Hotspots! December 7, 2022 (Issue 3725)

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Feature: Holiday Gift Guide 2022 | Pic: Urge Miami Thanksgiving Festival | Feature: The Real Housewives of Miami Season 5 | Pix: Pride FtL & Flockfest Splash PoolParty | Feature: Disney’s Aladdin at Kravis Center and Arsht Center Feature: Self-Care During the Holidays

Out with Scott / What’s Hot | Scott Holland’s Guide to Events • Pix: Alibi /Monkey Bar •Feature: 50 Shades of Gay Starring Ike Avelli & Tym Moss • Hotspots Hotties: Jon Davis • Hot Eats • Feature: Lips Toy Drive • Pix: Leather Masked Ball • Hot Places • Pix: Kidd Madonny Spins at Twist • Feature: 5 Tips for an Organized and Stress Free Holiday Shopping Season • Hot Bodies • Pix: Trans Awareness Events • Hot Advice

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OUT WITH SCOTT

By Scott Holland

Congrats to Hilton and the Score team for once again producing a huge success and!!

Also, all weekend was the annual Hurricane Showdown Softball tournament.

On Friday night, The Urge Thanksgiving Weekend Pride Fort Lauderdale Flockfest Pool Party Lambda Men's Brotherhood On Friday, November 25, FlockFest and presented Leather Masked Ball XVII at Pride Fort Lauderdale presented “SPLASH” the Crystal Ballroom behind the Manor.

Pool Party T-Dance featuring DJ Marky Mark That same night Chad Bush started his and Emcee Priince Trilla at The Easton's annual Pig Week that went through rooftop pool. through December 4.

Starting Friday, November 25 and going On Sunday, November 27, The Alibi through Monday was the annual Urge Miami family presented a Celebration of Life Thanksgiving Festival. I would like to wish for former manager Don Clark. They honored the memory and legacy of Don with some great performances by their talented weekly entertainers, hosted by TP Lords.

On Wednesday, November 30, Wilton River Suites presented their grand opening party featuring the talents of Kerst Lehmann. The event was cohosted by the Wilton Manors Business Hurricane Showdown Association and was a benefit for Sunserve.

On Thursday, December 1 (World AIDS DAY) Care Resource in association with Gilead, Janssen and ViiV presented and event on their rooftop which The Alibi Leather Masked Ball featured a special

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Wilton River Suites Grand Opening

The Pubs Wreath Auction

performances by the united houses of South Florida, a candlelight vigil and a radiant art exhibit.

Also, On Thursday there were three events in Fort Lauderdale: The Pub featured their annual Holiday Wreath Auction hosted by the one and only Electra and benefitting Kids In Distress. Thousands were raised! Broward House featured the annual AIDS Vigil walk down wilton Drive and ending at The Pride Center, and the Galleria Mall presented the annual “Men of Style.”

On Saturday, December 3 from 2 to 10pm the Eagle presented “Wilton's Holiday Wonderland Holiday Market and Street Fair from 2-10pm which was hosted by Dusty Moorehead and starred Lady Bunny.

On Saturday, night The Fort Lauderdale's Gay Men's Chorus presented “Peace On Earth” at the UCC Fort Lauderdale. Later that night LeBoy presented the 1-year anniversary of Charles Horton owning LeBoy.

Care Resource

Broward House Candlelight vigil

Men of Style

Eagle

LeBoy

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WHAT’S HOT WHO • WHAT • WHEN • WHERE

By Scott Holland

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Gulfstream Park Village

Hamburger Mary’s

Friday, December 9 Hamburger Mary's Wilton Manors presents RuPaul's Drag Race alumni Lala Ri performing during Dinning With The Divas at 8 and 10pm. If you are busy Friday, don't worry as Lala will be back again on Saturday at 8 and 10pm, and on Sunday, December 11 for brunch. To make a reservation, go to Hamburgermarys.com/wiltonmanors.

Diva's Holiday Party Returns for one night Only at the Lakeworth Playhouse at 8pm. Join some of your favorite Queens and host Pepper Monroe at her annual holiday celebration! Be prepared to laugh your way into the holiday season. For Tickets which are $25, call 561-586-6410 or go to Lakeworthplayhouse.org.

Pub on the Drive

Saturday, December 10 Pub on the Drive presents Ike Avelli and Tym Moss in "Shades of Gay" Holiday Extravaganza at 8pm with special guest Angel Elektra. If you can't make it tonight, they will be performing on Sunday, at 7pm with special guest Shay D'Pines.

Sunday, December 11 Cocktails for Compass is celebrating its 20th anniversary, and some special guests are making this year a not-to-miss event!

For the past 20 years, the second Sunday in December has been a special night for Compass LGBTQ+ Community Center as the area's most influential residents gather in support of Compass' mission. Cocktails for Compass takes place at Club Colette,

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Miami Beach Botanical Garden

and local attorney and influencer Bill Bone will be emceeing the evening and introducing special guest speaker, and former owner of the Pittsburgh Pirates, Kevin McClatchy. The evening features: cocktails, passed hors d'oeuvres, a carving station, a silent auction, and dancing. For more information about Compass and its programs, please visit at CompassGLCC.com.

Miami Beach will host the city's first-ever Human Rights Expo at the Miami Beach Botanical Garden (2000 Convention Center Drive). The event will bring together 10 volunteer committees dealing with everything from human rights to Black affairs, affordable housing, and other topics of equality. Human Rights Day is observed by the international community every year to commemorate the day in 1948 that the United Nations General Assembly adopted the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. The following committees will be participating: Human Rights, Affordable Housing Advisory Committee, Black Affairs, Disability Access, Health Care Task Force Subcommittee, Hispanic Affairs, Homeless, LGBTQIA+, Quality Education, and

Wilton Manors Holiday Spectacular

Commission for Women.

Monday, December 12 The City of Wilton Manors, The Wilton Manors Business Association, Hotspots/Happening Out and the Crown & Anchor Provincetown presents the annual Wilton Manors Holiday Spectacular at Richardson Historic Park and Nature Preserve at 7pm. The night will star Tony and Grammy nominated Jeremy Jordan, who will be accompanied by Broadway musical director Benjamin Rauhala as well as many other artists. For tickets or VIP tickets, go to: WMBA.biz/holiday.

Tuesday, December 13 Sunserve presents Pride Night at Bahama Breeze Island Grille from 6:30-

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Toy Drive at LGBT Visitors Center 9:30pm. The night will be hosted by Jasmine Pryce Lords and will feature Aaliyah Jae and DJ Trevor Oldroyd. A portion of the night's proceeds will be donated to Sunserve. For more info visit: Sunserve.org/Bahama.

Thursday, December 15 The Miami Dade Gay Chamber of Commerce in association with Pridelines presents the 15th annual HoliGay Celebration and toy Drive at the LGBT Visitors Center (1130 Washington Avenue) from 6-9pm. The event features music, food, open bar, entertainment, DJ Jess and many surprises. Admission is an unwrapped toy or a $20 contribution.

RSVP at Gaybizmiami.com.

Friday, December 16 Hamburger Mary's Wilton Manors presents RuPaul's Drag Race alumni A'Keria C. Davenport performing during Dinning With The Divas at 8 and 10pm. If you are busy Friday, don't worry as A'Keria will be back again on Saturday at 8 and 10pm. To make a reservation, go to Hamburgermarys.com/wiltonmanors.

Historic Stranahan House Museum (335 SE 6th Avenue) will be decking the halls,

The Eagle Wilton Manors the walls and more with spectacular Victorian era décor for the Victorian Christmas Tours in December. Costumed tour guides in fabulous gowns and waist coats narrate the origins of many holiday traditions and demonstrate how pioneers celebrated Christmas as they take guests on a whimsical journey of Christmas past amid picture-perfect Victorian era décor.

Tours are one hour and are scheduled from Friday-Sunday, from today through the 18 and Friday, December 23. There is a maximum of 10 visitors per tour. Tickets are $25 for non-members and $20 for museum members and can be purchased at stranahanhouse.org/events. For any additional information, please call (954) 524-4736.

Saturday, December 17 The Eagle Wilton Manors presents a Holiday customer appreciation event entitled "Thanks" which stars DJ Drew G. Art Walk Wilton Manors takes place today (3rd Saturday of the month Oct-May) from 6-9pm on Wilton Drive. For more information go to: AWWM.org.

Tuesday, December 20 The Greater Fort Lauderdale LGBT

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Chamber of Commerce presents their annual holiday mixer at B Ocean Fort Lauderdale form 5:30-7pm. This event will feature the famous Mermaids and Aquamen show in the Wreck bar. They will also be awarding several grants celebrating LGBTQ business resilience as part of their partnership with the NGLCC and Grubhub community Impact Program. The event will feature complimentary beer and wine for the entire event, complimentary Hors D'oeuvres, a chance to win a two night stay with breakfast and a chance to win dinner for two at Naked Crab. Members are complimentary with early registration

and $5 within 24 hours, and nonmembers are $10 with early registration and $15 within 24 hours. Valet parking only $5. For more info contact Keith at: Keith@gflglcc.org.

The original Fort Lauderdale's Gay Men's Chorus will be celebrating the retirement of Dr. Gary Keating after over 35 years of service at Drynk Bar and Lounge from 6:309:30pm. Admission is $25 in advance (ftlgmcgary. brownpapertickets.com) and $30 at the door and includes appetizers (courtesy of the Pub), a drawing ticket, a silent auction, and happy hour drink prices.

This is HOT On behalf of myself and the entire Hotspots/Happening Out team I would like to wish my friend, Faye Albernas (Fay What Show), a HUGE CONGRATS on winning SFGN's Best Local Television Personality. The other nominees, who we congratulate as well, were Craig Stevens, Brandon Orr, Steve Mclaughlin and Ted Scouten. We are so proud of our shining star Fay…We love you!!

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Alibi/Monkey Bar

Celebration of Life for Don Clark

Photos: Coco Alarcon

50 Shades of Gay Starring Ike Avelli & Tym Moss

Plays at The Pub Dec 10-11

By Scott Holland

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Ike Avelli began his entertainment career by accident in 2009 (look below to find out how). He supports his community by raising funds and has performed for LIFEbeat, The Imperial Court of NY, Gay Men's Health Crisis, The Trevor Project, and The Ali Forney Center among others. He has appeared on many talk/radio shows in the U.S. and Internationally. Ike also Co-hosted on the #1 Show on Wildfire Radio, "The Idiots" and has appeared in the LGBTQ publications of Get Out and Next Magazine. Since 2013, Ike wrote, produced, and starred in 13 original shows.

Tym Moss is a dynamic New York City performer and LGBT activist (was the past president of the Board attempting to create an LGBT Center in the Bronx). He is a Singer/Songwriter, Actor/Writer, Stage & Radio Host, Producer, etc. He has performed on stages around the country and appeared in film, TV, and theater. Tym

is also one of the hosts of Comedy Sex Show, Loose Lips and also If These Walls Could Talk soon to air on UBC TV. Tym is also an executive producer of UBC TV Network. His weekly internet radio show Artists Exposed with Tym Moss ran for 10 years & featured Celebrities, Red Carpet events & LGBT luminaries.

One of the shows that Ike wrote and Tym stars in with him is "50 Shades of Gay," which was a hit in NYC during Pride 2015 and sold-out Bally's in Atlantic City in 2019.

It was also part of the 2017-2019 Rochester Fringe Festival and sold out all four nights.

The Huffington Post called it "the performance of the summer," while hailing Ike Avelli as the "mastermind of creativity."

A couple weeks before "50 Shades of Gay," plays for 2 nights only at The Pub (Saturday, Dec 10 at 8pm (with special guest Angel Elektra and Sun, Dec 11 at 7pm with special guest Shay D'Pines), I thought it would be nice to sit down with Ike and Tym for this exclusive Hotspots Interview.

When did each of you start performing?

Ike – I started performing late in life in the 2009.

I idolized Joan Rivers my whole life. A talkent dropped out and asked me to step inb .

Tym – I have been a performer for as long as I can remember, all my life. I remember seeing Barbara Streisand performing in Central Park when I was a kid, and I knew that's what I wanted to do. I grew up emulating her and she taught me how to sing before I studied professionally.

You have both traveled a lot, do you have a favorite city or venue (other than here in South Florida) and why?

Ike – Boise Idaho stands out because it was way more diverse and accepting that we anticipated.

Tym – We also performed in Rochester where the audiences are also great. I also loved Ashville.

Who are some of your mentors/heroes?

Ike – It was always Joan Rivers as a comedian. I also love Sandra Bernhard and Whoppi Goldberg. Barbra Streisand has also been a huge icon for me.

Tym – Since I was a kid, I wanted to do it all.

So, John Belushi and Gilda Radner (SNL) to Streisand, Bette Midler, and Whitney Houston.

What celebrity did you meet that made you star struck?

Ike – Tym introduced me to Linda Lavin, and when I was a kid, I watched Alice every single week, so it was the most incredible experience.

Tym – I cover a lot of red carpets in NY, so I have grown accustomed to meeting celebrities. But I met Mariah Carey at the GLAAD Music awards and I was star struck.

Describe yourself in 3 words?

Ike – funny, warm, and faithful Tym – talented, effervescent, and fun

Describe each other in 3 words?

Ike (describing Tym) – pioneer, talented, and sincere Tym (describing Ike) – Friend, loyal and hysterical.

You are each multi-talented (writing, acting, etc.) is there one you like more than the others?

Ike – I love live performing more than anything. Its due to the immediate reaction from the audience. It's so energetic for me.

Tym – I love everything, but my favorite is to sing to a live audience and make them feel something.

What do you guys do for fun?

Ike – I love when, I have the opportunity, to see another artist perform.

Tym – I have the best times of my life on stage with Ike, so performing is my fun.

Tell our readers about 50 Shades Of Gay?

Ike – It's an adult variety show filled with everything from comedy, music, drag, video sketches and audience participation.

We have gifts for participating. Come out and have fun, I promise you will have a ball.

Tym – It's a very fast moving, energetic show and I guarantee you will like this show, so all you ho ho ho's come out for our Holiday show.

For more information on Ike or Tym, you can check out their websites at: Ikeavelli.net or Tymmoss.com or you can follow them on Instagram.com/Ikeavelli or /Tymmoss.

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With the Holidays just around the corner, I thought I would give you some suggestions on items for your loved ones. I am suggesting items as low as $8.99.

I would like to take this opportunity to wish everyone a happy and healthy Holiday Season.

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Liquors

Bearface Triple Oak Whisky • $34.99

Bearface Triple Oak is a single grain Canadian whisky matured for seven years in ex-bourbon American oak barrels, then aged in French oak red wine casks and air-dried virgin Hungarian oak. Bearface is produced on the edge of the Canadian wilderness, which transforms Bearface whisky into something wilder and more adventurous through Elemental Aging.

Rinquinquin (pronounced Ran-can-can) • $19.99

This is the peachy perfect aperitif you're looking for. Made at Distilleries et Domaine de Provence, Rinquinquin is created by infusing regional sweet peaches and their leaves and then “aged” in barrels for 6 months. There are three peaches that make up this spirit and each one provides a different quality. They are: the Cardinale peach with orange red skin and pale-yellow juicy flesh; the Coronet peach, white, sweet, juicy and aromatic; and the Junegold peach, with orange-yellow skin and lightyellow aromatic flesh.

Brilla! Prosecco DOC • $15 Proseccobrilla.com or Drizly.com

With its lively bubbles, Brilla! Prosecco is a vibrant and fresh Prosecco that embodies the Italian essence with its delicate and complex bouquet and crisp, light body. While extremely well balanced; the finish is long and harmonic, just what you need to refresh and please the palate. Moreover, with its unique jewelryinspired packaging and groundbreaking glitter label, this lively sparkling wine will light up this very special moment, gifting your nearest and dearest a toast they will certainly remember forever.

Tulchan Gin • $39.99

Born on one of the most prestigious estates in Speyside, Scotland, Tulchan Gin is a 'London Dry', super premium spirit rooted in the dramatic Scottish landscape and local traditions, that brings the flavors of Speyside & Scotland to the fore.

Prospero Tequila Blanco • $39.99

Designed by Stella Anguiano, one of Mexico's only premier female Master Distillers, Próspero offers unparalleled flavor and an elegant, perfectly balanced finish. Born of the lush, volcanic soil of the tequila valley, the majestic Blue Agave infuses the landscape from which Próspero Tequila is created. Every element is crafted by hand: from the elegant bottle to the exquisite flavor profile, to the artistically illustrated label.

Charles Krug Cabernet Sauvignon • $41

This medium- to full-bodied wine showcases a rich mix of berry, chocolate, and buttery caramel flavors set against a beautifully integrated backdrop of toasted oak, all leading to a seamless, long finish of currant, blueberry, and warm oak notes.

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Crema de Alba Gift Set • $25.32

Crema de Alba is the only cream liqueur of its kind in the world. It combines Gran Duque D'Alba Gran Reserva, a 12-year-old Brandy de Jerez with unique dairy cream, vanilla and cocoa. Crema De Alba has a rich, complex, and decadent taste that is a creamy balance between sweetness and the complex flavors of Solera aged Grand Duque de Alba Brandy de Jerez.

Vina Robles 2020 Arborist • $20

The clusters were picked during the cooler morning temperatures and cold soaked for two days prior to fermentation. Various pump-over techniques were implemented during progressive stages of fermentation to enhance fruit extraction and balance out the tannin structure. The wine was then aged in both small and large format French, Hungarian and American oak barrels for 18 months in order to add complexity while enhancing a soft, velvety finish. This fruit-forward wine is a natural go-to for just about any meal.

Crossbarn 2021 Sonoma Coast Chardonnay • $30

The 2021 vintage bursts from the glass with bright aromas of lemon zest, green apple, and white florals, with an undercurrent of flinty minerality that belies its cool climate origins along the Sonoma Coast. A beautiful tension midpalate elevates the notes of Asian pear and lime which mingle with a vibrant acidity, leading to a clean and refreshing finish.

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Books

Expansive Intimacy • $18.99 Amazon.com • theCenteredcoach.com

In Expansive Intimacy: How “Tough Guys” Defeat Burnout, Jim Young explores the rules of masculinity that force men into a false choice: either face shame by embracing their inner desires for meaningful connection or invite burnout by following the harsh rules that require men to shun emotions and emphasize achievement.

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Children’s Baby Dragon's Big Sneeze• $12.99 (Paperback) and $18.99 (Hardcover)

by Sheryl Bass and Illustrated by Remesh Ram

Dad Spelled Backward: A Journey Through the Maze of Love, Marriage, and Adoption • $9.99

In this book, M. S. King chronicles his and his wife's frustrating yet fulfilling quest to have a baby. The book is a heartfelt, sage, and funny look at the worthwhile gauntlet of domestic adoption. It's also a compelling portrait of a marriage, showing how the bond between King and his wife grew stronger and more resilient as they navigated their unique path to parenthood.

100 Things to Do in Fort Lauderdale Before You Die • $18 • By: Christana Lilly

From a boggy riverfront outpost to Spring Break mecca and a world-class city in South Florida, Fort Lauderdale has taken on many identities in its history. But something that has never changed is its eclectic nature that has lured families, outdoor enthusiasts, and well-heeled travelers to our shores. Whether you're a born-and-raised Fort Lauderdale resident, spend your winters here, or are in town for the weekend, 100 Things to Do in Fort Lauderdale Before You Die is a comprehensive guide to the Venice of America.

The Power of Positive Thinking: Interfaith 21st Century Edition • $8.99 • Amazon

Norman Vincent Peale's The Power of Positive Thinking put the self-help genre on the map when it was first published in 1952. In the newly annotated and expanded version, humanitarian and entrepreneur Hasan Abdullah Ismaik weaves spiritual wisdom from three different religions, bridging cultural beliefs and offering practical techniques to embrace optimism in a challenging world.

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When a young dragon accidentally burns down a village with a fiery sneeze, the townspeople are angry. The dragon fears for his life—until a brave little girl enters his cave and learns that the poor dragon is sick. Will the townspeople understand and accept that the dragon did not burn their village on purpose? Will they trust this giant beast to get close enough to treat his cold? With brilliant, eye-catching illustrations, Baby Dragon's Big Sneeze teaches children aged 3-7 pro-social values such as sharing, compassion and helping those in need.

60th Anniversary Barbie Dreamhouse $149.99 • Amazon.com

Mattel partnered with Habitat for Humanity this year to build 60 homes around the world in honor of 60 years of Barbie's Dreamhouse. And now you can get the 2022 version of Barbie's plastic home. The three-floor, 43-inch-tall Dreamhouse boasts 10 indoor and outdoor living areas, including a moveable grass and pool area. It comes furnished with lights, sounds and 70 accessories.

America Medic & Science offers an assortment of products ranging from fertility supplements (male and female), pediatric supplements and wellness supplements (sexual health, immunity and nutrition, digestive health, cardiovascular health, neuro health, joint health, and more).

Here are a few:

PenaMax • $84.99

This is an all-natural dietary supplement for men who are looking to increase stamina, endurance, and improve overall sexual performance in an entirely natural manner.

PenaMax elevates libido and sexual desire allowing men to have control over ejaculation for greater pleasure.

VivaPill Men • $69.99

Is a potent blend of vitamins, minerals and amino acids which nourish and strengthen the hair follicle as well as overall hair appearance.

Its formula acts as building blocks for Keratin, the key structural material making up hair and the outer layer of the skin.

Immunexa - $19.99

This is a 7 in 1 immune boosting supplement to keep the body protected with extra support through daily dosage.

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Health & Beauty

Trixsent Skincare Collection • $147.11 Trixsent.ca

Fungies Mushroom Gummy Vitamin • Starting at: $19.95 Eatfungies.com

Use Fungies to strengthen your mind and immune system this winter as each gummy contains 500mg of dual extracted lion's mane mushroom (fruiting body standardized to contain 30% Beta-Glucans) and is packed with antioxidants.

These gummies may help with memory, focus, clarity, and overall cognitive performance. Veganfriendly.

Cashmere Moon Moisturizing Trio Box • Starting at: $74 Shopcashmeremoon.com

The Trio box includes Whipped Body Cream, Vitamin C Whipped Hand Lotion, & Lavender Rose Glow Oil. The benefits include Head-to-toe hydration, Softer skin, and healthier radiant skin.

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After founder Athena Klee spent 10+ years creating her own custom skin care formulas to ensure her skin was getting the best care, she released them into the world as Trixsent!

Get ready to immerse yourself in antioxidants, fade those sunspots, and revel in refined and glowing skin with the naturally luxurious Forever Young Collection from this organic beauty brand.

Skincare Routine:

* Vitamin C Cleanser - Wash away oils while gently soothing * Vitamin C Serum - Deliver deep moisture to fight the signs of aging * Vitamin C Eye Cream - Reduce the appearance of dark circles and puffiness * Vitamin C Cream - Firm, brighten, even, and moisturize in one fell swoop

The Gentleman Solid Cologne by Walton Wood Farm • $34.95 (2.5oz) waltonwoodfarm.com

Featuring light and soft citrus and mahogany notes, this 100% North American hand-crafted solid cologne is understated yet captivating. Made with Grape Seed oil and beeswax, this cologne is sure to be a hit! It is also cruelty-free, alcohol-free, gluten-free, and made with sustainable ingredients.

Osmosis Beauty Sensitive Skin Care Deluxe Kit $61 • OsmosisBeauty.com

The perfect kit for calming and soothing sensitive skin. Includes Infuse Nutrient Activating Mist, Purify Enzyme Cleanser, Rescue Epidermal Repair Serum, StemFactor Growth Factor Serum, Quench Nourishing Moisturizer, and Pure Lip Balm.

Osmosis Beauty Holiday Survival Kit $78 OsmosisBeauty.com

Don't just survive, THRIVE this holiday season!

Featuring targeted frequencies and 24-karat edible gold, Osmosis Elixirs holistically harmonize and address sugar cravings, balance digestive issues, and add tranquility and relaxation from the daily stresses of life. Kits includes Sugar Detox Elixir, Relax & Unwind Elixir, and Digestive Relief Elixir.

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Pure and Cimple Super Supple - Hydrate + Glow Prebiotic Face Moisturizer • $31.99 • pureandcimple.com

Sourced from Nature, super supple is a unique blend of polyglutamic acid, ceramide NP, prebiotic saccharide isomerate, omega-rich fatty acids and healing plant oils. Wear for a healthy, dewy glow or under your fav makeup to amplify radiance. Specialist ingredients are carefully chosen to provide hydration to the skin. Does not contain Fragrances, Essential Oils, Silicones, PEGs, Retinol, or Toxins.

Inflamade • inflamade.com

Inflamade found real relief from CBD and wants to share it with the world.

Inflamade provides a natural health solution to people in need who combat chronic pain, inflammation, or swelling.

The company was created by a group of health-minded individuals who designed Inflamade to provide a healthy alternative to relieve pain that anyone can use.

Inflamade Deep Healing Cream • $90

Reuzel • Reuzel.com

Is one of the fastest growing men's grooming brands now available in 80+ countries with products ranging from hair styling pomades and shampoos to beard grooming balms and shave creams perfect for all hair types and conditions.

Pigs Can Fly Travel Kits • $30-$36

* Blue Pomade Holiday Travel Kit - Contains Blue Pomade (4oz/113g) + Blue Pomade (1.3oz/35g) + Daily Shampoo (3.38oz/100ml) * Clay Pomade Holiday Travel Kit - Contains Clay Pomade (4oz/113g) + Clay Pomade (1.3oz/35g) + Daily Shampoo (3.38oz/100ml)

RR Skincare Duo Travel Kits • $24

* Clean & Hydrate Duo Travel Kit - Contains RR Clean & Fresh Solid Face Wash Stick (1.7oz/50g) + Hydrating Face Moisturizer (3.38oz/100ml) * Renew & Hydrate Duo Travel Kit - Contains RR Intensive Care Eye Cream (1oz/30ml) + Hydrating Face Moisturizer (3.38oz/100ml).

This was designed with all of your health needs in mind and made with love and the best colorado hemp CBD. The perfect citrus scent is great for anytime use. Completely clean and paraben free!! Inflamade Deep Healing Cream could potentially help you with:Sore Muscles, Strains.Joint Discomfort, Arthritis, Tendonitis, Swelling, Stomach Pain, Menstrual Cramps, Cramping associated with Chrons, Nerve Damage, Phantom Pains (Amputees), Headaches, Eczema & Skin Discomfort and also doubles as a massage lotion leaving you refreshed and ready to go.

nflamade Rest + Recover Extra Strength Sleepade tincture (alcohol free) • $65

This is your nightly solution to potentially help you recover from within while benefitting from better sleep. You may wake up feeling refreshed after a great nights rest, putting your body and mind in a position to heal and recover as well as perform to its best capacity. Made with 100% all Natural ingredients.

Inflamade Deep Sleep CBD+CBN Gummies • $70

This is engineered to help with REM sleep. 20mg CBD + 5mg CBN, and 3mg Melatonin per vegan watermelon gummy to put your mind at ease as you lay down, drifting away into a deep sleep.

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Clothes ES Collection USA's • ESCollectionUSA.com Sports Shorts • $85

These shorts include a removable black bag on the right side, and are available in red and gray.

Removable Top Jacket • $107

Also available in red and gray, featuring a black vest with two side pockets

Teamm8 • Teamm8.com

We are an Australian designer Brand founded in 2008 in Sydney. We specialise in creating exclusive and fashion-forward underwear, swimwear and activewear for men. Our mission is to arm our everyday champions with the best designs, quality and comfort to make them feel unique and confident. Work(out), rest or play, we believe in the power of good design!

Teamm8 One Hoodie - Gorgeous Regular price $79 • Sale price $47.40

Their gender-neutral collection is here. Taking diversity and inclusion to the next level and featuring 3 shades from their SKIN collection, the hoodie ticks every box for comfort, style and quality. A super soft 100% cotton easy fit that will have you wanting to wear it all day and all night!

Teamm8 One Short - Gorgeous Regular price $59 • Sale price $35.40

A super soft 100% cotton easy but slim fit that will take you from the gym, lunch, the sofa and everything in between!

Teamm8 One Sweatpants - Gorgeous Regular price$69.00 • Sale price$41.40

This is also a super soft 100% cotton easy but slim fit that will have you wanting to wear it all day and all night!

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MÄNNKITCHEN • $199.99 Mannkitchen.com

The Pepper Cannon by MANNKITCHEN is the kitchen gadget of any foodie's dreams! This sleek chunk of grinding precision can get you from pepper-less to fully seasoned in 7 cranks instead of 70 and boasts an 8-60+ mesh range for complete control of your spice level.

This ia a great gift for the foodie in your life!

Viking Culinary Acacia and Slate Charcuterie Board Set $179.99 vikingculinaryproducts.com

This is a seven-piece set, which makes an eyecatching centerpiece. The product's size and versatile surfaces allow hosts to serve a variety of appetizers on one board. Viking's set includes a heavy-duty, sustainable, Acacia wood butcher block style serving board with easy to grip metal handles that make it easy to carry and move the board around. It also comes with three ceramic ramekins set into recessed holes on the board.

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Kitchen / Food

Beachbreak Coffee - Two 12 oz Bags of Coffees (7 to choose from) + a 12 oz Camper Cup • $58 Beachbreakcoffee.com

Their company was founded on a passion to deliver fresh small batch roasted premium coffees that taste the way coffee was meant to taste. They think that sharing cups of coffee with friends and family inspires great conversation.

With this venture, they hope to influence their communities in a way that encourages conversations about saving our beach environments, on respecting our fellow beings and on building vibrant local communities.

Funcho Pain free Holiday Pack • $42.50 • Funcho.co

Don't let the Holiday Season slow you down. Try the sweetest way to stay energetic, rested, Pain free and Carefree through the physical and emotional bumps and bruises of the season.

Their Pain free Holiday Pack features two each of their new Sweet Chai Painfree Chocolate for Everyday Aches and Pains, two Mellow Mint Truffle Carefree Bars for Stress & Anxiety, one Energy Chocolate and one Sleepy Chocolate.

Greenroads' CBD Chocolate Bar • $9.99 greenroads.com

Sweetology • Starting at $39.99 sweetology.com

Get ready for the holiday season with an activity everyone will enjoy – the DIY Holiday Decorating Kits from Sweetology!

These Decorating Kits include everything you'll need to create edible fun! Fresh baked cake & cookies, made from scratch buttercream frosting, decorating tools, sugar-pressed decorations, & more.

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This small-batch, artisanal dark chocolate bar infused with 180mg of CBD from American-farmed hemp is a luxe way to melt the holiday stress away.

This is a silicone-based cannabis lubricant and is made to expand your natural lubrication and provide a longlasting smooth experience.

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Black Sheep CBD Meringue Cookies • $12.99 $18.99 • Blacksheep-cbd.com

Take a bite and relax with Black Sheep CBD meringue cookies! These tasty traditional treats but with a healthy twist, are made from premium, all-natural ingredients, and made with CBD (THC Free) that taste as good as they'll make you feel-- with none of the high! Crafted from chef-inspired recipes, Black Sheep CBD Meringue Cookies have only natural ingredients like Cane Sugar and Natural flavors. They are Gluten-Free, Dairy-Free, Soy Free, Cholesterol Free, Non-GMO, and THC-Free and contain zero total fat, saturated fats, or trans fats.

Every bag contains 100 MG or 200MG of 100% hemp-derived CBD and is made from full-spectrum CBD. Available in 9 irresistible flavors, including Chocolate, Vanilla, Strawberry, Cappuccino, Caramel, Birthday Cake, Cookies & Cream, Cotton Candy, and Mint Chocolate.

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Misc Secret Message Candles by Celsius54 • $15 54celsius.com

These candles make a statement and build anticipation without saying a word! As the wax melts, a secret message is slowly revealed at the bottom of the glass cup.

Good Vibes • $75 (1500mg); $125 (3000mg) elevatedwellness.com

This is a 1:1 CBDA to CBD full spectrum tincture infused with terpenes to help calm your mind and body. A low percentage of Delta-8 THC has been added to help potentiate the formula's stress relieving properties, as well as increase its painrelieving efficacy. CBDA is known to help increase natural serotonin and dopamine production as well as relieve inflammation and pain issues. Formulated and tested over a 7-month period, the brand is confident that this mixture of cannabis compounds is ideal for a user's day to day stresses

The Rokin Dial • $39.95 • rokinvapes.com

This is one of the smallest and most powerful vaporizers on the market. With an advanced 510 threaded connection and 21 voltage settings, more than any other portable vaporizer, the Dial notifies you when your connection is secure. Take full advantage of your concentrate products when you need some relaxation time during the holiday parties.

Manta Sleep Blue Light Blocking Glasses • $75

Blue light emission can cause eyestrain, headaches, and anxious fatigue. This destroys your natural ability to fall asleep and stay asleep. Manta Sleep Blue Light Blocking Glasses are specifically designed to block these disruptive wavelengths. These glasses are proven to block 99% of melatonindisrupting blue light in the spectrum range of 450-480nm.

They also feature top-quality acetate frames, a comfortable, customizable fit, spring-loaded, nickel-plated steel hinges, and soft & adjustable silicone nose pads.

Guy Harvey Hammerhead Ring • $34.95 GuyHarvey.com

This one won't bite! The Guy Harvey Hammerhead Ring features just about every dreamy shade of blue you can imagine. The striking hammerhead swimming into the deep inspires us to do some deep soul searching of our own.

After all, adventure calls and the possibilities are endless!

Also available: Dolphin Ring, Tuna Ring, Skins Ring, and Pink Sea Turtle Ring.

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Worky, The Home Office • $149.99 Workylife.com

This is the first-ever portable desk in a box. Worky The Home Office is the perfect must-have solution/gadget that fits how most of our lives are: hybrid productivity, work-fromhome, apartment living and more. It brings together 15 key elements of a productive desk set up in one convenient, mobile solution.

Benefits include:Holds paperwork, pens, charging cords and sticky notes to keep one's work items gathered, Built-In Power and Device Charging, Built-In Video Conferencing Light, Built-In Storage, and a Magnetic Dry Erase Board

#LubeLife's Lube • $9.99 • Lubelife.com

#LubeLife Prosecco Flavored Lubricant isn't just a fancy name for champagne, it's an invite to an exclusive celebration. Just pop this bottle of water-based flavored lube and head downtown to that private spot your partner likes so much.

And don't worry if you spill any, it only TASTES expensive - and it won't stain your sheets!

Celestial Silk Abstract Dreamscape Pillowcases • $42.99 Celestialsilk.com

Silk is synonymous with luxury. The smooth texture and shine of silk looks fantastic on a bed, but more importantly - silk feels luxurious. And it just gets better - Silk pillowcases help you sleep better too.

Silk is temperature-regulating - helping you sleep better. It's hypoallergenic - making it perfect for allergy sufferers. AND it's a natural way to get your beauty (& grooming) sleep. Celestial Silk pillowcases also come in 25 colors & prints and donates 10% of proceeds to charity.

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Nuvata's Mind-Body Vape Series • $32.00 nuvata.co/products/mind-body-series

This series offers a simple and easy way to enjoy the wellness, mindfulness, and fun cannabis offers. It delivers terpene-rich, naturally flavored cannabis oil with high THC and complimenting CBD levels for optimum balance. The 6 delicious flavors come from naturally occurring compounds to create bolder, fruitier, and tastier flavors.

PURGGO Car Air Eco-Purifier & Freshener • $22.99 Amazon.com

This is made with pure and sustainable natural bamboo charcoal, which absorbs & eliminates odor instead of masking it.

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Hotties Meet Our Cover Model Photos by Dennis Dean Interview by Scott Holland

What is your nationality?

I am a proud African American

Are you Single or married

Happily married for 6 years

Why is your hubby the perfect guy for you?

He still believes in my dreams, and he is patient enough with my journey. He helps me grow and I help him grow.

What do you do for a living?

I am a musician

What do you do for fun?

Exercise and read. I am a total book nerd. I like cheesy fantasy books. I am also into exercising.

What does the future hold for you?

More shoots, more covers, more music, and more laughs.

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By Maria Espinal

Cruzeiro Brazilian Steakhouse

7419 Miami Lakes Dr. • Miami Lakes, FL 33014 • 305.363.5247 cruzeirosteakhouse.net • Mon, Thu, Fri & Sun 11:30am – 9pm Tue, Wed 11:30am – 9pm • Sat 11:30am – 10:30pm Ready for some delicious meat, with a Brazilian twist that is!

Whether you'd like to dine in or order to go, you'll always get the feel of the Brazilian atmosphere. Come by Cruzeiro for a delightful selection of dishes and drinks. Highlights from their menu: Lobster tostones, stuffed avocado and queijo coalho (cheese sticks with honey and pineapple marmalade) A must-try is their filet mignon wrap in bacon, totally juicy. They do have a great menu to choose from and make sure you get some dessert, too!

Lynora's Kitchen

207 Clematis St. • West Palm Beach, FL 33401 561.899.3117 • lynoras.com • Mon – Thu & Sun 11am - 10pm • Fri – Sat 11am – 11pm • Sun 11am For over 35 years, Lynora's has been serving thousands of locals and has become known as a favorite for Italian food with a family touch. There is pizza with many toppings, sandwiches, pasta, seafood, meatballs or chicken. You can also take home the famous Lynora's sauce. Lynora has 5 locations in Palm Beach County, check them out online as they have weekly features depending on location. Catering, gift cards or private dinning are available at Lynora's.

Wild Sea on Las Olas

620 E Las Olas Blvd. • Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301 954.467.2555 • wildsealasolas.com Mon – Sun 7am – 2pm & 5pm – 10pm • Fri & Sat 5pm – 11pm Situated in Fort Lauderdale's Riverside Hotel, Wild Sea Las Olas delights locals and hotel guests with delicious cuisine. From their diverse, innovative dishes and daily specials, its menu has something for everything, featuring an inviting, comfortable ambiance. Take advantage of their highly popular $1.50 Oyster Mania Monday to their weekly $10 lunch specials Monday-Sunday at Wild Sea Las Olas. Weekend brunch also available.

La Dolce Vita

3331 NE 33rd St. • Fort Lauderdale, FL 33308 • 954.565.5707 ladolcevitaftl.com • Mon-Thur 5pm – 9:30pm • Fri-Sat 5pm – 10pm Their delicious menu and attention to detail create a truly enjoyable dining experience. Highlights: Prosciutto e Burrata, Chitarrina Carbonara (Homemade spaghetti, eggs, pancetta, pecorino romano cheese, black pepper), Vitello Al Tartufo Nero (Grilled veal chop, cream sauce & wild mushrooms, potatoes) and Salmone Grigliato (Grilled Scottish salmon with Caponata style vegetables).

As they say at LDV: “Come taste the difference!”

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The Real Housewives of Miami Season 5 Premieres Thursday, Dec 8th on Peacock

By Scott Holland

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“I was a very young girl in Russia watching tennis and I knew there was something about her that intrigued me. I remember standing in a doorway looking at the TV and thinking I want to keep watching but didn't know why.”

Season five of the Peacock original series The Real Housewives Of Miami returns Thursday, December 8. The Housewives are back for another muy caliente season with new alliances, loyalty and relationships on the line.

The ladies of the “Sunshine State” are still turning up the heat and dialing up the drama. The first four episodes will be available the day of premiere, with new episodes available thereafter on Thursdays. The season five cast includes returning Housewives Guerdy Abraira, Lisa Hochstein, Julia Lemigova, Dr. Nicole Martin, Alexia Nepola and Larsa Pippen. Friends Kiki

Barth, Adriana de Moura and Marysol Patton will also be featured. The first four seasons are currently available to stream on Peacock.

A week before the new seasons premiere, I sat down with LGBTQ+ cast member Julia Lemigova for this exclusive Hotspots interview.

How did you get cast in the re-boot of The Real Housewives of Miami?

My friend Adrianna called me one morning and asked me if would like to join her on the show, and without hesitation I said yes. It is so fun to be with her off camera, I figured it would be even more fun on camera.

Were you friendly with any of your castmates before filming?

I knew Larsa, and I heard of many of them.

How did your first season go compared to what you expected?

I walked into it without any expectations, that's how I live my life in general. I didn't want to have preconceived ideas, so I walked into the unknown, and I am having a blast!

How did you and Martina meet?

We met in Paris in 2000 very briefly. But we were two separate ships. Then in 2008 we met again and haven't left each other since.

Did you know right away there was something special with Martina or when did you know?

Honestly, I when I was a very young girl in Russia watching tennis and I knew there was something about her that intrigued me. I remember standing in a doorway looking at the TV and thinking I want to keep watching but didn't know why.

Describe yourself in 3 words?

Curious, adventurous, and an animal-lover.

What do you do for fun?

I love milking goats.

What does the future hold for you?

I wish I would have that answer, but honestly, I live day by day, and I never look to the future as I want to live in the moment and enjoy it.

For more information on Julia, follow her at: Instagram.com/julialemigova.

Other than Adrianna who are you close with on the cast?

Organically I got friendly with Nicole, and I am also friendly with Guerdy and Lisa.

Without giving anything away, how did your second season go?

OMG, so much better than the first one. I got my experience under my belt after my first season. This season helped me with my own personal growth and re-booted a lot of things in my life. I am super grateful for the show.

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Lips’ Toy Drive to Benefit Children’s Diagnostic & Treatment Center

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Lips, the ultimate in drag dining, will host a not-your-ordinary Holiday Toy Drive to benefit Children's Diagnostic & Treatment Center (CDTC) during its Drag-a-licious Brunch on Sunday, December 11, with two show seating's at 11:30am and 2pm.

Attendees are encouraged to bring an unwrapped children's toy to receive a free Lips' World-Famous Frozen Cosmo during a future visit.

“Children's Diagnostic & Treatment Center is grateful for Lips which has been committed for years to our organization in support of our kids,” said Ana E. Calderon Randazzo, Ph.D. Executive Director of Children's Diagnostic & Treatment Center.

“Lips offers an amazingly good time and we invite others to join us as we raise funds and collect toys for our families in need!”

Attendees to this festive brunch will have two reasons to enjoy Lips' show palace experience. One is to celebrate Lips' show hostess, Nicolette's birthday and the other is to support CDTC. Show-goers will experience soulful and uplifting music performed by the ladies of Lips who will also serve Lips' world-famous all-inclusive Sunday brunch with bottomless Bloody Marys, mimosas and Champagne.

“We remain dedicated to collecting toys and raising funds for Children's Diagnostic & Treatment Center,” said Yvonne Lamé, Lips founder and co-owner. “Now, especially, we're embracing the spirit of giving and we encourage the community to join us for this celebratory opportunity to provide local kids with hope for the holidays.”

Guests of Lips always enjoy the witty show hostesses and talented cast who serve up delicious food and entertainment as part of a well-orchestrated revue of past and present leading ladies. Lips is more drag-a-licious than ever with a popular menu of drag queen-inspired delicious salads, appetizers, entrees and desserts, plus a full-bar serving its world-famous frozen cosmos and other signature drinks.

Reservations are required and can be made by calling (954) 567-0987. Brunch is $40 per person which includes a $10 show cover charge that will go directly to Children's Diagnostic & Treatment Center.

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By Maria Espinal

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1. Holiday Fantasy Lights

Tradewinds Park • 3600 W Sample Rd • Coconut Creek, Florida 33073 • holidaylightsdrivethru.com Thur - Tue 6pm – 10pm Tradewinds Park is once again a spectacular of color, lights and design this holiday season which marks the 28th edition of the Holiday Fantasy of Lights, running through Jan 1, 2023. Drive through three miles of giant animated holiday displays and illumination. This event is larger than ever blending the favorites of the past and the excitement of new creations. It attracts over 125,000 visitors of all ages in 25,000 cars, trucks and buses. A portion of the proceeds go to Gilda's Club South Florida who offers free programing and services to families impacted by cancer.

2. Holidays at Zoo Miami

12400 SW 152 St. • Miami FL, 33177 305.255.5551 • zoomiami.org Daily 6:30pm – 10pm Celebrating its 14th year, Zoo Miami will open at night for a special holiday event with one million bright, animal shaped and dazzling tree lights! Zoo Lights Miami is an after-hours family event that will take place through December 30th. There will be holiday music throughout the park, animal encounters, appearances

by Santa Claus, and a brand-new, 26-foot-tall LED holiday tree. Visitors can enjoy hot chocolate, cookies and the Snowman's Riverboat ride. Visit them online for fees and themed nights.

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3. Symphony In Lights

Gulfstream Park Village • 901 S. Federal Hwy. Hallandale Beach, • FL 33009 • 954.454.7000 gulfstreampark.com • Daily 6pm – 11pm Symphony in Lights is a free outdoor show that is fun for the entire family. The dynamic light display dances to holiday music every hour on the hour! The show features over 250,000 LED lights animated to favorite holiday tunes. Free parking is offered, and valet parking involves a fee. Visit their website to keep an eye out for a new Santa chair, elegant street light post ornaments, LED entrance lighting, a showstopping tree topper and archway to Santa's chair.

Symphon in Lights runs through Dec 31st.

4. The Square Dowtown

700 South Rosemary Ave. • West Palm Beach, FL 561.366.1000 • thesquarewestpalm.com Daily 6pm – 10pm For a festive and one of the largest celebrations of the year, visit The Square for an all-day holiday artisan market, nostalgic Yuletide Carolers, visit with Santa and his Elves, and the countdown to the main festivities. Pair the festivities with dinner and reserve the best seats in the house at The Square restaurants in advance. Enjoy snowfall and wishing tree lighting every night. Santa photos will be available at The Workshop, Fri – Sun through Dec 23rd. Check website for full list of Holiday events.

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Self-Care During the Holidays: 10 Tips to Help Promote Relaxation

By Amos Sullivan, SunServe Life Coach-Youth & Family Services with contributions from: John Marler, SunServe, Dir. of Communications

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The holidays can be a joyous time but can also be stressful. Between shopping for gifts, preparing meals, and attending holiday gatherings, finding time to relax and rejuvenate can be challenging.

Therefore, taking care of yourself during the holiday season is essential. In this edition of "Ask Amos," we will discuss ten tips for self-care that will help you recharge during the hectic holiday season! This edition's question comes from Brian Kleinman from Oakland Park, FL. Brian asked Amos, "What can I do to reduce the stress I seem to always experience during the holiday season?"

Hi Brian and thank you for this important question. For many people, the holidays can be a time of delight and togetherness, but it can also be a time of added stress and anxiety. This is because the holiday season can bring a lot of pressure to have a fun time. There are expectations of spending time with family, friends, and coworkers. You are also invited to attend holiday gatherings and parties and of

course, buy gifts. All of this can add up to a lot of stress and anxiety.

Here are ten helpful suggestions that can help reduce stress during the holiday season and other typically stressful situations.

1. Take a break from social media: This can be a time of added stress, as people often compare their lives to others on social media.

2. Set realistic expectations for yourself and others: Don't put pressure on yourself to

have a perfect holiday season.

3. Take time for yourself each day to relax and unwind: Dedicate some time each day to do

something that relaxes you, such as reading, taking a bath, or listening to music.

4. Exercise regularly: Exercise is a terrific way to de-stress and help you feel more energized during the holiday season.

5. Eat healthy foods: Eating healthy foods will help keep your energy levels up and can help reduce stress.

6. Avoid caffeine and alcohol: Caffeine and alcohol can both add to the stress of the holiday season.

7. Get enough sleep each night: Getting enough sleep will help you stay energized and relaxed during the holidays.

8. Spend time with loved ones in positive ways, without any pressure to have a good time:

Quality time with loved ones is one of the best things about the holidays, without any pressure to have a "perfect" holiday.

9. Say no to events or gatherings that will add stress to your life: If an event or gathering is

causing you stress, it is ok to say no.

10. Talk to a therapist if the holidays are causing you added stress: If the holidays are

adding a lot of stress, talking to a therapist can be helpful. SunServe offers no-cost mental healthcare for youth and adults. Do not hesitate to contact the intake team at (954) 764-5150, email info@sunserve.org, or visit www.sunserve.org/contact.

If you feel stressed, anxious, or burnt out during the holiday season, it is important to take care of yourself. This means setting aside time just for you and your mental health. You can do this by taking a yoga class, walking in nature, reading a book, or spending time with your pets. Taking care of yourself will help you feel relaxed and enjoy the holiday season more!

Thank you for reading this edition of "Ask Amos." If you would like to send me your question for future articles, please email it to AskAmos@SunServe.org. If we choose your question, you will receive a gift card to a local South Florida business. Until next time folks, stay happy, healthy, and well.

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Pride Ft. Lauderdale & Flockfest Splash Pool Party

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By Tom Bonanti

‘TIS THE SEASON

TO COMMENCE A

HEALTHIER LIFESTYLE! This year, why not put your own health and peace of mind at the top of your list of holiday gift giving? Commence the season by being good to yourself. You will see and feel the difference and others will celebrate the joyous transformation in you! Here's my list of top suggestions for 2023!

Quit being a slave to poor eating habits. Implement and maintain a well-

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rounded and efficient nutritional program that will support your lifestyle and activity level. Never skip breakfast and watch what you eat during the day! By regularly eating complex carbs and lean protein sources soon after you get up, you may be able to avoid overeating at lunch, supper and before you go to bed (which is the absolute worst time to snack!). Eating 4 or 5 smaller meals every two to three hours after breakfast boosts your

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metabolism, helps you burn fat, and fuels your workouts.

Simplify your lifestyle. Begin this holiday season by taking control and you'll find that 2023 will be less draining and stressful. Evaluate your schedule and weed out those unnecessary social obligations which make you miserable. As you map out your holiday social calendar, schedule your gym time as a crucial part of your days. Plan nutritious meals and bring food to work with you. Take low calorie veggie trays and other healthy dishes to holiday parties so that you'll have something to eat while others are carelessly imbibing. If you start eating healthy now, it will be easier to follow that course in the new year!

If you have emotional baggage concerning family or other significant relationships, the yuletide season is sure to cause you heartache. Stress at work, family squabbles, increased expectations from friends and loved ones, holiday depression and loneliness can all be compounded at this time. Why not use these next few weeks to reach out and mend broken ties? Sometimes all it takes is you to make the first move to heal a

friendship or bring a dear one back into your circle of friends. Find a good friend to talk to, listen to relaxing music, get a massage, go to the gym, in short, implement healthy outlets for your inner angst. And if all this doesn't work, find a charity that can utilize your time and compassion and go to work for those who are less fortunate than you.

Take advantage of the holidays to break bad habits and start new ones. Never drink and drive. If you are a designated driver, take your responsibilities seriously and keep an eye on the others in your charge. Uber is a wonderful option. Drinking can worsen the anxiety and depression you may already feel during this time, so why not give it up and replace it with other outlets. Take walks on the beach with a friend, enroll in a class, take up yoga, meet new people, foster new interests!

May this holiday season be a time for peace, rediscovery, and growth. Wishing you as always, the happiest Christmas ever and one hell of a healthy New Year!

Tom Bonanti is a certied tness trainer and massage therapist (MA#40288) with his own one on one gym in Ft. Lauderdale. Contact trainertomb@aol.com with questions or to set up a free tness consultation.

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Disney’s Aladdin Makes 2 Stops in South Florida

Kravis Center: Dec 14-23 Arsht Center: Jan 3-8

By Scott Holland

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Aladdin, the hit musical based on the Academy Award-winning animated film, opened on Broadway at the New Amsterdam Theatre to critical acclaim on March 20, 2014 and quickly established itself as one of the biggest new blockbusters in recent years, breaking 14 New Amsterdam Theatre house records.

The North American tour is one of six replica productions around the world, joining those currently running on Broadway, in Tokyo, the Netherlands, Mexico City and Germany. Since the show's 2014 Broadway premiere, more than 14 million people have seen 10 productions around the world.

Aladdin will make two stops in South Florida. The performances will begin in West Palm Beach at the Kravis Center on Wednesday, December 14 for a limited engagement of 10 days through Friday, December 23, and then at The Arsht Center in Miami for six days Jan 3-8.

Produced by Disney Theatrical Productions, Aladdin features music by Tony Award and eight-time Oscar winner Alan Menken (Beauty and the Beast, Newsies, Sister Act), lyrics by two-time Oscar winner Howard Ashman (Beauty and the Beast, The Little Mermaid), three-time Tony Award and three-time Oscar winner Tim Rice (Evita, Aida) and six-time Tony

Award nominee Chad Beguelin (The Prom, The Wedding Singer), with a book by Beguelin, and is directed and choreographed by Tony Award winner Casey Nicholaw (The Book of Mormon).

Aladdin is designed by seven-time Tonywinning scenic designer Bob Crowley, seven-time Tony-winning lighting designer Natasha Katz, two-time Tony-winning costume designer Gregg Barnes and sound designer Ken Travis.

It was a pleasure to sit down with Ben Chavez (Omar) for this exclusive Hotspots interview:

At what age did you begin performing?

I started performing at the age of 3, and my start in the performing arts was in piano. At 4, I started singing acting and dancing lessons and from that moment on I never stopped performing.

What was your first professional gig?

Ben Chavez

The summer after my junior year at college I was a swing at a regional production of “Grease” in Massachusetts. That was my first exposure to the equity theater world. For those that don't know, being a swing is the hardest job in musical theater, and I learned in that job that I was not cut out for being a swing.

Other than this one, what has been your favorite role so far?

I always knew it was a passion, but I think right after I graduated from college I knew this would be it. I was fortunate enough to get an agent right away, and I was making money as a musician and as a stage

What's your fantasy role (a role you haven't played but want to)?

When did you know performing would be your career?

performer from the moment I graduated.

I played the role of Juan in “Alter Boys” in Cape Cod, and I loved the role and the show so much as the show is about a boy band and it has all that kind of NSYNC/Boy Band kind of music and choreography. It brought me back to my childhood and that boy band music is timeless.

I am a Jersey Boy, and I was brought up with the music of Frankie Valley, so its obvious what role I want! I envision my self-singing the song “I Can't Take My Eyes Off Of You” with that full band.

Is it intimidating or is there extra pressure being in such an iconic Disney show?

I think it's the opposite as its really an honor. I have done it upwards of 450 times now and every time the music starts, I get excited.

Is it hard being on the road all the time?

It has its ups and downs. Its more fun than anything else, and I love going form city to city. I also love getting to know the difference audiences from different cities.

How hard is it being away from your partner for so long, and how do you guys make it work?

Yes, the hardest part is being away from my partner. However, we both hold this opportunity in high regard as Aladdin is how we met. I was in Houston on tour, and I met him, and we fell in love instantly.

You were a part of the first touring company of Aladdin. What's the difference between the first one and this one?

I honestly think they are equally comparable and people who have seen both say they can't see the difference. People are dazzled

by Disney's Aladdin.

How well do you and your castmates get along?

We get along very well, and I think that's in part because I am only one of three actors that came back from the original tour and they look up to me for insights, etc. This has given the job even more meaning for me.

Describe yourself in 3 words?

Energetic, compassionate, and silly (I am just a silly dude).

What do you do for fun?

I travel with my electric keyboard, so I like to just go into my hotel room and just jam out to Billy Joel or Elton John.

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What should our readers expect from this touring company of “Aladdin”?

What I think is so appealing about the show is that adults have a blast watching this production. People can expect to see a magical spectacle, and laugh their faces off. They have created an environment where grownups have a fun night out. Also, the singing and dancing are out of this world. We truly have some of the best talents in the industry. It's a telling of Aladdin unlike anything you have ever seen before.

Tickets to the Palm Beach run are available at the Kravis Center Box Office and online at kravis.org. To charge tickets, call the Kravis Center Box Office at (561) 832.7469 during regular box office hours Monday through Friday from Noon to 5pm.

Tickets to the Miami run may be purchased now at the Adrienne Arsht Center box office by calling (305) 949-6722, or online at arshtcenter.org.

For more information on Ben, follow him at: Instagram.com/ ben__chavez or you can go to his website at: Benchavezmusic.com For more information on the show, visit AladdinTheMusical.com/tour.

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5 Tips for an Organized & StressFree

Holiday Shopping Season

By Christina Giaquinto

The holiday shopping season is here, and that means it's now crunch time for gift giving. It is important to remember the true reason for the holidays, of course, but gift giving is a part of the tradition. It allows us to celebrate with each other, have fun, and show how much we care by giving our loved one's thoughtful gifts. Gift giving brings out the magic of the holidays, and we all can be reminded of the holiday spirit as we witness the happiness in a child's eye or grandmother's smile as they open their gifts!

Whether you have a small group of people, or an extremely large family, it is important to stay organized with the shopping process, so you are all set and ready to go when the holiday officially arrives! In my experience as the Professional Organizer and Brand Ambassador of Modular Closets (DIY customizable closet units that organize any space in your home), I have discovered these helpful tips for an organized and stress-free holiday shopping experience

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Write a List of Ideas & Check It Twice!

Lists are the best way to stay organized this holiday season! This may sound like a simple task, but it will help you tremendously. So, grab a pen and paper, write down every person's name, and list out a bunch of ideas for what gifts you might get them. This gets your brain flowing with ideas. Trust me, the hardest part is figuring out what to get people, so if you write a list of possible options, you are off to a great start. Lists will always be helpful because they simplify your thoughts so you can get more accomplished!

Even better, I recommend creating your gift list in a Google Spreadsheet or Google Document rather than keeping it in a Word Document or writing it down on a piece of paper. This is because you can easily download the Google Spreadsheet or Google Document app

on your smartphone and update your list while on the go! If you see a great gift idea in a store window while walking to work, get a suggestion from a colleague, or have a random burst of clarity on which present to get someone, you can then easily adjust your shopping list on your phone.

2.

What Is Your Budget?

Giving gifts can get out of hand when it comes to your wallet, so do not feel pressured to give more than you can.

Set a strict budget for the holiday shopping season and stick to it. Trust me, when your credit card statement comes in January, you will be glad you did. It is important to set a definitive dollar amount to stay under, otherwise you will have no threshold you know you cannot surpass (which leads to overspending). To stay under budget, search for online promo codes and special discounts for social media followers that you can use when buying gifts.

3.

Set Your Online Shopping Deadline Now

The last thing you will want to do is rush to the mall several hours before a holiday soiree to try to find a gift for the party host! I strongly suggest ordering anything online by the first week of December. There will be some stores that guarantee holiday delivery later, but many stores require you to order by the first week of December. You do not want to take the chance of not getting your gift on time, and you do not want to have to pay extra shipping charges. Always check each item's website to see if they guarantee delivery, and what date you need to order by.

4.

Put Love Into Each Gift!

If you stay organized and start the holiday shopping process well before your deadline, you will have the luxury of being able to put love and thought into each gift you give! Too often, people scramble at the last minute to shop for the holidays — gifts they were planning to buy then go out of stock or won't be delivered on time, so they are left with having to try their luck at the local department store (and buying random gifts). By staying organized, you have the ability to truly put a lot of thought into each gift, so your loved ones know how much you care. You will have the time to get gifts monogrammed and more — it really does make a difference!

To Conclude

The holiday shopping season can be a hectic time for many, but you can keep all stress and anxiety at bay by preparing now. Have an organized and stress-free shopping experience by writing out your list now, setting a strict budget, and designating an online shopping deadline. Also, put extra love into each gift and make sure to wrap each present as you shop. Following these tips will help make this holiday shopping season the best yet!

Christina Giaquinto is the Professional Organizer and Brand Ambassador of Modular Closets (DIY customizable closet units that organize any space in your home). Christina focuses on giving her clients the tools, methods, and techniques to transform their lives and homes through decluttering and organizing. She combines spiritual coaching and organizing to help her clients let go of things that do not spark joy and happiness. Her work has been featured on sites like Popsugar, Women's Health, Reader's Digest, Realtor.com, The Spruce and Yahoo, modularclosets.com & christinagiaquinto.com

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5.

Wrap As You Shop

If you leave all the gift wrapping for the night before your holiday gathering, you will end up doing a stressful rush job.

That said, wrap each gift as you buy it!

By doing a little bit at a time, you will not be stressed toward the end of the month when you have a giant pile of presents to wrap. As soon as you buy a gift, come home, and set aside a couple of minutes to wrap it. If you love wrapping gifts (many people find this relaxing and joyful!), pick a specific day in the calendar to sit down, listen to some holiday music, and wrap away. By having a date in your planner, it takes away the stressfulness of days going by and having to wrap at the last minute.

Also, have fun with the wrapping! Put love and happiness into each gift and set the intention that the person receiving it will be filled with joy. You can make each gift extra special by writing a thoughtful card about your favorite memories with the recipient, adding a festive bow, or taping a candy cane to the box. These small-but-impactful touches will really make your gift extra meaningful!

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Dear Andreus, I had a fantastic Thanksgiving with my partner, family, and friends. However, there is a friend and his partner that comes every year for dinner, with a standing invitation. The problem is that the friend's partner is rude and has no boundaries. He is constantly bashing our friend (his partner), and they are usually the first to leave. When they leave, everyone talks about how uncomfortable he makes them. The issue for me, is that no one has addressed it. I want to say something, but I don't want to create a situation and then our friend doesn't visit anymore. Our friend isn't the issue, it is his partner. What should I do?

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