Living with children

Taylor Kovar

Hey Taylor - My husband and I are about to start giving our son an allowance and we’re arguing about how much it should be He says $5/week, which is what he got, but I don’t think that’s enough Any idea what’s fair or if there’s a standard? - Erin

Hey Erin - Five big ones, huh? Nothing to scoff at, but that kind of money doesn’t go too far these days The allowance question is a very personal one, so I can’t tell you how much to give I can, however, throw out some things to think about that will hopefully help you decide

What makes sense for you? You need to think about what you feel comfortable spending and also what you feel comfortable with your child having If you make your husband give too much more than $5, he might feel like your son is being spoiled If you give an amount that you feel is too low, you could feel as though you’re making an empty gesture You need to find some middle ground, while also making sure you don’t give your son money that you should be using to pay down debt or keep the lights on Have a talk with your husband so you can set a floor and a ceiling for your son’s allowance, then narrow it down until you find a number you both feel good about

What does your son want? If the money will all be spent on candy and there’s nothing you can do to stop it, $5 is more than enough However, if your child wants to save up for something like a bike or some new clothes, it’s good to encourage that type of fiscal responsibility Some parents give enough to cover a we so whatever it costs t movie or get a burge

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When is payday? Once you know what the money is going toward, it might be helpful to think about when you schedule the payout Maybe you pay $35 each month instead of $10 each week, giving a little less in the long run but making allowance day a bigger deal This might not make a difference, or it could be the perfect solution, depending on your situation

There’s no universal allowance amount, but thinking about these points should help you figure out a number that works Good luck, Erin!

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As regards nearly every public policy topic these days, myths abound, but few mythologies rival that of public education A sample:

Myth: Smaller classrooms promote better learning

Fact: The teacher-pupil ratio has little to do with student achievement, as demonstrated in the 1950s when elementary classrooms were bursting at the seams (nearly three times as many students per teacher than is presently the case) and student achievement was significantly higher than it has been since This particular canard is promoted by teacher unions, administrators, and politicians on both sides of the aisle who seek to curry favor with teacher unions and administrators

The unassailable fact is that student achievement has declined as classroom behavior problems have risen and teachers have been increasingly hamstrung – by unsupportive administrators, politicians, and the courts – when it comes to discipline It’s student behavior, folks, not class size

Myth: More money would improve student achievement

Fact: As a category, Catholic schools have the best record when it comes to student achievement, including students who represent the lower end of the socioeconomic spectrum With rare exception, Catholic schools spend considerably less per student than do public schools. Classroom discipline in most Catholic schools is head-and-shoulders above the ever-deteriorating situation in most public schools, but equally important is the fact that Catholic schools do not suffer administrative bloat Unlike the case in most public-school districts, one does not find multiple assistant superintendents of this and that in Catholic systems

Myth: Encouraging parents to oversee and help with homework positively impacts student achievement

Fact: Wrong again A 2014 study found an inverse relationship between homework help from parents and school achievement, irrelevant of any demographic characteristic or even child ability level The fact is that homework enabling – a much more accurate descriptor than “homework help” –is like any other form of enabling: to wit, it has a decidedly negative impact on personal responsibility and, therefore, a negative impact on student achievement

Referencing the 1950s again (which drives my perennial detractors up the proverbial wall), it was the rare parent who rendered anything more than occasional help with homework Thus, children possessed higher levels of personal responsibility and student achievement was significantly higher

Myth: Social science research has been a boon to public education

Fact: Since the late 1960s, public school educators and policymakers have embraced the progressive notion that new ideas are better than old ideas The new ideas in question have been supported by social science research (which will support just about anything one wants it to support), yet none of the new ideas – open classrooms, outcome-based education, collaborative learning (to cite but a few) – have panned out Today as yesterday, the most successful schools are those that adhere to a traditional model

Myth: Teaching academics prior to first grade (encouraged by both public and private schools) boosts overall achievement

Fact: A growing number of educators and researchers are convinced that teaching academics prior to first grade increases the per capita incidence of learning disabilities and lowers achievement in the long run. As did most of my peers, I came to first grade not knowing my ABCs Lest I needlessly repeat myself, the reader is encouraged to re-read Myths 1 through 4 above.

Family psychologist John Rosemond: johnrosemond com, parentguru com

John Rosemond has worked with families, children, and parents since 1971 in the field of family psychology In 1971, John earned his masters in psychology from Western Illinois University and was elected to the Phi Kappa Phi National Honor Society