart neckline and offthe-shoulder straps, accessorized with a headpiece from Jaxie and earrings from Haute Bride. Moody makeup partners with a bouquet bursting with knifeblade acacia, pampas grass, bunny tails, salmon cremones, snowberry, quicksand roses and bleached Israeli ruscus, by 414loral.

(1) Guest will eagerly RSVP when they see these memorable invites. Debbie Pape, owner of Paper Envy, designed this suite featuring earthy elements: floral art and fringed brown ribbon, plus a hint of glam with the gold shimmer lining the envelope.

(2) These one-of-a-kind floral installations

by Blooms by Brandi frame the natural altar for an unforgettable place to tie the knot. The florals include an eye-catching array of foraged, fresh and dried botanicals in soft neutral tones and unexpected textures.

(3) A sip of bubbly amid lavish blooms is always a winning combination. This centerpiece by daffodil*parker features spirea, blackberry lily pods, standard roses, spray roses, sedum, rice flower, echinacea pods, fan palms, pampas grass, seasonal hydrangea, foraged grasses and strawflower. *

CREDITS PLANNER: The Darling Wedding Co. VENUE: The Farm at Dover HAIR AND MAKEUP: b. Beauty Bar DRESS: “Phoebe” by Kelly Faetanini from White Dress Bridal Boutique HEADPIECE: Chrissy Hair Vine by Jaxie EARRINGS: Haute Bride SUIT: Nedrebo’s Formal Wear INVITATIONS: Paper Envy MACARONS: Le Macaron CEREMONY INSTALLATIONS: Blooms by Brandi BRIDAL BOUQUET, BOUTONNIÈRE AND DOG’S FLORALS:

414loral CENTERPIECES: daffodil*parker HANGING INSTALLATION: Evoke Chancy Floral RENTALS: A La Crate Rentals,

Event Essentials OUR COUPLE: Paisley & Louis

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CHECKLIST

photographer ALI LEIGH PHOTOGRAPHY planner SASH AND BOW WEDDINGS AND EVENTS flowers EBB AND FLOW FLOWERS venue GATHER ON BROADWAY, GREEN BAY

The Countdown Begins

It’s never too early to start planning.

Follow these steps and you’ll be well on your way to matrimonial bliss.

FIRST THINGS FIRST: Tell friends and family.

Set the date.

Choose the type of wedding you want (formal, semi-formal, informal; which season).

Set a wedding budget and decide who will be able to contribute and how much.

Visit, choose and book your ceremony and reception sites.

Pick a photographer/videographer.

Have engagement photos taken.

Start shopping for your gown.

Start working on your guest list.

Arrange for both sets of parents to get together.

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9 TO 12 MONTHS BEFORE: Sign up for any pre-marital counseling or classes.

Announce your engagement in local newspapers, if desired.

Choose your wedding party members.

Arrange the first meeting with your minister, priest, rabbi or officiant and wedding planner (if using one).

Throw an engagement party.

Gather wedding inspiration. Start a Pinterest board. Search magazines and websites for ideas.

Begin adding the names of vendors and their contact information into a master contact list.

6 TO 9 MONTHS BEFORE: Select a caterer.

Choose a baker, schedule cake tastings.

Order your gown and schedule fittings (remember to bring your shoes).

Shop for bridesmaid dresses.

Hire a florist.

Book a band/DJ. Start researching honeymoon spots.

Finalize the guest list.

Book a stationer (and calligrapher, if using one).

Mail save-the-date cards.

Purchase your shoes, headpiece, jewelry and lingerie for the big day.

Book hair and makeup artists for the big day.

Reserve event necessities. Book portable toilets for outdoor events, extra chairs, linens, lighting and so on.

Start making a day-of timeline, determining what should happen when (speeches, first dance, etc).

Book a block of hotel rooms near the reception site for out-of-town guests.

Register for gifts at two to three places.

Start to keep track of favorite songs.

4 TO 6 MONTHS BEFORE: Order all wedding stationery (invitations, envelopes, thank-you notes) and work out pricing for programs, menus and place cards, which will be printed closer to the date.

Hire wedding-day transportation.

Book flights and hotel reservations for your honeymoon.

Arrange the rehearsal dinner.

Schedule any beauty treatments (brow-waxing, facials, teeth-whitening) that you’d like to have done before the wedding.

Send a guest list to the host of your bridal shower.

Order passport, if necessary.

Purchase wedding rings; order engraving.

Remind mother and mother-in-law to start shopping for their dresses.

2 TO 4 MONTHS BEFORE: Order the suits for the groom and groomsmen.

Meet with the caterer or facility manager to discuss menus, wine selections, serving style, etc.

Choose and order wedding favors and welcome baskets, if desired.

Order the wedding cake.

Meet with your officiant to discuss your ceremony; invite loved ones to perform readings, if appropriate.

Choose songs for the ceremony and reception.

Buy thank-you gifts for your attendants.

Confirm group hotel rates for out-of-town guests.

Book your pre-wedding and wedding-night hotel.

Finalize your honeymoon plans.

Send invitations to the calligrapher if you’re using one.

Plan your bachelorette party with your attendants.

Send a day-of timeline to your vendors so they’ll have ample time for tweaks and feedback.

Sign up for dance lessons, if desired.

1 TO 2 MONTHS BEFORE: Mail invitations.

Do a hair and makeup run-through (with headpiece).

Meet with the caterer to finalize a menu.

Send programs, menus and escort cards to the stationer to be printed (if not using a calligrapher).

Send your wedding announcement to local newspapers, if desired.

Write thank-you notes as you receive gifts.

Maintain a list of all presents received and thank-yous written.

2 TO 4 WEEKS BEFORE: Plot the seating for the reception.

Confirm times with all vendors.

Have your final dress fitting.

Write your rehearsal dinner toast.

Compose your vows, if desired.

Visit the salon for one last cut and color.

Send escort cards and the seating chart to your calligrapher to fill in guests’ names and table numbers.

Enter RSVPs into a guest-list database, and call invitees who haven’t yet responded.

Get your marriage license. If you’re changing your name, order several extra copies.

If changing your name, make arrangements with Social Security, Department of Motor Vehicles, credit card companies and your bank.

Mail the rehearsal dinner invitations, if applicable.

Stock the bar using your final head count as a guide.

Send out as many final vendor payments as you can.

Provide addresses for drivers of transport vehicles.

Create a must-take “shot list” and discuss it with your photographer.

1 WEEK BEFORE: Compile the fees that will be due on the wedding day.

Give the caterer a final head count.

Appoint a reliable pal to transport the cake knife, toasting glasses, etc. to and from the reception site.

Get final beauty treatments (facial, waxing, brow-shaping, etc.).

Pack for the honeymoon. Ask someone to bring your luggage to the reception if you’re leaving from there.

Give your honeymoon itinerary to a friend or family member in case of emergency.

Pick up your dress or make arrangements for it to be fetched or delivered.

Arrange for the cake to be delivered to the reception venue.

Buy a guest book, if you choose to use one.

Delegate small wedding-day tasks: someone to carry your things; someone to bustle your dress; someone to manage the gifts; someone to hand out tips; and so on.

Send a timeline to the bridal party, including every member’s contact information.

Break in your shoes.

Assemble and distribute welcome baskets to out-of-town guests, if desired.

Pick up wedding rings, check engravings and sizes.

Remind men to pick up formalwear and shoes, and check them for fit.

If you don’t have a personal attendant, ask a friend to help you get dressed on the big day.

Talk to head usher about any special seating arrangements.

Arrange for a light snack for the wedding party to eat while getting ready for the ceremony.

LAST 24 HOURS: Help decorate the venue, if necessary.

Have a manicure, pedicure and any other last-minute pampering treatments.

Distribute thank-you gifts to the wedding party, special attendants and parents.

Organize for a note or gift to be delivered to your fiancé on the wedding day.

Take a relaxing bath, go to bed early and start getting excited. You’re about to get married! * wibride.com

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BON VOYAGE PHOTOGRAPHY Damaris Photography

Abbi & Jake Meyer WEDDING DATE : June 27, 2020

CEREMONY: Blessed Trinity Catholic Church, Sheboygan Falls

RECEPTION: The Berkshire, Sheboygan

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