HOTspots Magazine: February 1, 2024 (Issue 3903) by Hotspots Media Group

Vol. 39 • Issue 03 Feb. 1 - Feb. 14, 2024

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Cover Cover Models: Oscar Lopez & Alain Alejandro Perez Cover photo by: Dennis Dean

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Feature: Valentine’s Gift Guide 2024—Over 45 Items I Recommend • Pix: Twist South Beach Sailaway Party • Pix: Anthony JV Rufolo Photography • Feature: Hotspots Hotties • Feature: V-Day Couples • Feature: You’re Invited to The Cookout—Saturday, Feb. 3rd at Mickel Park Feature: The Women in Our Org—Kelly Robinson, HRC’s President Feature: Dan Levy Talks Grief & The Importance of Chosen Family Out with Scott / What’s Hot | Scott Holland’s Guide to Events Feature: Hotspots Hotties • Pix: Latinos Salud Gala Quinceañera—15th Anniversary Gala • Feature: Hot Eats • Feature: Top Ten • Pix: SuperCar Week’s 14th Anniversary Feature: Deep Inside Hollywood • Feature: Hot Puzzle

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OUT WITH SCOTT

Twist

On Saturday, Jan 20, Art Walk Wilton Manors added new locations as they expand to Dixie Village (Dixie Hwy between NE 23rd Dr and NE 24th St) and it was a huge success. If you couldn't make it next months Art Walk is Saturday February 17 (3rd Sat of the month). Later that night Twist held a sail away party for the Atlantis Cruise and the bar was packed. On Friday, January 26, my good Judy, Christopher Hamblin, had his first big solo show in South Florida entitled “Here in The South” at The Sunshine Cathedral Performing Arts Center. I have know Christopher for many years, but it was fun not only to see him performing at a solo show but also to find out a lot about his upbringing and how he got into music and performing. Afterwards we headed over to Pub on the Drive for Velvet Lenore's Fierce Fridays 3rd year anniversary party which featured a

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By Scott Holland

Christopher Hamblin

Pub on the Drive

production of Grease with Velvet and her family. The show was amazing, and I am not sure I have ever seen Pub more packed than that. Conbgrats to Velvet and the Pub on a great night and 3 successful years! Also, that night, which unfortunately I didn't find out about until the next day, my old New York buddy (ok, truth be told she doesn't know me, but we hung out at “The

Break” together many moons ago), Candis Cayne brought her show “Secret Garden” to No Manors. I heard it was great and captured a fantastic crowd. On Saturday, January 27 Disco Stars Entertainment and Mlicata Entertainment presented Gotta Love The 80's at The Parker with artists: The Original Covergirls, George Lamond, Freedom Williams of C&C Music Factory, Noel, Alisha, Company B, Nocera, C-Bank and Giggles. Your Host, Charlie Rock and Billboard Award Winner, DJ, and songwriter Lewis Martinee. What a fun show this was! Also on Saturday, Eagle Wilton Manors held the annual Mr. Eagle Pageant, which featured 6 qualified contestants. In the end, Steven Crespo was the best and took home the title of Mr. Eagle Wilton Manors 2024 and will be representing them at Mr. IML 2024 in Chicago over Memorial day weekend. In addition, on Saturday, Arts United presented their first concert of their 2024 series at the Sunshine Cathedral entitled “Alexander and the Birds of Paradise.” Alexander, and one of his talented musicians were also on a recent cover of Hotspots magazine (see the pic). On Sunday, January 28, The QuadracciCabrera Family and the national LGBTQ Task Force presented the 3rd annual My Hollywood Pride in downtown Hollywood from 1 to 6pm. Once again this was a fun and successful event which featured tons of entertainment including headliner Janice Robinson.

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Gotta Love the 80’s

Mr. Eagle 2024

Alexander and the Birds of Paradise

My Hollywood Pride

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WHAT’S HOT WHO • WHAT • WHEN • WHERE By Scott Holland

Pride Skate Thursday, February 1 Tonight, is the monthly Pride Skate (first Thursday of the month) at Xtreme Action Park (5300 Powerline Road, Ft laud) from 7 to 10pm with the theme “LOVE SKATE,” where they invite you to come with your valentine or come and find your valentine. The night will star Velvet LeNore, Rianna Petrone, DJ T-pro, and a full liquor bar and lots of fun! Pride Skate Nights are a benefit for Stonewall Pride. Friday, February 2 GroundUP Music Festival, named by The New York Times in its decade in review of the Arts as one of the "top 10 definitive moments of the decade" in music, and dubbed “the Art Basel of music” by Miami New Times, reveals an electrifying lineup for its eighth annual event, takes place today through February 4 at the iconic Miami

EXPO Beach Bandshell. With a track record of orchestrating artistically fearless music experiences, the festival promises a diverse line-up of legendary performances, handson workshops, and memorable collaborations across genres and generations. Tickets are on sale now at groundupmusicfestival.com. Florida's Largest Home EXPO, the Fort Lauderdale Home Design and Remodeling Show takes place today through February 4 at the Broward County Convention Center. MEET Hundreds of Exhibitors! For more information or to purchase tickets, go to Homeshows.com. Saturday, February 3 Charles Horton and the staff and management of Le Boy will be having a huge celebration for their 9th anniversary.

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Everyone gets a free wheel spin which features lots of prizes. The Our Fund Foundation 5th Annual South Florida LGBTQ Philanthropy Awards takes place today with the reception from 5:30-6:30pm, Award Presentation from 6:30-7:00pm, and the Post-Reception from 7-8pm at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts in the Mary N. Porter Riverview Ballroom (201 SW 5th Ave. Fort Lauderdale). Tickets are $75 at https://ourfund.fcsuite.com/erp/donat e/list/event?event_date_id=5521 The Jewish Federation of Broward County has partnered with Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El and the South Florida Symphony to create an unforgettable evening of music, unity, and philanthropy in support of Israel entitled “We Stand With Israel”. All proceeds from the concert benefit the Jewish Federation of Broward County's Israel Emergency Fund. The IEF provides vital support from our community to the Israeli people, including Housing, food, and financial assistance; Emergency medical services and health care; Support for victims of terror and their families; Trauma relief and psychosocial support; Assistance for special populations, including Holocaust survivors and minorities; Respite and support for frontline communities. To purchase tickets, visit https://bit.ly/ticket-sfs. For more information on event sponsorships, visit https://bit.ly/sponsorship-sfs. If you are unable to attend the concert but want to donate in support of Israel, visit www.jewishbroward.org. The entire community is invited to the 3rd Annual “The Cookout: A Black History Month Celebration” from 1-6pm at Mickel Park (2675 NW 7th Avenue, Wilton Manors). The event is free and also free is the food, the music, and the games with cash prizes for the spades and dominoes

The Manor

Stork’s Bakery tournaments. For more information or to register, go to Hotspotsmagazine.com/the cookout. Ramrod presents their monthly Pig Dance (first Sat of the month) with this months DJ Hukill from 10pm to 3am with no cover. The Manor Complex presents MENERGY starring festival DJ, Producer and remixer, Paulo, in the main room, along with shows by TP Lords and décor and production. Noche Latina Saturdays inside The Ivy Dance Room and Patio presents Host Oscar Novva, special guest Opal Lords as well as DJ Duniel and Hot Go-Go Papi's. Doors open at 11pm with NO COVER for Florida residents till midnight! Sunday February 4 Stork's Bakery features Francisco Sheuat (Mixed Medium…recycled Aluminum Cans) who's art will be on display & for sale from today through March 3rd. Francisco is an award winning, and TV series Art-Loft featured artist, is a self-taught artist. He was also an artist-in-residence at the Fort Lauderdale Arts District – Fat Village for 12

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Thursday, February 8 Pride Fort Lauderdale presents Pride Drag Queen Bingo starring TP Lords and London Adour at the Pride Center from 6:30pm to 9pm.For tickets go to Pridefort lauderdale.org/ tickets.

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Latinos Salud Miami Gala

years. Francisco currently has his art studio in Wilton Manors where he creates and exhibits his unique art. Francisco, is doing a meet and greet on Feb 9th from 6-8pm. The Pride Center's ongoing wellness and health initiatives presents the 8th Annual Rainbow 5K Run/Walk where runners will warm up at 7:15am courtesy of Challenge Fitness and take off at 7:30am. Participants will run throughout the beautiful 3.1 mile/5K course through the City of Fort Lauderdale's Holiday Park (1150 G. Harold Martin Dr, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304). Registration admission is $45 for adults. The first 300 participants will receive a Pride Center Rainbow 5K Run t-shirt and a medal! Proceeds of this event support the vital services and programs of The Pride Center at Equality Park. Monday, February 5 Miss Palm Beach Pride Pageant is at the Lake Worth Playhouse starting at 7 pm. Ticket prices are $15 and $20 at lakeworthplayhouse.org/limitedengagements/. Come out and cheer on your favorite queens as they compete for the crown as well as be there for the announcement of the first Mr. Palm Beach Pride.

Friday, February 9 National Pizza Day…so go out and have your favorite Pizza!

Twist presents A celebration of Life for community leader Mark Fernandes from 911pm. Saturday, February 10 The 8th Annual Riverwalk's Chili Cook-Off takes place today at Esplanade Park from 12 to 4pm. This is the chili cook-off where not only do the attendees get to sample the chili, but they are also the judges! The event is free to attend and there will be chilies of all kinds. The afternoon will be complete with live entertainment, vendors, and fun activities for the whole family to enjoy. The theme for this year's event is "TAILGATE" so all of the competitors and attendees are encouraged to root for their favorite team. Riverwalk Fort Lauderdale is still accepting applications for competitors, teams can sign up at goriverwalk.com/Chili24 from vendors and competitors. Inquiries for vendors and sponsorship can be directed to Donisha Brockington at (954) 468-1541 extension 204 or at Events@GoRiverwalk.com. Latinos Salud presents their Miami Gala entitled “The Reveal” where everyone who attends will get the first look at their new SW Miami office (8946 SW 40th St, Miami). Doors open at 6pm for VIP ticket holders with the first look, an open bar and meet and greet. At 7pm the outdoor party kicks off

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under the tents with passed hors d'oeuvres, drinks, and music. At 8pm is the grand welcome to the new SW location with a silent auction, video, and live performances. To purchase tickets, go to Gala.lsalud.org Spirit Song Church presents “Show Some Love” a Valentine's celebration with a show dedicated to Songs of Love starring Nifa, Dezhon, and Tangela at 7pm at 2038 Dixie Highway, Wilton Manors. Tickets are $25 at Shop.cohss.org. The Gamma Mu Foundation presents “Celebration,” a 3 day weekend in Fort Lauderdale with the main event today at Richardson Park from 6:30 to 10pm. Tickets are $150 at Gammamufoundation.org, and include a fun-filled evening with cocktails, buffet dinner, music, and outdoor entertainments surrounded by the beautiful gardens and nature preserve. As part of Pride on the Drive festival The Manor Complex presents DJ Nina Flowers in the main room along with shows by TP Lords and décor and production. Noche Latina Saturdays inside The Ivy Dance Room and Patio presents the 30th anniversary of Erika Norell entertaining, along with Oscar Novva hosting and special guests and Hot Go-Go Papi's. Doors open at 11pm with NO COVER for Florida residents till midnight! Sunday Feb 11 Its Super bowl Sunday and I am sure there are parties all over town, but the only one we know about at Press Time is Pub on the Drive's “The Big Game,” where they invite you to watch the game all throughout the Pub. They will feature many specials including 5 wings for $7 and an appetizer platter for $25. In addition, they will feature a Chicken Wing eating contest during half time. Pride Fort Lauderdale presents Bear Pride T-Dance & Pool Party at the Agustin Men's Guesthouse. For tickets, go to

Miss and Mr. Noche Latina Pageant Pridefortlauderdale.org/tickets Pride on the Drive 2024; Friday and Saturday, Feb 9 &10 Wilton Drive comes alive in celebration of Pride Fort Lauderdale. Enjoy the different activities happening in the Shoppes of Wilton Manors (Alibi's and Hunter's Parking lot) and throughout other areas on The Drive. Hunters and Alibi both have Outdoor stages. On Friday Hunters features Thunderpuss, and Alibi features the Carnaval Macho Stage. On Saturday, Hunters features recording Artist Kristine W and Alibi features Glowland Stage. Both of Alibi's nights are sponsored by Andrew Chrisitan. HOT Stuff The 20th annual Miss and Mr. Noche Latina Pageant with an “EMERALD CITY” theme takes place at Lips - Fort Lauderdale on Monday, February 19 with doors opening at 8pm. The pageant will star the current Noche Court: Kimberly Venom and Joseph Thiels as well as the current reigning Miss and Mr. Florida Yeisa Jovovich and Bobby Iman as well as the Noche Latina Family. For more information, Sponsorship, or to purchase tickets call Scott at 954-478-4587.

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This is HOT

For Valentine's – Rami Chocolates After years of dedication and hard work, Rami's dream materialized into a successful chocolate brand that stands out for its innovation and dedication to quality. Rami Chocolates has gained recognition for their exquisite taste, captivating packaging, and the personal touch infused into each creation. Rami Chocolates not only satisfies the sweet cravings of chocolate enthusiasts but also reflects Rami's journey from an engineer to a passionate chocolatier. Bombons Gift Box - $9.99 The Bonbons Gift Box features a curated selection of premium chocolates, expertly crafted to deliver an unparalleled sensory experience. From rich and velvety milk chocolate to silky smooth white chocolate, every piece is a celebration of decadence. Encased in an elegant packaging, this gift box is not only a treat for the palate but also a feast for the eyes.

LOVE Heart -$29.69 Wallow in the perfect combination of decadence and elegance with their exquisite edible Velvet Chocolate Heart now available in two different flavors. Crafted to perfection, this sumptuous treat is a celebration of rich flavors and luxurious textures. These hearts are expertly designed to create a sensory experience like no other. The outer layer boasts a smooth and edible velvet texture, adding a touch of sophistication to every bite. As you sink your teeth into these hearts, you'll discover a delightful medley of unique ingredients encased in the finest chocolate. Two truly divine combinations that will leave your taste buds longing for more. https://ramichocolates.com/

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Liquor/Wines

Valentine’s Day

GIFT

GUIDE

over 45 items I Recommend

By Scott Holland

The day of Love is once again about to happen as Valentine's Day is almost upon us. In the next few pages you will find many items that I am sure you or your loved ones would appreciate. If you are single, then buy some for yourself. I wish everyone a wonderful Valentine's Day!

Eleven Eleven "2022 Rosé of Syrah $38 - shop.elevenelevenwines.com

This 2022 Rosé of Syrah is bright and charismatic. Coming from their newest vineyard source, Vivio Vineyard in Bennett Valley, this wine is a true representation of the cooler climate in which the Syrah fruit is grown. It offers fragrant aromas of fresh strawberries, watermelon rind, and hints of floral notes. The palate has refreshing acidity and a crisp texture, with flavors of white peach, citrus, and subtle herbal notes. The wine concludes with a clean and dry finish leaving you wanting more.

Charles Krug 2022 Napa Valley Sauvignon Blanc $23 - charleskrug.com

Sourced primarily from the St Helena estate and hand-picked in the cool of night, the grapes reached the winery in pristine condition. This elegantly balanced, light to medium-bodied wine showcases vibrant aromas of lemon blossom, guava, and verbena, lime peel and ruby grapefruit with excellent body and crisp acidity.

La Crema 2022 Sonoma Coast Chardonnay $23 - lacrema.com

Aromas of Meyer lemon, pear, and white flowers are supported on the nose by subtle hints of oak. Followed by flavors of crisp

apple, golden peach, and pineapple. On the palate, flavors of graham cracker pie crust add a vein of richness. Vibrant, and concentrated, juicy yet balanced acidity drives a lingering finish.

Lange Twins 2022 Aglianico Rosé River Ranch Vineyard $27 - langetwins.com

Bold in color with flavors and aromas of macerated strawberry and violet, this wine is made using the saignée method. This style of winemaking leads to a slightly darker color, brighter flavors, and smooth tannin structure in the rosé. Aromas of macerated strawberry and violet carry through to the palate and the natural balance of fruit, acid and body make this wine both interesting and pleasing.

The Pale Rosé - $16.99 - Shopthepale.com

The Pale is a great wine to pair with your romantic dinner this Valentine's Day. The Pale was created by Sacha Lichine, maker of the iconic rosé brand Whispering Angel. This latest rosé brand has a young & fresh feel, making it the perfect gift for your Rosé loving partner. Crafted with grapes from the Vin de Pays Du Var region of Provence, The Pale is a quality, quintessential rosé. Dry and refreshing in a signature Provençal gray-pink with light fruits and a clean finish.

Bayou White Rum - $22

This Rum imparts a fresh, vibrant taste and aroma for a multi-layered flavor experience. The rum rests for up to 40 days to allow the crisp, clean flavors to mellow and combine. The pot still rum adds a delicate complexity rare in white rums. In place of the usual vodka, the marriage between Bayou and the fresh fruit juices found in The Cosmo, is a harmonious one.

Sorel Liqueur - $42

For anyone looking to give flowers in a bottle, Sorel Liqueur is sure to please as its an awardwinning spiced hibiscus liqueur inspired by the ancestral Afro-Caribbean beverage, sorrel. Crafted with Moroccan hibiscus, Brazilian clove, Indonesian cassia, nutmeg, and Nigerian ginger, this liqueur is a year-round indulgence. However, it truly shines as an impeccable gift for the Valentine's Day season with its flavors reminiscent of blooming flowers adding a touch of floral enchantment to your celebration. HotspotsMagazine.com | 29

Valentine’s Day GIFTGUIDE Edinburgh Rhubarb & Ginger Gin -$27.49

This gin is inspired by their original Rhubarb & Ginger Liqueur and is a fuller-bodied version of this pioneering flavor combination. This innovative gin is post-infused with spring crop rhubarb and stem ginger to create a beautifully balanced expression with vivid intensity, a fruity rhubarb tang, and a touch of ginger spice. Best served with tonic, garnished with rhubarb, and plenty of ice.

Ballotin Original Chocolate Whiskey - $29.99

Crafted in Kentucky, this exquisite whiskey is inspired by a love for bourbon, a passion for chocolate, and a commitment to bringing people together. Immerse your flavor-craving loved ones in a journey of elegant sipping, where the subtle bourbon notes of chocolates, nuts, caramels, mints, and vanillas dance in perfect harmony with the oak and vanilla undertones. Gift them an experience of delicious smoothness and indulgence, capturing the essence of love in every sip.

Ron Barcelo Anejo - $19.99

Whether the spirit is served neat, on the rocks, or crafted in a refreshing cocktail, Ron Barcelo will be the star spirit of any fun night of love, whether it's romantic or platonic, with your friends. With over 50 years in the game, they have perfected their craft, captured the rich culture of the Dominican Republic while simultaneously delivering consistency and a rich flavor profile of crême brûlée, caramelized raisins, dried spices, and dried cherries.

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Health & Beauty Migrastil Migraine Stick Roll-on $12.95 - migrastil.com

This stick is strong enough to help with migraines but also helps with other types of headaches including tension and sinus headaches. CONVENIENT ROLLON APPLICATOR; Easy to use, no mess; Apply to temples, forehead and back of neck at the first signs of a migraine. Vegan, Cruelty Free, and Made in the USA.

Crystal Retinal Ceramide Eye $66 - us.medik8.com

AbsoluteJOI Double Cleansing Oil Kit Plus Retinol Night Oil $165 - AbsoluteJOI.com

Give your skin a one-two clean that removes dirt, oil, and make-up with the cleansing oil, gel cleanser, and aloe toner to leave your skin clean, fresh, balanced, and hydrated. Plus a moisturizing nighttime treatment that addresses the anti-aging needs of your complexion with our Retinol Plus Vitamin C Skin Refining Night Oil.

Advanced Night Care Ceramide - $76 - us.medik8.com

Proven to smooth the look of stubborn lines and wrinkles in just 7 days, Medik8's signature night cream leaves the skin feeling plump and pillow-soft. Advanced ceramides are used in an optimized ratio to help plump and hydrate skin as well as restoring its natural defense barriers. Powerful antioxidants work to counteract damage caused by free radicals throughout the day. Designed to be used after vitamin A, the formula works perfectly alongside retinol to moisturize skin and leave the complexion smooth, supple and younger-looking.

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OV E R 4 5 I T E M S I R E CO M M E N D

The all-in-one solution for evening eye care is clinically proven to reduce the appearance of crow's feet, wrinkles, crepiness and puffiness while remaining gentle on the delicate eye area. This is the ideal, specialized solution for those with visible signs of dryness and aging around the eyes as well as for anyone looking to streamline their PM skincare routine without compromising on results.

Reuzel Routine Box Set – BRIGHT $28.50 – Amazon.com

Keep your tattoo looking fresh and vibrant with this kit from Reuzel, including a buff exfoliating wash and advanced tattoo treatment.

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Touchland Power Mist - $10 - Touchland.com

Award-winning, multifunctional, dermatologist-tested moisturizing hand sanitizer with zero sticky residue. Packaged in a sleek, modern container with an upgraded pump that's perfectly pocketsized and lightweight. Key Ingredients: Ethyl Alcohol Denat: Kills 99.99%of most common disease-causing germs; Aloe Vera: An antioxidant with antibacterial properties that moisturizes the skin without giving it a greasy feel. Contains Vitamins A, B, C, D and E and Available in many scents.

MARO17 Black+ Shampoo & Black+ Essence $55 - GetMaro.com

Community Sixty Six - Ultimate Hydration Bundle $44.99 - Communitysixtysix.com

This bundle contains: Hydrating Cream Cleanser with Hyaluronic Acid - gently removes makeup and dirt leaving skin, smooth, soft and glowing; Hydrating Gel Moisturizer with Hyaluronic Acid - Lightweight with Niacinamide and Azelaic Acid that helps reduce blemishes, breakouts and excess oil for a clearer skin; and Hydrating Caffeine Eye Cream - Helps to reduce the appearance of puffiness, dark circles and fine lines while leaving skin smooth and hydrated.

Reverse gray hair and promote thicker, stronger, healthier hair with this set that includes MARO's premium shampoo and scalp essence, harnessing the power of Apple Stem Cells and Bamboo.

Oil of Chébé Fortifying Hair Oil $24 - salwapetersen.com

This multi-tasking, fastabsorbing oil adds strength and shine to the hair, without weighing down or making it greasy. It works incredibly as an effective anti-breakage styling aid, while supporting hair growth.

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Alpha Skin Care Essential Renewal Lotion – $20 – Amazon.com

lmma Beauty Face Mask $8.99 – Ilmmabeauty.com

This lotion gently releases dead skin cells and is perfect for normal to dry skin. This antiaging lotion is specially formulated with the optimal balance of 10% Glycolic Alpha Hydroxy Acid (AHA) and a pH level of 4.0. Vitamins and nutrients moisturize and soothe your skin while anti-aging ingredients work to reduce the appearance of lines and wrinkles.

Renew your skin with this caffeinated face mask by Ilmma Beauty. The vegan 3-in-1 formula will soothe and brighten your skin! Benefits include Improved circulation, reduce puffiness and the appearance of dark circles, promote a more awake and refreshed complexion, and an Antioxidant protection against environmental stressors.

NIVEA Dewy Lip Care - $2.72 .18oz Walmart.com

A convenient lip care with an ultrahydrating formula enriched with Hyaluronic Acid that keeps lips moisturized all day long, leaving them feeling pillowy soft and smooth with a dewy lip look!

Pure Brazilian Deep Conditioning Masque $10 – Amazon.com

Frizz doesn't stand a chance! Creamy, buttery, and loaded with moisture and nutrients, this hair masque balances the pH at the end of the treatment while fortifying the cuticle using essential nutrients like Keratin and Acai. Color safe, this masque promotes shine, smooths the hair shaft, and leaves hair feeling like satin.

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For The Bedroom Manta SILK Mask - $79 - Mantasleep.com

VALENTINE’S DAY GIFT GUIDE

Eli & Elm Ultra Comfort Memory Foam Pregnancy Body Pillow $119.99 - eliandelm.com

Experience the ultimate in maternity comfort with Eli & Elm's Ultra Comfort Memory Foam Pregnancy Body Pillow. This versatile, full-body pillow is designed with the unique needs of expectant mothers in mind. Offering superior comfort and support Eli & Elm pregnancy pillow ensures a peaceful night's sleep, no matter which stage of pregnancy you're in.

Leela Quantum Men's Underwear $45 - leelaq.com/product/mens-underwear

Available in classic white and timeless black, these are charged with quantum energy – the energy that exists in everything in us and the world around us – to protect against 99% of measurable 3G, 4G, 5G, and other highfrequency radiation emitted by cell phones, wifi and WLAN. This comfortable luxury underwear can be worn under everyday clothes, and the crotch is woven with silver for antimicrobial protection. This product is certified by the International Institute for Electrosmog Research IGEF Ltd.

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Get the most rejuvenating sleep ever with this premium sleep mask that combines skin-protecting silk with the deep-sleep-boosting power of true 100% blackout. The Manta SILK Mask is the only anti-aging mask optimized for deep sleep. Made with lustrous and durable 22 momme silk that prevents wrinkles and refreshes skin cells, Manta SILK Sleep provides the anti-aging benefits of deep sleep and the anti-aging benefits of silk at the same time.

Addicted USA's - AddictedUSA.com Mesh-Zip Crop Top - $38 is made of the finest

materials, with a mesh front and back and cotton/elastane on both sides for maximum adjustment. Frontal zip makes it even sexier.

#LubeLife Sensations Kit - $12.99 Amazon.com or Walmart.com

This kit provides a water-based cooling and warming lubricant pair that will send your sexual adventure into the stratosphere. Let those eyes close, toes curl, and the hairs stand up all over your body. This warming and cooling combo is sure to bring passion into your bedroom, kitchen, and all around the house!

JO Naturals Massage Oil $16.99 – ShopJO.com

They combine a blend of nut and fruit oils with other natural ingredients to enhance every instance of skin-on-skin contact. Naturals Massage Oil Coconut & Lime features a rich, moisturizing glide that leaves skin feeling nourished but not greasy. The coconut and lime scents are familiar and comforting while also serving as natural aphrodisiacs. 40 | HotspotsMagazine.com

Pair it with Addicted USA's Push-Up Mesh Trunk - $36 is made of very comfortable mesh fabric and the push-up feature increases volume.

over Items I Recommend 45 Lavinia Minis

Lavinia's lubricant is infused with THC and CBD to increase blood flow for a heightened sensation. oh.hi is latex friendly, glycerin-free, glycol-free, parabenfree, hypoallergenic, unscented, unflavored, and 100% vegan. oh.hi requires 15 to 30 minutes to take full effect, but there will be more effortlessly intense orgasms than thought possible. Each unit is 15 ml.

Celestial Silk. 41.99 – Celestialsilk.com

Silk pillowcases are the perfect gift for him. Every guy needs more restful sleep, and silk pillowcases give him exactly what he needs. With its hypoallergenic and temperature-regulating abilities, silk naturally helps sounder sleep come easier.

Books The Great Atlas of Italian Wines - $85

By Alessandro Avataneo and Vittorio Manganelli this book is an indispensable tool for wine lovers, a mine of wellorganized information. It is helpful for traveling, studying, choosing a wine at a restaurant or wine bar, or creating your wine cellar.

Deep-sea Creeps: A field guide to terrible ex-boyfriends (as sea creatures) - $19.95

By Danielle Kraese, this is a witty and relatable book about the treacherous dating scene. You'll come across Karl, aka The Ex Who Never Deleted His Tinder Profile, to Gio, aka The Ex With a Heart of Ice. It's hard to believe these creeps can survive in the harshest of conditions. They hide in the darkest corners of the local dive bar and the secluded nooks of your DMs. And while little research has been done on these crusty mishaps, one thing is known—observe from a distance. 42 | HotspotsMagazine.com

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide 2024

Pocket Tripod by Geometrical: The Ultimate Smartphone Accessory $35 - pocket-tripod.com

This is the most functional and practical smartphone accessory on the market. The Pocket Tripod is a convenient and sturdy wallet-sized phone stand designed for multiple functions and portability. It allows you to take photos & film yourself anywhere, anytime, as well as enjoy videos, social media, and FaceTime hands-free.

Northwest Battle Buddies $22 - Northwestbattlebuddies.org

Miscellaneous

Snoozies Start at $16.99 Snoozies.com

As you all know by now, I love me some Snoozies (cross between and sock and a slipper) and look at some of their Valentine's styles.

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This Valentine's Day, give the gift of compassion and companionship by donating to Northwest Battle Buddies. Supporting this 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization not only honors the bond between dogs and their owners but also provides professionally trained service dogs to Veterans, making it a heartfelt gesture that truly embodies the spirit of love and giving.

Dreamroo Silicone Bento Lunch Box $24.99 - dreamroo.com

This 3 Compartment Box is perfect to keep foods fresh under an airtight lid and is fridge, freezer, oven and microwave safe! Perfect for snacking, lunching, storing leftovers and more. Take a full meal to work, school, picnics or anywhere else you go!

Leather Cuban Link Bracelet - $95

Natural black leather men's bracelet designed with a masculine steel link. Adjustable length. Men's statement and unique bracelet.

Exclusive designs by Argenti Designer Jewelers - $95 Argentidesignerjewelers.com Siberian Green Quartz Necklace

Trillion Cut Natural Gemstone pendant, set in Sterling Silver with a braided genuine leather 20", sterling silver catch necklace. Limited quantity available.

Viking Culinary Stainless Steel Mixing Bowl Set $49.24 - vikingculinaryproducts.com

This set is ideal for your food preparation with Silicone Base and Airtight Lids. Includes (5 bowls): 20-oz, 1.5-qt, 3-qt, 5-qt and 8-qt bowls with lids. The bowls are perfect for prep, mixing, serving, and more. Made from durable stainless steel, the bowl set features convenient volume markings for quick and easy measurements. An extended edge at the top of the bowl makes for improved grip during mixing, and the non-slip silicone base provides stability and prevents scratching of your countertop. Each bowl comes with a tight-fitting lid so ingredients can be prepped in advance and stay fresh until ready to use.

Take Me In Your Arms T-shirt by The Tee Service $19-24 at TheTeeService.com

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Sailaway Party

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Meet Our Valentines Day Couple

Oscar Lopez

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Alain Alejandro Perez 22 • Taurus • Cuba c /Alain_Alexitoooo

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What city you live in? They live in Downtown Miami Why is your other half perfect for you? Oscar – I love his personality and he is kind and handsome and smart. He is a really good person. Alain – He has an amazing personality, and he is very unique, and he makes me feel different than I have ever felt before. What's your perfect date? Oscar – Going to a nice restaurant and having good food and cocktails, and then going for a walk on the beach. Alain – Traveling and finding new places together. What do you do for a living? Oscar – I am a Web Designer Alain – Medical Case Management – PESN, and a GoGo dancer. What do you do for fun? Oscar – Listen to music and go to the beach Alain – I also like to listen to music and go to the beach, but in addition I like to hang out with my friends and I love to dance. What does the future hold for you? Oscar – I want to open my own business. Alain – I would like to study in the academy of art national to become a better actor. I was an actor in Cuba.

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V-DAY Couples!

With Valentine’s Day coming upon us shortly, I thought it was a nice idea to sit down with some of our well-known community members who are in relationships to find out a little bit more about them. The first name in the pair is the one who answered the questions.

by Scott Holland

and then he saw me at a Dua Lipa concert at Bayside, but I didn't see him. Eventually a mutual friend played Cupid…and here we are. We've been together 5 years and will be married one year on March 3, 2024.

Tell us about your love story, and why you are perfect together?

BRUCE HOWE (General Manager of Hunters Nightclub Wilton Manors) & IÑIGO VALENCIA (Certified Massage Therapist)

How did you meet and how long have you been together?

We had seen each other a few different times before we actually met. I used to see him at Crunch, although he never saw me, 74 | HotspotsMagazine.com

Our first coffee date was at Press and Grind on December 3, 2018. We spent the next month getting to know each other and started officially dating on January 3, 2019. It was within the first month of dating that we flew to Mexico City from different destinations. We spent a few days there and realized very quickly how well we traveled together. Not long after that, Inigo invited me to meet him in Paris. I remember the excitement I felt on that flight – the idea that someone asked me to meet them in Paris was surreal. When I arrived at the Hotel, he met me in the lobby, with a rose. That was the moment when I knew my life would never be the same. We have traveled to

more than a dozen countries (and Puerto Rico during covid) since then and each time is as perfect as the first time. On March 3, 2022, atop a turret at Castelo dos Mouros in Portugal we were engaged. On March 3, 2023, we were married on Fort Lauderdale Beach. Home finds us in Oakland Park with our 3-year-old Frenchton – Teotihuacan. He happened to be born on July 3, 2020. Lots of 3's in our life. Each and every day we look forward to whatever is next. First and foremost, we want to be

together. We love and respect each other; we are best friends, and we communicate, no matter the topic. We are very independent people with very different perspectives, backgrounds, and experience. We appreciate those differences, and we don't try to mold each other. We love, nurture, support, and encourage each other to be our very best selves and we work each day to enhance each other's life. We are two perfectly imperfect people finding our place together and it has been an incredible journey.

special right from the first meeting. Ferd even told the friend he was working out with; I think I just met my future husband! We'll be together for 20 years this June...Wow!

Tell us about your love story, and why you are perfect together?

DIMITRI BAKOULIS (Chief Operating Officer) & DR. FERDINAND CABRERA (Genesis Health Institute)

How Did you meet and how long have you been together?

We met in a very classic gay boy meeting... the gym. We knew each other was very

First there was the magnetism of each other's physical presence... then our words were always so soothing... when we connected physically, it was like an intense chemical explosion. Which, even after all these years we are grateful to still enjoy to a great degree. We as individuals have grown stronger, which has only strengthened our relationship. Focusing on the "real" honey, communicating kindly from the heart, trusting and being trusted, and always going to where the love is... is how I'd sum up our love story.

FAYWHAT?! (Host of the FayWhat?! Show) & THERESA ALBERNAS APRN, MSN, FNP-C

How did you meet and how long have you been together?

Mail order Bride from Cuba via Miami. We have been together 9 years and married 6 years.

Tell us about your love story, and why you are perfect together?

We could not be more different. We are the epitome of “Opposites attract.” From Food to Music, we love opposite things. I love to be dressed up; she prefers to be casual. I love Musicals - she doesn't believe people should

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“just” break into song. I couldn't disagree more! But her humor is what keeps me happy and laughing Daily. #MyCuban is hilarious. People think I'm the funny one because of what I do. NOPE, It's Teresa. She cracks me up. I love her more each Day. We are Blessed!

DR MAX AND LAUREN ZASLAVSKY (Max Zaslavsky Dental)

How Did you meet and how long have you been together?

I was dating her friend, who broke up with me on Super Bowl Sunday. Months later, I had an extra ticket to see Justin Timberlake, so I wrote on Facebook, "does anyone want to see Justin Timberlake with me?" Lauren responded and said she would go; I had never met her prior. We grabbed a drink at the hard rock, and a week later went to Justin Timberlake. I tore my Achilles 2 months later, she moved in and never moved out. We’ve been together 10 years.

Tell us about your love story, and why you are perfect together?

She balances me out, as she is way calmer than I am. I worry, I stress, and she just chills. I need her in my life

to rub my back and calm me down. After the birth of our son, I saw how much more she was. She became a spectacular mom who I do not know what I would do without. She has become the anchor to our family. She's patient with our son, makes him laugh, cooks 3 dinners to get him to eat. She's truly spectacular!

found each other among the Men seeking Women profiles, and six months later we meet in person. From that moment on, we became inseparable. We are celebrating almost nine years together since our first date on June 30th, 2015.

Tell us about your love story, and why you are perfect together?

MISTY “EYEZ” ALICEA (Director of Transgender Services, and Director of Women's Health Living at Sunserve) & JOHN ALICEA.

How did you meet and how long have you been together?

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Our love story is a captivating tale of unexpected twists and genuine connection. John, perhaps like many men in the online dating world, did not read my profile and simply focused on my photos. Unbeknownst to him, I was transgender. The unfolding drama took an interesting turn when, a day before meeting, John texted me to confirm our date on his birthday. Concerned for my safety, I decided to disclose my transgender identity to him beforehand. John eventually responded with a surprising message, expressing that while he "Wasn't Like That” and "Couldn't Go There," he still wanted to meet me because I was "Mad Cool.” The journey of our relationship continued,

and John came over daily. He even attempted to propose just two weeks into our connection. I laughed him off and said NO! Despite the initial bumps, John proposed again on February 14th. This time, I said yes, under the condition that we would have a long engagement. We tied the knot on June 23, 2018. Our compatibility transcends the conventional notion of perfection. What binds us together is a deep capacity for love and an unwavering commitment to helping those in need and our ability to love others deeply and selflessly. We've created a unique and beautiful connection that stands resilient.

CHARLIE DROZE (Creative Force and owner of CiC Social Media and Marketing) & MANNY TRUJILLO

How did you meet and how long have you been together?

We connected on Tinder and met for our first date a few weeks later. We have been together for 3 years and some change. Officially we have been together since November of 2021.

Tell us about your love story, and why you are perfect together?

After ignoring my invitations to meet for a couple of weeks, Manny finally decided to give me a chance. I remember when I went to pick him up for our first date, I got out of the car and both of us had the instinct to LEXI GOZA (State Farm Insurance Branch Owner) & KIM ANSELMO (CRNA, Nurse Anesthetist )

How Did you meet and how long have you been together?

I was running Space Coast Pride 7 years ago and recruiting volunteers at the weekly gay coffee social in Melbourne and Kim came and volunteered. I remember

hug. It was like hugging a friend I hadn't seen in 20 years... long and warm. We both tell people that if it weren't for that first hug, we don't know where we would each be today. It was an immediate connection. After that first night, we saw one another regularly and a few months later we were married. I know how those sounds, but for me it was easy to identify a really good man after having dated so many of the wrong kind. Honestly, the relationship is effortless. He cooks for my family, and I constantly send photos and videos to his mom. He makes a mess cooking, so I clean up afterwards. He shaves my beard in the corners I can't see so well, and I rub his feet when they're sore. There is this constant showing of affection that I have never EVER had in my life. Simple things are my favorite part; driving to nowhere just to get out of the house, sharing music we each like, eating tacos at 2am in empty parking lots, slow dancing in the middle of anywhere just because. We push each other to be better and create plans for our goals - together. Every single day I know that I am supported in every way and that we are both working toward the same future. I really lucked out... and maybe he did too. 3+ years together, 2+ years married, and still so many memories to make.

being instantly attracted to Kim and nervous to talk to her. The first time we danced together was electric but ended all too quickly. It would be six long years before fate would bring us back to that dance and we’ve been inseparable ever since. We’ve been together for 1 year, and 9 months.

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together?

The magnetism that brought us together and holds us bonded is full of mutual gratitude and respect and love that everyone sees and feels when they look at us. Even straight people can't help but smile when we pass by and many stop to tell us what a beautiful couple we make. We love traveling the world together, in our smart attire, like two lovestruck teens, engulfed in our childhood crushes on each another. TONY LIMA (CEO of Sunserve) & DR. GUILLERMO SALINAS (PharmD, Director of Pharmacy HCA Florida Mercy Hospital)

How Did you meet and how long have you been together?

We met on Tinder. Although we both live at opposite extremes: Tony in Hollywood and Guillermo in Cutler Bay, somehow, we still matched despite Tony's limited 10mile radius setting on Tinder. We just celebrated a year together last month.

Tell us about your love story, and why you are perfect together?

We're both adventurous and love to travel! In the last year we've been on several trips together and continue to get away as much as possible. We were both raised in South Florida of Latino backgrounds; Tony is Cuban American

and Guillermo was born in Nicaragua, so family is very important to both of us. We have a strong bond, rooted in love, trust, and friendship. We love food and trying new restaurants, Broadway musicals and are big Rupaul's Drag Race fans. We truly enjoy each other's company. STEVE ADKINS (President/CEO, Greater Miami LGBTQ Chamber of Commerce) & DIEGO GONCALVES

How did you meet? How long have you been together?

I moved to Miami Beach over 25 years ago when I purchased a Bed & Breakfast property, then known as the Jefferson House. I quickly realized that my Mexican Spanish would not quite cut it and enrolled in a nighttime program with Miami-Dade Public Schools. The teacher I was assigned to decided to take a Sabbatical, so my class was merged into the other one available. My husband was that 78 | HotspotsMagazine.com

teacher and we have been together for over 24 years (married since 2015).

Tell us about your love story, and why you are perfect together?

While there is no "perfect" anything in life, we both agree that our relationship is as grounded as possible. Diego and I have a strong sense of family and concern for each other's well-being. Having met later in life and been in other relationships provided a great roadmap for what we

knew worked and did not work in building a life together. You come into a relationship as an individual, and that does not just magically go away because you are committed to someone. We have always given each other space to incorporate family, friendships, work, and hobbies into our relationship. Being able to communicate needs and desires is foundational in any successful marriage, and we are blessed to have that in ours.

THOMAS MURRELL & ADRIANNA TENDER (Program Coordinator, Trans Inclusive Group)

How did you meet? How long have you been together?

A mutual friend. Thanks Jesse Marie Gonzalez!! Adrianna asked me to speak at a Transgender Day of Remembrance Program for Transinclusive Group. 1 year and 8 months unless you count the courting time then it would be almost 3 years

Tell us about your love story and why you are perfect together?

In the serendipitous tapestry of life, our love story unfolded through the whims of fate. It all began with a simple introduction, orchestrated by a mutual friend who unknowingly played cupid in our romantic narrative. From the moment our paths converged, I was captivated by her beauty, and yet, there was an allure beyond the physical that drew me in. Our initial exchanges were marked by an effortless flow of conversation, revealing a connection that transcended the ordinary. A few weeks into our budding connection, I mustered the courage to invite her to a dinner date. As she graced the entrance of the venue, I couldn't help but feel a twinge of inadequacy, for she radiated a stunning elegance that left me momentarily breathless. Seated across from each other, the hours melted away as we engaged in dialogue that echoed through the corridors of the restaurant until its eventual closure. What struck me most was the depth of her character—her intelligence, humor, and a profound vision for her life. It was a tapestry woven with threads of emotional resonance, intellectual compatibility, physical

attraction, and a shared spiritual connection. In the mosaic of life, finding someone who effortlessly fulfills every criterion is a rarity. She became the embodiment of my romantic ideals, and as the months unfolded, it became evident that our connection was destined for more. With each passing day, our bond flourished, culminating in a pivotal moment when I asked her to be my girlfriend. Reflecting on our journey, I am grateful for the rarity of our connection. She is not merely a partner; she is the healthiest and most enriching relationship I have ever known. To have her by my side is a stroke of fortune, and each day with her is a testament to the extraordinary love story we continue to script together. HotspotsMagazine.com | 79

By Maria Espinal

The Melting Pot

5834 S. Flamingo Rd. • Cooper City, Florida 33330 954.916.1410 • meltingpot.com • Mon - Thur 5p-10pm • Fri 5p11pm • Sat 4-11pm • Sun 4-10pm • V-Day Menu 3pm –11pm The Melting Pot is such a great place for Valentine's Day for a more intimate experience with a 4-course dinning, champagne & roses. VDay menu offers VIP ($250pc) & Regular ($174pc) Package. The VIP package includes 2 bar drinks or wine bottle and private candle-lit dinning. From Feb 4th – 18th (not available on Feb 14th) the regular package is available for $150pc. Some of the entrees are: Filet Mignon, Certiﬁed Angus Beef, Teriyaki-Marinated Sirloin, Lobster Tail, Salmon. Make sure you have one (or two) Love Martinis. Reservations are suggested

Oceanic at Pompano Beach

250 N. Pompano Beach Blvd. • Pompano Beach, FL 33062 954.366.3768 • oceanicpompano.com Mon - Fri 11:30am - 11pm • Sat - Sun 10am - 11pm • Everyday Brunch 10am – 3pm • Valentine's Day 11am –10pm There is nothing more romantic and memorable than an evening of oceanfront dining with your loved one right by the pier. Oceanic will be serving a special 4-course V-Day menu ($70pp) starting on Feb. 14th through the weekend. You can choose from Filet Mignon, Lobster Brisque, Ceviche, Jumbo Shrimp Cocktail, Prime Rib or Crab-Stuffed Flounder, among other dishes (none pictured). Make your reservation in advance.

Kissaki Miami

500 South Pointe Dr., Suite 160 • Miami Beach, FL 33139 305.701.1320 • explorekissaki.com • Sun - Thur 5:30pm – 11pm Fri - Sat 5:30pm – 12am • Sun 12pm – 3pm V-Day Menu available Feb 14th – 18th The well-known NYC restaurant has opened its doors in Miami Beach and will feature a V-Day menu, so get ready to impress your new date or long-term loved one with a 16-course Omakase or Tasting Menu ($150 - $250) which includes four chef's selection appetizers, ten specialty nigiri, a handroll and dessert. You can choose to pair with Sake or Wine. Make sure to check them out online and/or for reservations. Cheers!

Sourbon

215 Clematis Street • West Palm Beach, FL 33401 561.247.7101 • sourbon.com • Mon - Sun 4:30pm - 12pm Brunch Sunday 11:30am - 3pm Sourbon Kitchen + Bar offers a refined Contemporary American dining experience in Downtown West Palm Beach. For Valentine's, enjoy a romantic dinner for two with a bottle of fine wine and two glasses of Prosecco for $185pc. Among options are: Steamed Mussels, Beef Carpaccio, Filet Mignon, Duck Confit, Carrot Cake, Crème Brûlée and your choice of wine. Enjoy! 86 | HotspotsMagazine.com

By Scott Holland

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THEATER – SISTER ACT

Slow Burn Theater company invites you to experience the feelgood musical comedy smash based on the hit 1992 ﬁlm that has audiences jumping to their feet! Featuring original music by Tonyand eight-time Oscar winner, Alan Menken, this uplifting musical was nominated for ﬁve Tony Awards, including Best Musical. Amaturo Theater at The Broward Center for the Performing Arts; Saturday Feb 3 through Sunday, Feb18; Seats start at $54; Browardcenter.org

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ICON – ROD STEWART

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Sir Rod Stewart has sold more than 250 million records worldwide during a stellar career. As a singersongwriter, his extensive catalog includes “Tonight's the Night,” “You're in My Heart,” “You Wear it Well,” “Da Ya Think I'm Sexy?,” “Forever Young,” “Hot Legs,” “Infatuation,” the indelible, “Maggie May,” and many more. He's earned countless of the industry's highest awards. Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Hollywood; Tuesday and Wednesday, Feb 13 & 14; 8pm; Tickets $65-$335; seminolehardrockhollywood.com/

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DANCE - ALVIN AILEY

Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater, one of the world's most beloved dance companies, is celebrating its 65thanniversary season. The engagement will showcase the passionate spirit and extraordinary technique of the Company's dancers. Arsht Center for the Performing Arts; Friday and Saturday, Feb 2 & 3; Tickets start at $25; Arshtcenter.org

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AGT STAR – PREACHER LAWSON

Comedian Lawson is best known for his appearance on season 12 of NBC's hit series, America's Got Talent where he made it to the ﬁnal round. He was then invited to compete on America's Got Talent: The Champions and Britan's Got Talent: The Champions where he advanced to the ﬁnale. He recently completed his residency hosting AGT Live in Las Vegas and continues to perform at sold-out venues around the country. Palm Beach Improv at the Kravis Center; Friday and Saturday, Feb 9 & 10; Tickets start at $32.50; Kravis.org +++++++++++++++++

BLACK HISTORY MONTH - THE COOKOUT

This 3rd annual event a safe space for our LGBTQ+ family to celebrate Black History Month with the community at-large. The event is free to get in, and includes free parking, free food, great music by DJ Joey Brown and cash prize games. The money is raised through drink sales, which is the only aspect of the event that's not free to the public. 100% of the proceeds go directly to this years beneﬁciary New Era Lodge No. 69. Mickel Park (2675 NW 7th Ave. Wilton Manors); Saturday, February 3; 1-6pm

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Michael Rapaport

Journey

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COMEDIAN - JOSH WOLF

Josh Wolf is best known for his work as a round table guest and writer on E!'s “Chelsea Lately” and “After Lately.” Throughout 20132014, Wolf hosted “Shark After Dark” which aired during the ultrapopular “Shark Week” on The Discovery Channel. This led to Josh being cast as the host for Discovery's late night series “Naked and Afraid.” In 2015, Wolf hosted CMT's ﬁrst original late night comedy series, “The Josh Wolf Show.” Most recently, in his time off from touring, Josh has been doing a weekly podcast with Freddie Prinz Jr. Dania Improv; Wednesday 14 through Saturday Feb 17; Tickets are $25 (GA) and $35 (VIP; Daniaimprov.com +++++++++++++++++

BAND - JOURNEY

They are bringing their Freedom Tour to south Florida for 1 night only with special guest Toto. Journey was formed in 1973 by former members of Santana, the Steve Miller Band, and Frumious Bandersnatch. The band consists of guitarist/vocalist Neal chon, keyboardist/guitarist/vocalist Jonathan Cain and keyboardist/vocalist Jason Derlatka, drummer/vocalist Deen Castronovo, bassist Todd Jensen, and lead vocalist Arnel Pineda. Amerant Bank Arena; Monday, Feb 12; 7:30pm; Tickets start at +++++++++++++++++ $25; amerantbankarena.com

ENTERTAINER – MICHAEL RAPAPORT

Michael Rapaport is an American actor and comedian who can currently be seen in Hulu's Life & Beth. He has appeared in over sixty films since the early 1990s and starred on the sitcom The War at Home. He also appeared in Boston Public, Friends, Prison Break, Justified, and the acclaimed Netflix series Atypical, and Hulu's Only Murders in the Building. Some of his notable film roles include True Romance, Higher Learning, Metro, Cop Land, Deep Blue Sea, The 6th Day, Dr. Dolittle 2, Big Fan, and The Heat.

PRIDE ON THE DRIVE - 2024

LATINOS SALUD MIAMI GALA

They present their 2nd gala which is the reveal of their new Southwest Ofﬁce. This outdoor party features hors d'oeuvres, drinks, music, silent auction, live performances and much more. Latinos Salud (8946 SW 40th Street, Miami, 33165); Saturday, Feb 10; GA and VIP available; gala.lsalud.org

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Wilton Drive comes alive in celebration of Pride Fort Lauderdale and co-produced by Hotspots/Happening Out. Enjoy the different activities happening in the Shoppes of Wilton Manors (Alibi's and Hunter's Parking lot) and at The Well (old Hamburger Mary's). Wilton Drive; Friday and Saturday, Feb 9 & 10; 7-11pm both nights +++++++++++++++++ HotspotsMagazine.com | 97

You’re Invited to The Cookout Saturday, Feb. 3rd at Mickel Park By Jameer Baptiste

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This year, 2024, makes it 3 years that we at HOTspots Happening Out have been celebrating The Cookout, A Black History Month event. The Cookout has become a signature annual event of ours because of what it means to the community. To be able to provide a safe space for our LGBTQ+ families while celebrating Black History Month with the community at-large is near and dear to us. There aren't many places where both communities can co-exist in an afﬁrming and loving environment where everyone is welcome to live in their truth while enjoying a cultural celebration that dates back decades when it was ofﬁcially recognized by the United States and over a century within the Black community. To celebrate as one is an amazing feeling, but what also adds to the allure of the event is the FREE component that has existed since its conception. The intent is enjoyment for all so we take away the obstacles that might hinder anyone from joining in on the celebration. The Cookout is open to all and free to get in. But the freebies don't stop there! The Black

History Month event's food is also free to all who come to enjoy the festivities. How do we make it possible? As a nonprofit, we must thank our sponsors like CAN Community Health, which is our event's Presenting Sponsor, and Sysco, who has graciously provided the food for the second year in a row. So, we have free parking, free entry, free food, great music by DJ Joey Brown and cash prize games! Yep, that's right, cash prize games. Register in advance at www.hotspotsmagazine.com/thecookout under the menu tab “Event Highlights (The Cookout 2024 Highlights)” for either our spades tournament or dominoes tournament. The spades tournament is a 4-player game with teams of 2 and the dominoes tournament is an individual player game with games of 4 people that dwindling down to 2-players who battle it out for the win. Each tournament is a cash prize of $150. Make sure you enter in advance. There's more to The Cookout than just games and prizes. The Black History Month event also serves as a fundraiser, which has been part of The Cookout since we started the celebration in 2022. It's our way of giving back to a deserving nonprofit organization that provides resources or services to the Black and Brown community of Florida. The money is raised through drink sales at The Cookout, the only aspect of the event that's not free to the public. In fact, 100% of the proceeds go directly to our beneficiary. We couldn't be anymore thankful to LIT bar of Wilton Manors and their sister club le Boy in Fort Lauderdale for providing the liquor all 3 years. Our beneficiary for this year is the New Era Lodge No. 69. The Lodge serves as the Fort Lauderdale Chapter of the Prince Hall Masonic Origin. It is the first of the 300-yearold Prince Hall Masonry to have an Openly Gay and Black Worshipful Master, Ederick Johnson, who's also the youngest of the leaders. The chapter's mission is dedicated to the work of HIV Prevention, Orphans, and the Black Community. We're so honored to have them as our beneficiary this year and can't wait to hand them a check after The

Cookout for the work that they do with the South Florida Black and Brown community. The Lodge isn't the only one being honored at The Cookout. Since the ﬁrst year of the celebration the City of Wilton Manors has been a loving sponsor of the event providing us a Proclamation in 2022. For 2023, we kicked it up a notch and coordinated with the city's Community Affairs Advisory Board (CAAB) along with the City Commission to honor the city's Black History Month Proclamation Recipients with a reading of their proclamation at The Cookout. And we're happy to say that we are coordinating with the city yet again to honor the city's Black History Month Proclamation Recipients of 2024 with a reading of their proclamation at The Cookout. The Cookout is 5 hours of fun, food, music, games, and laughter for all to enjoy. This year we're excited to announce a happy union with our sponsors at IKEA who will for the ﬁrst time in The Cookout's history provide a kids zone complete with park toys for the little ones. We encourage everyone to bring their family and friends, and enjoy all that The Cookout has to offer.

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The Women in Our Orgs: Kelley Robinson

Human Rights Campaign’s President By Maria Espinal

LGBTQ+ Floridians are subject to an inconsistent patchwork of legal protections on a municipal level. There are cities and towns that are doing what they can to protect LGBTQ+ citizens, but Florida is a great example of why we need to push for rights and protections on a federal level...”

When I think of HRC, I can’t help to not think of the time I was part of the Millenium March on Washington and HRC’s fundraising concert on April 29, 2000, “Equality Rocks.” Therefore, I am glad to introduce you to HRC’s first African American/gay woman to lead the organization. Kelly Robinson, in her late 30s, officially became president on November 28, 2022. She is very passionate about human rights and equality; she is also very relatable. Formerly the executive director of Planned Parenthood Action Fund and political organizer for Barack Obama's presidential campaign in 2008, Kelly married in 2020 and has a child with her wife Becky. It makes me proud to have her pave the way for other women!

Do you have any women LGBT icons who have left a mark on you and/or motivated you to be part of an LGBT organization?

When I think of women LGBTQ+ icons

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who have inspired me, I think of Marsha P. Johnson. She has been called the Rosa Parks of the LGBTQ+ movement, and I couldn't agree more. Along with Sylvia Rivera, a fellow LGBTQ+ pioneer and transgender woman of color, Marsha P. Johnson was among the founders of the Gay Liberation Front. Whether it was marching for justice, organizing for change, or resisting oppression, both icon pioneers laid the groundwork for the progress we enjoy today.

How did the opportunity to be the new president at HRC come about for you? Was it something you looked for or did it find you?

The Dobbs decision struck a chord with me, especially as a Black queer woman. The looming threat to Obergefell felt personal, especially since I had just been married to my wife Becky. The whole ordeal ignited a profound sense of responsibility to protect my family and community. I view this opportunity to lead at this critical time in our movement as more than a position; it's a deeply personal commitment to fight for equality and justice in a way that resonates with my identity and experiences, and it is my honor.

workplace equality, protecting democracy, joining the movement for LGBTQ+ rights, bringing an end to HIV/AIDS within our lifetimes, and electing LGBTQ+ leaders up and down the ballot. The list goes on. We are called to this moment so every decision we make matters. That reality can be challenging.

Do you know how big is the women's base of members and/or supporters at HRC? What's their demographics?

For LGBTQ+ women and non-binary folks, the journey continues to be full of twists and turns. I want to be clear that liberation is not just about rights; it's about recognizing our unique struggles. Personally, I've seen a shift – from fighting for basic rights to diving deep into issues like reproductive rights and challenging gender norms. It's a journey that resonates with my own experiences, pushing for inclusivity that truly embraces the richness of our diverse stories within the LGBTQ+ community.

Being a wife and a mom, how do you balance your private life with your current position?

What did you see as your biggest challenges when you first started at HRC and how much have those challenges changed since 2022?

With so much at stake, one of the greatest challenges is determining which fights to bring front and center. At any given day, we are focused on a wide range of challenges, access to healthcare,

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Being a wife and mom is at the center of everything I do! My wife Becky is a firstgeneration woman of Indian descent; we were able to have our son via in-vitro fertilization. LGBTQ+ rights with the Human Rights Campaign, reproductive rights with the Planned Parenthood Action Fund… our family informs my fight every day.

Having worked with President Obama's campaign in 2008, what are your expectations for this year's presidential elections and what the future of the LGBTQ+ rights look like? In October 2023 HRC endorsed Biden-Harris for 2024. There is a lot at stake for us...

In 2024, we need to make sure Trump doesn't make it out of the jailhouse and back to the White House! We need to hold the Senate and take back the House for the people. We need to ramp up our efforts to ensure equal rights for all. HRC made a stance to emphasize exactly how much is at stake with this election, and to mobilize the LGBTQ+ community and our allies to exercise our right to vote. We have a proequality majority in the U.S. – extremism may win attention, but equality wins elections!

Last and (definitely) not least, how do you see LGBTQ+ rights specifically in Florida in 2024?

As you know, extremists have made Florida their battleground as they seek to

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We need to ramp up our efforts to ensure equal rights for all. HRC made a stance to emphasize exactly how much is at stake with this election, and to mobilize the LGBTQ+ community and our allies to exercise our right to vote.”

systemically erase our equal rights. LGBTQ+ Floridians are subject to an inconsistent patchwork of legal protections on a municipal level. There are cities and towns that are doing what they can to protect LGBTQ+ citizens, but Florida is a great example of why we need to push for rights and protections on a federal level. It heartens me to see local LGBTQ+ advocates working tirelessly to push back against hate. And on a national level? We are fighting for you, Florida.

* Check out HRC South Florida Dinner on February 17th/5:30pm at the Seminole Hard Rock & Casino in Hollywood, FL. For more information, visit southflorida.hrc.org/events

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The grief was very real for Dan Levy, who lost his grandma and rescue dog, Redmond, over the span of a couple of years during the pandemic. And then he did something very Dan Levy with that grief — he opened a blank page and got to work on “Good Grief,” a Netflix film, out now, that he wrote, directed and stars in. The film is the “Schitt's Creek” creator's first major endeavor after his Emmy-winning show

loss and what he didn't know about Oliver's life before it ended, which takes him to a secret flat Oliver had in Paris. With Marc on his unexpected journey to healing his shattered self are his dearest friends, Sophie (Ruth Negga) and Thomas (Himesh Patel). I recently spoke with Levy about the film, which he sees as an opportunity to flex new creative muscles, including his portrayal of a character who may be as stylish as David Rose even if he isn't him, exactly.

It's nice to have you back in regular conversation, Dan. It's been a few years. The world was on a real Dan Levy kick for a while.

[Laughs.] I think it's nice to take a break. It's nice for everyone to take a break. You don't want to ever overstay your welcome. So I'm happy that there's something that I care about that I'm able to talk about now.

What goes through your mind when something that is so personal to you gets its wings and is released into the world?

became a sleeper hit as the world shut down due to the Covid pandemic when we sheltered in place (in front of our TVs). In “Good Grief,” Levy plays Marc, an artist we meet at a Christmas party that ends tragically for his husband, Oliver (Luke Evans), who dies in a car accident right outside their place. Marc is left trying to make sense of his sudden

Well, it's tough because it's done. And I care deeply about it, and that's all that really kind of matters to me outside of the viewers that watch it and hopefully ﬁnd some point of connectivity in it. It's always a very sort of awkward thing to kind of have to sell your work. But I'm really happy with it and it's a movie that I know that I would like to watch and one that speaks to my life right now in a way that I feel is quite truthful. And yeah, it's a weird thing to put it out there and then have people do what they will with it. But at the end of the day, I'm grateful for the opportunity, ultimately. It's a 180 from what people have come to know me from. And those opportunities don't get handed out all the time. So I was really grateful that some people over at Netﬂix were willing to go in this new direction with me. And yeah, I'm just glad that there's a movie out there that speaks to my life in a meaningful way, that speaks to friendship and found family and the fact that, for a lot of people out there who are without kids and without partners, that friendships are the great loves of our lives.

Did you draw from your own found family for the �lm?

I did. You know, I was realizing once you get into your 30s — I'm 40 now, but was 37 when I started developing the ﬁlm — relationships change. Really good, long friendships. The more your life takes on weight, the more that applies to friendships and what we're willing to compromise and what we're willing not

to, and the hard conversations we need to have in order to invest in our friendships so that they can have life going into the next 40 years of our lives. It's uncomfortable at times, but I've been ﬁnding myself having really meaningful, truthful conversations with friends through this desire to be OK. If you have a friendship that's a decade or two decades old, there's going to be some stuff that you need to talk about at some point, like an actual partner. And it's about normalizing that, and the fact that those hard conversations are essentially an act of love. It's an investment in a meaningful relationship.

How did working on this �lm help you process your own feelings around grief?

Writing it really was the ﬁrst step. I was going through some grief. I lost my grandmother and I lost my dog. And it was the only thing I could do, really. I wasn't able to articulate it vocally. And I sat down at my computer and just started to write an outline for this ﬁlm, and it came quite naturally. And it has nothing to do with my own personal grief, but everything to do with the feelings and the detangling of those feelings and trying to understand what it all means. So as a writer, I tend to put everything down on

the page and see what happens. Between “Schitt's Creek” and this movie, I've worked through a lot of stuff. And it's good because you can put your life into a swath of different characters, and you're able to ask questions of yourself and others by way of dialogue and the way that different characters interact with each other and process tragedy or love. It's all been this wonderful catharsis of sorts, and this movie was huge for me in that sense. It led me to this path of understanding that culminates in a scene toward the end of the movie between my character and [actor] Celia Imrie, where she ultimately says, “To avoid sadness is also to avoid love.” That was one of the big takeaways from this whole experience for me, and it just ended up on the page. And I didn't really know where it came from, and yet it all was leading to that for me, that kind of revelation of the importance of being OK with sadness and letting it in and trying to understand it.

In your own experience and through your exploration of grief, how do you think queer people are impacted diﬀerently when it comes to loss?

I guess I can only really speak to my own experience because I think the community has experienced grief in so many different ways. And

“...I'm really happy with it and it's a movie that I know that I would like to watch and one that speaks to my life right now in a way that I feel is quite truthful. And yeah, it's a weird thing to put it out there and then have people do what they will with it.”

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people are going to process it in so many different ways. I think for me, that really manifested in the friendships. In this idea of having a safety net of friends there to help you. Because I think for a lot of people in the community, they don't have family to turn to. I'm very lucky that I do. But I think this idea of friendships helping to soften the blow of some real tragedy speaks to the community as a whole.

In both “Schitt's Creek” and now “Good Grief,” wealthy characters comment in various ways on social class. Is there something you're still trying to say about that topic with this movie?

I think so. I mean, I think in a way the character of Marc is such an avoidant, and essentially sort of ran away from his mother's death into the arms of a very handsome and successful writer. And so Oliver's success, I think there was something nice about showing a gay man who's successful and living a wonderful life, despite the odds, despite where he came from. I think we hear through his father's eulogy that it wasn't the easiest upbringing, and yet he succeeded. So there was something nice about showing that. But for Marc, it was all distraction. He was able to really run away from his sadness into the arms of this beautiful new life that was soft

and comfortable and exciting and sexy and all of those sort of wonderful things that would allow him to quickly not forget, but repress. So this indulgence before helped to really set up Marc's relationship to his husband's success, and ultimately realizing that he doesn't need it. He doesn't need that life in the end. He needed something a little bit more grounded, and he needed a life that was more deﬁned for himself.

When we spoke in 2018, “Schitt's Creek” hadn't become the cultural phenomenon that it eventually became. And kind of overnight, even though I know it was not overnight for you… It kind of was, though. I think it was over the pandemic, which felt like both forever and a complete blink.

How weird to feel that during a pandemic, right?

It continues to be a very strange thing. I talk to the cast about it. It's a very weird thing to go indoors for two years and come out a completely different person socially. It's really disorienting. And you don't get to be out and about and slowly start to understand that people know who you are. It's a very harsh confrontation of the fact that your life is completely different and

your relationship with privacy is completely different. And it also doesn't allow you any time to understand that you are, in fact, recognizable. So I think of that as a great opportunity, because there's no ego attached to quote-unquote “fame” at this point because we're all still confused about what's going on, to be perfectly honest. [Actor] Emma Corrin is a very close friend of mine, and they went through something very similar with “The Crown” over the pandemic as well, where suddenly everyone knew who they were, and yet we were all indoors. So we're still kind of thawing to this new version of our lives. You can't complain about it, obviously, because it's off the back of great success and opportunity, but it is certainly disorienting and so weird.

Were you even more eager to leave your house after or during the pandemic to understand what it might feel like as “Schitt's Creek” became a success?

No. It forced me into my house even more. [Laughs.] Now it takes more to get me out of the house, to be honest. Because it's not something that I love, frankly. I accept it because it's part of the job, but it's certainly not something that I'm lusting after. And so yeah, it's been very strange. It's been wonderful. It's great to hear people. I think fans of the show are so generous and so kind with how they approach me and the things that they say and the comfort that the show has brought them. So I think some fandoms can be really, really intense. I think the “Schitt's Creek” fandom community is very kind.

They have a Canadian sensibility, even though they might not be Canadian?

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Canadianizing our wonderful fans of the show.

Did you think intentionally about how to move yourself away as an actor from David considering how iconic that character has become?

It's a wonderful thing because there's a real personal connection, I guess, to the character and people feeling like they know me. I'm in some ways very close to David, and in some ways completely opposite. I think 80 episodes of doing the same character was the greatest experience, and yet you come out of it and you have a desire, as I think all actors do, to ﬂex a different kind of muscle. And for me, I wanted to get into something a bit more dramatic. Unfortunately, given the culture of our industry, I only was receiving lesser versions of David Rose to play in other shows and movies. And so I set out to write something for myself that I thought was a challenge. It was all very guttural. It was very instinctual. I didn't have to strategize. I tended to just listen to where my gut was telling me to go. And it was a great challenge. And as an actor, it really forced me to shake some habits that had formed over 80 episodes of playing an incredibly elastic, reactive human being. The character of Marc in this movie is so still and so calm, and shaking some of those impulses to broaden the performance was a real challenge. But I hope for anyone who becomes identiﬁed by way of a character: We should be so lucky. There's that. If people recognize me as David Rose for the rest of my life, let that be the case. It's so rare that you get to participate in anything that

“It's all been this wonderful catharsis of sorts, and this movie was huge for me in that sense. It led me to this path of understanding that culminates in a scene toward the end of the movie between my character and [actor] Celia Imrie, where she ultimately says, ‘To avoid sadness is also to avoid love.’”

affects people in that kind of way. But at the same time, I wish for any actor who is kind of being put in a box by way of their previous performances, that they'd be given the opportunity to show range. I think we've seen historically really great comedy actors excel in drama: Robin Williams, Tom Hanks, Jim Carrey...

We have to shift this idea that if someone becomes recognizable for one thing, that that's somehow all they can do. I love the idea of pushing actors outside of their comfort zones. And I think this movie did that with every actor, frankly, from Ruth [Negga] and Himesh [Patel] to Kaitlyn [Dever] and Emma. Everyone was playing slightly against type, which was really exciting to me.

Have you ever sent a David meme or GIF?

No. I've never sent a David GIF. I have sent an Alexis GIF. I think that's as far as I'll allow myself to go. I'm too scared of what it looks like to send a GIF of yourself. It's the Canadian in me. I could never. It's way too arrogant.

I have to ask you a question that everyone has been wondering: When will there be a “Schitt's Creek” revival?

I don't know if we'll ever do it. You end on a high note. Listen, we as a culture want, want, want, want, want. We want it now. It's binge culture. We want to watch an entire season of a television show in two days because that's what we want. And yet, I think to not give people what they want is cool. And I think it forces them to return to the show. Think about all the shows that overstayed their welcome. You will never go back and rewatch episodes of those TV shows. The shows that I go back to over and over and over again are the shows that left at just the right time, and I go back because I want that feeling again. I think we are in a culture now that's even more critical than when “Schitt's Creek” ended, frankly. And so I don't know. If I wake up one day with an idea for a movie or a Christmas special or something, and it is fucking brilliant and uses everybody to the best of their ability, and all of our actors can come back and feel excited to be there and feel like we're doing something fresh and new, great. That idea has not come to me, and I'm not entirely sure it will. We will see. Chris Azzopardi is the Editorial Director of Pride Source Media Group and Q Syndicate, the national LGBTQ+ wire service. He has interviewed a multitude of superstars, including Cher, Meryl Streep, Mariah Carey and Beyoncé. His work has also appeared in The New York Times, Vanity Fair, GQ and Billboard. Reach him via Twitter @chrisazzopardi. HotspotsMagazine.com | 129

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Go catch up on director Ira Sachs' bracing drama from last year, “Passages,” about an unrepentantly toxic queer man and the lovers whose lives he almost ruins, and you'll see acclaimed actor Ben Whishaw (“Paddington”) in a startling new light as a spurned partner with no plans to be anyone's victim. And for Whishaw's next project, he's reteaming with Sachs for a film about the late artist Peter Hujar. Hujar

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You know queer actor Stephanie Hsu from her Academy Award-nominated performance in “Everything Everywhere All At Once” and winning supporting turn on “The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel,” both projects that were inventive at their core. And now Hsu will take on another high-concept, equally inventive project:“ Laid.” Based on the Australian TV series of the same name, it's a comedy about a woman who discovers that people she's had sex with are dying one by one, in strange ways, and she has to go back to the past to deal with the patterns she was part of and

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