Love Yourself - Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality
The thing is, I'm not changing myself to fit the mold you desire. This is a common theme I see in relationships. We try to shape other behaviors because of our own trauma. And when have you dealt with your shit enough to begin to self-realize that your partner's behavior is exactly them, in their uniqueness, even when it triggers you. Those triggers show you your shadows. Now, this can feel like a noose around the throat, a piece that tells the reptilian brain that we are under control. As if what we are doing isn't enough. Truth is, you're doing more then enough, you're actually amazing and it's simply your partner's pain-body that is reacting to their past experiences, unable to hold themselves they look to you to either: a)fix their problem or